Who's still faithful in their relationship? [Archive]

hold dat

02-15-2007, 09:42 AM

If you're in a relationship and you are remaining faithful to your boyfriend/girlfriend....tell me how the hell you do it.

Yesterday i went to Victoria's Secret to my girl a gift for v-day. Naturally every dime peice in NYC was in there :looney: buying stuff to wear for later that night. I happen to run into my boss who's there also talkin to this girl i damn well know isnt his fiance. She has balloons and shit her boyfriend sent to her job in one hand and putting her # in my boss' cell in the other.

Now i'm thinking to myself her man is at home propably lookin for his Al Green records to set the mood for a romantic night while my boss is scheming to skeet all over his "girl" by this weekend. (he showed me what she's been texting him this morning) it's on like popcorn

i'm just as bad. i try to be faithful but there's just to many damn good lookin women out here. and the only thing better than pussy is new pussy. so I'm hoping with age (i'm 25) i can be happy with one girl. but the eye candy in the street, Bangbros and nightlife is making monogamy damn near impossible

I dont know anyone in my age group who are being faithful. They are all cheating!!!! The female friends I have and the other females i know have showed me that they are no better than the fellas. Its just that they have slim pickins while we have a multitude of attractive women to chase after. I think are generation is doomed. And i feel sorry for those guys and girls that married their first boyfriend/girlfriend or their high school sweethearts cause its almost guaranteed one of them is gonna stray.

Chivalry is dead and i think faithfulness is gonna have a headstone right next to it.

but for the few who are faithful...tell me how u do it

raishinken

02-15-2007, 09:47 AM

Im too lazy to cheat....... takes too much effort!

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 09:48 AM

Chivalry is dead and i think faithfulness is gonna have a headstone right next to it.

QFT. There is no such thing as chivalry or honor anymore. Fuck, I've had two married people in my family cheat. One of them twice. Staying faithful is as easy as keeping your snake caged.

Ok, honestly, it really isn't THAT easy, just THAT easy for me. I've been cheated on before and it's the most sickly feeling that I can think of. I would never bestow that feeling on someone else.

Besides, look what that guy on Craigslist did.

Oni_Ryu

02-15-2007, 09:57 AM

I'm not with my GF anymore, but back then I was faithful to a fault.

My secret was that i'm not really attracted to a girl by looks (I know seems impossible.) Now if I was to walk up and talk to the girl and got to know her. Then maybe something would happen, maybe...

I remember one time I was walking around a mall with a co-worker of mine. He catches two teenage girls passing by and cops a look (he's in his mid 30's)

He goes "Hey man, why didn't you look?"
I replied "Nah, i've already got a girl"
He laughs and says "Oh I see, faithful!"

So thats my secret. Its not very easy, I catch alot of bullshit for it when my buddies point out some hot girl on the street and notices i'm not looking.

Of course i'm single now, so I let my eyes wander wherever they want :wgrin:

<Edit>

I forgot to mention. Its hard enough getting into a relationship as it is, i'd never fuck it up out of greed.

9999

02-15-2007, 10:01 AM

Never cheated on a gf, and never will. Just too low of a thing to do...

Chachi

02-15-2007, 10:04 AM

I would remain faithful, but that's probably why I'm single. It seems like girls will work harder to take care of their man if they know they have some comp.

Lantis

02-15-2007, 10:12 AM

My hand never complains, even if I do occasionally cheat on it with real women.

We have a healthy relationship! :wink:

Nick T.

02-15-2007, 10:13 AM

You have to like her, be on the same level so to speak, and just have fun in general with her.

Thats it

TheRock-BoS

02-15-2007, 10:16 AM

I'm single, but I have always been faithful to the exs.

Though I think the first one wasn't faithful to me.....:confused:

MOD

02-15-2007, 10:19 AM

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 10:24 AM

Gals cheat more than guys as far as I'm concerned. It's easier to open ones legs than to pull ones equipment out from in between them.

Pat the Great

02-15-2007, 10:27 AM

no cheating here. keeping one girl happy is hard enough, how the hell would i deal with more than one?

Oni_Ryu

02-15-2007, 10:42 AM

you have to remember the environment. If you live in a city area with all sorts of chances to meet new women, staying faithful is going to = not a chance. If you live in a shitty town called Gaithersburg maryland, which hasn't got a bar or any real night scene to speak of, then you find one and you keep her.

QFTMFT

P. Gorath

02-15-2007, 10:57 AM

If you have that attitude then why are you locked down with a girl in the first place?

Gals cheat more than guys as far as I'm concerned. It's easier to open ones legs than to pull ones equipment out from in between them.
I have yet to see you write a single intelligent thing on srk

Ne0phyte

02-15-2007, 10:58 AM

Gals cheat more than guys as far as I'm concerned. It's easier to open ones legs than to pull ones equipment out from in between them.
That's actually not true.

I never cheated on my ex through two and a half years and different states. Not even close; never considered it. I'm not sure how cheating works. I've never been more attracted to or more desirable of anyone but him. I could imagine cheating and missing him.

I never involved myself in risky situations, but I never do that kind of stuff anyway. I was always 100% honest and firm with guys, even if they were attractive, that I have a boyfriend and I do not want them in that way. And if they didn't respect that, what do I want with them?

Of all the things that have hurt me directly from another person, being cheated on was one of the hardest. I can't even explain how low it made me feel. It was like a whole new subcategory of depression.

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 11:04 AM

If you're in a relationship and you are remaining faithful to your boyfriend/girlfriend....tell me how the hell you do it.

There isn't really any secret to it. If I'm interested, happy, and with the person because I'm honestly in love with him, there is no want to be with someone else. The desire just isn't there for me.

I was cheated on before years ago, and that shit sucked. Personally, it's not really the act itself that pisses me off, but the deception in the situation.

If dude can't have enough respect for me to man-up and be truthful about the shit beforehand, then he's the lowest of the low and doesn't deserve to breathe, imo.

Either ask permission (which chances are I'll give once I approve the female), or tell me what you feel and go from there. But don't be a little bitch about it and try to deceive me. I'm the type of person that will find out, and I get even.

Good Shit

Agreed 100%

Kyoujin

02-15-2007, 11:05 AM

I've never chated before, and I never will; I have, however, been cheated on, and it makes you feel like a piece of shit. I've had the opportunities, but I have never taken them up. If I ever come close to taking the leap, I always just picture what my girlfriend, the love of my life, would look like when I would hypothetically tell her: it breaks my heart every single time.
Here's another way of looking at it: If you have a girl that you really, really care about, then it shouldn't be too hard to say no to your dick.
There's alot of fine ladies out there, but they won't love you like the goods one's will.

tajiri

02-15-2007, 11:07 AM

There isn't really any secret to it. If I'm interested, happy, and with the person because I'm honestly in love with him, there is no want to be with someone else. The desire just isn't there for me.

I was cheated on before years ago, and that shit sucked. Personally, it's not really the act itself that pisses me off, but the deception in the situation.

If dude can't have enough respect for me to man-up and be truthful about the shit beforehand, then he's the lowest of the low and doesn't deserve to breathe, imo.

Either ask permission (which chances are I'll give once I approve the female), or tell me what you feel and go from there. But don't be a little bitch about it and try to deceive me.

i agree whole-heartedly.
being lead-on would suck.

versus addict

02-15-2007, 11:16 AM

....tell me how u do it

Easy, I love and respect my girl.

I'm lucky because she's everything I had dreamed about but never thought was possible. I'm basically in awe....:lovin:

I also don't like screwing other people over, lying and bieng dishonest.

Its ok to look...but better if you can look w/your girl...among other things. Thats the icing on my cake. If you find the Mrs. Right you'll see....until then you'll stay in your current mindset. No worries, it'll happen when you least expect it.

white shadow

02-15-2007, 11:20 AM

Never cheated on a gf, and never will. Just too low of a thing to do...

Co-sign. I may be in the minority here, but those feelings of temptation don't even hit me when I'm in a relationship... maybe because I choose very carefully...

3b1r4h

02-15-2007, 11:25 AM

it's really hard, but my girl does anal.

Gandido

02-15-2007, 11:32 AM

You have to like her, be on the same level so to speak, and just have fun in general with her.

Thats it

See this? This is what you guys that think that are attracted to a girl need to learn.

How do I stay faithful? I just love her so damn much that respect comes along with it. That and the fact that she has faith in me while she's in Arizona and I'm in Puerto Rico finishing my studies.

So, whomever said that you coudn't stay together if you were living in a paradise filled with hot ass, you're dead wrong. I go out on a VERY HIGH basis. Sure, they'll be a lot of times where I might go like "Damn, if I was single." or "Damn, she's hot." but that's just part of human nature and instinct. Wether you decide to conciously act upon it or not is your decision. Besides, that 'piece' that's in front of you probably only has ass to give you. You'll never know if she'll make you smile the way your girl does, or talk to you the way she does, etc.

All in all, just man up and don't do it. What's the point, anyways? Temp. ass > your girl's love, respect, and ass too? Nah.

Z!M

02-15-2007, 11:42 AM

Its not really like I dont look at women or that im not tempted cause shit man college is the time and place for general one night stands. the reason im faithful is more out of fear of losing, i hate to lose anyone or anything. And lets face it It hurts like all hell to see your ex with someone else, especially if you had a long term relationship.

plus I got lucky, my girl is a gamer and otaku. not at first but i Introduced her to Anime and rpgs and now shes taken it to the level of fandom, its great man. Plus the strain of comming up with excuses and lying all the time is too draining for me at this time.

Dios <-X->

02-15-2007, 11:42 AM

The Sex is incredible and she never objects to any sex positions and is open to kinkyness. ftw.

ShawnLoganownzu

02-15-2007, 11:46 AM

i dunno if this has been said yet but,

as Chris Rock said, "you gotta find a way to turn old pussy into new pussy"

Higher-Jin

02-15-2007, 11:53 AM

Chilvary and faithfulness was never really ever in full swing, even back in the olden days. People were just far more possessive with women (to the point that they were treated as property), and more people just know about it now.

Only way you can stay faithful is to be able to have porn IMO. Some women use sex as a weapon too, trying to make a man desperate, and if he doesn't have any ways to get rid of that desperation he's liable to go out and cheat. It's foolish to think you should only fantasize about one person or someone with you will only want to think about you. We just weren't designed for that. There's a reason why so many people suggest fantasy and role play to spice up your sex life.

Until people are more comfortable with their sexuality, able to tell their partners what they want and satisfy each other more completely we will continue to have serious faithfulness issues. Also some people are just not loyal, that's another thing. Some people like the girl in the story, and some guys out there just aren't ready to settle down. However, they get pushed into a committment and just cheat on the side regardless. As I've always said it's vital that you look at the character of your significant other. Guys and girls both like to get stupid and totally write it off, but although they can get away with that shit during the casual sex stage of their life, they will be in for a rude awakening when they try to take it to the next level.

Dasrik

02-15-2007, 12:58 PM

In my case, I don't like sex. That helps a lot. ^_^

edit: Before you kick my butt, let me just say that it's difficult to like sex when even walking across the house tires you out...

pherai

02-15-2007, 01:05 PM

Been with my girlfriend for about 1.5 years now. Just avoid temptation. Of course I love her, blah blah, but thats not practical advice. Something you should consider is if you can't stay faithful to someone, then don't be in serious relationships.

Either way, like half of all women will cheat in a relationship in their lifetime, so cheating on her is probably the just thing to do :rofl:

<---SiNN--->

02-15-2007, 01:24 PM

all girls cheat.

only people i love is family,theres no such thing in love/relationship.GF's are good for one thing. sucking dick

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 01:36 PM

If you have that attitude then why are you locked down with a girl in the first place?

I have yet to see you write a single intelligent thing on srk

And I have yet to see you write a fucking post that doesn't show a hint of superiority complex that you seem to have just emminating from you every time you type. Didn't you make the list in the neg bombardment thread for being an arrogant douche?

First off, who the hell asked you? Do you know my past? Perhaps I have a reason for my cynisism. Try this: My mom cheated on my dad not once, but twice. My exgirlfriend of 4 years decides to go and fuck another guy whilst I'm overseas serving my country, then when I get back to the states and give her another chance, she does it again. Then there was my exgirlfriend that was a clubbing whore and fucked around with guys every weekend before I found out and gave her the stairs. Yeah, you're right. I should totally have faith in women and my past experience certainly shouldn't play a factor in my opinion should they?

As far as me being locked down, I found a good one. Nuff said. Does that change my view on women in general? No it doesn't and my current girlfriend knows and understands that. And goddamn 90% of the guys on SRK are going to agree with me.

That's actually not true.

I never cheated on my ex through two and a half years and different states. Not even close; never considered it. I'm not sure how cheating works. I've never been more attracted to or more desirable of anyone but him. I could imagine cheating and missing him.

I never involved myself in risky situations, but I never do that kind of stuff anyway. I was always 100% honest and firm with guys, even if they were attractive, that I have a boyfriend and I do not want them in that way. And if they didn't respect that, what do I want with them?

Of all the things that have hurt me directly from another person, being cheated on was one of the hardest. I can't even explain how low it made me feel. It was like a whole new subcategory of depression.

For you maybe and my apologies for my generalization. Refer to my above response and to my FIRST post.

HeaT

02-15-2007, 01:43 PM

Either ask permission (which chances are I'll give once I approve the female), or tell me what you feel and go from there. But don't be a little bitch about it and try to deceive me. I'm the type of person that will find out, and I get even.

wait wait, so what you are saying is that if the dude asks for permission that is ok? if you are a chick when we hooking up then? damn son...

j/k, anyway, i dont cheat either...i find it disrespectful and i would not like it if my partner cheated on me and how i would feel...treat others like you like to be treated i guess is part of the rule for me on this one...

im outi

Roberth

HeaT

02-15-2007, 01:47 PM

In my case, I don't like sex. That helps a lot. ^_^

edit: Before you kick my butt, let me just say that it's difficult to like sex when even walking across the house tires you out...

well what if you just lay there the whole time and the woman does the work??? even then would it not be enjoyable???

i mean getting head requires no effort, unless you are doing some gag factory scene where you are trying to fuck start some chicks head...

im outi

Roberth

hold dat

02-15-2007, 02:23 PM

In relationships i'm a laid back guy, my girlfriends come and go as they please. they can dance with other guys at the club, have male friends etc. and i wont get jealous. but its a good and bad thing...cause girls i've dealt with in the past have cheated because they know I'm easy to get over on. i'll take you for your word and hope when you say i'm just going to this club, that you're really not going to another guys house(i'm not her daddy, i believe a woman should live her life and have fun)

so i'm basically so numb to trusting a woman that i do my dirt also....and i generally expect a girl to cheat. just have some sort of conscious to keep it hidden from me. Aas long as i dont find out i'm good. i dont think anyone can stay faithful for the entire length of a relationship...sooner or later the thirst gets you :rofl:

but i can see where you all are coming from. I'll try to apply the some of your thoughts to my actions now. I just dont think monogamy is gonna have a long shelf life anymore

CoMpOuNd

02-15-2007, 02:26 PM

What does faithful mean?:confused: I guess you need to be in a relationship too be "faithful".

What's a relationship?:confused:

breakdance?
word.

Gasp

02-15-2007, 02:33 PM

i've done it once and it was with my current gal and guilt got the best of me so yea im faithful as shit now.

PsychoSquall

02-15-2007, 02:39 PM

I treat others how I want to be treated. And I don't wouldn't want my girl to cheat on me. So there you go.

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 02:40 PM

I treat others how I want to be treated. And I don't wouldn't want my girl to cheat on me. So there you go.

And that's what it really comes down to. I would NEVER do that so I would NEVER want that done to me.

3b1r4h

02-15-2007, 02:42 PM

And that's what it really comes down to. I would NEVER do that so I would NEVER want that done to me.

Yes, but i've been mugged, and i don't plan on mugging someone.

so in short, just because you don't do it to her doens't mean she won't to you.

CoMpOuNd

02-15-2007, 02:43 PM

Yes, but i've been mugged, and i don't plan on mugging someone.

so in short, just because you don't do it to her doens't mean she won't to you.

Awww So I guess you don't suck dick.... :sad:

breakdance?
word.

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 02:44 PM

Yes, but i've been mugged, and i don't plan on mugging someone.

so in short, just because you don't do it to her doens't mean she won't to you.

Agreed. That's the story of my relationship life years ago. I never did it but it happened to me alot. I'm just throwing out my expectations even though they're very naive.

3b1r4h

02-15-2007, 02:45 PM

Awww So I guess you don't suck dick.... :sad:

breakdance?
word.

wtf is that shit?

did i ask for your 15 year old opinion? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Jaldaboath

02-15-2007, 02:45 PM

If you're in a relationship and you are remaining faithful to your boyfriend/girlfriend....tell me how the hell you do it.
I'd answer this but everyone would call bullshit on me, so...

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 02:47 PM

I'd answer this but everyone would call bullshit on me, so...

Do it up. I'd believe it.

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 02:47 PM

wait wait, so what you are saying is that if the dude asks for permission that is ok? if you are a chick when we hooking up then? damn son...

j/k, anyway, i dont cheat either...i find it disrespectful and i would not like it if my partner cheated on me and how i would feel...treat others like you like to be treated i guess is part of the rule for me on this one...

im outi

Roberth

Pretty much. As long as I know about it, and say it's okay, then I don't really have a problem with it. If the sex is better than mine, I'll take that loss and step up my game.

Just be honest and communicate. . .that's all that I ask.

When dude tries to go behind my back and hide the shit is when I get livid. Either privilege gets yanked, or I'm done.

3b1r4h

02-15-2007, 02:48 PM

word to that, who cares what a bunch of street fighter geeks believe or not.

Dasrik

02-15-2007, 02:53 PM

well what if you just lay there the whole time and the woman does the work??? even then would it not be enjoyable???

i mean getting head requires no effort, unless you are doing some gag factory scene where you are trying to fuck start some chicks head...
Long story I'd rather not tell on SRK. Let's just say I have sexual issues.

CoMpOuNd

02-15-2007, 02:53 PM

wtf is that shit?

did i ask for your 15 year old opinion? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

I'm not sayin.. I'm just sayin... :sad:

breakdance?

tajiri

02-15-2007, 02:56 PM

Long story I'd rather not tell on SRK. Let's just say I have sexual issues.

don't even start with your "sexual issues" bullshit.

i am japanese...guess what that means?

at least you're bigger than a newborn's arm.

</3

Jaldaboath

02-15-2007, 02:59 PM

Do it up. I'd believe it.

Eh, ok, here goes nothing:

I allow my girl (who is basically my fianceé at this point) to fuck other guys(or girls, but so far... no such luck) and I get to fuck other girls. So far it has worked waaaaaaay better than I thought it would ever do. Score is Me: 1, She: 2 (one of those was a tagteam I prepared and was involved in). We have a set of conditions and rules on this, so there are no surprises.

We came to this agreement for two reasons:
1. We're extremely horny.
2. We want to keep the relationship honest.

Basically she said to me: "One of us will fuck someone else at some point, that destroys relationships because it entails deception and lies... so, why don't we prep for that?"We talked about this for more than a year and we realized we trust the other enough to know that what we have is not worth some sex with someone else, and we trust our sexual prowress even more.

Anyway I don't recommend this to anyone, as someone who would agree to this must be clinically insane, but as she plays CvS2 with me I can ignore that.

EDIT - Just noticed this:
Pretty much. As long as I know about it, and say it's okay, then I don't really have a problem with it. If the sex is better than mine, I'll take that loss and step up my game.

Just be honest and communicate. . .that's all that I ask.

When dude tries to go behind my back and hide the shit is when I get livid. Either privilege gets yanked, or I'm done.I agree 200% with you, I have no problem if my girl asks me if she can do it. When a bitch goes behind my back and I find out later it's time for the Broom+Condom Combo

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 03:02 PM

I'd answer this but everyone would call bullshit on me, so...

Well I believe it but I think you're insane. I could never do what you and Psycho do. Even if I knew about it, the fact that I know that some guys cock is ramming my girlfriend's gash is really a sickly feeling. I don't know, I think it may work out for now but down the road no. What happens when one of you fucks someone else that you like more than each other? You're going to want to call it quits with current chick and move on or vice versa and that'll be an issue.

Besides, why even do this? Fuck, just stay single if you both are going to scrog other peeps. People that say they're in a relationship that do this, really aren't in a relationship.

don't even start with your "sexual issues" bullshit.

i am japanese...guess what that means?

at least you're bigger than a newborn's arm.

</3

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

3b1r4h

02-15-2007, 03:06 PM

I'm not sayin.. I'm just sayin... :sad:

breakdance?

my bad thought you were coming at me :sweat:

guess all the dutchs got me paranoid :wonder:

Dasrik

02-15-2007, 03:10 PM

don't even start with your "sexual issues" bullshit.

i am japanese...guess what that means?

at least you're bigger than a newborn's arm.

</3
Damn the rumor mill!

R | C

02-15-2007, 03:11 PM

If you're in a relationship and you are remaining faithful to your boyfriend/girlfriend....tell me how the hell you do it.

"hold dat" referring to relationships? probably coincidence?

Anyways, I also think Monogamy is dead, at least according to my local observations.

I'm 26 and I've been with my girlfriend for 10 years now (yes I wrote YEARS), going on 11 this coming up November. I've known her, only by acquaintance, for 2 years before that too (same math class, but never really talked to each other). I've never cheated on her, and never even came close to it. How do I do it? Well, I think that's not exactly the accurate question. I don't intentionally "do" something to prevent myself from cheating. Actually, I think it has to do more with individual personalities, personal influences, and environmental upbringing (or nurture, probably even nature).

For example, both of us came from a very similar upbringing where our families strictly enforced education and anything related to the academia. As kids, we had few but very close friends since our parents didn't allow us to attend too many social events (due to an early curfew rule). Eventually, this lifestyle turned us into "nerds." She found enjoyment in reading books and I found solace in video games. Her dad was an ex-alcoholic, and my parents never drank. We both grew up against alcohol. Today we rarely drink; if we do, it's only literally a few sips. As you can probably guess, we don't have a "big" social life with others. We've basically retained our previous comfort level of having few but very close friends. That's not to say we live "boring" lives, or that we're totally idiots in the social realm. We just prefer different types of activities than the general norm of peers in our generation. E.g., We saved up money to go to Buffalo NY for the annual buffalo wing festival, we've been to the country side of Oregon just to drive around, attended an apple picking festival, plan trips to go to a soda specialty store, wine tasting in Sonoma County, etc (all kinds of G rated stuff). To say the least, we're not the typical people of our generation. We've always saw ourselves as being very conservative or old-fashioned. Maybe the "out of site, out of mind" theory applies to our relationship - we rarely attend bars, clubs, or any other area with a heavy concentration of active singles.

Our careers probably contributes to the faithfulness as well. I'm a graphic designer - I stare at the computer screen all day. She's a 5th grade teacher. There's only a limited amount of adults that we work with.

So as you see, for me, it's not like I really "do" anything; it's more like ... that's just who I am, and it's just how I live.

(damn, why do I always write more than what I had anticipated)

hold dat

02-15-2007, 03:22 PM

Eh, ok, here goes nothing:

I allow my girl (who is basically my fianceé at this point) to fuck other guys(or girls, but so far... no such luck) and I get to fuck other girls. So far it has worked waaaaaaay better than I thought it would ever do. Score is Me: 1, She: 2 (one of those was a tagteam I prepared and was involved in). We have a set of conditions and rules on this, so there are no surprises.

We came to this agreement for two reasons:
1. We're extremely horny.
2. We want to keep the relationship honest.

Basically she said to me: "One of us will fuck someone else at some point, that destroys relationships because it entails deception and lies... so, why don't we prep for that?"We talked about this for more than a year and we

I Think this is the way to go...I talked to my girl about this yesterday. she's 50/50 on this

I met a girl that i see on the train, got her number and i know fucking her is inevitable. so hopefull my girl at home is down for sharing her candy

3b1r4h

02-15-2007, 03:23 PM

the only thing i don't like about that is disease.

i'm pretty sure my girl would save the good stuff for me anyway.

however i think getting the idea past her is impossible.

hold dat

02-15-2007, 03:33 PM

versus addict

02-15-2007, 03:44 PM

I Think this is the way to go...I talked to my girl about this yesterday. she's 50/50 on this.....

....I guarantee that you won't be 50/50 when she tells you that she wants to three way with some other dude...or that she's banging some other guy on the side.

The only way I see a third party in the relationship is if she's into girls. Thats a win/win, you maintain the sole cock in the relationship and she gets to get freaky with as many chicks as she wants..........you'll bang other chicks if thats what makes her happy and shit. Sacrifice for the relationship and all. If she bangs another chick in private well...OK, as long as its a step to getting you access or she takes pics.

Yeah, my girl is into girls...sole cock here. :lovin:

Shin Touyokouzan

02-15-2007, 03:45 PM

Jaldaboath

02-15-2007, 03:49 PM

Wow, I never thought I woud get so many "I agree" nods... cool.

I think you're insane. You can ask my doc for an official document agreeing with that. :tup:

I could never do what you and Psycho do. Even if I knew about it, the fact that I know that some guys cock is ramming my girlfriend's gash is really a sickly feeling.
That's the difference, I'm a full time pervert and that actually turns me on. But I have to meet the guy and aprove of it, it's like... he has to be good enough (appearance, attitude, carefulness, health, etc...) to touch my girl, but she has a good taste (d'uh) and a thing for geeks (double d'uh) So there's no problem there.

And BTW: I'm 99% sure Psycho is a straight female, so I don't think a dick ramming her girlfriend is a big concern for her. :p

I don't know, I think it may work out for now but down the road no. What happens when one of you fucks someone else that you like more than each other? You're going to want to call it quits with current chick and move on or vice versa and that'll be an issue.
That's where commitment comes in, I might fuck a more attractive girl, but I won't get what I have from my girl, she cares about me, she plays with me, she's great in bed.. I could go on, but I think she's a perfect match for me, so I won't dice that just to "see what happens" with another girl. I wouldn't change her for a one night stand with bigger boobs.

Besides, why even do this?
Because recreational sex is fun, and we're concious that we won't be able to get a lot of it when we're older so we gotta make use of the equipment while it still works. Besides, it's fun to go through the motions to get some with new people every once in a while, just to keep it from growing stale. Also, the more people you fuck, the more tricks you're bound to pick on.

For example, in the tag team I went into I learned to do some sickly things with my dick, my girl walked through the actions this guy went through that she liked, and these are now part of my regular repertoire.

That and it opens the gates to threesoms. :razz:

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 03:57 PM

Wow, I never thought I woud get so many "I agree" nods... cool.

You can ask my doc for an official document agreeing with that. :tup:

Will do my man:tup:

That's the difference, I'm a full time pervert and that actually turns me on. But I have to meet the guy and aprove of it, it's like... he has to be good enough (appearance, attitude, carefulness, health, etc...) to touch my girl, but she has a good taste (d'uh) and a thing for geeks (double d'uh) So there's no problem there.

And BTW: I'm 99% sure Psycho is female.

Haha. Yeah. I'm the same way. That's why I watch porn when I want variety, haha.

Wait, Psycho's a female? Really? Psycho, you a chick?

That's where commitment comes in, I might fuck a more attractive girl, but I won't get what I have from my girl, she cares about me, she plays with me, she's great in bed.. I could go on, but I think she's a perfect match for me, so I won't dice that just to "see what happens" with another girl. I wouldn't change her for a one night stand with bigger boobs.

I still think it'll be tough but if you can pull it off Jalda, more power to you.

Because recreational sex is fun, and we're concious that we won't be able to get a lot of it when we're older so we gotta make use of the equipment while it still works. Besides, it's fun to go through the motions to get some with new people every once in a while, just to keep it from growing stale. Also, the more people you fuck, the more tricks you're bound to pick on.

For example, in the tag team I went into I learned to do some sickly things with my dick, my girl walked through the actions this guy went through that she liked, and these are now part of my regular repertoire.

That and it opens the gates to threesoms. :razz:

Shit son, I make up my moves or learn them from a plethora of porn movies.:tup:

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 03:58 PM

Well I believe it but I think you're insane. I could never do what you and Psycho do. Even if I knew about it, the fact that I know that some guys cock is ramming my girlfriend's gash is really a sickly feeling. I don't know, I think it may work out for now but down the road no. What happens when one of you fucks someone else that you like more than each other?

Well, no one said it was easy. It actually takes a lot of maturity and understanding of what each person wants from a relationship. It's certainly not for the young or flighty who change their feelings like they change underwear.

If the sex is better with the third party, then either the relationship participants work on that, or call it quits if one wants to move on.

But that's not to say that one should just move on to better sex. While sex is extremely important for a couple, there are always other aspects of a person that keeps someone interested. It's up to both to weight the pros and cons of the situation, and not just the sex.

Now, if the sex is terrible, then definately move on because no one can be happy like that.

But if two people are in-love, interested, and seriously committed to the relationship, a third party should never pose a threat to that. On the other hand, if the bond is that breakable, then you shouldn't be together anyway.

Besides, why even do this? Fuck, just stay single if you both are going to scrog other peeps. People that say they're in a relationship that do this, really aren't in a relationship.

Again, sex shouldn't be the only thing holding two people together. If you get along great, really enjoy each other's company, compliment each other, like fucking each other, and totally want to spend the rest of your life together - what does strange sex matter?

Sex is just a piece of what a relationship is (For honest, committed people only), and changing that up a little bit shouldn't affect feelings. If it does, then it was gonna happen eventually anyway.

Same basic stuff

Awesome. At least I know I'm not the only crazy person who believes in this.

And BTW: I'm 99% sure Psycho is a straight female, so I don't think a dick ramming her girlfriend is a big concern for her. :p

Yep. Won't bother me in the least :)

Haha. Yeah. I'm the same way. That's why I watch porn when I want variety, haha.

Wait, Psycho's a female? Really? Psycho, you a chick?

I don't know too many men who run around with the word 'Mistress' in their name, LOL.

Nick T.

02-15-2007, 04:02 PM

If you have the idea that women are women and they come and go. It's not too bad.

Doc Holliday

02-15-2007, 04:05 PM

Again, sex shouldn't be the only thing holding two people together. If you get along great, really enjoy each other's company, compliment each other, like fucking each other, and totally want to spend the rest of your life together - what does strange sex matter?

Sex is just a piece of what a relationship is (For honest, committed people only), and changing that up a little bit shouldn't affect feelings. If it does, then it was gonna happen eventually anyway.

Oh I never said it was weird sex. BDSM is weird sex. I think it's just a difference of ideals and beliefs on my part. Nothing strange. I'm a monogamy type of guy and just believe that the sexual commitment (commitment in general) is between one guy and one girl. That's all. But hey, if it works for you guys then :tup: :tup: :tup: :tup:

I don't know too many men who run around with the word 'Mistress' in their name, LOL.

Touche. Good point. Then again, I know guys with female names on boards. Not necessarily this one. I just automatically assume (especially on SRK) that anyone that posts, has a dick swinging somewhere regardless of the name.

Panicked

02-15-2007, 04:05 PM

Wait, Psycho's a female? Really? Psycho, you a chick?

lol. Suppose the "mistress" didn't give it away?

R | C

02-15-2007, 04:07 PM

@ R I C -
you've been with this girl since you were 16??????
is it safe to assume you lost your virginty to this girl and that she's the only girl you've ever been with?
and how sure are you that she's never cheated? do you even care???
sorry for the many questions but we are the same age and your situation boggled me....no disrespect

The answer is yes to all of your questions; except for 16. I was actually 15 because my birthday falls at the end of the year. She was 16 though.

And Hell Yes I do care.

Yes, I'm sure. It's because we have a strong foundation in trust. Also, when you're with someone for that long, they really do become "a part" of you; we can actually "sense" each other's thoughts and disposition quite often. I swear, it seriously felt really freaky like in the ESP sense of unexplained weirdness, but now it's just a part of everyday life. She can easily sense if I'm disturbed or lying, and likewise I can do the same with her.

Yeah I know, everyone who knows us just can't wrap their heads around the idea of such a long relationship at that stage in life. I guess that's the modern mentality. Like I said, we're very old-fashioned in that sense.

The longer you've been in a relationship, the less important and appealing sex becomes. That's not to say that it isn't enjoyable anymore. It just means that other factors such as finding common interests, hobbies, and goals in life do out weigh everything eventually. That's where the real enjoyment of being in a relationship will eventually come down to.

No disrespect taken.

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 04:13 PM

Again, sex shouldn't be the only thing holding two people together. If you get along great, really enjoy each other's company, compliment each other, like fucking each other, and totally want to spend the rest of your life together - what does strange sex matter?

Sex is just a piece of what a relationship is (For honest, committed people only), and changing that up a little bit shouldn't affect feelings. If it does, then it was gonna happen eventually anyway.

Oh I never said it was weird sex. BDSM is weird sex. I think it's just a difference of ideals and beliefs on my part. Nothing strange. I'm a monogamy type of guy and just believe that the sexual commitment (commitment in general) is between one guy and one girl. That's all. But hey, if it works for you guys then :tup: :tup: :tup: :tup:

Oh, sorry. I didn't mean strange as in weird. Strange is just a slang term used in my neighborhood for "new" pussy. Like, "I need some strange, nette"

I know, it's not for everyone. Monogamy is an awesome thing, and if that's what someone wants then I'm totally down for that.

But if someone wants to do some exploring, and they can be mature and honest to themselves and me about it, I'm fine. That not to say that we need to get crazy with it. It is, in my mind, a privlige that is allowed, and not something that can be taken for granted, or abused in any way.

I just automatically assume (especially on SRK) that anyone that posts, has a dick swinging somewhere regardless of the name.

There usually is, but it's not mine ;)

Sephiroth_KMFDM

02-15-2007, 04:15 PM

I cheated once on a girl. But I was in a relationship that was ending anyways. It's the kind where you love to hate your girlfriend. It was a pretty fucked up issue.

Troyboy's Back!

02-15-2007, 04:18 PM

So this Virgin wants me to hit it...Should I?

I got a Fiance!

angryliberal

02-15-2007, 04:20 PM

never cheated on any of my relationships. sometimes, yeah, it can be difficult to turn down pussy. real hard. i've had alot of offers, from ex's to co-workers, but it's not hard to stay honest. i do one thing, i go home, look at my girl then think about the offer/chances/etc i had and all the sudden it seems cheap and useless. also, i know i'd be crushed if my girl cheated on me. if i didn't want to be faithful, i wouldn't be in a relationship...

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 04:23 PM

So this Virgin wants me to hit it...Should I?

I got a Fiance!

Ask your girl first. Maybe you can get a threesome going, and your girl would feel comfortable with you banging another girl as long as she is there to supervise.

Jaldaboath

02-15-2007, 04:23 PM

yeah, it can be difficult to turn down pussy. A friend of mine had an amazing recommendation: "Whenever you see a girl you want to fuck wavedash home and fuck your girl." Sounds like a very good one to me.

Awesome. At least I know I'm not the only crazy person who believes in this.
Yeah, I'm even more amazed to find a girl who thinks like this. Don't get me wrong, but down here in the third world, women with sexual freedom ideas are a thing from outerspace.
Shit son, I make up my moves or learn them from a plethora of porn movies.:tup:
Heh, yeah, but I would have never known that a little twist with my hip would make her hurt her neck if I hadn't seen it firsthand. XD
There usually is, but it's not mine ;):rofl: :rofl:

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 04:26 PM

Yeah, I'm even more amazed to find a girl who thinks like this. Don't get me wrong, but down here in the third world, women with sexual freedom ideas are a thing from outerspace.

Same thing here. Except for two of them, my girl friends would probably have a fit of the vapors if their guy even approached the subject.

I'm pretty sure I'm a girly-man trapped inside a woman's body.

Cobra_Commander

02-15-2007, 04:28 PM

I have morals and respect for myself and my boyfriend.

If a person is going to be unfaithful then you shouldn't be in a relatonship in the first place.

Shin Touyokouzan

02-15-2007, 04:32 PM

I have morals and respect for myself and my boyfriend.

If a person is going to be unfaithful then you shouldn't be in a relatonship in the first place.

Quoted for truth

starkilled

02-15-2007, 04:33 PM

but for the few who are faithful...tell me how u do it

What's the point of being in a relationship if you can't be faithful?
Honestly just break up and bone all the girls you want, that way there's no strings attached, and you dont have to worry about being caught or not.

Bounce

02-15-2007, 04:34 PM

ive yet to cheat on myself, except that one time in japan when i got head, but thats not cheating right?

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 04:36 PM

You knew about it, so no.

Jappo

02-15-2007, 04:36 PM

I'm still faithful to my girl, but it's getting DAMN HARD. I did get some digits from some girl that's in the Army now, but I haven't called her.

Jaldaboath

02-15-2007, 04:40 PM

we have a strong foundation in trust.
[snip]
It just means that other factors such as finding common interests, hobbies, and goals in life do out weigh everything eventually.

And that's what it all boils down to. I imagine that my story must sound as amazing to you as yours sounds to my ears.

But, let me say that for as much as our views seem to oppose I agree with the core of what youy say and have nothing but respect for your ideas and your relationship.

Paraphrasing H82: More power to you.

I'm still faithful to my girl, but it's getting DAMN HARD. I did get some digits from some girl that's in the Army now, but I haven't called her.
Send them to me, I'll take care of it so you don't have to worry.

trapped inside a woman's body.I burn with envy.

Ohhh the insane amounts of lesbian sex I would get if I had one. *slobber*

Gandido

02-15-2007, 04:47 PM

Psycho is a woman. She used to call me to bitch at me, even on my birthday.

Son Them All

02-15-2007, 04:53 PM

I stay faithful just because I feel like if I find the quality to go elsewhere, it's time to move on in the relationship anyway. I've had my tempation that's for sure.

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 04:54 PM

Psycho is a woman. She used to call me to bitch at me, even on my birthday.

Stop telling stories. I didn't bitch on your Birthday. I was kind and sweet, damnit :annoy:

9999

02-15-2007, 04:57 PM

Jalda is a God among men.

Gandido

02-15-2007, 05:00 PM

Stop telling stories. I didn't bitch on your Birthday. I was kind and sweet, damnit :annoy:

You forgot to call this year. It's a damn shame. =P

Hope it's all good up there A.

PsychoMistress

02-15-2007, 05:03 PM

You forgot to call this year. It's a damn shame. =P

Hope it's all good up there A.

I didn't call anyone this year, or last year.

Actually, I don't even remember when it is. If I had caught it, I woulda dropped a line.

Same here dear. :lovin:

catchafire

02-15-2007, 05:06 PM

Soundatron

02-15-2007, 05:09 PM

Im too lazy to cheat....... takes too much effort!

indeed

But you are quite weak-minded and weak-willed if u cannot remain faithful.

Muff Daddy

02-15-2007, 05:13 PM

If you're in a relationship and you are remaining faithful to your boyfriend/girlfriend....tell me how the hell you do it.

but for the few who are faithful...tell me how u do it

HERE IS THE ANSWER! (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=122537)

R | C

02-15-2007, 05:13 PM

.. I imagine that my story must sound as amazing to you as yours sounds to my ears. ...

Yeah, it does sound amazing to me.
We wouldn't have the mental or emotional capacity to handle that kind of scenario.

I think it's awesome how you capitalized on your mutual understanding.

catchafire

02-15-2007, 05:15 PM

I'm suprised that there are so many faithful individuals here at SRK. Hmmmm...

Anywho, cheating really isn't worth it. There's too much micro-management, lying, time, and resources needed. If you want to fuck around, then you should just become single. However, just fucking for fucking sake is REALLY empty. Atleast for me that is.

Anywho, i've been cheated on twice before.

<---SiNN--->

02-15-2007, 05:20 PM

lol to the person that neg rep me because i said girls are only good for sucking dick :rofl:

boo hwooo lol. do me a favor and hook me up with somemore neg reps so i can sport that shit with a matching red avatar. :tup:

still the only thing GF's are good for is licking ass. (curtins) :wink:

hold dat

02-15-2007, 06:00 PM

....I guarantee that you won't be 50/50 when she tells you that she wants to three way with some other dude...or that she's banging some other guy on the side.

good point...as soon as i got home she told me she already has her friend Joan in mind, and she's down for a thressome. she called me a n asshole when i told her no dudes....so thats out. thanks for the advice

Damn Matt. That is interesting. Lets take a shot at this. In all honesty it is EXTREMELY hard to stay faithful(coming from a married man). There are so many things that are going to get in your way. Fine ass woman and some other random shit. It happens. But If your love for the person you are with is strong enough then you shouldnt have a need to go else where. If you feel the need to go else where then maybe the person you are with isnt the right one for you.

my thing is i dont think 2 people can love each other equally enough so one wont cheat. no disrespect to you or anyone elses relationship...but i think sooner or later one is gonna stray. or maybe the women i'm dating are the right ones. godd lookin Dre. and what the matter? you cant caaaallllll nobody??? lol holla at me

If you have the idea that women are women and they come and go. It's not too bad.

i ddont want to be one of those guys that "lose count" i'm at 27 (not counting high school) i think its time for me to find wifey

The answer is yes to all of your questions; except for 16. I was actually 15 because my birthday falls at the end of the year. She was 16 though.

And Hell Yes I do care.

Yes, I'm sure. It's because we have a strong foundation in trust. Also, when you're with someone for that long, they really do become "a part" of you; we can actually "sense" each other's thoughts and disposition quite often. I swear, it seriously felt really freaky like in the ESP sense of unexplained weirdness, but now it's just a part of everyday life. She can easily sense if I'm disturbed or lying, and likewise I can do the same with her.

Yeah I know, everyone who knows us just can't wrap their heads around the idea of such a long relationship at that stage in life. I guess that's the modern mentality. Like I said, we're very old-fashioned in that sense.

The longer you've been in a relationship, the less important and appealing sex becomes. That's not to say that it isn't enjoyable anymore. It just means that other factors such as finding common interests, hobbies, and goals in life do out weigh everything eventually. That's where the real enjoyment of being in a relationship will eventually come down to.

No disrespect taken.

good shit...all of you are proving me very,very wrong

never cheated on any of my relationships. sometimes, yeah, it can be difficult to turn down pussy. real hard. i've had alot of offers, from ex's to co-workers, but it's not hard to stay honest. i do one thing, i go home, look at my girl then think about the offer/chances/etc i had and all the sudden it seems cheap and useless. also, i know i'd be crushed if my girl cheated on me. if i didn't want to be faithful, i wouldn't be in a relationship...

i tried that too but the dark side is strong witht the force

What's the point of being in a relationship if you can't be faithful?
Honestly just break up and bone all the girls you want, that way there's no strings attached, and you dont have to worry about being caught or not.

i'm planning on doing just that....being selfish is wack on my part

I'm still faithful to my girl, but it's getting DAMN HARD. I did get some digits from some girl that's in the Army now, but I haven't called her.

ahhh man homie....your done. :rofl: :rofl: i'll give it a week tops. but seriously good luck trying to hold out

indeed

But you are quite weak-minded and weak-willed if u cannot remain faithful.

weak willed or just really need to have new experiences with different women?? ok maybe both :sweat:

HERE IS THE ANSWER! (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=122537)

after re-reading that again....ya you're right

thanks for the answers ladies and gents....

now how does a guy get a thread closed around these parts?????

Jaldaboath

02-15-2007, 06:05 PM

^ Post some P0rn

Thanx R | C.

I need to step up my game yo and buy prem so I can rep people around here.

HERE IS THE ANSWER! (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=122537):rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
How the fuck did I miss that?

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

catchafire

02-15-2007, 06:14 PM

PM me the pics...

02-15-2007, 06:15 PM

HERE IS THE ANSWER! (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=122537)

Oh my God. I can't believe you linked to that. You monster. =p

Shin-Mech-Brian

02-15-2007, 06:25 PM

How do you do it? By imaging what it would be like if you were to no longer have that other person in your life, and then comparing a few things in contrast:

- how much pain will you cause to their life?
- how much to your own?
- is it worth the break-up over getting your dick wet over what would probably be a meaningless few minutes of sex with someone you'll probably not see again.

I'm married and whenever I see a strange girl that gets me excited or shows interest in me, I instantly calculate these factors in my head and already know my answer... no way. I couldn't possibly imagine a better match than my my wife already is - in fact I know it's not possible. I know what kind of pain I would cause if I strayed and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

We have everything in common, we've achieved so much in life because of one another, and we can't handle life without the other person there. I love her as much as she does me and we know it. This is the kind of love that strangers can't break.

Shin Touyokouzan

02-15-2007, 06:46 PM

good point...as soon as i got home she told me she already has her friend Joan in mind, and she's down for a thressome. she called me a n asshole when i told her no dudes....so thats out. thanks for the advice

my thing is i dont think 2 people can love each other equally enough so one wont cheat. no disrespect to you or anyone elses relationship...but i think sooner or later one is gonna stray. or maybe the women i'm dating are the right ones. godd lookin Dre. and what the matter? you cant caaaallllll nobody??? lol holla at me

i ddont want to be one of those guys that "lose count" i'm at 27 (not counting high school) i think its time for me to find wifey

good shit...all of you are proving me very,very wrong

i tried that too but the dark side is strong witht the force

i'm planning on doing just that....being selfish is wack on my part

ahhh man homie....your done. :rofl: :rofl: i'll give it a week tops. but seriously good luck trying to hold out

weak willed or just really need to have new experiences with different women?? ok maybe both :sweat:

after re-reading that again....ya you're right

thanks for the answers ladies and gents....

now how does a guy get a thread closed around these parts?????

Pm me the number nigga ill call you this weekend!

Z!M

02-15-2007, 07:17 PM

If your going to be in an open relationship then it really depends if your the jealous type or not. i had an ex that tried the whole open thing and i couldnt help but think of who she was fucking when we would talk or do anything together. even when she would see someone she knew i would think if she was fucking him. Its a hard thing to deal with.

point being that you have to be a person that just dosent give a fuck about sex cause its just a human instinct.

Ne0phyte

02-15-2007, 07:24 PM

HERE IS THE ANSWER! (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=122537)
LMFAO

Communication is surprisingly effective. Come at me with ANYTHING so long as it's honest and we will discuss it. You should relish having a partner who is willing to share completely everything with you, even things that you don't want to hear. Wanting to cheat and being honest about it >>> wanting to cheat and doing it or even not admitting to it. I just loved being in a relationship. The point is to finally get away from "the chase"... not to get yourself back into it.

TheSix

02-15-2007, 07:39 PM

HERE IS THE ANSWER! (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=122537)

My side fucking hurts agian.

:lol:

And no, I can't cheat. I hate the feeling of guilt. FUCK YOU GUILT!

1/2Man1/2God

02-15-2007, 07:41 PM

who even has relationships anymore...there wack

Jaldaboath

02-15-2007, 07:43 PM

If your going to be in an open relationship then it really depends if your the jealous type or not. i had an ex that tried the whole open thing and i couldn't help but think of who she was fucking when we would talk or do anything together. even when she would see someone she knew i would think if she was fucking him. Its a hard thing to deal with.
You can't try it at the beginning stages of a relationship. There has to be a TON of trust and honesty behind.

Lick Me Off

02-15-2007, 07:50 PM

Ne0phyte

02-15-2007, 08:12 PM

I didnt read this whole thread, but I think Chris Rok pt it best when he said: “A man is only as faithful as his options.”

I was going out with this chick once. She was pretty hot but kinda boring and she was only giving me hand love at the time. I eventually met this hot chick in school... And I mean HOT!! She called me up a couple of months after I gave her my number which totally caught me off guard. Long story short, I ended up spending the night with this girl while I was going out with my (ex) gf. I dont consider myself a lowlife or anything like that. My gf and I were never really in love (even if we said we were) and I didnt feel we had a real future together. So why the fuck not?
So why the fuck not just break up with her? Maybe she felt she had a future with you... boring people often don't realize they're boring and maybe she was taking her time getting to know you and well maybe she really did believe she loved you.

Maybe you didn't feel it was wrong, but her feelings and your respect for her should have mattered.

Nick T.

02-15-2007, 08:16 PM

So why the fuck not just break up with her? Maybe she felt she had a future with you... boring people often don't realize they're boring and maybe she was taking her time getting to know you and well maybe she really did believe she loved you.

Maybe you didn't feel it was wrong, but her feelings and your respect for her should have mattered.

w3rd

two way street yo

Mixah

02-15-2007, 09:36 PM

If the pussy you're with isn't worth staying faithful for, she damn well isn't worth paying for her dinner. If you can't stay faithful to a girl, why the fuck are you with her? Playing around is one thing, but fucking with the heart of somebody who supposedly cares for you, and you don't care back is just messed up. Dump her, and fuck everybody you meet.

02-15-2007, 09:39 PM

I didnt read this whole thread, but I think Chris Rok pt it best when he said: “A man is only as faithful as his options.”

I was going out with this chick once. She was pretty hot but kinda boring and she was only giving me hand love at the time. I eventually met this hot chick in school... And I mean HOT!! She called me up a couple of months after I gave her my number which totally caught me off guard. Long story short, I ended up spending the night with this girl while I was going out with my (ex) gf. I dont consider myself a lowlife or anything like that. My gf and I were never really in love (even if we said we were) and I didnt feel we had a real future together. So why the fuck not?

Was this before or AFTER the fact that you admitted to SRK that you don't brush your teeth on a regular basis?

Muff Daddy

02-15-2007, 09:59 PM

Was this before or AFTER the fact that you admitted to SRK that you don't brush your teeth on a regular basis?

wtf?

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Kuenai

02-15-2007, 10:22 PM

That's just sick..... :looney:

SRKev

02-15-2007, 10:22 PM

Was this before or AFTER the fact that you admitted to SRK that you don't brush your teeth on a regular basis?

WTF? I missed this? Eww nigga! Who doesn't brush their teeth these days? Shit's disgusting.

Hunter D

02-15-2007, 10:29 PM

Was this before or AFTER the fact that you admitted to SRK that you don't brush your teeth on a regular basis?

lol all his teeth must be capped by now. Dude is living like a fucking caveman.

Legendary Gokou

02-15-2007, 10:51 PM

For me its always been about communication. I've been in about 7 or so real relationships (lasted more than a month at least). Kind of hard to explain really, but the more you get to know the person the more irrelevant straying away is. If you can keep it from getting boring/repetitive then I don't find it difficult.

I think this was something I realized when I was cheated on. I went from liking that person considerably to disliking them. That relationship was over when it was all about being intimate, conversations wouldn't last as long and it was all about having sex at that point.

Different people have different views, so I wouldn't be suprised if people didn't agree with this.

Azrael

02-15-2007, 11:59 PM

A friend of mine had an amazing recommendation: "Whenever you see a girl you want to fuck wavedash home and fuck your girl." Sounds like a very good one to me.

I can't even begin to describe to you how true this is.

I'm faithful. I have to be.

My first gf cheated on me. It was really, really bad. Like some other people have said, that shit made me feel horrible, the worst I've ever felt.

After that relationship ended, I thought for awhile I was done with monogamy. I'd had so many opportunities to cheat on my ex, and I turned them down to be faithful. I regretted it - after all, she'd done it to me.

But then, I met a really, really nice girl. In the beginning, I thought maybe I could still do it and just be careful. Or who knows, maybe she'd cheat on me one day too, so might as well get my shots in. But, this girl has never shown me nothing less than 100% committment to me. If I cheated on her and she found out, there is no explanation in the world I could make that would not make it hurt for her. I know that pain - and I can't do it to her, I just can't.

Like Jalda and Psycho, I really wanted to have an open relationship for awhile. I tried approaching it with my gf, but she's just not interested. It's natural to have urges and be attracted to other people. Just because I have sex with some other girl, that doesn't mean I love my girlfriend any less or am less attracted to her. Not at all. But she's just not down with it, and to me, it's not worth it to try and change her stance. Plus, I can't say I'm 100% comfortable with the thought of her being with some other guy (or girl, even).

And that's where the genious advice from Jalda's friend comes into play. If I get worked up/tempted from some other girl, I wavedash home and sexually destroy my gf. My urges are satisfied, and our sex life is great. And she has put the time and effort into becoming my ideal sexual partner, so we just work together really well now. Even if I were to cheat, I think the sex would be disappointing because I doubt she could compare to my gf.

Nick T.

02-16-2007, 12:09 AM

orochizoolander

02-16-2007, 01:51 AM

WOW great thread:tup: this is my favorite topic to vent about so before i post my thoughts let me preface it:

Being cheated on really really sucks it's the absolute worst feeling in the world especially when it's someone who u really cared about the betrayal cuts so fucking deep and i can't imagine what it must feel like for a married person or anyone whos been in a relationship for any number of years to be cheated on but i do sympathize.

I do not believe chivalry and faithfulness are dead (i'm living proof) it's just that 99% of people don't follow either but more on that later.

In general both sides cheat ALOT but IMO definitely girls more then guys.

After reading every post there are some ppl i hold in high regard such as R I C and others who just make me say WTF?!?!? such as hold dat (no disrespect just disagreement).

A good family friend of mine (whos been lurking on srk since 2000) told me like 5 yrs ago to stay away from girls during highschool it's just not worth it...DAMN he has no idea how right he was but i still didn't listen cuz i'm an idiot.

I'm only 18 so i realize in this area of life i still have much to learn n experiance but the beliefs on this topic that i personally value i know i'l never ever change.

I am the nicest, most forgiving person in the world but if a girl cheats i'm kicking that slut to the curb no ifs, ands, or buts.

I know i'll b flamed for this but fuck it i don't give a shit cuz cheating IMO entails a hella lot more then just my girl fucking another guy it includes making out or kissing or touching or even flirting with any guy (or girl if she's bi) other then me but like i said more on this later on.

OK so with all that in mind the entire idea of dating n staying faithful n all that shit just thinking about it depresses me cuz it makes me ashamed to know i live in a time where the majority of ppl or at least alot could be soo inconsiderate of there significant other's feelings and don't give cheating a second thought. What's even worse is that there r ppl who let there significant other's fuck other ppl as long as they get to do it too now i'm not judging or anything but i personally could never evr do that cuz the thought of my gf willingly wanting another man's dick just makes me sick in a very very bad way n i can't comprehend how ppl could have that type of open relationship however everyone has their own tastes/preferences so that knda relationship is perfectly fine as long as the ppl involved don't have a porblem with it but IMO that kinda agreement will cause conflict along the way (1person dumping the other for someone else) that is just not me i am a 1 woman man 100% faithful cuz that's part of who i am it's a belief i just naturally adhere to blindly without a second thought. I've been with all different kinds of girls with many varying ages, appearances, personalities, whatever but i'd say about 80% of all my gf's fall into the often but appropriately stereotyped "preppy whitegirl" category anyways as a young person who has already experianced quite a lot about relationships and knows alot on this subject for someone my age. I have been cheated on 12 times which i would say is more or less half of all the girls i have ever dated (not counting girls i "hooked up" with) out of those 12 some i have only been with for a few weeks, most of them a month or a few, and 2 of them a lil over a year anyways these 12 girls were all of different ages n social groups n were actually for the most poart different from each other so i know that i'm not always being cheated on cuz i go for a certain type of girl no thats not it n i still don't understand why to this day those girls fucked up a perfect relationship cuz IMO i happen to be excellent bf material but maybe beer n hornyness trumped all that in those girls opinions at the time anyways not as a direct result of constantly being cheated on i personally feel that when i'm dating a girl in a serious committed relationship that i will let her talk to any guy as long as she doesn't talk to a guy who i know is trying to ger in her pants (which is often the case cuz most girls i fated r the ones all the guys stare at) So i am a lil strict in that aspect of only letting my girl talk to guys who i know ONLY think of her as a friend n arent trying to fuck her n whoever the girl i'm dating at the time damn well knows i am putting all my trust into her but at the same time limiting her guy friend options to the point where its impossible for her to cheat on me without breaking the values n rules i abide by in relationships and keep in mind that i am not by a long shot the jealous type.

Most of the women i've dated think i'm being controlling when i say "u can't talk to any guys who like u as more then a friend" but thats not a rule i put up or anything it's not cuz i don't trust the girl NO it's niether of those it's just a personal belief i hold for how a serious committed relationship between 2 ppl should be and if her following n respect to that belief i have means not having any contact with 99% of all her guy friends then so be it good riddance! and if u can't do that for me then simply do not be with me cuz it means u don't care about me to stay faithful.

Yeah i know alot of u are gonna disagree with me on that rule but heres the bottomline: I DON'T WANT MY GF TO WILLINGLY WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH A BUNCH OF GUYS WHO DAYDREAM ABOUT BANGING HER the thought of her knowing what the guys think n how i feel about that n yet still deciding that she wants to be friends with them just absolutely sickends me i'm sorry but that's just how i am i guess i'm jus the old fashoined type who wants loyalty n honest to b the priority in any committed serious relationship which is what im looking for.

Even after being cheated on 12 times with each 1 being more heartbreaking then the last i still would NEVER cheat or do anything disloyal to my girl cuz if i'm with u to the point that we're in a serious relationship then other girl would be a non-issue...however wit that being said out of all my friends/aquaintences more of them are girls then guys and alot of them r the type of girl that all other guys wanted to bang back in highschool so it's not like i haven't been caught looking or daydreaming about other women i jus have NEVER n will NEVER actually do anything like that except for 1 time back when i was 15, my 2nd gf n i were dating for a lil over a year SHE TEXTED ME AT 2AM SAYING SHE FUCKED HER FRIEND RIGHT BEFORE WE WENT TO GO SEE A MOVIE EARLIER THAT NIGHT!!!!!!!! n i was like o fuck no n i was hella depressed i felt like crying almost (to this day i havenever cried once in my life n have come close very few times) so i can't even describe how that made me feel i was devastated she made me feel liek a weak lil bitch so a week later i asked out a really hot friend of mine who i had flirted with constantly and i KNEW that night i would AT LEAST gotten head but i pussyed out at the last second cuz i couldn't have that on my conscience...thats the closest i have ever come to cheating but after all the dating bullshit n cheating i been through cheating on the next girl who fucks me over is starting to sound better the more i say it.

I apologize for the long rant but i just really hate this shit n had to get it off my chest i apprecitae anyone who actually took the time to read it all even if u don't agree with some or all f what i said (as i'm sure will b the case with at least a few srk'ers)

Lick Me Off

02-16-2007, 03:20 AM

Was this before or AFTER the fact that you admitted to SRK that you don't brush your teeth on a regular basis?

long before. I dont think it bothered her too much. She would see me go straight to the shower in the morning.

Though I dont see what that has to do with anything.

OmNiExiZt

02-16-2007, 03:39 AM

The Sex is incredible and she never objects to any sex positions and is open to kinkyness. ftw.

This is why I don't have to cheat on my current GF. Sure I look around and wonder what another hot piece of ass might feel like. But after you've been with as many women as I have, it gets old. What you have to do is find that GOOOOOD PIECE OF PUSSY. And if the rest of the package goes with it, then you got a keeper. Otherwise, if she's got the good puntang and a fucked up attitude/personality, then you should move on. My girls got some good tang, I haved to hit that shit at least everyother day. If 3 or more days go buy, her shit will turn you into a 2 minute man, no lie.

*ONEZ*

G.O.T

02-16-2007, 03:51 AM

hmmm.

RushDown178

02-16-2007, 04:04 AM

Yeah, pretty much safe to say nowadays girls cheat on guys more. Yes, back in the day it was a fact guys were labeled as unfaithful moreso than women, but now it's pretty much reversed.

As for cheating...most likely it's because of boredom...esp. for a female...or after listening to loveline on the way back from work today, dr. drew explains something about how girls NEED to explore and NEED someone with better genes (if they find it) or whatever.

That situation was from a caller (a girl) who liked pierced genitalia, but drew says it doesn't make sense since the the latter part of the vagina has no nerves whatsoever, and he explains that whole gene thing where the guy is kind of showing that he can take this much pain or "self mutilation" and if he can, it shows he's strong, blah blah blah, and the girl thinks "wow, this guy's genes are good."

Yeah, I don't remember it word by word, but I'm sure most of you get what it meant.

A cheater could explain the reason why they'd cheat as like..."it's everyone for themselves in this world," having an "elitist" mindset, or PLAYING TO WIN is the reason why cheating is the way to go. Some fucked up shit, but TECHNICALLY it is true, but there are some people don't have that mindset thankfully.

Love is like a fighting game -

-You need to read the other person
-As you play in the match/are in the relationship, you shouldn't have the same routine (he/she will get bored/opponent will know what you're doing or going for each time)
-Have to mix it up constantly (opponent can't read you/so she/he won't get bored)
-Shit happens at the wrong time sometimes
-Sometimes you need to guess
-Some people move onto/switch to new characters for various reasons (they're better, top tier, need a new character to keep the game fun, whatever/like how ppl get cheated on by someone new that may be better looking, different, the bad-boy/good guy phase bs, etc)
-There are sometimes insecurities (if you don't know how a certain match-up is between chars or something like that haha)
-Competition is ALWAYS there (self-explanitory)

Can't think of more analogies...=(

...

YES, you females break off relationships because of BOREDOM, not because of (insert excuse or 2 minute thought up reason here)

Yes I said it D:

jreinert13

02-16-2007, 12:19 PM

How to not cheat is easy: don't be selfish and don't think short term.
If you're in a long-term relationship with someone you love; it's clear cut obvious why you shouldn't cheat. Anyone who is capable of caring for another can see this when they aren't in a position of weakness.. the problem is resisting your instincts and temptations (which can be massive when dealing with this subject) which can not only make you ignore your judgements but also change them accordingly.
If you're capable of withstanding this problem, it will help you greatly in life. Sounds a little far fetched but think about how much of a better decision maker you'll be if you can withstand interferences of this magnitude.

DragonSama

02-16-2007, 01:13 PM

I have a friend of mine who is pretty fucked up. Dude is married to his wife but he tells me that the sex has become non existent now. He told me that he’s been going out and meeting other dudes and hooking up with them and that he doesn’t consider it cheating since he is not sleeping with another woman?

:wtf: umm I thought cheating was cheating no matter what the sex was.

I’ve been married for 7 years now and I have never cheated once on my wife. I couldn’t do it. I love her too much and It would break my heart as much as hers. don’t get me wrong sure there are a lot of fine girls all over the place and I still have girls who step to me only because I’m a really nice guy. Still though I couldn’t never do it and I always friend zone them fast.

Azrael

02-16-2007, 09:06 PM

Yeah, guys always talk about how cool it would be if their girl was into other girls, but personally I'd be pissed if I found out my girl was cheating with anybody, man or woman. Maybe even more so for a woman, because it's like, there aint shit a girl can do that I can't.

Silentness!

02-16-2007, 10:43 PM

lol all his teeth must be capped by now. Dude is living like a fucking caveman.

It's fucking Cubone... what'd you expect.

http://www.dltk-kids.com/pokEMon/adoptions/104.gif nigga hides his teeth underneath that skull cap.

tondashocka

02-16-2007, 10:50 PM

Never cheated either.

IMO, and I'm only 23, thinking about cheating just means you are unhappy. Here you have two steps: you can either work on your relationship, or cheat.

:Edit:

Damn Azrael... I agree completely... I couldn't have said it better.

TheSix

02-16-2007, 10:51 PM

^^ Or leave.

tondashocka

02-16-2007, 11:20 PM

^^ Or leave.

Word... I agree Six... or leave....you can leave and still keep your honor.

This "I can fuck around with this girl, and even if it fails, I still have her to fuck" is sad and really, I pity this person because you are either 1) hurting the other person in the relationship 2) very unhappy in your relationship and/or 3) don't care about the relationship you are in.

I do believe that the majority of adults find one parter and are happy. If multiples are your thing, that's fine... just don't lie to the person you are in a relationship with.

mr. newbie

02-17-2007, 02:06 AM

i've been faithfull because no other girl is gonna let me watch her fuck a horse.

Weeks

02-17-2007, 06:09 AM

I don't think i've ever been faithful in a relationship...
it's just too hard.

bbq sauce

02-17-2007, 12:41 PM

I can proudly say never have cheated n my gf of about a year and a half.

L.one H.iryu S.aga

02-17-2007, 12:53 PM

I've been faithful in every single relationship I've ever been in. And if I ever feel the urge to cheat or it isn't working out then I let them know I'm bouncing beforehand. I've never had to cheat, and I will always consider it to be one hell of a bitch move in general.

shatterstar

02-17-2007, 01:09 PM

exodus

02-17-2007, 01:24 PM

man matt you a bitch...now that i know you're a cheat, im never letting you win in 3S. EVER.

im married without being married. -_- 4th year and going strong...

AKUMA2000

02-17-2007, 05:00 PM

Been married 15 years to my wife (will be 16 this july), we've never cheated on each other. :nunchuck: :cool: :rock:

white shadow

02-17-2007, 05:22 PM

Been married 15 years to my wife (will be 16 this july), we've never cheated on each other. :nunchuck: :cool: :rock:

*bows* :pray:

15 years is like 50 years in modern day relationships. Much respect.:china:

hold dat

02-17-2007, 05:25 PM

I don't think i've ever been faithful in a relationship...
it's just too hard.

i dont even go looking for it, god knows its not cause of my looks or a lot of money or cause i have game but i just keep meeting girls all the time. i think women are a big weakness for me.

plus i dont trust women period so i'm hoping i can find one girl and not get bored. shit is hard though

man matt you a bitch...now that i know you're a cheat, im never letting you win in 3S. EVER.

im married without being married. -_- 4th year and going strong...

lol sorry sensei...but remember my goal is to get like you and the other faithful men.

until i'm married I gotta give into the thirst

Lick Me Off

02-17-2007, 05:36 PM

white shadow

02-17-2007, 05:49 PM

Its funny because this is my second Chris Rock referance in this thread, but its like he says:

When you got a gf, other girls want you, but when you dont, they dont give a shit about you. Chris Rock speaks so much truth.

What's wierd is that sometimes you don't even have to have your girlfriend around for them to interested in you; it's almost like they can smell the commitment on you.

Lick Me Off

02-17-2007, 05:56 PM

What's wierd is that sometimes you don't even have to have your girlfriend around for them to interested in you; it's almost like they can smell the commitment on you.

true dat

PsychoMistress

02-17-2007, 06:12 PM

Been married 15 years to my wife (will be 16 this july), we've never cheated on each other. :nunchuck: :cool: :rock:

Beautiful. Kudos to you.

GRITZ

02-17-2007, 06:37 PM

Respect. Have enough respect for her and yourself to not hurt them by cheating, and if youre gonna cheat, have the respect to tell them beforehand and stop wasting each others' time.

Jaldaboath

02-17-2007, 06:37 PM

Been married 15 years to my...You had me in complete suspense at that point. :rofl:

When you got a gf, other girls want you, but when you don't, they don't give a shit about you. Chris Rock speaks so much truth.I'm 90% sure this is a hormonal thing, like your production changes when you have a stable partner and the opposite sex catches on subconsciously. You know, like a particular smell.

Maybe even more so for a woman, because it's like, there ain't shit a girl can do that I can't.
Then why don't you get a boyfriend?

white shadow

02-17-2007, 06:46 PM

I'm 90% sure this is a hormonal thing, like your production changes when you have a stable partner and the opposite sex catches on subconsciously. You know, like a particular smell.

That's my theory as well. Pheromones, nature's natural afrodesiac.

Azrael

02-17-2007, 07:26 PM

Then why don't you get a boyfriend?
Easy. I don't like dick. I tolerate my own because it is mine, and he's been working pretty hard for me. :tup: You also have to factor in my extreme love of tits and pussy as well.

I know what you're getting at though. It's about the attraction, not what the other partner can or can't do, right? Sure, but it seems to me that these days a lot of women are casual lesbians - they really only do so for attention.

Also, sometimes I'll be watching lesbian porn, and I'll see them break out the strap-ons and give them BJ's...which is like the most pointless thing, ever. Even past the strap-on BJ, if you're going to be doing that why are you a lesbian to begin with?

I forget who on SRK said it, but someone said once "Lesbians shouldn't be allowed to use dildos. They made their choice." Truth.

3b1r4h

02-17-2007, 07:36 PM

That's my theory as well. Pheromones, nature's natural afrodesiac.

now here is a man who generally discusses in shoryukens general discussions.

white shadow

02-17-2007, 07:43 PM

now here is a man who generally discusses in shoryukens general discussions.

Wait what?:rofl: I think I know what you're hinting at but I need confirmation. lol

2hai

02-17-2007, 08:02 PM

Well cheating or thinking about cheating isn't a new concept. If you ever watched this old movie called "Guide to the Married Man" (1967), it humorous says that 44% of men will at least think about cheating at one point in their life. The only way not to cheat is not be in a relationship in the first place or just keep saying "no pussy" to throw off urges. I think once you get around 30, these things start slowing down. But in the mean time, there's no point in trying to mature yet, if you can't cause about 44% aren't mature too. "Guide to the Married Man" was a pretty funny movie on the subject of infidelity if anyone was curious. Just a little cheesy at the end.

hold dat

02-17-2007, 09:00 PM

Silentness!

02-17-2007, 10:12 PM

Easy. I don't like dick. I tolerate my own because it is mine, and he's been working pretty hard for me. :tup: You also have to factor in my extreme love of tits and pussy as well.

I know what you're getting at though. It's about the attraction, not what the other partner can or can't do, right? Sure, but it seems to me that these days a lot of women are casual lesbians - they really only do so for attention.

Also, sometimes I'll be watching lesbian porn, and I'll see them break out the strap-ons and give them BJ's...which is like the most pointless thing, ever. Even past the strap-on BJ, if you're going to be doing that why are you a lesbian to begin with?

I forget who on SRK said it, but someone said once "Lesbians shouldn't be allowed to use dildos. They made their choice." Truth.

seriously... the strap ons and Blow jobs to a dildo aren't too lesbian like :confused:

Rather well just replace the lesbian with a guy. NOT LIKE I WATCH LESBIAN PORN OR ANY PORN OF THE SORT. *looks around the room and runs away*
______

PS: I feel you guys! I can't resist the temptation to cheat, so many chicks swarming around me. /end sarcasm

*hangs himself*

Etcetera

02-17-2007, 11:36 PM

PS: I feel you guys! I can't resist the temptation to cheat, so many chicks swarming around me. /end sarcasm

*hangs himself*
LOL, I know the feeling. But it does make sense, if you were able to trick one girl into being attached to you, it can't be hard to get more to do so. Truly boggles my mind hearing guys say it is so hard to stay faithful.
It's all or nothing apparently, either no one wants anything to do with you or all the ladies want a piece.:rolleyes:

Nick T.

02-17-2007, 11:38 PM

Cheating is only condemned if it's persuaded through your partners actions.
That's the only time I would do it.

SuicidalGrandpa

02-17-2007, 11:52 PM

3b1r4h

02-18-2007, 09:50 AM

Wait what?:rofl: I think I know what you're hinting at but I need confirmation. lol

I was just pointing out the redundancy of your other post :rofl: :rofl:

AKUMA2000

02-18-2007, 11:00 AM

*bows* :pray:

15 years is like 50 years in modern day relationships. Much respect.:china:

Thank you.

Thing is, doesn't even seem like its been that long.

You had me in complete suspense at that point. :rofl:

No surprises here.....:rofl: :rofl:

Beautiful. Kudos to you.

Thank you.

SuicidalGrandpa

02-18-2007, 11:45 AM

I forget who on SRK said it, but someone said once "Lesbians shouldn't be allowed to use dildos. They made their choice." Truth.

:rofl: :rofl:

Mycah Leonhart

02-18-2007, 11:59 AM

If you can just chill at home with her and just kick back without problems, then you know you have a woman worth a damn.

b1gazn

02-18-2007, 12:02 PM

You are more of a man to be able to deny temptations.

ruthless_nash

02-19-2007, 02:46 AM

thats why you married folk, need to get into polygamous relations :D

funkymusic

02-19-2007, 02:51 AM

3 years... Pussy is just too good.

AKUMA2000

02-19-2007, 11:12 AM

thats why you married folk, need to get into polygamous relations :D

Naw, married sex is the best sex when there's no extra people involved. :wink: :rofl:

LimeGreenPatato

02-19-2007, 11:41 AM

Its pretty easy. Don't sleep with another girl.

IF you want to bang chicks......dump your girl and be single.

What a stupid question.

angryliberal

02-19-2007, 11:46 AM

For the people who have really been condeming cheating i wonder if they have been tempted by really, really attractive men/women. It's easy to call me a dog when you're not subject to women leavin "let's fuck" post-its under my goddamn keyboard.

I tried to resist...you see the heart is willing but the body is weak. Maybe its easy for you guys cause you found "the one". when i find the female equivalent of Neo i promise i'll chill :angel:

i've turned down some pussy that fucking hurt me. yeah, it's tempting as shit, but i'm a soon to be married man. i wouldn't be here if i wasn't sure my fiance was worth it. the worst is that hot chick you had a hard-on for in high school who wouldn't give you the time of day, now she wants a piece of your dick. thats like living a high school fantasy, but you gotta make a choice. my choices always reflect how i truly feel about my fiance. there are alot of difficult choices you make in this world and some really suck, but you gotta look at the big picture. if you wanna cheat, just get out of your relationship, cuz it's not what you want obviously.

hold dat

02-19-2007, 12:02 PM

@ original post:

I've been faithful for 9 months (the time we've been dating), while being in a long distance relationship. It helps that I find cheating, and people who cheat, to be very low/bad people.

I get a terrible feeling, a little ill even, when I imagine myself cheating.

If you believe Chivalry and the gentleman to be long gone, I'd have to question who you're hanging out with.

honestly i'm shocked to hear this general concensus because usually groups of guys say the opposite in my experience anyway. i personally dont know any faithful men or women. pretty soon i think thats gonna be the norm

Its pretty easy. Don't sleep with another girl.

IF you want to bang chicks......dump your girl and be single.

What a stupid question.

if were that simple the divorce rate and unfaithfulness wouldn't be so high. the question really was directed into methods of staying faithful. obviously for you its as easy as "dont do it". some guys use jerkin off, staying away from nightclubs etc. no such thing as a stupid question, unless its about SF4

i've turned down some pussy that fucking hurt me. yeah, it's tempting as shit, but i'm a soon to be married man. i wouldn't be here if i wasn't sure my fiance was worth it. the worst is that hot chick you had a hard-on for in high school who wouldn't give you the time of day, now she wants a piece of your dick. thats like living a high school fantasy, but you gotta make a choice. my choices always reflect how i truly feel about my fiance. there are alot of difficult choices you make in this world and some really suck, but you gotta look at the big picture. if you wanna cheat, just get out of your relationship, cuz it's not what you want obviously.

congrats on your upcoming wedding