Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Honestly, I get the feeling that my doppelganger would rather fuck me than fight me, and looking at the pictures of her that she sent me a few hours ago, I'm beginning to share her sentiments.

Is her name Narcissism by any chance? It's a beautiful name.

Digging the second, even though it took me a minute to figure it out. You have it wallpaper sized?

I can make it wallpaper size, what dimensions you want?

[PapaRhino]

next time you masturbate put a finger in your ass. then you can tell me how you liked it.


Jesus Christ. <3

That was in there for like 45 minutes dude...xD

Anyways, bi here, first post in thread.

[Æther]

How about I'm on messenger when this guy I dated forever and a half ago messages me practically begging to see me again, even though me and my BF have a joint account on sites. Instant ignore.

Is her name Narcissism by any chance? It's a beautiful name.



I can make it wallpaper size, what dimensions you want?

1280 x 768 :china:

[Lobelia Prime]

Is her name Narcissism by any chance? It's a beautiful name.

Narcissa. You were close.

[Azagtoth]

How about I'm on messenger when this guy I dated forever and a half ago messages me practically begging to see me again, even though me and my BF have a joint account on sites. Instant ignore.

Out of curiosity, was it Doug?

[Æther]

Out of curiosity, was it Doug?
Nah, me and Doug are cool peoples (in fact we got back into contact with each other last week). This other dude lives in Downtown Miami. He was the one that grabbed me by the crotch on our date in the dark. Can't remember his name but his Yahoo and Bear411 should be egh66665 or something. Avoid him at all cost.

Edit: I also remember a "hairyman" something or another. You can't miss him, even if you tried.

[Azagtoth]

Nah, me and Doug are cool peoples (in fact we got back into contact with each other last week). This other dude lives in Downtown Miami. He was the one that grabbed me by the crotch on our date in the dark. Can't remember his name but his Yahoo and Bear411 should be egh66665 or something. Avoid him at all cost.

Edit: I also remember a "hairyman" something or another. You can't miss him, even if you tried.

Haha I'll keep that in mind.

Yeah, Doug hit me up on BC a while back, he seems like a nice guy. :)

[Gray Fox]

I think Im getting house-a-tosis. I've barely left my house since I walked out on my job and failed out of school june of 08.

I need to like, go outside and pretend I enjoy the sun or something.

[Mechanica]

you're not going out with doug anymore? I'm behind

go take a bus justin, random portland buses will give you the biggest dose of public you need.

[Pasqual]

I think Im getting house-a-tosis. I've barely left my house since I walked out on my job and failed out of school june of 08.

I need to like, go outside and pretend I enjoy the sun or something.

Versis. Tonight. Go.

[Rose Magician]

I am bi when I am drunk does that count?

[PapaRhino]

I am bi when I am drunk does that count?

Eh, that's up in the air xD I have a few girl friends like that too haha

[DrumlinerJoe]

As long as it's not college fratboy party bisexuality then it's all good. Attention lesbians don't count.

[PapaRhino]

As long as it's not college fratboy party bisexuality then it's all good. Attention lesbians don't count.

Sounds about right to me.

[Rose Magician]

Ah. I got questions but maybe I can talk about it in Pm with someone. I am not comfortable with opening up and asking in a thread atm. :/

[PapaRhino]

Ah. I got questions but maybe I can talk about it in Pm with someone. I am not comfortable with opening up and asking in a thread atm. :/

Meh, go ahead and PM me, you know I'm easy to talk to ^_^

[Rose Magician]

Aw thanks. I will be open to discuss after my nap and work.

[PapaRhino]

Aw thanks. I will be open to discuss after my nap and work.

Mhm, no problem :tup:

[Æther]

you're not going out with doug anymore? I'm behind
Yeah, a lil over 2 years now? There weren't any hard feelings about it so we've been cool.

[great cow lord]

halloween is coming up! can't wait to get my halloween on.

what is everyone dressing up as?


me<--mc hammer. B)

[DrumlinerJoe]

Sabertooth here.

http://iesb.net/images/stories/productionstills2/sabretooth_wolverine.jpg

[PapaRhino]

halloween is coming up! can't wait to get my halloween on.

what is everyone dressing up as?


me<--mc hammer. B)

Overrated is h-ween, not for me, not this year anyways lol

[Mechanica]

My friend wants me to go as Hendrix. She's going as Janis Joplin and her friend as Stevie Nicks.

[Azagtoth]

I'm dressing up as the dude this year. :)

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_Aktr-yq6Huo/SbhxqJVvg6I/AAAAAAAAAUQ/HUUVt_b3I58/s400/20080918-dude.jpg

[Æther]

I wanted to go as a samurai but I don't think state law allows swords to be carried around.Guess I'll stay home and watch the paint dry. WAAHHH! WAAHHH! (http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_1OMiSrEJXnY/RngkR6u_GWI/AAAAAAAACwc/Rr1jayzBtps/s400/debbie_downer.jpg)

[DrumlinerJoe]

I find this dude hot for some reason.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eeqKtHNicAI

[Eshmasesh]

That song is pretty sweet.

[Mechanica]

Chinstrap beards are awful. Accents are awesome, though.

[30_60_90]

I have internets again! Things are looking better already.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Play Marvel 30 60 90?

[ElevatorUrinator]

I'm not ghey, just so you know very very very NOT ghey! This one girl I used to know wanted to stick her finger up my butt, I didn't really want her to but she wanted to bad. So anyway she did and she was all eww gross I feel a turd.

Now i'm married and my new wife really wants to stick her finger up my butt, what do I do?

[Eshmasesh]

Go to the bathroom first. :coffee:

[Gray Fox]

no shit























get it

[ElevatorUrinator]

Funny :P but thats not what i mean, I don't want it up my butt!!! But she's telling me i'm gonna get it up the butt anyway.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Your fake stories are boring. Leave the thread.

[ElevatorUrinator]

Your fake stories are boring. Leave the thread.

ok, bye

[30_60_90]

Play Marvel 30 60 90?

Not usually as I don't own it.

[evi1mightymouse]

Its nice to see such a boundary crossing forum open for discussion

[Mechanica]

We're fine answering serious questions. And someone even answered that guy. He doesn't want it up the butt, his wife wants to give it to him up the butt. Really not a question or our jurisdiction. It has nothing to do with being gay, and there's really no solution we can give him.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Eh, just didn't sound believeable at all.

Anyhow, I've been rocking a beard lately. I felt like a change so I went with that. I have to say it's not bad.

[ShinAkumax]

We're fine answering serious questions. And someone even answered that guy. He doesn't want it up the butt, his wife wants to give it to him up the butt. Really not a question or our jurisdiction. It has nothing to do with being gay, and there's really no solution we can give him.


When did you all girls became mind melded into one entity. I'll say it again, sucking cock doesn't make you a good person. It just makes you a cock sucker.

[Mechanica]

When did you all girls became mind melded into one entity. I'll say it again, sucking cock doesn't make you a good person. It just makes you a cock sucker.

You missed it, dawg. We did the fusion dance. While wearing the fusion earrings in our right ears.

Why would sucking cock make you a good person?

[DrumlinerJoe]

When did you all girls became mind melded into one entity. I'll say it again, sucking cock doesn't make you a good person. It just makes you a cock sucker.

And you'd know this first hand?

[Bastion]

And you'd know this first hand?


thats my favorite way of doing it. first the hand then the mouth.

anyway, yeah, the brasilleiro was cute. the song is pretty tight too. something about smoking....

[DrumlinerJoe]

It's in Portuguese I think. Badass jam.

The hell you been at Bastion?

[Bastion]

It's in Portuguese I think. Badass jam.

The hell you been at Bastion?

after I gnawed off my leg to escape from your sex dungeon I came back to canada and got myself a prosthetic. and check it out its equipped with the gaydar HD. This shit will tell you if he is top or bottom. It's a new day boys...

[Gray Fox]

I love this thread.

Yes homo. Lots of homo. With cherries on top =)

[BlodiaVulcan5]

any watch Glee? I finished watching "Preggers." This show is off the wall awesome. It could use better cinematography, though.

[DrumlinerJoe]

after I gnawed off my leg to escape from your sex dungeon I came back to canada and got myself a prosthetic. and check it out its equipped with the gaydar HD. This shit will tell you if he is top or bottom. It's a new day boys...

Note to self: Remember to wrap body in aluminum foil to avoid gaydar detection.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I've watched the first 3 episodes of Glee. I'd give it a B- It's good, but it's a little too uneven and they've yet to make the irritating characters likeable. Best thing about the show is Jane Lynch.

[Gray Fox]

Ive been sitting through dexter. finishing up 3rd season. Seriously people need to get in on this, this shit is amazing.

[Pasqual]

Ive been sitting through dexter. finishing up 3rd season. Seriously people need to get in on this, this shit is amazing.

We're almost halfway through the 3rd season, really enjoying it. My bf read the first novel and didn't really like some of the differences.

[ElevatorUrinator]

Watched Bruno, thought of thread. has you seen it?

[Mechanica]

Y'know I never got around to seeing it. I've heard completely opposite opinions - either it's genius in the way it makes light of how easily people are made uncomfortable by homosexuality, or it's just stupid and over the top and childish. I think maybe some of the people didn't get the humor though, and took it for slapstick? Which I'm sure is thrown in there 'cause it's mr. cohen.

[Gray Fox]

I think cohen is funny to must people as long as they dont feel the butt of the joke.

Then its butthurt time.

[Mechanica]

c'mon guys quit letting this thread die

what's up with yo bad selves

[Gray Fox]

so I had a 12 hour school day today, and I haven't slept yet.

/miserable.

[Æther]

Up at 2 AM shootin the breeze.

Got 488 out of 490 pokemon in Pearl. I'm so hip it hurts.

I need a road trip.

Edit: I also ran into Doug on monday at Aventura Mall while job hunting. Dude is still attracted to me but he knows I'm in a closed relationship now. Still cool beans with us.

Also: Fundoshi are sexy (http://www.flickr.com/photos/d_goldenberg/3882255525/in/set-72157622314064230/). If my ass wasn't broke now I'd get a pair. Or two. With those bears in them to model.

[kyarisan]

Isn't it 492? :S

Also you should be hyped about the remakes of GOLD and SILVER! HEARTGOLD AND SOULSILVER!!!!! *continues to be 10 years younger than he actually is*

Well I'M looking forward to it, anyway.... :D

[JustB]

Also: Fundoshi are sexy (http://www.flickr.com/photos/d_goldenberg/3882255525/in/set-72157622314064230/). If my ass wasn't broke now I'd get a pair. Or two. With those bears in them to model.

WOW, those are men. Seriously. I want a bear hug from them :blush:

In other news, got my first handful last week and man-cock is beefy.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Been chillin with this dude who's super cute and super nice, but I don't think there's anything there beyond friendship. Oh well, bummer.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

c'mon guys quit letting this thread die

what's up with yo bad selves

Going up to Sacramento this weekend for the Art Walk/Second Saturday thing. Also, celebrating my anniversary. woot.

[ShinAkumax]

I didn't watch Bruno. I did sit in for the final part in the wrestling event. That whole moment was magical for me. You can tell the guys hanging about crying were the most in denial about something. Insecurity levels over 9000!

[BlodiaVulcan5]

So yeah, Glee is awesome. Reason: Single Ladies rendition. This is why:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4mMfdzdaio#t=1m20s

[DrumlinerJoe]

I understand the show's appeal, especially to younger folks, but I think the characters are too overly one dimensional. And they haven't done much to make the annoying characters likeable or sympathetic. Still I think it has potential.

Dude with the mowhawk is 10 kinds of fine though.

[Mechanica]

wow that guy dressing the other guy in the fundoshi is hot

So yeah, Glee is awesome. Reason: Single Ladies rendition. This is why:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4mMfdzdaio#t=1m20s

LOL

[DrumlinerJoe]

Hey can any of y'all make me an AV out of this. I have it on my AV right now but I can't make it any bigger.

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/42000-1.jpg

[Æther]

Hey can any of y'all make me an AV out of this. I have it on my AV right now but I can't make it any bigger.

http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l301/joetx/42000-1.jpg
You need the entire body? Maybe someone with better AV skills will help you first.

[DrumlinerJoe]

The whole body would be nice, but beggars can't be chosers know what I mean.

[BeaTs*]

sora ohtsuka, nice. really like him and tsukasa matsuzaki. takeshi matsu is a bit boring/repetitive though.

would be hard to fit the whole thing in an AV...unless there's some scrolling involved



I also LOVE fundoshi. I bookmarked a site to buy some...but have not yet.

HYPED for SB4 :D

[ShinAkumax]

I though it funny during the " What would you do if you were a girl. " thread so many came out and said " I'm gonna be super insecure here and say I'm so straight I would be a lesbian. "

[BullDancer]

Been chillin with this dude who's super cute and super nice, but I don't think there's anything there beyond friendship. Oh well, bummer.

Yeah im straight and youre right there probably isnt, I talk to a few gay dudes(well the ones that arent dramatic), so yall really think to "I wish this dude wasnt straight" to yourselves sometimes. Whoa thats news to me:looney:

Since I cant find an "ask a gay dude thread" might as well ask a question here

Do you know why some gay dudes think that getting a sex change operation changes their gender? I mean if they got that sex change, they still arent a woman just a dude that got his bawlz(lol) and his penis/shaft/dick/*insert some other word i never heard of yet* chopped off, wow that sounds painful, WHY WOULD ANYONE DO THAT TO THEMSELVES?! :sad:

EDIT: I watch too much Maury and Jerry Springer is this kind of thing common in the first place?

[DrumlinerJoe]

I can deal with scrolling and like a funny message or something like that.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Yeah im straight and youre right there probably isnt, I talk to a few gay dudes(well the ones that arent dramatic), so yall really think to "I wish this dude wasnt straight" to yourselves sometimes. Whoa thats news to me:looney:

Since I cant find an "ask a gay dude thread" might as well ask a question here

Do you know why some gay dudes think that getting a sex change operation changes their gender? I mean if they got that sex change, they still arent a woman just a dude that got his bawlz(lol) and his penis/shaft/dick/*insert some other word i never heard of yet* chopped off, wow that sounds painful, WHY WOULD ANYONE DO THAT TO THEMSELVES?! :sad:

EDIT: I watch too much Maury and Jerry Springer is this kind of thing common in the first place?

Um, if I'm understanding your first paragraph correctly, the dude I'm talking about isn't straight. He's gay but there's no relationship potential.

And transgendered people feel that they are the sex they strive to be. It's part of who they are down to the core. It happens more often than you'd think.

[Æther]

Tried to make it fit but a lil big. Did the scrolling thing so let's see. Lemme know if you want it changed.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Pretty slick Aether. Now I can go terrorize SRK with my AV.

[Mechanica]

Do you know why some gay dudes think that getting a sex change operation changes their gender?

It's not just some random gay guys that want to be women. Read up about it on wikipedia or something. There are transgender people that go for either sex, it's not just dudes that want to be women and get fucked by men but as a woman or something. Not some strange fetish, it's like... you feel male in your spirit, in your center, at your core you feel as if you are a man. What if you woke up a woman one day? It's like that but from day one for them. I know it's really hard to wrap your head around, but consider yourself lucky that you don't have the mixed up feelings. It can't be fun.

And yeah, of course if a gay guy finds a straight guy attractive he would wish they were straight. Just like all the straight guys I know wish my lesbian roommate wasn't a lesbian. :rofl: "You're not a lesbian - you're pretty!!"

[rehab]

Speaking of transgendered, how (if at all) would anybody respond to a straight friend who's been feeling for somebody who wants a sex change? I worry about the guy because he's been holding on to it for years, and only found out about the gender identity issue some months ago. I'm guessing let it resolve itself, my nosyness be fucked?

[BullDancer]

oh thnks but i still think that sex changes are bs. Idk i have absolute no problem with gay people(gay bears on the other hand:mad: lol), it just bothers me when any type of person cant accept themselves as they were born. Before I just post this random story about my odd homophobia a few years back, and I was really homophobic back then because I didnt come into contact into gay people very much/at all and havent made friends with any. Again this is the Gay Thread Version 2.0, so adding some flava as people say lol:lovin:

The fiasco a few years back
I remember a time I got my nose broken and I went to this doctor, and then this dude and called himself Mrs.(something, Brittany idk) dont remember. I was like what the hell where am I and I was about to laugh at the way his voice sounded plus name. Of course it was a nose doctor but when I had to go into the back room with him, I was felt like "No please dont touch my peepee"(trapped in my weird thoughts at that time, again this a nose doctor). But the dude knew what he was talking about and did not try to make any weird passes at me, so everything was all good. Nice person too.

Lesson learned: Not every gay guy you run into is trying to hit on you, I think this is where alot of the hate comes from against gay people.

EDIT: @Joe whoa help me look at the size of that.......... Johnson!!!!! Look at these asteroids about to hit the Earth on satellite lol at the AV

[JustB]

oh thnks but i still think that sex changes are bs.

Thanks, but I think you're bs. Like you're existence I mean. Because I just can't comprehend that there's some chump out there calling themselves "BullDancer" on the srk forums. I just can't comprehend it. I can't wrap my head around it. So therefore there is no Bulldancer. You are a lie. You're just someone trying to be something you're not instead of someone trying to be who you are.

Seriously? There's tons of information out there in the form of books, websites and even youtube diaries. It's as simple as going to google or wikipedia and typing "transgender" in the search field. Get educated, you ignorant fuck. There needs to be less of you in the world. >_>

[BlodiaVulcan5]

I understand the show's appeal, especially to younger folks, but I think the characters are too overly one dimensional. And they haven't done much to make the annoying characters likeable or sympathetic. Still I think it has potential.

Dude with the mowhawk is 10 kinds of fine though.

The show is inconsistent, but the musicals and dark humor make up for it. Jane Lynch is hilarious.

I agree about Puck, too. Dude is smokin.

[BullDancer]

Thanks, but I think you're bs. Like you're existence I mean. Because I just can't comprehend that there's some chump out there calling themselves "BullDancer" on the srk forums. I just can't comprehend it. I can't wrap my head around it. So therefore there is no Bulldancer. You are a lie. You're just someone trying to be something you're not instead of someone trying to be who you are.

Seriously? There's tons of information out there in the form of books, websites and even youtube diaries. It's as simple as going to google or wikipedia and typing "transgender" in the search field. Get educated, you ignorant fuck. There needs to be less of you in the world. >_>

I looked the stuff up, i understand somewhat yet I cant because ive never had to go through it(all the reading in the world wont help you understand an emotion okay). There is no JustB and both you and I and everyone else on these forums are anonymous "chumps". Also stop attacking me, I am willing to listen to your point of view as long as it doesnt involve personal attacks. If, im an ignorant fuck,
then educate me.

EDIT: Hold up i meant sex change SURGERY not any alteration of appearance and so on. Sorry for the misunderstanding. Forgive me..... please:lovin: Lets just squash this. But if you would like to argue that surgery isnt bs, then let me hear you out.

P.S. Also what if i am being what i am in real life, im a honest guy what you are hearing is what i think, not trolling

[Gray Fox]

I understand why people do it and all about it and I've had friends who were that way, but if my friends told me they wanted unecessary surgery I would be worried about them.

If I had to have surgery to save my life I probably would fight it. any time you get cut up or open anything can happen.

Just going under to get my wisdom teeth pulled freaked me out like crazy.

Sorry this didn't really add to the discussion, but yeah surgery scares the fuck out of me.

Also bulldancer, you have to understand that people in this community consider how we are to be a fundamental right, not a privilege. You may think you're being reasonable, but when you ask for people to explain their reasoning for being trans or bi or gay, you are not really asking them a different question then why are they choosing to be black, or short or tall. To quote green boy, it's not like we woke up one day and said "you know what sounds good today? cock, yeah cock." We are who we are, and people get defensive when you ask for an excuse to be that way.

That being said, justb could have been a little more patient. (please dont yell at me ;-;)

[Mechanica]

Why can't someone's insides match their outsides? You can't exactly lead a normal female life if you have a penis.

I don't understand how he's supposed to argue against your opinion (keyword here) that surgery is "bs". There's not even facts to be argued or discussed hence this discussion never gets anywhere. People are rooted in their mindsets about how other people should live their lives, then when presented with something that is different, they reject it. There's really not much to be argued or presented. You said it yourself that you'll never be able to empathize with the emotion felt, and so you can't empathize with the compulsion to do such a thing.

[JustB]

Bulldancer, SRS isn't for all of us. I still haven't decided if I am going to do it. It's a very tough decision that we have to weigh the risks vs rewards. The American Medical Association recognizes Sex Reassignment Surgery as a necessity for trans people, but the insurance companies still won't cover it. So we either have to work our asses off to save up the money to see a specialist and/or spend years and years in therapy trying to be okay with a body that doesn't fit our mental image of what it should be. Have you ever felt your phantom vagina (assuming your male)? I have. Practically since I was a child. Ever wonder why you're not like all the other girls? I have. Since I was a child.

It sounds like you don't know the difference between Gender Identity, Sexual Identity and Sexual Preference. If it helps you to understand, I am a 25 year old trans girl who has been in active transition for two years and I still haven't had *sex*. I only just started "fooling around" with people a month ago.

In the end, you should ask yourself why you need to "understand" us. I don't need to understand you to accept you for who you are and treat you with common respect. Am I so wrong to expect the same in return?

Every time someone asks me to educate them, I hear "prove to me that I should believe you." Honestly, I've grown weary of the small battles. I do classes, I give speeches, and I support my friends and other members of my community. I'm actually going to a fund raiser Saturday night for a trans man so he can have his chest surgery (removal of teh boobs).

I apologize if I sound bitter, but yes, I am pissed off that I'm even having to educate the masses for their peace of mind and to soothe their insecurities. I'm not some monster come for your penis or your children. I'm just someone trying to make my world match up and so are most other trans people. Your insecurities are yours to overcome (nose doctor). I think the first step is to stop with the assumptions and preconceived notions that were most likely taught to you by someone else who also has never talked with a trans person before and for some reason feels threatened by our existence.

If you're really interested, study Kinsey or read up about the Hijra of India or the two-spirited people of the Native Americans. I don't have any more time for this. Early day tomorrow. Good luck finding answers.

[Azagtoth]

i have absolute no problem with gay people(gay bears on the other hand:mad: lol)

Please tell me there's a story behind this lol.

Note to Rob: I found out where in Jersey I'm going to be staying. I'm gonna be in Oceanside, which I'm told is about 20 minutes away from Newark, and subsequently a little over an hour from NYC. Such a shame my sis moved, she was in Long Island before, and before then she was in Brooklyn.

[Lobelia Prime]

*walks into thread*
Hey guys, what's going on?
*sees BullDancer's post*
See y'all in a few days.
*leaves*

[DrumlinerJoe]

oh thnks but i still think that sex changes are bs. Idk i have absolute no problem with gay people(gay bears on the other hand:mad: lol),

Then get ready to hate the shit out of this thread.

[Æther]

I also want to know about the hate on us BAEEERRRSSS.

AZAGTOTH! Did we exchange cell numbers before? I'm lookin through my cell and can't find your number. We needs to hang out. I'm gettin Cabin Fever. RAWR. *coughs*

*walks into thread*
Hey guys, what's going on?
*sees BullDancer's post*
See y'all in a few days.
*leaves*
:rofl: :ro fl:

[BullDancer]

*walks into thread*
Hey guys, what's going on?
*sees BullDancer's post*
See y'all in a few days.
*leaves*

Noooo please dont go (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JumdrSOI5Hw) also i am genuinely interested about what i asked, so if you dont mind i'll google right quick. Also those posts cut deep, I feel bad now, ill read some testomonials about people who want and/ or get the surgery, also if you are getting the surgery, i do feel scared for you, surgery period is dangerous imo Just B.

If yall want me to stay out of this thread ill just go into lurk around mode for a few days. Well, my question has been answered and i ran out of stuff to say........ So ummm Where da white women at? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJkHykGRXrw) lol

[Azagtoth]

AZAGTOTH! Did we exchange cell numbers before? I'm lookin through my cell and can't find your number. We needs to hang out. I'm gettin Cabin Fever. RAWR. *coughs*

Sending a PM now. :)

[Lobelia Prime]

Noooo please dont go (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JumdrSOI5Hw) also i am genuinely interested about what i asked, so if you dont mind i'll google right quick. Also those posts cut deep, I feel bad now, ill read some testomonials about people who want and/ or get the surgery, also if you are getting the surgery, i do feel scared for you, surgery period is dangerous imo Just B.

If yall want me to stay out of this thread ill just go into lurk around mode for a few days. Well, my question has been answered and i ran out of stuff to say........ So ummm Where da white women at? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJkHykGRXrw) lol

The fact that you even have an opinion on something that you clearly know jack about speaks to your character. The only reason I'm not enraged with you is because I was SRK's token militant tranny for a good while, and I've heard every ignorant statement in the book. It doesn't phase me anymore, but I strongly suggest that you take the time to educate yourself before you open that gargantuan anus between your nose and chin.


EDIT: I just read the first sentence of my post. I even win at IRONY! AAAAAAAAAAUGH! TOP SCORE!

[Æther]

Since I cant find an "ask a straight dude thread" might as well ask a question here

Do you know why some straight dudes think that getting into "fantasy" football doesn't make them gay? I mean if they got that sweet quarterback ass, they still arent straight just a dude that got his bawlz(lol) and his penis/shaft/dick/*insert some other word i never heard of yet* wet over jockstraps, wow that sounds gay, WHY WOULD ANYONE DO THAT TO THEMSELVES?!:sad:

[BullDancer]

Since I cant find an "ask a straight dude thread" might as well ask a question here

Do you know why some straight dudes think that getting into "fantasy" football doesn't make them gay? I mean if they got that sweet quarterback ass, they still arent straight just a dude that got his bawlz(lol) and his penis/shaft/dick/*insert some other word i never heard of yet* wet over jockstraps, wow that sounds gay, WHY WOULD ANYONE DO THAT TO THEMSELVES?!:sad:

If you are being serious ill bite, long story short id say that football isnt synonymous with something gay idk. Im watching the game, not sweet quarterback ass(wow I feel weird for saying that), yeah but im not sure what it is that justifies it not being gay(that last sentence was me trying to though didnt work lol). Straight guys(and maybe some gay sports fans too) love the idea of having a fantasy football team, hey me so horny from fantasy rosters, John Madden me love you long time for NFL on my xbox 360 and bill gates too.

Not gonna comment yet on what the new stuff I read, but people seem a bit tense so i guess ill drop the convo(conversation) I was having earlier on in this thread. Ah man I said id leave this thread alone but it keeps bringing me back im sorry, ill leave wahhhh:crybaby:. Still people need to keep this thread alive, at least the people in this thread arent the typical srk dickhead(ran into some but not too many im still a noob 09er).

Edit: I think that quote that came from some other post describes me to a tee, Im typically a pretty nonserious person most of the time.

[ShinAkumax]

You are obviously curious Bull. You keep re-instating your straightness while coming back here. Just be yourself.

[Gray Fox]

Lobelia we need to have long discussions about the state of metroid and to what degree of awesome it is :D.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Talk about ironic, I'm going to my little cousin's football game tonight. lol Seeing those marching bands brings back memories. It almost makes me wanna teach again, but then I remember it sucks and come back to my senses.

In other news, it finally got kinda cool down here today. Jacket time. :cool:

[ShinAkumax]

...

:coffee:

[Eshmasesh]

Noooo please dont go (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JumdrSOI5Hw) also i am genuinely interested about what i asked, so if you dont mind i'll google right quick. Also those posts cut deep, I feel bad now, ill read some testomonials about people who want and/ or get the surgery, also if you are getting the surgery, i do feel scared for you, surgery period is dangerous imo Just B.

If yall want me to stay out of this thread ill just go into lurk around mode for a few days. Well, my question has been answered and i ran out of stuff to say........ So ummm Where da white women at? (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJkHykGRXrw) lolI'll go ahead and give you a serious response.

First of all, transgenderism is NOT limited to homosexuals. One of my best friends since Highschool who's been married for years decided recently to change sexes. His (now her) wife is okay with it (bisexual). So please, don't treat transgenderism as a subtype of homosexuality, they are completely different.

Now, to the point. Transgenderism is a real psychological phenomenon in which a person mentally feels that they should be the opposite gender, despite the obvious disconnect with their physical sex. It can manifest into a psychological disorder called Gender Identity Disorder, where their feelings cause them distress, depression, anxiety, etc because they so desperately desire for their physical appearance to reflect their desires, while society demands that you play the role of your physical sex. When it comes to that, many transgenders decide to get sex change surgery, as it's the closest way possible for them to become the sex they want to be and is the best way to relieve their gender dysphoria. Obviously the surgery isn't perfect, we don't have the technology to perfectly replicate sexual organs. If we did, they would get it.

[Azagtoth]

So I got some gifts: a 360 TE stick and a 360 copy of SF4. Once I unlock everyone (again, UGH) I'll be down for some games every now and then, so add me bitches. :)

[ShinAkumax]

I'll go ahead and give you a serious response.

First of all, transgenderism is NOT limited to homosexuals. One of my best friends since Highschool who's been married for years decided recently to change sexes. His (now her) wife is okay with it (bisexual). So please, don't treat transgenderism as a subtype of homosexuality, they are completely different.


That's hella weird. Bonus, there is was/is? hate from homos towards transgenders. I think it's fine to treat it as a subtype. People be all sensitive and shit. People say I'm mexican and I'm all like. Sure, why not. Some other dudes completely start irrational free style and start crying about " we are all different " and it's like, man, I don't expect everyone to be armed with encyclopedic knowledge of shit just to not offend my frou frou ass.

[TragicHero]

Then get ready to hate the shit out of this thread.

I'm so turned on by your AV...
How sad is that? lol

[DrumlinerJoe]

I so had a bad night tonight. I won't even bother to go into detail, just kinda needed to vent like that. Blah. I hope my gay bros and sisters in this thread are having a better time than I am. Peace.

[ShinAkumax]

Your straight cousin had a fantastic night. I think tragic hero wouldn't mind being your cupcake.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I'm so turned on by your AV...
How sad is that? lol

Homeboy that ain't sad at all. :smokin: Welcome to this muthafuckin thread.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Your straight cousin had a fantastic night. I think tragic hero wouldn't mind being your cupcake.

Mamacita, I had such a bad night: at this point I don't think I'd even mind being the bottom. :amazed:

[ShinAkumax]

lol

I keep living under this fantasy that gay always lay. So you still up, what happened? I'm great a social dynamics.

[Gray Fox]

joe hit me up on aim or send me a PM, I'm always down to listen if you want to talk.

I'm sorry to hear you're having a rough time.

[Azagtoth]

Sorry to hear about that, Joe. I was feeling that way a few nights ago, probably not for the same reasons but the "fuck this" sentiment was definitely there. :(

Isaac: I might be down to hang tomorrow depending on whether or not my sis ends up doing anything for her birthday. I'll hit you up to see what you're up to if anything.

Excited as FUCK for Bearbust/BC3 next week. :)

[DrumlinerJoe]

Eh, it's a situation with my dad. He's schizophrenic. Down to the point where he's dangerous to others. We're having to give him pills that have the side effect of, well, death. lol Central nervous system damage and all that.

It's wierd cause my dad was an abusive alcohilic when I was little kid. I spent my whole life glad that I never had to see him again and now he's back and we're taking care of him, and essentially killing him. I know the pills are the only thing that'll help, but it's still kind of wierd.

[ShinAkumax]

I don't know if I would take care of my Dad came back. Violent? That sucks man. I'm not jabbing at you here, have you tried to offer him a joint? That might call him down. Sorry to hear shit is sucking for you like that.

Can I ask you why you are taking care of him? He was a drunk that left you guys when you were young right? It's like, he doesn't deserve to be taken care off.

[Gray Fox]

My Uncle on my fathers side was heavily schizophrenic, I don't know if he's alive or not as my dad didn't communicate with him or keep him in my life.

I just know things were really ugly for him, and he had a lot of hardships.

Nothing is harder than having the world slip away from you. Everything comes at a cost, if these pills give him some semblance of a life, then maybe it's better than what he was having before.

Either way again Im sorry you're going through that Joe, try to keep your chin up man.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I honesly wouldn't give a shit if not for my sister. She's really religious and her religion teaches that you have to honor you parents no matter what. She's my favorite person in the world, so I do it to help her more than anything. Plus, I'm an asshole for sure, but I don't wanna see anyone die crazy and homeless on the street, even if it's my fucked up dad. So yeah.

[ShinAkumax]

Ugh. Crazy old homeless hobo is a personal fear of mine. I NEED ME A WIFE AND KIDS FAST!

[Gray Fox]

everybody is gone at some point, and you can't change anything then. Maybe you should try to reconcile whatever relationship you can with your dad. You may regret it otherwise later.

Not trying to sound preachy or anything tho.

[DrumlinerJoe]

To be honest there's nothing to reconcile. His mind is gone and even if it wasn't, I don't think I'd want to. Like I told my sister a few years ago, if the option ever opens up to send him to the state hospital where they're sedate him till he dies (like they did his sister) I'd be all for that. It'd be the best thing for everyone involved I say.

[ShinAkumax]

It's gonna be sad when we die. I think about our SRK deaths all the time. The forum will end, or we will. Either or, we all leave SRK eventually.

:(

[DrumlinerJoe]

Well I wanna be supered to death. Go out with a big explosive bang. None of this assist death or regular move death. Gimme the flashy shit.

[ShinAkumax]

A big explosive bang uh? I'll hope to die after my kids ( Which don't exist yet ) become young adults.

[Lobelia Prime]

Lobelia we need to have long discussions about the state of metroid and to what degree of awesome it is :D.

Metroid Prime 3 was extremely disappointing. If Other M doesn't deliver, then the series will probably be dead to me. It's okay, though. I have another series to score this widow on the post-mortem rebound.
*makes out with Liara T'Soni* Mmmmm, Mass Effect...

[Khaotika!]

Sorry to hear about your dad, Joe.

[eddymasta]

Whats up guys, long time no post

So the online dating scene has worked well for me it seems, i've finally met a guy that I feel like I can "click" with. I've gone on one date with him so far, and we're meetin up again tomorrow night. I'm excited to see how this will turn out :D

[Æther]

I would prefer to die like this. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U8zx9qxCSvM) It would cause nothing but massive "WTF!"s

So I got some gifts: a 360 TE stick and a 360 copy of SF4. Once I unlock everyone (again, UGH) I'll be down for some games every now and then, so add me bitches. :)
Who got you good like that. I need to be friends with them too. LMAO

I'll call my BF in a few minutes to see if he's doing anything tomorrow. Most likely goin to church in the morning and be out at 1PM

[DrumlinerJoe]

Adding you today Azag.

[ElevatorUrinator]

Why are people so hung up on labels and stereotypes?

Can wild animals be gay?

[ShinAkumax]

Because we use words to communicate.

Yes, wild animals can be homosexual. People steer towards the bi-sexual road whenever the social restrictions allows it. Thing are "bad" until someone seek to profit from it.

[Desu]

Whats up guys, long time no post

So the online dating scene has worked well for me it seems, i've finally met a guy that I feel like I can "click" with. I've gone on one date with him so far, and we're meetin up again tomorrow night. I'm excited to see how this will turn out :D

That's awesome!
Hope things go well for ya. :o

[Gray Fox]

Metroid Prime 3 was extremely disappointing. If Other M doesn't deliver, then the series will probably be dead to me. It's okay, though. I have another series to score this widow on the post-mortem rebound.
*makes out with Liara T'Soni* Mmmmm, Mass Effect...

oo oo have you played shadow complex yet? It's awesomez!

EDIT: akumas comment reminded me of something. It bothers me when people have kids like, as late as possible and kick off when the kids hella young. Like good luck we're out! Find someone to hire you at 12!

[Azagtoth]

Okay guys, so I have a question for all of you that I'm not sure has been asked quite yet... top or bottom? To start things, I'm a versatile top. :P

[Gray Fox]

hmmm not sure if I want to answer....feels like people stereotype and that kind of annoys me.

[ShinAkumax]

Typical bottom.

[Azagtoth]

Typical bottom.

lol

hmmm not sure if I want to answer....feels like people stereotype and that kind of annoys me.

It's cool if you don't wanna answer, really. Personally I don't think it's that big of a deal but I could see how it could get uncomfortable.

[Gray Fox]

well since I telegraphed it bad enough for shin to figure it out, yeah Im a verse bottom.

[BeaTs*]

it has definitely been asked, or mentioned before. lol.

and lol, it's only one or the other really (I wouldn't believe it if you said versatile). no one's going to stereotype.

bottom tho :O vers. bottom just incase....but haven't yet done much on the vers. side yet.

[Penance]

*shakes head* Year and a half later and you're all still incredibly gay.

and a more fun questions would be, Condoms, yes or no?

[Eshmasesh]

Okay guys, so I have a question for all of you that I'm not sure has been asked quite yet... top or bottom? To start things, I'm a versatile top. :PI don't classify myself as either. I like sex.
*shakes head* Year and a half later and you're all still incredibly gay.

and a more fun questions would be, Condoms, yes or no?Honestly, no. I would of course use a condom if I ever slept with someone I didn't trust, but I've never done so and most likely never will.

@Desu, weren't you at Tension Pulse yesterday?

[Azagtoth]

I don't classify myself as either. I like sex.

Versatile, then. :P

and a more fun questions would be, Condoms, yes or no?

How is that a fun question? It's actually pretty serious, but my answer is yes, with very few exceptions.

it has definitely been asked, or mentioned before. lol.

and lol, it's only one or the other really (I wouldn't believe it if you said versatile). no one's going to stereotype.

bottom tho :O vers. bottom just incase....but haven't yet done much on the vers. side yet.

I know you've mentioned it before actually lol I just didn't remember if it was in this form.

[Eshmasesh]

Versatile, then. :Pಠ_ಠ

(currently working on a remix of Gifted (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZB7yswo6a0), I feel torn between my hatred of kanye west and the awesomeness of this song)

[ShinAkumax]

I don't have to!

:)

Only the gays get aids.

[Penance]

ಠ_ಠ

(currently working on a remix of Gifted (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZB7yswo6a0), I feel torn between my hatred of kanye west and the awesomeness of this song)

I'm not even a fan of kanye west but i do know this, he's a gay fish.

[Eshmasesh]

New Anti-Smoking Ads Warn Teens 'It's Gay To Smoke' (http://www.theonion.com/content/video/new_anti_smoking_ads_warn_teens)

[BeaTs*]

haha love The Onion.

what kind of question is condoms yes or no? seriously. obviously no condom feels better, but ya gotta be safe except for certain controlled situations.

Damn, "Gifted" is nice!

[The Damned]

New Anti-Smoking Ads Warn Teens 'It's Gay To Smoke' (http://www.theonion.com/content/video/new_anti_smoking_ads_warn_teens)

Haha. I'm stealing this since The Onion is almost always dead on.

Unlike a lot of the parodies, I think this could be one of the closest ones to being true, especially with people like Bill Frist (who apparently just wrote a book that we have at work, ugh) still in office/unjustly alive.

Anyway, I can't answer the label question considering that I'm still a celibate asexual virgin, though even if I could, I doubt I would. I would say that I don't understand the label thing, but I already said that when I said that I thought "gay" itself was an unnecessary/stupid label, at least when applied to people.

Sigh. Humanity.

[JustB]

Okay guys, so I have a question for all of you that I'm not sure has been asked quite yet... top or bottom? To start things, I'm a versatile top. :P

I like to "do stuff."

I seem to lean more towards bottom so far though.

[Azagtoth]

Anyway, I can't answer the label question considering that I'm still a celibate asexual virgin, though even if I could, I doubt I would. I would say that I don't understand the label thing, but I already said that when I said that I thought "gay" itself was an unnecessary/stupid label, at least when applied to people.

You realize you also can't answer that question because you're not gay, right? It doesn't really apply to straight guys unless they happen to like getting hit by a chick with a strap on.

I asked it for conversation's sake, really, but I dunno why some of you guys get so hung up on the "labels" thing, all it is is a one word descriptor that assumes prior knowledge and makes conversation (and communication in general) a lot less cumbersome, it's not some oppressive force that prevents you from being the special snowflakes you are or anything.

[The Damned]

You realize you also can't answer that question because you're not gay, right? It doesn't really apply to straight guys unless they happen to like getting hit by a chick with a strap on.

That second sentence contradicts the first one.

Also, bisexuality. (Unless you're one of the apparently many people that don't believe in that.)

However, yes, I realized that I neither could answer the question nor was it directed towards me, which is why I noted that. I was more interested in the labeling aspect, otherwise I would post in this thread more considering how much you guys talk about "gay" things (obviously).

I asked it for conversation's sake, really, but I dunno why some of you guys get so hung up on the "labels" thing, all it is is a one word descriptor that assumes prior knowledge and makes conversation (and communication in general) a lot less cumbersome, it's not some oppressive force that prevents you from being the special snowflakes you are or anything.

I think the distaste for labeling comes from most people, in instance "gay" people, not wanting to be stereotyped into things, especially if it carries stigma. Gays already have enough of that, so it seems rather paradoxical in a lot of instances that they would so willingly label themselves other things with various implications.

I mean, you can't tell me that "tops" aren't seen as more masculine/less "gay" (somehow) and "bottoms" the opposite, even if there's no basis for that.

Then again, I've seen quite a few gays discriminate against bisexual people just like any other minority would discriminate against another minority a lot of the time and I'm sure that even more of this could be chalked to the massive amounts of self-hatred some gays have.

I'm not saying that any of this applies to you, it's just what I've been seeing.

Labelling also annoys me because I'm a nihilist and labeling is only useful for "concrete" things for the most part. Labeling insists that things are permanent when they really aren't and then if you're changing labels constantly you make those labels even less reliable and then what the hell is the point of being labeled in the first place?

I couldn't care less about "uniqueness"--it's overused. Hell, I can't tell people apart a lot of time because most of us are so generic.

Sorry for the rant, especially since I'm not above labeling myself. It CAN be useful, just not for people (outside of maybe calling them stupid, but then I'm also a judgmental asshole and that tends to be true more often than not, so...).

[Azagtoth]

That second sentence contradicts the first one.

Also, bisexuality. (Unless you're one of the apparently many people that don't believe in that.

You're real big on semantics, aren't you?

Well a man bottoming isn't exactly an everyday practice in straight sex, especially not one most guys would openly admit, so it's more of a special situation than one that can be assumed without context, but yeah that was a bit contradictory.

For nomenclature's sake, when I said "gay" I really meant "not straight," but as for the bisexuality argument, top/bottom/verse would still moreso apply to the gay sex they engage in anyway (though if they bottom for girls there's a pretty good chance they bottom for guys too, I'd think).

Technically I'm a bisexual myself, but I don't refer to myself as such because I don't really bother to act out any hetero tendencies (IE I'm not that into girls).

I think the distaste for labeling comes from most people, in instance "gay" people, not wanting to be stereotyped into things, especially if it carries stigma. Gays already have enough of that, so it seems rather paradoxical in a lot of instances that they would so willingly label themselves other things with various implications.

I mean, you can't tell me that "tops" aren't seen as more masculine/less "gay" (somehow) and "bottoms" the opposite, even if there's no basis for that.

I understand not wanting to be stereotyped, I guess, but the minute you let a dick in your mouth, it doesn't make much of a difference whether you're a top or a bottom to the majority of society anyway.

Then again, I've seen quite a few gays discriminate against bisexual people just like any other minority would discriminate against another minority a lot of the time and I'm sure that even more of this could be chalked to the massive amounts of self-hatred some gays have.

I'm not saying that any of this applies to you, it's just what I've been seeing.

Understood. A lot of that discrimination comes from the idea that it's slightly more socially acceptable to be bisexual than to be straight up gay, and in the case of women, even encouraged.

Labelling also annoys me because I'm a nihilist and labeling is only useful for "concrete" things for the most part. Labeling insists that things are permanent when they really aren't and then if you're changing labels constantly you make those labels even less reliable and then what the hell is the point of being labeled in the first place?

Impermanent or not, I think they serve their purpose as simple descriptors rather than a scientific sort of label that isn't meant to be easily changeable.

Sorry for the rant, especially since I'm not above labeling myself. It CAN be useful, just not for people (outside of maybe calling them stupid, but then I'm also a judgmental asshole and that tends to be true more often than not, so...).

It's cool. :)

[The Damned]

You're real big on semantics, aren't you?

Yes.

Impermanent or not, I think they serve their purpose as simple descriptors rather than a scientific sort of label that isn't meant to be easily changeable.

If only more people felt that way.

Understood. A lot of that discrimination comes from the idea that it's slightly more socially acceptable to be bisexual than to be straight up gay, and in the case of women, even encouraged.

I suppose is true.

I believe I commented earlier how I found this an "amusing" double standard since men are believed to be more likely to led by their gentalia than women (and generally suffer less stigma if they are) and thus "lipstick lebsians" make less sense than two fratboys screwing each other occasionally when it comes to labeling sexuality.

I understand not wanting to be stereotyped, I guess, but the minute you let a dick in your mouth, it doesn't make much of a difference whether you're a top or a bottom to the majority of society anyway.

Is that how you personally feel, though? I know the majority of society likes to label things, which is sort of why I was trying to see where you stood yourself.

(Or are you trying to say that the majority of society wouldn't care because they would just label you "gay" [if you're a guy] and call it a day? It's difficult to tell exactly what you mean, though in that case I personally feel that it makes even less sense for other gays to label each other. However, I'm expecting you to be able to explain that since you could never represent an entire group of other people.)

I must admit, I do find it very interesting that you apply that those labels to oral sex as well (or, at least, that you seem to with this paragraph). If I am not mistaken, don't these particular labels usually only take anal sex into account?

[TragicHero]

Can you guys tell me if I'm hot or not? lol.... there's a pic on my profile page.

[Gray Fox]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and your camera angle is a little funny.

Would like to see another pic to get a better idea but, you don't look too bad =P.

Also to add to the discussion, call them labels are descriptors or however you want to cut it, but don't tell me when you hear gay or top or bottom you don't immediately associate things with that.

I think that's one of the problems with dealing with discrimination against the LGBT community is unlike race or gender or disability, you can't readily tell that someone is gay or bi just by looking at them. So you have to deal with coming out and shit. Blech.

[Azagtoth]

I believe I commented earlier how I found this an "amusing" double standard since men are believed to be more likely to led by their gentalia than women (and generally suffer less stigma if they are) and thus "lipstick lebsians" make less sense than two fratboys screwing each other occasionally when it comes to labeling sexuality.

Absolutely.

Is that how you personally feel, though? I know the majority of society likes to label things, which is sort of why I was trying to see where you stood yourself.

(Or are you trying to say that the majority of society wouldn't care because they would just label you "gay" [if you're a guy] and call it a day? It's difficult to tell exactly what you mean, though in that case I personally feel that it makes even less sense for other gays to label each other. However, I'm expecting you to be able to explain that since you could never represent an entire group of other people.)

I must admit, I do find it very interesting that you apply that those labels to oral sex as well (or, at least, that you seem to with this paragraph). If I am not mistaken, don't these particular labels usually only take anal sex into account?

As far as how I personally feel about the labeling issue, I have no problem with the labeling itself so much I guess I'm not really a fan of the connotations that come with some of those labels. I don't really fight them actively, though, because to be honest I'm way past giving a shit. People can think what they want, and I can take comfort in knowing they're horribly wrong most of the time.

And the oral sex reference is actually separate from the tops/bottoms/vers question; the point is that it doesn't matter whether or not you take it in the ass, you're still a cocksucker to them.

[JustB]

Yeah. You know, actually getting to know people and shit instead of passing them off based on a vague descriptor.

I'm not going to fight the labels war myself anymore. I just spend more time and energy and effort on those who take a moment to get to know me.

The ones who do pass off people based on (typically ignorant, non-first-hand experienced propaganda) association of descriptors are the ones missing out anyway. I'm typically told that I'm the most amazing person that someone has met... slight exaggeration :wink:

[yah yaahh b*tch!]

How have you gays been? I been out the loop. Someone give me the plunge down. Last 40 pages or so.

[Azagtoth]

I'm not going to fight the labels war myself anymore. I just spend more time and energy and effort on those who take a moment to get to know me.

Exactly. :)

[The Grey Area]

Yeah. You know, actually getting to know people and shit instead of passing them off based on a vague descriptor.

I'm not going to fight the labels war myself anymore. I just spend more time and energy and effort on those who take a moment to get to know me.

The ones who do pass off people based on (typically ignorant, non-first-hand experienced propaganda) association of descriptors are the ones missing out anyway. I'm typically told that I'm the most amazing person that someone has met... slight exaggeration :wink:

Agree completely

[Æther]

How have you gays been? I been out the loop. Someone give me the plunge down. Last 40 pages or so.
Azagtoth found himself a sugar daddy but won't share the wealth, DrumlinerJoe found a way to turn multiple SRKers blind simultaneously, GTC discovered an evil twin and Lobelia is pregnant. With quintuplets.

All this and more on the next episode of DRAGON. BALL. ZEEEEE!!!

[TragicHero]

And I'm craving some pumpkin pie... urrrghh...

[BeaTs*]

Also to add to the discussion, call them labels are descriptors or however you want to cut it, but don't tell me when you hear gay or top or bottom you don't immediately associate things with that.

seriously? like what?

when I hear them, I associate having sex with men, or being the receptive partner in sex? that's it... :confused:

instead of saying something a little more vulgar or rrude, it's easier just to say gay/top/bottom/whatever. Instead of azagoth asking "who likes fucking guys in the ass or who likes getting a cock in their ass". he asked it with a much more polite word....that's pretty much what these "labels" are for, an easy alternative way to say something much more or more crude. but then you have silly people associating crap with it or thinking everyone associates crap with it (the people who think this most likely the ones who do the associating)

and then you think people assign "things" to the "label" and try to say we all associate things to it. no we don't. you're just over-thinking this.

[TragicHero]

^ gotta agree with you there... kind of blowing it way out of proportion lol

[Desu]

Okay guys, so I have a question for all of you that I'm not sure has been asked quite yet... top or bottom? To start things, I'm a versatile top. :P
Personal questions! They make me feel awkward.
I'll answer with the word 'Uke,' because I like weeaboo noodlespeak.

@Desu, weren't you at Tension Pulse yesterday?
Sadly no, I came down sick the night before after a meeting at the venue, and missed out on playing at Tension Pulse AND casuals today. :(

[TragicHero]

Okay guys, so I have a question for all of you that I'm not sure has been asked quite yet... top or bottom? To start things, I'm a versatile top. :P

vers bottom... only cuz i'm lazy, though. lol

[Eshmasesh]

Sadly no, I came down sick the night before after a meeting at the venue, and missed out on playing at Tension Pulse AND casuals today. :(Ah, that sucks. Would've been nice to play more people, I didn't get very good competition.

[Desu]

Ah, that sucks. Would've been nice to play more people, I didn't get very good competition.
Added you on XBL.
I play BlazBlue mainly, but I've got SFIV here somewhere.

[Azagtoth]

Azagtoth found himself a sugar daddy but won't share the wealth

lol I've had him for like five years, I didn't just find him. <3

Desu: I had my weeaboo period, so I'm familiar with that word. :P

[JustB]

I'm familiar too. <3 Gravitation.

[BeaTs*]

I'm familiar too. <3 Gravitation.omg @_@ lol. Gravitation and all of it's dirty remixes were godlike. lol. Vanilla grav was mad funny...and the mixes were just mad...crazy :wow:

have you read any of murakami's other crazy works? like the one with the priest who's cum had healing properties? and so it led to some crazy shit with the hero-uke being harmed (even bad enough for the priest to jack himself off with holding the uke's rectum through a cut in his abdomen) but being healed with the next cumshot :rofl::wtf:

[Gray Fox]

sounds like guro. Guro makes me ill x.x

[Penance]

vers bottom... only cuz i'm lazy, though. lol

Basicly just lay there and take it eh? what a waste. a good bottom should always thrust back.

[BeaTs*]

Basicly just lay there and take it eh? what a waste. a good bottom should always thrust back.
this

but aside from the cases where bottom just lays there, sometimes it's more work (and prep work...) being bottom. or it's much easier being top. especially if you can convince the bottom to ride on top.

gray fox: yes it's a bit guro, but still check it out lol. and her other ones. though of course she goes a bit into the shota territory too, so be careful.

[JustB]

omg @_@ lol. Gravitation and all of it's dirty remixes were godlike. lol. Vanilla grav was mad funny...and the mixes were just mad...crazy :wow:

have you read any of murakami's other crazy works? like the one with the priest who's cum had healing properties? and so it led to some crazy shit with the hero-uke being harmed (even bad enough for the priest to jack himself off with holding the uke's rectum through a cut in his abdomen) but being healed with the next cumshot :rofl::wtf:

There were dirty remixes? I only looked at the original. That and Fake were my favorite explorations of boy/boy love in the weeaboo sense.

[BeaTs*]

There were dirty remixes? I only looked at the original. That and Fake were my favorite explorations of boy/boy love in the weeaboo sense.well...there were dirty "remixes" in typical yaoi form...but then were the considerably dirty "megamixes" that lost all subtlety and is just pure visual filth. murakami really did her research on gay sex and human anatomy (somewhat) for these ones lol

then there's her other smut too :]

I enjoyed fake also. a bit short though.

[Gray Fox]

I would never watch pornographic weeaboo cartoons of boy and boy action.

....hot....boy...on...boy....action

>.>


...never!

You believe me right? =(

[JustB]

well...there were dirty "remixes" in typical yaoi form...but then were considerably dirty "megamixes" that lost all subtlety and is just pure visual filth. murakami really did her research on gay sex and human anatomy (somewhat) for these ones lol

then there's her other smut too :]

I enjoyed fake also. a bit short though.

PM plz :lol:

[BeaTs*]

I would never watch pornographic weeaboo cartoons of boy and boy action.

....hot....boy...on...boy....action

>.>


...never!

You believe me right? =(well, it's more like reading. I'm not quite into yaoi though as much as bara...

but it's just because of the WTF factor and also because it involves the characters I've come to love that I look at these ones, lol

[TragicHero]

Basicly just lay there and take it eh? what a waste. a good bottom should always thrust back.
lol i was just being funny ;]

[Eshmasesh]

well, it's more like reading. I'm not quite into yaoi though as much as bara...

but it's just because of the WTF factor and also because it involves the characters I've come to love that I look at these ones, lolI always hated yaoi. But I'm crazy for Bara now, I only discovered it over the summer. >_>

[Desu]

I'm familiar too. <3 Gravitation.
I actually have the happy Shuichi Gravitation messenger bag. >->
AngryLobster has seen it. XD

[Gray Fox]

yeah yaoi is basically for closet lesbians that want boys to be girls.

I mean....so I've heard .... >.>

[BeaTs*]

yeah some of it is pretty lame, but some is not bad. and gravi ones are dirty with characters I love...but megamix far from yaoi...it's seriously crazy if you're used to just seeing regular yaoi.

[eddymasta]

I actually have the happy Shuichi Gravitation messenger bag. >->
AngryLobster has seen it. XD

Yup :3

[Desu]

Just found out what Bara was about 10 minutes ago. XD

[BeaTs*]

so how about this question...not sure if it's been asked before... >.>

Poppers. Y or N?

[JustB]

What's a Popper? I mean, I have poppers, but they're for my whip

[30_60_90]

I like both yaoi and bara...
I own Fake and most of the gravitation manga from my weeaboo teenage days.
Also I second, what are poppers?

[Desu]

I like those Jalepeno poppers you can get at bar & grill type places.
I also have a few friends who are "poppers" as in dancers.
>_>

[Æther]

- Ah, the "starfish" conundrum. I've been guilty of it myself (both because I'm lazy and my lower back has been shit lately). Just not as good and fun without pushing back.

- Bara. Now we're talkin business, even though my collection is on an amateur level compared to some other people. I've stated it before but Jiraiya works own me so hord. I need to pick up the hard copies. Only thing I got imported was a mishmash issue with other artists. Also I never understood why certain artists include a twink/child characters in some of their series. Maybe to facilitate to those who wouldn't be considered bears/chubs by category.

- I'm also curious as to what a "popper" is. Then again I probably should have learned my lesson from googling "sound" from the last time it was brought up.

- I feel like barbecuing some chicken and poppin some beers on Wednesday. I'm not even that into beer, just been having the craving for some.

- Azagtoth: Haha. I'm not gonna lie, I'm hating on you for the sugar daddy deal. Hell, I could use one right now. I hear Windows 7 is going to be the bees knees.

[Azagtoth]

Poppers. Y or N?

Haven't tried them but I hear good things.

[Gray Fox]

Im not sure what they are but I think I know, and I'm really not into them. I'm not one to judge but I dont want that stuff in my life. (Unless Im completely offbase, I really have no fucking clue what we're talking about)

[TragicHero]

so how about this question...not sure if it's been asked before... >.>

Poppers. Y or N?
Never used them for sex....but me and my cousin did some for a whole afternoon one time cuz we were bored lol Good times, good times...

[DrumlinerJoe]

Hey Tragic, I think I've played you online. Either that or someone else with a similar name. Play Marvel any?

[TragicHero]

Yeah I did the first month or so after it came out on XBL.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Ah cool cool. I've been trying to hold it down for all the gays online. I haven't had the chance to get to an actual Marvel tourney in a loooong time though. I miss that shit.

[TragicHero]

Ah, that's cool. Well I can't play anything right now cuz I didn't pay my damn cable bill lol... but yeah.. I used to play marvel with this one guy and his friend. We also played a little ST and SF4.... was that you?

[DrumlinerJoe]

hmmm, don't know for sure. I'm a Rogue player. If you played any decent Rogues online chances are I was one of them. I've seen 2 or 3 others who are decent with her too.

[TragicHero]

Ohh ok no this guy used all guys. And he wasn't decent, we both sucked lol
BTW i think i told u this before but not sure if u read it or not, your AV turns me on more than any AV i've ever seen before hahaha... I could watch it for hours.

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol, well thanks. I think we've all seen enough of Chun Li's and Cammy's vaginal cleavage on this webside. Time for some eye candy for the rest of us. lol

And by the way, cute pic.

[TragicHero]

Thanks :] You wanna chat on aim?

[30_60_90]

I would also like to approve of the AV DrumlinerJoe, and your profile picture is very good looking TragicHero.

[Gray Fox]

Sometimes I think it's a normal avatar and Im just letting my eyes wander hehe.

[TragicHero]

I would also like to approve of the AV DrumlinerJoe, and your profile picture is very good looking TragicHero.

Hey thanks! :]

[Mechanica]

Poppers is Amyl Nitrite (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amyl_nitrite), an inhalant. I wanted to try it once and fool around; scheduled to meet up with this guy in Seattle and he just left he hanging on the street corner for a while. I've heard a lot of people get headaches afterwards. I used to be really interested in trying as many drugs as I could.


Bottoming > topping but I've recently become a bit more versatile. >_>

Condoms y/n is kinda random because like... it's not like a "ooh I love the feel of condoms" kinda thing, it's a safety and health issue. Unless I guess someone had a condom fetish. We're both tested, we don't use condoms. So... y/n

[TragicHero]

^ Is your quote from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia?

[Mechanica]

^ Is your quote from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia?

No but that's a great show, I need to see more of it. It's actually just from my friend Frank talking about when someone shit on the floor at his work. :rofl:

[TragicHero]

LoL that's funny... Danny DeVito plays Frank on that show and i remember one episode where someone had shit on the floor and I thought that might've been from that. It is a funny ass show though.

[Lobelia Prime]

Re: yaoi
No.

Re: yuri
Absolutely. Give me Strawberry Panic! or Azumanga Daioh over yaoi anyday. I play enough Final Fantasy to know that I don't need any more fucking yaoi.

[BeaTs*]

lol...you can google what poppers are people. So no one has tried 'em? Are they easy to get hold of for you? I can get them pretty easily.

first tried 'em with this one hookup. I was quite scared because I wasn't so sure what they were then. I was like "should I be breathing this in?!" anyway, I do and he tries to start to fist me D:. of course, a fist is not getting far. and he had a small fist at least too. anyway, though he couldn't get it in, what he was doing down there felt amazing. though there was some pain too (poppers don't dull pain or anything). Who knows, I may one day be able to fit something in there lol

anyway, since then I've gotten my own poppers...and they are amazing with someone or by myself. I hear they're best for bottoms especially when things are first goin' in >.> or when moving up to a slightly bigger toy... <.< but if you inhale a bit too much/too soon you tend to get pretty loose as to not feel to much for a bit

though poppers are a very light drug (if even that) it makes me want to try other ones. and this guy I used to date definitely would help me get them...but I'm afraid I can't with you know, my job and all : /

[Eshmasesh]

I don't take drugs of any form, including alcohol. :xeye:

Although, I am interested in taking certain entheogens (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiritual_drug#Entheogens) for spiritual/musical reasons.


- Bara. Now we're talkin business, even though my collection is on an amateur level compared to some other people. I've stated it before but Jiraiya works own me so hord. I need to pick up the hard copies. Only thing I got imported was a mishmash issue with other artists. Also I never understood why certain artists include a twink/child characters in some of their series. Maybe to facilitate to those who wouldn't be considered bears/chubs by category.
I have an awfully mediocre collection thus far, but I did manage to snag a pirated version of Honey Come Bingo. You play against a bunch of other bara guys in this interesting type of puzzle/gambling game, when you beat one of them they have a strip scene and when you completely eliminate him you get "special" scenes. Shame I can't understand moon runes.

[Bastion]

ive used poppers. my ex and i did them pretty much everytime we fucked. there good. i recommend it. its nothing to be afraid of. what him and i would do (keep in mind we both got turned on by the smell of crotch) i'd get a pair of underwear i'd worn to work and got all sweaty then id put that popper shit on it like you would with chloroform and he'd just put it over his face while i fucked him so hed get the high from the poppers and get horny as fuck smelling my balls. lol. for anyone that doesnt know, doing poppers turns you into a fucking-animal. you dont hold back and you fuck like the enitre world depended on it. i wouldnt recommend it with someone you have to wear a condom with. the way i used to fuck after a hit of poppers....latex wouldn't withstand that kind of punishment. and in terms of getting fucked...after a hit of poppers you get a crazy hunger like no other in your gut and there is only one thing that will satiate it. good stuff.

[BeaTs*]

lol. I guess spoilers aren't needed!

no, but that's hot with the sweaty underwear deal. (I love sweat/man smells too). :P

[Bastion]

lol. I guess spoilers aren't needed!

no, but that's hot with the sweaty underwear deal. (I love sweat/man smells too). :P

lol spoilers? what the fuck? i didnt read all the posts, just posted my own experience. ill fix it...for some reason....

[Eshmasesh]

lol spoilers? what the fuck? i didnt read all the posts, just posted my own experience. ill fix it...for some reason....I'm pretty sure he meant that x-rated details should generally be spoilered.

[Bastion]

I'm pretty sure he meant that x-rated details should generally be spoilered.

lol @ x-rated. yeah, i guess i just dont think of it that way. but i can see other people being shocked or something. cool.

[BeaTs*]

oh no. I really don't care. you can leave it as is. I was joking. it's just personal pref. and I know xrated has been non-spoilered before.

[30_60_90]

So before my last hour class I go to go to the bathroom, the light was off (the college loves to save electricity) so I assumed no one was in there, I go and open up the stall and I'm guessing the guy inside noticed and was trying to get up to lock it because I got a full frontal shot. I closed it fairly quickly and he was like "I'm sorry buddy." I ended up standing in the bathroom for a couple seconds before deciding to go find another one. Then I realized that that was the first penis I've seen in real life in six years. I'm sad now.

[Bastion]

So before my last hour class I go to go to the bathroom, the light was off (the college loves to save electricity) so I assumed no one was in there, I go and open up the stall and I'm guessing the guy inside noticed and was trying to get up to lock it because I got a full frontal shot. I closed it fairly quickly and he was like "I'm sorry buddy." I ended up standing in the bathroom for a couple seconds before deciding to go find another one. Then I realized that that was the first penis I've seen in real life in six years. I'm sad now.

did you ask him why he was in there in the dark?

[ShinAkumax]

http://media.peopleofwalmart.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/288.jpg

[30_60_90]

did you ask him why he was in there in the dark?

No, some other guy had come into the bathroom a couple seconds after I did. =(

[ShinAkumax]

You should go to the craigslist section under m4m intimate encounters if you want so action numbers.

[30_60_90]

I'm in college and live at home, I don't think that'll work... not to mention my crippling social anxiety.

[ShinAkumax]

That's a tough cookie. My social anxiety existed because what other people thought of me affected me. When I realize that people are narcissistic island that really don't give a shit what I do. Good or bad, I started to care less and less. Eventually I learned that I cannot gravity or what people think. And further down the line I learned that everyone dies and that tom dick and harry thinking I'm a stupid *** amounts to nothing shy of 100 years. We are all gonna be dead SOOOOO... yeah. I don't want to waste more time with what other people think before my grave beckons me in.

[30_60_90]

I also feel that way about people, but even with anxiety meds I still sometimes have panic attacks in large crowds. I've always been a nervous person. I usually have to have a friend around so I'm comfortable for me to be outgoing, 'cept online.

[ShinAkumax]

That's normal. How old are you? When I was in highschool In once went back home because I didn't like what my hair looked like. The first time someone complimented my writing I went home and went to sleep at noon. Believe me, I know my social disorders. I'm fine now. Everything changes, even us if we allow it.

[30_60_90]

I'm twenty two years old.

[ShinAkumax]

That's a good age. It took me years to get over my shit. I accidentally allowed myself to be in a position that forced me to form social skills. I moved to a new city and fell on my face for years. I once worked at this place and while learning to make friends there I manage to turn every single person in the store against me. I'm better with people now but still stumble here and there. Try to get a hold of " The 30 day challenge " by neil strauss. It helps with anxiety approach by building on small safe social interactions.

[30_60_90]

Thanks, I'll check into that.

[ShinAkumax]

Cool, it's actually called " the style life challenge " or " the rules of the game" it's this pick up book for straight guys but don't let that dissuade you. It starts with thinks like " say hi to 5 stranger today " and blah blah blah. I just liked the steady slope in challenges and how they build on each of the previous challenges.

[ShinAkumax]

My current face book status

Heather is astounded at how skanky some teenage girls are... have some class ladies... and I use the word "ladies" in the most loosly way possible...
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Lana
What happened?
3 hours ago
Rainbow Sky
Rainbow Sky
Ooh do dish lovey! What did u see? I feel old sumtimes when im saying this same thing like i CANT believe what i see kids wearing to school.. They look like hookers and act so nasty and then wonder why they have genital warts n herpes and are knocked up by age 15. It makes me so sad. I try not to judge but i waited til i was 18 almost 19 to have ... Read Moresex and i dont think even THEN i was mature enuf to be doin all that...i work with younger girls and they talk about having sex without condows like who cares and nobody is getting std tested ..what is the MATTER with peops yo?
3 hours ago
Heather
Oh nothing... just some of Melly's little friends are being beotches... drama drama drama... which is going to happen... but have some class and don't paste it all over facebook for everyone to read...
3 hours ago
Heather
Yes... u are so right Rain... it's unfortunate fo sho... but I am just glad that the girls that are my main concern are smart enough to be the bigger people and DO have class... luv u M&M xo
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Genesis Montero
Gen
I like skank. I only date skanks actually.
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Heather
14 year old skanks G???
3 hours ago
Gen
Stacey was 14 when I was 20 so yes.
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Heather
Well at least I know who their target audience is now... LMAO
3 hours ago
Ge
The old generation always looks back at their past with rose tinted glasses. " Why when I was a kid! " I say, kids are the same as always. They didn't change, we did, we got older.

Kids want to be accepted by the group and they want to blend in with the group. They are insecure and parents have little say what's cool. You know what's cool? Whatever " parent's just don't understand " that is. Is it the kids fault to be want to be like their skanky idols? Or are they following the example their parents?

More Kate pluse 8? How about more Bradgelina news. Wait wait, what we need is more TMZ! Some more grey's anatomy!... Read More

You are just getting old Heather.
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Gen
Classy 14 year olds? What madness is this? Why do we expect kids to have their shit together when my peers in the 30's are typing the exact same emo shit on their parents.

JOE IS MISSING SOMEONE!
ANNA IS IN LOVE WITH THE PERFECT MAN!
... Read More
1 year later ANNA is not longer in a relationship and Joe says "it's complicated. "

Really classy. Not that I believe in class. It's just another man device to further disconnect ut from each other. An united public has a voice and that is dangerous to people in control. But hey, I'm just a nut. Keep holding kids to imagined adult rules. Imma go play street fighter now.
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Heather
WOW... I'm done trying to comment when I don't even get the chance to... at least wait for mine before going on and on and on...

Have playing your game...
3 hours ago
Heather
WOW... Im done trying to comment when I don't even get the chance to... our opinions differ obviously and I'm leaving it at that...

Enjoy your game G... :)
3 hours ago
Genesis
Kinda like how you were doing to the girls? Is it classy to talk bad about teenagers when they aren't here to defend themselves?

let kids be kids I say
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Rainbow Sky
Rainbow Sky
Yes let kids be kids..let them run around fucking and popping out kids into an overpopulated world. Let kids be kids and break into my moms house and beat her almost lifeless becuz they 'wer drunk and just having fun and it got out of hand'. Let kids be kids and steal my car i workd so hard to pay for and smash it around a pole becuz they wer Just ... Read Morejoyriding..its what the kids are doing for christ sake. Let kids be kids and get high on meth and get a hold of daddys gun and hold u at gun point just for shits and giggles. I volunteer at a youth center and more 'ADULTS' need to wake the fuck UP..and make an effort if not with actions at least start with adjusting their attitude and getting a REAL look at the state of young people in this world. Let kids be kids is one of the most ignorant statements ive heard today. Sory to get all serious on ur status H but since my mothers near murder by 3, 15 year olds 2 years back..i began volunteering at my local youth centre. More 'adults' need education OBVIOUSLY.
2 hours ago
Genesis Montero
Genesis
Learn to spell. Having bad things happen to you doesn't make you right in arguments. If you want to make it about bad things that happened.

I am from a 3rd world country. El Salvador, I was wrong at the start of the 10 year civil war that you might have heard about. I came to Canada when I was 12 and been living on my own since I was 15 because I ran away from an abusive parent. I use to wash floors between 4:30 and 8:30 before going to highschool which I dropped out of. I have not family in Canada. I was homeless because when I hurt myself no one was there to help me and I was too proud to ask for help.

Am I allowed to have an opinion "rainbow sky" now or do you need me to bring more things from my past that are not at all applicable the the discussion.... Read More

Good too see you moved on by the way.
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Genesis Montero
Gen
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7ZvtwckDOI&feature=PlayList&p=2E17DD8053348814&playnext=1&playnext_from=PL&index=3

A little of taste of what hell looks like. Now rainbow, if you can manage to make a point without typing swear words and if you can manage to accept that other people have different view points, and if you can manage to talk to a ... Read Moreknave high school drop out perhaps we can continue this conversation in private. I have no problem backing up my opinions over a cup of coffee. I volunteer also. Am I good enough now?

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I look forward to your education of me.
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David
Hey cuz :) What gets me is the creepy adult men lookin at 14 year old children the same way those children look at candy in the candy store i love smashing creeps like that and whats even sadder is that parents gotta worry bout their 14 year old naive daughters falling for 20 and older men that have no morals when it comes to sleeping with children
18 minutes ago
Gen
I get you Dave. I myself like how they did they it on the old testament. Next time you see one of those creeps give me a call. I'll bring a bat and pull their eyes out with my hands. We can throw the body by the river. Maybe we should make him build his own grave. Then half kill him, then bury him alive. I'll call the thought police, you get the truck. Remember to bring a hunting knife, some pepper spray and a shovel.
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Gen
Man, I can't wait to have a son so I can teach him to 'SMASH" society into improvement.
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Tara
Being classy is not a trait we are born with. As young people we learn to be classy/gentlemen or not to be classy/gentlemen by the example if the adults around us.
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David
David
And Mr Gin I Would love to meet over coffee on behalf of my beloved cousin and her friend Im so interested in hearing more from u and even moreinterested in giving you my feedback :)
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Gen
I agree Tara. I think parenting starts at home. Everyone makes mistakes. Young people are under an enormous amount of pressure as it is already. Everyone is different. Becoming an adult is a long and hard journey. Leading by example is something I can completely stand behind.

I'm thankful for the mistakes that I made. I drew a lesson eventually. ... Read MoreThat eventually could mean years after the event. As an adult, I like to tell children that making mistakes is okay. That learning a lesson from those mistakes is a good idea. It makes life easier for them selves and everyone around them. It takes time to grow out of the child hood stage of life.
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Gen
So you want to move from implied violence to real violence. Sounds like a grand idea dave!
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Gen
Children, listen to uncle Dave. When someone has a different view point than us. We beat them till they agree of we kill them. You are probably a Christian too. Great.
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[Mechanica]

I got over the worst parts of my social anxiety via introspective psychedelic trips. :wonder: Same thing Shin said, I was just looking at it like "why the fuck am I wasting my energy worrying about what other people think like that? why do I even care? who the fuck are they?" I'm all about the effecient use of my energy now. I don't waste it on other people like that. Also, the book Power vs Force: the Hidden Determinants of Human Behavior helped me with anxiety, as it just gave me insight into how people's brain works and made me realize what I was doing was completely illogical. The internet does nothing but make social anxiety worse IMO. Gives you this shield that you don't get in real life which just makes you that much more uncomfortable when socializing without the anonymity of the internet.

I still have some issues with it in jobs where I'm forced to talk with people in ways that are out of character, but I think the anxiety stems from getting fired from every social job I have because I'm not a bubbly female who speaks with inflection at the end of every sentence and giggles at everything people say.

I just put my answer in spoilers because I know people irl who read this thread sometimes and I wasn't sure if they wanted to read it. You guys don't have to be copycats. :D

[Eshmasesh]

I had extremely bad social anxiety through middle and high school, I still have problems with large groups of people. The only way to really help overcome it is to forcibly motivate yourself to talk to people, find clubs and such that interest you to find people you might relate to, etc. I also commute from home to college which does make it a lot harder, but it's always worth it even if it turns out to be something you're not interested in. Without properly developed social skills, you'll have problems with most things in life.

I got over the worst parts of my social anxiety via introspective psychedelic trips. I wish I was in the know with where to get (safe) psychedelics :(

[Gray Fox]

Im 22 too! You know who else is?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8dNrKE7yjE

[Azagtoth]

Azagtoth: Haha. I'm not gonna lie, I'm hating on you for the sugar daddy deal. Hell, I could use one right now. I hear Windows 7 is going to be the bees knees.

He almost bought me a new pc today. They all get free windows 7 upgrades too. :cool:

Yo, I'm so down for burgers and beers.

Bastion: Now I'm DEFINITELY gonna have to try them. :)

I used to be REALLY socially awkward, but then I started getting hit on a lot and I suddenly stopped caring. :)

[Mechanica]

I wish I was in the know with where to get (safe) psychedelics :(

Yeah, you really gotta know people. Go hang out with some stoners, hahaha. Nah it's not the route I can recommend for everyone, especially someone who doesn't indulge in drugs at all. Shame we can't do MDMA therapy anymore. GG war on drugs.

[BeaTs*]

azagtoth:you'll be surprised how it could feel any better than it already did. especially if you bottom. yes, you do get that insatiable fuck fuck fuck fuck feeling too...but you might have to sniff a lot since it wears off sorta quickly. nothing too bad with sniffing a bit more...but some people end up getting headaches first. of course, please look up the health risks too.

happy fucking! :]

yeah, when I was talking about trying more drugs before I was meaning more natural ones too. I will try 'em one day

[JustB]

I'd like to extend a very hearty FUCK YOU to Barney Frank.

[Azagtoth]

Shame we can't do MDMA therapy anymore. GG war on drugs.

Seriously, and if I wasn't so paranoid about getting meth pills or some shit I'd so be down to actually try it. :(

azagtoth:you'll be surprised how it could feel any better than it already did. especially if you bottom. yes, you do get that insatiable fuck fuck fuck fuck feeling too...but you might have to sniff a lot since it wears off sorta quickly. nothing too bad with sniffing a bit more...but some people end up getting headaches first. of course, please look up the health risks too.

happy fucking! :]

For sure, thanks. :)

[BullDancer]

Odd subject for me to randomly bring out of nowhere but has anyone seen Paranormal Activity. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wRF7JRPwTOI&feature=related)Most people are hyping this movie up too much its like a fake ass Blair Witch Project...... and you dont want to see a movie thats a fake ass blair witch project, such a waste of money:crybaby: I could spent that money on something better, like crack or a handjob or both:wtf::pleased:

EDIT: Also drugs you say? Thats what has been getting talked about while I was gone and yes I came back.

[Eshmasesh]

I'd like to extend a very hearty FUCK YOU to Barney Frank.May I ask why?

[Mechanica]

Seriously, and if I wasn't so paranoid about getting meth pills or some shit I'd so be down to actually try it. :(


You can buy testing kits online at like DanceSafe but when you don't know anybody reliable, you'll just get nasty methbombs anyway. Hahaha. I'd like to get my hands on pure mdma at least once.

[Wolfkiller]

Dear gays, I'd like to apologize on behalf of dumb straight people everywhere. Had a brief discussion with a lady at work today concerning the bible. She was talking about how people who commit suicide go to hell and I had a little chuckle and told her I don't believe in fairy tales. She misunderstood my meaning and made sure to inform me that it actually says that in the bible, so I had to clarify what I meant by telling her the bible is full of nonsense that isn't true/right. Then she asked me super seriously "Do you think the part about man shouldn't lie with another man is bullshit too?" as if she caught me and I was going to agree with her or something. Had to give her another "Um, hell yeah" and that was pretty much the end of it. Boggles my mind how a fairly decent and nice grown ass woman in 2009 can really hold such stupid beliefs and prejudices because of some shit that's written in an old book.[/rant] :shake:

[JustB]

May I ask why?

He dropped the "T" off of "GLBT" for the ENDA bill.

I'm now not even a second-class citizen.

[BullDancer]

Dear gays, I'd like to apologize on behalf of dumb straight people everywhere. Had a brief discussion with a lady at work today concerning the bible. She was talking about how people who commit suicide go to hell and I had a little chuckle and told her I don't believe in fairy tales. She misunderstood my meaning and made sure to inform me that it actually says that in the bible, so I had to clarify what I meant by telling her the bible is full of nonsense that isn't true/right. Then she asked me super seriously "Do you think the part about man shouldn't lie with another man is bullshit too?" as if she caught me and I was going to agree with her or something. Had to give her another "Um, hell yeah" and that was pretty much the end of it. Boggles my mind how a fairly decent and nice grown ass woman in 2009 can really hold such stupid beliefs and prejudices because of some shit that's written in an old book.[/rant] :shake:

Im a Christian but still kinda fucked how she tries to force her beliefs on you, I dont do that to anyone who doesnt believe in my God or are even affiliated with a religion. Thats just something that people just shouldnt do, hell I separate scientific logic from the Bible period and im Christian. But this is a two-way street, I dont want someone else trying to force their beliefs on me either.

Edit: Psst Try Mary Juana because its like all natural right and it comes from da Earf jk Didnt know people could get it addicted to it tried once, never again though since some dude told me he had trouble getting off of it.

[Eshmasesh]

He dropped the "T" off of "GLBT" for the ENDA bill.

I'm now not even a second-class citizen.Ouch. I honestly don't find that surprising though, I figured a while back that transgenders would be next in line instead of side by side if and when homosexuals get equal rights. But that really blows =/

[DrumlinerJoe]

Well the way I tell people about thier pointless beliefs is that you're free to believe anything you want, just so long as your beliefs don't stomp on my freedoms. I don't believe in the Bible, but I'm not going around trying to pass laws that say people shouldn't believe in it or practice their own religion. I actually had one person ask if I had a gf, I just replied that I'm okay. the dumb bitch actually said, "Oh okay. I'm Christian and I don't believe in it. But that's okay I don't have a problem with gays." If there was ever a time to hit a woman, I think that was it.

[Gray Fox]

I think part of the thing I've come to realize is that....

We see it as their beliefs smashing on our freedoms...

...They don't. They see their opinions and beliefs as fact. The problem with trying to use logic with these people is that they view the bible as a source of factual arguments or like concrete data for debating something.

I don't know, I've tried to be polite when dealing with religious people, but I find religion about as unsettling as a cult. I'm sorry if I offend anyone saying that, but can you honestly explain the difference to me.

When I was younger I used to identify with a lot of christian families and kids I knew. Despite the fact that I didn't go to church, I knew that things like treating people with respect, being courteous, and generally being helpful/nice to people was a good thing. I wanted that type of thing in my life and I aspired to it, even though I knew I was a flawed person. I still do aspire to it. I try to treat people well, even when I feel like they're being jerks. These types of lessons I can respect, and ideals as well.

The problem is modern religious people rarely take that from the texts. All they see is the condemnation, brimstone and hellfire. They don't see the fact that they're not supposed to be the ones judging, and that compassion and forgiveness and love thy neighbor and all that shit. It's bullshit that someone can claim to be religious but pick and choose what they want to follow. Or that they'd use something meant to inspire people to be generally better to others to serve their own needs or vendettas.

The bible said slavery was a good idea, and a lot of other shit that isn't cool now.

Any rate, I know religion is a psuedo taboo subject here and Im not trying to get myself in trouble, but it's hard to talk about gay issues when the people that are against us tend to fall in that camp.

[Mechanica]

Mary Juana because its like all natural right and it comes from da Earf jk Didnt know people could get it addicted to it tried once, never again though since some dude told me he had trouble getting off of it.

It's funny 'cause we're on page 420. :smokin: Marijuana can most definitely be addictive. It's not physically addictive technically, but people can still be addicted to it. I've actually had physical withdrawals back when I used to smoke all day every day. If I didn't I'd be irritable, not hungry, sweaty, clammy... Hahaha, awful. That was not a high point of my life. It was fun for a bit though.

It used to cure my anxiety, and now if I'm high I get WAY more anxiety. I hate being in public and stoned. Brings me back to square one with the social anxiety.

[The Grey Area]

Part of me wants a change of venue. The other part likes how comfortable I am here.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Well what I like doing with a Christian who won't listen to reason is just plant little seeds of doubt and shit or just ourtight offend. Stuff like in the original language of the Bible "young woman" and "virgin" were the same word. There's nothing in the Bible that says you can't marry your cousin. The only way the Catcholic church doesn't mind homosexual activity is if it takes place between a priest and an altar boy. Watching faces turn red owns.

[BullDancer]

Well the way I tell people about thier pointless beliefs is that you're free to believe anything you want, just so long as your beliefs don't stomp on my freedoms. I don't believe in the Bible, but I'm not going around trying to pass laws that say people shouldn't believe in it or practice their own religion. I actually had one person ask if I had a gf, I just replied that I'm okay. the dumb bitch actually said, "Oh okay. I'm Christian and I don't believe in it. But that's okay I don't have a problem with gays." If there was ever a time to hit a woman, I think that was it.

Yep, these kind of people are the type that are keeping gay marriage from being legal, and hey I support it, I dont see this actually hurting anyone. Proves that equal treatment under the law is a bunch of BS just saying. But if someone tries to pull the "What about children with two same sex parents card", well here is something I pulled from some website.

"I was raised by my biological mother and her partner. I am no different than anyone else. Nor was I any different than any of my school friends. Which by the way was ALOT! None of their parents had any problems with it, it did not stop me from doing the same things that the straight parented kids did. When my mother died, many of my school friends and their parents attended her funeral, along with BOTH of my ex husbands and their families, including the new wives. My mother being gay did not hurt my children either. My mother's partner is still a daily part of our lives and we are the better for it!..........." On and On (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gg28vveGG1w&feature=related) other unimportant filler after what I pulled

So boom shaka laka, how's that, although I think its the conservative Christians stopping this from going through, not the open minded ones like "ME!" :cybot:

[Wolfkiller]

Wasn't trying to derail this into an anti-religion thread or anything, but religion and homophobia do seem to go hand in hand so it's only fair to bring it up. Which is why I'm equally baffled by gay christians and such.

[ShinAkumax]

I feel likewise.