Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[The_Beast]

Maybe.. but it would be more like "remember when you and that trench guy were wrestling around and then it got all weird and sexy.. that was hot."

LS does strike me as a Natural Dissenter.


also jimmy..


"TAKE IT OFF!!!!"

I did take it off when I used my Fleshlight a bit ago, back on now. Going to bed now. ALONE! Not a hint you little bimbo....

[Azagtoth]

Fucking tease.

[iwst99]

This would just result in my buddy Tony

I demand pics of Tony.

...

If he looks the complete opposite of you. :D

[The Green Trench Coat]

I demand pics of Tony.

...

If he looks the complete opposite of you. :D

ouch..


hah.:rofl:

[DrumlinerJoe]

The thread has elevated into pure gold.

[LightningStorm]

I demand pics of Tony.


Sure about that? Tony is NONE of the following: Gay, Fat, Slightly chubby, Hairy, Old, or Ugly.

[Lobelia Prime]

The thread has elevated into pure gold.

Second.

[The Green Trench Coat]

alas.. fellows..

I finally have enough pics for a bear watch #3

I'll be sending it out tonight.

[DaDesiCanadian]

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=5066198&postcount=417

:rofl:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Sure about that? Tony is NONE of the following: Gay, Fat, Slightly chubby, Hairy, Old, or Ugly.

As if any of that is a pre requisite for seeing his pics. :arazz::rofl:

[Lobelia Prime]

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=5066198&postcount=417

:rofl:

Are you fucking serious. :rofl:

[Azagtoth]

Tony is NONE of the following: Fat, Slightly chubby...

Count me out. :arazz:

[Æther]

It's time for "Make up excuses to miss work tomorrow to hang out with my BF" Round 2!

Give me a reason anyone! :D

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=5066198&postcount=417

:rofl:

:rofl::rofl: That and this thread keeps delivering.

[iwst99]

Good ol' you ate something bad last night and your stomach feels like shit and cannot go...Tell them you had tongue burritos, and they gave you the runs.

A) People are gonna be like holy shit, tongue?

B) People are gonna be like ugh, tongue MUST give you the runs.

It works wonders.

[The Green Trench Coat]

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=5066198&postcount=417

:rofl: except why would i be exposing myself to a woman lol

I swear everyone things i'm a skinny white dude.. maybe that's why i get those weird looks when people meet me in person lol. It's still a funny pic.

Good ol' you ate something bad last night and your stomach feels like shit and cannot go...Tell them you had tongue burritos, and they gave you the runs.

A) People are gonna be like holy shit, tongue?

B) People are gonna be like ugh, tongue MUST give you the runs.

It works wonders.
Clear your inbox for me I'm trying to send you bearwatch 3

anyone else who want it lmk.

[iwst99]

I'm AIMing you right now, but I must be on ignore. :(

I cleared it mang.

[Æther]

Pics received. The Queer Eye is satisfied...for now.
Good ol' you ate something bad last night and your stomach feels like shit and cannot go...Tell them you had tongue burritos, and they gave you the runs.

A) People are gonna be like holy shit, tongue?

B) People are gonna be like ugh, tongue MUST give you the runs.

It works wonders.

Good, now to make up something for sunday since it's also his BDay. :rofl:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Pics received. The Queer Eye is satisfied...for now.


Good, now to make up something for sunday since it's also his BDay. :rofl:


tell them it's a religious holiday for you on sunday *Chubanakkah

[iwst99]

tell them it's a religious holiday for you on sunday *Chubanakkah

That's made up? I've been celebrating it for years.:confused:

[BeaTs*]

bearwatch plz!

also, GTC, the main thing about the pic was the green trench coat...obviously they don't think you're a skinny white dude who wears green trench coats and flashes pyts

[The Green Trench Coat]

bearwatch plz!

also, GTC, the main thing about the pic was the green trench coat...obviously they don't think you're a skinny white dude who wears green trench coats and flashes pyts

Actually alot of people have told me that they thought i was a skinny white dude but i think that's from when people kept associating me with HVS

i don't mind.. I thought it was funny regardless.

and sent.

[BeaTs*]

ooh, so cute and sexy! I'm lovin' #3 especially.

3, 1 (though can't really see him), 2, and then 4

[Azagtoth]

That's made up? I've been celebrating it for years.:confused:

...Like every day. :lovin:

And we're celebrating that shit at Evo, too.

Rob: Thanks for the pics. Good shit, I liked.

[iwst99]

My BF made me a proposition...which is good in a sense, but we wouldn't be together for a few months. :-\

I'll give more details if this evolves.

Oh, and tonight, tomorrow and Sunday I have my bowling tourney. Last time I made 400 bucks.........wish me luck.

[Azagtoth]

Oh, and tonight, tomorrow and Sunday I have my bowling tourney. Last time I made 400 bucks.........wish me luck.

Get that cheddar, son! Show em what's good.

[Æther]

He's my cherry pie,
Cool drink of water, such a sweet surprise.
Tastes so good, make a grown man cry,
Sweet cherry pie.

Swingin' on the front porch,
Swingin' on the lawn.
Swingin' where we want,
Cause there ain't nobody home.
Swingin' to the left,
And swingin' to the right.
If I think about baseball,
I'll swing all night, yeah.

Swingin' in the living room,
Swingin' in the kitchen.
Most folks don't cause,
They're too busy bitchin'.
Swingin' in there cause,
He wanted me to feed him
So I mixed up the batter,
And he licked the beater.

I scream, you scream,
We all scream for him.
Don't even try cause,
You can't ignore him.

He's my cherry pie,
Cool drink of water, such a sweet surprise.
Tastes so good, make a grown man cry,
Sweet cherry pie, oh yeah.

He's my cherry pie,
Put a smile on your face ten miles wide.
Looks so good, bring a tear to your eye,
Sweet cherry pie.

Swingin' to the drums,
Swingin' to guitar.
Swingin' to the bass,
In the back of my car.
Ain't got money,
Ain't got no gas.
But we'll get where we're goin' if we,
Swing real fast.

I scream, you scream,
We all scream for him.
Don't even try cause,
You can't ignore him.

He's my cherry pie,
Cool drink of water, such a sweet surprise.
Tastes so good, make a grown man cry,
Sweet cherry pie, oh yeah.

He's my cherry pie,
Put a smile on your face ten miles wide.
Looks so good, bring a tear to your eye,
Sweet cherry pie.

Swing it! All night long…
Swing it!
Swingin’ in the bathroom,
Swingin' on the floor.
Swingin' so hard,
We forgot to lock the door.
In walks his daddybear,
Standin' six foot four.
He said, “You ain't gonna swing with my son no more...without me" (and the we had a threeway!)

He's my cherry pie,
Cool drink of water, such a sweet surprise.
Tastes so good, make a grown man cry,
Sweet cherry pie, oh yeah.

He's my cherry pie,
Put a smile on your face ten miles wide.
Looks so good, bring a tear to your eye,
Sweet cherry pie.
Sweet cherry pie…
Swing it!

Okay, so I edited Cherry Pie...a little bit. ;D

Just came back from Rob's play. He asked me how it was and I said gay... happy gay. I only managed to get one pic of him with my POS phone cam (I'll post it tomorrow). We then went out with his family to Chillis. After we ate we gave our change so while everyone discussed the bill me and Rob snuggled at the same place where we first made out. It was fun. Yep yep yep. :D

Oh yeah, I'm definitely gonna call out for his BDay party on sunday. GameWorks and making out FTW!

[The Green Trench Coat]

GameWorks and making out FTW!

Gaming with your bf FTW!!!

I love that our idea of a romantic evening together involved 3rd strike and cvs2 and several professionals.

[Lobelia Prime]

I think it's pretty funny that the only boyfriend I ever had was a gamer himself, so our dates consisted of us going to the arcade.
He sucked so bad at Marvel......good times, gooood tiiiiiiiiiimes....

[Æther]

PMs with Rob's pics have been sent. Everyone else just ask. :D
Gaming with your bf FTW!!!

I love that our idea of a romantic evening together involved 3rd strike and cvs2 and several professionals.
lol He isn't a complete fighting game fan (yet) but he is a casual gamer. I brought Brawl to his place a couple weeks ago and he had fun. Strip Fighter fun time! :lovin:

[iwst99]

Okay, so I edited Cherry Pie...a little bit. ;D

Just came back from Rob's play. He asked me how it was and I said gay... happy gay. I only managed to get one pic of him with my POS phone cam (I'll post it tomorrow). We then went out with his family to Chillis. After we ate we gave our change so while everyone discussed the bill me and Rob snuggled at the same place where we first made out. It was fun. Yep yep yep. :D

Oh yeah, I'm definitely gonna call out for his BDay party on sunday. GameWorks and making out FTW!



:d that sounds awesome...and you got to meet his family and hang out with them...which is cool. Congrats man...use that tongue burrito excuse. :D

So....I went to the first bowling event last night. As I mentioned before, my BF was going to have his regular teammates, plus, his ex boyfriend on his team...And as background, He went out with him 11 YEARS ago...he has been in a 5 year relationship with his current BF...yet, he still has Doug as his background pic on his computer at work, and says, and I quote, that "Doug is the love of his life"....Ok...they dated TWO months. Yes...two months...ELEVEN YEARS AGO...

Anyways. So Doug and I were at the alley by the bar, and then I heard his teammate say, oh there's lyle (his ex). So he walks towards him, and my BF is like, ummm yeah...so there's my ex...oh, and it turns out that out of the 50+ teams, my team and his team were picked to bowl on the same lanes....it's totally random, and the odds of our teams being picked to bowl with each other out of 50+ is fucking small...

Anyways, his ex came towards us and he was like OMG DOUG!!! And he like hugged him a little too long, and was staring in his eyes like he literally was the love of his life. And he had this smile on his face like he was in heaven...I really didn't think nothing of it though since they were EXs, so I was like whatever. Doug said, oh hey this is Jaime, and I was like yeah, we've met. See, last year at Long Beach pride (which I posted about here), I got invited to a party with my teammates...that was the party being thrown by his EX and his current Partner. So we actually already knew each other. We just said hi and whatever.

So...time comes to bowl, and like I said I had to bowl on the same lanes as my BF and his team. So we bowl, and my BF would come up to me everyone once in a while and hug me from behind and kiss me, and hold my hand. And it's custom when someone gets a strike, you hi5 them, and if they don't, you respect knuckles them. Anyways, some of the times his EX would get stuff would be when Doug was hugging me and kissing me, and we'd both hi5 him and such while holding each other. They were sitting on their own table and my teammate had ours, and like I said we would get together everyone once in a while...........

So...when bowling was over and we were packing, one of his teammates came up to me and said, I'm so sorry honey. I said why? He said, when we drink sometimes, you know, we have fun....I hope we didn't upset you with what we do or say. I was confused and just said, I don't care, you're having fun....at this point I was totally confused.

So then we all go to the bar afterwards, and it was kinda cool, everybody knows Doug since he is an extremely good bowler, and has bowled in like every big gay tourney in the US and the world (there's a big tournament called Gay Games, that's around the world). Anyways, he would tell everyone here's my BF and people would be like daaaaammmn, and I was like *blush* So, me and his friends and bowling partners and his ex were all hanging out at the bar, and it was all cool, although he was a bit drunk, but there was no drama with anybody.

So we get in the car to drive back home, and he then brings up that he hopes his EX wasn't too upset. I asked why. He said because his EX didn't realize we were together until the end of the night, and that he was really surprised and didn't believe it. He said one of his teammates told him (Doug) that they had told Lyle(his ex) that he have a BF and such. And you know, after seeing us KISSING AND HUGGING AND HOLDING HANDS IN FRONT OF HIM, all night...that he figured it out.

I guess he hadn't, and when we were almost done bowling he started making sexual comments to Doug...and Doug told me his teammates were like....:confused::confused: and Doug was like...ummm you can't really talk to me like, I had a boyfriend. And then his teammates pointed over at me (I was at the table next to them) and said, yeah, that's his other half. I guess he was like "Really???"..."No way!..." And I guess it hit him as a shocker and got kinda upset.

Oh and I guess the whole night, this random guy, I don't know who it was, was coming over to the table, and Lyle kept saying that Doug dumped him and how horrible it was. Doug was like ummm, I didn't really dump you, it just wasn't the right time. And Lyle was like, yes, it is dumping, what would you call it...And Doug was like umm, I guess. And then Lyle brought up the EXACT date they met....WTF...But I'm like ok...11 years ago....you dated for TWO months, you still have his background on your PC...AND you have a partner of 5 years....FUCKING GET OVER IT. Even Doug was saying that it was flattering that he calls him(doug) "the love of his life", but that they only dated for a bit, and that it wasn't the right time, and if he wanted to be with him, he would have already, but that he's never wanted anything serious with him.

Anyways...I'm just like :confused: at the whole situation, but whatever...Doug wasn't feeling weird, and didn't mind hugging and holding and kissing me at the alley infront of anyone, including his ex...the fact his ex couldn't figure it out was kinda odd....but he has to get over it.

Fun fact, Doug and his Ex are Doubles partners today, so that should turn out well. :-\





Anyways, so Doug quit his current job with Disney about 3 weeks ago, and has a week left...he works in movies and travels around the world, and he had a job position in Hungary, and made me the offer to either a) move with him and he could get me a job on the movie (he's really high up, not an actor though), or that b) If I didn't want to go, but still wanted to be with him, I could live in the house he just bought and take care of it, and he wouldn't charge me, and we'd see each other when he'd come back. But he would have been in Hungary for 7 months...and I have nothing to lose, so I told him I would go with him.

This was a few weeks ago, but he's having disc surgery, and the timing wasn't right and with his new house and all, he decided to not take it. So yesterday a new offer came up, and he txt'd me and said he needed to call me, and I said ok. He said that the offer was for working on a moving in Chicago for 2 months...and he asked if I could stay at his place while he was gone and take care of the house....he said he didn't want to go if he couldn't have someone watching over the house...so I thought it was kind of a weird question to expect someone to answer in a matter of seconds, but I agreed. And when I saw him last night he told me he took the job........sooo I will be living in his house starting in a week and a half for the next 2 months. He has to come back 10 days after he leaves for a follow up, but his job is paying for it, and then he told me he would be flying me out there so I can come visit him. :looney:

So yeah...sorry about the long ass story, everything's been kinda crazy since I met him...but it's been worth it. Bowling today will be awwwwwwkward.

[Æther]

Crazy story, dood. lol

What position does Doug have anyways? I want a job like that.:looney:

[iwst99]

He's the head of finance for those movies....go to wwwmimdb com and type in Doug Moreno. He's been traveling around the world working on movies for the last 16 years...and I guess he's really good at what he does cause all the big studios want him...last movie he did was Hellboy II.

[The Green Trench Coat]

PMs with Rob's pics have been sent. Everyone else just ask. :D

lol He isn't a complete fighting game fan (yet) but he is a casual gamer. I brought Brawl to his place a couple weeks ago and he had fun. Strip Fighter fun time! :lovin:

he's pretty cute kudos.

[The Green Trench Coat]

He's the head of finance for those movies....go to wwwmimdb com and type in Doug Moreno. He's been traveling around the world working on movies for the last 16 years...and I guess he's really good at what he does cause all the big studios want him...last movie he did was Hellboy II.

do it..


when the chance to travel the world comes up you should always have an adventure.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Hungary? Chicago? :bluu:

So I guess it WASN'T Saturn/Clouds of Magellan/The Sun. That ex-bf sounds like trouble.

[iwst99]

Fuk yeah I'm doing it. He took this one cause it's not far and only 2 months. Next one will probably be further and he said he'd take me to those. He will have just had his surgery, so he doesn't want to risk it.

Yeah, ex is here today, with HIS partner...whatever, my bf obviously doesn't want him in that way so it's cool. I'm bowling with EXs best friend today. I hope he doesn't hate me too, although he was giving me weird looks yesterday. :-/ singles right now and then doubles later. Wish me luck. :-D

[quiche]

Been a while since I dipped into the homo thread. Here is a pic (http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/muuuuuuustache.jpg) of me I had to take today for a license application.


...seriously.

[Lobelia Prime]

Been a while since I dipped into the homo thread. Here is a pic (http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/muuuuuuustache.jpg) of me I had to take today for a license application.


...seriously.

I don't know why, but I think I'm gonna shoop that with some random saying and post it on /b/.

[bear]

Been a while since I dipped into the homo thread. Here is a pic (http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/muuuuuuustache.jpg) of me I had to take today for a license application.


...seriously.

Holy shit. That mustache is the goddamn business! A tip of the hat to you, good sir.

[DaDesiCanadian]

I'll be honest. Your moustache is יהוה

[iwst99]

Ok, well bowling sucked and I did horrible. But I don't feel too bad cause most everyone I know did horrible too....Although one gay I do know did fucking awesome and one like 1000+ bucks....fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck. My friend that was sitting next to me won $200 in a raffle. Then there was this guy that was checking me out the whole time I was there, and he has was fucking hawt. Blue eyes, bald head, goatee, he was chubby but somewhat fit and dressed really nice. I felt bad cause he kept eyeing me, but I didn't really eye him back. And also, when your BF is one of the most popular guys there and now EVERYONE knows that your his BF, it's hard to like even flirt or anything...not that I'd want to, but it's still nice being hit on. Not only because I really like Doug and haven't felt like sleeping around since I met him (although I took this attitude around new years), it would be impossible with everybody there now knowing that I"m with him. :-P

Anyways, it was somewhat fun, although i did lose money on sidepots and stuff. When we were leaving, Doug's ex asked him if he was going to this hospitality thing, which was a get together for the players on Saturday night. We were hella tired, so we just wanted to go home and relax, so he said no. His ex started making this fucking 5-year-old pouting lip and puppy dog eyes. I WAS LIKE WTFFFFFFFFFFFF....don't be making puppy dog eyes and pouting lip. I was seriously pissed...but then I calmed down knowing he was never going to have him, and that I didn't really have to worry. But when we were leaving, Doug's ex was like really anxious to say goodbye to him, and when he finally did, he gave him a way more than friendly hug, for a little too long....and I was right next to him. And then he whispered "i love you" in his ear, although I didn't really hear it cause he said it so low. But Doug then said I love you too a bit louder...again while I was right next to them. Again, I just calmed down and knew that A) he's never going to have him, and that Doug doesn't want him in that way...and well, A) is pretty much all i have. Again, they hadn't seen each other in a long time...but still that other guy still has his picture on his background on his PC at work, even though it's been 11 years since they dated, and it was only for 2 months....and still calls him the love of his life...sorry for emphasizing this, but it kinda make me feel better knowing that he might just be a little obsessed, and that I know Doug does not feel about him in the same way.


....Doug's EX's best friend was actually really nice to me when I bowled with him, and said what a great person Doug was and congratulated us on being together....actually, most people bowling there know Doug, and people asked me who my BF was and I told them, they were like OMG he's such a GREAT guy...so I guess I picked a winner, no one had anything negative to say about him. Then Doug's Ex's partner was there, who I knew before, and asked me if I was again going to their annual gay pride party (which I went to last year). And although Doug won't be here cause he will be in Chicago, I kinda still want to show up, just to f- with his ex...then again I'll know most of the people there as they are all Doug's friends too...but whatever.

So today it actually hit me hard that Doug would be leaving for 2 months....He'll be coming back 10 days later for a checkup, but then he'll go back for the remainder. He kept emphasizing that he wants me to go visit, and that he'll fly me out and if I can take some time off to go there on long weekends...which I told him I would. But it just kinda sucks cause I haven't known him too long, and it's still kinda the honeymoon stage where everything is awesome and now he's going away. He told me that when he comes back and if he gets another movie that is longer that he'll take me with him, but that 2 months wasn't that long, and didn't want to leave the house he just bought alone while they're still working on it (putting sprinklers in, fixing the chimney, etc). And I agreed. I will start living there in less than two weeks. I'm missing him already. =\

[eddymasta]

Just came out to my bro who posts on srk as well. So weird that someone I know in real life, knows my secret that i've been hiding for years, heh.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Right on Eddy. Your bro cool with it?

[eddymasta]

Right on Eddy. Your bro cool with it?

yeah, haha. I figured he would be, it didn't stop me from being nervous as hell though :p

[Lobelia Prime]

yeah, haha. I figured he would be, it didn't stop me from being nervous as hell though :p

Congratulations on coming out! :tup:

[DrumlinerJoe]

Yeah, I was the same way with all my friends. No one really cared though. You gonna kick the door down or come out slowly?

[Lobelia Prime]

Yeah, I was the same way with all my friends. No one really cared though. You gonna kick the door down or come out slowly?

I kicked the door down HARD.
Soon as I knew I was a tranny, EVERYONE fucking knew.

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol, fuck yeah Lobelia. I wish I would've had the same attitude sometimes.

[Lobelia Prime]

lol, fuck yeah Lobelia. I wish I would've had the same attitude sometimes.

Heh, I'm really gung-ho about it.
That closet door got Chun-Li's Super Arts II. Seriously.
Called up all my friends "HOLY SHIT I'M TRANSGENDER!"
Started femming myself up RIGHT the fuck away. I always knew that I wasn't like the other boys, but I thought during my youth that it was a phase I was going through. Phases don't last twenty years though. When I was seventeen....Super Arts II on that fucking closet door.

[eddymasta]

Yeah, I was the same way with all my friends. No one really cared though. You gonna kick the door down or come out slowly?

Slowly for sure.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I remember my best friend was like "Oh well, at least you know who you are." I had felt bad because on my 21st he took me to a titty bar and dropped mad money that night and I hadn't come out to him yet. lol

Did your brother suspect man?

[eddymasta]

I remember my best friend was like "Oh well, at least you know who you are." I had felt bad because on my 21st he took me to a titty bar and dropped mad money that night and I hadn't come out to him yet. lol

Did your brother suspect man?

He said he thought it was weird I never seemed to care that much about girls, but he didn't really give it a second thought.

[iwst99]

Just came out to my bro who posts on srk as well. So weird that someone I know in real life, knows my secret that i've been hiding for years, heh.

Congrats man...welcome to our thread too. I came out to all of my friends on SRK in real life, which is A LOT of them...it was awkward at first, but it was cool and they didn't give a fuck. Telling one person is the first step. You don't have to tell anyone else until you're ready, nice and steady wins the race. Congrats man.

[Lobelia Prime]

When I came out to my sister, she started laughing, and I was like "What's so goddamn funny?"
She was like...."You're a tranny...that just explains SO MUCH."
"Oh? Like what, the fact that when we were kids, your dresses still got wrinkles and dirt when you never wore them?"

[DrumlinerJoe]

So does anyone AT ALL at all know besides your bro Eddy?

[iwst99]

If you've trolled this thread long enough, you also know that pics are a must.

The queer eye will be pleased...

[eddymasta]

So does anyone AT ALL at all know besides your bro Eddy?

I've told my parents a while back, but they were like "Oh its a phase, don't worry about it" :arazz:

[iwst99]

I've told my parents a while back, but they were like "Oh its a phase, don't worry about it" :arazz:

It totally is, you'll be licking pussy in no time. :woot:

*waits for Lobelia to respond with something like, "pussy is da bomb!!!! :lovin:" :-p*

[Lobelia Prime]

*waits for Lobelia to respond with something like, "pussy is da bomb!!!! :lovin:" :-p*

...Well, it is.
I can see why you guys like 8=====D though. A lot of people do.

[severin]

I've told my parents a while back, but they were like "Oh its a phase, don't worry about it" :arazz:

I too got the "it's a phase" thing when I told them about my bisexuality and wanna-be androgynous...ness. However, sometimes I can't help but think they're right. To think my dad was one of the psychiatrists that fought to get homosexuality removed from the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders)

[iwst99]

I too got the "it's a phase" thing when I told them about my bisexuality and wanna-be androgynous...ness. However, sometimes I can't help but think they're right. To think my dad was one of the psychiatrists that fought to get homosexuality removed from the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders)

I don't understand why so many people feel that bisexuality is more than a phase than anything. Straight people think you're really gay and just don't want to admit it. And gays seem to think you're just afraid to come out that you're truly gay.

I do truly believe that one can like both sexes, and I don't see why one couldn't. You probably have it a bit harder than us that can just say, "I like Dick" or "I like vagina". But when you say you like both people can't understand it.

Ur dad = teh win for fighting for that...ironically at that.

[ramberk]

When I was seventeen....Super Arts II on that fucking closet door.

Lol, you should make a youtube video of that. I wish I had shin shoryukened my closet door sooner.

Congrats on coming out Eddy.

[severin]

I think I'm currently Remy SA3 when it comes to unfamiliar people... I'll make hints, and not say anything unless you ask, but if you do... WTFcombo.

Also, definite yay for Coming out Eddy, dunno why I forgot to mention that in my last post.

[Æther]

Just came back from Rob's BDay party. Mad fun.

First we went to a gospel concert downtown (not a Christian myself but I certainly appreciated the performances and vibe). Afterwards we all headed to GameWorks (after hilariously getting lost trying to find a supermarket). We ate about 150 bucks worth of food, made a shitload of noise, embarassed the hell out of Rob with the GameWorks crew by singing to him really loud, and see him get a tini bit tipsy off some drinks.

He sure was flirtatious today though...even more than usual. LOL Like he'd sneak kisses and ass grabbing at every. Single. Possible. Moment. :lovin:

[iwst99]

Just came back from Rob's BDay party. Mad fun.

First we went to a gospel concert downtown (not a Christian myself but I certainly appreciated the performances and vibe). Afterwards we all headed to GameWorks (after hilariously getting lost trying to find a supermarket). We ate about 150 bucks worth of food, made a shitload of noise, embarassed the hell out of Rob with the GameWorks crew by singing to him really loud, and see him get a tini bit tipsy off some drinks.

He sure was flirtatious today though...even more than usual. LOL Like he'd sneak kisses and ass grabbing at every. Single. Possible. Moment. :lovin:

Haha, awesome man, sounds like you had a terrific time. Did you give him...ahem...a birthday present? :D

What excuse did you use to get out of work? Tongue burritos????

[Æther]

Haha, awesome man, sounds like you had a terrific time. Did you give him...ahem...a birthday present? :D

What excuse did you use to get out of work? Tongue burritos????

If you meant "that", no. It was too late and we had to get everyone home...that and his home is getting renovated so it's a big fat no until then. I wouldn't care if I got my ass rolled in plaster, we both want snoo snoo. :mad::mad::mad:

But if you meant "present present" I gave him a Nintendo Wi-Fi Connector so he could use his DS and Wii online. :P

Excuse? I gave them the same "back pain" thing from friday. They know I have one but it isn't as bad as I played it. :P

Edit: Also I'm gonna be applying for some other jobs around town. I need to get a bigger pay what with my father moving out. It's good that my mum's moving in but now they're saying that I might have to pay a whole lot more for rent.

[iwst99]

If you meant "that", no. It was too late and we had to get everyone home...that and his home is getting renovated so it's a big fat no until then. I wouldn't care if I got my ass rolled in plaster, we both want snoo snoo. :mad::mad::mad:

But if you meant "present present" I gave him a Nintendo Wi-Fi Connector so he could use his DS and Wii online. :P

Excuse? I gave them the same "back pain" thing from friday. They know I have one but it isn't as bad as I played it. :P

Damn youse home renovations. :(

Having a gaming BF must be fun too. :( My BF now is a sports fanatic...like, every possible sport, as obscure as it might be. Now he's got me into them too....i feel so manly going online to check scores of games and stuff now. :/

Well, hope you enjoyed your days off with your BF...it must have been worth it. :D Glad things are going well for you and your BF, really am.

[Æther]

Damn youse home renovations. :(

Having a gaming BF must be fun too. :( My BF now is a sports fanatic...like, every possible sport, as obscure as it might be. Now he's got me into them too....i feel so manly going online to check scores of games and stuff now. :/

Well, hope you enjoyed your days off with your BF...it must have been worth it. :D Glad things are going well for you and your BF, really am.
Thanks much, dood. Making out in the arcade booths was too fun. :D

Hope Doug comes back way earlier covered in nothing but whip creme and cherries...ummm dessert snoo snoo. *drools*

[The Green Trench Coat]

Been a while since I dipped into the homo thread. Here is a pic (http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a347/givequicheachance/muuuuuuustache.jpg) of me I had to take today for a license application.


...seriously.

a handle bar mustache and chops.

quiche .. you've got the killers glow. you are the killer. In a room of who dunit's You are the killer.. and maybe the theif.

Just came out to my bro who posts on srk as well. So weird that someone I know in real life, knows my secret that i've been hiding for years, heh.

Weight off your shoulder I'm sure. But moreso i'm glad you came here. It helps to have someone(s) to talk to. We all are pretty varied in our taste in men but welcome.

So what kind of guys do you find your self attracted too. (i need to know if have to buy more seats in the we love bears/chubs room)

I too got the "it's a phase" thing when I told them about my bisexuality and wanna-be androgynous...ness. However, sometimes I can't help but think they're right. To think my dad was one of the psychiatrists that fought to get homosexuality removed from the DSM (The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders)

Heh. that was the last thing my mom said to me before we didn't talk for 8 years.
she kept trying to hook me up with these girls from church and I said "well.. i'll meet them but nothings ever gonna come from it" she's like "why"
I said "Cause ma i'm gay." She paused and screamed "I thought you were done with that already.. Well until you figure out how to not be gay anymore then don't even call hear"

I simply shrugged and said "okay" almost 10 years later we finally spoke.. Currently she met my husbear and she absolutely adores him she's always asking him to pick her up and carry her. Part of me thinks it's a shock to her system that someone who's not apart of her church isn't inherently evil.. but that's just a portion of my coming out story.

My friend suggested that i write a book I think i just might.

Lol, you should make a youtube video of that. I wish I had shin shoryukened my closet door sooner.

Congrats on coming out Eddy.

essentially someone was about to hyper bomb my closet door but i super cancelled into makotos number 1 super ftw... which was very shortly turned into FTL :shake::sad::sad:

[eddymasta]

If you've trolled this thread long enough, you also know that pics are a must.

The queer eye will be pleased...

haha, I dont know if you want my pics. I'm the complete opposite of a chub/bear, which it seems like a lot of you guys are a fan of :)

[The Green Trench Coat]

haha, I dont know if you want my pics. I'm the complete opposite of a chub/bear, which it seems like a lot of you guys are a fan of :)

lets's see em. you could still be a cutie despite being so dangerously thin.

[eddymasta]

a handle bar mustache and chops.

quiche .. you've got the killers glow. you are the killer. In a room of who dunit's You are the killer.. and maybe the theif.



Weight off your shoulder I'm sure. But moreso i'm glad you came here. It helps to have someone(s) to talk to. We all are pretty varied in our taste in men but welcome.

So what kind of guys do you find your self attracted too. (i need to know if have to buy more seats in the we love bears/chubs room)





double post, oh well haha

I'm a fan of nerdy guys for some reason. Its gotta be the weirdest taste ever, but I find gamers, comic fans, etc etc hot; I guess its cause they have the same hobbies as me? So yeah, thats pretty vague but you get the point :P

[Mechanica]

Not even a weird taste, that's pretty much just common interests.

I've been locked out of my fucking apartment for days. I slept in my car on saturday and on wayne's couch last night. Ugh. That was my weekend. I work five mornings in a row, then spend my weekend fucking tossing and turning in my car. :/ Wow, that was just how I wanted to spend my weekend.

[LightningStorm]

I've been locked out of my fucking apartment for days. I slept in my car on saturday and on wayne's couch last night. Ugh. That was my weekend. I work five mornings in a row, then spend my weekend fucking tossing and turning in my car. :/ Wow, that was just how I wanted to spend my weekend.

And you didn't call the apartment manager because???

[The Green Trench Coat]

Not even a weird taste, that's pretty much just common interests.

I've been locked out of my fucking apartment for days. I slept in my car on saturday and on wayne's couch last night. Ugh. That was my weekend. I work five mornings in a row, then spend my weekend fucking tossing and turning in my car. :/ Wow, that was just how I wanted to spend my weekend.

no locksmith.. no landlord? ... no super?

You failed.

Better luck next round.

[iwst99]

WTf.....you did fail. Why can't you get a freaking locksmith or ask your apartment manager person?

FAIL

[Mechanica]

Come on guys, have a little more faith in me. I didn't sit around sulking and not doing anything, OF FUCKING COURSE I tried to get a fucking hold of her. :shake:

Weekends = office is not open. I could've gotten her personal cell phone number but oh wait it was inside my house. Twenty minutes after I got back, at 3 in the morning, realizing I was locked out - my phone died. This was 3am on Saturday morning. The tenant office thing is not open on saturday NOR on sunday. The only number I had was the generic number to that office. I'm lucky I even remembered my dad's cell phone # by heart. :sad:

There's even more to the story but I just don't feel like whining. I don't have the fifty extra bucks to shell out just to get into my apartment a couple days earlier via locksmith, either. My dad's girlfriend has extensive locksmith/picking experience but my door had been replaced and moved further back into the door frame making it impossible to get into it without the illegal kind of lockpicks/jimmies, which she used to have but had since gotten rid of. I know I didn't type everything out, but I like how you guys assumed I didn't try any of that. I'm not [that] retarded. :(

[eddymasta]

so am I the only one that finds Patton Oswalt to be pretty damn hot?
http://o-meon.com/images/n&F/_2007/06-25_Ratatouille_Premiere/06-25_Ratatouille_Prmr-FS15.jpg

I've always had a thing for James Rolfe as well; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_6bn2H3BoA

Nick Frost is damn hot too

just a few examples of the guys I find attractive :p

[DaDesiCanadian]

Goddamnit. I switch between this thread and the lounge too much. So I clicked on Eddymasta's link thinking "weird, what kinda of hot chick is named patton oswa.....ah damnit. :bluu:"

iwst, you seem to be in a messy situation. That guy is clearly making moves for your bf, but if you say anything, you're going to come off as an overprotective/jealous dude. But your bf seems to be the kind of guy who you can trust, so good on you. I wouldn't get too riled up about the stupid shit his ex does.

ROFL at mechanica. How did you eventually get back in?

[ramberk]

Mech, I personally like it when folks think I'm stupid. Then its easier for me to take advantage of them. :)

Regardless, that hella sucks that you got locked out. Sleeping in the car is... suckage. And not the good kind. BTW, your dad's gf sounds... sinister. lol.

I find nerds and geeks hot too (finally a different category to talk about that is not chub/bear). My current favorite nerd is... Edward Norton in the Incredible Hulk. Yeah, Ed Norton is not a nerd but he plays one in the Hulk. :)

[No defence]

What does it mean when a Gay guy walk up to a straight guy to ask for his penis size?

[Lobelia Prime]

I've always had a thing for James Rolfe as well; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_6bn2H3BoA

Wow! The AVGN has fanboys! AWESOME!!!!

[iwst99]

so am I the only one that finds Patton Oswalt to be pretty damn hot?
http://o-meon.com/images/n&F/_2007/06-25_Ratatouille_Premiere/06-25_Ratatouille_Prmr-FS15.jpg

I've always had a thing for James Rolfe as well; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_6bn2H3BoA

Nick Frost is damn hot too

just a few examples of the guys I find attractive :p

OMG, Patton Oswalt = the win. And did you post Nick Frost cause you read about us posting here before, or because you truly find him attractive? Either way = win.

No AVGN for me tho =\

You'll fit in here just find. :D

[eddymasta]

OMG, Patton Oswalt = the win. And did you post Nick Frost cause you read about us posting here before, or because you truly find him attractive? Either way = win.

No AVGN for me tho =\

You'll fit in here just find. :D

nah, I actually did find him attractive before reading this thread :) I remember seeing him in Shaun of the dead and it was done from then on in :woot:

[iwst99]

nah, I actually did find him attractive before reading this thread :) I remember seeing him in Shaun of the dead and it was done from then on in :woot:

Hah, hawt. :D

GTC needs to hook u up with the links to the hawt YOUTUBE vids...including the one he took from the Hot Fuzz DVD.....yum.

I just noticed the typo in my previous message. Gay. I must have been thinking of Frost. :D

[djfaka]

Nick Frost is hawt.

I tend to be really attracted to BIG guys, not huge (one of my ex's was 5xx lb and I wont ever do that again) and to me he doesnt seem that big but rediculously cuddly.

This thread needs more pics, and how do I get that clock, someone needs to fill me in and update me (WITH PICS)


I am going to be offically single in june damnit, need to hit the ground rolling.

[Mechanica]

Monday was the first day the office was open so I stayed at my boyfriend's Sunday, and went in the morning and talked to her... I think I mentioned it already but the maintenance guy didn't even return the key since the last time they came in my place, and then he didn't answer his cell phone. :confused: Then she called another maintenance guy who happened to be in his vicinity and got the keyring. I went home and waited for a little bit, he gets there & he tried the keys one by one, and like 8/10 of the keys go by and I'm like oh great, but the very last key was the right one~ :woot:

I don't find myself attracted to big guys but for real nick frost got dat cuddly charm, I agree. I wanna hang out with him.

[Azagtoth]

What does it mean when a Gay guy walk up to a straight guy to ask for his penis size?

That he wants to know your penis size? :confused:

I find nerds and geeks hot too (finally a different category to talk about that is not chub/bear).

Nonsense, I LOVE nerds.

...Chubby nerds. So sue me. :arazz:

Besides, you're free to bring up whatever you like too. This is as much your thread as it is ours, and pretty much the only person here who simply is not ever attracted to non-chubs/bears is me (I'm just not wired that way). =P

[DaDesiCanadian]

Besides, you were free to bring up whatever you like too. This is as much your thread as it is ours, and pretty much the only person here who simply is not ever attracted to non-chubs/bears is me. =P

I find myself not attracted to Bears most of the time too. :arazz:


.....or am i.....?

DUN DUN DUN.

[Azagtoth]

I find myself not attracted to Bears most of the time too. :arazz:

But I like bears...

...and so do you, apparently. =P

[The Green Trench Coat]

so am I the only one that finds Patton Oswalt to be pretty damn hot?
http://o-meon.com/images/n&F/_2007/06-25_Ratatouille_Premiere/06-25_Ratatouille_Prmr-FS15.jpg

I've always had a thing for James Rolfe as well; http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_6bn2H3BoA

Nick Frost is damn hot too

just a few examples of the guys I find attractive :p

YOU STAY AWAY FROM MY MAN!!! NICK IS MINE MINE MINE!!!

Patton seems like he'd be a phenomenal bottom. Like he could take 3rd input like a champ and really get into that bottom role. You know how like when topping some guy and he's like really riding with you... telling you that he wants it harder and begging for more. That's what i figure he'd be like in bed.

I cant stand the dead fish bottoms.. or quiet ones. Quiet bottoms FTL


okay i'll give you james rolfe.. he's cute. i just don't like his smile.
Mech, I personally like it when folks think I'm stupid. Then its easier for me to take advantage of them. :)

Regardless, that hella sucks that you got locked out. Sleeping in the car is... suckage. And not the good kind. BTW, your dad's gf sounds... sinister. lol.

I find nerds and geeks hot too (finally a different category to talk about that is not chub/bear). My current favorite nerd is... Edward Norton in the Incredible Hulk. Yeah, Ed Norton is not a nerd but he plays one in the Hulk. :)
you know.. ed norton does this thing with his lips when he talks.. that i find so adorable... like a lip twinge that is really sexy
I find myself not attracted to Bears most of the time too. :arazz:


.....or am i.....?

DUN DUN DUN. 60% of the time you are gay all the time.

[LightningStorm]

Come on guys, have a little more faith in me. I didn't sit around sulking and not doing anything, OF FUCKING COURSE I tried to get a fucking hold of her. :shake:

There are still a number of things that could have gotten you either in or at least a place to stay. 1. You've got neighbors. Surely ONE of them had the number. 2. From the sound of the story you had a cell phone? Why was her number not stored in it? Related and not at the same time, why was your dad's number not stored in it? 3. Do you seriously have ZERO friends or family that would have put you up for the weekend?

But the whole story begs the question, How the hell did you lock yourself out to begin with and had keys to the car that were NOT with the keys to the apartment?

:confused:

[iwst99]

But the whole story begs the question, How the hell did you lock yourself out to begin with and had keys to the car that were NOT with the keys to the apartment?

:confused:

QFT.

[Æther]

I want Rob right here right now! :crybaby:

I cant stand the dead fish bottoms.. or quiet ones. Quiet bottoms FTL
ORLY? *takes notes for Rob*

QFT.

Yes, tell us Mechanica. How DID you lock yourself outside without your key? :[ (http://youtube.com/watch?v=ew1Nr5rHQn0)

[BeaTs*]

lol, gtc, I can only imagine how boring it must be to top a guy who has this expression on his face VVV

(-_-)_____
../...._|....|_.......

but tops better not be boring too!

[Ryu & Ken]

ok so this might have bene answered already but I am not trawling through 224 pages to find the answer.

So if a beautiful looking women should start playing with ur dick and using her tougues to tease your bellend.

Will you get a erection in any way ?

[Æther]

Is it really that important to make keep talking during the sex for most people? Naturally I'm VERY quiet. Just hang around me for 5 minutes and you can tell. Even when I'm with Rob I hardly ever speak or even make the first move.

^^ Depends on the person. I'm the type of person to get "excited" from just kissing. :lovin:

[The Green Trench Coat]

lol, gtc, I can only imagine how boring it must be to top a guy who has this expression on his face VVV

(-_-)_____
../...._|....|_.......

but tops better not be boring too!

yes boring tops ftl also..

Hate that.

[The Green Trench Coat]

ok so this might have bene answered already but I am not trawling through 224 pages to find the answer.

So if a beautiful looking women should start playing with ur dick and using her tougues to tease your bellend.

Will you get a erection in any way ?

if a hot guy started giving you a bj would you get hard?... Probably.

and think about that.. you and some guy are in a room together where nobody else can see .. he starts going down on you.. stow away all that machismo.. your body would totally react to what's going on.

[Ryu & Ken]

if a hot guy started giving you a bj would you get hard?... Probably.

and think about that.. you and some guy are in a room together where nobody else can see .. he starts going down on you.. stow away all that machismo.. your body would totally react to what's going on.

I dont know about that dude, I once had an erection and some motherfucker (male) grabeed my dick saying why did I have in my pocket.

Needless to say my morning wood became ash so I dont think so man

[The Green Trench Coat]

Is it really that important to make keep talking during the sex for most people? Naturally I'm VERY quiet. Just hang around me for 5 minutes and you can tell. Even when I'm with Rob I hardly ever speak or even make the first move.

^^ Depends on the person. I'm the type of person to get "excited" from just kissing. :lovin:

see in your situation.. where lets say i'm topping you and you are naturally quiet.. it's not that you have to say anything really .. but your hands pulling at me, body language giving me greenlights and then theres that look .. that moan.. Grrr...


*spurt* sorry i got that all over your shoe didn't I.

By boring quiet bottoms / tops I mean .. like they are doing it like they don't want there mom to hear them in the next room. I did a cub that was like that it was such a turn off. .. on the plus side it was such a turnoff that I lasted for almost an hour.. but I don't ever remember being as bored as i was during that sexual encounter.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I dont know about that dude, I once had an erection and some motherfucker (male) grabeed my dick saying why did I have in my pocket.

Needless to say my morning wood became ash so I dont think so man

yeah but look at the situation. you cant base your reaction on that encounter cause even if a girl did that you wouldn't stay hard..

okay so you have morning wood and Kim Kardashian grabs your dick and says exactly what that guy said and shocks you like that.. you are gonna loose your mojo cause of the shock.

So think of a guy that you say "He's a hot guy" if he and you were in a room together and he is like "c'mere and lemme give you a professional" and he starts slurpin on it. even if you start out hating it eventually he'll hit some spot that makes both of your inches hard.

[BeaTs*]

see in your situation.. where lets say i'm topping you and you are naturally quiet.. it's not that you have to say anything really .. but your hands pulling at me, body language giving me greenlights and then theres that look .. that moan.. Grrr...


*spurt* sorry i got that all over your shoe didn't I.

By boring quiet bottoms / tops I mean .. like they are doing it like they don't want there mom to hear them in the next room. I did a cub that was like that it was such a turn off. .. on the plus side it was such a turnoff that I lasted for almost an hour.. but I don't ever remember being as bored as i was during that sexual encounter.
yes

it's all about them looking/acting like they don't even want to be there, like it doesn't feel good, or like they don't want to bottom (or top)

I would imagine that if you bottom it's because you really enjoy it, and you would really enjoy it because it feels really good, and if it feels really good you would give some signs, looks, moans, etc...

I <3 to bottom, but seeing guys bottoming and they just lay there with that face (-_-).....uhh, no....

also, I wouldn't get turned on if a female starts playing with my happy spots...MAYBE if I didn't see she was a woman while something was happening, and I couldn't hear/smell/feel that she was a woman...maybe...if I felt a beard on her maybe even more

[Azagtoth]

I dont know about that dude, I once had an erection and some motherfucker (male) grabeed my dick saying why did I have in my pocket.

Needless to say my morning wood became ash so I dont think so man

Oh yes, because we all know having your dick grabbed is totally the same sensation as getting it sucked off. Totally comparable.

For the record, guys are far better at professionals on average than girls.

[The Green Trench Coat]

yes

it's all about them looking/acting like they don't even want to be there, like it doesn't feel good, or like they don't want to bottom (or top)

I would imagine that if you bottom it's because you really enjoy it, and you would really enjoy it because it feels really good, and if it feels really good you would give some signs, looks, moans, etc...

I <3 to bottom, but seeing guys bottoming and they just lay there with that face (-_-).....uhh, no....


Yes! i hate that cause if you didn't want to bottom tell me we can do something else! but if you got your ass in the air then expect some input.

also, I wouldn't get turned on if a female starts playing with my happy spots...MAYBE if I didn't see she was a woman while something was happening, and I couldn't hear/smell/feel that she was a woman...maybe...if I felt a beard on her maybe even more

unless that woman was maybe lobelia? hehehe.
Oh yes, because we all know having your dick grabbed is totally the same sensation as getting it sucked off. Totally comparable.

Dude that's how it's done. I wait till my bf is hard and then i grab it.. then i yell at it.
Am i doing something wrong?

[Azagtoth]

Dude that's how it's done. I wait till my bf is hard and then i grab it.. then i yell at it.
Am i doing something wrong?

YOU LIKE THIS, YES?!

[The Green Trench Coat]

YOU LIKE THIS, YES?!

Hahah I heard that in my head as the most spot on Grace Jones from Conan the barbarian Impression.

[Lobelia Prime]

unless that woman was maybe lobelia? hehehe.

I ain't gonna lie, I do get curious as to what sex with guy is like. I may or may not give a professional or two before I transition just to quench my thirst for knowledge and experience.

[iwst99]

I want Rob right here right now! :crybaby:


ORLY? *takes notes for Rob*



Yes, tell us Mechanica. How DID you lock yourself outside without your key? :[ (http://youtube.com/watch?v=ew1Nr5rHQn0)

The question is, how did he leave his house key inside, but he had his car key with him...why aren't they on the same keychain?

[iwst99]

yes

it's all about them looking/acting like they don't even want to be there, like it doesn't feel good, or like they don't want to bottom (or top)

I would imagine that if you bottom it's because you really enjoy it, and you would really enjoy it because it feels really good, and if it feels really good you would give some signs, looks, moans, etc...

I <3 to bottom, but seeing guys bottoming and they just lay there with that face (-_-).....uhh, no....

also, I wouldn't get turned on if a female starts playing with my happy spots...MAYBE if I didn't see she was a woman while something was happening, and I couldn't hear/smell/feel that she was a woman...maybe...if I felt a beard on her maybe even more

And don't get me started on people and lazy blow jobs. PUT SOME EFFORT INTO IT> Make it look like you want to be there and you like what you're doing...TRY to swallow some, don't just like the head and expect the other person to be satisfied...or don't expect to just lay there as the guy face fucks you.

I hate this, on both straight and gay porn...I can't stand bad blow jobs, especially on nice dicks....aghhhh. Putting it in ur mouth is not = a blow job.

[The Green Trench Coat]

And don't get me started on people and lazy blow jobs. PUT SOME EFFORT INTO IT> Make it look like you want to be there and you like what you're doing...TRY to swallow some, don't just like the head and expect the other person to be satisfied...or don't expect to just lay there as the guy face fucks you.

I hate this, on both straight and gay porn...I can't stand bad blow jobs, especially on nice dicks....aghhhh. Putting it in ur mouth is not = a blow job.


hehe.. guilty as charged. when i first started giving bj's I was the worst.. my 2nd boyfriend scott schooled me though and man thatwas like the greatest gift. I do this challenge with peoplethat tell me "I don't get off to bj's" I can make them spurt in less than 2 minutes. so far i havent lost that challenge ever.

but yeah I get pretty darn physical with someone if they try to give me a lazy bj. the last guy that just opened his mouth and thought that was gonna do it i took him to an alley way his back against the bricks and shoved it in there. I don't like dipping into the dom top bag but i do it every so often.

Worst than all of this though is bad kissers. if a guy cant kiss well.. I won't even waste my time .. regardless of how hot he is. This goes for guys that kiss with too much drool .. guys that do the dissappearing tounge thing .. (you know what i mean you french them and your tounge has to search for there tounge..) .. the guys that just open there mouth and stick there tounge out. Yuck learn how to kiss .. or at least ad mit to me that you cant kiss well so i can show you. Kissing is an art.. that alot of people gays and straight guys and girls.. cant do well.

[BeaTs*]

haha

yes, I LOVE blowing...but not for over a fucking hour...this is not an oral marathon, let's get to fucking. fuck that...fuck face fucking too, I hate that shit >:O

yes, I actually don't get off from bjs..iunno, doesn't do much for me.

I have no idea whether I'm a bad kisser or not...it really depends on how good the other guy is I s'pose.

[Lobelia Prime]

Well, we all know who the best kisser in the gay thread is.
You guys have all seen my delicious Angelina lips, haven't you?

[The Green Trench Coat]

haha

yes, I LOVE blowing...but not for over a fucking hour...this is not an oral marathon, let's get to fucking. fuck that...fuck face fucking too, I hate that shit >:O

yes, I actually don't get off from bjs..iunno, doesn't do much for me.

I have no idea whether I'm a bad kisser or not...it really depends on how good the other guy is I s'pose.

Do you have to wipe your mouth after you are done kissing someone? do they?

I could totally tell you are all about fucking.. What ever happened to giant penis guy and pics of his penis and your mouth.

[LightningStorm]

So if a beautiful looking women should start playing with ur dick and using her tougues to tease your bellend.

Will you get a erection in any way ?

Of course, sexual organs will be stimulated by any pleasing touch/fondling, even if by an ugly person of any sex.

On a less serious note... there ain't nothing beautiful about the woman if she's got multiple TONGUES! :wonder:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Of course, sexual organs will be stimulated by any pleasing touch/fondling, even if by an ugly person of any sex.

On a less serious note... there ain't nothing beautiful about the woman if she's got multiple TONGUES! :wonder:


hahaah I just noticed that.

[BeaTs*]

Do you have to wipe your mouth after you are done kissing someone? do they?

I could totally tell you are all about fucking.. What ever happened to giant penis guy and pics of his penis and your mouth.nope...

I'm not all about fucking, sometimes just making out while jacking off is nice :woot:

but I definately am not about hour-long oral marathons where I'm the only one doing the work. I LOVE giving oral, but that's rediculous.

I'm still having trouble with him...bah

I'm not about to upload his pics somewhere...and there are pics, with mouth attached, of me on my myspace >.>

I'll see about them pics though.

[Airex Hyuga]

Oh noes... queers. ;l

lol

[BeaTs*]

you have morrigan as an AV, you is definately queer

[djfaka]

nope...

I'm not all about fucking, sometimes just making out while jacking off is nice :woot:



Agreed, making out and J/O is nice and no hassle, but when its the only thing you do it just becomes routine and bland.

This is what is happening to me.... so I brought it up in conversation, of course my bf got all defensive because he's hypersensitive.

So this morning for the first time in over a month, he decides to come home and surprise me with some lovin'. Of course its 8am, and stupid me masturbated out of frustration at like 2am, but I was not about to pass up the rare opportunity when he actually starts things up.

It was a weird scenario though, he got into my favorite position and everything so he was really trying, but the combination of me just waking up and previous release made it difficult to man up. However, I managed. It was actually a nice intercourse session, but I am saying that based on the fact that we pretty much never have intercourse and I swear I've only gotten oral once (this is probably why we're breaking up).

THEN, I don't know what happened, I don't know if it was a preme or what, but I felt something weird but not like an orgasm and not like ejaculation. It caused me to make a face, and he asked what was wrong, and I told him I didnt know if I had finished or not (LIKE HOW DO YOU NOT KNOW?) and he sorta dismounted and went to go do whatever bottoms do after they dismount. Meanwhile I'm checking my penis for life and its there, and theres no visual sign of semen or anything.

Needless to say when he returned I assumed I hadn;t and we had a mutual J/O session, but that didn't bring about much juice I am thinking I had.

But that was some weird shit, never happened to me before... I used to have tired sex all the time at weird hours, sex before bed after being awake 30+ hours, sex after sleeping for a few hours, sex inbetween sleeping (that was actually fun) and never has that happened. I guess intercourse is not my friend anymore. :mad:

[BeaTs*]

oh, yes I would not be able to take just that...I need to get topped.

but it's still really nice, and of course not just making out, but rubbing and cuddling and stuff...still, it needs to be spiced up.

if you guys are breaking up, why are you doing that? or I don't get the situation...

lol, what do bottoms do after dismounting :confused: I don't do anything...maybe a little wipe with a towel but :confused:

and yeah, sorry but after hearing about your dick, you're gonna die. sorry dood

[The Green Trench Coat]

Meanwhile I'm checking my penis for life and its there, and theres no visual sign of semen or anything.

Needless to say when he returned I assumed I hadn;t and we had a mutual J/O session, but that didn't bring about much juice I am thinking I had.

But that was some weird shit, never happened to me before... I used to have tired sex all the time at weird hours, sex before bed after being awake 30+ hours, sex after sleeping for a few hours, sex inbetween sleeping (that was actually fun) and never has that happened. I guess intercourse is not my friend anymore. :mad:


yeah.. even if nothing comes out.. keep going. :lovin::wgrin:

[bear]

Dude that's how it's done. I wait till my bf is hard and then i grab it.. then i yell at it.
Am i doing something wrong?

Hahaha. No, man. You're supposed to punch it, then club him in the knee with a wrench.

[Æther]

Boy this thread has become 120% more sexual. lol
yeah.. even if nothing comes out.. keep going. :lovin::wgrin:

I think I've had that kind of experience before. So yeah, if it ever happens again just keep goin'! =D

[iwst99]

That happened with an ex before. I was bottoming, he was laying down and I was on top, so I had total control. While we were at it he was like WOW and said he had like an orgasm, but hadn't cum or anything, and he said it was exactly like an O, but he was able to keep going and eventually he came for real again. I don't know if it's like a multiple orgasm thing or what, but it does happen.

[BeaTs*]

god, I am so horned up...and wanting some...I have not had any "toppings" in a while...mainly because dealing with Adrian, and I have not been able to use my toys for other reasons...I am seriously considering going to the bathhouse right after work D:

I have been so inactive lately too, ugh, I need to get back. partly because I would spend time talking or whatever with Adrian, and he liked my body and didn't want me to lose weight...also partly because I'm so busy.

urgh....

[Æther]

Damn I need to get away from this thread fast. Rob's house being fixed and him going out to vacation is going to kill me. Quick, change the subject! DX

[iwst99]

Damn I need to get away from this thread fast. Rob's house being fixed and him going out to vacation is going to kill me. Quick, change the subject! DX

I found some naked NICK FROST PICS....


OMGOMGOMGOGMGOGM



















































Just kidding. :arazz:

[Æther]

*spurt* You bitch!

Edit: Imagine how epic it would be to find naked Nick Frost pics. The gay following would implode in it's own jizz. D:

[iwst99]

*spurt* You bitch!

Edit: Imagine how epic it would be to find naked Nick Frost pics. The gay following would implode in it's own jizz. D:

What if one of us was the only one that had them....would we share them, or keep them to ourselves cause of such a gold mine....or rent them out on an hourly basis for mad cash. :looney:

[Æther]

I'd share with all trusted people. Afterwards I'd go to the ghey bar and charge people to hold a printed pic for a minute. And if any liquid touches the paper it self destructs. Yesh!

[Mechanica]

1. You've got neighbors.
Yes, but they are A) freaks, B) half of them don't speak english, and most of all C) don't have any number but the main office number (WHICH IS CLOSED ON WEEKENDS, IF YOU DIDN'T READ THAT BEFORE). Notice the and, not or. They are all of the above.

Surely ONE of them had the number.
No, because it's a maintenance guy's PERSONAL CELL NUMBER. Because he had not returned the company's copy of my housekey, and still had it in his personal possession, since I didn't make that clear enough.


2. From the sound of the story you had a cell phone? Why was her number not stored in it? Related and not at the same time, why was your dad's number not stored in it?
Like I said, the phone died about 15 minutes after I confirmed I was locked out. I spent about 5 of them calling my friend who's house I was at, while he looked for my keys (which were not there). The other 10 were spent attempting to get a hold of my dad (to no avail).

3. Do you seriously have ZERO friends or family that would have put you up for the weekend?
The 3am saturday when I found out, I did try to go somewhere, but the reason I couldn't stay there pissed me off so much that I didn't want to even be around my only other person in the area, who may or may not have been home, in such a rotten mood. Plus, tbh, her couch is less comfortable than my car. My car I can at least stretch out in - sleeping on couches that are too short are the worst especially when you have back problems. I did find somewhere to stay on the Sunday afterwards.


But the whole story begs the question, How the hell did you lock yourself out to begin with and had keys to the car that were NOT with the keys to the apartment?
My keys were in my apartment, but I mistook having them in my pocket. I'm sorry that I'm the only fucking human being that does this ever, and that you guys have never forgotten anything. Ironically, not a day beforehand, the way my car keys are assembled is annoying because they have this clip where they come apart, one is the ignition key, one is the alarm... turn-er off-er--anyway, ironically that broke a day or two beforehand, so my house key was on it's own seperate ring, I just hadn't quite found another way to bind them together yet (I still can't think of a way until I buy some kinda new keyring lol).

ok so this might have bene answered already but I am not trawling through 224 pages to find the answer.

So if a beautiful looking women should start playing with ur dick and using her tougues to tease your bellend.

Will you get a erection in any way ?
It's a little annoying that you answer this question with a basic "ugh no that would be disgusting" in the opposite direction, and then expect the answer to be any different. I wouldn't even be naked or in my underwear around a chick like that, and I wouldn't let her get close enough to BE sucking on my dick. Think about it this way, you're changing in the locker room and some guy starts creeping over to you, inching his head nearer and nearer to your groin. WTF are you gonna do, lie back and smile? Right. Riiiight. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway, I don't think typical 'hot' chicks are very beautiful. I hate make-up, too... :angel:

Anyway, I'm glad I can't just vent about a problem in here and nobody gets on my case for being stupid. :razz: Love you guyyyys.

[DaDesiCanadian]

http://www.getfrank.co.nz/assets/images/_resampled/ResizedImage368450-Nick_Frost.jpg

[djfaka]

if you guys are breaking up, why are you doing that? or I don't get the situation...




It's a long fucking story, but to sum it up, I moved from sunny southern california to get away from iwst99 cuz he was bangin all my guys, okay, but seriously, I moved from socal to fucking frozen tundra central minnesota for this guy. Things were super good and he seemed like a guy I could spend a large portion of my life with.

HOWEVER, what we discussed before I decided to move was that when I did move we would discuss a location that the two of us would agree on to move to and start our lives there, because I think it is unfair to have one of us not really give up anything. He agreed that it was a good idea, and those were the conditions of the move so I moved.

Well shortly after arrival I started feeling unhappy. It was multiple things, the weather here sucks, I am in the middle of nowhere, I had no job and not a whole lot of cash, but there just isnt much life and definitely no street fighter. In addition, he wasn't making me feel like moving with him was the best decision I could have made (something that I suggested he do), but it was sorta cool because it was only supposed to be for a couple of months... well after spending about 3 weeks trying to get us to talk about moving, we finally did. However, there wasnt any excitement in his voice about it, and he definitely needed a big push to even talk about it (RED FLAGS ANYONE?) so I straight up asked him how he felt about it and he pretty much said he was unsure.

So with that major kick in the balls (remember I gave up just about everything) plus a ton of other things we had going on, I decided I need to be selfish again and look out for myself. Since my dad is paying for me to fly back to california in june for my graduation, I figured I'd just make it permanent. I told allen I was going to do that, and he really didnt try and stop me so thats pretty much sang songs to me.

So now we're all weird, its not that we dont love each other or anything like that he just is a bitch whos afraid of change, and wont give up anything. Interestingly enough, many people have thought it was cuz our living situation was bad, we actually cohabitate fairly well, but if he is like this now, shiiiiiit I would be in for a treat in the long run.

So thats why we're breaking up!

[The Green Trench Coat]

That happened with an ex before. I was bottoming, he was laying down and I was on top, so I had total control. While we were at it he was like WOW and said he had like an orgasm, but hadn't cum or anything, and he said it was exactly like an O, but he was able to keep going and eventually he came for real again. I don't know if it's like a multiple orgasm thing or what, but it does happen.


that's a little bit different. that happens to me alot actually where i'll feel like i'm gonna nut and nothing comes out so i just keep going about 10 to 15 minutes later though i get the only *spurt* When i'm topping my bf it comes in handy.

god, I am so horned up...and wanting some...I have not had any "toppings" in a while...mainly because dealing with Adrian, and I have not been able to use my toys for other reasons...I am seriously considering going to the bathhouse right after work D:

I have been so inactive lately too, ugh, I need to get back. partly because I would spend time talking or whatever with Adrian, and he liked my body and didn't want me to lose weight...also partly because I'm so busy.

urgh....

Your braver than me I couldnt do a bath house .. I'd be all worried about getting some new strain of some diesease or whatever. which i guess is illogical.. since you can get that in the comfort of your own home too... whatever .. be safe if you do :)

I found some naked NICK FROST PICS....


OMGOMGOMGOGMGOGM


Just kidding. :arazz:

What if one of us was the only one that had them....would we share them, or keep them to ourselves cause of such a gold mine....or rent them out on an hourly basis for mad cash. :looney:

Don't even play .. i just gave my self the only blue balls FUCK.

I'd totally share with all my frostitutes on here but everyone else has to pay.

[iwst99]

God, my supervisor is gay.

He like sat on my lap earlier today, and a little while ago he was complaining about his legs being itchy and he's been scratching, and even has scratch marks cause it itches so much, and I had some product for our job for dryness, and sprayed some on it. Then he was making sexual innuendos about me making him moist and dripping, infront of my other coworkers, but they're used to it lol. So he came back and I said you want more? But my coworkers weren't around at this point. And he said yeah and I sprayed more on it, and started rubbing what I had sprayed all over his legs with my hands, which I hadn't done before. Just rubbed his legs up and down. Even though he said it was only when leg, he put his leg I had done already away, and said, ok now do this one. So i sprayed that one too and rubbed the stuff with my hands all over his legs. But it's just like nonchalantly, neither of us acted like it was weird...haha, this nig is so gay, and he has wife and kids and stuff. We all just assume he is with the way he acts around me. :rofl: I get weirded out sometimes, but it's all in good fun. :P

[DaDesiCanadian]

It's all fun and games until there's ANAL PENETRATION.

[iwst99]

It's all fun and games until there's ANAL PENETRATION.

It's only gay if balls touch. If you can ANAL PENETRATION, but balls, DON'T touch, then it's not really gay.

[Azagtoth]

It's only gay if balls touch. If you can ANAL PENETRATION, but balls, DON'T touch, then it's not really gay.

What's the point if you can't go balls deep? :(

[Mechanica]

What's the point if you can't go balls deep? :(

You can go balls deep in doggy style!

[Pablo_the_Mex]

I moved from socal to fucking frozen tundra central minnesota for this guy.

FIRST MISTAKE.

[DaDesiCanadian]

You can go balls deep in doggy style!

Oh, always assumed that doggy was standard. Is missionary also quite normal? And more importantly, why am I asking questions to which I don't really want to know the answer?

[Mechanica]

Is missionary also quite normal?

Yep... maybe even more popular? I don't know.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

If you've trolled this thread long enough, you also know that pics are a must.

The queer eye will be pleased...

is that what that thing was about? i got confused when DeDesiCanadian replied to me to "Refer to post about eye plz." a few pages back, then i looked at it and didn't get it.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Oh, always assumed that doggy was standard. Is missionary also quite normal? And more importantly, why am I asking questions to which I don't really want to know the answer?

hmm.....

[BlodiaVulcan5]

so I saw the commercial to "What Happens in Vegas..." and I recognize this one guy but i never knew his name, i've always found him very attractive: His trademark beard is awesome, he's built in my taste range, he's handsome, hilarious and goofy, has a supporting role in it. So go I to imdb.com to look up his name, only to find out that that his character's name is ... appropriately awesome.

http://www.imdb.com/media/rm2791020032/nm0302108

"DAVE THE BEAR." No joke, go look it up, it's there. Why do i find this awesome? Because Zach Galifianakis (http://media.collegepublisher.com/media/paper957/stills/431bb89770831-41-1.jpg / http://benkharakh.com/files/zachgalifianakis.jpg / http://i.realone.com/assets/rn/img/8/9/5/1/16591598-16591602-slarge.jpg / http://cache.viewimages.com/xc/72615968.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=17A4AD9FDB9CF193875DCB1DD8387ABBE1AACE8A8F448648 A40A659CEC4C8CB6 / http://thatotherpaper.com/files/brianposehn03.jpg ) is my kind of bear-type and the name is perfect.

Anyway, i thought i'd share the find.

[Airex Hyuga]

you have morrigan as an AV, you is definately queer

Wow! Good job sherlock. :o Just not as big as most homos.

Morrigan is just hot. Regardless of what orientation.

EDIT: Question: What is the thread normally about? Just anything gay in general or meeting up with other mo's? :O

[Lobelia Prime]

Wow! Good job sherlock. :o Just not as big as most homos.

Morrigan is just hot. Regardless of what orientation.

I've gotten off to her.

[ramberk]

so I saw the commercial to "What Happens in Vegas..." and I recognize this one guy but i never knew his name, i've always found him very attractive: His trademark beard is awesome, he's built in my taste range, he's handsome, hilarious and goofy, has a supporting role in it. So go I to imdb.com to look up his name, only to find out that that his character's name is ... appropriately awesome.

http://www.imdb.com/media/rm2791020032/nm0302108

"DAVE THE BEAR." No joke, go look it up, it's there. Why do i find this awesome? Because Zach Galifianakis (http://media.collegepublisher.com/media/paper957/stills/431bb89770831-41-1.jpg / http://benkharakh.com/files/zachgalifianakis.jpg / http://i.realone.com/assets/rn/img/8/9/5/1/16591598-16591602-slarge.jpg / http://cache.viewimages.com/xc/72615968.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=17A4AD9FDB9CF193875DCB1DD8387ABBE1AACE8A8F448648 A40A659CEC4C8CB6 / http://thatotherpaper.com/files/brianposehn03.jpg ) is my kind of bear-type and the name is perfect.

Anyway, i thought i'd share the find.

:tup: I think he may even play a gay character in that movie.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Wow! Good job sherlock. :o Just not as big as most homos.

Morrigan is just hot. Regardless of what orientation.

EDIT: Question: What is the thread normally about? Just anything gay in general or meeting up with other mo's? :O

This thread is solely for meeting up for giant gay weekly orgies. Nothing else.

[BeaTs*]

This thread is solely for meeting up for giant gay weekly orgies. Nothing else.
well we do have some marvel tourneys after :]

ugh, Adrian is really pushing me...but it should all work out in the end...I hope :wasted:

[iwst99]

well we do have some marvel tourneys after :]

ugh, Adrian is really pushing me...but it should all work out in the end...I hope :wasted:

Details baby.


LOLOLOL...i so, i told y'all about my supervisor and stuff. My boss, this straight outta china 38yo conservative guy, that can barely speak english, has really no idea about what we do and how we joke around.

We had to work 14 hours today, so we went to dat tony roma's on company expense. Even though we weren't sitting together and had a coworker between us, we managed to keep it awkward. Sexual inuendo's all around, that everyone but my chinese boss really understood. My coworkers were like, dude, you guys need to get a room in the marriott, some strawberries, light some candles and get it over with. We just laugh cause they always say that, but we kinda just do it for the lolz. I forgot why but my supervisor put his hand on my coworker's chair that was between us, and he said something weird and innuendo, so I went over and just put my hand on his. And neither of us did anything, then I just slowly put it away as everyone was loling, and I was like awwwkkward. My boss was like ?????? Then everyone's like yeah, get a room. I said, what??? He sat on my lap earlier today, and then he wanted his changed from lunch and reached in my pants pocket and moved his hand around for about 15 seconds to "find" it, even though that's all I had in my pocket, his change....me holding his hand is nothing compared to that shit.

They couldn't stop laughing, and my boss seemed like wtf? but he didn't understand half the shit we were saying, which made it hilarious. :D Anyways....that nigga's gay lol.

[The Damned]

This thread is solely for meeting up for giant gay weekly orgies. Nothing else.

Pretty much. Reminds me why I eventually unsubscribed.

And yet I'm back with questions (now that SRK if finally back up after being "closed for an hour" for six hours).

Please enlighten if so possible (provided I actually remember the questions).


I found the full version of this song (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdJgNsBKQO8) at random when I was looking for one of his other songs. I'm not sure if he's well-known, but he has the whole "fags are gay" joke in that particular song. I was wondering if anyone knew where that supposedly spawned from or if it just seems obvious, since at least Mechanica and iwst have said it with some frequency.
The other question comes at my surprise upon feeling out a sheet for medical purposes earlier today. When I go down to the orientation box, I noticed that it had quite an unusual amount of spaces instead of the usual 3 or 4. Among the choices were both "gay" and "queer", which greatly confused me (though not applicable to me at this point in time) since they're pretty much the same thing nowadays unless you go by the original definitions of "happy" and "odd", respectively. What IS the difference between "gay" and "queer"?

[ramberk]

My rough understanding of queer is to simply mean "different" or "none of the above." People who identify as queer simply don't feel they fit into any of the prescribed categories of gay, straight, bisexual or lesbian. Their sexuality doesn't completely fall into those categories and the way they view themselves (man, woman, trans, etc.) may not fall neatly into any categories either. You might think, that guy is gay because he has a boyfriend but the guy might see himself as queer because of other factors in his identity. Maybe the guy is questioning his gender. Maybe the guy is attracted to men but only wants friendship. Maybe the guy is asexual. Maybe the guy feels that his mind and his soul are those of a woman but he is proud and happy to have a man's body. Maybe he just thinks the gay label doesn't fit who he is as a person because of political or social reasons.

Lastly, someone who calls themselves queer may simply be saying "I'm different, don't make assumptions about who I am." You can have a girl that is "butch" and hanging out a lesbian bar one day but the next day she's "femmy" and flirty with boys at the beach. She prefers romantic relationships with women but she feels comfortable being fluid with her identity.

[iwst99]

Pretty much. Reminds me why I eventually unsubscribed.

And yet I'm back with questions (now that SRK if finally back up after being "closed for an hour" for six hours).

Please enlighten if so possible (provided I actually remember the questions).


I found the full version of this song (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdJgNsBKQO8) at random when I was looking for one of his other songs. I'm not sure if he's well-known, but he has the whole "fags are gay" joke in that particular song. I was wondering if anyone knew where that supposedly spawned from or if it just seems obvious, since at least Mechanica and iwst have said it with some frequency.
The other question comes at my surprise upon feeling out a sheet for medical purposes earlier today. When I go down to the orientation box, I noticed that it had quite an unusual amount of spaces instead of the usual 3 or 4. Among the choices were both "gay" and "queer", which greatly confused me (though not applicable to me at this point in time) since they're pretty much the same thing nowadays unless you go by the original definitions of "happy" and "odd", respectively. What IS the difference between "gay" and "queer"?



Nigga you gay.


Hope that helps.

I'm outi

Iwst99th

[The Damned]

My rough understanding of queer is to simply mean "different" or "none of the above."

*circumcised*

I would have thought that, but all potential things you mentioned were also listed. I will recreate the options to the best of my recollection:


Heterosexual (I'm pretty sure it wasn't "Straight")
Gay (not "Homosexual" for some reason)
Bisexual (May have just been "Bi")
Fluid
Questioning
Queer
Other
Decline to answer (the one I selected)


I think I may have missed one, though I am positive that the whole gender issue was a separate issue.

So, yeah, I still don't know what the hell it would mean since all the other things you suggested (which I also thought through) were already other answers.

Stupid California. :looney:

Hope that helps.

I'm outi

Iwst99th

Then hope not.

[Airex Hyuga]

This thread is solely for meeting up for giant gay weekly orgies. Nothing else.

Ah! I see. :sweat:

[The Green Trench Coat]

so I saw the commercial to "What Happens in Vegas..." and I recognize this one guy but i never knew his name, i've always found him very attractive: His trademark beard is awesome, he's built in my taste range, he's handsome, hilarious and goofy, has a supporting role in it. So go I to imdb.com to look up his name, only to find out that that his character's name is ... appropriately awesome.

http://www.imdb.com/media/rm2791020032/nm0302108

"DAVE THE BEAR." No joke, go look it up, it's there. Why do i find this awesome? Because Zach Galifianakis (http://media.collegepublisher.com/media/paper957/stills/431bb89770831-41-1.jpg / http://benkharakh.com/files/zachgalifianakis.jpg / http://i.realone.com/assets/rn/img/8/9/5/1/16591598-16591602-slarge.jpg / http://cache.viewimages.com/xc/72615968.jpg?v=1&c=ViewImages&k=2&d=17A4AD9FDB9CF193875DCB1DD8387ABBE1AACE8A8F448648 A40A659CEC4C8CB6 / http://thatotherpaper.com/files/brianposehn03.jpg ) is my kind of bear-type and the name is perfect.

Anyway, i thought i'd share the find. that's fiona apples current or ex boyfriend.. I'll link the video he's in with her.. yes he's very sexy

edit: here it is http://youtube.com/watch?v=krTE0AJkqj4

Wow! Good job sherlock. :o Just not as big as most homos.

Morrigan is just hot. Regardless of what orientation.

EDIT: Question: What is the thread normally about? Just anything gay in general or meeting up with other mo's? :O
just about the goings on sometimes sexual sometimes not.

I would have thought that, but all potential things you mentioned were also listed. I will recreate the options to the best of my recollection:


Heterosexual (I'm pretty sure it wasn't "Straight")
Gay (not "Homosexual" for some reason)
Bisexual (May have just been "Bi")
Fluid
Questioning
Queer
Other
Decline to answer (the one I selected)


I think I may have missed one, though I am positive that the whole gender issue was a separate issue.

So, yeah, I still don't know what the hell it would mean since all the other things you suggested (which I also thought through) were already other answers.

Stupid California. :looney:



Then hope not.

I've missed you.

[The Green Trench Coat]

hey azagtoth Sofabeast is comming for a few weeks to stay with us.. he's comming up for the chub party here's the flyer we came up with

http://i26.tinypic.com/4g3wr7.jpg
http://i26.tinypic.com/aondb7.jpg

[Æther]

And now where's the rest of them? :lovin: :looney:

[Penance]

This thread is gayer than manfaye claims to not be. then again i have ash crimson as my avatar and would bed anyone who could cosplay him so i guess i am too.

[The Green Trench Coat]

This thread is gayer than manfaye claims to not be. then again i have ash crimson as my avatar and would bed anyone who could cosplay him so i guess i am too.

then i guess congratulations .. and welcome?

[Æther]

Ash is a guy?! AND Samus is a girl?! :loco:

[ramberk]

I would have thought that, but all potential things you mentioned were also listed. I will recreate the options to the best of my recollection:


Heterosexual (I'm pretty sure it wasn't "Straight")
Gay (not "Homosexual" for some reason)
Bisexual (May have just been "Bi")
Fluid
Questioning
Queer
Other
Decline to answer (the one I selected)


I think I may have missed one, though I am positive that the whole gender issue was a separate issue.

So, yeah, I still don't know what the hell it would mean since all the other things you suggested (which I also thought through) were already other answers.

Stupid California. :looney:


I think queer is broader then any of those categories and basically means "different", "none of the above" and "please don't label me and make assumptions." If someone labels themselve queer I simply won't assume anything about them. But that's all I'll say about the subject.

[ramberk]

This thread is gayer than manfaye claims to not be. then again i have ash crimson as my avatar and would bed anyone who could cosplay him so i guess i am too.

I regularly cosplay as HK Remy (blue jeans and black shirt or hoodie, it's not that hard). I don't paint an "omega" symbol on the front of my clothes though. :rofl:

[Lobelia Prime]

Ash is a guy?! AND Samus is a girl?! :loco:

I KNOW RIGHT? ZOMG METROID IS A GIRL

[Azagtoth]

hey azagtoth Sofabeast is comming for a few weeks to stay with us.. he's comming up for the chub party here's the flyer we came up with

http://i26.tinypic.com/4g3wr7.jpg
http://i26.tinypic.com/aondb7.jpg

Dude is the man. His pics are deadly.

[djfaka]

Dude is the man. His pics are deadly.

2nd that notion.

[DaDesiCanadian]

So how do Bears view Sumo Wrestling?

[Khaotika!]

Fags. :x ^-^

[The Green Trench Coat]

Fags. :x ^-^

*N-groove activate*
*SUPER ATOMIC BEARHUGGGSS!!!!!*

[ramberk]

Fags. :x ^-^

Tiger, Tiger, Tiger, Tiger, Tiger, Tiger, TIGER UP YER BUTT!

[The Damned]

I've missed you.

I don't see how.

I think queer is broader then any of those categories and basically means "different", "none of the above" and "please don't label me and make assumptions." If someone labels themselve queer I simply won't assume anything about them. But that's all I'll say about the subject.

I still don't see how that would apply when "Other" and "Decline to Answer" take care of all of those choices.

Oh fuck it. I guess I'll just have to see if I can google something and hope that it's a)useful, b) not Wikipedia and c)not pornographic.

Here goes.

(In the meanwhile, no one attempted to answer the other question. I guess I'll look for that, too. Stupid phrase origins....)

[Æther]

So today was a pleasant surprise. I was at work when one of our managers asks if one of us wanted to go home early (there were too many employees logged in at the moment, I guess) so I decided to go. It was 6:45 PM and I was allowed to leave at 7 PM. So who calls my cell just a minute after I make the decision to leave? My teddy bear :lovin:

Apparently he had just gotten himself a newish Nissan Exterra yesterday and just happened to be in the area. I tell him I leave at 7, he asks if I wanna go and I'm like "HELLZ YEAH!".

On a side mini story some cops were passing by as I waited for Rob to pick me up. Apparently I looked "suspicious" while having my work shirt and visor folded together. I gave them my state ID and they went ahead with their business. :confused:

Anyways...For the most part me, Rob and one of his friends went around town at random places and then to FIU where his friend needed to pick up something from campus...Which left me and Rob some time to cuddle. :lovin:

Afterwards we grab somethin to eat and get a call from Rob's sister asking to be picked up after work. Rob's friend is tired and we leave her at her place on our way to his sister's work. I guess we got there real early since she was doing somethin with her register...Which left me and Rob even MORE time to cuddle. :lovin: :lovin:

So after a while, and no sign of his sis, me and Rob just talk about random things (life, crap, work, etc.) when he tells me about his trip to Cali and that, at first, it was meant to be a visit to some guy he was talking to a while back. Turns out that Rob told the guy that if he were going to be visiting him (the guy in Cali) that nothing funny was going to be happen since he's in a closed relationship with me.

Rob is the most heart warming and loyal guy I have ever been with. AND that our relationship isn't JUST about sex! I just love him so much right now. :bgrin: :tup: :lovin: :looney: :lovin:
So how do Bears view Sumo Wrestling?
I'm technically a cub but they still look cute. :D

Edit: WTF? Khaotika! Instant Transmissioning into this thread like Goku and acting all chill. D:

[goukipoo]

My rough understanding of queer is to simply mean "different" or "none of the above." People who identify as queer simply don't feel they fit into any of the prescribed categories of gay, straight, bisexual or lesbian. Their sexuality doesn't completely fall into those categories and the way they view themselves (man, woman, trans, etc.) may not fall neatly into any categories either. You might think, that guy is gay because he has a boyfriend but the guy might see himself as queer because of other factors in his identity. Maybe the guy is questioning his gender. Maybe the guy is attracted to men but only wants friendship. Maybe the guy is asexual. Maybe the guy feels that his mind and his soul are those of a woman but he is proud and happy to have a man's body. Maybe he just thinks the gay label doesn't fit who he is as a person because of political or social reasons.

Lastly, someone who calls themselves queer may simply be saying "I'm different, don't make assumptions about who I am." You can have a girl that is "butch" and hanging out a lesbian bar one day but the next day she's "femmy" and flirty with boys at the beach. She prefers romantic relationships with women but she feels comfortable being fluid with her identity.

I use the term Queer to describe myself. I used to say Bi, but that implies there are only 2 sexes or genders. I'm attracted to the person, regardless of sex or gender. So i feel that Queer best describes that.

[Lobelia Prime]

I use the term Queer to describe myself. I used to say Bi, but that implies there are only 2 sexes or genders. I'm attracted to the person, regardless of sex or gender. So i feel that Queer best describes that.

That's also called pansexuality, fyi.

[ramberk]

I still don't see how that would apply when "Other" and "Decline to Answer" take care of all of those choices.


The reason those options aren't a good way to describe a queer person is because of the things they leave out. When you say my sexuality is "other" what exactly does that mean? That's the most vague answer you can give. "Decline to Answer" doesn't give any information either.

The definition and the meaning of the word queer are both important. Wikipedia defined queer pretty well. Their definition of queer is "a sexual orientation and/or gender identity or gender expression that does not conform to heteronormative society." Think about why people would call themselves queer and not gay or lesbian or straight. They choose that word because they don't neatly fit into any category. They choose the word "queer" over "other" or "decline to answer" because the word "queer" is empowering. Using the word queer without shame takes away the power it has to attack or shame people as it had in the past. And that's why its used instead of some other vague set of words.

[ramberk]

double post.

p.s. you all smell.

p.p.s. lolly lesbos (http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080430/ap_on_re_eu/greece_lesbian_pride)

[Penance]

Ash is a guy?! AND Samus is a girl?! :loco:

Ash isn't just any guy....he's Ash.

and when i hear pansexual i always think of a Trunks x Pan parring, then i imagin some guy dressed as trunks chasing down Pan cosplayers at the completely make belive loli-con, then i realize i'm a complete geek and so is anyone who get's all those refrences. then i ponder...is there a Loli-Con? and if so who would really go? that's like saying HEY PIG, ARREST ME!

sorry, my mind wanders.
ramberk your p.p.s. was comedy gold.

[The Damned]

Think about why people would call themselves queer and not gay or lesbian or straight.

That would be difficult as I, along with I'm sure most other people, was under the impression that "queer" was the same thing as "gay", especially since "queer" is used as an almost synonymous epithet as "f-ag(got)" against (and solely against) gay men.

I mean, I somewhat get what you're trying to say, but you've honestly confused me more now for two reasons.

The first reason is that what you and..."goukipoo"--was it?--say that "queer" is basically about loving people (I guess). So wouldn't that be covered by "fluid" or at least wouldn't it be clear to put "pansexuality" like Lobelia put it?

The second reason is the usual "facepalm" reaction I have when people talk about "rebellious" words or labels like it's not some type of horrible Catch-22 that exists because the universe is a gigantic asshole. If "queer" is such a radical sexuality, then why the hell even have a word to (attempt to) define it? It seems kind of self-defeating.

Then again, I've never gotten the whole "gay pride" or any other type of "pride" thing, really.

Human sexuality is so fucking stupid, I swear....

[Azagtoth]

Then again, I've never gotten the whole "gay pride" or any other type of "pride" thing, really.

It's a much more attractive prospect than living in shame over it or being afraid to embrace it. There's not much to get, even if you're not familiar with the idea. :looney:

[The Green Trench Coat]

I don't see how.



You don't have to.

I actually enjoy your literary cadences. I've the feeling that you are not as wendnesday adams as some would assume.

that said.. I missed you.

[Penance]

Hey wendnesday adams was hott. so was morticia. the original, not the one from the movies.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Hey wendnesday adams was hott. so was morticia. the original, not the one from the movies.

Are you some how implying that angelica houston is not hott?

she's not the sexiest but I love her work.



I feel so numb today.



This weekend i'm headed to Beartrek .. a bear event i'm not really looking forward to. It's a lot of locals the event is only an hour away so it's like going to the local bear bar and then sleeping there. Which i guess when you think about it .. is kinda how it is at most bear events.. but these are locals. Locals seem to bring all there local drama with them and I'm so not down for that shit.

But it was intresting to find out that My bf and I have a reputation of "don't fuck with them they will kill you" based on this loud mouth who gossips about everyone apparently some guy asked him "whats' the deal with those two?" and my friend over heard the gossip say "I hear they are both tops... also they are streetfighters they fight in tournaments and stuf so don't start with them they'll probably kill you"

Oh bear community.. you are so naive.. but I'll take that as +rep

[Lobelia Prime]

GTC: Angelica Huston has fueled masturbation sessions for me. I would fuck her senseless.

[iwst99]

GTC: Angelica Huston has fueled masturbation sessions for me. I would fuck her senseless.

:-\ .

[Æther]

But it was intresting to find out that My bf and I have a reputation of "don't fuck with them they will kill you" based on this loud mouth who gossips about everyone apparently some guy asked him "whats' the deal with those two?" and my friend over heard the gossip say "I hear they are both tops... also they are streetfighters they fight in tournaments and stuf so don't start with them they'll probably kill you"
Brings new meaning to rush down...and beasting...and OCV.

[ramberk]

That would be difficult as I, along with I'm sure most other people, was under the impression that "queer" was the same thing as "gay", especially since "queer" is used as an almost synonymous epithet as "f-ag(got)" against (and solely against) gay men.

I mean, I somewhat get what you're trying to say, but you've honestly confused me more now for two reasons.

The first reason is that what you and..."goukipoo"--was it?--say that "queer" is basically about loving people (I guess). So wouldn't that be covered by "fluid" or at least wouldn't it be clear to put "pansexuality" like Lobelia put it?

The second reason is the usual "facepalm" reaction I have when people talk about "rebellious" words or labels like it's not some type of horrible Catch-22 that exists because the universe is a gigantic asshole. If "queer" is such a radical sexuality, then why the hell even have a word to (attempt to) define it? It seems kind of self-defeating.

Then again, I've never gotten the whole "gay pride" or any other type of "pride" thing, really.

Human sexuality is so fucking stupid, I swear....

A lot of people do get confused by the word queer and a lot of people often think its just another name for gay. I thought that too. The word doesn't define people as neatly as gay, lesbian or straight but it's not suppose to do that. People are complex and a lot of people don't want to be "defined" by "simple" labels such as gay or lesbian. They also may not want to use other words such as fluid or pansexual because either those words really can't describe how they view themselves or they prefer the label queer for other reasons.

You can view queer as meaning "I'm different and a single word won't clearly explain how I'm different but I'm not ashamed of being different." Your not supposed to know "exactly what that person is" when they say they are queer. That's frustrating for some people because people like to have exact answer to their questions. People like clearly defined labels. People don't like ambiguity. But unless the queer person feels like sitting down and telling you exactly why they view themselves as different, your really not gonna know what it means to be queer for them.

Lastly, queer does get used as an insult but that's the whole point of people taking ownership of the word. If people readily call themselves queer, then it can't be used as an insult because the shame in the word is gone.

[Lobelia Prime]

:-\ .

Sorry to put that in this thread. Every now and again I have to make a post that's just lez-tastic, such as:
Mmmm....older women....they have experience.
Ain't my fault that thirty-five is too young for me.

[ramberk]

Sorry to put that in this thread. Every now and again I have to make a post that's just lez-tastic, such as:
Mmmm....older women....they have experience.
Ain't my fault that thirty-five is too young for me.

I don't know how old Angelica Huston was when she was in the Addam's movies but she did look good in them.

Then you have women like Demi Moore who look hella good when they're a trillion years old. I'm always surprised by how old Hollywood people are cause they always look younger then their age. It shouldn't be surprising cause of surgery and botox but I still get shocked.

BTW, has anyone listened to Madonna's new album? Any good? How does it compare to Mimi's?

[Lobelia Prime]

The hottest older woman ever is Elizabeth Hurley.
She's in her forties and looks like the next Audrey Hepburn (also hot back in the day).
But why are we talking about women in this fucking thread? This is a MANLY THREAD!!!! MANLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Penance]

Are you some how implying that angelica houston is not hott?

she's not the sexiest but I love her work.

she's alright i suppose. Faruzia Balk is hotter. yeah i said it! watch The Craft, American History X or The Waterboy. she's a vixen and i'd happily submit to her every whim.

[The Green Trench Coat]

GTC: Angelica Huston has fueled masturbation sessions for me. I would fuck her senseless.

fuck her.. with your vagina? I don't understand.



*bearhugs* I'm teasing.

[Adam Warlock]

The hottest older woman is Pam Grier. EOD.

[The Green Trench Coat]

The hottest older woman is Pam Grier. EOD.

THE TRUTH!

I once had this dream once that pam grier had me tied up in her basement and she strapped on and fucked the hell out of me.

it was weird and hot. all at the same time.

also there was a miniature girraffe tied up next to me. but that's all i remember.

[iwst99]

I hate all of you :(

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b105/iwst99/Les.png

[Lobelia Prime]

fuck her.. with your vagina? I don't understand.



*bearhugs* I'm teasing.

I was thinking tongue and finger, but yeah.
Btw, you, like Azagtoth, owe me a nice big bearhug when I show up at EVO.

[Azagtoth]

Btw, you, like Azagtoth, owe me a nice big bearhug when I show up at EVO.

We could do it all at once.

And Rob gives HELLA bear hugs, so you're in for it.

[goukipoo]

I hate all of you :(

http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b105/iwst99/Les.png

This reminded me to disable adblock on SRK.

[Lobelia Prime]

We could do it all at once.

And Rob gives HELLA bear hugs, so you're in for it.

I dunno if you want such a soft, thin, feminine middle in your bear sandwich. I'm six foot one and weigh 154 pounds.

[Penance]

that just reminds me of a few weeks ago. i bear hugged my friend zac and his girlfriend picking them both up at the same time. then they both got on my back and rode me around the room. suprisingly there was nothing sexual about it.

[The Green Trench Coat]

We could do it all at once.

And Rob gives HELLA bear hugs, so you're in for it.

hehehe.. it is one of my super arts..

Love hugs. Nothing feels better than a good squeeze sometimes.

[Adam Warlock]

hehehe.. it is one of my super arts..

Love hugs. Nothing feels better than a good squeeze sometimes.

Dude got that Guyass BREAKER! *scoop*

[Azagtoth]

hehehe.. it is one of my super arts..

Love hugs. Nothing feels better than a good squeeze sometimes.

I saw the Hot Fuzz "special" scenes at a friend's house on a huge screen and instantly thought of you before Nick Frost's package rendered me incapable of rational thought.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I saw the Hot Fuzz "special" scenes at a friend's house on a huge screen and instantly thought of you before Nick Frost's package rendered me incapable of rational thought.

dude.. everytime i watch that clip (and it's very often) I'm mesmerized by his package. those balls must be so hairy and amazing i'm drooling already thinking about what they'd taste like.

Yeah i'm totally with you.

that video does it to me but these 2 have been my spurt material as of late:

http://youtube.com/watch?v=jBh5D8-3UGA
http://youtube.com/watch?v=u6dlIrMxRhU (it's the kiss tha gets me there.. and then at 1:08 i always imagine that's the just come over here and suck it look he'd give me)

damn you az.. now i gotta rub one out in the restroom again.


fuck .. and then there is these.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_LFPHuw7yqk&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxlZD3oEfsU&NR=1 "whip out my fat hose" *SPURRT*

[Penance]

I saw the Hot Fuzz "special" scenes at a friend's house on a huge screen and instantly thought of you before Nick Frost's package rendered me incapable of rational thought.

woah woah, where was that? i own the dvd and have gone through all the specials but i'm sure i would have remembered seeing nick frosts balls.

[iwst99]

woah woah, where was that? i own the dvd and have gone through all the specials but i'm sure i would have remembered seeing nick frosts balls.

It's where they're doing the interview in a room for hours and they get bored and start messing around. You don't see his balls, but you do see them bounce around when he strips around in his underwear...YUM.

[The Green Trench Coat]

woah woah, where was that? i own the dvd and have gone through all the specials but i'm sure i would have remembered seeing nick frosts balls.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tqkxuTqIVxk

[Adam Warlock]

....and I have been officially broken of my habit of clicking links prior to reading.

[Septimus Prime]

You guys aren't posting dick vids in here, right? 'Cause, uh...that'd fall under the porn rule or something. :confused:

No, I'm not going to check the links myself, so I'll take your word for it. :wasted:

[Adam Warlock]

You guys aren't posting dick vids in here, right? 'Cause, uh...that'd fall under the porn rule or something. :confused:

No, I'm not going to check the links myself, so I'll take your word for it. :wasted:

No, but I did get an invite to one of their parties. I thought it would be all, you know, gay and stuff, but it turns out the party is for making lemons or something. A little weird I guess, but it seems like it could be fun.

[iwst99]

You guys aren't posting dick vids in here, right? 'Cause, uh...that'd fall under the porn rule or something. :confused:

No, I'm not going to check the links myself, so I'll take your word for it. :wasted:

There's only one way to find out.

CLick away.

[The Green Trench Coat]

You guys aren't posting dick vids in here, right? 'Cause, uh...that'd fall under the porn rule or something. :confused:

No, I'm not going to check the links myself, so I'll take your word for it. :wasted:

we know the rules lord prime. :wgrin:

no dick pics.. hey wait .. you can tell that much because the links are all to youtube. and you cant put dick pics on youtube.


but go ahead.. indulge your self.. join us seppy.. join uss.. come to the gay side
*5 seconds later*
SP: What a weird post .. hey why am i dressed in a leather vest and chaps.. oh nomo!!

[BeaTs*]

no dick pics.. hey wait .. you can tell that much because the links are all to youtube. and you cant put dick pics on youtube.
well actually....besides the porn I've seen on youtube...there are "medical" (and non-medical)videos containing dicks. and several "rectal examinations"...by the same poster.

people are posting "this is porn!" and others are like "no, this is science!!!" :rofl:why the guy posted 5 different videos for a rectal examination, I don't know...

[Septimus Prime]

we know the rules lord prime. :wgrin:

no dick pics.. hey wait .. you can tell that much because the links are all to youtube. and you cant put dick pics on youtube.


but go ahead.. indulge your self.. join us seppy.. join uss.. come to the gay side
*5 seconds later*
SP: What a weird post .. hey why am i dressed in a leather vest and chaps.. oh nomo!!
As fed up with women as I am, I almost wish that were possible. Alas, no. It's not for me.

[iwst99]

As fed up with women as I am, I almost wish that were possible. Alas, no. It's not for me.

I just realized that if you take away the P's in your user name, that's an anagram that turns into "See Us Rim Tim". Who the fuck is tim? And why are you rimming him? And why should we watch? Is he hot?

Homo.

[The Damned]

I actually enjoy your literary cadences. I've the feeling that you are not as wendnesday adams as some would assume.

Wednesday Adams as in pedophilia inducing? Or Wednesday Adams as in creepy?

I'm guessing that it's the latter since I don't have a rack.

It's a much more attractive prospect than living in shame over it or being afraid to embrace it. There's not much to get, even if you're not familiar with the idea. :looney:

I can get the whole not being "ashamed" thing, but actual pride (like, you know, hubris) just seems like the other extreme.

But then again, humans fail when trying to find a "healthy medium" and all that bullshit.

Hey wendnesday adams was hott. so was morticia. the original, not the one from the movies.

Such blasphemy.

You can view queer as meaning "I'm different and a single word won't clearly explain how I'm different but I'm not ashamed of being different."

...What.

I guess that we're just going to have agree to disagree (especially on that "word reclamation" thing) since I still don't see the point of having a label that you seem to say is solely a label for saying "don't label me". :looney:

Thank you though for actually trying to answer the question unlike the others.

You guys aren't posting dick vids in here, right? 'Cause, uh...that'd fall under the porn rule or something. :confused:

No, I'm not going to check the links myself, so I'll take your word for it. :wasted:

It's just the video of Nick Frost and Simon Pegg (and a friend/the director?) stripping down to their underwear as they do boring interviews over an intercomm.

It's been posted in here before.

Stop being such a pussy. :razz:

[Septimus Prime]

I just realized that if you take away the P's in your user name, that's an anagram that turns into "See Us Rim Tim". Who the fuck is tim? And why are you rimming him? And why should we watch? Is he hot?

Homo.
But with the P's, it's an anagram for "Trim Pussee Imp." Those P's are deliberate, son.

[Æther]

As fed up with women as I am, I almost wish that were possible. Alas, no. It's not for me.

Are you sure? We got brochures! http://pzrservices.typepad.com/vintageadvertising/images/2007/03/24/307014384_aa56dfa125_b.jpg

[ramberk]

Lol at ad, but what if he wants a gaybottom?

[bear]

I can get the whole not being "ashamed" thing, but actual pride (like, you know, hubris) just seems like the other extreme.

But then again, humans fail when trying to find a "healthy medium" and all that bullshit.

I'm with you on this. But I have a particular rule about the general concept: if it was something out of my control, then it's nothing for me to take pride in. This includes where I was born, my race, my gender, the way I look, my eye color, and so forth. I might be happy that some of these things worked out the way they did, but I can't take pride in them. They had nothing to do with me. They were not my doing. But on the flip side, I also feel that these things are absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Again, they are not of my doing.

And with nearly everything, it's the middle ground that makes the most sense to me. Nearly everything boils down to moderation, I think. Even things vital to life, when overdone, will kill you. Too much oxygen, too much water, or not enough of either, can snuff you out. An extreme example, but it seems to work across the board.

But this is just my take on these things. A personal code. I certainly don't expect it of anyone else, and I don't resent anyone their pride in anything. I just don't often share it. But hey, I don't really celebrate most holidays (I actually find Valentine's Day offensive ... hahaha), and I far prefer traditions that I've developed with friends and family over universal traditions. So whatever works, I guess.

[Azagtoth]

Rob, dammit, if I chafe, it's your fault.

But with the P's, it's an anagram for "Trim Pussee Imp." Those P's are deliberate, son.

:rofl:

Random question: you've been playing MGO, right?

[ramberk]

...What.

I guess that we're just going to have agree to disagree (especially on that "word reclamation" thing) since I still don't see the point of having a label that you seem to say is solely a label for saying "don't label me". :looney:

It's not a "don't label me" label. Even you recognized that queer meant "not straight" but were unsure what else it meant or if there existed any differences between queer and gay.

Plenty of words get reclaimed all the time. Some folks take pride in being called a nerd, geek, dork, n****r, etc. Taking pride in this context doesn't necessarily mean hubris either. It's a lack of shame for something that once was viewed shameful. That's why its called gay pride and not gay hubris. There's plenty of snobby gays out there but their attitudes are totally unrelated to gay pride, lol.

[Septimus Prime]

Rob, dammit, if I chafe, it's your fault.



:rofl:

Random question: you've been playing MGO, right?
Yeah, I've been playing. We even have an SRK clan called "SRK: The Clan" if you're interested in joining us. :tup:

[Azagtoth]

Yeah, I've been playing. We even have an SRK clan called "SRK: The Clan" if you're interested in joining us. :tup:

Word? I'll hit that up when I'm on later. =D

[The Damned]

Are you sure? We got brochures! http://pzrservices.typepad.com/vintageadvertising/images/2007/03/24/307014384_aa56dfa125_b.jpg

...I'm confused.

How can a surface be gay even in the original context of the word?

*looks at dictionary*

Hmm...I wasn't aware that it meant "bright" as well.

Anyway, the guy looks like a probable serial killer.

I'm with you on this.

*non-comedic stuff for once*

I completely agree with that.

It's not a "don't label me" label. Even you recognized that queer meant "not straight" but were unsure what else it meant or if there existed any differences between queer and gay.

I don't really see what that has to do with anything. Queer not meaning "straight" neither really defines anything nor does it exclude it from thus simply being a pseudo-label that is supposed to stress (but seemingly fails at) "don't label and judge me just because I'm not 'straight'".

But, hey, this still seems to be centering around where you and I differ, so....

Plenty of words get reclaimed all the time. Some folks take pride in being called a nerd, geek, dork, n****r, etc. Taking pride in this context doesn't necessarily mean hubris either. It's a lack of shame for something that once was viewed shameful. That's why its called gay pride and not gay hubris. There's plenty of snobby gays out there but their attitudes are totally unrelated to gay pride, lol.

Again, I don't think that ****** will ever be reclaimed. Maybe gay and faggot and queer, but only because those words had non-insulting meanings to begin with. Most racial words, like ******, never did (outside of, course, chink) and thus they cannot.

Just because group of people who share characteristics to who it is supposed to offend say it a lot doesn't equal reclamation. I'm not sure what does, but I'm sure that if such reclamation is actually possible, then it's difficult and it is something that is going to have to be accepted by the majority, not just a minority of people who are usually ignorant, annoying, and/or still otherwise portraying/creating the stereotypes attached to the word, i.e. swishy sluts, completely bearded mandykes, most rappers, etc.

As for my use of "hubris", I think that bear put it more eloquently. For me, "pride" is never merely a passive thing and I believe that there is some middle ground between most ends of things. Thus, for me, shame is one end of the "pride spectrum" while "pride"/"hubris" itself. In the middle would something be I think we would be most akin to humble contentment.

I mean, why the hell would you be proud of something you can't choose? It's retarded.

I mean, you could be proud of skills attached to that possibly (which in this case would be more applicable due to this being a preference that involves another rather just being an Asian or a Hispanic or what have you), but that's as far as I can see it reasonably extending before it just makes me :rolleyes:.

So until Gay Pride turns into "Cocksucking Pride", I will continue to not understand why people would do as anything other than a rebellious reaction (in a city where it is frankly not needed).

[Azagtoth]

I mean, why the hell would you be proud of something you can't choose? It's retarded.

Yeah. Why be proud to be who you are, inside and out, flaws and otherwise? That would just be retarded. :rolleyes:

[The Damned]

Yeah. Why be proud of who you are, inside and out, flaws and otherwise? That would just be retarded. :rolleyes:

Whoa, you're so glad that you finally agree me with that your eyes are rolling back in your head?

You might want to cut down on the Viagra, champ.

[DaDesiCanadian]

This thread isn't fun anymore. :(

[Azagtoth]

Whoa, you're so glad that you finally agree me with that your eyes are rolling back in your head?

You might want to cut down on the Viagra, champ.

Oh you.

[Mechanica]

The Damned is such a debbie downer...

[iwst99]

...I'm confused.

How can a surface be gay even in the original context of the word?

*looks at dictionary*

Hmm...I wasn't aware that it meant "bright" as well.

Anyway, the guy looks like a probable serial killer.



I completely agree with that.



I don't really see what that has to do with anything. Queer not meaning "straight" neither really defines anything nor does it exclude it from thus simply being a pseudo-label that is supposed to stress (but seemingly fails at) "don't label and judge me just because I'm not 'straight'".

But, hey, this still seems to be centering around where you and I differ, so....



Again, I don't think that ****** will ever be reclaimed. Maybe gay and faggot and queer, but only because those words had non-insulting meanings to begin with. Most racial words, like ******, never did (outside of, course, chink) and thus they cannot.

Just because group of people who share characteristics to who it is supposed to offend say it a lot doesn't equal reclamation. I'm not sure what does, but I'm sure that if such reclamation is actually possible, then it's difficult and it is something that is going to have to be accepted by the majority, not just a minority of people who are usually ignorant, annoying, and/or still otherwise portraying/creating the stereotypes attached to the word, i.e. swishy sluts, completely bearded mandykes, most rappers, etc.

As for my use of "hubris", I think that bear put it more eloquently. For me, "pride" is never merely a passive thing and I believe that there is some middle ground between most ends of things. Thus, for me, shame is one end of the "pride spectrum" while "pride"/"hubris" itself. In the middle would something be I think we would be most akin to humble contentment.

I mean, why the hell would you be proud of something you can't choose? It's retarded.

I mean, you could be proud of skills attached to that possibly (which in this case would be more applicable due to this being a preference that involves another rather just being an Asian or a Hispanic or what have you), but that's as far as I can see it reasonably extending before it just makes me :rolleyes:.

So until Gay Pride turns into "Cocksucking Pride", I will continue to not understand why people would do as anything other than a rebellious reaction (in a city where it is frankly not needed).

NARUTO PRIDE!!!!!!!!!!! I support your disgusting lifestyle.








Anyways, believe it or not this thread is back to normal... yay!

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[ramberk]

I don't really see what that has to do with anything. Queer not meaning "straight" neither really defines anything nor does it exclude it from thus simply being a pseudo-label that is supposed to stress (but seemingly fails at) "don't label and judge me just because I'm not 'straight'".

But, hey, this still seems to be centering around where you and I differ, so....

You understand that it means "not straight". The next thing you need to understand is that it means, "I don't fit neatly into any category." That's it. That's all you need to understand.

If you think that it fails as a label because it's not defined well enough then you must absolutely get frustrated when someone says they are handicapped or gifted or athletic or handy or even black. People use these simple labels as a shorthand way of communicating because the alternative would be to give a long explanation.

I mean, have you looked at forms and what do you see in the category for race? You see a whole big list of broad categories (Asian, Black, Hispanic, etc...) If it helps, think of queer as a big catch-all category that excludes straight, gay, lesbian and bisexual.


Just because group of people who share characteristics to who it is supposed to offend say it a lot doesn't equal reclamation. I'm not sure what does, but I'm sure that if such reclamation is actually possible, then it's difficult and it is something that is going to have to be accepted by the majority, not just a minority of people who are usually ignorant, annoying, and/or still otherwise portraying/creating the stereotypes attached to the word, i.e. swishy sluts, completely bearded mandykes, most rappers, etc.

Yes you can reclaim the word. Saying gay, queer, lesbian or homosexual used to be worse then saying fuck or shit for a very, very, very long time. Now, its no longer scary to use those terms. And now, those words are no longer used as insults (in some parts of the country). Society is changing and society did not change because gay people were quiet and patient. Society changed because they saw that gay people were comfortable with themselves and were not going to put up with getting insulted.


As for my use of "hubris", I think that bear put it more eloquently. For me, "pride" is never merely a passive thing and I believe that there is some middle ground between most ends of things. Thus, for me, shame is one end of the "pride spectrum" while "pride"/"hubris" itself. In the middle would something be I think we would be most akin to humble contentment.

Humble contentment? What does that mean? Humble does not equal lack of shame. Humble means you are not arrogant. In the context of the "pride" movement, pride means lack of shame and a celebration of your identity.


I mean, why the hell would you be proud of something you can't choose? It's retarded.

No, what's retarded is getting attacked for your skin color, your religion, you weight, your height, your ethnicity or your sexual orientation. When your getting attacked for these innate qualities, the only thing you can really do is demonstrate that your not ashamed for having these qualities. That your proud of them.

I mean, you could be proud of skills attached to that possibly (which in this case would be more applicable due to this being a preference that involves another rather just being an Asian or a Hispanic or what have you), but that's as far as I can see it reasonably extending before it just makes me :rolleyes:.

So until Gay Pride turns into "Cocksucking Pride", I will continue to not understand why people would do as anything other than a rebellious reaction (in a city where it is frankly not needed).

So basically, in your eyes, all that gay people ever do is "suck cock"? That's what they're known for, that's their special skill, and that's what they should march and proclaim about. I mean honestly, was that a joke or were you serious? If your a homophobe, why not just say I hate homosexuals and I think all they do is suck cocks. If your a making a joke, then your a god awful comedian. So which one is it? Was it an insult or a joke? If it was a joke, did you think we'd find it funny?

[The Damned]

NARUTO PRIDE!!!!!!!!!!! I support your disgusting lifestyle.

Nah. Naruto is too disgusting for me to be "proud" of reading.

It's easily the trashiest thing I read and I just have to stop that. Thankfully, Kishimoto is making it really easy for me, but that's neither here nor there.

(Also, will people stop wasting space in their own thread by quoting entire posts? How do you guys not find that annoying?)

You understand that it means "not straight". The next thing you need to understand is that it means, "I don't fit neatly into any category." That's it. That's all you need to understand.

And yet I still can't understand because why can't you just say you that you fit into a category and be done with it without making a label that still categories you in some way even if it's just a catch-all.

It's more of a Catch-22 really.

If you think that it fails as a label because it's not defined well enough then you must absolutely get frustrated when someone says they are handicapped or gifted or athletic or handy or even black. People use these simple labels as a shorthand way of communicating because the alternative would be to give a long explanation.

Half of those are horrible examples because either they're obvious (like say someone is in a wheelchair or has higher melanin count than you) or people will explain anyway (while bragging how "gifted" or "talented" or "athletic" or "handy" they are). And for me, pretty much all of those are par for the course and not something I would care about anyway.

The only reason I find "queer" curious is because it seems to be a category that doesn't want to be categorized and I keep finding your posts more and more circular. :looney:

I mean, have you looked at forms and what do you see in the category for race? You see a whole big list of broad categories (Asian, Black, Hispanic, etc...) If it helps, think of queer as a big catch-all category that excludes straight, gay, lesbian and bisexual.

It really doesn't, but that's partly been explained already and partly because I think a lot of questions on forms are rather useless anyway.

(I very rarely check "Black/African American" unless I'm being extremely lazy that day.)

Yes you can reclaim the word. Saying gay, queer, lesbian or homosexual used to be worse then saying fuck or shit for a very, very, very long time. Now, its no longer scary to use those terms. And now, those words are no longer used as insults (in some parts of the country). Society is changing and society did not change because gay people were quiet and patient. Society changed because they saw that gay people were comfortable with themselves and were not going to put up with getting insulted.

You're still missing the point I was trying to make about your example, not word reclamation in general. (Although for the record, I don't think that word reclamation can ever "really" work because someone can ALWAYS use it hatefully.)

Pretty much all the simple insulting words concerning sexuality are legitimate words in other context while most racial ones, like ****** which you compared them to, are not. Even when gay and queer and lesbian and homosexual were feared as you say, they still had legitimate, non-automatically insulting meanings--they were merely mentioned with a hatred most of the time.

This is unlike racial insults, where you cannot separate the hatred (outside of the aforementioned exception of "chink").

So I really don't even see why you tried to bring up ****** of all things, besides it being such a "hot topic" and then had the audacity to attempt to compare it to much tamer words like geek and nerd and dork alongside simple stuff like "gay".

Really now.

Humble contentment? What does that mean? Humble does not equal lack of shame. Humble means you are not arrogant. In the context of the "pride" movement, pride means lack of shame and a celebration of your identity.

How does humble not mean a lack of shame?

It may not be "loud" like pride, but for the most part, I would take humility over pride when it came to realistic self-assessments.

As for the contentment part, it would be akin to pride's supposed message of "who gives a damn" without pride's need to be all in your face about it.

I guess it would be most akin to "confidence", but I'm sure you're going to read into my use of confidence.

No, what's retarded is getting attacked for your skin color, your religion, you weight, your height, your ethnicity or your sexual orientation. When your getting attacked for these innate qualities, the only thing you can really do is demonstrate that your not ashamed for having these qualities. That your proud of them.

Right, because being proud of qualities stops people from percieving them as bad things.

I'm sure glad that Gay Pride Parades have stopped all gay bashing and homophoba in the U.S! Would we would have done without them?!


So basically, in your eyes, all that gay people ever do is "suck cock"? That's what they're known for, that's their special skill, and that's what they should march and proclaim about. I mean honestly, was that a joke or were you serious? If your a homophobe, why not just say I hate homosexuals and I think all they do is suck cocks. If your a making a joke, then your a god awful comedian. So which one is it? Was it an insult or a joke? If it was a joke, did you think we'd find it funny?

I was neither making a joke nor insult. You can perceive it however you like; I don't really give a damn.

However, it's clear you're already offended.

You're so damned sensitive.

Anyway, I was merely stating that cocksucking was a skill, like all sex is a skill, and I would find that as more of a valid parade since the gay people that practice it (along with other, sexual practices that you have to work at, since that's all being gay defines about a person: their sexuality) actually had to work at it and can be proud of that rather than simply being (born) gay.

Otherwise, I'm beginning to understand why a lot of people think gay people choose to be gay, even if I still think that opinion's relatively idiotic given the circumstances and consequences, if gay pride is about just being gay, which isn't anything you've worked at all.

So, no, I don't think that all gay people suck the cock--lebsians, duh, among other gay people that are celibates or whatever--and only the cock and whatever else you're egregiously reading into, but I think that it's one of the few things that actually define gay people since, you know, gay people kinda of like to have sex with their own sex and being gay is only determined by sexuality (unless you want to start going into stereotypes, which I'm sure I could intentionally make much, much more offensive than you somehow found that).


Just drop it please. I've asked you nicely like twice before you started to go all "Call me Queen!" on me.

Now remember why I left this thread beyond the seeming hedonism at times.

[iwst99]

Nah. Naruto is too disgusting for me to be "proud" of reading.

It's easily the trashiest thing I read and I just have to stop that. Thankfully, Kishimoto is making it really easy for me, but that's neither here nor there.

(Also, will people stop wasting space in their own thread by quoting entire posts? How do you guys not find that annoying?)



And yet I still can't understand because why can't you just say you that you fit into a category and be done with it without making a label that still categories you in some way even if it's just a catch-all.

It's more of a Catch-22 really.



Half of those are horrible examples because either they're obvious (like say someone is in a wheelchair or has higher melanin count than you) or people will explain anyway (while bragging how "gifted" or "talented" or "athletic" or "handy" they are). And for me, pretty much all of those are par for the course and not something I would care about anyway.

The only reason I find "queer" curious is because it seems to be a category that doesn't want to be categorized and I keep finding your posts more and more circular. :looney:



It really doesn't, but that's partly been explained already and partly because I think a lot of questions on forms are rather useless anyway.

(I very rarely check "Black/African American" unless I'm being extremely lazy that day.)



You're still missing the point I was trying to make about your example, not word reclamation in general. (Although for the record, I don't think that word reclamation can ever "really" work because someone can ALWAYS use it hatefully.)

Pretty much all the simple insulting words concerning sexuality are legitimate words in other context while most racial ones, like ****** which you compared them to, are not. Even when gay and queer and lesbian and homosexual were feared as you say, they still had legitimate, non-automatically insulting meanings--they were merely mentioned with a hatred most of the time.

This is unlike racial insults, where you cannot separate the hatred (outside of the aforementioned exception of "chink").

So I really don't even see why you tried to bring up ****** of all things, besides it being such a "hot topic" and then had the audacity to attempt to compare it to much tamer words like geek and nerd and dork alongside simple stuff like "gay".

Really now.



How does humble not mean a lack of shame?

It may not be "loud" like pride, but for the most part, I would take humility over pride when it came to realistic self-assessments.

As for the contentment part, it would be akin to pride's supposed message of "who gives a damn" without pride's need to be all in your face about it.

I guess it would be most akin to "confidence", but I'm sure you're going to read into my use of confidence.



Right, because being proud of qualities stops people from percieving them as bad things.

I'm sure glad that Gay Pride Parades have stopped all gay bashing and homophoba in the U.S! Would we would have done without them?!




I was neither making a joke nor insult. You can perceive it however you like; I don't really give a damn.

However, it's clear you're already offended.

You're so damned sensitive.

Anyway, I was merely stating that cocksucking was a skill, like all sex is a skill, and I would find that as more of a valid parade since the gay people that practice it (along with other, sexual practices that you have to work at, since that's all being gay defines about a person: their sexuality) actually had to work at it and can be proud of that rather than simply being (born) gay.

Otherwise, I'm beginning to understand why a lot of people think gay people choose to be gay, even if I still think that opinion's relatively idiotic given the circumstances and consequences, if gay pride is about just being gay, which isn't anything you've worked at all.

So, no, I don't think that all gay people suck the cock--lebsians, duh, among other gay people that are celibates or whatever--and only the cock and whatever else you're egregiously reading into, but I think that it's one of the few things that actually define gay people since, you know, gay people kinda of like to have sex with their own sex and being gay is only determined by sexuality (unless you want to start going into stereotypes, which I'm sure I could intentionally make much, much more offensive than you somehow found that).


Just drop it please. I've asked you nicely like twice before you started to go all "Call me Queen!" on me.

Now remember why I left this thread beyond the seeming hedonism at times.


(Also, will people stop wasting space in their own thread by quoting entire posts? How do you guys not find that annoying?)

I know, people are soooooooooo wasteful.

[iwst99]

Nick Frost
:hitit:

[bear]

Again, I don't think that ****** will ever be reclaimed. Maybe gay and faggot and queer, but only because those words had non-insulting meanings to begin with. Most racial words, like ******, never did (outside of, course, chink) and thus they cannot.

Just because group of people who share characteristics to who it is supposed to offend say it a lot doesn't equal reclamation. I'm not sure what does, but I'm sure that if such reclamation is actually possible, then it's difficult and it is something that is going to have to be accepted by the majority, not just a minority of people who are usually ignorant, annoying, and/or still otherwise portraying/creating the stereotypes attached to the word, i.e. swishy sluts, completely bearded mandykes, most rappers, etc.

As for my use of "hubris", I think that bear put it more eloquently. For me, "pride" is never merely a passive thing and I believe that there is some middle ground between most ends of things. Thus, for me, shame is one end of the "pride spectrum" while "pride"/"hubris" itself. In the middle would something be I think we would be most akin to humble contentment.

I mean, why the hell would you be proud of something you can't choose? It's retarded.

I mean, you could be proud of skills attached to that possibly (which in this case would be more applicable due to this being a preference that involves another rather just being an Asian or a Hispanic or what have you), but that's as far as I can see it reasonably extending before it just makes me :rolleyes:.

So until Gay Pride turns into "Cocksucking Pride", I will continue to not understand why people would do as anything other than a rebellious reaction (in a city where it is frankly not needed).

With the word "queer", I think it's used because some people find it more comfortable than the other tags. Because the definition, as we can see even from just this thread, is pretty open to interpretation. Gay, Bisexual, Lesbian ... those seem more concrete. Fluid might mean the same thing as queer, but I could understand not wanting to use that word to describe yourself. It sounds pretty lame. "I consider myself to be fluid." Well, congratulations. I consider myself to be a gas, and sometimes a plasma.

For myself, I've always recieved the word "queer" as another word for "odd", but specifically in relation to someone's personality. Which is perhaps an old-fashioned definition. But when I hear a phrase like, "That boy is queer," I always interpret that as not quite fitting in with whatever that particular society deems normal. But not in a rebellious way. Just that their natural disposition sets them apart. Or that fitting in with others isn't even an issue with them, like it's not even on their radar. But now that I'm thinking of it, I don't know if it's the kind of word I'd see someone describing themselves as. More a word for an outward observation.

Anyway, labels are labels. They're nearly always inadequate, but they're unavoidable. I mean, even claiming "I have no label" is still labeling yourself. It's like trying to say you have no beliefs. Which anyone could simply counter with, "Well, do you believe that?" There's no real way around it. So I guess I just see all those vague options like "queer" and "fluid" as ones that have come up often enough that someone felt the need to include them on a list. "Other" does just as well, if vague is your route. But again, whatever works for you, or whatever label your the most comfortable wearing ... well, go ahead and wear it.

And I'll admit that I'm kinda funny about the whole concept of pride. But it's one of those things I've thought over a lot, and came to certain conclusions about. So I make distinctions. The simplest explanation is this: I am not proud of who I am, but I am sometimes proud of what I do. Now, this does not mean because I am not proud of who I am, that I am ashamed of who I am. It isn't all or nothing. I'm happy to be who I am, but it's not something I take pride in. I take pride in my work, in my relationships, in my decisions. But only if I feel I did my best and had good intentions. And even then, I'm reluctant to take pride in much of anything. I feel more comfortable saying "I'm content with my work" than saying "I am proud of my work." But that might just be a hangup on my part. Still kinda figuring that bit out.

But for another angle ... I am not proud that I have brown hair. I might take pride in how I style my hair, or in my willingness to keep it clean and nice looking (this is an odd example, as I most buzz my head and forget about it), but those things are directly my choices and my actions. Simply having the brown hair was not. So at most I could say that I am happy to have brown hair; it's a nice color, and I like it. Anything beyond that feels like claiming credit for something I had nothing to do with. And maybe that's the root of this. Pride strikes me as something active. Hence the common phrasing that you take pride in something. Whereas contentment seems passive: you simply recognize it, then decide how you feel on the matter, realize that you are cool with it, or maybe you even find you like it, and that's it. So if it isn't something I made happen, or had some part or say in, taking pride in it seems almost like stealing to me. Again, this is just my personal take on it. But I figure that's why I don't often use the word "pride" in relation to myself.

Or maybe not. Who knows? I'm just kinda "typing out loud" here. I'm sick at the moment, so I've got nothing better to do than poke around on the internet with tissues stuck up my nose. Sinus pressure is really fucking obnoxious. I think my right eye might explode at any minute.

Anywho, in the case of gay pride, it makes total sense to me on a social level. I don't feel like a person's sexuality is anything to be ashamed of, and if people choose to show their lack of shame publicly, or flamboyantly, or whatever, more power to them. And I think people are naturally communal, so it makes sense that they'd find fulfillment and camaraderie in an event like a pride. Even in a city where it is no longer rebellious. I don't think you have to be fighting anything, or changing anyone's minds, to have a public get together and enjoy yourself.

[Green]

WTF did iwst just quote?

[Azagtoth]

And yet I still can't understand because why can't you just say you that you fit into a category and be done with it without making a label that still categories you in some way even if it's just a catch-all.

It's more of a Catch-22 really.

Sexuality really isn't that black and white, though. Yeah, using that label entirely for the sake of nonconformity is retarded, but what can you do?

The only reason I find "queer" curious is because it seems to be a category that doesn't want to be categorized and I keep finding your posts more and more circular. :looney:

How do you get "doesn't want to be categorized" from "is difficult to accurately describe in one term," anyway? It's vague, yes, but if that's a genuine concern (which it's definitely not), there should just be a write in part for it rather than multiple choice anyway. Done deal.

You're still missing the point I was trying to make about your example, not word reclamation in general. (Although for the record, I don't think that word reclamation can ever "really" work because someone can ALWAYS use it hatefully.)

Pretty much all the simple insulting words concerning sexuality are legitimate words in other context while most racial ones, like ****** which you compared them to, are not.

They (at least most of the ones involving blacks) came from American Southern slang that is no longer used in these times (you don't hear people use the terms pickaninny or jiggaboo much anymore, and no one is in a rush to reclaim them), but then again a lot happens to a word when you remove the R and change the E to an A, apparently. Some of them are barely even racist (Jap and Spic could easily just be shorthand for Japanese and Hispanic, but they're racist terms not necessarily in origin but in the context they're most well known for).

Also, (splitting hairs for fun here) a rather obvious etymological approach suggests that ****** is almost directly derived from the Spanish word for "black" (I would hope that frijoles negros is a legitimate enough term in another context), so it pretty much just underwent a minor transformation to become what it is, and then underwent another transformation into the more colloquial "nigga.

As you know, faggot was a legitimate word, but it's essentially inseparable from it's more popular, hateful meaning now because the original meaning in a colloquial context is almost obsolete, and thus, that argument isn't exactly sound.

So I really don't even see why you tried to bring up ****** of all things, besides it being such a "hot topic" and then had the audacity to attempt to compare it to much tamer words like geek and nerd and dork alongside simple stuff like "gay".

Really now.

Just because it isn't precisely similar as far as scale goes, doesn't mean it's a bad example, really. You're reading too much into it, it's still the same idea.

How does humble not mean a lack of shame?

Ever heard the phrase "eat a humble pie?" Doesn't sounds so similar to contentment, methinks.

As for the contentment part, it would be akin to pride's supposed message of "who gives a damn" without pride's need to be all in your face about it.

The entire reason it exists is because people STILL give a damn. If there wasn't so much negativity about it, there would be no reason for it, much like specific race based pride parades and other such things like Black history month (which, in practice, is the same damn thing even if they go about it in a different, and IMO much more convincing, way). The majority of the US still thinks us lower than them, you know.

Right, because being proud of qualities stops people from percieving them as bad things.

I'm sure glad that Gay Pride Parades have stopped all gay bashing and homophoba in the U.S! Would we would have done without them?!

It's not that simple. People don't change their ingrown views on an entire group people overnight. Civil Rights issues like racism and sexism are all STILL issues, even after DECADES of successful Civil Rights movements. Gay pride parades and the like are but a single instrument in this goal, but they're far from the only one, and it's a fair bit more effective than expecting people to pretend it doesn't matter.

I was neither making a joke nor insult. You can perceive it however you like; I don't really give a damn.

However, it's clear you're already offended.

You're so damned sensitive.

Regardless of any malice you may or may not have, internet or not if you word things like an asshole, you'll be viewed treated as such. You must not have much in the way of social skills if such a truth eludes you so easily, seeing as "cocksucker" is still a rather insulting word (in the context you used it in) and doesn't imply a skill at all (you don't have to be good at it to do it, as evidenced by straight porn).

Anyway, I was merely stating that cocksucking was a skill, like all sex is a skill, and I would find that as more of a valid parade since the gay people that practice it (along with other, sexual practices that you have to work at, since that's all being gay defines about a person: their sexuality) actually had to work at it and can be proud of that rather than simply being (born) gay.

I guess black history month from now on should focus on how well black people are able to run, since it's a skill that they work torwards, as opposed to not being ashamed of an inherent trait because of rampant stereotypes and centuries of hatred, oh no. Makes a fuckload of sense to me.

Now remember why I left this thread beyond the seeming hedonism at times.

And yet you're back, asking questions and debating the answers that aren't to your liking with horrendously verbose and over-analytical banter, despite the fact that this thread is no longer an ask tell thread and none of us are even obligated to answer your question at all. If you're not happy with your answer, oh well. Simply Google it, and then if it pleases you, you'll never have to set foot in this thread and associate with these charlatans again.

[ramberk]

Now remember why I left this thread beyond the seeming hedonism at times.

You have an ultra simplistic view of the world. You have a negative reaction when people point out a difference in your view of the world. You refuse to accept ideas that are not your own but you insist on pushing your ideas on things that don't belong to you. You are incapable of holding a conversation without insulting an entire group of people and individuals.

[Penance]

It's where they're doing the interview in a room for hours and they get bored and start messing around. You don't see his balls, but you do see them bounce around when he strips around in his underwear...YUM.

oh yeah. ^^ i remember now. best interview ever. and now....RANDOM LYRICS! that arn't so random if you think about it. "how do you look at the world, is it cold, is your glass, half empty, or is it half full?"

[severin]

oh yeah. ^^ i remember now. best interview ever. and now....RANDOM LYRICS! that arn't so random if you think about it. "how do you look at the world, is it cold, is your glass, half empty, or is it half full?"

To quote Gary Larson: "I ordered a goddamn Cheeseburger"

[DaDesiCanadian]

I think what we need to do here is to draw Azagtoths attention away from the annoying arguments.

HERE IS A VIDEO OF NICK FROST IN UNDERWEAR:: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsEyCLQXxmA

[bear]

WTF did iwst just quote?

A black hole.

[iwst99]

WTF did iwst just quote?

Get to the middle of the quotation box.....

Then read what I put under the quotes...makes sense to me.

[The Damned]

You have an ultra simplistic view of the world. You have a negative reaction when people point out a difference in your view of the world. You refuse to accept ideas that are not your own but you insist on pushing your ideas on things that don't belong to you. You are incapable of holding a conversation without insulting an entire group of people and individuals.

I know this is supposed to be an "enlightening insult", but that kind of describes most people, so of course you've just leveled me and put me in traction. You would need to be more specific if I actually still gave a shit at this point.

And "things that don't belong to you" is hilarious.

I actually :rofl: in real life.

P.S. Given that you still seem to care, you're using "simplistic" incorrectly.

I guess black history month from now on should focus on how well black people are able to run, since it's a skill that they work torwards, as opposed to not being ashamed of an inherent trait because of rampant stereotypes and centuries of hatred, oh no. Makes a fuckload of sense to me.

Might as well be. Not like anyone really gives a fuck about "Black History Month" or any themed month for that matter.

I mean, really.

"Oh, it's February. Let's be proud that we can yet again get the shortest month of the year to make some meaningless statements that only people who already support us will listen to."

Woo fucking hoo.

Anyway, you're right about the lack of obligation to answering. I guess I was just trying to avoid the rampant porn and/or useless sources that I get from Google--good old search engines. However, this hasn't even been a conservation and it should have died long ago but people insist on picking it up.

So, whatever. I guess I'll just have to look up things when I have the energy, as rare as that is.

In the meanwhile, I won't make the mistake of bothering you guys again since nothing good ever comes of it and no useful knowledge is ever gleaned.

[Penance]

To quote Gary Larson: "I ordered a goddamn Cheeseburger"

i have no clue who that is but i wan't nachos instead of a cheesburger and a strawberry shake, and onion rings, and jalapino poppers, and curly fries, and chili cheese tots.....i always crave what i can't afford. hmm, i should oprobably get back on topic and say something gay.

Remy and Ash are the hottest cross continuity Yaoi couple EVER!

[Azagtoth]

-snip-

There's no actual porn in this thread, but ok.

I think what we need to do here is to draw Azagtoths attention away from the annoying arguments.

HERE IS A VIDEO OF NICK FROST IN UNDERWEAR:: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsEyCLQXxmA

Not clicking this. No chafing for me, no sir.

[severin]

i should oprobably get back on topic and say something gay. jalapino poppers
Apparently, your subconscious made it gay for you.

In slightly unrelated news.

Sev + Basic Shoop Skills + Boredom = Slightly Modified Queer Eye (http://img180.imageshack.us/img180/9168/theeyedq6.jpg)

[iwst99]

God, this thread has gone to garbage. Even me breaking it wasn't enough to get it back on track. :'''(

More pics, less political shit, and more pics.