Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[The_Beast]

Does anyone know if there is going to be an arcade with MvC2 machines at Evo?

[Mechanica]

Hey, even I recognize My Buddy and I'm 19. :razzy: and you look good, Grey Area. Don't be so shy!

[The Green Trench Coat]

Does anyone know if there is going to be an arcade with MvC2 machines at Evo?

I know for a fact there is a gameworks on the strip. Weather there is going to be machines at evo.. I can only imagine that it's gonna be mostly console.

[The Green Trench Coat]

dead in here today.


so somehow i got roped into helping to plan a pride float for the bears here.
The thing that gets me is like why everyone things so inside the box when it comes to pride celebrations

First off I mean I'm the worst person for this because i don't even like pride. I think it only showcases the most typical stereotypes of gay people.

in true fashion all they came up with the same ideas "lets have a dj on the float and then have people dancing and bears waving in the front." :rolleyes::rolleyes:

I shoulda just let them do what they wanna do but i made a comment that sealed my fate. After the above suggestion was made I said: "that'll totall make us stand out cause nobody is gonna have a dj with a bunch of idiots dancing on it.":rolleyes::rolleyes:


So I had to then suggest something better. which I did. But now they are totally like well you suggested it so now you have to help make it so. I totally don't want to march for no other reason than i don't even really want to be there marching behind the guy dancing around with peacock feathers in his ass.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Get a bear drumline. Tribal rythms are easy to make up and repeat over and over again.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Get a bear drumline. Tribal rythms are easy to make up and repeat over and over again.

$$$$

[DrumlinerJoe]

It's easy to fashion cheap drums. Hell y'all need me there to plan this shit.

[The Green Trench Coat]

It's easy to fashion cheap drums. Hell y'all need me there to plan this shit.

add to that where would they get actual bear drummers.

also it's hard enough keeping bears hydrated for the march allthe way from 57th street down to christopher that's over 70 blocks. in the heat..

and we are talking about bears. walking is not there forte.. the sound of their thighs chaffing will drive people crazy. the drums cant really cover that.


I suggested getting actual bears but that didn't go over well. Though i'm sure the bears would love it.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Baylor university's mascot is the bear and they have this bear in this small cage on campus. It was heavily sedated and didn't really do anything so it wasn't really inspiring at all.

[BeaTs*]

Baylor university's mascot is the bear and they have this bear in this small cage on campus. It was heavily sedated and didn't really do anything so it wasn't really inspiring at all.:rofl:that's awful...ly lovely? :lovin: :shake:

[DrumlinerJoe]

Well it was kind of depressing. I didn't go to Baylor by the way.

[The Green Trench Coat]

whatev... i'll figure something out.


fuckem i'm gonna tell them to go ahead and do the stupid dj and dancing on the float. Not like anybody ever wants to try anything new ever. god forbid.

[Mr. Big]

Not like anybody ever wants to try anything new ever. god forbid.

I hear ya. I keep saying that to my straight friends, but do they listen? :rolleyes:




:rofl:

[The Grey Area]

That is one thing that I never understood about Pride. It is not exactly putting one's best foot forward. It sucks but every group of people who ever wanted a fair shake in this country had to undergo a bit of assimilation. When they marched, they were out to prove that they were no different than anyone else and that all of the false claims put against them and those like them were just figments of hateful minds. The includes Women, Black People, Hispanics, Asians and others.

Pride seems to declare, "We are everything you fear and we are happy to flaunt this" It seems to almost undercut what the everyday joe with a life partner is trying to accomplish. Yes, I know that Pride is more than just that but, you know what, BET actually shows the News in between the ass shaking and criminal glorification. People will always cling on to worst image presented and Pride just seems to provide easy ammo.

[Mechanica]

:rofl: @ Mr. Big

So with the combination of ST being replaced by HD Remix, and CvS2 skimming by the cut but Guilty Gear getting cut off, I'm not so convinced on how bad I wanna go to evo now. There's nothing I care about left! :rofl:

I think the point of pride is that it takes it too far with the stereotypes. Would you really want to be part of a homosexual march that was conservative and non-flambuoyant? I sure as fuck wouldn't.

[The Grey Area]

Oh, then never mind. I always thought that it was like a declaration of Homosexual's rights to equal treatment. I read about the incident that started it. It sounded much like what black people did after Emmit Till and Rosa Parks.

[iwst99]

Oh, then never mind. I always thought that it was like a declaration of Homosexual's rights to equal treatment. I read about the incident that started it. It sounded much like what black people did after Emmit Till and Rosa Parks.

LOL.

Welcome to Fantasy Island.

Pride = bleh.

Sure, I'll go for the parties with free food/drinks, but they still = bleh.

[Azagtoth]

So with the combination of ST being replaced by HD Remix...

What's so bad about that? Sucks that GG lost a spot though.

Besides, it's not like you need the excuse of competition to go. I know I'll try my luck in CVS2 and KOFXI, but I'm expecting great things or anything, I'm infinitely more excited about meeting you guys.

[Bastion]

Everyone and everything is connected. You can't have inner peace without realizing this. But, i know noone gives a fuck about inner peace so lets drop our drawers, pierce our nipples and put on something pink, cause we're different. lol. Seriously though, it doesn't matter if you bring creativity to a bear float cause in General people won't care. They aren't going to go home and say "hey did you notice that one float, it really thought outside the box". They are going to go home and talk about how much E they dropped and how many dicks they grabbed. You know there is truth in what im saying :). Just go for the token bear float and spend the extra money in your budget that you saved and donate it to a AIDS charity, or a foundation for GLBT teen foundation. Or just use the extra money to buy booze. Whatever works.

EDIT: hey guys, i just noticed my little green squares turned to red. How and why? I didnt do anything wrong. How does this thing work? And why? lol. I was around these parts back in 2001-2003 then I left now Im back and dont know whats going on.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Everyone and everything is connected. You can't have inner peace without realizing this. But, i know noone gives a fuck about inner peace so lets drop our drawers, pierce our nipples and put on something pink, cause we're different. lol. Seriously though, it doesn't matter if you bring creativity to a bear float cause in General people won't care. They aren't going to go home and say "hey did you notice that one float, it really thought outside the box". They are going to go home and talk about how much E they dropped and how many dicks they grabbed. You know there is truth in what im saying :). Just go for the token bear float and spend the extra money in your budget that you saved and donate it to a AIDS charity, or a foundation for GLBT teen foundation. Or just use the extra money to buy booze. Whatever works.

EDIT: hey guys, i just noticed my little green squares turned to red. How and why? I didnt do anything wrong. How does this thing work? And why? lol. I was around these parts back in 2001-2003 then I left now Im back and dont know whats going on.


ugh.. forget it.. forget i said anything. sheesh.

[Bastion]

ugh.. forget it.. forget i said anything. sheesh.

:rofl: I hear ya. :patontheback:

[ramberk]

The whole point of pride is the freedom to express yourself and to be proud of yourself-- regardless of what society thinks. If men want to go out in "goofy" costumes and act "silly" go for it. I apologize for getting political here but I don't think gays should have to "apologize" to anyone for being gay or demonstrate how well they can "fit in". And the problem is not that straight society picks on "flaming gays" as the stereotype they can ridicule, the problem is that they are unwilling to see how diverse, multi-faceted and deep all gay men are. Ignorant folks are the ones that should be ashamed over their narrow and simplistic their view of gay culture. Anyway... [/high horse]

[Mechanica]

HEY GUYS :party: I GOT SOME NEW CLOTHES TODAY YAY

PICS FOR THE MECH FAN CLUB

http://img373.imageshack.us/img373/3715/dsc01481ze2.jpg

http://img363.imageshack.us/img363/6365/dsc01486sx7.jpg

http://img385.imageshack.us/img385/9986/dsc01484id6.jpg

http://img384.imageshack.us/img384/2006/dsc01489fl2.jpg - lol

http://img91.imageshack.us/img91/3287/dsc01492bw2.jpg

[The Green Trench Coat]

The whole point of pride is the freedom to express yourself and to be proud of yourself-- regardless of what society thinks. If men want to go out in "goofy" costumes and act "silly" go for it. I apologize for getting political here but I don't think gays should have to "apologize" to anyone for being gay or demonstrate how well they can "fit in". And the problem is not that straight society picks on "flaming gays" as the stereotype they can ridicule, the problem is that they are unwilling to see how diverse, multi-faceted and deep all gay men are. Ignorant folks are the ones that should be ashamed over their narrow and simplistic their view of gay culture. Anyway... [/high horse]

mind you.. i know the purpose of pride.

my point was that we don't have to always do the same thing all the time. albeit if they wanted to wear costumes or something that might actually be cool but 13 floats of the same thing in a row is just a little moot.

you guys arent going to convince me that i'm wrong for trying to inject a little creativity and purpose into 1 public medium that this club can use to show a little about itself.

So lets leave it at that. While were on it what's with everyone kinda coming at me in this thread lately. Are you guys mad at me?

[BeaTs*]

da hell???

[Æther]

They just hatin on your muskles, dood. lol

I need change for the bus ride home... Do any of you have spare change? Change, anyone?

[Azagtoth]

Are you guys mad at me?

Yes. You're in NY and I'm not. :(

[The Green Trench Coat]

Yes. You're in NY and I'm not. :(

but...

I love you.

[LightningStorm]

Are you guys mad at me?

You're not supposed to know. It's "Be mad at GTC week" :mad:

[Azagtoth]

I love you.

:amazed::amazed:SHOCK:amazed::amazed:

We can make it work.

<3

[The Green Trench Coat]

You're not supposed to know. It's "Be mad at GTC week" :mad:

I hope it's followed by bearhug week.

[iwst99]

Hey Az..I got pic of the new guy, but it's only of him kissing me...so yeah, I'll try to get a good one of him...I told you I'd provide pics... :)

Also, he turns out he's the enemy (stupid drama) of this creepy guy at the bowling alley that ALWAYs follows me and sexual innuendo's me...he's a nice guy, but creepy and trying to hard to get some. This new guy came to visit me at my league on Monday (he doesn't bowl that night, but he bowls with me Fridays). Creepy guy was there, said hi to me at first and new guy was there and next to me all night...we were touching and hugging and stuff while I bowled, and the creepy guy kept looking over and he was bowling shitty. It was funny...he didn't even come over to say goodbye and stuff, and he ALWAYS make it an issue to do so.

Lesson here is: If creepy guys at bowling alleys try to hit on you for 5 months straight, just bang their biggest enemy and they will go away. :D (No, I didn't know he was his enemy or whatever before I banged him). This is guy is so nice too....we've been talking everyday. He's 6'3, atleast 250+, shaved head, white.

[Azagtoth]

You're the man. <3

[The Green Trench Coat]

:amazed::amazed:SHOCK:amazed::amazed:

We can make it work.

<3

such a tease :arazz:

[DrumlinerJoe]

New pic to take on Mech's cuteness.

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/l_294f4b1ecace67780c625a09f9c87a98.jpg

[The Grey Area]

New pic to take on Mech's cuteness.

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/l_294f4b1ecace67780c625a09f9c87a98.jpg

I swear, on the phone you sound like the sweetest guy in the world. In pictures you look like you would casually stomp my ass before breakfast.

Awesome pic overall:woot:

[The Green Trench Coat]

I swear, on the phone you sound like the sweetest guy in the world. In pictures you look like you would casually stomp my ass before breakfast.

Awesome pic overall:woot:



which sometimes makes me wonder ..
"exactly who is taking his pics when he's got that trademark grimmace."

I mean .. it's totally hot. but i just imagine the person taking that pic is like someone that has been bugging joe all night and won't take no for an answer.

[Adam Warlock]

Not that it matters, but TGA is gay? I thought you were a lurker like Quiche and myself.

[ramberk]

SF4 gets a new character (http://kotaku.com/366743/new-street-fighter-iv-character-leaked) and I guess I'm gonna have to learn how to use a grapple character. Something tells me this grappling character is gonna be a lot of fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[The_Beast]

I swear, on the phone you sound like the sweetest guy in the world. In pictures you look like you would casually stomp my ass before breakfast.

Awesome pic overall:woot:

Lol, DLJ is really little in person man.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I'm calm, it takes a LOT to piss me off. And really the only way I'd get physical with someone is in self defense.

And I'm not feeling the new character at ALL. More Able.

[iwst99]

the only way I'd get physical with someone is in self defense.


Yeah...Right. :wink::wink::wgrin::woot::angel::lovin:

[Bastion]

....

[Mechanica]

Abel > El Blaze

[DrumlinerJoe]

Abel > El Blaze

:lovin:

[ramberk]

We don't even know El Fuerte's move list! I'm also interested in Abel but ya gotta give Elf a chance. I'm not sure I dig El Fuerte's costume but... maybe it'll grow on me. I certainly like it more then T. Hawk's costume.

Anyhow... these new characters actually got me more hyped about this game then anything else.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Yeah, but I would've been happier with a little more Urban Mexicano you know.

Oh well, luchadores are still all right.

[Mechanica]

We don't even know El Fuerte's move list! I'm also interested in Abel but ya gotta give Elf a chance. I'm not sure I dig El Fuerte's costume but... maybe it'll grow on me. I certainly like it more then T. Hawk's costume.

Anyhow... these new characters actually got me more hyped about this game then anything else.

What else would you get hyped about? The EX4 incarnation of the SF2 crew? :rofl:

[The Green Trench Coat]

confessions of a broken heart.

First of all take care of yourself

heart problems can attack anyone it's fascinating really .. most people think you gotta be fat and unhealthy to have a heart attack. when really it can happen to anyone a few years ago a 28 year old figure skater died of a heart attack out of no where.

I'm sure you just wanted to vent. I got outed by an "allegedly" well meaning co worker. so i know how awkward that can be. if you do go back to work there and the guy says anything about it to you asking why you didn't tell him sooner you can say you didn't think it mattered since you werent intrested in him that way.

and then get ready for the always popular "well.. what's wrong with me? why arent you intrested in me?"

aahh i'm sure you know that already.

[The Grey Area]

Not that it matters, but TGA is gay? I thought you were a lurker like Quiche and myself.

Not really. I am not physically attracted to guys. I have always felt more like a girl than a boy though. Mentally being with a guy feels like it would be awesome but I am yet to meet one that I ever felt attracted to. Not to mention that I have spent the last five nights dreaming about roxie. I do not think that I am as over that relationship as I liked to think that I was.

So to answer your question...I really don't know.

[The Green Trench Coat]

You go to sleep tonight .. you wake up tommorrow and you are a girl.

And not just any girl.. you are hot.. a showstoppin hot mama..
At Midnight you turn back into yourself...

I wanna hear what you'd do on you one day as a smoking hot mama...


(this was a conversation i had with a few people over dinner the other day)

[iwst99]

On my way to spain right now...just got off a 9hr flight to London. HR's friend bumped me to business class last minute...omg that shit was nice. Free alcohol and top tier food. Seats recline completely into a bed...they even give you night socks. Anyways, blowing HR who in turn hooks u up with free upgrades FTMTW. He says I owe him 10 pearl necklaces now...whatever that means :-P. The bathrooms had free "panty pads" too...can never have enough panty pads...for those heavy flow days. OMG and European daddies = god tier.

[goukipoo]

SNIP.

Stress can kill you. You can be perfectly healthy, and stress will kill you. It's not just a saying.

Take care of yourself, which is going to be hard to do now that your stressing over if your gonna keep your job or not, but you really have to.

And if you are now out at work, just do what GTC said. You'd be suprised on who will and will not be ok with it, I'm always shocked.

[The Grey Area]

You go to sleep tonight .. you wake up tommorrow and you are a girl.

And not just any girl.. you are hot.. a showstoppin hot mama..
At Midnight you turn back into yourself...

I wanna hear what you'd do on you one day as a smoking hot mama...


(this was a conversation i had with a few people over dinner the other day)

I would spend all my bill money on outfits and wear a different one each hour. I would walk around every spot in Atlanta just enjoying exsisting. Then I would hit a lesbian bar at dusk. Spend the rest of the time flirting and drinking. I would leave at 11:50 and hopefully get hit by a truck....

Come to think of it, I guess the best thing to do would be to commit a string of roberies. Banks, shops, you name it. Then the nex day, the culprit would no longer exsist. Then I would at least have the money to transition, be that my final decison.

[ramberk]

Come to think of it, I guess the best thing to do would be to commit a string of roberies. Banks, shops, you name it. Then the nex day, the culprit would no longer exsist. Then I would at least have the money to transition, be that my final decison.

Lol, awesome answer. Makes sense.

[The Green Trench Coat]

that was kinda my answer.. only I would spend the first few hours of my day "acquiring money" stash the money someplace that i can get it when I change back.

I take some money to get a few outfits including some sort of freakum dress "something short and backless".

take an hour or 2 to figure out the whereabouts of Nick frost, kevin james, or suge knight.
and yes i did say suge knight. I know .. i know... but god damn he's fine. and he looks like he'd lay it down completely.

Assuming I find knick frost I go to his location seduce him and slay him all night.. even after i change back

same thing if i find kevin smith...


but if i can only get suge.. I gotta make sure i'm outta there before I have any hints of changing back cause if he finds out I'm a dude I'm completely dead.... ... unless... nah it's better to just be gone.

[DrumlinerJoe]

The Fierceness in the thread is showing y'all. Good stuff.

[Shadow_X]

im feminin but not gay

[Mechanica]

im feminin but not gay

:rofl:

[DrumlinerJoe]

I'm gay, but I'm not feminine.

[severin]

I'm androgynous, but not entirely gay

[DrumlinerJoe]

Mech, how dare you show up in the thread without pics.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I'm very masculine, but i have a vagina.

[Mechanica]

Mech, how dare you show up in the thread without pics.

You don't want pics right now, I've got food poisoning. Throwing up, shitting my pants, all that good stuff.

Here's one from earlier last week: http://a555.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/75/l_445968e71b3c906e1b6189c1003ed81a.jpg

[DrumlinerJoe]

Dang that sucks.

Cute pic though. hehe

[Mechanica]

Yeah, you're tellin' me. (tmi warning) The last time I was about to fall asleep (it felt great, like I was gonna sleep for more than an hour, too :/) I fucking sharted and let's just say my boxers are in the trash, and there's shit on my fucking new jeans (was not wearing them) and my blanket. I don't even have quarters to do my fucking laundry to wash shityasdlfjkasdf a;lskjfas;l3uj892q3powejfkdsfl;kj

[DrumlinerJoe]

Wash by hand man. Use the tub.

[Mechanica]

Good idea, I don't know why the tub didn't cross my mind. Probably because I'm fucked up in more ways than one right now
(and none of the good ones!). It was barely on my jeans but the fact that it was just kinda made me want to die.

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol, it's okay man. It washes off just like anything else.

[Mechanica]

yyyyyeah, anyway...

Wayne's bringing me food I can actually stomach since I don't have a single thing and haven't really eaten anything because I can't bear with the MSG and sodium contents of what foods I have right now. He's my hero. :lovin: Fuckin' love this man.

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol, nice man nice. So what up for the weekend fellas? I'm too broke to do anything really, I may scam drinks of my best friend. lol

[Mechanica]

Starting work again. I got fired but rehired, lol. People started quitting once I left. :rofl:

Of course I'm sicker than I've been in my life (at least for something so short-lived) but only long enough to recover to go to work tomorrow. Fucking immune system. If you're that strong couldn't you have just NOT caught whatever virus I just had? Fucker.

I too am mad broke. If I had even felt well enough to make it to the store to buy yogurt or something, I have less than a dollar in my bank account. So I'm extra stoked on Wayne bringing me stuff. I had plans to go play Super Turbo with friends today, but yeah, so much for that.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Just get plenty of rest and rehydration man. Drink lots of water and gatorade.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Amir is attractive.

[Mechanica]

Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir Amir, you mean

:woot:

Some sprite, yogurt, and a bowl of weed later & I feel sooo much better. Introducing food to my stomach after that long made me naseuous in it's own way, but weed > nausea. :smokin:

He got a really cute haircut. :lovin:

[DrumlinerJoe]

:woot:

Some sprite, yogurt, and a bowl of weed later & I feel sooo much better. Introducing food to my stomach after that long made me naseuous in it's own way, but weed > nausea. :smokin:

He got a really cute haircut. :lovin:

Glad to hear you're feeling better.

[Mechanica]

Oh forgot the pic, sorry. Here's my ass in my new favorite jeans: http://img205.imageshack.us/img205/5859/paintzxc7.png

[Æther]

same thing if i find kevin smith...
Oh no you don't, bitch! He's mine! ALL MINE! :annoy:

The moment I'd turn into a chick I'd be in bed with Kevin. He and I share a telepathic bond. It's over at the character select screen! :mad:
lol, nice man nice. So what up for the weekend fellas? I'm too broke to do anything really, I may scam drinks of my best friend. lol
Sunday I'm thinking about calling out "sick" to hang with Rob for "dinner", as he put it. Then monday we're gonna have "privacy time". <3

[iwst99]

Fukin time change...its 6am here and I've been tossing and turning for a few hours. People be drunk and partying outside, I can here club music still, since I'm on the main strip of town. Staying at a gay hostel...not much gay about it, I have a huge balcony and nice view. I'm going to try to go to Chueca street tonight, which is the gay area in Madrid...expect pics.

See you guys.

[ramberk]

Drink some Pedialyte Mech. It gives you back all the nutrients you lost from hurling and stuff.

[iwst99]

Fuck, it's like the movie bearcub up in here, motha fuggin woof! :D. In gay area right now.

Hope wayne's making yo feel better mech...

[Azagtoth]

I'm gay, but I'm not feminine.

Yes indeed.

So I'm at FR and none of you are here. :(

[DrumlinerJoe]

Would love to be AZ but broke as a joke.

[Azagtoth]

I ended up having to take Greyhound with my crew because our ride fell through.

Never again.

[The Grey Area]

Where are you Az? I have been here all day. I am in the staff shirt with the pink fan with the heart on it. It was the only one that was being sold and even if it was not, I think that I am the only one who would rock it anyway. I am not too sure what you look like.

I have been looking though.

[bear]

I ended up having to take Greyhound with my crew because our ride fell through.

Never again.

Hahaha. Greyhound is always an experience.

Last time I wound up next to some girl who kept talking to her friend on the phone about how much she didn't want to sit next to me. When I started laughing, she said to her friend "Oh, hell no ... this motherfucker's laughing now. Like this is funny."

[Azagtoth]

Where are you Az? I have been here all day. I am in the staff shirt with the pink fan with the heart on it. It was the only one that was being sold and even if it was not, I think that I am the only one who would rock it anyway. I am not too sure what you look like.

I have been looking though.

Long, dark brown hair in a ponytail, red shirt (tomorrow it'll be a band shirt), jeans, and I've been spending most of my time with the SNK heads. If it helps, my SN is on my badge.

Hahaha. Greyhound is always an experience.

Last time I wound up next to some girl who kept talking to her friend on the phone about how much she didn't want to sit next to me. When I started laughing, she said to her friend "Oh, hell no ... this motherfucker's laughing now. Like this is funny."

My crew are fucking nerds, so naturally we randomly met this other nerd who we knew from somewhere and they started talking about D+D really loud. I wanted to bury my fucking head in the nonexistent sand. :(

[bear]

My crew are fucking nerds, so naturally we randomly met this other nerd who we knew from somewhere and they started talking about D+D really loud. I wanted to bury my fucking head in the nonexistent sand. :(

Ha! Well, be glad none of them have their character sheets handy. And pray that their 20-sided die were left in their other jeans.

[The Grey Area]

Long, dark brown hair in a ponytail, red shirt (tomorrow it'll be a band shirt), jeans, and I've been spending most of my time with the SNK heads. If it helps, my SN is on my badge.





Well, Sunday Ronin and I will be running CVS2 so stop by and say hello. It was really really cool to meet Kayrin. It is a shame that I won't see Maria this time but I did want to meet you.

[Azagtoth]

Well, Sunday Ronin and I will be running CVS2 so stop by and say hello. It was really really cool to meet Kayrin. It is a shame that I won't see Maria this time but I did want to meet you.

Yeah I'll be playing CVS2, so you'll see me.

Ah, Ronin. =3

Bear: They were literally seconds away from using some dice rolling application on a friend's Iphone to do so.

[Mechanica]

Yeah I'll be playing CVS2, so you'll see me.

Ah, Ronin. =3

Bear: They were literally seconds away from using some dice rolling application on a friend's Iphone to do so.
This makes me realize my fighting crew is actually really hip for fighting game nerds. :confused:

[iwst99]

Breaking up with your partner of 4 years in another country, and ending up in the airport trying to find a flight back home a week before your original flight back, without any of the flight information of the original flight to change = sooooo top tier. :-/

Life rocks.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Breaking up with your partner of 4 years in another country, and ending up in the airport trying to find a flight back home a week before your original flight back, without any of the flight information of the original flight to change = sooooo top tier. :-/

Life rocks.

lesson learned - alicia keys



did he find out that you were cheating on him?

[Æther]

Damn, sorry to hear about that iwst. Keep us informed when you get a flight back. Be safe.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Hey do me a favor for a friend y'all. He's trying to win this voting thing for a site to pitch a horror movie. It's annoying cause you have to do a quick registration to vote, but if nothing else do it based on how cute he is.

http://www.massify.com/pitches/discompose

[DaDesiCanadian]

Ahh, too lazy to validate account :(

[DrumlinerJoe]

Bitch.

[Azagtoth]

This makes me realize my fighting crew is actually really hip for fighting game nerds. :confused:

Yeah, the Miami crew en masse isn't exactly like that (most of them are the type that wouldn't have been caught dead in my situation), just the select people I happened to go with.

The Grey Area: It was good to meet you dude, and extra special thanks for the ride to BK, as that ended up being my only meal until the second Greyhound stop. :(

[iwst99]

lesson learned - alicia keys



did he find out that you were cheating on him?

Please explain. ?

I just landed back in the US.

Ps i broke with him...but thanks for ur concern gtc.

[Mechanica]

Breaking up with your partner
Oh no! What happened? Or should I ask you somewhere less broadcasted like on AIM? Tell me some time though man. I'm sorry to hear that. *hug*

[The Green Trench Coat]

Please explain. ?

I just landed back in the US.

Ps i broke with him...but thanks for ur concern gtc.

lesson learned is a really good breakup song i heard.

and I didn't know that the breakup was initiated by you that's why i asked did he find out that you were cheating on him?

No matter who broke it off are you okay?

[The Green Trench Coat]

booked the room at the tropicana. after i get my tickets I should be all set.

[iwst99]

lesson learned is a really good breakup song i heard.

and I didn't know that the breakup was initiated by you that's why i asked did he find out that you were cheating on him?

No matter who broke it off are you okay?

Sorry, I thought it was about me learning my lesson or something. :looney: Yeah...it was a lot of things that kind of let up to it, ultimately towards the end I might have been in it for the wrong reasons...which in restrospect i kinda was. I really didn't plan on breaking up ANY TIME soon...that's for sure. Especially not in a foreign country where I had no information on how to get a flight back, and where I'd never been before at that. I had to be in the airport 14 hours before my first flight left....then 2 hour flight, 2 hours at next airport, then a 9hr flight back...so I had PLENTY of time to think. First I was sad and knew I did the right thing. Then I kinda regretted and wondered why I did it, then I went back to remembering why I did it, and why it was the right thing to do, and how things were going to change, hopefully for the better. So it's all good now.

I'm back at work a week early, and everyone's like WTF? What happened, weren't you away? You were sending us pics! I'm like yeah...friend had a family emergency so we left. I don't plan on telling people right now, just too soon, and really no one's business right now. The only person that knows is HR and HR's friend, since he picked me up from the airport, and I spent the night at their place, and my best friend knows too....

EDIT:

Now that I have 4 more vacations day, now that I'm back at work early, I will definitely try to make it to Evo! GTC, how much were the rooms?

[The Green Trench Coat]

Sorry, I thought it was about me learning my lesson or something. :looney: Dude.. that's just mean! I'd never do that to you or anyone.

And that wouldn't even make sense, what lesson would you be needing to learn?.. bah misunderstandings.


Yeah...it was a lot of things that kind of let up to it, ultimately towards the end I might have been in it for the wrong reasons...which in restrospect i kinda was. I really didn't plan on breaking up ANY TIME soon...that's for sure. Especially not in a foreign country where I had no information on how to get a flight back, and where I'd never been before at that. I had to be in the airport 14 hours before my first flight left....then 2 hour flight, 2 hours at next airport, then a 9hr flight back...so I had PLENTY of time to think. First I was sad and knew I did the right thing. Then I kinda regretted and wondered why I did it, then I went back to remembering why I did it, and why it was the right thing to do, and how things were going to change, hopefully for the better. So it's all good now.

I'm back at work a week early, and everyone's like WTF? What happened, weren't you away? You were sending us pics! I'm like yeah...friend had a family emergency so we left. I don't plan on telling people right now, just too soon, and really no one's business right now. The only person that knows is HR and HR's friend, since he picked me up from the airport, and I spent the night at their place, and my best friend knows too....

EDIT:

Now that I have 4 more vacations day, now that I'm back at work early, I will definitely try to make it to Evo! GTC, how much were the rooms?

I'm real sorry for what you went through. I know you feel it was for all the right reasons but i can only imagine how you must feel. Sucks.

i think i'm looking at about 300 for the room. But so far it's Me and joe in our room. I requested a rollaway also. The beds are queensized so I assume we can fit 3 more for sleeping.. if that's cool with joe.

[iwst99]

Dude.. that's just mean! I'd never do that to you or anyone.

And that wouldn't even make sense, what lesson would you be needing to learn?.. bah misunderstandings.



I'm real sorry for what you went through. I know you feel it was for all the right reasons but i can only imagine how you must feel. Sucks.

i think i'm looking at about 300 for the room. But so far it's Me and joe in our room. I requested a rollaway also. The beds are queensized so I assume we can fit 3 more for sleeping.. if that's cool with joe.

I'll chip in for the room then if guys don't mind rollaway roommates. :D

[Azagtoth]

I'd chip in for a room, but I may end up staying with a friend there after all.

I won't be getting my bush money until May, so hopefully tickets wont be retarded expensive at that time.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I have the hottest friends

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qz_73PgDFPo

bigboychb =:lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin: :lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin:: lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::woot::woot::loo ney::looney::looney:

he's got seriously the most beautiful eyes.. and he does this cute thing when he laughs it's so adorable.

[Mechanica]

Snapped a webcam pic with Wayne... :shy:

http://img80.imageshack.us/img80/7216/eandwks3.jpg

[iwst99]

Snapped a webcam pic with Wayne... :shy:

http://img80.imageshack.us/img80/7216/eandwks3.jpg

You guys are soooooo cute, and so is he! Tell him I said soooooo.

:lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lo vin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin:

im outi

iwsth

[Azagtoth]

Rob: Yes, Kurt is damn fine indeed.

In other news:

http://widgets.nbc.com/o/4727a250e66f9723/47dfbfed2136c0c8

I came. <3333333333333333333333333333333333333333333

[The Green Trench Coat]

Rob: Yes, Kurt is damn fine indeed.

In other news:

http://widgets.nbc.com/o/4727a250e66f9723/47dfbfed2136c0c8

I came. <3333333333333333333333333333333333333333333

um

*SPUUUUUUURRRRTTTTT*

I think part of jonah's hottness is that i could totally see hanging with him he seems like he's just a fun guy to have as your buddy. But I'd totally do the daddybear also.

[yah yaahh b*tch!]

The other day I was sitting around with my cousins. . and this nigga goes. .

"would you let a dude suck your dick? i dont think that makes you gay"

Then all of us got quiet. So I wasnt the only person that though about it. Are these natural sexual urges for heterosexual men? I mean I know everyone has thought about it before, but whether you frequently think about it, does that make you gay? Cuz it made me feel a little gay.


Ive thought about bisexual threesomes too, with men and women.


Maybe im a freak! I dont want no dick tho.

[The Green Trench Coat]

The other day I was sitting around with my cousins. . and this nigga goes. .

"would you let a dude suck your dick? i dont think that makes you gay"

Then all of us got quiet. So I wasnt the only person that though about it. Are these natural sexual urges for heterosexual men? I mean I know everyone has thought about it before, but whether you frequently think about it, does that make you gay? Cuz it made me feel a little gay.


Ive thought about bisexual threesomes too, with men and women.


Maybe im a freak! I dont want no dick tho.

at your age.. you are probably just curious.

but .. you have any pics?

[yah yaahh b*tch!]

Can curiosity lead into homosexuality? Or do you just want dick from the beginning?

I got a gay friend and he swears up and down he got "tricked" or "turned out" when he got in college. You would never know or anything from looking at him, and hes kinda important being a figurehead on campus and in a greek organization or whatnot.


This gay thing sound like crack! I dunno. I was messing with a girl ..come to find out she was a tranny. LOL. It was too late tho and I still liked her. Im just all fucked up.



I got blacked out pictures of me in the picture thread. Theyre old tho, probably from freshman year. Im about to be a senior in college. Im kinda iffy about telling people who I am online. Im 5'9 - 155 - mixed race. Maybe privately or something.

[Adam Warlock]

Snapped a webcam pic with Wayne... :shy:

http://img80.imageshack.us/img80/7216/eandwks3.jpg

:rofl: I thought that shit said "Li'l Wayne" I was so confused.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Im 5'9 - 155 - mixed race. Maybe privately or something.

too small for me anyways.. i'd throw you back.


Anyhow. My advice is don't worry about labels. gay straight bi transgender whatever.. you like what you like you are what you are.


and what you are... is a limp wristed, sparkly shirt wearing, cauliflower booty faggot.


I'm kidding.

If you think you would like dick then try it. If you like trannies than try 'em. Myself i've got one philosophy about sex and that is

"When the bear is hungry, the bear eats."

So if i want it I'll get it. I've never got with a tranny before but hey if i saw one that i wanted to do it with I'd go for it. be safe have fun.

[Adam Warlock]

cauliflower booty faggot.


Jeebus :rofl: :rofl: I don't know why but that cracked me up.

[Æther]

St. Patty's day was great. I wasn't drunk but I sure was sore. :wgrin:
I have the hottest friends

http://youtube.com/watch?v=qz_73PgDFPo

bigboychb =:lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin: :lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin:: lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::lovin::woot::woot::loo ney::looney::looney:

he's got seriously the most beautiful eyes.. and he does this cute thing when he laughs it's so adorable.

Great googly moogly. That's cuteness to the MAX. And that laugh ~ :lovin:

[Mechanica]

:rofl: I thought that shit said "Li'l Wayne" I was so confused.
Read slower. :lol: I do think li'l wayne's gay though...

Did you guys hear about how the pope said that St. Patty's day was technically like 3 days before Monday? He's all just like "oh btw today is st. patty's day for real not monday but oh well." lol, fucking popes. I don't wanna wear it. It's a stupid hat!

[DaDesiCanadian]

Jeebus :rofl: :rofl: I don't know why but that cracked me up.

Whaddya want?

[DrumlinerJoe]

It's St. Joseph's Day today y'all. What am I getting from the 'mos at SRK?

[goukipoo]

So it looks like I'll be in Chicago this weekend. I'm not sure what my plans will be, but I might have time to meet up if anyone is in the Chi-town area. Friday or Saturday I should have some free time, but I'm going up with a friend who is moving up there so it might be a hectic weekend.

[BeaTs*]

fridays, marvel and 3s in northbrook IL!

[Azagtoth]

*SPUUUUUUURRRRTTTTT*

I think part of jonah's hottness is that i could totally see hanging with him he seems like he's just a fun guy to have as your buddy. But I'd totally do the daddybear also.

Yeah, I totally found myself thinking that I'd love to be the meat in that sandwich.

Can curiosity lead into homosexuality? Or do you just want dick from the beginning?

If that curiosity leads you to try things you otherwise normally wouldn't because of shame, perhaps. Lots of people don't even think about it until it's brought to them in some way (for example, guys thinking they don't have gay tendencies because they like women a lot but then they do it and things change). I figured it out at an early age, but I didn't really admit it to myself till like high school.

As for the "getting head from a guy ain't gay" thing, that's an excuse people made up because they found out dudes generally give MUCH better head than girls. =P

"When the bear is hungry, the bear eats."

If we ever have to change threads, this better be in the thread title for the next thread. Too good.

Also, I got a bearciti account. Consider me pleasantly surprised.

[goukipoo]

fridays, marvel and 3s in northbrook IL!

cool. if i have time I'll show up to nickel city for some 3S on friday.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Also, I got a bearciti account. Consider me pleasantly surprised.

there is so much chub hottness at that site

[Azagtoth]

/\----Yes indeed. Thanks for the recommendation.

Just so you guys know I was repping you all at FRXI, I got 13th in CVS2. =D

[The Green Trench Coat]

/\----Yes indeed. Thanks for the recommendation.

Just so you guys know I was repping you all at FRXI, I got 13th in CVS2. =D

that awesome dude. expect and extra big bearhug from me next time i see you.


So im in dallas this weekend at texas bear round up. the bears are plentiful pics will be taken and shared

[DrumlinerJoe]

If you have a spare 5 hours drive on down to SA.

[Mechanica]

Slight chance of me coming to SBO quals since my friend offered up to stay at his Grandma's in Chicago... Don't know yet really but it'd be tight as fuck.

[BeaTs*]

Slight chance of me coming to SBO quals since my friend offered up to stay at his Grandma's in Chicago... Don't know yet really but it'd be tight as fuck.
you can handle tight things.

come so I can rape you in marvel >:D

[Mechanica]

you can handle tight things.

come so I can rape you in marvel >:D

Fuck a marvel, that don't mean shit. :lol: It's not a top priority but I'm working on marvel, believe dat. Fear my Cyclops comebacks. :wgrin: We'd have to play something I can win at though eventually.

[BeaTs*]

I'll play Anakaris, and we'll see where that shit talking gets ya ;)

I only have time to play marvel, and dabble in some Pump it up and soul calibur

speaking of which, what happened to dreamkiller ya'll? (i think that's his name)

[Mechanica]

I see him on myspace, haha... dunno what he's doin'.

Marvel schmarvel. I play everything but would rather play many things. *shrug*

[McTease]

I've got a question; do you believe gay people were born gay?

As in is it hidden inside them or does it just come out of the blue, for instance did you have gay feelings even when you were a little kid or did the orientation grow on you.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Great, original question!

[ramberk]

I've got a question; do you believe gay people were born gay?

As in is it hidden inside them or does it just come out of the blue, for instance did you have gay feelings even when you were a little kid or did the orientation grow on you.

Actually its like in the comic books. Have you ever heard of the Inhumans? They first appeared in some early Fantastic Four issue. Basically, the Inhumans are a secret civilization and some folks in that society get super powers by being exposed to this material called the Terrigan Mists. There is a genetic screening process that ensures only suitable Inhumans get exposed to the Mists. Not everyone has the proper genetics to become super powered by the mists. Once your exposed to the mists, you go from a regular human being to a human being with special powers.

How does this relate to being gay? Well, gay people aren't exposed to special mists but we are gay and we have super powers.

Does that answer your question?

[Sakura.Densetsu]

Wow, surprised to see a thread like this on a FG site. nice.

Myself? Bisexual, mostly prefer women though. And I have alot in common with Poison.

Sakura is my actual name, not just a net-nick.

So who are the regulars in this thread?

I've got a question; do you believe gay people were born gay?

As in is it hidden inside them or does it just come out of the blue, for instance did you have gay feelings even when you were a little kid or did the orientation grow on you.

Most homosexuals are born that way, but I also believe there are some instances where a normally straight person could find themselves in what would be a "Homo" lifestyle.

1) Patterns of abuse. If a straight boy grows up with alot of sexual abuse from men (ie father) it could mess up their views of healthy male/male relations. People like this usually are very self loathing though.

2) Sex is sex. Some people just get off on sex itself. They may not actually get off on the same sex, but that does not mean they cannot actually enjoy sex with the same sex. The Circle jerk is an example. Straight boys getting together and jerking each other off. Very homoerotic, but also not too uncommon among straight boys growing up. I know some guys who continued to fool around with men after being exposed to it (say in jail), even though they are not actually atracted to them. Having sexual relations with people you are not atracted to helps avoid emotional attachment.

But alot of research shows that the neuropatterns of Homosexuals are slightly different from those of straight people. The parts of the brain which relate to the kind of people we are attracted to and likely to grow romantic bonds with are different when you are attracted to men and women. Even more drastic is the difference between a Bio-Male and a Transgendered Male who identifies as female, most actually have brain patterns very close to that of Biological Women.

Just to point out. Gender Identity and Sexual Identity are not connected, and alot of Trannies are actually atracted to women.

Actually its like in the comic books. Have you ever heard of the Inhumans? They first appeared in some early Fantastic Four issue. Basically, the Inhumans are a secret civilization and some folks in that society get super powers by being exposed to this material called the Terrigan Mists. There is a genetic screening process that ensures only suitable Inhumans get exposed to the Mists. Not everyone has the proper genetics to become super powered by the mists. Once your exposed to the mists, you go from a regular human being to a human being with special powers.

How does this relate to being gay? Well, gay people aren't exposed to special mists but we are gay and we have super powers.

Does that answer your question?

Thats why straight people fear us, they are afraid that some gay will come along and utter a single word and every straight person on the planet will explode!!!:amazed:

[iwst99]

If someone has a question, more than likely it has been answered at one point or another. Either search this thread, or the OG thread, which was specifically used for asking questions.

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=125935&highlight=dude

Search function rocks! I'm not trying to be rude, but I'm not answering the same questions over and over...

[CarreauOverkill]

Okay, guys. I need your opinion on this guy, seriously. Because, uh, I am getting brainfried; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXLCiZY-M8o

[The Green Trench Coat]

I've got a question; do you believe gay people were born gay?

As in is it hidden inside them or does it just come out of the blue, for instance did you have gay feelings even when you were a little kid or did the orientation grow on you.

I came out of my mom's box and i said "that's sooo gross i'm never going near anything like that again.

Wow, surprised to see a thread like this on a FG site. nice.

Myself? Bisexual, mostly prefer women though. And I have alot in common with Poison.

Sakura is my actual name, not just a net-nick.

So who are the regulars in this thread?

hi sakura

i'm a regular here. ... I"m gay and you can put that where? back there.

actualy i think im more in the sex is sex category.. i seem to get more cattrap thrown at me lately then anything. although i got half of a professional from this hot irish bear yesterday

Okay, guys. I need your opinion on this guy, seriously. Because, uh, I am getting brainfried; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXLCiZY-M8o

He's tranny feirce.

[McTease]

Actually its like in the comic books. Have you ever heard of the Inhumans? They first appeared in some early Fantastic Four issue. Basically, the Inhumans are a secret civilization and some folks in that society get super powers by being exposed to this material called the Terrigan Mists. There is a genetic screening process that ensures only suitable Inhumans get exposed to the Mists. Not everyone has the proper genetics to become super powered by the mists. Once your exposed to the mists, you go from a regular human being to a human being with special powers.

How does this relate to being gay? Well, gay people aren't exposed to special mists but we are gay and we have super powers.

Does that answer your question?

Creative story, just not worth it.
Try not to be a herb about it, you guys have enough hate as it is.

Most homosexuals are born that way, but I also believe there are some instances where a normally straight person could find themselves in what would be a "Homo" lifestyle.

1) Patterns of abuse. If a straight boy grows up with alot of sexual abuse from men (ie father) it could mess up their views of healthy male/male relations. People like this usually are very self loathing though.

2) Sex is sex. Some people just get off on sex itself. They may not actually get off on the same sex, but that does not mean they cannot actually enjoy sex with the same sex. The Circle jerk is an example. Straight boys getting together and jerking each other off. Very homoerotic, but also not too uncommon among straight boys growing up. I know some guys who continued to fool around with men after being exposed to it (say in jail), even though they are not actually atracted to them. Having sexual relations with people you are not atracted to helps avoid emotional attachment.

But alot of research shows that the neuropatterns of Homosexuals are slightly different from those of straight people. The parts of the brain which relate to the kind of people we are attracted to and likely to grow romantic bonds with are different when you are attracted to men and women. Even more drastic is the difference between a Bio-Male and a Transgendered Male who identifies as female, most actually have brain patterns very close to that of Biological Women.

Just to point out. Gender Identity and Sexual Identity are not connected, and alot of Trannies are actually atracted to women.


Yeah, ramberk, eat it.

[Sakura.Densetsu]

If someone has a question, more than likely it has been answered at one point or another. Either search this thread, or the OG thread, which was specifically used for asking questions.

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=125935&highlight=dude

Search function rocks! I'm not trying to be rude, but I'm not answering the same questions over and over...

Then instead, you will have to keep reposting this over and over. And honestly, people would either ask again than search through hundreds of pages. They have the decency to ask rather than continue to be ignorant, we should be decent enough to answer.

Okay, guys. I need your opinion on this guy, seriously. Because, uh, I am getting brainfried; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXLCiZY-M8o

thats kinda nummy ^_^ They are both so cute, do they come as a set?

I came out of my mom's box and i said "that's sooo gross i'm never going near anything like that again.

haha

hi sakura

i'm a regular here. ... I"m gay and you can put that where? back there.

Thanks for the greet.



Yeah, ramberk, eat it.

Hahaha

I actually liked his story. As a geek-girl I aprove of obscure comic references. But I agree it wasn't very helpful. Besides, we gays like to keep or super powers secret, so now we have to track Remberk down and enemize him.

[iwst99]

Then instead, you will have to keep reposting this over and over. And honestly, people would either ask again than search through hundreds of pages. They have the decency to ask rather than continue to be ignorant, we should be decent enough to answer.



Go for it, champ.

[Azagtoth]

Try not to be a herb about it, you guys have enough hate as it is.

We should probably have an FAQ section in the first post, that way we can just direct people with repeat or painfully common questions there.

If you want an honest answer, it's difficult to really narrow it down because different people have different experiences. I personally believe that it's moreso a matter of personal aesthetics, and less so genetic predisposition (which has more to do with gender identity than sexual preference IMO).

The homosexual classification is a recent development (about 1950's or so IIRC), and before then, homosexual acts were considered acts that anyone could or would engage in. For this reason, I don't buy the idea that people are born gay or straight, just with different ideas of beauty or desire similar to the way other random uncontrollable preferences are solidified. Sexuality isn't that black and white, and even the animals are proof of that.

The more you know. :china:

[ramberk]

Yeah, ramberk, eat it.

Well it's the truth, gay people do have super powers. We just rarely talk about them.

In all seriousness, what you ask is a complex question and everyone has different answers. We really should have a FAQ page or a FAQ section that we could just direct people to. I gave a joke response because frankly, that question has been asked to death. It's also hard to tell on the internet when someone is being genuine in their curiosity or are just being a dick.

[Sakura.Densetsu]

If we all have different answers, what point would an FAQ be?

[Azagtoth]

If we all have different answers, what point would an FAQ be?

To chronicle the answers so we don't have to answer again? :rolleyes:

[yah yaahh b*tch!]

http://img528.imageshack.us/img528/4858/stephaniery1.jpg
Would you go straight for her?

I'd definitely go gay for this bitch! Somebody sent me a picture of her.

lolololol. Arguably one of the BEST fucking male-to-female sexual reassignments in north america! That I have ever seen anyway. That bitch is DONE! And shes like 40. A fucking milf tranny!


I met a lot of trannies through that "girl" i used to mess around with. lmfao. Im so fascinated by them now.


*slowly becomes a regular in the gay thread*

[iwst99]

On a scale of one to snore, this thread is snore. :confused:

I might not end up staying with you guys during evo...my friend works in the hotel business and is trying to get discount rates for evo weekend...he's my best friend, and we've never done anything like go to vegas and shit like that...we'll see what happens.........I'd be staying at the Tropicana, so it should be aight. :looney:

[DaDesiCanadian]

http://img528.imageshack.us/img528/4858/stephaniery1.jpg
Would you go straight for her?

I'd definitely go gay for this bitch! Somebody sent me a picture of her.

lolololol. Arguably one of the BEST fucking male-to-female sexual reassignments in north america! That I have ever seen anyway. That bitch is DONE! And shes like 40. A fucking milf tranny!


I met a lot of trannies through that "girl" i used to mess around with. lmfao. Im so fascinated by them now.


*slowly becomes a regular in the gay thread*

I'm straight and I wouldn't go straight for her.

I would go gay for this though:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5PoIrcyd34

[Sakura.Densetsu]

You arent necessarilly gay (or even bi) if you have sex with Trannies. Def not if you only go for post ops. MtoF see themselves as women and live their lives as women. If you are atracted to the same things in them as you would be in a Bio woman, then you are still straight. It really depends on how much gender is physical to you and how much is mental or emotional.

[iwst99]

God, as I type this my roommate is fucking his GF in the room right next to mine...and that bitch be LOUD.

Now that I'm not with my BF I don't go to Palm Springs to see him every weekend...so now I get to sit hear and listen to that shit. :\

Going out later with cute chub I mentioned before...trying to not do anything to serious, just want friendship right now. Now that I actually have weekends, I have time for friends again, which is nice. Going out tomorrow with a bowling partner from one of my leagues...he was with his partner for 33 years, and he just got dumped for someone over half his age....we're both alone so we figured we'd just hang out, now that we both aint got shit on weekends.

GOD, THAT BITCH JUST GOT LOUDER. She's screaming OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD. =\

[Sakura.Densetsu]

Make like Michael J Fox and conduct them ^_^

[yah yaahh b*tch!]

I'm straight and I wouldn't go straight for her.

I would go gay for this though:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5PoIrcyd34

Hmmph. I like older ladies.

What about this one:

http://img72.imageshack.us/img72/1229/lb9d2cf392c2e4a3f2ba5aftu1.jpg
http://img166.imageshack.us/img166/3382/la30bb174882a9f48954889lb6.jpg


You know. Everytime I see a girl now have to clock her.

-look at her ring and index finger
-listen to a strain in her voice
-look at the space between her titties
-check out her neck
-look for veins in her limbs
-peep her jawline/nose

If I can get a good look at her back.:wonder:

Trannies have a thing about them. I cant explain it, they look like very pretty men which is what gives them away. Ive only been TOTALLY confused by a few. And then the bitch pulled out her id and it said female. . I dropped to the ground.:rofl:

[Azagtoth]

Going out later with cute chub I mentioned before...

Still waiting on those pics. :(

And you better at least chill/party with us at Evo.

[Lobelia Prime]

You arent necessarilly gay (or even bi) if you have sex with Trannies. Def not if you only go for post ops. MtoF see themselves as women and live their lives as women. If you are atracted to the same things in them as you would be in a Bio woman, then you are still straight. It really depends on how much gender is physical to you and how much is mental or emotional.
You are my new best friend. I fucking love you.

[Sakura.Densetsu]

You are my new best friend. I fucking love you.


Thats definately better than most of the flames I get on here ^_^

Love always appreciated.

[Mechanica]

Creative story, just not worth it.

Try not to be a herb about it, you guys have enough hate as it is.

Yeah, ramberk, eat it.
Please don't ever come back in this topic. Thanks. :tup:

[The Grey Area]

Heya Sakura. One Gender bender over here who is not so sure on the whole sexual orientation thing.

I swear, when you feel like Kara but look like Carlos, things can be pretty fucked in the bedroom. Lately I have just avoided it all together.

Welcome to the thread though. Some people don't mind questions while some people do. So don't be put off by flames, so is the way of SRK.

[Sakura.Densetsu]

Hey Grey, thanks.

I know what you mean about the bedroom. Before I came to terms with my Gender ID, it was kinda odd. I am mostly a top in bed, but aproach sex differently than guys do. Living as a guy and in normal hetro relationships I get bored very fast. Honestly, I usually find I am most compatable with other Trannies, and my current GF is a Pre-Op like myself. Honestly, best relationship I have ever had. Never felt so in tune with someone Intellectually, Emotionally, and Sexually.

[Mechanica]

I'm kinda disappointed at how integrated the words gay, ***, and faggot are in the gaming scene. I was at a tourney up in B.C. this weekend, and apparently any tactic that owns your opponent makes you a faggot. Like, I'm not one to get offended over that kinda thing, but god damnit it really just gets old hearing it. Use some imagination...

[iwst99]

I'm kinda disappointed at how integrated the words gay, ***, and faggot are in the gaming scene. I was at a tourney up in B.C. this weekend, and apparently any tactic that owns your opponent makes you a faggot. Like, I'm not one to get offended over that kinda thing, but god damnit it really just gets old hearing it. Use some imagination...

QQ Faggot.


















































:lovin:

[Mechanica]

no u

In other news, people still never know I'm gay or even worse, believe me that I'm gay. The former was evidenced by a much older drunk woman incessantly hitting on me, then when I gave her a hug when they were leaving she kissed my neck. :confused: Like kissed my neck, sensually as possible for something not open-mouthed. Ack! LOL.

The latter, I was smoking a blunt with my friend Natalie in my living room. Since the couch sits under my rainbow flag, she's like, "What's the rainbow flag mean?" and I was like "..." "What do you think the rainbow flag means?" and got up to go pee and give her a second to think about it. I come back out to the living room, and she's like I dunno what the rainbow means... and I was like "gay."

She was like "Gay? You're not gay."

:confused: "Uhh... yeah, actually."

"You mean like same gender or happy gay?"

and I lol'd and was like no, gay gay. Then the subject changed and it didn't get brought up again, but I'm pretty sure she still doesn't believe me. Hahah. Oh well, what can ya do. She hangs out with homophobic guys anyway (and probably is herself), it might be better that she doesn't know.

[iwst99]

im outi

iwst99th

[Mechanica]

Oh and on top of that, my best friend from the area/coworker, a lesbian, is always suspected to be my girlfriend. People at work think we're dating, people outside of work think we're dating, so we're just gonna start pretending we're dating. Blowing kisses and shit.

[iwst99]

Oh and on top of that, my best friend from the area/coworker, a lesbian, is always suspected to be my girlfriend. People at work think we're dating, people outside of work think we're dating, so we're just gonna start pretending we're dating. Blowing kisses and shit.

Haha, that shit is fun. I do that with a girl here. Everyone thinks we're either dating or we're related (we could pass for relatives)...or both? :confused:

We always hold hands or walk around with our arms hooked with each other. Shit's funny. We get asked all the time if we're going out. XD

[Azagtoth]

I'm kinda disappointed at how integrated the words gay, ***, and faggot are in the gaming scene. I was at a tourney up in B.C. this weekend, and apparently any tactic that owns your opponent makes you a faggot. Like, I'm not one to get offended over that kinda thing, but god damnit it really just gets old hearing it. Use some imagination...

On one had, I totally feel you on that, but on the other hand, I've been pretty guilty of it myself. :(

[iwst99]

On one had, I totally feel you on that, but on the other hand, I've been pretty guilty of it myself. :(

***.

[Azagtoth]

***.

Dude, you got fucking gayed.

[The Green Trench Coat]

okay .. i'm back and I' got pics.


Danny / Yas where are you ..

[ramberk]

I'm kinda disappointed at how integrated the words gay, ***, and faggot are in the gaming scene. I was at a tourney up in B.C. this weekend, and apparently any tactic that owns your opponent makes you a faggot. Like, I'm not one to get offended over that kinda thing, but god damnit it really just gets old hearing it. Use some imagination...

I just give a sarcastic laugh. "Haha, yeah, 4 year-olds come up with better shit. Grow up."

Currently, the only times I get annoyed with straight people are when...

- too many straight girls invade my gay clubs and bars. ("Bitch, you have your own bars and clubs-- go to them. Your fat ass is making our limited space overcrowded")
- some girl, who knows I'm gay, insists on trying to make me straight. ("If you invade my personal space one more time, I will raise my pimp hand.")

Dude, you got fucking gayed.

LOL. I have no clue what that means.

[Azagtoth]

Danny / Yas where are you ..

Bear-avengers, assemble!

[The Grey Area]

Bear-avengers, assemble!

oohh, oohh, can I be Wasp?

[The Green Trench Coat]

Bear-avengers, assemble!

links sent.. anyone who wants to see let me know I'll pm you.

[Æther]

lol Looks like I came back just in time. I lost my interwebs connection at home for the weekend. Apparently no one in my family noticed a $300 DSL bill. Life without the interweb is scary.

Edit: GREAT GOOGLY MOOGLY @ those pics.

I often feel like going to a bear event but at the same time I'd feel out of place. I dunno why.

[iwst99]

I just give a sarcastic laugh. "Haha, yeah, 4 year-olds come up with better shit. Grow up."

That'll show 'em. :looney:

[iwst99]

Thanks for the hot pics handsome!

oh, and hot new chub friend is sooooooooo awesome. We've been hanging out a lot lately...something good might come out of this.

[Æther]

Thanks for the hot pics handsome!

oh, and hot new chub friend is sooooooooo awesome. We've been hanging out a lot lately...something good might come out of this.
In case it was not emphisized earlier...

[iwst99]

Pics will come soon...promise. Only pic I have is of him and i kissing...and no one wants that.

[DaDesiCanadian]

In case it was not emphisized earlier...

R O F L

How long has this gayified version of THE EYE been going around? :rofl::rofl:

[iwst99]

R O F L

How long has this gayified version of THE EYE been going around? :rofl::rofl:

:rofl::lovin: Forever in our hearts.

[Mr. Big]

A little something for the bear-huggers (http://punchout.vgfort.com/images/bear_hugger_screenshot.gif) around here. :rofl: Enjoy! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=adp5GcVVTr8)

[Sakura.Densetsu]

I'm kinda disappointed at how integrated the words gay, ***, and faggot are in the gaming scene. I was at a tourney up in B.C. this weekend, and apparently any tactic that owns your opponent makes you a faggot. Like, I'm not one to get offended over that kinda thing, but god damnit it really just gets old hearing it. Use some imagination...


I hate it too. This is Gay, that is Gay, if you dont like what someone did they are a Faggot.

The big problem is when our youth are raised to associate negative things with these words, it makes them see homosexuality itself as a negative thing. Had a huge debate on it on another forum, and even some of the Gay members did not get that.

Sadly, we can't just start calling things straight to make people realize.

People just repeat what they hear unfortunately, without much thought of what they are actually saying.

[Mechanica]

- some girl, who knows I'm gay, insists on trying to make me straight.
.
WTF is up with that, anyway? On both sides of the fence... every single guy that hits on my lesbo friend first responds with oh you don't have to pretend you're a lesbian, then if it ever gets through to them, they insist on having the skillz to turn her straight. :looney: Do people think it's cute or funny or something? They all say it like they're the first person to ever think to say that to a gay person. That's the worst part. :lol:

[Azagtoth]

I often feel like going to a bear event but at the same time I'd feel out of place. I dunno why.

I thought the same thing before I hit up bearbust, but once I got over myself, I was in my fucking element. It was amazing, and you should definitely join us next time around. <3

Pics will come soon...promise. Only pic I have is of him and i kissing...and no one wants that.

Not true. =P

People just repeat what they hear unfortunately, without much thought of what they are actually saying.

Words like that tend to lose their meaning and history when used out of context, IMO. I don't like it all that much that it's so commonplace to hear words like faggot thrown around like it was all good, but at the same time I'm guilty of it myself and in my usage it's 99% intentionally harmless, so I guess I learned to get over hearing it outside of a context that is intentionally harmful or insulting.

[The Green Trench Coat]

WTF is up with that, anyway? On both sides of the fence... every single guy that hits on my lesbo friend first responds with oh you don't have to pretend you're a lesbian, then if it ever gets through to them, they insist on having the skillz to turn her straight. :looney: Do people think it's cute or funny or something? They all say it like they're the first person to ever think to say that to a gay person. That's the worst part. :lol:

i think its harder for lesbians though.

real lesbians because these days it seems like all it takes to get 2 girls to turn gay is alcohol and a videocamera.


Yas.. come to bear bust. I made it my buisness to get bearhugs and pictures from hot bears for az. I can extend that same courtesy to you at the event.

[iwst99]

Hey Mech, since you consider using "gay" to describe something as lame, offensive, even though we know they usually don't mean it in a homosexual context, how do you feel about using "nigga" all the time to talk about people? We both do it, and we know we're not trying to be offensive to anybody, it's just something we say, and everyone knows it's not meant in harm or to hate on blacks or any other race. Is this a double standard, or am I missing something?

I feel the same about both words, but you seem to think one is offensive while the other one isn't, I think if we're following your critical thinking, then both of them should be offensive or both of them should be ok.

Just asking. :lovin:

Took chub friend to dinner last night....he's been working for Disney (the headquarters, not the park) and he's over his probation period....he now has his "silver pass" which means we can go to Disneyland anytime for free....which is hawt. :lovin:

[ramberk]

Since people are bringing up the "F" word and the "N" word and so forth, I'll bring up the "D" word. One of the things that really upset me was when my roommate used the "D" word ("dyke") to describe some neighbors of ours. My whole problem is that my roommate is gay and where we live, he's really neighborly. He knows a lot of our neighbors, he's head of the neighborhood watch, he's a community organizer and leader and I'm pretty sure most people know that he's gay. So when he starts throwing the word dyke this and dyke that in a casual but also insulting manner (example: She's kinda dyky) its really upsetting because he's a gay man and in my eyes, if you put a lesbian down, in a way, your also putting yourself down. You put down either group, you are putting down the community.

But anyhow. My whole thing is that if people keep throwing out slurs it makes it easier to get put down.

The funny thing though is that most white people are deadly afraid of the "N" word. It doesn't matter if they are overtly racists or not, they are afraid of it. But hardly anyone is afraid of saying "***" or "dyke" or whatever. What does that say?

[iwst99]

The funny thing though is that most white people are deadly afraid of the "N" word. It doesn't matter if they are overtly racists or not, they are afraid of it. But hardly anyone is afraid of saying "***" or "dyke" or whatever. What does that say?

It says the niggas will beat you up and shoot you with their AKs, while fags will scratch you with their nails and hit you with their purses.

I don't know.

BTW Jimmy the Hand is dyky.

[ramberk]

Most white people live reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal far away from most black people or people of color. At least here in the US anyway.

[iwst99]

Most white people live reaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal far away from most black people or people of color. At least here in the US anyway.

I live by LA and work near Compton....there's all types of races and such living together......maybe So Cal is the exception?

PS This conversation is going no where quickly. =\

[goukipoo]

Since people are bringing up the "F" word and the "N" word and so forth, I'll bring up the "D" word. One of the things that really upset me was when my roommate used the "D" word ("dyke") to describe some neighbors of ours. My whole problem is that my roommate is gay and where we live, he's really neighborly. He knows a lot of our neighbors, he's head of the neighborhood watch, he's a community organizer and leader and I'm pretty sure most people know that he's gay. So when he starts throwing the word dyke this and dyke that in a casual but also insulting manner (example: She's kinda dyky) its really upsetting because he's a gay man and in my eyes, if you put a lesbian down, in a way, your also putting yourself down. You put down either group, you are putting down the community.

But anyhow. My whole thing is that if people keep throwing out slurs it makes it easier to get put down.

The funny thing though is that most white people are deadly afraid of the "N" word. It doesn't matter if they are overtly racists or not, they are afraid of it. But hardly anyone is afraid of saying "***" or "dyke" or whatever. What does that say?

ramberk: Just because someone is gay dosn't mean they have dealt with any underling racism or sexism on their part. Though it is logical to assume that one oppressed group would stand in solidarity with another oppressed group, that is just not the case. There is still tons of racism and sexism in the gay "community". But maybe my view is skewed based on my own experiences here in the midwest.

The reason that *** and dyke is seen as ok is like I said to Sakura. Your community won't shame you if you do. If you use the "N-Word", they probably will. Also, if you call someone a "N" on the street, you might get your ass beat. If you call someone a *** or dyke, you'll probably get a pat on the back from your friends.

WTF is up with that, anyway? On both sides of the fence... every single guy that hits on my lesbo friend first responds with oh you don't have to pretend you're a lesbian, then if it ever gets through to them, they insist on having the skillz to turn her straight. :looney: Do people think it's cute or funny or something? They all say it like they're the first person to ever think to say that to a gay person. That's the worst part. :lol:

Mechanica: This stems from the patriarchal society in which we live. Womyn in general cannot be thought of a full person unless some man is fucking her. And this is especially true of lesbians because that is a huge challenge to the status quo.

If your walking with your friend and someone says this to her, a good reply is that you'll make em gay. But you might want to reserve that for people that you feel you could take in a fight. Or at least outrun.

I hate it too. This is Gay, that is Gay, if you dont like what someone did they are a Faggot.

The big problem is when our youth are raised to associate negative things with these words, it makes them see homosexuality itself as a negative thing. Had a huge debate on it on another forum, and even some of the Gay members did not get that.

Sadly, we can't just start calling things straight to make people realize.

People just repeat what they hear unfortunately, without much thought of what they are actually saying.

Sakura: There has yet to be a cultural shift in thinking with regards to the use of "gay" and faggot". While you'd be hard pressed to turn on the nightly news and hear a politcian use such language without be shamed out of office, this is not the case within most of society at large. As it is perfectly acceptable to use gay in place of stupid in most quarters. XboxLive is a perfect example.

The reason is that people don't use the "N-Word" is because almost 100% of society has said that it is not allowed, except of course within the white supremacist sub-culture. If you do use it, you will be shamed by your community, and hell you might lose your job.

[LightningStorm]

As it is perfectly acceptable to use gay in place of stupid in most quarters. XboxLive is a perfect example.


No it's not. I've heard just as many racial slurs as I have gay ones. X-Box live is only representative of the typical 'outrageous' behavior that is more prone to come out when in such an anonymous and impersonal environment. Much like chat rooms and message boards.

[iwst99]

No it's not. I've heard just as many racial slurs as I have gay ones. X-Box live is only representative of the typical 'outrageous' behavior that is more prone to come out when in such an anonymous and impersonal environment. Much like chat rooms and message boards.

http://www.penny-arcade.com/images/2003/20031107h.gif

[The Green Trench Coat]

So after a minor hot tub incident i ditched my wing.. but my contract with tmobile isn't over till another year and a half and i don't feel like paying 400 bucks to cancel my plan so i got a sidekick again. there are plusses to sidekicks that i forgot about so i'm not upset about the choice at all.


also .. the N word is stupid. But I don't think that people that arent black should use it. Say what you want.. but I understand taking a word and using it to the point that the power is taken out of it. To show the aburdity of it's uses.

As gay's we've done that with Faggot, Mary, Queen, and more.

But just like if i went around calling mexican people beaners "you fucking beaner" "lazy ass beaner" or Wetbacks or spics i know people would get offended. Especially since sentiment accross the globe is already anti black I find it pretty disgusting language. I've used the word especially when i'm describing "greasy ass lowlife people"

As for the word Gay to describe something undesireable and lame? I mean .. that sucks but to a truly straight person.. wouldn't anything gay be undesireable and lame? But i aggree that it's stupid especially because it shows me that you don't have the calibur of vocabulary to use stronger put downs. There are funnier and more powerful ways to shut down a situation.

Consider this:
"this game is gay"

versus this:
"this game is more boring than the sex i had with your mom last night"

[iwst99]

But just like if i went around calling mexican people beaners "you fucking beaner" "lazy ass beaner" or Wetbacks or spics.


I thought spics were only Puerto Ricans? And lazy ass beaner is redundant.

I kid I kid, I am Mexican, but find none of these slurs offensive...Also if someone says I'm gay or a faggot in a demeaning manner, and they know I am, I just say, "Yeah...what's your point?" I think that whole sticks and stones things holds true for me...there's not much someone can say to put me down, if they're going by race/sexual preference, etc. Those gay nigga beaner honkey talking crackas can't do shit to offend my wetback faggot ass....bitches.

[ramberk]

I live by LA and work near Compton....there's all types of races and such living together......maybe So Cal is the exception?

PS This conversation is going no where quickly. =\

Lol, my sister lives in Lynwood. In the 80s she lived in Compton. (Yeah, I know, they're right next to each other. I'm familiar with the 710, Redondo Beach, the flea market, the Rosecrans exit, etc.)

What I was getting more at was talking about incarceration rates and college graduation rates of people of color in comparison to white folks.

ramberk: Just because someone is gay dosn't mean they have dealt with any underling racism or sexism on their part. Though it is logical to assume that one oppressed group would stand in solidarity with another oppressed group, that is just not the case. There is still tons of racism and sexism in the gay "community". But maybe my view is skewed based on my own experiences here in the midwest.

Just because they haven't dealt with it doesn't mean I'm gonna let anyone slide by with stupid comments like that. We're all sexual minorities. In my eyes saying someone is "acting dyky" is almost the same as saying someone is "acting like a faggot." And yes, I recognize the racism and internalized homophobia that exists in our own community. Right now the best way I know how to deal with it is by yelling at my roommate for saying something stupid.

The reason that *** and dyke is seen as ok is like I said to Sakura. Your community won't shame you if you do. If you use the "N-Word", they probably will. Also, if you call someone a "N" on the street, you might get your ass beat. If you call someone a *** or dyke, you'll probably get a pat on the back from your friends

That was exactly my point. Most communities recognize the power and history behind the "N" word but they don't recognize that in the slurs used against us. If we keep using those slurs flippantly, it'll continue that way. That's why I was upset with my stupid roommate. In someone way he transformed himself into one of those pitchfork and torch wielding idiots that attack our community. It's like, do you have any clue what your doing?

[goukipoo]

No it's not. I've heard just as many racial slurs as I have gay ones. X-Box live is only representative of the typical 'outrageous' behavior that is more prone to come out when in such an anonymous and impersonal environment. Much like chat rooms and message boards.

Oh I know. I wasn't saying that on Live people don't use the N-word or anything, i know they do. Just like in chat rooms and msg boards.

That was exactly my point. Most communities recognize the power and history behind the "N" word but they don't recognize that in the slurs used against us. If we keep using those slurs flippantly, it'll continue that way. That's why I was upset with my stupid roommate. In someone way he transformed himself into one of those pitchfork and torch wielding idiots that attack our community. It's like, do you have any clue what your doing?

You should never let things like that slide. Best to to make sure people know that sort of thing is not ok.

[Adam Warlock]

WTF is up with that, anyway? On both sides of the fence... every single guy that hits on my lesbo friend first responds with oh you don't have to pretend you're a lesbian, then if it ever gets through to them, they insist on having the skillz to turn her straight. :looney: Do people think it's cute or funny or something? They all say it like they're the first person to ever think to say that to a gay person. That's the worst part. :lol:

it's a conquest thing. As far as I'm concerned, vagina is vagina and I don'tcare what it craved before me.


That was exactly my point. Most communities recognize the power and history behind the "N" word but they don't recognize that in the slurs used against us. If we keep using those slurs flippantly, it'll continue that way. That's why I was upset with my stupid roommate. In someone way he transformed himself into one of those pitchfork and torch wielding idiots that attack our community. It's like, do you have any clue what your doing?

The gaming community doesn't at all. Everybodyand their momma flips the n-word (NIGGA! tee hee).

Edit: Also, you guys are all slackers. no fat chick hookups at all. Geez, I thought we were friends. :(

[Lobelia Prime]

WTF is up with that, anyway? On both sides of the fence... every single guy that hits on my lesbo friend first responds with oh you don't have to pretend you're a lesbian, then if it ever gets through to them, they insist on having the skillz to turn her straight. :looney: Do people think it's cute or funny or something? They all say it like they're the first person to ever think to say that to a gay person. That's the worst part. :lol:

Man, so many fuckers have been trying to turn me over to the cawk side. I like guys and all, but I wouldn't ever fuck one unless Rock Howard suddenly started existing.
And for some reason, it's always a bunch of bears that want to put stuff in me...........

[The Green Trench Coat]

And for some reason, it's always a bunch of bears that want to put stuff in me...........

shit. send that my way then

[Lobelia Prime]

shit. send that my way then

These dudes only dig the femmy-looking mahfuckers like me, dude, else I'd do just that. Sorry.

[Azagtoth]

These dudes only dig the femmy-looking mahfuckers like me, dude, else I'd do just that. Sorry.

Pics will do just fine. =D

[iwst99]

Pics will do just fine. =D

2nd'd.

[Lobelia Prime]

No go, dude. Sorry. These dudes are just random internet fuckas, or ass pirates that I met on the street. I don't remember their usernames/have pics either.

[iwst99]

No go, dude. Sorry. These dudes are just random internet fuckas, or ass pirates that I met on the street. I don't remember their usernames/have pics either.

DiGiorno. :(

[Mechanica]

Hey Mech, since you consider using "gay" to describe something as lame, offensive, even though we know they usually don't mean it in a homosexual context, how do you feel about using "nigga" all the time to talk about people? We both do it, and we know we're not trying to be offensive to anybody, it's just something we say, and everyone knows it's not meant in harm or to hate on blacks or any other race. Is this a double standard, or am I missing something?

I feel the same about both words, but you seem to think one is offensive while the other one isn't, I think if we're following your critical thinking, then both of them should be offensive or both of them should be ok.
*shrug* It's not that I find the words gay and faggot offensive per se. I don't think you can survive as a gay man if that actually offends you. I just think it's dumb, but honestly I'll say gay as much as I say nigga. I find the word nigga satirically hilarious when I'm stoned, so that happens more then. :lol: I don't ever use the word faggot. I just don't like it. :xeye: I'll call someone I know a *** online, just because that seems like the norm for the internet and usually they've already called me a *** previously in the conversation. IRL, the closest thing I'll get is "nigga you crazy." or something.


Mechanica: This stems from the patriarchal society in which we live. Womyn in general cannot be thought of a full person unless some man is fucking her. And this is especially true of lesbians because that is a huge challenge to the status quo.

If your walking with your friend and someone says this to her, a good reply is that you'll make em gay. But you might want to reserve that for people that you feel you could take in a fight. Or at least outrun.
That's the sad thing - if I'm with her, we're dating. If only people hit on her like that when I was with her. I know for a fact that if it came to that I could win a fight with any of the dumbasses that have hit on her since I've known her. Nobody will fight me, though. :shake: There have been a few people in my life that pissed me off enough to fight them, but they all back down. *flex*

For some reason that just straight up reminded me: I was playing guilty gear casuals in B.C. this last weekend, after a tourney, and this dude interrupted his own sentence to go, "holy shit you have huge triceps! :wow:" and I thought it was the funniest compliment I've heard in a reaaaally long time. Random award. I mean, I was wearing a wifebeater and leaning back on my arms but just that he interrupted his own sentence out of excitement(?) was hilarious.


I thought spics were only Puerto Ricans?
I don't know if that's officially how it works, but the word spic is used universally for anyone of hispanic descent. I don't think people who really use the word spic care about the semantics.

[iwst99]

^^

You're right...just urbandictionary.com'd it.

1. spic

A highly offensive term referring to a Spanish-speaking person from Mexico, Central or South America, Spain, or Portugal


2. spic

racial slur for people of Latino descent



3. spic

A highly offensive term referring in a derogatory manner to a Hispanic person, i.e. born or descendant of natives of Spain and/or any Spanish-speaking country or territory in Central America, South America or the Caribbean.

You spics are worthless -- why can't you learn English like everyone else?


4. spic

An offensive word used to describe hispanic people. Comes from a shortening of the word "hispanic".

Those dumb spics are trying to take our jobs



5. spic

A derogatory comment towards people of hispanic decent.

How come Hispanic people are allowed to say 'nigga', but if somebody says the word 'spic', they get stabbed?

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Good ol' UD...

[Mechanica]

*gives you a Pink Sock*

[iwst99]

Ewwwwwwwwwww, I just UD'd that.

:(

[The Grey Area]

*Throws a chair*

[Adam Warlock]

:nunchuck:RIOT BITCHES!

[iwst99]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnWruamkKVU

[Azagtoth]

*Throws a chair*

Fuck em up, slim!

[ramberk]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cnWruamkKVU

PWND

[The Green Trench Coat]

whats anybody up to?

[iwst99]

HR lied about his age and it turns out he has a partner and they've been together 30 years.

Good times.

[The Green Trench Coat]

HR lied about his age and it turns out he has a partner and they've been together 30 years.

Good times.

ouch.
so he's 50? You've had a bad turn of events lately.


Damn dude. You must've pissed off some gypsies or something..



what are your feelings in all this. I'd feel a bit betrayed ... more about the 30 years thing than about the being 50 thing.

[iwst99]

ouch.
so he's 50? You've had a bad turn of events lately.


Damn dude. You must've pissed off some gypsies or something..



what are your feelings in all this. I'd feel a bit betrayed ... more about the 30 years thing than about the being 50 thing.

Well his "friend" that lives with him is the partner of 30 years. If you've read my posts before they were just friends blah blah blah, that slept in the same bed and stuff. I thought this was normal as I know "friends" taht aren't really couples but live together and such.

He's in HR, I know he wants to keep shit private, but we've been good friends for over a year now and I've been to his house atleast 50 times. His friend, or partner now, doesn't know we've been banging, but then he told me his partner and him haven't had sex in 10 months, but he finds condoms and stuff everywhere, that are clearly not being used on him.

Anyways, it's really more long and complicated than this, but there's just so much f-ing drama going on work and otherwise that I just can't handle it. AGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.

HR and I are still friends, and yes, he said he was 42 and is really 50. In his defense he looks late 30s/early 40s, I would have never guessed. It's not the first time someone has lied to me about the age, but the partner thing was a big deal. I never wanted him for a relationship, which is fine, but fuck, atleast be honest with me.

When I asked him why everytime I asked about him and his "friend"'s status he would get defensive and change the conversation, he said he was afraid of losing me and didn't want to. He knew he lied at first and figured since I was 21 I would eventually move on to someone else and tell him to f- off. Which wasn't the case. Then he had no idea how to bring it up. He said he really did want to tell me, but didn't know how. He was really sincere in what he said, and I believed him. He's been honest to me about everything else, we've gone through a lot together, and both him and his partner have helped me out in so many ways, emotionally, car trouble, etc. It explains a lot of things. But I guess now I won't tell HR that his partner has a personal ad on the internet looking for anonymous sex. And HIS partner is also lying about his age on the ad............................................


yeah.

[DaDesiCanadian]

whats anybody up to?

So how did the bartending course you took 6 years ago go?


:confused:

[ramberk]

When I asked him why everytime I asked about him and his "friend"'s status he would get defensive and change the conversation, he said he was afraid of losing me and didn't want to. He knew he lied at first and figured since I was 21 I would eventually move on to someone else and tell him to f- off. Which wasn't the case. Then he had no idea how to bring it up. He said he really did want to tell me, but didn't know how. He was really sincere in what he said, and I believed him. He's been honest to me about everything else, we've gone through a lot together, and both him and his partner have helped me out in so many ways, emotionally, car trouble, etc. It explains a lot of things. But I guess now I won't tell HR that his partner has a personal ad on the internet looking for anonymous sex. And HIS partner is also lying about his age on the ad............................................


yeah.

What he said, about not telling you about his 30 year relationship, sounds reasonable and realistic. People get caught up in the moment. If you think its gonna be a one-night thing why be completely honest? When it becomes a regular thing and a friendship... it gets a little trickier. It sounds like he was afraid of losing you if he told you the truth up front. Although I'm wondering why you were insistent on figuring what kind of relationship they had (if you didn't care). Plus, you didn't think it was weird that "friends" were sleeping in the same bed?

I got my own "Gay Samurai" code of honor in order to avoid awkward or bad situations. One of my rules is that I don't cheat with a guy. But then I got my other rule, "See no evil, make no evil." I'm not gonna start questioning a guy about his relationship status if its just a one time thing (unless I suspect its a married straight guy). I've met plenty of guys who started acted suspicious (AKA "discreet") and I flat out asked them, "are you married?" If they answer "yes", then I call it quits before anything happens. If they lie and say "no", well, my conscious is clear and we can move things forward. I'm not gonna play detective or start asking a thousand questions if its a one-time thing.

[iwst99]

What he said, about not telling you about his 30 year relationship, sounds reasonable and realistic. People get caught up in the moment. If you think its gonna be a one-night thing why be completely honest? When it becomes a regular thing and a friendship... it gets a little trickier. It sounds like he was afraid of losing you if he told you the truth up front. Although I'm wondering why you were insistent on figuring what kind of relationship they had (if you didn't care). Plus, you didn't think it was weird that "friends" were sleeping in the same bed?

I got my own "Gay Samurai" code of honor in order to avoid awkward or bad situations. One of my rules is that I don't cheat with a guy. But then I got my other rule, "See no evil, make no evil." I'm not gonna start questioning a guy about his relationship status if its just a one time thing (unless I suspect its a married straight guy). I've met plenty of guys who started acted suspicious (AKA "discreet") and I flat out asked them, "are you married?" If they answer "yes", then I call it quits before anything happens. If they lie and say "no", well, my conscious is clear and we can move things forward. I'm not gonna play detective or start asking a thousand questions if its a one-time thing.

Well, we've become BFFs since we first met. We go out atleast twice a week, him his partner and I, and him and I alone more than that. I know his friend and everything. Anyways, the only times I would bring something up was if he would make a comment that kinda hinted at it. I wasn't being nosey, I mean it's been a fucking year. And ok, here's the thing. I don't mind being with someone who is cheating on their partner, since it takes 2 and I know it's not me just enticing the other person, but I atleast want to KNOW I'm sleeping with someone that is currently in a relationship.

I know you and some other people on this thread have only started coming here recently, but I've posted our misadventures for months, from first becoming friends, to our first kiss on my 21st birthday, etc. GTC mainly would understand, since he actually takes the time to read my mile long posts. I don't try to post them for attention, but sometimes I just need to let stuff out, and typing it out, even if no one read it, is the best way. Also, I didn't mean my posts to sound like I was hurt or something, because I wasn't. I was really happy he was honest with me, and I understand how he felt, as I too have been in his shoes. Also, this isn't a "one time thing" We're just friends, and always will be, but we both understand that sex is just something two people can do without having to be married to each other. Sex is the last thing we do in our friendship, everything is so much greater than that. Before we even did anything like that, we had a chat about how we couldn't let emotions get in the way, and that neither of us wanted a relationship, as obviously we were both already in one. We truly are best friends, and there's not a lot of people I can see at work, after work, weekends, and talk to everyday and not get bored...like my roommate, who is also my co-worker AND sits right next to me.

Anyways...yeah.

[ramberk]

I totally get what you mean. I didn't mean to come off as accusatory, I just wanted to be part of the conversation (blushed embarrassed). I also didn't think you were cheating or meant to imply that. I've had relationships with guys that were not my boyfriends but were more then just friends. :-/

[The Green Trench Coat]

.....But you say he's just a friend, but you say he's just a friend...

Sounds like you are there cub. Good deal. It's nice to have gay parents to look after you sometimes. It can be a very special experience.

If you can understand why he lied then I say enjoy the situation for what it is while you continue your own hunting.

So how did the bartending course you took 6 years ago go?


:confused:

Why confused?


anyways the course was actually pretty fun and cool. (not as much fun as the deep tissue massage course was though.. Iencourage anyone reading, I give an extremely awesome massage.... and happy ending if your lucky. .. or unlucky pending on the person)

After i was done with it though every place that was looking for a bartender would take one look at me and try to hire me to be a bouncer instead. :mad: after a few months of trying i actually did take a position bouncing for like 2 weeks then i quit cause i got tired of it and i didn't really need the money.

curious though.. what made you ask? did you really remember that i took that course or are you just reading old posts from me.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Why confused?


anyways the course was actually pretty fun and cool. (not as much fun as the deep tissue massage course was though.. Iencourage anyone reading, I give an extremely awesome massage.... and happy ending if your lucky. .. or unlucky pending on the person)

After i was done with it though every place that was looking for a bartender would take one look at me and try to hire me to be a bouncer instead. :mad: after a few months of trying i actually did take a position bouncing for like 2 weeks then i quit cause i got tired of it and i didn't really need the money.

curious though.. what made you ask? did you really remember that i took that course or are you just reading old posts from me.

Someone's been bumping 2k2 threads in the Prem forum, and there was one post by you about how you were hyped for a bartending course... was just curious to know how it went!

And the :confused: was because it sounded hilariously creepy.

[iwst99]

And the :confused: was because it sounded hilariously creepy.

Damn, E-Stalker.

This nigga probably has print outs of all of GTC's posts plastered all over his walls.





:confused:

[DaDesiCanadian]

Damn, E-Stalker.

This nigga probably has print outs of all of GTC's posts plastered all over his walls.





:confused:

You say that like it's a bad thing.

:rolleyes:

Bartending sounds like fun... not for me though. I'd get sooo sick of the smell of alcohol after two shifts.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Bartending is okay. It takes a certain kind of person to be comfortable with it and I wasn't. Money was good though.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Bartending is okay. It takes a certain kind of person to be comfortable with it and I wasn't. Money was good though.

i think i was just to fat. so they figured i'd be good for blocking the door only. oh well.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I was just uncomfortable with all the attention and having to entertain and talk to strangers.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I'm to sexy for this job.

it did make for some intresting stories.

with my uncanny ability to draw in weirdness from around me i'm sure me bartending wouldn't have ended well.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Me and my dirty ride.

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/DSC01599.jpg

[iwst99]

My supervisor is kinda weird. He's been married for 20 something years, has kids older than me and stuff, but everyone has kinda suspected lately that he's atleast bi-curious. He always does/says gay shit around me, and it's cool, I go along with it. We've these inside jokes going and also some not so inside ones that involve him and I being lovers. He even dared me to grab his ass once, which I did, and he often puts things in my pocket...........REALLY deep in my pocket, near my dick to be exact. Today we were doing something and I just grabbed his dick. He just laughed and didn't say anything, and it was totally unexpected, for me too, since it totally came out of the blue. There's a lot more details, but some of the emails we send would make someone go :confused: and he even says stuff out loud infront of others, and doesn't seem to care.

I swear everyone is a little gay if you give them a chance. :lovin:

I hadn't spoken with my BF since Spain....we had a long talk yesterday, and got some closure from both of us. I know what I did, and I know the consequences, and I'm not sure how our future is going to be, but we won't be talking for a while, and that's fine by me. I want him to stay in my life forever, I just can't be with him like I used to. It was a good 2 hour talk, and everything I guess is official.


Here's my roommate shirtless and eating a sausage.
http://s18.photobucket.com/albums/b105/iwst99/?action=view&current=Room.jpg

[The Green Trench Coat]

Today we were doing something and I just grabbed his dick.

Meanwhile I'm still at 2nd base with my ex boss.

*sigh*


Exboss is single and has kids so getting with him won't really enhannce my homewrecker status. .. not by much anyways. btw i totally met his kids one of which is such a lesbruin i'm like "honey put down those pom poms and get you some flannel, doc martins and a mullet".

[iwst99]

Meanwhile I'm still at 2nd base with my ex boss.

*sigh*


Exboss is single and has kids so getting with him won't really enhannce my homewrecker status. .. not by much anyways. btw i totally met his kids one of which is such a lesbruin i'm like "honey put down those pom poms and get you some flannel, doc martins and a mullet".

Lol lezzies.

[Mechanica]

so... WHO'S COMING OUT TO OUR NORTHWEST MAJORS WOOOO

[The Green Trench Coat]

and just like that...


I'm 30.




I hope my 30's are better than my 20's

[Æther]

Let's celebrate! Strip Fighter at my place! :D

[Azagtoth]

-snip-

Happy b-day, gramps. :lovin:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Happy b-day, gramps. :lovin:

that's daddybear to you pup.

[Mechanica]

and just like that...


I'm 30.


Hot. :lovin:

[iwst99]

Once again, happy b-day GTC! :D

What a great way to celebrate the 200th page of this thread. :D



New guy I've been seeing = total keeper. Not only is he hot and chubby, 6'3, but he has a great personality and and make me melt like no one else. <3 We were supposed to spend all of yesterday together, but he got ill, so I went over and took care of him last night and most of today. Still a little bit sick, but doing much better. He thanked me and I told him it was the least I could do.

Also, another issue...sorta. I've never felt comfortable with other people paying for me at dinner/lunch etc. all the time. I mean if he does it once, then I do it once, and like that it's cool. He's kinda ballin', and thinks nothing of paying for dinner, and when I've tried he just looks at me weird and asks, what are you doing? I have paid for frozen yogurt and stuff when we've gone out for dessert, and bought him dinner once when I was introducing him to the greatness that is el pollo loco nachos (which he is now addicted to :lovin:). But every other time he just thinks nothing of paying. I don't want to be rude if he's offering, but I also don't want to feel like a boy toy lol. He literally snatches the bill from my hand and won't let me pay. There's an episode of Queer As Folk that pretty much answers my question, but I want to get your guys' advice/ideas. =)

[Azagtoth]

that's daddybear to you pup.

-spurt-

New guy I've been seeing = total keeper.

Sounds awesome. Still no pics though? :(

[The Grey Area]

Happy birthday GTC. Hope that it was and still is awesome.

[iwst99]

-spurt-



Sounds awesome. Still no pics though? :(

Sorry babe.........I will........I wish I would have taken one today, he had 2 day growth and looked so fucking hawt. I love growth. <3

[Mechanica]

getting dinner bought for ya

So what?

I mean, for real, I share your exact sentiments, the thought/concept of always having things bought for me bothers me. I don't like my life to be handed to me. However, being the logical kid that I am, it doesn't bother me that Wayne pays for dinner/everything all the time because he has so much more money than me. It just makes sense because it's not even the tiniest dent for him to buy some dinner. I just thought of it from his side, imagine having money to easily burn on dinner all the time, and then the person you're taking out to dinner, who can't afford it in nearly the same way, wants to pay. I'd feel horrible! It's not like I'd be trying to smother them in sugar daddy love, it's just logic! I'd appreciate the gesture but it's like what's the point in the person with way less money buying dinner? It just makes sense to me that the person with significantly more money should buy dinner. You said he's ballin' and everything. If I were in a relationship with someone my age/my fiscal status, yeah, it'd be a toss up on who buys dinner... but when the difference is that large, I don't see the point.

On the other hand, I could get Wayne to buy me a lot of things, but I don't. For the same reason you feel weird that this dude's always buying dinner. Dinner is just dinner, though, and both parties enjoy themselves. I always thank Wayne for dinner, and he always thanks me for joining him. He's gonna spend money on food either way, he'd rather have someone to eat with, y'know?

~~

Now, you already found another guy!? Is it just California or are you just that good? You always have some new attractive dude you're fucking around with. :looney: I'd be mad jealous right now if I was just looking for fun. You and your cute latino DSL.

[iwst99]

Now, you already found another guy!? Is it just California or are you just that good? You always have some new attractive dude you're fucking around with. :looney: I'd be mad jealous right now if I was just looking for fun. You and your cute latino DSL.

Thanks dude, that did help me out. :lovin: Yeah, he worked on movies (X-Men 3, Hellboy, The Village, not an actor though) and for the last 16 years has been pretty much living in other countries. He's now settled here as of new year's and now he's working for Disney at their main offices in Burbank California. Anyways, yeah, he has money to burn as you put it. He's on my Friday Night Bowling league, and that's where I met him. His friend on his team was actually hitting on me that same night, and he told me that he was all over me. And it wasn't until his friend pointed me out that he noticed me. We didn't talk that week, but we did do "the look" to each other. I didn't go bowling until two weeks later, and we both had to sell these stupid raffle tickets they make you sell at bowling, since they pick a random team to sell each week. We were walking around selling them and he walked by me and said hey, and I said, yeah, I hate selling tickets, he's like yeah, I do too, more than anything. Then I said "Doug, right?" and he looked surprised cause I remembered his name. He said yeah and then went to shake my hand, and held it a little too long...which was fine by me.

He later told me he wanted to email me, as he had my email from our bowling mailing list, but he said that he didn't want me to think he was a stalker. Anyways, we ended up talking later that night, on the phone till like 2am. Then we met up the next day for dinner and :lovin:. We've been talking since, and he comes to my leagues usually atleast once a week, since I bowl 3 leagues and he only bowls one. And everybody at every league knows him, cause I guess he's one of the best league bowlers in Cali. :looney: And everyone seems to know me cause I take pictures at all our events, I'm the youngest bowler on all of my (gay) leagues, and latino.....so yeah, that gets you noticed. :rolleyes: He's the top player at my Friday Night League and he wins lots of tourneys and stuff. Anyways, he's been awesome so far....seems to have no drama in his life, like most gays seem to do in cali.......probably due that he hasn't really lived here in the last 16 years. Also, I kinda just wanted someone to play around with, as I was still with my BF, and I even told him about him. When I came back from Spain and we were broken up, I told him I just wanted to take it easy, and didn't want to get into anything serious. He understood, but the next time I saw him at the bowling alley he just want me over with his personality.......I wasn't looking for anything serious, but I guess it's always when you're NOT looking that you find something awesome.

[Mechanica]

but I guess it's always when you're NOT looking that you find something awesome.

I know, right? :lol: Wayne was the first hookup where I dropped my expectations/stopped looking for anything in particular and now look at us. :woot:

[iwst99]

I know, right? :lol: Wayne was the first hookup where I dropped my expectations/stopped looking for anything in particular and now look at us. :woot:

Yeah, I always thought that as a cliche...but it's true. And it kinda makes it more sweet when it's like destiny. :lovin: