Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[The Green Trench Coat]

It's not so much that I'm pussying out. It's really moreso about the viability of it.

Metal as a whole is a rather homophobic genre on the surface, despite the almost endless praise for someone like Rob Halford of Judas Priest. It's what I want to do (excuse me, WILL do) regardless, I just wanted to do it without something as insignificant as my sexual orientation being an issue. What this has shown me is that apparently I have to lay it out on the table before anything, and I loathe having to do that because I hate letting something like that define me because it really doesn't.


I wasn't talking about you i was talking about him. He was being a pussy so really his heart wasn't in it anyways. If it wasn't the gay thing he likely would have let you down in some other way. Good riddance. Keep going.

[Azagtoth]

I wasn't talking about you i was talking about him. He was being a pussy so really his heart wasn't in it anyways. If it wasn't the gay thing he likely would have let you down in some other way. Good riddance. Keep going.

Ah my bad for misunderstanding. Thanks for the encouragement, Rob. Means a lot coming from you. <3

Btw, I love you guys. <3

[BeaTs*]

Errbody does worse in tourney than they do casual. That's how it works.

...and fast food sucks.

well, I do incredibly bad...I did bad in casuals too always at the beginning of the day. Some peeps do just as good if not better during tourney. friggin Liston!!!

I don't think I met you at the tourney, I was the guy with all the different hats (white fishing hat signed by obscure band, pink tinkerbell hat, black hat with ears (Coo Ermheart's hat from Leave it to Piyocola), green sprite baseball cap).oh damn, I thought I met you at nickels once before...I guess it was some other random 'mo from this thread. yeah, I remember you. you stopped by my room (marvel room) one of the nights and was chattin'

[Mechanica]

How long you been playin in tourneys, beats? I used to do absolutely ridiculously horrible in tourneys, just the pressure and the random opponents, I dunno... but after I've been playing regular tourneys, even in different games, I've gotten used to it and don't take it so seriously and thus don't affect my level of play.


I feel the same way, actually. I'm really just frustrated because I've been attempting this for something around 2 years and I've had countless people show interest and then quit cold turkey for what seems like no reason at all. I don't know what to think, but I feel like shit at the moment because it feels like my orientation is actually limiting me and that's never a good feeling. :(
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Yeah, I totally understand. I'd be frustrated as hell, too. In fact, I'd probably hit the dude in the face. So... at least you're not as violent as me. :lol: You're a cool guy though, you'll find someone who doesn't care about that kinda thing, and it'll be way better than anyone who would. When I finally play guitar/bass well enough for it to count, I'll jam witchu.

[BeaTs*]

this was my second tourney.

next year fo sho!!

[Azagtoth]

Yeah, I totally understand. I'd be frustrated as hell, too. In fact, I'd probably hit the dude in the face. So... at least you're not as violent as me. :lol: You're a cool guy though, you'll find someone who doesn't care about that kinda thing, and it'll be way better than anyone who would. When I finally play guitar/bass well enough for it to count, I'll jam witchu.

Hell yeah we should jam.

Anyway, I found this hilarious.

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/28491

I'm a tard lol.

[Æther]

Are pride parades even that good to go to? I know I'd feel way more embarrassed than the guy in the leather speedo next to me. :|

[JustB]

Hell yeah we should jam.

Anyway, I found this hilarious.

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/28491

WTF where they thinking? I know gay pride parades tend to be a little over the top, but the shit they mention there is nothing short of fucking ridiculous.

*snicker*

I love The Onion sometimes.

[iwst99]

Hell yeah we should jam.

Anyway, I found this hilarious.

http://www.theonion.com/content/node/28491

WTF where they thinking? I know gay pride parades tend to be a little over the top, but the shit they mention there is nothing short of fucking ridiculous.

I hope you know what the onion is.

[Azagtoth]

I hope you know what the onion is.

I just got rickrolled, huh?

Honestly couldn't tell until I saw the front page. "Lesbian couple enjoys hot lesbian action."

[Mechanica]

this was my second tourney.

next year fo sho!!

Yeah, see. It's something you get over with experience. You just have to go to enough tourneys and then it's no different than casuals really.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

i hope that beard article i posted wasn't too strange for ya'll...

/scratches 5 o'clock shadow

[The Green Trench Coat]

i hope that beard article i posted wasn't too strange for ya'll...

/scratches 5 o'clock shadow

at my last exhibit they had a guy featuring all of those videos.. he was pretty hot.

[Mechanica]

Going to see another (the last one they're showing :sad:) silent movie with Wayne tonight! :bgrin:

We went to the nude beach yesterday. It was badass.

I got my name drawn so I get to bring one guest (I wonder who) into the tiki lounge and we get to stuff ourselves full of trader joe's food for free before the showing, all while getting humorous peoplewatching time in, because the crowd that a silent movie draws in is funny and well, fun to make fun of. This one's the original Mark of Zorro and I'm stoked. Last one was way better than you could expect a silent movie to be, and the guy who plays the gigantic wurtlitzer organ along with the movie is really good.

[The Green Trench Coat]

I don't think i'm gonna enter anything at evo. if i go i'll play casuals or just boy/bear watch.

I just found out that i won't be able to make it in time for the 3s tourney :( or cvs2

[Azagtoth]

I'm considering not entering CVS2, but at the same time I'm really curious as to how well I could do so I dunno.

But you definitely have a partner for boy/bear watching. =D

[bear]

I think I'm going. I've been dancing back and forth on it because of finances, but if I can find a reasonably priced flight, I'm in. And I'll likely enter some tournaments and get knocked out in the first round, then get drunk and play nickel slots. Not a bad way to spend a weekend.

[Mechanica]

just found like my new favorite youtube account eva

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JcSBqtwwuSI

[ramberk]

^^

lol. Did you watch any of the follow up videos? I only watched the "NO HOME goes TOO FAR" (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RUCbPvP5H9k&NR=1). Pretty funny...

"Let me caress your lips with mine." "If I say no homo its not gay."

[Æther]

Things are kind of tight at the moment for me here. Rob asked me if I'd want to go with him to Atlanta for Christmas. Between this and his group supposedly going to the Bahamas in August, I have no idea what to do. Right now I'm trying to find a better job fast enough while helping Rob out with gas money and random stuff so I really need a budget plan if I'm going anywhere. Hopefully I can still go...

[ramberk]

Wait a sec... he's inviting you to travel around the country but is also needing help with gas money?!?

[DaDesiCanadian]

lol @ silent movies.

That sounds awesome. :rofl:

[Mechanica]

lol @ silent movies.

That sounds awesome. :rofl:

Dude, the original Mark of Zorro is/was badass! :woot: It's funny as hell. I'm sad I missed robin hood.

[The Green Trench Coat]

doesn't look like i'll be going to evo now.

My boss just changed my hours at work.. I wouldnt be able to get to vegas till saturday afternoon and then i't have to turn around sunday afternoon to come back.. kind of a waste.

Anyways i think it's just easier to chill with people here in ny. So I'll be working out with some of you which weekends would be cool to fly you up and hang out instead.

[Æther]

Wait a sec... he's inviting you to travel around the country but is also needing help with gas money?!?
Yeah, it's weird. He gets paid bi-weekly and most, if not all, of his check goes to bills. I just cover his gas whenever he's bone dry. I figured I might as well since I'd be scared for him to be broke AND have no gas in the middle of nowhere. That and since he's done most of the driving these days he needs it more than I do.

Sucks to hear about the change GTC. Maybe I should become a ChaCha teller and by this time next year I'll have more than enough for Evo. :tup:

[Khaotika!]

oy. :o

[Lobelia Prime]

Ho-lee shit.
I went out today in a skirt and stockings and no one looked at me twice. I'm awesome. I'm so fucking awesome.

[Mechanica]

Ho-lee shit.
I went out today in a skirt and stockings and no one looked at me twice. I'm awesome. I'm so fucking awesome.

Cool, man. :tup: That's good to hear. This town sucks like that... I can't even go grocery shopping without getting stared at by literally every single person in the store and I don't even dress weird/bright anymore, I just have purple/blue hair :confused:

[Azagtoth]

doesn't look like i'll be going to evo now.

Fuck. :(

And with that, my interest in Evo seems to have dwindled.

[JustB]

Ho-lee shit.
I went out today in a skirt and stockings and no one looked at me twice. I'm awesome. I'm so fucking awesome.

Way to be!

[ViciousSLASH]

*dennis*The boys are out tonight huh?...*/dennis*

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol, yeah GTC it wasn't look like I could afford the EVO trip anyhow. I'm working again but it was too late to afford tickets. Oh well, always next year.

You still play smash anymore VSlash?

[The Green Trench Coat]

lol, yeah GTC it wasn't look like I could afford the EVO trip anyhow. I'm working again but it was too late to afford tickets. Oh well, always next year.

You still play smash anymore VSlash?

DLJ i know you just started working and all. But lets figure out a weekend or something that i can fly you up here and we can hang out.

Fuck. :(

And with that, my interest in Evo seems to have dwindled.

yeah but I'll definitely see you and hopefully warlock in october. this time i'm gonna rent my own car so that we can find a local arcade or something down there. And prep your bf cause i'm totally sneaking you into every party again this year.

[Lobelia Prime]

Cool, man. :tup: That's good to hear. This town sucks like that... I can't even go grocery shopping without getting stared at by literally every single person in the store and I don't even dress weird/bright anymore, I just have purple/blue hair :confused:
Daaaamn, dude. Washington sounds like they got tightass men in business suits in the grocery store with their wife and kids thinking, "Oh, golly! That's one of those homosexuals I heard about on Fox News! I better keep Sarah and Billy safe. Fox News says homosexuals can give you their disease through contact."
Way to be!
Thanks. :lovin: Went out the same way to the movies last night. I might end up just living as a woman full-time here pretty soon.

[ViciousSLASH]

lol, yeah GTC it wasn't look like I could afford the EVO trip anyhow. I'm working again but it was too late to afford tickets. Oh well, always next year.

You still play smash anymore VSlash?

Nah I stopped playing Smash Brothers like a month after I got it.

I sold the Wii and everything to an SRKer.

The game just ended up making me mad everytime I played.

I also am beginning a sort of exodus from video games.

If it's not a fighting game or has FF with a roman numeral behind it I'm pretty much not going to be playing it.

[Mechanica]

Daaaamn, dude. Washington sounds like

Nah, it's just Edmonds.

[Lobelia Prime]

Nah, it's just Edmonds.

That name even sounds conservative. :rofl:

[Azagtoth]

yeah but I'll definitely see you and hopefully warlock in october. this time i'm gonna rent my own car so that we can find a local arcade or something down there. And prep your bf cause i'm totally sneaking you into every party again this year.

Awesome.

Don't worry too much about him though. We were honestly planning on it this year.

[JustB]

Daaaamn, dude. Washington sounds like they got tightass men in business suits in the grocery store with their wife and kids thinking, "Oh, golly! That's one of those homosexuals I heard about on Fox News! I better keep Sarah and Billy safe. Fox News says homosexuals can give you their disease through contact."

Actually, I've had a father of a family of four look at me like I was going to eat his children. Funny and sad at the same time ^_^;

[DrumlinerJoe]

Nah I stopped playing Smash Brothers like a month after I got it.

I sold the Wii and everything to an SRKer.

The game just ended up making me mad everytime I played.

I also am beginning a sort of exodus from video games.

If it's not a fighting game or has FF with a roman numeral behind it I'm pretty much not going to be playing it.

lol yeah Eric was telling me you'd get all frustrated playing it. Oh well.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Actually, I've had a father of a family of four look at me like I was going to eat his children. Funny and sad at the same time ^_^;

dude i get those looks all the time. I get them when i travel and i get them back at home.

this one time when i was 12 a 5 year old tripped in front of me when i was in souix city iowa. (dont ask) and the mother ran and clutched her child like I was the devil incarnate.


I hated my month there.. everyone kept telling me i look like young micheal jackson. and some of them i could tell theat twas the limit on the people of color that they knew.

[Khaotika!]

this one time when i was 12 a 5 year old tripped in front of me when i was in souix city iowa. (dont ask) and the mother ran and clutched her child like I was the devil incarnate.

I hated my month there.. everyone kept telling me i look like young micheal jackson. and some of them i could tell theat twas the limit on the people of color that they knew.

Well of course, they'd freak. "Oh no, he's gonna bust out dance moves that light up tiles on the sidewalk and grab his crotch!!" *SUPER RUN AWAY* :rofl:

[ViciousSLASH]

lol yeah Eric was telling me you'd get all frustrated playing it. Oh well.

I was as excited for Brawl as you can get for a video game.

Then I soon learned that to be "good" at Brawl you have to find the best thing your character can do and then do it over and over and over and over again like a robot.

Eventually I figured out that I just wasn't having fun while playing the game. So I just quit and a few months later sold the Wii.

If you're referring to Satomiblood, it's Erik with a K. He is a special Eric.

The other week he was playing Smash Brothers when we all ( or mainly just me ) wanted to watch TV or whatever it was ( basically not watch him play against 3 other random people online with the anyone brawl thing ) so I just beat everyone over and over and tried to make the game as unfun as I could as fast as I could so we could stop playing.

Needless to say it worked, no one likes getting constantly inhailed and chain thrown.

[Satomiblood]

I still like playing. But now it's just MGS4.

[bear]

I was as excited for Brawl as you can get for a video game.

Then I soon learned that to be "good" at Brawl you have to find the best thing your character can do and then do it over and over and over and over again like a robot.

Eventually I figured out that I just wasn't having fun while playing the game. So I just quit and a few months later sold the Wii.

If you're referring to Satomiblood, it's Erik with a K. He is a special Eric.

The other week he was playing Smash Brothers when we all ( or mainly just me ) wanted to watch TV or whatever it was ( basically not watch him play against 3 other random people online with the anyone brawl thing ) so I just beat everyone over and over and tried to make the game as unfun as I could as fast as I could so we could stop playing.

Needless to say it worked, no one likes getting constantly inhailed and chain thrown.

That's what happens when I get excited for something. It's better when something grabs me and I wasn't expecting it to, or even looking for it. Which also might be why I'm still playing fucking counter-strike after all these years. I probably don't even know a tenth of what's been released over the years. I still play the same old stuff (3rd Strike, Counter Strike ... anything with "strike" in it, apparently).

I'm not real worried about it, though. I got tired of reading game news all the time and hoping something was gonna blow me away. Whenever I'm pumped about it, I usually build my expectations so high that nothing'll please me. Or I just get caught up in hype over a game that was never terribly great to begin with. I'd rather everyone else sort it out.

But fuck me, I really hope I haven't done that with Dark Knight. I've had a Batman boner for over a year now. If it was for nothing, I'm gonna kill a puppy.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Well of course, they'd freak. "Oh no, he's gonna bust out dance moves that light up tiles on the sidewalk and grab his crotch!!" *SUPER RUN AWAY* :rofl:

Khaotika! you make my day everytime i see you post or hear from you *bearhugs*

[JustB]

That's what happens when I get excited for something. It's better when something grabs me and I wasn't expecting it to, or even looking for it. Which also might be why I'm still playing fucking counter-strike after all these years. I probably don't even know a tenth of what's been released over the years. I still play the same old stuff (3rd Strike, Counter Strike ... anything with "strike" in it, apparently).

I'm not real worried about it, though. I got tired of reading game news all the time and hoping something was gonna blow me away. Whenever I'm pumped about it, I usually build my expectations so high that nothing'll please me. Or I just get caught up in hype over a game that was never terribly great to begin with. I'd rather everyone else sort it out.

But fuck me, I really hope I haven't done that with Dark Knight. I've had a Batman boner for over a year now. If it was for nothing, I'm gonna kill a puppy.

I'm in pretty much the same position. I only play games that I can play with other people (fighters) and quirky rpgs that NIS and Atlus bring over. I have hopes for Disgaea 3. I'm actually seeing more and more stuff come out for the ds and psp that I would like rather than on the consoles. I even bought a DS specifically for the Castlevania games.

All in all, I think I'm losing interest in one of my most prominent pastimes.

[Mechanica]

Yeah, just the other day I was walking somewhere and noticed that when I'm walking behind families and the little kids' legs can't keep up and they start lagging, the parents look back all panicked like I'm pulling them back with my I Eat Children Force Pull or something.

[severin]

You guys are so lucky. I wish I could scare more families.

Now for a slight rant.

Right, first of all, let me apologize in advance for going Livejournal on everyone. However, this has been something that's been on my mind practically nonstop for the past few months, and I've told relatively few people about this in detail, mainly because I'm not even sure I have full grip on what's going on. Hell, I'm not even looking for advice specifically, rather, just a way to voice this. Also, this may make rather little sense, as I'm not editing/filtering compulsively as I normally do. (Not like I really post that much anyways)

Right, moving onwardly, at the moment, I seem to be having a gender crisis of some sort. I currently identify as gender neutral, but I'm really starting to wonder how "real" any of it is. Quick basis of how I got this far. I've never much cared for my body, it's pretty darn male, and it feels... off to say the least. On the other hand, I've done some serious thinking, and a female body wouldn't really fit either. In terms of mannerisms and such, I recall when I was younger (though I'm not exactly old, lol 18), I liked stereotypically feminine things. For a few examples, I started growing my hair out at age 10, and started shaving my legs at 12. I also got an older friend to teach me how to do basic makeup and the like. Meanwhile... I was still rather a boy at the time, and had equally stereotypical examples going on. Now, I do realize, none of these things are actually that significant, but it helps me feel somewhat more justified in feeling how I do currently. Fast forward a couple years. 16-ish. At this point, I had come out as bi to my parents and friends, and I figured this would probably solve this internal struggle of sorts. It didn't really. Though, at this time, I was starting to joke around with the notion of gender neutrality, but never took it that seriously. When people would ask online and such, my reply was (and still is) "Sev is Sev". It got even to the point where my friends started saying similar things. I found it more amusing than anything. I guess I only started to consider it seriously when I met a FtM in the middle of his transition. I could not for the life of me determine what he was, and it really grabbed me. So, one day I managed to ask him about all it, and ended up telling him everything. So, it was at this time I found out that, hey, there's people that identify as other than the established binary genders, and that there are indeed ways to change one's body (at this point, I still thought hormones were entirely too risky to even consider). Currently, I'd like to change something, but, still not sure what. More on that later.

However, in thinking about this, something somewhat bothersome hit me. There doesn't seem to be any mannerisms that are especially gender neutral that call much attention to themselves. It made me realize that I'm doing stereotypically feminine things not because they're feminine, but rather because they're considered NOT masculine. I guess I'm hoping that my mannerisms and body will end up canceling the other out. Or thus is my plan until I can make a physical transition of sorts.

Another thing that's been getting to me recently though, is how this is all seeming amazingly pretentious. I may not be the type that insists on having "xe" and "hir" for pronouns, but it feels damn close. It's almost as if I'm saying "I'm too good for your stupid binary genders, I'm going to go join another", that or another stupid way of trying to be different, no matter what it takes. It could also be that hey, this is a crazy teenage phase of mine, and I'm going to end up being perfectly normal eventually.

On a slightly different note, I just got some more pictures back from a photoshoot and such that my boyfriend and I did a few months back. PM and such if interested or anything. Whoo.


[ramberk]

Like you said, "Sev is Sev." What you've done so far is pretty darn brave.

Are you afraid of transitioning (MtF?)? Are you happy with a third gender identity? Its unclear to me from your message...

You sound like you got a good head on your shoulders though. And your ahead of the game because of what you've already done.

[Lobelia Prime]

Like you said, "Sev is Sev." What you've done so far is pretty darn brave.

Are you afraid of transitioning (MtF?)? Are you happy with a third gender identity? Its unclear to me from your message...

You sound like you got a good head on your shoulders though. And your ahead of the game because of what you've already done.

Yeah, Sev, as far as I know, is the third gender.

[severin]

Right, making things clear, not one of the things I'm especially good at.

I'm happy with idea of a third gender identity and what not, but... ya, it still feels rather superficial, fake, and pretentious still. As far as transitioning goes. Well, I've talked to a few people, including a few specialists at home (San Francisco, whee), and none of them really had much experience when it came to a gender neutral transition.... which is understandable. So, bit of hesitance from that standpoint, but most of my hesitance based on the possibility that this is all a "crazy teenage phase", and that I'll return to normal any day now.

Edit: I'm not sure even why I'm posting all this in the first place, but somehow, I thought it was a real good idea to tell SRK.

[Desu]

My name is Desu. (Actually, it's Tim.)
I'm gay. (There, I said it.)
I came here from Smashboards. (They closed the gay thread there.)
I live in Georgia. (Cumming, Georgia. Yuck it up.)
I'm good at SMASHBARLW. (Won $1,101 and some goodies since release.)
That's about all I can think of.
Sup.

[Lobelia Prime]

Lobelia linked me here.
Sup.

(I'm from Smashboards, and I can't really think of anything to say. Meh. >_>)

Well, usually, you say what kind of dudes you're into or something. That seems to be what a lot of the guys here say.

[Desu]

Well, usually, you say what kind of dudes you're into or something. That seems to be what a lot of the guys here say.

Errr...
I'm not into effeminate guys.
I'm not into muscular/jockish guys.
Other than that, I'm pretty open. :P

[JustB]

Right, making things clear, not one of the things I'm especially good at.

I'm happy with idea of a third gender identity and what not, but... ya, it still feels rather superficial, fake, and pretentious still. As far as transitioning goes. Well, I've talked to a few people, including a few specialists at home (San Francisco, whee), and none of them really had much experience when it came to a gender neutral transition.... which is understandable. So, bit of hesitance from that standpoint, but most of my hesitance based on the possibility that this is all a "crazy teenage phase", and that I'll return to normal any day now.

Edit: I'm not sure even why I'm posting all this in the first place, but somehow, I thought it was a real good idea to tell SRK.

You can be pretentious if you want. It's ok ^_~

In all seriousness, you really aren't alone. I get by each day by asking myself what consequences (positive or negative) I am willing to face and accept for whatever actions I perform or whatever decisions I make. I've come to the conclusion that as far as I know, this is the only chance at life that I'm going to get so I better make it count. There is no audition for life, babe, you get one shot on the stage. Be who you're going to be and have no regrets. Yes, ask the questions, but make sure you are actually doing something with the answers that you find or set out to make your own answers.

[Mechanica]

I have thoughts on the subject but I don't really know how to articulate them without them being kinda... offensive? I don't know. Earlier I was lying in bed wondering why when a guy feels very stereotypically feminine (for lack of a better way to describe) he feels like he should be a girl on the outside too. I don't see what's wrong with being comfortable with the body you're given, even if you don't match society's ideas of what you should act like and whatever else. Don't get me wrong, if you truly feel female on the inside and want the outside to match the outside - that totally makes sense to me. I can't even imagine what it feels like to be in either situation so take what I say with a grain of salt.

I think it's cool that while you don't feel like you fit quite into either side, you're not rushing into making drastic changes. Don't worry about going all livejournal style, it's interesting, and helps me understand more about it every time I read someone's backstory about something. :tup: I think part of the inner struggle you guys have to fight through is because of society's way of lumping every-fucking-thing into 50/50, black and white categories. Sexuality, gender, politics, fucking EVERYTHING from birth is like you HAVE to be on one side or the other. It was confusing enough figuring out the whole "oh hey I'm a guy but I don't like girls like the world is telling me I do" thing, so I'm sure you guys are just like :looney: from day one.

[JustB]

... I don't see what's wrong with being comfortable with the body you're given, even if you don't match society's ideas of what you should act like and whatever else....

Your post was pertinent and i don't want to cheapen it, but I do want to focus on this part of it.

*Long answer* (livejournal style)

This is a question that I ask myself very often and I will probably continue to ask myself this for a while to come. It's deeper than what society's ideas and expectations are of me. Years of depression surrounded a suicide attempt or two on my part until I eventually figured out what it would take for me to be ok with my life. I tried religion, therapy, pills, weed (copious amounts of hydro for a few months)... hell, I even tried identifying as gay for a couple of years. It wasn't until I accepted that I didn't fit into one of (if not) the most basic of human categorizations that my perspective changed and I started taking steps to actually live. **Note: The perspective change is much more involved and would take a book to fully discourse**

I realized that practically everything that I had been taught was from a very limited perspective and the rest was total bullshit. It took me longer than I wanted to to begin transitioning. I put a lot of thought and planning in to everything and even then, I waited another 8 months just to be absolutely sure that this was the only way. I waited until I had a job that would allow me to support myself in the case that I might be disowned by my family and abandoned by all of my friends. Eventually, I got to the point where I was ready to sacrifice everything I had and I took the plunge and started HRT. I'm luckier and more blessed than most of the trans community. I had most people stick around and no one got physically violent with me and I'm grateful that those who were not ok with my course practically just evaporated from my life. This isn't an easy decision nor is it an easy path for anyone who goes down it, but (for me anyway) it's worth it. I'm happier than I have ever been in my entire life even with all the frustrations and hardships that come with being in transition. I have a sense of place, purpose, hope, and am actually looking forward to what tomorrow will bring be they trials or triumphs.

**DISCLAIMER**
This in no way should be considered a representation of all trans persons. These are my personal thoughts and feelings.

*short answer*
All I can say is that I've tried and I can't.

[Khaotika!]

Khaotika! you make my day everytime i see you post or hear from you *bearhugs*

:wonder: :lovin: Thanks. Things are still going day-to-day for me... runnin' along, trying to get my shit together.... trying to keep a guy. :looney:

Yeah, just the other day I was walking somewhere and noticed that when I'm walking behind families and the little kids' legs can't keep up and they start lagging, the parents look back all panicked like I'm pulling them back with my I Eat Children Force Pull or something.

It doesn't help if you follow through with a Magnetic Shockwave. Or maybe it does. :rofl:

Hi Desu!

Also, hey again everyone. :P

[iwst99]

Errr...
I'm not into effeminate guys.
I'm not into muscular/jockish guys.
Other than that, I'm pretty open. :P

Pics plz.

Also, are you into chubs/bears? If so you'll fit in nicely here.

[Azagtoth]

Pics plz.

Also, are you into chubs/bears? If so you'll fit in nicely here.

Jaimeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Your Emy sucks.

[iwst99]

Jaimeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee.

Your Emy sucks.

My Emy > your Welve.

[Pablo_the_Mex]

Is a chub the same as a female fatty? Are they equivalent?

[Lobelia Prime]

Is a chub the same as a female fatty? Are they equivalent?

Yes, basically.

[Azagtoth]

Is a chub the same as a female fatty? Are they equivalent?

Yeah, although it's more of a love/hate thing with gays than with straight guys. You don't hear too many stories about gay dudes sleeping with chubs as a last resort just for the sake of getting laid; they usually just avoid them altogether.

Fat girls are pretty awesome, but I guess I'm just a fatty lover. <3

My Emy > your Welve.

True, but my Kuma is pretty dope.

[Desu]

New
http://www.tidazi.com/temp/fotozzz/thispiciscrap.jpg
http://www.tidazi.com/temp/fotozzz/lolmyspace.png
http://www.tidazi.com/temp/fotozzz/sleeping.jpg
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I'd post a newer pic from winner's circle at a recent tournament I won, but they're being lame and not uploading it. :<
I was lookin' all cool and fly and poppin' fresh, too. ;~;

Pics plz.

Also, are you into chubs/bears? If so you'll fit in nicely here.

Judged on a per-person basis. :P

[iwst99]

New
http://www.tidazi.com/temp/fotozzz/thispiciscrap.jpg
http://www.tidazi.com/temp/fotozzz/lolmyspace.png
http://www.tidazi.com/temp/fotozzz/sleeping.jpg
Old


I'd post a newer pic from winner's circle at a recent tournament I won, but they're being lame and not uploading it. :<
I was lookin' all cool and fly and poppin' fresh, too. ;~;



Judged on a per-person basis. :P

Cool pics.....

You fit into the Mech/IWST category. Whatever that might be.

Welcome. :party:

[Æther]

My name is Desu. (Actually, it's Tim.)
I'm gay. (There, I said it.)
I came here from Smashboards. (They closed the gay thread there.)
I live in Georgia. (Cumming, Georgia. Yuck it up.)
I'm good at SMASHBARLW. (Won $1,101 and some goodies since release.)
That's about all I can think of.
Sup.

WTH? Why? :confused:

Regardless, welcome to the thread. You look like the guy version of my cousin. Guess that's it. lol

And hey everyone else. Things are okay with me and Rob like usual. Still trying to get a better job. Found a Barnes & Nobles near my place that recently opened so hopefully they'll still have open slots.

Other than that I have been physically ill for some reason. Last weekend I had some bodyaches and weakness and then it flared back up during the 4th, of all days. Hoping it isn't something serious since for the past month I've been relatively active and stopped drinking soda. Oh well. /livejournal

[Ali M]

What would you do if you saw ya moms washin her tits in the kitchen sink?

[Æther]

What would you do if you saw ya moms washin her tits in the kitchen sink?
"Ma, you better NOT be doing that over my Batman mug"

[Lobelia Prime]

What would you do if you saw ya moms washin her tits in the kitchen sink?

I'd ask her to press them together so I can suck them dry.

[30_60_90]

What would you do if you saw ya moms washin her tits in the kitchen sink?
"For the last time mom, ONLY when company is over!!!":mad:

[Desu]

WTH? Why? :confused:
-snip-

Haven't a clue. They said that it got 'off topic' or some BS like that.
After 75 pages on max posts per page...
Quite frankly, I don't understand it. <_<;

[LightningStorm]

What would you do if you saw ya moms washin her tits in the kitchen sink?
I'd ask her to press them together so I can suck them dry.

Regardless if one is gay, straight, bi, transgendered or even an damned alien.. THAT is a "WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?!" no matter how you slice it. :confused:

[JustB]

Regardless if one is gay, straight, bi, transgendered or even an damned alien.. THAT is a "WHAT THE FUCK?!?!?!" no matter how you slice it. :confused:

I think that was the point :wink:

[Penance]

in regards to Sev, at the end of the day you have to be you and be happy with yourself regardless of who will love you or hate you for it. it may take time to figure things out but in the end only you can choose what's right for you.
that being said i don't know why i'm just now realizing i have so many trans friends ^^; i keep telling one i'm going to make him my little sister and take his virginity.

well, i found someone local to game with who's also my dealer and one of my best friends, what you fuckers been up to?

[JustB]

^^^ Heh, that's kind of creppy in an omg, let's create incestuous situations sort of way.

You have trans beacon implanted in your spleen. It beckons us trans people from hundreds of miles away and like moths to a flame... ^_~

[iwst99]

What would you do if you saw ya moms washin her tits in the kitchen sink?

Incest is best...so put your mother to the test.

[Mechanica]

You fit into the Mech/IWST category. Whatever that might be.

Welcome. :party:
:clap:

WTH? Why? :confused:


It's Smashboards. That's why. (It's mostly a demographic of 13 year old boys who are uncomfortable with their hidden homosexuality.)

[Penance]

^^^ Heh, that's kind of creppy in an omg, let's create incestuous situations sort of way.

You have trans beacon implanted in your spleen. It beckons us trans people from hundreds of miles away and like moths to a flame... ^_~


relax it's not really incest. besides i find it much stranger that my pet wants me to do daddy daughter role play with her.

as for the beacon, it's not in my spleen, it's in my squidlyspooch.....wanna touch it?

[30_60_90]

relax it's not really incest. besides i find it much stranger that my pet wants me to do daddy daughter role play with her.

as for the beacon, it's not in my spleen, it's in my squidlyspooch.....wanna touch it?

...c-c....could I touch it?

on another note, welcome Desu!

on a slightly different note I think I'm the only one that posts semi-regularly in this thread that hasn't been hit by the queer eye...

[Æther]

...c-c....could I touch it?

on another note, welcome Desu!

on a slightly different note I think I'm the only one that posts semi-regularly in this thread that hasn't been hit by the queer eye...

Really? I could have sworn you showed yourself a whiiiile ago. Oh well. FABULOUS!

Edit: Crap in a hat. I forgot my premmy expired during the weekend.

Edit 2: Just paid for a month. FABULOUS~!

[JustB]

relax it's not really incest. besides i find it much stranger that my pet wants me to do daddy daughter role play with her.

as for the beacon, it's not in my spleen, it's in my squidlyspooch.....wanna touch it?

lol, pix plz

[Mechanica]

I understand being turned on by submission/dominance, but I'll never ever understand the whole daddy/child roleplay crap. Yuck. :lol:

[Lobelia Prime]

I understand being turned on by submission/dominance, but I'll never ever understand the whole daddy/child roleplay crap. Yuck. :lol:

I have a mommy complex. I've cuddled with a woman who was older than I am and called her 'mommy,' and it was a turn-on.

[Desu]

Cool pics.....

You fit into the Mech/IWST category. Whatever that might be.

Welcome. :party:
Uh... So what IS it? :P

[30_60_90]

Really? I could have sworn you showed yourself a whiiiile ago. Oh well. FABULOUS!

Edit: Crap in a hat. I forgot my premmy expired during the weekend.

Edit 2: Just paid for a month. FABULOUS~!

Hope ya'll have facebook.

http://photos.l3.facebook.com/photos-l3-sf2p/v99/1/55/504922179/n504922179_69964_28.jpg
http://photos-798.ll.facebook.com/photos-ll-sf2p/v184/29/13/59002798/n59002798_30864333_5009.jpg

[Mechanica]

Uh... So what IS it? :P
Something in between. In between tastes, in between body types? :lol: I'm on the bigger/hairier end of the spectrum and iwst is on the skinnier/smooth end. You can be in the middle of our sandwich. :rofl: :rofl:

I have a mommy complex. I've cuddled with a woman who was older than I am and called her 'mommy,' and it was a turn-on.
Haha. My boyfriend is 48 - surely I understand being attracted to the older type - but calling them daddy/mommy? Creeeeepy. :razz:

[severin]

Squiddlyspooch is such a fun word to say. I also laughed entirely too hard at "Wingdangdoodle" (it was a few pages back).

Also, thanks for the insight all. It's nice to hear other opinions on this. Perhaps I might actually try a forum dedicated to this kinda thing... I love random input.

In regards to the parent/child thing... I can think of psychobabble sounding reasons for why it works for some people, but I hate psychobabble. Actually, now that I think of it, it seems like an extension of the standard Dom/Sub dynamic.

[Lobelia Prime]

Haha. My boyfriend is 48 - surely I understand being attracted to the older type - but calling them daddy/mommy? Creeeeepy. :razz:

Well, like many girls who didn't have the best mother on earth, I collected mother figures. I became attracted to most of them, hence the Oedipal complex I have.

[severin]

The way I think of it, is "Better this than an illegal complex"

[Mechanica]

^LOL. Tru dat.

Well, like many girls who didn't have the best mother on earth, I collected mother figures. I became attracted to most of them, hence the Oedipal complex I have.

Word. I'm not trying to call you creepy, but to me the thought is revolting. If I ever called him "daddy" or if he called me "son" it would just ... I would have to stop having sex with him right there and be like WHAT.

Reminds me of how many people think I have daddy issues because my boyfriend is 48. My dad's a cool guy and a good parent. I don't idolize him in my love life and I don't like... do the opposite. :lol:

[Jester]

I still like playing. But now it's just MGS4.

Is this the Erik that lives/lived in lancaster?

[Penance]

I understand being turned on by submission/dominance, but I'll never ever understand the whole daddy/child roleplay crap. Yuck. :lol:

honestly the aspect of RPing as her father sexual does nothing for me, but i care about her so i'll do it. i don't care to know the reasonings behind her want of this as i know so much of her past already it makes me want to break down in tears and kill everyone in a 5 mile radius. thing is... i really don't know how to go about it ^^ i never had a father in my life.

JustB haven't you seen a pic of me already? or do you wanna see the squigglyspooch?

in other news i blame Darkstalkers 3 for making me semi lolicon... and tara kun ( my first trans friend ) for finishing the job by introducing me to the world of EGL.

and magaki is a punk bitch..... *growls and goes to play more KoFXI*

[JustB]

JustB haven't you seen a pic of me already? or do you wanna see the squigglyspooch?

No, I haven't. I think I would be more interested in the mundane right now, so no to the squigglyspooch, but thanks for the offer :wgrin:

*growls and goes to play more KoFXI*

I actually like the characters in this game. I never really knew about the KoF universe until this came out ^_^;

[Penance]

well here's me http://i41.photobucket.com/albums/e284/Penance17420/mini-KHish2.jpg

and i love the Kof Fighters. i just hate magaki because he is a cheap cock sucker and not in the good way.

i also hate ryo, robert and yuri.....they know what they did....and continue to do.

[Azagtoth]

i also hate ryo, robert and yuri.....they know what they did....and continue to do.

Haha Yuri's my bitch in XI. She's basically a mini Iori.

[Penance]

Haha Yuri's my bitch in XI. She's basically a mini Iori.

*headtilt*.....why not just play iori?

i was watching a MI:R-A vid of ash vs alba... i want this game, i crave 3D Ash Crimson goodness. it would be like porn for me. yes i'm that in love with Ash.

[Azagtoth]

*headtilt*.....why not just play iori?

By mini-Iori, I mean she has his crossup kick, backdash glitch and some rather absurd rushdown and priority (for a mid tier char), but for all intents and purposes she plays nothing like him I guess. She's quite a bit of fun to play, and not half bad either (75% corner combo for one meter/one skill stock is pretty hot).

That and XI Iori kinda sucks.

Not a fan of the MI games, unfortunately.

[iwst99]

Something in between. In between tastes, in between body types? :lol: I'm on the bigger/hairier end of the spectrum and iwst is on the skinnier/smooth end. You can be in the middle of our sandwich. :rofl: :rofl:


Haha. My boyfriend is 48 - surely I understand being attracted to the older type - but calling them daddy/mommy? Creeeeepy. :razz:

Lol wtf...I'm hairier than you.

You know that pic you posted of you showing your stomach and it was somewhat hairier? Well mine's 3 times as hairy.

People are always surprised cause they assume I'm smooth and stuff...but I'm not.

[JustB]

This may be a bad idea, but you only live once and all that.

http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa139/kindannokinomi/P7070008.jpg

[Lobelia Prime]

This may be a bad idea, but you only live once and all that.

http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa139/kindannokinomi/P7070008.jpg

Cuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuute!

[30_60_90]

Lookin' Good JustB.
side note iwist is hairy? I was one of those that thought otherwise :amazed:

[Penance]

This may be a bad idea, but you only live once and all that.

http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa139/kindannokinomi/P7070008.jpg

... my pants feel tighter now for some reason.

[Mechanica]

Lol wtf...I'm hairier than you.

You know that pic you posted of you showing your stomach and it was somewhat hairier? Well mine's 3 times as hairy.

People are always surprised cause they assume I'm smooth and stuff...but I'm not.

Hahaha, I guess I just assume because everyone I've ever met as skinny as you (seem?) is not hairy. I trim my body hair considerably though, that might be a contributing factor. I bet my thighs are hairier than yours.

[iwst99]

Hahaha, I guess I just assume because everyone I've ever met as skinny as you (seem?) is not hairy. I trim my body hair considerably though, that might be a contributing factor. I bet my thighs are hairier than yours.

Haha, no way, I'm seriously hairy as fuck. And yes I am skinny lol...no myspace angles here.

Thigh pics or it didn't happen.

[Mechanica]

well ok bb im sry i assumed yr not hairy

pics wont do it justice lets not compete lets just be the inbetween section

[iwst99]

well ok bb im sry i assumed yr not hairy

pics wont do it justice lets not compete lets just be the inbetween section

You're just afraid you'll lose.

QQ

JK...ok, we're all winners. :D

[JustB]

Thanks guys, you're too kind ^_^;

[Ali M]

What if you walked in the bathroom and saw your moms wearing no clothes except for a CFL football helmet and rollerskates on bend over sidewayz blowing spit bubbles at ya daddy tryin to pull a mean one out??

[Mechanica]

You're just afraid you'll lose.

You got me. :shake:

What if you walked in the bathroom and saw your moms wearing no clothes except for a CFL football helmet and rollerskates on bend over sidewayz blowing spit bubbles at ya daddy tryin to pull a mean one out??

Do you come with a translator? :confused:

[30_60_90]

some stupid crap.


Do you come with a translator? :confused:

I agree fully, I mean it's one thing to come in here and assail us with invalid stereotypical rhetoric, but coming in here with these kinds of incestual situations written in some sort of ridiculous mixture of inner city slang and redneck is just retarded.

I know I'm feeding the troll, but the damn bait is just getting too irritating.

[Azagtoth]

What if you walked in the bathroom and saw your moms wearing no clothes except for a CFL football helmet and rollerskates on bend over sidewayz blowing spit bubbles at ya daddy tryin to pull a mean one out??

TL;DR

Jaime has a smooth face, but he's otherwise a gorilla.

[iwst99]

TL;DR

Jaime has a smooth face, but he's otherwise a gorilla.

Ok maybe not gorilla...there are some italian hairy mofos, I'm not like that. Maybe mech and I are equal, I don't know. Pics or it didn't happen.

[Adam Warlock]

I agree fully, I mean it's one thing to come in here and assail us with invalid stereotypical rhetoric, but coming in here with these kinds of incestual situations written in some sort of ridiculous mixture of inner city slang and redneck is just retarded.

I know I'm feeding the troll, but the damn bait is just getting too irritating.

I'm no expert, but I'm pretty sure your mom fucking your dad only counts as incest if they're related.

[Lobelia Prime]

I'm no expert, but I'm pretty sure your mom fucking your dad only counts as incest if they're related.

I think he was referring to the earlier post, "what if you saw your moms washing her tits in the sink?" I mean, me personally, yeah, I'd fuck my mom, but the rest of these guys.....

[Penance]

I'd fuck your mom too if she looks anything like you.

[Azagtoth]

Ok maybe not gorilla...there are some italian hairy mofos, I'm not like that. Maybe mech and I are equal, I don't know. Pics or it didn't happen.

I'm slightly hairy, some chest and belly fuzz and average leg hair for a hispanic dude. Probably less hairy than you, but I would need pics to tell.

Question for you and the other chub chasers: do you prefer smooth or fuzzy bellies on chubs? I don't mind fuzzy but I seem to have a huge weakness for smooth. =D

[Penance]

I don't mind fuzzy but I seem to have a huge weakness for smooth. =D


*whistles innocently and hides his belly as he slips out of the thread*

[Lobelia Prime]

I'd fuck your mom too if she looks anything like you.

Hands off. She's gay.

[Penance]

Hands off. She's gay.

so are you if you think about it.

[Lobelia Prime]

so are you if you think about it.

Oh yeah....
I guess a chick being a lesbian doesn't stop you from making passes. I can dig that.

[Penance]

Oh yeah....
I guess a chick being a lesbian doesn't stop you from making passes. I can dig that.

neither does a chick being married, engaged, or 2 feet from her boyfriend.
if she's yours and you love her i won't take her. if you treat her like simply someone to fuck and nothing more i'll make her mine.

[Mechanica]

Went on the world naked bike ride (http://nakedwiki.org/index.php?title=Seattle) in Seattle with Wayne and it was the best thing I've ever done. It was just... I dunno, priceless. I love that man. :lovin:

[Penance]

i just read about that on rotten news. had fun i assume.

[JustB]

Went on the world naked bike ride (http://nakedwiki.org/index.php?title=Seattle) in Seattle with Wayne and it was the best thing I've ever done. It was just... I dunno, priceless. I love that man. :lovin:

Wow, I can't even imagine something like that being allowed in Dallas. It looks like a lot of fun though! I'm happy that you got to have that experience.

[severin]

If you are concerned, you probably don't need to cover up much to be "legal". With the incredible transforming powers of a little body paint, liquid latex, a strategically placed sock, or a piece of duct tape you too can transform the average city streaking naked wild cyclist into "The legal city streaking naked wild cyclist". Be creative: a little imagination can change everything.

Ehehehehe sock

[JustB]

I always wanted to get creative with some (latex?) body paint myself. It looks like a lot of fun.

[iwst99]

What'd you wear Mech?

PS Pics of Wayne plz.

[Mechanica]

What'd you wear Mech?

PS Pics of Wayne plz.

Whaddya think I wore? :cool:

We're not in very many of the pictures so far, but:

http://www.ufoseries.com/bike08/photos/DSCF7864.html

Purple music note... I've got the blue exclamation point in front of him :rofl:

EDIT: Found a new posting of pictures... Lemme see if I can link these to people. Nope I have to reupload them... Do you really wanna see? :lol: That means probably seeing me naked. Or I can just show you the couple where I'm hidden behind someone else. IM me if you're that curious - you have to join the flickr thing before I can send you the link and it won't let me save the pictures! :shake:

DOUBLE EDIT: Figured out how to save 'em. These are priceless.

[JustB]

Awww, look at all the tooshies! :D

[iwst99]

PS Pics of Wayne plz.

This.

[Mechanica]

This.

A'right. I'm in 'em too though. (Also there's guys that are even less pleasant to look at too, as a fair warning.) I'll PM ya. :rofl:

[iwst99]

LOL, you're nekkid. But so is Wayne. :D

Thnx.

[ramberk]

A'right. I'm in 'em too though. (Also there's guys that are even less pleasant to look at too, as a fair warning.) I'll PM ya. :rofl:

I think someone forgot to put sunblock on their shoulders (but the rest looks like it got protected!)

I wish I had done the bike ride with ya'll. You guys are not unpleasant to look at. :lovin:

[BlodiaVulcan5]

on the topic of gender dysphoria... http://www.lucid-tv.com/174.jpg

[Higher-Jin]

What are you guys' feelings over the surname "Gaylord" and their assumed lordship over you?

[ramberk]

What are you guys' feelings over the surname "Gaylord" and their assumed lordship over you?

It's all dependent on their looks and how kinky they are. Duh!

[30_60_90]

on the topic of gender dysphoria... http://www.lucid-tv.com/174.jpg

I laughed... hard.

[JustB]

I would totally play trucks.

[Lobelia Prime]

I would totally play trucks.

I played trucks today. Please believe.

[Penance]

ok random question. how often do you guys cum? i'm starting to think i have an addiction ot orgasms, both giving and getting.

[iwst99]

:confused:

[Penance]

:confused:

i know i'm weird, answer the question.

[Lobelia Prime]

i know i'm weird, answer the question.

About once a day.

[DaDesiCanadian]

http://www.ufoseries.com/bike08/photos/DSCF8092.html

But what about all the naked people!

[JustB]

No help here, I'm afraid.

About once every 2-4 weeks.

[Mechanica]

I think someone forgot to put sunblock on their shoulders (but the rest looks like it got protected!)

I wish I had done the bike ride with ya'll. You guys are not unpleasant to look at. :lovin:
I didn't think we were, but there's some gremlin-lookin' old dudes that are kinda freaky. I put sunblock on my shoulders. I always do. It doesn't matter if I do or don't, I'm too white. They didn't get burned though, actually. Just a spot on my hip and an exclamation point outline on my lower back (lolz).

[Lobelia Prime]

I didn't think we were, but there's some gremlin-lookin' old dudes that are kinda freaky. I put sunblock on my shoulders. I always do. It doesn't matter if I do or don't, I'm too white. They didn't get burned though, actually. Just a spot on my hip and an exclamation point outline on my lower back (lolz).

!
Snake? SNAKE?! SNAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAKE!

[JustB]

Heh, now I'm wondering how many people used body paint designs but no sun block. ^_^

[Æther]

Note to self: Hide the liquor whenever Rob rolls around... unless I want snoo snoo really bad.

[Azagtoth]

Note to self: Hide the liquor whenever Rob rolls around... unless I want snoo snoo really bad.

...In that case, shouldn't you make the liquor easier to find?:wgrin:

[Mechanica]

Heh, now I'm wondering how many people used body paint designs but no sun block. ^_^

Nobody was that stupid. :razz: There was even sunblock sitting out at the tables with the paint. And the people in charge were reminding everybody... As if that's not the first thing on someone's mind riding a bike around for hours, naked, on a clear sunny day. ;D

Stayed at Wayne's two nights in a row! And the first night he cooked me a delicious steak dinner. He sure is adorable when he's had a drink or two. It seems boeing might be releasing their death grip on my boyfriend! Hope I'm not speaking too soon... He slept great both nights though so I must be doing something right. He's usually woken up by my snoring or repositioning. It sure is amazing waking up next to someone who smiles at you before he can even really open his eyes and wake up. :lovin: "I could get used to this" he says. :smile:

We're going to canada on the 8th and I can't wait! Our first trip and full weekend together.

[Penance]

No help here, I'm afraid.

About once every 2-4 weeks.


i wish i could do that. sadly my sex drive is like a rail gun, keeps going even after it's shooting blanks. it's like a daily addiction for me.

[JustB]

I finally find someone I am interested in, but they are an emotionless sociopath :sad:

[30_60_90]

I finally find someone I am interested in, but they are an emotionless sociopath :sad:

That sucks, I've been having troubles finding a boyfriend for myself so I kind of know how it goes. Everyone I know who I would be interested in are already in relationships. I don't even know where to go to find perspective boyfriends other than my friends, or my friends' friends, I wish I could just get over my crippling social anxiety. =(

I hope you have better luck than I do.:rofl:

[Azagtoth]

That sucks, I've been having troubles finding a boyfriend for myself so I kind of know how it goes. Everyone I know who I would be interested in are already in relationships. I don't even know where to go to find perspective boyfriends other than my friends, or my friends' friends, I wish I could just get over my crippling social anxiety. =(

I know this feeling completely; socially, I'm a complete retard.

I'm lucky I met mine on the internet (lol) and we've lasted so long thus far.

[Mechanica]

I know this feeling completely; socially, I'm a complete retard.

I'm lucky I met mine on the internet (lol)

same here :bgrin:

[Æther]

Anyone here got any online dating horror stories? I've only got out on a few myself but there was one that was particularly bad.

[severin]

Anyone here got any online dating horror stories? I've only got out on a few myself but there was one that was particularly bad.

Well, I've only tried the online dating thing once, and it ended up being a horror story with a happy ending.

Because I'm entirely too embarrassed by the details to say anything specific, here's a tl;dr version.

I ended up getting used sexually by a 50 year old sex offender, who then introduced me to my current boyfriend, who also had a.. er.. history with said 50 year old sex offender.

[JustB]

Wow, awesome. I tried an online thing once. Straight up lie on the pics, ugly old dude so I did the fake phone call thing and bailed asap. Never tried again.

[Mechanica]

Ahahaha.. so Wayne looked through the naked bike ride pictures more thoroughly, apparently, and I think the photographer had a thing for me or something - there's way more pictures of just me, and sometimes Wayne and I. I already thought there were a lot, but he found even more ones centered on me/us. They're good pictures though, but LOL. God damnit. :rofl:

EDIT: Oh! They're different people's flickr accounts. Several photographers seemed to like focusing on me. :amazed:

Ack! There's a flickr comment on one of me and Wayne and it's like 'hey i'm the admin for a group here called Guys Gone Wild we'd love to have your pic on our blah blah' hahaha god damnit. We're not gone wild we're just standing there naked mid-conversation. And like... of all the photos you find on several of their flickr accounts - yeah they're the ones of me. Awkward. :bgrin:

[Thelo]

Ok, I've got a potentially awkward question here.

So being a gay guy means you're attracted to guys' bodies. But you have a guy's body yourself.

So can you get aroused by looking at yourself in the mirror, or at a photo of yourself or whatever?

Seems like it'd be handy.

[Mechanica]

Ok, I've got a potentially awkward question here.

So being a gay guy means you're attracted to guys' bodies. But you have a guy's body yourself.

So can you get aroused by looking at yourself in the mirror, or at a photo of yourself or whatever?

Seems like it'd be handy.
Most guys aren't attracted to their same exact body type. It's fairly common (though not always the case by any means) for bigger bulkier guys to be attracted to the smaller types of guys, etc. We're not all so conceited as to get turned on by our own bodies. When I look at myself in the mirror, I'm proud of the accomplishments I've made in the weight loss/muscle gain sense, but I am in no sense turned on. It's just my body. I've had it for years - I'm used to it. It's nothing new and exciting. Would you be turned on if you looked in the mirror one day and had a chick's body? No, it'd probably freak you out.

I'm sure there are guys out there who get off on themselves, but for the most part, no.

Not to mention everyone is overcritical of their own bodies, as opposed to others'.

[JustB]

A character I know of named Ash once had a monologue on this. She was like "Yeah, I'm still attracted to boobs and all, but when I consider myself they're just my boobs."

I like to think that this is how it is for a lot of people. Yeah, like I have a penis, but it doesn't turn me on like someone else's would if that makes any sense.

[Mechanica]

I'm so fuuuucccking bored of life right now. I can't even handle it. If I don't get a job soon, the internet is going to make me go on a crazy killing spree. I'm reading too many posts from your generic heterosexual internet-going male and it's making my faith in humanity plummet. That and all the dudes trying to fuck my sister. Seriously about to start getting violent on people 'cause this Ghandi shit just ain't workin'.

What are you guys up to?

[DrumlinerJoe]

Well I've just been working and working out. Swimming like a fiend and hooked to DDR. It's been rough though helping my best friend get out of the rut he's in. He doesn't really have any friends besides me and his two exes, so I do my best to try to be there for him so he doesn't fall into the same bad drug habits like he used to.

It gets hectic though cause sometimes I wanna just kick back and relax and have a Marvel night with my buddies but I just chill and watch TV with my best friend to make sure he's feeling all right. I'm down to chill but he never seems to wanna do anything besides go out or just watch TV.

Anyhow, I'm looking into taking night classes soon and kicking up my music writing again. I've been a lot clearer on how I want my music to sound like and even coming up with concrete ideas for specific songs. I'm way hyped up about that again.

[JustB]

I'm pretty much there with the lost faith and all. I'm pretty militant online though...

Most of my life is spent on the internet, unfortunately. Nature of my job and all. I keep having these grand ideas of constructive and interesting things I could be doing with my life, but I rarely follow through with them. I think the best thing to do is unplug from everything and do something that's not mediated. Usually, this means just getting out and hanging out with other people where you can actually talk with them instead of just doing something with someone. I mean you can watch TV or play games or browse the internet by yourself or with just about anyone. But only individuals can provide you with something that has meaning. I mean, that's what I think anyway.

[Æther]

Things have been mad boring on my end. Been stuck at home after work for the past couple of weeks. My car keeps getting problems and frankly I'm tired of it. I asked my mother if she could co-sign with me on getting a new car and she agreed. Perhaps a Corolla or a Focus...

Besides that me and Rob are cool. Busy but good. Hopefully we can see each other more often after I get a new car and once summer semester finishes.

Also starting to pick up acoustic guitar again. Fingers are sore. D:

[Azagtoth]

So being a gay guy means you're attracted to guys' bodies. But you have a guy's body yourself.

So can you get aroused by looking at yourself in the mirror, or at a photo of yourself or whatever?

Seems like it'd be handy.

Um sorry to dissapoint, but it doesn't really work that way. :confused:

What you're describing is basically narcissism and most don't view themselves in that sort of light at all; people are basically too desensitized to their own appearance to react the way you're thinking.

Anyone here got any online dating horror stories? I've only got out on a few myself but there was one that was particularly bad.

I once met a guy online who told me this horror story of how he met someone who asked him to take pictures of his dick in his scanner. Three minutes later, he was asking me to do the same.

[Mechanica]

Three minutes later, he was asking me to do the same.

:lol: :rofl: :lol: Hilarious.

I've been playing more guitar too, but I need more ideas on songs to learn or something. Still got the callouses so I'm not sore. :lovin:

EDIT: Yeah this has always been the death of me in guitar. I can't find new songs to learn. Whenever I ask for recommendations I get classic rock songs and I don't listen to classic rock so I don't know how it's supposed to go or particularly enjoy it. And anything I listen to is too complicated haha. Le sigh.

I drove a stickshift! I'm not gay! I can do it! :bgrin: The only car I'd really tried on had the worst clutch I've ever heard, much less driven on. Really old beat-up Honda... but anyway I drove my sister's truck which has a brand new clutch and it was pretty cool. Kind of a lot to think about when you're used to automatic, but I just need practice. I got the basics down I just would need to root them to muscle memory. :tup:

Wayne said it was funny that I mentioned that, because we were going out to eat and he was just about to ask me if I could drive a stick. He's thinking about getting an old VW bug, either already restored, or one he could do some restoration work on. Just something to mob around to random places instead of jacking up the mileage on his beamer... Anyway his point was that he can't drive two cars at once and I'd be able to hold on to it and drive it and stuff. :lovin: Since I've never had a functional car in my life.

[iwst99]

I know I haven't posted as much here anymore. I've had a lot of stuff going on the last few months.

Broke up with Doug (who's house I was taking care of), while he was still in Chicago. A friend of mine that I've known since november got a lot closer together. He got dumped after 34 years for someone half his age on new years eve. Right after I broke up with Don in Spain we became closer, but nothing happened since I was with Doug and he respected that.

My roommate decided to move out because there was the posiblity of me traveling around for Doug's job, but obviously that didn't happen, so I decided to find a place too. My friend, who's name is Irv, offered his spare room since it was being used, and him and his ex talked about it, and said it was ok. His ex lives about 2 blocks away with a 27 year old...they both still own the house but market is too bad right now to sell. Anyways, I took up the offer to stay there, but this was before we became serious, there was still about a month before I moved in.

Cutting it short, we've been living together now for a few weeks, and it's been really great. I've never lived full time with anybody I was seeing, so this is new for me. He is HIV+, which I thought I would never be able to do. I found this out before we got serious, and when I thought there was the possiblity of something happening, I did some research about HIV+ and HIV- relationships, and how to work through them and such. After a while I became comfortable enough and thought if anything ever happened between us I would be able to handle it. It's been a while now, and things have been good. We went to San Diego this past weekend for gay pride and I met some of his friends, who were also really nice. They had just found out about the breakup between Irv and his ex, but they said they wouldn't take sides.

Anyways, that's what has been going on with me.

Mech: Sounds like things are going well for you, I'm really happy :party:

[Mechanica]

Mech: Sounds like things are going well for you, I'm really happy :party:

With Wayne yeah, things are great. Everything else is in the shitter. If I could pick one thing to be going better it would be that, though, so I'm trying not to complain too much. EDIT: I just said I'm not trying to complain! Shut up Elias!

[Thelo]

Would you be turned on if you looked in the mirror one day and had a chick's body? No, it'd probably freak you out.
Well, according to the many pornos that have that exact setup, I'd be both freaked out and turned on :wgrin:

But yeah, I can definitely see the "Nothing new, nothing special" angle. Thanks for answering my stupid question!

[iwst99]

With Wayne yeah, things are great. Everything else is in the shitter. If I could pick one thing to be going better it would be that, though, so I'm trying not to complain too much. I got a DUI and from what I hear, they'll try to rehabilitate me, and have me get a drug counselor 'assessment' and shit rather than a big fat fine. Which is good because if they drop me a big fine I'm gonna have to do some very illegal things to get the money for it.

Sorry, I meant things were good between you and Wayne. :looney:

Sucks about the DUI, hopefully you don't get that fine.

[Mechanica]

Sorry, I meant things were good between you and Wayne. :looney:

Sucks about the DUI, hopefully you don't get that fine.

From what I heard from other troublemakers who got in the same trouble, they don't slap you with the fatty fine. The most unbelievable thing is first, my license isn't even suspended for two months. Don't understand that, but I assume they have to get paperwork to go through with the DOL/DMV? And second, it's only suspended for 90 days. Blowing over .02 as a minor is enough to get arrested, yet I was almost twice the legal limit for someone of age, and I only lose my license for 3 months? Fucking retards.

[iwst99]

Coffee flavored condoms suck.

[Mechanica]

XD flavored condoms.

I'm going to cali bitches~ Getting into San Fran (how fabulous!) on the morning of thursday the 31st! What is there that's awesome to do in San Fran? I figure I need to waltz about this gayville.

[30_60_90]

flavored condoms... those brings back fond memories...

[iwst99]

First time ever doing that with flavored condoms. It was gross. I have strawberry ones too, but those are not as thin as other ones and they suck for sucking. :( The other person doesn't feel much.

Coffee breath FTL.

[Azagtoth]

Coffee flavored condoms suck.

Should have gone with boston creme, clearly.

[iwst99]

Should have gone with boston creme, clearly.

They were free at San Diego pride. I guess flavored condoms were the thing this year, cause all the booths were giving them out. There was only coffee and strawberry.

[30_60_90]

They were free at San Diego pride. I guess flavored condoms were the thing this year, cause all the booths were giving them out. There was only coffee and strawberry.

That reminds me of this one time I went to a local amusement park on a "teen night" some guy asked if it was okay if I took a survey, turned out all the questions were about the spread of STD's then I got a free baggy of condoms with a tiny package of water-based lube. I thought it was funny.:lovin:

[Azagtoth]

They were free at San Diego pride. I guess flavored condoms were the thing this year, cause all the booths were giving them out. There was only coffee and strawberry.

I would have probably gone with strawberry. Coffee flavored anything usually doesn't do well with me.

Someone should tell them they should be working on cock flavored condoms. =P

[Lobelia Prime]

I would have probably gone with strawberry. Coffee flavored anything usually doesn't do well with me.

Someone should tell them they should be working on cock flavored condoms. =P

I figured manly-ass gay guys like y'all would be into condoms flavored like manly food. You know. Fucking bacon flavor, or steak flavor, or Yard-O-Beef flavor, or gravy.

[severin]

Honestly, if they make decent peach or strawberry, I'll be a happy thing.

[Mr. Big]

Speaking of internet boyfriends, today's the day that I'll be meeting mine for the first time after talking to each other for a year and a half. :wow: We're heading to San Diego to vacation this year and among other things we're planning to hit the 'Con. He's from Norway (this is his first time in the U.S.), but this trip will actually be the first time we'll meet each other.

San Diego's my hometown (oh, how I miss San Diego), but I had to move away when I was a teenager, and one of my fondest memories was of the 'Con. Now, some fourteen years later, this trip will be a real homecoming for me, and I want to make the trip as special my boyfriend as I'm able to; especially since he'll be returning to Norway in Feburary. :sad:

Which leads me a request, he and I have passes for Sunday, but all the other days were already sold out. Unfortunately all the events we most want to see are on Friday and Saturday, and we've no way of getting in on those days. Might there be anything anyone could do to get us in on either (or both) of those days? I'm pretty much out of options at this point, but I willing to do near anything to make this possible.

[Azagtoth]

I figured manly-ass gay guys like y'all would be into condoms flavored like manly food. You know. Fucking bacon flavor, or steak flavor, or Yard-O-Beef flavor, or gravy.

That wouldn't be a good idea. I might start chewing. :shake:

[Lobelia Prime]

That wouldn't be a good idea. I might start chewing. :shake:

You'd start chewing for gravy flavor? Jesus. They must have some chunky-ass gravy in your hometown.

[DaDesiCanadian]

Personally, I like eating my steak rather than.....licking it down. :(

[Azagtoth]

/\----This.

You'd start chewing for gravy flavor? Jesus. They must have some chunky-ass gravy in your hometown.

I meant for bacon and the meats, silly.

[iwst99]

/\----This.



I meant for bacon and the meats, silly.

She drinks gravy like water I guess.

[severin]

XD flavored condoms.

I'm going to cali bitches~ Getting into San Fran (how fabulous!) on the morning of thursday the 31st! What is there that's awesome to do in San Fran? I figure I need to waltz about this gayville.

Well... San Francisco kinda has a lot to do. What sort of things are you into? Also, unless you like getting stared at by leather daddies, the Castro is only amusing for so long.

[Lobelia Prime]

She drinks gravy like water I guess.

I used to. I was five foot five at the time and weighed 188. Spent a month not eating and dropped thirty pounds. Now I'm six foot one and weigh 150.

[Mechanica]

Dayum girl. You're 5-6 inches taller than me and like 15 pounds lighter.

Well... San Francisco kinda has a lot to do. What sort of things are you into? Also, unless you like getting stared at by leather daddies, the Castro is only amusing for so long.

I don't know what the Castro is but I'm not really looking for... gay things to do, or something. I'm pretty sure my friend I'm visiting still doesn't know I'm gay. :rofl: So no, like leather daddies exhibitions... I don't know what sort of things I'm into. That's too general of a question. I'm not really into anything, I'm a pretty boring guy hahaha. I don't really know what kind of help I'm expecting, I just didn't know if there's any specific stuff I should definitely check out while I'm there.

[TS]

Stop being a homophobe and sit on the lap of shirtless dude with a handlebar moustache and assless chaps.

And take pictures.

[DaDesiCanadian]

So....am I the only one who thinks Mechanica looks like Perez Hilton?

:D

[Lobelia Prime]

Dayum girl. You're 5-6 inches taller than me and like 15 pounds lighter.

I'm slightly underweight and have full, perky breasts.
WHO WANTS TO SEE PICTURES~? ^______________________________^

[Shotokan Symphony]

What the hell. PM, plz.

[Lobelia Prime]

What the hell. PM, plz.

You got it. :tup:
Anyone else? Eh? Eh?

[severin]

Want. Now.

[Lobelia Prime]

My, my. Aren't I the popular one?

[JustB]

My, my. Aren't I the popular one?

Only cuz you're a sexy slut ^_~

[Lobelia Prime]

Only cuz you're a sexy slut ^_~

And proud of it, babe.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I'm pluggin my own b-day celebration since I'm bored and there's nothing to do.

Next week on Wednesday. But there really won't be a celebration really, just hanging with my friends and probably having to endure the nightmare that is dinner with my mother.

Anyway, 29 and feeling fine bitches!

[iwst99]

handlebar moustache and assless chaps.


Assless chaps is redundant.

[Æther]

Pics plz. /train

[Mechanica]

So....am I the only one who thinks Mechanica looks like Perez Hilton?

:D

That was the worst insult I've ever gotten on the internet. :shake: I might have to put you on ignore. :sad:

:shake: :sad: :shake: Ugggghhhhh I'm never posting another picture again

[DrumlinerJoe]

Don't stop posting pics, you're cute.

[Mechanica]

Don't stop posting pics, you're cute.

Haha, ok. If one more person tells me I look like him, though, I'm gonna take an exacto knife to my face. :lol:

[TS]

Assless chaps is redundant.
So is handlebar moustache.

OH!



(if you're gay and into that)

[Mechanica]

So is handlebar moustache.

OH!



(if you're gay and into that)

Way funnier mental image than pigtails. :lol:

~

I really don't feel like myself lately and I can't put my finger on why. :xeye: When I'm with Wayne I feel pretty normal and happy, but other than that I feel beside myself and unsatisfied. But... it's not like boohoo I miss my bf kinda thing at all. We've been seeing each other more than ever...

Going to a 2-day concert on Capitol Hill tomorrow/this weekend which I'm really excited for, though. I'm sure that'll help.

I think maybe it's all this idle time I sit around doing nothing productive. I haven't even been trying to look for a job this week even though it's extremely pertinent... and now that I don't smoke weed at all like I used to, there's no illusion that my life is exciting or amusing? I think these next couple weeks of vacation will do me good, but at the same time I was seriously hoping I'd have landed a fucking job by now. I'm so god damned tired of being a spoiled leech. I'm lucky my boyfriend and dad are such great selfless people.

[Biolink]

Question for you.

For you guys that are dating much older men if there are any in here(Because I notice this a lot where like twenty year old guys are going with like 40 or 50 year olds), do you think that they are at all taking advantage of your age, or is it like mutual on both sides

[Mechanica]

do you think that they are at all taking advantage of your age

Nope, but that's everyone's first thought. He thinks he's lucky to have snagged a guy like me, but I also think the same thing - it's quite mutual. When I first expressed interest in moving things up from just a sexual/fuckbuddy relationship, he asked for some time and space to think things over, as it was weird at first for him. I let him know that I was okay with keeping things at a sexual level if that's not what he wanted, but that I'd need some time away because I was growing kind of attached and didn't want to get let down.

At the time he wasn't quite monogamous, he had another buddy of his that he got down with, though he didn't go as far as we would go, if that makes sense without getting to descriptive. It bothered me, and I let him know that (one thing we've never had a problem with is honesty, I love him for that)... Eventually he ditched that guy and we got serious and now we both make each other really happy. He's too busy with work all the time to really even have the energy to spend deceiving me or taking advantage of me... Plus there's nothing to take advantage of, really. I'd gladly have kept sleeping with him because our sex is really awesome. :woot:

I mean fuck, if anyone's taking advantage of anyone, it's me taking advantage of him because he makes a lot of money and has been helping me out immensely these past few months when I've been jobless. I really hate bumming money from people, but he makes good money and insists on it. He's good to me. :lovin:

[Edi. E]

I had a gay friend told me once that he has sex with a summer sausage. No joke.

[30_60_90]

I had a gay friend told me once that he has sex with a summer sausage. No joke.

:amazed: :shake: he must be pretty loose...

[Azagtoth]

:amazed: :shake: he must be pretty loose...

It could have been frozen. :rofl:

[Æther]

Woot! My mom just saw my boyfriend in his underwear! :woot:

[iwst99]

Woot! My mom just saw my boyfriend in his underwear! :woot:


Haha.

a) Does she know he's your BF?

b) How'd that happen?

c) Is he allowed to look at her tits now?

[Æther]

a) No. This is their second time seeing each other.

b) We had just gotten back from swimming at my apartment's pool. We had come into me and my brother's room to change into dry clothes. As I was changing clothes in the bathroom of the room we both gave each other a kiss. A split second after I close the door to the bathroom I hear my mom open the door to the bedroom and yell "Sorry!" in a giggle.

I finish getting dressed and ask my mom what had happened. "Why was he in his underwear?" I tell her we had just taken a swim in the pool and we decided to change clothes since it was cold. "Isaac, I'm getting too old for this shit. Do you want your brother and father to ask what happened?" I'm acting stupid, even though she didn't have much reason to suspect since me and the BF changed in different rooms. What, she wanted him to change in ANOTHER person's apartment? :confused:

So a little later, while I'm ordering something to eat (Chicken Kitchen FTMFW!) my BF decides to take a nap for a bit on my bed with my blanket on. My mom (ya'll with Hispanic family know this all too well) like FREAKING psychic, walks in and whispers "WHAT THE FUCK IS HE DOING SLEEPING ON YOUR BED?!". I act stupid saying he's sleepy. Damn. :razz:

The rest of the night went well though. He played some Brawl, 3S (He picked Remy first! :rofl: :clap:) and saw some pron on XTube followed by mandatory making out.

And on monday we're going to a pride store to buy someone's suposedly gay brother some toys and videos. Guess we're going SHOPPING! FABULOUS~~~!

c) Not unless she's washing her tits over the kitchen sink.

[Biolink]

Nope, but that's everyone's first thought. He thinks he's lucky to have snagged a guy like me, but I also think the same thing - it's quite mutual. When I first expressed interest in moving things up from just a sexual/fuckbuddy relationship, he asked for some time and space to think things over, as it was weird at first for him. I let him know that I was okay with keeping things at a sexual level if that's not what he wanted, but that I'd need some time away because I was growing kind of attached and didn't want to get let down.

At the time he wasn't quite monogamous, he had another buddy of his that he got down with, though he didn't go as far as we would go, if that makes sense without getting to descriptive. It bothered me, and I let him know that (one thing we've never had a problem with is honesty, I love him for that)... Eventually he ditched that guy and we got serious and now we both make each other really happy. He's too busy with work all the time to really even have the energy to spend deceiving me or taking advantage of me... Plus there's nothing to take advantage of, really. I'd gladly have kept sleeping with him because our sex is really awesome. :woot:

I mean fuck, if anyone's taking advantage of anyone, it's me taking advantage of him because he makes a lot of money and has been helping me out immensely these past few months when I've been jobless. I really hate bumming money from people, but he makes good money and insists on it. He's good to me. :lovin:

Cool dude.

Good Luck in your relationship

[30_60_90]

It could have been frozen. :rofl:
I don't know about in other places but here in WI almost all our summer sausages are 3-4in in diameter...

[Azagtoth]

I don't know about in other places but here in WI almost all our summer sausages are 3-4in in diameter...

Damn.

That's determination.

[Lobelia Prime]

The Green Trench Coat has, as of late, been bombarding me with lewd photos. I feel I must release one of these photos in order to successfully prosecute him. Be warned: this photograph is disturbing.
Click at your own risk. (http://www.solarnavigator.net/animal_kingdom/animal_images/Brown_bear_rearing.jpg)

[JustB]

fucking HAWT! :rofl:

[LightningStorm]

Mom and boyfriend stuff...

Sounds to me like your mom does know you're gay, she's just waiting on you to tell her in your own time. Her concern about him in your bed, and being half naked in the other room are all standard concerns parents have about their kids and significant others. If he were a female and you were straight her reaction would have been the same.

Also her little comment of "Isaac, I'm getting too old for this shit. Do you want your brother and father to ask what happened?" is a dead give-away. It means "I know you're gay, you need to just tell me. No, I haven't told your dad, and your brother is oblivious as well. Just tell me already." The reason this is a dead give away is because had you been straight she wouldn't have said this at all, because as you said you were in completely different rooms and this is not a strange thing at all, normally.

[Æther]

Yeah, that's basically the conclusion we came too as well. Thing is that I froze up at the moment. Hell it took me an hour to gather the courage to tell my best friend.

I was kind of hoping to butter her up with my BF a little so she would know who he is before I tell her the truth.

Right now things are oddly back to normal. It's as if nothing happened at all. :/

[eddymasta]

Yeah, that's basically the conclusion we came too as well. Thing is that I froze up at the moment. Hell it took me an hour to gather the courage to tell my best friend.

I was kind of hoping to butter her up with my BF a little so she would know who he is before I tell her the truth.

Right now things are oddly back to normal. It's as if nothing happened at all. :/

Thats how it is with my bro now that i've told him. We just dont discuss it at all, honestly

[Desu]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQoToUy4ALA
Just watch it... XD

[Lobelia Prime]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQoToUy4ALA
Just watch it... XD

The Green Trench Coat has an official theme song.

[Mechanica]

Right now things are oddly back to normal. It's as if nothing happened at all. :/She's assumed you're not going to tell her, and left it alone.

[30_60_90]

Right now things are oddly back to normal. It's as if nothing happened at all. :/
She's assumed you're not going to tell her, and left it alone.

But she is still waiting for you to tell her...

[iwst99]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQoToUy4ALA
Just watch it... XD

Old''d'd'd'd'd

[Æther]

But she is still waiting for you to tell her...
Yeah, I figure I'll wait a little while longer before I can tell her. Things are going to be busy what with my mom going in for cosmetic surgery next month. Hopefully the BF and her can get better aquainted before then. I just need something for us to do together like a movie or something...

[30_60_90]

Yeah, you definitely want to wait until you're ready and comfortable before coming out.

[JustB]

Both times I "came out" to my mother, she was like "Yeah, I already know, still love you."

Of course my mother's pretty amazing like that.

[30_60_90]

Yeah, I was so nervous that I was crying when I came out to my mom, thankfully she's wonderfully supportive of me.:bgrin:

[eddymasta]

So how do you guys dealing with going out in public on a date? This is one of the main fears I have about getting into the dating scene; is how people would react if I went with my partner to a public place.

[El Maniatico]

The military thread around here contains massive amounts of homosexuality. I thought that would be relevant to this threads discussion.

[Azagtoth]

So how do you guys dealing with going out in public on a date? This is one of the main fears I have about getting into the dating scene; is how people would react if I went with my partner to a public place.

I have pretty much no reservations about being seen with my guy in public, but I'm also mostly against the idea of PDA, gay or straight, and it's no big deal to be seen hugging another dude down here. Then again, this is Miami. Anywhere else outside of New York and obviously gay-safe places, and I do tend to get a little paranoid.

[Æther]

So how do you guys dealing with going out in public on a date? This is one of the main fears I have about getting into the dating scene; is how people would react if I went with my partner to a public place.
I've found that it becomes easier to do those kinds of things when you're more comfortable with your partner. Like whenever me and BF go to the movies we'll wrap our hands and legs together as opposed to just sitting next to each other when we first met. When you both don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks about you too then that's when you'll get over the fear.

Of course doing that sorta thing through Carol City is ill advised. :lol:

[Shotokan Symphony]

Of course doing that sorta thing through Carol City is ill advised. :lol:

I think this is pretty important for everyone to know; knowing which area is gay-friendly. I can tell you right now that, save for maybe a few specific streets on the northern part, Staten Island is NOT gay-friendly at ALL.

[Airex Hyuga]

I've found that it becomes easier to do those kinds of things when you're more comfortable with your partner. Like whenever me and BF go to the movies we'll wrap our hands and legs together as opposed to just sitting next to each other when we first met. When you both don't give a fuck what anyone else thinks about you too then that's when you'll get over the fear.

Of course doing that sorta thing through Carol City is ill advised. :lol:

I just act normal. Like... just two friends.. hanging out.

Nothing obvilious.

I just feel more comfortable about it then going with the whole full PDA. ;o

[DrumlinerJoe]

The military thread around here contains massive amounts of homosexuality. I thought that would be relevant to this threads discussion.

Hot military gays always require extra discussion.

I was going to go into the Marines out of high school, but I had the chance to do a bunch of badass music shit in college and I was more eager to get into that.

Round early 2001 I was gonna join the Air Force, but I had been out for so long already I didn't feel like going through all that bs of going back into the closet again. Little did I realize how many homosexuals are in the miliary.

[iwst99]

Hot military gays always require extra discussion.

I was going to go into the Marines out of high school, but I had the chance to do a bunch of badass music shit in college and I was more eager to get into that.

Round early 2001 I was gonna join the Air Force, but I had been out for so long already I didn't feel like going through all that bs of going back into the closet again. Little did I realize how many homosexuals are in the miliary.

My BF was in the army...he sometimes tells me of the hawt military sex action that went on. Yum.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I've dated an Air Force guy and an Army guy. They were both hot and were incredible lays.

And supposedly a psychic I went to said I'd meet my real love who was in the Air Force when I was 34. Oh well.

[iwst99]

Hopefully he's hot with a BIG....heart. <3

Whatever happened to GTC? :(

[djfaka]

Hopefully he's hot with a BIG....heart. <3

Whatever happened to GTC? :(


Nigga you gay.

We need to catch up ho.

[Lobelia Prime]

Yeah, where has the GTC been? He's the coolest!

[iwst99]

Nigga you gay.

We need to catch up ho.

WTF you doing in phoenix?

Nigga YOU gay.