The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Striderhyru05]

I talked to the girl today on the phone for the first time since friday. I told her to check her schedule and call me when shes on break. I want to find a good spot to take her this week.

things are hopefully going to get better from here. I have one last chance to really woo her before its over.

[Taito]

Shit, it's MySpace's fault that there's no 'who cares, I don't even mess with MySpace like that' button for status.. cause that's what I really want to put down..

[SF_PHOCUS]

LMFAO Taito i feel you!!!!! im bout to talk to tom about that seriously... shitt myspace gets alot of people in situations! "Who the hell is that bitch that said blah blah blah" that cracks me up but i dont question her.... i guess jealousy really is a female trait

[SF_PHOCUS]

I talked to the girl today on the phone for the first time since friday. I told her to check her schedule and call me when shes on break. I want to find a good spot to take her this week.

things are hopefully going to get better from here. I have one last chance to really woo her before its over.

Heres a tip that i use for myself... take her somewhere where convo is built right in... like bowling or pool something like that... i wouldnt say dinner to me thats just a tadddddd cheesy... save that for when yall really start dating... somewhere like the movies too.... save that for later on... why? because thats what ur gonna do in the theater... watch a movie.... feel me?? try and get her comfortable in havin convos wif u.. it will make things 20x easier

[Ill E]

pffft dont kick her off the myspace list... put her first... tell her you not even into all of that...an dont trip cause most likely (maybe) in her lil myspace she got pics of both of yall an i dont know if its the same for you.... if she still trips off the 'single' title... then switch it just avoid the infamous WHY NOT™ thats like a rushin k groove sagat in rage an suddenly cable an jago are comin from behind to assist sagat... avoid it an avoid drama

LOL .." an suddently cable and jago are comin from behind" :rofl: :lol:

[kane_warhead]

Okay here's the situation:

Once a week, I drive a female friend of mine home. because we're in the same class and it finishes at like late at night. My female friend is hittable atleast. Anyway, she has never engaged in any sexual encounters(she's a virgin). She has a boyfriend(I dont care about him), but this female friend of mine is a close friend. Recently she started opening up sexual topics, call it curiosity. Then this could really lead to doing the deed, if I played my cards right.

So uhmmm do I hit it or not? Should I risk ruining our friendship just to get a lay or not?

[ChunLi]

Okay here's the situation:

Once a week, I drive a female friend of mine home. because we're in the same class and it finishes at like late at night. My female friend is hittable atleast. Anyway, she has never engaged in any sexual encounters(she's a virgin). She has a boyfriend(I dont care about him), but this female friend of mine is a close friend. Recently she started opening up sexual topics, call it curiosity. Then this could really lead to doing the deed, if I played my cards right.

So uhmmm do I hit it or not? Should I risk ruining our friendship just to get a lay or not?

The fact that she's a virgin is something you should consider carefully.. you don't know what this girl is gonna act like after you guys decide to do it.

She may be cool and chill.. or she may be "you took my virginity.. i thought you loved me you asshole!!"crap.

Talking about sex doesn't necessarily lead to doing the deed unless she asks what you like/preferences/favorites are repeatedly!

Good luck.

[kane_warhead]

The fact that she's a virgin is something you should consider carefully.. you don't know what this girl is gonna act like after you guys decide to do it.

She may be cool and chill.. or she may be "you took my virginity.. i thought you loved me you asshole!!"crap.

Talking about sex doesn't necessarily lead to doing the deed unless she asks what you like/preferences/favorites are repeatedly!

Good luck.

This is why I realized that I could do it with her. Problem is I did this kind off with a best friend of mine more than a year ago, now we're the worst of enemies because of that.

I just find it funny that she hadn't done it with her bf yet.

I'm having second thoughts if I wanna do it.

[Havoc]

I would never take a girl's virginity.

Way too much bullshit.

[zer0_858]

This is why I realized that I could do it with her. Problem is I did this kind off with a best friend of mine more than a year ago, now we're the worst of enemies because of that.

I just find it funny that she hadn't done it with her bf yet.

I'm having second thoughts if I wanna do it.

if your having doubts don't do it. You don't want to regret it later.

[ToyRobotTerror]

Thanks for the tips before but i'm firmly rooted in the friend zone, which in this case isn't that bad.

[SF_PHOCUS]

This is why I realized that I could do it with her. Problem is I did this kind off with a best friend of mine more than a year ago, now we're the worst of enemies because of that.

I just find it funny that she hadn't done it with her bf yet.

I'm having second thoughts if I wanna do it.

woah woah lol.. it alllllllllllll depends on how u go about it... if u bring up the idea of sex as trying to help her out lets say... then there will be less feelings involved as a pose to if u tried to go the other route... the i feel this is something we should do blah blah blah route.... next time she brings up somethin sexual... ask her if she would be willing to try it... u dont have to say wif u right away just ask... if she says yes then u can mention wif u...im sure u can come up with somethin to say... its in ur hands though... if u dont want to do it then its really not goin to work and there wont be any point.. makes sense?

[Koop]

I would never take a girl's virginity.

Way too much bullshit.

cosign with cable/jago assist..

[Warpticon]

haha, you and your cable/jago.

[gemdoom]

ok wtf. so this girl i thought i was interested has the od attitude of course nto at me but i saw that fury being unleashed . fuck that shit.

[SF_PHOCUS]

ok wtf. so this girl i thought i was interested has the od attitude of course nto at me but i saw that fury being unleashed . fuck that shit.

still havin problems? lol she sounds like trouble!:lol:

[Silentness!]

Ok serious question...

how do I hook up with a Korean chick without going to a STD infested club.
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ANYWHERE BUT A CLUB SCENE. I'll most likely be in Korea for 2 years, but how the hell do I make a relationship with a girl when I'm not fluent in Korean?

[SF_PHOCUS]

Ok serious question...

how do I hook up with a Korean chick without going to a STD infested club.
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ANYWHERE BUT A CLUB SCENE. I'll most likely be in Korea for 2 years, but how the hell do I make a relationship with a girl when I'm not fluent in Korean?

try and familiarize urself with the culture a little bit... actually you could use that to ur advantage... find a nice cute one and tell them ur tryin to better ur understandin of their culture(and her as well lol).... or you could always sign up to a dating service.... they actually do work or even myspace.... yah dig???

[Silentness!]

yeah that always works. It's a good way to have lengthy conversation, but the only problem is being able to communicate with my limited Korean. :wasted:

[orochizoolander]

I use myspace to talk to my friends I know in real life.. or meet certain activity friends .. (like if they like trance..street fighter etc).

there's a reason why people's page is on private.. they don't want to meet any strangers.. if your chic is talking to random strangers.. that's something you might wanna consider ...

1)she either must not think you're doing it for her enough.. so she's looking for communication from someone else..

or

2) she's got self esteem issues and thinks getting jocked by random strangers make her feel better...

and either reason gets :tdown: in my book ... it's one thing to have competition when you take your girl out and guys stare at her.. you/she can't control that.. but having fanboys off the internet.. she CAN DEFINITELY control that


Couldn't have said it better myself i guess myspace is a girl thing i will never understand the appeal of spending hours looking at commments or whatever. Myspace whores r jus sooooooooo 2006:rofl:

BTW correct me if i'm wrong but it kinda looks like ur directing ur advice to me:looney:

longass truthful post

All that shit is common sense IMO except for the suit thing lol i dunno bout that.

I would never take a girl's virginity.

Way too much bullshit.



:tup: I know countless women who still like their ex SOLELY on the basis that they were their first. A warning for anyone whos thinkin bout tearin up a virgin she most likely will confuse love with infatuation n fall for you HARD n may start to get clingy n whatnot which tends to ruin the relationship FAST:wasted:




EDIT: For SRK'ers in NY make sure to never mess around with any girl from hofstra university the STD rate there is through da roof:wasted:


EDIT2: silent ness u a smart guy so i'm sure youl figure out some kinda body language to get ur point across and if alll else fails....TEH ER U DUN SPEEK GUD ENGRISH BUT HAVE BIG PENIS!!!!!!!

[SF_PHOCUS]

^^ true lol!!! "my girls talk like voohhh shah shsa sha"..... I just say right..... lmao

[FreddyL0c0]

this is how you don't behave in clubs: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqcAON8Z4WQ

the ending is hilarious

[brightsons]

this how to not behave in clubs: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fqcAON8Z4WQ

the ending is hilarious

LOL :rofl: Both were terrible.

[onyx]

I would never take a girl's virginity.

Way too much bullshit.

I used to think that too, untill my pseudo GF gave me her virginity (y nigga's always gotta take $hit?) What ever feelings she had for me were there before the we tried the first time. The only thing that may be trouble (if you wanna call it that) is tring not to hurt her. It took me multiple attemps on seperate occations before i was 100% sucessful... But she's a little petite oriental girl n i'm a big black guy so, that might have had something to do with my execution. We're still kool though, she didnt get crazy or clingy, just more affectionate, witch usually happens once you get sexual with N E 1.

All that shit is common sense IMO except for the suit thing lol i dunno bout that.

Ya, especially on the hygene aspect, but not everyone use's common sense like Bush. Trust the on the suit thing though, instantly puts you on the God Teir level. You wont even have to say anything and pull numbers sometimes.. No bs, happend twice just lastnight:bgrin: Holloween is the best party night:pray:


Question for ladies... or guys whatever....
I've never been with a sexually inexperianced girl before until now. There are lots of things i'm used to and lots of stuff i like thats more in the advanced levels lets say. I tell/show her what i want, but i just feel awkward, like im an instructor or something...:bluu:

How do you turn a chick out without making her feel like a slut??? I know it's a odd/vauge question..

[SF_PHOCUS]

I used to think that too, untill my pseudo GF gave me her virginity (y nigga's always gotta take $hit?) What ever feelings she had for me were there before the we tried the first time. The only thing that may be trouble (if you wanna call it that) is tring not to hurt her. It took me multiple attemps on seperate occations before i was 100% sucessful... But she's a little petite oriental girl n i'm a big black guy so, that might have had something to do with my execution. We're still kool though, she didnt get crazy or clingy, just more affectionate, witch usually happens once you get sexual with N E 1.



Ya, especially on the hygene aspect, but not everyone use's common sense like Bush. Trust the on the suit thing though, instantly puts you on the God Teir level. You wont even have to say anything and pull numbers sometimes.. No bs, happend twice just lastnight:bgrin: Holloween is the best party night:pray:


Question for ladies... or guys whatever....
I've never been with a sexually inexperianced girl before until now. There are lots of things i'm used to and lots of stuff i like thats more in the advanced levels lets say. I tell/show her what i want, but i just feel awkward, like im an instructor or something...:bluu:

How do you turn a chick out without making her feel like a slut??? I know it's a odd/vauge question..

lol how to turn out a girl thats never been turned out... my best advice would be to watch a porn wif her.... and take it from there... once u pop in the dvd thousands of ideas will pop into ur head... or u could read a mag wif her..... or even show her some kama sutra type shit.... lol wif me this has a very high success rate... lol im sooo serious... if u wanna take the safer route id go wif somethin kama sutra based... lol for obivious reasons as well lol...:smokin:

[onyx]

lol how to turn out a girl thats never been turned out... my best advice would be to watch a porn wif her.... and take it from there... once u pop in the dvd thousands of ideas will pop into ur head... or u could read a mag wif her..... or even show her some kama sutra type shit.... lol wif me this has a very high success rate... lol im sooo serious... if u wanna take the safer route id go wif somethin kama sutra based... lol for obivious reasons as well lol...:smokin:

Ya we did the porn thing, then did our thing.. I dunno, she's just to shy or self concious, maybee she needs tiem to open up and be more comfortable, or maybee she's just boring...:yawn:.. But itz not all about the sex right:wonder::bluu:

Edit:Well i gotta give her props on one thing, she's been beging me to record our sessions so she can watch it :) i gotta borrow a camcorder, or fix mine.

[Chozen1]

Ya we did the porn thing, then did our thing.. I dunno, she's just to shy or self concious, maybee she needs tiem to open up and be more comfortable, or maybee she's just boring...:yawn:.. But itz not all about the sex right:wonder::bluu:

Edit:Well i gotta give her props on one thing, she's been beging me to record our sessions so she can watch it :) i gotta borrow a camcorder, or fix mine.

rather than wasting you ttime on that you should experiment with her more than wanting to record her and not only that, be patient calm and no pressure do only what she feels is comfortable. remember, good things come to those who wait along with patience is a virtue. Eventually and/or gradually she will succumb to all sorts of shit you've learned/tried together. You'll surprise yourself in the end.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Ya we did the porn thing, then did our thing.. I dunno, she's just to shy or self concious, maybee she needs tiem to open up and be more comfortable, or maybee she's just boring...:yawn:.. But itz not all about the sex right:wonder::bluu:

Edit:Well i gotta give her props on one thing, she's been beging me to record our sessions so she can watch it :) i gotta borrow a camcorder, or fix mine.

Your right she needs to be more comfortable... so keep tryin lol... and thumbs up on her wanting to record sessions.... i swear girls incriminate themselves lmfao...

Thats a pic of my ex by the way... lol im startin to miss her:sad:

[BBQ]

Well:lol: your attitude towards women seems a bit bitter/disrespectful, i hope that doesnt show when your actually talk to females.. But here are some thing you can do go get started.



I have became very salty when it comes to girls lately due to the lack of women where I'm at. But I've cooled down, got my head straight and going out and trying again. When I do talk to girls though, most of the time I talk about everyday stuff or talk to them like I do with my friends or other guys. I think my problem is, the conversations are dull and there's no flirtatious or exciting things.

Holloween night I was talking to this girl and she mentioned her getting a degree to become an eye doctor. I then brought up when I had eye corrective surgery that wasn't lasik but PRK. Told her the procedure and stuff that I assumed because it made people interested to hear, she would do that same. The thing that killed the conversation with her was the loud music and having my buddies calling me over. One last thing and probably most importaint was that I didn't get her number. She has a facebook, but I think it's too late unless I see her again sometime.

So I got another question. When you guys go up to girls, what are some of the things you talk about other then normal "interview" questions that are boring and kills the woman's interest level?

[SF_PHOCUS]

So I got another question. When you guys go up to girls, what are some of the things you talk about other then normal "interview" questions that are boring and kills the woman's interest level?


Lol nowww ur on the right track... well its allwayssss good to have somethin to say before time.. just to engage her... like a pre made question made JUST to start up a convo.... theres nothin wrong wif this at all... for instance... u see two cuties standin infront of a store like there gonna be there for a while... You walk up dont make it obivious and u ask somethin like... Hey, I need a females perspective on something...... MOST of the time they will say sure cause women love to help guys especially if a guy wants a girls opinion... so when she says "sure" then u could ask something like... I wanted to know would you talk to a guy that is still good friends wif his ex??? ive tried that a few times and that works.... or if u dont want to go that route you can always use somethin else... but somethin interestin.... fashion is a great one.... like another one i like to use is..." hey lemme ask u a question... is there somethin wrong wif guys (me) wearin Juicy couture? then i get into a story of how my friends blah blah blah.... u see wat i mean?? try and come up wif a interestin opening line to engage her then u can take it from there... lol i have plentyyyy of situations that ive been thru and i can post some if u would like...?:sweat:

[onyx]

rather than wasting you ttime on that you should experiment with her more than wanting to record her and not only that, be patient calm and no pressure do only what she feels is comfortable. remember, good things come to those who wait along with patience is a virtue. Eventually and/or gradually she will succumb to all sorts of shit you've learned/tried together. You'll surprise yourself in the end.

Word, i'm all about no pressure, if the chick dosent make it utterly and completely obvious that she wasnt to do something, i dont even mention or insinuate it... Until after that first time, then its whatever..But yean patience is a virture...

Your right she needs to be more comfortable... so keep tryin lol... and thumbs up on her wanting to record sessions.... i swear girls incriminate themselves lmfao...
Hey, wasnt my idea. I was in slight shock when she mentioned it the first time i was like "how do you go from being a virgin to, "lets record some things":confused:" She brought it up like 4 times now... Come to think of it... Maybbe she'd be more inclined to try $hit when that camera is pointed @ her.... Exebitionist maybee:lovin:

I have became very salty when it comes to girls lately due to the lack of women where I'm at. But I've cooled down, got my head straight and going out and trying again. When I do talk to girls though, most of the time I talk about everyday stuff or talk to them like I do with my friends or other guys. I think my problem is, the conversations are dull and there's no flirtatious or exciting things.

Holloween night I was talking to this girl and she mentioned her getting a degree to become an eye doctor. I then brought up when I had eye corrective surgery that wasn't lasik but PRK. Told her the procedure and stuff that I assumed because it made people interested to hear, she would do that same. The thing that killed the conversation with her was the loud music and having my buddies calling me over. One last thing and probably most importaint was that I didn't get her number. She has a facebook, but I think it's too late unless I see her again sometime.

So I got another question. When you guys go up to girls, what are some of the things you talk about other then normal "interview" questions that are boring and kills the woman's interest level? There's a book i hear its pretty good, just ordered one myslef a few days ago THE GAME (http://www.earthlingcommunication.com/blog/review-of-the-game-by-neil-strauss.php) I havnet read it yet, but most of the reviews prais ethe author. At the very least it should give you a little more insight to the aspects of the game, every little bit helps.

[Silentness!]

you ordered that shit? (The Game)

I read it... meh. No book/website will help you if you don't have enough confidence to talk to women.

[SF_PHOCUS]

you ordered that shit? (The Game)

I read it... meh. No book/website will help you if you don't have enough confidence to talk to women.

Yeh i read it too... it def added to wat i already knew about girls... i concur to anyone that wants to read this book to help out there game... No matter how much advice someone gives u about talkin to women if u dont go out and actually try wat u learned then wats the point??? its like playin basketball.... u know how to shoot cause u watch people do it or u were given tips.. but if u dont go on the court and actually practice then its pointless... so wat ness said is true...Neil Strauss is a great pickup artist btw... him mystery and david deangelo

[onyx]

you ordered that shit? (The Game)

I read it... meh. No book/website will help you if you don't have enough confidence to talk to women.

:rofl::rofl: u like " you orderd that shit:wtf::confused:.... ya i read it:sweat:"

Ya ordered it, just try'n to be all i can be.
Its absolutely true what u say about, confidence. Demo,learning tips from a "master" pick-up artsit sould stir up a little more courage in him too. One should feel like he know's more about females or the game.. as It can hurt

[ChunLi]

So I got another question. When you guys go up to girls, what are some of the things you talk about other then normal "interview" questions that are boring and kills the woman's interest level?

=== Uh I thought I just posted my reply and now I can't find it. Did I post in the wrong thread? Either way.. here's my answer:


I don't like interview questions. It seems too abrupt and abrasive. Like the guys doing the interview part just to strike up conversation so he can move on to the next part like getting my number. It makes you too eager

Conversation should be exactly what it is...conversation. It doesn't have to be necessarily about yourself, or her, but what's going on in the world. You can talk about the last MMA fight (hey you never know, I like MMA) and how that went… or if she likes celebrity news.. Talk about what random celebrity is in the gutter now... Or what's going on in the week's news. I know you can have great debates and discussions on certain topics on GD of SRK, so why not do it with a girl? Just ask a few "interview" questions first to size up if she's actually intelligent/seems interested enough to talk about these topics or not. If she is.. Then just begin with the conversation… Just remember.. INTERVIEW DOES NOT EQUAL CONVERSATION… at least in my book .. And the best way in my eyes to get someone's number is find 1 thing about them that will make you want to get their number for more than a reason of just "getting to know her." … Like my brother owns a restaurant… and I'll get guys telling me.. "oh.. I'd love to try it..maybe we can exchange numbers and you can tell me what you recommend there..." . The idea is to show that you are interested but leave her hanging on how interested you are.

BTW.. Did she gave you her facebook info or do you just happen to know that she has it? If she gave it to you.. Then it's never too late. Halloween was only 2 nights ago.

[Silentness!]

What Chun-li said.

Avoid asking questions that will make the girl give you a one line response. It makes the conversation awkward...

[SF_PHOCUS]

Example of a good question.... "so what do you have goin on for yourself besides ur looks???? lol i love askin girls that question.... i always get the slap in the arm and the "oh ur soo stupid"lol or what do u wanna be when u grow up and dont say America's next top model or princess... those really work well for me too... i usually pull those out when i feel the convo is kinda close to goin stale or if im tryna feel her out...

[MrBlank]

^ those are pretty standard pua lines.

but very good ones because they express the idea your more interested about them and not their looks.

[SF_PHOCUS]

^ those are pretty standard pua lines.

but very good ones because they express the idea your more interested about them and not their looks.

Yup u could say that... i guess thats my mindset now... lol ive been doin shit like that since i was like 16.... my cousin use to take me to the mall and make me talk to girls... lol and he would give me shit to say i have no idea where he would get it from.... and he just started teachin me how to come up wif shit like that.... a girl asked me that one time too... if i was a pua... at the time i didnt even know shit like that existed lol....:looney:

[MrBlank]

Yeah, its wierd but what i was doing ever since middle school was things that PUA's have been labeling now.

i didnt even know the term PUA until earlier this year, and i didnt even know there was a seduction community until i learned what a PUA was. Overall though it breaks down to what weve been doing all along and just making it a natural thing.

[SF_PHOCUS]

yup mr blank!! we are wat they call "naturals"! lol

[BBQ]

Alright cool, and thanks for answering my questions and for the future ones that I probably will be asking later on. So I got another question. I live in a small ski town and when I went to the bar that had a dj, there was a few single women but my buddy noticed that a couple of them were dancing with a few guys surrounding her but they all sucked horribly and told me that I could probably pull it off. So how do you become the "alpha male" in this situation? I tried by going up to her, looking into her eyes and taking her hand. It worked for a bout a second when she let go and turned away. I know I was a better dancer then the chumps surrounding her but I actually did worse.

One other thing, the bars can be rediculously loud, how can you talk to a girl with out screaming like a bitch or trying to be way too close to comfort for her when you try to talk to her?

[SF_PHOCUS]

Alright cool, and thanks for answering my questions and for the future ones that I probably will be asking later on. So I got another question. I live in a small ski town and when I went to the bar that had a dj, there was a few single women but my buddy noticed that a couple of them were dancing with a few guys surrounding her but they all sucked horribly and told me that I could probably pull it off. So how do you become the "alpha male" in this situation? I tried by going up to her, looking into her eyes and taking her hand. It worked for a bout a second when she let go and turned away. I know I was a better dancer then the chumps surrounding her but I actually did worse.

One other thing, the bars can be rediculously loud, how can you talk to a girl with out screaming like a bitch or trying to be way too close to comfort for her when you try to talk to her?

well lets go over wat an alpha male is... basically the man.... the coolest or the highest on the social chain.... or even the subconscious leader of ur circle...(example of this would be that ur the one that ur circle of friends kinda refer to...) or another one... lol i got this one from class( if u get stranded on an island wif like 20 guys... the one that stands out right away as the leader... well me personally I know how to dance and i always dance at parties and stuff so i would of danced them under the table lol... but in ur case wat i would do is justttt wait lol.... they are gonna get tired from dancing and they are goin to have to sit down right? so thats where uuu come in.. you wait for the ideal time where she is somewat stationary and she isnt in a crowd which most times never happens... honestly its harder to holler at a girl thats in a group because u would have to address them all or u might get some cock blocks lol... the hey "shari lets go to the bathroom" you get me? now lets assume she happens to be by herself.... what i would do is walk over...(of course i would have somethin to say ahead of time) say wat i have to say to engage her in convo... then id try my best to get her somewhere not as loud so we could hear wat the hell each other has to say... this kinda answers ur other question about talkin wif out screaming.....somethin stupid i did at this whack party back in the summer was i was standing next to a girl and i had my cell phone out so i went to the texting part, i setup a text that said... Hiiii how are you? lol tell me this isnt the cheesiest thing u have ever seen lol! put ur number up top so we could talk! it worked... i hope this kinda helps... cause im highhhhher than a doctor's bill right now :nunchuck::nunchuck:

[kane_warhead]

This is why I realized that I could do it with her. Problem is I did this kind off with a best friend of mine more than a year ago, now we're the worst of enemies because of that.

I just find it funny that she hadn't done it with her bf yet.

I'm having second thoughts if I wanna do it.

Ok so last saturday, i went to her house. It's a long weekend, no classes since wednesday... I asked her if she wants to hangout. She obliged and I went to pick her up.

We went to the mall and hanged out. When it was getting late, we decided to go home. As I was driving her, I brought up the conversation about sex. Anyways, she was intrigued... until I told her I can teach her how to masturbate. She hesistant at first until finally she said ok. We rented a room... I ate her and 1 thing led to another until We did it.

Now, I feel bad for doing that. I think she may break up with her boyfriend, because of that. She's texting me already every minute and it's irritating now. I fucked up big time.

[Warpticon]

Ok so last saturday, i went to her house. It's a long weekend, no classes since wednesday... I asked her if she wants to hangout. She obliged and I went to pick her up.

We went to the mall and hanged out. When it was getting late, we decided to go home. As I was driving her, I brought up the conversation about sex. Anyways, she was intrigued... until I told her I can teach her how to masturbate. She hesistant at first until finally she said ok. We rented a room... I ate her and 1 thing led to another until We did it.

Now, I feel bad for doing that. I think she may break up with her boyfriend, because of that. She's texting me already every minute and it's irritating now. I fucked up big time.

what the hell did you expect? it's not like several people didn't predict this when you brought it to the thread in the first place.

[Koop]

the power of pussy


dammit kane... dammit.

[kane_warhead]

I'm just saying I fucked up big time.

[Zachman]

It really doesn't reflect positively on her that she would be so easy persuaded to do that shit. You need to come clean with her boyfriend and accept the consequences(death).

[kane_warhead]

It really doesn't reflect positively on her that she would be so easy persuaded to do that shit. You need to come clean with her boyfriend and accept the consequences(death).

I hate her bf anyways. lawl

Zachman She was hesitant at first though. Actually no one can resist my power of super-persuasion

[Nokato]

kane_warhead: What classes were you taking? or was it like a teaching job? Pretty heavy situation here...not sure what to tell you really....

[kane_warhead]

kane_warhead: What classes were you taking? or was it like a teaching job? Pretty heavy situation here...not sure what to tell you really....


No need to tell me anything guys. I just wanted to let you guys know what happened. College subject.

[Nokato]

No need to tell me anything guys. I just wanted to let you guys know what happened. College subject.

That was just my reaction I guess. But to each his own. Do you know the boyfriend at all, or have you met him in person?

Honestly, everyone is saying that you should man up, when sadly in this situation the gf is the one that needs to say something, since although persuaded she made the decision.

[kane_warhead]

That was just my reaction I guess. But to each his own. Do you know the boyfriend at all, or have you met him in person?

Honestly, everyone is saying that you should man up, when sadly in this situation the gf is the one that needs to say something, since although persuaded she made the decision.


Just met him in person. Other than that no... We really don't know each other.

[SF_PHOCUS]

That was just my reaction I guess. But to each his own. Do you know the boyfriend at all, or have you met him in person?

Honestly, everyone is saying that you should man up, when sadly in this situation the gf is the one that needs to say something, since although persuaded she made the decision.

YOU TOOK THE WORDS RIGHTT OUTTA MY MOUTH!!! Kane you dont have to feel bad about shit...! The BF could never be mad at you at all u dont have to man up to shit... the only people that should feel bad are the girl that u messed wif(cause she technically cheated) and her Boyfriend( for not givin his girlfriend a reason to not cheat on him) he could never say a word to you because shes the one that said yes.... Good shit!! wif the texting though thats not hard at all... it all depends on wat you want to happen... if u want her to stick around or if u want her to hit the bricks... try talkin to her and letting her know wat the deal is.. cause YOUR in control now... Shes texting YOU and about to break up wif her boyfriend cause of wat she did with YOU.... feel me??? As long as YOU are in control than the situation goes however YOU want it to... notice i emphasized YOU...!:pray:

[kane_warhead]

i dont want her to break with his bf though. I want her and me still be friends.

[ChunLi]

Damn... I wouldn't really use the word "friend. " Because real friends don't help their friends cheat on their significant other (and want them to stay with them afterwards!!)

GOOD LUCK and let's hope she ain't gonna come to you in a few weeks and says she has your baby! That would suck. :(

[SF_PHOCUS]

wow chun lol just put the four letter word that no man wants to hear after a sex session espesically if the 4 letter word wasnt planned!

[Higher-Jin]

"Women are all honey and lies,"

- The Demon Etrigan, from the greatest animated series of all time, Justice League.

[SF_PHOCUS]

^^ true...! lol higher- jin u could show me a thing or two in marvel.. i can teach you a thing or two about the ladies ::grin::

[SuicidalGrandpa]

Alright, time to get my gf back. Fuck this.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Im bout to do the same.. I miss the girl in that pic :-(

[Silentness!]

@Warhead: (NO WHAMMIES NO WHAMMIES.... wah wah wahhhhhhh)

Oh shit you had sex with her and now she's clinging to you. Yeah you F-ed up

________

I have too much pride to get back with my Exes. I'm like Vegeta from DBZ, blinded by ignorance and pride. (yeah that was nerdy comparing myself to an anime character)

If I break up with a girl, I try not to come back after I realize that I can't get anything better at the moment. AHHAHAHAHHAA

[SuicidalGrandpa]

Im bout to do the same.. I miss the girl in that pic :-(

Good luck, man.

[JUDDERMAN_]

Am I the only person that would rather get called ugly or something insulting then being told that they are liked...but as a friend? It's just happened so many times to me that it's becoming annoying. I mean don't say you're my friend and just forget I exist. Maybe I should just take the hint and move on...Already going down that path but sometimes I just feel like turning back. I don't understand why girls do this. I guess youth blinds me :/

[tahoo]

I still don't have a gf...I've learned a few things though. I'll go as far as to say if I wanted to I could have a gf:sweat:

1.) DO NOT wait too long to ask her out...if you do she'll say "no"
2.) Don't just ask chick out unless you want to get rejected 1/100 times. Make some conversation first ffs
3.) Look confident..chicks like that stuff. Guess it has to do with them feeling protected
4.) The clothes make the man. You could look like brad pitt but if you don't got style and look like you just woke up in the middle of the day no chick is going to give you attention. It doesn't have to be expensive, just don't look like you're straight out of a mid 90s TV show.

That's it for what I've experienced.

[pherai]

I still don't have a gf

...


That's it for what I've experienced.

Wait, so you've never landed a girl, but have a few tips for getting a girl?

[tahoo]

Wait, so you've never landed a girl, but have a few tips for getting a girl?
Just because I don't have a gf doesn't mean I've never fondled, flirted, or talked to girls :rofl:

In all honestly though, I'm intimidated by really hot girls. And these are the ones I'd like to call my girlfriend :rofl: .something I've got to work on.

[SF_PHOCUS]

I still don't have a gf...I've learned a few things though. I'll go as far as to say if I wanted to I could have a gf:sweat:

1.) DO NOT wait too long to ask her out...if you do she'll say "no"
2.) Don't just ask chick out unless you want to get rejected 1/100 times. Make some conversation first ffs
3.) Look confident..chicks like that stuff. Guess it has to do with them feeling protected
4.) The clothes make the man. You could look like brad pitt but if you don't got style and look like you just woke up in the middle of the day no chick is going to give you attention. It doesn't have to be expensive, just don't look like you're straight out of a mid 90s TV show.

That's it for what I've experienced.

ok hmm..... lets see.... lets go over the points you left...
1.) wrong!!!! you can wait as long as u want... i waited a year before askin my ex out.....

2.) wrong.... ive asked plenty of girls out just by walkin up and sayin shit like listen.... "what are you doin right now?? nothin?? ok come shoppin wif me.. i need a females perspective....

3.) true... but not really them feelin protected.... just has to do wif them feelin that ur knowing wat the fuckin ur doing....

4.) wrong... the man makes the clothes.... you could dress like a model for ralph lauren but still not get any girls... ive gotten girls in basketball shorts a white tee( which i dont wear unless im wearin basketball shorts) kicks and some jewels...:rolleyes:

and why are you intimidated by really hot girls???

[BBQ]

you ordered that shit? (The Game)

I read it... meh. No book/website will help you if you don't have enough confidence to talk to women.


hahaha I ordered that book a few days ago with out reading this thread. I know if any one got all the help they could get, unless they don't actually execute any of it, it's just a waste of money, and I have started to change how I talk to women or people and I'm getting better. But I think for me, it's going to take time to naturally change how I talk to women. I still feel a slight emptiness in my stomach kinda like butterflies when ever I talk to a new girl, but recently it's not as bad as it was maybe 4 years ago or even a year ago.

One thing that is a huge hurtle when it comes to women is how I always felt when I was a boy. I could never really play with the girls or talk to them, and of course that's how it is with most boys. But it seems like even today I can not get myself to see that girls can be at the same level as guys and so that's why another problem is I can never really hang out with women friends. I only had a few friends that were girls and I didn't understand why the only couple times I did hang out with them I did. I see some guys hang out with girls more then their guy friends and they arn't gay. It's a mental problem I think.

[SF_PHOCUS]

hahaha I ordered that book a few days ago with out reading this thread. I know if any one got all the help they could get, unless they don't actually execute any of it, it's just a waste of money, and I have started to change how I talk to women or people and I'm getting better. But I think for me, it's going to take time to naturally change how I talk to women. I still feel a slight emptiness in my stomach kinda like butterflies when ever I talk to a new girl, but recently it's not as bad as it was maybe 4 years ago or even a year ago.

One thing that is a huge hurtle when it comes to women is how I always felt when I was a boy. I could never really play with the girls or talk to them, and of course that's how it is with most boys. But it seems like even today I can not get myself to see that girls can be at the same level as guys and so that's why another problem is I can never really hang out with women friends. I only had a few friends that were girls and I didn't understand why the only couple times I did hang out with them I did. I see some guys hang out with girls more then their guy friends and they arn't gay. It's a mental problem I think.

its just something that u have to get used to... but honestly that feeling in ur stomach the butterflies... those will neverrrrrr go away.... it will alwaysss be there.... you just learn to work through it... use it as an advantage so to speak...:sweat:

[tahoo]

ok hmm..... lets see.... lets go over the points you left...
1.) wrong!!!! you can wait as long as u want... i waited a year before askin my ex out.....

2.) wrong.... ive asked plenty of girls out just by walkin up and sayin shit like listen.... "what are you doin right now?? nothin?? ok come shoppin wif me.. i need a females perspective....

3.) true... but not really them feelin protected.... just has to do wif them feelin that ur knowing wat the fuckin ur doing....

4.) wrong... the man makes the clothes.... you could dress like a model for ralph lauren but still not get any girls... ive gotten girls in basketball shorts a white tee( which i dont wear unless im wearin basketball shorts) kicks and some jewels...:rolleyes:

and why are you intimidated by really hot girls???

1.) you were probly having sex with her on the side if she waited a year :rofl: ..seriously most of the time I'm just interested in making friends while girls are interested in something more. Most of these girls don't even want to remain my friend after me not asking them out :lol:
2.) That sounds like PUA stuff...you're probly playing a #'s game or you're really, really good looking.
4.) I bet you don't go to school or go out with basketball shorts and shirt. I bet you only wear your sports wear when you are doing sports.

I'm intimidated by hot chicks because I feel I'm not up to their "standards" in terms of good looks. The "she's too hot for me" complex. Yeah it's not about good looks bla bla bla etc but as I said I'm working on it.

[ChunLi]

I know women feel guilty.. but do men?? (Minus all the pervs who will nail anything that has a vagina and breathes... (and even that is optional). haha

Do men feel guilty? If it was a girl's birthday... she was having a crisis... etc.. etc..etc.. would you turn her down if she asked you out/for your number (edit: if she wasn't hot or your not type?)

[SF_PHOCUS]

1.) you were probly having sex with her on the side if she waited a year :rofl: ..seriously most of the time I'm just interested in making friends while girls are interested in something more. Most of these girls don't even want to remain my friend after me not asking them out :lol:
2.) That sounds like PUA stuff...you're probly playing a #'s game or you're really, really good looking.
4.) I bet you don't go to school or go out with basketball shorts and shirt. I bet you only wear your sports wear when you are doing sports.

I'm intimidated by hot chicks because I feel I'm not up to their "standards" in terms of good looks. The "she's too hot for me" complex. Yeah it's not about good looks bla bla bla etc but as I said I'm working on it.

actually i do go to school wif basketball shorts and a shirt.... like every tuesday and wednesday i do... and whenever im hangin out outside or goin to to grocery shoppin i throw that on.... not to sound coneited or anything but i do find myself to be very good looking (its all about confidence) and yeh it does sound like pua but i dont consider myself a pua so it doesnt really apply here.... and u could say its kind of a numbers game (law of averages) the more girls you talk to the better results..... if i talk to 25 girls today at least 2 of those girls will be interested.... if i talk to 50 4 will be... of course this isnt exactly accurate but u see wat can happen if u talk to more girls.. so yeh its kind of a numbers game.... its good that ur workin on it..... Oh and btw lol me and her never had sex we did everything else... of course after we got together... but there was nothing on the side... its all about controlling the situation... once u have control everything goes at your pace... makes sense?:sweat:

Chun could u be more specific... lol i cant read (of course im jokin for everyone that takes shit toooo serious)

[Larry Flynt]

I know women feel guilty.. but do men?? (Minus all the pervs who will nail anything that has a vagina and breathes... (and even that is optional). haha

Do men feel guilty? If it was a girl's birthday... she was having a crisis... etc.. etc..etc.. would you turn her down if she asked you out/for your number?



Nah I wouldn't turn her down if she asked me out/for my number.

[HeaT]

I know women feel guilty.. but do men?? (Minus all the pervs who will nail anything that has a vagina and breathes... (and even that is optional). haha

Do men feel guilty? If it was a girl's birthday... she was having a crisis... etc.. etc..etc.. would you turn her down if she asked you out/for your number?

naw i wouldnt turn down either...ive never had that happen before, so i would think its tight and just want to go to see how it played out...

im outi

Roberth

[pherai]

I know women feel guilty..

You do? I don't know who they're feeling guilty for.

[ChunLi]

You do? I don't know who they're feeling guilty for.

Well my guilt comes from years of being around guys and hearing their woes.

It's already hard enough for some guys to get enough courage to approach a girl.. let alone ask for her number or anything else.

The idea of being rejected is brutal!

Saying no would just be a little harsh (maybe not to you) but to other guys. I at least talk to them and let them know they can have a pal instead of giving a dirty look and saying "um.. NO!"

I'm sure you're ok with girls saying no..but I'm sure there's plenty of guys who fear it.. hence the whole reason for this women/relationshp thread! hehe

[Larry Flynt]

naw i wouldnt turn down either...ive never had that happen before, so i would think its tight and just want to go to see how it played out...

im outi

Roberth

Thats basically how I see it. I'm always flattered when a girl ask me out or for my number. So I at least give them a chance even if I already know it will not go anywhere.

[SuicidalGrandpa]

Alright, got her to make a step in the right direction. Now I just need to make sure I've got plenty of conversation topics ready.

naw i wouldnt turn down either...ive never had that happen before, so i would think its tight and just want to go to see how it played out...

im outi

Roberth

I'm with this guy.

[pherai]

Well my guilt comes from years of being around guys and hearing their woes.

It's already hard enough for some guys to get enough courage to approach a girl.. let alone ask for her number or anything else.

The idea of being rejected is brutal!

Saying no would just be a little harsh (maybe not to you) but to other guys. I at least talk to them and let them know they can have a pal instead of giving a dirty look and saying "um.. NO!"

I'm sure you're ok with girls saying no..but I'm sure there's plenty of guys who fear it.. hence the whole reason for this women/relationshp thread! hehe

I meant girls in general. That's nice of you, but I don't think most women feel very guilty.

This is going to sound harsh, but I've found most women don't offer a hand of friendship to guys chasing them out of guilt. I won't say this is true about you, but in my experience, most women like the male attention. Guys pursue women with the intention of a romantic relationship (or sex), and rarely a platonic friendship, however they will take that thinking it might lead one day to a romantic relationship. This is where the idea of the friendzone comes from. Me, and every single one of my friends has had this happen to them. Get into some relationship with a girl that has only hung out with you once, leaves enticing comments to you on myspace, and answers 1 out of 5 calls from you while she is hanging out with some dude who is a jerk to her. If you feel guilty about some loser who is asking you out, do him a favor and don't lead him on. If there is anything to feel guilty about, its making some dude think he has a chance when he really doesn't. Just makes it harder to get over. I don't mean to characterize women as malicious. I don't think this is something they are always aware of, and think its some act of charity, but it really does more harm than good.

And for the record, I hate being rejected as much as anybody, but it really irks me when I find out 2 months down the line I never had a chance from day one.

[ChunLi]

......And for the record, I hate being rejected as much as anybody, but it really irks me when I find out 2 months down the line I never had a chance from day one.

I understand.. that's why when I give out my number.. I always say something with a cheerful tone that says "i'm always looking for more friends." Is that enough of a clue.. or should I deny him period? haha

[Atomic #]

And for the record, I hate being rejected as much as anybody, but it really irks me when I find out 2 months down the line I never had a chance from day one.

Quoted for the truth, Leading them on is the reason Emo music exists... Rejecting a person without putting them into the "friendzone emotional deathtrap" prevents Linkin Park from making shitty albums.



Question SF_Phocus: How long is TOO long, I mean not asking a girl the day before she gets married type shit, but are we talking 2 years, develop something, ask her out? I've tried that before and was pronounced DOATFZ (Dead on Arrival to the Friendzone)

[pherai]

I understand.. that's why when I give out my number.. I always say something with a cheerful tone that says "i'm always looking for more friends." Is that enough of a clue.. or should I deny him period? haha

Haha, thats probably pretty good, but you know some guys will take anything and run with it :rolleyes:. I think its nice to be polite, and its not necessarily wrong to want male friends, as long as you know what they are thinking.

@Atomic #: Dude, most of the time women decide pretty early on what they want from you. I don't see any reason to wait. I'm not talking cold pickups all the time but anything more than a couple days seems too much to me.

[MrBlank]

I know women feel guilty.. but do men?? (Minus all the pervs who will nail anything that has a vagina and breathes... (and even that is optional). haha

Do men feel guilty? If it was a girl's birthday... she was having a crisis... etc.. etc..etc.. would you turn her down if she asked you out/for your number (edit: if she wasn't hot or your not type?)

I never turn down women who ask me out. I believe if you have the courage to ask me out, you deserve the chance. Regardless of appearance, but if im not interested in pursuing the relationship i make it "CLEAR" that its not going to happen. That way i don't lead anyone on. but should there be some sort of magic i may let it happen. though i haven't experienced that yet.

I have turned down women who ask for my number incorrectly, Ive told girls I've had a girlfriend when i didn't, and i find it ironic I'm using the same line girls use on guys. I learned it from them and it find it to be the least harshest way to hurt some strangers feelings.

A girls birthday or crisis or anything like that shouldn't sway a person in any way for making a date decision. Because giving someone a date out of PITY is in my opinion just creates more emotional confusion / drama.

[SF_PHOCUS]

I understand.. that's why when I give out my number.. I always say something with a cheerful tone that says "i'm always looking for more friends." Is that enough of a clue.. or should I deny him period? haha

You should deny him period... lol honestly id rather a girl say No i dont want to give you my number as a pose to her giving me her number out of guilt... thats gonna give me the faulse impression that i did something good.... U need to hear the no's to progress... if not when u finally here a NO its gonna bother you alot.... and ive gotten my fair share of no's and slaps lol its bananas... :sweat:

[zer0_858]

Thats basically how I see it. I'm always flattered when a girl ask me out or for my number. So I at least give them a chance even if I already know it will not go anywhere.

I am the same way I even actually started dating a girl who I was not interested at first.....

[Infernoman]

And for the record, I hate being rejected as much as anybody, but it really irks me when I find out 2 months down the line I never had a chance from day one.

Thank you...actually that whole post is truth for me. I have more than enough female friends in my life and yes all of them I do admit to being open to a relationship with any of them...hell I wanted to be friends with them because i like them. However I know I've stretched myself too thin recently trying to meet up with each one...some though don't make an effort at all to hang out or say they'll be free maybe at a later time but that time never comes or it get's delayed more. I'd rather they admit I'm not a priority at all to them over someone else and yes I will get hurt but it's better than trying o chase after them never knowing I have no chance at all.

Chunli - try not to feel guilt for saying no...as for that clue...that might not be enough for some guys...it would be for me...but then just don't expect me to talk to you much if there's a hint of you never giving me a chance!

Blank - yeah I agree...I was asking out a few girls I knew around my B-day but not once did I bring up my birthday...as I see it now, they all eventually found out why I was in the 1st place...yes they felt guilty and I really hate the guilt trip as I have done it in the past to girls but I'm hapy none of them gave me a date out of pity...I'd feel even more so depressed knowing that would've be the only way to go out. In the end I never did get a date anyway *shrugs* eh...still no luck...damn it's never easy... :bluu:

[SF_PHOCUS]

Thank you...actually that whole post is truth for me. I have more than enough female friends in my life and yes all of them I do admit to being open to a relationship with any of them...hell I wanted to be friends with them because i like them. However I know I've stretched myself too thin recently trying to meet up with each one...some though don't make an effort at all to hang out or say they'll be free maybe at a later time but that time never comes or it get's delayed more. I'd rather they admit I'm not a priority at all to them over someone else and yes I will get hurt but it's better than trying o chase after them never knowing I have no chance at all.

Chunli - try not to feel guilt for saying no...as for that clue...that might not be enough for some guys...it would be for me...but then just don't expect me to talk to you much if there's a hint of you never giving me a chance!

Blank - yeah I agree...I was asking out a few girls I knew around my B-day but not once did I bring up my birthday...as I see it now, they all eventually found out why I was in the 1st place...yes they felt guilty and I really hate the guilt trip as I have done it in the past to girls but I'm hapy none of them gave me a date out of pity...I'd feel even more so depressed knowing that would've be the only way to go out. In the end I never did get a date anyway *shrugs* eh...still no luck...damn it's never easy... :bluu:

lol just read my post before this one.... its best a girl says no.... no #.. no chance than yeh but knowing theres no chance anyway...:sweat:

[Infernoman]

lol just read my post before this one.... its best a girl says no.... no #.. no chance than yeh but knowing theres no chance anyway...:sweat:

yeah I didn't read that til AFTER I was done typing...bah!

[mcginnis]

Over the years of being strictly to myself I became very logical. So, when a girl asks me out which has happened only a hand full of times I usually turned them down politely saying something like there are like 2 billion guys in this world so I doubt I'm your type.:sweat: Probably the reason why I'm a complete scrub when it comes to dating.

[Warpticon]

Over the years of being strictly to myself I became very logical. So, when a girl asks me out which has happened only a hand full of times I usually turned them down politely saying something like there are like 2 billion guys in this world so I doubt I'm your type.:sweat: Probably the reason why I'm a complete scrub when it comes to dating.

what? there is not one thing logical about that.

[mcginnis]

yea, really don't know me so I guess it seems that way.:sweat: After a lifetime of seeing the possible outcomes of relationships, along with a 50/50 chance of divorce; I kinda see relationships as too big a risk for virtually no reward. Yea you could get into a physical one but that's not really something that I want.

[Dhalsimowns]

Dear SRK,

I have a problem. I dont want as much as sex as this girl I know does.
I like sex. I am human though. She stayed the night for two nights, and we hooked up a day before that. I should have gone to class today but she completed my breakfast so to speak.

I dont want her to come over tonight. How do I break it to her without seeming like a pussy? I need at least, like one day to get rejuvinated. This shit is taxing me. I feel empty like a ghost lol.

[Havoc]

You can't do it without sounding like a pussy, because you are being a pussy.

If you want to get out of this without sounding bitch, you're gonna have to lie. Anything remotely close to the truth will make you sound like half a man. Sorry.

[Warpticon]

yea, really don't know me so I guess it seems that way.:sweat: After a lifetime of seeing the possible outcomes of relationships, along with a 50/50 chance of divorce; I kinda see relationships as too big a risk for virtually no reward. Yea you could get into a physical one but that's not really something that I want.

i don't have to know you; i speak english. therefore, i understand that that line is stupid and makes no sense. it's wrong in just about every possible way. and your retarded negativism has exactly shit to do with you being or not being somebody's type. you're basically telling somebody they have no idea what they like. do you have any idea how insulting that is?

[Asura]

Dear SRK,

I have a problem. I dont want as much as sex as this girl I know does.
I like sex. I am human though. She stayed the night for two nights, and we hooked up a day before that. I should have gone to class today but she completed my breakfast so to speak.

I dont want her to come over tonight. How do I break it to her without seeming like a pussy? I need at least, like one day to get rejuvinated. This shit is taxing me. I feel empty like a ghost lol.

I'm in the same situtation as this man and I was getting ready to post this.

My girlfriend is just like.. an animal. I have no fucking idea what the hell is wrong with her. I like sex. I enjoy having sex with her, but its like damn. I'm getting twat thrown at me damn near every four hours. I want to go out and do things, I don't want to spend my time stuck in an apartment all day. I ask her if she wants to do something she responds with "pound my pussy plz" Then gets angry when I go out on my own.

I don't want a relationship thats based on sex because those (in my experience) seem to not be the ones that last as long.

[MrBlank]

^ you guys need to be like master chief and Finish the Fight...

HAHAH JK guys...

i was experiencing this same situation. Personally what i did was tell her that i needed to go to work in a well rested manner and that our sexual performances were ruining my career performance since i would come in pretty sleep deprived or exausted.

This pretty much let her select a period of time where it was OK to get busy. Though my favorite is hittin it right to the point of her being exausted that there is no more need for late night early morn rounds.

[Havoc]

Are you guys serious?

Just because your girlfriend likes to have a lot of sex doesn't mean that your relationship is "based on sex". I bet you guys eat a lot, is your relationship based on food? It's dumb logic. It's well within the realm of possibility to have a perfectly healthy relationship in which there is a lot of sex.

People's views on sex frustrate me...

EDIT- Career excuse would piss me the fuck off. I wish my girl would say some dumb shit to me like that... Sex on a schedule? What's the point?

No wonder people have such boring, passionless relationships. Structure and rules kill relationships, especially when they deal with sex. Don't be surprised when your girls start cheating on you. Seriously.

[Asura]

Are you guys serious?

Just because your girlfriend likes to have a lot of sex doesn't mean that your relationship is "based on sex". I bet you guys eat a lot, is your relationship based on food? It's dumb logic. It's well within the realm of possibility to have a perfectly healthy relationship in which there is a lot of sex.

People's views on sex frustrate me...

I'm not saying it is, I don't want it to turn into that though. You can't compare eating a basic need for human survival. To sex, something people do for recreation.

Sure its within the realm of possibility, but seeing/being in relationships that end up in the crapper because all you do is bump uglies maybe unsettling to a person that actually wants to have a life with the person their with.

[MrBlank]

^ well their perspective of sex appears to be that they get sooooo much of it, that well the relationship is more sex then anything else.

Personally all sex is good sex to me. never know when you going to hit a drought.

[Havoc]

I'm not saying it is, I don't want it to turn into that though. You can't compare eating a basic need for human survival. To sex, something people do for recreation.


I don't see much of a difference. Sex isn't just recreation. It's a natural human hormonal desire.

[Infernoman]

^ well their perspective of sex appears to be that they get sooooo much of it, that well the relationship is more sex then anything else.

Personally all sex is good sex to me. never know when you going to hit a drought.

lol to add to that for all you know you or her could be dead tomorrow...just saying...and then where would you pussy come from huh?

ok joking aside...how bad is that Asura? I have to know how bad I have to pretend to feel for you.

[Asura]

I don't see much of a difference. Sex isn't just recreation. It's a natural human hormonal desire.

Que? If I don't eat I die. If I don't have sex.. I live? Masturbation?

Am I just being paranoid? Should I just bang the bejeesus out of her and roll with the punches?

ok joking aside...how bad is that Asura? I have to know how bad I have to pretend to feel for you.

Not to seem like a smartass or anything but I don't understand this statement. Is this yet another jab at my character?

[Warpticon]

what's hard to understand? "my girlfriend wo't stop fucking me" is a pretty unusual complaint, you know.

[Asura]

what's hard to understand? "my girlfriend wo't stop fucking me" is a pretty unusual complaint, you know.

Too much of any good thing is bad right?

[mcginnis]

i don't have to know you; i speak english. therefore, i understand that that line is stupid and makes no sense. it's wrong in just about every possible way. and your retarded negativism has exactly shit to do with you being or not being somebody's type. you're basically telling somebody they have no idea what they like. do you have any idea how insulting that is?

I'm not saying it to sound like they don't know what they like, I'm saying it to sound like I'm not really the type to waste your time on. I know it sounds like I have low self esteem or something, but not really.:rofl: I think that guy complaining about his girlfriend wanting TOO much sex is hilarious, stop doing it when your dead.:wasted:

[Dhalsimowns]

^^^^^^^^^ based on sex is not the issue. Its how to say "I dont want sex right now because 3 times a night is making me feel like how a nazi internment prisoner looks" without sounding like a pussy.

[Havoc]

Too much of any good thing is bad right?

Cliché = good argument?

[Asura]

Cliché = good argument?

People use them for a reason :arazz:

[Havoc]

^^^^^^^^^ based on sex is not the issue. Its how to say "I dont want sex right now because 3 times a night is making me feel like how a nazi internment prisoner looks" without sounding like a pussy.

Again... you cannot say that without sounding like a pussy. You're being a pussy.

[mcginnis]

Funny how people not in that situation want it and apparently those in it don't. :rofl:

[Havoc]

No... my girl likes to fuck plenty.... just I can handle it.

[Warpticon]

I'm not saying it to sound like they don't know what they like, I'm saying it to sound like I'm not really the type to waste your time on. I know it sounds like I have low self esteem or something, but not really.:rofl: I think that guy complaining about his girlfriend wanting TOO much sex is hilarious, stop doing it when your dead.:wasted:

right, and some of my best friends are *******. it doesn't matter how you mean it to sound. it sounds condescending and patronizing at best and insulting at worst.

[ezekial45]

right, and some of my best friends are *******. it doesn't matter how you mean it to sound. it sounds condescending and patronizing at best and insulting at worst.

Now where the hell did that come from? :annoy:

[MrBlank]

Again... you cannot say that without sounding like a pussy. You're being a pussy.

not really, how can denying that pussy make you sound like a pussy. if you had sex 4 times that day ill tell you what you get skin burned. my record is 6 in a day, and the next day my soldier was sore as fuck. girls be doing some fucked up moves when they are on top.

shit gets old fucking fast if its been the same poon 4 times a day for like a few months....

[Asura]

Now where the hell did that come from? :annoy:

He's trying to say even though he didn't mean it to sound offensive it does(did)

[Darklightjg1]

Snip

And for the record, I hate being rejected as much as anybody, but it really irks me when I find out 2 months down the line I never had a chance from day one.

Whoa... somebody drank from the fountain of truth today.

I just went through some shit like this recently. Actually, at first she was into me but then she lost interest and I could see it happening as it flipped around from her chasing me to me chasing her (I'm not a chaser by nature so.... meh). After that, I tried a couple times more to make time for her/see if she wanted to hang out just to see how she'd respond. But she kept playing the evasive game and I eventually called her on her shit. We had a short email argument where she said something along the lines of her trying not to hurt my feelings and I basically covered the same things pherai did in my responses ... and from that I'm 98% sure there's no more chances for me.

I still have to run into her occasionally on my way to eat or do laundry. I just pretend to ignore her (except last night I couldn't quite ignore what she did 100%... it was weird... 'not sure how to take it)
I'm still thinking about it right now and I doubt I would be if this shit had ended two months ago like it should have. I really wanna get over this shit and move on, but that damned 2% is makin' it hard to let go completely. Ugh.

Ladies, just say "No" from the start... 'saves a lot of bullshit/heartache later. Mixed messages are pure ass, so make that shit absolutely clear right off the bat. It's much easier to get over someone you think is shallow/fucked up from the start than someone you actually got to know for a little while and like before they flaked on you IMO.

[Warpticon]

Now where the hell did that come from? :annoy:

illustratiing the point that it doesn't matter how you meant for it to sound.

i'm not understanding how wanting to slow down makes a guy a pussy.

[Darklightjg1]

Dear SRK,

I have a problem. I dont want as much as sex as this girl I know does.
I like sex. I am human though. She stayed the night for two nights, and we hooked up a day before that. I should have gone to class today but she completed my breakfast so to speak.

I dont want her to come over tonight. How do I break it to her without seeming like a pussy? I need at least, like one day to get rejuvinated. This shit is taxing me. I feel empty like a ghost lol.


Welllllllll.... a simple "Nah, not right now/not today." might work.

But then you might not get the chance to die... by snoo snoo.

[SF_PHOCUS]

No... my girl likes to fuck plenty.... just I can handle it.

lol good shitt!!! do i really need to make a comment about this after reading this one line??? :lol::lol:

[SF_PHOCUS]

:annoy:Dear SRK,

I have a problem. I dont want as much as sex as this girl I know does.
I like sex. I am human though. She stayed the night for two nights, and we hooked up a day before that. I should have gone to class today but she completed my breakfast so to speak.

I dont want her to come over tonight. How do I break it to her without seeming like a pussy? I need at least, like one day to get rejuvinated. This shit is taxing me. I feel empty like a ghost lol.

You know wat?? im gonna make a comment about this cause... i just woke up so my brain said at the time... that guy didnt really post wat i think he posted. YOU are obiviously the wrong guy for this girl... she wants to fuck you dont... simple... the amount of times shouldnt matter... wow lol i still cant believe you would post something like that.. and then on top of that you ask how do i break it to her without seemin like a pussy... you wanna know how?? lol u cant... how woould u say to a gril"umm i like you and all but can we have less sex?!?!" she would look at you like are you kidding me???? So do urself a favor and step to the side and let someone else have her... you wouldnt want someone one suave like me to come and wisk her away..... and im not even trying to be funny with that one but thats how it goes 90% of the time....:annoy:

[pherai]

Big picture, SF PHOCUS is right...

BUT, you must consider that people don't always have consistent sex drives, especially women. She might just be in overdrive at the moment, or you might be in a slump. Before taking any drastic moves I'd talk with her about it.

[Murt!]

A lot of times when I take a girl out, I run out of things to say. What do you guys do to strike up conversation? Usually I can think of something but when the girl isn't much of a talker I have a hard time talking about myself without coming off like an arrogan douche.

[Dhalsimowns]

^ That means your an arrogant douche, so just roll with it.
Be yourself, and speak your mind. If it will happen it will happen and just be there to take her home when it does.

[SF_PHOCUS]

A lot of times when I take a girl out, I run out of things to say. What do you guys do to strike up conversation? Usually I can think of something but when the girl isn't much of a talker I have a hard time talking about myself without coming off like an arrogan douche.

well, me personally i usually just go wif the flow... i dont really have things planned out... it also depends on how long u have been wif the girl so it would be easier to talk about certain things... like two friends that recently got together or somethin like that... I am gonna assume u mean on a first date so ill give advice as such... basically you want to talk about anything that is not boring... i dont mean not boring to you i mean not boring period.... stuff like so where u from or how was ur last relationship make up boring conversation.... things like britney spears and the way she acts wif her children count as good conversation... thats just an example... try and improv as much as possible... sometimes if the convo is some wat goin dead i buss out the riffs lol...ex. ::convo goin dead a lil silence:: then ill go "so wats the deal with that picnic basket?? or somethin like that... sorry id post more but its High time lol... SMOKE SOMETHIN!!!:angel:

[Shiro887]

Aight here's something. I'll prolly hit up the bed after this shit, but I figured I'd get some opinions on this.

During the summer I was working with this girl who I thought was cute and what not. So I started talking to her hopin' to get her to open up and who knows maybe somethin' good will come from it. Later on she does start opening up to me and one night even asks for my cell # and my email. I'm thinking "sweet! This is the big one right here!" and so I give her my info. Next day I'm at work and she visits asking if I'm going to check my email when I get home. I say yeah and she tells me that she sent me one and I'm thinkin' "kick ass!"

Well, I get home, open up my laptop, get on yahoo, and boom there it is: the email from her. It reads something like "I really like you and I don't know why I'm so attracted to you but I am. Even that one night when we were working together I felt the urge to kiss you" good stuff like that... until. "But I have a boyfriend who I love and have been dating for about 2 years" WTF IS THAT SHIT?! How do you say that shit and then come out with "oh yeah btw I'm in a relationship" So yeah, I'm bummed out on that but she and I are still friends and we talk when we can. It's not a lot though since she's really busy with school.

She and I did once meet up at the mall and spent some time together by ourselves. A friend of mine said that was pretty much a date, but I don't think so. What sucked was that she didn't know what she wanted to do. I'm usually the guy that will ask the girl what she wants to do 'cause I don't like to be too controlling, but she had no idea. I even asked "Nothing here really sparks your interest and makes you wanna check it out?" and she says "not really" So I'm like "whatever, there's a book store over there. Let's check it out" and we do. At this point I question wtf she and her boyfriend do together. She and I aren't talking much and we don't really get into a good conversation until we're eating lunch and start talking about being in marching band in High School. ..yeah

Sometimes it seems that she still tells me stuff that makes me think that she still likes me or may be flirting with me. For example, she tells me that her roommate is bellydancing and she thinks it's really awesome and so I tell her, "why don't you go up there and dance? Y'know, have her teach you and what not" and she tells me "yeah, you'd really like to see that wouldn't you?" So me trying to be the guy taking her from her man, I tell her "well I can't see it anyways *this is through AIM*. Why not learn to impress your boyfriend" and she just laughs saying "still, you'd want to see that". So yeah wtf moment for me.

Personally I think that there's something wrong with her relationship if she's coming to me saying that she's attracted to me, "would be dumb not to date me" if she was single, etc. She and her bf even got together after the 2 both went through a breakup. So they got on the rebound together and I know relationships like that don't work out well.

Anyways, SRK peeps what's your take on this? No way I'm going to try and interfere with her current relationship (learned that shit the hard way in my past), but I keep getting these weird signals from her and really makes me thing "WTF" almost every time I talk to her.

[BBQ]

She has a boyfriend and probably put you in the friendzone, that's why she has opened up like that. My thinking is that since you don't want to fuck her relationship up with her boyfriend you should either try to forget even wanting to hook up with her and try to see her as a friend or just stop talking to her and let her know you wanted more then just friendship.
But that's just my opinion.

[pherai]

But that's just my opinion.

I agree. Whether she likes you or not, she is manipulating you. She likes having another dude wrapped around her finger. Evaluate things like a man. As long as she's in a relationship, you've got no business with her, unless you want to steal here away, but I wouldn't advise it. Ignore her flirting. She might pout about it sometime, but thats not really your shit to deal with.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Oh my goddddd!!! I wish i could slap u thru the computer shiro!!! NOOO she is NOT manipulating you... whether she has a boyfriend Once she said 'I really like you and I don't know why I'm so attracted to you but I am", YOU should of took that as a sign that She fuckin likes you!! and she said the but I have a boyfriend... she was testin you... and u didnt respond too well to her tellin u that so ur where u are now... in the friend zone... From wat it looks like u dissapointed her cause she prolly thought u would wisk her away.... You never know... she prolly didnt want to be with him anymore, they could of been goin through problems or even worse she prolly wasnt really seeing anyone at the time but said that like i said as a test..... You said u keep getting weird signals... my advice is go for it... you will feel better about urself if u know u at least tried... yah dig??

[pherai]

Haha, life isn't a fairy tale, so fuck this "wisking her away" bullshit. I didn't think I'd have to pull this up, but ffs she works with him!

[MrBuster]

I'm gonna have to agree with Phocus on this one. Seriously, she gave you a direct IOI ( Indicator of Interest) by saying how she felt about YOU. In all sense, if she was really concerned about her boyfriend, she wouldn't be telling you those kind of things. So yes, it was indeed a test... A test of you displaying your alpha male to sweep her off her feet and be with you. Now on the other side, I can understand ( but not agree) with where your coming from. You want to show the " good guy" in you and respect the fact that she has a man, but again there is a reason why she said that to you.

Lets change the role up if you will. Let's say that she happened to be your girl and she happened to be talking to another guy behind YOUR back. I can damn near gaurantee that some other guy will swoop on her... Now there are two reasons for this :

1) She's a ho.... Which by the vibe I get from your story this is not the case.

or

2) You aren't displaying enough High Value to keep her interested.

And the same goes with men, if a women doesn't show enough value to keep the man interested. He will talk or look for someone who will... But enough about all that now. True you are possibly grazing the "Friendzone", but I still think that there is still hope for you. But the question is " That is she WORTH it to you?" Meaning that you want to persue her but for the effort of having her be with you... Or you can let her be bored with her man right now so that some other random guy can display what she wants in a man to get her to leave who she is currently with.

And for a sidenote, I really think you should strongly consider where you want to be in stands with here. Because it can lead to the jealous boyfriend problem and all that other jazz. But if you feel you still have a connection going on, then go for it. Show her that you are a great guy that can offer her a lot more.

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol mr buster u pua you IOI is the correct term i was gonna use

[dovefresh]

Hi =)
If i were you i would put my efforts towards a girl that is single and worth my time.

we, girls can be really annoying and retarded sometimes. In her case, she's been with the guy for 2 years and she's probably a little bored. She's probably just infatuated with you and enjoys the fact that she thinks she has you 'wrapped around her finger'... maybe she does and maybe she doesn't, only you know.
Other than that, if she really wanted to, she would have already broken up with her bf and started a relationship with you.

[MrBlank]

Yeah. either that or shes letting you know shes taken now because she didnt want to be responsible for the possibility of the "One thing led to another" situation later down the line.

That kind of stuff happens all the time and if the BF of said girlfriend finds out. her defense will be "But he knew i had a bf and i was drunk blah blah sob story" so hes going to take out his rage on you ass more then her.... he may even keep her still.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Hi =)
If i were you i would put my efforts towards a girl that is single and worth my time.

we, girls can be really annoying and retarded sometimes. In her case, she's been with the guy for 2 years and she's probably a little bored. She's probably just infatuated with you and enjoys the fact that she thinks she has you 'wrapped around her finger'... maybe she does and maybe she doesn't, only you know.
Other than that, if she really wanted to, she would have already broken up with her bf and started a relationship with you.

this is true... BUT he hasnt even pressed up on her to make that happen....she prolly doesnt want to if he doesnt want to....thats like i invite you to my house and i tell you im going to cook... but you come to my house full.... i explained to you im cookin but you didnt take adavantage of it... same principle...:rolleyes:

[Shibuya]

Some girls flirt just so that guys are more willing to do what they want......if they have a BF and flirt it might be that the BF is not fulfilling her enough and they want a lil twist....whether its sex or just talking to someone different....Girls are emotional creatures....they dont think like men.....also men sometimes takes niceness from women into more than it is....like my home boy thinks everytime a girl looks and smiles at him that she wants him.....

[Silentness!]

I know women feel guilty.. but do men?? (Minus all the pervs who will nail anything that has a vagina and breathes... (and even that is optional). haha

Do men feel guilty? If it was a girl's birthday... she was having a crisis... etc.. etc..etc.. would you turn her down if she asked you out/for your number (edit: if she wasn't hot or your not type?)

No I don't feel guily.

I'd straight up say no. That's the problem with some women. They beat around the got damn bush... man(woman) UP and tell the guy/girl that you're just not feeling them.

[Shiro887]

I don't work with her anymore since she quit so she'll have more time for her studies. Her bf though seems to be a bit on the pussy side. He's always worried that she'll leave him (like his former ex who moved to Alaska and didn't even "officially" break up with him and just started dating some other dude). One time he said to her that she was acting differently because she didn't want to make out with him all the time, but in actuality she was busy with work and preparations for college. He also wants to marry her and start a family in like 2 years and she's like "fuck that, I want to work on my damn career." She says if he can wait that long than he's most likely "the one". He also scores nice guy points by randomly going to her house and cut the lawn for her family o_O

Oh yeah, and she's one of those girls that wants to keep the vajayjay locked until the honeymoon. Soooo yeah not completely what I'm looking for even though, yes I do like her but fuck mang I'm a single 20 yr old man. I needs dat vajayjay! D:

[SF_PHOCUS]

Some girls flirt just so that guys are more willing to do what they want......if they have a BF and flirt it might be that the BF is not fulfilling her enough and they want a lil twist....whether its sex or just talking to someone different....Girls are emotional creatures....they dont think like men.....also men sometimes takes niceness from women into more than it is....like my home boy thinks everytime a girl looks and smiles at him that she wants him.....

i do too.. i think like that too... thats how ur suppose to think... every girl that smiles at me wants me.... or as a sign for me to approach her... you are right though women dont think like men.. no where near.. especially when it comes to dating:sweat:

[mcginnis]

It's good to know I'm not the only one that thinks when a girl is nice to me she must like me. :sweat: A few days ago I went to my bank and the clerk there was all friendly with me and then she asked me about some test in class and I was like "what the?!." Turns out she was in my class but sat behind me. Now everytime I go to the bank and she's there, she'll be all friendly and try to strike up a conversation. Does that mean she likes me? Cause frankly I'm not exactly social when I deposit and she's the only one that does that. (shes cute too) So I don't know. :wasted:

[Atomic #]

Most Bank tellers have to be friendly (although some were not the case, I took out my money and went to another bank) its part of customer service... Knowing a customer on a regular basis makes it easier to fulfill the requirements of, "friendly service that you can trust" that many service employees are trained to do. I used to work at Suncoast, and sparked conversations with various people, even the fat inuyasha chicks at my school / class.

Does that mean I like them? No. I learned that complimenting them and establishing some sort of interest in their lives increased the chances of selling them more shit....

Some banks are just full of pretty tellers... I know their trick, we pulled that shit before at the stores during christmas season....

Try sparking a conversation during class and see where that goes...

[mcginnis]

Well, she dropped the class.:sweat: And I'm fully aware of bank tellers having to be friendly but whatever. I guess I'd rather avoid embarrassment, I'll see what happens later on. I do go every week since I have to cash my check.

[ChunLi]

If I flat out turn down a guy this weekend at the club and it backfires. I'm blaming you all!!! haha

[SF_PHOCUS]

If I flat out turn down a guy this weekend at the club and it backfires. I'm blaming you all!!! haha

lol if it goe bad ill buy you a drink :wgrin:

[Atomic #]

If I flat out turn down a guy this weekend at the club and it backfires. I'm blaming you all!!! haha

A stungun is the solution to all problems...

And I got a dinner thing Friday, made reservations at the restraurant to make sure there isn't unexpected bullshit...

If anything goes wrong, It's on SF_Phocus and Chun Li:rofl:

[Infernoman]

If I flat out turn down a guy this weekend at the club and it backfires. I'm blaming you all!!! haha

well not like you have to listen to any of us...besides you KNOW what guys are looking for at the club *ahem* :wgrin:

[pherai]

If I flat out turn down a guy this weekend at the club and it backfires. I'm blaming you all!!! haha

Backfire as in, them getting really angry/disappointed? Goes with the territory unfortunately, but you'll be a much cooler chick for it. Think of it this way: When you find out 2 months down the line you have no chance with a girl, you'll resent them a lot more than just being turned down in the beginning.

[SF_PHOCUS]

A stungun is the solution to all problems...

And I got a dinner thing Friday, made reservations at the restraurant to make sure there isn't unexpected bullshit...

If anything goes wrong, It's on SF_Phocus and Chun Li:rofl:

lol the only way anything could go wrong is if u let it go wrong heres some tips:

1.) Dont fuck up by being boring.... have something to talk about

2.) Dont fuck up by being boring.... have something to talk about

3.) please dont compliment her allll nightttt long.. one time is enough...
4.) same as number 3
5.) Dont be afraid to touch.... this is keyyyy to moving anywhere....

This is my promise that if u follow those steps then everything will turn out great.... lol

Hmmm, i wish i wasnt still on a dating break or i prolly would of setup a date on friday too... hmm oh well im goin to ctf so that should be fun :wgrin:

[ChunLi]

well not like you have to listen to any of us...besides you KNOW what guys are looking for at the club *ahem* :wgrin:


I go to trance/house clubs.. it's a little diff.. if the guy is straight up hitting on me like a jackass.. then I turn to "I don't really wanna talk to you.." but if he's realn ice and sincere.. I'll talk to him.

I don't want to be thrown the line "gee.. I ain't trying to get with you.. just trying to make small talk" and then I get left looking like a concieted biyatch.

[MrBlank]

Well it pretty much boils down to.

If you are at all attracted to him you will talk to him naturally, if your completely not, then dont keep it going to be polite, cut him off immediately.

if your regretting even talking to him. welp shit happens but let it be clear that you are no longer interested, dont lead him on or he will keep pushing buttons thinking hes making progress.

[Infernoman]

I go to trance/house clubs.. it's a little diff.. if the guy is straight up hitting on me like a jackass.. then I turn to "I don't really wanna talk to you.." but if he's realn ice and sincere.. I'll talk to him.

I don't want to be thrown the line "gee.. I ain't trying to get with you.. just trying to make small talk" and then I get left looking like a concieted biyatch.

different or not, you shouldn't care if you come off like a bitch turning down a guy. Chances are you won't see him again. but alright, for example I meet you at a club and I see you and then proceed to start chatting with you, you'd then continue to talk to me?

If so then well...I sure wish more friendly girls like you were at the club! :lol: be yes...just don't them any wrong ideas is all i can say.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Mean girls rock!!! they keep your game on point!!!

[Biolink]

Is there such thing as girls that were into the thug type of guy that didn't do shit in school,but as she grows older she wants more of a provider?

I say this because,it kind of gives me hope that one day I could be fucking a girl that I previously thought was an out-of-leaguer

[axeman61]

I've never had a girlfriend or anything, but I do know that beauty doesn't last. Most old women are kind of put down appeal-wise in society. So yeah, if we're thinking on a then-now time frame, it would make sense to look for a provider when guys are more resistant to an older you or the bad boy route just isn't working.
Again, no experience here. Just guessing.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Is there such thing as girls that were into the thug type of guy that didn't do shit in school,but as she grows older she wants more of a provider?

I say this because,it kind of gives me hope that one day I could be fucking a girl that I previously thought was an out-of-leaguer

wats an out of leaguer to you?:smokin:

[Biolink]

wats an out of leaguer to you?:smokin:

A girl that might be thought of as too popular to date(And subsequently she usually is pretty attractive) an unknown like me.

[SF_PHOCUS]

wat makes her an out of leaguer is not that shes too popular... its that u dont know how to approach a girl like her thats wat makes her an out of leaguer.... an out of leaguer could be a book worm.... doesnt really make her popular... but u dont know how to approach her or u never approached a girl like her before... and she looks good as hell.... thats wat an out of leaguer would be considered... makes sense?

[Biolink]

Yeah I do get what you are saying.

It really isn't a problem with other girls that are just considered friends.Popular girls though are on a different level

[SF_PHOCUS]

Stop putting "popular girls" on a pedestal lol... treat popular girls the same way u would treat a not so popular girl.. i used to say that to myself too... dam shes too popular for me... but then i realized wait a minute... i dont care if shes popular i can still break her down the same way id any other girl... its just that theres guys in the world that make it hard to do that.... like the guys that forever compliment girls... (oh my god ur like so hot, can i buy u a drink...) guys that do that just feed the egos of these "popular girls"....

[Biolink]

I just hate rejection.

I've seen dudes try to talk to some of these girls and they look at them like "Who are you?"

"You don't get money(sell drugs),you aren't a football player,what can you do for me?"

[DS]

Yeah, I hate it when you're like 16, and girls are already thinking that way. Bitch can't even maintain her own grades, what makes her think she knows about being taken care of outside of her mom spoonfeeding her day in and day out? Fuck. I'm so glad I'm no longer a teenager.

[Darklightjg1]

@ Biolink: Ever tried to sell a product that you KNOW nobody really needs?
Of course the majority will so no but you can still get a few to go along with it.

That's the way I'd compare it to approaching girls. Don't fear rejection because there are plenty others out there... and some WILL dig you. But how would you ever know if you don't even bother to try cause you got this mental block of "nah, she'd never go out with a guy like me" going on?

...try yo. She says no? Fuck it. Try again or move on to the next one (her friend :lol:)

[Biolink]

Some of these girls are already pregnant(Big shocker...)

How much do things change after highschool?