Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[The Green Trench Coat]

I know he's bi. I don't know if there's any interest in me.

did you ask?


You: So can i ask, am I your type?
him: Like totally *twirls hair*
You: Awesome I cant belive i just asked you that!
him: I know *pops chewing gum* I cant belive i just said it
*giggles*


see.. real simple.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I know he's bi. I don't know if there's any interest in me.

I usually just follow word choice and body language. If he finds a reason to touch you like patting your shoulder or arm or something like that, then there's something to go by. If he looks you in the eye there's probably something there too. I don't know. I'm usually pretty intuitive in knowing if there's interest and it's hard to describe.

[Mechanica]

Yeah, is this just via online messenger? You can't exactly just tell by the way someone types to you... If it's irl, look at how often/how he smiles at you, eye contact, touching, body language, etc. Or just express interest in him and gauge his reaction?

[Azagtoth]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_RvClbZ_-w

If you like the one in pink, then watch till the end.

If it wasn't for their faces, I'd say this is an excellent find. Nice bodies though. <3

[Dreamkiller]

Jus flirt with him, if u wanna if he likes u or not.
Very casually and i think non-chalant (That word from friends that i think im using right.)

Him: Damn, i need to get laid.
You: Oh dude, we could totally do it.
Him: Really?
You: Yeah, man. We could totally have all the sex.

Flirting rocks. I even flirt with the straight guys. If ur sarcastic, that works even better. If not jus get creative.

[Æther]

So the douche never showed. I was waiting for 6 hours when he finally called. "Sorry but something came up" Yeah whatev, biznach. :bluu:

So the entire time I just played some random people. 16 - 2

And the worst part? No eyecandy whatsoever. >:(

[Dreamkiller]

Arcade eyecandy isnt all that anyway.

[Azagtoth]

So the douche never showed. I was waiting for 6 hours when he finally called. "Sorry but something came up" Yeah whatev, biznach. :bluu:

So the entire time I just played some random people. 16 - 2

And the worst part? No eyecandy whatsoever. >:(

Where did you go to do this?

[iwst99]

Arcade eyecandy isnt all that anyway.

Phhh, you obviously don't play with Amir.

[Khaotika!]

did you ask?


You: So can i ask, am I your type?
him: Like totally *twirls hair*
You: Awesome I cant belive i just asked you that!
him: I know *pops chewing gum* I cant belive i just said it
*giggles*


see.. real simple.

Stop posting my chat logs or I will get a restraining order. :mad:

..... :lovin: <3

[The Green Trench Coat]

Arcade eyecandy isnt all that anyway.

Hmm.. idon't know about that.. I manage to see a cutie or 2 everytime i hit the arcade :wink:

Stop posting my chat logs or I will get a restraining order. :mad:

..... :lovin: <3

They are so entertaining though. the hair twirling and bubble gumm popping is what makes it so enchanting.

[Æther]

lol That vid. You never know if they might be cute though. It's low quality and bad lighting.

Also the guy on the right almost looks like one of my managers. :confused:
Where did you go to do this?
Ultimate Cards & Comics on 67th av. off the Palmetto. /shameless plug

I'm friends with the shop keeper so he let me set up the game. :bgrin:

[Dreamkiller]

iwst - lol. Cali is pretty deep.

Trench - :lovin:

[DrumlinerJoe]

Lots of new pics up on my myspace including Halloween pics.

http://www.myspace.com/joefelan

I was too lazy to link them.

[Dreamkiller]

So jealous.
U got to be mario, and i didnt. lol.

[DrumlinerJoe]

My old arcade used to have crazy eye candy. I don't know what it was but all the hot cholos would hang around the arcade during the weekend. None of them played Marvel though.

[Mechanica]

Hoping to take pictures with my bf soon. :lovin: Well, soon being a relative term. He's coming back from Vancouver tonight and I'm trying not to get my hopes up for Sunday. Because it probably won't happen. What's new with you guys? I'm bored of this topic being dead. :smile:

[DrumlinerJoe]

Nothing really new, though I have been writing more. I'm actually piecing together a song on my keyboard trying to see if it's worth anything.

[Æther]

Things are dull on my end. Today I ran into my coworker and asked if he'd be able to play on tuesday to finish this shit talking and he just said "Hopefully I'll be free that day". Yeah whatever. :bluu:

Other than that I haven't met any new guys. Those guys who I did meet online usually forget about me so meh. :|

[The Green Trench Coat]

sorry beenkinda mario galaxied out lately

first off. lemme get you guys mailing addresses xmas is comming and i'd like to send each of you something. and no im not sending all of you flesh lights.. cause i'm not gonna be responsible for mom accidentally opening the package.

but i just wanna send out cards and gifts so pm me your mailing addresses. and joe and mech sorry sorry sorry. I'll send out the cameras first thing monday it's just a pain sending anything via regular mail like that cause you gotta find a box make sure packaging is good .. blah blah blah. really i'm just a slo-mo sorry again.


Ive been working with a trainer to get ready for this bear contest i'm gonna be in in march. which i guess is ironic when you think about it. I"m trying to get closer to the body of "punk" from i love ny.. but still retaining the ever so popular belly. going good so far getting stronger and that'sthe goal.. i figure even if i dont win i want to be able to pick up the winner in the likely event he collapses after the hula hooping contest.

other than that my daddy bear boss has gotten a little weird on me so i'm gonna give him some space. Lately when i see him he says things like "i wish i was gay you would definitely be my boy" and we've gotten all smoochy outey. but he's cancelled our "play date" a few times so i'm not gonna sweat it. Like i said before.. getting to make out with him was way more satisfying than giving him a professional. And if that's all i get i can live with that.


so.. pm me those addresses.

[Æther]

^^You know what this means for him then. Time for a brainwash.:cool: *flashes light* "And now for those pants..." :lovin:

I'll see if I can send out some cards out to some of you as well. PM me too bitches!

[Mechanica]

cause i'm not gonna be responsible for mom accidentally opening the package.
:lol: you can mail me anything babe ^_~

[BlodiaVulcan5]

sorry beenkinda mario galaxied out lately

SMG owns my soul. and my first born* ( not really).

I"m trying to get closer to the body of "punk" from i love ny.. but still retaining the ever so popular belly.


i briefly saw a clip of Punk from i love new york while flipping from the food network channel and he's pretty beefy. i'm not really into that much muscle.

[Azagtoth]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQoToUy4ALA&eurl=http://widget-

Sorry. I had to. =P

[Dreamkiller]

Came back from Vtyme.
Horrible weekend.
Pretty good tourney.
Hey guys!
:bgrin:

[BeaTs*]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQoToUy4ALA&eurl=http://widget-

Sorry. I had to. =Plol WTF!? the guy in the bear outfit (?) is cute...doable, as long as he doesn't really act like that.

So since it was my b-day, I decided to go back to the bathhouse (haven't been there...or actually "done anything" in like 9 months) quite fun! though it cracks me up when I saw someone I knew there....I almost turned out and left when I saw him at the front desk, and then he turned and saw me and did a sorta "hey" and I was just shaking my head cracking up :rofl: (he was at the arcade too beforehand, and then headed to the bathhouse from there like me) his room was actually right across from mine :wasted: I didn't realize till much later on...and I had my door open and showing my goods and all when he was right there, again :lol:

i might go again this next sat. coming up, bear day =] but I hope that doesn't mean just old farts will be there : / there are some cute bears/cubs in chi, I've seen them!!!

so yeah

btw, it sucks when I get a dry mouth, always when I need saliva, what do you guys do to help with that? Maybe I just have a condition :sweat:

[The Green Trench Coat]

btw, it sucks when I get a dry mouth, always when I need saliva, what do you guys do to help with that? Maybe I just have a condition :sweat:

I usually just picture Nick frost rubbing his cock on my face. That gets me salavating.

I'm salavating right now.





..

from my penis.

[Mechanica]

btw, it sucks when I get a dry mouth, always when I need saliva, what do you guys do to help with that? Maybe I just have a condition :sweat:

I either close my mouth for a minute or start kissing

[BeaTs*]

ugh, those methods don't help, they just seem to make my mouth dryer! maybe I'm nervous? Or maybe it's because it's later in the day near bedtime (or already way after bedtime hehe) and that's just my body being stupid =[

[DrumlinerJoe]

Came back from Vtyme.
Horrible weekend.
Pretty good tourney.
Hey guys!
:bgrin:

What game and what did you place?

[Dander]

y'all niggahs are gay

[Dreamkiller]

Went for SC3. Tied for fifth.
My vids are crazy and tight.
Lookout for those SC fans.
(The two of u left. lol.)

[DrumlinerJoe]

Not bad. Homos letting all the straights have it.

I can't wait for another tourney here. I know I can hold it down to at least 2nd.

[Mechanica]

ugh, those methods don't help, they just seem to make my mouth dryer! maybe I'm nervous? Or maybe it's because it's later in the day near bedtime (or already way after bedtime hehe) and that's just my body being stupid =[

Drink more water, or.. um... I don't know. Who the hell gets random drymouth? (Sucks.) I get drymouth when my mouth is hanging open (like when I'm getting great head and forget to pay attention :looney: ), or I been smoking weed. The former, I just close my mouth, and within a little bit my normal salivation is back. The latter, I drink some damn water. There's something wrong with the amount your mouth is salivating man - there's no miracle cure for that. :razz:

[DrumlinerJoe]

There's always drymouth after drinking. I hate the morning after when I forget to drink a glass of water before bed.

Drinking is good.

[BeaTs*]

i guess it's just nerves, though I don't feel nervous...it always gets dry when I really need it to not get dry. sucks when expecting making out...and yeah, that other thing

[DrumlinerJoe]

Ugh, I'm so tired of Hitman commercials on TV. We need some new gay movies. With hot guys this time.

[Dreamkiller]

You too!?
lol.
I O.D. on water the morning after though, i guess im just too wasted to remember to drink water before i go to bed.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I kinda feel like drinking tonight, even though I know I shouldn't.

[iwst99]

I bought rockband this morning. I just went to buy a DVD and they happen to have it available. I thought they would be sold out everywhere...but I guess they weren't. Anyways, I'm at work so won't play for tonight...reviews look promising, and I actually have people to play with (hopefully drunk) so it sould be fun....

[The Green Trench Coat]

I'm playing games instead of PM'ing my address to Trench blah blah...

What part of PM me your ADDY don't you understand..

is it the ADDY? Thats my abbreviation of Address.

You are holding up traffic green means go. I wanna start sending stuff out second week of dec.

[Æther]

Send me your "addy" in return GTC. :P

Also my cards are gonna be either gay or GHEY. Depends on what you want, folks.

In other news UPS is pissing me off. My package for KOF 11 went under "exception" and "will be delivered on another day". >:|

[Dreamkiller]

Damn, Trench i feel so bad.
Ur giving me something for christmas and im jus here like a sitting duck.
I know theres some type of way i could repay u for all your troubles. :wink:

[Azagtoth]

Send me your "addy" in return GTC. :P

Also my cards are gonna be either gay or GHEY. Depends on what you want, folks.
|

The question is, what is the difference?

[Æther]

Gay=Cute little St. Nick wishing you hugs and a joyful season.

GHEY=Drawing of bearish Santa doing pole dancing w/ thong assist while my cheap ass throws singles.

Sorry Dreamkiller but I wouldn't want to hurt your virgin eyes. You'll have to settle for regular Gay. JK :lovin:

[oyg]

it's harsh even when a gay guy says you're not "packin'"
:sad:

[Dreamkiller]

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
NOT REGULAR GAY!!!!!!!!!!!
lol.

[The Green Trench Coat]

it's harsh even when a gay guy says you're not "packin'"
:sad:

Sometimes I'm that asshole.


This happened:
Guy: My penis isn't so big.. but it's pretty.
<crowd, of us get silent>
Me: ..pretty much a vagina.

[LightningStorm]

This happened:
Guy: My penis isn't so big.. but it's pretty.
<crowd, of us get silent>
Me: ..pretty much a vagina.

Wow, I haven't read this thread in a long time, I come back to this. :rofl: Hilarious.

Although, I'm wondering what situation you were in such that there was a crowd of you, his penis was out, and he was talking about it.

[bear]

Sometimes I'm that asshole.


This happened:
Guy: My penis isn't so big.. but it's pretty.
<crowd, of us get silent>
Me: ..pretty much a vagina.

I laughed.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Wow, I haven't read this thread in a long time, I come back to this. :rofl: Hilarious.

Although, I'm wondering what situation you were in such that there was a crowd of you, his penis was out, and he was talking about it.

Actually me being the socially challenged bear i can be. I was nursing a petron on the rocks and the crowd was around the guy who said that. he didn't have it out but i mean..

look ..

for those of you that party with me you'll know .. as the drinks come in i keep no secrets and i'm fearless. so there.

Ask Azagtoth.

[Mechanica]

as the drinks come in i keep no secrets and i'm fearless. so there.


We wouldn't expect anything less. :angel:

I get to see my boyfriend a total of THREE TIMES this week. Holy shit! It's a new record. I'm so happy. Sunday, Tuesday, and tomorrow. I'm so happy. :bgrin: I'd be abnormally happy even seeing him once a week regularly, so this is a godsend. I can't believe Boeing gave him two days off this week. I've never known him to have a day off work.

[Azagtoth]

for those of you that party with me you'll know .. as the drinks come in i keep no secrets and i'm fearless. so there.

Ask Azagtoth.

Fucking braveheart over here and shit.

Me: Stangers are scary.
Rob: They're pretty hot too.
Me: ...You do have a point.
Rob: (shove)

[The Green Trench Coat]

guys i got a ton of cooking to do tommorrow ..

if i dont' get the chance to say it Happy thanksgiving to all

[DrumlinerJoe]

That's what usually happens with people who talk shit about their dicks.

Anyway, Holidays are here again. I'm hoping to pull down some crazy cash tonight because it's usually a badass night.

[Mechanica]

I really fucking hate losing money. It's such a hopeless, frustrating, ridiculous feeling. Like, literally just fucking losing money. I lost forty dollars overnight. How the fuck does that happen? Ugh. Sour mood to start my holiday off with... at least I got my internet working, it hasn't been working... It's extra frustrating when it's for no reason.

In other news, I'm popular today. I don't know what to do. :rofl: Neighborfriends knocked on the door seeing if I wanted to go over to their place tonight; my dad called me (hella late notice) and demanded I come help him eat turkey (since when does he do holidays?); my sister invited me to this thing she's going to, one group of friends invited me to this OTHER thing at her mom's house...

AND ALL I WANNA DO IS HANG OUT WITH MY BOYFRIEND! AAH! Hahah. Sheesh. Still waiting to hear back from him. :lol: Alas, he wants to spend time alone, too...

So um... yeah. Happy ravage & rape the indians day, guys.

EDIT: Sigh, and I don't get to see the one thing I'm thankful for. Man. I really hate holidays.

[iwst99]

"I really want to spend some time alone"...

I know what that means...:sweat: You can figure it out though...

I'm in San Francisco right now for Thanksgiving weekend...been here before, but it's really nice to be here again and visit place I haven't gone to. Tomorrow night I'm going to the clubs and bars in the Castro (gay area)...should be interesting...

Hope you all had a nice Thanksgiving! :hitit:

[DrumlinerJoe]

Hey ya'll, craziness last night. I went to go visit my friend at work (he works in the same bar I do) and I noticed this dude come in. It was the guy that the last guy I dated left me for. He was hanging out at my friend's station trying his best to avoid eye contact.

Anyway, I noticed he was being very chummy with the guy he came in with, which made me where the guy I used to date was. Well it turns out my barback knew them and I asked what he knew about them. Turns out he said they used to be lovers and that he broke up with his current bf.

So yeah I was really happy hearing that. I know it makes me sound like a dick, but I was extremely satisfied to hear that they didn't even last a month. I've never spread shit about him to anyone though, it's still nice to hear he got his.

Anyway, I been talking to a real cutie the last couple of days. He's actually probably right up most of ya'lls alley. But yeah, life is good.

[iwst99]

^^

Hah...as mean as it might be to see another ex-lover not succeed in their relationship after they break up with you....it kinda leaves a nice feeling inside. :sweat:

Hope things go well with you and the new guy, keep us posted.

San Francisco was great...had an awesome time. There were so many European tourists there...including, but not limited to, HOT EUROPEAN DADDIES....YUM. I saw so much eye candy there...shit was hawt.:hitit:

[Æther]

Stayed at home for Thanksgiving so no good stories about that.

However, now I'm being set up for a blind date from a friend. I don't even have pics of the guy or a MySpace. Only thing I know is that he's 41. From what they tell me though he's real quiet like me. My friends are tired of me being single apparently. :confused:

So now I'm waiting word on when he's off. He gets word on his days off at the last minute. :|

[Khaotika!]

Nothing much on my front except for some flirting with some guys who are into it and some who aren't. Making the straight ones all nervous makes me laugh. Heh.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Hmm.. lets see.. not much going on here with me either. Work slowed down a bit so I finally was able to set up my tunnel to my house so i can browse nsfw web sites without my company seeing anything.

That was fun.

Other than that I went to santa saturday (bear event) didn't meet a whole lot of new people but i did run into one Srk'r (who will remain nameless unless he wants to reveal himself) who was a very cool guy and a pretty good kisser. :wgrin:

Other than that.. Been trying to get my combos down in Arcana Hearts. I need some real practice but not ready for CF yet. I tried playing vs Angel but it's a bit hard cause dashing works a bit differently.. and he never really was to keen on aircombos. that's one of the reasons he loves 3s. I have a few cool combos down with a few characters. I'm trying to memorize the engine cause i belive once i have that i can start really putting some awesome combos together.

That aside just alot of SMG (31 stars people), Umbrella chronicles with Angel every night.

[Dreamkiller]

Damn! Reveal yourself Srk'r!
lol.
So im at my job and right when im getting ready to count out, i see that my till is a little off....About 300 dollars off! The money jus completely vanished (of course i didnt take it) and i jus couldnt believe it. The only explanation was the delivery boy who always likes to play around with the till money. He saw sticking out and snatched it, but i took it back immediately. I coulda sworn all of it was there thats why i didnt count it. I have a meeting with them tomorow, so hopefully all goes well and i get to keep my job. But it hasnt been a good week. I keep losing alot of shit, including my phone (yet again, 2 phones in 6 months.) And money hasnt been my friend for quite some time. On top of all of this, my love for FG's really doesnt help since im going to NEC this weekend (to basically win SC.) Trip shouldnt cost too much, so im hoping to make money instead of losing.
I jus think this is Karma coming back to me but, its hitting me way way too hard.

[Azagtoth]

-snip-

I play a little AH here or there, but I get ragged on for it. =D

Who do you play?

[The Green Trench Coat]

I play a little AH here or there, but I get ragged on for it. =D

Who do you play?

Kamui and Fiona mostly.

I didn't realize fiona is a boss character though

[Azagtoth]

Kamui and Fiona mostly.

I didn't realize fiona is a boss character though

Yeah, the console version gives you no real indication of that unless you play through single player mode.

I run Saki and Konoha with Gier. =D

[The Green Trench Coat]

Yeah, the console version gives you no real indication of that unless you play through single player mode.

I run Saki and Konoha with Gier. =D

I like using that stone lady arcana. nothing better than stepping on your opponent like a roach. saki is cool konoha is used so much up here. I've seen people do crazy combos with her.

[Mechanica]

However, now I'm being set up for a blind date from a friend. I don't even have pics of the guy or a MySpace. Only thing I know is that he's 41. From what they tell me though he's real quiet like me. My friends are tired of me being single apparently. :confused:

So now I'm waiting word on when he's off. He gets word on his days off at the last minute. :|

Cute. :sweat: When's the date??

[BlodiaVulcan5]

do the beards come out of hiding this time of year or something? I've been noticing alot more scruff. Safe to say, i've been walking around with a chub* because of it.


*not really, it'd be too noticeable, but my mind does run wild.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Damn, I'm so over everything right now. Too much drama going round with family, boys, work and all that crap. I need a new job and scene.

[Mechanica]

do the beards come out of hiding this time of year or something?

Winter ftw. :woot: Fuck I love facial hair.

[iwst99]

You guys are the most Friendly And Gay Guys On The SRK.

Or FAGGOTS for short. :lovin:

[Æther]

My date is on monday. Had a little chat with him for the past two days. Who knows what will happen.
You guys are the most Friendly And Gay Guys On The SRK.

Or FAGGOTS for short. :lovin:

lol How long did it take to think that up?

[iwst99]

My date is on monday. Had a little chat with him for the past two days. Who knows what will happen.


lol How long did it take to think that up?

About 20 seconds in the shower this morning.

Good luck on your date...tell him to put out or get out.

[Azagtoth]

tell him to put out or get out.

Pics or it didn't happen. :party:

[BlodiaVulcan5]

okay folks, just thought i would pass this along since it's related, and would find it funny. I found it hilarious and cute. And yeah, it's about bears.

http://www.south20th.com/strips/2007-11-28.jpg

I read "Bear & Kitten" regularly, and their recent work is too good. I also like how lax they are with the commentary on the side panel.

11-28-07
Bear's brother is totally rad to write for. If I could I would change this comic to Bear's Brother and Kitten but it would end with a statutory rape charge and tears. Ah well.

lmfao. The one previous to that one is also awesome, give it a peep. http://www.south20th.com/

[Dreamkiller]

So im getting ready to go to NEC.
Looking forward to all the fun since its like the only positive thing to happen all week (minus tuesday....Tuesday was fun.)
Anywhos, be back sunday.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Today i got asked to stop participating in the interveiw process at my job. I don't belive in IQ tests as a barometer of someones capacity to handle working here. So .. this happened:

Me: ... that's all the questions I have. Really i like your experience level.
co worker: Ok so we're gonna give you this <hands interviewee short stack of paper with questions on it>
Me: An IQ test? Really?
Co worker: Yeah. VP thinks it's a good idea.

Interveiwee: <nervously> Sure, i'll take it. Is this timed? how much time do i have?
Co worker: 30 minutes

<pause>

Me: If you don't do well on this your going to have to beat my co-worker in Magic: the gathering.


interveiwee laughs

Co worker: Rob, can i talk to you out side?


I should practice shuttng the hell up sometime.

[The Green Trench Coat]

So im getting ready to go to NEC.
Looking forward to all the fun since its like the only positive thing to happen all week (minus tuesday....Tuesday was fun.)
Anywhos, be back sunday.

I was gonna go but i cancelled my hotel room and everything. I don't think i'm ready to compete. I havent picked up 3s in months now.. and my arcana hearts needs alot of work. ... dont even get me started on guilty gear.

[BeaTs*]

too bad i can't get to NEC to Win Soul Calibur...lol

I'm really rusty though...but got 5 perfects against this Mitsu player

[Azagtoth]

I was gonna go but i cancelled my hotel room and everything. I don't think i'm ready to compete. I havent picked up 3s in months now.. and my arcana hearts needs alot of work. ... dont even get me started on guilty gear.

You play GG too? I just picked it up a little while ago. I'm playing Testament and Ky.

We need to get some games next time, either before or after the inevitable partying.

If I wasn't broke and trying to save up to get presents for people, I'd definitely hit up NEC.

[DrumlinerJoe]

GG is cool, but it just seems so complicated. I saw AC for 20 bucks a few days ago, I'm tempted to get it.

[Azagtoth]

GG is cool, but it just seems so complicated. I saw AC for 20 bucks a few days ago, I'm tempted to get it.

You play Marvel. You'll be okay.

[DrumlinerJoe]

True enough, it took me a while to get comfortable with Marvel. I played Reload very little, kinda liked Chipp in that game. How does he stack up in AC?

[Mechanica]

Chipp is... okay, but really quite hard to use effeciently since he and Millia take damage like complete bitches. Honestly everyone in the game when used right is effective, but Chipp's not a good place to start (if you're playing human opponents/learning), really. He's cool, though. :razz:

I feel bad for people getting into GG now because AC makes it seem even harder/more ridiculously complicated. :lol:

[ViciousSLASH]

Dear gay pals, please explain power bottoms, bears, twinks, and any other terms about the gay lifestyle that I should know about incase it comes up in a conversation.

-VS

PS - Calm down girls, I'm not on the market as hot as I am, they said all of those terms on a funny episode of it's always sunny in philadelphia and I want to be informed. I'd look it up on Wikipedia, but I don't think that is the best place for this type of learning.

[Mechanica]

Dear gay pals, please explain power bottoms, bears, twinks, and any other terms about the gay lifestyle that I should know about incase it comes up in a conversation.

-VS

PS - Calm down girls, I'm not on the market as hot as I am, they said all of those terms on a funny episode of it's always sunny in philadelphia and I want to be informed. I'd look it up on Wikipedia, but I don't think that is the best place for this type of learning.

I need to see that episode! :lol:

Umm, a bottom is someone receiving anal sex, while a top is giving. Power would just I guess be a bottom that is dominant/takes control/isn't passive I guess. Twinks are sorta the stereotypical skinny, smooth/hairless, young gay guy, while bears are older, more masculine, hairier/bigger, etc... They're body types.

I have no idea on what to tell you as for other terms you 'should know about' because none of this shit comes up in conversation for me. :rofl: Anything else I can think of are terms I'm sure you'd be better off not knowing.

[ViciousSLASH]

I need to see that episode! :lol:

Umm, a bottom is someone receiving anal sex, while a top is giving. Power would just I guess be a bottom that is dominant/takes control/isn't passive I guess. Twinks are sorta the stereotypical skinny, smooth/hairless, young gay guy, while bears are older, more masculine, hairier/bigger, etc... They're body types.

I have no idea on what to tell you as for other terms you 'should know about' because none of this shit comes up in conversation for me. :rofl: Anything else I can think of are terms I'm sure you'd be better off not knowing.

Dammit I should just rewatch the episode.

Oh well you tried.

I have nothing else to add to this thread, so unsubscribe I DO!

AWAY!

[F.A.C.E.]

you can google all of that, its very self explanitory. But for the sake of not being a COMPLETE bitch:

power bottom - aggressive bottom. knows how to take a deadly dick.

bear - big hairy gay man

twink - small skinny shaven/not very hairy gay man



But those arent terms I use in my circle. I have too many words and terms that the black/latino gay ballroom culture uses. But a few out of boredom:


pull a stunt - to steal. usually with a stolen credit card or identification number.

bump - to snort a line of coke

sickening - equivalent to saying "that hot", "thats amazing", "thats cool"

read - a nasty insult, thats pinpoints a flaw. the bitter truth.

shade - subtle animosity

trade - masculine appearing bisexual/gay/bisucious man

femqueen - transsexual

mones - hormones

sil - silicone. the shit trannies get pumped into their chest, ass and face

to pump/to dash/to hit it/to tip - to leave with great haste

pill - ecstasy

girl/bitch - term of endearment

turn it - to give it your best

bangy - urban, ghetto

drags/dragon - a male in womens clothing

paint - 1 to wear makeup or 2 to shit on someone during anal sex

queen - feminine gay male


too many to type maybe more if im bored

*goes to the club*

[The Green Trench Coat]

But those arent terms I use in my circle. I have too many words and terms that the black/latino gay ballroom culture uses. But a few out of boredom:


I'm calling the cops.


:confused::wonder:

[Mechanica]

I'm calling the cops.


:confused::wonder:

*pulls a stunt on your cell phone*

[The Green Trench Coat]

*pulls a stunt on your cell phone*

you always get my "mones" goin.

[Dreamkiller]

lol.
U said "mones"

[Azagtoth]

you always get my "mones" goin.

Turn it, girl!

HAY

True enough, it took me a while to get comfortable with Marvel. I played Reload very little, kinda liked Chipp in that game. How does he stack up in AC?

Think 3S Akuma. Rushes like a beast, can't take a hit.

[BeaTs*]

lol just cause you play marvel doesn't mean you'll like/do well in GUILTY GEAR

power bottoms don't need a rest/to take breaks either. loooong fuck-sessions. not that I would know!

EDIT: lol I mean Guilty!

[Azagtoth]

not that I would know!

Nope. Not at all.

Power bottoms are the shit.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Ugh, I need to get laid. I was having sex dreams all night. Good ones though.

[F.A.C.E.]

you always get my "mones" goin.

no no. .

its like

"bitch i need some more mones hair is starting to grow on my face"

Usually transexuals take hormones to become women, it makes them go through the physical female stages of puberty. And fem gay boy take them to soften their features. . make hair stop growing on their face. . etc


and turn it is like. .

"i just crafted a bunch of free shit from macy's"
"bitch you turned it for stuffing them jeans in that bookbag and then pumping out the store before the girls seen you"

:lol:


in other news.. last night I was in a room with so.many.faggots.snorting.coke.it.was.ridiculous. I know to never hang out with my friends FRIENDS anymore.

They were like "you bump?" and i was like "hell no"


WELL I'm off for now. I got a cute piece of trade that im trying to work right now and time is pearls!!!

[DrumlinerJoe]

"Time is pearls"? If that doesn't say bottom I don't know what does.

[F.A.C.E.]

What difference does it make? I dont want you fucking me queen! I'm a versitile top, so when i decide to bottom he's gonna be something special not just any ol regular faggot.


Somebody repped me asking me to post pictures of my "ballroom types" . .im not sure what that means but if you were asking for pictures of ballroom figures that i find attractive::

Drew Balenciaga
http://a391.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/96/l_c06ac4737482b502409dd699dea1bfae.jpg
http://b7.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01401/70/54/1401714507_l.jpg

Rico Allure
http://b2.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/01363/29/52/1363472592_l.jpg


My type is tan, short hair, semi-masculine, athletic or muscular build and funny! Regular shit.

[Dreamkiller]

lol.
"He's gonna be something special."
Thats cute.

[The Green Trench Coat]

lol.
"He's gonna be something special."
Thats cute.

how was NEC?

[Dreamkiller]

Eh, i left NEC with alot less than i went there with. But it was a pretty cool weekend, placed, got to see old friends, and meet some new ones.
lol. My goal for next year is to manage money.

[LightningStorm]

pull a stunt - to steal. usually with a stolen credit card or identification number.

bump - to snort a line of coke

sickening - equivalent to saying "that hot", "thats amazing", "thats cool"

read - a nasty insult, thats pinpoints a flaw. the bitter truth.

shade - subtle animosity

sil - silicone.

to pump/to dash/to hit it/to tip - to leave with great haste

pill - ecstasy

turn it - to give it your best

bangy - urban, ghetto



These have nothing to do with being gay and are more urban culture than gay urban culture.

[Son Them All]

I have a question that I need some light shed on. Gay males...what the HELL is with the lisp. It just occured to me that the gay man lisp is such an inconsistant anomoly and I have no idea why some have it and some don't. I realized it when I was watching top model one night and noticed that....even tho he's just as fabulous and queeny as he wants to be Ms. Jade has NO lisp whatsoever. He talks, lispless at all times. However one of my co workers Dwayne is certainly more laid back and subtle than Ms. Jade, and yet he DOES lisp to make him more noticably gay. So what's the deal? Is it learned, environmental or what?

[iwst99]

I have a question that I need some light shed on. Gay males...what the HELL is with the lisp. It just occured to me that the gay man lisp is such an inconsistant anomoly and I have no idea why some have it and some don't. I realized it when I was watching top model one night and noticed that....even tho he's just as fabulous and queeny as he wants to be Ms. Jade has NO lisp whatsoever. He talks, lispless at all times. However one of my co workers Dwayne is certainly more laid back and subtle than Ms. Jade, and yet he DOES lisp to make him more noticably gay. So what's the deal? Is it learned, environmental or what?

I really don't know. I don't have a lisp and none of my gay friends have a lisp either. I think some it might be natural and others might put it on on purpose. I really don't know.

[Mechanica]

Lisps are just as elusive to me as to a straight guy... like jaime said, I think it's a mix of people doing it on purpose and people who just kinda have the speech impediment. I think some people just want the world to know without having to bother coming out left & right, and for that I can't blame them.

[Azagtoth]

Not sure what's up with the lisp either. A friend of mine sounds almost indistinguishable from a Long Island chick (and goes by the name "Miss Infnity"), but it's not something I've found to be terribly common either.

Regardless, as much as it sometimes makes me cringe to hear, I can't really hate, as it does lend itself to some pretty entertaining situations.

"Snap snap."

[iwst99]

Snap snap indeed.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=BC-lXjdn64g

[The Green Trench Coat]

Guys I just sent everything out to all who responded to my request for your addresses. Expect a package from me in 2-3 days.

[F.A.C.E.]

These have nothing to do with being gay and are more urban culture than gay urban culture.

You are quite mistaken sir.


Straight people dont "READ". Straight people dont talk about "crafting" or taking mones and pumping to the club.


They might take pills, and often they arent even talking about XTC, But they dont use any of that lingo. Given much of the language is a product of an urban environment, lingo didnt create the urban enrivonment I assure you. I know my ballroom history.


I suggest you check out a documantary from the late 80s about the Black and Latino ballroom scene called "Paris is Burning". Its classic.
http://www.amazon.com/Paris-Burning-Carmen-Brooke/dp/B0009UZGM8

Many of the 1st and 2nd generation figures of the ballroom community are dead of AIDS, hate crimes and drug overdose but there are a few still alive. I met one of the original voguers that was on Madonna's Blonde Ambition tour in the early 90s from the house of Xtravaganza.

[Æther]

Sorry about not updating about yesterday. My internets was on the fritz.

So yesterday's date was swell. We went to the mall, ate some food, went to watch a movie (This Chirstmas) and skipped as we window shopped. I didn't say much but we still had a great time.

So far no pics though. I was going to take one but felt it was impersonnal. Perhaps next week on tuesday.

As for details, we'll he's hefty. And I mean REALLY hefty. More than Azag would probably want. And he's all mine. Hands off. :P

[iwst99]

Sorry about not updating about yesterday. My internets was on the fritz.

So yesterday's date was swell. We went to the mall, ate some food, went to watch a movie (This Chirstmas) and skipped as we window shopped. I didn't say much but we still had a great time.

So far no pics though. I was going to take one but felt it was impersonnal. Perhaps next week on tuesday.

As for details, we'll he's hefty. And I mean REALLY hefty. More than Azag would probably want. And he's all mine. Hands off. :P

What happened to my advice of put out or get out? :((

Picz plz.z.z.z.z.z..z :(

I got my new phone today: http://reviews.cnet.com/cell-phones/lg-voyager-vx10000-verizon/4505-6454_7-32640927.html?tag=prod.txt.2

:D

[BlodiaVulcan5]

...and skipped as we window shopped.

i gotta get into some of that action.

[Azagtoth]

As for details, we'll he's hefty. And I mean REALLY hefty. More than Azag would probably want. And he's all mine. Hands off. :P

What? I dig superchubs too, man. My upper limit is pretty high. =D

In this case, I DEMAND pics, but regardless, good shit. I hope it continues to go well.

I got a new phone too. My friend gave me his old Razr. Now I can score pics of hotties on the fly. I just have to learn to be slick about it. :(

[iwst99]

What's the biggest guys y'all have been with?

[Æther]

What happened to my advice of put out or get out? :((

Picz plz.z.z.z.z.z..z :(

I got my new phone today: http://reviews.cnet.com/cell-phones/lg-voyager-vx10000-verizon/4505-6454_7-32640927.html?tag=prod.txt.2

:D
Well we couldn't do it at the mall right then and there...

There wasn't enough room for both of us to fit in the kiddie train ride.

Is that the "iPhone Killer" everyone is going nuts for? Shit looks hot. Too bad I can't afford a good plan though. Virgin Mobile FTL. :(

i gotta get into some of that action.
Oh yeah, totally hot. ;)
What? I dig superchubs too, man. My upper limit is pretty high. =D

In this case, I DEMAND pics, but regardless, good shit. I hope it continues to go well.
I think he mentioned a biggercity account but never mentioned the SN.

Edit: Oh wait! It's a TARP! >_<

What's the biggest guys y'all have been with?
The guy I'm dating now. :sweat:

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Guys I just sent everything out to all who responded to my request for your addresses. Expect a package from me in 2-3 days.

I know what what you sent out... !!!

[DrumlinerJoe]

It's amazing how small the world is. This drag queen at my bar who I hate, well turns out she used to do drumline too. Turns out one of her instructors was my instructor too in college. We know a lot of the same people. Crazy.

[iwst99]

It's amazing how small the world is. This drag queen at my bar who I hate, well turns out she used to do drumline too. Turns out one of her instructors was my instructor too in college. We know a lot of the same people. Crazy.

♪ It's a small world after all ♫

About the guys, I meant actual lbs. size...I think I might have you all beat lol... :sweat:

And yeah, that's the supposed "iPhone Killer" Although they both have their pros and cons...I just love the sweet QWERTY...mmmm and dual screen.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Yeah well, I still don't care for the queen as it stands.

[Æther]

lol He's your Bizzaro.

As for lbs. I think he said he was 350. He was waaaay bigger next me, and I weigh 50 less than him. Guess it's water weight or something.

[The Green Trench Coat]

You are quite mistaken sir.


Straight people dont "READ". Straight people dont talk about "crafting" or taking mones and pumping to the club.


They might take pills, and often they arent even talking about XTC, But they dont use any of that lingo. Given much of the language is a product of an urban environment, lingo didnt create the urban enrivonment I assure you. I know my ballroom history..


Honestly sometimes i read your posts and i start to smell smoke.
.. and I think it's comming from my brain.

...you may be shorting out my brain somehow.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I know what what you sent out... !!!

I swear blodia you better shut yer yap.

Hey Face hit me with some ballroom slang for "keep your mouth shut"
then tell it to blodia.


I think i found a work around for my dillema regarding including you in the festivities Young B. PM me when you get a chance.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I need new trance/house. I've hit a dry spell. Tell me some good shit ya'll.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

you sound pretty down all around, joe.

i don't think you'll be able to find this anywhere, so i'll upload it for you.
click: [Xploding Plastix - Sunset Spirals (feat. Sarah Cracknell)] (http://rapidshare.com/files/74339060/Xploding_Plastix_-_Sunset_Spirals_feat_Sarah_Cracknell.mp3.html)

The artist isn't trance or house, but this version of the song happens to be.

[Dreamkiller]

I like em big.
But unless ur super hot/cute. Theres a limit to how big u can be.
The biggest i'd say is 250/60. He didnt really look it though....But he was. lol.

[iwst99]

410 motha fuckas.

I was like 17 back then too.



:sweat::looney:

[F.A.C.E.]

Honestly sometimes i read your posts and i start to smell smoke.
.. and I think it's comming from my brain.

...you may be shorting out my brain somehow.

Hmmm. Sorry.



and 410? ARE YOU SHITTING ME?

The heavest guy I've talked to was 180. And I'm 150.

[Azagtoth]

Are you really that surprised? When we say we got love for fatties, we mean it. <3

I think he mentioned a biggercity account but never mentioned the SN.

Edit: Oh wait! It's a TARP! >_<

I'll be good, I swear. :lovin:

What's the biggest guys y'all have been with?

My bf used to be a little over 310 or so, now he hovers around the upper 200's. One of my ex gfs was a fair deal bigger than him, though, but not sure about a weight.

410 motha fuckas.

I was like 17 back then too.

Nice.

I like em big.

That's whats up.

God I love this thread.

[The Green Trench Coat]

i have you all beat. wait.. do you mean had sex with? or was bf with? or dated?


*prepare to be grossed out. Even the big boy lovers*
So one of my first online dating experiences was with this guy who is totally hot.. in the face. we did the online dating thing for a while but he didn't want to meet and when we'd make plans to meet something would always come up.

One day he told me he was going to be working in the city on 47th st and 8th but he didn't suspect that he'd get out till after 6pm. So me being the Man-imal that i was at 18 i got to the block and just waited.

He was easily over 450.. ithink he told me he was 475 or something like that. So when he saw me he hopped in his car and left .. and lemme tell you..

... that poor car. If those tires could Frown...


anyways i figured that i'd call him and tell him it didn't matter to me that he was.. well a stunt double for jabba. And i was trying to prove to myself that i wasn't a superficial Asshole after all Big boys need love too right?

We finally went on a date and he drove. i was in the car with him he was just as sweet as he was online. and a genuinely nice guy. We went to this cruisy parking lot (I know) and he did all these card tricks which i thought was corney.. but still very adorable. so he says "If i guess your card I get a kiss." I said ok. he guessed the card.

Here's the thing .. there was A LOT!! of belly and i mean alot so you bear lovers know you how nice it is to feel a bear gut.. but this was.. so... I'm sorry to say.. gross
I leaned in to kiss him and i only was able to get to his nipple.. I had to unbuckle my seat belt and virtually climb on his belly to make out with him and I wish I WISH i was exaggerating. the last straw was when he drove me back to my place and he couldn't fit through my doorway *I lived in the basement of this apartment in park slope*

I gave him the old.. I'd invite you in but.. i have work early tommorrow morning and he left. I still find chubbies and big bears adorable .. this you all know.. but that was a bit to much for me. Also He kinda Waddled when he walked. I feel like an asshole for not being able to get past that physique but .. i mean i can have a standard right?



Sometimes when i tell these stories to you guys i feel all like "mother has lived".

[BeaTs*]

the biggest I was with (and the only bear/chub) was around 275.

everyone else was much less. One guy was around 130.

I'm about 240...though I gained about 50 of those pounds in the past year. I want to at least get back to my 190 days. but less fat/ more muscle.

[Azagtoth]

*prepare to be grossed out. Even the big boy lovers*

I think I remember you telling me this. Did he at least have a cute face?

It's not like there's any shortage of chasers who would totally go for a guy that big anyway, so yeah.

For me it really depends. I've found quite a few guys in the 400 range to be pretty hot, but most of them carried it pretty well.

Also, these two friends of mine both have really, really hot santa-bears for dads. My friend Kat actually told her dad I thought he was amazingly cute (and basically tells him like everything I say about him, no matter how dirty because she's funny like that).

[Æther]

GTC, dude, if you sent me Kevin Smith in a crate I will be eternally grateful. I will, in return, raise you Nick Frost (clothing optional). :D

As for that superchub story... That's just insane. I'm a softy so I would have snuggled him. Did you hear from him again?

[iwst99]

Haha, I liked your story GTC, glad you were nice to him....I actually meant had sex with though. So just hugging and stuff not sure counts.

I kind of feel you on the Mother has lived thing...even though I'm only 21 I started early (14) and have tried and done almost everything, atleast to say I lived a little. Most of the friends I know around my age have not slept with even a 10th of the guys I have been with....geez I should stop talking.

/slut talk.

[LightningStorm]

You are quite mistaken sir.


Straight people dont "READ". Straight people dont talk about "crafting" or taking mones and pumping to the club.


And that's where you're wrong.

But first we need to go back check exactly what I quoted. I didn't quote all of them because some of them are fairly gay specific. "mones" for example.

As for "Reading" someone, straight MEN might not use this terminology, but the women surely do. And straight urban men are well aware of its meaning as their women have likely had to "read" them on occasion.

I hate to break it to you but you and the flaming uber-queen patrol don't have a monopoly on urban slang. Contrary to what ever it is you may believe.

[F.A.C.E.]

Women got READING from GAY MEN. And half the girls that think they read give themselves too much credit. A read is an "unbothered" witty, verbal, tongue lashing. The only women that talk about reading hang around a bunch of gay men, and *** hags dont count.

You can even google the nearest "gay slang dictionary" to further my proof.

EDIT: I did all the work for you

1 - http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=read
Read


To tell someone about them self, mostly used by gay black men.

"That was a read honey!"
"Don't do it honey, I will read your ass"

2- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jW1eXirdF1o&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jW1eXirdF1o&feature=related

^^^^^^
The late Dorian Corey (legendary drag queen) & Venus Xtravaganza breaking down the origin and the definition of "READING" and "SHADE" from the 1990 documentary "paris is buring" about the ballroom scene of the late 1980s in the middle of urban New York

[LightningStorm]

I going to pretend like you didn't just quote Urban Dictionary and YouTube, like they are some kind of authority on something. :confused:

The fact of the matter is that gay people don't have any kind of sole claim to said phrases (not just the one "Read") and I have heard heterosexual people use many of them. And yes even heterosexual men with regard specifically to the following:

"pull a stunt"
"sickening"
"to dash" < This isn't even slang!
"to hit it" (regarding leaving quickly) < This is painfully old, I've only ever heard it from OLD people
"pill" < one would have to be a moron to think this was gay only somehow.

[F.A.C.E.]

Why are you giving me such a hard time? Not once did I say gay people created the words sir, I was saying that in the context of how the gay community uses them YES. Gays created that, and theres no arguing that point. This is just silly.

"Girl lets dash"
"that bitch gave me a pill and I was rolling all night"
"That jacket you have on is sickening for the gods"
"I seen the trade so I hit it down the block"

Straight men dont talk like that. And Im beginning to sound like a broken record. That is the language of a black GAY QUEEN. Im around them almost every damn day. I know how they talk. If a fiery debate is what you want you're not about to get it. its like you are trying to tell me about the life I live. I'm not even convinced that you even know any post-op transexuals living their lives as women. You sitting here trying to argue me DOWN and I dont get it.


I went out my way to find the documentary online and you refuse to be force fed.


As a matter of fact i found the entire movie online, on youtube. But apparently it isnt credible for some reason in your eyes.

http://www.youtube.com/user/pleasurehound

There you go. The "Paris Is Burning" documentary all 11 parts.

[Azagtoth]

Mech: I finally found a decent pic of Bob. Think you can work some hot av magic with this?

http://www.watch.impress.co.jp/game/docs/20070913/nam10.jpg

[F.A.C.E.]

Is it safe to say this intriguing attraction to ghastly overweight men is a fetish to some of you?

450 pounds?

<<< stilling gagging

[Æther]

Is it safe to say this intriguing attraction to ghastly overweight men is a fetish to some of you?

450 pounds?

<<< stilling gagging

Normally I'm not into someone that big. 300? Yes. 350? Okay, cool. But once it creeps up further and I notice the guy isn't making an effort to take care of himself then that's my line. Besides that I'm an Equal Opportunity Boner. Just anyone who looks like Kevin Smith gets the Bone HORD. :lovin:

[Azagtoth]

Is it safe to say this intriguing attraction to ghastly overweight men is a fetish to some of you?

It's no more a fetish to me than 150 pound black/hispanic athletic/muscular types are to you.

The fetishists are the kind who get with a guy just to worship his belly. I just prefer my guys with some padding (I don't really dig guys who aren't at least husky).

[Mechanica]

Is it safe to say this intriguing attraction to ghastly overweight men is a fetish to some of you?

450 pounds?

<<< stilling gagging
I'm not even into chubbies (at all) but even I find these posts annoying. Can you just keep your opinion to yourself? We all know that the average person is more than likely not going to be attracted to that but as you are already WELL aware, many people here are into big guys. Big guys. You're acting like this is anything new, on top of "gagging." I think the guys you find hot are ridiculously fucking unattractive but I don't post about how it's some weird fetish, or gag or anything. No one wants to hear that shit. Keep it to yourself if it's negative or annoying like that.

Hell, the question arised was hugest guy you've been with, it's not like they're like "I ONLY DAET U IF U 400+ BBW I MEAN MEN FTW"

I mean come on, you said the heaviest guy you've talked to was 180, no one wants to hear your shallow ass opinion on fat guys.

On the topic of you being the messiah of what is gay slang and what is not, I've heard straight guys say things just as gay as everything you've listed and then some. You act like just because you and your crew says it that it's GAY-ONLY; HETERO RESTRICTED slang words or some shit when that's really far from the truth. The "pill" thing is the most ridiculous, fucking EVERYONE calls ecstasy pills, bombs, rolls, or thizzles. Gay or not, it's always some weird ass slang. Beans, too. Never heard the 'sickening' thing but that's okay you can keep that, that's some lame ass adjective wannabe shit right there. :lol:

[F.A.C.E.]

Well i dont know what you tell you. If I find it odd I find it odd, it wasnt that serious to get so bothered by in the first place. As for it being just as normal as me being attracted to people in their HEALTHY weight range for their height. . I beg to differ.


I never said I was the messiah of anything. Thats real audacious of you to make a play on my words. For the third time I didnt say straight people didnt use the words, but not in that context. I'll give you pills. . but thats as far as it goes. It wasnt about if they ever uttered the words, I said lingo . .as in you use the words as part of your vocabulary, they mean something different to the sub culture other than whats in the traditional dictionary.

You're making it seem as if straight people use gay lingo being as they "beat your mug" and as far as GAY lingo it means something completely different (to put makeup on your face.)

JEEZ.

[Azagtoth]

As for it being just as normal as...

Stop right there.

Fetish is not a term reserved for whatever you deem abnormal. Fetish is a fixation on an object of desire, not a preference for a particular body type. Thus was my point: what I like (a particular shape/body type) is no more a fetish than what you like (a particular shape/body type). You like what you like, and I'll like what I like. Let's just leave it at that before you go offending anyone any further.

[F.A.C.E.]

Therein lies a paradox. If its "normal" it cant be a "fetish" unless you deem a fixation on the given object or desire characteristic for everyone. Hence NORMAL. It isnt NORMAL to have a fetish for 400 pound men. Now I dont knock you if that rocks your boat.


If it were so typical to be attracted to morbidly obese men it wouldnt be such a foreign concept. So damnit if Im offending someone with the truth.


So sensitive. Lifes too short.

[Mechanica]

Therein lies a paradox. If its "normal" it cant be a "fetish"

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A fetish is a sexual infatuation or obsession (strong words though), or a fixation. It could be something normal - you could have a breast fetish as a straight male, and while it's normal to like boobs one might take it to another level of attraction, thus being considered a fetish.

I'm not twisting your words and saying YOU were saying you're the messiah, I'm using my own words to describe the feeling I get from your post. I am labeling you, not twisting your words. :razz: You didn't say that straight people don't use the words, but I'm not saying you said that, either. What you are seeming to say, though, is that it's only commonly used/included in one's vocab if they're gay. And what we're trying to say is that's wrong. It may be primarily gay/introduced by the scene or whatever, but just because only gay guys in your area say it, doesn't mean it's the be all, end all truth. Open your mind a little, man. I get this aura of "if you're not into what I'm into, you can suck my fucking dick oh and I'm not wrong, you are." from pretty much all of your posts. I'm not trying to attack you, take it as you will. I didn't even mean for this to turn into any kind of argument though, so I'm done...

You're not offending anyone, and none of us are being sensitive - you're just talking like you're the authority on everything and so this is the tone I take in return. I'm not offended, I was just telling you that posts ragging on people's tastes are well... tasteless.

Of FUCKING course you think it's weird - you and the rest of the world. I'm sure the last thing these motherfuckers need is yet another person ragging on/questioning their tastes. Especially a fellow gay dude! :razz: Not trying to stir up conflict but I'm just looking out - I like older guys and I get enough for that, I can't imagine being into huge dudes how much flak I'd get. Fuck. Again, I reiterate, it's cool if you think it's gross but no one else wants to hear what you think about it if it's negative. I am also attracted to people in a healthy weight range because I find a blatant disrespect for one's body to be unattractive, but what does it have to do with anything?

[Azagtoth]

It isnt NORMAL to have a fetish for 400 pound men.

Wow, guy.

I'm not arguing that it's normal. I got shit as a kid for it, and I still get shit for it today, so OBVIOUSLY it's not normal, mam.

What I'm arguing is that you can't really specify a preference for bodytype as a fetish because it's not really a fixation. If that were the case, preferring a swimmers build over others could be considered a fetish.

However, "fetish" has nothing to do with "normal." The two are not mutually exclusive: fetishes are generally considered abnormal, yes, but something that is abnormal is not necessarily a fetish. There needs to be a fixation (hence, fetishist = belly worship, having to be crushed under the weight of a really big guy in order to get off, etc.) for something to fall under the definition of a fetish.

[F.A.C.E.]

Hmm. You have a point I see what youre saying completely.

At the same time now. . you're saying you cant really classify a "fetish" or "fixation" for say .. .a twink? . .or someone with a fat ass or tall stature. . those are body types.

[iwst99]

Therein lies a paradox. If its "normal" it cant be a "fetish" unless you deem a fixation on the given object or desire characteristic for everyone. Hence NORMAL. It isnt NORMAL to have a fetish for 400 pound men. Now I dont knock you if that rocks your boat.


If it were so typical to be attracted to morbidly obese men it wouldnt be such a foreign concept. So damnit if Im offending someone with the truth.


So sensitive. Lifes too short.

Ok, how about this.

You're in a thread where about 75% of the people that post in it are into chubs/cubs/husky bears.

If you go in said thread and start talking shit about it, and "gagging", it's probably not going to go over well. Besides, I never said that I was ONLY into 400 lbs guy, that's just one of the guys I have been with at one point or another, for whatever reason.

If it makes you not gag, my BF is 153 lbs.

[Mechanica]

I don't see how liking chubs is any less 'normal' than liking today's boney ass models. It's just the other side of the spectrum.

[Azagtoth]

Hmm. You have a point I see what youre saying completely.

At the same time now. . you're saying you cant really classify a "fetish" or "fixation" for say .. .a twink? . .or someone with a fat ass or tall stature. . those are body types.

Basically, yeah.

[Mechanica]

On that note - WHO'S GOT FETISHES?? :devil:

I like dominance. :sweat:

[F.A.C.E.]

Ok, how about this.

You're in a thread where about 75% of the people that post in it are into chubs/cubs/husky bears.

If you go in said thread and start talking shit about it, and "gagging", it's probably not going to go over well. Besides, I never said that I was ONLY into 400 lbs guy, that's just one of the guys I have been with at one point or another, for whatever reason.

If it makes you not gag, my BF is 153 lbs.

Ha.

The true gag is that I forgot what forum I was on for a moment and started using more gay lingo.

gagging - to be suprised


It wasnt a literal "OMG THIS MAKES ME WANNA THROW UPPPPPPPP" type deal.


EDIT: cub - short bear?

[Azagtoth]

EDIT: cub - short bear?

Younger, I believe. I'm still new to this shit too. =P

[Mechanica]

See okay that makes a bit more sense. Does my "Dude, shut up" kind of post make more sense now that you realize it seemed like you were like OMG THAT'S GROSS

Cubs are like either bear-chasers or someone who ideally wouldn't mind a bear physique but is you know, smaller/smoother/etc. but not to the extent where one would consider them of a twink body type.

And yeah, generally younger, height I don't think has anything to do with it.

EDIT: Cute... my nephew knows I'm gay now and he feels bad for being so homophobic and saying shit like "this is GAY!" or "what a ***!" all the time. :lol:

[Azagtoth]

Cubs are like either bear-chasers or someone who ideally wouldn't mind a bear physique but is you know, smaller/smoother/etc. but not to the extent where one would consider them of a twink body type.

Oh, good to know. I've always wondered where I fell in the bear spectrum and people previously referred to me as a cub, but I wasn't sure why.

...So about the av... =P

[The Damned]

It seems like most of the "drama" in this thread comes from one person.

How boring.

Anyway, since it seems that we are on the subject of gagging (without reflexes being in question for once), I believe that I never answered Mechanica's question about why I balk--"balk" was misused by me, I should have merely said "disgusted"--at sex's physicality.

There are several simple reasons that I will enumerate for you before I go to bed (or at least lay down, I'm so far behind on schoolwork due to the stupid hours I've been putting at my "part-time"--more like "fulltime" now--job it's ridiculous).


One of the bigger key factors is bodily fluids. Ugh. The solid human body is so disgusting already, why would I want to deal with the liquid. Ugh. I shiver just thinking even about someone else's sweat, much less their saliva or, ugh, genitals' fluids. I can only bear sweat because I already have the misfortunate of sweating like a pig since I have no sense of temperature and cool down fairly rapidly. Even with my sense of touch, I seriously have a difficult time understanding why people want to kiss others, much less French-kiss them. Yuck. Swapping saliva. Ergh. And that's like the cleanest form of intimate liquid exchange there is. So why would I want to swap (or even be near) other people's fluids? (And that's not even getting to the really raunchy stuff.)
There's the issue of performance, especially when I'm relatively lazy as it is. Why should I put such effort in for something so momentary and short-lived when I could spend my time far more productively doing something else? I believe I alluded to this reason the most earlier.
Finding a partner is also a waste of time, especially when we're not meant to be monogamous and yet I can't trust any damned person to not infect me with some disease even after "knowing" them for a period of time. The amount of deception in the world is fucking ridiculous, especially considering how everyone just casually goes along with it. And that's even taking into account that someone might not know they are infected with something, like, say, Herpes. I'm supposed to a chance on a word when I can catch something even with "protection" involved? ...How does society function like this?
Post-coital guilt would also be a big one for me. I seem to be alone in that shame then, unless this is a whole 'nother societal facade thing. However, I've had one friend--like, the only person I would actually consider a friend--tell me that he somewhat feels the same way after he does his girlfriend. But he's actually somewhat religious, so that could be part of it. I just have a pseudo-Catholic guilt about everything, so this is nothing new.
This is somewhat on topic too: I don't want to have to deal with being the object of fetish (beyond my gender as a "fetish" of sorts, unless I was dating a bisexual). Being black, the whole "wow, you must be hung!" thing has always been one of the most annoying stereotypes to me, especially since like with all other stereotypes, the (porn in this case) media just reinforces it. Hell, fucking Oprah enforced if I remember the last show that I saw my mother watching last year. (God, I hate you Oprah.) I was reading a book on it called Hung before I got distracted by the other 40 books I've simultaneously reading and school, but it seemed rather interesting... But, yeah, I'm remember you being fairly Caucasian, so other than being may an Irishman with a "fire-crotch", I don't think you have to deal with (egregious) fetish; obviously there are people that would want to date you just because you're white, but, hey, this is America and you (Caucasians) are the (current) majority.
I'm sure there's more, but once again, the overemphasis on sex as part of life (for humanity) greatly annoys me. Not as much as relationships, but only slightly less so.



Of course, said overemphasis contributes to the above being (slightly) lengthier than I had intended.

Sigh.


(P.S. I don't feel like spelling checking right now, since I just came from work yet again..)

[F.A.C.E.]

That was the lamest shit ive ready all day!

[¤Scrimples¤]

Delightful Hymn



Out of sheer curiosity, have you managed quell all sexual urges through this reasoning so that not even an artistic infatuation with 'pleasures of the flesh' seem the least bit captivating?

If this is the case, and your power is transferable, I think some bloodletting is in order.

[iwst99]

It seems like most of the "drama" in this thread comes from one person.

How boring.

Anyway, since it seems that we are on the subject of gagging (without reflexes being in question for once), I believe that I never answered Mechanica's question about why I balk--"balk" was misused by me, I should have merely said "disgusted"--at sex's physicality.

There are several simple reasons that I will enumerate for you before I go to bed (or at least lay down, I'm so far behind on schoolwork due to the stupid hours I've been putting at my "part-time"--more like "fulltime" now--job it's ridiculous).


One of the bigger key factors is bodily fluids. Ugh. The solid human body is so disgusting already, why would I want to deal with the liquid. Ugh. I shiver just thinking even about someone else's sweat, much less their saliva or, ugh, genitals' fluids. I can only bear sweat because I already have the misfortunate of sweating like a pig since I have no sense of temperature and cool down fairly rapidly. Even with my sense of touch, I seriously have a difficult time understanding why people want to kiss others, much less French-kiss them. Yuck. Swapping saliva. Ergh. And that's like the cleanest form of intimate liquid exchange there is. So why would I want to swap (or even be near) other people's fluids? (And that's not even getting to the really raunchy stuff.)
There's the issue of performance, especially when I'm relatively lazy as it is. Why should I put such effort in for something so momentary and short-lived when I could spend my time far more productively doing something else? I believe I alluded to this reason the most earlier.
Finding a partner is also a waste of time, especially when we're not meant to be monogamous and yet I can't trust any damned person to not infect me with some disease even after "knowing" them for a period of time. The amount of deception in the world is fucking ridiculous, especially considering how everyone just casually goes along with it. And that's even taking into account that someone might not know they are infected with something, like, say, Herpes. I'm supposed to a chance on a word when I can catch something even with "protection" involved? ...How does society function like this?
Post-coital guilt would also be a big one for me. I seem to be alone in that shame then, unless this is a whole 'nother societal facade thing. However, I've had one friend--like, the only person I would actually consider a friend--tell me that he somewhat feels the same way after he does his girlfriend. But he's actually somewhat religious, so that could be part of it. I just have a pseudo-Catholic guilt about everything, so this is nothing new.
This is somewhat on topic too: I don't want to have to deal with being the object of fetish (beyond my gender as a "fetish" of sorts, unless I was dating a bisexual). Being black, the whole "wow, you must be hung!" thing has always been one of the most annoying stereotypes to me, especially since like with all other stereotypes, the (porn in this case) media just reinforces it. Hell, fucking Oprah enforced if I remember the last show that I saw my mother watching last year. (God, I hate you Oprah.) I was reading a book on it called Hung before I got distracted by the other 40 books I've simultaneously reading and school, but it seemed rather interesting... But, yeah, I'm remember you being fairly Caucasian, so other than being may an Irishman with a "fire-crotch", I don't think you have to deal with (egregious) fetish; obviously there are people that would want to date you just because you're white, but, hey, this is America and you (Caucasians) are the (current) majority.
I'm sure there's more, but once again, the overemphasis on sex as part of life (for humanity) greatly annoys me. Not as much as relationships, but only slightly less so.



Of course, said overemphasis contributes to the above being (slightly) lengthier than I had intended.

Sigh.


(P.S. I don't feel like spelling checking right now, since I just came from work yet again..)


My best friend has the same reasoning that you explain when it comes to sex and finding a partner. We are polar opposites when it comes to sex, but I understand his side of things and his reasoning. Even if I didn't, it's not for me to decide what is right or wrong in anybody else's life.




I <3 you ¤Scrimples¤ :lovin:

[Dreamkiller]

LMAO!
Scrimples av thingy is too funny.

[Mechanica]

There's the issue of performance, especially when I'm relatively lazy as it is. Why should I put such effort in for something so momentary and short-lived when I could spend my time far more productively doing something else? I believe I alluded to this reason the most earlier.

You're a virgin, right? (Correct me if I'm wrong.) It's a lot easier to be productive after being sexually satisfied. In fact, it's so therapeutic that it in and of itself is productive, if you ask me. Even if you don't think you get anything done. You put in the effort for immense pleasure. Then again, this, to me, is passionate sex with someone you love. Not just... getting off. Two different worlds.

Really though, when I was a virgin, I figured you know, sometimes you get some nice orgasms by yourself so I could imagine (or so I thought) how nice sex would be, and it sounded overrated. I had the same attitudes. I had a few random experiences where I hooked up with random people - it didn't change my mind. Naturally. Then I stumbled upon someone whom I now love, and the sex is leaps and bounds above anything my imagination could have conjured.


Finding a partner is also a waste of time,
Quite ironic for someone perusing a video game based forum.

especially when we're not meant to be monogamous
Uh... I don't think we're meant to be polygamous either. We are however, made to have sex. :razz:


and yet I can't trust any damned person to not infect me with some disease even after "knowing" them for a period of time. The amount of deception in the world etc. etc.
Get tested with your partner. But... you won't find one because it's a waste of time. So nevermind. :P

Post-coital guilt would also be a big one for me. I seem to be alone
I got that for like a month tops from masturbating but I think that was because I was realizing I was gay. I just don't see where there's shame to be had. Weird/unfortunate. Really though, if you were attracted to and/or in love with someone, you feel anything but guilt in the afterglow. Why the fuck would you feel guilty? WHY? WHAT IS THERE TO BE GUILTY ABOUT? Sex is beautiful and natural! :rofl:


This is somewhat on topic too: I don't want to have to deal with being the object of fetish.
God forbid the person you're with is extremely attracted to you? You don't want to deal with that? You've obviously never 'dealt' with it, it's a wonderful feeling to be appreciated if you ask me.


I'm sure there's more, but once again, the overemphasis on sex as part of life (for humanity) greatly annoys me. Not as much as relationships, but only slightly less so.
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Who cares what the fuck other people emphasize on? You seem like you severely limit your life based on other people. Other people, for the vast majority, are fucking retards. Stop basing anything off other people! :razz: This reminds me of people who are anti-weed because the people who they know that smoke weed are retards/act like retards. It's just like... it's a TOTALLY different perspective to just see things from a 3rd person. Humans assume they can imagine it close enough, but they really can't. Like, I'm not trying to say "U GOTTA GET LAID" but you seriously knock shit way too much for not trying it. :razz: I don't understand having such a vehement [negative] opinion on something that you've never truly experienced... Just like anything that makes you feel good, people are going to be absolute fucktards about it, abuse/obsess over it, whatever. Drugs, sex, masturbation, whatever.

Seriously though, everything that annoys you annoys me just as much but I don't let it get in the way of my sex life. Why are people so concerned with others' business? Who cares if other people are obsessed with getting laid? That's not what it's about, so ignore the idiots.

Are you a rather depressed or maybe just distant person? You remind me of what I'd be like if I completely repressed my sexuality. I used to be pretty introverted.

Aaaaanyway, I'm not trying to deny your points or even argue with you, I just really think you need to open your mind and let go of your preconceived notions about something you have no experience with(?). 'Course it sounds unappealing when you take such a scientific look at it. Besides, you like girls, right (or are you asexual :P)? Way less bodily fluids to worry about, dudes are hairier and sweatier and all that.

[Azagtoth]

It's a lot easier to be productive after being sexually satisfied. In fact, it's so therapeutic that it in and of itself is productive, if you ask me.

It helps me sleep. =D

[Mechanica]

It helps me sleep. =D

It helps me do everything! I'll sleep better, I'll be more focused on homework, I'll have a way more positive optimistic attitude at work, I'll have a lot more patience... The list never stops. Fool don't know what he's missin' out on. :lol:

[The Damned]

That was the lamest shit ive ready all day!

When I care about the worthless opinion of some faux hipster trying to act like he's queerest thing around, you'll be the first person I let "ready" my post.

Promise. :lovin:

Out of sheer curiosity, have you managed quell all sexual urges through this reasoning so that not even an artistic infatuation with 'pleasures of the flesh' seem the least bit captivating?

If this is the case, and your power is transferable, I think some bloodletting is in order.

Unfortunately, no. I've been failing more and more lately. At this point, I'm seriously beginning to think that I'm genetically destined for failure again--oh why couldn't I be the birth product of eugenics!--and so any bloodletting, besides being another horrible fluid exchange (despite the relatively nice color), would only net you failure at this time.

I'll keep that in mind, though.

P.S. Didn't you have an avatar comparing Britney Spears with the same characters and something that "Kalet (sp?) Roar!" above it? Or am I confusing you with someone else on this forum?


You're a virgin, right? (Correct me if I'm wrong.) It's a lot easier to be productive after being sexually satisfied. In fact, it's so therapeutic that it in and of itself is productive, if you ask me. Even if you don't think you get anything done. You put in the effort for immense pleasure. Then again, this, to me, is passionate sex with someone you love. Not just... getting off. Two different worlds.

I'm a virgin, that is correct.

I don't really see the distinction between "sex" and "making love", just the latter seems to waste even more time.

I also don't really see why I need to be "sexually satisfied" in the first place, which is mostly what puts me off it. When I feel attracted or aroused by something, I don't feel much in my right mind and yet I blindly stumble towards it because it's some type of left over instinct.

Even for someone with off-and-on-again fatalism like me, that type of slavery to one's urges honestly really disturbs me.

Really though, when I was a virgin, I figured you know, sometimes you get some nice orgasms by yourself so I could imagine (or so I thought) how nice sex would be, and it sounded overrated. I had the same attitudes. I had a few random experiences where I hooked up with random people - it didn't change my mind. Naturally. Then I stumbled upon someone whom I now love, and the sex is leaps and bounds above anything my imagination could have conjured.

Meh. "Good orgasms" are overrated as a whole, alone or with others.

It's nice that you found someone, really, but even though I'm softer on my "love doesn't exist" thing, my strictness on the lack of monogamy and lack of trust in humanity, myself included, makes it seem impossible for me to find a lasting relationship with anyone that I've actually known and doubtless will know.

Quite ironic for someone perusing a video game based forum.

This is only because my wording was sloppy as always. (You'd think that if people could actually change and maybe learn from their mistakes that would have changed by now, but I guess not.)

I meant to say that it's a waste of time comparative to the amount of time spent looking for someone worthwhile, i.e. devoid of diseases and attractive. With videos games, all I have to do for a quick reward is buy it and then put it the system. After that, I can use it whenver I want.

The only equivalent when it comes to sex are escorts and prostitutes, both of which are either disease-ridden or unattractive. Often both.

Uh... I don't think we're meant to be polygamous either. We are however, made to have sex. :razz:

Biologically, pretty much everything (that's an animal) is meant to have some type of sex, but for reproduction.

I don't want to start going into that argument, especially since this is a gay thread and that would be truly ironic.

That said, humans are naturally freaks[/i] when it comes to sex anyway compared to other animals. Most other animals [b]are polygamous and most other animals have sex solely for reproduction.

Humans are rather queer as a whole, so excuse me if I don't believe that "having sex" is one of those necessary things that's part of the survival handbook like having to breath is.

Get tested with your partner. But... you won't find one because it's a waste of time. So nevermind. :P

That would have to mean that people would know I'm dating someone though, if only the people were people at the clinic, who could talk or whom I could see somewhere else at an unfortunate time.

I'd rather no one know since I try to be a private person and people are desperately nosy about a lot of things.

I got that for like a month tops from masturbating but I think that was because I was realizing I was gay. I just don't see where there's shame to be had. Weird/unfortunate. Really though, if you were attracted to and/or in love with someone, you feel anything but guilt in the afterglow. Why the fuck would you feel guilty? WHY? WHAT IS THERE TO BE GUILTY ABOUT? Sex is beautiful and natural! :rofl:

I generally feel guilty about pretty much everything.

I've probably felt guilty about that ever since it started.

It has nothing to do with religion. I just don't like my body (or very many bodies in general).

Human structure can be attractive, but there's always some type of hidden defect. My defects are more visible than a lot of other people's, though.

Anyway, I wouldn't say it's beautiful, though. "Natural", yes, but as I said above, humans aren't really natural in anything they do that isn't very basic.

It can be "interesting", but only because the amount of drama that arises out of a few minutes' time.

God forbid the person you're with is extremely attracted to you? You don't want to deal with that? You've obviously never 'dealt' with it, it's a wonderful feeling to be appreciated if you ask me.

Yes, god forbid that the person I'm with be extremely attracted with me for something extremely superficial.

Did you misread that part? I was talking solely about fetishes, such as F.A.C.E.'s fetish for black guys or some of you guys have a fetish for "cubs". I don't necessary think that all fetish are the same disgusting thing, as I said that I have more of problem with racial fetishes (which you don't have to deal with for the most part, being Caucasian) than other kinds (outside of course the really raunchy ones, like watersports as I alluded to when I spoke of fluids).

However, since you brought it up, who the hell [b]does[/i] want to deal with being the object of affection?

Like say down below, people are retarded and insane. In a way, it's the same as the blight of being famous. Sure, it seems glamorous and all that bullshit in the beginning, but after a while, the "glory" fades and you're either stuck in some disillusioned relationship or more serious matters like stalkers or murderous exs arise.


And, actually, I know of at least four people to have been attracted to me, and all times it's been immensely awkward, mainly becaus even as much of an asshole as I can be in real life, I let my politeness take over when I feel sorry for people.

(And it's not like I can say I feel more comfortable with one sex over the other, as the first three were girls around high school time and then there was this guy in college like two years ago.)

I mean, really, from talking to me, who the hell would you hate enough that you would want them to be attracted to me?

Who cares what the fuck other people emphasize on? You seem like you severely limit your life based on other people. Other people, for the vast majority, are fucking retards. Stop basing anything off other people! :razz:

Seriously though, everything that annoys you annoys me just as much but I don't let it get in the way of my sex life. Why are people so concerned with others' business? Who cares if other people are obsessed with getting laid? That's not what it's about, so ignore the idiots.

Easier said than done.

I have to deal with people all day, and as much as the whole "non-conformist" thing is glorified, I doubt I've ever once geniunely believed in "non-conformity" as having an actual existence.

Everything you do is pretty much defined by the reactions of other people or lack thereof. Without other people, unfortunately there isn't much incentive to do much, for better or for worse.

Some people would even go after as say, Evangelion, and say that you don't really even exist without others.

Are you a rather depressed or maybe just distant person? You remind me of what I'd be like if I completely repressed my sexuality. I used to be pretty introverted.

I would say both, though moreso the latter than the former, especially since the former isn't "official" or anything and I don't believe my (own) "depression" to be anymore a disease than my other moods. (However limited they may be.)

And, forgive me if I'm assuming from the way your sentence is phrased, are you speaking about being introverted as if it's a bad thing?

Aaaaanyway, I'm not trying to deny your points or even argue with you, I just really think you need to open your mind and let go of your preconceived notions about something you have no experience with(?). 'Course it sounds unappealing when you take such a scientific look at it. Besides, you like girls, right (or are you asexual :P)? Way less bodily fluids to worry about, dudes are hairier and sweatier and all that.

I don't like girls for the most part. Breasts are just mounts of fat, and more and more of them are becoming fake.

I don't really like anyone. I wouldn't go as far as I say I'm genuinely asexual (yet), but I think that I could easily go celibate for the rest of my life with more willpower.


That said, of course it's supposed to sound unappealing. It's not meant to be "scientific" because these are all opinions; it's merely supposed to be a detached view at somewhat mystifying phenomenon without any of the formal step, so at best it's "pseudo-science".


It's been nice not arguing with you, but I have to go the store now.

[iwst99]

When I care about the worthless opinion of some faux hipster trying to act like he's queerest thing around, you'll be the first person I let "ready" my post.

Promise. :lovin:



Unfortunately, no. I've been failing more and more lately. At this point, I'm seriously beginning to think that I'm genetically destined for failure again--oh why couldn't I be the birth product of eugenics!--and so any bloodletting, besides being another horrible fluid exchange (despite the relatively nice color), would only net you failure at this time.

I'll keep that in mind, though.

P.S. Didn't you have an avatar comparing Britney Spears with the same characters and something that "Kalet (sp?) Roar!" above it? Or am I confusing you with someone else on this forum?




I'm a virgin, that is correct.

I don't really see the distinction between "sex" and "making love", just the latter seems to waste even more time.

I also don't really see why I need to be "sexually satisfied" in the first place, which is mostly what puts me off it. When I feel attracted or aroused by something, I don't feel much in my right mind and yet I blindly stumble towards it because it's some type of left over instinct.

Even for someone with off-and-on-again fatalism like me, that type of slavery to one's urges honestly really disturbs me.



Meh. "Good orgasms" are overrated as a whole, alone or with others.

It's nice that you found someone, really, but even though I'm softer on my "love doesn't exist" thing, my strictness on the lack of monogamy and lack of trust in humanity, myself included, makes it seem impossible for me to find a lasting relationship with anyone that I've actually known and doubtless will know.



This is only because my wording was sloppy as always. (You'd think that if people could actually change and maybe learn from their mistakes that would have changed by now, but I guess not.)

I meant to say that it's a waste of time comparative to the amount of time spent looking for someone worthwhile, i.e. devoid of diseases and attractive. With videos games, all I have to do for a quick reward is buy it and then put it the system. After that, I can use it whenver I want.

The only equivalent when it comes to sex are escorts and prostitutes, both of which are either disease-ridden or unattractive. Often both.



Biologically, pretty much everything (that's an animal) is meant to have some type of sex, but for reproduction.

I don't want to start going into that argument, especially since this is a gay thread and that would be truly ironic.

That said, humans are naturally freaks[/i] when it comes to sex anyway compared to other animals. Most other animals [b]are polygamous and most other animals have sex solely for reproduction.

Humans are rather queer as a whole, so excuse me if I don't believe that "having sex" is one of those necessary things that's part of the survival handbook like having to breath is.



That would have to mean that people would know I'm dating someone though, if only the people were people at the clinic, who could talk or whom I could see somewhere else at an unfortunate time.

I'd rather no one know since I try to be a private person and people are desperately nosy about a lot of things.



I generally feel guilty about pretty much everything.

I've probably felt guilty about that ever since it started.

It has nothing to do with religion. I just don't like my body (or very many bodies in general).

Human structure can be attractive, but there's always some type of hidden defect. My defects are more visible than a lot of other people's, though.

Anyway, I wouldn't say it's beautiful, though. "Natural", yes, but as I said above, humans aren't really natural in anything they do that isn't very basic.

It can be "interesting", but only because the amount of drama that arises out of a few minutes' time.



Yes, god forbid that the person I'm with be extremely attracted with me for something extremely superficial.

Did you misread that part? I was talking solely about fetishes, such as F.A.C.E.'s fetish for black guys or some of you guys have a fetish for "cubs". I don't necessary think that all fetish are the same disgusting thing, as I said that I have more of problem with racial fetishes (which you don't have to deal with for the most part, being Caucasian) than other kinds (outside of course the really raunchy ones, like watersports as I alluded to when I spoke of fluids).

However, since you brought it up, who the hell [b]does[/i] want to deal with being the object of affection?

Like say down below, people are retarded and insane. In a way, it's the same as the blight of being famous. Sure, it seems glamorous and all that bullshit in the beginning, but after a while, the "glory" fades and you're either stuck in some disillusioned relationship or more serious matters like stalkers or murderous exs arise.


And, actually, I know of at least four people to have been attracted to me, and all times it's been immensely awkward, mainly becaus even as much of an asshole as I can be in real life, I let my politeness take over when I feel sorry for people.

(And it's not like I can say I feel more comfortable with one sex over the other, as the first three were girls around high school time and then there was this guy in college like two years ago.)

I mean, really, from talking to me, who the hell would you hate enough that you would want them to be attracted to me?



Easier said than done.

I have to deal with people all day, and as much as the whole "non-conformist" thing is glorified, I doubt I've ever once geniunely believed in "non-conformity" as having an actual existence.

Everything you do is pretty much defined by the reactions of other people or lack thereof. Without other people, unfortunately there isn't much incentive to do much, for better or for worse.

Some people would even go after as say, Evangelion, and say that you don't really even exist without others.



I would say both, though moreso the latter than the former, especially since the former isn't "official" or anything and I don't believe my (own) "depression" to be anymore a disease than my other moods. (However limited they may be.)

And, forgive me if I'm assuming from the way your sentence is phrased, are you speaking about being introverted as if it's a bad thing?



I don't like girls for the most part. Breasts are just mounts of fat, and more and more of them are becoming fake.

I don't really like anyone. I wouldn't go as far as I say I'm genuinely asexual (yet), but I think that I could easily go celibate for the rest of my life with more willpower.


That said, of course it's supposed to sound unappealing. It's not meant to be "scientific" because these are all opinions; it's merely supposed to be a detached view at somewhat mystifying phenomenon without any of the formal step, so at best it's "pseudo-science".


It's been nice not arguing with you, but I have to go the store now.

^^

Naruto <3s you.

[Mechanica]

I also don't really see why I need to be "sexually satisfied" in the first place,
I know you don't. Because you never have been. :wgrin: (Like, I'm trying really hard not to hold virginity over your head but sometimes it just comes out that way sorry :P)


Meh. "Good orgasms" are overrated as a whole, alone or with others.

Well, okay, that was a problem with my wording this time. It's really not about the orgasm. I could have sex with my boyfriend that didn't result in an orgasm and get the same effects, just... you know what would be the point in going that far but not all the way. You have no judge on how overrated a good orgasm with another is, though! Ho! 'Sall I'm sayin'.


I meant to say that it's a waste of time comparative to the amount of time spent looking for someone worthwhile, i.e. devoid of diseases and attractive. With videos games, all I have to do for a quick reward is buy it and then put it the system. After that, I can use it whenver I want.

This is, to say, one spends a lot of effort solely going out looking for a mate. I personally wouldn't ever do that because I'm picky and well, have a lot of values like you/disgust with humans in general. I was kinda just experimenting with my sexuality and happened upon someone who fits me perfectly. Honestly my attraction niche is so bizarre that I too felt like I would easily be celibate for a long time, wouldn't ever really find someone for at least a really long time, and that it would be a waste of time in general. Now that it kinda fell into my lap, I had no idea what I was missing but since I was 100% missing it, like you, it's really not all that bad. Which, of course, is probably yet another deterrent of yours, because once you've loved once and no longer have someone, you're always probably left with a certain degree of longing that you couldn't have had before experiencing anything like that.

That would have to mean that people would know I'm dating someone though, if only the people were people at the clinic, who could talk or whom I could see somewhere else at an unfortunate time.

I'd rather no one know since I try to be a private person and people are desperately nosy about a lot of things.
Maybe in high school... :confused: I can't understand being forced into situations with those kinds of gossipy retard people but then again who knows where you work or whatever. I'd imagine that if you were content enough with someone to go get tested and actually have sex and all that, that you wouldn't care who saw you because... well, that's the point. So I guess there's nothing to discuss there. lol


I generally feel guilty about pretty much everything.

I've probably felt guilty about that ever since it started.

It has nothing to do with religion. I just don't like my body (or very many bodies in general).

Human structure can be attractive, but there's always some type of hidden defect. My defects are more visible than a lot of other people's, though.
Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh okay. Esteem issues make this clearer to me. (Not trying to belittle you.)


Anyway, I wouldn't say it's beautiful, though. "Natural", yes, but as I said above, humans aren't really natural in anything they do that isn't very basic.
XD, sorry. _____ is beautiful and natural is just a catchphrase from various internet forums that I use. I really had absolutely no meaning behind typing that.


Did you misread that part? I was talking solely about fetishes, such as F.A.C.E.'s fetish for black guys or some of you guys have a fetish for "cubs". I don't necessary think that all fetish are the same disgusting thing,
Neither of those are really fetishes IMO but we already had that discussion and I just don't care to bicker over the use of a word like that - however, my point I'm trying to get to is that if someone is attracted to a certain something on someone... and you have that certain something, as long as you're not just like random-hookup or something, the person is going to see that attractive trait as PART OF YOU, and be attracted to you. You know? I mean, I see what you mean about the superficial part but I think you're kinda overanalyzing and generalizing too much there.


as I said that I have more of problem with racial fetishes (which you don't have to deal with for the most part, being Caucasian)
Wrong, believe it or not. Granted, you're right I guess, caucasians deal with it the least, but the kind of guy I like seems to be much more inclined towards darker skinned guys. Like smooth latinos and stuff.


However, since you brought it up, who the hell [b]does[/i] want to deal with being the object of affection?
Me. I like it when someone makes me feel loved. What's wrong with that?

Sure, it seems glamorous and all that bullshit in the beginning, but after a while, the "glory" fades and you're either stuck in some disillusioned relationship or more serious matters like stalkers or murderous exs arise.
Not really... Don't get into a relationship with some immature high school girl and nothing like that will happen... It's really not that hard to have a logical reasonable breakup. You just hear about the crazy/shitty ones more often for obvious reasons. It sounds like, from a 3rd person perspective, sex would VERY easily get dull. I mean, that's what I thought, but I've learned through experience that it actually just gets better and better. You become more familiar with what pleases them the most, what not to do, what to do more of; you become more comfortable and try new things and find out things that are attractive to you that you had no idea about. If the sex DOES get dull and the relationship is stagnant, there is no reason you can't end it without drama - just don't date someone who's still mentally a child. When it's not that simple, get a fucking restraining order. :rofl: Really though, maybe I'm just good at reading people, but it's not hard for me to select between people and tell if they are going to be a retarded immature fuck about certain stuff. Take a little time to get to know a person before getting too serious and really you can avoid anything I've seen you mention as a downfall of getting in a relationship.


Everything you do is pretty much defined by the reactions of other people or lack thereof. Without other people, unfortunately there isn't much incentive to do much, for better or for worse.
Unfortunately, I could not disagree more but there's no room for discussion or anything. This is just a difference of character, I suppose. I don't get motivation from other people and I never consider what other people think when it comes to decisions about my life. REALLY lame example (really) but if I were trying on clothes at a store, I'd never be one of those people to like walk out of the dressing room and be like "does this look good?" because I just don't fucking care how others perceive me (in any way, shape, or form). It's a waste of time, energy, and focus IMO. Granted, there's some degree of care if it's someone I personally care about, but even then, it's rarely very weighted unless they have some ridiculously overpowering objection, then I would take their thoughts into consideration because I care about them and respect them and assume they are looking out for my best interests.

I would say both, though moreso the latter than the former, especially since the former isn't "official" or anything and I don't believe my (own) "depression" to be anymore a disease than my other moods. (However limited they may be.)
Y'know, a nice sex life does wonders for your serotonin levels. :sweat:


And, forgive me if I'm assuming from the way your sentence is phrased, are you speaking about being introverted as if it's a bad thing?
No, I'm not. It's not easy to be extroverted when so many people aren't worth social interaction.


I don't like girls for the most part. Breasts are just mounts of fat, and more and more of them are becoming fake.
Holler.


It's been nice not arguing with you, but
Indeed. :arazz:

[The Green Trench Coat]

I think I remember you telling me this. Did he at least have a cute face? I have his profile i can pm you a link if you want to see him.

GTC, dude, if you sent me Kevin Smith in a crate I will be eternally grateful. I will, in return, raise you Nick Frost (clothing optional). :D

As for that superchub story... That's just insane. I'm a softy so I would have snuggled him. Did you hear from him again?

If i had Kevin smith and sent him to you.. he would most definitely be Used Goods. Nick frost? with clothes???? I'll take him and Kevin james both gift wrapped for me.

Haha, I liked your story GTC, glad you were nice to him....I actually meant had sex with though. So just hugging and stuff not sure counts.

I kind of feel you on the Mother has lived thing...even though I'm only 21 I started early (14) and have tried and done almost everything, atleast to say I lived a little. Most of the friends I know around my age have not slept with even a 10th of the guys I have been with....geez I should stop talking.

/slut talk.

hmm.. the biggest i've had sex with was a 340lbs~ approx. bear Big daddy bear he was so much fun.

It isnt NORMAL to have a fetish for 400 pound men.
Says you. But then again. some would say it's not normal to have a sexual attraction to men if you are a man. Who's right? personally most of the guys you are attracted to (that you've shown) are down right gross to me. Much the same as most of the guys us bearlovers like are gross to you. Who's right?

My answer? Who cares. What's so great about being normal anyway. The greater civilized world hates on us cause we are the mutants of human sexuality. It bugs the hell out of me when people like you who are among us nit pick at what one finds attractive and claims it's not *up to standard* please. We're here cause we like what we like. if a few of us are of like mind than so be it. Even among us in this thread I think i'm the only Actual bear. the rest of these guys are all sexy sexy cubs and pups. *drool* some of us like big guys but we don't all aggree on everyguy discussed. DLJ LS Mech BOD and Bloodia all have different prefferences but I contest that I've been able to find attractive qualities in even some of there prefferred types.

I want you to know that i'm not attacking you but I want you to start checking yourself before you go off on you tirades about what is normal for gay. We always seem to get into this zone with you where you start queening out about a gay standard of storts. Remember "I only like white pride" and "Pride attended by black people won't have glowsticks." Please consider reading what you write before pressing send.

*bearhugs*


On that note - WHO'S GOT FETISHES?? :devil:

I like dominance. :sweat:

Daddybears own me for free. if a daddybear calls me boy or son that's a wrap.. not only am I there bitch, I've already spurted in my pants.

Sex is gross.

I really like you.


Like I totally dont' agree with most of what you write but man.. I really like you.
You seem so other side of the tracks. I find you adorable.

and no i'm absolutely 100 percent on this.. not being sarcastic at all. You are like the Raven of our little gay teen titans squad we have here.
*Big Bear SQUEEZES*

[The Green Trench Coat]

^^

Naruto <3s you.

win!


I fell out of my seat.

[The Damned]

^^

Naruto <3s you.

Uzumaki <3s everyone.

He's retarded that way.


I know you don't. Because you never have been. :wgrin: (Like, I'm trying really hard not to hold virginity over your head but sometimes it just comes out that way sorry :P)

That's part of the reason why not to even start: Why create another urge when I have so much trouble controlling the other ones?

Well, okay, that was a problem with my wording this time. It's really not about the orgasm.

I already knew that you were talking more about togetherness, but the same applies.

...And did you just call me a "ho"?

Which, of course, is probably yet another deterrent of yours, because once you've loved once and no longer have someone, you're always probably left with a certain degree of longing that you couldn't have had before experiencing anything like that.

Pretty much. As with the "sexual satisifcation" aspect, why create another void?

And basically, you just admit that you got "lucky" when you were "experimenting", both of which are unacceptable to me.


Neither of those are really fetishes IMO but we already had that discussion and I just don't care to bicker over the use of a word like that - however, my point I'm trying to get to is that if someone is attracted to a certain something on someone... and you have that certain something, as long as you're not just like random-hookup or something, the person is going to see that attractive trait as PART OF YOU, and be attracted to you. You know? I mean, I see what you mean about the superficial part but I think you're kinda overanalyzing and generalizing too much there.

That still distresses me for the most part, especially since I see it as basically the same thing as I was saying, only sugar-coated.

I know people can't control what they look like for the most part, which is another reason why I don't really care for attraction. Some people are just genetically lucky while others are just crap.

It's simple unfairness in life, not to say that I believe in that "there's someone for everyone" bullshit because there isn't.


Wrong, believe it or not. Granted, you're right I guess, caucasians deal with it the least, but the kind of guy I like seems to be much more inclined towards darker skinned guys. Like smooth latinos and stuff.

I don't count you being an exception to a fetish as being the object of one, but, yeah, whatever.


Me. I like it when someone makes me feel loved. What's wrong with that?

Such dependence on another. I mean, it's bad enough that I'm still finanically dependent on my family at the moment and that random people have way too much sway on my life, but giving that much trust to someone for an inevitably fleeting feeling....

I wish to never do that.

Not really... Don't get into a relationship with some immature high school girl and nothing like that will happen... It's really not that hard to have a logical reasonable breakup.

I don't doubt that there are "logical reasonable breakups", but I still think that they are in the minority, especially since no one can really fully know another person.

The very least it's awkward and it's likely that you couldn't be (just) friends with them again.

Unfortunately, I could not disagree more but there's no room for discussion or anything. This is just a difference of character, I suppose. I don't get motivation from other people and I never consider what other people think when it comes to decisions about my life.

You appear to have misunderstood.

What I was saying was not that I give into peer pressure--if I did, then I would have dated and fucked in high school since everyone else was doing it--or anything like that. I was saying that even if I said something like "I don't care about anyone", I would still care, in some sense, about their reactions to such statement.

In the above example, I personally would want people to take a negative reaction to that so that they leave me the hell alone.

I mean, the whole being "anti-social" thing has to be contrasted to a being "social" element just for it to exist.

If there was only one living thing in the world, then what could it possibly be social with? Who would there be to argue with? Oppose?

Things like that are all I meant.


and no i'm absolutely 100 percent on this.. not being sarcastic at all. You are like the Raven of our little gay teen titans squad we have here.
*Big Bear SQUEEZES*

So this means I get to have a nebulous afraid with a "Beast Boy" (read: dirty hippie with gangrene) shortly before I sacrifice myself to kill my father for the betterment of the world?

...My life already sucked enough.

[iwst99]

Fuck...it's becoming Dawson's Creek up in this bitch....

♫ I don't wanna wait...for our lives to be over....♪

I love all of you....<3 :lovin: :lovin: :lovin:

[Mechanica]

Daddybears own me for free. if a daddybear calls me boy or son that's a wrap.. not only am I there bitch, I've already spurted in my pants.

Word. :smokin: Same ballpark.


Like I totally dont' agree with most of what you write but man.. I really like you.
You seem so other side of the tracks. I find you adorable.
I find him bizarrely interesting, but adorable could work too. It is cute in a hermit kind of way.


That's part of the reason why not to even start: Why create another urge when I have so much trouble controlling the other ones?
I 'unno. I'm not trying to convince you to have sex... I'm just kinda perusing your views because they're so strange and interesting to me.

...And did you just call me a "ho"?
Betcher ass I did.

Pretty much. As with the "sexual satisifcation" aspect, why create another void?
Because, contrary to everything else, for once this is a void worth having because when it's filled it's unlike anything else in the world, in my opinion. *shrug* It's a worthy void/longing. Like, I've done my share of drugs, and had tastes of the addictive ones - the highs aren't worth the lows. In this case, definitely definitely definitely. Again I don't mean to sound like I'm trying to convince you, but take it from someone who shared very similar views and is now in love for the first time. I'm just trying to get you to like... mentally open your options and think about it a different way. Which I'm doing a horrible job of, obviously, because we're just arguing complete opposites.


And basically, you just admit that you got "lucky" when you were "experimenting", both of which are unacceptable to me.
Okay. That... is what I said. I'm not trying to convince you of anything... I was experimenting because I wasn't totally sure on girls or guys. It was just a personal footnote. I'm not telling you to experiment. >_>

That still distresses me for the most part, especially since I see it as basically the same thing as I was saying, only sugar-coated.

I know people can't control what they look like for the most part, which is another reason why I don't really care for attraction. Some people are just genetically lucky while others are just crap.

It's simple unfairness in life, not to say that I believe in that "there's someone for everyone" bullshit because there isn't.

Man, look at who we find attractive. You'd be surprised. You need some faith! *hands you a bible*

Such dependence on another. I mean, it's bad enough that I'm still finanically dependent on my family at the moment and that random people have way too much sway on my life, but giving that much trust to someone for an inevitably fleeting feeling....

I wish to never do that.
See, okay, you're assuming there's immense attachment and dependence. I'm far from dependent on the feeling of being loved, but I enjoy it. That's all I'm saying. Being loved is an enjoyable feeling.

I don't doubt that there are "logical reasonable breakups", but I still think that they are in the minority, especially since no one can really fully know another person.
So? So are you. Your views on sex in general place you in a kind of minority, in which, perhaps the kind of person who would be attracted to you would share your views and maybe even like write a fucking breakup contract ensuring nothing goes crazy. I don't know. :rofl:


The very least it's awkward and it's likely that you couldn't be (just) friends with them again.
MAN the more you talk the more you remind me of me... That was my #1 reason back in the day.


You appear to have misunderstood.

My bad this time on the phrasing. You got your point across the first time. I don't mean anything related to or similar to peer pressure, or anything like that. I understand the idea you're conveying, but I still disagree with the general idea that my actions/etc. are shaped/reflected by/whatever other's actions. Obviously there has to be to some extent, but when I say I don't care what people think, I really mean it. Like, went through a life-changing epiphany kind of deal.

[Dreamkiller]

Damn, u white people get into.
HARD!!!!!

[iwst99]

Damn, u white people get into.
HARD!!!!!

I believe The Damned is black.

[Mechanica]

I believe The Damned is black.

Yeah dude. This shit's interracial. :smokin:

*cough*
u white people
see look, and the damned was just saying I ain't gotta deal with this. :cybot:

[The Damned]

I 'unno. I'm not trying to convince you to have sex... I'm just kinda perusing your views because they're so strange and interesting to me.

I never really thought you were trying to be "convincing" since you keep going out of your way to say that and be cordial. It just that the arguement "format" is the most useful one I find since don't agree.


Which I'm doing a horrible job of, obviously, because we're just arguing complete opposites.

If makes you feel any better, this is helping me be more focused as to why I shouldn't waste time with sexuality in general.


Okay. That... is what I said. I'm not trying to convince you of anything... I was experimenting because I wasn't totally sure on girls or guys. It was just a personal footnote. I'm not telling you to experiment. >_>

Again, never said you were. It just that I can't see anyway outside of "experimenting" outside of picking from among friends and usually fucks up friendly relationships rather quickly.

(Pun not intended.)

I've never understand that "confusion" aspect though about being "totally sure". I don't think anyone completely something or another unless it's bisexual or asexual.


You need some faith! *hands you a bible*

As I said in that thread about "The Law of Attraction", faith in anything is damned retarded since it blinds you.

Being loved is an enjoyable feeling.

I wouldn't know.

Sorry to assume that you're dependent on upon, but the longing for the void thing makes it still seem that way to me.


So? So are you. Your views on sex in general place you in a kind of minority, in which...

I never said I wasn't.

In fact, that's one of the many things I don't care (very much, as with what I said earlier) about being in the minority about.

[Sunn O)))]

6'6" and 310 here

Hey boys *wink*

[Dreamkiller]

I believe The Damned is black.

Fine. Watever.
Get back to me when everyones talking about Dicks and Asses.
Mmmmm.
Dicks and Asses.

6'6" and 310 here

Hey boys *wink*

Oooo Hey. *wink wink*

*Goes back to listening to T6 music and doing Badland Loops.*

[The Green Trench Coat]

6'6" and 310 here

Hey boys *wink*

pics?

[Mechanica]

I never really thought you were trying to be "convincing" since you keep going out of your way to say that and be cordial. It just that the arguement "format" is the most useful one I find since don't agree.
Okay, just wasn't sure if I made it clear, the discussion was sorta rain-checked. :sweat:


If makes you feel any better, this is helping me be more focused as to why I shouldn't waste time with sexuality in general.
Focused is good.


It just that I can't see anyway outside of "experimenting" outside of picking from among friends and usually fucks up friendly relationships rather quickly.
Exactly! Exactly... I thought the same thing, I was never okay with the idea of potentially making a friendship really awkward (same reason I won't have sex with my cute female friend [good friend] that hella wants to bone me). I... can't exactly advocate the route I went with... the internet... (Don't make me say it!) Craigslist. :wasted: Hahahah. Hahahahah, so fucking ridiculous. I don't understand how it worked. Oh, internet.

I've never understand that "confusion" aspect though about being "totally sure". I don't think anyone completely something or another unless it's bisexual or asexual.
If what you mean by that is like nobody's really 100% either orientation, I agree there. Well, in my case - if you care - it was like this: everyone's socially conditioned to be expected to grow up to be heterosexual... That's the usual dilemma with being gay, duh, but my twist (or one of) I guess is liking older guys. Guys my age have never done it for me so it was extra confusing. At the point where I'm like "okay I should be liking girls by now..." and it's not happening, then you look at the guys and it's like "nnope. hell no." like... I dunno, girls were more appealing. I was mentally attracted to two girls ever, basically, & asked them both out, actually. I could (and can) appreciate female beauty in someone my age more than male, for some reason, I guess. Zero attraction, though. (Didn't I just contradict myself? :lol:)

And on top of that twist, I grew up a year younger than the kids of my class throughout school, which just made me think I was a late bloomer for a minute, then like... asexual...


Sorry to assume that you're dependent on upon, but the longing for the void thing makes it still seem that way to me.
I get what you mean... I just mean after a while when you miss the person you love after you haven't seen them for a while. I think perhaps I'm a little desensitized because mine leaves for trips and I'm used to not seeing him often. :lol:


In fact, that's one of the many things I don't care (very much, as with what I said earlier) about being in the minority about.
Good. I didn't mean to point it out like it was a bad thing.

~


*Goes back to listening to T6 music and doing Badland Loops.*
Wish I had more GG competition.

[iwst99]

*Goes back to listening to T6 music and doing Badland Loops.*


Can I come???? (no pun) :sad:

[BeaTs*]

When I care about the worthless opinion of some faux hipster trying to act like he's queerest thing around, you'll be the first person I let "ready" my post.

Promise. :lovin:



lol! good! :rofl:

[rikc]

Oh wow, this thread is still going on. Cool.

[Mechanica]

Oh wow, this thread is still going on. Cool.

u gay??????//// su'scribe dis shit

[Sunn O)))]

pics?

Once I find my camera DX

[rikc]

u gay??????//// su'scribe dis shit
kind of!

[Mechanica]

kind of!

Good enough for me!

:party:

I feel like you already introduced yourself and shit but I totally just remember the avatar and nothing else. Kobun ftw .

[BeaTs*]

kind of gay? bowr.

yeah, I used to be like "The Damned" a lot...sorta getting outta it, but iunno if I ever will fully...

but some are just truly asexual, nothing wrong with it. less things they need to worry about/spend time on while planning to rule the world!

I woulda never guessed hed was black tho :O

[Dreamkiller]

Can I come???? (no pun) :sad:

Eh fine.

Bam
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-e7Dnr0yAM
And Bam
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Li7oCB2Fec8&feature=related

Hope it helps.

[iwst99]

^^

Yes it did.

Fuck, Tekken 6 looks too hawt. Expecially bob. Those vids made me pee a little.

Thanks!

[Azagtoth]

Rob: Go ahead and PM me the link.

Also, daddybears = yes please. Especially the aforementioned Santa variety. <3

^^Fuck, Tekken 6 looks too hawt. Expecially bob. Those vids made me pee a little.

This man knows what's up. I can't wait to play it.

Once I find my camera DX

Hurry up! =D

[Sunn O)))]

Left camera at friend's house!

Pics tomorrow!

*Pose*

[Mechanica]

Left camera at friend's house!

Pics tomorrow!

*Pose*

:lol: How's XBL 3s mang?

NICK FROST FANS: http://frostitution.net/gallery/

[The Green Trench Coat]

Once I find my camera DX

Grrr.

Rob: Go ahead and PM me the link.

Also, daddybears = yes please. Especially the aforementioned Santa variety. <3



This man knows what's up. I can't wait to play it.



Hurry up! =D sent

:lol: How's XBL 3s mang?

NICK FROST FANS: http://frostitution.net/gallery/

i'm all over that site sent several letters and masturbated to a bunch of those pics.

[Khaotika!]

Oh My Goth, I like the Damned. :lovin:

Uh, well I haven't been on because I started back on the crack, by which I mean FFXI. It's no good for me baby, but 2007 has sucked and I needed some blow.

Not all bad, I've met someone. We might even meet, who knows, the chemistry is there, it's the distance that's in the way, but that can be overcome pretty easily.

<3

[The Green Trench Coat]

Oh My Goth, I like the Damned. :lovin:

Uh, well I haven't been on because I started back on the crack, by which I mean FFXI. It's no good for me baby, but 2007 has sucked and I needed some blow.

Not all bad, I've met someone. We might even meet, who knows, the chemistry is there, it's the distance that's in the way, but that can be overcome pretty easily.

<3

Very happy to hear that dude. I hope it all works out for you, you definitely deserve it.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Ugh, work tonight. i'm so over it. I really want that new job to come through.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Ugh, work tonight. i'm so over it. I really want that new job to come through.

You are now required to take pics of hot beardudes when you can now. :lovin:

[Æther]

Dude, GTC, I got the mail. You fuggin rock. *joins GTC fanclub* :D

[Khaotika!]

Dude, GTC, I got the mail. You fuggin rock. *joins GTC fanclub* :D

Me too, OMG. Rob, you really shouldn't have. I should get you something!!!!! ;_;

[The Green Trench Coat]

Me too, OMG. Rob, you really shouldn't have. I should get you something!!!!! ;_;

Please dont. I'd rather hear that you guys got yourselves something nice you've all earned it in my book. I consider you guys friends. I was able to look out so i did. No worries just enjoy the gifts.

If you are feeling particularly charitable though I wouldn't mind some pics of you :wgrin::lovin:

Dude, GTC, I got the mail. You fuggin rock. *joins GTC fanclub* :D

Dude you guys are the awesome ones. Enjoy.

[iwst99]

I told Don to expect a package by tomorrow. He's like where's is it from? I said it's someone from the gay thread I post on online, one of the guys wanted to give us xmas presents. He's like why? I said ummm I don't know just being nice. He thought it was kinda weird, I think he was just jealous.

I told him if it was a dildo I'd share it. Which I won't.....


Ok I didn't tell him that part, but yeah, looking forward to it!!! :D I'm on the GTC Fan club with or without presents.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I told Don to expect a package by tomorrow. He's like where's is it from? I said it's someone from the gay thread I post on online, one of the guys wanted to give us xmas presents. He's like why? I said ummm I don't know just being nice. He thought it was kinda weird, I think he was just jealous.

I told him if it was a dildo I'd share it. Which I won't.....


Ok I didn't tell him that part, but yeah, looking forward to it!!! :D I'm on the GTC Fan club with or without presents.

hope i didn't cause any trouble.

[Khaotika!]

If you are feeling particularly charitable though I wouldn't mind some pics of you :wgrin::lovin:


Actually I have one of me taken in March of this year, how should I send it? :x

[The Green Trench Coat]

Actually I have one of me taken in March of this year, how should I send it? :x

hulk718@gmail

[Mechanica]

Actually I have one of me taken in March of this year, how should I send it? :x

Upload it on imageshack and post it. :razz:

[Adam Warlock]

GTC is that dude. Muchos gracias senor. I'm going to cop Uncharted today thanks to you. The next time I have sex, I'ma put it in her butt in your honor. :tup:

[Mechanica]

GTC is that dude. Muchos gracias senor. I'm going to cop Uncharted today thanks to you. The next time I have sex, I'ma put it in her butt in your honor. :tup:

Yayyy! Buttsex! :woot:

[Adam Warlock]

Yayyy! Buttsex! :woot:

I don't know if you were bieng sarcastic, but that cracked me up. I lol'ed at work. I'm tempted to sig it.

[digimonemporer]

Hey was good wit yha. Haven't really posted in this forum, but yha boi most def get down wit the get down. So I gotta rep. was really good!

- Vers. Top
- Blk
- 10 1/2 thick (cut)
- 6'3
- 220 (athletic/Muscular build)
- sexy as hell

More info fuck wit it...

www.myspace.com/digimonemporer

or if you know was really good...

http://www.bgclive.com/live-profile.php?user=want2bdifferent

I'll be a postin here and there!

To my niggas on SRK most def hit yha boi wit a pm!

[Mechanica]

I don't know if you were bieng sarcastic, but that cracked me up. I lol'ed at work. I'm tempted to sig it.
No sarcasm, but glad to make you laugh. Buttsex for the motherfucking win. :tup:


- Blk
- 220 (athletic/Muscular build)
- sexy as hell

Oh shit son, where's the F.A.C.E.?

[digimonemporer]

I'm kinda curious to know too...LOL!

[Adam Warlock]

Hey was good wit yha. Haven't really posted in this forum, but yha boi most def get down wit the get down. So I gotta rep. was really good!

- Vers. Top
- Blk
- 10 1/2 thick (cut)
- 6'3
- 220 (athletic/Muscular build)
- sexy as hell

More info fuck wit it...

www.myspace.com/digimonemporer

or if you know was really good...

http://www.bgclive.com/live-profile.php?user=want2bdifferent

I'll be a postin here and there!

To my niggas on SRK most def hit yha boi wit a pm!

It's the black Garrett!

[Azagtoth]

I just got it today, Rob. You're the fucking man.

Check your PMs btw.

[digimonemporer]

It's the black Garrett!

What u mean by dat?

[Adam Warlock]

Please don't rape me.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Hey was good wit yha. Haven't really posted in this forum, but yha boi most def get down wit the get down. So I gotta rep. was really good!

- Vers. Top
- Blk
- 10 1/2 thick (cut)
- 6'3
- 220 (athletic/Muscular build)
- sexy as hell

More info fuck wit it...

www.myspace.com/digimonemporer

or if you know was really good...

http://www.bgclive.com/live-profile.php?user=want2bdifferent

I'll be a postin here and there!

To my niggas on SRK most def hit yha boi wit a pm!

i didn't understand any of that..

but welcome.

[Mechanica]

Fuckin' mad rep for GTC. :lovin: Thanks so much, dood. You rock. Soon enough you guys can see my pretty new dyejob. :razzy:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Fuckin' mad rep for GTC. :lovin: Thanks so much, dood. You rock. Soon enough you guys can see my pretty new dyejob. :razzy:

awesome.

enjoy the gift. only a few more packages have to make it then i can stop worryingthat i got the addresses wrong.

[LightningStorm]

Oh lord, I haven't been an asshole for about 10 minutes so might as well start again now.

Hey was good wit yha. Haven't really posted in this forum, but yha boi most def get down wit the get down. So I gotta rep. was really good!

WTF did you just say?!


- 10 1/2 thick (cut)
- sexy as hell

LOL. I'm going to call a blind Bullshit!


To my niggas on SRK most def hit yha boi wit a pm!

Didn't click the links, may or may not do that when I get home. But again I say...

WTF did you just say?

[The Green Trench Coat]

LOL. I'm going to call a blind Bullshit!



Not sexy?

His name is Digimon Emporer. I'm already grabbing my ankles :rolleyes:

[BeaTs*]

I didn't know there were "sexy" "hot" "cute" "sexy as hell" checkboxes that I could select on websites :'[

[LightningStorm]

Actually this guy reminds me of this guy who contacted me via MySpace:

read about him here:

http://www.adrianljones.com/enlightenings/another_myspace_idiot.htm

[The Green Trench Coat]

Actually this guy reminds me of this guy who contacted me via MySpace:

read about him here:

http://www.adrianljones.com/enlightenings/another_myspace_idiot.htm

so .. i completetly cosign.

I cant stand when people try to "holla" at me. REally? Really? i swear one time this guy came at me saying something about me being a shorty an im sure there was some euphamism he was trying to pass to me regarding hennesy and cheeseburgers.. don't ask.

hey ls you should tell that guy, you'll give it another shot.. only if he writes you a coherent letter explaining his intentions. But tell him to leave out the letters C V X J E and D

[digimonemporer]

I guess ebonics are a no no in this thread.

But anyways, those links are to my profiles on myspace.com and bgclive.com (black gay chat live) respectively!

Pics of me are included!

I didn't know there were "sexy" "hot" "cute" "sexy as hell" checkboxes that I could select on websites :'[


Thanks for the compliment...I think that's what it was...LOL!

To all the haters, jump off a Richard Simmons cruise boat or something...

[The Green Trench Coat]

I guess ebonics are a no no in this thread.

But anyways, those links are to my profiles on myspace.com and bgclive.com (black gay chat live) respectively!

Pics of me are included!

i cant speak for everyone I just don't understand when people talk like that.. ever really.

not trying to disrespect you though. just talking

[digimonemporer]

okay

[BeaTs*]

lol it wasn't a compliment (but not an insult either)

can you get banned for posting BGC? if there is/are any porn/pornlinks...be careful!

[Mechanica]

So here's my new hair dye job, you guys missed the last one but oh well this one is cooler (and it can't be that exciting anyway). Many shades of blue with pink/purple for good measure.

http://img132.imageshack.us/img132/5646/dsc01266bp4.gif

http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/9158/dsc01267gr5.jpg

EDIT: Digimon, he was making fun of you for listing your stats and then putting -sexy as one, as if it's a concrete fact like your height or weight.

[LightningStorm]

i cant speak for everyone I just don't understand when people talk like that.. ever really.

not trying to disrespect you though. just talking

And me, on the other hand, I understand when people talk like that, but not when they type or write that way. One or two words here and there is fine, entire sentences and paragraphs are a damned problem. Same goes for l33t sp33k and acronyms. These things can be good in moderation and (quite frankly) stupid in excess.

[quiche]

:rofl: @ everything involving digimon emperor.

"Chaaaaaaaange into Digital homos tooooooo save this digital ....thread."

...seriously.

[LightningStorm]

Oh wow, I just got mine today GTC. Thanks! You're awfully giving and that's a good thing. :smile:

[Mechanica]

Hey was good wit yha. Haven't really posted in this forum, but yha boi most def get down wit the get down. So I gotta rep. was really good!


moar like

Hey what's up with you guys? I haven't really posted in this forum, but I'm a queen too, so I gotta rep. What's up?

[DrumlinerJoe]

So here's my new hair dye job, you guys missed the last one but oh well this one is cooler (and it can't be that exciting anyway). Many shades of blue with pink/purple for good measure.

http://img132.imageshack.us/img132/5646/dsc01266bp4.gif

http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/9158/dsc01267gr5.jpg

EDIT: Digimon, he was making fun of you for listing your stats and then putting -sexy as one, as if it's a concrete fact like your height or weight.

You remind me of a dude I used to have a crush on in college. He was a rocker dude too.

And LS I hear you on the bullshitters. It's not really just online though I have to deal with these folks in person on the job. It gets really hard balancing trying to be polite (for tips) while trying to get people to get the fucking hint. I mean come on, I can understand being attracted to older folks and all, but when a 60 year old is asking me if I want a bj in the bathroom I'm just like For fucking real dude. I'm 28, you're retired. Do I LOOK like a fucking prostitute or do I look like someone with so little self respect that I'd just in bed with the first sack of wrinkles who comes along, doesn't bother to tip, and tries to fuck me?

Anyway yeah, GTC's always been the shit.

[LightningStorm]

And LS I hear you on the bullshitters. It's not really just online though I have to deal with these folks in person on the job. It gets really hard balancing trying to be polite (for tips) while trying to get people to get the fucking hint. I mean come on, I can understand being attracted to older folks and all, but when a 60 year old is asking me if I want a bj in the bathroom I'm just like For fucking real dude. I'm 28, you're retired. Do I LOOK like a fucking prostitute or do I look like someone with so little self respect that I'd just in bed with the first sack of wrinkles who comes along, doesn't bother to tip, and tries to fuck me?


WOW, see, I could never do what you do. I'm just not that nice, I'd have hurt that old mans feelings and lost my job all in one foul swoop.


Anyway yeah, GTC's always been the shit.

Indeed.

[Mechanica]

I mean come on, I can understand being attracted to older folks and all, but when a 60 year old is asking me if I want a bj in the bathroom I'm just like For fucking real dude.

:rofl:

how often you gotta deal with shit like that?

[The Green Trench Coat]

You remind me of a dude I used to have a crush on in college. He was a rocker dude too.

And LS I hear you on the bullshitters. It's not really just online though I have to deal with these folks in person on the job. It gets really hard balancing trying to be polite (for tips) while trying to get people to get the fucking hint. I mean come on, I can understand being attracted to older folks and all, but when a 60 year old is asking me if I want a bj in the bathroom I'm just like For fucking real dude. I'm 28, you're retired. Do I LOOK like a fucking prostitute or do I look like someone with so little self respect that I'd just in bed with the first sack of wrinkles who comes along, doesn't bother to tip, and tries to fuck me?

Anyway yeah, GTC's always been the shit.

This guy goes to your bar.

http://www.youtube.com/v/7wf7Ngb51B4&rel=1

and I give cause i love enjoy guys.

[iwst99]

GTC...♪♫did I ever tell you....you're my heeeeeeeeeeeeero ♪♫

I got the package in Palm Springs and told Don to open it...THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!

You are 2awesome4me. It's definetly my cup of tea...thanks again. :lovin:

[The Green Trench Coat]

GTC...♪♫did I ever tell you....you're my heeeeeeeeeeeeero ♪♫

I got the package in Palm Springs and told Don to open it...THANK YOU SOOOOO MUCH!

You are 2awesome4me. It's definetly my cup of tea...thanks again. :lovin:


yes well.. nothing says thank you like more pics of your hot ass friends.. mmm daddy bears...*drool*

[F.A.C.E.]

No sarcasm, but glad to make you laugh. Buttsex for the motherfucking win. :tup:


Oh shit son, where's the F.A.C.E.?

I said tanned. . not necessarilyafrican-american fool. Dominican, Brazilian, Cuban, Puerto-Rican, Indain. . etc

And he's not my type anyhow.


220lbs is scary to me. I'm only but so big.

and BGC(blackgaychat) is late! A bunch of nasty lying childish idiodic HIV positive freaks. Ive heard too many stories.


For that matter. . Men4rent, adam4adam, thugs4sex. . whatever other male to male personal site out there..all lame. youre better off going to the club and seeing the SAME people, albeit more realistic and not at flashy angles and hot photoshop campaigns making groovy faces.




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and that brings me to something. .why do some men actually believe they are "straight" because they fuck women and screw around with men on the side?

I know people that claim they only date "straight men" but it sounds to me like they love guys with a severe case of identity crisis. And the gag is they usually end up dropping their asses shortly thereafter for a woman or another feminine boy.




On an unrelated note .. im so attracted to my barber hes so damn sexy. 15 is such a small price to pay to have his hands all over my face and talking to me while he cuts my hair.

*melts*

[The Green Trench Coat]

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and that brings me to something. .why do some men actually believe they are "straight" because they fuck women and screw around with men on the side?



I got a better question? Is the label that important? Some guys just dont want to be catagorized some do. Does it really matter?

[F.A.C.E.]

Well then if you dont want to be labeled why call yourself as straight when you clearly have sex with men?


I dont quite understand your response to my general question.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

So here's my new hair dye job, you guys missed the last one but oh well this one is cooler (and it can't be that exciting anyway). Many shades of blue with pink/purple for good measure.

http://img132.imageshack.us/img132/5646/dsc01266bp4.gif

http://img255.imageshack.us/img255/9158/dsc01267gr5.jpg


i like how the blue matches your eye color, iceman, BRRR.



@ all the GTC love: yes, the big guy has always been and is awesome. Rob, our den mother.

[The_Beast]

Please dont. I'd rather hear that you guys got yourselves something nice you've all earned it in my book. I consider you guys friends. I was able to look out so i did. No worries just enjoy the gifts.

If you are feeling particularly charitable though I wouldn't mind some pics of you :wgrin::lovin:



Then I need your email address. Not getting banned from SRK for that...

[The_Beast]

Enjoy GTC.

[Mechanica]

and that brings me to something. .why do some men actually believe they are "straight" because they fuck women and screw around with men on the side?

Do you really have to ask?

EDIT: A better bad question would be what makes femme gay guys act like girls? It sure as hell isn't being gay.

[DrumlinerJoe]

WOW, see, I could never do what you do. I'm just not that nice, I'd have hurt that old mans feelings and lost my job all in one foul swoop.


Well our bar is very loose, so they back us up when we have abusive customers so I've gone off on people before. All the employees have.



:rofl:

how often you gotta deal with shit like that?

Often enough to where I've learned how to handle the situation politely without giving up my dignity or making the guy look stupid. Keep in mind though this is only for big spenders, I've made crowds laugh at stupid cheapasses and wetbacks who get under my skin though.

[Mechanica]

i like how the blue matches your eye color, iceman, BRRR.

:cool: Thanks... unplanned side effect but I like it too.



Keep in mind though this is only for big spenders, I've made crowds laugh at stupid cheapasses and wetbacks who get under my skin though.

:lol: Right on.

Got to see my babe before he goes to France for the week. We got carried away and spent more time in the bedroom than we meant, but hey, who's complaining? :woot: I forgot my ring on his dresser and even though we'd already left, he turned back around, went in and got it for me. Aww. :lovin: What a sweetie.

Finals start tomorrow - Japanese tomorrow and Psych the next day. Not worried about Japanese but I'm about to go cram some psych. What's up with you guys? What finals do you guys have, if any (or had)?