The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[SNAAAAKE]

That av is fucking hilarious.

:rofl:

is that "otk" ? the k-groove player smootcat used to mimick ??


sorry about the off topic..BACK TO TITTTIIESSS !! :pray:

I have never met a girl who has gotten in the mood by just playing with their breasts. That's like the worst form of foreplay, if it even can be considered that.

I am guessing you never played with tittays...EVER ?? playing with tittays is like the best ever..ask any girl they all love it !

[shatterstar]

^my little 2 cents added to this:

i find that, obviously, that kind of transition is always easyer when you're already a couple and you've already had sex before, but i've also noticed that its really complicated when you're tryin to do that with someone that is your ex-girlfriend. that shyt that you did before is null and void now since the girl has seen your now "old and tired technique" she'll straight do a fireball fight ryu and sagat sf2 style all fuck'n night if you let her.

so i've come to the conclusion that you have really to instead know that person's personallity or base it on how much it's been changed. a girl you just been talking to that's kinda reserve and always waiting on you to bring up subjects when talking is a girl who needs to be guided in or pulled in like a bass out of water. you gotta gradually bait her in that direction and the best way *from my experience* is be like a jester. tell them jokes, make her smile, then she'll start to "hit you" based on how funny the joke was which opens the door to touching each other then, boom, finish her!

now based off the whole ex-girlfriend situation, i had to re-learn who i was dealing with. we grew so much apart to the point that i didnt reconize her anymore. her fetish for cinnamon flavored foods did'nt work no more, the lil' "mm-hmmm" the we both used to hint at what we wanted didnt work no more so, wtf?

i noticed she was a lot more talkative, more random, and paid less attention to things so i had to find ways to get her to gradually shut the fuck up, not change the subjects so often, and put her focus back on me. what i did was made the subjects less about her and more about me, kept the subject matters focused on "us" and not our friends, which made things all more about me. then when she least expected it, put everything on her by pointing something random out. like, "you know what? i mite be trippin', but i think your breast are getting bigger..."

when i did that she got defensive and said they were'nt then i turned it into a very, very mild debate about it and then ninja'd a sneek attack:

"seriously, i think they're bigger. see? look." *lifts up shirt and the cup on her bra and commenced to feed*

that mite seem like bullshyt to you but game reconizes game. i'll suggest to others to replace the bubz part to the girls hair like saying that it's either looks like it's a lot longer or pretend that she has something in hair and then play with her hair gently....

[CoMpOuNd]

Start an avalanche on those mountains...

[Daddyneptune]

Hit them guts real good brother!!!

[scum gale 88]

http://i21.tinypic.com/sqqqea.jpg
here savages
and she wont let you put it in? (hint: buy a goddamn condom just in case)

damn. why are the pretty ones always insane?

those tits are top tier too (pun intended)

[white shadow]

I have never met a girl who has gotten in the mood by just playing with their breasts. That's like the worst form of foreplay, if it even can be considered that.

There are some women that can orgasm from a simple breast massage.

[Wolfkiller]

I am the only one who could pull my eyes away from the tits for a second and look at the rest of her? Goddamn. Love em all you want, but don't disrespect fine ass women by calling her pretty!
Here, drool over this. Big tits AND a face that doesn't look like man:
BEWBS (http://a143.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/32/l_35a23d8af155e08979d7c651dc57bb2e.jpg)
BOOBS (http://a293.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/16/l_437166235f64da5f99f6ae6b280447f4.jpg)
TITS (http://b6.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00483/62/86/483876826_l.jpg)
I still regret missing out on seeing her strip during amateur night. :(

[GreyFoxx]

:annoy: Smash them titties like Hulk smashes thru walls!!!!

[zakky]

If a girl gets completely revved up by a breast massage that bitch is in heat. I mean, it doesn't hurt, don't get me wrong, but if that is the level your foreplay game is at then you might need to rethink a few things. Girls getting sopping wet after you cop a feel is nothing but a hentai fantasy, face facts, that shit is too hilariously absurd to happen in real life.

[Stuart Hayden]

I'mma' virgin

:lol:

Good to know.

-SH

[zakky]

I've been unmasked, I guess I'll just stop posting here. Since virgins aren't allowed near this website.

[Stuart Hayden]

Lol @ Saying virgins aren't allowed on a gaming forum.

-SH

[zakky]

LAWL at sarcasm recognition.

[Stuart Hayden]

LAWL at sarcasm recognition.

Sarcasm + Internet = Cannot Compute.

I'mma stop trolling this topic now.

Topic starter hasn't even said anything or posting more bewbs.

-SH

[goodm0urning]

Topic starter hasn't even said anything or posting more bewbs.

-SHYeah, what the fuck? There is an audience waiting here.

[One Hit Combo]

This topic has forced me to once again masturbate while eating a tub of ice cream and crying.



I probably would have done it anyway. Ben & Jerry... you are a fickle mistress.

[Stuart Hayden]

This topic has forced me to once again masturbate while eating a tub of ice cream and crying.



I probably would have done it anyway. Ben & Jerry... you are a fickle mistress.

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

OMFG

btw...I fucking sig'ed that HORD

-SH

[TALrules]

i have arrived

[Goukisan]

This is a wealth of epic commentary.

[TheSix]

I am the only one who could pull my eyes away from the tits for a second and look at the rest of her? Goddamn. Love em all you want, but don't disrespect fine ass women by calling her pretty!
Here, drool over this. Big tits AND a face that doesn't look like man:
BEWBS (http://a143.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/32/l_35a23d8af155e08979d7c651dc57bb2e.jpg)
BOOBS (http://a293.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/16/l_437166235f64da5f99f6ae6b280447f4.jpg)
TITS (http://b6.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00483/62/86/483876826_l.jpg)
I still regret missing out on seeing her strip during amateur night. :(

...who gives a fuck about the face?

Those titties would never harm us.

"I just might kill you tonight" :rofl:

[KrassHole]

I have never met a girl who has gotten in the mood by just playing with their breasts. That's like the worst form of foreplay, if it even can be considered that.




Uhhhhhhhhhh.

Where in my post did I say that it'd get her in the mood? Everyone has a breaking point to where they just say "fuck it, whatever" eventually she will reach that point and want dick.

You fucking faggot. Don't ever quote me again or I will literally kill you.

[Luigi-Bo 87]

Uhhhhhhhhhh.

Where in my post did I say that it'd get her in the mood? Everyone has a breaking point to where they just say "fuck it, whatever" eventually she will reach that point and want dick.

You fucking faggot. Don't every quote me again or I will literally kill you.

:wtf: Pretty sure you just failed sir.:tdown:

[KrassHole]

:wtf: Pretty sure you just failed sir.:tdown:

I'm pretty sure your father fondled your balls before he put you to sleep every night.

Who the fuck are you; thinking you can even talk to me?

[Luigi-Bo 87]

I'm pretty sure your father fondled your balls before he put you to sleep every night.

Who the fuck are you thinking you can even talk to me?

Sigh.:shake: Fuck it. You win, don't even feel like wasting my time.

[TheSix]

You fucking faggot. Don't ever quote me again or I will literally kill you.

I'm pretty sure your father fondled your balls before he put you to sleep every night.

Who the fuck are you; thinking you can even talk to me?

I :rofl::rofl:

Good god.

[SNAAAAKE]

exmatt is the most hateful online gangster ever :rofl:

this thread is full of fail btw..BAN ZAKKY !

[Wolfkiller]

...who gives a fuck about the face?

Those titties would never harm us.

"I just might kill you tonight" :rofl:

Isn't that kind of like saying "Who gives a fuck about the body?"
I've seen plenty of chicks with huge tits, and had huge bodies to match. Think past the titties and look at the entire package! That's all I'm saying man!

It's like Darth Vader said in Conan The Barbarian "What is steel compared to the hand that wields it???"

THINK ABOUT IT!

[angelslayer13]

krasshole you stupid twat shut the fuck up you stupid pice of shit, you make me want to bomb the internet. Thats right the internet.

[KrassHole]

krasshole you stupid twat shut the fuck up you stupid pice of shit, you make me want to bomb the internet. Thats right the internet.


You're either fifteen or fucking stupid.

You're the reason suicide booths should be invented.

[angelslayer13]

You're either fifteen or fucking stupid.

You're the reason suicide booths should be invented.

and you sir have no class

[Luigi-Bo 87]

and you sir have no class

agreed

[Airthrow]

Does she let you sex her tittays? :tup:

[goodm0urning]

You're either fifteen or fucking stupid.

You're the reason suicide booths should be invented.You're the reason I LOLed just now.

[KrassHole]

krasshole you stupid twat shut the fuck up you stupid pice of shit, you make me want to bomb the internet. Thats right the internet.

and you sir have no class


What?

agreed


You have a picture of some G smoking a blunt with about 4 extra layers of clothing and a doo-rag in your avatar and you wanna talk about having class?



People like these 2 cock jockies are why I stopped posting in GD. Every day I post, theres someone else wanting to be a hero and get into it with me. Just give up, you have no credibility, even If I say something stupid, it wont matter, you're just a douche bag nobody and your opinion isn't given too much thought by anyone who's been around srk for time.

[Kisame]

I have never met a girl who has gotten in the mood by just playing with their breasts. That's like the worst form of foreplay, if it even can be considered that.


yeah you cant just play with them touching lightly or bouncing them you gotta either squeeze real hard or play with the nipple/areola area

[Luigi-Bo 87]

You have a picture of some G smoking a blunt with about 4 extra layers of clothing and a doo-rag in your avatar and you wanna talk about having class?



People like these 2 cock jockies are why I stopped posting in GD. Every day I post, theres someone else wanting to be a hero and get into it with me. Just give up, you have no credibility, even If I say something stupid, it wont matter, you're just a douche bag nobody and your opinion isn't given too much thought by anyone who's been around srk for time.

So that's what this is about? You think I'm trying to be a hero or something?:confused: I don't try and start e-battles , which is why I didn't want to respond after you came at me. I was saying you failed because whatever post I quoted confused the hell out of me. Whatever, just do what you do I guess. If you want to keep flaming me, go right ahead.:bluu:

[Stuart Hayden]

This is getting stupid.

close thread plz.

-SH

[Brooklyn]

i really dont think this will turn out well. but thats the experienced adult in me but the kid in me wants to grandma's boy the right one. and thats even though i feel like i've/we've been baited.

[Lucretz]

If this thread ends without getting the sauce on this girl, I'm going to be incredibly fucking disappointed. :sad:

[bear]

Vicarious living is tough.

[Einlanzer]

What?




You have a picture of some G smoking a blunt with about 4 extra layers of clothing and a doo-rag in your avatar and you wanna talk about having class?


smoking is classy.

he's probably cold.

people wear doo rag's for a reason. you're sounded a little racist there dude.


and avatars are not the best way to judge someone about having class.


on topic: i request some more pics please, and i say hit it big.

[ugly duckling]

since when did one bloody pic count as proof.

[goodm0urning]

since when did one bloody pic count as proof.I agree. I do not feel that we can evaluate this situation accurately without more photographic evidence.

[zakky]

Uhhhhhhhhhh.

Where in my post did I say that it'd get her in the mood? Everyone has a breaking point to where they just say "fuck it, whatever" eventually she will reach that point and want dick.

You fucking faggot. Don't ever quote me again or I will literally kill you.

I await literal death.

[Gouki7]

This just in: a quirky teen on a Video game-based message board got murdered and sodomized for epic lulz.

[Eminent]

Where do you find girls that like to get titfucked to "get in the mood"? Introduce me.

Well like I said, its the tit fuck combined with "the finger" gets them in the mood. At least thats been my experience thus far and has yet to fail. To answer your question I find them in Tampa, but the phenomenon known as "horny girls" also exists outside of Florida. In fact they can be found anywhere and if you can't find them, then your not looking hard enough.

[DaDesiCanadian]

This thread is lols.

:rofl: at the Dad ball fondling comment.

[pherai]

so me ive always been a firm believer that its not cheatin if youre not married.

Believe what you want, just don't expect that argument to fly with a girlfriend. Whether you call it cheating or not is just semantics. Most girls will be upset if you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend situation and you fuck some other broad.

[DJ Ether]

Unbelivable, this thread got the funny on lock. I should start getting things straight here, since this thread has gone every which way. First, I didnt reply in a while cause I got work kids, I cant be here all day. At first I didnt want to post pics but I figured that with the amount of entertainment I got from this place, I cant deny my srk peeps what they want. Im a lurker, thats how I roll.

As for my baby, she is a very nice girl. Caring, Loving and adamant. She grew up in a very conservative houselhold. What she is wearing, she would never wear in her house. I know that I probably should of chosen another pic, but I wanted to show you guys why Im so eager to make love to her. All you guys calling her ugly, I dont really get. I understand we all have different standards so ill leave it at that. Me and her are going to have a talk about the future. Its possible that marriage is in the future, because when I look into her eyes and she gives me this warm smile.....I can close mine and know that when I open them again she will still be there. Best way I can explain it.

To all the haters, praisers, masturbators I got a kick out of your replies and rei-affirms why I visit GD everyday. Now ill go back to lurk mode, have a good morning homies.:wgrin:

[Sasmasta]

So...no more pics? :sad:

ABSTINENCE!

A girl that has those qualities that you listed PLUS a great 'set' [and I think she's cute by the by] is not something you wanna scare off.

Don't flame me for being too kind about this. Like I tell my friends when a fart lingers in the air..."these things...take time."

Edit: This thread got 4878 views since you made it...gawd. One last reward for SRK's curiosity!? :tup::tdown:

[Weeks]

smoking is classy.

incorrect

people wear doo rag's for a reason. you're sounded a little racist there dude.

i think it should be clear by now to any SRK member that ex_matt (aka krasshole) hates thug culture. that doesn't necessarily make him a racist, although he may very well be (those canucks are odd ones)


and avatars are not the best way to judge someone about having class.

this is true.

[Will Gotti]

Muhfuckers in here are insatiable. People wanting a 20 page photo album from the guy. You guys get a inch then want mile. If you don't get that mile, you don't believe shit is real. Out-fucking-standing.

[Infested Jester]

Muhfuckers in here are insatiable. People wanting a 20 page photo album from the guy. You guys get a inch then want mile. If you don't get that mile, you don't believe shit is real. Out-fucking-standing.

I tried this line of reasoning in another thread where someone posted up 3 pics and it still wasn't good enough. People even accused him of photoshopping the pics and saying it wasn't him. The "pics or it didn't happen" rule is fine, but I quickly see it becoming "video with SRK witnesses present and it was on the news or it didn't happen" rule approaching. :rolleyes:

[Pinion]

Muhfuckers in here are insatiable. People wanting a 20 page photo album from the guy. You guys get a inch then want mile. If you don't get that mile, you don't believe shit is real. Out-fucking-standing.

Dude could literally post a picture of her sucking on his dick with the word SRK written on the side and people would still post up saying, "LOL, Photoshop, fake, need more for proof, blah blah blah."

That's just how SRK GD heads roll I guess.

[Brooklyn]

yup yup! i need his grandma, 2 cops, 5 of his peeps and 3 of them have to be srk members holding srk signs with their srk handles, to all be witnesses with their own documented summaries of this fellatio for me to believe it.. and all witnesses and the act on video in .avi quality, hd.

[akumatrunigga]

so me ive always been a firm believer that its not cheatin if youre not married.
I agree to some of the post but at the same as stated from pherai, it is too risky to do anything like that. Now of course it went well for the manager wife cuz he knew that probably the woman wasnt the type to stand up for herself.

You know what you should do go to your girl today and tell her what you said and see what happens. After that post it and tell us. I have a feeling it'll be bad news.

[Eminent]

yup yup! i need his grandma, 2 cops, 5 of his peeps and 3 of them have to be srk members holding srk signs with their srk handles, to all be witnesses with their own documented summaries of this fellatio for me to believe it.. and all witnesses and the act on video in .avi quality, hd.

Come on, we need more seeders plz!!!

[tindiamond]

lol At this thread.

[JackTenrac!]

- so I'm totally feeling her and she finally gives me her number after a month or two of meeting her and hanging out with her and her best friend forever or some crap like that. I call her up and we talk abit, but after that I just didn't know if I should have asked her out or not. She messages me a bit without me starting anything. Not sure if I'm in the FZ or actually still able to date her or anything. It's totally weird. She shoots me down and then... "here's my digits. Call me sometimes" comes out of her facebook account. Seriously, SRK, what's up with that?

[w1r3d]

^how did she shoot you down the first time?

[JackTenrac!]

- Asked her to a movie and she said no. lol

[w1r3d]

oh. I dunno man. To be honest, if she had high interest level, she wouldn't have rejected you in the first place. I know I'm not making that mistake again - if a girl rejects my request I'll just move on to the next one.

That's just me though. I also would like to know what SRK has to say. :sweat:

[Irennicus]

Wait, people wear do rags for a reason? Someone explain.

[Silentness!]

Disclaimer: *I am 20 years old* (turn 21 Aug 17)
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So I'm at some fake club and I see this Hispanic chick that is at least 21. I talked to her for a little bit on Friday... I see her sitting down playing with her cell phone like usual again on Saturday so I'm like "fuck it", so I asked her for a dance. (I'm a put you to bed song was on)

She's like "Ok let's go." (In my mind I was thinking oh shit she actually said yes...) So I grab her hands and guided her to the dance floor and started grinding with her. I started smelling her hair and shit getting real close and she liked it. After the song ended we talked some more and then she left.
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My friend had talked to her on friday and he said she's only into "bad boys" and that she isn't my type... I dunno SRK what do you think? Do I have any chance in hell with her or was the dance just a small one night thrill.

[supaman]

that's a cock block mang, why don't you ask her yourself get the info from her

[w1r3d]

that's a cock block mang, why don't you ask her yourself get the info from her

^my thoughts exactly. you don't lose anything by trying anyway

[Lvl.3]

since when did one bloody pic count as proof.

Yup, I wondered that as well. And why is he not in the pic as well.

Again, why is her chest look sweaty or nutty? Looks as if she just got done having sex.

[Koop]

Disclaimer: *I am 20 years old* (turn 21 Aug 17)
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So I'm at some fake club and I see this Hispanic chick that is at least 21. I talked to her for a little bit on Friday... I see her sitting down playing with her cell phone like usual again on Saturday so I'm like "fuck it", so I asked her for a dance. (I'm a put you to bed song was on)

She's like "Ok let's go." (In my mind I was thinking oh shit she actually said yes...) So I grab her hands and guided her to the dance floor and started grinding with her. I started smelling her hair and shit getting real close and she liked it. After the song ended we talked some more and then she left.
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My friend had talked to her on friday and he said she's only into "bad boys" and that she isn't my type... I dunno SRK what do you think? Do I have any chance in hell with her or was the dance just a small one night thrill.

Ask you boy to go more into it.... see at the age range you guys are in... blockin the booty is high as per say those that are 24+... ask ya boy some details to see what he goes into. also look at how ya boy said it to you... he could be just lookin out for ya... so you go test to see for yourself an compare it to what ya boy is sayin ...dont always take it as someone tryin to sway you.. sometimes it can be for your best interest...

[Brooklyn]

This topic has forced me to once again masturbate while eating a tub of ice cream and crying.



I probably would have done it anyway. Ben & Jerry... you are a fickle mistress.


and sadly the legendary topic has been thrown into the sea of sorrow and pointless crying called the women's thread. this one's for you * pours some kool aid out in front of usf's sundome.

[ToyRobotTerror]

So.... Dinner conversations... How do i act and what do i talk about?

[supaman]

pretty much start from what you do and your interests. But be careful and not give too much info that she might not want to hear i.e. WoW or online gaming unless she brings it up herself.
be confident in your approach. Ask her the what hers are. Keeping your composure and table manners in check at all times, but don't be too uptight just let it ride and relax.

[ToyRobotTerror]

So what about women you know but want to learn more about?

[jimmy1200]

its a shame my thread got owned a while ago, and added to this thing. son, for any of yall that kept up with my thread/blog, it was tight, and i have so many updates since my last post in it. oh my god. more since when i posted in this thread and typed my displeasure. im only here to vent again, because it was so above this thread. no offense to anyone. so anyways, i get girls, who you tryna diss man, you guys masturbate so much, who gotta rock dem wrist bands. ahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa, jokes. anyways, for all you peeps who remember my shit. got another white girl in the bag, more knowledge on how to get dem girls, maintain there position of your penis in their vagina, more knowledge on hoes in general, etc... you think you know, but you have no idea.

maybe ill contribute and stop being a piece of shit. relationship shit, and hoe fuckin, is a fun topic. FUCK MY THREAD ROCKED SOCKS. IT WOULD BE ROLLIN RIGHT NOW IF IT WAS NOT MOVED. DAMN!!!!

man do i have stories. if my life was blogged this summer. i would be....................................blogged, i guess. whatever. woot!!!

[pherai]

maybe ill contribute and stop being a piece of shit.

Magic 8 Ball says: "Not Likely"

[MrBlank]

Magic 8 Ball says: "Not Likely"

best advice ive read all day....

:tup:

[JackTenrac!]

aiight, Koop: you can solve mine today, too.

[ChunLi]

So.... Dinner conversations... How do i act and what do i talk about?

Stories are always great conversation pieces.

[xero15]

i have arrived

here to rack up some more neg rep or are you practicin you e cock blocking skills??? :lol:

Believe what you want, just don't expect that argument to fly with a girlfriend. Whether you call it cheating or not is just semantics. Most girls will be upset if you are in a boyfriend/girlfriend situation and you fuck some other broad.

well i go to the point im at now from the many a "girlfriends" ive been wit. hell if they aint gonna invest in a relationship or anything that could lead to one then hell i aint doing anything wrong. now i could understand what you saying if i just did it to do it and then use that as a cop out. naw thats not what i do. i let em know up front that if something mutual is there ill be bout it but if we cant come to a meeting point in feelings then im goin fishin.

[DJ Ether]

and sadly the legendary topic has been thrown into the sea of sorrow and pointless crying called the women's thread. this one's for you * pours some kool aid out in front of usf's sundome.

Yeah kinda dissapointed that my thread was thrown here. I wanted to read some more replys from my peeps here at srk. Its lost here now so thats the end of that. :sweat:

[ezekial45]

Just a quick question. I was in a class back in spring with a really nice Teacher's Assistant. We talked a few times on campus throughout the spring and summer semesters, but nothing really happened. Now that its the fall, i don't really see her too often. But on Thursday i saw her talking with someone outside of class. We both gave each other quick glances and went about our business. Later that day i sent her an email just saying hello. Back in the spring semester she passed out her contact info to everyone.

I haven't heard anything back yet. My question is, was this an OK thing to do? I'm just worried it will come off as weird.

[Phoenix Wright]

Let me lighten up the thread.

Yesterday, thanks to koops advice, I banged a chick without knowing her name. I dedicated that nut to you guys. :).

[Havoc]

no homo?

[Reveal]

I need some advice on a couple subjects as far as talking to women goes.

First question is about School/college game. You would imagine that there would be plenty of opportunities in school or college. Plenty of attractive girls walking around. Now my problem here is that they all do the exact same thing. It seems like they aren't interested in talking to anybody. Or me, at least. I walk by them and they just keep looking straight ahead. Don't try to make eye contact, nothing. In fact, sometimes it seems like they TRY to avoid eye contact. Do you guys ever get this? What do you do, just say "hi" anyway? BTW, I goto a community college. No dorms or anything.

Second question is on online game. Sites such as myspace or plentyoffish. Take plentyoffish for example. I'll message a shit tons of girls on there. I'm lucky if I get a response. And when I do get a response, it's like she doesn't even seem interested in holding up her end of the conversation at all. What are some tips to have more success on online dating sites? I don't think my pictures looks that bad, I must be lacking something, or I must not be doing something. I just don't know what it is.
Help and advice appreciated!

[epsilon_]

regarding conversation with women, you have to be prepared to direct and generally drive conversation with most women until they feel pretty comfortable around you. expecting a girl you're trying to mack on to talk as much as you is just setting yourself up for failure imo.

[Silentness!]

regarding conversation with women, you have to be prepared to direct and generally drive conversation with most women until they feel pretty comfortable around you. expecting a girl you're trying to mack on to talk as much as you is just setting yourself up for failure imo.

true dat.

[2hai]

I need some advice on a couple subjects as far as talking to women goes.

First question is about School/college game. You would imagine that there would be plenty of opportunities in school or college. Plenty of attractive girls walking around. Now my problem here is that they all do the exact same thing. It seems like they aren't interested in talking to anybody. Or me, at least. I walk by them and they just keep looking straight ahead. Don't try to make eye contact, nothing. In fact, sometimes it seems like they TRY to avoid eye contact. Do you guys ever get this? What do you do, just say "hi" anyway? BTW, I goto a community college. No dorms or anything.

Second question is on online game. Sites such as myspace or plentyoffish. Take plentyoffish for example. I'll message a shit tons of girls on there. I'm lucky if I get a response. And when I do get a response, it's like she doesn't even seem interested in holding up her end of the conversation at all. What are some tips to have more success on online dating sites? I don't think my pictures looks that bad, I must be lacking something, or I must not be doing something. I just don't know what it is.
Help and advice appreciated!


I don't know about you, but for your first question I guess you bring some bad vibe or something. You have to make eye contact in a way that will make them notice you at least. Just don't be creepy about it. I don't think it's hard. Most of the time my eye contact is basically just checking her out subtlely. Having a nice smile helps too. Plus, you can't wait for shit to happen. Everything has to be initiated by you.

[zakky]

Early conversations with girls should always involve asking them a lot of questions about themselves. That is the easiest way to get a girl comfortable around you I think. A lot of people say they have 'game', but what I think it really boils down to is just having confidence and conversation ability. I by no means think I'm a ladies man, but I am quite capable of getting girls and I think this is largely due to my being able to hold up in a one on one conversation. If you cannot keep a conversation going for a while by asking simple questions like: What/Where are you currently studying/working? then you are going to have a lot of difficulty picking up a girl or guy or anyone.

Social skills pay the bills.

[Torn Apart]

ok, so there is this girl i like. she used to like me, but i didnt like her then. I spend the weekend at her house (watch movies, slept on the couch together) and then i start to like her. The day after she has sex with her ex. And then the following Friday she fucks him again. Both times she did that she texted me sounding all guilty (she wasnt sure that i wanted her over at my house on friday after she fucked her ex.). That same day she comes over and we watch a movie and make out. The like the following week i tell her that i kinda like her. Lately she has been telling me how bad her ex boyfriend is (ruining birthdays, hating on her friends even though he doesn't even know them, gets insanely jealous) and the only "good" thing she can tell me about him that he "understands" her. Even she admits that she likes bad people. I honestly think that she stills like me a little bit. What can i do make her realize that her ex is only going to fuck her life up?

and also i noticed that she still talks to me a lot, and wants to hang out a lot too.

[ckrazy]

ok, so there is this girl i like. she used to like me, but i didnt like her then. I spend the weekend at her house (watch movies, slept on the couch together) and then i start to like her. The day after she has sex with her ex. And then the following Friday she fucks him again. Both times she did that she texted me sounding all guilty (she wasnt sure that i wanted her over at my house on friday after she fucked her ex.). That same day she comes over and we watch a movie and make out. The like the following week i tell her that i kinda like her. Lately she has been telling me how bad her ex boyfriend is (ruining birthdays, hating on her friends even though he doesn't even know them, gets insanely jealous) and the only "good" thing she can tell me about him that he "understands" her. Even she admits that she likes bad people. I honestly think that she stills like me a little bit. What can i do make her realize that her ex is only going to fuck her life up?

Don't get mad but this is just my opinion.

I don't think she really like you all that much but just using you when her ex is pissing her off. When she spending time with you and is talking about her ex that is never a good thing. She also still fucking her ex which doesn't make it any better.

[Havoc]

Why would you have to do that?

As long as you relate to her through her past relationship, her ex is always gonna be an issue between the two of you. If you want her, keep it at that. There's no need to talk about the ex. She's gonna think whatever she's gonna think about the ex. You really can't control that, nor should you want to. Just work on getting her on your own merit, if that's what you want.

[Big House]

ok heres my problem

me and this chick have been talkin for a little bit now and i know she likes me thats not the problem the problem is i pretty much stay at her place every night now but the most we ever do is make out then fall asleep together. idk how to move it to the next stage and i dont wanna just outright talk to her about it. wat subtle moves should i try?

[ckrazy]

ok heres my problem

me and this chick have been talkin for a little bit now and i know she likes me thats not the problem the problem is i pretty much stay at her place every night now but the most we ever do is make out then fall asleep together. idk how to move it to the next stage and i dont wanna just outright talk to her about it. wat subtle moves should i try?

While your making out make your move like start stripping her. Or touching in the places you wanna go she should get the message.

[Torn Apart]

Don't get mad but this is just my opinion.

I don't think she really like you all that much but just using you when her ex is pissing her off. When she spending time with you and is talking about her ex that is never a good thing. She also still fucking her ex which doesn't make it any better.

well, she doesnt talk about her ex THAT much. I mean i was at her house yesterday with some friends. And she kicked us out a little while after her ex came. but she is always talking about how bad her ex is for her.

[Big House]

While your making out make your move like start stripping her. Or touching in the places you wanna go she should get the message.

thats wat i always tell myself im gonna do but when the time comes i always chicken out

[ckrazy]

thats wat i always tell myself im gonna do but when the time comes i always chicken out

I know not all girls are the same but that how it was with my ex. She wanted me to fuck her but would never tell me. Until one time when we started to make out and I made the move. After she told me that she actually wanted me to do that just b/c she the girl and it was my job to make that move. Then I had the "WTF" stare :lol:

[Reveal]

thats wat i always tell myself im gonna do but when the time comes i always chicken out
Yeha man just go for it. Next time you're makin out, start playin with her boobs and eventually make your way down south. That's what I do, anyway. Never had a girl tell me "no" and stopped me. You Gotta go for it.

[Big House]

haha thanx man im gonna try that tonight

[Reveal]

I don't know about you, but for your first question I guess you bring some bad vibe or something. You have to make eye contact in a way that will make them notice you at least. Just don't be creepy about it. I don't think it's hard. Most of the time my eye contact is basically just checking her out subtlely. Having a nice smile helps too. Plus, you can't wait for shit to happen. Everything has to be initiated by you.

Well I can talk to people, no problem. But for instance, I'll be walking passed a girl, who's going the opposite direction. NO indication of wanted to talk. Period. Doesn't even give me a glance. MAYBE I could be giving off a bad vibe, but I don't see how. I'm non threatening, I'm not glaring or giving them a creepy stare. I just don't get it because even random people in stores or anywhere else besides school will at least glance at me and say hi.

[xsonicc]

alright, i need some advice from the knowledgeable srk'ers about women. my 1 year anniversary is comming up soon with my gf and i'm not sure what kinda gift to get her. i was thinking about a ring/necklace with something engraved like "one year of happiness and love". good idea? maybe some ideas on other gifts?

[Reveal]

haha thanx man im gonna try that tonight We demand an update!

[Big House]

haha im on my way over there update commin tommarow morning

[Phoenix Wright]

no homo?

Yes homo, Phoenix Wright Semen for everyone :).

[pherai]

alright, i need some advice from the knowledgeable srk'ers about women. my 1 year anniversary is comming up soon with my gf and i'm not sure what kinda gift to get her. i was thinking about a ring/necklace with something engraved like "one year of happiness and love". good idea? maybe some ideas on other gifts?

How old are you and what does she like?

[phae]

alright, i need some advice from the knowledgeable srk'ers about women. my 1 year anniversary is comming up soon with my gf and i'm not sure what kinda gift to get her. i was thinking about a ring/necklace with something engraved like "one year of happiness and love". good idea? maybe some ideas on other gifts?

Typically boyfriends have gotten me little trinkets or things they know I would like for anniversaries. My exes in the past have gotten me video games they'd know I would like (one year my ex fiance gave me Valkyrie Profile and Persona 1), or a stuffed animal they know I would appreciate (ex fiance gave me his old Ein plushie and told me the stories about it, making it a heartfelt and sentimental gift), and a boyfriend got me a panda bear plushie since I love panda bears.

It's all about getting her something you know she would like to have. It's kind of difficult to get a present for a girl sometimes, but a simple ring with an engraving on the inside is a really sweet token of appreciation. Don't forget to take her out somewhere nice to present it to her. Maybe the place you guys met, or the site of your first kiss, or even a complete re-enactment of your first date would be a sweet way to relive the whole experience but with the added extra.

[xsonicc]

How old are you and what does she like?

we're both 19, she likes small stuff like stuffed animals, rings, necklaces, earrings, jewelry type stuff.

Typically boyfriends have gotten me little trinkets or things they know I would like for anniversaries. My exes in the past have gotten me video games they'd know I would like (one year my ex fiance gave me Valkyrie Profile and Persona 1), or a stuffed animal they know I would appreciate (ex fiance gave me his old Ein plushie and told me the stories about it, making it a heartfelt and sentimental gift), and a boyfriend got me a panda bear plushie since I love panda bears.

It's all about getting her something you know she would like to have. It's kind of difficult to get a present for a girl sometimes, but a simple ring with an engraving on the inside is a really sweet token of appreciation. Don't forget to take her out somewhere nice to present it to her. Maybe the place you guys met, or the site of your first kiss, or even a complete re-enactment of your first date would be a sweet way to relive the whole experience but with the added extra.

ahh i like the idea about going to where we met, i'll take that idea. haha thanks for the good advice, i think i'll go with the ring engraving.

[pherai]

Don't spend more than like $80.

[ChunLi]

alright, i need some advice from the knowledgeable srk'ers about women. my 1 year anniversary is comming up soon with my gf and i'm not sure what kinda gift to get her. i was thinking about a ring/necklace with something engraved like "one year of happiness and love". good idea? maybe some ideas on other gifts?

Does she wear jewelry ? If so, then go for it. You don't have to spend a lot, just go to a place like Things Remembered, they should have nice pieces for a good price with the engraving.

I don't like jewelery and if I do.. it's usually just accessories. I have a bad habit of losing things (I've lost 2 Tiffany necklaces already.)

[Mixah]

question:

there's a girl i like... she goes to my shcool in pennsyvlania...

she's from new hampshire (6 hour drive)

i thought she was into me, always smiling at me... i went to a restaurant and she was working there... she got all excited and eager to say hello to me...

anyways, apparently she has a boyfriend (i don't know if he's in new hampshire or in pennsylvania)

however, she hasn't mentioned to me that she does....

my two theories...

1. she's either very comfortable in the relationship and doesn't feel she needs to defend her relationship by declaring it
2. she's thinking about leaving him for somebody else (maybe me?)

i might be getting my hopes up... but what do you guys think?

[MrBlank]

question:

there's a girl i like... she goes to my shcool in pennsyvlania...

she's from new hampshire (6 hour drive)

i thought she was into me, always smiling at me... i went to a restaurant and she was working there... she got all excited and eager to say hello to me...

anyways, apparently she has a boyfriend (i don't know if he's in new hampshire or in pennsylvania)

however, she hasn't mentioned to me that she does....

my two theories...

1. she's either very comfortable in the relationship and doesn't feel she needs to defend her relationship by declaring it
2. she's thinking about leaving him for somebody else (maybe me?)

i might be getting my hopes up... but what do you guys think?

if a girl doesnt mention her bf to you. then thats a huge because she is interested in you. girls usually right away display they are taken when approached by guys they arent interested in.

i say progress as usual and dont even mention her bf. just let hey stay interested in what you have to provide and hopefully she just breaks it off with him.

[Mixah]

Good advice... that's what i was thinking is the right thing to do...

preciated blank. you never cease to provide.

[MAGUS1234]

you ttryin to fuk her or more? If you want more, then don't even bother, I wouldn't bother either way.

[Mixah]

more...

i'm beyond the one night stand phase.

[MAGUS1234]

then bounce, it aint worth tbeing the other guy/wierd situations/fo you want to be with a chick that might cheat....ect

[Mixah]

she's not that type. seriously, i don't go for girls that are a 9 and better. I go for ones that are a 4+ and have a good head on their shoulders. i'm not that shallow.

[xsonicc]

Does she wear jewelry ? If so, then go for it. You don't have to spend a lot, just go to a place like Things Remembered, they should have nice pieces for a good price with the engraving.

I don't like jewelery and if I do.. it's usually just accessories. I have a bad habit of losing things (I've lost 2 Tiffany necklaces already.)

yeah, i was thinking of going to things remembered. are you able to bring them something to engrave into? or do you have to buy their stuff specifically :(

pherai: yeah, i wasn't thinking of spending more than like $60-80.

[kof4life]

if a girl doesnt mention her bf to you. then thats a huge because she is interested in you. girls usually right away display they are taken when approached by guys they arent interested in.

i say progress as usual and dont even mention her bf. just let hey stay interested in what you have to provide and hopefully she just breaks it off with him.

I don't know. I always think that if a girl can break off a relationship for you, she can do the same to you for someone else.

On the same situation, some girls have very clearly defined boundaries, even if they don't mention their bfs. I have a female friend who's extremely close to me, but we both know that we won't date in the near or far future, even she breaks off her current relationship. She doesn't talk about him to other people much, and she prefers to keep her friendships and her relationships far apart. It's the way a girl should be, IMO.

[Mixah]

i think i'm going to still go for it, but make sure that i don't get too dependent on her turning around...

that might be my best bet, no?

[pherai]

if a girl doesnt mention her bf to you. then thats a huge because she is interested in you. girls usually right away display they are taken when approached by guys they arent interested in.

i say progress as usual and dont even mention her bf. just let hey stay interested in what you have to provide and hopefully she just breaks it off with him.

Man, I feel like between me and MrBlank its good cop bad cop :rofl:

Her not mentioning her boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean she is interested. Girls like the attention of men, even when they have boyfriends, and she knows mentioning she has a boyfriend will cut off that flattery and shit. I have a lot of friends who have been lead on by girls who are in relationships. You have to consider more than just the motive that is most beneficial to you when assessing a girls actions.

[supaman]

i think i'm going to still go for it, but make sure that i don't get too dependent on her turning around...

that might be my best bet, no?
if you can initiate a conversation without her feeling uncomfortable, which i doubt, then you're in the clear mang

Seriously what do you have to lose ain't no hurt in trying right

[MrBlank]

I don't know. I always think that if a girl can break off a relationship for you, she can do the same to you for someone else.

On the same situation, some girls have very clearly defined boundaries, even if they don't mention their bfs. I have a female friend who's extremely close to me, but we both know that we won't date in the near or far future, even she breaks off her current relationship. She doesn't talk about him to other people much, and she prefers to keep her friendships and her relationships far apart. It's the way a girl should be, IMO.

normally if a girl breaks up with her man to get with another man that is OK. also its a long distance relationship. i dont know about you but whats the fucking point, she seems to be in the ready to move on stage.

its when a Girl CHEATS on her man. that shit is fucked up. any girl can break up with any guy at any time and will be in the clear for the dick riding. you could say its the honorable thing for any woman to do before following up on another man.

when she cheats though, thats a fucked up thing.

^youve been Friendzoned. she aint going to tell you about her boyfriend that your probably aware of anyhow.

ive went out with girls who had boyfriends but they never mentioned them, i always had to find out through a friend or someone they knew. its wierd but these girls never acted like they had a bf and on top of that went as far as letting me get oral pleasure and so on. of course once i found out i freeze them out. im not purposely trying to ruin relationshits. so uhhhh at least from my experience girls will conceal information from you just so they can see whats the deal about you.

[MrBlank]

Man, I feel like between me and MrBlank its good cop bad cop :rofl:

Her not mentioning her boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean she is interested. Girls like the attention of men, even when they have boyfriends, and she knows mentioning she has a boyfriend will cut off that flattery and shit. I have a lot of friends who have been lead on by girls who are in relationships. You have to consider more than just the motive that is most beneficial to you when assessing a girls actions.

=)

its all good, ill be Tango you be Cash, we find the ladies to tap that ass.

[Mixah]

if you can initiate a conversation without her feeling uncomfortable, which i doubt, then you're in the clear mang

Seriously what do you have to lose ain't no hurt in trying right

truth.

i can talk to her easily now.... what's funny, is that i finally started to get comfortable talking to her after i found out she has a boyfriend..... maybe less intimidation? lol... her having a boyfriend is seeming to have an advantage. random...

[BBQ]

Alright maybe I can get some insight on this from people not living on campus that only has 30 girls and 200 guys...

So this girl that I took out on a date seems like she is flaking me. What I mean is, when I try to set up a second date she doesn't answer my emails or phone calls even though every now and then when ever I drive off campus or is eating with friends I see her on the phone. She's an RA and is doing 18+ credits which is more then a full time student here. So I can understand her being busy, but I know for certain there is probably some time she spends not hitting the books and does other things that every one else does.

On our last date, I took it slow and basically got to know her and vice versa. I didn't move in for a good night kiss, and the only thing I did was compliment on her looks. I get a text message later on that night from her that she had a good time and thanked me for taking her out. And she said she was down to go for another date.

But that was the last time we even really talked at all. I tried setting something up for the upcomming weekend and I wasn't able to get a hold of her. Then I see her sunday and ask if she was down to go out possibly on monday night. She said she was cool with it, but wasn't excited or anything. So monday came and I got a tattoo that she knew I was getting but she didn't call me or anything letting me know whats up with her. So it wasn't until I got back that she was working the front desk and then she didn't really answer my questions on what's up with that night but she said she was alright with going on later that week.

So back to last night, I emailed her facebook a night or two before and I left her a message on the phone. So as I was walking past the front desk I see her talking to some other RAs and she didn't once say "hey" or anything even though I saw eye to eye to her. The night before that, I was at a house party and this guy I knew said he wanted to get with her when we first started the semester but how she acted and what not she comes off as a player. That's actually believable because of the lack of girls here.

I sent an email a few hours ago and pretty much asked her if we are just friends or what. I mentioned the neglected phone calls and the email through out the week. So I might have jumped the gun, been overreacted, but I hate mind games.

What do you guys think, I've pretty much said everything about this situation. Should I just not care anymore and give up on these girls on campus? Remember there are only 30 girls and 200+ guys, a lot of these girls are known by now to be fucking around with multilple dudes and we just got into midterm. She's a beautiful girl, but usually the attractive, even not so attractive girls have the upper hand.

[Mixah]

dude.... pull off of her a bit..... you're going too fast. you said she's busy... that's most likely the reason she's not getting back to you.... if your school's like mine, mid terms week dude........ :-/

[SF_PHOCUS]

heyy bro... i kinda agree wif mixah a lil bit... you def do need to pull off her a lil bit... well i do consider myself veryyyyy well wif females considering i just came out of a horrible relationship... seems like you have a classic case of a Flakster... im assuming u already know wat flake means cause u used it in ur post... but before i could really help u theres a few things that kinda dont make sense..... well for one why didnt u move in for the kiss?? what stopped you from doing that? did u read her body language at all? like did she seem the leeaasssttt bit interested in being out at the time or even wif u at the matter...??? and heres wat prollyyy killed you...you said "the only thing I did was compliment on her looks"..Me personally i dont compliment girls especially if they already look good... why? because she already knows that and shes prolly herd that sameeee exact line 100 times before me in that day... so why would she wanna hear it again...So what were u guys basically talkin about?? was the convo one sided like would she start the convo or were u the one always starting the convo...?little things like this make all the difference... and I gonna bring up the point why didnt u try and build up for a kiss.... So wif the little i said... if i had to take a guess as to why she acted/is acting the way she is is because... SHES BORED OF/WIF U.... think about it... u didnt go in for the kiss but she prolly wanted you to kiss her... shes not gonna tell you cause she expects you to know.... and on topppp of that your sweating her or as i like to say feenin...from her responses to u askin her to go out again u said she sayin yeah to them but wif not type of excitement... well then i guess im right shes bored wif u and doesnt see any other reason to go out wif someone thats just gonna compliment her all day and not try and even give her a hug and a peck on the cheek.... but honestly theres alot of things u need to consider.... read through my post and try and look at it how im lookin at it and it will make sense i promise you...when u read back your post to urself have these words in ur mind.... NEEDY AND WUSSY! seriously im not tryna play you or anything i dont want you to think that

[BBQ]

The thing is, the last girl I dated, I moved way too fast and I crashed and burned from it. The last date with the recent girl, she had a meeting right after our dinner so I wasn't sure enough if it was a good moment to go and do it. I mean if we hung out a little longer then yeah, but the date only lasted like an hour tops. Maybe I am jumping the gun, but I never had a girl before neglect to call me back for this long. So I dunno, I guess I'm trying to justify myself, but hearing you guys so far, I probably did fuck things up. Oh well, I guess from now on it's up to her and I'll just keep reading this thread and see what other points I messed up on. Thanks.

[ChunLi]

Here's a advice coming from a girl that works 2 jobs and goes to school at night:

IF YOU REALLY LIKE the guy, you'll make time to make some type of contact! Whether it be email, text, voicemail, etc.

I'm not saying she does not like you or is not interested. It's just to what degree she is.

And you are right.. 30 girls to 200 guys...I'm sure those girls there think they are the shiz.

Don't put too much time into it. Give your attention to some other girl that wants it... who knows .. once you back off.. she might be running to you.. you know how women are!

=)

[BBQ]

Word. Going back to the girl I moved to fast, atleast she called me and told me how she felt instead of not calling at all and thinking I might have another chance with her. So it's all good if this other girl replies back and tells me how it is for good or bad, I'm a person that rather have upfront "cut the crap" answers then trying to be nice and pussyfoot around.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Thanks for the positive rep btw ::grin::

[SF_PHOCUS]

but what do you mean movin way to fast... the only way u could move wayyy to fast is if u just start groping her out of no where or somethin of that sort lol feel me?? i dont know if u posted this before but.. where did u guys go for the date... seein as how u said an hr im assuming it was to like a lounge or somethin like that?? just a lil bit more detail and i could prolly tell you exactlyy where u messed up! but dont worry all isnt lost....

[Infernoman]

Here's a advice coming from a girl that works 2 jobs and goes to school at night:

IF YOU REALLY LIKE the guy, you'll make time to make some type of contact! Whether it be email, text, voicemail, etc.

I'm not saying she does not like you or is not interested. It's just to what degree she is.

And you are right.. 30 girls to 200 guys...I'm sure those girls there think they are the shiz.

Don't put too much time into it. Give your attention to some other girl that wants it... who knows .. once you back off.. she might be running to you.. you know how women are!

=)

heh good advice...I made myself too available to one girl and thus I have backed off knowing how busy she is...she's now told me when we can meet up...but til then I wasn't sitting on my ass waiting on her. as you said show attention to another girl who wants it and behold! another girl (pointed out by my friend) has shown interest and is making time for me already. this coming week will indeed be interesting.

[gemdoom]

:bluu:this girl i knew for a while gets in my new health class.. we knew each other since 6th grade but we didn't talk much until recently when i thought it was her birthday and told her happy bday. so yesterday i was walking to homeroom when she says "hey" i didn't think it was me since she always ignores me or when i say high i get ignored since she is a bit snobby. so she hits me to say "hey" again but i was sleepy and didn't say anything only wassup in a low voice lol. so i continue walking to class when she's talking to her friend and they're walking behind me i get water and am walking besides them and am ignored. every time i see here she nevee says hey anymore i tried saying high to her but i got ignored. and get a short hey. if she never talked to me alot why did she bother saying hey in the first place.:rolleyes:

[ChunLi]

when she said "hey" the first time.. was she by herself?

[SF_PHOCUS]

u actually didnt do anything wrong lol... u kinda gave her some of her own treatment since u said shes a bit snobby... dont trip though she prolly said hi in the first place to be nice or even to test you to see how u would respond.... so try and make some small talk wif her... and see how it goes from there... lol i personally love talkin to snobby type girls.. it helps keep ur game on point plus why not walk next to a 10 as a pose to a 7?? ;-)

[gemdoom]

yea she was by herself when she talked the first time.... wtf liking to talk wit snobby chicks lol

[ChunLi]

Women tend to care what others think. She probably wants to talk to you but is too embarassed, ashamed or is trying to hide the fact that she knows you infront of her friends?? That's why maybe she only says hi when she's by herself?

Kinda like when you go to a club (well I don'tk now if your old enough) but when you are older and you go to a club. You have a better chance of striking a conversation with a girl by herself, than to a girl that's with a group of her friends.

A group of women tend to have a "pack" like attitude when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex (unless the entire group knows you).

Try saying hi to her when it's only her and see if she says hi back.

[BBQ]

but what do you mean movin way to fast... the only way u could move wayyy to fast is if u just start groping her out of no where or somethin of that sort lol feel me?? i dont know if u posted this before but.. where did u guys go for the date... seein as how u said an hr im assuming it was to like a lounge or somethin like that?? just a lil bit more detail and i could prolly tell you exactlyy where u messed up! but dont worry all isnt lost....

Nah, the last girl I dated, I pretty much ended up at her place, half naked and was making out with her to almost the deed, but she got shooked up from it and said she wasn't down for one night stands and basically wanted to take things slow which caused a game over from that night.

The recent girl, I took her out to a very nice italian resturant and spend the hour talking to her, just conversations on getting to know each other. But anyway, I havn't received an email back or any phone calls so if by next week I don't hear from her, I'll just throw in the towel and move on and wait tell ski season and go from there.

To some one that mentioned to move on to some one else while you are still dating the girl, I heard that advice before and the thing is, I really don't have that option considering that there are no other girls on campus that I can get with and the ski town has it's locals and they are pretty much set. Just got to wait tell the lifts open and I can work my game again.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Nah, the last girl I dated, I pretty much ended up at her place, half naked and was making out with her to almost the deed, but she got shooked up from it and said she wasn't down for one night stands and basically wanted to take things slow which caused a game over from that night.

The recent girl, I took her out to a very nice italian resturant and spend the hour talking to her, just conversations on getting to know each other. But anyway, I havn't received an email back or any phone calls so if by next week I don't hear from her, I'll just throw in the towel and move on and wait tell ski season and go from there.

To some one that mentioned to move on to some one else while you are still dating the girl, I heard that advice before and the thing is, I really don't have that option considering that there are no other girls on campus that I can get with and the ski town has it's locals and they are pretty much set. Just got to wait tell the lifts open and I can work my game again.
alright consider this...ur one of 300+ guys in a school with only 30 girls... why would anyone of those 30 girls wanna talk to you?? because ur prolly different fron the other 299 guys... so thats what u have to do especially wif this girl... like i had said before all is not lost... u didnt completly blow it... but the person that said talk to other girls was absolutley right... because if she somehow sees u interacting with other girls... she will prolly think ur not as needy as u prolly came off....u see where im goin with this... the idea of throwing in the towel isnt such a smart idea....do this while ur waiting to see wat happens findddd other girls to talk to.... lets say u talk to 5 by monday...and she hasnt responded by that time at least you have 5 other potentials to deal wif.... u feel me???

[SF_PHOCUS]

yea she was by herself when she talked the first time.... wtf liking to talk wit snobby chicks lol

lol hell yeah i love talkin to snobby chicks... cause its soooo funny when u break through all that bull shit she tries to put up and she starts actin real... thats when u start to hear phrases like "i usually dont do this but" lol ;-)

Oh and chunLi was soooo right! like if u wanted to talk to a girl thats surrounded by female friends especially u would have to engage them to so to speak in order to get the other girl.. lol my cousin sat me down and had a serious talk about this shitt when i was like 17... im 20 now and he told me almost the same thing chunli said

[gemdoom]

yea i dont wanna go out that much. im just confused by this. good looks

[SF_PHOCUS]

Oh hmm... hey dont beat urself up over it... lol honestly girls are hard as fuck to understand... i mean, they say one thing and meannn somethinggg wayyy different... they pick up on shit that u wouldnt even understand... me and my ex were goin to the movies.. and we gave the guy by the door out tickets.. and she said to me... "do you see his manicure"? they pick up on shit that just blow right over our heads lol... i can bet 100 dollars that u get her by december if u play ur cards right! lol bet it!!

[BBQ]

Finally the girl sent me an email. She said she has been super busy with school and work, and apologizes for neglecting my phone calls. She said she really wants to hang out with me and wants to get to know me better. Basically I did over react. But I think my email had to be done to get her attention. And now that I think about it, I think since I do like her and would like a relationship out of it, it's just a bad idea to try to hook up with other girls if I even had the option to. She kinda got upset a few weeks ago when our first planned date went to shit and saw me comming into the dorms with another girl that I was just classmates with. Maybe in a University setting where there are fair amounts of girls, but this is a small 2 year school.

I replied back telling her my reasons on why I emailed her, and came out with the entire truth from hearing rumors to being a little bummed on the neglected calls and emails. Also I said that I was still interested in her but let her do the deciding on a day to go out later on. I like her, she is probably the most attractive girl I've dated and even if my last email sounded like I am "needy" though I'm not a player and karma can be a bitch sometimes. If she does play me in the end and move on to the next guy then props to her for being a damn good actor.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Good shitt!! actually her seeing u wif another girl was actually one of the best things that could of happened... Ill let you figure out why smell me?? lol.. but it seems like she really does like you after all... from here the one word of advice i could give you is this.......the only way this could fuck up is if YOU fuck it up.... just try not to spill ur guts to her too soon... play it cool a lil bit.. and try and escalate a lil bit... if u know wat i mean... lol dont be afraid to touch... but when u do make sure u do it early on so that it seems natural as a pose to waiting till mid way through a date... u with me on that?? lmfao i feel like a dam coach ::grin::

[MrBuster]

^^^ Truth... Just on a side note, to keep her interested in you. Always have the mindset that YOU are the prize, and women have to compete for you. I'm not trying to say that you have to be an ass to people or you have to be a player or anything. But this mindset will knock out that "Needy " feeling as you so describe. I would go more in depth with this but I have to get ready to bounce.


Good luck sir and show her that you are a great person to know...

[ChunLi]

BBQ.. I'm glad things worked out.. but do you know her THAT well to presume that other girls you might meet in the near future won't be up to par or EVEN better?

I just don't want you to pass up potentially meeting other girls .. just waiting for this one... and if it doesn't turn out as planned.. you might be kicking yourself in the head later.

I'm not saying to wh0re yourself out... just if you meet a girl.. take it as it comes.. just don't shut it out.

If anything... just don't do it infront of that girl's face if you think she'll mind. She is NOT your gf and can't place you on hold like a sweater at the mall! You got other potential buyers yanno! Good luck!

[Double Reppuken]

It's been a long time since I've posted anywhere in this community but, seeing this thread i just had to.

I recently got out of a 6 year relationship (as in, "3 weeks ago" recently) that ended with the ex basically saying that she was tired of waiting to see me get my degree (it's been a bumpy 6 years, went on ap then booted after messing around, now i'm starting over and getting on track; next semester i get credentials and transfer out), and that "maybe" she'd take me back when i did.

Anyway, so like i said, it's been 3 weeks, all the stuff I had that reminded me of her was taken down and i've been going out with friends, going out for morning walks, that kind of thing. In the process I've met a few girls that I was able to hit it off with very well, but I kind of freaked because I wasn't sure if I was just rebounding or just wanting to have that feeling of being with someone again. So, I'm wondering, am I doing the right thing to try and move on, or am I trying to go to fast to forget the last relationship? Is there kind of a sure-fire way to tell?

Cheers.

[MrBlank]

^ sounds to me like you got a bit of both. your probably at that point where you trying to keep yourself occupied from thinking about your previous relationship, which probably is tempting you to rebound. but your also missing that feeling of being together.

I dont think its a bad thing that your trying to move on. in fact thats the whole point once you break up with someone. What you need to ask yourself is are you READY to move on. it sounds like you want to be over this but it also sounds like your just forcing yourself. These things need to be more natural, cause who knows one day your going to be drinking thinking your over that last relationship then your flipping out acting a fool and maybe doing something stupid like Calling her (Ex) while your drunk and shit.

To be honest though, you need to figure out why your Ex would use such a stupid excuse to break it off. I mean seriously what does YOUR degree have to do with her. HAS SHIT to do with anything. if your taking school 100% serious and neglecting her, then that may be a issue you personally had to fix. but you not getting your degree fast enough? seriously, there is more to that buddy and possibly a really lame excuse. I wouldnt break up with a girl if she took and extra 2 years to get her nursing degree shits ridiculous. it could be she just lost interest in the relationship. 6 years is a long time, most folks usually get married or plan to get married after that period of time. I hate to say this but there is also the possibility shes found someone else and broke up with you to pursue this other opportunity.

Did you notice anything different about her? has she been acting distant, has her REALLY Sexy Underwear been making appearances lately? Has she been taking her phone calls in private? if so chances are shes been eyeballing another person during the relationship.

I say move on champ. figure out what really went wrong, fix that and find yourself that happyness man.

Of course there is the possibility your EX is also just crazy, illogical and really wants you to get a degree... but hey to each his own i dont know what kind of person breaks it off based on educational merits.

[Double Reppuken]

^ sounds to me like you got a bit of both. your probably at that point where you trying to keep yourself occupied from thinking about your previous relationship, which probably is tempting you to rebound. but your also missing that feeling of being together.

I dont think its a bad thing that your trying to move on. in fact thats the whole point once you break up with someone. What you need to ask yourself is are you READY to move on. it sounds like you want to be over this but it also sounds like your just forcing yourself.

*snip*

Did you notice anything different about her? has she been acting distant, has her REALLY Sexy Underwear been making appearances lately? Has she been taking her phone calls in private? if so chances are shes been eyeballing another person during the relationship.

I say move on champ. figure out what really went wrong, fix that and find yourself that happyness man.

Of course there is the possibility your EX is also just crazy, illogical and really wants you to get a degree... but hey to each his own i dont know what kind of person breaks it off based on educational merits.

In regards to the first half of what you said, I am in that kind of funk hehe. I don't feel like i miss the ex anymore, i'm not sitting at the cell waiting for a call or doing the check e-mail religiously thing. But at the same time, i want to make sure that the next girl i meet and get along with I don't mess up by comparing her to the ex or anything stupid like that.

As for the ex, well, the thing that drove her over the edge was that she met with an aunt of hers that hadn't seen her since she started high school, literally met with her a day after our anniversary. Anyway, so, the aunt tells her how her husband isn't working and hasn't tried looking for work, and now has to support the kids and the two of them alone. So, I guess the ex transferred that to our situation (she works for a power company after months of rejections, and i'm in college trying to plow through the last of my requirements for transfer), and thought that I would just be leeching off her.

Before the break, nothing suspicious happened really, she was really excited about the 6 year anniversary, so much so that she had planned the whole day and was looking forward to it. She hasn't been talking to other guys, that i know of at least, and if she took phone calls, i was usually in the room with her, the only time she wasn't was when she started walking around while talking with her friend about her new job.

As a follow up though, the thing that kind of made me think "okay, you need to get over her" is that a few days after the break up, i decided to go out with her but with mutual friends there too. Anyway, so a friend brought up the fact that I'm going for single-subject credential for teaching math, and he said "wow that sounds great, I am thinking of going into teaching too," and before i could say anything, the ex looks at him and says "oh, you can do better." So, I kind of thought, "well, if this whole wait thing is true, then she won't be happy with the job i have, and if i get a better job, she might find something else to criticize about."

So, yeah, I dunno, it's probably like you said in the closing, the "possibility your EX is just also crazy."

I felt like she had a point for a while since i've been taking longer than others to graduate, but in talking with friends and other people from hanging out with friends, they took a long time too and still found good jobs.

So...yeah. I'm severely confused at the moment.

Thanks for the reply

[pherai]

To be honest though, you need to figure out why your Ex would use such a stupid excuse to break it off. I mean seriously what does YOUR degree have to do with her.


I'll tell you right now. Her shelf life is dwindling, and she was expecting you to start pulling in more cash by now. You aren't, so she needs to find someone that is already successful. That's why she says she'll think about taking you back when you graduate. You haven't changed, but she wants the money to start coming in, and wants you to work to get her back. Eff that. Find someone else, and start seeing people now. Don't bother sitting around brooding. It's not worth it. There's nothing wrong with you taking a while, but thats just how a lot of women think.

[MrBlank]

^ fa sho...

i had a feeling it was for the financial security needs she wanted.

but seriously if she would rather listen to her aunt then oh well. her decisioning is based off of spending her future with you.

but mannnnn thats fucked up aint it.

[Double Reppuken]

Such is life i guess. Thanks for the input, fellas.

[supaman]

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man that is fucked up to think what happened to her aunt would happen to you.

You stay in a relationship based on your personal feelings torwards one another, not someone elses. To tell you the truth it's her lost mang, you have to continue what you are doing with your life.

As far as hitting off with girls, there is nothing wrong with that. You can chill with them, be friends and shit before you even commit to another relationship.

[SF_PHOCUS]

It's been a long time since I've posted anywhere in this community but, seeing this thread i just had to.

I recently got out of a 6 year relationship (as in, "3 weeks ago" recently) that ended with the ex basically saying that she was tired of waiting to see me get my degree (it's been a bumpy 6 years, went on ap then booted after messing around, now i'm starting over and getting on track; next semester i get credentials and transfer out), and that "maybe" she'd take me back when i did.

Anyway, so like i said, it's been 3 weeks, all the stuff I had that reminded me of her was taken down and i've been going out with friends, going out for morning walks, that kind of thing. In the process I've met a few girls that I was able to hit it off with very well, but I kind of freaked because I wasn't sure if I was just rebounding or just wanting to have that feeling of being with someone again. So, I'm wondering, am I doing the right thing to try and move on, or am I trying to go to fast to forget the last relationship? Is there kind of a sure-fire way to tell?

Cheers.

Hey man listen... a few points to give you... 1) I FUCKIN FEEL YOU... I too recently broke off a long relationship and i tell yah it sucked... but anyway lol ur doin the right thing 100 percent.... takin stuff down goin out wif friends the walks and even hitting it off wif another girl!.... u feel me?? usually for most people doing all the stuff u did after a breakup is next to impossible!!!!! 2)ur doing the right thing to try and move on.... the whole point is to forget the last relationship so you could move on... you wouldnt want to put that baggage on ur next potential shorty.... there really isnt a sure-fire way to tell actually... you just have to fight through it and put that behind you... oh and put "her taking you back" behind you too!

[mr. newbie]

ok so i went on a date yesterday-movies. when she picked me up we had a pretty good conversation. we watched the movie but no touching. i didn't exactly feel like grabbing her hand or something out of the blue.

when we get out conversation wise she's interested, but the body language seems like she's not 100% into it. when she dropped me off it was really akward. i hadn't done anything the whole night so i didn't know where to go. i said thanks for the ride and left. then i got the sense she wanted me to stay.

should i forget about it? i have other numbers. or continue and try to step me game up? i'm concerned if i move on i'll end up in the same boat with the next one.

[SuicidalGrandpa]

ok so i went on a date yesterday-movies. when she picked me up we had a pretty good conversation. we watched the movie but no touching. i didn't exactly feel like grabbing her hand or something out of the blue.

when we get out conversation wise she's interested, but the body language seems like she's not 100% into it. when she dropped me off it was really akward. i hadn't done anything the whole night so i didn't know where to go. i said thanks for the ride and left. then i got the sense she wanted me to stay.

should i forget about it? i have other numbers. or continue and try to step me game up? i'm concerned if i move on i'll end up in the same boat with the next one.

Hold up. You went on one date, to the movies, and you're gonna give up?

[bridgypoo]

ok so i went on a date yesterday-movies. when she picked me up we had a pretty good conversation. we watched the movie but no touching. i didn't exactly feel like grabbing her hand or something out of the blue.

when we get out conversation wise she's interested, but the body language seems like she's not 100% into it. when she dropped me off it was really akward. i hadn't done anything the whole night so i didn't know where to go. i said thanks for the ride and left. then i got the sense she wanted me to stay.

should i forget about it? i have other numbers. or continue and try to step me game up? i'm concerned if i move on i'll end up in the same boat with the next one.

Newbie, show comfort. I don't know one woman that dislikes comfort from another man. She may not accept you as a significant other, but she'll love you as a friend.

Don't do nothing, bro. Normally chicks want you guys to make the first moves. Shows how much of a "man" you are, in their sense. (Coming from a girl :s)

If anything, call her and ask her if she'd like to go out somewhere sociable. Don't tell her that exactly. Just be like, "I was thinking perhaps we could go get some coffee, or maybe some pizza". You guys already have hit it off with conversation. Now, step 2 is making your move physically. You don't have to kiss her or anything. Just like, hold her hand, or tell her she looks pretty then hold her hand. You got the chemistry with her if you sensed that she wanted you to stay with her in the car after she dropped you off.

I cannot stress enough: DO NOT JUST LEAVE AFTER SHE DROPS YOU OFF. How would you feel if she did the same? I'm sure you were just upset that you didn't lay a move, but there are always second dates. Don't think of grabbing her hand as something out of the blue. Think of it as, "Hey, She wants you to hold her hand." This'll make you more confident in making moves.

I'd say step it up, yo~ What do you have to lose? And I'm sure if you wanted to date the girl, she is attractive physically, no? Then you'd get yourself a hot friend if she didn't want to date you. Good luck, Newbie.

[SF_PHOCUS]

ok so i went on a date yesterday-movies. when she picked me up we had a pretty good conversation. we watched the movie but no touching. i didn't exactly feel like grabbing her hand or something out of the blue.

when we get out conversation wise she's interested, but the body language seems like she's not 100% into it. when she dropped me off it was really akward. i hadn't done anything the whole night so i didn't know where to go. i said thanks for the ride and left. then i got the sense she wanted me to stay.

should i forget about it? i have other numbers. or continue and try to step me game up? i'm concerned if i move on i'll end up in the same boat with the next one.

well seems like u did everything right to get into the frind catogory and thats a hard one to get out of my friend... well to address u not touching... i want you to tell me if uuu think this makes sense... well u said u didnt wanna grab her hand out of the blue or something... thats kind of when u messed up... when ur interacting wif a girl..... you WANT to touch her in some way asssss soooonn assss possible so she can get used to u touching her.... it doesnt have to be anything serious... but it has to be earllllyyyyy on.... i used to wonder the same exact thing... she will be more comfortable with it if u firsttt do it when u firsstt see her for the date of watever as a pose to you waiting till ur about to drop her off... of course its gonna be akward.... makes sense? if u got the sense that she wanted u to stay all u had to do was... when u reach her house... you could of said something like... i like this convo... mind if we continue it inside?? and based on how she answered you could kind of tell where u stand... move on... but just remember to not have that akward feeling in regards to touch do it early in the interaction...! ::wipes head:: another good post for phocus lol =D

[mr. newbie]

thanks a lot. im gonna step it up

[BBQ]

BBQ.. I'm glad things worked out.. but do you know her THAT well to presume that other girls you might meet in the near future won't be up to par or EVEN better?

I just don't want you to pass up potentially meeting other girls .. just waiting for this one... and if it doesn't turn out as planned.. you might be kicking yourself in the head later.

I'm not saying to wh0re yourself out... just if you meet a girl.. take it as it comes.. just don't shut it out.

If anything... just don't do it infront of that girl's face if you think she'll mind. She is NOT your gf and can't place you on hold like a sweater at the mall! You got other potential buyers yanno! Good luck!


Yeah I know I can go and find other girls, but like I said, until ski season starts, it's super hard to find optional partners. I went to CSU in Ft. Collins this weekend and it was rediculous on the amount of girls there are compared to steamboat. It sucks that the town and school isn't that big. I guess I sound like this girl is the one and only for me, but that isn't the truth at all. To me she is one of a few girls here that have potential of getting into a relationship while others are straight up flakes. Ski season is a huge part of this town and to all the guys that lived here more then a day, it's the time to actually hook up.

[catchafire]

Yeah I know I can go and find other girls, but like I said, until ski season starts, it's super hard to find optional partners. I went to CSU in Ft. Collins this weekend and it was rediculous on the amount of girls there are compared to steamboat. It sucks that the town and school isn't that big. I guess I sound like this girl is the one and only for me, but that isn't the truth at all. To me she is one of a few girls here that have potential of getting into a relationship while others are straight up flakes. Ski season is a huge part of this town and to all the guys that lived here more then a day, it's the time to actually hook up.

So relationships are based around ski season? This is analogous to beach season in California I presume. So what if there isn't much snow fall this year or climate change really starts to take effect, will that cause "hook-ups" to decline?

I can't wait until it snows; i've been itching to go snowboarding :lovin:

[Higher-Jin]

Just seems strangely appropriate for the thread.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMgyZo87mjI

"Bitch dependency is no laughing matter. Addiction to a bitch can fuck with your friends, your health, and scary enough even your money."

[BBQ]

So relationships are based around ski season? This is analogous to beach season in California I presume. So what if there isn't much snow fall this year or climate change really starts to take effect, will that cause "hook-ups" to decline?

I can't wait until it snows; i've been itching to go snowboarding :lovin:

Steamboat Springs is a small town and it thrives on the business of the ski season. This goes with the majority of males trying to hook up with females aswell. It's sad, but I've been living here for about 2-3 months and I see the same people at the bars every time I go. And majority of women are all taken or just got broken up and just want to have no guys in their lives for the time being.

But I have to see it to believe it when some guys say that during the ski season, especially around the holidays, there are lots of single women with their girlfriends taking vacations here to enjoy the powder and the night life. Supposedly a lot of the women also lose their ambitions and just have a really good time. Like I said though, I have to see it to believe it.

Anyway, the girl I'm trying to get with, I think it's going to end up nowhere except trying to be freinds. She seems kinda pissed that I sent her another email telling her why I sent the first email because of rumors and appreciating that she finally did set things straight. It was a lose lose situation with this girl now that I think of it and if she doesn't call me then I'll just take it as a lost.

[catchafire]

Steamboat Springs is a small town and it thrives on the business of the ski season. This goes with the majority of males trying to hook up with females aswell. It's sad, but I've been living here for about 2-3 months and I see the same people at the bars every time I go. And majority of women are all taken or just got broken up and just want to have no guys in their lives for the time being.

But I have to see it to believe it when some guys say that during the ski season, especially around the holidays, there are lots of single women with their girlfriends taking vacations here to enjoy the powder and the night life. Supposedly a lot of the women also lose their ambitions and just have a really good time. Like I said though, I have to see it to believe it.

Anyway, the girl I'm trying to get with, I think it's going to end up nowhere except trying to be freinds. She seems kinda pissed that I sent her another email telling her why I sent the first email because of rumors and appreciating that she finally did set things straight. It was a lose lose situation with this girl now that I think of it and if she doesn't call me then I'll just take it as a lost.

Try researching the articles on askmen.com... They have a philosophy that guides me.

[SF_PHOCUS]

"My Name is A Pimp Named Slickback! And This Sir is An Intervention! Your Friends have reason to believe that you are suffering from chronic Bitch dependency! Lol Higher Jin What the hell possessed you to find such a perfect clip for these few posts ;-)

[Leila_Buchanan]

is there any place you guys take girls regularly just to hang out? something along the lines of chilling at your place with the stereo playing Miles Davis in the background, but not at your house..

i'm looking for that kind of atmosphere you get just sitting in the car chilling to music, all deep introspective and sentimental and shit. i was lucky enough to find a quiet bar last Friday, but i think there'd be room to lay back even more elsewhere. any help would be appreciated.

Russian bars are pretty good to go to... The singing is good, and the vodka is cheap, so we chicks don't care if we don't know the language.

There are some good ones in Baltimore.

[Leila_Buchanan]

It's been a long time since I've posted anywhere in this community but, seeing this thread i just had to.

I recently got out of a 6 year relationship (as in, "3 weeks ago" recently) that ended with the ex basically saying that she was tired of waiting to see me get my degree (it's been a bumpy 6 years, went on ap then booted after messing around, now i'm starting over and getting on track; next semester i get credentials and transfer out), and that "maybe" she'd take me back when i did.

Cheers.

Forget her... That's just a crappy way of stringing a guy along. No matter how many balls you parry, she's not gonna give you due respect for your actions.

[SF_PHOCUS]

lmao @ maybe she'd take me back when i did...i remember when i used to think like that smh...

[Taito]

I really have a great girl on my team right now.., maybe with past gfs I wasn't really trying to go overboard with being too nice, but I really wanna go there this time. What's some smooth and charming stuff you can do for your significant other? I'm usually good for saying something sweet at the right moment but I want to try something other than words.. like a postcard or cheap gift or something (although it doesn't have to be material/monetary). Any suggestions?

EDIT: Spit's av is excellent.

[spit]

I really have a great girl on my team right now.., maybe with past gfs I wasn't really trying to go overboard with being too nice, but I really wanna go there this time. What's some smooth and charming stuff you can do for your significant other? I'm usually good for saying something sweet at the right moment but I want to try something other than words.. like a postcard or cheap gift or something (although it doesn't have to be material/monetary). Any suggestions?

EDIT: Spit's av is excellent.

Thanks man.... but I didn't make it. Some how my last post just vanished. I should be sporting your post..... cause I fell like RiLEY.... "Niggahz be hating on SRK for real!"

And I still like sluts the best!

[ChunLi]

Taito:

-if she ever makes an extra effort to look good.. kinda look like "whoa.. you look amazing"
-if you happen to get close to her..touch her face (kinda caress).. sends chills down most women's spine =)


don't overload on that stuff.. but those occasional small stuff is what chics love to tell their other gfs about.. i know.. i hear that crap all the time =/ ...

[SF_PHOCUS]

I really have a great girl on my team right now.., maybe with past gfs I wasn't really trying to go overboard with being too nice, but I really wanna go there this time. What's some smooth and charming stuff you can do for your significant other? I'm usually good for saying something sweet at the right moment but I want to try something other than words.. like a postcard or cheap gift or something (although it doesn't have to be material/monetary). Any suggestions?

EDIT: Spit's av is excellent.


well think about it like this... you dont wanna be toooo nice lol... what i mean is that you dont wanna smother her wif a whole bunch of gifts and shit like that.... it almost sends the wrong message... i dont know like your trying to keep her around wif gifts you feel me?? but to answer ur questions theres plenty you can do... one day call her out the blue and say babe... Be ready by 9 oclock and look real nice.. Im takin you out and dont tell her where... or rent some scary movies, order some pizza and hang out at the house wif her... Or if u guys are comfortable wif sex already you could tease her... like for example you could send her a text message sayin somethin like "i bet you wish i was here________ lol fill in the rest.. personally i used to do that all the time whenever i knew she was somewhere like work or school lol..... smh im tooo good at this stuff:rolleyes:

[BBQ]

Well SRK, I finally gave up on the girl. I learned that I made the mistake of being needy like every one said and caused her to get to me. She flaked me once again. Afterwards I went to the bar, had a few drinks, thought about it, and then called her and left her a message that was basically the last umph of the wussiness that came out of me. Now I feel good, because even if this bitch pours her heart out at me I'm just going to let it pass me by and go on with my life. Ask men is a great websi