Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[The Green Trench Coat]

Or some of this (http://img98.imageshack.us/img98/174/onepointcroppedvq3.jpg)... occasionally...


those guys have really really cool hair.

and i think that I'm the only bear that posts in here. well with few exceptions.
and theres only like 4 black gays that ever post in here
other than that:
azagtoth is a cub for chubs
Blodia is a cub
Lightning storm is sexual chocolate
Drumliner joe is a cub that suffers from a very sensual learning disability called sexlexia
AW is gay for pay
and quiche.. as wendy would say.."how u doin"

maybe the chub and bear lovers and the transgenders are the most vocal but we are a pretty diverse bunch.

[koogy]

I'm not a bear. However, I occasionally indulge in my furry desires...

bingo-o-o

Okayokay I'll find/make pics today, such pushy bears. ;-; I need hair advice from everyone anyway. :( Maybe when I get home from work!~

[Penance]

*sense.

Yes, I posted just to correct that.

Yes, I am a Grammar Nazi douchebag.


it's cool, truth be told i had just come off a KOF: MI2 and bong rip binge. so typos were bound to happen.


let's go fishing! *hangs out a picture of a certin blonde bbw to see just who will bite*

i feel evil today. too much orochi clone pwnage.

[Mechanica]

only gay the village...
:rofl: yes


other than that:

what about me what about me


so anyway now I'm out of a job, and I got to start my first day of liberation in wayne's bed! :pleased: good start, goood start.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Jamie aka Saphri aka The Worst Human Being In The Universe was SRK's original tranny.

[Lobelia Prime]

Jamie aka Saphri aka The Worst Human Being In The Universe was SRK's original tranny.

Do me a favor and ease up on the insults. She happens to be one of my best friends, and she's helping me transition.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Do me a favor and ease up on the insults. She happens to be one of my best friends, and she's helping me transition.

No? Jamie is fucking terrible/annoying.

[Lobelia Prime]

No? Jamie is fucking terrible/annoying.

You don't know her.
Stop acting like you do.
I'm not going to ask you again. I've tried being nice, dude.

[Gumbercules]

Wow dude you better really stop

[Lobelia Prime]

Wow dude you better really stop

I'm saying, he's intentionally trying to piss me off. Jamie's one of my best friends, and I don't appreciate people who insult my friends behind their backs. No one says jack about Jamie to her face.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I've had the most random shit happen to me these last few weeks at the club. Some dude I've messed around with a few times was there was his brother, who's also hot and gay. Well, the brother was all over me in front of him. I tried my best to be polite about it and stave off his advances, but damn he was persistent.

Then last night some dude was "accidentally" rubbing his hardon up again my leg while we were talking. Thing is, I've known him and his boyfriend for a while and it was kind of awkward.

Anyhow, nice to see the thred is as dramatic as ever. Whoooo!!!

[DaDesiCanadian]

You don't know her.
Stop acting like you do.
I'm not going to ask you again. I've tried being nice, dude.

I may not know her in real life, but i've talked to her plenty of times. I've talked to someone who's been in a relationship with her. I've talked to people who know her personally. Obviously i'm not going to name names. She's just a terrible person.

I'm not trying to intentionally piss you off because... I don't really know you/care enough. I'm just speaking my mind about a subject which I know about, I couldn't care less what you think. Funnily enough, I've probably known her online longer than you have. :rofl:


I'm not going to ask you again. I've tried being nice, dude.

Wow dude you better really stop

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[Lobelia Prime]

I don't think Jamie's a bad person, but hell, I've only known her for a little less than a year, so I probably don't know as much about her as you do. However, I know that she's helping me transition, and for that, I owe her one. I don't agree with a lot of the things that she does and says, but she's got a right to say them. She and anyone else can say whatever the fuck.
Only reason I asked you to stop insulting her is because she's an important person to me for the reason I mentioned above. You can think whatever you want about her, but just saying, as a favor to me, cause I like you a lot...keep the insults towards her to a minimum, alright?

[DaDesiCanadian]

Yeah, i'm cool with that. But don't put me on intentions like "i'm saying shit just to piss you off", when i'm just speaking an honest opinion about something.

[Lobelia Prime]

Yeah, i'm cool with that. But don't put me on intentions like "i'm saying shit just to piss you off", when i'm just speaking my mind.

That's my bad, dude. We cool?

[DaDesiCanadian]

Yezzur.

[Lobelia Prime]

Good shit.
Alright, here's a question I wanted to ask in this thread before joining it.
Did anyone see Brokeback Mountain and think that the gayness in it was screamed about too fucking much when, in reality, that was one of the manliest movies ever?

[BeaTs*]

:rofl: @ this whole thread

[DaDesiCanadian]

Sorry for killing the drama so fast DLJ :(

Quick, someone call GTC a skinnyman-lover!

[DrumlinerJoe]

Sorry for killing the drama so fast DLJ :(

Quick, someone call GTC a skinnyman-lover!

No problem, you can make it up to me with some nude pics.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Sure, check your PM's

[DrumlinerJoe]

Sure, check your PM's

Best PM ever.

[severin]

There doesn't seem to be much that nudes don't fix.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Thank you nudity.

[Lobelia Prime]

There doesn't seem to be much that nudes don't fix.

Well, duh, dude. Nudes solve most problems, if not all.

[Dwin]

What a paradox...a thread of understanding like this in SRK.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Eh, I don't think SRKers are half as hard as they try to make themselves out to be. IF they are then well, issues know what I mean.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Most of the regular/older posters are mature enough to handle a misunderstanding, but there are still the idiots who frequent the site that just argue for arguments sake... much like any other forum i guess.

[DrumlinerJoe]

True true DaDesi, and I know it's unpopular to say, but things really were better at the beginning of SRK's lifespan.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Sorry for killing the drama so fast DLJ :(

Quick, someone call GTC a skinnyman-lover!

dude..

I'm not the one with exclusive tastes in men.. at least remember that much.

Azagtoth is the exclusive chub lover.. not me.

[Æther]

I'm calling out sick tomorrow. Rob wants to hang out, I'm too tired and my dad moving out (hopefully) finally tomorrow. I want some friggin snuggles. Now.
Sure, check your PM's

Best PM ever.
Is there something you wish to share with the class Mr. Desi? Mr. Joe?

[Valaris]

Speaking of Dickpix pm's, did MagnetiX ever send anyone here his famous pics?

[Azagtoth]

Azagtoth is the exclusive chub lover.. not me.

You make me sound so picky, Rob. I just prefer my guys with some fluff is all. =P

And moobs.

EDIT: Ok, thats bullshit. No chub, no love.

<----moob nazi

[JustB]

Ugh, I'm up at work on my night off because one of our data centers exploded :crybaby:

http://forums.theplanet.com/index.php?showtopic=90185

So lame, so lame

[DaDesiCanadian]

dude..

I'm not the one with exclusive tastes in men.. at least remember that much.

Azagtoth is the exclusive chub lover.. not me.

See, that was my plan all along...get you angry by making you think that I thought you were a chub only lover.... or ....something. :confused:

/weak save

[30_60_90]

I haven't been able to see my boyfriend since the end of the semester.
He took on three jobs and now I have a part-time job at BK(hopefully just for the summer) ;_;
He's not out to his parents I guess and I feel like he's avoiding me because of it...
I also have a really hard time having conversations over the telephone so I don't even really know what to do, besides this is the kind of conversation you should have in person isn't it?
:crybaby:

[ramberk]

You'se gotta get on the phone with your boy and be real with him and be real with yourself. It could be that's he's just really busy (3 jobs!!!!) or it could be something else. If the phone is the only way to contact him, you gotta use it. Don't avoid the subject by saying you don't like using the phone.

[iwst99]

Just to show I'm not just about the chubs/bears. I saw Sex and the City today (I've never seen an episode, but went with some friends), and OMFG I'd so give Christopher Noth a professional any day...agh. I swear he made the movie worth it. Yum.

http://movies.yahoo.com/movie/contributor/1800082485/photo/970450211

[30_60_90]

hmm... Christopher Noth always reminds me of Law and Order and both Jerry Orbach http://www.imdb.com/media/rm1347000320/nm0001583
and Vincent D'Onofrio
http://www.imdb.com/media/rm475043840/nm0000352
http://www.imdb.com/media/rm4190083328/nm0000352
http://www.imdb.com/media/rm3378616576/nm0000352
had a lot more going on for themselves than him, in my opinion.

[iwst99]

hmm... Christopher Noth always reminds me of Law and Order and both Jerry Orbach http://www.imdb.com/media/rm1347000320/nm0001583
and Vincent D'Onofrio
http://www.imdb.com/media/rm475043840/nm0000352
http://www.imdb.com/media/rm4190083328/nm0000352
http://www.imdb.com/media/rm3378616576/nm0000352
had a lot more going on for themselves than him, in my opinion.

Dude, before this movie I wasn't into him. In this movie he just looks older, has some gray starting to come out, and just looks so fucking hawt with his chest showing...I've never been into him until this movie. I was looking up pics of him earlier, but none of them did anything to me as he was younger...some guys look hotter when they get older, I think he is one of them.

[Penance]

Just to show I'm not just about the chubs/bears. I saw Sex and the City today (I've never seen an episode, but went with some friends), and OMFG I'd so give Christopher Noth a professional any day...agh. I swear he made the movie worth it. Yum.


that was the gayest thing i've ever read in this thread. if i had a banana sticker i'd give it to you.

[iwst99]

that was the gayest thing i've ever read in this thread.

You've obviously not read all 252 pages of this thread.

[Penance]

You've obviously not read all 252 pages of this thread.

too much effort to read it all. but after reading slightly to the left i know ebay has super street fighter II turbo for super famicom $0.99

i'd buy it. i'm weird.

[Mechanica]

Speaking of Dickpix pm's, did MagnetiX ever send anyone here his famous pics?

no thank you

[Azagtoth]

too much effort to read it all. but after reading slightly to the left i know ebay has super street fighter II turbo for super famicom $0.99

i'd buy it. i'm weird.

Silly ads.

[JustB]

Silly ads.

I actually don't have ads showing up for me. I feel cheated. How am I going to know about the gay chubs and copies of imported street fighter that are on the market right now?

[Septimus Prime]

Even gay people think Sarah Jessica Parker is an ugly piece of crap, right?

[Lobelia Prime]

Even gay people think Sarah Jessica Parker is an ugly piece of crap, right?

I think she's cute in an awkward sort of way, but her face is disgusting.

[JustB]

Even gay people think Sarah Jessica Parker is an ugly piece of crap, right?

Eh, I've noticed a lot of hate her way. I don't know anything other than googling her picture just now, but I don't think she's ugly.

[DrumlinerJoe]

So funny last night y'all. I had went to my little cousin's band performance on Thursday night and noticed how cute her director is and I got a vibe from him, don't ask me why. I ran into him at a club last night though and talked to him. He was standoffish at first but I assured him I wouldn't tell anyone he's gay, I mean I've been an instructor myself and I never wanted kids to know my personal business, I know how it is.

He did however reject my offer for a drink. Lame.

[Azagtoth]

That sucks. With a face like yours, you should be getting the drink offers.

Even gay people think Sarah Jessica Parker is an ugly piece of crap, right?

Ugly is such a strong word. I'd say unattractive. :china:

I actually don't have ads showing up for me. I feel cheated. How am I going to know about the gay chubs and copies of imported street fighter that are on the market right now?

You're on Firefox, most likely.

[DrumlinerJoe]

hehe thanks AZ. I can't really tell if it was because he was rejecting me cause he didn't like me or because I knew his cousin. Either way it was nice to talk to someone about music for a while.


I need to start writing music more again. It's been way too long.

[JustB]

You're on Firefox, most likely.

Isn't everyone? ^_^;

[Penance]

i know i am and i know stupid srut piss me off when she says "well if you had moved in with me you would have had a job and a girlfriend and blah blah blah" *growls* me hates her.

[Kix]

her face is disgusting.

Can someone rep this person?


You're on Firefox, most likely.

I am too but I got it.

[Lobelia Prime]

Can someone rep this person?

Heh, thanks. :tup:

[JustB]

Ok, I have a totally random topic to bring up:

What's the best dessert you have ever had? Mine was a scoop of vanilla ice cream with a slight amount of chocolate syrup on top and a shot of kahlua poured on top. I actually don't drink alcohol typically, but the mixture was really amazing. I've only ever had it once and I just found myself really craving it again and I was wondering if anyone else had love affairs with desserts?

[Kix]

Ok, I have a totally random topic to bring up:

What's the best dessert you have ever had? Mine was a scoop of vanilla ice cream with a slight amount of chocolate syrup on top and a shot of kahlua poured on top. I actually don't drink alcohol typically, but the mixture was really amazing. I've only ever had it once and I just found myself really craving it again and I was wondering if anyone else had love affairs with desserts?
I like malts I guess. Brownies with fudge and vanilla ice cream are occasionally acceptable but I feel like I want to eat something else salty afterward.

I'm a plain person.

[Lobelia Prime]

My vote goes to cheesecake...or key lime pie.....

[JustB]

My vote goes to cheesecake...or key lime pie.....

Cheese cake is amazing. I think I have a slice at least once a week now. It's too easy to get ^_^;

[Kix]

My vote goes to cheesecake...or key lime pie.....

That's a pretty gay vote... you sure about this?

[Lobelia Prime]

Cheese cake is amazing. I think I have a slice at least once a week now. It's too easy to get ^_^;

My guilty pleasures are mostly salty junk food. I eat a lot of hot dogs. I <3 hot dogs.

[ramberk]

-Plain vanilla ice cream with magic shell and crushed peanuts.
-Soft serve vanilla+chocolate swirl
-Chocolate cake or cheesecake

hrm...........

[Lobelia Prime]

That's a pretty gay vote... you sure about this?

This IS the gay thread. I also like chocolate chip cookies, strawberry ice cream, and banana tempura.
Actually...I'd say banana tempura is my number-one all time favorite dessert.

[Azagtoth]

hehe thanks AZ. I can't really tell if it was because he was rejecting me cause he didn't like me or because I knew his cousin. Either way it was nice to talk to someone about music for a while.


I need to start writing music more again. It's been way too long.

I'm feeling that too. I gave up on finding band members for the moment and decided to start working on an album concept. Failing music theory 1 made me realize just how much I need to get my shit together.

Isn't everyone? ^_^;

I would hope so.

I am too but I got it.

Could be a number of things, but either you lack the ad block plugin or you have it but SRK is completely unaffected.

What's the best dessert you have ever had? Mine was a scoop of vanilla ice cream with a slight amount of chocolate syrup on top and a shot of kahlua poured on top. I actually don't drink alcohol typically, but the mixture was really amazing. I've only ever had it once and I just found myself really craving it again and I was wondering if anyone else had love affairs with desserts?

Ice Cream Tempura, chocolate chip cookies (soft baked) and basically anything with Oreos in it. Fucking yum.

[Airex Hyuga]

Snickerdoodles... Banana Creme Pie Blizzard. :O!

Sarah Jessica Parker is THAT ugly. She just has a big o' forehead. ;l

[iwst99]

I guess I'm earning my pink card. I've watched the first season of Sex and the City in only a few hours. I used to skip the show everytime it came on TV...now I'm becoming addicted.:xeye:

[DaDesiCanadian]

^^^^ gay

My sister has the entire series on DVD. It's in this pretty pink case and everything too. I've been tempted to watch it, but I just can't get over horse-face.

Gossip Girl > *

[Airex Hyuga]

lol I've seen a bit of it.

I just like how the scenarios could happen to anyone IRL.

[iwst99]

^^^^ gay

My sister has the entire series on DVD. It's in this pretty pink case and everything too. I've been tempted to watch it, but I just can't get over horse-face.

Gossip Girl > *

Yeah...my BF watched the movie and liked it too...he txt'd me later and told me he had ordered the complete series on DVD. And just as he txt'd that, I had just started watching the episodes online. I was like OMFG. We had a gay connection.


Anyways, I didn't really get the show before, so I never even watched one whole episode. Now that I'm older and fucked/dated a bunch of guys, I can relate to nearly every episode. I think this show is aimed for people (whether it'd be guys or girls) that date/fuck men. So really, straight men can't relate to the show...and it would explain why the theater was packed with girls on a girls night out and gay men.

[Penance]

going back a bit, before sluts in the city came into topic. my favorite sweet treat would have to be special brownies, the kind you don't realize are special to the last bite, then you go about your day only to suddenly get warped into the most intense high you've ever felt and you need a slushie and gummie bears and even thouh it's a blue truck instead of white and black car in the rear view mirror you just want to get away from it.

[iwst99]

my favorite sweet treat would have to be special brownies, the kind you don't realize are special to the last bite, then you go about your day only to suddenly get warped into the most intense high you've ever felt and you need a slushie and gummie bears and even thouh it's a blue truck instead of white and black car in the rear view mirror you just want to get away from it.

Longest. Sentence. Ever.

Back on topic. The sounds like something they would say on Sex and the City.

[Penance]

it's written that way to seem more frantic.

[Æther]

Went over to Rob's place today since before the reconstruction. Place is looking REAL nice so far. We mainly snuggled, ate pizza and watched TV. Had to cut it short since he had class later tonight but oh well. lol

So I'm thinking about telling my mum about Rob this or next week, depending on after we sort out bills and furniture when she moves in. Been meaning to do it for a while but my father's move turned out to be longer than expected. I'm really nervous about it but it has to be done. She deserves to know, especially with us declaring our love for each other. I know she's an understanding person and that she would love me regardless.

Edit: Now that this is in mind, I'm starting to think Rob's parents know as well. Rob's been asking me if I told my mum every time we meet up. :X

Desserts? I say the most indulgent would have to be rocky road with brownie pieces and chocolate fudge assist. Iced oatmeal cookies with vanilla milk always does it for me. At least it's midly healthy for you. :lol:

[DaDesiCanadian]

Yas didn't appreciate my nude PM's. Hater. :(

[Æther]

Not enough hairyness. :confused: :rofl:

[LightningStorm]

My vote goes to cheesecake...or key lime pie.....

Ahem... Key Lime Cheesecake. :pray:
(preferably from The Cheesecake Factory or Tippins [The latter is a local pie place that shut down and now only sells their pies in grocery stores]).

[JustB]

Ahem... Key Lime Cheesecake. :pray:
(preferably from The Cheesecake Factory or Tippins [The latter is a local pie place that shut down and now only sells their pies in grocery stores]).

Actually, I think I have a Tippins close to my house. I'll have to see if it's still there now :P

[DrumlinerJoe]

On the dessert subject, I don't relly care for sweets at all. Whenever I do get the urge for sweets though it's always either a M&M BLizzard or a peanut butter Twix.

[Mechanica]

I have a big sweet tooth for candy but not desserts. I don't like cake, I don't like pie, I don't like cheesecake, I don't like cupcakes... etc. etc.

In other news, I think I'm developing asthma if that's even possible, or bronchitis, or something. This made sense while I was quitting cigarettes but now? Is it that much to ask to just want to BREATHE? Fuuuuuuuck I hate my mom for smoking while she was pregnant and throughout my entire adolescence (inside).

On the flip side, Wayne got a brand new beamer and it's fucking S E X Y. Had fun last night. Wish I didn't feel like total and complete shit though.

[BeaTs*]

ugh...I got ashtma, which developed from bronchitis. tis not fun. be careful

I don't think there's any way to stop it.

my asthma used to be really bad, but I slowly started excersing/pushing myself without using an inhaler, and my asthma got MUCH better....but it's still pretty noticable.

what's a beamer? >.>

[Æther]

My older brother also has a slight asthma problem as well, which was passed down from my mother's side. However, with him losing a lot of weight recently, he only gets breathing problems once a year, if at all.

A beamer is a type of car, IIRC. Either that or the newest series of Fleshlight. ;D

[Mechanica]

a BMW.

[Penance]

i've never tried a flesh light. or any sex toys for that matter. yet i've bought and used sex toys on lots of other people. i need friends around here to game with, the AI is borring.

[iwst99]

a BMW.

Which model?

BFs with beamers FTW.

[Mechanica]

Which model?

BFs with beamers FTW.

Couldn't tell ya. It's been on order since March, so something pretty new, haha. I don't keep up with cars. I agree though. :blush:

[iwst99]

Couldn't tell ya. It's been on order since March, so something pretty new, haha. I don't keep up with cars. I agree though. :blush:

Ye yah.

How's the job hunt going?

[Mechanica]

I don't know, not well at all, I've had more pressing matters at hand. Like breathing. I'm about to go to the hospital/clinic because I either have bronchitis or I've developed asthma. I woke up every hour (at least once) like clockwork last night, to wake up gasping and wheezing for air. My airways are like... 33% as much as they should be. I take a deep breath and it ends by like the second second. Lucky if I don't cough.

Just filed for unemployment, still figuring out not only what to do, but where to do it. My lease is up in August and I'm fucking gone from this shithole. I hate my neighbors, and I hate not having enough hot water. I kinda wanna move a little south and work at a more chill place like a record store in seattle or something, but I also don't wanna move much further from Wayne. I guess it just depends where I find a good place.

[Mechanica]

Yep. Pretty bad asthma. I want to punch my mom in the face. I understand I was a 'surprise' even if you won't admit it (come on, two kids a year apart and another one FIFTEEN YEARS LATER? I'm not retarded) but does that make it any more acceptable to destroy my lungs with cigarettes? Sure, smoke in the house, I can go play outside or go in the other room but when I'm inside your fucking body? Are cigarettes that important to you? Maybe you should've stayed an alcoholic drug addict. Fuck. Really pissed. That was really scary last night, I've never even had a panic attack before much less one triggered by not being able to breathe.

end rant. tobacco is whacko guys. :/

[The Green Trench Coat]

iwst i'll be in LA on the 21st now.. that gives me a weekend down there to see what's up

[Shusty]

Born or Choice?

[LightningStorm]

Born or Choice?

Both. And Neither.

That is an incorrect question, most people who have this debate aren't even talking about the same thing.

What you are is not a choice. Your lifestyle however is. The problem with the typical debate on this is that the word "homosexual" refers both to what a person IS and what lifestyle they live. I am a homosexual man. I could choose to live a heterosexual lifestyle. I however do not choose that, I choose to live my life in a way that also identifies myself, therefore I choose to live a homosexual lifestyle.

The other problem with your question specifically is the "born" part. This no one knows for certain if it is genes or if it is the environment in which one is raised. I tend to lean toward it's probably a bit of both. In some cases it might be all genes, in others it might be all environmental, while yet others may have the gene but the environment enhanced the desires.

[Azagtoth]

-I'm the man-

Nipped in the bud. Very smooth.

Thank you and good night.

[Shusty]

Both. And Neither.

That is an incorrect question, most people who have this debate aren't even talking about the same thing.

What you are is not a choice. Your lifestyle however is. The problem with the typical debate on this is that the word "homosexual" refers both to what a person IS and what lifestyle they live. I am a homosexual man. I could choose to live a heterosexual lifestyle. I however do not choose that, I choose to live my life in a way that also identifies myself, therefore I choose to live a homosexual lifestyle.

The other problem with your question specifically is the "born" part. This no one knows for certain if it is genes or if it is the environment in which one is raised. I tend to lean toward it's probably a bit of both. In some cases it might be all genes, in others it might be all environmental, while yet others may have the gene but the environment enhanced the desires.

I see it no different than deciding from riding or not riding a rollercoaster. Because if it was a "gay gene" would you not consider it an abnormality? (i.e. down syndrome, sickle-cell, turner, etc...)

[Azagtoth]

I see it no different than deciding from riding or not riding a rollercoaster. Because if it was a "gay gene" would you not consider it an abnormality? (i.e. down syndrome, sickle-cell, turner, etc...)

A: You cannot choose, decide, or basically have any say on what or who you find attractive. Personal aesthetics are as they are, with or without outside interference or influence.

B: The abnormalities you listed are due to mutations, but who's to say that the gay gene is a mutation? Maybe it's just a recessive trait, or maybe it's purely psychological, who knows; there's no conclusive evidence for either case as far as I know.

[ramberk]

It's not choice for a lot of folks. No matter how hard you insist it is, it's not. The other folks in this thread have been very eloquent in explaining the other details.

[devildigimon]

Yo, who from here is going to mwc?

[DaDesiCanadian]

I see it no different than deciding from riding or not riding a rollercoaster. Because if it was a "gay gene" would you not consider it an abnormality? (i.e. down syndrome, sickle-cell, turner, etc...)

Shut up and read GTC's sig.

[iwst99]

Yo, who from here is going to mwc?

Another gay in the ranks? Damn.....

Welcome...

Digimon, digital monsters.

[devildigimon]

lol...i posted in here before, as digimonemporer

but thanks 4 da welcome

so who look good on here? i need a “friend”...lol!

[LightningStorm]

I see it no different than deciding from riding or not riding a rollercoaster. Because if it was a "gay gene" would you not consider it an abnormality? (i.e. down syndrome, sickle-cell, turner, etc...)

In that respect, yes it is a choice. That's the lifestyle and what you DO, as opposed to who you are. One can BE a homosexual but choose to live as a heterosexual, there are plenty who do this in real life. Sexuality is not simply the act but who you are. That's the difference.

As to the gene comment... Technically speaking, yes because abnormality literally means "not normal." Which anything that is not in the majority is an abnormality. Being white is an abnormality, being black is an abnormality, (because Chinese outnumber us all) being more intelligent than other people is an abnormality. But simply speaking abnormal doesn't mean "bad" as the phrase is typically misperceived.

[Airex Hyuga]

I wasn't born with it. I kinda knew that guys were attractive in sophomore year high school.
Tried it out and was like "Whoa! This isn't as bad as people were making it out to be." I was just curious.
But eh... to me it's all about who looks better and who has the better personality.
I could like a chick who has so hot but not so vain and has a kick-ass personality vs. some boring scholmo.
But if it came down to one guy and and one girl who has the same high physical appearance and same awesome personality, it pretty much all comes down to the nitty gritty, the sex and I choose guys overall.

Because only a guy knows what a guy wants. >:D

Unless if it's a girl then that girl is a whore. :)

[Mechanica]

In that respect, yes it is a choice. That's the lifestyle and what you DO, as opposed to who you are. One can BE a homosexual but choose to live as a heterosexual, there are plenty who do this in real life. Sexuality is not simply the act but who you are. That's the difference.

As to the gene comment... Technically speaking, yes because abnormality literally means "not normal." Which anything that is not in the majority is an abnormality. Being white is an abnormality, being black is an abnormality, (because Chinese outnumber us all) being more intelligent than other people is an abnormality. But simply speaking abnormal doesn't mean "bad" as the phrase is typically misperceived.
Well said.

I wasn't born with it. I kinda knew that guys were attractive in sophomore year high school.
Tried it out and was like "Whoa! This isn't as bad as people were making it out to be." I was just curious.

That doesn't mean you weren't born with it, though. To even have the potential to try something a guy, to recognize a man is attractive, requires you to be somewhat homosexual like on the kinsey scale. Which is not something you choose. Like, I can recognize an attractive girl but I'm not curious because there would be no connection, attraction, no nothing. Even if I were curious, I just.. couldn't. It's just not... me. The same way a heterosexual guy is born into his attractions and can't force himself to find a man attractive. (I'm not really phrasing this as well as I'd like...)

[Æther]

Oi vey... Let's just end this quick: Whoever questions sexuality in this thread, go to your local bath house and take it up the butt and force yourself to like it. If you can't then oh well. Either way we'll require proof. With pics. And vids. Do it. ;D

-I've been getting a lot of friend requests on MySpace from random gay doods. Weird.

[Azagtoth]

I wasn't born with it. I kinda knew that guys were attractive in sophomore year high school.

Which means you have an aesthetic that allows for you to appreciate male beauty and sexuality. You didn't choose to have that, you just have it.

[BanJie]

Hello everybody! Another one has decided to come out too. It's just amazing how much of us there seems to be. I'm basically a cub who is into chubs and bears so i seem to fit in here nicely. I'm just so happy that this thread exists and is so alive. Thanks everybody...keep up the good work!

[The Green Trench Coat]

Hello everybody! Another one has decided to come out too. It's just amazing how much of us there seems to be. I'm basically a cub who is into chubs and bears so i seem to fit in here nicely. I'm just so happy that this thread exists and is so alive. Thanks everybody...keep up the good work!

really .. posts like these need to have pics attached to them.

Welcome brother. Grrr..

[Shusty]

Oi vey... Let's just end this quick: Whoever questions sexuality in this thread, go to your local bath house and take it up the butt and force yourself to like it. If you can't then oh well. Either way we'll require proof. With pics. And vids. Do it. ;D

-I've been getting a lot of friend requests on MySpace from random gay doods. Weird.

Sorry for the rally! This was ask a gay dude thread, yet people tells me to shut up for asking a gay dude a question :lol:

Sen..si...tive...It's just wierd for me to hear gay men say they were born that way when there is no biological evidence for the claim. It's like saying you know God exist. I'll chill, sorry for the problem.

[iwst99]

Sorry for the rally! This was ask a gay dude thread, yet people tells me to shut up for asking a gay dude a question :lol:


Umm, the "ask a gay dude" thread was closed down over a year ago. In this thread people can easily tell you to shut up for asking questions that have been discussed 1000000xs.

[BanJie]

really .. posts like these need to have pics attached to them.

Welcome brother. Grrr..

Thank you so much. I feel myself so welcome here already. So here (http://s299.photobucket.com/albums/mm283/nuboocub/?action=view&current=DSC00734-1.jpg) is a pic too.

[LightningStorm]

Sen..si...tive...It's just wierd for me to hear gay men say they were born that way when there is no biological evidence for the claim. It's like saying you know God exist. I'll chill, sorry for the problem.

No, no, no. I didn't say anything about KNOWING that it is genetic and therefore was born that way. What I said was that I believe it is indeed a bit of both genetics and environmental. There is no scientific evidence for genetics, but similarly there is no scientific evidence that it is not. People simply don't know the source of it.

The real question is "does it matter?" No it really doesn't. Because being gay isn't harmful in anyway to anyone unlike say sickle cell is. Gay is not a disease even if it is an abnormality. There are PLENTY of abnormalities that are good abnormalities and plenty that are neither bad nor good, just as there are bad ones. It is society's labeling of gay as "bad" that makes it seem bad, when in actuality simply being gay hasn't hurt anybody.

[Æther]

Sorry for the rally! This was ask a gay dude thread, yet people tells me to shut up for asking a gay dude a question :lol:

Sen..si...tive...It's just wierd for me to hear gay men say they were born that way when there is no biological evidence for the claim. It's like saying you know God exist. I'll chill, sorry for the problem.
Sorry fer jumpin at you like that but it does get tiring hearing the same questions over and over again. In fact the first post should be edited with an FAQ.

1)What type of guys do you find attractive?
Nick Frost. Only him. PM GTC for the entire internet's supply of pics. Nudes appreciated.

2)Top? Bottom?
A/S/L! ;D

3)I like wearing panties. Does that make me a tranny?
Pics or it didn't happen.

Act now and you get the Gay Terminology Handbook for FREE!
Hello everybody! Another one has decided to come out too. It's just amazing how much of us there seems to be. I'm basically a cub who is into chubs and bears so i seem to fit in here nicely. I'm just so happy that this thread exists and is so alive. Thanks everybody...keep up the good work!
Another joins our ranks... Mwahahaha! *curls hands*

Oh and the Queer Eye demands pics. Now.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Thank you so much. I feel myself so welcome here already. So here (http://s299.photobucket.com/albums/mm283/nuboocub/?action=view&current=DSC00734-1.jpg) is a pic too.

wow..

that oughta show me.



Nice.. shirt.

Welcome again.

[Azagtoth]

Hello everybody! Another one has decided to come out too. It's just amazing how much of us there seems to be. I'm basically a cub who is into chubs and bears so i seem to fit in here nicely. I'm just so happy that this thread exists and is so alive. Thanks everybody...keep up the good work!

Awesome. Welcome to the thread. =D

Love the av btw. Boyd is the shit.

Sen..si...tive...It's just wierd for me to hear gay men say they were born that way when there is no biological evidence for the claim. It's like saying you know God exist. I'll chill, sorry for the problem.

Not that anyone reads what I say, but the only biological evidence for it is the whole thing where in the case of two identical twins, both tend to be gay instead of one or the other.

At any rate, even if it isn't biological, it's still hardly a choice. Again, you have no say over what you find attractive.

1)What type of guys do you find attractive?
Nick Frost. Only him. PM GTC for the entire internet's supply of pics. Nudes appreciated.

Oh and the Queer Eye demands pics. Now.

Fucking lol.

[yah yaahh b*tch!]

God made Adam&Eve not Adam&Juanito.




Just kidding.



So I havent had sex in a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time, and last night I had a wet dream because its been THAT long since Ive been physical with a girl. But in my dream I remember seeing my homebody I was playing the ps3 with just a few hours before I feel asleep. We didnt sex in the dream or anything but I remember him right before I came right in my fuckin boxers. lmfao


That makes me hella gay right? Gays or SRK, analyze me NOW! I was shaking when I woke up.

[30_60_90]

Yo, who from here is going to mwc?

I'll be there, taking the trip with Keits and staying in that hotel room, still sad you didn't make it to the Gamma Bowl!

[Mechanica]

Sorry for the rally! This was ask a gay dude thread, yet people tells me to shut up for asking a gay dude a question :lol:
Nah dude, it hasn't been the 'ask a gay dude' thread for a looooong time. We changed entire topics because all it was, was new people coming in asking the same mildly offensive question that is easily answered by just sitting there and thinking about it. We're all just kind of tired of it, we don't mean to snap at you (or seem like we are).

It's just wierd for me to hear gay men say they were born that way when there is no biological evidence for the claim. It's like saying you know God exist. I'll chill, sorry for the problem.
Oh wow, nice reference. Do you even... *sigh* nevermind. All I'm gonna so is no, no it's not like saying you know god exists. That's a completely, completely different ballpark. Why do heterosexuals not get it? What is so fucking hard to understand? It's the exact same way as them being born heterosexual. This is the kind of shit that turns faggots into heterophobes.

[Airex Hyuga]

Which means you have an aesthetic that allows for you to appreciate male beauty and sexuality. You didn't choose to have that, you just have it.
I guess. I just knew I have it till that age and time. :o


The same way a heterosexual guy is born into his attractions and can't force himself to find a man attractive. (I'm not really phrasing this as well as I'd like...)

Unless you really try to make that heterosexual guy attracted to guys. (guys meaning yourself since you're the one convincing the straight one.)

It's been done before. Well, I've done it before but for some reason "closet cases" still carry that paranoia if anyone found out about it. [ie. friends, families.]
Which can be a f-ing bitch, sometimes not worth it but it's possible.

Sometimes I wanna convince myself that all men have at least some or at least little attraction towards the same sex. Same goes for women.

[Azagtoth]

Unless you really try to make that heterosexual guy attracted to guys. (guys meaning yourself since you're the one convincing the straight one.)

It's been done before. Alot of hard work, but it has it's benefits.

It's also despicable and has the side effect of convincing straight guys that we're all sexual predators.

[Mechanica]

Sometimes I wanna convince myself that all men have at least some or at least little attraction towards the same sex. Same goes for women.

ever read up on kinsey-esque stuff? almost nobody is 100% gay or straight, there's some truth to your feeling. (cue straight guys misinterpreting this/getting offended)

~
I've never wanted to hit a female in my life, and my mom wants to see me saturday and I can't because I'd straight punch her. Right in her fucking face. I've never been this mad at someone I'm supposed to love. How the fuck can you try to give your kid the fucking DARE talk oh don't do drugs you shouldn't be smoking weed and not even be real with me and tell me she smoked like a chimney the whole pregnancy? Okay, so she's too guilty to tell me, NOBODY FUCKING TELLS ME!? EVER!? Until my sister is fucking telling me this on my way to the fucking ER for bad asthma attack, not breathing in my sleep kinda shit? ARGGGGH RAGED I can't even fucking sleep right now.

then she has the balls to end her reply e-mail with fessing up to it

Yes, I smoked when I was pregnant with all three of you, so you better not smoke ANYTHING, huh?

Seriously not the time for your petty fucking jabs, mom. Fuck you, seriously FUCK. YOU. (She's a drug counselor :confused: so she gave me that bullshit, to try to get me to not smoke pot, rather than just fucking telling me how ridiculously fucking asthmatic I am/could've avoided being.. if she had just sat me down and been like look kid, I smoked way too much while pregnant with you, you should just NOT have smoke in your lungs period, for your health - that would've been kosher. and how could she have not known that? like what... why would she not tell me then? is she THAT guilty? )

asdfasasdfasdf aaaaaaaaaaaahhh I don't even know what to think but I'm fucking trippin' on this asthma shit. I thought I always thought I was A+ healthy, y'know? I'm lucky I'm as healthy as I am! Fuck.

I bet she'll never fucking admit I was an accident either... a surprise if you will. Neither of them will. I'm not retarded, my half siblings are 34 and 35. I am 19. Uhhhh, yeah, it doesn't work like that. You don't have two kids in succession and then wait 16 fucking years and randomly have another one. Not on purpose you don't. So I understand not being prepared, I'm not even mad about her smoking while pregnant or anything like that anymore, it's the mere fucking principle she couldn't have the fucking respect to just FUCKING TELL ME. JESUS. ANYONE, EVEN. My dad all tried his approach at getting me to stop smoking weed, my mom tried hers... why did they think the truth wouldn't work? God, such idiots. Why are people allowed to breed.

must... stop... ranting...

on the lighter side, I have a good ass reason to spend a fat chunk of money on a nice vaporizer. :/

[JustB]

I'm pretty sure most people are accidents. It's just this unspoken truth.

[Airex Hyuga]

It's also despicable and has the side effect of convincing straight guys that we're all sexual predators.

It's all depending on the situation.

Going after someone who isn't expecting it at all.
Basically a random person.
(Is probably what you think is despicable and I agree.)

Or going after someone who's "thinking" of experimenting.
There are times where "straight" guys ask me what's it like to mess around with another dude. It just tells me he's a little bit more than just curious if he wasn't interested in that sort of thing in the first place.
(Is what I'm trying to say.)

My dad all tried his approach at getting me to stop smoking weed, my mom tried hers... why did they think the truth wouldn't work? God, such idiots. Why are people allowed to breed.


Eh... don't bother quitting. It's your life. Not theirs.
Not like you're doing coke or G.

[Azagtoth]

It's all depending on the situation.

Going after someone who isn't expecting it at all.
Basically a random person.
(Is probably what you think is despicable and I agree.)

Or going after someone who's "thinking" of experimenting.
There are times where "straight" guys ask me what's it like to mess around with another dude. It just tells me he's a little bit more than just curious if he wasn't interested in that sort of thing in the first place.
(Is what I'm trying to say.)

The way you said it was really easy to misconstrue because you left all of this out initially.

Anyway, unless they come on to you, in which case it's fair game, I have major problems with the idea of "convincing" straight guys to fuck around. Obviously if they show interest it's a different story, but IMO any game you try to run on a guy should immediately end at "no thanks, I'm straight."

[Airex Hyuga]

The way you said it was really easy to misconstrue because you left all of this out initially.

Anyway, unless they come on to you, in which case it's fair game, I have major problems with the idea of "convincing" straight guys to fuck around. Obviously if they show interest it's a different story, but IMO any game you try to run on a guy should immediately end at "no thanks, I'm straight."

Yeah... but I thought you would have come up with possible scenarios leading to that situation but... I understand since I did left it out from the beginning. (Bleh) lol.

[Penance]

God made Adam&Eve not Adam&Juanito.

Eve was a nagging cunt.
Does this leaf make me look fat? why can't we eat the apple? does this leaf make me look fat? we should have the snake over for dinner. why are you missing another rib? who's lilith? does this leaf make me look fat? why won't you answer me? if you love me you'll eat the apple.

[Mechanica]

Eh... don't bother quitting. It's your life. Not theirs.


You obviously don't get it. I'm not quitting for them. Never would. My body is straight fucked up. I thought it was from quitting smoking [cigs]. When you only have one pair of lungs to compare things to, you don't realize or know you have severe breathing problems until you're sitting in the fucking ER with purple fingernails and a pale face. Or waking up in your sleep because you fucking stopped breathing.

[Airex Hyuga]

You obviously don't get it. I'm not quitting for them. Never would. My body is straight fucked up. I thought it was from quitting smoking [cigs]. When you only have one pair of lungs to compare things to, you don't realize or know you have severe breathing problems until you're sitting in the fucking ER with purple fingernails and a pale face. Or waking up in your sleep because you fucking stopped breathing.


Hmm... No... I don't.

Because I only said "just quit. It's your life. Not theirs." since you complained how your dad tried to help you quit and your mom is a hypocrite. NOT trying to act like I've been through that, which I haven't but I understand what your feeling. That's why I said something positive but you turn it into a negative thing. :l

Not trying to be an ass or anything but seriously, if it's that bad. Quit. Unless you have an addicting personality.

[Mechanica]

My dad didn't do anything to try to 'help' me, they both tried to belittle me, steal my pipes and break them, all sorts of immature shit that I don't even get. Why they thought it would get me to stop and not just do it more makes no sense to me. If they just sat me down and told me how fucking prone to asthma I was and how shitty my lungs are, I would've taken it to heart. Instead they took the fucking DARE approach and I wasn't buying it.

Sorry, I don't mean to explode on you it's just that nothing in my life right now feels right. When I can't breathe right I can't sleep right, and I am a VERY sleep dependent person. I would sleep 12 hours a night if I could, and still make it to my responsibilities. Sorry I'm being so bitchy but I did quit, and I fucking hate it. lol. sad face. I'm almost done with the withdrawals. I was up until like 7 in the morning last night and only slept thanks to an emergency Trazodone I had lying around. I was so fucking angry I was crying which in turn was causing me to halfway have asthma attacks and I just can't find myself in a good mood anymore recently. I haven't smoked anything in a while and I don't feel like I'm getting any better and it just fucking scares me.

I apologize for my tone. I can 't see anything in a positive light right now. I think I'll be better after this weekend when I get to see my boyfriend again. He cures what ails me. He's taking me to a new WWII fighter plane museum exhibit 'cause we're dorks. :bgrin:

[devildigimon]

God made Adam&Eve not Adam&Juanito.




Just kidding.



So I havent had sex in a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time, and last night I had a wet dream because its been THAT long since Ive been physical with a girl. But in my dream I remember seeing my homebody I was playing the ps3 with just a few hours before I feel asleep. We didnt sex in the dream or anything but I remember him right before I came right in my fuckin boxers. lmfao


That makes me hella gay right? Gays or SRK, analyze me NOW! I was shaking when I woke up.
dat friend was i, i was tappin dat ass in, in soul calibur 4!

i was so good he bust in no time...

lol...well one could only hope! i can't help it i have a thing 4 sexy ass niggas...lol!

30_60_90: make sure u introduce yoself when u see me!

[koogy]

here's a terrible picture from some evo where i had to play the mario kart challenge and was like "what the fuck is this shit"

http://img261.imageshack.us/img261/7516/1814983728f7cf76bf4wi2.jpg

;o I'll find a more recent pic sometime.

[Azagtoth]

here's a terrible picture from some evo where i had to play the mario kart challenge and was like "what the fuck is this shit"

http://img261.imageshack.us/img261/7516/1814983728f7cf76bf4wi2.jpg

;o I'll find a more recent pic sometime.

Cool.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised, given that I'm 2 inches shorter and maybe 15 or so pounds off from what you mentioned and I'm not that chubby at all, but this picture is a little lacking in the chub department. :(

But I'm the only moob nazi in here apparently, so it's all good.

As an aside, you didn't happen to make an appearance at FR this year, did you?

[koogy]

Cool.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised, given that I'm 2 inches shorter and maybe 15 or so pounds off from what you mentioned and I'm not that chubby at all, but this picture is a little lacking in the chub department. :(

But I'm the only moob nazi in here apparently, so it's all good.

As an aside, you didn't happen to make an appearance at FR this year, did you?

Nope, didn't go to FR. I've also gained like 40 pounds since that image was taken. It's amazing what happens when you're depressed for a year. :o! I'm trying to lose weight now~

[JustB]

Nope, didn't go to FR. I've also gained like 40 pounds since that image was taken. It's amazing what happens when you're depressed for a year. :o! I'm trying to lose weight now~

I'm on the weight-loss train too. I'm having a really hard time since I don't want to hinder my booben growth :sad:

[DrumlinerJoe]

here's a terrible picture from some evo where i had to play the mario kart challenge and was like "what the fuck is this shit"

http://img261.imageshack.us/img261/7516/1814983728f7cf76bf4wi2.jpg

;o I'll find a more recent pic sometime.

Real cute pic.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Cool.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised, given that I'm 2 inches shorter and maybe 15 or so pounds off from what you mentioned and I'm not that chubby at all, but this picture is a little lacking in the chub department. :(

But I'm the only moob nazi in here apparently, so it's all good.

As an aside, you didn't happen to make an appearance at FR this year, did you?



moob gods be praised.. i've sent you some pics of a bear i met at the nude beach over here .. check your gmail.
*big bearhugs*

[Azagtoth]

moob gods be praised.. i've sent you some pics of a bear i met at the nude beach over here .. check your gmail.
*big bearhugs*

You're the fucking man. That dude was hot as all hell. <3

-bows-

[JustB]

Ok, I have a real ethical problem here. I'll keep it short and try to just point out the pertinent information:

-I have a lesbian friend who has a girlfriend who is currently in the air force and is overseas.

-She apparently really needs the closeness of sex. I personally can't really understand the {{{need}}} for sex, but she can't understand how I don't need it so I trust her feelings are true.

-She asks me if I would do it for her. (She may have been joking, but I think I heard a bit of desperation in her voice)

-I'm fairly certain that if I don't do it, she'll find some stranger to do it for her.

-Would it be better for everyone if it was me instead of some stranger? I mean, I'm her friend right, I want to help her without getting attached or anything.

I mean, she really is a good person and I want her to be happy. I just don't want her to ruin a relationship she already has with some stranger.

Oh, and I'm a tranny who is also a virgin...

Maybe I should make up my own mind? :(

[The Green Trench Coat]

Ok, I have a real ethical problem here. I'll keep it short and try to just point out the pertinent information:

-I have a lesbian friend who has a girlfriend who is currently in the air force and is overseas.

-She apparently really needs the closeness of sex. I personally can't really understand the {{{need}}} for sex, but she can't understand how I don't need it so I trust her feelings are true.

-She asks me if I would do it for her. (She may have been joking, but I think I heard a bit of desperation in her voice)

-I'm fairly certain that if I don't do it, she'll find some stranger to do it for her.

-Would it be better for everyone if it was me instead of some stranger? I mean, I'm her friend right, I want to help her without getting attached or anything.

I mean, she really is a good person and I want her to be happy. I just don't want her to ruin a relationship she already has with some stranger.

Oh, and I'm a tranny who is also a virgin...

Maybe I should make up my own mind? :(


Is she in a monagamus relationship.. I know she says she needs it but if she's gonna break her gf's heart you should probably have no part of it.


if it's cool with her gf do it. I've done that for one of my lesbian friends before. as long as you arent gonna feel weird around her afterwards and she knows that you guys arent gonna become a couple i say go for it.

she just needs to get off if she cant do it with toys and xtube (bnb combo) and just needs some closeness maybe just be there so she can masturbate i guess.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Most importantly, is she hot?

[Æther]

So I'm back after moving my parents stuff (father out and mother in) and I'm feeling fucking wrecked. I should have worn a mask. Now whenever I swallow anything (Aza...get your mind out of the gutter! :razz:) my left jaw/throat and ear hurts like hell. I'm going to the doctor later today with my mum. I hope it isn't serious. Can't afford to miss any more days from work. :(

Nothing really new with the BF. Supposed to start working my new shift tomorrow so I can spend more time with him.

Get well, get well soon! We want you to get well! Get well, get well soon! We want you to get well!

Edit: Just got back. I thought it was having tonsilitis but it turns out that I have strep throat! Hooray?! :confused:

Gawd this sucks. I was hoping to have my BF come over and see the redone apartment. Guess I'll lay down now and pretend my teddy bear is here with me. :<

[JustB]

Most importantly, is she hot?

Yes, yes she is.

[Lobelia Prime]

Yes, yes she is.

If you're going to do it, and you're a MtF tranny, take my advice.
Tongue and fingers.

[JustB]

Edit: Just got back. I thought it was having tonsilitis but it turns out that I have strep throat! Hooray?! :confused:

Gawd this sucks. I was hoping to have my BF come over and see the redone apartment. Guess I'll lay down now and pretend my teddy bear is here with me. :<

Strep throat sucks. I've had it three times in my life so far an it took about 2-3 weeks for me to get better each time. Ramen or chicken noodle soup were the easiest things for me to eat. Hope you get better soon!

[JustB]

If you're going to do it, and you're a MtF tranny, take my advice.
Tongue and fingers.

Oh, I'm pretty sure I won't be putting it in. I know her gf hates penis.

[Lobelia Prime]

Oh, I'm pretty sure I won't be putting it in. I know her gf hates penis.

Exactly. ^_^
My first time was amazing because tongue and fingers were all I used. When I tried using the wingdangdoodle I actually went flacid.
God, I hate having this damn thing.

[JustB]

Is she in a monagamus relationship.. I know she says she needs it but if she's gonna break her gf's heart you should probably have no part of it.

if it's cool with her gf do it. I've done that for one of my lesbian friends before. as long as you arent gonna feel weird around her afterwards and she knows that you guys arent gonna become a couple i say go for it.

she just needs to get off if she cant do it with toys and xtube (bnb combo) and just needs some closeness maybe just be there so she can masturbate i guess.

That was my hang-up I think. She's been with this same girl for quite a long time now and I didn't want to be part of a heartbreak.

Thanks for the masturbation idea. I'm so clueless with all this ^_^; I'll try talking to her about that.

[Penance]

If you're going to do it, and you're a MtF tranny, take my advice.
Tongue and fingers.

what, no strap on? where's the fun in that?

[Lobelia Prime]

what, no strap on? where's the fun in that?

Tongue and fingers feel better. More control.

[Mechanica]

Tongue and fingers feel better. More control.

but there's no nerves for tingly sensations :sad: :shake:

[Lobelia Prime]

but there's no nerves for tingly sensations :sad: :shake:

I know MY tongue tingles when I give a girl cunnilingus.

[ramberk]

I saw Kung Fu Panda earlier today and then I see recent activity in this thread which has led me to think, "Are there any openly gay cartoon characters?" And I'm not talking about obscure/random Japanese anime characters either. Just wondering if you guys know of any.

Kung Fu Panda doesn't have any gay characters. It was a fun movie. Fun action scenes and decent jokes. They used a hand drawn animation style at the beginning which was awesome (I wish they had done the entire movie with that style). The CGI was tops though-- definitely rivaling Pixar. Recommended.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I saw Kung Fu Panda earlier today and then I see recent activity in this thread which has led me to think, "Are there any openly gay cartoon characters?" And I'm not talking about obscure/random Japanese anime characters either. Just wondering if you guys know of any.

Kung Fu Panda doesn't have any gay characters. It was a fun movie. Fun action scenes and decent jokes. They used a hand drawn animation style at the beginning which was awesome (I wish they had done the entire movie with that style). The CGI was tops though-- definitely rivaling Pixar. Recommended.

Jesse, James, meowth.. all gay and very open
that guy on family guy with the awesome voice "oh noo, I's gone die if i sting you"
ren and stimpy
Pegasus and Yugi/yami <--- if they werent gay.. i don't know what is. but maybe that falls into the anime characters column

pegasus: Hmm hmmm hmmm.... Hmmmm? oh that's right yugi boy.
and of course
Stan and roger from american dad.

Roger has to be the most openly gay character ever.

[ramberk]

I'm not sure if you're being serious or are pulling my leg-- I haven't watched enough of these shows to verify what your saying. I did know that James is gay or at least very effeminate and unafraid to cross dress. I love Meowth. He's actually one of my favorite cartoon characters of all time. The "gay episode" of American Dad was one of my favorites also (although I don't really care for the show in general.)

[The Green Trench Coat]

I'm not sure if you're being serious or are pulling my leg-- I haven't watched enough of these shows to verify what your saying. I did know that James is gay or at least very effeminate and unafraid to cross dress. I love Meowth. He's actually one of my favorite cartoon characters of all time. The "gay episode" of American Dad was one of my favorites also (although I don't really care for the show in general.)

i'm joking about team rocket.
but check these out.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HuFv9HGsNKo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dxxy_x9b69Q

[iwst99]

Stewie Griffin...

What's everyone been up to?

[Æther]

They showed the episode with Al's brother on TBS today! Anyone got dat TiVo?! Gogogogo!

[iwst99]

They showed the episode with Al's brother on TBS today! Anyone got dat TiVo?! Gogogogo!

There's 2 eps I believe....but, YUM!!!!

Or butt YUM if you will.

[koogy]

Bump~

i don't have anything to say. T_T i've got the flu and want to curl up in 9 blankets.

[Mechanica]

I need a job.

EDIT: And don't tell me to sell myself on craigslist. Some craigslist pimp just got arrested at a hotel near me :rofl: :rofl:

[Azagtoth]

EDIT: And don't tell me to sell myself on craigslist. Some craigslist pimp just got arrested at a hotel near me :rofl: :rofl:

Fucking lol.

Everytime I post a musician ad on Craigslist, I have a look at the casual encounters section and have myself a good hearty laugh.

[iwst99]

All of last week I got addicted to CL....OMFG I can read those casual encounter ads over and over and over.

"Looking for cute hairy twink to share my piss"

whaaaa?

[devildigimon]

I need a sexy kneegrow in my life...

Damn living in WI is da worst eva!

[stealthcat]

Stewie Griffin...

What's everyone been up to?

Would Stewie be bi? He seems to flop back and forth.

[Mechanica]

Would Stewie be bi? He seems to flop back and forth.

Nope. That's exactly what happens when you're young and gay (at least for a lot of us). Everyone brainwashes you into expecting to like girls so you try to. :bgrin:

[Æther]

-Finally sat down and watched Hot Fuzz on my glorious HDTV. It was like you could feel Nick Frost's furryness.

-Strep throat has been feeling better with the meds. Now I'm so tempted to visit Rob even though I haven't finished the meds. Dammit, HEAL already!

-Tomorrow I start workin in the mornings. 10-4 tomorrow but whatever, the hours I get this week are pathetic anyways so who cares how short it is. Oh well. Night bitches and queens!

[bear]

So which of you folks are going to Evo? I know it probably says somewhere in this thread, but searching takes a wink of effort and time, and I just found a slice of pie in the back of the fridge.

[BeaTs*]

MWC bitches! screw pride weekend. though I may go if adrian does....

I actually am using some vacation hours...sooo....muuuch...mahhhvelll

[Azagtoth]

So which of you folks are going to Evo? I know it probably says somewhere in this thread, but searching takes a wink of effort and time, and I just found a slice of pie in the back of the fridge.

I'm going with my bf and staying with a friend of his for free, Yash is probably gonna fly with us, and Rob and DLJ are rooming IIRC.

[Mechanica]

edit: nevermind

Awesome night/morning (2x the sex! woohoo!) with wayne. :bgrin: We are complete nerds who woke up early to watch the space shuttle landing on nasa TV. I fucking love it. I never really thought I'd find someone old enough for me to find attractive while still being as dorky as I am, in the cute way. *melts*

[30_60_90]

I'll be there, I'll most likely be the somewhat shy sickly looking guy wearing ridiculous clothes hanging out with Keits.

[bear]

I'm likely gonna go. Just figuring out if I can afford a room. I have the money, but there are things I need that I should be probably buy instead.

But if my past track record is any indication, I'll probably spend it on the trip and figure the rest out later.

[Mechanica]

Not makin' it to evo.

[Azagtoth]

Not makin' it to evo.

:(

Sucks man. I'm gonna party twice as hard for you.

[Lobelia Prime]

*whimper* I dun get to go to Evo either...no bearhugs for me....

[ramberk]

ZOINKS! It's another gay chub dating ad!

I've never been to EVO either. Maybe next year... :-/

[JustB]

Heh, I wouldn't mind going to Evo one of these years.

[eddymasta]

I really wanna go to this years evo, though its honestly up in the air. Heres to hoping I make it

[severin]

I'd go if I had the money for it and such... also... lol I'm 18

[devildigimon]

i'll be @ mwc...lookin good, feelin good.

just gotta find someone...doin the same...lol

oh and thanks 4 da green...whoever u r...u must understand where im comin from

[UltraDavid]

So are you guys (and cetera) trying to get married now? Who's gonna be first?

[ramberk]

So are you guys (and cetera) trying to get married now? Who's gonna be first?

You almost make it sound like its some weird experiment and everyone is afraid to try it first. :rofl:

I need to marry my boy just so that I can get some health insurance benefits. :wgrin:

[UltraDavid]

Heh marriage is weird for everyone, I mean I haven't done it (and don't plan to for quite a while) and it's always been available for me. Just wondering if anyone here was gonna take advantage of Cali law and take the plunge.

[iwst99]

Heh marriage is weird for everyone, I mean I haven't done it (and don't plan to for quite a while) and it's always been available for me. Just wondering if anyone here was gonna take advantage of Cali law and take the plunge.

Marriage is stupid, gay or straight.

[Mechanica]

:(

Sucks man. I'm gonna party twice as hard for you.

It's all good. Going camping with Wayne and honestly I'm more excited for that because we've still never gone on a trip together. I'd rather not be all stressed to hell and back trying to figure out where I'm gonna get the money to go and how I'll get there and get time off work when I find a job and yadda yadda. And isn't GG not being played there? That's almost all I care about now. Third strike is cool when you're not playing in a tourney. :lol:

I too think marriage is stupid. I just don't care. It's nice to see that the whiny homos who want to get married can, though. Even if I wanted to get married, I'd be against the idea of imitating some lame ass christian pastimes.

[iwst99]

I too think marriage is stupid. I just don't care. It's nice to see that the whiny homos who want to get married can, though. Even if I wanted to get married, I'd be against the idea of imitating some lame ass christian pastimes.

I don't care so much about the religious aspect of it, as all it really is, is a piece of paper you get notarized at city hall that says you are legally bound. The only thing I can think of is the benefits partners can now get that they're married that straight people could get being married, mostly for when it comes to properties and wills and such. The thing is if you don't have that paper telling you you're married, you can be with someone because you want to be, not because you have to...some people stay married because it will cause more problems to get a divorce specially with no prenup.

I believe in relationships and people being together, but I don't believe you need to be married to legitimize your relationship and be truly happy with someone. :tup:

[ramberk]

There's a humongous change when someone says they are married to someone else. Ignore the legal aspects of marriage for a moment and think of what it means when someone says they are married to someone. The word marriage and the symbolic ceremony tied to it have very strong meanings and implications tied to it. By getting married, and treating it seriously, you are literally saying this is the most important person in my life, this is a permanent union and nothing else will get in the way of it.

You can still argue, why does it matter. It matters because its a very big step in legitimizing our relationships. People have one less reason to think gay couples are "less then" straight couples. Its a big psychological change for a gay couple to say they are married. Our community has had to live with stigmatized stereotype that we only hook-up and our relationships are weak and that we're incapable of having strong, long-lasting relationships. It's a big difference how people view you when you say "we're married" as opposed to something else.

It also matters cause it strengthens the relationships we have as gay couples. We've had commitment ceremonies for a long time but for some folks, saying your married just has a stronger psychological effect. When you say your married, your saying, yeah, this is gonna be permanent and we're gonna work hard to make it work. That psychological effect is not quite there when you say we've had a commitment ceremony or you say something else.

It's symbolic and psychological. That was the biggest beef that a lot of conservatives have with it. They know they can't take our legal rights away and they can't fight the mainstream acceptance of our community but they at the least wanted to have one last thing they could hold on to, to say that our relationships are worthless. They no longer got that now (well at least not in CA in MA).

[ShinAkumax]

So who wants to see my nipples? I'm thinking of becoming a stripper once I get in flawless shape.

[iwst99]

There's a humongous change when someone says they are married to someone else. Ignore the legal aspects of marriage for a moment and think of what it means when someone says they are married to someone. The word marriage and the symbolic ceremony tied to it have very strong meanings and implications tied to it. By getting married, and treating it seriously, you are literally saying this is the most important person in my life, this is a permanent union and nothing else will get in the way of it.

You can still argue, why does it matter. It matters because its a very big step in legitimizing our relationships. People have one less reason to think gay couples are "less then" straight couples. Its a big psychological change for a gay couple to say they are married. Our community has had to live with stigmatized stereotype that we only hook-up and our relationships are weak and that we're incapable of having strong, long-lasting relationships. It's a big difference how people view you when you say "we're married" as opposed to something else.

It also matters cause it strengthens the relationships we have as gay couples. We've had commitment ceremonies for a long time but for some folks, saying your married just has a stronger psychological effect. When you say your married, your saying, yeah, this is gonna be permanent and we're gonna work hard to make it work. That psychological effect is not quite there when you say we've had a commitment ceremony or you say something else.

It's symbolic and psychological. That was the biggest beef that a lot of conservatives have with it. They know they can't take our legal rights away and they can't fight the mainstream acceptance of our community but they at the least wanted to have one last thing they could hold on to, to say that our relationships are worthless. They no longer got that now (well at least not in CA in MA).

I guess it's a good thing I don't give a damn how others view me or "our community." Considering about 50% of marriages or so end in divorce, the word marriage really does not mean what it used to, at least to me. I don't need to be married to let someone know they are the most important person in my life and that nothing else can get in the way, as you put it. It sounds more like a social tradition or psychological thing than anything else. By all means, if this is what someone wants, then they should go for it, and I am glad that there is a greater sense of equality when it comes to that.

Also, as much I know I am gay, I don't consider myself part of a big happy family or community. Just like straight people don't think of themselves as being in one big happy group for being straight and everyone sticking together. I post on SRK in the gay thread, as I am part of a fighting game community and it's cool to meet those that share my interest within the community. Now outside of that, I don't see me and every single gay person out there as part of one big group. It seems I can't even stand most gays, specially the stereotypical ones, and the fact that they are gay does not mean I should be friendly or tolerant of them in anyway, they are just another person, sexual preference makes no difference.

If you think we need to legalize marriage for "others" to see us as normal, then more than likely I don't want to associate myself with those who don't already see me as normal because I am gay. People are entitled to their opinions, and I am entitled to not give a fuck what others think about me. I know what and who I am, I know who I like and love, and I'll always have my friends there with me without the need of worrying what people I don't know or care about think about me.

[The Green Trench Coat]

So who wants to see my nipples? I'm thinking of becoming a stripper once I get in flawless shape.

i don't know about your body but i'd totally buy hair care products from you.


you have awesome hair.

[LightningStorm]

... mostly for when it comes to properties and wills and such.


FYI, Wills trump all, including marriage. If a man left a will that gave everything he owned to his high school geometry teacher and not his wife, then the wife will get nothing. Of course she could fight it and hang up his stuff in limbo for awhile and if she can prove he was not of sound mind when he made the will it can be overturned, but this is rare.

By getting married, and treating it seriously, you are literally saying this is the most important person in my life, this is a permanent union and nothing else will get in the way of it.

Unless they have kids, then it's the next most important person. Kids always come first. ALWAYS. If they don't then those are bad parents.

[ramberk]

You wouldn't have anything you have now, if everyone before us "didn't give a damn about what 'they' thought". Its not about kissing anyone's ass. Its about demanding respect and equality. Its about getting a right that everyone else has.

[iwst99]

You wouldn't have anything you have now

What do I have now that I wouldn't have otherwise? I wouldn't have ANYTHING I have now. Seriously? Do explain.

[ramberk]

Well... you'd either be killed, arrested, or put in a mental institution. If you were murdered, there wouldn't be a police investigation or the criminal charges against your murderer would be minimal. The police could search you just for acting 'weird'. There would be jobs you wouldn't be able to hold. Schools may bar you from attending them.

We wouldn't have Will & Grace if it were not for gay activists.

[iwst99]

Well... you'd either be killed, arrested, or put in a mental institution. If you were murdered, there wouldn't be a police investigation or the criminal charges against your murderer would be minimal. The police could search you just for acting 'weird'. There would be jobs you wouldn't be able to hold. Schools may bar you from attending them.

We wouldn't have Will & Grace if it were not for gay activists.

Umm. Killed for what? Yes, I go on here and type about my life. I do not go out and flaunt my gayness out on the streets. I can count on my left hand how many times I've gone to bars and much less clubs, which I can little for. I don't go around marching and hollering I'm here and queer. Unless I tell people, I've never had anyone assume I was gay. As much as I talk here, I don't rub my life or "lifestyle" in people's faces, and my personal life is my personal life.

So, taking this into consideration, why would I ever be murdered or thrown in a mental institution? Even if this was 60 years ago, I've never acted in a way to make my orientation be known to everyone who doesn't already know about it. Just like now, the only people that would know are those I've trusted enough to tell or I know are comfortable with it.

And I don't act "Weird" so I guess I wouldn't have to worry about the police.

[ShinAkumax]

i don't know about your body but i'd totally buy hair care products from you.


you have awesome hair.

http://pics.plentyofsite.com/dating/52/CALGARY_personals_29442229.jpg

Taken today. Blurry I know but it was a quick on. Oh yeah I found even better shit. I'll show you the pics of products today.

[iwst99]

http://pics.plentyofsite.com/dating/52/CALGARY_personals_29442229.jpg

Taken today. Blurry I know but it was a quick on. Oh yeah I found even better shit. I'll show you the pics of products today.

Haha, that's awesome, it fits your name. :D

[ramberk]

Umm. Killed for what? Yes, I go on here and type about my life. I do not go out and flaunt my gayness out on the streets. I can count on my left hand how many times I've gone to bars and much less clubs, which I can little for. I don't go around marching and hollering I'm here and queer. Unless I tell people, I've never had anyone assume I was gay. As much as I talk here, I don't rub my life or "lifestyle" in people's faces, and my personal life is my personal life.

So, taking this into consideration, why would I ever be murdered or thrown in a mental institution? Even if this was 60 years ago, I've never acted in a way to make my orientation be known to everyone who doesn't already know about it. Just like now, the only people that would know are those I've trusted enough to tell or I know are comfortable with it.

And I don't act "Weird" so I guess I wouldn't have to worry about the police.

Are you more concerned with people thinking your gay or are you more concerned that we have the same rights as everyone else? If your more concerned that people think your gay then let's just drop this conversation cause I'm not even talking about that.

[ShinAkumax]

Haha, that's awesome, it fits your name. :D

I couldn't figure out what you were talking about for a second. I wear them all the time, they are chick magnets. I'm gonna get ripped and dress up as akuma this year. Epic.

http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/profile.php?id=865360011

Anyone on this thread can add me.

[iwst99]

Are you more concerned with people thinking your gay or are you more concerned that we have the same rights as everyone else? If your more concerned that people think your gay then let's just drop this conversation cause I'm not even talking about that.

I brought up the people thinking I'm gay thing in response to your statement that we would all be killed or thrown in an institution. If I already don't flaunt it and make a big deal out of it as it is, why would I have to fear those things happening to me?

I am happy that we're moving towards equality and we get the same rights, but not because of it will change the way others view gays. I still stand on the same platform when it comes to marriage, but if there are those out there that need marriage to feel like a true couple, then so be it, and I'm glad they can do so now.


But whatever, it's all good news, and that's all that matters. My friend went to the hospital for a brain aneurysm about a month ago..the surgery went bad and had to have emergency surgery. She was in ICU for about 3 weeks, and I had been going every other day to see her, although she was totally drugged out, although still conscious. She finally got out of ICU last week and was back in her own room, although she couldn't speak. She called me last night and it was freaky seeing her number on my phone...She had only been able to speak a few hours and she called me up, it was so awesome. I am so happy that things are working out. She doesn't remember anything until up to a week before her surgery...it was weird talking to her, and I'm just so freaking happy that things are going back to normal with her. :tup::tup::tup:

[Mechanica]

Wait, why are we ranting about how marriage is our right when all we did was state our opinions of disliking marriage?

[iwst99]

Wait, why are we ranting about how marriage is our right when all we did was state our opinions of disliking marriage?


You know the way things work here. :)

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Hey. i got name dropped, so i'll bring some of the softer, sensual side of the culture in here. I find alot of the sensual, editorial work alot more interesting, and in some ways better arousal material, than the explicit kind.

(the following is NSFW)

I have a huge appreciation for beards. They're appealing to me. Which ever way it is composed, i'm pro-beard. I stumbled upon a few sites made by people who also have this fascination.

Pinupsmag[dot]com: Issue 5 Cover (http://www.pinupsmag.com/issue5large.jpg) [sample] (http://www.pinupsmag.com/issue5detail1.jpg)

One such publication is pinupsmag[dot]com, 2008. It features exaggerated centerfolds using atypical male models (specifically "medium" bears) as a nice play on the classic pinup (straight or gay varieties), reminiscently stylized as the adult magazines of past eras. That cover is a standout to me due to its playful nature, and handsome centerfolds.

But one big note, this is NOT a "bear" publication. It can be appreciated by anyone whose interested in the male form, which is generally hairy. straight from the creator:

Is it important for you to not classify this as a bear publication?

Yes it is. I'm not as anti-label as some. In fact I'm pretty indifferent. But I think it's important that I represent the models on a neutral platform. If I were to define Pinups as a bear magazine, then I'd be limiting the range of the models' beauty and presenting them as beautiful only within the confines of bear parameters, but by leaving it open, I'm allowing the models to be seen as beautiful across the entire spectrum. (taken from an interview by Matt Thomas for Fab Magazine, 2008)



Sean M. Johnson's: Beard Love (http://www.seanmjohnson.com/gallery/02_2007/04_Beard_Love_2/)
video 1: Chistopher Wakes Up (http://www.seanmjohnson.com/gallery/02_2007/05_Beard_Love/03_Christopher_wakes_up.mov)
video 2: Michael and I, Sunday Morning (http://www.seanmjohnson.com/gallery/02_2007/05_Beard_Love/05_michael_and_i_sunday_morning.mov)
video 3: Beard Love @ Mustache Ride (http://www.seanmjohnson.com/gallery/02_2007/04_Beard_Love_2/04_Beardlove_At_Mustache_Ride.mov)

Okay, this is the one i really enjoyed. Wondering where else the bear label can come from? Here's a punctuated example of it. Everything that encompasses a bear: hair, beards, playfulness, nuzzling, and so on and so forth... he puts it all together in a package that i feel drives the point home without being explicit about it. Being playful and connecting on a deeper level is very erotic to me.

Video 1: What i love about this work is the bristling of beards against one another are clearly audible. And there is no kissing. I'd imagine it would be a highly sensual experience.

Video 2: One of the more intimate videos. This is the type of morning I would love to have everyday (and lately have meditating about this alot lately). Watch the whole thing, and what happens at the end is really adorable. I can't say enough lovely things about this one.

Video 3: The video I linked to is strangely sensual. Especially the last couple on the reel (guy with the gray cap): the apparent hesitation, then getting a little looser, and ending with very candid and intense cuddling. I felt exhausted by the time it ended. Also, the middle encounter (the guy in the mocha tank top and the dude in the pink shirt) is also notable. You witness different levels of "Beard love" people express themselves with.

some of the creator's thoughts:

I first became interested in making the “Beard Love” series of videos because of my growing fascination with facial hair on men and its connection to society. The connection I make with facial hair is that it is usually worn by men of power: the father, the leader, and other iconic masculine figures throughout history, fantasy, and mythology. This idea of power in the wearer of the beard connects to many ideas I have about masculinity and manliness. Taking these ideas, I have looked at the way men and facial hair are both connected to masculinity, and how the beard has become fetishized by the bear community. I see the homosexual man with facial hair as a symbol for masculinity that has been stripped from mainstream gay culture (especially American gay culture). The queer bearded man then becomes the icon of masculinity and a representation of what I feel is somewhat lacking in gay culture.

Aside from the social fetish connection to masculinity, I feel that the beard and the role of the father are connected with a form of dominance in the family. I wanted to have masculine men with facial hair interact in a boyish, playful way, to change the idea of the father from aggressor to something more sensual, thereby “queer-ing” certain aspects of the ideal family. It may sound confusing, conflicting, and uncomfortable in many ways, but I like the idea of two fully grown men sharing the intimacy of rubbing each others beards together in a private space.

The beard is clearly a fetish for me as well. I love the way it feels on a man’s face, I love how it can grow, change shape, color, size, and make a man look older than he is. These differences are all dependent upon the wearer and how he decides to manipulate his beard’s features; the shaping and growth of it allows him to change his look and ultimately his identity, making the way he is viewed by others changeable and fluid. The videos also focus on how a beard feels through image as well as sound: it's soft, prickly, fuzzy, and having it rub against your face can be as erotic as kissing.

There are other things in this work that is worth a peep.

anywho, i thought those were interesting work.

[ramberk]

Wait, why are we ranting about how marriage is our right when all we did was state our opinions of disliking marriage?

Hey, I was just stating my thoughts on... oh wait, never mind.

[iwst99]

^^ That was all pretty interesting. Didn't realize there was a fetish for beards that wasn't bear related. Hot vids too.

[Azagtoth]

And isn't GG not being played there? That's almost all I care about now. Third strike is cool when you're not playing in a tourney. :lol:

It's not in the main lineup, but I'd be surprised if it didn't still have one hell of a presence there either way.

I'm mainly going for gay thread alumni IRL shenanigans and CVS2, to be honest.

[Mechanica]

Hey, I was just stating my thoughts on... oh wait, never mind.

dat's right shut yo piehole :cybot:

[Lobelia Prime]

Happy birthday to Jimmy the Hand.
Fuck yeah.

[Penance]

ok gay threaders i need help with a straight question.
Theres this really hott girl i kinda know who lives a few towns away. for the past 3 days or so all she's done is flirt with me and say how much she wants to fuck. now normaly i would be balls deep already but, her ex-girlfriend is a friend of mine. i worry that if i do anything it will blow up in my face, and not in the good sexual way.

advice, opinions?

[30_60_90]

ok gay threaders i need help with a straight question.
Theres this really hott girl i kinda know who lives a few towns away. for the past 3 days or so all she's done is flirt with me and say how much she wants to fuck. now normaly i would be balls deep already but, her ex-girlfriend is a friend of mine. i worry that if i do anything it will blow up in my face, and not in the good sexual way.

advice, opinions?

I would have to reply with
"Bros before hoes, man"
But seriously, if you think that there could be any sort of fallout from this that could permanently damage you and your friend's relationship, it probably isn't worth it.

[Valaris]

ok gay threaders i need help with a straight question.
Theres this really hott girl i kinda know who lives a few towns away. for the past 3 days or so all she's done is flirt with me and say how much she wants to fuck. now normaly i would be balls deep already but, her ex-girlfriend is a friend of mine. i worry that if i do anything it will blow up in my face, and not in the good sexual way.

advice, opinions?

I'm not gay but my girlfriend used to date my best friend.
My advice is if it's only to fuck, I'll go with 30_60_90 and stick with the Bros before hoes.
Though if you believe there's more to it and potential for a relationship, let your friend know.

[Adam Warlock]

I just read a Time article that said gay men have brains that are physically similar to straight women. I thought that was neat and a nice STFU to people who think it's a choice.

[iwst99]

I just read a Time article that said gay men have brains are physically similar to straight women. I thought that was neat and a nice STFU to people who think it's a choice.

Haha, I read that yesterday. So true, and it explains a lot.

[ramberk]

So does that mean straight men and lesbians have similar brain structures! o_O

lol

[Adam Warlock]

So does that mean straight men and lesbians have similar brain structures! o_O

lol


More than just brains. Look at Jimmy the Hand and Rosie O'Donnel.

[ShinAkumax]

I think some lesbians are living a lie. I can always spot the weak straight women from the true lesbians... just an opinion.

[iwst99]

More than jsut brains. Look at Jimmy the Hand and Rosie O'Donnel.

ZING!

That would make sense though.

I can always spot the straight guys that have gay sex just to be cool.

[Lobelia Prime]

I think some lesbians are living a lie. I can always spot the weak straight women from the true lesbians... just an opinion.

http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Daddy%27s_Money_Lesbian#Daddy.27s_money_lesbian

[iwst99]

http://encyclopediadramatica.com/Daddy%27s_Money_Lesbian#Daddy.27s_money_lesbian

Awww, Encyclopedia Dramatica.

I just found this on there:

Difference between homos and faggots

The short version: homos are normal people who have man sex in private and keep it that way, faggots flaunt it and demand to be treated better than Gods.
The long version: faggots may exhibit one or more of the following behaviors:
Wearing that stupid rainbow shit.
Making out with another guy in public.
Talking with a lispth.
Marching in a "gay pride" parade, typically in silver speedos or some other hideous faggot costumery.
Demanding that a gay tax be passed, also known as, gay marriage.
Talking about sex they have never had 24/7.

[Lobelia Prime]

:rofl: Win.
They had an article on SRK at one point. Shit was hysterical.

[BeaTs*]

mwc...should be fun! four days of gaming...and 2 days off work

but adrian wants to see me tomorrow...and I was gonna play all day tomorrow (training)...ugh...I will try to fit him in <3 (NO, NOT like that...[well...who knows])

I'm not really interested in going to pride weekend, but he wants to see me after that too...so I may go just to see him :D

I got a money match against VDO... GET HYPE...or not...

bye you 'mos

oh, and found me an apartment. joy and rapture

[Æther]

Wow... so umm...today I was work and ready to leave when my BF calls me up. We end up talking about action figures and whatnot when he pulls up to my job. Turns out he was nearby at a toy store just eye up stuff. So anyways...since we're at work we decide to get something to eat. WELL, being the dummy that I am, I had forgotten that my mother was going to pass by to pick me up to take me home.

So she walks up to us sitting next to each other with a basilisk's stone stare on her face. I'm like "OH HEY MA!... Ummm...I forgot to call you back...Ummmm......................this is my friend Rob. Rob this is my mom Damaris". Rob gets up and shakes my mom's hand. At this point I'm like ahhh crap... So I tell my mom that she can go back home and that I'd be going with Rob to our college campus since he has to take a test. She says okay and gives me another look as we leave and I just say "Mama, I love you....don't hurt me"

So now I'm at the campus waiting for Rob to finish his class test.

:confused:

[iwst99]

mwc...should be fun! four days of gaming...and 2 days off work

but adrian wants to see me tomorrow...and I was gonna play all day tomorrow (training)...ugh...I will try to fit him in <3 (NO, NOT like that...[well...who knows])

I'm not really interested in going to pride weekend, but he wants to see me after that too...so I may go just to see him :D

I got a money match against VDO... GET HYPE...or not...

bye you 'mos

oh, and found me an apartment. joy and rapture
REP dat gay Mahvel.

MANGO SENTINEL bitches.

[Mechanica]

I don't feel similar to straight women. At all. In fact I'm only friends with like two of them, because I pretty much just can't stand them. *shrug* I get what you mean by physically, it's just weird to think about for me, since my brain functions as far as humanly possible from the way a straight woman's brain functions.

As for penance's situation, I'm so confused. Is she bisexual? Er wait, are you in the same kinda boat as lobelia, sexual orientation wise? Wait I... but...

[iwst99]

Can you fix my Ache Eee Aye Are Tee?

Cause it's Dee Aye Eme Aye Gee Eee Dee.

[Lobelia Prime]

As for penance's situation, I'm so confused. Is she bisexual? Er wait, are you in the same kinda boat as lobelia, sexual orientation wise? Wait I... but...

Dude, Penance is a pansexual dude.

[Mechanica]

Dude, Penance is a pansexual dude.

That would explain why I'm so confused. I had to look the term up on wikipedia. :blush: Carry on.

[Penance]

Dude, Penance is a pansexual dude.

*smiles* all's fair in lust and war. i'll fall in love again eventualy but for now, i can't trust anyone with my heart.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Ugh, I just jumped from job to job. The market here is horrible and I ended up working at the Alamo for 2 weeks. Then I got a call from the city to work for them for more pay, but it might end up being a temp job, but I might be able to stay on. I couldn't stay at the Alamo since the pay was just awful so I had to jump on this one. Though I do have 3 more job leads just in case.

Send me money.

[Mechanica]

Be glad you can even hop from job to job like that! I'm still jobless... and not finding any leads.

[ramberk]

Yo Mech, have you tried temping? If you can type fast, know how to use Windows and Office, it might be easy to find a temp job. Temp jobs are also a great way to build up your resume and experience.

[bear]

Plus temp jobs are really boring, so you don't mind if they fall through.

And man, I started going to the gym again last week (as opposed to just doing weights at home). I've started over, this time with my brother showing me proper form for everything. I haven't been this sore in years. Reaching above my head is currently murder. Which I guess is proof that I needed to work on this again, but goddamn.

Aha! Food's ready.

[iwst99]

Yo Mech, have you tried temping? If you can type fast, know how to use Windows and Office, it might be easy to find a temp job. Temp jobs are also a great way to build up your resume and experience.

Listen to this man.

When I was in college I started temping. Although it was more like full time temp, cause I got lucky. Some places pay more than regular job, as they don't have to give you benefits. Look for Data entry for sure, if you can type fast, you're in. Last job I worked at I typed about 100+ an hour, which was about double the average what people there were typing, so I was getting around $13 an hour, more than what anyone there was. :party:

[ramberk]

Yup. Temping pays way better then a fast food job or a typical sales person job. You just got to be able to handle sitting in front of a computer for 8 hours, typing a lot and possible handling customers on the phone.

I've had a lot of temps jobs (sigh) and the vast majority of them have been good experiences. The people at your temp job sites are generally cool because they know you're a temp and you're new to their environment and work.

The only other piece of advice I give you is to not coast on temp jobs. Its easy to just temp for a long time but your doing yourself a big disservice by doing that. Temp jobs have lousy (or non-existent) benefits. Temp agencies also don't look out for you after they get you the job. They won't care about upping your salary or finding you a better job. Use the temp job as a stepping stone for a better job or as a in-between job while your going to school or just for earning money while you wait for something better to happen. It's easy becoming a "career" temp and you don't want to do that. :(

[Penance]

the only temp job here is texas meat packers. wich is reat if you don't speak english.
that job left me with one question. when you call INS why the fuck is it in spanish?

[Mechanica]

Most people that deal with raw meat don't speak english? :razz:

No, I haven't. If I knew where to find a data entry job, I might try that, as I type over 100wpm... but I dunno if I could handle a job like that. Sure my last job was hectic and stressful, but at least I wasn't bored. I can't stand being bored at work.

I might paint houses, lol

[Æther]

Who else likes anime?! 8D http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HU_5khy2fW4&feature=related

[BeaTs*]

dem...

MWC...some better and some worse than last year...

some cuties of course.

J360....not really my type...but that ASS was too much....ugh...unbrockable. lol Gabe and I were stealing looks.

As usual I do terrible during money matches/tourney...but kick ass later in the day during casuals (OCVs and Perfects)...will be better next year fo sho.

[Adam Warlock]

dem...

MWC...some better and some worse than last year...

some cuties of course.

J360....not really my type...but that ASS was too much....ugh...unbrockable. lol Gabe and I were stealing looks.

As usual I do terrible during money matches/tourney...but kick ass later in the day during casuals (OCVs and Perfects)...will be better next year fo sho.

I wish I hadn't read this. That'll teach me. Peace.

[BeaTs*]

what was wrong with my post?

the mention of quality of MWC or how terrible I did during the tourney? :xeye:


:blush:


he was fineeeee. a little pretty for my tastes...but so much asssssssssss

:cybot:

good casuals against him too.

[The Green Trench Coat]

chicken

+

Waffles...



too.. strong.
*passes out*

[BeaTs*]

white castle's

+

$1 LRG Diet Coke from McDs...


unmashable....*melts and dies*

[Mechanica]

Errbody does worse in tourney than they do casual. That's how it works.

...and fast food sucks.

I went to seattle with wayne last night to see one of douglas fairbanks' silent movies, and it turned out to be way cooler than I expected. I wouldn't have gone if I didn't think I'd enjoy it, but I just didn't know a silent movie could be so good. It was the best movie I've seen in a theatre in a while, and that's including ones with sound and everything. They had this guy play this ridiculously complicated organ the whole entire time, and he was spot on with the background music and everything. It was awesome. I really love that my boyfriend is as dorky as I am but still attractive. Haha and his new bmw is really fun to ride around in. Vrooooooom~

[30_60_90]

white castle's

+

$1 LRG Diet Coke from McDs...


unmashable....*melts and dies*

I don't think I met you at the tourney, I was the guy with all the different hats (white fishing hat signed by obscure band, pink tinkerbell hat, black hat with ears (Coo Ermheart's hat from Leave it to Piyocola), green sprite baseball cap).

[goukipoo]

Mech: Metropolis is the best silent film ever. Just make sure to see this version: http://www.amazon.com/Metropolis-Restored-Authorized-Alfred-Abel/dp/B00007L4MJ/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=dvd&qid=1214364481&sr=8-1

[30_60_90]

I liked the anime movie Metropolis, just the entire film was sci fi kickassery.

[Azagtoth]

So I had a funny thing happen to me recently.

Last week, I had a guitarist reply to one of my musician ads and I met up with him to hear him play. Guy was damn good so I took him in and we were going to get some shit going.

Just yesterday, he had apparently found out about my orientation (via myspace, no less). After confirming it with me, he promptly quit and admitted to me straight up that it was because he didn't like it. This eventually gave me the nagging feeling that many of the other people I tried out who left for whatever reason have all probably had the exact same problem but were a lot less up front about it.

I really should be used to this kind of shit (I get it a lot from other people's parents), but the truth is I'm really not at all, and it kind of hit me pretty hard. My confidence is entirely shaken as a result and I'm at a complete loss as to whether or not I should even bother continuing this project.

[The Green Trench Coat]

So I had a funny thing happen to me recently.

Last week, I had a guitarist reply to one of my musician ads and I met up with him to hear him play. Guy was damn good so I took him in and we were going to get some shit going.

Just yesterday, he had apparently found out about my orientation (via myspace, no less). After confirming it with me, he promptly quit and admitted to me straight up that it was because he didn't like it. This eventually gave me the nagging feeling that many of the other people I tried out who left for whatever reason have all probably had the exact same problem but were a lot less up front about it.

I really should be used to this kind of shit (I get it a lot from other people's parents), but the truth is I'm really not at all, and it kind of hit me pretty hard. My confidence is entirely shaken as a result and I'm at a complete loss as to whether or not I should even bother continuing this project.


the only advice i can offer is what a wise and respected member of the music community once told me.

And that is..




"Please don't stop the music."








time and again i'm shown that you don't get to be a pussy when you are following your ambition. Keep going.

[bear]

So I had a funny thing happen to me recently.

Last week, I had a guitarist reply to one of my musician ads and I met up with him to hear him play. Guy was damn good so I took him in and we were going to get some shit going.

Just yesterday, he had apparently found out about my orientation (via myspace, no less). After confirming it with me, he promptly quit and admitted to me straight up that it was because he didn't like it. This eventually gave me the nagging feeling that many of the other people I tried out who left for whatever reason have all probably had the exact same problem but were a lot less up front about it.

I really should be used to this kind of shit (I get it a lot from other people's parents), but the truth is I'm really not at all, and it kind of hit me pretty hard. My confidence is entirely shaken as a result and I'm at a complete loss as to whether or not I should even bother continuing this project.

Something you have to remember is that a lot of folks feel this way because they're worried about what others might think of them, and it's more social than personal. From my experiences, most people aren't terribly sure of themselves, regardless of how in-control they try to appear, and they're terrified of what others might think of them. And it isn't rare that people take things out on the object or person that might bring them some kind of (often purely imagined) ridicule. In this case, you.

The other scenario is that this guy is genuinely against you being gay, and is closed-minded on the topic. When working with someone artistically, these types (closed-minded/easily offended) are usually the worst collaborators. They either have already decided what good and bad art is (in this case, music), and they're often stubborn and afraid to try new things. If you suggest going against the grain of what they're used to, they'll fight you on it instead of just trying it and seeing how it sounds. They're usually content being pale copies of former pioneers, instead of pioneering something themselves.

These are not blanket scenarios. I'm sure there are exceptions. But I haven't seen many of them.

So yeah, I guess that's just my long-winded version of: Fuck that guy, he was either chicken shit, or he'd likely have been nothing more than a technically proficient player who'll never be noted for anything.

[Mechanica]

The way I see it, when shit like that happens, is I'd rather them be up front with it and get the fuck out of my life, than having to deal with some retard like that. Even in your situation I'd consider it no loss - I wouldn't want to make music with someone like that, if they were good or not.

[Azagtoth]

time and again i'm shown that you don't get to be a pussy when you are following your ambition. Keep going.

It's not so much that I'm pussying out. It's really moreso about the viability of it.

Metal as a whole is a rather homophobic genre on the surface, despite the almost endless praise for someone like Rob Halford of Judas Priest. It's what I want to do (excuse me, WILL do) regardless, I just wanted to do it without something as insignificant as my sexual orientation being an issue. What this has shown me is that apparently I have to lay it out on the table before anything, and I loathe having to do that because I hate letting something like that define me because it really doesn't.

-snip-

Yeah, his problem seemed to stem moreso from the social stigma from what I could gather.

Oddly enough, he also mentioned that he couldn't tell I was gay, and that seemed to bother him for some reason, but I blame that on age and inexperience more than anything (he actually went out of his way to ask me if I had aids).

The way I see it, when shit like that happens, is I'd rather them be up front with it and get the fuck out of my life, than having to deal with some retard like that. Even in your situation I'd consider it no loss - I wouldn't want to make music with someone like that, if they were good or not.

I feel the same way, actually. I'm really just frustrated because I've been attempting this for something around 2 years and I've had countless people show interest and then quit cold turkey for what seems like no reason at all. I don't know what to think, but I feel like shit at the moment because it feels like my orientation is actually limiting me and that's never a good feeling. :(

Gotta run back to work, brb.