View Full Version : Have you ever remained friends with some one who you shouldn't have?
zakky
03-14-2007, 09:48 PM
... remained friends with someone who really doesn't deserve to be your friend? I'm talking about someone who said/did something/many things just shit-poor to you but you just tossed it aside since you were friends.
I was just thinking about one of my close friends who has done things that would warrant me poisoning him. I think that if I forced a cyanide pill down his throat and explained the situation, the judge would let me off. But, I'm still friends with him, I'll probably be friends with him next week. In fact, I'll probably still be friends with this guy until I am forced to remove all ties to him, or stab him through the neck.
Anyone else in this kind of situation?
MagnetiX
03-14-2007, 09:57 PM
Did the guy have sex with your mom or something?
Septimus Prime
03-14-2007, 10:07 PM
Yes.
J-ride
03-14-2007, 10:54 PM
Yeah, I forgave one of my best friends in high school for fucking my girlfriend back in the day. I was genuinely pissed at him, because I always had this policy, that if you would just let me know that my girl was a whore, then I wouldn't care if you fucked her. JUST LET ME KNOW! Seriously, all he had to do was be like "Your girl's a whore...So I'm gonna hit that..." Then it would have been fine. We could all come over and catch her in the act and pass high fives all around.
CoMpOuNd
03-14-2007, 10:58 PM
Listen buddy, I came in here thinking you just killed a motherfucker, raped a bitch, robbed a bank, shot up a taliban man, bombed an abortion clinic, drank rubbing ACHIHOLL, ran over a dead body while backing up and going forward over and over again, had sex with a midgit, or drank 1 gallon of milk without puking.
but instead I get this....
... remained friends with someone who really doesn't deserve to be your friend?
WHO THE HELL HASN'T??
word.
MagnetiX
03-15-2007, 01:44 AM
Yeah, I forgave one of my best friends in high school for fucking my girlfriend back in the day. I was genuinely pissed at him, because I always had this policy, that if you would just let me know that my girl was a whore, then I wouldn't care if you fucked her. JUST LET ME KNOW! Seriously, all he had to do was be like "Your girl's a whore...So I'm gonna hit that..." Then it would have been fine. We could all come over and catch her in the act and pass high fives all around.
Whoa, man. I thought I was the only one that way.
Like, even my friend's say the same thing.
My friend Joey was like "Yo man, if my girl comes up on you, you can fuck her, but later on, imma bang the shit out of her for doing that"
...Ironically, they're both married now :looney:
But I still did get offered a 3-some, but I don't think imma take it...I think that's fucked up fucking your friend's wife.
ArcadeFire
03-15-2007, 01:49 AM
What Compound said.
PsychoSquall
03-15-2007, 02:19 AM
No, I am picky as hell about who I call my friends. If someone fucked me over that I'm aware of, then they get added to my shit list.
terracotta
03-15-2007, 03:57 AM
nah. like PsychoSquall i'm not one to call every acquaintance a friend.
ya no honestly at this point in my life...i've weeded out all the bad influences and people who were straight assholes to me. in high school i might have said yes, cuz i was starving for attention and friends and someone to notice me. but now i've weeded them out to just friends that probably will be around for the rest of my life anyone else is just an acquaintance and not that important to me nor have a lasting effect on my life.
Infested Jester
03-15-2007, 04:37 AM
I used to, but as I got older I weeded out all the dipshits who who were so called friends. Now I just have 2 people I truly consider friends, anyone else I just set my expectations extremely low. As far as getting rid of people, I have no problem at all....funny thing is that usually the more you want someone to stay away from you the more persistent they are about "patching" the friendship up. :bluu:
Satomiblood
03-15-2007, 06:51 AM
No, I am picky as hell about who I call my friends. If someone fucked me over that I'm aware of, then they get added to my shit list.
Your avatar is funny.
Dios <-X->
03-15-2007, 06:55 AM
Naw, if your aint my homeboy, best step away, sep and ronin 4 life <3
DropOff
03-15-2007, 08:52 AM
A problem arises when someone has been your friend for a long time, and then they fuck up and do something stupid. When it's something really stupid, you tend to start noticing how stupid and fucked up they are. I had a friend who fucked me over big time, but I still see him every day, theres no way I'm as close friends as I was before and in fact I fuckin' treat this kid like shit now.
But unfortuantly we have mutual friends so he HAS to be there. Luckily he's a fucking idiot and doesn't know when I'm straight up insulting him to his face infront of his friends.
No, I am picky as hell about who I call my friends. If someone fucked me over that I'm aware of, then they get added to my shit list.
Wow. That's pretty hardcore for PsychoSquall. Didn't know you had it in you, buddy.
I side with PS on this one. I've also weeded out the bad from my life over the school years of my life. What I have left is high school friends and one or two childhood friends.
Hoonyo
03-15-2007, 09:56 AM
no for me it's more like why didn't i remain friends with these particular people.
Pinnochio
03-15-2007, 10:06 AM
Sigh I go to college with most of my high school friends. One of my friends who was a really geniuine guy for some reason in college tried to make himself into a "different person and started to try to cuss even though every time he did it felt very awkward. We all don't like him, and we'ere pretty much fed up with him.
Higher-Jin
03-15-2007, 10:07 AM
I did for a while, but someone who acts that way is only going to push the envelope more and more until you finally explode and wash your hands of them. Take my advice, either try to straighten shit out or just start distancing yourself from them and eventually break it off. Just saves some time compared to waiting to see if they change, they rarely ever do.
4Play
03-15-2007, 10:47 AM
I did and regreted that decision. I used to hang out with these 2 people that I tought were cool but all they want was leech off my money to eat or get shitty stuff and they were all around douchebags. I was too young and stupid to get out of that friendship until after high school when I changed my phone number and never talked to them again.
Team Scrub
03-15-2007, 10:56 AM
Yeah I actually stayed friend with two guys but I really hate there guts.
One guy crashed my brothers car but my brother forgave him so I let it go but I still want to kick his ass!!
The other guy stole my brothers skate board cause my brother owed him 5 bucks so one day he got all tweaked out, grew some balls and took my brothers board.
My brother forgave him but I still want to kick his ass or get him in trouble with the cops.
CoMpOuNd
03-15-2007, 10:58 AM
Listen buddy, I came in here thinking you just killed a motherfucker, raped a bitch, robbed a bank, shot up a taliban man, bombed an abortion clinic, drank rubbing ACHIHOLL, ran over a dead body while backing up and going forward over and over again, had sex with a midgit, or drank 1 gallon of milk without puking.
but instead I get this....
WHO THE HELL HASN'T??
word.
If people are confused about my post, I said what I said because the title used too be "Have you ever....".
word.
MagnetiX
03-16-2007, 05:57 AM
Sigh I go to college with most of my high school friends. One of my friends who was a really geniuine guy for some reason in college tried to make himself into a "different person and started to try to cuss even though every time he did it felt very awkward. We all don't like him, and we'ere pretty much fed up with him.
lol, reminds me of this kid named Anthony.
We used to hang out until he started hangin out with the "wrong crowd". He tried to be cool and started hangin around these black doods, and ofcourse, black doods are sayin "Nigga this", "nigga that", and lol, Anthony was like "Yo, my nigga!" ....:rofl:
Man, think about like, some 4'11" nerdy and fat Asian kid saying that infront of huge 6' black guys in 6th grade :rofl:
God, I haven't heard from him since I left that school to move to Vegas, but last thing I did hear was he got his foot ran over :rofl: :rofl:
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