Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[Khaotika!]

Mech, your hair rocks, such a cutie.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Mech, your hair rocks, such a cutie.

Grrr.. Khaotika send me pics. :lovin::wgrin:

[DrumlinerJoe]

I got a better question? Is the label that important? Some guys just dont want to be catagorized some do. Does it really matter?

Frankly I'm with FACE on this one. I can't stand the "straight" guys who come to my bar and profess for (literally) hours and hours a night about how straight they are, yet at 2am we're pulling them out of the restroom stall with another man. I mean I've had dudes who say shit like "I'm straight, BUT sometimes I like to get a little freaky." or something along those lines. But these fuckers who come in with shit like "Oh I only like pussy" and this and that and are trying to get fucked or sucked or whatever, that shit REALLY gets on my nerves. Who in the hell do they think they're fooling?

[The Green Trench Coat]

Frankly I'm with FACE on this one. I can't stand the "straight" guys who come to my bar and profess for (literally) hours and hours a night about how straight they are, yet at 2am we're pulling them out of the restroom stall with another man. I mean I've had dudes who say shit like "I'm straight, BUT sometimes I like to get a little freaky." or something along those lines. But these fuckers who come in with shit like "Oh I only like pussy" and this and that and are trying to get fucked or sucked or whatever, that shit REALLY gets on my nerves. Who in the hell do they think they're fooling?


Ultimately Who cares? in the same situation .. that same guy could say hey i'm gay. Now do you care any more than you did? no. If it makes them happy to think they are Straight or curious then imo Let live.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Ultimately Who cares? in the same situation .. that same guy could say hey i'm gay. Now do you care any more than you did? no. If it makes them happy to think they are Straight or curious then imo Let live.

Well I just have this thing where I really REALLY hate bullshitters. I have a hard time dealing with them and have an even harder time dealing with their bullshit. I guess it just grates me more cause I have to sit down and listen to them at work without stepping on their necks out of frustration.

[DrumlinerJoe]

This one's for FACE.

http://www.brightcove.tv/title.jsp?title=1111457986

[The Green Trench Coat]

Well I just have this thing where I really REALLY hate bullshitters. I have a hard time dealing with them and have an even harder time dealing with their bullshit. I guess it just grates me more cause I have to sit down and listen to them at work without stepping on their necks out of frustration.

OOHHHh wait wait wait. are you talking about Guys that try to talk to you and try to say that they are straight? That makes more sense .. yes i'd aggree I wouldn't want to deal with that especially since it's like the guy is not ready to come out and to get with a guy that's not out.. you kinda have to jump back into the closet just to carry on a relationship with them.. I see.


Otherwise I don't give a shit what anyone wants to call themselves unless they are trying to hang with me.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I think that labeling can be harmful and limiting in some respects, but don't sit there and tell me that you like sucking dick and getting fucked and you're straight. I might as well walk outside and say the sky is green. I'll give dudes some leeway when they say "I'm straight BUT etc." but not the dudes who come in talking bout they have a girl and a kid and are getting down with the trashy bathroom sex.

[The Green Trench Coat]

This one's for FACE.

http://www.brightcove.tv/title.jsp?title=1111457986



Its funny any of those guys wouldn't even get a second look from me. Hehe.. Thank goodness for diversity. :)

[DrumlinerJoe]

SOme of them are all right. A little bit too built up for me.

I'll always take Vin though.

http://vinmovies.tripod.com/vinpics/xxx/xxxcaps/xxxcap17.jpg

EDIT:

Oh yeah GTC, here's some pics I took already.

At work.
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01300.jpg

After work.
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01306.jpg

At work the next night.
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01319.jpg

[The Green Trench Coat]

SOme of them are all right. A little bit too built up for me.

I'll always take Vin though.

http://vinmovies.tripod.com/vinpics/xxx/xxxcaps/xxxcap17.jpg

EDIT:

Oh yeah GTC, here's some pics I took already.

At work.
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01300.jpg

After work.
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01306.jpg

At work the next night.
http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01319.jpg



Shit Joe.

I swear you are one sexy fuck'r If you weren't my brother I'd totally pounce on you.

[Dreamkiller]

Good thing he isnt my brother.
:wink:

[LightningStorm]

This one's for FACE.

http://www.brightcove.tv/title.jsp?title=1111457986

lol, most of those seem right up his alley. my instant reactions are:

1. nice body but ugly
2. hot body but FUGLY
3. a bit skinny, damn nice
4. decent body, decent face
5. pretty nice all around
6. I'm liking it
7. Not so much
8. Hot!
9. a tad too ripped, cute though
10. Uh WTF? NO!
11. show off! kinda hot though.
12. Yellow man! cute face, but not hot
13. He's pulling sexy off pretty well.
14. gross
15. Nice but too skinny
16. Something's not right here.

[F.A.C.E.]

Thanks. You all seem to know me better than I know myself.

They had nice bodies. Some of them had nice faces. I dont like long hair on men either.


I cant help it, I'm attracted to model-esque type men. And transexuls.

[Mechanica]

Who in the hell do they think they're fooling?
Themselves. Just let them pretend, if it really makes them feel that much better. :lol:

Mech, your hair rocks, such a cutie.

Thanks. :wgrin:

Ugh, so today I reviewed everything for my Japanese final, got to school, walked up the stairs with a buddy from Psych and then went left while he went right, and saw my Japanese class was empty and was like "wha" then he was like "What are you doing?" and I was like "Ohhh SHIT. TODAY IS PSYCH ISN'T IT?" and yes, it was my psych final, not my Japanese final. :wasted: How embarassing. I didn't even have my book and it was an open book final. My teacher had a book for me to use, thankfully, and I'm pretty sure I beasted it, but I was so nervous for a minute I had massive pit stains. :shake: In fact I never stopped sweating 'til I changed shirts. :looney:

Then I get a text from my whiner boss about how I need to come in to work so we can "talk". Yeah that was real fun. I pick up others' slack without complaining because I know shit happens and I know people make mistakes and forget stuff. Whatever, it's not that fucking hard to cook something or prepare something in between fucking customers. So basically, I pick up others' slack and can't quite get up to par with what should ALL be done, and then I fucking get in trouble because the next whiny bitch who fucking works complains and I GET ALL THE FUCKING FLAK. UGH. I HATE MY FUCKING BOSS SOMETIMES. If my co-workers wanna play this game, we can fucking play this game. I'm done being walked all over. I'm straight gonna fucking tape post-it notes listing every single fucking thing they forgot to do when I come into work. Let's see how they like that.

How it works is there's two people on shift, one on bar, that makes the drinks and serves customers, while the other person either does dishes, cleans, cooks what needs to be cooked, and rings up people if the person on bar is flooded with customers. I was on bar yesterday, so my coworker Jenn should have cooked some chicken for our chicken salad (WHICH WE WERE NOT OUT OF, THERE WAS STILL LIKE 3 FUCKING SERVINGS AND NOBODY GETS LUNCH SHIT UNTIL LIKE 1 IN THE FUCKING AFTERNOON) and made carrot cake but she didn't.

*sigh*

Sorry, I needed to rant and this was where I was. :lol:

[quiche]

ZOMG.

GTC, you have just been bumped up from 3rd to 2nd best gay friend.

I'm gonna make you a big avatar.

~quiche

[DrumlinerJoe]

Yeah Mech, underperforming coworkers are a bitch. I always just let them hang themselves in their own incompetence.

And I didn't care so much for the dudes on the vid I posted, just like 2 of them I guess. Like I said, a little too buit up for my tastes.

[quiche]

I'm gonna make you a big avatar.

~quichehttp://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC2.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC3.gif


...seriously.

[Mechanica]

Yeah Mech, underperforming coworkers are a bitch. I always just let them hang themselves in their own incompetence.
The most frustrating part is the things he fucking stresses the fuck out about are things that

NOBODY

but himself care about. Even our customers are in on the whole everyone-knows-mark-sucks-ass joke. Our customers love our fucking coffee shop, and if they ever have a complaint, they'll tell us. And we fix it. Did the drink suck or did they forget something? We fucking hook you up with a free drink or something. We give them free samples of anything, we seriously cater to their every fucking richie want & need. He seriously thinks our pastry case is way more important than it is, when in reality I'm tired of fucking throwing away perfectly usable delicious delicacies simply because we have TOO MUCH FUCKING SHIT TO SELL BECAUSE NOBODY CAN EAT THAT MUCH CARROT CAKE WITHOUT VOMITING.

Whoops here I go again. :sweat:

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC2.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC3.gif


...seriously.
Cute. :angel: He should rock the second or third one, I def' think GTC could use some avatar variety at this point.

[LightningStorm]

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC2.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC3.gif


...seriously.

LOL! I vote for the 2nd one, but they're all great.

[DrumlinerJoe]

My old boss was like that. He was literally doing ice on the job and he finally hung himself (not literally).

Anyway, I don't usually care for mashups, but this one is crazy.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=qmYDCg5okLw

[The Green Trench Coat]

ZOMG.

GTC, you have just been bumped up from 3rd to 2nd best gay friend.

I'm gonna make you a big avatar.

~quiche

no need dude I'm just glad you got it I was worried for a sec someone swiped your mail :sad::lovin:

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC2.gif
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/GTC3.gif


...seriously.

Oh wow.. yer quick. Really dude your awesome for doing this.. i havent changed my av in years All 3 are awesome Lemme think about it *bearhugs*

[quiche]

no need dude I'm just glad you got it I was worried for a sec someone swiped your mail :sad::lovin:



Oh wow.. yer quick. Really dude your awesome for doing this.. i havent changed my av in years All 3 are awesome Lemme think about it *bearhugs*No worries. You don't have to change your av unless you want to. I just wanted to do something for you in return (since I'm completely broke, lol)

...seriously.

[Dreamkiller]

I was so gassed. lol.
I thought it was pics of quiche.

[quiche]

If you search back in this thread, there are already plenty of pics of me.

Though, I'm "beardier" now than I was in those pics and have a handlebar moustache now.

...seriously.

[Mechanica]

"beardier"

pics or it didn't happen :angel:

[quiche]

:razz: I don't have a digital cam, but I'll see if I can make it happen.

...seriously.

[Mechanica]

:razz: I don't have a digital cam, but I'll see if I can make it happen.

...seriously.

that's what I like to hear. :pray:

[The Green Trench Coat]

So my daddybear ex boss and I are going out to dinner next week. He says "I wanna go some place just you and me, I miss you."

I'm completely melted. He's calling it a date actually he said i can bring my boyfriend on our next date.

I dont' think he's gonna make a move but i'm hoping we can get all makey outey for a little while again.

[Azagtoth]

So my daddybear ex boss and I are going out to dinner next week. He says "I wanna go some place just you and me, I miss you."

I'm completely melted. He's calling it a date actually he said i can bring my boyfriend on our next date.

I dont' think he's gonna make a move but i'm hoping we can get all makey outey for a little while again.

Wow that sounds awesome. :looney:

[BlodiaVulcan5]

How much of the "bear culture" do you guys observe in your everyday lives? i know GTC enjoys the Carebears plushies, what about the rest of you? it doesn't have to be a gay thing either, i could be you just like the animal.

[The Green Trench Coat]

How much of the "bear culture" do you guys observe in your everyday lives? i know GTC enjoys the Carebears plushies, what about the rest of you? it doesn't have to be a gay thing either, i could be you just like the animal.

in my everyday life? I just like care bears.. not really for the bear culture. I just like them.

I don't think that I observe the culture everyday aside from actually being a bear. I dont' have wear bear pride shirts or whatever till i go to the bars or a bear event which in actuality is very few and far between.

[Azagtoth]

How much of the "bear culture" do you guys observe in your everyday lives? i know GTC enjoys the Carebears plushies, what about the rest of you? it doesn't have to be a gay thing either, i could be you just like the animal.

Well I play Bear as my main in DR because Pandas are awesome. :tup:

As far as gay bear culture, next to nothing. :(

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Well yeah, i was just using you as an example. ;)

[The Green Trench Coat]

Well yeah, i was just using you as an example. ;)

s'okay I still love you *bearsqueezes blodia*

[iwst99]

Hmm...I bought my sister a GIANT teddy bear that is in my backseat. I owe her one for xmas (long story)...she lives in Mexico, so I'm going to have to take it on the plane. I also bought 3 other ones that are smaller, and they're also in my backseat. I bought them this weekend and I haven't taken them out. My co workers got in my car today and were like WTF's up with all these bears? They were two girls, then they started touching them and saying OMG they're so soft, and huggin them and stuff. Little do they know it's part of their xmas present this year :D

Also, I guess seeing my bear co-worker everyday is one thing...and seeing him and his bear partner at bowling too...hmmm....:lovin::lovin:

[Æther]

So I just came back from my second meeting with the chub.

We met up again at the same mall, had lunch but then went to his place.

However, as we got comfy we made it clear that we wouldn't be fooling around. So, at the most, we both took off our shirts and rubbed each other a bit as we saw The Game (didn't pay attention to half of the movie lol). However, as he was practically on me I started to shake A LOT. Like, from my spine up. I got up to get something to drink and after a while it stopped. So when I get back to him I shake again but not very much. I loved to feeling we were doing so I guess I was nervous... This has happened to some of you on your first time, right? I don't know since I've never had...you know what.

In any case I'll try to get some pics up tomorrow. Been up since early this morning and the date has zapped my energy. In a good way though. :lovin:

[Mechanica]

I've gotten shaky like that before too. :db:

[BeaTs*]

had a nice makeout/rub session with this cute cub yesterday =] I don't shake, but I'm very sensitive to other people's touch. It's a bit hard to feel up my shirt cause of it : / but it's good for other things!

[The Green Trench Coat]

shakey bakey

I wasn't like that my first time. but the first time a flirting attempt was successful and i got the guy I couldn't do it. Just as well though i had to be 14/15 at the time.

*story time*
There was a hot daddybear cab driver that i used to have a crush on .. and so over the course of a few months we became chatty i was a regular customer of his but i never said anything about gay at all or wanting to slob his knob and all that. so this one day I was taking the cab to the train station and he said "Oh man i need my beauty sleep" I said.. "no way you are super hot already, you gotta level it out some how right?"

He stopped the car we was on a back road (this was when i lived upstate) he adjusted his mirror so that i could see his eyes. I was like oh shit i just fucked up big time. He said "C'mon up front here". I did, Ithought he was gonna kick my ass. (this was way before i did any gymtime or anything) but i got up front and he continued driving, conversation continued about normal stuff.. it was like he was trying to find out what my angle was as if i was gonna turn narc if he tried anything on me. a few more months of this.. flirting got more obvious from both sides. then one night he took me to his place instead of taking me home we went up to his place which seemed like he had a million steps leading to his front door. He brought me inside Kissed me and then got undressed.

I just FROZE. Like my head was like Hell YEAH!!! but my body couldn't even Move. so he offered me something to drink i was like water .. he handed me the cup my hands wouldn't stop shaking.. i blamed the cold out side but it was like 50 degrees and i was still fully clothed... and he was naked. So he took me to his bedroom and asked me to give him a professional. I was like sure I think i licked it 2x and was like "i gotta go" LOL!!!!

I had chills down my spine and everything He said.. "don't be nervous" I was like "nah it's just the weather .. maybe you should invest in some Insullated windows." He laffed and said lemme take you home. I said no no that's cool you are already comfortable i can walk from here it's only a little ways (2 miles..turns out.. in the cold I shoulda taken the ride) he said ok.. then asked if we were cool. I told him that if it ever got out that this happened.. i'd be in way more trouble than he'd be in. (which was actually the truth [ even longer story])

I never got the chance to do it with him again but .. s'okay.. in retrospect he wasn't all that hot anyways. And at least i don't have a bad professional on my WhoreScore Card.

[BeaTs*]

professional?

I do get nervous sometimes and it shows (like yesterday...I'm used to [and like] being submissive and under a guy, but the other guy did too. was very weird being over him, but eventually I got it going ;] ), but never actually freeze up or shake, hummm

[The Green Trench Coat]

professional?

I do get nervous sometimes and it shows (like yesterday...I'm used to [and like] being submissive and under a guy, but the other guy did too. was very weird being over him, but eventually I got it going ;] ), but never actually freeze up or shake, hummm

professional = oral sex
3rd input = anal sex

I thought we were kinda talking about the first time or if it ever happened.

[BeaTs*]

professional = oral sex
3rd input = anal sex

lol really? haha 3rd input :rofl: though I find professional funnier

[The Green Trench Coat]

lol really? haha 3rd input :rofl: though I find professional funnier

Professionals are always entertaining.

[Dreamkiller]

Amen.

[iwst99]

So.....my Bear friend txt'd me Monday and said he was throwing a play party Tuesday and asked if I wanted to go. I wasn't planning to, but last minute I decided to.

There was about 10 people there...All chubs and cubs. I was the youngest and skinniest guy there. The ages ranged from about 28-36. Next guy after me was about 230lbs and then it went up from there.

It was pretty hawt, and there was this guy that I swear could be Quiche's twin. I was like WTF?? He was beardier than Quiche's old pics, so I'm assuming that's what he would have looked like now. I was kind of afraid since they were all chubs that they were be into chubs only...but I was wrong, and I'm glad. :D

It was a chubfest, and towards the end I was laying between one guy's legs, another guy was rubbing my nipple, another the other nipple, one was rimming me, and one was on my balls...while I JO'd...It should feel awesome, but it was like too many feelings to handle lol....I did eventually shoot and it was awesome.

I heart play parties. <3

[The Green Trench Coat]

So.....my Bear friend txt'd me Monday and said he was throwing a play party Tuesday and asked if I wanted to go. I wasn't planning to, but last minute I decided to.

There was about 10 people there...All chubs and cubs. I was the youngest and skinniest guy there. The ages ranged from about 28-36. Next guy after me was about 230lbs and then it went up from there.

It was pretty hawt, and there was this guy that I swear could be Quiche's twin. I was like WTF?? He was beardier than Quiche's old pics, so I'm assuming that's what he would have looked like now. I was kind of afraid since they were all chubs that they were be into chubs only...but I was wrong, and I'm glad. :D

It was a chubfest, and towards the end I was laying between one guy's legs, another guy was rubbing my nipple, another the other nipple, one was rimming me, and one was on my balls...while I JO'd...It should feel awesome, but it was like too many feelings to handle lol....I did eventually shoot and it was awesome.

I heart play parties. <3

Geeze dude.


Hey bloodia how come you never say anything about iwst and his activities.
Bloodia thinks i'm the biggest bear whore evah.. I'm teasing.

Sounds like you had a good time. I've only ever been to one play party it was a little weird so many hands

[BeaTs*]

so where did digimon emperor go?

and Amir Amir Amir

[Azagtoth]

It was a chubfest

Too many words, not enough pics. :(

Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir

[iwst99]

Hey bloodia how come you never say anything about iwst and his activities.
Bloodia thinks i'm the biggest bear whore evah.. I'm teasing.

Sounds like you had

Well, I'm not a bear, so I can't be considered the "biggest bear whore evah"...you still have the title :P

It started out kind of slow...everyone seemed shy, and there was a shitty pr0n on the TV in the living room. It was the type of guys that Jimmy the Hand and FACE would be into, and it was just cheezy. That, and it kept blacking out...so much for VHS tapes. Everyone was slow to take their clothes off, except the host who took a shower and was walking around in a towel around his waist. Eventually he got one person to take off their shirt, then another. Some were being bitchy saying, I won't unless he does it. They were like 5 year olds....

My friend said, c'mon IWST take off your clothes, you put on a show infront of 20 people all the time at the spa. I said yeah, but when I do that, EVERYONE ELSE THERE IS NAKED, not fully clothed. He just chuckled and agreed. I did have to be the one to actually start doing some playing, and that got the ball rolling. :D

[iwst99]

Too many words, not enough pics. :(

Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir

Lol, Check PMs.

And Amir is too busy with his new cub boyfriend. :( :( :(

[The Green Trench Coat]

It was the type of guys that Jimmy the Hand and FACE would be into,

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

Jimmy the Hand Loves the cock.

[iwst99]

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

Jimmy the Hand Loves the cock.

I threw his name in there cause he posts here so much.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I threw his name in there cause he posts here so much.

good job. It's still funny :rofl::lol:

[BeaTs*]

Lol, Check PMs.

And Amir is too busy with his new cub boyfriend. :( :( :(so I heard, bah it has to be too much cuteness :arazz:

pics? :looney: lol there were pics? :sweat:

that's probably a situation where I would freeze up :wasted: the first time anyway

[Azagtoth]

Lol, Check PMs.

And Amir is too busy with his new cub boyfriend. :( :( :(

Noice.

And I don't care Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir.

[Mechanica]

Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=M2FdjP60FO0

[Dreamkiller]

Wow, so Amir's really gay and he has close matches in Marvel.
lol. Interesting.

[iwst99]

Wow, so Amir's really gay and he has close matches in Marvel.
lol. Interesting.

And he's one of the best 3s players in the US =\

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Hey bloodia how come you never say anything about iwst and his activities.
Bloodia thinks i'm the biggest bear whore evah.. I'm teasing.


Whore? nah, you have too much class to be a whore. :wink: You just have alot more experience than the rest of us here, put together. So I tease the crap out of you.

I don't have any opinions on his activities really, other than "play parties" have a strict "no jizzing" policy (I assume), not that i've been to one and know the ins and outs of that kind of party. I just read "orgy orgy orgy" in his post. I just have the notion that "play" meant heavy, deep cuddling and so forth, without actually doing much. So, yeah.

[iwst99]

I don't have any opinions on his activities really, other than "play parties" have a strict "no jizzing" policy (I assume), .

lololololol

Geeez. I better specify.

By "play party" I meant gay man sex with semen everywhere.

I just called it play party cause that's what he called it when he invited me.

I though we were going to play 3s...but I was wrong. :'(

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Oh well then, hope you suited up with a trench raincoat.

[LightningStorm]

You just have alot more experience than the rest of us here, put together.

No he doesn't, unless you meant specifically with Bears.. then yeah OK maybe.

If I'm remembering correctly GTC and I are about the same age.

[Azagtoth]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=M2FdjP60FO0

God damn Amir is nasty.

[The Green Trench Coat]

No he doesn't, unless you meant specifically with Bears.. then yeah OK maybe.

If I'm remembering correctly GTC and I are about the same age.

you are 28 right? i'm 29. soon to be 30 in march :sad: but actually i look forward to it so :wgrin:. I hear that 30's for most people are the most fun years. For my sake they better be.

[LightningStorm]

you are 28 right? i'm 29. soon to be 30 in march :sad: but actually i look forward to it so :wgrin:. I hear that 30's for most people are the most fun years. For my sake they better be.


I'll be 30 in January. :sweat:

[The Green Trench Coat]

I'll be 30 in January. :sweat:

Look at that.. your older than me by a few months, Cool. You gonna do anything cool for your 30th?

I'm definitley going to take the drivers seat for my 30th birthday. I'm usually are very blah about my birthdays, but this time i'm trying to be as proactive as possible to be sure i have a really fun one. to be honest I planned on buying myself a motorcycle for my 30th.. but then .. i figured I don't want to add yet another reason to why I wont live to 35.

[LightningStorm]

Nah, I don't plan to do anything, it's not really special to me, more to everybody else. Plus the fact that I'm not really a party kinda guy nor do I drink, so that limits the vast majority of people's idea of fun for me.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Nah, I don't plan to do anything, it's not really special to me, more to everybody else. Plus the fact that I'm not really a party kinda guy nor do I drink, so that limits the vast majority of people's idea of fun for me.

Now you've got me curious. So whats your idea of "a blast" you seem so reserved. I'm curious to know your idea of an absolutely amazing time .. go nuts with your answer too doesnt have to be in the realm of likely to happen or not likely just your idea of a blast.

[Mechanica]

Good to see you guys aren't overstressing about turning 30 because it really doesn't fucking matter. Guys over 30 are hotter half the time anyway! :bgrin:

[LightningStorm]

Now you've got me curious. So whats your idea of "a blast" you seem so reserved. I'm curious to know your idea of an absolutely amazing time .. go nuts with your answer too doesnt have to be in the realm of likely to happen or not likely just your idea of a blast.

By standard definition of the term... there exist no such situation.

The closest would be Tournaments I've gone to, where the competition is fierce but cool (i.e. not all over cocky about their l33tness) and the wait time isn't an hour between matches. Then (still speaking of tournaments here) a group of us going somewhere and grabbing food and chilling for a minute and either go back to get more games in or then be done.

For me, it depends on what I've got going on. If I've got a lot of stuff I want to do (note the "want," not "need") then I'm happiest if I've got TONS of time to myself where I can do a LOT of relaxing and being lazy with no obligations or responsibilities and still have time to do the things I want to do to completion.

If I (which is fairly rare) have a want for people to be around, then I have a very specific list of people I'd be able to stand for an extended period of time, and even they usually only in certain situations.

Now, keep in mind those are best-case-scenarios. I have gone to the club before and had a decent time (wouldn't call any of those a "blast" however). And I've gone to several Gay Prides with a decent amount of fun, same goes for other various Entertainment venues. These things are all OK, but not like "WOW, OMG That was HELLA FUN!"

Perhaps the deal is that the word "fun" doesn't mean to me what it seems to mean to the rest of the world. Fun is not some hyper activity for me that requires action or even necessarily much movement on my part. I can have a lot of "fun" reading a good book. Hell I have "fun" talking on boards like this (although I talk more on a Star Trek board I'm apart of than here). The most fun I have is actually when I have time to think about some various programming project I'm working on and actually go work on it without some sort of stopping deadline due to "having to go do this or that."

[The Green Trench Coat]

Perhaps the deal is that the word "fun" doesn't mean to me what it seems to mean to the rest of the world. Fun is not some hyper activity for me that requires action or even necessarily much movement on my part. I can have a lot of "fun" reading a good book. Hell I have "fun" talking on boards like this (although I talk more on a Star Trek board I'm apart of than here). The most fun I have is actually when I have time to think about some various programming project I'm working on and actually go work on it without some sort of stopping deadline due to "having to go do this or that."

Intreresting indeed.. you are a strange bird. Not trying to psycho analize you *cause i'm sure i would be 95% wrong if i even tried* Do you have a big family like brothers and sisters.. not so much extended family.

I find your comments intresting cause as i get older i too find myself really.. Let's say treasuring my alone time. I wonder if your like me in the sense that while you can appreciate company you are very much a loner. I even enjoy dining alone, movies alone... alot of things that people would think are "group" activities i enjoy by myself.

I've got this mantra about other people in general that I think is kinda in line with the things you are saying.

[BeaTs*]

By standard definition of the term... there exist no such situation.

The closest would be Tournaments I've gone to, where the competition is fierce but cool (i.e. not all over cocky about their l33tness) and the wait time isn't an hour between matches. Then (still speaking of tournaments here) a group of us going somewhere and grabbing food and chilling for a minute and either go back to get more games in or then be done.

For me, it depends on what I've got going on. If I've got a lot of stuff I want to do (note the "want," not "need") then I'm happiest if I've got TONS of time to myself where I can do a LOT of relaxing and being lazy with no obligations or responsibilities and still have time to do the things I want to do to completion.

If I (which is fairly rare) have a want for people to be around, then I have a very specific list of people I'd be able to stand for an extended period of time, and even they usually only in certain situations.

Now, keep in mind those are best-case-scenarios. I have gone to the club before and had a decent time (wouldn't call any of those a "blast" however). And I've gone to several Gay Prides with a decent amount of fun, same goes for other various Entertainment venues. These things are all OK, but not like "WOW, OMG That was HELLA FUN!"

Perhaps the deal is that the word "fun" doesn't mean to me what it seems to mean to the rest of the world. Fun is not some hyper activity for me that requires action or even necessarily much movement on my part. I can have a lot of "fun" reading a good book. Hell I have "fun" talking on boards like this (although I talk more on a Star Trek board I'm apart of than here). The most fun I have is actually when I have time to think about some various programming project I'm working on and actually go work on it without some sort of stopping deadline due to "having to go do this or that."you explain "a blast" exactly (well, maybe not 100% exactly) the way I couldn't explain for myself. or maybe I was just too lazy to explain it hehe.

[LightningStorm]

Intreresting indeed.. you are a strange bird. Not trying to psycho analize you *cause i'm sure i would be 95% wrong if i even tried* Do you have a big family like brothers and sisters.. not so much extended family.

I find your comments intresting cause as i get older i too find myself really.. Let's say treasuring my alone time. I wonder if your like me in the sense that while you can appreciate company you are very much a loner. I even enjoy dining alone, movies alone... alot of things that people would think are "group" activities i enjoy by myself.

I've got this mantra about other people in general that I think is kinda in line with the things you are saying.

Only child, and just my mom.

And me it's not so much an as I get older thing, I've always been this way. It may, however, be getting more pronounced as I get older, but that's due to having to interact with more people and realizing that I've been right all along about how stupid people are. <<This BTW is my general philosophy on people. At least 95% of the world population is stupid. But the important thing to keep in mind even with that is not to underestimate anybody, lest ye be the stupid one.

[Dreamkiller]

This is gonna bother me forever since i dont know it.
But in the episode of Futurama that i jus watched.
A Tale Of Two Santas.
They have a cute little song.
Im not much of a christmas or a song person but, i can swear up and down the bible that that is a real song and all they did was replace the lyrics.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=dAsGWd8QrFk&feature=related
Am i right? Or am i jus buggin?

[Amir]

Lol, Check PMs.

And Amir is too busy with his new cub boyfriend. :( :( :(


Other way around, I'm the cub :)

oh and hey guys :sweat:

[Azagtoth]

Other way around, I'm the cub :)

oh and hey guys :sweat:

Pics of your apparently not-cub BF please.

[iwst99]

Other way around, I'm the cub :)

oh and hey guys :sweat:

Phhh, you're both cubs. Y'all look like twins.

Pics of your apparently not-cub BF please.

Checks PMs.

[BeaTs*]

Pics?

[Mechanica]

Pics or it didn't happen. :cool:

[Amir]

http://s244.photobucket.com/albums/gg18/Amirxl/?action=view&current=TomandI10-9-07.jpg

Me on the left.

[Azagtoth]

http://s244.photobucket.com/albums/gg18/Amirxl/?action=view&current=TomandI10-9-07.jpg

Me on the left.

Nice. You're both pretty cute.

[The Grey Area]

I have a bit of a question for you guys.

First I want you to understand that it is not loaded or meant to imply anything. Joe can vouch for me a little.

I sometimes read this thread and for the most part I see stories of encounters, one night stands and the like. This tends to be what I see and hear about in my dealings with most Gay people I know. I suppose that it makes perfect sense when looks at most heterosexual couples and see a guy that wants to sex any and everytime and a female who while also liking the sex; values the relationship a bit more. It seems that when you take the female out of the equation you have a bunch of guys doing what many guys like doing, just minus the "roadblock" of a woman.

Is this pretty much the norm? I don't want to take a trend that I notice as one person and turn it into a generalization, so I won't.

I just wonder, in your lives and social circles, do you find that most Gay guys just want to get their "rocks off" or is that kind of like the "Black Thug" image that gets beaten into or heads growing up in the world we live in and has little basis in truth.


ADD(to the point) version: Are you or any Gay person you know more relationship oriented than encounter oriented? If so, are these people in the minority?

[The Green Trench Coat]

I have a bit of a question for you guys.

First I want you to understand that it is not loaded or meant to imply anything. Joe can vouch for me a little.

I sometimes read this thread and for the most part I see stories of encounters, one night stands and the like. This tends to be what I see and hear about in my dealings with most Gay people I know. I suppose that it makes perfect sense when looks at most heterosexual couples and see a guy that wants to sex any and everytime and a female who while also liking the sex; values the relationship a bit more. It seems that when you take the female out of the equation you have a bunch of guys doing what many guys like doing, just minus the "roadblock" of a woman.

Is this pretty much the norm? I don't want to take a trend that I notice as one person and turn it into a generalization, so I won't.

I just wonder, in your lives and social circles, do you find that most Gay guys just want to get their "rocks off" or is that kind of like the "Black Thug" image that gets beaten into or heads growing up in the world we live in and has little basis in truth.


ADD(to the point) version: Are you or any Gay person you know more relationship oriented than encounter oriented? If so, are these people in the minority?

relationship oriented gay people are in the majority I'd say.

Most of the single gays here are looking for bf's not for hookups per say. The only reason why you hear about alot of our escapades is because of us telling stories of things that have happened to us or are going on But speaking for myself.. alot of the things i talk about are YEARS apart from eachother and sexcapades are actually few and far between.


consider the topic of conversation when you hear from gay people you deal with they may just be talking about past dealings as opposed to current goings on.

Myself I'm in a Relationship.. and going on 5 years together i 'd say it's an LTR Azagtoth, Iwst, Amir, mech are all in relationships too. Considering 4 of the 5 mentioned are major contributers to the thread here should be noted.

I won't lie that in most cases it's easier to get right down to buisness in the gay world than in the straight world. Maybe that's why it seems that we are more promiscuous? I mean i know straight guys that hit it and quit it and I know gay guys that do that too.

[BeaTs*]

I would prefer a relationship...but never have been in one and yeah...I won't pass up sex...until I can find a guy who isn't a liar/selfish asshole/psycho.

[DrumlinerJoe]

So I got a cute dude's # at work and I really don't know what to think. He may just be a playa or just looking for a hookup or something. I don't know. I really think at this point if it's nothing else than that I'm down.

So how ya'll doing with Christmas shopping? My bar has been doing so poorly that I'm really gonna be cutting it close this year. And every gift is gonna be like no more than 20 bucks. I feel bad, but hey when there's no cash flow what can you do.

[Azagtoth]

relationship oriented gay people are in the majority I'd say.

This. If I wasn't happily taken already, I'd probably be the same.

[DrumlinerJoe]

The thing I tend to see is a lot of dudes are looking for Mr. Right, but aren't doing a whole hell of a lot to BE Mr. Right. Drinking every day, flirting around, talking vocally about their boyfriends to everyone, the list goes on and on.

[Azagtoth]

The thing I tend to see is a lot of dudes are looking for Mr. Right, but aren't doing a whole hell of a lot to BE Mr. Right. Drinking every day, flirting around, talking vocally about their boyfriends to everyone, the list goes on and on.

Haha sounds about right.

WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND A DECENT GUY HEY YOU I'LL GIVE YOU A HUMMER FOR 3 BUCKS

[DrumlinerJoe]

"There aren't any good guys out there. Maybe I'll find him while I'm doing a line in the restroom."

[iwst99]

I have a bit of a question for you guys.

First I want you to understand that it is not loaded or meant to imply anything. Joe can vouch for me a little.

I sometimes read this thread and for the most part I see stories of encounters, one night stands and the like. This tends to be what I see and hear about in my dealings with most Gay people I know. I suppose that it makes perfect sense when looks at most heterosexual couples and see a guy that wants to sex any and everytime and a female who while also liking the sex; values the relationship a bit more. It seems that when you take the female out of the equation you have a bunch of guys doing what many guys like doing, just minus the "roadblock" of a woman.

Is this pretty much the norm? I don't want to take a trend that I notice as one person and turn it into a generalization, so I won't.

I just wonder, in your lives and social circles, do you find that most Gay guys just want to get their "rocks off" or is that kind of like the "Black Thug" image that gets beaten into or heads growing up in the world we live in and has little basis in truth.


ADD(to the point) version: Are you or any Gay person you know more relationship oriented than encounter oriented? If so, are these people in the minority?

Well, I'm in a relationship, but also play around. And I'm not sure what you've been reading, but I don't think most guys in here are into random encounters but are looking for a relationship. I have been in a happy relationship for almost 4 years, but I do engage in random encounters, often. This doesn't work for everyone, but it works for us. I think it's about half and half in the relationship/encounter ratio, atleast from the gay men I know. As for the random encounters/one night stands, I'm not sure how many in people in here post often about one night stands, but I don't think it's a lot.

Also, I believe there is a difference between sex and love. I am in love with my partner, and not in love with my random one night stands, or those guys I might get together with few times a week...Knowing this can make life a little bit easier and a lot more fun.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I think an open relationship can work for some folks, but for other can be a boxing match waiting to happen. I know I personally couldn't do it, but I respect that others can.

I like this new dude I been chatting with. He's a sweetheart. Nothing's really come of it yet, but he's smart which is a huge turnon for me. I mean for real, I really react to that.

[iwst99]

NOTE: I started writing this post, and it was one paragraph long, then I just started adding more and more about what's been going on with me these past few days, and it became a huge post....(It's been a good last few months). Read if you want...
/NOTE

I went to my bowling league banquet today. I didn't win much money (you get money by doing well on the last day...some guy made $900+ bucks), but I did get the highest handicap series in the whole season so I got a nice plaque. If you don't know what this means, basically, one of the nights I bowled I got the best score out of anyone in the last 4 months. :D There were also some raffles and I got some fragrance, aromatic shit for decoration donated by someone :/ It was cool, and the food was awesome. Weeeeeeee.

Anyways, I took tomorrow off and me and HR co-worker (who also took the day off) are going to disneyland. We did it during the week so we wouldn't have to deal with too many people (eg, LIL KIDS!). It's fun to have someone you can work with (since he's my co-worker..), hang out with, go to the movies, go to dinner, play around with (you know what that means), go to disneyland, and JUST BE FRIENDS. As hard as that relationship might be to grasp, it's awesome. :D :D :D

I also had a client yesterday for some computer stuff (my side business). It was really simple work, I was there less than 3 hours and made $220 bucks :D It's nice having clients who xmas tip. It will help for this coming weekend when my man and I take off to Cancun to visit my mom and sister...they've never met, so it will be an interesting xmas. Although my sister is only 11, so we told her that he's my boss from work.

Also, today I hung out with this guy I've become friends from one of my gay bowling leagues. He's really fun, and we talk the whole time we're bowling. Even my bear bowling partners approve of his looks (which is rare, they're picky). We have a lot in common, including having lived in Russia, which is a huge plus. We both love this show called Project Runway, so he TiVo'd it for me and saved until I came over, so we watched them today, lots of fun. I don't know if anything is going to happen (sexually), but the way things are going it's looking good...we made a date to see that movie Juno when it comes out in our area. We hug and kiss (not make out, just hello and goodbye) and sometimes we'll just stare in each other's eyes for like 30 seconds (GTC knows the look...), but even if nothing happens, it's cool, he's a really fun guy, and awesome to hang with.

ALSO (geez, i should shuddap) I used to be on two bowling leagues, but I quit one of them cause my teammates kinda sucked and never showed up ( I didn't get to pick them). I went back though and just subbed for the rest of the season, mostly for this one team who I became friends with. Well one of the guys isn't coming back and they asked me if I wanted to join. I wasn't sure if I wanted to, but after seeing them get 3rd place in this season, I'm pretty sure I'll join. To make a long story short, I banged one of my future teammates this week as well. :sweat: (He started it :wonder:) I know it will be a fun bowing season. And it also turns out that this new team I'm bowling with was the same team the guy in the paragraph above this one teamed with years ago. Their 4th person has always been a different person, so technically I'm replacing the spot the guy above used to have years ago. I've met all these people on seperate leagues...it's a small world after all. /disneyland reference.

Geez.. I'm done.

EDIT: Oh yeah, and I got an $1800 bonus at work :D:D:D

[The Green Trench Coat]

Also, today I hung out with this guy I've become friends from one of my gay bowling leagues. He's really fun, and we talk the whole time we're bowling. Even my bear bowling partners approve of his looks (which is rare, they're picky). We have a lot in common, including having lived in Russia, which is a huge plus. We both love this show called Project Runway, so he TiVo'd it for me and saved until I came over, so we watched them today, lots of fun. I don't know if anything is going to happen (sexually), but the way things are going it's looking good...we made a date to see that movie Juno when it comes out in our area. We hug and kiss (not make out, just hello and goodbye) and sometimes we'll just stare in each other's eyes for like 30 seconds (GTC knows the look...), but even if nothing happens, it's cool, he's a really fun guy, and awesome to hang with.


Kinda sounds like something i'm going through with my buddy Charles. Charles is really sexy bear cub of a guy tall really cute and all and we hang out every so often but it's always platonic.. or at least we try to keep it there. I know his boyfriend he knows mine and he's monogamus and a very honest and upstanding gay dude all around. But man i tell you .. when ever we hang out just he and I we always get to a point where i'm lookin in his eyes a little to long.. or we'll be exchanging I love yous and the pause is just a bit to long... or we'll be kissing goodbye to eachother and we're lip locked just a bit longer than we should be.. or we'll be talking extremely close.. It's an odd situation. I Was talking to angel about all this and angel even says "Dont do it.. even if it comes up don't do it" and I Definitely agree.. i do want to, i know it would be awesome but this is one situation where i think even if he compromised himself for me I need to be able to tell him no.

it's so weird though.. like.. do you ever talk to someone you find attractive and they are close enough to kiss you. You can kinda feel like actual heat in between you.. We went out for beers and wings together not to long ago and we got to a point where we were talking about sex and it was like .. You know when like the conditions are perfect to make out with the guy. I felt like we were supposed to make out... if that makes any sense. It's hard staying in control but i feel like for both our sakes i need to.

In other news i find out today where i'm going on my date with daddybear.

[iwst99]

Kinda sounds like something i'm going through with my buddy Charles.

Hah! Funny thing is, his name is Charles too. Maybe it's the same Charles. :looney: Oh wait, we're on opposite coasts.



In other news i find out today where i'm going on my date with daddybear.

Hope it goes well!!!

[Azagtoth]

:looney: Oh wait, we're on opposite coasts.

One man. Two other men. Separate sides of the country? Long distance love triangles, next on Sick Sad World.

[iwst99]

I miss Daria. :(

[Azagtoth]

I miss Daria. :(

Me too. :(

Fucking MTV.

[The Green Trench Coat]

One man. Two other men. Separate sides of the country? Long distance love triangles, next on Sick Sad World.

Sick Sad World is awesome.

[Khaotika!]

Good to see you guys aren't overstressing about turning 30 because it really doesn't fucking matter. Guys over 30 are hotter half the time anyway! :bgrin:

We are? Hooray! (hehehe)

DARIA!!! <3 Daria.

[Mechanica]

I have a bit of a question for you guys.

It's not that there's an overwhelming amount of people just into hooking up (vs. relationships), it's that you hear them talk about it more. Because it's just an expendable lay for them to blab about, basically. I'm all for relationships because passionate sex with someone you're in love with could never, ever be matched by a random hookup.

However, your inquiry is just - there's a lot of gay guys that utilize the fact that guys are horny and can't get pregnant making random hook-ups (potentially :razzy: ) less risky and definitely easier. It's easier than easy to find another guy who wants to just get off. Problem is they're usually creepers. :lol:

We are? Hooray! (hehehe)

Yes. :angel: I don't know how much my opinion counts though.

I just got back from Random Select Winter Showdown last night, which was Seattle/Portland's first major tourney in a while. I got seeded absolutely horribly in ST and got knocked out right away. Guilty Gear was also pretty ugly but I don't have human competition in that game so what could I expect.

I got 5th in 3s though! :party:

As soon as this guy (LTB) showed up, I knew I'd get seeded against him and I knew he'd knock me out of the tourney. *sigh* He's this Seattle player that I play in casuals that I cannot beat... so not only is he way better than me, & picks a way better character, but he fucking knows how I play. :rofl: Pissed me off but not really because at least it was a top 5 match and got recorded. The thing that really pissed me off was my stick was messing up for the first half of my matches and would just hold right or left. Unplayable. So I switched to someone's (PIECE OF SHIT) tekken 5 stick and lost to that Virsaga kid because I couldn't low block. Gross. I whooped ass in Loser's though.

Then I had the perfect ending to my weekend with my boyfriend involving fire and wine and :lovin:

[quiche]

pics or it didn't happen :angel:

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/DSCI0048.jpg
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/DSCI0049.jpg

Bonus:
Me w/ my homosexual roommate:
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/DSCI0057.jpg

...seriously.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

where's the monocle that goes with that 'stache?

[Mechanica]

where's the monocle that goes with that 'stache?

LOL f'real. He needs one.

[The Green Trench Coat]

where's the monocle that goes with that 'stache?

kinda looks like he own's the 2 railroads and some property on park place.

Also i just passed go where's my 200 dollars quiche'.



Seriously the look suits you. You look good.

[iwst99]

Bonus:
Me w/ my homosexual roommate:
http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/DSCI0057.jpg

...seriously.

Geez....you posted your roommate before cause we asked you...then I think we had him banned from this thread. Please quit posting pics of him. :( That moustache is ownage though.



Had a freaking awesome time at Disneyland with my co-worker today. Gayest place on earth. :D

[BlodiaVulcan5]

The haunted mansion is decked out in a Nightmare Before Christmas theme, is it not? I went there last year around this time, and they went all out. Rave colors and blacklights everywhere, it was seizure inducing and awesome. The ride stopped for me, twice on the same run, for about 15 minutes, and i found it funny that the narrator was speaking in different languages with the same ghoulish tone to calm the passengers of the delays... Sucks that i will miss it this year. :( Glad you had a merry ol' time, iwst.

[Dreamkiller]

Wow Quiche, nice stache'. lol. Its cute though.

Mech - Ew ST. lol. Good shit in 3S though. Hopefully we'll meet up in a random tourney one day. Ima get into more 2D and end up traveling for CvS2. CvS2 = Very much :lovin:

[Mechanica]

I think the moustache is funny/hilarious and cool, but honestly on the attractive scale it's just goofy. :lol: Detracts from taking you seriously... but you seem like you'd work with that.


Ew ST. lol.
I'll let that fly because I used to think the same thing


Good shit in 3S though. Hopefully we'll meet up in a random tourney one day.
That'd be cool... except that you play Chun Li so I'd have to give you the merciless beatdown. No mercy for that thunderthigh bitch. I was on fire in 3s, though. If I hadn't gone up against someone who knows how I play/has played me a lot, I'm confident I would've done better maybe even gotten 4th or 3rd. I can handle anything but a Ken that knows how I play! :tdown:


Ima get into more 2D . . .
that's what I like to hear

CvS2 = Very much :lovin:
Eh. But if it makes you travel somewhere then that's cool. :lol: That game is so gross at a tournament level.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Hey GTC, guess what you got me... a catalyst for my work and career...

click - what it could be? hmm... (http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y148/Terrain/blodia-thanks.jpg)

I just wanna say thanks for being a wonderful friend. You've given me something that will hugely help me in my studies. This is the first tablet I've ever owned, i've always wanted one but never got the chance to get one, so you can see how much it means to me.

You're too fucking awesome, rob. *bearhug* :lovin::amazed:

I hope the rest of ya'll's gifts from were as thoughtful and wonderful, as mine.

[Mechanica]

Your handwriting's awesome - it's like a messy handwriting font... but how? :lol:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Hey GTC, guess what you got me... a catalyst for my work and career...

click - what it could be? hmm... (http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y148/Terrain/blodia-thanks.jpg)

I just wanna say thanks for being a wonderful friend. You've given me something that will hugely help me in my studies. This is the first tablet I've ever owned, i've always wanted one but never got the chance to get one, so you can see how much it means to me.

You're too fucking awesome, rob. *bearhug* :lovin::amazed:

I hope the rest of ya'll's gifts from were as thoughtful and wonderful, as mine.

No worries pup. Glad you enjoyed it. If i made any of you guys happy that's my xmas gift to me :lovin: *bearhugs everyone in the thread*

[iwst99]

No worries pup. Glad you enjoyed it. If i made any of you guys happy that's my xmas gift to me :lovin: *bearhugs everyone in the thread*

I had already given Don a flight to cancun for xmas, but with what you gave me, it helped spring for a nice little mp3 player, since the one he had was about 512mb :looney: I gave it to him before his trip (since his is about 7 hrs) and he's loaded up his favorite album's on it to take on the flight. He's really happy. (he could only put like 60 songs before) And so am I. Thanks again!

[The Green Trench Coat]

I had already given Don a flight to cancun for xmas, but with what you gave me, it helped spring for a nice little mp3 player, since the one he had was about 512mb :looney: I gave it to him before his trip (since his is about 7 hrs) and he's loaded up his favorite album's on it to take on the flight. He's really happy. (he could only put like 60 songs before) And so am I. Thanks again!

2 birds ...

Actually that's part of the reason i sent early. I figured I may be able to help you guys gift others and that's just as if not more awesome than anything. Like i said before if I made you smile than that's my gift to me.. i was able to help you do something nice for your bf that's awesome *More Bearhugs*

Honestly guys if you knew me better you'd know I do cherish the people i call friends. You think this was something me an angel are pretty much the Bear rescue rangers to our local friends. so t'werent nothin' :sweat::sweat::lovin::wgrin:

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Your handwriting's awesome - it's like a messy handwriting font... but how? :lol:

it's consistently shitty, that's probably how. :looney:

[BlodiaVulcan5]

No worries pup. Glad you enjoyed it. If i made any of you guys happy that's my xmas gift to me :lovin: *bearhugs everyone in the thread*

I'm having a blast drawing mustaches and goatees on everything, and erasing existing mustaches.

[iwst99]

The haunted mansion is decked out in a Nightmare Before Christmas theme, is it not? I went there last year around this time, and they went all out. Rave colors and blacklights everywhere, it was seizure inducing and awesome. The ride stopped for me, twice on the same run, for about 15 minutes, and i found it funny that the narrator was speaking in different languages with the same ghoulish tone to calm the passengers of the delays... Sucks that i will miss it this year. :( Glad you had a merry ol' time, iwst.

Yeah, the Haunted Mansion was AWESOME this way. I thought it was kind of lame before, but the NBC theme made it pretty cool. Small World also gets a xmas make over.

[Azagtoth]

CvS2 = Very much :lovin:

I agree. The Deuce is hotness.

[The Grey Area]

A bit late but yeah, Daria was beyond awesome. Her and Trent's ol' Pedo ass.

[iwst99]

Because of this thread I'm downloading the 10gb torrent with all the shows and 2 movies....

I would buy them but MTV has not made the DVD collection. :(

[BlodiaVulcan5]

the daria series occasionally runs on Nick's Noggin channel, so you can catch it that way. As far as when, you got me, i don't watch much tv, i'm a book and film guy.

[iwst99]

I don't have cable. I used to watch it on noggin though. That was like in 2004 though.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

2004? well damn, shows how much I watch TV, it feels like daria showing on noggin was recent.

[iwst99]

2004? well damn, shows how much I watch TV, it feels like daria showing on noggin was recent.

No, I'm saying I used to watch it back then. They might still have passed for a few years, I don't know.

ANYWAYS, show rocked hard. :D

Oh, and LOL at New Gladiator's show: http://perezhilton.com/?p=10748

[iwst99]

I love rain...:lovin:

Not when it pours and gets you all soaked wet while trying to get to your car. :sad: (like it did earlier)

Instead, when you're laying in bed, lights are out, you're nice and warm and comfy and you hear it hitting your window, the trees, the sidewalk and the world out there. It brings back memories...it brings new thoughts. It seems like life's problems just vanish away and leave alone the rain and I. Nothing else matters at this moment, and I love it. The only thing greater is waking up to the rain outside, where it's only partially light out, since the sun is covered by the ominous clouds. The only problem is, when I wake up and the rain is out, the last thing I want to do is wake up, get ready for work and run through the pouring rain, and get all soaking wet while trying to get to my car. :sweat:

I'm happy :wonder:

[Mechanica]

Rain FTW :woot: I like washington.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I cant stand the rain..... 'gainst my window... I cant stand the rain


Cold rainy outside = great snuggling conditions. In our house it seems like whenever its freezing and snowy outside we are almost always doing the deed, what can i say we're bears.

Iwst your description was almost poetic. Well done.

[quiche]

rain makes my moustache droop.

But I love it anyway. Living in Arizone for 12 years, you learn to appreciate it.

...seriously.

[The Green Trench Coat]

rain makes my moustache droop.

But I love it anyway. Living in Arizone for 12 years, you learn to appreciate it.

...seriously.

I predict that before 2008 ends Quiche will have his first gay experience.





Also do you guys have any resolutions for 2008?

[iwst99]

I think I got the rain love from my mom. It would never rain in our city but when it did it was awesome and she loved it. I'm traveling to Cancun this weekend to spend xmas with my mom (haven't spent xmas with her in 10 years), and it's supposed to rain on xmas. Maybe it was meant to be <3

Also, I grew up in Palm Springs, so with 120 degree weather you learn to LOVE rain, even a slight drizzle.

I can't think of any resolutions...then again I don't really make resolutions for the new year. I think I'll make it to meet one of you guys in real life. More than likely it will be Mech or GTC. Or if I visit my dad in San Antonio it will definetly be DLJ so he can show me his rogue skillz. :wgrin:

[DrumlinerJoe]

Urrrrrrgggghhhhhh!!!!! I lost my job on Monday. Remember how I told ya'll they were accusing me of stealing a few months ago? Well apparently they said I was doing it again and just fired me. Fuck them! I work at the worst gay bar on the strip struggling to make ends meet and they wanna say I'm taking money? Shit I SHOULD have been taking money. Sons of bitches.

It's not the worst thing in the world though to be fired from a job that sucks. I'm gonna start my tax work the week after next so it's not a total disaster. Not to mention I do have a job lead shortly after New Year's. It just sucks to have this sprung on me all of a sudden.

It's funny cause I hung out with the dude, name's AJ by the way, and we were chatting and I just told him "You know it's funny, I was intimidated by you cause you're smart, intelligent, funny, successful and all that, and that was when I HAD a job."

[iwst99]

Urrrrrrgggghhhhhh!!!!! I lost my job on Monday. Remember how I told ya'll they were accusing me of stealing a few months ago? Well apparently they said I was doing it again and just fired me. Fuck them! I work at the worst gay bar on the strip struggling to make ends meet and they wanna say I'm taking money? Shit I SHOULD have been taking money. Sons of bitches.

It's not the worst thing in the world though to be fired from a job that sucks. I'm gonna start my tax work the week after next so it's not a total disaster. Not to mention I do have a job lead shortly after New Year's. It just sucks to have this sprung on me all of a sudden.

It's funny cause I hung out with the dude, name's AJ by the way, and we were chatting and I just told him "You know it's funny, I was intimidated by you cause you're smart, intelligent, funny, successful and all that, and that was when I HAD a job."

Fuck dude, sorry to hear. I fucking hate shitty jobs like that, especially when you get treated like shit for doing your job better than others, or actually caring to make a difference. Eventually you stop caring though. Something better will come up, I know it.

[Mechanica]

Yeah I feel your pain DLJ, I just got put on fucking work probation. So I set two fucking alarms and does either one go off? Of course fucking not. OF COURSE FUCKING NOT. FUCK SHIT ASE;LRJKASD;FLKJASDF;LKJASDFLKJADSF so since there was nobody there to open the shop I lose my morning hours and have extra remedial bullshit tasks to do at work when I do get to work. On top of that, I get home and find another bill - a PUD (energy) bill. Okay, that's usually what 40-50 bucks? THEY FUCKING WANT A $200+ DEPOSIT BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE CREDIT. Did they fucking correlate this bullshit? FUCK. So on top of having my hours cut, I have a $225 ticket to pay, a random fucking BULLSHIT $200 deposit, a fucking ridiculous $60-70 internet bill; not to mention it's fucking christmas in a week. Happy shiteating holidays, I hope I vomit in my sleep and choke to death on it before I wake up. :bluu: Now I REALLY gotta get my hustle on full time to pay my bills. I sure hope this friday is a payday.

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol, yeah I feel the no car thing. My truck broke down the day I got fired. It was like a double whammy.

But anyway fuck it, there's better shit just around the corner. Well at least maybe a handjob in the forseeable future.

[DrumlinerJoe]

New pics.

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01368.jpg

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01326.jpg

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01331.jpg

[iwst99]

Awwwwwwww lil gatito. <3 <3 <3

[The Green Trench Coat]

New pics.

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01368.jpg

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01326.jpg

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01331.jpg

yer face is all in that pussy :rofl::sweat:

you've got some killer lips dude.

say goose.

[Mechanica]

LOL I just recently took some cat pics too...

http://a233.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/48/l_59de9e8cc1a57c789a37a07bea429728.jpg

http://a143.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/128/l_c024f23948d1b346ffd4a4835cc296a6.jpg

http://a710.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/42/l_b38b55e330f1392379f6f5f456e4facd.jpg

http://a278.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l_3c945ba28c36db01e20d59d7e7f05285.jpg <-- lolz

this cat's really infatuated with me :lol:

[DrumlinerJoe]

LOL I just recently took some cat pics too...

http://a233.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/48/l_59de9e8cc1a57c789a37a07bea429728.jpg

http://a143.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/128/l_c024f23948d1b346ffd4a4835cc296a6.jpg

http://a710.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/42/l_b38b55e330f1392379f6f5f456e4facd.jpg

http://a278.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/12/l_3c945ba28c36db01e20d59d7e7f05285.jpg <-- lolz

this cat's really infatuated with me :lol:


Aw, que chulos. :lovin:

[BeaTs*]

awww, kitties <3

[quiche]

I predict that before 2008 ends Quiche will have his first gay experience.Wait, what?

You're like my other roommate who thinks underneath it all, everyone is secretly christian.


...seriously.

[The Green Trench Coat]

So.. remember i was telling you guys about my friend who is in a monogamus relationship with his bf, and i have all this sexual tension with but would never act on it.

Yesterday night we were talking and man he dropped a bomb on me. We were chatting like usual and then he told me about this dream he had with me in it. (Uh oh) he was saying that he didn't remember us doing anything sexual but just like alot of spooning and making out and stuff like that.

So .. I belive that straight talk, makes for straight understanding so i just decided to address the elephant in the room and I asked "what do you think that means?"
He started to clam up so i told him what i feel sometimes when we are together hanging out.. the awkward pauses and the moments that feel like we're about to make out and so on. He was put a little more at ease I think cause he says that In alot of ways I scare him.
Which was like whoa. I've never put the moves on this guy, we joke around and talk about hot bears and stuff so i was a little perplexed.

but then he says that he's (he's 31) only ever been attracted to older (50+ years old) daddy bears and never ever anyone younger but he "feels something" with me and that scares him.

We talked more but ultimately i told him I love the friendship we have and the fact that we have so much love for eachother as friends would make it really troublesome if we added sex to our friendship. I could end up falling in love with this guy then I'm in HUGE trouble... cause Angel has a Sword collection and a firey puerto rican spirit. I would most definitely get Fiona's super done on me.. followed by that orochikalcos super with all the swords ... throw in hamarou's standing feirce x40 if that ever happened.

I mean after all of that i confirmed that I still love him as a friend and he likewise.

It's just now that i know all of this. ..

Also I don't know if i'll mention this to Angel cause I don't want him to feel awkward around Charles. Ugh.. this just feels so... complicated.

I don't wanna cut him off cause I really do like this guy and our friendship. But man .. I don't wanna be hugging him and smooching him like i do with all my buds and then in a split second it turns into this ... I dont' know. I'm really trying to be respectful of him and his relationship with his bf.

I think i'm not going to rush to make a decision on how to proceed with him. I mean he's my friend right? first and formost he's my friend and I'll just see how things go. If it gets to difficult to carry on then I guess i'll have to put some distance between us. I don't know. What do you guys think? should i just cut and run?

[iwst99]

So.. remember i was telling you guys about my friend who is in a monogamus relationship with his bf, and i have all this sexual tension with but would never act on it.

Yesterday night we were talking and man he dropped a bomb on me. We were chatting like usual and then he told me about this dream he had with me in it. (Uh oh) he was saying that he didn't remember us doing anything sexual but just like alot of spooning and making out and stuff like that.

So .. I belive that straight talk, makes for straight understanding so i just decided to address the elephant in the room and I asked "what do you think that means?"
He started to clam up so i told him what i feel sometimes when we are together hanging out.. the awkward pauses and the moments that feel like we're about to make out and so on. He was put a little more at ease I think cause he says that In alot of ways I scare him.
Which was like whoa. I've never put the moves on this guy, we joke around and talk about hot bears and stuff so i was a little perplexed.

but then he says that he's (he's 31) only ever been attracted to older (50+ years old) daddy bears and never ever anyone younger but he "feels something" with me and that scares him.

We talked more but ultimately i told him I love the friendship we have and the fact that we have so much love for eachother as friends would make it really troublesome if we added sex to our friendship. I could end up falling in love with this guy then I'm in HUGE trouble... cause Angel has a Sword collection and a firey puerto rican spirit. I would most definitely get Fiona's super done on me.. followed by that orochikalcos super with all the swords ... throw in hamarou's standing feirce x40 if that ever happened.

I mean after all of that i confirmed that I still love him as a friend and he likewise.

It's just now that i know all of this. ..

Also I don't know if i'll mention this to Angel cause I don't want him to feel awkward around Charles. Ugh.. this just feels so... complicated.

I don't wanna cut him off cause I really do like this guy and our friendship. But man .. I don't wanna be hugging him and smooching him like i do with all my buds and then in a split second it turns into this ... I dont' know. I'm really trying to be respectful of him and his relationship with his bf.

I think i'm not going to rush to make a decision on how to proceed with him. I mean he's my friend right? first and formost he's my friend and I'll just see how things go. If it gets to difficult to carry on then I guess i'll have to put some distance between us. I don't know. What do you guys think? should i just cut and run?

Yeah, just let it go. He might think you love him back if anything happens and try dump his BF to be with you forever, and he'll expect you to dump your BF to be with him forever and live happily ever after. Not that this scenerio recently happened to me with my partner's co-worker or anything...oh wait it did. :confused:

Since I had to learn things the hard way, just try to stay friends, if he starts getting too friendly, you might have to give him the cold shoulder...might not want to tell Angel about him though...wait it out and see what happens.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Yeah, just let it go. He might think you love him back if anything happens and try dump his BF to be with you forever, and he'll expect you to dump your BF to be with him forever and live happily ever after. Not that this scenerio recently happened to me with my partner's co-worker or anything...oh wait it did. :confused:

Since I had to learn things the hard way, just try to stay friends, if he starts getting too friendly, you might have to give him the cold shoulder...might not want to tell Angel about him though...wait it out and see what happens.

it just seems so complicated. Maybe it's not .. maybe i'm just making it more complicated in my head.

and yeah that's the situation i'm trying to avoid. the difference is he knows and likes angel and I know and like his daddybear boyfriend. The other thing is that his daddybear bf Is definitely suspicious of us spending time together.

I recently found out that most times he doesn't even tell his bf that he's comming over to my house when he does. just cause his BF gets jealous even though I mean I swear i've never even touched the guy in that way. I'm guessing that his bf being of advanced age is probably on to the underlying layer of heat that is there between charles and myself.

but that just inspires me more to behave cause i don't want to be the whore that Goes IN on his bf.



You know what bugs me. Is that part of me feels that if we could just get this out of the way.. you know.

But still better safe than sorry. I cant have something like this on my soul. I'm already gonna be roasting in hell for more than enough I don't wanna put more logs in that hellfire.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I think putting distance for the time being is probably your best bet man. Let him cool off and all that and get back to the square one freindship thing.

Anyway, I ran into Carlos, the dude who ditched me. He wants me to call him this weekend. Ugh, I swear the universe is out to get me this Christmas.

[Mechanica]

He might think you love him back if anything happens and try dump his BF to be with you forever, and he'll expect you to dump your BF to be with him forever and live happily ever after.
:lol: :rofl: :lol:

cause Angel has a Sword collection and a firey puerto rican spirit.

:lol: :lol:


This sounds like the potential spot where open relationships can go wrong. Sounds like the sexual tension is too built upon possible feelings and acting upon it would just cause more problems. I agree with them in saying cool your jets on the situation... just tell him, if you haven't, that you really respect your guys awesome relationship and don't want to jeopardize anything. He should understand... You don't wanna get put in that hypothetical jaime situation :lol: , or something worse.

[BeaTs*]

fiery?

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol @ firey Puerto Ricans.

[BeaTs*]

yummy puerto ricans! do they usually have big mashoozles?

[DrumlinerJoe]

Don't know, I only been with Mexicans.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I think putting distance for the time being is probably your best bet man. Let him cool off and all that and get back to the square one freindship thing.

Anyway, I ran into Carlos, the dude who ditched me. He wants me to call him this weekend. Ugh, I swear the universe is out to get me this Christmas.

I think actually i'm going to see how things are, We have been very smart to only hang out in places that are very public or in the presence of either bf. I think that's cool place to start. if it gets to be to much i can pull it back.

This sounds like the potential spot where open relationships can go wrong. Sounds like the sexual tension is too built upon possible feelings and acting upon it would just cause more problems. I agree with them in saying cool your jets on the situation... just tell him, if you haven't, that you really respect your guys awesome relationship and don't want to jeopardize anything. He should understand... You don't wanna get put in that hypothetical jaime situation :lol: , or something worse.

He's not in an open relationship. I am. But i don't understand your comment. I'm not leaving Angel. But the emotional relationship that could happen.. is the only time that I'd say i really would feel like I'm cheating. It's never happened before and I'm gonna do my darnest to make sure it doesn't happen.. especially with someone i consider a friend you know.

fiery?

firey

lol @ firey Puerto Ricans.


Think ... K-Groove. Activated!

[DrumlinerJoe]

Mexicans are more laid back, like P groove. You just gotta get us on the wrong time...or drunk.

[Azagtoth]

firey




Think ... K-Groove. Activated!

He can activate on me any day. =D

[The Green Trench Coat]

He can activate on me any day. =D

oh .. he will.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Dirty boys.

[LightningStorm]

The correct spelling of the word is fiery (http://www.m-w.com/dictionary/fiery). I mention this only because of the correction of the correction and then the further misuse of it.

[Mechanica]

He's not in an open relationship. I am.


I know, but I was just saying tell him what's up and he should be understanding if you're good friends. I didn't really add anything new to the conversation. :razzy: I don't know how you guys do that open relationship thing. It kills me knowing my man is sexing it with someone else. :shake: Or not even going that far, still irks me. Then again if the boundaries were set as open from the get-go I wouldn't get as strong feelings of attachment, so I guess it depends on how it starts. It was hard as fuck to find anyone I could consider dating so I don't wanna share!

[Dreamkiller]

K-Groove sucks (<3 Combofiend though.)
Trench is keeping cool though with turtle C-Groove though (Which is what i play now so i also heart.)
Good friday night.
I deserved it.
:bgrin:

[Azagtoth]

K-Groove sucks (<3 Combofiend though.)
Trench is keeping cool though with turtle C-Groove though (Which is what i play now so i also heart.)
Good friday night.
I deserved it.
:bgrin:

Almost everyone I play down here uses K. =P

I use N and C.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Almost everyone I play down here uses K. =P

I use N and C.

Actually I use N and K religiously cause i use Zangief, anybody, joe
the roll can come in real handy for geif but getting mashing up a full k groove meter several times in a match is also a good deal.

[Khaotika!]

LOL @ GTC's Supa Dupa Fly reference.

DLJ + Mech: I'm so sorry about the job troubles, especially at this time of year. >_<

Resolutions?

Meh, I made four for this past year and they all crumbled pretty shortly after; only one is still going and it's kinda been half-assed at best.

I think one would be: Make it all better. Anything is an improvement over 2007, which was probably my worst year since I was in college.

[Dreamkiller]

Almost everyone I play down here uses K. =P

I use N and C.


Same wit me.
I love N. Like C. But really want to play A.
Its jus so difficult
:sad:

[BeaTs*]

I use C...but starting to use A...maybe some P too

[iwst99]

Posting from my blackberry in cacun airport...waiting for luggage. When i was in LA airport, i went to the restroom and saw this really hawt chub with on on moustache, he was 41. So i started at him as i walked in and he walked out, and we both did on on double look. When i walked out he was standing outside, but didnt want to make on on move if it was my imagination. I stood near him and he approached me and we spoke for a bit.

He was going back to seattle where he's from and comes to long beach (where i live) few times a month for work. We exchanged numbers and asked him to call me when he was around so we can hang out. : d'. He said he would. We txt' d' a bit after i walked away...seems nice...and cuddly. Off to a good start my vacation. :D

[The Green Trench Coat]

Posting from my blackberry in cacun airport...waiting for luggage. When i was in LA airport, i went to the restroom and saw this really hawt chub with on on moustache, he was 41. So i started at him as i walked in and he walked out, and we both did on on double look. When i walked out he was standing outside, but didnt want to make on on move if it was my imagination. I stood near him and he approached me and we spoke for a bit.

He was going back to seattle where he's from and comes to long beach (where i live) few times a month for work. We exchanged numbers and asked him to call me when he was around so we can hang out. : d'. He said he would. We txt' d' a bit after i walked away...seems nice...and cuddly. Off to a good start my vacation. :D

shit dude you just cant turn it off :wink: :lovin:

[Æther]

Damn sorry for not being in this thread for a while. Lots of crap has been going on for 2 weeks (finals, loads of work, dating :lovin:). I couldn't send out the postcards because I didn't have enough money to buy the stamps for it. Serously, I had like 5 bucks a week, and 4 of it was for the bus back home from school. Now I actually have enough money to get stamps and *gasp* FOOD.

Here's the guy (Doug) I've been seeing for the past couple of weeks BTW: http://www.bear411.com/profile.php?name=miabigchub&ac=1. Not too keen on the spandex thing but it's pretty tame compared to some of the guys I've dated. He's out of town until thursday which sucks since I have no one to spend time with on Christmas vacation. :(

On tuesday, since Doug was busy with work and I had nothing to do I went out with this other guy who's on Biggercity. BIG MISTAKE. (If you want the link to his profile feel free to PM me. Not that he's worth it from what I'm gonna mention...).

Turns out he's REALLY aggresive. Into tongue kissing, groping and all that. In a matter of an hour of meeting him he attempted to pull a feel on me and grab my hand. I didn't want to take that shit so fast so I promptly had to end the shinanigans.

Nothing else happened for the rest of the week except for me scheduling an appointment for an interview for a job at a Marriot hotel customer service center (Doug actually works at one of the hotels so he gave me the head's up on the position :lovin:)

And yes, us Boricua can bust a mean K groove. :D

[The Green Trench Coat]

Here's the guy (Doug) I've been seeing for the past couple of weeks BTW: http://www.bear411.com/profile.php?name=miabigchub&ac=1. Not too keen on the spandex thing but it's pretty tame compared to some of the guys I've dated. He's out of town until thursday which sucks since I have no one to spend time with on Christmas vacation. :(

And yes, us Boricua can bust a mean K groove. :D

he's cute. I bet he's a sweetheart.

[Azagtoth]

(Doug)

He's pretty fucking cute. I must compliment your taste. =D

And yes, us Boricua can bust a mean K groove. :D

If you really wanna get nerdy with it, we also have some mean level 2 cancel combos. :lovin:

[DrumlinerJoe]

I got Contra 4 for DS for X-Mas. it's the shit ya'll. Very old school and very punishing. If recommend it highly if you got a Gameboy.

[Khaotika!]

Hope you guys have a Merry Christmas! :lovin:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Hope you guys have a Merry Christmas! :lovin:

Likewise.

Happy holidays to you boys.

*smooches and big bearhugs all around*
Even to the straight guys.

[Mechanica]

http://img179.imageshack.us/img179/992/nfrost1fd7.png

http://img507.imageshack.us/img507/6329/nfrost2sd0.jpg

http://img145.imageshack.us/img145/4619/nfrost3nf6.png

[The Green Trench Coat]

http://img179.imageshack.us/img179/992/nfrost1fd7.png

http://img507.imageshack.us/img507/6329/nfrost2sd0.jpg

http://img145.imageshack.us/img145/4619/nfrost3nf6.png

*Drool*
*Spurt!!!*

Fucking merry christmas to me. Thanks Mech I already shot one off to these.

[Mechanica]

They got bored during a phone interview so they started taking their clothes off to make it entertaining... I guess it's on the hot fuzz DVD! =D

[The Green Trench Coat]

They got bored during a phone interview so they started taking their clothes off to make it entertaining... I guess it's on the hot fuzz DVD! =D

i just saw the scene...


*mega spurt!!!* it's hot i'll see if i can get a clip and post it.. pics are onething the full motion is totally hotter.

[Azagtoth]

They got bored during a phone interview so they started taking their clothes off to make it entertaining... I guess it's on the hot fuzz DVD! =D

...Do they have Hot Fuzz on Blu Ray? =P

Fucking niiiiiiiiiice. Rob, hook it up with some motion if you find it.

[Mechanica]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K1Y6PchDYfw&NR=1

:lol: :rofl: :lol:

[Æther]

Hooray, can't sleep now. And I have an interview tomorrow too. Hopefully it'll go good. Now I just need a bumper for my car to be street legal. And my license. And the courage to get the license. :sweat:

At least Doug gets back tomorrow (er... technically today!) :lovin:

So how was everyone's Christmas (if you celebrate, that is)?:wonder:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K1Y6PchDYfw&NR=1

:lol: :rofl: :lol:

:rofl: Maybe he's blind and gay.

[Dreamkiller]

If its a promising interview, then make sure u get up for that shit. lol.

So i spent christmas really bad. and my birthday (26th) PRETTY well. Emphasis on pretty. My birthday was ok. Coulda been better with gaming but eh.
Hope everyone else is having a good week.
:bgrin:

[DrumlinerJoe]

http://www.seanbaby.com/personal/albumtemp2.htm

Seanbaby's always been hot.

[BeaTs*]

sarcasm...right?

[Dreamkiller]

lol.

[BeaTs*]

SC3 Ivy be ringing out like Kage in VF....shit's evil

[DrumlinerJoe]

I don't know why, I always thought the dude was hot. Something about his smile I guess.

[Mechanica]

http://www.seanbaby.com/personal/album/temp/heartcock.jpg

"I don't want to brag, but after Eddie and I knocked tiles out of my brother's kitchen floor in the shape of "I HEART COCK," we were elected city councilmen of OUTRAGEOUS! Ultimate prank!"

:lol:

[Dreamkiller]

SC3 Ivy be ringing out like Kage in VF....shit's evil

Asta is way evil-er.
:sad:

[Mechanica]

Boyfriend gets back from New Mexico tomorrow night and I am

SO

EXCITED

even if I don't get to see him that night. It couldn't come sooner. My life is so incomplete! I really only have on friend in this town, I live here because of him, so when he's not around... Man does shit suck.

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

yall niggas is gay.

[Mechanica]

I love how every 15 pages, someone comes in and says that

SAME EXACT THING

and nothing else.

Thank you for your contribution. :tup: Us niggas were unaware of our gayness, for the fifteenth time.

I'm going to rape the next fucker that comes in just to post yall niggas is gay. It's like "Cool! A new post in the only thread where people don't have to tack on 'no homo' on everything!" then "Even cooler, someone new contributing?" then :bluu: . . . :lol: If you at least mixed it up a bit, it'd be okay, but the fact that each and every one of you posts that exact god damned post just makes it that much worse. At least mix it up with "You ******* are gay." or "yall niggas are gay" or "yall niggas is homosexual"

too predictable!

[CarreauOverkill]

You n--

I was going to contribute somehow but now I just feel like a second-grade bi-curious failfuck.

I've 'been' with three guys, total. Slept with two casually (while drunk) and had a relationship with one.

We were good friends for quite a long time, my 'boyfriend' and me. He was very openly gay but never forced it on me nor did it really bother me. We ended up talking about relationships one night and I kept telling him about I felt like I was doomed to be lonely and how I really craved to be close to someone. I didn't really think of him as gay, ever, so I was comfortable talking about my girl troubles/emotional state. After I started to show some signs of depression, he randomly hugged me and asked me if it is alright that he touches me. I didn't object, his hug felt good. He seemed very concerned, stroking my hair (I have mid-back long dirty blonde hair) and eventually kissed me on my cheek and then on my lips. I didn't resist. We ended up spending the night, and in the morning - I didn't feel like shit. He cooked breakfast and laughed and made me feel at ease. I stayed with him an another night and I think that's when we started "seeing" eachother.

He was amazing for me, emotionally and otherwise, since he was strong and confident and put my insecurities to rest when we were together. I've always had a small problem with hugging girls, considering them somehow 'fragile' so I'm afraid of holding tight or accidentally squishing their breasts or such. With him, I could do everything without having to be afraid of somehow hurting him physically. The things he did to me felt really good as - unlike your average girl - he totally knew what he was doing when it came to pleasing me. I'm pretty buff, and so was he, but emotionally he was dominant. In bed, he kept insisting that I do him and he really seemed to enjoy it, too. That's how it usually went, though I did try it a few times myself, just to make him happy. I can't say it felt good, even though I've probably never been more aroused. Nothing was forced, he always asked me if I was alright with what he was doing and kept explaining things, which was good. ("You don't really need to go take a dump"). He loved photography and he used to take all these pictures of me. Nothing vulgar, but rather artistic shots. He kept complimenting my body and we compared and competed playfully. He was well-read and smart and goddamnit I miss him. Grhh. I'll go grab a cup of coffee, cool down and then finish writing this.

Right... We were doing great for around one and half months. I had told him not to tell anyone and I told him I didn't want to see his gay friends or anything and that I wanted to be with him without any of the crap that comes with it. He kept asking, but I adamantly refused. I was shy, afraid and feared being branded 'an amateur homo' or something. I sure as hell didn't want some rainbow-themed welcome party celebrating my entreé to queerdom.

We fell out when my condition re-surfaced and and I was hospitalized. I kept asking him to come see me, but he never did. I told him I really needed him, but he never came. "I can't." That's all he said. When I asked why, he wouldn't tell. When I got out, like three weeks later, we went to have a cup of coffee together. We were both very distant and we realized we had fallen apart. We did the "Well, if you ever wanna talk or go have a pint, you have my number." He never called me, and I never called him. I tried to call him like three months ago and found out he had changed his number.

I've been unable to tell anyone else about this. I've was too embarrassed, I still am. Nowdays I tend to fall for girls far more often than guys, since it is far easier to find a hot girl who wants me than a decent looking who would even look my way. I don't want to go to a gay/bi-favored club and pick up a nice guy, but I still wish I didn't feel so goddamn anxious (or guilty because I am aroused) when a well-built guy lifts his shirt.

Why come out of the closet when you can live a happy life having partners that you desire and can fall in love with? (Meaning women, who are just as appealing to me as good looking guys.) I don't feel like it'd be worth it, if I'm "just" bisexual... I don't want to tell the world, but I think to accept this part of me, I must.

I miss him and I feel like shit.

[Mechanica]

That sucks. If he did something like that he probably would've ended up hurting you some other way soon though, I'd imagine. Dunno what to say about feeling anxious or weird about it... do it more and you'll get used to it! :wgrin:

[CarreauOverkill]

I don't know his reasons, but he wasn't being a bitch about it. He sounded really sad when he said he couldn't come.

And why do I feel anxious? I got a very religious upbringing and thus feel that liking guys is somehow "wrong"? I don't think so and I can rationalize it, but I feel it, I guess. I'm not religious, myself, I was just raised this way and it's really hard to fight against such conditioning. My father most explictly stated that being gay = sin = hell. He went to stupid lengths, like cutting my long-ish hair when I was young against my will because he didn't want his son to look like a girl or a homosexual.

I can't really do it more. I can't go up to a guy and be like; "Hey, I find you attractive." I'm too shy. I can do it with girls, no problem. I'm a huge flirt. I just break down when I'd need to do it with guys. Giddy and anxious and unable to think and panic attacking. It's as if I was asking them to be my prom date.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Why come out of the closet when you can live a happy life having partners that you desire and can fall in love with? (Meaning women, who are just as appealing to me as good looking guys.) I don't feel like it'd be worth it, if I'm "just" bisexual... I don't want to tell the world, but I think to accept this part of me, I must.

I miss him and I feel like shit.
A few things.

I'm sorry for your experience. And weather you decide to come out or not come out you really just seem like you need a friend or friends to talk to .. i hope you'll utilize this thread in that way we're really a great bunch of guys.

Your story hits the nail on the head with my problem with "LABELING" people. "He had sex with a guy so he's gay" I saw him kiss a girl so he's straight. Stuff like that can do more disservice to the subject of such discussion than anything. IMO if you are sexin it with guys and it makes you happy but you want to define your self as bisexual or straight. more power too you.. Because frankly unless I am the guy you are trying to have a relationship.. I really don't give a crap what you call your self.

As for comming out. You should know that most times comming out isn't the "I've had sex with enough men now so i'm gonna burst out of the closet in my peacock feathers and flags and tell everyone i'm gay".. Typically, well 99 percent of the time most people come out

cause they get tired of the lying.

So why are they always so cheerful about telling people. Well .. I can tell you that first person they tell it's not always a happy conversation. But as they tell more people and realize that it's no big deal it's a relief. Albeit some people really cherrish there comming out celebrating but that varies person to person.. I don't know what your experiences are with meeting gay out people aside from this guy. but I just wanted to touch on that.


As for your story and this guy. I'm glad to know you realize that part of him is hurting that he cant be with you fully ..(at least from the story youtold) And if you are finding happiness with a girl as of late then please follow your heart. But It sounds like you are at a stage where you can appreciate the best of both worlds. weather that means sleeping with both sexes or just enjoying affection from both sexes is up to you.

If a guy lifts his shirt and you are aroused this isn't new for heterosexual men. especially body builder to body builder. You gain an unmatched appreciation for the male physique as you build up your own. and most are okay with touch if you do it respectfully and discretion. I wish you luck on your journey please keep us posted.

Also if you dont mind:

What was the condition that hospitalized you?
Location?
and most importantly
Pics? :wgrin:

[CarreauOverkill]

A few things.
What was the condition that hospitalized you?
Location?
and most importantly
Pics? :wgrin:

I have a neurocognitive deficit that manifests at times as dissociative disorder, depersonalization and other symptoms such as catatonia. I was initially diagnosed with schizophrenia but after I was sent to a neuropsychologist they changed my diagnosis. I also suffer from severe depression, severe insomnia, severe anxiety and am classified as potentially dangerous to myself and others. I was hospitalized because I had a breakdown (not his fault) and ended up trashing my place up and then wandering the streets, bloodied up from stumbling and from breaking the mirror at home.

But... I am okay most of the time, nowdays. I used to be a wreck but after six years of therapy and conditioning, I'm feeling so much better. I am incredibly glad I can work and live alone (well, with my sister) instead of living the career of a sick man all my life.

Are you asking for the location and pics of me or the location where I was hospitalized at? ^_^

But, yeah. I'm from Helsinki, Finland. I'll get some pics later if you insist.

[Azagtoth]

But, yeah. I'm from Helsinki, Finland.

Please pardon me for the extremely dorky question I'm about to ask you, but I'm curious and I can't help it.

Do you listen to metal?

[The Green Trench Coat]

I have a neurocognitive deficit that manifests at times as dissociative disorder, depersonalization and other symptoms such as catatonia. I was initially diagnosed with schizophrenia but after I was sent to a neuropsychologist they changed my diagnosis. I also suffer from severe depression, severe insomnia, severe anxiety and am classified as potentially dangerous to myself and others. I was hospitalized because I had a breakdown (not his fault) and ended up trashing my place up and then wandering the streets, bloodied up from stumbling and from breaking the mirror at home.

But... I am okay most of the time, nowdays. I used to be a wreck but after six years of therapy and conditioning, I'm feeling so much better. I am incredibly glad I can work and live alone (well, with my sister) instead of living the career of a sick man all my life.

Are you asking for the location and pics of me or the location where I was hospitalized at? ^_^

But, yeah. I'm from Helsinki, Finland. I'll get some pics later if you insist.


Glad you are feeling better
i was asking for your current location of residence. and pics of you sweetie :wgrin::wonder:

[CarreauOverkill]

Do you listen to metal?

Yes, I even play it. And my friends play it. The metal thread around here that starts with "Guyz check out Imperanon." Heh. I basically grew up with their former guitarist, went to school with their synth player and their vocalist, their current guitarist Teemu, who also plays in Wintersun, lives like half a mile from me and we're good friends. YES I LISTEN TO METAL.

I also listen to (nu-)jazz, classical, industrial/ebm, jungle, darkstep, digital hardcore... And then artists like Nick Cave, Johnny Cash, Leonard Cohen, etc. I mostly avoid... happy music.

[Azagtoth]

Yes, I even play it. And my friends play it. The metal thread around here that starts with "Guyz check out Imperanon." Heh. I basically grew up with their former guitarist, went to school with their synth player and their vocalist, their current guitarist Teemu, who also plays in Wintersun, lives like half a mile from me and we're good friends. YES I LISTEN TO METAL.

Nice. :tup:

I had to ask dude, like almost all of my favorite bands are Finnish. Moonsorrow, Insomnium, Wintersun, Kalmah, Swallow The Sun (I might be wrong but I remember hearing that they're Finnish), Sonata Arctica, Catamenia, forgive me for name dropping in the wrong thread but damn man you're lucky to be surrounded by such awesome music.

If it wasn't obvious enough, I play as well. You got a band?

[CarreauOverkill]

Nothing productive at the moment. Moonsorrow/Finntroll's Trollhorn was my band teacher in a music school and my father (priest) buried Somnium of Finntroll/Impaled Nazarene.

Insomnium is one of my favorite bands, and they -slaughtered- at Tuska Open Air. Their cover of Sentenced's Nepenthe was so win. Let's not get sidetracked, though.

[BeaTs*]

Asta is way evil-er.
:sad:obviously, but you expect that of Asta..whip mode>launch>serpent's embrace>6+BK should not have been allowed!

[Dreamkiller]

Haha!
Yeah, Ring-out Cannon is pretty stupid.

[Æther]

Damn it all. I'm going to kill one of my co-workers. Bitch gave me her cold since she couldn't close her damn mouth whenever she coughed. Now it's doubtful I'll see Doug for ANOTHER week.

At the very least he said he'd risk getting sick just to see me. I think I love him already. :lovin:

[codename47]

Actually Xianghua is the only one thats evil in SC3.

[Mechanica]

Typically, well 99 percent of the time most people come out

cause they get tired of the lying.

For real. I'd rather be in a place where everyone knows I'm gay and despises me for it, than ever having to fucking lie about it again. It's extra annoying to me because everyone assumes I'm straight. I always at least have some pink on (at least my shoes), I dye my hair like a rainbow of colors, including pink and purple right now, the first thing you see in my apartment is a huge gay pride flag, and everyone still assumes I'm straight! It makes me understand why some gay guys act so fruity, because at least you don't have to answer the awkward you got a girlfriend or check out that hot chick questions/comments. Seriously though, I have pink and purple hair and a fucking rainbow on my wall and you think I have a girlfriend? :confused: WTF is wrong with you people? :lol:

Finntroll's Trollhorn was my band teacher
That's the most epic thing I've ever heard.

Please though, feel free to derail it into metal discussion, it's better than soul calibur 3. :sweat:

[Dreamkiller]

X And Mitsu gave birth to all other characters.
Including: Nina, Steve, Storm, O.Sagat, And others.

Edit: Fuck you Mech! lol.

[Mechanica]

you wanna fight?

[hanz0]

you hombres son putos! :wink:

NINJA EDIT: :rofl:

[Dreamkiller]

you wanna fight?


Lets do this fucker!!!

[Mechanica]

wait not fair you have three dimensions to work with you can sidestep anything i do

[Dreamkiller]

Well u have 2-frame half life combos.
Its on Bitch!
And its fucking fair!

[BlodiaVulcan5]

I'm going to rape the next fucker that comes in just to post yall niggas is gay.

All of you negroid homo sapiens are not heterosexually oriented.


I was going to contribute somehow but now I just feel like a second-grade bi-curious failfuck...

I've been unable to tell anyone else about this. I've was too embarrassed, I still am...
<snip>


Firstly, alot to unload in a first post in this thread, kudos.

Secondly, thanks for sharing, it won't fall on deaf ears. I'm sure alot of us are listening, me included.

Thirdly, you write/think very clearly and composed, it's very refreshing to see such in a cesspool of "omgwtflolz" and "no wai, gtfo, lol srsly?"'s. I think we'd totally be able to rap about random stuff.

Fourthly (???), i'll ask this: how comfortable are you with your sexual orientation and your "sexuality(whats its level of priority in your life)"? You don't sound very comfortable being associated with a group of people, is this also the case with other things in life like finanicially and socially?

Why come out of the closet when you can live a happy life having partners that you desire and can fall in love with? (Meaning women, who are just as appealing to me as good looking guys.) I don't feel like it'd be worth it, if I'm "just" bisexual... I don't want to tell the world, but I think to accept this part of me, I must.

I miss him and I feel like shit.

Falling in love with someone can be detached from their sex type. There's a difference between "coming out" and "falling in love". I don't even think anyone would look twice if a mostly exclusively homosexual guy "falls in love" with a female and marries her to have kids and such, "love" in this scenario should be about you see "her<insert her name here>" and "you<your name>" not "girl with a vagoo" and "guy with a penar" and drive your perspective on "Love" based on anatomy. This "love" you're referring to is the bond between two people, and there's not much to scrutinize there. So, as they say and cliche as it sounds, follow your heart.

Why do you feel so unhappy coming to terms with how you feel? Is it worth it to risk your mental and emotional health over something as trivial as what the world thinks of your orientation? (i think this is answered in the next post, i'm typing as i read...)

And why do I feel anxious? I got a very religious upbringing and thus feel that liking guys is somehow "wrong"? I don't think so and I can rationalize it, but I feel it, I guess. I'm not religious, myself, I was just raised this way and it's really hard to fight against such conditioning. My father most explictly stated that being gay = sin = hell. He went to stupid lengths, like cutting my long-ish hair when I was young against my will because he didn't want his son to look like a girl or a homosexual.

I can't really do it more. I can't go up to a guy and be like; "Hey, I find you attractive." I'm too shy. I can do it with girls, no problem. I'm a huge flirt. I just break down when I'd need to do it with guys. Giddy and anxious and unable to think and panic attacking. It's as if I was asking them to be my prom date.

I'm sorry about all of that, it's infuriating to hear those kinds of upbringings but what's done is done.

How old are you now? Give me a perspective how far removed you've been from your dad's influence.

You sound very ashamed, which you shouldn't be. Living away from your dad's environment should have been relieved some tension, but it depends on how you really feel about bisexuality and homosexuality in general.

I have a neurocognitive deficit that manifests at times as dissociative disorder, depersonalization and other symptoms such as catatonia.

Hmm. I can't comment if your views on sex are influenced somehow by your neurocognitive deficiency, but i'd like to think it doesn't. So... yeah.

And like what GTC said, we're just a bunch of guys from all walks of life with different stories and perspectives, and so feel very welcome in our corner of srk.

how is Finland this time of year, btw?

[iwst99]

Glad to see this thread going...

Just got back from Mexico last night. It was interesting having my Mom and sister meet Don....it went very well to say the least, and they all got along just fine...even with the language barrier (Don doesn't speak Spanish, and my Family doesn't speak English). Went to Belize two days ago (a little country south Mexico). Geeezzz, I'm not going back there any time soon, I won't go into detail, but I'll leave it at cockroach shit in their coca colas.

***NOTE**

Sorry about my long posts...I kind of like to vent or write about what's going on and the stories I have. Even if no one reads them it helps me think things through later when I read them. This is kind of an ongoing thing I haven't written about so it's kind of long...

***/NOTE***



I was trying to post last week on my phone and it kept fucking up. The Friday before I left I went to Mexican food with HR coworker and his friend, which we do every Friday. Well, let me backtrack a bit. His friend is one he's known for 30+ years. His house is about 2 blocks from HR coworker's but he practically lives here (I say "here" because I spent the night at his place and I'm up typing this on my laptop). Everytime I come over he's here (hence we always hang out), he does his laundry here, he takes care of the dogs, TiVo's all his shows and watches them, and spends the night practically every night, on the same bed. Anyways, they're not in a relationship, and they don't have sex, they're just really good friends. Both their families have known each other, like I said, for 30+ years, and HR coworker's dad, who also lives about 2 blocks away, is best friends with him. THE POINT BEING, they're really, just as friends, although I still get confused by their relationship, and their like complete opposites of each other which makes it funny.

ANYWAYS, I kind of thought his friend liked me, since he would keep getting friendlier and friendlier with touching and such, and has made comments to me sometimes that made me wonder. Not that I mind this, this man is extremely good looking (sorry, not a chub), and I've also had the hots for him for a while. Problem is, he's HR coworker's BFF and all. Once a few months back we were sitting in the living room which has L shaped furniture. So HR was laying down on the long part, his friend on the end of the couch, and I had no other place to sit than on the other side of his friend. One of his dogs came up, like he always does, and lay between us. So, I was just petting the dog, and so was his friend...northing special. The next morning, HR asks if I had a good time, I said yeah, then he said "a little close to my friend weren't you?" I was like what are you talking about? He said, "yeah, you were sitting pretty close to him, what's going on between you guys?" (this was WAAAAAYYY before he even got friendly with me, or I even liked him that much). I just said ummm, nothing is going on, you were laying on the couch, and I had no where else to sit.

So we always go to this Mexican place on Friday nights, and it's always the 3 of us. One Friday night, HR wasn't going to be able to go, so I asked him if his friend was still going, since I was so used to going there Friday nights. He said he'd ask him. Next day I asked him what happened, he said "oh, i'm probably going to be able to make it after all." I just said, oh ok. Then he said "Geeezzzz, sorry for ruining your plans of being alone with my friend" I just said WTF are you talking about?. He said, "I know you want to spend some time alone with him". Again, at this point I had never even tried to pass a move on this guy, as I bearly knew him, and didn't care for him too much at this point, but HR is always been paranoid like that.

So, as time passed, like I said, his friend would be more touchy feely, and the more I got to know him, the more I liked him personality wise and such. And he's pretty hot, like I mentioned before. We went to dinner the Friday night before I went to Mexico (as HR was supposed to give me a ride to the airport the next morning at 5am). It was more fun than usual, I don't usually drink since I have to go bowling right after Mexican, but this night I didn't. We stayed later than usual at the bar (we go to the bar in the restaurant first, then the dinning area). And we all got kind of tipsier than usual. Again he was being touchy once in a while, and I didn't mind it, and we kind of stared every once in a while into each other's eyes.

When it was time for dinner, HR paid the bar bill, so me and his friend went to sit down. He's really into gadgets and such, so I showed him my new Voyager phone. I sat close to him as I showed it to him, and he kind of rubbed his hand against my leg, and I did the same. Finally HR came back and we just sat as normal. We were in a U shaped booth, and I was in the middle, HR on one side and his friend on the other. HR said I could scoot closer to the middle so we weren't so crowded. I said ok, and his friend said, don't worry, I can still play with your feet from here. He said this out loud, and I wasn't sure what he meant, and obviously neither did HR. Then I felt him rubbing his foot against my leg, so I did the same. Then I started rubbing his leg, then thigh, then crotch. And for the most part we were just holding hands. This kind of happened the rest of the night until we left. I'm not sure HR knew what was going, since he was pretty tipsy, and 5 minutes after we ordered he couldn't even remember ordering anything, he kind of drew a blank for the rest of our time there.

When we drove back home, HR was driving (he always drives) his friend was on the passenger side, and I was on the back passenger side, which is always the sitting arrangement. So I put my hand forward on the right side through to the passenger seat, and we held hands until we got home. Once we got there we sat on the couch, in the same position like that one night the dog jumped between us. Once again the dog did jump between us and we both petted it, and then our hands touched and we just held them. He eventually had his hand on the back of my shirt, and I put mine under his shirt on his hairy stomach, rubbing it. We would go back to holding hands then when HR walked away for a bit I felt his dick and it was hard, then he felt mine too. I leaned in and kissed him quickly. So HR was sitting next to us the whole time, and he saw everything that was going on, but it was obvious that neither of us cared. Eventually he fell asleep and HR was falling asleep too (as they always do when we watch TV). They went to their own room, and I went to the one I was staying.

Next morning HR woke me up to get ready. He asked if I wanted to shower and I said yeah, so he gave me a towel and soap. Then before he walked away he leaned in and hugged me, then kissed me. (If you recall, me and HR play around)...When we were driving to the airport he called me a drunken whore kind of jokingly, then he said he couldn't believe I kicked him to the curb for his friend...again, jokingly. I said what are you talking about, all I did was feel him up. He's like I can't believe you're in love with him and want to marry him. I just said, well, will you come to the wedding? He just smiled. Then I asked him if he would hate me if I slept with him, and he said, I don't know, I think it would be a weird situation. I asked, for who? He said for you, since you come here all the time and he's here all the time. I said ummm, I sleep with you, and I'm here all the time, and there's nothing weird there. He just smiled knowing I had touche'd him.

See, before HR and I ever did anything with each other, we had a conversation. It involved us being co workers and being more than friendly with each other. He was afraid that I would fall in love with him (it's somehow always me that's going to fall in love with people, they never say they might fall in love with me..which is usually what happens :P). I told him that I had lots of friends I was friendly with and never fell in love with him. I have a partner, and he's the only one I love. He said he would love to be friends and do all the things we do, go to the movies and such, maybe play around, and be just friends. I told him the same thing. So, in my head I figured we were just friends and nothing else.

When I was in Mexico we talked almost everyday, and he would bring the subject up, but eventually it died down. They both picked me up at the airport yesterday, and we sat and watched TV when we got home. I was again sitting next to his friend, and HR kept looking over, but I did nothing with his friend, and I was too tired from my flights anyways. I went to bed then woke up and came on here and started typing this. I heard them wake up about 10 minutes ago, so I'm heading over there right now. Last night his friend also kept looking at me weird and put his hand near me, but I didn't reciprocate, I really do like him, and would love to get friendly with him, just don't know what's gonna happen.

I should really write all my stories for nifty.org :sweat: sorry they go on for so long. But I like having a place to vent and write these things, even if they don't get read.

[Azagtoth]

Moonsorrow/Finntroll's Trollhorn was my band teacher in a music school and my father (priest) buried Somnium of Finntroll/Impaled Nazarene.

...WHAT? You mean Henri Sorvali, right? Part of the reason I got into Moonsorrow is because I have this raging mancrush on him. He's so fucking cute, and obscenely talented too.

It's a shame he doesn't travel with them when they tour in the US. I wouldn't mind flying over there to see them at all, but that's so much money. :sad:

Well at least this time the derail is kind of still on topic. <3

[The Green Trench Coat]

long.

But good story.

first of all EWW about roach shit in your soda.

Second of all.. do you ever get the feeling this is just so much work for something so casual. That's kinda why i left things alone with my daddybear boss. I figure he knows how i feel about him and If he wants it he knows how to find me. but it's too much work for just a casual fling.

But I feel you on friends assuming you are hot for someone that they know is hot for you.


I'm kinda going through that shit now.. and it happened to me before.

One time I got some angry ass message about me being a homewrecker because some guy caught his bf jerking off to an old video i did. i was like :confused::confused: how is this my fault I didn't even know them.

One of angel's friends has the hots for me and apparently he's very vocal about it. even to the point that his crush on me was the reason for the breakup of his last relationship. and his current boyfriend is all pissed off that everytime he sees angel he goes on to this tirade about me.

Mind you I've never EVER EVER EVER made a move on this guy.. never showed any intrest, we don't even really talk I'm actually pretty rude to the guy all things considered but last friday he was apparently raving about me at some bar to my friends that were out that night ...I wasn't even there.. i was home sleeping cause I was sick. at least i don't have people getting in my ass assuming that i want any part of that though. PM me if you wanna see pics of the guy in question. he's not realy a bear kindof a peirced tatooed skinhead.

[CarreauOverkill]

I over-analyze myself and my actions. I'm twenty one. I fall in love with individuals over their gender, I guess. I don't wanna make a fuzz about it, but if I were to get into a relationship with a guy, I wouldn't want to hide it. I don't know how to handle it, that's why I posted.

Finland this time of the year is dark. Snowless christmas, snowless new year. Snow will probably fall in a few weeks. Wet, cold and dark 'til then.

Soul Calibur 3: Mitsu 88B VC is probably the most evil thing in SC3. And 236B with ze sisters. X's whoring is fixed in PAL version. I play Sieg (zomg<3) and Night.

Yes, Henri Sorvali. Funny guy, him. I always hated his bullring, though. He kept calling us "arselings" when we were too hungover to play properly. Said that he'd go have a beer and when he'd come back we better be able to play or he'd drop us off his course.

I've not slept this year. I came straight to work from my friend's place. I'm still a little drunk. Zzz. Need more coffee.

[Azagtoth]

Yes, Henri Sorvali. Funny guy, him. I always hated his bullring, though. He kept calling us "arselings" when we were too hungover to play properly. Said that he'd go have a beer and when he'd come back we better be able to play or he'd drop us off his course.

Man that must be something.

God he's so damn hot.

What about Yoshi's throw VC juggles? Those were pretty dumb too.

[BeaTs*]

ya'll don't get the point though, that ring is just stupid looking...fuggen half stage length and shit....

But X is still my 2nd queen

[Dreamkiller]

Yoshi's pretty bad.
Anything back turned is pretty bad too.

The Ex called, dont know wats going down tonight.

[iwst99]

But good story.

first of all EWW about roach shit in your soda.

Second of all.. do you ever get the feeling this is just so much work for something so casual. That's kinda why i left things alone with my daddybear boss. I figure he knows how i feel about him and If he wants it he knows how to find me. but it's too much work for just a casual fling.

But I feel you on friends assuming you are hot for someone that they know is hot for you.

I don't think it's just a casual fling with him...I mean, we're friends, good friends, and I share with him a lot more than anyone else. He's my co-worker, as of now one of my best friends, we have a ton in common, and we're comfortable with each other enough that we can have sex and still be just friends. It's never been work to have this friendship with him...it feels so good to have a friend like that.

After I posted the last message, I got up and went to the living room and sat with my boxer briefs and a shirt on, and went on my PC and surfed the web. (especially for a new camera cause I lost mine in belize :sad:). Both of them were up and about and it was just casual. I showed HR some pics on my PC from my trip, then we all went out for breakfast.

I'll try to cut this short...

His friend left to take care of some business, and the previous week HR had told he was taking care of his grandma new years eve, who's 89, since she usually has his brother look over her but he was away to Canada He asked me what I was doing, and I told him I didn't have plans, but that I would hang out with him if he didn't mind the company. He said he didn't mind, that we could watch movies and such, but anytime I wanted I could back out because he knew it might be a boring night and didn't want to force me to go. I knew it could be boring, but I always have a good time with him even when we just sit around doing nothing, so I didn't mind.

So we ended up going to the supermarket and buying a bunch of snack foods, dinner and vodka for the night, and we brought some movies to watch, along with 3 seasons worth of Golden Girls (I have never seen an episode...that changed after that night). So we got to the house, and I guess his grandma used to be on TV and was famous or something he said, and she lived up in the hollywood hills, which is where m(b)illionaires live, and you could over see all of LA from up in the moutains. I had no idea where she lived, and it turned out to be a huge house with an awesome view of the whole valley. We had a good time, his grandma was nice, she's pretty old and is on a wheel chair and uses a walker, but she was still a fun person.

We watched movies until his Grandma was tired and wanted to go to bed. Afterwards we had some of the hottest sex I have ever had with him, and it was the most passionate it's ever been with him. We ended 5 minutes before midnight, which gaves us enough time to go to the view and see the fireworks. We slept in the same bed, as no one else lived there, and we were upstairs anyways, which his grandma couldn't up to (we kept it quite anyways). Next morning the awesome sex continued, we had breakfast and once the caretaker for that day came to check on his grandma, we left. We got to his place, showered and such, went for breakfast. Spent about 2 more hours of awesome sex, although most of it involved kissing and staring into each other's eyes and caressing (which I LOVE), went to a movie, then got back to his place and left. And now I'm here.

It's hard to explain in the story, but the last couple of days with him were different that they've been before. Maybe it's because I was flirting with his friend and he got maybe jealous (even though he says we're just friends...). Maybe because it was outside of work, and he'd had a view days off and was just relaxed. The sex was also a lot different than it had been before. We were also together 2 weeks ago at Disneyland the whole day, which was an awesome time.

Whether or not the reason it was like this was because of flirting with his friend and getting jealous, I am now not really in the mood to get with his friend any longer. Maybe that was his plan all along, I don't know, but that's how I feel now. Maybe I was being kind of a jerk for flirting with his friend and wanting to get with him (although the feeling is obviously mutual with his friend..).

Have to work at 6am tomorrow...early shift = t3h sux.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

I over-analyze myself and my actions. I'm twenty one. I fall in love with individuals over their gender, I guess. I don't wanna make a fuzz about it, but if I were to get into a relationship with a guy, I wouldn't want to hide it. I don't know how to handle it, that's why I posted.

Finland this time of the year is dark. Snowless christmas, snowless new year. Snow will probably fall in a few weeks. Wet, cold and dark 'til then..

I've not slept this year. I came straight to work from my friend's place. I'm still a little drunk. Zzz. Need more coffee.

Alright, thanks for shedding some light about your situation. It is tough to go through the motions of coming to terms with aspects of yourself, but life doesn't have to be overly complicated and stressful. Be honest and accepting how you really feel and look at the positive things to come out of it, less on the tiny negative points. It sounds like you don't want to get hurt again and hurt the feelings of the other person, but worrying about it won't make the stress go away. Look at a new relationship as a chance to change what didn't work before, and basically "move forward." I learned to laugh about alot of things and not let them get to me like they use to. This has worked for me, it may not work for you, but it's worth a shot.

I dunno much about Finland, how's the fighting competition scene there?

and i guess no one asked you yet, but what kind of man are you attracted to (if any specifics at all)? I wanna see if you continue the trend with the rest of us...

[BeaTs*]

Hey Mech, I had several shots of vodka and tequila! Wanted to get drunk, but couldn't (had to handle drama/bullshit with friends and supposed "friends") But now I know I can get drunk! Mixing was meh, but chasing was much better for me. I probably could get used to not chasing Vodka, but it will be a while before I don't chase tequila. Everything else tasted like crap (champagne, wine, rum, etc.)

[Dreamkiller]

Lol. So i jus remembered that i tried getting into Bear411 a while back and i didnt get a reply email. So, i tried it again a couple days ago and still nothing. WTF!??!?!

Ugh yes! Finally got laid after like.....a while.
I wanna play games now.
But no one's around.
:(

[BeaTs*]

bear411 is iffy atm (cannot find server) so maybe that might be why?

still have not had like SEX sex in a long as time...a little oral, but that's it

[The Green Trench Coat]

Lol. So i jus remembered that i tried getting into Bear411 a while back and i didnt get a reply email. So, i tried it again a couple days ago and still nothing. WTF!??!?!

Ugh yes! Finally got laid after like.....a while.
I wanna play games now.
But no one's around.
:(

use www.bearworld.com for some reason that works better for us in ny. Also try out bearciti.com and a bearwww.com is a must for international hotbears

[BeaTs*]

ahh, thanks for that. does bearworld have all those every other day limitations (on seeing who's online and shit) like 411?

[Dreamkiller]

Sweet, more bear sites.
lol.
Jus signed up
*crosses fingers*

[The Green Trench Coat]

ahh, thanks for that. does bearworld have all those every other day limitations (on seeing who's online and shit) like 411?



I don't know pup. I have premium.

[Mechanica]

Hey Mech, I had several shots of vodka and tequila! Wanted to get drunk, but couldn't (had to handle drama/bullshit with friends and supposed "friends") But now I know I can get drunk! Mixing was meh, but chasing was much better for me. I probably could get used to not chasing Vodka, but it will be a while before I don't chase tequila. Everything else tasted like crap (champagne, wine, rum, etc.)

Hahah, you can handle tequila but rum is gross. Too good. :tup:

[BeaTs*]

Iunno vodka and tequila just have that alcohol taste and burning... not as bad as champagne, beer, rum, etc. that just taste like crap! bleh

[CarreauOverkill]

I dunno much about Finland, how's the fighting competition scene there?
Thanks for the tips.

The fighting game scene is small. Consist mostly of scrubs. There's like one tourney every two years. Mostly Tekken, I guess.


and i guess no one asked you yet, but what kind of man are you attracted to (if any specifics at all)? I wanna see if you continue the trend with the rest of us...

And as for specifics, hm. I like long hair and toned, somewhat muscular and slender builds. For example, I totally swoon over the vocalist in this video. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTsGFIG2USA)

[Mechanica]

Iunno vodka and tequila just have that alcohol taste and burning... not as bad as champagne, beer, rum, etc. that just taste like crap! bleh

Champagne beer and wine are all horrible when you're new, definitely acquired tastes, but I've never met anyone who would take tequila over rum if taste was an issue. I guess it depends on how cheap or crappy the rum/tequila is, too. I'll drink patron straight but if it's some jose cuervo gold or something, gimme some joose. I'm at the point where I can drink almost any liquor straight with no problem. Maybe not if someone bought like a $5 of Popov or something though.

Let's git drunk. :bgrin:

[CarreauOverkill]

Let's git drunk. :bgrin:

I've got a bottle of Koskenkorva and no work tomorrow. Yaoo. I've tried American beers and they are horrrrribble.

[iwst99]

Vodka > all

When I lived in Russia I went to St. Petersburg and the Gulf of Finland and SAW Finland far far away. You and I are practically cousins. :wonder:

Welcome to the thread. :lovin:

[Lobelia Prime]

So I've never posted in this thread before, and considering that I'm technically part of the LGBT community, I shall do so now.
I don't drink alcohol because the last time I did, it was a shot glass full of sake that caused me to promptly pass out.

[iwst99]

So I've never posted in this thread before, and considering that I'm technically part of the LGBT community, I shall do so now.


Please explain "technically"

And welcome.

[Dreamkiller]

Lobelia - Sweet more people. Nice av btw.

[The Green Trench Coat]

i'm all about tequilla. Petron on the rocks pls.

I like my drinks to knock me on my ass as quickly as possible.

[iwst99]

Yay, just found out the cutie I've been hang out with on my Friday night bowling league (from a different team) got asked to join my team on Wednesday nights. :lovin: I'm new to the team, and he used to be on the same team years ago. He's a ton of fun. Hung out at his place before to watch project runway he TiVo'd for me. He lived in Russia as well for a little bit, so we have that in common to. And he's cute as fuck. Should be fun. :looney:

[DarthTrey]

OK I think I'm in the correct thread for this question.

Beatsofdevil said in the 9 things I hate about porn thread that not all Homosexual males like anal.

I feel a little weird asking this, but then what exactly goes on between the sheets then....

I had always thought that Gay sex entailed two guys (forgive the bluntness of this) pounding eachother.


:sweat:

[BeaTs*]

OK I think I'm in the correct thread for this question.

Beatsofdevil said in the 9 things I hate about porn thread that not all Homosexual males like anal.

I feel a little weird asking this, but then what exactly goes on between the sheets then....

I had always thought that Gay sex entailed two guys (forgive the bluntness of this) pounding eachother.


:sweat:I answered in the 9porn thread...but seriously...there's still oral, and rubbing and stuff. some guys just don't prefer it and others don't like it at all. I personally love it...but meh...

[iwst99]

OK I think I'm in the correct thread for this question.

Beatsofdevil said in the 9 things I hate about porn thread that not all Homosexual males like anal.

I feel a little weird asking this, but then what exactly goes on between the sheets then....

I had always thought that Gay sex entailed two guys (forgive the bluntness of this) pounding eachother.


:sweat:

It could just be Oral sex between the two. Or he might mean that not all males like to receive anal, and only like to give.

My thing is, what do lesbians get out of it? There's no dick involved. YOU CAN'T HAVE SEX WITHOUT NO DICK.

But then they get dildos...wtf is that all about, I thought they were all about NOT having dick, but they get phallus shaped objects to play with...meh.

SO yeah, oral/rimming/kissing/JO is probably what males that aren't into anal could do.

[DarthTrey]

I had a lesbian friend and I asked her what she did with her partners and it basically came down to just foreplay(In my head I was like WTF?? how is that fun) So yeah the lesbians confuse me too.......

[iwst99]

I had a lesbian friend and I asked her what she did with her partners and it basically came down to just foreplay(In my head I was like WTF?? how is that fun) So yeah the lesbians confuse me too.......

Actually, I corrected the post above. I meant to say, you CANT have sex without no dick.

But yes, they confuse me too. :confused:

[The Green Trench Coat]

OK I think I'm in the correct thread for this question.

Beatsofdevil said in the 9 things I hate about porn thread that not all Homosexual males like anal.

I feel a little weird asking this, but then what exactly goes on between the sheets then....

I had always thought that Gay sex entailed two guys (forgive the bluntness of this) pounding eachother.


:sweat:


how cute are you.. i could definitely show you what goes on :wgrin::lovin:

That's probably the biggest misconception about gay men and gay sex. We're not always after the booty. I can think of at least 7 of my friends that don't prefer to do anything anally and 2 are anal virgins.


Sometimes 69'in and just giving eachother good professionals is hot. You dont need to get it in with anal always.


Lesbians get it in they have strap ons and accessories. they scissor and all of that.
"scissor me timbers"

[Mechanica]

they scissor and all of that.
"scissor me timbers"

motherfucking ROFL :rofl:

it's really not as hard as heteros assume it is to have great sex without penetration... not to mention guys are better at stimulating penises because they have them. :wgrin:

[DarthTrey]

how cute are you.. i could definitely show you what goes on :wgrin::lovin:

Cute enough :lovin: (no homo)



That's probably the biggest misconception about gay men and gay sex. We're not always after the booty. I can think of at least 7 of my friends that don't prefer to do anything anally and 2 are anal virgins.


Sometimes 69'in and just giving eachother good professionals is hot. You dont need to get it in with anal always.


Lesbians get it in they have strap ons and accessories. they scissor and all of that.
"scissor me timbers"

Yeah all my notions on gay sex are derived from porn. Also Scissor sex has to be the funniest damn thing you can see in lesbian porn lol.

[Mechanica]

Yeah all my notions on gay sex are derived from porn.

Duzzat mean I can show you examples? :bgrin:

[iwst99]

The more I thought about it....I've had sex with about 9+ guys (some on a few occassions) in the last 5 months, and I believe only with one of them did I engage in anal sex with. I do like anal, but it's not a priority, and there's other things you can do that don't have to involve getting so messy and stuff. (Not that there's anyting wrong with that :lovin:)

I like all these random posters poppin' out of nowhere :D

[DrumlinerJoe]

Ugh, I could do with some getting drunk. I asked this guy I really like out for lunch on Sunday, so of course my truck heard me and decided to break down to the tune of 250 bucks. So I really am trying to figure out a way to break the date without sounding like a scrub.

[iwst99]

Ugh, I could do with some getting drunk. I asked this guy I really like out for lunch on Sunday, so of course my truck heard me and decided to break down to the tune of 250 bucks. So I really am trying to figure out a way to break the date without sounding like a scrub.

if your car breaks down, and you tell him the truth, and he thinks you're a scrub, then it's probably better you don't deal with dat shit. =/

or you could lie and tell him you're visiting your dying grandma or something, i'd go with the truth though.