The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Shotokan Symphony]

BTW, I'm sure all the wives and mothers of this world, have never cheated on any of their ex boyfriends. Bitch please, if your telling me girls never change, then you're living in a lonely world son...

I can honestly tell you right now that 90% of the mothers I know of have cheated the fucking pants off their husbands, whether it was retaliatory cheating or because they're bored. And I know a LOT of mothers. I can think of at least 3-4 stories of women cheating without having to pick my brain about the details, because they all happened within the last year.

The point: all living things have libido, and it would seem your lady friend has a while before hers wears off. I'm sure she'll change, but I wouldn't assume it would be for you. That's like betting on a bicycle to win a game of chicken versus a Dodge Charger. But hey, if you like playing a loser's game, go for it. At least you'll get free sex and a few STDs out of it.

[CoMpOuNd]

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Kid calm your nuts, I never said I was marrying the bitch, never said I was in love with the bitch. Plus, what does me smoking weed have anything to do with this convo? Stfu and stop getting your panties in a twist. I'm done talking too you, you should just be done talking all together. You're confused go take a nap or something....

Also if you think all girls that cheat on their "mans" are whores, then your own mother is a whore(and all the mothers in the world)...

WORD.

[SlayerofBodom]

Kid calm your nuts,

Take that advice yourself, child. You just turned 19 years old, are emotionally immature, and are PMSing about this Romanian slut as if your life depended on her.

Re-read my post. Re-read Shotokan Symphony's excellent post above yours. Try not to smoke too much weed while you do it.

Read it carefully and slowly enough, and a little bit of it might even stick. Although considering how much of a moron loser you are, I wouldn't count on it.


I never said I was marrying the bitch, never said I was in love with the bitch.

Then why the fuck did you post asking for advice on getting over her, and told us that life just isn't the same without her?

I love how you deny and backpedal when you've been exposed as a semi-functional retard.


Plus, what does me smoking weed have anything to do with this convo? Stfu and stop getting your panties in a twist. I'm done talking too you, you should just be done talking all together. You're confused go take a nap or something....

Pretty weak insults. Might try to work on that instead of bragging about your pot usage online.

Speaking of which, smoking weed is fine, a bunch of my friends do it, but talking about it as if it was your main life's accomplishment on the Internet? It just makes you look like more a miserable dipshit than you already are, which is quite an accomplishment.


Also if you think all girls that cheat on their "mans" are whores, then your own mother is a whore(and all the mothers in the world)...

WORD.

I feel sorry for you if you think that every single woman in the world cheats on her man, and that your only choice is to date such a harpy.

Word.

Word.

Word.

[ProfessorS]

Yo, thanks koop and supa, sometimes I just have to be reminded of basic things like that. I'll give it a week or so.

On another note...yesterday when I was working(I work for the campus police) I see one of my fellow students at the library working on material for her sketch comedy group. She's there with her verrrry attractive friend. She introduces me, we talk, I'm actually very funny without being forced for once. I facebook friend this girl when I get home and I wake up the next day with a poke from her. Now, I have always considered Facebook poking a very spineless way of saying "Hello. I might be interested in having sex with you, return my poke if you feel the same way" ESPECIALLY if you just met the person or don't know them at all. What do you guys think? Any SRKers out there an expert on Facebook game?

Anyway I know SRK loves pics so...

http://img213.imageshack.us/img213/2933/diig3.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

A few notes about this girl:

Like I said, she's in a comedy troupe and an actress. From what I've noticed, girls like this tend to be a little weird, but much less shallow on the whole.

Personally, I think there has to be something wrong with this girl that I can't see. This girl is way too attractive to be single.

The girls invited me to the next show they have, and the afterparty to boot, so that'd probably be the place to make my move.

[Ryu1999]

To anyone who still cares, got a real date with that girl, so all that coffee speculation was rendered moot.

Now the question, after reading all the latest posts, becomes should I pay or not? :lol:

[TheWanderer]

K this is the actual word i asked her.


Me:hey i'm going to the movies this Fri or Sat, not sure when yet. You wanna come/
She:O, i don't know what i'm doing on those days, we'll see.


if she didnt want to go, wouldnt she just say NO, or is she letting me down easy?



this week is her last week at work, so i thought asking her out to the movies just as a friend, but she's probably thinking more. she'll probbaly say no. im trying to come up with an excuse and just cancel the date. any tip on that/

[Manny_O]

K this is the actual word i asked her.


Me:hey i'm going to the movies this Fri or Sat, not sure when yet. You wanna come/
She:O, i don't know what i'm doing on those days, we'll see.


if she didnt want to go, wouldnt she just say NO, or is she letting me down easy?

She's just saying that to be nice.

[TheWanderer]

any way for me to cancel the date/ i was gonna say my girl from NYC is coming back from college and i'm taking her out this week. but maybe thats too lame/ should i say a relative is comign to visit/





EDIT: this shit just came up. i promised a friend of mine that he could come over to game and hang n such last week, but i didnt keep my promise and he wanted to come over.this week i said to him that he could come over and i said i promise. but i asked out the girl on this same week. should i just cancel the date since she's gonna say NO anyway. would i sound fair here or an ass to her?

[aiy1tm]

Now, I have always considered Facebook poking a very spineless way of saying "Hello. I might be interested in having sex with you, return my poke if you feel the same way" ESPECIALLY if you just met the person or don't know them at all. What do you guys think?

I like to think of it this way.

There's even a facebook group that admits it http://uci.facebook.com/group.php?gid=2223261784 .

It's great. I poke pretty much all my female friends, sometimes just to be creepy. I am pretty sure most of them don't think this way though.

[KrassHole]

any way for me to cancel the date/ i was gonna say my girl from NYC is coming back from college and i'm taking her out this week. but maybe thats too lame/ should i say a relative is comign to visit/





EDIT: this shit just came up. i promised a friend of mine that he could come over to game and hang n such last week, but i didnt keep my promise and he wanted to come over.this week i said to him that he could come over and i said i promise. but i asked out the girl on this same week. should i just cancel the date since she's gonna say NO anyway. would i sound fair here or an ass to her?

Well there is no date to cancel so technically you dont have to say anything.


If shes just gonna give you ambiguous answers any time you ask her to chill do you really wanna deal with that?


and facebook poking doesn't mean anything @_@ I poke one of my best friends everyday she pokes me back and we've never banged or even talked about banging.

[ProfessorS]

Well update on the poke girl guys. I send her a message saying something along the lines of "Who do you think I am? I don't poke until the third date ;)"

She immediately IMs me and we start chatting.

She's coming over tomorrow to make dinner with me.

Hell fucking yes.

Those titties will be mine

http://img161.imageshack.us/img161/8453/di2bz0.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

She's the one on the left

[TheWanderer]

k i just pmed her saying this...


*name*...
i just remember i promised a buddy of mine he could come over last fri, but then i had to cancel it at the last minute cuz i had stuff to do. this week i promised him that he could come over this week, n i remember asking u if u wanted to come to the movies fri/sat. it was dumb of me to do that, i wasnt thinking clearly. so forget about the whole thing ok. but if u want to, then set it up sum other time n i'll c if im busy or not.



is this bad/

[MrBlank]

k i just pmed her saying this...


*name*...
i just remember i promised a buddy of mine he could come over last fri, but then i had to cancel it at the last minute cuz i had stuff to do. this week i promised him that he could come over this week, n i remember asking u if u wanted to come to the movies fri/sat. it was dumb of me to do that, i wasnt thinking clearly. so forget about the whole thing ok. but if u want to, then set it up sum other time n i'll c if im busy or not.



is this bad/

that much reading huh...

you wrote her a novel with way to much details and by telling her you werent thinking clearly just lowers outer value. Telling her to forget about the whole thing makes it pretty bad too. what if you got her thinking well she just doesnt want to go out at all with you anymore.

you could have said,

sorry sweetie i completely forgot that i had a buddy staying over for this weekend. Lets take a rain check on that outing and we can set something up for next weekend.

breakdown:

start with a simple apology, give her the reason. Then the alternative not as a question but a statement. Cause it sounds more like you are going to commit to the idea.

[Weta]

Those titties will be mine

http://img161.imageshack.us/img161/8453/di2bz0.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

She's the one on the left

That girl on the right....
...

....

wtf

[Havoc]

Well update on the poke girl guys. I send her a message saying something along the lines of "Who do you think I am? I don't poke until the third date ;)"

She immediately IMs me and we start chatting.

She's coming over tomorrow to make dinner with me.

Hell fucking yes.

Those titties will be mine

http://img161.imageshack.us/img161/8453/di2bz0.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

She's the one on the left

Good shit.

[pherai]

k i just pmed her saying this...


*name*...
i just remember i promised a buddy of mine he could come over last fri, but then i had to cancel it at the last minute cuz i had stuff to do. this week i promised him that he could come over this week, n i remember asking u if u wanted to come to the movies fri/sat. it was dumb of me to do that, i wasnt thinking clearly. so forget about the whole thing ok. but if u want to, then set it up sum other time n i'll c if im busy or not.



is this bad/

Ugh, scrub move. You don't need to explain shit to her, she didn't even say she wanted to go. You should be as vague as possible, and really, you don't need to tell her anything since you didn't commit to anything. There is nothing being canceled because she wasn't going to go anyway. You should have just forgot about it, chilled with your bud, and if she called been like "sorry, you didn't want to go so I did something else."

[ReloadChapstick]

k i just pmed her saying this...


*name*...
i just remember i promised a buddy of mine he could come over last fri, but then i had to cancel it at the last minute cuz i had stuff to do. this week i promised him that he could come over this week, n i remember asking u if u wanted to come to the movies fri/sat. it was dumb of me to do that, i wasnt thinking clearly. so forget about the whole thing ok. but if u want to, then set it up sum other time n i'll c if im busy or not.



is this bad/

Smooooth...real smooth.

You gave her too much detail and made yourself sound like a douche.
I mean, from what you said, it didn't sound like she was down so there was never anything set in stone. Therefore, there was no reason to cancel something that was never official.

Altogether it just doesn't seem like she's interested from what you posted before, to be honest.


sorry sweetie i completely forgot that i had a buddy staying over for this weekend. Lets take a rain check on that outing and we can set something up for next weekend.

breakdown:

start with a simple apology, give her the reason. Then the alternative not as a question but a statement. Cause it sounds more like you are going to commit to the idea.

Take notes. Something like this would've been more appropriate.

[supaman]

Well update on the poke girl guys. I send her a message saying something along the lines of "Who do you think I am? I don't poke until the third date ;)"

She immediately IMs me and we start chatting.

She's coming over tomorrow to make dinner with me.

Hell fucking yes.

Those titties will be mine

http://img161.imageshack.us/img161/8453/di2bz0.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

She's the one on the left
tig ol' bitties come on tittay!!!!

Oh yeah wtf is with her friend should have covered that sorry excuse for a buttaface

[MrBlank]

yeah that girl needs to keep her hair on the down.

[Asura]

My girlfriend thinks that sex should only be shared between two people that are in love. I tried explaining to her that two people can just have sex and not have any attraction at all. Because relationships aren't just physical attractions.

She said I basically told her "I'm going to cheat on you"

Do I stairs this bitch? I've tried several times to explain it to her that you can just fuck people and have a 'normal' relationship with someone. This is NOT what I want to do with her, but I was trying to show her that it is possible.

[MrBlank]

My girlfriend thinks that sex should only be shared between two people that are in love. I tried explaining to her that two people can just have sex and not have any attraction at all. Because relationships aren't just physical attractions.

She said I basically told her "I'm going to cheat on you"

Do I stairs this bitch? I've tried several times to explain it to her that you can just fuck people and have a 'normal' relationship with someone. This is NOT what I want to do with her, but I was trying to show her that it is possible.

ouch this is a bad situation you put yourself in, you pretty much broke her relationship security shield. your now a suspect... *spotlight*

You need to just bail on this one convo with her. Further proving may give her way too much insecurity and your going to just get accused of shit down the line you didnt even commit. just stop the conversation about it. that is unless you really want to prove it to her. Just show her a PORNO....

no seriously if two people have to be in LOVE for sex to work by her standards, cupid spent most of his time shooting arrows out of peter north cock into a womans mouth. Everyone in porno loves each other shit ron jeremy banged 4 girls at the same time and they all LOVE the hedgehog. They are just all in love and not married either, they love money shit.. shes delusional and i bet your girlfriend is a youngster isnt she. she hasnt come into the concept of casual sex yet so shes probably leading this fantasy type of thing about sex in her head.

tell your girl there is a difference between her personal values/beliefs and what is really possible for other people. I believe that harems were invented for sexual purposes only not LOVE. so why cant she believe that sex cannot be done without love? beats me... shes a lil crazy if you ask me.

[Asura]

shes delusional and i bet your girlfriend is a youngster isnt she. she hasnt come into the concept of casual sex yet so shes probably leading this fantasy type of thing about sex in her head.

She's is young. She comes from a family that sheltered her. Her mom and dad met each other when they were 14 and have been together since then. They're 35 and have 3 kids. So she thinks her life should be like that. I keep informing her that her life may or may not end up that way.

Then she just hits me with the whole "you're gonna cheat on me" and it pisses me off when she does that shit. But i'll take your advice and just steer away from that shit.

She's not speaking to me now and we live together. My normal reaction to this is to just let her pout the shit out for as long as she wants.. but I thin that its not the best way to go about it.

[Shotokan Symphony]

She's is young. She comes from a family that sheltered her. Her mom and dad met each other when they were 14 and have been together since then. They're 35 and have 3 kids. So she thinks her life should be like that. I keep informing her that her life may or may not end up that way.

Then she just hits me with the whole "you're gonna cheat on me" and it pisses me off when she does that shit. But i'll take your advice and just steer away from that shit.

She's not speaking to me now and we live together. My normal reaction to this is to just let her pout the shit out for as long as she wants.. but I thin that its not the best way to go about it.

Damn, you live with her, AND you said that? You kinda walked yourself into that one.

Still, if you're living with each other, there would've been evidence of you cheating around, unless you're out most of the time, which would actually make her paranoia understandable.

In any case, the ball's in your court now, and you may have to talk to her first.

[Havoc]

Your girl is naïve and delusional. I couldn't even be with somebody like that. Moral idealism is annoying. Reality FTW.

I wouldn't push the issue too much, but I wouldn't apologize, or put up with any accusations on cheating.

[Asura]

Damn, you live with her, AND you said that? You kinda walked yourself into that one.

Still, if you're living with each other, there would've been evidence of you cheating around, unless you're out most of the time, which would actually make her paranoia understandable.

In any case, the ball's in your court now, and you may have to talk to her first.

Thats the thing though. There has been no evidence of me cheating. She's even got her friends to put me in situations to see what I'd do. I know she's done it but she refuses to admit to it. I don't really go out clubbing either but thats a different story for a different post.

Oh well I'll just have to talk to her about it.

Thanks guys.

[the Raven]

looking for answers.

Have gotten myself involved in a love triangle. Began hanging with this girl who was/still is in a relationship. Things naturally progressed over the last couple months and I have caught feelings for her.

I decided to make my feelings known and as I had thought she feels the same towards me. Though the problem is that feelings remain with her boyfriend as well and she is now very confused as to how she should proceed.

can I just simply wait for her to choose what she should do? or should i be aggressive, tell her why I am better than this fool and be aggressive physically when we are together, etc?

[MrBlank]

^ wow.... love triangles are fucking tough...

i cant break this down atm im at work though but i may get back at this in the future if another member doesnt tackle this.

[kof4life]

looking for answers.

Have gotten myself involved in a love triangle. Began hanging with this girl who was/still is in a relationship. Things naturally progressed over the last couple months and I have caught feelings for her.

I decided to make my feelings known and as I had thought she feels the same towards me. Though the problem is that feelings remain with her boyfriend as well and she is now very confused as to how she should proceed.

can I just simply wait for her to choose what she should do? or should i be aggressive, tell her why I am better than this fool and be aggressive physically when we are together, etc?

If you become aggressive and she responds, thus cheating on her boyfriend, then what's to gaurantee that you would be safe from that? Basically, if she cheats on someone for you, she can very well cheat on you. I've said it before and I'll say it again: Girls that are already in a relationship are way too sketchy of an area. Even girls recovering from break-ups, and that's from experience. My 2 cents.

[JGD CHAOS]

Don't try to show her you are better than that guy. Even if you are better, don't do that or say anything bad about the guy she's with. There's a chance she could call things off if you do.

[Warpticon]

My girlfriend thinks that sex should only be shared between two people that are in love. I tried explaining to her that two people can just have sex and not have any attraction at all. Because relationships aren't just physical attractions.

She said I basically told her "I'm going to cheat on you"

Do I stairs this bitch? I've tried several times to explain it to her that you can just fuck people and have a 'normal' relationship with someone. This is NOT what I want to do with her, but I was trying to show her that it is possible.

Why is this conversation even worth having? Jesus, pick your fights intelligently.

[blackstar14]

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=4324153&postcount=2125

anything?

[MrBlank]

^ Your situation is typical frustrated shit.

All you gotta do is run game on her. if she goes out of her way to flirt with you flirt right back. Then try to playfully throw in comments that get her thinking like "Jeez you got your hands on me all the time like you own me, too bad you cant handle me." of course you gotta do this when shes flirting with you and touching you and stuff.

Try something cool on her like palm reading. just learn how to do palm reading for beginners online somewhere. so that way you can put her hand in your hand and you can tell her interesting stuff about herself. She will then get really used to your touch. then if she starts to get feely with you again catch her hand before she grabs you and pretend to bite her. do this all in a playful manner. then you can lean in and ask her whats shes wearing when she hugs you and slowly dip your head close to her neck and take a light sexy sniff. then say wow you smell just like this other girl you use to date. now i cant talk to you *turn around and shake your head playfully*. She will try to win your approval if she is attracted to you at all.

Remember your the damn shit and there is nobody but you she wants. So act like the damn prize your suppose to be. she will enjoy chasing you more if you continue to build attraction with her. If you dont have her number yet.

*NEW MISSION* Get them digits but dont flat out ask for it. that just seems desperate.

[the Raven]

^ wow.... love triangles are fucking tough...

i cant break this down atm im at work though but i may get back at this in the future if another member doesnt tackle this.

thanks i would like to hear your take on this.

this is absolutely quite a mess. its gotten to the point where she says its hard to talk to me or be around me because she has strong feelings towards me and feels like she's "emotionally cheating" on her boyfriend.

she has also said that there are things i have that he lacks, and things he has that i lack. basically i believe this all comes down to physical and emotional issues.

I am completely there for her emotionally and willing to help with her problems, though i happen to be quite the skinny, wimpy looking fellow who digs video games.

this other dude is a bodybuilder/ mma fighter in training, but he's a caveman who cant even hold a proper conversation

basically she is physically attracted to this guy while she likes my mind better than his. is there any way i can prove myself on a physical level? maybe disprove any thought that i wouldnt be as compatible sexually?

[pherai]

the Raven:

You're putting this girl through a pretty difficult situation. There is nothing you can do to prove yourself. Has she expressed any desire to leave this guy? Does it sound like she isn't happy with him? If the answers to these questions isn't a definite yes, you are probably wasting your time, and looking to get your ass kicked.

[MrBlank]

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Ok further details from your most recent perspective = bad news.

Now im sure there is the slim chance she wants you to be her man. But unfortunately the details you described are pretty much that of a "Friend".

you may have been super Friend Zoned. you probably don't realize it because maybe she flirts and stuff with you and it made you feel this way towards her. Its called cat string theory and girls use it on guys to keep them around as friends through their emotions.

Now let me tell you why i believe this is the case of the FZ.

You caught feelings for her, so this in your mind led you to believe the current scenario may tilt her your way cause of the way she has made you feel. BUT.... you said her feelings are towards her current relationship. *Bang* first shot

shes wondering how to proceed.... Second bullet... Shes not confused about how she wants to proceed with you. Im willing to bet she is wondering if she should continue to do what she has been doing with you. Your feelings may destroy what she has built with her current man. *Bang*

She enjoys what you offer her for the one thing her boyfriend cannot give her. Intellectual comfort and possibly emotional comfort. He may not be able to hold a conversation but ill tell you what he naturally attracted her. *Bang* Its not easy to take from these guys. Consider it our male territorial instincts. We protect what we invest in. Expect him to do the same.

There is no way for you to prove your better then him physically other then knocking him out with a single blow of sorts and even then that would make your a fucking jerk. You need to prove that you would be a better relationship then him. You probably hang out with her on a very exclusive level huh? not even paying other girls attention.

To snag girls regardless if they are taken or not. You have to first learn how to not hand them what they want. girls sense weakness in guys who bend to their will and spill their emotions right on the table. you already told her your feelings. that right there could have damaged your chances of getting her more then ever.

Your going to need other females help you sell yourself to her or even other fine ladies. If there was one thing i learned in high school. Girls love to fucking gossip. If you come off at weak to other girls that shit is going to spread and its going to damage your reputation and future chances with other ladies. If you make a fool out of yourself, girls around the school will be speaking about it in their little social circles. If you kiss a fucking girl right, and she gots a nice social circle. your going to be attractive as fuck to the other ladies.

So you need to start making friends with other girls and present yourself as the fucking shit. Dont do the nice guy shit, you need to do things that prove your a fucking great person to be around. Make any girls enjoy your presence. make yourself shine in the social scene. dress impressively, if your going to be a gamer be a gamer but dont make it something you revolve your life around when your at school. Sport a cool looking jacket with a gamer shirt. i do it all the time. style over my geekness to overall look appealing while still keeping it real with myself.

Then when you chill with her (girl with the bf), and you happen to see your other female friends start talking to them, keep her waiting for your attention in 3 to 4 minute intervals. Make her feel like your not even interested in her at all. This stuff makes women envious and question why you arent even on her sack.

theres a good chance though that you've been super friend zoned though. i cant promise that you will land her. but dont fall for the Oneitis guys usually fall for. Get yourself out in the open and let folks know how awesome it is to know you.

Confidence is important in being social. Being a social icon makes you popular in highschool. If girls talk nothing but good about you, you will be one attractive mother fucker. make acquaintances with as many people as you can a talk to as many strangers guy or girl as you can

Good luck buddy,
try to avoid falling into the friend zone in the future and become a social beast.

there really isnt much advice i can give you. you gotta work on your inner and outer game.

I can recommend some awesome links to help you with your game though. just let me know via PM ill give you the resources.

[capcomANDsnk]

story time...

me and this girl both went to the same college. both graduated this passed spring. both back home. although we've seen each other around and know mutual friends, we never spoke to each other in college.

i bumped into her at this event last wk, exchanged #s, called her a few days later to meet up for coffee on tues. she instead suggest this other event goin on that night and we grabbed some grub before the event. she also asked if i could give her a ride cuz her car's sketchy. oh and we each paid for our own food.

so i spent the whole night w/ her. shit was hella cooo. i got to know her real quick bout her fam, her personally and vice versa. lots of laughs cuz we both goofy. she's funny, all around good folks, grown ass woman.

some "unique" bout this situation:
she doesn't really have friends back home, don't really click w/ old friends. so it's a given she wanna kick it w/ me. which leads me to believe there's a high probability we'll just be friends.

and of course we're gonna hang out again soon, probly this wknd.

it might be early to tell but is this going anywhere? has she shown interest in being mo than friends? i'm kinda slow at detectin it.

[pherai]

Sounds like you're doing allright. Don't sweat it for now, and if after 2 or 3 dates it isn't going anywhere, then you'll know, and ditch it.

[Warpticon]

story time...

me and this girl both went to the same college. both graduated this passed spring. both back home. although we've seen each other around and know mutual friends, we never spoke to each other in college.

i bumped into her at this event last wk, exchanged #s, called her a few days later to meet up for coffee on tues. she instead suggest this other event goin on that night and we grabbed some grub before the event. she also asked if i could give her a ride cuz her car's sketchy. oh and we each paid for our own food.

so i spent the whole night w/ her. shit was hella cooo. i got to know her real quick bout her fam, her personally and vice versa. lots of laughs cuz we both goofy. she's funny, all around good folks, grown ass woman.

some "unique" bout this situation:
she doesn't really have friends back home, don't really click w/ old friends. so it's a given she wanna kick it w/ me. which leads me to believe there's a high probability we'll just be friends.

and of course we're gonna hang out again soon, probly this wknd.

it might be early to tell but is this going anywhere? has she shown interest in being mo than friends? i'm kinda slow at detectin it.

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Your av totally ruined this story for me.

[Koop]

looking for answers.

Have gotten myself involved in a love triangle. Began hanging with this girl who was/still is in a relationship. Things naturally progressed over the last couple months and I have caught feelings for her.

I decided to make my feelings known and as I had thought she feels the same towards me. Though the problem is that feelings remain with her boyfriend as well and she is now very confused as to how she should proceed.

can I just simply wait for her to choose what she should do? or should i be aggressive, tell her why I am better than this fool and be aggressive physically when we are together, etc?

Love triangles are not tough... People make them out to be tough... what should you do... if you ever have someone that cant return the affection/want/feelings at the rate you are putting out... you need to move on an leave it be... why constantly play yourself an waste your time constantly battling a 30/70 battle (30% you - 70% the other guy)... keep it movin playboy before you get deep an end up playing yourself... if she wants you she will show it fully an make that final move... till then keep it movin...

[Shotokan Symphony]

truth

100%. Raven, you have to understand: while you're catching a whiff of a free meal, that doesn't mean it's guaranteed. Move on and don't wast your time.

[MrBlank]

Story

So far your off to a great start, you've got the Digits, you have her comfortably going out with you. Don't talk like friends anymore. Time to start showing her your a guy she wants to be with. if you go out have her put her arm around your arm. if she holds tight around your arm she shown an indicator of interest, and you can escalate more touch related things such as holding hands and seeing if she squeezes your hand or funny story telling that she could possibly relate to while sitting next to each other. you can go to a coffee shop, then walk across to the conveniently placed bar across the street. Loosen up maybe dance with her and you can build that sexual attraction.

Try to sit as close as you can to her if your at a lounge area but lean back. let her try to poke her head into you when you talk. You can dip your head in close to her and smell her hair, ask her about her scent. by this period your head is close and you can look at her face to face. run your hand through her hair. if she closes her eyes while smiling then gives you a very bedroom eye kind of look you better kiss her and not in that rushdown kind of way. just a light but solid lip kiss. you always do that the first kiss never run your tongue forcefully down her throat.

if you date more and more with her, eventually the dating will become boring and she will naturally lose interest. who wouldnt if you went on 4 dates with pretty much the same content. you gotta remain interesting and continue to switch it up on her. keep her thinking you got plenty to offer with all these places you take her and get very touchy with her. if she is comfortable with your touch she will be able to accept you sexually also.

Either that or you can sit and wonder if she likes you... and let her do everything.... that has also worked... though not often from my personal experiences.

[supaman]

I <3 Mr Blank he's like SRK's Pick Up Artist lol

[ProfessorS]

Okay SRK, I had my date with "epic tits girl" last night

http://img161.imageshack.us/img161/8453/di2bz0.jpg :lovin: She's the one on the left

I picked her up from her place last night and we went over to mine around 7 PM. She had to leave at 10 PM though to go to writing for her comedy troupe. She made me a pinata to make up for this(inside joke between us). Yes, a pinata! We went to the store then back to my place. She broke the touch barrier first which was a surprise and I kissed her pretty early on. We ate our dinner, made nice conversation then went to my room to watch a DVD. We started tickling and play-fighting, and I won't lie, I caught a glimpse up her dress via a mirror in my room :rofl: We kissed some more, she is a fucking GREAT kisser, best I've ever had. She goes slow but makes you want more SO BAD. And those titties. My God...

I get cock blocked by MY ROOMMATE of all people who decides to come in and play 20 questions with her to "see if she is cool enough to hang out with us." On the bright side, he did suggest she play Guitar Hero which is good because she loved it. But still...I got no love for that cock block. She set her alarm for 10:15. "I'll be a little late, but it's worth it" she says. Awesome.

So 10:15 rolls around, I take her to the library where her troupe is meeting, I get a hug and a kiss and she say "Goodbye...wait what do I mean, I'll see you later!" On the way home, she calls me to tell me her writing session was moved and she's walking to it right now. I offered to pick her up and drive her because I am not cool with girls walking alone at night. She said it was close and she'd be fine so I stayed on the phone w/ her so she'd feel safe. AWWWWWWW.

Things are great so far aren't they? Well maybe. Here's the catch:

I think she's fucking nuts.

Around 12:30 she gets home and IMs me. I've updated my facebook status to a smiley (:D) because well, I was in a freaking good mood. She can't tell what that smiley means and I'm trying to be fun and light about it at first. Then out of no where, she gets a mood swing and is like "I'm serious" and she just starts acting REALLY weird, to top it off her font changes on her AIM. My reaction is basically "What?" She sends this to me.

"for some reason I am not myself right now so I am acting quite wierd. It is like crazy mood swings. I'm ususally not like that. I'm very calm and collected and I don't wig out like did. So I'm sorry. I'm just all over the place (one sec. I'm flirty the next I'm angry, then I'm disappointed, then I'm cold to you and now I'm trying to go back to normal)."

I tried my best not to be fazed by this weirdness. We talked about how tired we were after that and I suggested she come over and y'know sleep over here and she said she wanted to take that slow, she didnt even do that last year. Hrm. She rereassured me that she had fun hanging out and I was like "I'm gonna go to bed, the smiley was because I had a good time tonight etc etc." Then she was like "Sweet Dreams" and we both signed off.

So yeah, LOVELY girl, seems to like me a lot even though she's not 100% comfortable with me yet...but she might be crazy...got any thoughts SRK? The craziness might just be worth it in this case.

[MrBlank]

Most women go through mood swings anyhow. what you want to look for is psychotic behavior. such as if her anger shows her violent side. If she starts yelling at extremes for small lil arguments. see if she gets overly jealous if you talk to other women as if shes acting possessive of you even if that woman is taken.

You cant 100% predict a persons reaction to things but give this one a couple more dates. you almost got yours too.

Also you played it really well till your buddy cockblocked. you need to LOCK the door lol. then you can get your freak on if the time comes.

[pherai]

The craziness is a big plus for a fling, but will not bode well for a long term relationship. Take that as needed.

[akumachan]

looking for answers.

Have gotten myself involved in a love triangle. Began hanging with this girl who was/still is in a relationship. Things naturally progressed over the last couple months and I have caught feelings for her.

I decided to make my feelings known and as I had thought she feels the same towards me. Though the problem is that feelings remain with her boyfriend as well and she is now very confused as to how she should proceed.

can I just simply wait for her to choose what she should do? or should i be aggressive, tell her why I am better than this fool and be aggressive physically when we are together, etc?

Be agressive.


Sitting on your hands hoping she will someday make a choice will get you no where. IMO, in love and relationships you have to be out there to make yourself happy. And if a specific girl is the one that will make you happy then pursue (unless she hates you of course).


Of course, if she does not respond then walk away. No sense in pursuing a girl who doesnt want you. But if she has shown positive signs that you have a chance, then by all means, try it! if you sit there and try to be a gentleman, then she will assume that you really weren't all that interested.

but dont waste too much time on this. If she doesnt switch to your team quickly, then move on. as Koop said, you are already at a disadvantage.

I think that if she is special enough then it is worth a try. But not several tries.

-AC
rush that shit down (old)

[ckrazy]

AC has a point that you should fight for her but here my take on it. After "fighting" for a bit if it isn't going anywhere let it go. Fuck love triangles no one ends up happy all 3 of you are gonna be miserable. Well that how it went for me.

[pherai]

But if she has shown positive signs that you have a chance, then by all means, try it! if you sit there and try to be a gentleman, then she will assume that you really weren't all that interested.

You're a girl if I remember correctly right? I don't know how you could give advice like this. SOOO many women lead guys on for attention with no intention of ever being with them (yes including girls in relationships). I've seen this happen to friends of mine countless times.

[MrBlank]

^ yep i covered that in my post too.

He cant go completely off the positive signs.

[xero15]

well seeing as i just got repped for a comment i made on the sixth page i guess my advice is still helphin people so i will come back in this thread regularly now to see how things goin. is havoc still in here telling guys to stop being pussies?

[akumachan]

You're a girl if I remember correctly right? I don't know how you could give advice like this. SOOO many women lead guys on for attention with no intention of ever being with them (yes including girls in relationships). I've seen this happen to friends of mine countless times.


LOL, I know i've been away for a looong time if people are trying to remember if I am a girl. :rofl: eh, you're a Feb 06, so it's forgiven. :)

and I am giving that advice because if you do like someone then you should TRY.

If you dont try then you never know. BUT I also said that he should NOT expend too much energy in this. I'm not saying he should go out and spend money on her, nor am I saying he should act like a doormat for her. He should simply spend a small amount of time seeing if she is receptive to leaving her boyfriend. If not, then he should move on.

And responding does not just entail a smile or two. Responding means REALLY responding, like trying to jump your ass when you two are alone. Responding means dumping her boyfriend to be with you.

And my advice comes from my own personal life and the lives of my friends who are girls. I would not be married to my husband right now if he had not TRIED. I was already dating someone (engaged even). And he came along and convinced me that he was top tier and my fiancee was low tier. So I dumped my fiancee and started dating him. And now we're married. (it was a lot harder than the explanation tho)

Im not saying that every relationship will end up that way, all candy and fuckin roses. But if he had just decided that I was off limits because I was already in a relationship then we would NOT be happily married today.

Yes, it is difficult to tell what are fake signs and what are real signs from girls AND guys. But thus are the pitfalls of love. No one ever said it was easy.

Im just saying that he should put in a little effort and see what happens. But he should definitely NOT throw himself into this. Just a little exploratory effort.

-AC
been there done that

[dereklearnslow]

Mr. Blank has been reading those David D newsletters I tells ya.

[MrBlank]

im familiar with david de'angelos work. i like neil strauss's stuff better. Ill also admit ive been hanging with the seduction community as of late. very life changing experience for me.

[the Raven]

Be agressive.

thanks to everyone who gave their input and advice on this, i will try my best

[Havoc]

im familiar with david de'angelos work. i like neil strauss's stuff better. Ill also admit ive been hanging with the seduction community as of late. very life changing experience for me.

The seduction community?

We're back at this shit? Whatever happened to real life?

[dereklearnslow]

All those guys are awesome, and kudos for finding a seduction community in your area. I'm just lazy and apathetic.

[MrBlank]

The seduction community?

We're back at this shit? Whatever happened to real life?

This is real life, you fail to see what life is about for some people.

i enjoy being a part of the seduction community. for the same reasons you attracted to this forum for fighting games. ive found a community that was forged for people like me.

you shouldnt judge something you do not completely understand.

Yo Derek where do you live? i can probably find a community in your area.

[Havoc]

This is real life, you fail to see what life is about for some people.

i enjoy being a part of the seduction community. for the same reasons you attracted to this forum for fighting games. ive found a community that was forged for people like me.

you shouldnt judge something you do not completely understand.

Yo Derek where do you live? i can probably find a community in your area.

Ummm... I understand it completely.

It's a bunch of losers who couldn't get girls in high school coming together, creating fake personas, and coming up with strategies and techniques to get pussy. It's pretty pathetic.

Normal guys that can get girls at will don't get into this shit. Even the guys at the head of this whole scene are just reformed losers. They're still losers, they just decided to try to hide it.

[MrBlank]

Ummm... I understand it completely.

It's a bunch of losers who couldn't get girls in high school coming together, creating fake personas, and coming up with strategies and techniques to get pussy. It's pretty pathetic.

Normal guys that can get girls at will don't get into this shit. Even the guys at the head of this whole scene are just reformed losers. They're still losers, they just decided to try to hide it.

:wink: yeah you know everything about the seduction community.... :rolleyes:

Normal guys do not get girls at will.

i know plenty of "Normal" guys. these are the guys who get dissed by girls at bars. if your talking about being some sort of pretty boy with lots of money as Normal. you are far mistaken.

You cant be a loser if you successfully make it to the end result. Sleeping with women. something everyone strives for.

[TheSix]

Ummm... I understand it completely.

It's a bunch of losers who couldn't get girls in high school coming together, creating fake personas, and coming up with strategies and techniques to get pussy. It's pretty pathetic.

Normal guys that can get girls at will don't get into this shit. Even the guys at the head of this whole scene are just reformed losers. They're still losers, they just decided to try to hide it.

....which goes to show you don't understand it at all. What's "normal" for one you, isn't what's normal for someone else.

Normal guys aren't going to walk up to a women and be able to create attraction. In fact, most "normal" guys I know(who have girlfriends constantly), can't even fathom the idea of walking up to a stranger.

Enjoy being constricted to confines of your social circle.

With that said, I'm past using methods(started out With David D...then PU101,etc). All direct, all the time now.

[phae]

Ummm... I understand it completely.

It's a bunch of losers who couldn't get girls in high school coming together, creating fake personas, and coming up with strategies and techniques to get pussy. It's pretty pathetic.

Normal guys that can get girls at will don't get into this shit. Even the guys at the head of this whole scene are just reformed losers. They're still losers, they just decided to try to hide it.

NOW WITH 9.5 MG MORE PUA

[Warpticon]

Got something like a date with a 18 year old chick tonight. This is going to be all sorts of interesting.

[DarkNecrid]

"You cant be a loser if you successfully make it to the end result. Sleeping with women. something everyone strives for."

not really, sleeping with women is overrated, pretty much just find a lady i can hang with 1-on-1 and talk about shit with and love but sleeping with women is completely overrated.

[MrBlank]

yes you totally took that out of context...

and relationships are just as overrated as your explanation of sleeping with women.

[pherai]

not really, sleeping with women is overrated, pretty much just find a lady i can hang with 1-on-1 and talk about shit with and love but sleeping with women is completely overrated.

Most men pick up women with the intention of having sex. If you want a woman just to talk to thats fucking easy. Almost any chick will take another leech to make them feel important if they don't have to give up sex.

[Warpticon]

The stupidity starts in about 15 minutes.

Wish me...something.

[kane_warhead]

How do you convert a lesbian?

[DarkNecrid]

You don't.

[TheSix]

There is no such thing as a lesbian.

[kane_warhead]

I have alot of friends who are lesbians and they're pretty hot too. And yeah I want to screw some of them...

[Warpticon]

I think I have to take the quotes off the "date" and just call it a date.

I think the girl is into me. She told me I make her nervous. I apologized, and she said it was a good thing. So, yeah.

GOOD LORD THAT GIRL IS QUIET.

[SirFritzalot]

*Sigh* I need help getting over a girl. I'm in a situation where I need to get over her because I have stuff I need to focus on...

We broke up a while ago, but we'd still talk alot and shit. We broke up cause my sister jumped her...she was afraid to go back out with me, but I promised that my sister wouldn't do it again...

But she did do it again. And now she won't even speak to me.

Now I don't know what to do. I'm fuckin up at work, and at school. I can't seem to keep my focus up at all...

She called me the day it happened and was like "I should hate you right now..."

Then she called me the day that she was going to get a restraining order on my sister and told me she couldn't talk to me anymore...I haven't heard from her since.

It's not like she doesn't love me or anything, but I don't know any way to try to get her back or any way to try to get my sister off her back. It's not like I can promise her my sister won't try anything again, because I've already shown her how much my word means already...

And now I can't stop thinking about her...even when I talk to other girls, I seem to find myself calling them Tia, and it's really fucking me up...

Plus she's pretty pissed at me...I haven't heard from her in about to be 2 weeks...

-Fritz:sad:

[ckrazy]

*Sigh* I need help getting over a girl. I'm in a situation where I need to get over her because I have stuff I need to focus on...

We broke up a while ago, but we'd still talk alot and shit. We broke up cause my sister jumped her...she was afraid to go back out with me, but I promised that my sister wouldn't do it again...

But she did do it again. And now she won't even speak to me.

Now I don't know what to do. I'm fuckin up at work, and at school. I can't seem to keep my focus up at all...

She called me the day it happened and was like "I should hate you right now..."

Then she called me the day that she was going to get a restraining order on my sister and told me she couldn't talk to me anymore...I haven't heard from her since.

It's not like she doesn't love me or anything, but I don't know any way to try to get her back or any way to try to get my sister off her back. It's not like I can promise her my sister won't try anything again, because I've already shown her how much my word means already...

And now I can't stop thinking about her...even when I talk to other girls, I seem to find myself calling them Tia, and it's really fucking me up...

Plus she's pretty pissed at me...I haven't heard from her in about to be 2 weeks...

-Fritz:sad:

How old is your sister she really need to grow up seriously.
Best advice to get over anyone is "time" trust me it doesn't matter how many other chicks you talk to it just going to take time for you to forget about her.

[pherai]

Woah woah, what the fuck is up with your sister? Why did she jump her? Were you around? I'd be trying to take care of that.

[akumatrunigga]

*Sigh* I need help getting over a girl. I'm in a situation where I need to get over her because I have stuff I need to focus on...

We broke up a while ago, but we'd still talk alot and shit. We broke up cause my sister jumped her...she was afraid to go back out with me, but I promised that my sister wouldn't do it again...

But she did do it again. And now she won't even speak to me.

Now I don't know what to do. I'm fuckin up at work, and at school. I can't seem to keep my focus up at all...

She called me the day it happened and was like "I should hate you right now..."

Then she called me the day that she was going to get a restraining order on my sister and told me she couldn't talk to me anymore...I haven't heard from her since.

It's not like she doesn't love me or anything, but I don't know any way to try to get her back or any way to try to get my sister off her back. It's not like I can promise her my sister won't try anything again, because I've already shown her how much my word means already...

And now I can't stop thinking about her...even when I talk to other girls, I seem to find myself calling them Tia, and it's really fucking me up...

Plus she's pretty pissed at me...I haven't heard from her in about to be 2 weeks...

-Fritz:sad:

First of all what did this young lady do to you in order for your sister to jump her in the first place twice? You have to give us the full story in both sides of this.


Ummm... I understand it completely.

It's a bunch of losers who couldn't get girls in high school coming together, creating fake personas, and coming up with strategies and techniques to get pussy. It's pretty pathetic.

Normal guys that can get girls at will don't get into this shit. Even the guys at the head of this whole scene are just reformed losers. They're still losers, they just decided to try to hide it.There some truth to that in a way. The majority of the men in that category or the ones who writes the book were in that situation of not getting noticed by women and now are considered "pick-up artists" after a simple thing called "trial and error". To be honest if you simply just get your life in check, keep yourself in shape, dress well and sharp, a simple smile and greeting every morning to the fairer sex is all you need.

[MrBlank]

There some truth to that in a way. The majority of the men in that category or the ones who writes the book were in that situation of not getting noticed by women and now are considered "pick-up artists" after a simple thing called "trial and error". To be honest if you simply just get your life in check, keep yourself in shape, dress well and sharp, a simple smile and greeting every morning to the fairer sex is all you need.

Normally i would have just agreed. but when i think about it, this is just way too vague.

Ive been dressing up nice, keeping myself in shape, smile all the time and speak to all kinds of women. your outer attraction is only a step in gaining a foot in the door with women. women test you all the time, they do these shit tests to find if your even worth being a potential mate. you fail any of those tests your going home to kick rocks.

There is way more to it then what you just said. This is like trying to raffle yourself off to the most easiest women ever (physical attraction only). Alot of people do these things daily. I go to the club i see every fucking person dressed neatly, smelling ready to go and smiling like champs, yet girls aren't walking up to them READY to go. you still gotta approach them and if you come off as this really nice guy they are going to just suspect your ass is trying to holla at them.

girls get approached by these so called nice looking guys all the fucking time. These dudes probably hope they look good enough to get at the girl cause of all the reasons you listed above. The I have a boyfriend routine pops up to these nice guys and they get GGPO.

My homegirls who are Single do it all the time when i go out with them. they just tell the guys they got boyfriends hahaha i fucking laugh at that shit all the time. They even admit most of these guys are cute but the approach is just too lame.

but what your saying isnt wrong at all. Its a great direction to take in improving your attractiveness. but you gotta work on your inner game too. you gotta be mentally prepared to handle the shit the women throw out to test you.

[Koop]

How do you convert a lesbian?

you dont... but you definitely use them to gain access to other pussy... remember they like what you like.. plus they know the inside scoop an can put a bug in the ear of your target if needed...

love my lesbian ladies...

[MrBlank]

^ i gotta second you on that one. lesbian women make fantastic pivots. they raise your value because they brush off alot of guys other then yourself who is their friend and girls see that thinking you must got something. speaking of which this last weekend i spent chillen with my lady loving homegirls. Met alot of great people friday and saturday.

[ProfessorS]

Hey SRK, I need your input again. I think I'm dealing with my first woman that I can't figure out. Most girls I figure out either like me a lot or don't like me at all.

Anyway, I've been hanging out w/ epic tits girl lately. She's the one on the left.

http://img161.imageshack.us/img161/8453/di2bz0.jpg

Met her at work last Tuesday, she came over Thursday night. Friday afternoon she came over. Messed around, got her naked(no sex though...she's a virgin! Aaaaah shit). I think she can be broken though. Saturday night she came over briefly to hang out with my friends and I. All signs says she likes me, even though she strikes me as a little crazy/moody at times.

Sunday night she called me after I went to sleep and left a message. Nothing major just a "hey if you get this soon, give me a call back, otherwise talk to ya later hun." I sent her a text this morning in class that said "Hey, when are you free today? I might need a study buddy later ;)" She didn't respond but when I got out of class she called. She told me she was frustrated by how busy she was today and probably couldn't hang out. I understand it, coz really is involved in a lot of shit. I was like "cool, talk to you later."

15 minutes later she calls and says "Hey I'm gonna clean my room and try to take a nap, but around noon do you, I don't know want to come over and eat lunch and watch Family Guy with me.?" I was like "I'm going to the gym, but I should be done by then, sure." I'm hoping to get some action, honestly.

I go over, we eat lunch, I can tell she's not in a great mood. At least she's not on the "high" that she usually is. But she cheered up as time passed. We watched Family Guy on her bed in her dorm room. not a whole lot going on, the occasional kiss, I gave her a massage and she popped my back for me. She seemed paranoid about her roommate coming by. I forget how this came up but she said that she's like "I want a relationship right now, but I don't." I said "Who said I wanted a relationship?". I let it slip that I kinda like her. Whoops. She tries to tell me she's crazy or whatever. We then looked at her pics on her computer and she read me some scripts from her comedy troupe.

She told me that she "builds up things" in her head, which I don't really know WTF that means. Like unrealistic expectations I think. And that she didn't want to hurt me ever. I said "you think I might hurt you?" She's like "no, you're nice, I don't deal with jerks." I might have salvaged this all by saying "Listen, I'm not looking for anything serious at the moment but I have a good time hanging out with you and I want to keep doing what we're doing...but if you're ever free, give me a call and we can play Guitar Hero or something" She responds by saying she has a good time with me and would call me. We hug and kiss, then she leaves for class. She seems confused.

She just sent me a text saying "thanks 4 being such a sweetheart." Honestly, I'm not used to dealing with chicks like this. The girls I usually see are end up being very hot, or very cold towards me. This one is both. For the record I do kinda like this chick and I think it'd be alright to have a relationship with her. Not sure how to interpret her actions. Any insight? Am I going to fast? Or am I not playing "the game" well enough?

[pherai]

There some truth to that in a way. The majority of the men in that category or the ones who writes the book were in that situation of not getting noticed by women and now are considered "pick-up artists" after a simple thing called "trial and error". To be honest if you simply just get your life in check, keep yourself in shape, dress well and sharp, a simple smile and greeting every morning to the fairer sex is all you need.

Na brah. I know plenty of guys who dress well and by all means have things together, but their nice guy act fails. You talk like you're the only one speaking from experience, but not everyone is just naturally lucky with girls. No matter how much you have things together won't make up for being clueless about how women work.

[akumatrunigga]

Normally i would have just agreed. but when i think about it, this is just way too vague.

Ive been dressing up nice, keeping myself in shape, smile all the time and speak to all kinds of women. your outer attraction is only a step in gaining a foot in the door with women. women test you all the time, they do these shit tests to find if your even worth being a potential mate. you fail any of those tests your going home to kick rocks.

There is way more to it then what you just said. This is like trying to raffle yourself off to the most easiest women ever (physical attraction only). Alot of people do these things daily. I go to the club i see every fucking person dressed neatly, smelling ready to go and smiling like champs, yet girls aren't walking up to them READY to go. you still gotta approach them and if you come off as this really nice guy they are going to just suspect your ass is trying to holla at them.

girls get approached by these so called nice looking guys all the fucking time. These dudes probably hope they look good enough to get at the girl cause of all the reasons you listed above. The I have a boyfriend routine pops up to these nice guys and they get GGPO.

My homegirls who are Single do it all the time when i go out with them. they just tell the guys they got boyfriends hahaha i fucking laugh at that shit all the time. They even admit most of these guys are cute but the approach is just too lame.

but what your saying isnt wrong at all. Its a great direction to take in improving your attractiveness. but you gotta work on your inner game too. you gotta be mentally prepared to handle the shit the women throw out to test you.


I understand where you are coming from and I have friends like that as well. I have a young lady friend who wears a wedding ring just to dust off clowns and what not. Matter of fact regarding your lady friends I bet that another set of women would have said something completely diferrent than what they said. So what?

Basically what im trying to say is we are overanalyzing another everyday social exchange. You try one "routine" if it fails move on to the next "routine" until you find the one that works and stick with it. Again it is "Trial and Error"


Na brah. I know plenty of guys who dress well and by all means have things together, but their nice guy act fails. You talk like you're the only one speaking from experience, but not everyone is just naturally lucky with girls. The nice guy act? Man it is called showing resepct when you walk pass a person in the morning without having your head down or looking away a like a bitch when you are on your way to your job, class, church or any setting. Today, everyone is walking around mean and evil as hell. Shit you are alive fool smile every once in while.No matter how much you have things together won't make up for being clueless about how women work
But then again the you and all of us here on SRK is just as clueless as the next guy out there when it comes to women. When it comes to women it is an educational guess no more than that.

[akumachan]

Hey SRK, I need your input again. I think I'm dealing with my first woman that I can't figure out. Most girls I figure out either like me a lot or don't like me at all.


*snip the rest*


I think a generally good rule of thumb is dont waste time on someone who doesn't know what they want.

she is a confused virgin, and she is already warning you off of her. And if I were you, I would take her advice. It sounds to me like she wants to keep you dancing on a string.

As far as getting some action. I say go ahead and expend the effort to get her in bed. She seems like she's interested in it, but if she really is a virgin, she's going to be really apprehensive about it, because it's unknown territory for her.

So IMO, you should stick around long enough to get your action, and then distance yourself. Cruel? maybe. but IMO you'll be doing her a favor. And she's not treating you so well either. Being hot and cold to a friend or possible significant other is not nice. She's obviously curious about sex with you by this point. and meaningless sex will teach her a little more about life. (be safe of course.)

But as far as a relationship goes at this point, I wouldnt if I were you. She sounds WAY to insecure for that.

-AC
get in get out

[NekoSempai]

-AC
get in get out

Wow. I'm amazed this advice comes from a woman. Not to stereotype, but women tend to be more sympathetic towards one another. How's an insecure girl SUPPOSED to gain confidence if she's considered not date-able due to her own inexperience and virgin induced ideals? She's obviously confused and if she doesn't know what she wants, it wouldn't be very hard to convince her one way or the other. Her 'I want to be in a relationship, but I don't' sounds more to me like "I want to be in a relationship, but I don't want to commit unless you can convince it'll match up to whatever crazy ideals are in my head'.

It's the typical story of a girl that doesn't know what she wants. Clearly she's into the OP, as she's gotten naked for ya.:clap: It just really comes down to if you're up for being the one to take on a typical college virgin that's borderline ready to lose it. If she's not interested in a relationship now due to whatever illusions of grandeur her mind has set up for her, she likely will be the second you put your dick in her. If not she'll be plenty more clingy and wanting to hang out than she currently is.

If you're looking to hit it and quit it, you're already long on the right track. The backlash could be catastrophic though, as it's one thing to hit and quit, but hit and quit on a virgin that you'd see around campus all the time and probably has some shared friends with you = BAD IDEA. Good luck getting future college pussy if she's a spiteful one. And going by personal experience, drama majors in theater troupes tend to be.

If you actually do want to consider a relationship with the girl, it's just a matter of continuing to do what you're doing. Feigning disinterest in a relationship while being interested works wonders in such a situation. Just prepare yourself for the potential insanity that comes with dating such a girl. If you think you can handle it, god-speed. Otherwise, don't end up regretting your actions later.

[w1r3d]

ProfessorS, if you don't mind my asking, how old are you? how old is she? Just curious.

[Silentness!]

So I'm been going to a fake club... I've been grinding with some black chicks lately. About 3 weeks ago the hottest white chick on the dance floor walked right up to me and started grinding on me.

(My mind was boggled like this emoticon :confused: ) The problem is I fucking suck at grinding. I tried hard (HAHAHA pun intended) to follow her movements, but I got owned and looked like a newb.
_____________
Someone give me some grinding tips before I embarass myself at a real club.

[ProfessorS]

ProfessorS, if you don't mind my asking, how old are you? how old is she? Just curious.

I'm 23, she's 19. I didn't know she was that young when I met her though.

By the way, she sent me a text an hour after the first one that said "i hope u can forgive me. i really hate myself right now." Haven't responded yet. Not really planning on it...

[pherai]

Wow. I'm amazed this advice comes from a woman. Not to stereotype, but women tend to be more sympathetic towards one another.

It's called good advice. Why should she give him advice that is more beneficial to the chick than to him if hes asking?

[CoMpOuNd]

I'm 23, she's 19. I didn't know she was that young when I met her though.

By the way, she sent me a text an hour after the first one that said "i hope u can forgive me. i really hate myself right now." Haven't responded yet. Not really planning on it...

Why arent you planning on msging her back? Is she good looking? if not I can understand, but the age difference isn't that big of a deal. 23-19, that's 4 years, and she's over 18, so hit that shit with the quickness if she's sexy...

word.

[ProfessorS]

Why arent you planning on msging her back? Is she good looking? if not I can understand, but the age difference isn't that big of a deal. 23-19, that's 4 years, and she's over 18, so hit that shit with the quickness if she's sexy...

word.

Yeah she's real good looking, take a look at the pic I attched a few messages ago. Easily the best looking girl I've been involved with. I'm not messaging her back because well...whether she's aware of it or not, this is like a game y'know? I'm gonna lay low for a day or two then hit her back.

[MAGUS1234]

19 to 23 is a wierd gap though, like 22 and up the gaps don't mean shit. At 18-21 it's a gamble IMHO.(Im 23)

[TheSix]

I'm 23, she's 19. I didn't know she was that young when I met her though.

By the way, she sent me a text an hour after the first one that said "i hope u can forgive me. i really hate myself right now." Haven't responded yet. Not really planning on it...

As long as she is over 18(or W/E the legal age of your state is), then why do you feel weird about it?

Nothing wrong with it in my book.

[Warpticon]

19 to 23 is a wierd gap though, like 22 and up the gaps don't mean shit. At 18-21 it's a gamble IMHO.(Im 23)

These are arbitrary numbers. It doesn't mean anything in and of itself. The difference is pretty minor in this range.

[NekoSempai]

It's called good advice. Why should she give him advice that is more beneficial to the chick than to him if hes asking?

Good advice is subjective. Just because you agree to it doesn't exactly make it good. Of course, nor does it make mine good.

Hitting and quitting on a virgin that goes to your school still sounds like all kinds of a bad idea to me.

[MAGUS1234]

These are arbitrary numbers. It doesn't mean anything in and of itself. The difference is pretty minor in this range.

Not in my opinion or experiance.....lol
see how that works

[RoninChaos]

achan is a harlot. That's her damn problem. But her advice is sound.

lol at the new kids going "Wow, a woman is saying this?!". You should come around more, achan. Stop suprising these kids like this.

[kane_warhead]

I think a generally good rule of thumb is dont waste time on someone who doesn't know what they want.

she is a confused virgin, and she is already warning you off of her. And if I were you, I would take her advice. It sounds to me like she wants to keep you dancing on a string.

As far as getting some action. I say go ahead and expend the effort to get her in bed. She seems like she's interested in it, but if she really is a virgin, she's going to be really apprehensive about it, because it's unknown territory for her.

So IMO, you should stick around long enough to get your action, and then distance yourself. Cruel? maybe. but IMO you'll be doing her a favor. And she's not treating you so well either. Being hot and cold to a friend or possible significant other is not nice. She's obviously curious about sex with you by this point. and meaningless sex will teach her a little more about life. (be safe of course.)

But as far as a relationship goes at this point, I wouldnt if I were you. She sounds WAY to insecure for that.

-AC
get in get out

I have a bad experience with a meaningless sex with a virgin.

She felt that she has been used... and now has far more repressed herself from boys. She's still acting like a virgin who has no experience with sex, and she hates me with all of her guts.

[akumachan]

I have a bad experience with a meaningless sex with a virgin.

She felt that she has been used... and now has far more repressed herself from boys. She's still acting like a virgin who has no experience with sex, and she hates me with all of her guts.

Oh well. That's her problem.

Thats another reason to distance yourself after meaningless sex.

Unless you and the girl have a good understanding friends-with-benefits type of relationship, then you pretty much have to get the hell out after sex.

at some point during their sex life, every girl feels used. You get over it and move on. and it teaches you a little more about sex and life.

-AC
realistic

[w1r3d]

I'm 23, she's 19. I didn't know she was that young when I met her though.

well, if you only want her for sex then I have nothing to say (as gay as it might sound, I'm not that kinda guy). If I were in your shoes (literally) and I knew that she's a nice girl and stuff, I'd keep her. She's definitely a very cute/hot girl, you can tell she likes you, she's a virgin, etc. In my eyes, if she were a Christian girl, that would pretty much seal the deal.

Sorry for saying a whole lot of nothing. To be honest I don't know much about girls, I just saw the pic (hot) + fact that she's nice + virgin and I was like O_O he's lucky. It's your call at the end of the day.

[akumachan]

Neko: Im all about being nice to people in general, but as pherai said, professors is looking for advice for himself, not for the girl. And he seems mostly interested in getting laid. Im a woman, but Im a realistic woman.

Also, I have little to no sympathy for a girl who is CLEARLY jerking professors around.

I am probably at least 10 years older than most of you guys. I am married, I have been engaged twice, I have been through many of relationships (some serious, some just for fun), and I have the benefit of being a girl. So I generally know how girls think. I also happen to feel a little sorry for guys since they haven't the slightest clue how girls think.

Am I betraying my team? Maybe.

RC: Hey manslut, You got time to chat tomorrow??? I have been meaning to call you, but all the drugs make me forget :( :p and the only reason I have been here lately is because my unemployed ass doesnt have much else to do.

-AC
town harlot

[kane_warhead]

Oh well. That's her problem.

Thats another reason to distance yourself after meaningless sex.

Unless you and the girl have a good understanding friends-with-benefits type of relationship, then you pretty much have to get the hell out after sex.

at some point during their sex life, every girl feels used. You get over it and move on. and it teaches you a little more about sex and life.

-AC
realistic

The funny thing is she's like the poster-child for virginity in our circle. She acts like she didn't have one, and nobody believes me that we did it.

Well they can't explain why she hates my guts though even though we were so tight before.

[akumachan]

well, if you only want her for sex then I have nothing to say (as gay as it might sound, I'm not that kinda guy). If I were in your shoes (literally) and I knew that she's a nice girl and stuff, I'd keep her. She's definitely a very cute/hot girl, you can tell she likes you, she's a virgin, etc. In my eyes, if she were a Christian girl, that would pretty much seal the deal.

Sorry for saying a whole lot of nothing. To be honest I don't know much about girls, I just saw the pic (hot) + fact that she's nice + virgin and I was like O_O he's lucky. It's your call at the end of the day.

Im curious... why do guys like the fact that girls are virgins??

I mean other than the fact that you get to be the first person to rock that shit.

Other than that I see no benefits.

because IMO, when you sleep with a girl who was previously a virgin:

They get clingy and most girls tend to equate sex with love. So then you have a girl who thinks she loves you and you love her simply because you guys got really friendly.

It is far less likely that a virgin knows how to give a good blowjob.

Most likely the girl did NOT enjoy herself. I dont care WHAT she told you afterwards, but msost all girls do NOT enjoy their first time, since they have no idea what is really going on, nor do they know how their bodies work. For girls, enjoyment takes practice.



-AC
just curious

[akumachan]

The funny thing is she's like the poster-child for virginity in our circle. She acts like she didn't have one, and nobody believes me that we did it.

Well they can't explain why she hates my guts though even though we were so tight before.


screwing around with someone who is in your tight circle of friends is not a good idea unless you both agree that it's just sex. Even then it can have its pitfalls. Because girls still attach a hell of a lot more emotion to sex than guys do.

Especially if they have good orgasms IMO.

basically its like this:

Guys can do things (like sex) to simply fulfill a desire, and there are no strings attached. Girls have meanings behind EVERYTHING they do and say. It might not be clear or apparent, but there is a meaning there.


It's like the birthday cake example. Lets say you work in an office and its someone's birthday and there is a giant cake to celebrate. But everyone just had a huge lunch and they are stuffed.

Now the guys look at the cake and say "no thanks. Im stuffed. Let's just eat it tomorrow"

The girls will say "I'll have a piece now. but just a little bit since we just ate"

Why?????

Because of the message and the meta-message.

Guys see the message. Guys see the cake for what it is. It's a piece of food. And since they arent hungry then they dont need the food.

But girls see the META-message. They see the cake as a symbol of somone's birthday, and since TODAY is the birthday, then we have to eat the cake TODAY, even if no one is hungry.

This is why girls often seem silly and irrational. The faster guys understand this about girls then the faster they will understand why girls do some of the things they do.

It takes a lot for girls to get past their hardwired propensity for adding meaning or seeing meaning behind everything they or someone else does. And even if they learn how to see the world how guys see it, they will never fully let go of the meta-message.

-AC
IMO leave the meaningless sex only with people outside the circle.

[*InVeRs3*]

it seems like everyone's in the seduction community.

aren't people, particularly the O.G.s, afraid of an oversaturation of dudes who know the game as it becomes more and more popular? I'm seeing some of these guys on tv.

Pretty soon everyone's going to know, girls will catch on, and it'll come back down to looks and money from what i understand.

[pherai]

it seems like everyone's in the seduction community.

aren't people, particularly the O.G.s, afraid of an oversaturation of dudes who know the game as it becomes more and more popular? I'm seeing some of these guys on tv.

Pretty soon everyone's going to know, girls will catch on, and it'll come back down to looks and money from what i understand.

Imo, there will always be more schmucks who think they are losers if they try to improve their game.

[RoninChaos]

RC: Hey manslut, You got time to chat tomorrow??? I have been meaning to call you, but all the drugs make me forget :( :p and the only reason I have been here lately is because my unemployed ass doesnt have much else to do.

-AC
town harlot

Yeah, I will, you tramp. We do need to catch up so hit me up, I'll be at work 12 my time so I'll probably be taking my break between 3 and 4. Are you an hour behind Cali time now or is it all the same time zone?

You okay? There's a bunch of shit we gotta catch up on. Things have been... interesting. lol

[MrBlank]

it seems like everyone's in the seduction community.

aren't people, particularly the O.G.s, afraid of an oversaturation of dudes who know the game as it becomes more and more popular? I'm seeing some of these guys on tv.

Pretty soon everyone's going to know, girls will catch on, and it'll come back down to looks and money from what i understand.

there are billions of people on this planet. it was still over saturated 1000 years ago. there is no fear. people have been doing this shit for years and there are women who have actually read books like THE GAME. do you really think girls are going to be going blow over guys who make them feel comfortable?

its up to the person who takes what he knows and learns to get what he want. if you wanna become rich you gotta have a gameplan. if you want to pass your tests you gotta study. learning attraction and seduction isnt bad at all. its made plenty of people more satisfied with their lives. They find the girl they always wanted to get.

everyone can understand the concept of running game. Doesnt mean shit if you dont use any of it. there could be an entire movie on being a pick up artist and it wouldnt mean shit really.

guys dont suddenly become a pick up artist. THEY DO NOT LABEL them selfs a pick up artist. you dont walk around bragging your a pick up artist. posers do that shit as if it makes them fucking cool and those are the idiots who dont understand at all what a real pick up artist does and ruin the image of the seduction community.

[Infernoman]

ok a friend came to me tonight with this issue:

ok my friend (who I'll refer to as Bob) is liking a girl, and this girl may move in with Bob but she wont move in till next semester of his classes. Problem is...she's kinda liking another guy and they're (bob) not going out though she kinda wants to see what it would be like with him (the other guy) and and even then shes moving away from guy she might like...but if he only likes her as friend then no problem. so my friend Bob is stuck wondering, confront the guy? wait on going after her? (he's known her for years and the guy doesn't know my friend Bob likes her but kinda likes the guy)

hope that didn't sounded too confusing...all I know is...my friend is stupid to let her move in...ESPECIALLY if she's kinda liking some other guy...what ya'll think?

[kane_warhead]

screwing around with someone who is in your tight circle of friends is not a good idea unless you both agree that it's just sex. Even then it can have its pitfalls. Because girls still attach a hell of a lot more emotion to sex than guys do.

Especially if they have good orgasms IMO.

basically its like this:

Guys can do things (like sex) to simply fulfill a desire, and there are no strings attached. Girls have meanings behind EVERYTHING they do and say. It might not be clear or apparent, but there is a meaning there.


It's like the birthday cake example. Lets say you work in an office and its someone's birthday and there is a giant cake to celebrate. But everyone just had a huge lunch and they are stuffed.

Now the guys look at the cake and say "no thanks. Im stuffed. Let's just eat it tomorrow"

The girls will say "I'll have a piece now. but just a little bit since we just ate"

Why?????

Because of the message and the meta-message.

Guys see the message. Guys see the cake for what it is. It's a piece of food. And since they arent hungry then they dont need the food.

But girls see the META-message. They see the cake as a symbol of somone's birthday, and since TODAY is the birthday, then we have to eat the cake TODAY, even if no one is hungry.

This is why girls often seem silly and irrational. The faster guys understand this about girls then the faster they will understand why girls do some of the things they do.

It takes a lot for girls to get past their hardwired propensity for adding meaning or seeing meaning behind everything they or someone else does. And even if they learn how to see the world how guys see it, they will never fully let go of the meta-message.

-AC
IMO leave the meaningless sex only with people outside the circle.

Just to tell you the truth, I've been ousted from that circle anyway. Because they just agreed to the hate she spread against me.

I was wondering. Is it possible to have some sort of emotional attachement to a girl without having sex as an issue?

I have this wonderful relationship with a girl before. She treats me like a boyfriend. And we were so close. She's pretty and everything and guys go head over heels with her. I admit I find her attractive... but I was never into her. Well lets just say she's my emotional tampon. She's not attracted to me either though, But we're especially close.

2 - 3 weeks ago, she fell inlove with this guy. And they clicked... I don't mind really, but I kind of wished that she never stopped doing what she was doing before. I just realized that I was so used to her being there to count on, that I got hurt when We don't have any communications with each other whatsoever.

Am I being selfished that I want our relationship back? I mean. I told her about how we immediately fell out... but she just said it just is. I just don't like losing a friend so quickly.

I have no idea where I'm going with this. Any of you guys experience this?

[pherai]

I was wondering. Is it possible to have some sort of emotional attachement to a girl without having sex as an issue?

...

I have no idea where I'm going with this. Any of you guys experience this?

Sounds like you like her, but thats not really important. She has no obligation to you, and this dude she likes probably won't be comfortable with you trying to hang out with his girl. It's normal to want to see her still, but you probably won't as much, and you shouldn't push the issue.

[Infernoman]

Just to tell you the truth, I've been ousted from that circle anyway. Because they just agreed to the hate she spread against me.

I was wondering. Is it possible to have some sort of emotional attachement to a girl without having sex as an issue?

I have this wonderful relationship with a girl before. She treats me like a boyfriend. And we were so close. She's pretty and everything and guys go head over heels with her. I admit I find her attractive... but I was never into her. Well lets just say she's my emotional tampon. She's not attracted to me either though, But we're especially close.

2 - 3 weeks ago, she fell inlove with this guy. And they clicked... I don't mind really, but I kind of wished that she never stopped doing what she was doing before. I just realized that I was so used to her being there to count on, that I got hurt when We don't have any communications with each other whatsoever.

Am I being selfished that I want our relationship back? I mean. I told her about how we immediately fell out... but she just said it just is. I just don't like losing a friend so quickly.

I have no idea where I'm going with this. Any of you guys experience this?


sounds a bit similar to my issue a year ago...(hell i posted about it here last year!) she was the only girl I liked and never had any sexual thoughts about...just when she held my hand...made me happier than anything. alas... a year later...and we don't talk anymore...I realized what Afool I wa for pushing her away because i got bitter over her liking some other guy and how well they clicked...she's still with her BF and well...I suppose it could have been worse. she actually mailed back the DVDs she borrowed from me...heh and some girls told me most of the time they just keep or sell the stuff...

[kane_warhead]

Sounds like you like her, but thats not really important. She has no obligation to you, and this dude she likes probably won't be comfortable with you trying to hang out with his girl. It's normal to want to see her still, but you probably won't as much, and you shouldn't push the issue.


I do admit I like her. But I'm dating this other girl, I really like. I'm just pissed and angry that we just fell off.

The last conversation we had was through text messaging last night. She texted after I sent her a quote:
Her: How was school?
Me: It's alright, I guess. How about you?
Her: Everything is fine. Have you eaten your dinner?
Me: Not yet; I'm about to. How about you?
Her:I already did earlier.
Me: Oh ok. Well, I guess its good night then.
Her: Are you going to sleep?
Me: No not yet. Why do you ask?
Her: Nothing :)

After a few hours, I slept because I was tired from driving all day. When I awoke I saw that she left a text on my cellphone.

Her: Good night! Mwah!

Then I got sad, because I really do missed her. She always do that before we sleep. But as pherai mentioned, she has no obligation to me. She really liked this guy shes seeing. I just wished that she never stopped doing what she was doing with me before.

[kane_warhead]

sounds a bit similar to my issue a year ago...(hell i posted about it here last year!) she was the only girl I liked and never had any sexual thoughts about...just when she held my hand...made me happier than anything. alas... a year later...and we don't talk anymore...I realized what Afool I wa for pushing her away because i got bitter over her liking some other guy and how well they clicked...she's still with her BF and well...I suppose it could have been worse. she actually mailed back the DVDs she borrowed from me...heh and some girls told me most of the time they just keep or sell the stuff...

Man, she did that. She made me get over this ex of mine. I told her she made me happy. I can't explain it. I didn't want to have sex with her. I just want her to be with me. It's quite rare for me to have that kind of relationship with girls. But alas, I realized it way too late.

[pherai]

Unless you have no shame, I'd try to find someone else. I have no doubt this girl will come to you once a month when she's mad at her boyfriend, and it will seem like you guys are going to hang out again on a regular basis until she patches things up with her boyfriend. I don't know about you, but I hate being used like that.

[sainthuey]

Her: Everything is fine. Have you eaten your dinner?

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: what is she your mother now

[kane_warhead]

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: what is she your mother now

I dunno that's what I like about her. She's so caring before. And I think you have never had a Filipina for a girlfriend? Trust me, most of them are like that.

pherai That's why I'm trying to forget about it and move on. I'm currently dating somebody else. But I just miss her anyways.

[HeaT]

It is far less likely that a virgin knows how to give a good blowjob.



i dont know i would say it is as equally as likely to have this happen to an experienced chick...some people want to learn some dont...

some people like certain shit some dont...so i think what it comes down to is like talking about what is good with your partner...cause you could use a technique that you thought was the bomb diggity with your last partner and try that on me and i would be like...wtf are you doing...

i think sex becomes really good when you and your partner know what the other likes and how they like it etc etc...but that times time with a specific person...i guess there is some shit that is univerally good...but i would say bjs are skill that dont apply to universally good...

im outi

Roberth

[sainthuey]

I dunno that's what I like about her. She's so caring before. And I think you have never had a Filipina for a girlfriend? Trust me, most of them are like that.

pherai That's why I'm trying to forget about it and move on. I'm currently dating somebody else. But I just miss her anyways.


Nay, guess i'll have to try that out~

[kane_warhead]

Nay, guess i'll have to try that out~

You'll find out why the Philippine women have the best personality/character out of all the girls all over the world.

She serves me food at my bed... and we're not even together. How's that?

[pherai]

My friend always tells me about how Philippine women are crazy as hell. I dated a half Philippine chick, but she was pretty white washed so I can't say I have experience to speak from.

[MrBlank]

Pinays are fucking insane. i stopped dating them after highschool. How is it 5 out of 5 of them just happen to be drama queens.... no seriously 5 out of 5 fucking going apeshit over things like me getting stoned, or hanging out with friends and shit.

[phae]

Pinays are fucking insane. i stopped dating them after highschool. How is it 5 out of 5 of them just happen to be drama queens.... no seriously 5 out of 5 fucking going apeshit over things like me getting stoned, or hanging out with friends and shit.

I'd have stopped after 3.. I wouldn't have even bothered with 5.

I mean, sure there are some people who break the stereotype, but for fucks sake stereotypes are there for a reason.

For every 1 person who doesn't fit that stereotype there's like 1,000 that do.

[MrBlank]

oh its very simple. all 5 of them started off being pretty awesome (banging bodies fine faces). Then came out the chains and whip and the nazi flags and all of a sudden im fighting these verbal wars over why i didnt call them 4 times that day....

not to say i hate the sistas of course, but to say that they enjoy a bit of drama for some built in cultural reason. ive dated alot of different kinds of women. so far they all can be a little crazier then usual. The most chill so far though has to be french girls for me or turkish though ive only dated 1.

[kane_warhead]

Pinays are fucking insane. i stopped dating them after highschool. How is it 5 out of 5 of them just happen to be drama queens.... no seriously 5 out of 5 fucking going apeshit over things like me getting stoned, or hanging out with friends and shit.

Where did they grew up?

There's a big difference between the Pinays here and in the other countries.

[coco_j]

From my mother and her side of the family I know never to go near a filipina. Fuck that shit. No fucking way in hell. Jeezus lord fucking christ they are insane. Just, god damn. Seriously.

[ProfessorS]

Wow guys, my epic boobs girl is totally insane. :looney:

When we last left on Monday, she had sent me 2 text messages in order to apologize? I dunno, for her weirdness from when I visited her that day. She basically just acted weird and cold towards me most of the time and most of all, just sounded like she was confused about the status of her and I. Anyway, the texts said "Thanks 4 being such a sweetheart" and "I hope you can forgive me...I really hate myself right now." I had no idea how to respond to these nor did I want to get sucked into some drama. So I didn't respond.

So I finish up my day and go to bed early because I have to get up at 6 AM for work on Tuesdays. I wake up the next day and I have a missed call from her, my roommate tells me she called him looking for me(he said she sounded depressed), I have an IM from her(doesn't say anything), and a Facebook wall post apologizing for the way she acted and letting me know that she was cool with a date idea at the zoo I brought up. It's weird. I ignore her for a little bit and she goes nuts.

So I call her later on Tuesday afternoon. I leave a message saying that I have a great idea and tell her to call me back. She does, my "great idea" was inviting her over for dinner Thursday, but I was gonna sell it, damnit. Surprisingly, she gives me the run-around. "Oh I really honestly want to, but I don't know if I can yet, I'll let you know." That doesn't sound bad in itself, but the whole vibe from the conversation felt like I was freaking THROWING the ball back in her court. From the way she was acting on Monday, I figured she'd be CHOMPIN AT THA BIT to hang out with me. Maybe she's trying to game me. I can't tell.

I shouldn't be getting so caught up in this girl, but damnit I want to see those titties one more time. And take pictures this time.

[catchafire]

Akumachan, can you explain more to me about "META-messages?" It's an interesting concept.

[MrBlank]

Where did they grew up?

There's a big difference between the Pinays here and in the other countries.

yeah i see the difference.

ive went out with 4 from here and 1 from PI.

they just have too many crazy triggers. its cause they are way too emotional about things. so its way to easy to set them off. they can be the sweetest/caring women in the world but when they are angry.... its like they unleash the raging demon for 2 rounds straight.

[xero15]

so me ive always been a firm believer that its not cheatin if youre not married. well my manager brought it up tonight at work in response to something some other worker said and we ended up talkin bout it in some depth.

pay attention to those wonderin bout it not sayin its fact but brings up points.

ok so like i said we were talking and he went into this long story bout how his girlfriend, now wife, knew about his other girls but still married him cuz he was upfront with her. as far as it goes they are just dating there is not commitment established there. dating can set grounds for intimate romance and a future but its not sealed in stone that you and said date will last. then from there we moved on to what could be considered a girlfriend/boyfriend type relationship. personally i think it just depends on how you and that person feel. no