Not another Gay thread... version 2.0.5

[BeaTs*]

GTC and Angel hunting=Win

Mech: It would have to hide the taste REAL well...I do like pineapple though! yum! but I think I would detect the vodka in there, and yeah...BARF

[Azagtoth]

Angel could hunt me down anyday. <3

Throw in Bob Jr., stir lightly, and serve. <33333

[Dreamkiller]

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

[BeaTs*]

so when's the annual NAGT orgy?

it would be fun to be stuck in a jungle, while GTC and Angel hunt me with traps and stuff. If I get caught...well...I wouldn't mind losing in this game...haha

hopefully there are sling-traps and handcuff-traps and other sorts of bondage traps lol

"gasp! a hold my legs and arms-strap trap! curses, I've been caught!"

don't forget gags

ok, I'm thinkin about this too much....haha

throw in GTC's "straight" boss too

[Asura]

This thread is always full of Lulz. Bored at work so I'm going to read all of it so I can be "caught up"

[Mechanica]

GTC and Angel hunting=Win

Mech: It would have to hide the taste REAL well...I do like pineapple though! yum! but I think I would detect the vodka in there, and yeah...BARF

Dude. I wouldn't say that if it wasn't true - I understand prude tastes about alcohol and I'm telling you, pineapple juice screwdrivers taste like NOTHING BUT PINEAPPLE. I am a seasoned, experienced drinker (I can drink any hard a without a chaser any time of the day) and like I said I've often gotten too wasted off pineapple screwdrivers because I could NOT taste the high amount of alcohol in my drink and figured there wasn't much in it. If you make it right you won't taste any alcohol. If you're that worried, get pineapple juice AND another citrus-y flavored juice and use mostly pineapple juice with a little bit of something else. Trust me dude, vodka is such an easy taste to cover up compared to other darker alcohols.

EDIT: Then again I've never been a true wuss (no offense it's just really not that bad >_>) about the taste of alcohol (except beer, I used to refuse to drink it in a similar fashion) but I promise that a pineapple screwdriver is a total baby drink in the terms of alcohol tasting too bad to drink. If you can taste the alcohol in it, suffer through it for ONE MIXED DRINK because you'll almost guarantee yourself a good amount of drunk. I can understand your attitude about the taste of alcohol if you drink straight fucking Wild Turkey or something, but dude once you learn the art of disguising alcohol in mixed drinks, it's real easy.

Do you know how to drink alcohol? I know that sounds weird, but you throw it to the back of your throat (and just have the back of your throat open, just like how you're supposed to chug stuff). All my friends who have been bad about the taste of alcohol are the kinds of people who take shots starting at the lips. :rofl:

[BeaTs*]

haha I wanna try now, but I have to wait till I'm old enough to drink

*think think think*

I hope I'm not a murderous drunk

I also want to remember the "good parts" while drunk, if I ever get drunk....

oh, I guess I don't drink alcohol right then...garsh...
also what percentage should the vodka be? or are there percentages? acohol-wise?

[quiche]

You guys should come to #srkgd. Insom is lonely.

...seriously.

[iwst99]

haha I wanna try now, but I have to wait till I'm old enough to drink

*think think think*

I hope I'm not a murderous drunk

I also want to remember the "good parts" while drunk, if I ever get drunk....

oh, I guess I don't drink alcohol right then...garsh...
also what percentage should the vodka be? or are there percentages? acohol-wise?

By percentage do you mean alcohol volume...? If so it's about 40%...if you mean what percentage it should be in the drink, it really depends on how strong you want it, but some drinks taste bad with too much of any alcohol. Usually you measure with 1 part, 2 part, 3 part vodka, etc.

And yes mech, it's Stolichnaya! :D

[BeaTs*]

oh I thought there were different alcohol-percentage vodkas

[Mechanica]

oh, I guess I don't drink alcohol right then...garsh...

I knew it!! You don't drink alcohol like you drink a beverage for taste. You don't sip it, you don't even let it touch your lips (or if you're good even the front half of your tongue). Now the problem is in learning how to drink stuff without it sliding over the entire length of your tongue. Most people who don't drink like that cannot figure it out and I sure as hell can't explain it over the internet.


And yes mech, it's Stolichnaya! :D

Ah. That's all my friend drinks. :lol:

oh I thought there were different alcohol-percentage vodkas

Sorta but not really. Standard it'll be about 80 proof like he said (40% alcohol) though there are flavored vodkas with lower alcohol content, I believe. Alcohol content varies between types of alcohols rather than brands. Schnapps is low alcohol (like 60 proof at most usually), Whiskey/Tequila are high alcohol, etc.

How old are you? Waiting past 17 or 18 to drink is pointless if you ask me, the drinking limit of 21 is rather ridiculous but America's too stubborn to change anything so it stays that way and probably will stay that way for a long time. People who have never gotten drunk/never drink/won't drink have such a skewed view on alcohol for the most part but that goes for any drug, really. It's really quite easy to pace yourself and not get so drunk that you won't remember the next night. If you're new to hard alcohol and drinking mix drinks it could be easy to drink too much and do that, but in all honesty, forgetting your night is so easily preventable. People make it sound a lot easier to get way too drunk than it is, if you ask me. 'OMG I GOT SO WASTED I COULDN'T REMEMBER ANYTHING LOL OMG GETTING DRUNK IS SO COOL' Shit like that (even toned down) is really lame and probably what puts people off drinking, but refusing to drink alcohol is a really genuine way of missing out on something worth experiencing. Maybe I'm speshul but I don't see what's so hard about not getting drunk all the time, not drinking all the time, or all the other unsavory aspects of alcohol that appear to be more prevalent than anything else.

Sorry, I'm like posting post after post trying to get you drunk basically. I promise I'm not trying to take advantage of you. :lovin:

[iwst99]

'OMG I GOT SO WASTED I COULDN'T REMEMBER ANYTHING LOL OMG GETTING DRUNK IS SO COOL'

That made me LOL.

[BeaTs*]

well I guess I'll give alcohol one more chance...

[BlodiaVulcan5]

my favorite is vodka. straight. no extras to cover it up. mmm.

i get blushed in the face fast, though. That could be a good or bad thing depending on the situation.

[The Green Trench Coat]

a really good vodka should be almost tasteless.

grey goose, kettle one.. these are really high end vodka's


B.O.D dude we would hunt you.. but to be honest if you throw in my hot boss.. i'll be to busy nailing him or vice versa to notice much else.

[Pablo_the_Mex]

I was drunk in the presence of Mecahnicaz last week. I want to publicly thank him for not taking advantage of me in such vulnerable state.

[Will Gotti]

a really good vodka should be almost tasteless.

grey goose, kettle one.. these are really high end vodka's


B.O.D dude we would hunt you.. but to be honest if you throw in my hot boss.. i'll be to busy nailing him or vice versa to notice much else.

You're right except for Kettle One. As far as I remember Kettle is bitter IMO, oh lord! Kettle One is like the Steele Reserve of beers. Chopin and Belvedere are along the lines of Grey Goose.

Oh yea you'd need zillions of blood hounds to catch my sweet straight ass, don't know about B.O.D.

[iwst99]

LOL WTF, Mech is not into Mexicans.

[BeaTs*]

haha what GTC? you'd take your boss over me? humph ;)

well how about a foursome!

tell you the truth, running from sexual hunters of GTC and Angel would be hot, but I might give up very easily lol

[Stuart Hayden]

Despite the fact Pablo is a mexican.
He looks NOTHING like one.

-SH

[Mechanica]

I was drunk in the presence of Mecahnicaz last week. I want to publicly thank him for not taking advantage of me in such vulnerable state.
:cool:

I must say, it took some will power!

[Gray Fox]

pablo drunk was hilarious.

Also, after a few brews Mechanica said more then his typical 5 words per night.

I love random drunk people.

[Mechanica]

pablo drunk was hilarious.

Also, after a few brews Mechanica said more then his typical 5 words per night.

LOL Pablo drunk is probably my favorite random drunk. I definitely need to help with the beer situation next time. Team effort!

[iwst99]

Where you fags at?? :(

[BeaTs*]

Heading to the PIU (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUwP298NQu4) nationals here in Chi today and 2morrow.

been trying to get back into better shape for it, but I just had a "CAKE SHAKE" ugh that's gonna kill me during them hard songs in the tournament =[

[BlodiaVulcan5]

good luck :tup:

[BeaTs*]

thanks

I can already feel the caramel cake and ice cream goodness slowing me down D:

World Tournament's gonna be hot...Team Mexico most likely gonna win the speed division, only country that stands a chance against beating them is Korea's Team.

Hopefully america will win in the freestyle division...though Brazil (http://youtube.com/watch?v=2C5jymxnN_k)is too good at that.. especially the freestyler Black (http://youtube.com/watch?v=GTuki8rNCQg)

(that was not his best performance though)

[Mokura]

Crap, this isn't just another thread where straight dudes ask gay guys questions, is it? Are there any gay stories around here?

[BeaTs*]

it can be. what are you here for?

[iwst99]

Dude, that first vid you posted is from my Hometown in Mexico :D

It made me happy, I don't know why.

Good luck at the tourney.

[Azagtoth]

Crap, this isn't just another thread where straight dudes ask gay guys questions, is it? Are there any gay stories around here?

It's mainly a hangout thread, but we also do some ask/tell stuff as well.

EDIT: So my bf randomly tried to get a friend to do a threeway with us.

Granted he was buzzed, and the friend declined, but I'm still in complete shock from hearing him do that. :amazed:

Obviously the friend is hot too.

[Khaotika!]

Where you fags at?? :(

Avoiding tha intarwebs! :)

(Hopefully having a sleepy restful weekend)

[The Green Trench Coat]

Crap, this isn't just another thread where straight dudes ask gay guys questions, is it? Are there any gay stories around here?

ask whatever you want. the stories here are all true. if you want to read fake gay stories.. try browsing around for Garrett.. He into stories and making boys his special little secrets

It's mainly a hangout thread, but we also do some ask/tell stuff as well.

EDIT: So my bf randomly tried to get a friend to do a threeway with us.

Granted he was buzzed, and the friend declined, but I'm still in complete shock from hearing him do that. :amazed:

Obviously the friend is hot too.

:woot::woot::cool:

3ways are fun. Aslong as nobody catches feelings.

Avoiding tha intarwebs! :)

(Hopefully having a sleepy restful weekend)

I'm hoping for that myself. Insomnia has been kicking my ass lately.



Update on daddybear boss:

So thursday I went to help him pack up his things
everything was normal he was hot as fuck s&p chest hair showing like always driving me crazy. we get to the awkward pause and I said "so.. you want head?"
he again laughed
he said I gotta hand it to you .. you are persistant
i said "so ... i'm not hearing a no.."
His face turned red I think i made him blush he touched his belt buckle and then said
Nah i cant not here..

which makes since even though we were in a locked office it wasn't like we were the only ones with the key and who knows if he's loud or whatever so i said ok and left it alone

after we got outside with all his shit i was walking with him to his car and he says I gotta tell you something
He says "I've been in this place working for 30 years i started when i was 15 and there have been lots of highlights but i'm glad one of them was meeting you."

I cant lie.

I actually got a little choked up. See you gotta understand.. it's the voice that does it for me too.. hes got a very gruff voice but it's like braided with "loving father" voice also.. hard to explain but i'll see if i can get an audio sample for you guys. it's 50% of his lure.
So to hear him say that...... shit my own father never said anything that awesome to me. but i digress.

He went on to the icing on the cake for me. he said "You know sometimes i wish i was really into dudes cause You would be my boy"

****** BONER !!!! *******

he said "The only thing is I don't know because i know with girls once you cross that line the friendship is gone. I don't wanna fuck up and loose you as a friend."

I'm like "Dude. Not to worry at all. I'm not gonna stop being your friend as long as you don't get all gay on me we'll be cool"
He laffed and then we were at his car.

Get this!!

He says: So .. my daughter is away at college now and i'm gonna be at my Condo in jersey for a while. You wanna come over on saturday?

I'm like :wow::woot:

he winks at me and says .."we can hang out for a bit"




FUCK YEAH I'll be there!!

hopefully I'll have a really hot addition to the story

[iwst99]

Holy FUCK.....

I guess it's cool since he's your EX-Co-worker now...but dude, you have to hit that shit... :party::party::smile::smile::chat:!

I'm meeting my co-worker tomorrow in Palm Springs...my BF is in New Jersey for a wedding right now, so he won't be there(not that it really matters, but we usually don't play around when we're together on weekends...but he's gone)...I'll be hanging with my co-worker. We haven't hung out after work since i molested his crotch and he said he wanted to blow a load in my mouth...we'll see what happens.

Good luck GTC. :shy:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Holy FUCK.....

I guess it's cool since he's your EX-Co-worker now...but dude, you have to hit that shit... :party::party::smile::smile::chat:!

I'm meeting my co-worker tomorrow in Palm Springs...my BF is in New Jersey for a wedding right now, so he won't be there(not that it really matters, but we usually don't play around when we're together on weekends...but he's gone)...I'll be hanging with my co-worker. We haven't hung out after work since i molested his crotch and he said he wanted to blow a load in my mouth...we'll see what happens.

Good luck GTC. :shy:

dude .. he just called me he said "I'm looking forward to tommorrow"

I told my bf. He cant wait for me to tell him all about it.

Awesome about you and your co worker dude. Hopefully we'll both have hot stories to talk about real soon. :party::party::woot::woot:

[blindspot]

I have a question for the lesbians of SRK (dont know how many exists but maybe some of the gay members can help too.) Do all lesbians act like they pack a penis besides the one in their clothes drawer? Because the manly ones with sharp hair does :rolleyes:

And for the gay members, do you or would you eventually fall for one of your hetero friends over time if you've been hanging out for a while? I suspect this of one of my friends because he acted all emo and called out our friendship after I didnt return three of his calls. Truth be told, I wanted some alone time since we've been hanging out for too long and the atmosphere was getting a bit too intimate for my taste. Nothing gay, but friendship was changing. I'm straight and I know since I've been to a gay bar and it didnt interest me (guys were attractive but I know where I stand). Thanks to those who read and your inputs

[The Green Trench Coat]

And for the gay members, do you or would you eventually fall for one of your hetero friends over time if you've been hanging out for a while? I suspect this of one of my friends because he acted all emo and called out our friendship after I didnt return three of his calls. Truth be told, I wanted some alone time since we've been hanging out for too long and the atmosphere was getting a bit too intimate for my taste. Nothing gay, but friendship was changing. I'm straight and I know since I've been to a gay bar and it didnt interest me (guys were attractive but I know where I stand). Thanks to those who read and your inputs

no.

i will say though just cause you went to one gay bar and didn't find a guy that was attractive to you doesn't mean you arent gay. for that matter even if you did find a guy that you did find attractive doesn't mean you ARE gay.

you needed some alone time from your friend.. but that doesn't mean that because you needed alone time and he needed to keep in contact with you that he was "feeling you" or trying to start a relationship. He could've been going through a rough patch and needed to talk to you when you just wanted some alone time.

You didn't say that you Let him know that you needed some time alone and then he kept at it. That doesn't sound like he's chasin you down.. sounds like he just needed a friend and didn't realize you were not available because you didnt' say anything.


I'd speculate.. that it's intresting that you brought up the attraction between you and he in this situation. could it be that you are possibly attracted to him on some level and having trouble coming to terms with that. No need to answer. Just think about that.

[blindspot]

No, GTC, never been attracted to a guy before (or at least not at the same level I do for females) and not to him. We were buddies before this whole thing and after you pointed it out, it may have seemed a bit harsh of me to snub him like that. I'm not homophobic in any way if I'm coming across like that. Just never got into that phase when a guy wants to take a step into homosexuality. Don't want to risk my asshole and still find out I'm straight :rofl:.

I really appreciate your time and insight.

EDIT
if I need any fashion tips can I come to you guys?

[iwst99]

Ummm...

Maybe Stuart who posts here, but he's straight and into fashion, and in no way gay.

Other than that, ummm...yeah.:rolleyes:

[The Green Trench Coat]

No, GTC, never been attracted to a guy before (or at least not at the same level I do for females) and not to him. We were buddies before this whole thing and after you pointed it out, it may have seemed a bit harsh of me to snub him like that. I'm not homophobic in any way if I'm coming across like that. Just never got into that phase when a guy wants to take a step into homosexuality. Don't want to risk my asshole and still find out I'm straight :rofl:.

I really appreciate your time and insight.

EDIT
if I need any fashion tips can I come to you guys?

I didn't think you were homo phobic. but my last post i think hit all the points i was thinking of. so if you say you're straight.. you're straight. enjoy.

Fashion tips? That all depends. post pics of yourself first and we'll take it from there ;)
*fingers crossed, hoping he's bearish*

[iwst99]

GOOD LUCK TODAY GTC!!! :lovin: Hope your boss puts out.

And I think the poster above might be trying to be witty....unfortunately he's 1,238 posts too late for that...if you count the old thread.

[Khaotika!]

I'm hoping for that myself. Insomnia has been kicking my ass lately.

Update on daddybear boss:


Oh dude, do you happen to do the whole "wake up every hour then go back to sleep until you have to get up" shit? Been happening way too much to me lately. ><

GOOD LUCK TODAY! :lovin:

[Dreamkiller]

Go Go Get em' Trench!
lol.
I'm also off to meet some dude i met online. No pics, no nothin :sad: 40 years old, and stats wise he's pretty big.
:bgrin:
Later ya'll.

[Stuart Hayden]

if I need any fashion tips can I come to you guys?

Don't look like a fucking bum.

But in all seriousness, I wouldn't be able to tell you, fashion wise how to dress cause I've never met you.

Fashion isn't about just "hey, this looks cute I'll wear it"

It has to fit you, like, you have to be able to see yourself wearing it, and judge (seriously) if it looks good or not.

Also depends on height, weight, body structure, skin tone (seriously) among other things.

I, personally, shop at American Eagle, Armani Exchange, Ambecrombie and Fitch, and Banana Republic. Because it fits all of the previous above mentioned stuff.

But...since it is winter (kinda..fall technically)

Zip up hoodies (pull over hoodies look gross IMO), darker colored (dress) shirts. (purple, red, black, darker greens and blues..browns...gray..you get the idea), dark colored jeans (NOT BLACK KFGHDJFHGKJHFGJKH black jeans are disgusting. I hate them)

Beanie Bills are always good (and beanies in general) mono-colored ones work well.

For the best few years Sandals have been worn year round..though I don't like sandals...I still wear them, so, I suggest the same.

Now for stuff you should do EVERY day.

Wash Face (acne pads...whatever), if hair is short enough, STYLE IT, use wax though, it gives a more natural look to it and you can be more creative with it than with hair gel.

Cologne is always a plus, nothing is hotter than a guy/girl that looks AND smells good. Armani's colognes are really good, so is Ambecrombie and Fitches.

uh...

off the top of my head that's all I can really think of

hope that helped to an extent.

-SH

[iwst99]

Don't look like a fucking bum.

But in all seriousness, I wouldn't be able to tell you, fashion wise how to dress cause I've never met you.

Fashion isn't about just "hey, this looks cute I'll wear it"

It has to fit you, like, you have to be able to see yourself wearing it, and judge (seriously) if it looks good or not.

Also depends on height, weight, body structure, skin tone (seriously) among other things.

I, personally, shop at American Eagle, Armani Exchange, Ambecrombie and Fitch, and Banana Republic. Because it fits all of the previous above mentioned stuff.

But...since it is winter (kinda..fall technically)

Zip up hoodies (pull over hoodies look gross IMO), darker colored (dress) shirts. (purple, red, black, darker greens and blues..browns...gray..you get the idea), dark colored jeans (NOT BLACK KFGHDJFHGKJHFGJKH black jeans are disgusting. I hate them)

Beanie Bills are always good (and beanies in general) mono-colored ones work well.

For the best few years Sandals have been worn year round..though I don't like sandals...I still wear them, so, I suggest the same.

Now for stuff you should do EVERY day.

Wash Face (acne pads...whatever), if hair is short enough, STYLE IT, use wax though, it gives a more natural look to it and you can be more creative with it than with hair gel.

Cologne is always a plus, nothing is hotter than a guy/girl that looks AND smells good. Armani's colognes are really good, so is Ambecrombie and Fitches.

uh...

off the top of my head that's all I can really think of

hope that helped to an extent.

-SH

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:lovin: JK

[Azagtoth]

:woot::woot::cool:

3ways are fun. Aslong as nobody catches feelings.

Yeah, we talked about it in greater detail last night (after fucking like jackrabbits mind you <3). We both agree that since the both of us are so shy and awkward, it would need to be a particularly good friend, or at least someone really good at making us comfortable.

...And someone with nice moobs too. GOD I love chubs.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

did you ever post a pic of your boss on here, gtc? if not, pm or email? =X

could you also take a ninja picture of his ****? :P

[The Damned]

could you also take a ninja picture of his ****? :P

Why can't you just type out "cock"? It's not like you're fooling anyone.

Anyway, with regards that situation, it appears that I'm the only naysayer, GTC.

I've never understood the seeming obsession that it seems like most "gays" have for ""straight""--double quotations there to account for both distate of that term and because of how many so-called guys supposedly ending having sex with so-called gay guys--guys. Outside of the more obvious feelings of fear of rejection and fear getting attacked/beaten, it seems like it would just be plain disrespectful after the first instance of accidentally hitting on someone (and this would go for any sexuality, though heteorsexuals have much less to fear in terms of the person they're asking out beating them--maybe their significant other, though).

I mean, I could understand if you were like one of the people that didn't believe someone when they said they were "straight" and you somehow believed sucking his dick would bring him out the closet. However, your recent post blindspot proves that you aren't. So...it just seems...contrary, especially since you're dating someone else.

I guess it just means that I'll never understand "fuck buddies" or "one night stands", even if "open" relationships are somewhat understandable.

That said, I also don't believe that "nothing" will change between you and your former boss--the fact that he was your boss just seems like it's more inappropriate in mind since this seems to be have been going for a while when was actually still your boss--but I'm sure you know that "risk" and it's not like you'll heed my judgmental warnings anyway.

At least he's not still your co-worker. That would be at the very least awkward....

Like this whole post.

Oh well.

[Azagtoth]

I've never understood the seeming obsession that it seems like most "gays" have for ""straight""--double quotations there to account for both distate of that term and because of how many so-called guys supposedly ending having sex with so-called gay guys--guys. Outside of the more obvious feelings of fear of rejection and fear getting attacked/beaten, it seems like it would just be plain disrespectful after the first instance of accidentally hitting on someone.

Sexual attraction does not know or bow to those terms. Just because a guy is straight (or assumed to be so), that does not stop me from finding him really attractive, and given that one can assume that the majority of men are straight, it's not all that unlikely that one of them happens to be really really really fucking hot. At this point, we're simply responding to instinct when we make an attempt on someone (many of which I've made, and understandably failed, and either respectfully dropped the issue or had a good friend turn on me because of it). I wouldn't call it an obsession so much as it's simply an extension of the fact that we happen to like guys (although there is a sort of forbidden aspect to it, IE "that which you want the most is that which you can't have"), and even though hetero is assumed, it isn't always accurate (most of us can easily pass for hetero as long as we're not talking about gay stuff).

At any rate, I don't really see what's wrong here. He tested the waters, got a certain reaction and went with that. It's not like the guy said "no, sorry but guys aren't my thing and I'm not interested" only to have GTC pester him into agreeing. The guy pinched his ass, after all.

I mean, I could understand if you were like one of the people that didn't believe someone when they said they were "straight" and you somehow believed sucking his dick would bring him out the closet. However, your recent post blindspot proves that you aren't. So...it just seems...contrary, especially since you're dating someone else.

I guess it just means that I'll never understand "fuck buddies" or "one night stands", even if "open" relationships are somewhat understandable.

What is there to understand? Sometimes people just want to get off, and a romantic attachment isn't really necessary to do so. Hence, people hook up with other people they find attractive, be they strangers or good friends, and have a good time without the BS.

You're very cerebral, so I'm very surprised to hear you say that. It really is pretty cut and dry as long as you can separate sex from love.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Why can't you just type out "cock"? It's not like you're fooling anyone.

Anyway, with regards that situation, it appears that I'm the only naysayer, GTC.

I've never understood the seeming obsession that it seems like most "gays" have for ""straight""--double quotations there to account for both distate of that term and because of how many so-called guys supposedly ending having sex with so-called gay guys--guys. Outside of the more obvious feelings of fear of rejection and fear getting attacked/beaten, it seems like it would just be plain disrespectful after the first instance of accidentally hitting on someone (and this would go for any sexuality, though heteorsexuals have much less to fear in terms of the person they're asking out beating them--maybe their significant other, though).

I mean, I could understand if you were like one of the people that didn't believe someone when they said they were "straight" and you somehow believed sucking his dick would bring him out the closet. However, your recent post blindspot proves that you aren't. So...it just seems...contrary, especially since you're dating someone else.

I guess it just means that I'll never understand "fuck buddies" or "one night stands", even if "open" relationships are somewhat understandable.

That said, I also don't believe that "nothing" will change between you and your former boss--the fact that he was your boss just seems like it's more inappropriate in mind since this seems to be have been going for a while when was actually still your boss--but I'm sure you know that "risk" and it's not like you'll heed my judgmental warnings anyway.

At least he's not still your co-worker. That would be at the very least awkward....

Like this whole post.

Oh well.

he's not married

I'm attracted sexually. I let him know that.


He has shown at least a passing intrest in exploring that with me. my last post was just another installment in a long running series of encounters with this man.


In any case. Nothing will change... even if it does change whos to say it wouldn't change for the better. I've hooked up with guys that have become good friends. I've made friends with people and hooked up with them after a friendship was established. I guess you are judging the situation based on your standpoint .. and maybe were you in my stead things would be "different" but really you arent.

Also i'm not sharing this as an example for anyone else to follow this is just me talking to my buds who understand that I'm not some kid running around hap hazardly picking up "straight guys".

Open relationships arent for everyone. but it works for me and my bf. Every relationship has different rules and the "rules" in my relationship allow for me to do this. So i'm not disrespecting my bf, I'm not disrespecting the straight guy that was my boss, and I'm certainly not even pushing myself on him. I think you are jumping the gun to assume that i'm throwing myself at this guy. But watever.. i realize that you couldn't pull off something like this as a heterosexual but hey.. sucks to be you I guess.

No disrespect. I'm just saying is all.


Also.. for the record nowhere in my post did i say i was looking for "advice" on how to handle this. Or opinions on the course of action I'm taking really.. I'm grown. I'll do what i want to do really. but I'm keeping a few people who want to know updated via the thread

peace.

[The Damned]

Sexual attraction does not know or bow to those terms. Just because a guy is straight (or assumed to be so), that does not stop me from finding him really attractive, and given that one can assume that the majority of men are straight, it's not all that unlikely that one of them happens to be really really really fucking hot. At this point, we're simply responding to instinct when we make an attempt on someone (many of which I've made, and understandably failed, and either respectfully dropped the issue or had a good friend turn on me because of it).

...It's not like the guy said "no, sorry but guys aren't my thing and I'm not interested" only to have GTC pester him into agreeing. The guy pinched his ass, after all.

I wasn't disputing that.

I wasn't attempting to, at least.

I certainly understand the whole "we can't help who we're attracted to" spiel since it gets used regardless of sexuality, mostly to justify stupid acts based on attraction to someone who obviously (currently) rejects us or we otherwise dislike or know to be an asshole.

I know the guy flirted back, which is why I comment on the whole "he's straight :rolleyes:" thing as well. So I don't fault GTC for that either.

It just seems non-sensical to me, unsurprisingly.

What is there to understand?...

You're very cerebral, so I'm very surprised to hear you say that. It really is pretty cut and dry as long as you can separate sex from love.

What exactly surprises you about that? I've never been pro-either of those things, but I certainly can't remember saying that I believe that to be unrelated (despite, you know, "love" in the way that most people use still seeming a mere shade upon the surface of this existence).

Sex is a boring invasion of the body to me. It's very little more to me than that.

Between that and a very poor body image (which I'll not [solely] blame on going to Catholic school until college), it's more of sexual attraction being an alien thing to me since humans are so filthy and plain, if not ugly, looking for the most part. Seriously, I can't tell most people apart after working at retail for more than a year and being in college for more than two.

I've never been much a people person and with all the porn I've watched making sex that much more of "distant" thing, it's difficult for me to wrap my mind around want to consent to any form of "that" with more than one person over a reasonable duration of time.

...But maybe I'm just an old-fashioned geek.

Probably.

he's not married


You say that like it means something to me.

I don't believe in married, though that would still, I guess because even I've been indoctrined in some things that I can't shake off, make it "worse" (marginally) to me.

It was far more the case you were co-workers and this seems to have been going on for a while that "bothered" me.

Also.. for the record nowhere in my post did i say i was looking for "advice" on how to handle this. Or opinions on the course of action I'm taking really.. I'm grown. I'll do what i want to do really. but I'm keeping a few people who want to know updated via the thread

peace.

Of course.

If I were in charge of someone's life, I'm sure that I would make horrible, horrible mistakes...like putting myself in charge of someone's life. That's why one of the many reasons I don't want kids, but that's another story.

As for "advice", I wasn't really trying to give it. Merely commenting. This is why I put "oh well" at the end of my post, because even if it was advice advice, I doubt you would take it.

Not you even should, just because it's something that I would never do.

Oh well. You know that already.



War.

[Azagtoth]

I wasn't disputing that.

I wasn't attempting to, at least.

I certainly understand the whole "we can't help who we're attracted to" spiel since it gets used regardless of sexuality, mostly to justify stupid acts based on attraction to someone who obviously (currently) rejects us or we otherwise dislike or know to be an asshole.

I know the guy flirted back, which is why I comment on the whole "he's straight :rolleyes:" thing as well. So I don't fault GTC for that either.

It just seems non-sensical to me, unsurprisingly.

It's really not that unusual, but you have to think of sexual orientation as a spectrum and not as black and white. The guy may be "straight" in that he generally prefers women, just as I'm gay in that I generally prefer men, but it's not all that unlikely or nonsensical for him to have some interest in pursuing any sexual relations with other guys who show interest, and vice versa for me pursuing women who show interest (if they're my type =P).

In that sense, I can definitely sympathize with you as far as your distaste for these terms, because it REALLY isn't always as simple as "100% gay" or "100% straight" (and nevermind that true bisexuals/pansexuals with no real preference are especially rare).

What exactly surprises you about that?

Those I've seen and known to have a more cerebral personality generally don't have much trouble with these things, but you're admittedly different in that an understanding of the more social aspects seem to elude you.

Sex is a boring invasion of the body to me. It's very little more to me than that.

Boring? Now THAT'S an interesting opinion.

I've only been sexually active (and with only one partner, outside of some slight shenanigans with girls and like one other guy) since age 18 (I'm 21 now), but I can't imagine being in that mindset because it's almost always been rather fun for me.

Between that and a very poor body image (which I'll not [solely] blame on going to Catholic school until college), it's more of sexual attraction being an alien thing to me since humans are so filthy and plain, if not ugly, looking for the most part. Seriously, I can't tell most people apart after working at retail for more than a year and being in college for more than two.

I've never been much a people person and with all the porn I've watched making sex that much more of "distant" thing, it's difficult for me to wrap my mind around want to consent to any form of "that" with more than one person over a reasonable duration of time.

Not to patronize you or anything, but that's really a shame. For all I know you're probably really cute too (not attempting anything funny, it's just that a lot of guys I've had a thing for have historically had a horrible self-image for one reason or another).

Also, working in retail for a little over a year and being in college for about 3 or so only further enhanced my tendency to sort people into "want to fuck" and "other" categories, but that's just me. =P

[Stuart Hayden]

Sex is a boring invasion of the body to me. It's very little more to me than that.
...But maybe I'm just an old-fashioned geek.

Funny, I said the samething too when I was a virgin.

-SH

[Azagtoth]

Mechanica: Hey, any chance I could get you to make me a Bob avatar?

[The Damned]

It's really not that unusual, but you have to think of sexual orientation as a spectrum and not as black and white.

I do. I was just rolling my eyes at the people that think it is absolute since I'm generally a relativist.

Those I've seen and known to have a more cerebral personality generally don't have much trouble with these things, but you're admittedly different in that an understanding of the more social aspects seem to elude you.

Elude me? How so?

I don't me to come off as if that's inapplicable or that I know everything, but there isn't much to society that I wish to "grasp" given my current understanding of it.

It's merely another necessary evil to me at this point.

Boring? Now THAT'S an interesting opinion.

I've only been sexually active (and with only one partner, outside of some slight shenanigans with girls and like one other guy) since age 18 (I'm 21 now), but I can't imagine being in that mindset because it's almost always been rather fun for me.

Oh, I'm sure it's fun in the heat of the moment, before all the shame and stuff sets in the afterglow--this is why I've never understood people always saying other need to get "laid" in attempt make that person feel better or try to clear their (upper) heads.

I'm rather equally sure that it will get boring after while, maybe not as much as the supposed Lebsian Bed Death I've heard about, but the same person can only be interesting for a finite period of time in my eyes. That said, "ironically", the only thing I would want relationship-wise--monogamy--I know to be the single most queer thing about human sexuality (...outside of certain "fetishes" *shiver*).

But, yeah, for the amount of time spent acquiring it--another of the many problems with sex that I won't go into--and attempting to acquire it, sex is a (boring) waste of time that you could be using to better yourself if you're not having kids.

(And, no, I'm not someone that believes that people should only have sex to have kids. The planet has too many people as it is.)


Not to patronize you or anything, but that's really a shame. For all I know you're probably really cute too (not attempting anything funny, it's just that a lot of guys I've had a thing for have historically had a horrible self-image for one reason or another).

Well, I've had the beginning of bitchtits for a while (which I plan to lose), so maybe to you'd think I was somewhat cute. But clothing-wise, I'm always covered up outside of my face and hands (most of the time) and even that might change soon, so I doubt you even tell.

Otherwise, that just sounds like you have "pitydar" or something.

Also, working in retail for a little over a year and being in college for about 3 or so only further enhanced my tendency to sort people into "want to fuck" and "other" categories, but that's just me. =P

I work in the kids area half of the time, so it's kind of my job not to be attracted to people on the floor.

I seem to be cashiering more and more, but while up there, I just focus on looking half as surly as usual, making sure I ask everything, and not focusing on something embarassing as clevage or huge ass burn scars or women with mustaches (which has happened twice and was more disgusting than than burn scars, which didn't even much phaze me :wasted: ).

It's not as bad as "Hey, Goon A" and "Hey, Goon B". I remember people's faces, barely, but they really do look alike to me and when I'm up I'm thinking more about their money and how dirty is more than "hey, the goon's cute".

But that's just me. Apparently.

Funny, I said the samething too when I was a virgin.

-SH

Yeah, I'm sure that I would say the something contrary to that for a while after I lost my "virginity", but that's especially what worries.

Even without the whole "Pringles" attitude towards sex that (American) men are "supposed", sex/porn takes up too much of my time as is. I can't imagine much less focus on other things than now.

[Stuart Hayden]

Since when is sex shameful?

-SH

[The Damned]

Since when is sex shameful?

-SH

I would have said "for me", but I thought that was obvious.

[Stuart Hayden]

It's only shameful for the girl(or guy) when your juices are all up on their face.

unless they like that. then it's all (man)gravy (:rofl:)

-SH

[BlodiaVulcan5]

how many of yall wear glasses?

[The Green Trench Coat]

War.

No beef sweetie. *bearhugs* I understand that you are commenting and that's fine. I apologize if it seemed like i was trying to engage you in some albeit weak version of a battle.

Like i said. I don't have to defend my actions I'm almost 30 this guy is about 46 grown folks buisness. Which shouldn't suggest that older people make smarter decisions always. but it should suggest that I understand there are only 3 things that matter in life.

Choice.

Responsibility.

Consequence.

I appreciate that maybe the candor of my account made it sound like i looked haphazardly into just hooking up with the guy for the sake of doing so. But I know this guy. I like this guy and doing what we did was fun for us and it is what it is really.

*bearhugs* Your still my favorite emo srk'r, no worries. (waits for the "i'm not emo" posts)

Since when is sex shameful?

-SH

I think he meant for him. (edit: I see he clarified)

how many of yall wear glasses?
way to change the topic.

I wear glasses sometimes. But i hate sunglasses. Hate them.

[Azagtoth]

Blodia: I wear glasses. My eyes are too small for contacts. :looney:

[iwst99]

I wear glasses. <3

Fuck dude, I leave for one day and this thread goes all wacky. I came to the conclusion since I've been fucking guys since I was 14 and am now at the 50+ rate, I know what I like, what I don't like, and know what I'm doing. So I will not take advice of someone who is still a virgin to the subject <3 On the other hand, GTC, your advice is rather welcome.

GTC, how did it go with your boss?

The reason I didn't post all day yesterday is because I spent the whole day with my co-worker. We hung out with this friends he was visiting out here, went to breakfast with them. We then went to the movies, then I took him to my house out here in Palm Springs and showed him the house. Went back then went in the jacuzzi for a good hour. We then got ready and went to a gay bar, then later dinner, then back to where he was staying. I don't want to get into any details. I actually did write everything that happened and had like 6 paragraphs going, so I deleted them. But it was the most passionate night, probably of my life.

I am so used to fucking a guy usually the first time I meet them. I usually don't want to talk to them afterwards, and the ones I do usually end up being douches, and are better for a lay than anything else. Well in this case, I've already known my co worker for a long time. We go to lunch almost everyday, well, me, him, and these other 2 girls in HR. We've hung out, gone to the movies, etc. We're really good friends, and the whole time I've known him it's been rather small flirting going on. I went from feeling nothing for him, and as time went on my feelings increased, but he never really made a move, and I wasn't sure if he was into me....boy was I wrong. So taking all this into consideration, and 5 months of longing put together into one night...it was hot as fuck.

Although I like sex, foreplay, and everything leading to it is the hottest part for me....it's hard to find guys that are into the same thing. TO MY LUCK, this was exactly what he loved to...so we had fun for hours....went to bed....woke up in the middle of the night and went again. And I said fun because when I finally came it was 6:30am...probably the biggest load I've ever shot. And there was no sucking of dicks, or fucking involved throughout all this...if you can believe that. He is a really passionate man, into kissing, and touching (which is really hard to find), and he was good at it too...he drove me wild.

So he had to leave early to go back to LA, he packed up, and everything was normal...it didn't feel awkward or anything, which I thought it would. I asked him during the night if it felt weird sleeping with a co-worker, and one half is age for that. He said that he hadn't slept with someone my age in 20 years, and he had told me before that he wouldn't want to cause it would feel like being with a child, but he said with me it felt really comfortable and natural...which is how I felt about him.

Anyways, I need to stop now. But this was hot, and passionate, and I'm loving being 21 so far. Sorry for those who can't understand the concept of sex/love, but maybe it's not for everybody. Oh, and he is the HR Manager, the guy who hired me...how's that for morals?

[Stuart Hayden]

I wear glasses too.

-SH

[BeaTs*]

I wear glasses. tried contacts once...but eh. Maybe I'll try em sometime in the future

[The Green Trench Coat]

GTC, how did it go with your boss?


not as action filled as your story is.

but it was nice.. and whats better is things werent awkward afterwards *I'll be damned :wink:*

Truth be told we didn't do much but a makeout session and lots of groping is cool. We had to cut things short cause he got a called away to take care something but he left with. "We will definitely finish this next weekend."

I was good with that.

Honestly you want to know the weird thing. I almost feel satisfied just knowing that he WANTS to play with me. But i definitely intend on sealing the deal. BV.. I can be stealthy.. but getting a cock pic out of the deal.. that would definitely be a mission impossible.

"hey do you mind if i take a picture of that cock for my scrapbook"

yeah wouldn't fly. but he does have a nice one. kinda fatter than it is long .. in general he's got a very top teir basket.

[Valaris]

"hey do you mind if i take a picture of that cock for my scrapbook"
.

You don't have a scrapbook of all of cocks you've encountered?
No reminescing over your scrapbook going "oooh august 95, that was a good one"?

[BeaTs*]

thickness is def. better than length

[Dreamkiller]

thickness is def. better than length

Amen.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

GTC: i was just curious ho many foureyed cubs we have. so that i dont feel like the only one. im lonely out here hahaha. oh and i dont really care for sunglasses too since i can never wear them with my glasses on. aww, interesting story. isnt it a fact most older, experienced guys (35+) dont care as much anymore about sexual orientation and are more willing to experiment? what if you ask nicely to the pic? anyway lookingforward to round 2.

iwist: you dog.

[The Green Trench Coat]

thickness is def. better than length

Amen.

word.

GTC: i was just curious ho many foureyed cubs we have. so that i dont feel like the only one. im lonely out here hahaha. oh and i dont really care for sunglasses too since i can never wear them with my glasses on. aww, interesting story. isnt it a fact most older, experienced guys (35+) dont care as much anymore about sexual orientation and are more willing to experiment? what if you ask nicely to the pic? anyway lookingforward to round 2.

iwist: you dog.

I hate sunglasses because ..

I guess this may sound silly to some but for me Eye shape and eyebrows are hotter than eye color.

Some people are blessed like Khaotika and have both.

I generally like to get a whole profile of someones face even if they are squinting at the sun sometimes its hot to see nice full eyebrows ( not unibrow) but full that's one of the key features that is a turn on for me in a guy.

[Mokura]

it can be. what are you here for?

Ok. Well, I think I was just looking for more stuff like what that one story that guy put up about some dude named Garrett?, this straight guy who had him face down thrustin' into him or w/e. I think I'm into random encounters like that, not so much from doin' that w/ your bf (I've never had one but in theory, the thought sounds kinda boring compared to havin' a different partner each time). And I especially like when they're true stories.

[Mechanica]

Hit me up with some bob pictures and I can try, 'zag.

[Khaotika!]

I hate sunglasses because ..

I guess this may sound silly to some but for me Eye shape and eyebrows are hotter than eye color.

Some people are blessed like Khaotika and have both.


Uh thanks, I think. I didn't know I possessed such an awesome quality. :wgrin:

I don't wear glasses, though I probably should. My eyesight's not what it used to be.

Yay for you getting a 2nd weekend out of your ex-boss. XD

iwst has such awesome stories. *sits and listens*

[iwst99]

iwst has such awesome stories. *sits and listens*

haha..thanks...

My BF is only with me on weekends...my hot bear co worker (bowling partner) suggested I get a weekday BF...I really didn't want to, but we'll see how things turn with my other co worker (one I slept with). We're supposed to join a cooking class soon. :angel:

[Stuart Hayden]

You guys are gay.

-SH

[Azagtoth]

Hit me up with some bob pictures and I can try, 'zag.

Sending you a PM.

GTC: Seriously? You guys made out? Holy hell that's actually a fair bit hotter than what I thought would happen. =D

[Infernoman]

ok a friend and I bagan talking about this the other day...and I wonder do any of you know guy who purposely do the femenine thing? I understand some have gender confusion issue and thus do it but some really kinda just flaunt their gay to the world...

so do any of you do it? a friend in college my 1st year acted femenine but not enough to make it annoying...heh if anything he was a cool guy who got me into anime conventions...In regards to this thread, you can say I'm a fan :blush:

[Azagtoth]

Some people do it on purpose, for sure.

None of us do, though. We're all mostly the type that could pass for straight.

[Stuart Hayden]

Yet..like 90% of the people who meet me for the first time THINK I'm gay cause I act very feminine. I.E. use a lot of odd hang gestures, do really girly/ditzy things when I'm angry, say "like" and "cute" a lot. Get over excited about new clothes/outfits

And the whole thinking guys are attractive (no homo) thing.

oh, and slapping friends on the ass and saying "good game" after playing MvC2 or 3S at the arcade. Granted..we all know our rule "it isn't homo if you say good game after words, even if you grab" but outsiders don't know this. :bluu:

I'm sure the whole story of me and my friend Joshy spooning while watching "Chronicles of Riddick" didn't help either.

And the fact the old DDR team I was on was "Team Ghey Seckz!"

Go figure.

-SH

[LightningStorm]

Yet..like 90% of the people who meet me for the first time THINK I'm gay cause I act very feminine. I.E. use a lot of odd hang gestures, do really girly/ditzy things when I'm angry, say "like" and "cute" a lot. Get over excited about new clothes/outfits

And the whole thinking guys are attractive (no homo) thing.

oh, and slapping friends on the ass and saying "good game" after playing MvC2 or 3S at the arcade. Granted..we all know our rule "it isn't homo if you say good game after words, even if you grab" but outsiders don't know this. :bluu:

I'm sure the whole story of me and my friend Joshy spooning while watching "Chronicles of Riddick" didn't help either.

And the fact the old DDR team I was on was "Team Ghey Seckz!"

Go figure.

-SH


Uhhh.. :confused:

[iwst99]

Yet..like 90% of the people who meet me for the first time THINK I'm gay cause I act very feminine. I.E. use a lot of odd hang gestures, do really girly/ditzy things when I'm angry, say "like" and "cute" a lot. Get over excited about new clothes/outfits

And the whole thinking guys are attractive (no homo) thing.

oh, and slapping friends on the ass and saying "good game" after playing MvC2 or 3S at the arcade. Granted..we all know our rule "it isn't homo if you say good game after words, even if you grab" but outsiders don't know this. :bluu:

I'm sure the whole story of me and my friend Joshy spooning while watching "Chronicles of Riddick" didn't help either.

And the fact the old DDR team I was on was "Team Ghey Seckz!"

Go figure.

-SH

uhhh.. :confused:

[Stuart Hayden]

Don't ask. :rofl:

me n my friends are very weird. >\

-SH

[iwst99]

just wondering...

why do you end your posts with -SH

We know who you are...it's clearly labeled on the left hand side.
You're not quoting yourself... so it's not like

"Fags are gay!"

-SH

I don't know...I just don't get why people resign every post...we won't forget who they are...:looney: You didn't use to do that a few months back..

-iwst

[Stuart Hayden]

I don't even mean to do it now..

It's just kinda force of habit now.

Plus most people in the prem and GD forums just know me or call me by SH.

So...it's kind alike a trade mark. lol.

-SH (god dammit)

[Azagtoth]

Fags, the lot of you.

-A

Mech: PM sent.

[Mechanica]

LOL Bob is funny. I'll get on that when it's not 5:30 in the morning...

My boyfriend's way too light of a sleeper! :sad: I woke up with him on his couch and felt really bad. He insists it's fine but I don't think it is. I'm trying to get him in the habit of pointing it out and telling me to stop fidgeting and moving around, 'cause I do it just because I've been used to sleeping by myself for my entire life... even though I sleep way better with him I'm trying to learn to move around less. Agh. That's the one thing we really differ in, I sleep like a rock and him like a feather.

On the whole open relationship topic, I kinda wish I could attempt that without feeling extreme guilt... I love him way too much for someone I don't ever get to see. I almost cried thinking about how long it'll probably be 'til I see him again when I left this morning... Kinda embarassing but true. I was thinking maybe it would help me not be so attached but I just can't seem to do it. Ugh, and he leaves for France for a week next Monday then he'll probably be so packed with stuff that we can't even fucking hang out on the following Monday which is my birthday. He also said something over dinner about having to go live in France for a couple months if things don't get better with them or something? That pretty much leaves me speechless, I'm seriously considering bombing Boeing. Stop taking my boyfriend away! Just because he doesn't have a wife doesn't mean he doesn't have someone at home! :sad: *sigh*

Well um, now that I'm done venting about my hopeless love, what's new with you queens? I finally got the final organizational things for my apartment - desk/chair, bed frame/boxspring, shower curtain, dresser, bookshelf... It's awesome. Lonely though... and cold.

Anyway, what kind of effects has messing with other dudes had on your relationships (that is, something that's okay with your partner, not weird shady stuff behind the back)?

[Khaotika!]

Well, uh I can make my voice really high-pitched, and I do some of that type of stuff to fuck around, but no, not all the time. The funny voices? ALL THE TIME.

I used to do the "-name" thing too, lol. I got lazy.

Mech: I wanna see pics of the new arrangement later! :lovin:

-Khao!

[quiche]

I do not want to see pics.

-SRSLY

[BeaTs*]

losers

-beats

[The Green Trench Coat]

Sending you a PM.

GTC: Seriously? You guys made out? Holy hell that's actually a fair bit hotter than what I thought would happen. =D

you know what it's definitely just as satisfying as if i had done that also. It's weird. Although i still really want to seal the deal.

On the whole open relationship topic, I kinda wish I could attempt that without feeling extreme guilt...


open relationship is definitely not for everyone. I heard someone say "it seems like all gay guys are open" Not true.. and even the ones that are have there own rules for "open"

so it's not like i could run around screwing anyone I want and think everything is gonna be peachy when i get home. In our relationship he can do what he wants and i do what i want but we have to let eachother know, and there is no "dating".

I travel alot for work so when i'm away or even if not if he wants to hook up with someone he'll call me and say look i met this guy from X he's in town and wants to play with me. do you mind if i have him over?

typically i'll say sure I don't mind and that's that. Or if i know something about someone that he wants I'll just tell him no that's no good and then that's what it is.

theres no dating as in it's one thing to hang out withsomeone you wanna play with it's another thing entirely when you are "dating" that person. sometimes that difference is subtle sometimes not. but mostly you know when you are trying to go beyond hanging out with someone. were i in your stead mech I wouldnt introduce something so .. left feild into a relationship that is definitely new. I mean my bf and I went into this knowing we wanted to be open and even then.. those first few times.. watching him make out with someone else the first time was rough.. I almost tore the guy's head off. Now i try to get him laid every where we go :lovin::wgrin:


Anyway, what kind of effects has messing with other dudes had on your relationships (that is, something that's okay with your partner, not weird shady stuff behind the back)?

We've had a few moments where there has been added tension because we are open... mainly .. okay.. I'll share with you guys cause i love you all and we're good like that.

Even though we are open we rarely ever hook up. On average he hooks up out side the relationship 5 to 6 times a year. I will probably do that maybe 2 or 3 times a year. Alot of people assume we do it more than that. but he usually hooks up He'll meet a guy online and then the guy comes over and thats that. for some reason I always get the 'I was in the back of the bus and this guy whipped it out, or the delivery boy came in to the house and wanted a knob job...' you see.

Quality v Quantity. Btw the Bus story is real. And so is the delivery boy ( man). keep in mind when i tell you guys these things.. they are typically Years apart. so it's not like I'm knocking it down consistantly :sad::sad: although if I were :lovin::lovin::looney::looney:

[BeaTs*]

no open relationships for me. if I saw my bf doing anything with anyone, let alone knew about it I would probably implode....


...and maybe try to kill the other guy with my mind

[Azagtoth]

you guys are all homo's (no offense)

Your face is a homo.

GTC is right about the rules thing. The way my bf and I have it, I don't mind if he does anything on his own (which he wont because he's timid as fuck), but he's not comfortable with me fucking around without him; so basically the compromise is that we only play together.

-A

[The Green Trench Coat]

you guys are all homo's (no offense)

*rapes you*


"none taken"

[BeaTs*]

well maybe I'd play together with my BF, but that's it!

[iwst99]

Y'all bitches are hella gay.

Yes offense. yes homo.

So I'm at work today, and my coworker is here too...things are like normal, which is good. That night was seriously one of the hottest I have ever had...if not the hottest. GTC asked me if I would feel awkward afterwards if I did something with my coworker, and nothing awkward yet. We were looking up cooking classes earlier, trying to decided which we're going to take...

He knows all about my BF, and has even met him, and he still went for it...it's really easy having my BF be elsewhere during the week. I would probably stop the whole whoring around thing if I had something like a partner here during the week. We'll see how things turn out...

-iwst

[Khaotika!]

I'm not for much in open relationships, but then again I haven't been out for really that long. I'm one of those stupidly romantic bitches that insists on finding "the one". I can dream, can't I? :P

Thought I had him too, but that's a really painful story...

-Special K!

[BlodiaVulcan5]

all this talk about getting laid is making me jealous (in the "yes homo" way).

[The Green Trench Coat]

I'm not for much in open relationships, but then again I haven't been out for really that long. I'm one of those stupidly romantic bitches that insists on finding "the one". I can dream, can't I? :P

Thought I had him too, but that's a really painful story...

-Special K!

**Bearhugs**

all this talk about getting laid is making me jealous (in the "yes homo" way).


**Bearhugs**

[Mechanica]

Thanks guys, appreciate the input. However, it's not introducing anything from left field, our relationship's never technically been closed. And not just because we haven't mentioned it or anything.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

**Bearhugs**

i need a seasoned bear daddy over here, stat. :sad::shake:

[Mechanica]

i need a seasoned bear daddy over here, stat. :sad::shake:

That's what the internet's for! :lol:

X_X

[The Green Trench Coat]

Yet..like 90% of the people who meet me for the first time THINK I'm gay cause I act very feminine. I.E. use a lot of odd hang gestures, do really girly/ditzy things when I'm angry, say "like" and "cute" a lot. Get over excited about new clothes/outfits

And the whole thinking guys are attractive (no homo) thing.

oh, and slapping friends on the ass and saying "good game" after playing MvC2 or 3S at the arcade. Granted..we all know our rule "it isn't homo if you say good game after words, even if you grab" but outsiders don't know this. :bluu:

I'm sure the whole story of me and my friend Joshy spooning while watching "Chronicles of Riddick" didn't help either.

And the fact the old DDR team I was on was "Team Ghey Seckz!"

Go figure.

-SH


Whoa dude...

[iwst99]

Whoa dude...

QFT.

[Pablo_the_Mex]

Whoa dude...

I agree, that guy is HELLA gay.

[Stuart Hayden]

-_-; Not reallllly

Lemme explain each one:
I use a lot of hang gestures when I talk out of habit, it's mainly when I was in drama and debate class in high school for the fact it's encouraged to do so. Also, I hate the sound of my natural voice cause it's really like..grainy and gravely. so I usually put a spin on it or whatever to make it..iunno, more soft spoken I guess.

The saying cute/girl words a lot is namely because aside from like the 8 people I game with, all like 30 something of the rest of my friends, and all the people I talk to online are girls. So it's out of force of habit I guess.

THough my love for cute clothes/outfits is because of the whole fashion career thing.

The ass slap thing. A lot of my friends who played fighters with me were in Football and Basketball, so, they did it out of force of habit. And one day they did it to me and I was like "lfgjhdhglh wtf?" and they said "no homo" and I thought it was relatively funny so we made a bunch odd rules when it came to gay situated things so they wouldn't be gay.

The spooning thing. xD Okay....this one is kinda weird.
It wasn't really spooning,
I shouldn't have used that word.

But I went over to my friend Josh's house one evening in the summer a few years ago and it was REALLY hot (for Washington any how) and I had just left my Cross Country meet so when I got there I didn't have a shirt on and was only in my track shorts and Josh was in the shower but his mom let me in.

So I went in and layed down on his bed cause I was helluh tired and when he got out of the shower and was in his boxers, he was like "wtf are you doing" and since I was already half asleep I told him "about to go to bed" and he said basically "fuck no" and tried to push me off his bed so he said fuck it and started climbing over me and when he was doing that his mom walked in and she was like "WTF ARE YOU GUYS DOING"

Josh promptly replies "WTF DOES IT LOOK LIKE! HAVING GHEY SEX!" AND I WAS LIKE X_x

And basically the story was retold so much among friends, it ended up to everyone as "spooning" so...
Oh yeah, and the Riddick thing, right after that happened, I promtply moved over to his computer chair and he turned his TV on and it was the infamous Vin Diesel killing some nigga with a tea cup.

as for the DDR team thing, easy, the leader was a gay friend of mine and I didn't know the team name until I was up at our first tournament. And I was helluh embarrassed when they called out "Now playing for Team Gay Sex, Stuart Hayden"

-SH

[Mechanica]

So jus' a li'l bit? /fiddy

[iwst99]

As gay as I am, I can honestly say I've never done anything as Gay as Stuart. Yes, that includes gay orgies with 10+ fags in them. :looney:

[Mechanica]

Yeah I had sex with a dude last night and I'm not as gay as Stu. :bgrin:

[Dreamkiller]

That's what the internet's for! :lol:

X_X

You would think so.
:sad:

[The Green Trench Coat]

You would think so.
:sad:

how was your date sexy?

[Dreamkiller]

There was no date Trench!
:crybaby:
Im talking to him all throughout the week. We're connecting, vibing, the whole nine. Saturday comes. He's not online and not picking up his phone. For the whole day. Same thing with Sunday, and same thing for today.
I'm like "This is dude die or something!"
Why is meeting a guy so hard Trench!?
Help me!
:crybaby:

[The Green Trench Coat]

There was no date Trench!
:crybaby:
Im talking to him all throughout the week. We're connecting, vibing, the whole nine. Saturday comes. He's not online and not picking up his phone. For the whole day. Same thing with Sunday, and same thing for today.
I'm like "This is dude die or something!"
Why is meeting a guy so hard Trench!?
Help me!
:crybaby:

I'm sorry that didn't work out .. but uhm.. i'll nail you if you just want a quickie :wgrin::lovin:

Seriously I dont know why some guys do that. when i was dating that would happen to me. so lame. I'm like just say "i changed my mind" or "no thanks" don't leave me hanging. *bearhugs* Were gonna throw a party just after bear bust (late october) come over you can meet some of our friends.

.. Oh and uh.. if you should happen to .. well.. invite one of your tall beefy friends.. well that would be more than appreciated too.. but uhm.. tell him it's an underwear party. :wgrin::lovin:

[DrumlinerJoe]

Dude guys are flakes, well women too, but yeah. The trick is just to brush it off. No need gettin all riled up over a loser like that. Hell at least he showed his true colors before you even really invested any time with him. You'll be cool.

Anyway this cute guy gave me his # last night. He's a cute dude who's one of my good customers. He always hangs out with, and I think was "dating" a drag prostitute who goes to my workplace a lot as well. The funny thing is I'm tempted to call him, but apparently I rate below a drag queen prostitute who doesn't speak english. Talk about a dip in ego.

[Dreamkiller]

Sweet Trench! Been lookin forward to some action anyway. :bgrin:
Like, i coulda sworn we were really cool i jus assumed something came up or happened this weekend. But eh, watever. Thanx for the advice guys.
Whats Bear Bust? And yes, i will be looking forward to that party as well.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I don't know about no bear bust. I don't really follow the scene well.

[Mechanica]

Yeah dude, something about online dudes gives you a weird freakishly high chance of flaking. But DJ's right I'd rather 'em flake before I met 'em than some ways down the road, you know? My only experience, unfortunately, is meeting guys online (I mean how else was I supposed to, you know? I can't go to gay bars or anything). Let's see experience #1 was ridiculous, might as well have been a flake, same with #2 #3 and #4... I'm pretty sure #5 was when I got lucky and found the guy I'm with now. I'm pretty sure the craigslist ratio of sane to not is definitely a lot higher than 1 in 5, I just got lucky. :rofl: The other four weren't actually even that awkward for meeting someone online, but I could tell they were just into it to get off and go. Except the um... fourth? guy. He was hella into me and whatever made me happy but he was just really creepy and well... ugly, to be honest. :lol: I was like "yeah" when he was like "think we can see each other again" and then I signed onto yahoo just to block him so I'd never have to talk to him again.

It's really hard to find a sane, not-flaming guy when you're under 21. I'm not sure it's any easier after 21, but at least then it's easy to start sifting through the losers. Before you can go to bars, it's like you're totally hopeless. Especially when you're into older guys, you have no choice but the internet. Which, you know, can be shady and weird. I feel your pain, Dream. Keep at it. You'll find someone. At least NY is somewhere easy and populated. You could live in Montana. :razz:

[iwst99]

It's really hard to find a sane, not-flaming guy when you're under 21. I'm not sure it's any easier after 21, but at least then it's easy to start sifting through the losers. Before you can go to bars, it's like you're totally hopeless. Especially when you're into older guys, you have no choice but the internet. Which, you know, can be shady and weird. I feel your pain, Dream. Keep at it. You'll find someone. At least NY is somewhere easy and populated. You could live in Montana. :razz:

Lol....clubs seem worse than online now...atleast online you can talk to the guy before you meet him or go out with him...I mean all this relationship wise of course. One night stand is fine for bars as well online, but there's still hella freaks at bars/clubs...ugh.

Stick to co-workers, like me and GTC....JK :lovin:

[Mechanica]

atleast online you can talk to the guy before you meet him or go out with him...I
True. I didn't even really bring that into consideration. :lol: The best way I guess is to just go into it expecting nothing but a one night stand with some weirdo and then if they're sane and nice it's like a friendly bonus rather than a freakish disappointment. :tup:

It just seems so much easier at a club to pick out someone you're actually attracted to. Guess they both have their benefits. Maybe it has something to do with how attractive I am (humility aside), but like I just hung out outside a gay bar and got look after look after look. I guess it was so obvious to me because I still haven't been in a gay club but damn I've never been checked out by so many guys at once. I didn't even really know what to do. :rofl:

[iwst99]

True. I didn't even really bring that into consideration. :lol: The best way I guess is to just go into it expecting nothing but a one night stand with some weirdo and then if they're sane and nice it's like a friendly bonus rather than a freakish disappointment. :tup:

It just seems so much easier at a club to pick out someone you're actually attracted to. Guess they both have their benefits. Maybe it has something to do with how attractive I am (humility aside), but like I just hung out outside a gay bar and got look after look after look. I guess it was so obvious to me because I still haven't been in a gay club but damn I've never been checked out by so many guys at once. I didn't even really know what to do. :rofl:

LOL...if you're young, at almost any gay bar, you will be looked at...especially if you're new meat lol. You'll get used to it...free drinks are fun too! :D

[BeaTs*]

I've faced too many guys who did that exact thing DKiller...ugh! Meeting people outside doesn't really work for me...

Just saw my ex 2day at the train stop...well...sorta ex? Iunno...it was weird. but I'm like totally over him now anyway. He was with his ugly-ass BF. LOL and his BF was asking how he knew me, and the guy says "We just played videogames" and I'm thinking in my head 'yeah...but why didn't you tell him we fucked that whole weekend we first met too?' lol.

No he was not a bear. I like other body types too. He was skinny/muscular. Nice six-pack, and a monster dick! ugh, he took my virginity with that 9inch-fat-downward-pointing-weapon....oww

wow that's pretty gay

but it still was not as gay as SH hAHA

[Mechanica]

LOL the guy I guess I technically lost my virginity to was nothing to write home about, either. In fact, quite the opposite like yours. :rofl: The second one is who I'm with now though, so I basically consider it my real first. Sure, it's cheating, but there was just no meaning or awesomeness like there was with my boyfriend now. :lovin:

LOL...if you're young, at almost any gay bar, you will be looked at...especially if you're new meat lol. You'll get used to it...free drinks are fun too! :D

Oh man! Just the other day I was thinking about how chicks have it easy with their free drinks and shit and for like half a second I was like "Man, I wish I cou--" then I got that far into the thought and realized I probably WILL get free drinks when I can go to gay bars. :rofl: I went from envious to stoked.

On that note, does anyone know any cool gay bars in Vancouver B.C. or maybe Victoria? I turn 19 two weeks from today (15th) and we're going to Canada to get drunk because I'm the last one to turn 19.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

anyone else think the guy on the current "the bachelor" has insta-boner technology? handsome, bearded, beefy? Just stop waxing his chest and it's game on.

[Azagtoth]

atleast online you can talk to the guy before you meet him or go out with him.

Lol this is truth. I talked to mine for over a year before the day I met him... and subsequently fucked him and lost my virginity, which is of course not as gay as SH. :rofl:

-A

EDIT: I wish I could go to bearbust. :(

[Khaotika!]

I don't think SH's explanation helped him out any. :lol:

Dreamkiller: Sorry things didn't go well for you. Just move on, like they all said!

[The Green Trench Coat]

Lol this is truth. I talked to mine for over a year before the day I met him... and subsequently fucked him and lost my virginity, which is of course not as gay as SH. :rofl:

-A

EDIT: I wish I could go to bearbust. :(

supposedly bearbust is going to be holding a console tourney for mvc2 and alpha 3


hey.. it's a start.

if i find out more info you think you could come to orlando at least to come hang?

[BeaTs*]

supposedly bearbust is going to be holding a console tourney for mvc2 and alpha 3


hey.. it's a start.

if i find out more info you think you could come to orlando at least to come hang?what!? MvC2? where's that sexy Amir?

[Azagtoth]

supposedly bearbust is going to be holding a console tourney for mvc2 and alpha 3


hey.. it's a start.

if i find out more info you think you could come to orlando at least to come hang?

Haha bear tourneys.

Yeah, Orlando is very much doable.

[quiche]

anyone else think the guy on the current "the bachelor" has insta-boner technology? handsome, bearded, beefy? Just stop waxing his chest and it's game on.Wait, you're gay too?

Am I the only straight jew on SRK?

...seriously.

P.S.: No, I don't count UltraDavid.

[Stuart Hayden]

You guys're so mean to me. >\

-SH

[Dreamkiller]

You guys're so mean to me. >\

-SH

Its too much fun!
:lovin:

[F.A.C.E.]

I want to see what you gays look like. Post those myspaces.

[iwst99]

what!? MvC2? where's that sexy Amir?

Fucking his new BF...

[Adam Warlock]

I'm damn sure not going to bearbust (although the thought of possibly winning something in MVC2 is tempting), it'd be cool to meet up with some of the folks from SRK. You guys should hit me up when you're here. No homo.

[BeaTs*]

Fucking his new BF...
screw that

AMIRjuice AMIRjuice AMIRjuice

:rofl:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Haha bear tourneys.

Yeah, Orlando is very much doable.



to be fair though az. I dont' thinkt there will be be much decent competition. One guy is saying his megaman spidey captain america team could completely own my Mag Psy Sent. :rolleyes::rolleyes: so i said sign me up ..




also .. i'm hoping some hotties will be betting there asses. :lovin::lovin:

[iwst99]

Strip MvC2 FTW.

[Dreamkiller]

Damn! lol.
That tourney sounds too good to be true. Wonder if theres a pot payout, or jus a lifetime supply of condoms and lube.

[BeaTs*]

to be fair though az. I dont' thinkt there will be be much decent competition. One guy is saying his megaman spidey captain america team could completely own my Mag Psy Sent. :rolleyes::rolleyes: so i said sign me up ..




also .. i'm hoping some hotties will be betting there asses. :lovin::lovin:
well Mega is anti mag, and captain america is good against sent and possibly psy assist. spidey has some mixups with a mega buster rushdown!

lol, betting their asses.

in orlando you say? aww, too bad I can't go and make you all strip :wgrin:

[The Green Trench Coat]

Damn! lol.
That tourney sounds too good to be true. Wonder if theres a pot payout, or jus a lifetime supply of condoms and lube.

I'm guessing a bit of both. I"m hoping they really put there asses up for bet.


I'll be busy that weekend.

[Dreamkiller]

in orlando you say? aww, too bad I can't go and make you all strip :wgrin:

Next time I go to chicago it's so on!!! :bgrin: :lovin:
Ask Trench, i taught him alot of flashy stuff. :wink:
But it sounds like one big bear sex party, so ur probably gonna have one big marvel orgy afterwards. So yea....Very busy. lol

[Adam Warlock]

Azag, won't you be in Orlando for this anyway http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=137925?

[BeaTs*]

Next time I go to chicago it's so on!!! :bgrin: :lovin:
Ask Trench, i taught him alot of flashy stuff. :wink:
But it sounds like one big bear sex party, so ur probably gonna have one big marvel orgy afterwards. So yea....Very busy. lolmoney match ft10? or clothes match? ass match? I'm pretty confident I'll win. We can play soul calibur too.

[Dreamkiller]

money match ft10? or clothes match? ass match? I'm pretty confident I'll win. We can play soul calibur too.

Oh, u know it has to be all of the above.
But when it comes to calibur.
I rape.
Easy.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Next time I go to chicago it's so on!!! :bgrin: :lovin:
Ask Trench, i taught him alot of flashy stuff. :wink:
But it sounds like one big bear sex party, so ur probably gonna have one big marvel orgy afterwards. So yea....Very busy. lol

Hey!! *tackle*


I do want a rematch. I was gonna go to ECC12.5 But then I'm thinking, you had a point.. dunellen could be so boring. and I may as well just keep practicing for NEC.

[Mechanica]

My boss... is such... a whiny... perfectionist... queen... :annoy: :bluu: :shake: :mad:

/shoots self in head

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Wait, you're gay too?

Am I the only straight jew on SRK?

...seriously.

P.S.: No, I don't count UltraDavid.

on the kinsey scale

[0(exclusively hetero)-1-2-3(both equally)-4-5-6(exclusively homo)]

I am: 3.5 (sexually) / 2.5 (emotionally)

that clear it up? :o

[quiche]

Yeah.

Bascially you're bisexual, and you prefer spending time with women and fucking men.

...seriously.

[iwst99]

My boss... is such... a whiny... perfectionist... queen... :annoy: :bluu: :shake: :mad:

/shoots self in head

And he's a bear?? *turnoff*

Everything is still normal with my co worker...but we walk around with inside jokes, involving me cumming on his chest and using our company's t-shirt as a cum rag that night...it sounds like normal conversation to the naked eye, but it's funny on so many levels...I still have this thing in the back of my head that tells me something is going to F-up and my work life will be ruined...but then again he wants to start looking for a job soon, so he might not be here indefinetly....we'll see.

[Mechanica]

And he's a bear?? *turnoff*

Yeah... it wouldn't matter if you didn't work for him, I guess. I think he's a cool guy and has a great sense of humor but... :looney: today...

[The Green Trench Coat]

on the kinsey scale

[0(exclusively hetero)-1-2-3(both equally)-4-5-6(exclusively homo)]

I am: 3.5 (sexually) / 2.5 (emotionally)

that clear it up? :o

maybe you should run those calculations again.






j/k:lovin:

[The Green Trench Coat]

And he's a bear?? *turnoff*

Everything is still normal with my co worker...but we walk around with inside jokes, involving me cumming on his chest and using our company's t-shirt as a cum rag that night...it sounds like normal conversation to the naked eye, but it's funny on so many levels...I still have this thing in the back of my head that tells me something is going to F-up and my work life will be ruined...but then again he wants to start looking for a job soon, so he might not be here indefinetly....we'll see.

glad things didn't get all weird for you.

Likewise with my Daddyboss. No weirdness we talked buisness today we had a few things we needed to sort through regarding his old office and equipment left there that i needed to reclaim for the company. All was good. when was all done he closed the door and pulled me in for a hug and ass cheek pinch. to which i replied "holy human resources, you are so hot"


god iwst we are so "As the world turns" right now.

I feel like everytime i write more of the story it's "And then the handsome doctor looked longfully in my eyes and said 'no homo' And then mounted his horse and galloped away."
very soap opera.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

maybe you should run those calculations again.






j/k:lovin:

"you know who" gives me, what is considered, a 6.

otherwise, it sounds about right............................................. .................................................. .................................................. ...............





i wonder what quiche is, hmmmm...

[BlodiaVulcan5]

keep hounding him, Rob. Make yourself irresistible. Ask him to go camping, and literally "bear it out" heh.

[Azagtoth]

to be fair though az. I dont' thinkt there will be be much decent competition. One guy is saying his megaman spidey captain america team could completely own my Mag Psy Sent. :rolleyes::rolleyes: so i said sign me up ..

also .. i'm hoping some hotties will be betting there asses. :lovin::lovin:

Sounds fun. If all goes well, I'll be showing up with a big bear in one hand and a tekken stick in the other.

I'll bring my scrubby ass strider/doom/sent, but if that doesn't go well we should do low tier casuals. I SUCK at mvc2 lol.

A3 is another story. I think I can do some damage, at least. Oh yeah, if it's console and shit maybe they'll let us get some 3S casuals going. =P

Azag, won't you be in Orlando for this anyway http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=137925?

Probably. Well I usually plan on going to David's tourneys, but then something comes up and I end up not wanting to. I'll try going this time. If anything you could show me how to play Jojo's or something lol.

[iwst99]

god iwst we are so "As the world turns" right now.

I feel like everytime i write more of the story it's "And then the handsome doctor looked longfully in my eyes and said 'no homo' And then mounted his horse and galloped away."
very soap opera.

*My, as the world turns tale for today.*

While walking down the hallway, the handsome and dreamy Senior Recruiter appeared, and walked in the same direction I did, side by side. As he started to chit chat, I noticed that he kept looking down at my crotch area. I knew the reason, I have reasonly gone shopping and bought a new pair of dress pants and a new belt.

"Why are you staring at my crotch?" I asked knowingly.

"Oh uhh.." said the handsome and dreamy Senior Recruiter, as he paused for a bit. "I was just looking down, to make sure I no longer had a wet spot on my chest."

I had to laugh at this, knowing that this comment refered to the fact that I had shot my load on his chest only 2 nights before. He then headed for the restroom, where I yelled out, "make sure you check your chest!" "I will" he responded. "Use warm water" I replied, as he smiled and kept walking.

*Later that day*

After receiving a call from the handsome and dreamy Senior Recruiter, I was eager to help him out with his IT problem. After resolving what turned out to be a rather simple task, he looked into my eyes, melting me away.

I then proceeded to ask "How's your chest?" To which he responded, "It feels fine."

"It's not itchy or anything is it?" I said with a half smile. "No...atleast not yet, I have a feeling it will start itching though." He replied with another smile. "You better watch out, you might get red rash all over chest area if you're not careful." I said as he laughed, and I walked away. Although there was others around, they probably had no idea what we had talked about.

*End As the world turns*

Ahhhh....good times.

[Mechanica]

i wonder what quiche is, hmmmm...
It's a food... pronounced "keesh," sometimes people don't correlate the two. *shrug* It's like a... pie. but not.

"you know who" gives me, what is considered, a 6.

otherwise, it sounds about right............................................. .................................................. .................................................. ...............

You know, thinking about it, your kinsey representation reminds me of me in the past... exactly, though. Have you messed around with guys before or no? Before I did I felt like I was closer to bi, romantically/otherwise relatively attracted to certain women, sexually towards men. Once I finally found someone who could fit my attraction niche for the romantic side though, I kinda realized I was wrong and I was way closer on the 6 side of the spectrum. :lol: I don't mean to come across like accusing you of being gay in denial or anything, just... noticed how much it reminds me of... me. It's cute actually. Like, I once sent an endearing innocent still-in-the-closet but hey what's up e-mail to GTC and then not too long after I had gotten one from someone else on another forum. I kinda like answered questions he had and pointed out that it's not quite as uncommon as one might think to like older guys and all these other things. He ended up finding somebody he's happy with now, last I talked to him. (Aww I'm like Oprah or something :lovin:) Anyway I'm high & rambling off topic so *post*.

[Æther]

I'll see if I can go to Orlando but I doubt my boss will let me have the weekend off. Oh well, was worth a try.:|

[DrumlinerJoe]

I want to see what you gays look like. Post those myspaces.

You already know what I look like. But for the rest if ya'll don't.

http://www.myspace.com/joefelan

[The Green Trench Coat]

You already know what I look like. But for the rest if ya'll don't.

http://www.myspace.com/joefelan

Always such a cutie.


I'm debating weather to put up a myspace page. I've been very anti blogging since it became the new "thing".

[Azagtoth]

I'm debating weather to put up a myspace page. I've been very anti blogging since it became the new "thing".

Just do it. I have one and I don't even really use it for much outside of keeping in touch with some people.

If you do, I'll put you on my top 12 fo sho. =P

For the guy who wanted to see the myspaces:

www.myspace.com/azagtoth

[Khaotika!]

I'm debating weather to put up a myspace page. I've been very anti blogging since it became the new "thing".

Same. Of course I have a blog where no one talks to me but they like it when I talk to them. "FRIENDS" ROCK. ;/ *emoslashwrists*

:rofl:

"MySpace is the devil. We will show you why."

-next Oprah.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Just do it. I have one and I don't even really use it for much outside of keeping in touch with some people.

If you do, I'll put you on my top 12 fo sho. =P

For the guy who wanted to see the myspaces:

www.myspace.com/azagtoth

I swear dude. everytime i see that front pic.

you are so smoochable yer bf is lucky.

Not for nothing but most everyone in the thread has sexy lips from what i can see..
I hope you are all good kissers cause it would be a waste of some rare natural resources.

if dont' belive me.. look in the mirror and as sensually as you can say the word
"goose"

I'm getting all tingly picturing you guys saying that.

Same. Of course I have a blog where no one talks to me but they like it when I talk to them. "FRIENDS" ROCK. ;/ *emoslashwrists*

:rofl:

"MySpace is the devil. We will show you why."

-next Oprah.

khaotika..

say "goose"


*spurt*

[Azagtoth]

Same. Of course I have a blog where no one talks to me but they like it when I talk to them. "FRIENDS" ROCK. ;/ *emoslashwrists*

:rofl:

When myspace blew up I was still rocking LJ. I still do, but I don't really write anything anymore, I just read everyone elses shit on my buddylist.

GTC: Thanks. Glad you like. =P

BTW, check your PMs when you get a chance plz.

[BeaTs*]

i have a tiny mouth =[ I guess I have nice lips, but they're small too...

www.myspace.com/utada4ever

[Dreamkiller]

i have a tiny mouth =[ I guess I have nice lips, but they're small too...

www.myspace.com/utada4ever

U look so small beats.
Aw que lindo.

[BeaTs*]

U look so small beats.
Aw que lindo.
lol I'm sorta small, yet sorta big...

I was a real tiny, skinny guy before I gained a lot of weight. I'm like a small guy in a bigger guys body. But I'm working off the weight. but I have small arms and hands and fingers too. small little feet. hmm. but I guess it's cute...I hope it is :wonder:

oh. and I don't speak spanish, so I don't know what that means

[Dreamkiller]

Small and big.
Its cute though.
Oh and its a compliment.
:bgrin:

[BeaTs*]

yeah, myspace is sorta dead, not so much a big thing anymore...soooo You should make an account GTC.

and azagtoth has to stop being so cute

[The Green Trench Coat]

yeah, myspace is sorta dead, not so much a big thing anymore...soooo You should make an account GTC.

and azagtoth has to stop being so cute

baaahh.. okay okay i'll do it. I'll let you know when it's up.

[Azagtoth]

and azagtoth has to stop being so cute

No I don't. :(

Hehe thanks. :lovin:

[Dreamkiller]

Damn AZ u Are hot. lol.
Cant wait to see Trench's myspace.

[DrumlinerJoe]

You resemble Sylar somewhat Beats.

And Trench you should make one just for the fuck of it. I don't really use mine in a personal sense that much, and it's let me find a bunch of old college and high school classmates I lost track of. And my blogs are more smartass than personal.

[Dreamkiller]

DLJoe - I don't really read blogs like that, unless they're really interesting. But now that u said smartass, i gotta check em out.

Trench - Get on AIM before i go to work.

[The Damned]

Since you're on the topic of reading, this won't make much of an awkward segueway.

I was sort of wondering how much you guys read in general. I know that I've been getting steadily worse about reading anything since I got access to the Internet in high school and I'm sure it's that way for a lot of people. That said, I've don't recall there ever being much talk about reading in general in here (or in most threads), so that got me wondering.

The other thing that got me wondering that the latest readings I've finished that weren't for school--though the readings have actually been interesting for once, probably because I've never read much sci-fi--were about a gay character from an interesting first-person point of view. They were a couple of books by Brent Hartinger called Geography Club and then Order of the Poison Oak; he has a third one which is technically two books-in-one that I've yet to start since I'm being lazy enough about school work as it is.

As stereotypical as it is to ask, do most of the books you read, if you read any, have a main gay character? Or do you mostly just try and reading interesting things in type of genre?

This question can include magazines as well since they have genres--no, not Genre or its ilk--as well.

Oh, speaking of which, there was this interesting article I read in Mother Jones from last month's issue...which is still sort out.

It's linked online, so finding it was easy. (http://www.motherjones.com/news/feature/2007/09/gay-by-choice.html)

It may offend you, but I'm just saying that as a general warning and not thinking of anyone particular in the thread.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I read a lot of non-fiction. Especially astronomy books. At the moment I'm reading Silence of the Lambs, and before that I read two different astronomy books and Bridget Jones Diary.

[BeaTs*]

What the heck is a Sylar?

Anywho, I used to read avidly...then I stopped. lol my grammar and spelling declined with it also....but lately I've been trying to get back into it. so I usually read everyday. I read my sci-fi and horror a lot. re-read all the Harry Potters again. want to read more orson scott card...reading anne rice currently. I've also read other random things. I want to read more Stephen Hawking. If it looks interesting and I like it, I read it.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Sylar the villan from Heroes. Not exactly like him but there's a resemblence.

I used to read a lot of Michael Critchton when I was a kid. His characters were a little dry but the plots and ideas were interesting as hell. Still, his characterizations are masterpieces when compared to David Brown. I don't understand what people saw in Da Vinci Code.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

just... noticed how much it reminds me of... me.

i know what quiche (the food) is. i was asking the quiche (givequicheachance) about him on the scale.

Have i messed around with a guy before? Yes, but no penetration or oral involved, and it involved some drunken partying. So i don't know if that counts. and yes, the number will change over time surely, just right now it's at those brackets, as alot of stuff happened leading up to the current values on the scale.


@ GTC: i thought you had a joint one with you bf? i ositos<something>

speaking of that, hows my requested portrait coming along? :)

heh, GTC is so popular.



Beats: you remind me of a friend of mine, look-wise.

[BeaTs*]

oh I see

yeah, I def. like micheal crichton. not perfect but he does something right.

but the problem, just like with my musical taste, is I have way too many hobbies and so it's too hard to concentrate/go deeper with any of them...I actually stopped a lot of them/didn't do some as much once the whole job/rent/college shit kicked in.

@BV: which pic? long hair? short hair? I look different in all the pics almost.

[Mechanica]

GTC don't do it, don't give in! It's not worth it. Seriously. Myspace is just fucking pointless bulletin after pointless bulletin, friend requests from robots, and retards that don't know how to take pictures of themselves. I would probably be a happier camper had I never had a myspace, but I did get in contact with some people I hadn't heard from in years that I'd never have run into otherwise. Still not worth it though, because I don't care that much. :lol: Myspace isn't any fun when you don't have a working camera anyway. http://www.myspace.com/hahahawtf

Between work, school, and fighting games, I don't really have time for casual reading. Maybe when I get more into the groove of my schedule I can start finishing that sequel to Eragon (shut up). I've only read one book with a gay guy in it actually, and he wasn't the main character, but was close. Actually his name was Wayne and that's my bf's name, I thought it was kinda weird when it became apparent to the reader he was gay. :lol: Sad, sad book, actually. Made me cry. Good though. It's called The Book of Joe (lol).

[Dreamkiller]

everytime my musical devices stop working i turn to reading and love it (PSP's, MP3's.)
I jus finished reading the Alphabet of Manliness by Maddox and loved it.
That dude is hilarious.
And im now reading Battle Royale.
Too too good.

[BeaTs*]

I love tearjerkers. I'll have to see that Book of Joe.

I've read some "gay" books

The notebook...omg such a short book, I finished in one day but seriously...you will need tissue. I wanna see the movie now. I also wanna see Queen of The Damned now too, after reading the book. Like Harry Potter it definately won't be as good, and will be too short for fitting the whole book in...but I wanna see the effects and how they adapt it. And also sexy ass Aliyaah as Akasha

EDIT: lol a lot of "a"'s in that last sentence.

yeah, after my Mp3 player broke, and my PSP was stolen from me on the street, I started reading much more.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

As stereotypical as it is to ask, do most of the books you read, if you read any, have a main gay character?

No. I dont actively look for reading material with that in mind.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Bloodia - Yes it counts.

Beats - Yup I gave up games and recreational reading when I went to college. Every second of my day was devoted to music and drumline and all that crap. I had been playing fighters since I was about 12 and I didn't really pick up another one until MVC2 came out when I was 21.

Mech - I feel you on the whole broken camera blues. Mine's been in the shop for about two months now. I think I'm just gonna save up for a new one since they can't seem to get it fixed.

[DrumlinerJoe]

I love tearjerkers. I'll have to see that Book of Joe.

I've read some "gay" books

The notebook...omg such a short book, I finished in one day but seriously...you will need tissue. I wanna see the movie now. I also wanna see Queen of The Damned now too, after reading the book. Like Harry Potter it definately won't be as good, and will be too short for fitting the whole book in...but I wanna see the effects and how they adapt it. And also sexy ass Aliyaah as Akasha

EDIT: lol a lot of "a"'s in that last sentence.

yeah, after my Mp3 player broke, and my PSP was stolen from me on the street, I started reading much more.

I started to read one gay novel. It was called "Faggots" and was about a formerly fat gay guy looking for love after becoming a muscle head. Interesting idea as he clung to a lot of old insecurities, but the characterizations were uneven, the tone was silly (one character was actually named "Randy Dildough) and it was all a big mess.

And thank god my mp3 player works. I NEED to have music around me at all times, period. I have a tiny stereo in my shower so I can listen to music while I shower and get ready.

[BeaTs*]

same with drawing, I stopped seriously drawing about 4yrs ago when I was in 8th/9 grade...that was one of my biggest hobbies. I worked hard at it every day for as long as I can remember. I may not have had all the skills, but I worked very hard. But thanks to my family, namely my asshole dad, I couldn't do it anymore....I try now and again to start some drawing/painting/inking/something, but it just doesn't come to me anymore...I might need a new setting.

Vgames is just hard for finding time. but when I do, it's exactly anything hard, just fun.

same with music, I'll go on for months, even a year listening to the same music in my library without getting anything new. But I like pretty much everything and it's daunting to figure out where I wanna start with getting new music. @_@

and I'm so pissed about my mp3/psp situation, I need my music too!

[BlodiaVulcan5]

@BV: which pic? long hair? short hair? I look different in all the pics almost.

your face, mainly. Except he's thinner/leaner than you, which makes him looks like he's dying, lol. beef up!

[BlodiaVulcan5]

Bloodia - Yes it counts.


making out on a dare with 6 people watching?

[DrumlinerJoe]

You're probably right about the new setting Beats. Hell I used to write music when I was in college and it was horrible, now it comes a lot more naturally.

And don't worry about "not having the skills." Anyone can pick up anything and art (painting, writing, music, whatever) involves a lot more than just technical skill. What made me a horrible writer back then was that I was obsessed with technique. Just let it flow and good shit should come to you.

[The Green Trench Coat]

You illiterate Fags!!

I actually read alot of technical books lately trying to figure out SSH tunneling for this project i'm working on. Other than that I read alot of online articles. from various sources.

[BeaTs*]

You're probably right about the new setting Beats. Hell I used to write music when I was in college and it was horrible, now it comes a lot more naturally.

And don't worry about "not having the skills." Anyone can pick up anything and art (painting, writing, music, whatever) involves a lot more than just technical skill. What made me a horrible writer back then was that I was obsessed with technique. Just let it flow and good shit should come to you.
well no, that's just what I mean. I think I had some natural skills, but not a lot. so I worked hard on my technical skills. worked on all the details/perspective/anatomy/how clothes work/lighting/etc.etc.

but since I've been gone from it, all my feeling is gone...I might just still have the technical skill (thought def. not as much) but no more creativity (there wansn't much to begin with)

I can draw a portrait of someone really well. but don't ask me to think of something to draw anymore. so if I still go into a field relating to art, it might just be with something that requires no originality, just skill....but we'll see if I get that spark back anytime soon. I really hate my dad for that....

[DrumlinerJoe]

Yeah my ma was kind of an asshole when it came to me wanting to be a musician. I just said fuck it. I don't do it for a living anymore, but I still have my shit on the side and it's good enough for me. My friends want to form a band, so there's always that.

[The Green Trench Coat]

i know what quiche (the food) is. i was asking the quiche (givequicheachance) about him on the scale.

Have i messed around with a guy before? Yes, but no penetration or oral involved, and it involved some drunken partying. So i don't know if that counts. and yes, the number will change over time surely, just right now it's at those brackets, as alot of stuff happened leading up to the current values on the scale.


@ GTC: i thought you had a joint one with you bf? i ositos<something>

speaking of that, hows my requested portrait coming along? :)

heh, GTC is so popular.



Beats: you remind me of a friend of mine, look-wise.

I have a base sketch done i just need to add clothes an color. I had to put a few things on hold cause I was asked to do a calendar (drawings... not pics of me) And i had to finish this flyer for a bear - dracula for a flyer for some bear party at the bar.

which is something.. i keep asking people why do you want my shit. My art sucks. I know it. Anyone who draws can tell you that .. oh well.

GTC don't do it, don't give in! It's not worth it. Seriously. Myspace is just fucking pointless bulletin after pointless bulletin, friend requests from robots, and retards that don't know how to take pictures of themselves. I would probably be a happier camper had I never had a myspace, but I did get in contact with some people I hadn't heard from in years that I'd never have run into otherwise. Still not worth it though, because I don't care that much. :lol: Myspace isn't any fun when you don't have a working camera anyway. http://www.myspace.com/hahahawtf

Between work, school, and fighting games, I don't really have time for casual reading. Maybe when I get more into the groove of my schedule I can start finishing that sequel to Eragon (shut up). I've only read one book with a gay guy in it actually, and he wasn't the main character, but was close. Actually his name was Wayne and that's my bf's name, I thought it was kinda weird when it became apparent to the reader he was gay. :lol: Sad, sad book, actually. Made me cry. Good though. It's called The Book of Joe (lol).

Dude i've got so many digital cameras.. if you guys want my old ones you can have them. just send me addresses.

not bragging .. just have a lot (4 not used)

Bloodia - Yes it counts.

Beats - Yup I gave up games and recreational reading when I went to college. Every second of my day was devoted to music and drumline and all that crap. I had been playing fighters since I was about 12 and I didn't really pick up another one until MVC2 came out when I was 21.

Mech - I feel you on the whole broken camera blues. Mine's been in the shop for about two months now. I think I'm just gonna save up for a new one since they can't seem to get it fixed.

same.. if you want my old one you just gotta buy a memory card for it.

I started to read one gay novel. It was called "Faggots" and was about a formerly fat gay guy looking for love after becoming a muscle head. Interesting idea as he clung to a lot of old insecurities, but the characterizations were uneven, the tone was silly (one character was actually named "Randy Dildough) and it was all a big mess.

And thank god my mp3 player works. I NEED to have music around me at all times, period. I have a tiny stereo in my shower so I can listen to music while I shower and get ready.

what's weird is I need to have music going while i read or i cant concentrate. I read better when there's alot going on around me and i have music going.

same with drawing, I stopped seriously drawing about 4yrs ago when I was in 8th/9 grade...that was one of my biggest hobbies. I worked hard at it every day for as long as I can remember. I may not have had all the skills, but I worked very hard. But thanks to my family, namely my asshole dad, I couldn't do it anymore....I try now and again to start some drawing/painting/inking/something, but it just doesn't come to me anymore...I might need a new setting.

Vgames is just hard for finding time. but when I do, it's exactly anything hard, just fun.

same with music, I'll go on for months, even a year listening to the same music in my library without getting anything new. But I like pretty much everything and it's daunting to figure out where I wanna start with getting new music. @_@

and I'm so pissed about my mp3/psp situation, I need my music too!

I'd like to see your work one day. (homo.. and no homo)

[BeaTs*]

I'd like to see your work one day. (homo.. and no homo)my last drawings I've ever done are on my myspace in my pics. those were about 4 years ago in 8th grade and freshman year of HS.

I've had more...I also has some...err..naughty drawings haha. but they had to be obliterated one day...yeah. lol I was practicing my anatomy.

and on the "homo"....one of these days :lovin:

[BlodiaVulcan5]

which is something.. i keep asking people why do you want my shit. My art sucks. I know it. Anyone who draws can tell you that .. oh well.


not even, dude. i can draw, but that's not all of it. It's about a piece from a friend (i.e. you) that i want to display on something for all the world to see. it's more than the drawing itself, it's the meaning. :)

[iwst99]

Last real book I read was after I came back from Russia. It was a gift from my school mates over there. It was War and Peace.

Other than that, nowadays all I really read is technical, and/or software books.

[BeaTs*]

oh yes I do love manuals!

[DrumlinerJoe]

Russian guys are hot.

[iwst99]

^^

Yes!!! :d

[DrumlinerJoe]

I worked at a Levi's outlet store when I was in college. We got a hell of a lot of international customers and Russian dudes were always so fucking fine. Ah, memories.

[iwst99]

I don't wanna wait...for our lives, to be over...

[DrumlinerJoe]

lol Well, the Spaniards and French were kind of uppity, the rich Mexicans were assholes (they hate EVERYONE), the Asians were cool, the Italians always looked flawless, and that's about all I can remember off the top of my head.

[iwst99]

European Bears/Daddies are freaking awesome. When I lived in Russia, Russian daddies (including my Host dad) were freaking hot.

When I went to Rome, there was tourists from all over the world, obviously, but mainly Europe...god, they were soooo freaking hot. I was drooling everywhere I went. Not sure which country they were each from, but European in general are pretty hot.

And yes, Rich Mexicans tend to be fucking assholes.:looney:

-SH

[DrumlinerJoe]

Pinche fresas! They may put up with that rich bitch bullshit in Mexico or along the border, but here in Texas us Tejanos don't give a shit about them. It's always funny to see their reactions when we drop attitude right back.

There's one guy who goes to my bar looks about 40 - 45. Now I'm not normally attracted to older guys, but damn he's built so damn good and has a handsome face that I'm down with the papi love know what I mean.

[Adam Warlock]

And yes, Rich Mexicans tend to be fucking assholes.

Isn't THAT the pot calling the kettle black.

[iwst99]

Isn't THAT the pot calling the kettle black.

LOL...the only thing I have in common with Mexican culture is that I speak spanish. I don't look Mexican, nor have a Mexican accent. I'm the complete opposite of my family culturally...yes I am talking about my own race, it's just the way things are.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Either way cause, like I said earlier, the rich Mexican nationals hate EVERYBODY.

[iwst99]

Either way cause, like I said earlier, the rich Mexican nationals hate EVERYBODY.

Yep yep.

Mexicans living in Mexico complain all the time. At hotels out there, the people working in them say the rich Mexicans are the worst tourists they have. And they treat the workers (also Mexican, duh) like crap.

[DrumlinerJoe]

Yup. A girl I knew had a 150 dollar tab at the fancy bar she works at here and the dude only left her two quarters. She threw them at him and had the manager kick him and his friends out.

[Adam Warlock]

LOL...the only thing I have in common with Mexican culture is that I speak spanish.

that and fucking assholes.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

what are ya'll's teams in the following (and why):

MvC2
3S
SSBM

?

[Adam Warlock]

what are ya'll's teams in the following (and why):

3S

?

bu--huh--what?

[F.A.C.E.]

Atlanta Black Gay Pride for MLK Weekend in January?

I doubt any of you are going tho.


Atlanta gay men are so aggressive and masculine. I shoulda went to Morehouse.

[Pablo_the_Mex]

Mexicans are beasts.

[DrumlinerJoe]

what are ya'll's teams in the following (and why):

MvC2
3S
SSBM

?

MVC2 - Rogue/Storm/Cap or Tron, thinking of picking up Megaman for MSP matches.

3s - Don't play much at all really, but I pick Ryu when I do.

SSBM - Same, but when I do I like Jigglypuff. I will learn Pitt when the new one comes out.

[Azagtoth]

what are ya'll's teams in the following (and why):

MvC2
3S
SSBM

MVC2 I don't play much; I either scrub it out with a horrible Strider/Doom or some combination of Ken or Cable/Tron/Whoever. 3S I kinda dropped for CVS2 but when I do play it I usually play Akuma or Ken. I don't play Melee more than casually and I usually play either Fox or Bowser.

[iwst99]

that and fucking assholes.

Keep it up man...there's a joke in there somewhere.

[DrumlinerJoe]

A guy here in SA plays Ken/Storm/Tron a lot. He doesn't do horribly vs. a few Magnetos. He just needs to step it up vs. the rest of the top tier.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

bu--huh--what?

teams only applied to MvC2, 3s and ssbm no.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Atlanta Black Gay Pride for MLK Weekend in January?

I doubt any of you are going tho.


Atlanta gay men are so aggressive and masculine. I shoulda went to Morehouse.

I'll be there.

[BeaTs*]

MvC2: Just about everyone..Magneto teams being my best...and some mag/storm play. also a big IM player...mag/IM....also plenty of low tiers liek chun and anakaris and sonson and shit...

3s: Oro...but I don't really play it too well yet

SSBM: just about everyone again...my faves being Link, Fox, Marth, Peach, Zelda/Sheik

[Dreamkiller]

MVC2 - Usual top. Mag, Storm, Sent. But if im fuckin arround wit my friends, then i go wit ma bitch team. Cammy, Storm, Psy/Pink Sent.
3S - Usual top. Chun.
SSBM - Sucks ass. Not a real fighting game.
Tekken - Usual top. Julia, Christie.
Soul Calibur - Usual top. Taki.

Black guys are hoooooot.

[BeaTs*]

MVC2 - Usual top. Mag, Storm, Sent. But if im fuckin arround wit my friends, then i go wit ma bitch team. Cammy, Storm, Psy/Pink Sent.
3S - Usual top. Chun.
SSBM - Sucks ass. Not a real fighting game.
Tekken - Usual top. Julia, Christie.
Soul Calibur - Usual top. Taki.

Black guys are hoooooot.watch your words about SSBM!!! no rules or laws constitute "real" fighting games. def. doesn't suck ass, hell it's doing well enough.

oh well if you guys are putting other fighting games...

CvS2: nearly everyone...but I really like sakura, cammy, and morrigan
Tekken: Lee and Asuka
Soul Calibur: Ivy, Xianghua, Mitsu, Taki, and Hwang

Ken/Storm/Tron....of course he doesn't do bad against magnetos, isn't even a bad team...hell Storm/Tron is all you need even..and then with a killer assist like Ken...and magneto is the easiest to beat with low tier as long as you can block some shit (or the magz isn't too good)..he runs into stuff.

[Dreamkiller]

Thats right! Play those bitches!
Bitches don't get played Enough!
CvS - N-Vega/Sak, Chun, Cammy

PS - Vega doesnt count. He's one of us, he's gay. Its okay. :bgrin:

[The_Beast]

Atlanta Black Gay Pride for MLK Weekend in January?


Why the need to further distinguish yourself as a sub unit of a group already in the minority?

[F.A.C.E.]

Because white gay pride is corny lol.

-i dont like techno
-i dont like bears
-i dont like twinks
-i dont like leather
-i dont like feminine white men
-i dont like glowsticks
-i dont like FISTING


No offense. I like masculine BLACK and HISPANIC men. Ones that dont particularly look or act "gay".

Black gay pride weeds out everything that doesnt turn me on.


I'll be there.
Word. I wanna see you. Not in a whore-like type way tho.

[BlodiaVulcan5]

pot calling the kettle black.

[Stuart Hayden]

Vega is actually straight.
He's sexually fascinated with Cammy.
Benimaru is straight too.

Only known gay characters in SF are Eagle and Gief.

-SH

[F.A.C.E.]

pot calling the kettle black.

How so?

I like what i like. And the commonalities in the white gay scene are what I dont like. Or course some of that was mild exaggeration for humor, but for the most part not a part of the gay crowd i swing with at ALL.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Because white gay pride is corny lol.

-i dont like techno
-i dont like bears
-i dont like twinks
-i dont like leather
-i dont like feminine white men
-i dont like glowsticks
-i dont like FISTING


No offense. I like masculine BLACK and HISPANIC men. Ones that dont particularly look or act "gay".

Black gay pride weeds out everything that doesnt turn me on.



Word. I wanna see you. Not in a whore-like type way tho.


I know you see t his as your reasons to go to pride, you see the need to party with like minded fellows. But I feel it necessary to say that these are not the reasons for black pride. I won't attack you I'm just going to assume you are a young'n cause that is often where i hear sentiment like this.

Black pride doesn't exist because they dont' like white pride. bear pride doesn't exist because regular pride is distasteful to bears. I'll accept that these are your reasons for not liking atlanta pride or wherever you go.

Pride is not about being proud that you are gay / over being straight.
Pride is about not being ASHAMED that you are gay.
Bear pride is about not being ASHAMED that you are a bear.
Black pride is about not being ASHAMED that you are a black gay person.
New York pride is about not being ASHAMED that you are a gay person in new york.

Why is there pride celebrations? Do we need it? Yep it serves a purpose. The greater american community at least, would have you belive gay is gross and disgusting. The gay community in general would have you belive that being a bear is gross and disgusting. The american public ingeneral has it's own bias against minorities.. and to a further extent add gay minorities. This is the purpose they serve. We celebrate while others hate.

You get it? I understand the parties are great the people are hot and closer to your "type" at a certain pride but it's important that you not start in on the line of thinking that isolates your self from the rest of your gay brethren. Especially if you are going to participate in pride.



also..

If you think there won't be a large number of
Bears, Twinks, Techno, Leather, Glowsticks and Fems at black pride. You are in for a very rude awakening.

</soapbox></gay rights advocate>

Jimmy the hand ..


say

"goose"







love it.

[quiche]

So I shouldn't go to my local gay pride rallies for the free food?

...seriously.

[The Green Trench Coat]

So I shouldn't go to my local gay pride rallies for the free food?

...seriously.

there is definitely no free food at gay pride.


oh wait. Unless you consider flavored lube a food.

[Khaotika!]

Gawd, 3+ pages to catch up on! :P

I don't read as much as I used to, I'm more of a visual person. Speaking of which, GTC: Every artist thinks their art looks like shit. SRSLY! XD It takes another's eye to appreciate it fully. I don't have a lot to share at the moment or I'd post something up.

3S - Urien, Q, Necro, Oro (not hardcore, just for fun)
MvC2 - Venom/Roll/Ruby Heart, and I usually mix characters like Doom, Tron, Thanos, Sabretooth, Cammy, Jill, Cyclops, etc whenever I feel like it. Don't have a SERIOUS BIDNESS team or anything.
Melee: Does not suck ass! <3 Peach, Ganondorf, Luigi, Dr. Mario, Jigglypuff, and Samus

Quiche's Popeye avatar is one of the best things I've ever seen.

[Adam Warlock]

Atlanta Black Gay Pride for MLK Weekend in January?

I doubt any of you are going tho.


Atlanta gay men are so aggressive and masculine. I shoulda went to Morehouse.

that would actually irk me. I have nothing against gay people, but negros are notoriously homophobic and it sounds like a recipe for disaster. Why not set up your own event? Piggy backing off an established event is just shady. No matter how you look at it, it takes away from the focus of the initial event and is selfish.

[The Green Trench Coat]

that would actually irk me. I have nothing against gay people, but negros are notoriously homophobic and it sounds like a recipe for disaster. Why not set up your own event? Piggy backing off an established event is just shady. No matter how you look at it, it takes away from the focus of the initial event and is selfish.

Actually I agree with you. The timing does seem like it could cause problems. I will be in atlanta at that time period though so we'll see what happens

[Azagtoth]

If you think there won't be a large number of Bears, Twinks, Techno, Leather, Glowsticks and Fems at black pride. You are in for a very rude awakening.

This.

As someone who lives in Miami, I'm having a very hard time understanding where one might get the idea that these things would be excluded or weeded out from a black gay pride event.

[The Green Trench Coat]

This.

As someone who lives in Miami, I'm having a very hard time understanding where one might get the idea that these things would be excluded or weeded out from a black gay pride event.


true story.


It's not like someone is going to be saying "is that a glow stick? you cant party with us."

[The Green Trench Coat]

European Bears/Daddies are freaking awesome. When I lived in Russia, Russian daddies (including my Host dad) were freaking hot.

When I went to Rome, there was tourists from all over the world, obviously, but mainly Europe...god, they were soooo freaking hot. I was drooling everywhere I went. Not sure which country they were each from, but European in general are pretty hot.

And yes, Rich Mexicans tend to be fucking assholes.:looney:



I really want to visit russia. I have a bunch of friends over in moscow. but I always think i'm going to stick out like a sore thumb. And in a bad way. One guy was telling me thata large amt of people in russia think black people have tails (which would be awesome if it were true, I'd love to go all sayian ape).

Also, yeah russian daddies are hot!!!

what are ya'll's teams in the following (and why):

MvC2
3S
SSBM

?

MVC2 Mag, Tron, Sent - Dreamkiller saw why. for one handed play i pick Cable tron Jugg

3s - Makoto is always point for me. second Ken/yang third Ibuki

ssbm I dont' play :(

[BeaTs*]

Because white gay pride is corny lol.

-i dont like techno
-i dont like bears
-i dont like twinks
-i dont like leather
-i dont like feminine white men
-i dont like glowsticks
-i dont like FISTING


No offense. I like masculine BLACK and HISPANIC men. Ones that dont particularly look or act "gay".

Black gay pride weeds out everything that doesnt turn me on.



Word. I wanna see you. Not in a whore-like type way tho.ummm you're kidding right? nice way to incorrectly stereotype, you have a lot to learn....

[Dreamkiller]

Vega and Benimaru are gay.
End of discussion.

[BeaTs*]

Vega and Benimaru are gay.
End of discussion.

gay for cammy/mai/chunli

I like benimaru he's so fruity. especially that CvS2 pic..you know which one!

[Dreamkiller]

YES! lol. I love that pic! Im telling u! He's gay! lol.
Trench = Shenanigans.
:bgrin:

[iwst99]

You can't change anybody's mentality...whatever reason one chooses to go to pride, hey, atleast they're going. We all know there are small minded, still somewhat in the closet, or pretty naive gay people, not just that post here, but in the real world in general. We cannot expect everyone to think like us, or say someone else's thoughts are right/wrong (unless they are hurting someone). Gay means Happy, so lets all try to have a gay ol' time while we here and get along! :lovin::lovin::lovin:

[LightningStorm]

Because white gay pride is corny lol.

-i dont like techno
-i dont like bears
-i dont like twinks
-i dont like leather
-i dont like feminine white men
-i dont like glowsticks
-i dont like FISTING


No offense. I like masculine BLACK and HISPANIC men. Ones that dont particularly look or act "gay".

Black gay pride weeds out everything that doesnt turn me on.



I've gone to many a gay-pride events including Black Gay Pride events. In fact I went to Black Gay Pride in DC a few years ago where the primarily requested music was techo and house. I was like WTF.

Bears, Twinks, and ... uh ... "normal?" people were all in abundance.

Leather ran rampant as did drag queens and all other "scenes" typical of the gay community.

Glowsticks were handed out at the door for free! So most people had like three of them at least.

And there was the same ratio of feminine men at a black pride event as there were at any... uh ... "white?" ... pride event.

Fisting... WHAT THE FUCK? No, there was none of this. But then there has never been any of this at any event I've gone to black or otherwise. At least not just out in public where everybody can see and participate. WTF!



Regarding the MvC2 teams
--------
Tournament Teams:
BH/Storm/CapCom
Sent/Storm/CapCom
BH/Sent/Capcom

Fun Teams (but still good with):
Rogue/Storm/Psylocke
Juggernaut/Sent/Colossus
BH/Sent/Storm (in any random order)

Fun Teams (don't really expect to win with)
Psylocke/Storm/Tron
Team Z (Jugg/Tron/Doom)

[BeaTs*]

you should not be having trouble winning with psy/storm/tron...

[Dreamkiller]

you should not be having trouble winning with psy/storm/tron...

I was gonna say the exact same thing.

[LightningStorm]

you should not be having trouble winning with psy/storm/tron...

Playing good people that use top-tier, that won't win, Storm can't do it all by her self all the time. Playing the stuff I've seen listed in this thread, not a problem. But the stuff I've seen in this thread I could probably beat more often than not with Rogue, Felicia, Morrigan (a really old fun team I used to play).

[Stuart Hayden]

3S: Everyone but Hugo, 12, Ibuki, Yang, Alex...tourneys Ken or Chun
ST: Deejay or Ken
CvS2: Casual play = A-Kyo/Benimaru/Dhalsim (r2). Tourneys = A-Iori/Sakura/Sagat (r2)
MvC2: Don't really play any more..but usually Ryu/Gambit/T.Bonne or Colossus/Sentinel/CapCom when I play casually/scrubs. But when I go to tourneys or a know spot for good marvel players I usually use Mag/Storm/CapCom
Melty Blood: Shiki's.
NGBC: Iori/Hotaru
KOFXI: Kula/K'/Iori
Dark Stalkers: Rikou...

I'mma stop..I'd be listing shit forever. xD

-SH

[BeaTs*]

Playing good people that use top-tier, that won't win, Storm can't do it all by her self all the time. Playing the stuff I've seen listed in this thread, not a problem. But the stuff I've seen in this thread I could probably beat more often than not with Rogue, Felicia, Morrigan (a really old fun team I used to play).again, compared to your "serious" teams, you shouldn't be having trouble with psy/storm/tron. stuff seen in this thread? huh? umm ok

yeah, I figure to stop listing other FG's...otherwise the list would go on too long...

[quiche]

MvC2: Don't touch the stuff.

3S: Necro, Gouki

Melee: Peach, Ice Climbers, Mario

...seriously.