View Full Version : The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2
Allosaurus
11-13-2007, 07:16 PM
Well SRK I posted this in the Premo TOL thread but I figured this would be a better place to gain advice and see what girl I should waste my time+money on:
Girl #1 (http://b8.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00917/88/76/917856788_l.jpg)
Good:
-Makes Me laugh
-Likes me for who I am
-Thinks I'm "cute"
-Fun to be around
Bad:
-Crazy cock-blocking EX that still thinks he's with her
-Still don't trust her 100%
-Puts me through alot of semi-pointless drama
Girl #2 (http://a598.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/89/l_8c0fd83f702d0a792221199d6903c765.jpg)
Good:
-Funny
-Tall
-Nice body
-Drama free
Bad:
-Ditzy
-She's 17 X_X
MrBlank
11-13-2007, 07:24 PM
Number 2 will eventually grow into Drama because shes young and has alot more to do in life / experience.
Number 1 still has baggage. I mean that guy might be so sprung he would make your life overall miserable.
Overall: you have to consider what your willing to subject yourself to. if you really are willing to handle the drama of number 1, well then i dont see whats the problem. if you really dont like the idea of handling the baggage number 1 holds, you need to jump on that number 2. Then pray her birthday is sooooon. =)
Murt!
11-13-2007, 07:26 PM
So i got that "Game" book last week, havent been able to read much because work is currently consuming my time. But i gotta say, its already improved my awareness of $hit. or "IOI's" Just by reading that little section on IOI's i relized how many opputunities i missed up i n the past:bluu: Normally, im a quiet guy, very resevred,gentleman,so usually when random girls wherever walk up to me and ask me some $hit or say somthing, i usuallly just smile and answer the question or give a short remark... So after a little reading about the IOI's i just pretty much assumed, aight, if any girls say some shit to me that i dont think they really needed to say, then i'll take that as an invite/IOI and run with it.. I get approched by females every so often for some reason or another because i ride the train to work in kinda a busy area... So NOW if i get approched for what i might consider a "dumb" reason or she goes out of her way to say or do some random $hit i take interest in her and start up a convo... I tell you, everyone i talked to applied my new way of thinking to has give'n me loads of IOI's after the convo gets started..:bgrin: my usuall effortless pick-ups are great, feels good, but this will only increase the amount of intereactions i get into.. To think, all i had to do was open my mouth and be a bit more open. :xeye: Funny. Some minute info can go along way.
Could you provide a link to this book? It sounds pretty useful.
Allosaurus
11-13-2007, 07:33 PM
Number 2 will eventually grow into Drama because shes young and has alot more to do in life / experience.
Yeah true...
Number 1 still has baggage. I mean that guy might be so sprung he would make your life overall miserable.
True...
Overall: you have to consider what your willing to subject yourself to. if you really are willing to handle the drama of number 1, well then i dont see whats the problem. if you really dont like the idea of handling the baggage number 1 holds, you need to jump on that number 2. Then pray her birthday is sooooon. =)
Well #1 is giving me signs that she digs me and shit and we've been through lots of shit so I think I'll stick with her for now...her fucking EX just bugs the fuck out of me.
SF_PHOCUS
11-13-2007, 07:59 PM
Yeah true...
True...
Well #1 is giving me signs that she digs me and shit and we've been through lots of shit so I think I'll stick with her for now...her fucking EX just bugs the fuck out of me.
Listen, from experience you do not want to deal wif a girl whom has baggage.... same thing in my last relationship... ( same ex situation but more emotional on her side than anyting else) unless this is a girl u consider yourself being with for a long time to work thru the baggage its not worth it... im not sayin u shouldnt try but the reward isnt great enough in the end..... in the second girl... im not sure how old u are but im 21 and regardless of what she looks like im not touchin her till she turns 18... NOW id rather wait on the second girl till she turns 18 cause shes young and at least if u put in the same amount of work in her as if u would wif the baggage girl the reward would be better.. makes sense??:chat:
Silentness!
11-13-2007, 08:02 PM
heh in no shape or form did I try to make my situational opener post sound like it was some new legit phenomenon; it's just common sense to approaching chicks. I pretty much erased all PUA terms from my head cause they are dumb. Only one that makes sense are IOIs (Indicators of Interest)
IOI = Girl asking for your name before you even ask for hers.
*Girl asking you a chain of questions about yourself.
* Girl doing blatant kino. shit like that...
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It's so easy to talk to girls. That's probably why I stopped asking for help. UNLESS you guys got tips on how I could hook up with a chick that speaks ZERO English. :wink: All it takes is confidence and the appropriate topic to get what you want.
SF_PHOCUS
11-13-2007, 08:11 PM
heh in no shape or form did I try to make my situational opener post sound like it was some new legit phenomenon; it's just common sense to approaching chicks. I pretty much erased all PUA terms from my head cause they are dumb. Only one that makes sense are IOIs (Indicators of Interest)
IOI = Girl asking for your name before you even ask for hers.
*Girl asking you a chain of questions about yourself.
* Girl doing blatant kino. shit like that...
_______________
It's so easy to talk to girls. All it takes is confidence and the appropriate topic to get what you want.
Which is wat ive been tellin you all this time...! but its nottt realllly quiteee exactlyyy thattttt easy... it all depends on the situation/circumstance... i wanna hear wat u have to say... answer this situation.... U see a girl that you want to talk to... shes with 2 other homegirls...walk me thru it:chat:
Silentness!
11-13-2007, 08:42 PM
Which is wat ive been tellin you all this time...! but its nottt realllly quiteee exactlyyy thattttt easy... it all depends on the situation/circumstance... i wanna hear wat u have to say... answer this situation.... U see a girl that you want to talk to... shes with 2 other homegirls...walk me thru it:chat:
Like we said to Blackstar shit is MAD random. It's hard for me to script the outcome of the girls, BUT:
Greet the girls-> TALK TO ALL 3 for God's sake! It's not really feasible to lock onto one girl and cock block the other two when they are standing right next to her. Slowly spend more and more time talking to the main chick as you slowly weed off the other two chicks. Then pull the girl over to the side away from her friends and grab her digits.
It's all about showing that you are confident enough to take on all 3 girls at the same time in a cold pickup. At first they will be like "Who is this nigga coming up to us?" Building rapport from the girl's friends also builds rapport indirectly with the main chick. If you are a dick or come off as boring to her friends then the main chick will see this and choose her friends obviously over you.
Basically it's like getting her parents approval, but it's her friends. Win over her friends and bam you've just increased your chances with the main target. Hell I'd say it's even more rewarding to do an opener on a group because the target is less paranoid because she's not in a 1on1 situation with a complete stranger.
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Like I said though I'm not going to script out a conversation because it just isn't possible. So many random variables are involved to judge a same day to day scenario.
I'll tell you what I do though for conversation starters when a situational opener just isn't cutting it. See that TOL thread we have going? Shit like that is what I'll say to a chick... just random off the wall shit to get her motor mouth going.
Hell I could start up a conversation based on ANYTHING: what she/her friends are doing for Thanksgiving/how excited are they to finish College and if they plan on staying in state or moving out of state (Different from asking the God awful "Where are you from" statement)
Tone + Smile + Delivery = win
Damn sorry for the long post. *scratches head*
SF_PHOCUS
11-13-2007, 09:36 PM
yeh i know u cant script it out i ment basics lol... good though ur def learning... all this of course is no good if ur not applying it... hmmm i gotta give this thread a look
I just got "The Game" from the mail today. The book looks identicle to a bible. If I didn't have homework I'd dive right into it. Eh, maybe I will anyway. Hahahaha I love the design to it.
onyx- thats great!! thats my mind set... i always take something as an ioi... lol i remember watchin somethin wif mystery and he was talkin about that.... I think he was sayin he had on a crazy hat... and a girl walked over to him and made a comment about the hat and he said to her... no no no... you like me.... thats somewat of an example... i take everything as an IOI so when i finally get that real IOI i wont miss it.... wat u wanna do though is use that book as a stepping stone or to get ur feet wet so to speak.. dont base ur whole game around it.. cause if u do girls will be able to see thru u... or even worse label you as a player.. and u dont want that.. but everything u do thats towards gettin better wif women is always a good thing.... pretty soon you will be able to get numbers from girls that are clearly with their boyfriends...
Ya i hear ya, im no ones clone i'm just taking what i didnt know and adding it to my data base.. I cant get over the IOI's though, ive read halfway thorugh the book now and it seems like all i need'd to to read/know about was when girls show intrest. :cybot:
Right after my post yesterday i went to this shushi retuarant 4 lunch that i go to everyonce in a while with a few coworkers when they're not traveling.. I brought lunch with me yesterday but was dressed a bit more pimp than normal so i decided to go because of this dead cute asain waitress that always serves me and my friends when i go.
So i walk in, this guy waiter walks up and ask me where i wanna sit, i choose a seat, and he drop the menu and ask what i wanna drink, she comes up and says "coke with miso soup,salmon teriaki, and extra rice right" and looks at me with a confirming smile, i nod and say " right, you know exactly what i want" So dude walks away and she tell's me she'll be right back... Now she only knew what i want because i always order the same thing, (thier slamon is godlike) she always tease's me when i go by telling me my order..
-TIME WARP-
As i said before i usually go there with my coworkers, but i did go there alone 2 weeks ago because i just wanted to damn salmon, i was supposed to go with some coworkers a week beofre that,but ended up being sick that whole week and i geuss i still had the taste for salmon festering in me.. So i go in alone and sit down, she says "how come you didnt come in last week with your friends?" "they all came but i didnt see you last time" slighty shocked she was kinda looking for me i responded with my usually quick answers "uhh, i was sick all week so i couldnt make it" she say's "well you feel better now right" i I nod in agreement and she tells me my order and i nod again. As she walks away o think tomyself "hmm, so you've been watching me huh?? ive been watching you too *sinister laughter*"
Now keep in mind, ive only been there either alone or with coworkers, thats it..
-BACK TO YESTERDAY-
So a few minutes after she placed my order she comes back my miso soup and coke, i look her in da eye and give her a sincere "thankyou" then she says in slightly broken enligh"so how come you came here alone today?? no friends, no girlfriend???" as she looks at me with a curious smile... The second i heard "no grilfriend?" i said to my self - ok that was a dead phucken givaway, obvious, IOI. I got this collage image in my head of all the things i would do to her and how great it would be and a mental sinister smirk (ya know, like in the anime's where you see that grin show'n teeth with that lens flare sparkle on the end of the smile) So then still in amasement i say "nope, no girlfriend... nahh, no girlfriend..." She's still smile'n but gives me this "ok???" kinda look and she keeps eyecontact and take's causiously takes a few steps away, then walks off..
In that instant the collage i had in my mind with all those beautiful positions and images shatterd like glass and fell out of sight, all i could think was "PHHHHHHHUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKK!!!! :shake: YOU STUPIND PHUCK, real slick with the responce there, that shit is done son:bluu:"So i spend the rest of my time waiting for the food to come thinking about what to say next time a girl gives me that "no girlfriend?" or "i dont have a boyfriend" implamentation that i ALWAYS seem to fuck up with a dumb responce.. Well there was that one time i had a good responce for it :)
So like 10 minutes later she comes back with my salmona nd i give her another "thankyou" She sets down the plate and walks away.. i think to myself again "phuck'n idiot".. So i eat, and im ready for my check, she comes over pics up the plates, then comes back with the check and stand there for a second or two thinking, then she says "so your a designer right?" i give her a how did you know that look and she says " ya,i overhear you and your freinds you come here with sometimes talking about design stuff" So i give her and impressed look and reply "ya thats what i do" with an pleased/agreeable nod. She asked what kind of work we do and where. i explain "blahh blah blah" , try'n to be fast and not boring her with detail she prolly dosent care about.. The conversation carries on from there and we go through all kinda slighty related topics that all stem'd from the designer thing, lasted about 10 minutes.. And yes she had other tables to do.
So after finding out where she came from- (i know,i shouldnt ask, but i have to when i see an oriental with a accent, if she's japanese i can bust out some of what i know and shock the $hit outta them lolol the look on thier face is GOLD,and i leave a burning impression..She was from Mylasia though..)-i asked her what her name is, she told me and asked me mine, i tell her "onyx" (yes,i always use that name) I say "well it was nice finally have'n a conversaion with you, that Mylasain accent of yours is very cute" She gives me a big koolaid smile and at that point i think to myself.."should i get her number?" So i reach out my hand gestureing for a handshake, she complies with a smile and hand shake, i get up and head towards the door and she yells out "have a nice day" i say the usual "thanks bye" and walk out....Happy as fuck, not because we had a convo, but because she strait up opend me.. Twice.. after i crashed and burned withe the first opener..She's persistant! I cant tell you how many times i've thought about opening this chick up, im not talking about speaking to her ehither :devil::bgrin::devil:
I didnt get her number because i actually do have a girlfriend,(made in Taiwan) i know where we're gonna mostlikely end up do to the situation we're in but right now i can tell she's got some serious love for me. She tell's me things like how all of ther other relationships before me was a joke and i've shown her what love n trust is.. And she's given me alot of trust in back in women as well. She gave me her virginity, n she's my first virgin, so i dont wanna be "that guy that took my virginity and cheated on me" in her mind.. I want her to only have good memoires of me, so i'll continue to do right by her,ride the wave here until the traugh, then move on... Maybee by then the seed i planted with the waitress will grow , or maybee not.. hmm.. I sure as fuck wanna water the shit out of that seed though....I need to stop type'n these books on MS and SRK:bluu:
Could you provide a link to this book? It sounds pretty useful.
Done
"THE GAME" (http://www.amazon.com/Game-Penetrating-Secret-Society-Artists/dp/0060554738/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1195051365&sr=1-1)
I have to warn you though, its not a book that a PU artist wrote, this guy Neil Strauss is a writer, who happens to be a pick up artist. So in saying that, realize that its not an instructional book on how to get women, its a story( agood stpry so far) of how he made his change to get women, in doing that he explains little things here and there, but this isnt a book of bullets on "how to" "when to"and "what to do's" its is still helpful and you can learn from it though... So if thats what your looking for there are other books you can get that are based more directly on pickup how to's.. I dont have any to recomend though..Err this book does plug alot of other books about PU's though, so im can get good referances from here:tup:
Well #1 is giving me signs that she digs me and shit and we've been through lots of shit so I think I'll stick with her for now...her fucking EX just bugs the fuck out of me.
Did she break up with the boyfirend, or did teh boyfriend break up with her?? Because if she broke it off, id say go for it with caution, but if he broke it of, prepare for BS m Drama escalation... I broke up with my ex a year and a half ago, she's had a new BF who she claim to love for like 6 months,i was still phuck'n her until about 3 months ago when i decided to cut her off from my life completely because her new BF called me one moring like " blah blah blah Nicole is spoken for, i dont know why you'll talking to her at 2am" Rather than explaining to him how her pu$$y curves to my dick and thats why she's talking to me @ 2am while ur @ work, i just said "ok"
That shit pissed me off soo much that this nigga actually called me withis number wilthheld like "yo yo yo cut tha shit" This fuck is a cop! a police officer,why in the wolrd would he hide his number from the guy that his slut GF is diyng to get back with???? Whatever his reason was for hideing his number, it worked out beter for him, because 5 minutes after he called i wanted to call him back and tell him how she told me his dick is'nt big enough and how she still wanted me back and when exactally she started cheated on him with me.... Yes it would have crushed his little matrix bubble but it would actually be helping him find out very early on what it took me 8 years to relize, he's wasteing his time with her.. why help him out, let him find out about her in a few years...
I just got "The Game" from the mail today. The book looks identicle to a bible. If I didn't have homework I'd dive right into it. Eh, maybe I will anyway. Hahahaha I love the design to it.
Cosign, teh book design is pretty kool, gold n black. "iz nice"
SF_PHOCUS
11-14-2007, 02:57 PM
lol onyx i actually enjoyed readin that story... some parts made me go ohhhhh lol i felt wat u felt lmao.... me honestly wat i would of done differently is while you guys were talkin i would of stopped her halfway sayin.... "hey listen I have to run i have some work to catch up on.... But hey lets exchange______ ( you fill in wat u want phone number or email) So we could talk when ur finished working cause if u get fired Im not taking you in lol".... something like... that does alot of things... shows that ur on the move by saying u have some work to catch up on, shows that ur not a feen that you dont neeeedddd her convo, and it also shows that u have some sense of humor... makes sense?
SF_PHOCUS
11-14-2007, 03:17 PM
alright guys girl i was talkin about few posts ago ignored my ims.. so i think im gonna take the direct approach.... via email... any thoughts?
zer0_858
11-14-2007, 03:23 PM
alright guys girl i was talkin about few posts ago ignored my ims.. so i think im gonna take the direct approach.... via email... any thoughts?
Hmmm tough call could be any number of reasons why she didnt get back to you....
1. Someone using her comp while she is signed in
2. She left her AIM on
3. She was ignoring you
4. She was about to go somewhere.....
Many other reasons why she couldnt get back.... Just try again another day, but e-mail her first instead and mentioned that you imed her you don't want to look desperate or anything.
lol onyx i actually enjoyed readin that story... some parts made me go ohhhhh lol i felt wat u felt lmao.... me honestly wat i would of done differently is while you guys were talkin i would of stopped her halfway sayin.... "hey listen I have to run i have some work to catch up on.... But hey lets exchange______ ( you fill in wat u want phone number or email) So we could talk when ur finished working cause if u get fired Im not taking you in lol".... something like... that does alot of things... shows that ur on the move by saying u have some work to catch up on, shows that ur not a feen that you dont neeeedddd her convo, and it also shows that u have some sense of humor... makes sense?
Word:china: pretty funny i like that... I just need a line or rebutal for that "no girlfriend?" or "im single" hint.. I can never think of anything clever or even a remotely decent responce...:annoy:Gotta brain storm, im not go'n down like that again.. ever... ihope:sweat:
alright guys girl i was talkin about few posts ago ignored my ims.. so i think im gonna take the direct approach.... via email... any thoughts?
Wait 2-3 days , if she dosent contact u then go direct.
Silentness!
11-14-2007, 04:38 PM
Heh I feel like were going through cycles in this thread. It's a deja vu effect of part 1/first half of part 2.
MrBlank
11-14-2007, 04:47 PM
alright guys girl i was talkin about few posts ago ignored my ims.. so i think im gonna take the direct approach.... via email... any thoughts?
watch out for the one-itis bro. she may be the bomb but she might be seeing your persistence as clingy low value male action too. Careful when diving in too far you might get drowned. have you tried making it seem like your a busy guy with other women too yet?
MrBuster
11-14-2007, 05:10 PM
^^^ Exactly what I was going to say.... Right now you attempts to contact her are gonna make you seem needy. Right now I think the best bet is to chill on her for a bit and just go out and start talking to some other women. Trust me, I have been through the deep effects of one-itis and it really fucks with self-confidence/esteem and more. Go to the store, mall, or somewhere and just talk to some ladies as they walk by. Nothing serious, just a simple "Hi". You don't have to try to game her or anything, but it will get the thought of your one-itis out of your mind. Hell, you might talk to someone very interesting.
SF_PHOCUS
11-14-2007, 06:07 PM
lol woah woah one-itis?? its not that bad... im not feenin or anything im just trying to see wats good wif her in particular lol.. its just that i seen her facebook.. she changed her status to single and i tried to holla... i guess u guys somewat misunderstood the situation lol... but im actually talkin to a girl from my school... i just approached her a few days in the library.. so thats a lil project but this girl from facebook it was like hit or miss
SF_PHOCUS
11-14-2007, 06:13 PM
mr blank ur right... thats exactly wat i was afraid would happen... thats why i wasnt sure how to approach here which is why i posted here.... but oh well im not gonna even waste my time trying to talk to her.... lol
one-itis hit me hard a few weeks ago. This airhead that could never keep her end of the bargain aka showing up for the date multiple times got to me. I think I even mentioned it too on here. But now I know that girls like that are a waste of my time.
MrBlank
11-14-2007, 09:25 PM
i got socked with one-itis way back in highschool once but i turned it into a life lesson. In fact if it didnt happen to me so early in life i probably wouldnt be the man i am today.
which i believe is a good thing because heh things are great.
Murt!
11-14-2007, 09:34 PM
"one-itis"? Is that when you're only after one girl or something?
MrBlank
11-14-2007, 09:37 PM
yeah. its a term used for folks who pursue just a solo girl and neglect there are other women around.
you could say more of a solo woman attachment which women usually FZ men instantly on.
Striderhyru05
11-14-2007, 10:51 PM
I stopped talking to the girl and now I want her more than ever. I never felt so attached to a girl before. =(
MrBlank
11-14-2007, 11:05 PM
^ bam One-Itis...
well not to make fun of you or anything, but i feel every guy has been hit with one-itis before. it sucks horribly to want what you cant have.
Infernoman
11-14-2007, 11:55 PM
^ bam One-Itis...
well not to make fun of you or anything, but i feel every guy has been hit with one-itis before. it sucks horribly to want what you cant have.
yes that is very true...best way to get over it is another girl...or 2 becoming a new target! which is now what I have done. actually just yesterday some random girl began sending me msgs on mysapce...and so we have begun talking...girl moved to go to school here in SoCal from Washington. we now will go out saturday. wow this week has been great! this was a nice bonus with Mario and a new RE game coming out!
SF_PHOCUS
11-15-2007, 04:26 AM
lol ahhh ive got hit wif the one itis too and i had it horrible... yeh i think that made me the man of steel i am today... lol im not really bothered when a girl doesnt wanna give me a chance.... lol i just say to myself.... "hey if u dont like me theres something wrong with you"
matrix9280
11-15-2007, 05:32 AM
I have a question. How do you get women to stop doing that thing? You know that thing where their lips keep moving and it projects a loud annoying sound. I think they call it talking.
It's really annoying and I'd like to know how do I make it stop. Any input would be appreciated.
I have a question. How do you get women to stop doing that thing? You know that thing where their lips keep moving and it projects a loud annoying sound. I think they call it talking.
It's really annoying and I'd like to know how do I make it stop. Any input would be appreciated.
there is no way to do this... you have to understand how to minimize the length and also read into it when its giving you tips on things you need to know...
I have a question. How do you get women to stop doing that thing? You know that thing where their lips keep moving and it projects a loud annoying sound. I think they call it talking.
It's really annoying and I'd like to know how do I make it stop. Any input would be appreciated.
Just put something in her mouth.:wgrin:, or offer a peice of gum, might keep her busy or add anoying smacking sounds to the talk'n.
SF_PHOCUS
11-15-2007, 09:47 AM
I have a question. How do you get women to stop doing that thing? You know that thing where their lips keep moving and it projects a loud annoying sound. I think they call it talking.
It's really annoying and I'd like to know how do I make it stop. Any input would be appreciated.
lol wat i usually do is if a woman is talkin and she wont shut the hell up or if im not interested in wat she is talkin about... i just day dream... lol... like ill make eye contact to make it seems as though im listening but then after that i let my mind wonder off.... of course i wouldnt recommend this if ur not good wif women because of the fact that if she starts ranting about how ur not paying attention u wouldnt know how to handle that :rofl:
Autocrat1
11-15-2007, 10:09 AM
I stopped talking to the girl and now I want her more than ever. I never felt so attached to a girl before. =(
Yeah I've been suffering from this too recently.
I will refrain from posting a pic of her sexay ass because of it. lol I'm such a sad Meatwad.
The funny thing is, I consider myself a comfortable if not arrogant loner, but once in a while I have thoughts to myself that say if I *do* hook up with someone, she would be so "perfect" that I wouldn't need to have another girlfriend/soul mate/real life sex doll forever. Quality > Quantity is my formula in life, and I apply it to everything, not just one-itis urges.
And then I masturbate so I don't get fired.
I have a question. How do you get women to stop doing that thing? You know that thing where their lips keep moving and it projects a loud annoying sound. I think they call it talking.
It's really annoying and I'd like to know how do I make it stop. Any input would be appreciated.
Stairs.
Hearing a (possibly fat) body thump down the stairs is soothing to the ears like a fart in the winter.
Helter Skelter
11-15-2007, 10:14 AM
I usualy don't have guts too post here. Seems too personal. I'm going to give it a go anyway.
My penis is quite big (not gigantic, or anything), sometimes it's a bit of a burden.
For instance:-
-Condoms are nearly always too tight.
-Sometimes I'm worried, I may hurt the girl, I'm sleeping with.
-I'm just getting used to, the way I dress. I don't want to start wearing, overly baggy jeans or anything.
-The shit is heavy.
It shrinks to a reasonable size, usually. But like all guys, you can't help when you get aroused.
Anyway, does anyone else, have this problem. If so, how have you been dealing with it?
Quality > Quantity is my formula in life, and I apply it.
:wonder: hmm its been over a decade since i was tought this so i may be wrong, but, is'nt the "aligator mouth" supposed to eat the thing that is -lesser than-??? Seemed like you were try'n to say quality over quantity, but it came out reverse?
I usualy don't have guts too post here. Seems too personal. I'm going to give it a go anyway.
My penis is quite big (not gigantic, or anything), sometimes it's a bit of a burden.
For instance:-
-Condoms are nearly always too tight.
-Sometimes I'm worried, I may hurt the girl, I'm sleeping with.
-I'm just getting used to, the way I dress. I don't want to start wearing, overly baggy jeans or anything.
-The shit is heavy.
It shrinks to a reasonable size, usually. But like all guys, you can't help when you get aroused.
Anyway, does anyone else, have this problem. If so, how have you been dealing with it?
:lol: wear tighty whities to strap it down.
Infested Jester
11-15-2007, 10:25 AM
-Condoms are nearly always too tight.
Trojan Magnums son, they are like the god tier of condoms.
MrBlank
11-15-2007, 10:28 AM
I have a question. How do you get women to stop doing that thing? You know that thing where their lips keep moving and it projects a loud annoying sound. I think they call it talking.
It's really annoying and I'd like to know how do I make it stop. Any input would be appreciated.
you give them money and they suddenly disappear....
i think they call it shopping...
blackstar14
11-15-2007, 11:04 AM
eh isn't a little disrespectful to try and get over one-itis with getting at someone else? Like, thats exactly what I was going through and I thought, will If I mess with someone else, she could get jealous and also I'll get over her. Pretty much killing two birds with one stone. But after really thinking about it, it seemed kinda f'd up to basically "use" someone to get over someone else.
TheSix
11-15-2007, 11:08 AM
eh isn't a little disrespectful to try and get over one-itis with getting at someone else? Like, thats exactly what I was going through and I thought, will If I mess with someone else, she could get jealous and also I'll get over her. Pretty much likking two birds with one stone. But after really thinking about it, it seems kinda f'd up to basically "use" someone to get over someone else.
Are you sure you understand the differences between one itis and cheating?
If you aren't with the other person, then why would they feel bad if you are talking to someone else?
Once you start obsessing(IE thinking about her more than she thinks about you), the best remedy is to go fuck 10 other women. You just won't care anymore.
blackstar14
11-15-2007, 11:15 AM
i'm saying feel bad for the girl i'm basically "using" to get over the other
Helter Skelter
11-15-2007, 11:21 AM
:lol: wear tighty whities to strap it down.
Trojan Magnums son, they are like the god tier of condoms.
Thanks for the advice.
I can't see myself, in tighty whiteys. I will check them out though.
MrBlank
11-15-2007, 11:38 AM
eh isn't a little disrespectful to try and get over one-itis with getting at someone else? Like, thats exactly what I was going through and I thought, will If I mess with someone else, she could get jealous and also I'll get over her. Pretty much killing two birds with one stone. But after really thinking about it, it seemed kinda f'd up to basically "use" someone to get over someone else.
Honestly girls do it all the time and they could give a shit about how the other guy feels. Not that you are using them. I dont think you just randomly walk up to a girl and "use" them to get at another girl. Its more like just "not focusing on just one" girl. Think of this as creating more opportunity for yourself.
Girls love the attention right. thats why they wear those really crazy looking pieces of gear or act loud or dance like a stripper. so if a guy is not giving them attention. They start to ask themselves questions like why your not swinging on their jock like every other low value male. These questions allow them to be more open to you, makes you a high value male and see what your about.
So your not using these women to get what you want. Even if you go out with these other women the girl your trying to get at just might not care. Though at least you will be over the One-Itis and you will be alot happier mentally.
blackstar14
11-15-2007, 11:42 AM
snip
makes sense. thanks
Thanks for the advice.
I can't see myself, in tighty whiteys. I will check them out though.
Boxer briefs >boxers >tight whites
matrix9280
11-15-2007, 11:48 AM
Are you sure you understand the differences between one itis and cheating?
If you aren't with the other person, then why would they feel bad if you are talking to someone else?
Once you start obsessing(IE thinking about her more than she thinks about you), the best remedy is to go fuck 10 other women. You just won't care anymore.
Oh that's all? That shouldn't be too hard.:rofl:
TheSix
11-15-2007, 12:01 PM
Oh that's all? That shouldn't be too hard.:rofl:
Fo shizzle :rofl::rofl:
SF_PHOCUS
11-15-2007, 12:25 PM
LOL @ feelin bad for usin a girl to get over one itis... lol like blank said girls do it all the time... i dont understand why something like that would make u feel bad... and to the guy postin about his shmeat(pause) magnums are the way to go...
I dont know bout the "one" itis but I can say this to those
To get over it an have tatics to get over it is honestly impossible. Imma be real with yall like I always do. ... u cant... even if your cold hearted... an anyone that knows ME personally knows imma a cold heart muthafucca... i put a broad out on a highway exit an told her ass to catch a bus on a sunday.... thats how cold
but having someone stuck in your mind happens... an happens when someone touches your in a way mentally an physically that ONLY u dont understand... sure you act like your ticked or in a "fuc dat bitch" attitude an try to forget... or the she playin herself for not gettin wit a brotha... but the smallest an simple shyt will rekindle whatever feeling-attitude-thought of her an sometimes that thought-feeling-attitude will turn into a yearn or distraction.... there is no way around it... trying to rebound or bounce to the next chick aint gonna help either.... avoiding what you two did while together or where you will run into her wont help either... an runnin to bone multiple other chicks aint gonna help either
YOU JUST FUCCIN DEAL WITH IT
it leaves you like a cold... an can come back at times but not as strong as it was.... u just have to take that trippin out or yearning for what it is... just like that last resort chick you young playbois got in ya phone on that late night an the premium pussy™ aint answering.... you take it for what it is... dont play yaselves trying or avoiding... its there an I know to each their own... but i doubt there is a guy here that can say they didnt have that issue on multiple occasions...
MrBlank
11-15-2007, 03:49 PM
ive been in contact with stunner level chicks before but the one itis never hit me again since highschool. I guess because my sexual conquest objectives have changed. Im not looking for the one that i want to settle down with yet, so i guess it would explain why i havent been hit with the one-itis more then during the small timeframe in highschool.
Atomic #
11-15-2007, 03:58 PM
"hey if u dont like me theres something wrong with you"
Thanks man, I've been running out of comebacks after being rejected... this one is way better than, "Just be friends? What do I look like? Your psychitrist?"
So... the girl I had a date earlier, asked her of her preferences... she claims to not have one... Like she has no preference of what guys she would like to date or anything... She simply said, "I prefer them to be friends first instead of attraction.." Its funny because she's pretty cute, and the guys at clubs holla at her, I don't know whether she's sprouting bullshit at me as a way of saying, "we are only friends don't fucking ask what you are thinking of asking" or its a damn hint... I was downing shots of henney at the time.
And I got to escort her to a club in a few weeks so I better think of something...:rofl:
blackstar14
11-15-2007, 04:03 PM
imma a cold heart muthafucca... i put a broad out on a highway exit an told her ass to catch a bus on a sunday.... thats how cold
classic and true
SF_PHOCUS
11-15-2007, 04:06 PM
I can concur... lol i cant even front.. my ex had me wildin when we broke up.... like i can honestly say from june to about middle august i was fucked up.... cause in june we were on the rocks.. so it was taking a toll on me... then when we finally broke like the first week of july i didnt know wat to do wif myself... and it was actually pretty damn scary.... "Mr.I can sweet talk my way out of a paper bag and into a girls panties" was trippin.. but now its like fuck that bitch for real...
And i realized something too.. like theres absolutely no reason to stay friends wif an ex... In my experience it just feels too weird.. and we were friends before we hooked up... not friends friends but the level before becomin boyfriend and girl friend....
trying to stop doing things that remind you of her def does not work... because when u finally do it again ur still gonna have that feelin in ur gut... So wat i did was just basically burn burn burn lol(if u do it youll know wat i mean by burn) and stay around friends and shit.... go out... exercise so i can have lots of energy... and fuck as many girls as possible... and i didnt care either... i would smash and not even call back... on some one night stand shit... just cause i was so bitter... dammmm koop now thats some greese shit lol and ima fellow greeser.... (i once called my boys over to see this girl i was fuckin wif i told them to wait infront of my crib... i had her panties in my hand cause she left them and when we got outside i said heyyy you forgot something lmfao)
SF_PHOCUS
11-15-2007, 04:11 PM
Thanks man, I've been running out of comebacks after being rejected... this one is way better than, "Just be friends? What do I look like? Your psychitrist?"
So... the girl I had a date earlier, asked her of her preferences... she claims to not have one... Like she has no preference of what guys she would like to date or anything... She simply said, "I prefer them to be friends first instead of attraction.." Its funny because she's pretty cute, and the guys at clubs holla at her, I don't know whether she's sprouting bullshit at me as a way of saying, "we are only friends don't fucking ask what you are thinking of asking" or its a damn hint... I was downing shots of henney at the time.
And I got to escort her to a club in a few weeks so I better think of something...:rofl:
I never ask girls wat her preferences are.... thats like comparing me to some next dude she delt wif... I dont care wat her preference is... if shes talkin to me then im her preference.... wat do u mean by escort her to a club???:amazed:
Today I had training at the ski resort. This girl that goes to the same college was also there. I talked to her a lot and we went to luch together and then a tattoo parlor so I can make arrangements to finish up my piece. The entire time we were talking, she got personal with me at times. By the end of the day I got her number and let her know "we should hang out as friends" So 10 minutes later I receive a voice mail from her that we didn't have training the next day and that she would be down to chill.
My question is should I try to get with her? I mean she will be working at the same resort and I will probably be seeing her a lot. I don't want to fuck our "friendship" up not because of the "friendship" but it's awkward as fuck to see the person everyday that rejected you like this one girl that I go to class with. So how should I conquer this?
katraqueyous
11-15-2007, 05:45 PM
My question is should I try to get with her? I mean she will be working at the same resort and I will probably be seeing her a lot. I don't want to fuck our "friendship" up not because of the "friendship" but it's awkward as fuck to see the person everyday that rejected you like this one girl that I go to class with. So how should I conquer this?
Get with it her? When she said the "friend" word, thats meant that she's not interested in dating you.
Plus, "chillin" isn't date, IMO, you do that with your boys, like when we played 3S, lol.
Just try to see if she can introduce you to one of her hot girlfriends. Don't turn into her little servant because your diggin this chick and shes not that into you.
Oh wait, you mentioned y'all will be co-workers? Heeeyy, getting into a relationship with a co-worker is a brutal NO-NO man.
Murt!
11-15-2007, 06:39 PM
My question is should I try to get with her? I mean she will be working at the same resort and I will probably be seeing her a lot. I don't want to fuck our "friendship" up not because of the "friendship" but it's awkward as fuck to see the person everyday that rejected you like this one girl that I go to class with. So how should I conquer this?
Go for it. The worst that she can say is no.
Go for it. The worst that she can say is no.
The "no" is easy to handle, it's the aftermath of it. The last girl I tried asking out got all sketched out and avoided me like the plague, like went out of her way to avoid me because I see her twice a week and she lived across the hallway.
Oh and it was me that brought up "friends," not her. I was reading a book by David DeAngelo and he said to use "friends" often so it confuses her and thinks you are going past her looks and shit. So in retrospect I don't know if saying friends was the right thing to say....
I think I'll go ask her to see a movie or go snowboarding this weekend but I'll be cautious. Not to say I won't flirt, but I just won't take things to the next step or anything when we "chill." Unless some one else got some advice.
Murt!
11-15-2007, 07:17 PM
Unless some one else got some advice.
I'd like to help, but besides telling you to never listen to David D, I can't really do much.
Yeah I only bought into maybe a fraction of his stuff so I took what I got from it even though it might have been the wrong way of doing things unless I played the entire role from start to finish... SF_PHOCUS where you at man!
SF_PHOCUS
11-15-2007, 08:09 PM
Get with it her? When she said the "friend" word, thats meant that she's not interested in dating you.
Plus, "chillin" isn't date, IMO, you do that with your boys, like when we played 3S, lol.
Just try to see if she can introduce you to one of her hot girlfriends. Don't turn into her little servant because your diggin this chick and shes not that into you.
Oh wait, you mentioned y'all will be co-workers? Heeeyy, getting into a relationship with a co-worker is a brutal NO-NO man.
He didnt say she said the friend word... he said to her we should hang out as friends.. that was actually a good thing he did... he said lets hang out as friends... shes prolly thinkin to herself huh??? he just wants to be friends????? so that takes less pressure of him and puts it on her cause she will try and impress him... i do that all the time... and i just sit back and watch their brains short circut lol:rofl:
Atomic #
11-15-2007, 08:28 PM
wat do u mean by escort her to a club???:amazed:
I mean go to a club with her, I went with her once when she turned 21, and she wanted to go again, saying she likes dancing with me which translates into "her doing all the movements and I go with the flow..."
katraqueyous
11-15-2007, 08:48 PM
Oh and it was me that brought up "friends," not her. I was reading a book by David DeAngelo and he said to use "friends" often so it confuses her and thinks you are going past her looks and shit. So in retrospect I don't know if saying friends was the right thing to say....
Ohhh shit, I misread that.
The aftermath to the "no" can be cured by getting more phone numbers from other girls.
Yeah, I don't follow David D either. Doc Love is waayyy smarter.
g3nshir0_
11-15-2007, 10:06 PM
I'm wondering why I can't get a gf. I mean, I don't have a problem getting a girl, it's just that I never do anything with them. And then things fall apart.
this is what I look like(girls like the way I look)
http://a541.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/8/l_8573de3ec49b9c8d70e417c0b530ca14.jpg
tahoo
11-15-2007, 10:07 PM
I'm wondering why I can't get a gf. I mean, I don't have a problem getting a girl, it's just that I never do anything with them. And then things fall apart.
this is what I look like(girls like the way I look)
http://a541.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/8/l_8573de3ec49b9c8d70e417c0b530ca14.jpg
I'd hit it...
you DO have a vagina don't you?
g3nshir0_
11-15-2007, 10:13 PM
No I'm a dude
MrBlank
11-15-2007, 10:22 PM
you should not take pictures as a male doing the POUTY LIPS....
-1000 manpoints indeed.
and im not saying that to cap on you, im saying that because girls will find you a guy that is feminine and it will not help you get with them. which probably explains why shit falls apart with you and the women.
TheSix
11-15-2007, 10:24 PM
You could start by taking that ridiculous nose ring out.
My ex had one of those. Ugh.
g3nshir0_
11-15-2007, 10:42 PM
Actually, girls tell me they like the ring, and a lot of girls start off conversations by asking me about it
As for issues of feminity, I don't think it's a problem. Girls call me pretty :D
What guy doesn't like that?
Murt!
11-15-2007, 10:44 PM
As for issues of feminity, I don't think it's a problem. Girls call me pretty :D
What guy doesn't like that?
Generally, in the eyes of a girl, you don't want to be "pretty". You want to be "cute" or "sexy".
g3nshir0_
11-15-2007, 10:48 PM
Nah, I've had girls who call me that kind of stuff who I've shagged. My problem is not getting with them, just staying with them. but I think my real problem is that I don't take relationship seriously enough - If problems persist I will quickly become discouraged, cynical, and simply leave.
Like, if a girl pisses me off enough or I find her boring, I'll just leave her and not put in any effort into getting her back.
Sounds like you're a quitter. Instead of getting pissed off, you should just laugh it off and think it's cute of her to act all pissy.
g3nshir0_
11-16-2007, 04:09 AM
Not a quitter, I just don't see why I should put in any effort when problems persist, and if they are irreconcilable. But, this is largely due to my own slacker outlook on life...
Mr. Demon
11-16-2007, 05:46 AM
So me and my girl were really drunk last night and fucked in my friends bathroom. For some reason I felt the need to use lube so I grabbed a bottle of conditioner:confused:
Is that going to have any bad side effects on her pussy or will it just make it smell good since that conditioner smell seems to never wash off?
King9999
11-16-2007, 05:59 AM
So me and my girl were really drunk last night and fucked in my friends bathroom. For some reason I felt the need to use lube so I grabbed a bottle of conditioner:confused:
Is that going to have any bad side effects on her pussy or will it just make it smell good since that conditioner smell seems to never wash off?
...
...:rofl::rofl:
Mr. Demon
11-16-2007, 06:08 AM
I'm being serious here man:wasted:
Valaris
11-16-2007, 06:25 AM
I'm being serious here man:wasted:
My Nurse girlfriend says nothing bad is gonna happen (unless of course your girlfriend is allergic to something in the conditionner).
Mr. Demon
11-16-2007, 06:29 AM
Thank you and your gf sir.
I'm out.
SF_PHOCUS
11-16-2007, 07:32 AM
lol alot of david d hate... honestly i dont really see nofin wrong wif him material wise.... His cocky/funny mindset is crazy!... I pretty much am like that myself... Im funny as hell... then u sprinkle a lil bit(ALOT) of cocky and there u go... Dont get me wrong im not defending or anything..... but if u havent actually been to one of his seminars ( my cousin has been to several) then dont discourage anyone from wanting to use the program lol...
To the nose ring guy- two things...
1.) theres nothing wrong wif usin a nosering... u have so much material oozin out of it its not even funny lol... i made a reference to this already... if a girl makes a comment about ur nosering... (her) Hey i think ur nosering is really cute! (you) no no no... you like me... you think IM really cute lol.... just be creative... theres nothing wrong wif havin premade material before seein any female... i have PLENTY lol....
2.) i didnt take a look at ur pic but from wat mr blank said about pouting lips...! thats a big no no... Dont ever send that pic to girls.... lol even if ur successfull wif it the odds are stacked against you lol.... this is wat should of happened to you and whoever took that pic lol (im not flamin you its just tough luv <pauze>)
http://youtube.com/watch?v=-BMpfcqzNrE
SF_PHOCUS
11-16-2007, 07:40 AM
lolololololololololoool i stumbled across a man law manual on facebook!! this shit is funny!!!
so i thought id start postin random ones in here!!!
Man law Rule #85
There are three reasons for which a man is allowed to cry.
1. He is hit in the genitals with anything traveling over 10mph.
2. Your date is using her teeth.
3. Anna Kournikova gets married.
kane_warhead
11-16-2007, 03:27 PM
Okay... forget all of my fucking troubles that I have posted here.
2 years ago, I have a friend I'm highly infatuated with. We have a bit of falling out. Yesterday(after 2 years of having no contact) we ate dinner together at a fancy restaurant, because she was helping me with my school project. Then I realized Im still so infatuated with her.... I fucking miss her that much. I drived clumsily(She said I drive like crap), and I was a nervous wreck all day. But she said that she missed me and I was making her laugh all day. But she said she hates men who can't drive shit(He told me that straight... He likes men who can handle their car well). What should I do?
As for the people who wanna see a pic.... Ill post one. Pic (http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/7620/picture033re9.jpg)
zer0_858
11-16-2007, 03:35 PM
Okay... forget all of my fucking troubles that I have posted here.
2 years ago, I have a friend I'm highly infatuated with. We have a bit of falling out. Yesterday(after 2 years of having no contact) we ate dinner together at a fancy restaurant, because she was helping me with my school project. Then I realized Im still so infatuated with her.... I fucking miss her that much. I drived clumsily(She said I drive like crap), and I was a nervous wreck all day. But she said that she missed me and I was making her laugh all day. But she said she hates men who can't drive shit(He told me that straight... He likes men who can handle their car well). What should I do?
As for the people who wanna see a pic.... Ill post one. Pic (http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/7620/picture033re9.jpg)
Practice practice practice...... hmm try getting a broadway mirror those things help a lot
Practice practice practice...... hmm try getting a broadway mirror those things help a lot
Practice for your own gain, not to impress her. Dont get stuck in that rutine.
kane_warhead
11-16-2007, 03:43 PM
My shitty driving isnt the main issue. :(
Autocrat1
11-16-2007, 03:44 PM
ROFL I gotta post this episode in this thread for obvious reasons :lol:
www.adultswim.com/video/?episodeID=8a25c3921642c7a6011643e87dab001d
God bless Aaron McGruder
dropthesky
11-16-2007, 03:44 PM
Do you actually suck at driving or was it just cause she was there? If it was just cause she was there, I can understand the first time, but if you wanna date her you're gonna have to NOT be nervous around her
kane_warhead
11-16-2007, 03:48 PM
Do you actually suck at driving or was it just cause she was there? If it was just cause she was there, I can understand the first time, but if you wanna date her you're gonna have to NOT be nervous around her
Im average at best. She's into drag racing. And I'm fucking nervous when I'm with her does not help at all.
zer0_858
11-16-2007, 04:00 PM
Im average at best. She's into drag racing. And I'm fucking nervous when I'm with her does not help at all.
Maybe you can ask her to teach you some shit from drag racing :sweat:
kane_warhead
11-16-2007, 04:09 PM
Maybe you can ask her to teach you some shit from drag racing :sweat:
I'll try that one.... but my car ain't for drag racing.
SF_PHOCUS
11-16-2007, 04:26 PM
Okay... forget all of my fucking troubles that I have posted here.
2 years ago, I have a friend I'm highly infatuated with. We have a bit of falling out. Yesterday(after 2 years of having no contact) we ate dinner together at a fancy restaurant, because she was helping me with my school project. Then I realized Im still so infatuated with her.... I fucking miss her that much. I drived clumsily(She said I drive like crap), and I was a nervous wreck all day. But she said that she missed me and I was making her laugh all day. But she said she hates men who can't drive shit(He told me that straight... He likes men who can handle their car well). What should I do?
As for the people who wanna see a pic.... Ill post one. Pic (http://img143.imageshack.us/img143/7620/picture033re9.jpg)
what should u do? lol learn to drive... dont drive fast at all... drive moderatly... no reason to speed.... take ur time... eventually you will be able to drive faster... DO NOT OFFER TO LET HER DRIVE!!! for obivious reasons....! shes a cutie btw.. DONT LET ME SEE HER!!!! lol:rofl:
Just because she's into drag racing doesn't mean shit about driving to the convenient store. Don't be so nervous next time. If you are, focus more on driving and trying to get there safely then her. If she mentions it again tell her she can take the bus but in a humorous way.
DVD:madZ
11-16-2007, 05:22 PM
How exactly does consentual or not sex work in California? I was talking with my friend and he said as long as they're above 14 and within five years, it's no problem?
MrBlank
11-16-2007, 05:40 PM
you sir must both be below the age of 18 to not get locked up because you would roll-cancel each others lawsuits.
but if you are older and she is below 18, you are going to meet a new lover in the box fo sho. now this also works vice versa as seen on plenty of Teachers banging their teeny bopper male students.
so either you both must be > then 18 or you both must be below 18 to not fuck each other over legally. though id say both being below 18 is more of a technical situation. considering if the guy goes to jail the girl goes to jail too which nobody wants to happen because god forbid we lock up women.
Hoonyo
11-16-2007, 05:59 PM
this woman refers to this man as "this guy i'm talking to" in our conversation. does this mean she's dating?
Murt!
11-16-2007, 06:06 PM
this woman refers to this man as "this guy i'm talking to" in our conversation. does this mean she's dating?
In my experience, that means that they are in the phase directly preceding dating.
Silentness!
11-16-2007, 06:39 PM
you sir must both be below the age of 18 to not get locked up because you would roll-cancel each others lawsuits.
but if you are older and she is below 18, you are going to meet a new lover in the box fo sho. now this also works vice versa as seen on plenty of Teachers banging their teeny bopper male students.
so either you both must be > then 18 or you both must be below 18 to not fuck each other over legally. though id say both being below 18 is more of a technical situation. considering if the guy goes to jail the girl goes to jail too which nobody wants to happen because god forbid we lock up women.
If it's white girl + black guy combo and they're both under 18, you better believe the black guy will still be charged for jail time. DAT TRUTH
Hoonyo
11-16-2007, 07:28 PM
In my experience, that means that they are in the phase directly preceding dating.
well then i wonder if i should just ask her on a date since she's technically still available. hopefully i'm not already friend zoned.
SF_PHOCUS
11-16-2007, 08:19 PM
lol personally whether a girl is talkin to a guy or not im still gonna holla lol... yeh im a homewrecker... lol its not a title im proud of but it is wat it is.... so her sayin shes talkin to someone doesnt have to mean that though... she could be testin you to see how u react to her sayin that...
Atomic #
11-16-2007, 08:26 PM
lol personally whether a girl is talkin to a guy or not im still gonna holla lol... yeh im a homewrecker... lol its not a title im proud of but it is wat it is.... so her sayin shes talkin to someone doesnt have to mean that though... she could be testin you to see how u react to her sayin that...
:rofl: I better be aware of you... sounds like, "Im in ur relationships, stealing your womenz" - SF
Hoonyo
11-16-2007, 08:30 PM
haha yeah i feel like being a homewrecker right now. it's just that i noticed she used to refer to this guy as "my filipino friend" instead of "this guy i talk to that's filipino." well anyway, i've been in this coffee shop with her all night doing some marketing research, and i've been checking srk during some downtime. we just finished up and asked her if she wanted to go out for some sushi (she loves the stuff).
she said she'd love to go but not tonight since she already had plans. i asked her if she'd be available tomorrow since she was busy tonight, and she said she was going to a wedding. she asked me if sunday was cool, but i told her i was going out of town. in fact next week is pretty much booked for me. after that she said something like "well there's a lot of time for us to go ..." and to me that sounded like "since we're friends we can just go whenever." maybe i'm just overthinking it?
SF_PHOCUS
11-16-2007, 08:57 PM
haha yeah i feel like being a homewrecker right now. it's just that i noticed she used to refer to this guy as "my filipino friend" instead of "this guy i talk to that's filipino." well anyway, i've been in this coffee shop with her all night doing some marketing research, and i've been checking srk during some downtime. we just finished up and asked her if she wanted to go out for some sushi (she loves the stuff).
she said she'd love to go but not tonight since she already had plans. i asked her if she'd be available tomorrow since she was busy tonight, and she said she was going to a wedding. she asked me if sunday was cool, but i told her i was going out of town. in fact next week is pretty much booked for me. after that she said something like "well there's a lot of time for us to go ..." and to me that sounded like "since we're friends we can just go whenever." maybe i'm just overthinking it?
before i even read the part that said "maybe im just overthinking it i was gonna say dude ur overthinking it lol... seriously though... parts of bein good wif women is bein able to relax and go wif the flow... not trying to over analize everything.... And in the future... fellaz dont worry if a girl says "shes talkin to someone"... yeh that someone is you!!! unless she says no im sorry i dont want to talk to you because i have a guy then u fallback....:looney:
Hoonyo
11-16-2007, 09:00 PM
thanks man you're very encouraging.
Hoonyo, dude your in. Trust me.
kane_warhead
11-17-2007, 02:55 AM
Just because she's into drag racing doesn't mean shit about driving to the convenient store. Don't be so nervous next time. If you are, focus more on driving and trying to get there safely then her. If she mentions it again tell her she can take the bus but in a humorous way.
I already did that :p... But really I dunno why i'm such a nervous wreck when I'm with her.
SF_PHOCUS
11-17-2007, 04:19 AM
everyone would be nervous... its just part of bein a guy myfriend... its just that with time u learn how to deal wif it.... i still get sick to my stomach!!!! lol.. its just that i know how to suck it up and use it to my advantage...
kane_warhead
11-17-2007, 04:22 AM
everyone would be nervous... its just part of bein a guy myfriend... its just that with time u learn how to deal wif it.... i still get sick to my stomach!!!! lol.. its just that i know how to suck it up and use it to my advantage...
This is the only girl, I get nervous around with. I'm beginning to think I really really like her. Everytime we're together, time seems to slow to almost a halt.. and I feel ease seeing her smile. It really throws my game away.
TheWanderer
11-17-2007, 07:21 AM
Sup guys, been awhile since i've been in here. Last time i tried asking questions, i had fags fucking spams with lame ass advice. I'm gonna try asking again with different questions hopefully somebody cool enough to drop their 2 cents. What is up with these girls? Are they feeling me or do they think i'm funny looking or what?
GIRL 1
K at work, i see this girl who keeps staring whenever she walks by me, or when she's just standing talking to some people. She sees me walking as she's talking to some people and turns and looks at me. She's been doing this for a couple months now. We never got the chance to talk because we work in different department. I'm thinking of asking her out, but not sure how should i go to do so. So i start slow or just go for the kill when i see her?
GIRL 2
As i was sitting on a bench chilling at work, this girl who works there walk up in front of me... Opens her phone and looks at it, like fucking stands there and checks her phone in front of me. :rofl:. I was like.. wtf.. I also caught her staring me from afar, but when she's near me she won't stare at me.
GIRL 3
This girl who works in the same department as me stares at me whenever i'm near her sight. When i'm near her/walking pass her, she wouldn't stare at me. Just all silence, and looking down. At work, as i'm about to go home from work, i saw her talking to some old guy about work and stuff. I walk out the door, and she turned and stared at me and either gave me a bigass GRIN or the old guy was making her laugh. I couldn't tell who she was smiling to, so i looked at her and gave her a friendly smile anyway.
I have never talked to any of these girls before, because of working in either different department, or just busy at work.
Can TOP TIER SRKERS help a LOW TIER newb out here please? NONE OF THAT, ONE WORD OR A SENTENCE ADVICE!! I posted on here to ask for advice in this thread not for some dicks to spam nonesense advice. :annoy:
mcginnis
11-17-2007, 07:56 AM
I've had couple of girls stare at me like that before. Wish there was a easier way of knowing if someone likes you, don't want to sound dumb-but In anime if the girl blushes she likes you plain and simple. Real life you have girls who like you and want you to say something but YOU don't know that and other annoying stuff like that.:sweat:
Dj-DarK
11-17-2007, 08:17 AM
GIRL 1
We never got the chance to talk because we work in different department. I'm thinking of asking her out, but not sure how should i go to do so. So i start slow or just go for the kill when i see her?
Why don't you say Hi to her? Ask her what department she works in. What she thinks of it. Find shit in common. Don't randomly ask her out.
GIRL 2
As i was sitting on a bench chilling at work, this girl who works there walk up in front of me... Opens her phone and looks at it, like fucking stands there and checks her phone in front of me. :rofl:. I was like.. wtf.. I also caught her staring me from afar, but when she's near me she won't stare at me.
You might be an ugly motherfucker upclose. JK. Same as girl number 1. Make some time to say hi and get to know your co-workers even if they work in a different department. Even if you don't wanna fuck em they can come in handy. Either you can be that nice guy from that department asking for a favor or that random quiet dude that keeps to himself.
SF_PHOCUS
11-17-2007, 08:40 AM
GIRL 1
K at work, i see this girl who keeps staring whenever she walks by me, or when she's just standing talking to some people. She sees me walking as she's talking to some people and turns and looks at me. She's been doing this for a couple months now. We never got the chance to talk because we work in different department. I'm thinking of asking her out, but not sure how should i go to do so. So i start slow or just go for the kill when i see her?
GIRL 2
As i was sitting on a bench chilling at work, this girl who works there walk up in front of me... Opens her phone and looks at it, like fucking stands there and checks her phone in front of me. :rofl:. I was like.. wtf.. I also caught her staring me from afar, but when she's near me she won't stare at me.
GIRL 3
This girl who works in the same department as me stares at me whenever i'm near her sight. When i'm near her/walking pass her, she wouldn't stare at me. Just all silence, and looking down. At work, as i'm about to go home from work, i saw her talking to some old guy about work and stuff. I walk out the door, and she turned and stared at me and either gave me a bigass GRIN or the old guy was making her laugh. I couldn't tell who she was smiling to, so i looked at her and gave her a friendly smile anyway.
I have never talked to any of these girls before, because of working in either different department, or just busy at work.
So umm... wats stoppin u from at least sayin Hi???? umm if these girls are constantly starring at you then theres a sign that they are interested in u on SOME level... otherwise they wouldnt be staring at you... so wat exactly do you wanna know??? lol... :sweat:
Sup guys, been awhile since i've been in here. Last time i tried asking questions, i had fags fucking spams with lame ass advice. I'm gonna try asking again with different questions hopefully somebody cool enough to drop their 2 cents. What is up with these girls? Are they feeling me or do they think i'm funny looking or what?
GIRL 1
K at work, i see this girl who keeps staring whenever she walks by me, or when she's just standing talking to some people. She sees me walking as she's talking to some people and turns and looks at me. She's been doing this for a couple months now. We never got the chance to talk because we work in different department. I'm thinking of asking her out, but not sure how should i go to do so. So i start slow or just go for the kill when i see her?
GIRL 2
As i was sitting on a bench chilling at work, this girl who works there walk up in front of me... Opens her phone and looks at it, like fucking stands there and checks her phone in front of me. :rofl:. I was like.. wtf.. I also caught her staring me from afar, but when she's near me she won't stare at me.
GIRL 3
This girl who works in the same department as me stares at me whenever i'm near her sight. When i'm near her/walking pass her, she wouldn't stare at me. Just all silence, and looking down. At work, as i'm about to go home from work, i saw her talking to some old guy about work and stuff. I walk out the door, and she turned and stared at me and either gave me a bigass GRIN or the old guy was making her laugh. I couldn't tell who she was smiling to, so i looked at her and gave her a friendly smile anyway.
I have never talked to any of these girls before, because of working in either different department, or just busy at work.
Can TOP TIER SRKERS help a LOW TIER newb out here please? NONE OF THAT, ONE WORD OR A SENTENCE ADVICE!! I posted on here to ask for advice in this thread not for some dicks to spam nonesense advice. :annoy:
Yea, just try to say hi somehow, whether it's stupid shit like asking her what time it is....something about work, whatever really. Just take it slow and see if you actually like any of these girls. Try to talk to all of them next week at work just a little and let us know how it goes. I agree with Focus, if they have been starin at you like you said, than they are atleast somewhat interested.
TheWanderer
11-17-2007, 10:02 AM
*nod, uh huh, yup*
*close cap pen and put the note and stamp it on thewanderer forehead*
Alright, i'll go and say hi once work comes. I really don't have anything to ask n shiet. I did talk to this new girl at work to make her comfortable by asking her bout her dog and shiet and then looked away after i was done asking her questions, while she stood there for a couple of secs. It was dumb of me, shoulda kept going. Thx for the advice guys. *COOL srkers* :wink:
P.S Not just the 3 girls there, pretty much all girls there stare at me. I have between some/most guys there stare at me or when i go to find a place to rest/sit down, i'd see guys either hiding in the corner or pretend to be talking to their buddies while taking a couple glances at me. So i get up and go somewhere else so that i won't be bothered. Then i later see them in the corner staring and pretend to talk to their buddies and shit.
Make sure you hit us back up with the details though :tup:
SF_PHOCUS
11-17-2007, 01:10 PM
:sweat:*nod, uh huh, yup*
*close cap pen and put the note and stamp it on thewanderer forehead*
Alright, i'll go and say hi once work comes. I really don't have anything to ask n shiet. I did talk to this new girl at work to make her comfortable by asking her bout her dog and shiet and then looked away after i was done asking her questions, while she stood there for a couple of secs. It was dumb of me, shoulda kept going. Thx for the advice guys. *COOL srkers* :wink:
P.S Not just the 3 girls there, pretty much all girls there stare at me. I have between some/most guys there stare at me or when i go to find a place to rest/sit down, i'd see guys either hiding in the corner or pretend to be talking to their buddies while taking a couple glances at me. So i get up and go somewhere else so that i won't be bothered. Then i later see them in the corner staring and pretend to talk to their buddies and shit.
lol! i have a friend that gets hit on by gay guys and shit! that shit is soo funny... everytime me and him work at a job together and theres someone gay 85% of the time they mess wif him lol.... but back to you sir... wat i usually do when a dude grills me....."Yo I got somethin on my face and shit????" lol of course if u say that u must be ready for watever the dude(s) are gonna respond wif :sweat:
Silentness!
11-17-2007, 01:27 PM
I've had couple of girls stare at me like that before. Wish there was a easier way of knowing if someone likes you, don't want to sound dumb-but In anime...
whoa wtf... stop right there.
Don't base RL chicks off of Anime. This isn't japan it's the US of A. There is an easy way of knowing whether a chick likes you *drum roll* go up to them and say HI? You can't assume a chick likes you just because she stares at you.
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Situational openers are still GDLK like I said earlier. I never go wrong with them unless I ask shitty questions or make bland statements. (It happens)
MrBlank
11-17-2007, 03:35 PM
If it's white girl + black guy combo and they're both under 18, you better believe the black guy will still be charged for jail time. DAT TRUTH
yeah but not because of the sex, only because that combo is always considered rape even if its just kissing or holding hands....
Alright so today I was at a diner with a couple guys from college. We sat at a booth because the 2 were underage. So the corner of my eye caught this bartender staring at me. She looked decent, and she was wearing a hankerchef around her neck. If I was sitting at the bar I would of said something like "So is your second job involving robbing a bank?" But since I was sitting 15ft or so away I kind of got discouraged. What would of you guys done? Tonight I'm going out with acouple of my 21+ friends so I'll definately make up for it.
SF_PHOCUS
11-17-2007, 05:07 PM
Alright so today I was at a diner with a couple guys from college. We sat at a booth because the 2 were underage. So the corner of my eye caught this bartender staring at me. She looked decent, and she was wearing a hankerchef around her neck. If I was sitting at the bar I would of said something like "So is your second job involving robbing a bank?" But since I was sitting 15ft or so away I kind of got discouraged. What would of you guys done? Tonight I'm going out with acouple of my 21+ friends so I'll definately make up for it.
well... lets see ima try and plan it out lol... i would get up and walk past her for watever reason and give her a smile.... then i would of walked back and took a seat at the bar... then when she ask me what do i want to drink i would of said im not here for a drink... i came to see you... i couldnt help but noticed you staring at me over there and i just had to come over and ask you for your number so we could text once you get off work.... the reason why i would use such a direct approach is beacuse most likely its a high traffic area... so she wont be able to engage serious convo...(or enough to get her interested in me) so i basically condense everything i would of said in a full length convo into a line or two... my only backing that this would work is ofcourse that im handsome and i had enough balls to do that.. so maybe she would want to try and see how my convo is.... makes sense?:sweat:
So basically sometimes you just have to cut the crap and go for it eh?
So basically sometimes you just have to cut the crap and go for it eh?
Yea but don't get too worked up over it. That's what most people do. They think up everything they are going to say, then end up sounding weird when they actually go through with it.
SF_PHOCUS
11-17-2007, 07:43 PM
Yea but don't get too worked up over it. That's what most people do. They think up everything they are going to say, then end up sounding weird when they actually go through with it.
are you referrin to me?? cause that was an example on my behalf..:rolleyes:
and why do they sound weird when they actually go through with it??:rolleyes:
BaSiK_TeKniK
11-17-2007, 08:05 PM
yeah but not because of the sex, only because that combo is always considered rape even if its just kissing or holding hands....
Straight up word.
hey Dyce,my Urahara is better than yours.:arazz:
TheSix
11-17-2007, 08:23 PM
Anybody got any suggestions about approaching older women? I noticed a Asian girl in Target...who as I got closer turned out to be a Asian MILF. Big titays! But some strong anxiety kicked in. Whenever I start to approach a clearly older women, I always think "this will never work". I probably wouldn't even care if I LOOKED older. But I don't.
Damn. I wanted to plow into them titays too. Sigh....
SF_PHOCUS
11-17-2007, 08:26 PM
lol my advice is approach her wif the intention of trying to make her feel young again lol thats the best i can say.. let her know wifout knowing
lol thats like the only thing they would want from a younger dude is for him to beable to make her feel young again... once u can do that they will spend on you and everything and all u have to do is... make her feel young again lol
Straight up word.
hey Dyce,my Urahara is better than yours.:arazz:
lol yea I agree, yours does look pretty good. I didn't know you had that avatar first, I will change it if you like.
are you referrin to me?? cause that was an example on my behalf..:rolleyes:
and why do they sound weird when they actually go through with it??:rolleyes:
Well I'm not sayin it will always be weird, but like if you plan it out and get really worked up over it about what you are going to say, then you might get nervous and mess up what you were going to say. I try to always just be myself, and if she doesn't like it then I can just move on.
BaSiK_TeKniK
11-17-2007, 08:36 PM
lol yea I agree, yours does look pretty good. I didn't know you had that avatar first, I will change it if you like.
naw its ok :rofl: I just got today sasmasta made it for me you straight.
naw its ok :rofl: I just got today sasmasta made it for me you straight.
haha word I got mine today too, Tatguy did it for me.
supaman
11-18-2007, 01:00 AM
quick question, do some of the girls you guys have sex with literally fall asleep after having an orgasm, or keep goin till your hunch over in pain cuz your dick hurts
Reason why I ask cuz one of my ex girlfriends always came real hard and would go to sleep right after while I haven't even climaxed yet. She was a one hitter quitter.
And another one I would have like 4-5 hour marathons till the point where I shoot blanks or single drops climaxing while she would keep cumming and would want to continue. I even had to skip school numerous time cuz I would either be still having sex in the morning or be in a lot dick pain.
MrBlank
11-18-2007, 03:06 AM
Anybody got any suggestions about approaching older women? I noticed a Asian girl in Target...who as I got closer turned out to be a Asian MILF. Big titays! But some strong anxiety kicked in. Whenever I start to approach a clearly older women, I always think "this will never work". I probably wouldn't even care if I LOOKED older. But I don't.
Damn. I wanted to plow into them titays too. Sigh....
Ive went out with older women before, what you need to do is say something along the lines of "Hey what college did you go to? i think i saw you in one of my classes"
dont know why but they always like hearing that. because college makes them feel younger and if anything more educated.
then if they say no they never went to college, you just say well jeez i guess your too young to go to college huh? so what highschool did you go to?
see where im getting at there...
SF_PHOCUS
11-18-2007, 06:15 AM
Ive went out with older women before, what you need to do is say something along the lines of "Hey what college did you go to? i think i saw you in one of my classes"
dont know why but they always like hearing that. because college makes them feel younger and if anything more educated.
then if they say no they never went to college, you just say well jeez i guess your too young to go to college huh? so what highschool did you go to?
see where im getting at there...
yup... anything to make them feel young again:sweat:
Taito
11-18-2007, 06:49 AM
Yeah, making a girl feel like old bones is a serious dealbreaker. And that's something to keep in mind, whether you want to hook up.. or get rid of her..
Shukuda
11-18-2007, 01:01 PM
How do you know a woman isn't married or even taken yet--talking bout the early 20s here?
Every now and then you stumble upon some girl that really catches your eye, no not the "so sexy/hot, you wanna bang for one night". Like this paritcular meal at church. Sat a table across from a girl with no ass nor tittays, but has a very cute face--the look is so close to Rina Uchiyama. Didn't look like she was accompanied by anyone but her family, but she was feeding a baby food (no, not breastmik fool). *Very confused*
TheSix
11-18-2007, 01:04 PM
Ive went out with older women before, what you need to do is say something along the lines of "Hey what college did you go to? i think i saw you in one of my classes"
dont know why but they always like hearing that. because college makes them feel younger and if anything more educated.
then if they say no they never went to college, you just say well jeez i guess your too young to go to college huh? so what highschool did you go to?
see where im getting at there...
Yes.....yeeeeees. I like this. I'll have to make sure my voice is just right. I can hear myself coming off as making fun of her age if it's not right.
Thanks.
How do you know a woman isn't married or even taken yet--talking bout the early 20s here?
Every now and then you stumble upon some girl that really catches your eye, no not the "so sexy/hot, you wanna bang for one night". Like this paritcular meal at church. Sat a table across from a girl with no ass nor tittays, but has a very cute face--the look is so close to Rina Uchiyama. Didn't look like she was accompanied by anyone but her family, but she was feeding a baby food (no, not breastmik fool). *Very confused*
Could have been her brother/niece/cousin.....
MrBlank
11-18-2007, 03:23 PM
How do you know a woman isn't married or even taken yet--talking bout the early 20s here?
Every now and then you stumble upon some girl that really catches your eye, no not the "so sexy/hot, you wanna bang for one night". Like this paritcular meal at church. Sat a table across from a girl with no ass nor tittays, but has a very cute face--the look is so close to Rina Uchiyama. Didn't look like she was accompanied by anyone but her family, but she was feeding a baby food (no, not breastmik fool). *Very confused*
look for the marriage ring. thats the best way to tell if shes married. i mean seriously if she is not wearing it, you need to figure out why.
Silentness!
11-18-2007, 03:50 PM
I know this hot chick that wears a ring on her finger even though she's not married. She does it because so many guys pester her. :rofl:
pherai
11-18-2007, 03:52 PM
I know this hot chick that wears a ring on her finger even though she's not married. She does it because so many guys pester her. :rofl:
This works at least as well for guys from what I've heard.
MrBlank
11-18-2007, 03:53 PM
LOL guys who sport false wedding rings actually get more female attention. Call me crazy but the female be scheming...
pherai
11-18-2007, 03:59 PM
Oh, that's what I meant. I think I misunderstood the post I quoted :confused:
TheSix
11-18-2007, 04:00 PM
Hmmm....fake wedding ring = more female attention.
Hhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....
(Same "Hmm" but louder) HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.....!!!!
It's true. Girls just always want what they can't have. That's why they are evil!
shatterstar
11-18-2007, 04:12 PM
quick question, do some of the girls you guys have sex with literally fall asleep after having an orgasm?
Reason why I ask cuz one of my ex girlfriends always came real hard and would go to sleep right after while I haven't even climaxed yet. She was a one hitter quitter.
this girl i've just met has multiple orgasms but she wont stop till i stop.... the first time we fucked i think we went at it for at least hour and half and she came 5 times.
once i was done then she would be knocked the fuck out.
you aint gotta be J Holiday to put her to bed, lol.
Infernoman
11-18-2007, 04:18 PM
Hmmm....fake wedding ring = more female attention.
Hhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....
(Same "Hmm" but louder) HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM.....!!!!
dunno why but I lol'd at this :lol:
It's true. Girls just always want what they can't have. That's why they are evil!
that works for everyone...we ALL want what we can't have.
that works for everyone...we ALL want what we can't have.
Never thought it about that way, but true.
TheSix
11-18-2007, 06:07 PM
I just don't see how dudes manage to pull decent or hot bitches off the internet. I just don't have the patience to be bothered by Myspace. And I constantly hear mixed things about those personal sites like Yahoo or Match.com
But yet...my buddy is constantly out with(or bangin) someone he's met off those things. It just...seems like too much work.
But, nevertheless, I am going to run an experiment. I am going to set up a profile on these free sites(and use any of the sites that have trials) and see how far I've gotten one week from now(with reports and updates).
This, of course, is merely sub game to my typical bookstore/cafe game.
I just don't see how dudes manage to pull decent or hot bitches off the internet. I just don't have the patience to be bothered by Myspace. And I constantly hear mixed things about those personal sites like Yahoo or Match.com
But yet...my buddy is constantly out with(or bangin) someone he's met off those things. It just...seems like too much work.
But, nevertheless, I am going to run an experiment. I am going to set up a profile on these free sites(and use any of the sites that have trials) and see how far I've gotten one week from now(with reports and updates).
This, of course, is merely sub game to my typical bookstore/cafe game.
This is going to be very interesting. Keep us updated :tup:
Dj-DarK
11-18-2007, 06:43 PM
My new game is simply ending fucked up relationships.
I get girls to introduce me to other girls who are fed up with thier boyfriends. Shit is by far the easiest pussy I've gotten in 23 years. All you gotta do is figure out what her man did to fuck shit up and not do it. Very few girls are truly happy with there boyfriends. A trend I've picked up over the years.
No nonsense shit. All you gotta do is be social to get introduced. I could probably sell this shit.
"the chicks are so horny, its not even fair, its like fishing with dynamite"
My new game is simply ending fucked up relationships.
I get girls to introduce me to other girls who are fed up with thier boyfriends. Shit is by far the easiest pussy I've gotten in 23 years. All you gotta do is figure out what her man did to fuck shit up and not do it. Very few girls are truly happy with there boyfriends. A trend I've picked up over the years.
No nonsense shit. All you gotta do is be social to get introduced. I could probably sell this shit.
"the chicks are so horny, its not even fair, its like fishing with dynamite"
I've had the same experience with a girl I dated almost 2 years ago now. Her boyfriend was such an asshole, and she kept coming over to hang out and I never did anything sexual with her because she had a boyfriend. So then my 21st birthday came around, and I called her and the boyfriend picked up. This is after about 10 shots and 10 beers, no the verge of blacking out. I told him everything about us and how she came over to hang out all the time, then he broke up with her. We dated for a few months......she came on way too strong with the whole relationship thing so I let her go. Really cool chick too.
But yea, a lot of girls really do get fed up with their boyfriends.
Dj-DarK
11-18-2007, 07:03 PM
she kept coming over to hang out and I never did anything sexual with her because she had a boyfriend.
Damn you slipped up. :wgrin:
SF_PHOCUS
11-18-2007, 08:26 PM
I just don't see how dudes manage to pull decent or hot bitches off the internet. I just don't have the patience to be bothered by Myspace. And I constantly hear mixed things about those personal sites like Yahoo or Match.com
But yet...my buddy is constantly out with(or bangin) someone he's met off those things. It just...seems like too much work.
But, nevertheless, I am going to run an experiment. I am going to set up a profile on these free sites(and use any of the sites that have trials) and see how far I've gotten one week from now(with reports and updates).
This, of course, is merely sub game to my typical bookstore/cafe game.
lol myspace is a goal mine!! you should see some of the bars and thongs ive been in (talkin about girls):looney:
kane_warhead
11-18-2007, 09:34 PM
man, we drove for 7 hours yesterday. And she thinks I'm still a shitty driver though... but the moment was amazing. I'm actually smitten. I can't even look at her directly.
Rekka1210
11-18-2007, 09:47 PM
what would you do in a situation where you have a female is really into you, but her brother is gay and he has the hots for you to? Sad to say that's my situation at the moment..:sad:
what would you do in a situation where you have a female is really into you, but her brother is gay and he has the hots for you to? Sad to say that's my situation at the moment..:sad:
Whoa, haven't heard of that one yet. Just get her to tell him to back off would be my guess. That's kind of scary.
SF_PHOCUS
11-19-2007, 04:18 AM
Whoa, haven't heard of that one yet. Just get her to tell him to back off would be my guess. That's kind of scary.
lol scary indeed... i dont think i would be goin to her house anytime soon.... umm.... lol honestly ive never heard of that either so watever i tell u to do im not sure off... but i guess everyone would agree that the best thing for u to do indeed is to tell her to tell him to back off lol... if u end up messin wif her please please please tell us how u dealt with it so we can too if the situation arises lol:sweat:
kane_warhead
11-20-2007, 02:58 AM
Ok guys... I really need help. I'm pretty much smitten and I don't know what to do. It's like I always fuck up when I'm with her. I really really like her.... and it doesn't help that I'm going gaga.
What should i do? How do I make the moves with her?
SF_PHOCUS
11-20-2007, 07:03 AM
Ok guys... I really need help. I'm pretty much smitten and I don't know what to do. It's like I always fuck up when I'm with her. I really really like her.... and it doesn't help that I'm going gaga.
What should i do? How do I make the moves with her?
well wat the hell is exactly the problem and wat exactly do you wanna know how to do...?:sweat:
well if ur nervous take her somewhere where convo is built in... like bowling or to play pool.. or mini golf....
but tell me exactly wat the problem is:sweat:
kane_warhead
11-20-2007, 07:18 AM
well wat the hell is exactly the problem and wat exactly do you wanna know how to do...?:sweat:
well if ur nervous take her somewhere where convo is built in... like bowling or to play pool.. or mini golf....
but tell me exactly wat the problem is:sweat:
Just wanna know why I'm this overly smitten. I am not this with other girls. Not even with my exes... But now I have a hard time even trying to fathom that sometimes I'm with her. Jesus I can't even look at her.
I really really like this girl alot.
Shotokan Symphony
11-20-2007, 07:30 AM
That's usually a sign that you need to back up for a while, and re-think your relationship with her, before you both get hurt for dumb reasons.
Infernoman
11-20-2007, 11:14 AM
*sigh*
ok I have a story...about a couple of weeks ago I have this girl hit me up on myspace...(before that she saw me post on another forums and was interested in gettingto know me) she is cute and we have common interests. I realize little by little as she get's to know me she shows more serious interest in me. I do like her but my problem occured yesterday...she wanted me to join her flying up to Washington (state not DC) for Thanksgiving with her family. unfortunetly I just started a new job and training will be starting friday going into sunday. she has gotten upset that I won't be able to come with her and later admits that she really wanted to get to know me better by having us 2 be together up there.
One other big factor is she has an Ex who may try something when she goes back up there (He used to be abusive towards her) and well I won't lie, I do feel bad I can't be up there but I need moeny badly (I have the funds to get a plane ticket but it's such short notice) I think though if she really does care about me she'll want to still see me when she gets back. I do like her and I know she likes me so despite how sad she is over this, should I still stay in contact with her? (text msg, calling, if possible IMing) I do care for her and I'd really hate to know something could happen and I can't be there for her...my new job is what I have to do...if I don't start my work...I'll really be screwing up my money situation...
I made the right choice?
pherai
11-20-2007, 11:28 AM
You made the right choice, but she may not appreciate it. Although this thread is about being successful with women, it's not uncommon what will please a woman will interfere with your career, and thats when you need to man up and just accept it. If she is a reasonable person (which is what everyone should be shooting for) she will understand. If it is a dealbreaker for her, then just imagine what other crappy decisions you'll need to make to keep her pleased later on. It's not worth compromising your career for.
Infernoman
11-20-2007, 11:35 AM
You made the right choice, but she may not appreciate it. Although this thread is about being successful with women, it's not uncommon what will please a woman will interfere with your career, and thats when you need to man up and just accept it. If she is a reasonable person (which is what everyone should be shooting for) she will understand. If it is a dealbreaker for her, then just imagine what other crappy decisions you'll need to make to keep her pleased later on. It's not worth compromising your career for.
well for now this is a temp position...but it could lead me to a better job down the road. I know she truly has serious feelings for me...and well what I hope is that if she does have such a strong feeling towards me...she will come back here next week and still want to be with me. My female friend I talked to late last night as she told me was "just don't make any stupid unrational decisions"
I'll still try to at least stay in contact though...that shows I do care.
pherai
11-20-2007, 12:18 PM
Sounds like your female friend gives solid advice. I assumed the job was something important since you felt you should stay for the training. Going to Washington with this chick won't secure anything, however missing the training will probably look bad with your new job. It would be one thing if you were going somewhere with a girlfriend you have been dating for a long time, but for just some girl you don't have any relationship with, I would say its irrational to ditch your training.
TheWanderer
11-20-2007, 12:20 PM
whoa wtf... stop right there.
Don't base RL chicks off of Anime. This isn't japan it's the US of A. There is an easy way of knowing whether a chick likes you *drum roll* go up to them and say HI? You can't assume a chick likes you just because she stares at you.
Then what...? How can you tell by just a HI? Help a low tier out plz top tier. :sweat:
zer0_858
11-20-2007, 12:33 PM
Then what...? How can you tell by just a HI? Help a low tier out plz top tier. :sweat:
Look for IOI's (Indicator of Interest) stuff like a response, body language, eye contact, things like that. IF the conversation keeps going then your going to get a more detailed response meaning more signs of she wants to talk or she just wants to keep doing what she is doing.
Fadedsun303
11-20-2007, 12:36 PM
So, things have gotten pretty serious with the girl I've been seeing. We've established that we feel love for eachother. The thing is, her rules when it comes to having a relationship are a bit strange. She's telling me if we were together, it would be ok for her to go and sleep over her friends house and just cuddle him. Hold hands and what not. But she feels nothing when she does it. It's strictly a physical/friendship thing. I'm trying to be open to these ideas, but it just seems strange to me. I've always been pretty traditional when it comes to being with a girl.
Also, last night when we had sex. She tells me she never felt anything like that with anyone before. And I felt the same. It was very intimate. It had me feeling pretty good when she said that. lol So, I can tell she's not lying to me about her feelings for me.
What are some of your views on this? Has anyone ever been in this kind of situation before? I see some benefits like, not getting bored because you can be with other people. But negatives as well because of the feelings involved. I don't