The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[SF_PHOCUS]

yeh, i mean i see wat yall are sayin... the way i would see it... i would just fuck and hope for the best.... but then wat would happen if me and her fallout??? she would run to the nigga and say.... "i feel so bad... i need to tell you.. me and gareth fucked..." lol thats wat id be afraid of... lol her body is soooooo bananas lol... its like yo i want to but it would be hard.... and wat makes it feel even better is that its wrong... lol if that makes anysense...

[Dasiatic]

whats up to all my niggas here. blank, PHOC, ect, ect, ect........
im sorry, i did'nt even have to read the last page, but according to what im seeing here, im just gonna blindly say that no chick is worth putting over your family.
the power of the pussy is real. very real. dont fall into the snatch.

if its one thing bitches have over guys, its manipulation. deeper into the relationship, they have ways of making you feel as though you have to stay with them and everyone else who tries to help you drop her just "doesn't understand".

pussy makes us weak in the knees. makes us do all types of shit just to be close to a woman.

[SF_PHOCUS]

whats up to all my niggas here. blank, PHOC, ect, ect, ect........
im sorry, i did'nt even have to read the last page, but according to what im seeing here, im just gonna blindly say that no chick is worth putting over your family.
the power of the pussy is real. very real. dont fall into the snatch.

if its one thing bitches have over guys, its manipulation. deeper into the relationship, they have ways of making you feel as though you have to stay with them and everyone else who tries to help you drop her just "doesn't understand".

pussy makes us weak in the knees. makes us do all types of shit just to be close to a woman.

lol this is true... I lost one of my closest friends to the power of pussy! (P.O.P) he was just so love struck that he dam near killed himself cause she was dealin wif someone else...

My cousin... one of his closest friends.... killed himself in his crib cause he broke up wif his shorty... that was a sad one..

But yeh the puss will make any man do stupid shit.... lol i actually ate my last girlfriend out... DESPITE me sayin i would never do that (Power Of the Pussy):sad:

Yo Daz I was readin ur sig.. lol wat do u do?

[Dasiatic]

lol i actually ate my last girlfriend out... DESPITE me sayin i would never do that (Power Of the Pussy):sad:

Yo Daz I was readin ur sig.. lol wat do u do?

lol, that last part was funny. so you would never eat the pussy, yet its power just made you eat it anyway? LOL.
oh man, your stories crack me up.

me? I'm with Chaotic Unicorn, a freelance animation team that has done several projects for like....a long ass time. I think I have a myspace page i could just send you for more info. or just visit the links ive provided. I'm in the animation business.

so yeah, good to hear from my niggas.
btw, i like that nickname you gave me. "Daz". i like it.

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol yehhhh im the nickname man...! i give names that stick!
well i said i wouldnt at first... after i said that i did it... so i went against my word lol

[TheSix]

I can't believe this.

I'm going in to pick up my X-Large pizza(which was raw as fuck on the inside :annoy::mad:) and as I'm walking past a few stores I hear this:

Some guy runs up - "Hey. I'm doing a study on something. Can you guys help me out real quick?"
3 girls - "....ummmm.....ok?"
Dumbass - "....so who lies more; men or women?"

If I could have slapped him, I would have.

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I actually got something productive to post. But as we know:

"When niggas eat, it's time to sleep!"

[Silentness!]

Some guy runs up - "Hey. I'm doing a study on something. Can you guys help me out real quick?"
3 girls - "....ummmm.....ok?"
Dumbass - "....so who lies more; men or women?"


HAHAHAHAH tell me you're joking.

What a poor soul... I'm not really into chasing chicks at the moment. I have work to concentrate on... *cough* and WoW :rofl:

[Reveal]

:lol:
First, the important matter:
What server are you on, Nes?

Now, onto my situation:
At the beginning of the semester, I met this girl as I was walking to class. It must have been the first day of school. She was the one that said something to me, so I took that as an indicator of interest. Etc. I figured I'd be running into her everyday as I headed to class.

Turns out that this girl also hung out at the lounge, so I could always find her in there. Usually after class I would go and say whats up to her in the lounge, and tried pulling some of the PUA stuff, and it SEEMED to work great! Later on in the semester I got her phone number, no problem. I think it was a couple days later though when I asked her if she wanted to hang out that weekend. She told me she was busy, but didn't even try to make up for it by offering a date that she was free.
And that's the thing about this PUA stuff. To me, I use it, and at first it seems to work, but then something will happen that just throws everything off course. If it was working so well, wouldn't she AT LEAST try and meet up with me? I would like to know what I did wrong. How did I screw up the situation? It always seemed like she was digging me up until I asked her to hang out.

And also, there's another question to this story, if you guys could help me out.
She had this guy 'friend' that would usually be with her. And just by looking at him, you could tell that he certainly didn't know how to talk to women. For example one time the girl was playfully poking me and junk, and he comes up and starts poking her. I guess to try and get her attention. She pretty much ignored him and he just walked away. But what I would like to know is, how do you get rid of this type of guy? She obviously doesn't like him, but I almost feel like MY value is dropping just by standing next to him trying to talk to this girl. How can I separate myself from this guy, and still increase my chances of creating more attraction?

[w1r3d]

well, I ended a 2.5 yr relationship a month or so ago. Today I got my first phone number, in a salsa club.

I know it might not mean much, but I'm happy, and just wanted to say it. :D

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol guess wat guys! my best friend and the girl i was talkin about are at my crib right now smh...!! i wanna fuck her lmfao!!!~

[Oroman]

lol guess wat guys! my best friend and the girl i was talkin about are at my crib right now smh...!! i wanna fuck her lmfao!!!~

Beat it up guy! :rofl:

[Silentness!]

:lol:
First, the important matter:
What server are you on, Nes?



Alterac Storms: ALLIANCE 58 mage (Minimagus) 58 priest (Puritan) 58 warlock (Soulstnome) 59 druid (Zookeeper) 57 hunter (Finalshot) 58 warrior (Mortalstrike) 58 paladin (Ninelives)

Spirestone: HORDE 58 shaman (Shamaan) <-- yeah worst name of em all

Gul'dan: Alliance 70 rogue (Issei) <-- rofl I like the name.
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My solution: play DAT WoW

[TheWanderer]

today me, her, and her aunt/friend not sure.. and a bunch of ppl were waiting in line to get on a bus.. we weren't standing next to each other but in the

she and her aunt or friend..? not sure.. well they got on before me.. when i got on the bus.. she looked at me until i walk almost pass her.. i looked at her with a friendly smile and didn't want to say nuttin cuz her aunt/friend is there with her.

this is what i don't understand.. she kept staring once i got on the bus.. then when i look at her and gave her a friendly smile she did the LIGHTNING FAST GRIN then looked down and play with her nails or fingers..

maybe she want me to make a move or i did something wrong? before we got on the bus.. i saw her talking to a couple guys laughing and all this shiet inside a building.. but whenever i'm near her somewhere.. she's all quiet and doesn't act like herself. all quiet n mad or some shiet. HELP SENSEI MANGA2!!

basically.. she's all smiling giggling and all comfortable around guys she have met before or have never met before.. when they talk to her shes all giggling.. but when im near her she's different... you know what i mean?

[SF_PHOCUS]

:lol:
First, the important matter:
What server are you on, Nes?

Now, onto my situation:
At the beginning of the semester, I met this girl as I was walking to class. It must have been the first day of school. She was the one that said something to me, so I took that as an indicator of interest. Etc. I figured I'd be running into her everyday as I headed to class.

Turns out that this girl also hung out at the lounge, so I could always find her in there. Usually after class I would go and say whats up to her in the lounge, and tried pulling some of the PUA stuff, and it SEEMED to work great! Later on in the semester I got her phone number, no problem. I think it was a couple days later though when I asked her if she wanted to hang out that weekend. She told me she was busy, but didn't even try to make up for it by offering a date that she was free.
And that's the thing about this PUA stuff. To me, I use it, and at first it seems to work, but then something will happen that just throws everything off course. If it was working so well, wouldn't she AT LEAST try and meet up with me? I would like to know what I did wrong. How did I screw up the situation? It always seemed like she was digging me up until I asked her to hang out.

And also, there's another question to this story, if you guys could help me out.
She had this guy 'friend' that would usually be with her. And just by looking at him, you could tell that he certainly didn't know how to talk to women. For example one time the girl was playfully poking me and junk, and he comes up and starts poking her. I guess to try and get her attention. She pretty much ignored him and he just walked away. But what I would like to know is, how do you get rid of this type of guy? She obviously doesn't like him, but I almost feel like MY value is dropping just by standing next to him trying to talk to this girl. How can I separate myself from this guy, and still increase my chances of creating more attraction?

Ok... you say u use the PUA stuff and it works at first but something will happen that throws everything off course... well wats happening is your running out of material... lol thats pretty obivious(not trying to riff on you). The PUA stuff isnt congruent with your personality... Your prolly not comfortable or your not taking the time to fully understand the material before actually trying it out... So this is basically wat happens.... You see hot girl... you approach..... You use some PUA stuff.... it works...you spark a lil interest....then.....*this is where it wears off* lol read the paragraph again then read the lil dialogue ... it will make sense after lol...

Now about this guy friend of hers... well the way i usually deal wif guys like him is 1 of 2 ways.... either I just completly ignore him... Or ill just make him look really stupid... you have to know when to ignore or make him look really stupid.... knowing when to do that will come wif time... lol im sure a lot of the other posters will agree wif me on this...:china:

[SF_PHOCUS]

today me, her, and her aunt/friend not sure.. and a bunch of ppl were waiting in line to get on a bus.. we weren't standing next to each other but in the

she and her aunt or friend..? not sure.. well they got on before me.. when i got on the bus.. she looked at me until i walk almost pass her.. i looked at her with a friendly smile and didn't want to say nuttin cuz her aunt/friend is there with her.

this is what i don't understand.. she kept staring once i got on the bus.. then when i look at her and gave her a friendly smile she did the LIGHTNING FAST GRIN then looked down and play with her nails or fingers..

maybe she want me to make a move or i did something wrong? before we got on the bus.. i saw her talking to a couple guys laughing and all this shiet inside a building.. but whenever i'm near her somewhere.. she's all quiet and doesn't act like herself. all quiet n mad or some shiet. HELP SENSEI MANGA2!!

basically.. she's all smiling giggling and all comfortable around guys she have met before or have never met before.. when they talk to her shes all giggling.. but when im near her she's different... you know what i mean?

Well it could be because she LIKED YOU AND WANTED YOU TO APPROACH HER... BUT DIDNT SAY NOTHING TO YOU... HOWEVER SHE SMILED AT U.. AND WHEN YOU LOOKED SHE BASICALLY BLUSHED... SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING TO YOU BECAUSE SHE WAS PROLLY TESTING U TO SEE IF U WOULD STEP UP AND TAKE A SHOT...
Now answer me this... wat did u have to lose by approaching her?:wonder:

[TheWanderer]

^ i asked other ppl about that and they say she doesn't like me and i should give it up. :sad::confused:.

[SF_PHOCUS]

whoever said that to you i bet you they gets no pum pum

[Oroman]

Well it could be because she LIKED YOU AND WANTED YOU TO APPROACH HER... BUT DIDNT SAY NOTHING TO YOU... HOWEVER SHE SMILED AT U.. AND WHEN YOU LOOKED SHE BASICALLY BLUSHED... SHE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING TO YOU BECAUSE SHE WAS PROLLY TESTING U TO SEE IF U WOULD STEP UP AND TAKE A SHOT...
Now answer me this... wat did u have to lose by approaching her?:wonder:

Yea I agree with what you say, another reason is because she might be shy around him or maybe she's waiting for him to make the first move. The best thing would be to GO FOR BROKE!

[Reveal]

Ok... you say u use the PUA stuff and it works at first but something will happen that throws everything off course... well wats happening is your running out of material... lol thats pretty obivious(not trying to riff on you). The PUA stuff isnt congruent with your personality... Your prolly not comfortable or your not taking the time to fully understand the material before actually trying it out... So this is basically wat happens.... You see hot girl... you approach..... You use some PUA stuff.... it works...you spark a lil interest....then.....*this is where it wears off* lol read the paragraph again then read the lil dialogue ... it will make sense after lol...

Now about this guy friend of hers... well the way i usually deal wif guys like him is 1 of 2 ways.... either I just completly ignore him... Or ill just make him look really stupid... you have to know when to ignore or make him look really stupid.... knowing when to do that will come wif time... lol im sure a lot of the other posters will agree wif me on this...:china: This is probably the possibility! But it's not like I was using canned lines or anything. I was more trying to use the concepts that I've learned. For instance, I busted her balls one day when she called me Chris (my name isn't Chris) and it looked like she loved it. I playfully pulled away and she was grabbing at me trying to pull me back to her. It's just weird when it seems like stuff like that works like a charm, but then when I try and get her to hang out, it just kinda falls off from there and I'm just left wondering "Where did I go wrong?"

And about the guy. Normally she'll be sitting down in a seat, and he's already standing next to her, trying to get her attention. So standing next to this guy ignoring him, that won't decrease my 'value?' it certainly feels like it does for some reason. When I'm talking to her with him around, I feel like we're almost fighting for her attention.

[SF_PHOCUS]

This is probably the possibility! But it's not like I was using canned lines or anything. I was more trying to use the concepts that I've learned. For instance, I busted her balls one day when she called me Chris (my name isn't Chris) and it looked like she loved it. I playfully pulled away and she was grabbing at me trying to pull me back to her. It's just weird when it seems like stuff like that works like a charm, but then when I try and get her to hang out, it just kinda falls off from there and I'm just left wondering "Where did I go wrong?"

And about the guy. Normally she'll be sitting down in a seat, and he's already standing next to her, trying to get her attention. So standing next to this guy ignoring him, that won't decrease my 'value?' it certainly feels like it does for some reason. When I'm talking to her with him around, I feel like we're almost fighting for her attention.

Oh ok i see wat the problem is... you see wif this stuff u have to be consistant... You cant just act a certain way for part of the interaction..... you have to stick wif it... its like jumping out of character if u know wat i mean.... its like tellin a lie.... if u lie u have to stick wif the lie... u cant just tell a lie then out of no where u change ur story up... makes sense??? so thats prolly ur problem... if ur gonna try and be cocky and funny wif her.... bustin her balls, shit like that you have to make that who u are... a cocky and funny person... so at least it doesnt seem like ur actin like that to just get in her panties

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol everyone is a superstar now? no one needs any advice?? :clap: :clap:

[R.P.D rookie]

So, there was this time back in October that I went drinking with my fellow art majors to celebrate this girl's birthday. Anyway, we hit a few bars and I got pretty plastered and I started staring at this one girl. Well, finally I caught myself and said "If she sees me staring at her, she'll freak, I might as well go over and talk to her.". So I did and I ended up exchanging numbers with her. Turns out she worked at the local Hooters. :smokin: Anyway, I'm sure she gets guys trying to get her number all the time so I was surprised that she let me have it.

Well fast forward to just two days ago when the art majors were having another get together to celebrate the end of the semester and I invited her to come and have fun. As the party is getting around the 2 am mark and we've all had a good amount of alcohol, we're a little loosened up and somehow we got on the subject of dating. Long story short, I asked her if she could see something between the two of us and she paused and said "I'm really looking for a goofy white guy to date........sorry". So I guess she's not down for dating blackies or even one like me that's only half.:sad:

So she started to feel bad and I told her to cheer up I'm use to it and let's just have a good time and leave it at that. I've been through this situation before with an old highschool crush that didn't believe in interracial dating. Funny thing is, this girl that I'm talking to now is half white/guatemalan, so I find it funny she wouldn't believe in interracial dating. Must be just black guys, because I sware she said at one time one of her ex boyfriends was Chinese.

All that aside she nearly started to cry after she explained why things wouldn't work and I said, "Look, I didn't bring you here to put pressure on you, I brought you here to have a good time and you are right? So let's just leave it at that and enjoy the rest of the night.". Anyway, later on in the morning 3 am or so, she's staring at me and I'm like "Everything okay?" and she says "You look disappointed...." so yeah, you can see where this went, I had to go into another "Don't worry about it" speech.

Thing is she was physical with me all througout the night in terms of touching my shoulder when laughing, grabbing my arm and snuggling up to me and then we hugged several times that night (alcohol related no doubt), and this was all AFTER she told me she didn't want to get involved. But then she hugged me later around 5 am when we got back to her place, after we had both sobered up and she hugged me for a good 30 seconds and told me I was a nice person. So, I'm confused. Should I even bother? She's always inviting me into her apartment to talk and she never has anything to do so she enjoys the company.

That night I that I took her out to that party, afterwards we both went to eat Waffle House at 6 am and then I stayed up with her til around 8 am then I went home. So, she enjoys having me around but could I actually have a shot at making a relationship with her? She's a nice girl and she seems to laugh at me a lot, so that's a good thing. But at the same time, if I shouldn't pursue more out of the relationship, that's fine as I'd hate to get her pissed off at me that I wouldn't leave her alone about it.

[MrBuster]

Since it's late for me right now and I got to work early as hell, I can't go into a real elaborate answer. From what it sounds like is that she was actually testing you when she told you that she did not go out with us darkies LoL. Girls say a lot of shit just to throw you of tilt and get you lose your mindset. I would have taken it with a grain of salt. Now on the subject where you two have been kicking it a lot... Be careful, because when she can confide in you to tell you about all her issues and what-not. You have then became her GIRLFRIEND...

[Atomic #]

lol everyone is a superstar now? no one needs any advice?? :clap: :clap:

Tryin to make paper so I get the "interview" before I land the job ya know lol

Its hard for me to get lucky when you can't afford to put cheese on a whopper...

[R.P.D rookie]

Since it's late for me right now and I got to work early as hell, I can't go into a real elaborate answer. From what it sounds like is that she was actually testing you when she told you that she did not go out with us darkies LoL. Girls say a lot of shit just to throw you of tilt and get you lose your mindset. I would have taken it with a grain of salt. Now on the subject where you two have been kicking it a lot... Be careful, because when she can confide in you to tell you about all her issues and what-not. You have then became her GIRLFRIEND...

Thanks for the input. This stuff is tricky: I take a risk and be aggressive in the future and win her over or tick her off because I don't know the meaning of "no". Girls like guys that are aggressive and persistent, maybe this is something she threw out there to see what I would do. I think I'll give it one more go around. I'm supposed to take her out to the bar to celebrate one last time before we go away for Christmas holidays. After we have a few drinks and loosen up, I'm sure we'll get on the subject of it again.


I expect more opinions on this as people actually wake up and start reading the thread. It's 3:45 am here right now. =/

[Infernoman]

Since it's late for me right now and I got to work early as hell, I can't go into a real elaborate answer. From what it sounds like is that she was actually testing you when she told you that she did not go out with us darkies LoL. Girls say a lot of shit just to throw you of tilt and get you lose your mindset. I would have taken it with a grain of salt. Now on the subject where you two have been kicking it a lot... Be careful, because when she can confide in you to tell you about all her issues and what-not. You have then became her GIRLFRIEND...

well see I dunno about that...I guess it depends on the person. some girls if you don't known them that well will confide feeling better to do so to someone they don't know...but yeah...that's all I have to say there...

[pherai]

@R.P.D rookie:

Hopefully some of the other dudes will chime in, but this seems like one of those go for broke scenarios, where you should just make a move and see what happens. I don't know why she would be going out with you if she wasn't interested, unless she just likes drama in her life. The way I see it, you either find out she was putting up a front, or find out she really isn't down with black guys, in which case you should be relieved cause you'd know not to waste time with her.

[Silentness!]

lol everyone is a superstar now? no one needs any advice?? :clap: :clap:

It took me a while to realize that I need to put all the books/other peoples' opinions aside and just experience it first hand.

I'm no superstar, but I believe it would be best for me to just figure things out on my own.

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@RPD Rookie: Man you are an awesome guy. I can't believe you showed up at Final Round in a Q outfit. Anyways I honestly think she's friend zoning your ass (trying to be real with ya)

I agree with Pherai you need to just "Go for broke". Cause currently it looks like she's cockteasing the hell out of you and you don't seem to be happy with the friendly vibe.

PS: I know that feeling about interracial dating hahaha. One girl I tried to hook up with was a genuine southern belle. Got her number and everything, but shit just wasn't flying because of our differences.

[R.P.D rookie]

@R.P.D rookie:

Hopefully some of the other dudes will chime in, but this seems like one of those go for broke scenarios, where you should just make a move and see what happens. I don't know why she would be going out with you if she wasn't interested, unless she just likes drama in her life. The way I see it, you either find out she was putting up a front, or find out she really isn't down with black guys, in which case you should be relieved cause you'd know not to waste time with her.

Well here are two more instances that I was slow to catch onto. I'm pretty good at being a dumbass and here's why

1. Before we get to the party, she tells me "My friend from back home called and was like 'NO SEX WITH THAT GUY!', well I hadn't planned on it but thanks for letting me know.....", she laughed afterwards and so did I and I didn't even think much about it after she said it.

2. She asked me if I wanted to just stay at her apartment for the night/morning and sleep because she had a futon I could use. I told her I was good to walk back to my place and then I jokingly said "You look disappointed" and she said "a little".

I just now recalled both those things and I realize I'm a dumbass. I mean #1 I can't really find a way to twist that in my favor. I couldn't just have responded with "Oh, but you will be!". The second one though, I should've stayed after she said she was a little disappointed I was leaving. Ah well, my fucking eyes and ears are open come friday night, I'm not letting a single sentence she says pass by without deep evaluation because I seem to have a knack for being dense with women and their "signals".

Silent Ness: Thanks for the advice and buddy sad to say........but the Q outfit will be returning to FR11 along with a real turtle shell I'll be wearing on my back that I found. No joke.

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol its 5:50 in the mornin... i woke up to get some water and i said hmm lemme check my aol real quick... Now RPD... I think your first mistake was even askin her that question ( if she could see something between the two of us). As a rule of thumb i never ask a girl if she likes me, i never ask a girl wat she looks for in a guy and I never ask if she could see something between the two of us. Why? Because those same questions i can find the answers to without havin to ask... just by doin other things ( I hope i dont really have to get into detail).
Now dont get me wrong.. there are times that those phrases are ok.... for example if im ever goin to say one of the phrases Im not goin to say it like a question Im goin to say it as a statement..... for example Instead of "could you see something between the two of us" I would say something like "You like me and you could see something between the two of us". you see where Im goin?

lol now about that respose she gave you I dont know wat to say... Ive never been hit wif shit like that... but from the way everything turned out it probably could of been a test.. Just to see how you would react... and it seemed as though you stayed a lil bit level headed and she liked that.... So if u wanna continue trying to see her its your call...

When you guys do decide to go to this bar the minute you reach there vanish! go mingle wif people get a few drinks talk to girls have fun! and let her see that.. not to spite her but because you really wanna have fun..

[SF_PHOCUS]

Well here are two more instances that I was slow to catch onto. I'm pretty good at being a dumbass and here's why

1. Before we get to the party, she tells me "My friend from back home called and was like 'NO SEX WITH THAT GUY!', well I hadn't planned on it but thanks for letting me know.....", she laughed afterwards and so did I and I didn't even think much about it after she said it.

2. She asked me if I wanted to just stay at her apartment for the night/morning and sleep because she had a futon I could use. I told her I was good to walk back to my place and then I jokingly said "You look disappointed" and she said "a little".

I just now recalled both those things and I realize I'm a dumbass. I mean #1 I can't really find a way to twist that in my favor. I couldn't just have responded with "Oh, but you will be!". The second one though, I should've stayed after she said she was a little disappointed I was leaving. Ah well, my fucking eyes and ears are open come friday night, I'm not letting a single sentence she says pass by without deep evaluation because I seem to have a knack for being dense with women and their "signals".


lol woah woah woah.... i didnt even see your second post... hmm yeh i think shes playin games wif you... Ness and Mr B are kinda right... she could be throwin you into the friendship fire lol...But i think its more testing because she probably does likes you (Usually when a girl decides she doesnt like you the tests stop lol).. So i guess my last paragraph was accurate about wat to do when u guys go to the bar or watever friday night..

That phone call shit was just to see how you would react... brushing it off at first was good... But you should of brought it back up later on..lol in my head im maddd right now cause i know exactly wat i would have done in your shoes!!!
:china:

[R.P.D rookie]

lol woah woah woah.... i didnt even see your second post... hmm yeh i think shes playin games wif you... Ness and Mr B are kinda right... she could be throwin you into the friendship fire lol...But i think its more testing because she probably does likes you (Usually when a girl decides she doesnt like you the tests stop lol).. So i guess my last paragraph was accurate about wat to do when u guys go to the bar or watever friday night..

That phone call shit was just to see how you would react... brushing it off at first was good... But you should of brought it back up later on..lol in my head im maddd right now cause i know exactly wat i would have done in your shoes!!!
:china:

Yeah, well whenever we go to the bar I've got a few things to bring up to her to straighten out. Apparently, I wasn't the only one who wanted her to fall for me, this other guy at the party was arguing with her about her weight because she thinks she fat when she's not by no means. She has a little temper that flares up when she's really into the arguing and after a few drinks, don't know what side of the family she gets that from, but she cools down quickly. So anyway this guy is buttering her up or so he thinks and then he walks away from her right to me and says "Dude, by the time I'm done, you're definently gonna get fucked tonight!", and I think she overheard that and I want to let her know he doesn't speak for me. I just shook my head and said "Man, we're just here to have a good time" and offered the usual ":smile:" and started talking to someone else.

He was either drunk or high or both but I guess I appreciate the concern all the same.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Yeah, well whenever we go to the bar I've got a few things to bring up to her to straighten out. Apparently, I wasn't the only one who wanted her to fall for me, this other guy at the party was arguing with her about her weight because she thinks she fat when she's not by no means. She has a little temper that flares up when she's really into the arguing and after a few drinks, don't know what side of the family she gets that from, but she cools down quickly. So anyway this guy is buttering her up or so he thinks and then he walks away from her right to me and says "Dude, by the time I'm done, you're definently gonna get fucked tonight!", and I think she overheard that and I want to let her know he doesn't speak for me. I just shook my head and said "Man, we're just here to have a good time" and offered the usual ":smile:" and started talking to someone else.

He was either drunk or high or both but I guess I appreciate the concern all the same.

oh yeh i forgot u both were drunk when u asked her wat she thinks of yall! LOL WHY WOULD U ASK HER SUCH A QUESTION WHILE SHES DRUNK AND THEN TAKE HER SERIOUS TOO????????:annoy:

[CrouchingTiger]

:rofl: Uh oh RPD buddy, careful. This smells an awful lot like a friend zone of epic magnitude. I should know. Hell, YOU should know. You were around me plenty back in my "Amy days." When you're caught up in a girl, it's easy to think you can overpower the friend zone. Don't be foolish, you can't. The friend zone is unstoppable. Like your Juggernaut idol. Sure you hear tales of the occasional heroic man escaping a friend zone. But who do you think you are? Goku? We're from Alabama. No man from Alabama possesses that kind of power.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying forget about her. I'm saying "Go for broke!" as Silent Ness and pherai put it. Make a move before it's too late and you're zoned! That way you can find out what you need to find out, without drawing out a gigantic mind game that lasts forever with no results. See I never made that move, and I played the mind game. You can't win that. You've got a better chance of making Justin Wong cry next year at FR11.

This isn't nr20, this is NO RULES! GOGOGOGOGOGOGO!

[R.P.D rookie]

:rofl: Uh oh RPD buddy, careful. This smells an awful lot like a friend zone of epic magnitude. I should know. Hell, YOU should know. You were around me plenty back in my "Amy days." When you're caught up in a girl, it's easy to think you can overpower the friend zone. Don't be foolish, you can't. The friend zone is unstoppable. Like your Juggernaut idol. Sure you hear tales of the occasional heroic man escaping a friend zone. But who do you think you are? Goku? We're from Alabama. No man from Alabama possesses that kind of power.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying forget about her. I'm saying "Go for broke!" as Silent Ness and pherai put it. Make a move before it's too late and you're zoned! That way you can find out what you need to find out, without drawing out a gigantic mind game that lasts forever with no results. See I never made that move, and I played the mind game. You can't win that. You've got a better chance of making Justin Wong cry next year at FR11.

This isn't nr20, this is NO RULES! GOGOGOGOGOGOGO!


Things have changed, some of the art majors are getting together tonight for dinner and I plan to invite her over, so I'll tie up the loose ends tonight.

And as for making Justin cry at FR11, he better get out my way when I get on the arcade machine.:smokin:

[CrouchingTiger]

Excellenté! As General Pepper would put it, "GOOD LUCK."

[BBQ]

yeah man, you already see how the battle ground is layed out, you need to now is if it's "no mans land" or not by stepping into it with guns blazing. She already set some explosives but you gotta dodge them and just go in for the kill. It's better to do this then to have this situation that will only eat you up and all she knows is that you are her great guy friend.

[ChunLi]

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Alright fellas... when you tell a girl that you're interested in this kinda statement:

"Im totally looking for a girl to be the one for me, but usually after the first date, if I don't click with them well, I get bored and never call them anymore."

1) Are you just keeping it real? Or?
2) Insert another lame explaination.

[zer0_858]

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Alright fellas... when you tell a girl that you're interested in this kinda statement:

"Im totally looking for a girl to be the one for me, but usually after the first date, if I don't click with them well, I get bored and never call them anymore."

1) Are you just keeping it real? Or?
2) Insert another lame explaination.

He may be keeping it real, if I said that it was because it was the truth why say that to a chick at all? Even if he was trying to sleep with you I would thing that would be the wrong way to do it.

[akumatrunigga]

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Alright fellas... when you tell a girl that you're interested in this kinda statement:

"Im totally looking for a girl to be the one for me, but usually after the first date, if I don't click with them well, I get bored and never call them anymore."

1) Are you just keeping it real? Or?
2) Insert another lame explaination.

1. Yeah one is keeping it real stupid. What guy actually says that? He minds as well say Im looking for my wife.

Also it is a waste of time cuz one will never know from the first date. What if the first clicked very well and the others didnt then what? Matter of fact if that is the case the guy will never find the "one"

Now is this from a guy you are currently talking to?

[tech master]

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Alright fellas... when you tell a girl that you're interested in this kinda statement:

"Im totally looking for a girl to be the one for me, but usually after the first date, if I don't click with them well, I get bored and never call them anymore."

1) Are you just keeping it real? Or?
2) Insert another lame explaination.

keepin it real! in a good way. if she's not psycho, she'll understand. then again you might have just made her nervous and might act weird first date in fear of being rejected, in which she'd still be a little psycho or just shy. but that tells you somethin about her right? hah

1. Yeah one is keeping it real stupid. What guy actually says that? He minds as well say Im looking for my wife.

dood you never met a good lookin chick and she just ended up being the most annoying bitch ever????? i wouldnt want to entertain a dumb hoe. and if you just wanna tap, well you don't have that high standards. i dont fuck just ANYONE.

edit: unless im overly intoxicated

[ChunLi]

1. Yeah one is keeping it real stupid. What guy actually says that? He minds as well say Im looking for my wife.

Also it is a waste of time cuz one will never know from the first date. What if the first clicked very well and the others didnt then what? Matter of fact if that is the case the guy will never find the "one"

Now is this from a guy you are currently talking to?

Yep. And it being such a small world, I found out he use to be childhood buddies with some of my best guy pals right now. He says he feels comfy knowing tht I'm good friends with some of those guys... so it's not like he doesn't have background info on me. I'm not some total complete stranger that could be a whack job.

[akumatrunigga]

dood you never met a good lookin chick and she just ended up being the most annoying bitch ever????? Of course I have who hasnt but with a comment like that it makes a guy look soft and needy. Matter of fact the woman may be annoying to you but not the next guy who is dating her. Maybe you just couldnt handle her personality.


i wouldnt want to entertain a dumb hoe. and if you just wanna tap, well you don't have that high standards. i dont fuck just ANYONE.
Now why would you go about making a false accusation? Who said anything about tapping just anyone? who said anything about entertaining a dumb hoe? I can guarantee once some of more frequent posters in this thread comment on chun li's question they will agree with me to an extent. My standards are pretty high and also they are very realistic as well.

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Anyway
I have a question Chun Li? what was your overall reaction? was it a :wtf:? a :wonder:? a :confused:? a :rolleyes:? a :sweat:? did you though he was :lame:? or did you :lovin:? or :wgrin: lol

[pherai]

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Alright fellas... when you tell a girl that you're interested in this kinda statement:

"Im totally looking for a girl to be the one for me, but usually after the first date, if I don't click with them well, I get bored and never call them anymore."

1) Are you just keeping it real? Or?
2) Insert another lame explaination.

When you try to read men, I'd say actions speak louder than words. Translation: If he's interested, he will keep seeing you. He could be being honest, and just be a dude who constantly has a lot of plates spinning, or could be just making up some bullshit. Either way, I'd say let him get in touch with you, and if he doesn't, eff 'im. I will say I don't know many guys who are looking for their one true love that aren't nerds.

[Silentness!]

yeah man, you already see how the battle ground is layed out,

Fuck I play too much WoW. I thought this was the WoW thread when I read this sentence...

[SF_PHOCUS]

Fuck I play too much WoW. I thought this was the WoW thread when I read this sentence...

lol FEEN!!!!:wgrin:

EDIT: lol i didnt realize before that the srk screen is snowing... it scared the shit out of me just now! :sad:

[w1r3d]

what are some good topics/subjects to talk about on a first date?

I want to keep it light and funny. No sexual stuff either plz >.<

going against the thread's poll, I'll be meeting her (I won't pick her up) at Starbucks. My current plan is to be there for about 30-45 minutes, but I'm not sure what the heck I want to talk about yet. I want to get to know this girl, while at the same time being alert for any red flags. Also, how would I end it? I was thinking of just going like "well, I gotta go, I'm meeting up with some friends in a bit" (which is true) and go from there. Walk her to her car, then be on my way. I'm certainly open for ideas.

Oh, just to give some background info:
I met her last Friday at a salsa club. Danced like 2 songs, made her laugh, etc. Reason I asked for her phone number was that I noticed high interest (the big signal was her saying something to the effect of "if you want to dance again, look me up! :smile:"). I ignored her after that even though I saw her a couple times. Then before leaving I asked for her phone number which she gave without hesitation. Five days later I called her, asked her, and conversation was over in less than two minutes. So yeah, I think things are going pretty good so far, which is why I don't want to mess it up today, lol.

I haven't dated in a LONG while (got out of a 2.5 yr relationship about a month ago) so I'm in need of some assist, haha. I'm currently not looking for any "hit and quit" kinds of things. My current plan is that I want to meet/date as many women as I can until I find a flexible giver with some integrity, haha

thx in advance :china:

[akumatrunigga]

what are some good topics/subjects to talk about on a first date?

I want to keep it light and funny. No sexual stuff either plz >.<

going against the thread's poll, I'll be meeting her (I won't pick her up) at Starbucks. My current plan is to be there for about 30-45 minutes, but I'm not sure what the heck I want to talk about yet. I want to get to know this girl, while at the same time being alert for any red flags. Also, how would I end it? I was thinking of just going like "well, I gotta go, I'm meeting up with some friends in a bit" (which is true) and go from there. Walk her to her car, then be on my way. I'm certainly open for ideas.

Oh, just to give some background info:
I met her last Friday at a salsa club. Danced like 2 songs, made her laugh, etc. Reason I asked for her phone number was that I noticed high interest (the big signal was her saying something to the effect of "if you want to dance again, look me up! :smile:"). I ignored her after that even though I saw her a couple times. Then before leaving I asked for her phone number which she gave without hesitation. Five days later I called her, asked her, and conversation was over in less than two minutes. So yeah, I think things are going pretty good so far, which is why I don't want to mess it up today, lol.

I haven't dated in a LONG while (got out of a 2.5 yr relationship about a month ago) so I'm in need of some assist, haha. I'm currently not looking for any "hit and quit" kinds of things. My current plan is that I want to meet/date as many women as I can until I find a flexible giver with some integrity, haha

thx in advance :china:

it is pretty simple
You can talk about
1. Yourself
2. the chick
3. the situation you are both in.

to begin u can
1. ask a question (a type that gets her to talk alot)
2. state an opinion (non political or religioius)
3. state a fact
4. humor

however since you are more in the chill factor talk to her like how you talk to your close friends. After the lil coffee date invite her with your buddies she'll most likely see how you are as a person.

[SF_PHOCUS]

what are some good topics/subjects to talk about on a first date?

I want to keep it light and funny. No sexual stuff either plz >.<

going against the thread's poll, I'll be meeting her (I won't pick her up) at Starbucks. My current plan is to be there for about 30-45 minutes, but I'm not sure what the heck I want to talk about yet. I want to get to know this girl, while at the same time being alert for any red flags. Also, how would I end it? I was thinking of just going like "well, I gotta go, I'm meeting up with some friends in a bit" (which is true) and go from there. Walk her to her car, then be on my way. I'm certainly open for ideas.

Oh, just to give some background info:
I met her last Friday at a salsa club. Danced like 2 songs, made her laugh, etc. Reason I asked for her phone number was that I noticed high interest (the big signal was her saying something to the effect of "if you want to dance again, look me up! :smile:"). I ignored her after that even though I saw her a couple times. Then before leaving I asked for her phone number which she gave without hesitation. Five days later I called her, asked her, and conversation was over in less than two minutes. So yeah, I think things are going pretty good so far, which is why I don't want to mess it up today, lol.

I haven't dated in a LONG while (got out of a 2.5 yr relationship about a month ago) so I'm in need of some assist, haha. I'm currently not looking for any "hit and quit" kinds of things. My current plan is that I want to meet/date as many women as I can until I find a flexible giver with some integrity, haha

thx in advance :china:

talk about anything thats fun and interesting... i know thats kinda broad but its true... stay away from questions like so where you from, what do u look for in a guy... am i your type... the only way u could screw this up is if you think too much... just relax... dont plan out ur whole convo before... cause when u run out of planned shit wat u gonna do?? have a few canned topics but try and wing it as much as possible...!:wgrin:

[w1r3d]

advice sounds great - all i need are a few examples :crybaby:

[TheSix]

what are some good topics/subjects to talk about on a first date?

I want to keep it light and funny. No sexual stuff either plz >.<


SF_P pretty much hit it. You can't predict what's going to happen really.

Get the girl talking, LISTEN, and mirror what she says to you. As long as the girl isn't a complete turtle, they ALL want to talk and WILL give you shit to work with if you just listen.

If you must have prep-talk though, come up with fun stories. No negative stuff.

[MrBlank]

also try to remain motivated during these talks. looking like a sleepy head aint going to convince the girl that your genuine about her convo at all.

try to make the convo fun whenever the opportunity presents itself.

[SF_PHOCUS]

also try to remain motivated during these talks. looking like a sleepy head aint going to convince the girl that your genuine about her convo at all.

try to make the convo fun whenever the opportunity presents itself.

Blank! lol wats good! :clap:

[MrBlank]

What it do Phoc. Im on bust my ass mode for my job.

i wasn't able to log in solid for a few days but i had the time to spit a lil science today.

[SRKev]

What it do Phoc. Im on bust my ass mode for my job.

i wasn't able to log in solid for a few days but i had the time to spit a lil science today.

Where are you working nowadays, Blank?

[SF_PHOCUS]

What it do Phoc. Im on bust my ass mode for my job.

i wasn't able to log in solid for a few days but i had the time to spit a lil science today.

lol yea i hear you.. my job is kickin my ass too holiday time:sweat:

[MrBlank]

Where are you working nowadays, Blank?

Im a Assistant Lead over at Namco Networks aka Namco's Mobile Division.

You know your a phone pimp when you got Time Crisis on the Celly.

lol oh yeah we need to chill up one of these days kev. get our drink on and sarge out.

[exarchezekiel]

Alright here's a long one for you guys....

I"m 15 going on 16(B-day is on January 1rst :party:) the names Frankie and basically I need help on online an offline stuff...

I'm usually a quiet,calm,quiet,funny,nice and honest guy as said by most of my lady friends. I enjoy flaunting over the opposite sex and most of the time I'm always having some girl flirt with me if not than I am I rarely ever try and flirt now days.
Only problem is I have funny,happy care free side that I rarely show is the major turn on for most girls but I also have a dark,quiet lonely side think of it as I have my times where I'm really cool and sometimes just dark and lonely which makes some girls think I"m a lil weird and and they ask me."Are you okay?" and I'll just reply."Yeah I"m fine don't worry about it."

Well basically on the online part... A couple of months back I met this one girl who I am going out with but we haven't spoken in a month now. So now I"m worried and confused as to what I should do I've been patient but now I dunno. She fell in love with me like a week after started talking but than got into a car accident sometime later and we didn't talk till a month later. So after she got better we hit it off again and she would always catch me on Aim and Pm me on Gaia(Site where we met) asking to talk and hang out. One day she asked me if I liked her( roughly two months into it) I replied."To be honest I think I'm in love." and I know when to use words such as those. So when I took the trip out to SB(seasons beathings back in November) I hadn't talked to her in two days and I logged on before we hit the road home and in less than a second she Imed me asking where I was where have I been you know all that jazz. We talked for abit than I told her I had to go she Im'ed "Okay well please be safe and come back to me I love you." I took those words for thought on the way back than a couple days later asked her out. She was happy as hell and we got closer in a heartbeat. But than she hadn't popped online at all since a month from today and we haven't spoken. I can't let go because she told me I was everything she could ever ask for I was always there for her when she needed to talk to and help her out when she needed help or advice. Also my dumbass never asked for her house # cause I never thought about such an event as this happening so I figured I"d never need it.
I know I"m still young and such and online relationship seems dumb for a kid who still goes to High school but I seriously think she's the one for me.

Now... for the offline part


Back in September on my homecoming I ran into this one girl who asked me to dance with her. I wasn't in the usual party mood I'm always in whenever I go out to party and I don't understand wtf came over me that night. But anyways I said sure than we hit the dance floor bumping N Grinding having a good time only problem is she grabbed me 10 minutes before it was over so we only danced for abit. I walked with her to go get her Jacket and such and we exchanged #'s. Now get this...it's only been 10 minutes since we went our separate ways...what happens my phone vibrates I gotta text from her. WTF!? Girl really thew my game off so the rest of the weekend we talked and such and text'd. On Monday morning I sat in front of school to go meet her and walk her to class. Girl text me 4 times during the day and asked me to walk her home which I did since she only lives right across the street I walked her we had laughs talked abit hugged than went our separate ways. Now...a couple of weeks later she seems all deprressed and I text her asking what was wrong she's going through tough times and such so I skipped class to go see her the next day and I guess I really surprised her. So she asked if I wanted to go with her to our old middle school to hang out. So I did we walked there had laughs and such but I got cock blocked by her aunt so could'nt mac on it. Anyways we were suppose to hang out on the weekend but instead she didn't call me than text me saying how she had a good time with this one dude I just said "Ah thats kool if it was me you probably would have had a better time." So later this guy becomes her B/F I expressed my feelings for her but she left it as were friends. We haven't talked for a month and a week ago she tried to get my attention in school every way possible yelling my name,poking hell even tried to trip me! So one day I passed by her and her B/f she ditches her B/F to ask me to walk her home saying "Whatsup long time no talk." So I walked her home than didn't give her a hug but she asked for the hug which I gave to her could'nt resist. So now were basically talking and texting here and there but nothing out of the ordinary so I dunno what I should do about this one...We get along well,have the same interests and both play video games etc. Only problem is now we basically feel weird around each other so we don't get along as well and I'm not sure how I can re-spark the relationship...

I basically wanna have the online relationship while maintaining a nice kool relationship with the offline girl.

So SRK any help?:wink:

-Frankie :cool:

[w1r3d]

Just came back from the Starbucks date. Everything was going great, she looked very nice. I could tell her interest level was high (she even got off work early to go to the date), complimented me, etc. but then, she mentioned she has a kid :( I mean, it's cool and I really appreciate she told me (I guess girls could/would hide it) but it's just not what I'm looking for at the moment. She seems like a really nice girl too. I told her I'm leaving for Puerto Rico tomorrow for like 3 weeks and she told me to call her when I got back. I probably will call her (or maybe I should wait for her to call me?) and tell her what's up. That way I don't waste her time, nor mine I guess.

ah well. :/


btw, thanks for the advice everyone =)

[pherai]

I know I"m still young and such and online relationship seems dumb for a kid who still goes to High school but I seriously think she's the one for me.


Haha, no offense buddy, but at 15 you don't know shit.


Now... for the offline part


I don't know why I'm wasting my time cause I'm sure you'll just do your own thing, as most 15 year olds will, but this chick just likes your attention, and is not interested in you. Welcome to the Friend Zone. Hope you enjoy your stay. We don't allow sex in here, but if you stay with us, you'll get insider info on how much her boyfriend is an asshole, but don't get your hopes up, she'll only break up with him and start dating a new asshole.

[MrBuster]

^^^ Hahaha, you had to break to him like that. LuLz

But Exar... Pherai is speaking truth, just move on and start talking to some different women. Just take the advice and apply it now. Or 10 years later you'll end up still being a virgin, (or accidentally get some pussy) and still be wondering why girls don't like "Nice Guys".

[Murt!]

I don't know why I'm wasting my time cause I'm sure you'll just do your own thing,

Regardless of how old he is, there's really no need for you to talk down to him. :rolleyes:

[MrBlank]

^ "Gaia(Site where we met)"

I believe this is sufficient enough for a down talking session.

[MasterOfPuppets]

So here’s a fucked up a story. I’m getting pretty close to this girl during the semester. We laugh and talk. I go to her place to drop off some stuff for our project and I mention to her that I haven’t even studied for our upcoming midterm. She says, “you want to stay for a bit and study with me?” Me being a retarded fuck, replied with, “I would but I have to meet up with my friends for lunch.” (Which was true) I didn’t notice it at the time, but she looked like she was disappointed. This happened about 2 months ago.

During a trip we had together for our class she got really close with me and started taking pictures of both of us. It was pretty fun, we went out to get something to eat with a group of students from the same class. This was about a month ago. The next few weeks during class she would get really close and we would just talk about random things + joke and laugh.

So, throughout the semester I wasn’t really looking for a girl at the time. (18 units + in 5 groups + some community service that I do for the pantry). So winter was coming up, and I just thought.. why the fuck not. Christmas in the park, or maybe do some Christmas shopping to get to know her.

So after class is over, I call her, small talk blah blah Christmas break coming up.. doing any shopping yada yada. Turns out she has a Boyfriend? The fuck? I knew this girl for almost 3 months and not once had a boyfriend ever popped up. And she showed me around her place and pointed out a bunch of photos, was either family or friends. But I had a mental note that there weren’t any pics of a BF?

So I can’t figure this out. The signals were there, is it just because I didn’t act fast enough?
Is she playing hard to get? Testing me? Shit, just doesn't add up.

[SRKev]

Im a Assistant Lead over at Namco Networks aka Namco's Mobile Division.

You know your a phone pimp when you got Time Crisis on the Celly.

lol oh yeah we need to chill up one of these days kev. get our drink on and sarge out.

Dope. I'm looking for new career opportunities, so I figured I'd ask. :angel:

We do need to hit up a spot together though, I'm usually at the Longhouse in Gilroy about 3 nights a week drinking with my crew.

[SF_PHOCUS]

So here’s a fucked up a story. I’m getting pretty close to this girl during the semester. We laugh and talk. I go to her place to drop off some stuff for our project and I mention to her that I haven’t even studied for our upcoming midterm. She says, “you want to stay for a bit and study with me?” Me being a retarded fuck, replied with, “I would but I have to meet up with my friends for lunch.” (Which was true) I didn’t notice it at the time, but she looked like she was disappointed. This happened about 2 months ago.

During a trip we had together for our class she got really close with me and started taking pictures of both of us. It was pretty fun, we went out to get something to eat with a group of students from the same class. This was about a month ago. The next few weeks during class she would get really close and we would just talk about random things + joke and laugh.

So, throughout the semester I wasn’t really looking for a girl at the time. (18 units + in 5 groups + some community service that I do for the pantry). So winter was coming up, and I just thought.. why the fuck not. Christmas in the park, or maybe do some Christmas shopping to get to know her.

So after class is over, I call her, small talk blah blah Christmas break coming up.. doing any shopping yada yada. Turns out she has a Boyfriend? The fuck? I knew this girl for almost 3 months and not once had a boyfriend ever popped up. And she showed me around her place and pointed out a bunch of photos, was either family or friends. But I had a mental note that there weren’t any pics of a BF?

So I can’t figure this out. The signals were there, is it just because I didn’t act fast enough?
Is she playing hard to get? Testing me? Shit, just doesn't add up.

Hmm, she could be testing you.. its very possible.. or maybe she really has a bf.... at the time when u went by her place she didnt have one... in between the time u were at her house to when she told u she had one... that could be when he came in the picture.. if ur trying to get a relationship out of this i dont think it will be likely but u could prolly have something sexual if u play ur cards right... if u guys do go shoppin do not mention her bf at all... under no circumstances.... just act as if she doesnt have one... and if u make a move or somethin and she goes "we cant do this i have a bf" then u know for sure nothin is there.. dont waste ur time... yah dig??:wgrin:

[exarchezekiel]

pherai- yeah I knew it was the friend zone. Just curious as to wether or not theres a way out of the damned zone.

Mr.Blank- Down talking wha?

Problem is theres no one in my school really interests me. Oh and I don't mind the harsh answers you guys are speaking the truth I didn't post in here to hear stuff that I wanna hear I came here advice as the name of the thread lol.

Hmmmm judging by my actions with the offline girl do you guys think that I basically messed up when I had my chance or do you think she was using these hangouts to get to know me better?

-Frankie :cool:

[SF_PHOCUS]

Haha, no offense buddy, but at 15 you don't know shit.



I don't know why I'm wasting my time cause I'm sure you'll just do your own thing, as most 15 year olds will, but this chick just likes your attention, and is not interested in you. Welcome to the Friend Zone. Hope you enjoy your stay. We don't allow sex in here, but if you stay with us, you'll get insider info on how much her boyfriend is an asshole, but don't get your hopes up, she'll only break up with him and start dating a new asshole.

lol hey hey easy on the youth man!:annoy:

when i was 15 i was out in the field... not that i really wanted to i was forced by the higher powers lol... (cousins who get pussy for days, made me watch out for aunts when they havin sex... lol u know those cousins)... saturday mornings while all my friends are eating waffles and watching doug... im in the mall goin up to girl askin them wat their names are yadda yadda yadda... by the time i was 17 i was already messin wif girls that were anywhere from 19-23.... no lie lol...

so my advice to you exar is this... take whatever you do now meeting girls wise as a learning experience... dont really take RELATIONSHIPS serious.... at 15 the words I love you is as funny as ur friend sayin im gonna be there in 10 mins(which u know is bullshit at 15)..... talk to as many girls as u can... just work on ur game.... get used to sayin hi to girls in the street... get used to identifying positive responses.... gather ur friends up and play "hollering at girls games"...
one game you can play is this.... a whole bunch of ur friends get together... then u all go and take turns goin up to girls and see who does the best.... that way u guys can each learn from each other.... see wat works wat doesnt work... save u the embarassment... u feel me?? trust me.. when ur 17 u will have an advantage over everyone thats ur age.... u feel me?:wgrin:

[DarkNecrid]

Any tips on helping a girl who has depression? Anything that could help? It's just a friend, but still. She's put more trust in me than anyone else, I know the most about the situation, and she seems to be haphazard about guys now. She told me that the only two she can trust is me and her dad, and I want to fix that. A lot of guys have hurt her, etc.

Tips would be great, cause I have no idea what to do.

[exarchezekiel]

Darknecrid- Help her out, listen to her problems and provide some solutions and your best advice. If your one of her most trusted friends than I'm sure she'll take your word and enjoy the fact your showing you care.

-Frankie :cool:

[akumatrunigga]

OFFLINE & ONLINE
pherai basically sums it for you.

lol hey hey easy on the youth man!:annoy:

when i was 15 i was out in the field... not that i really wanted to i was forced by the higher powers lol... (cousins who get pussy for days, made me watch out for aunts when they havin sex... lol u know those cousins)... saturday mornings while all my friends are eating waffles and watching doug... im in the mall goin up to girl askin them wat their names are yadda yadda yadda... by the time i was 17 i was already messin wif girls that were anywhere from 19-23.... no lie lol...

so my advice to you exar is this... take whatever you do now meeting girls wise as a learning experience... dont really take RELATIONSHIPS serious.... at 15 the words I love you is as funny as ur friend sayin im gonna be there in 10 mins(which u know is bullshit at 15)..... talk to as many girls as u can... just work on ur game.... get used to sayin hi to girls in the street... get used to identifying positive responses.... gather ur friends up and play "hollering at girls games"...
one game you can play is this.... a whole bunch of ur friends get together... then u all go and take turns goin up to girls and see who does the best.... that way u guys can each learn from each other.... see wat works wat doesnt work... save u the embarassment... u feel me?? trust me.. when ur 17 u will have an advantage over everyone thats ur age.... u feel me?:wgrin:

fuck that nowadays these young niggas think they grown ass men so they will be treated like that. :lol:

That was some great advice about the "hollering at girls games" shit i wish i had the balls like that when i was 15. I learned that a lot of chicks was digging me especially since at times I was the only black male in the honor roll. Those :clown:s were hating on a dude but i was too chicken shit at that age to talk to these chicks. i noticed the love when my yearbook had home phone#s, home addresses, pager #s, and even cell phone #s (spoiled bitches)

I just ran into chick from my days in high school. Her ass was still nice and ripe after 10+ years. Nothing happen though, we were just chatting about things. At first she was my type back in high school but now hell naw. :lol:

[SF_PHOCUS]

well... why is she depressed? specifically..?

[DarkNecrid]

without going into too much detail basically she was going to marry a guy, but on the day of their wedding he left her for someone younger, and the last guy (who was after that guy) didn't come to fruitation.

she seems to think that she's doing something wrong or that she's old and broken (28 ain't old and broken!!!) and I keep telling her she's not but...

i think her trust in men is waning.


(i don't blame her)

edit: oh yeah thats just the last 2, there was others like her last guy, they last long but they never get to marriage and I guess it just gets grating after the first couple, y'know?

[onyx]

Its hard for me to get lucky when you can't afford to put cheese on a whopper...
:rofl: some sig that shit

2nd recent post *snip*.
I know i'm a little late in my responce, but yes, it does seem likeur being tested or friend zoned, but that last thing where she asked you if youwanted to stay there was either a serious shit test or she had some interest in you.. I choose the latter i think you got a chance with her dude.. Friend zone or not, friends can still do $hit together:wgrin: although, im not sure if you're lookn go get busy or to get he ball n chain around ur ankle..


1. Yeah one is keeping it real stupid. What guy actually says that? He minds as well say Im looking for my wife.

:lol: i have to agree, thats some pretty lame $hit to say,i thought i was lame but, not even i waould say some ish like that..:lol: gay (no offence to any possible gays):sweat:

without going into too much detail basically she was going to marry a guy, but on the day of their wedding he left her for someone younger, and the last guy (who was after that guy) didn't come to fruitation.

Damn thats really messed up.. leaveing a chick on her wedding day:shake: Wow.. Well you can hlp her with teh depression by take'n up more of her time/make'nher laugh and all that jazz.. But you might end up being her next possible heart break if you guys get too close.

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I got some ish to post that happend to me in the last few weks n last night.. I post later when im not working so hard.

[Warpticon]

Okay, I live with dudes, I work with dudes, I work 70 hours a week, and I'm suffering from severe estrogen deficiency. Give me some easy mode suggestions on meeting more women quickly. I don't want a date, I don't want pussy, I just want to be around women socially, and all my girl friends are either out of town, based elsewhere, or otherwise unavailable (doesn't help that I can't call any of them because my phone is broken, either).

[I$AAC]

ok I got a story for everyone...me and this chick will be going out for 2 months on the 18th. Now a lil over a month ago she went back to Baltimore cause her father got really sick and was taking care of him for a while till he gets better. Well while down there she finds out she was prego by her ex ( she was 8 weeks, we've been talking for 6 weeks, and found out 4 weeks into our relationship so it would be wrong to judge her on something that happened before I came into the picture ) She had the abortion and was gonna move back to Tampa. But now her aunt (the one she was living with) wont let her move back because of the abortion. Now we're at a stand still and I really dont know what to do. I mean, I don't want the relationship to end, but 2 months is TOO soon to let someone move in with ya. I'm at wits end. I figured i'd post on here to see what opinions I'd get. I'll post pics when i get home.

[SF_PHOCUS]

ok I got a story for everyone...me and this chick will be going out for 2 months on the 18th. Now a lil over a month ago she went back to Baltimore cause her father got really sick and was taking care of him for a while till he gets better. Well while down there she finds out she was prego by her ex ( she was 8 weeks, we've been talking for 6 weeks, and found out 4 weeks into our relationship so it would be wrong to judge her on something that happened before I came into the picture ) She had the abortion and was gonna move back to Tampa. But now her aunt (the one she was living with) wont let her move back because of the abortion. Now we're at a stand still and I really dont know what to do. I mean, I don't want the relationship to end, but 2 months is TOO soon to let someone move in with ya. I'm at wits end. I figured i'd post on here to see what opinions I'd get. I'll post pics when i get home.

ok this is kind of a tough one.... well it doesnt matter how long u have been together it matters how much feelings are invested in that time period... In 2 months u could decide "hey this woman is the one for me i really lover her" or vice versa.... This is something that you and her will have to talk about and see wats best for both of you... i dont think any one person can tell you wat to do in this situation like i said this is something you and her will have to tackle lol:china:

EDIT: Oh and warp... heres my advice to you... just find a place that has a high concentration of females... shoppin mall coffee shop library etc... another thing you could do is go to a nail salon place....(no im not kidding lol) get a mani or a pedi or even both... while ur in there you can strike up convos wif whoever is in there(99% of them will be female and that 1% male will be you). Women actually like guys who take pride in their apperance.! :china: :clap:

[DarkNecrid]

Damn thats really messed up.. leaveing a chick on her wedding day Wow.. Well you can hlp her with teh depression by take'n up more of her time/make'nher laugh and all that jazz.. But you might end up being her next possible heart break if you guys get too close.

Nah, I'm too young for her and we live too far away.

[ChunLi]

Okay, I live with dudes, I work with dudes, I work 70 hours a week, and I'm suffering from severe estrogen deficiency. Give me some easy mode suggestions on meeting more women quickly. I don't want a date, I don't want pussy, I just want to be around women socially, and all my girl friends are either out of town, based elsewhere, or otherwise unavailable (doesn't help that I can't call any of them because my phone is broken, either).

Take up a cycling/kickboxing class at the gym. There's always girls there. =)

[blackstar14]

So picking up girls at the mall is actually like...a method of meeting girls for yall? I'll try alot of places lol but just walking around the mall with friends seems like the least effective and most stressful of all. Mainly cause that shits so cliche; like on a friday night you go to the mall to hang with the boys and you see a girl that catches your eye so you approach and from the first word you say she already knows what the deal is......cause it's a friday night......at the mall.....and everybodies dressed to impress. So it's a given that you hope to get her number or w/e. I dunno, I have confidence but not nearly enough to try and approach a girl at the mall, unless she's by herself and in the right situation. But as someone said this isn't really the time of year to try and run game since people have shit to actually get done at the mall.

Oh, and my job (retail place at the mall lol) is pretty fucking dope. We aren't like regular places, we get paid on commission so we have to approach customers and try and get sales and it definitely has been getting my phone abit more use with girls as of late ;) All the guys there pretty much have this mindset and they basically just try and make sales and get numbers, it's pretty ill. They get all the high 8s and 9s though since their older and shit.

Best line my co-worker said.I was helping these two girls out and then I got the sale so we went to the front and he was working the register and one of the girls went to get something else real quick, and he started running game on the one by herself at the counter. Lol he was talking to her and she said
Girl "I'm tired of fuckin with yall guys, all you want is pussy"
Coworker "Nah we ain't all like that"
Girl "Most of yall are"
Coworker "Girl, it's cause you ain't never fucked big dick before, put your number in my Iphone"
Girl".......fine"

I was dumbfounded at how she just completely reversed what she was just saying.

[randomsuper]

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: that's hilarious! i would have payed money to see that go down. that dude is a hero.

[I$AAC]

and so you guys know just what i'm dealing with..here's the pics of my g/f

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena1.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena2.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena3.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena4.jpg

[TheRock-BoS]

without going into too much detail basically she was going to marry a guy, but on the day of their wedding he left her for someone younger, and the last guy (who was after that guy) didn't come to fruitation.

she seems to think that she's doing something wrong or that she's old and broken (28 ain't old and broken!!!) and I keep telling her she's not but...

i think her trust in men is waning.


(i don't blame her)

edit: oh yeah thats just the last 2, there was others like her last guy, they last long but they never get to marriage and I guess it just gets grating after the first couple, y'know?

Her name wouldn't happen to be Jenny, would it? :confused:

[SF_PHOCUS]

ok I got a story for everyone...me and this chick will be going out for 2 months on the 18th. Now a lil over a month ago she went back to Baltimore cause her father got really sick and was taking care of him for a while till he gets better. Well while down there she finds out she was prego by her ex ( she was 8 weeks, we've been talking for 6 weeks, and found out 4 weeks into our relationship so it would be wrong to judge her on something that happened before I came into the picture ) She had the abortion and was gonna move back to Tampa. But now her aunt (the one she was living with) wont let her move back because of the abortion. Now we're at a stand still and I really dont know what to do. I mean, I don't want the relationship to end, but 2 months is TOO soon to let someone move in with ya. I'm at wits end. I figured i'd post on here to see what opinions I'd get. I'll post pics when i get home.

and so you guys know just what i'm dealing with..here's the pics of my g/f

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena1.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena2.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena3.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena4.jpg

:hitit: lol how about u let me talk to her for you?? ill do you that favor champ:rofl:

[TheWanderer]

SF_PHOCUS, SENSEI PLZ HELP ME WITH THIS or anybody could help..

remember the girl that did the lightning fast grin at me on the bus.. well today.. as im sitting resting.. she walked by and i happened to turn to her direction as soon as she looked at me.

when i turned to her direction to look at her.. i saw her glancing at my way where im sitting at.. its like she knew i was sitting there or something. well.. when i looked at her she looked at me and saw me looking at her so she looked down MAD QUICK like she never saw me sitting there.. and played with her cell..

what is she doing sf_phocus..?

this one is a different girl..

im sitting on a bench resting.. and this girl who's been looking at me whenever im sitting somewhere. she'd look over when im not looking or not catch her looking at me. sometimes i pretend i dont see her so she'd look over at me, lol.

well.. today.. im sitting.. she walked halfway pass me, and then some lady stopped her to talk. she was facing me with her full body while talking to this one lady.. i mean.. wouldn't your body face the body you're talking to not the person that's sitting somewhere..? her body and feet where pointing at me like everything i guess..

how should i approach this girl if i happen to walk by her..?

this one is another different girl..

she's been doing nothing but smiling at me whenever she sees me.. i'd smile back but friendly.. but her.. she does the whole showing teeth kinda smile while looking at me.. other guys hit on her and shit too, so i don't know how i should try and win her.. :(

today.. as she's talking to a group of ppl.. she noticed i was far away.. she looked at me while i'm far away walking toward her but not to her.. i mean pass her. as i got closer to her.. she turned the other way and pretended to talk to other ppl..?

but whenever i see her.. she'd bigass teeth smile.. i never see her never smile at me. i'm afraid she might be teasing me.. so i would feel like a lil bitch once she rejected me if i ask her out. HOW SHOULD I WORK WITH THIS ONE SF_phocus..?

[Oroman]

SF_PHOCUS, SENSEI PLZ HELP ME WITH THIS or anybody could help..

remember the girl that did the lightning fast grin at me on the bus.. well today.. as im sitting resting.. she walked by and i happened to turn to her direction as soon as she looked at me.

when i turned to her direction to look at her.. i saw her glancing at my way where im sitting at.. its like she knew i was sitting there or something. well.. when i looked at her she looked at me and saw me looking at her so she looked down MAD QUICK like she never saw me sitting there.. and played with her cell..

what is she doing sf_phocus..?



Hmm it seems that she may be interested, however she could just be flirting around with you. Since I don't have much experience so I'm not really sure. Perhaps you should make the first move on her, start up a conversation or something.

[SF_PHOCUS]

SF_PHOCUS, SENSEI PLZ HELP ME WITH THIS or anybody could help..

remember the girl that did the lightning fast grin at me on the bus.. well today.. as im sitting resting.. she walked by and i happened to turn to her direction as soon as she looked at me.

when i turned to her direction to look at her.. i saw her glancing at my way where im sitting at.. its like she knew i was sitting there or something. well.. when i looked at her she looked at me and saw me looking at her so she looked down MAD QUICK like she never saw me sitting there.. and played with her cell..

what is she doing sf_phocus..?

this one is a different girl..

im sitting on a bench resting.. and this girl who's been looking at me whenever im sitting somewhere. she'd look over when im not looking or not catch her looking at me. sometimes i pretend i dont see her so she'd look over at me, lol.

well.. today.. im sitting.. she walked halfway pass me, and then some lady stopped her to talk. she was facing me with her full body while talking to this one lady.. i mean.. wouldn't your body face the body you're talking to not the person that's sitting somewhere..? her body and feet where pointing at me like everything i guess..

how should i approach this girl if i happen to walk by her..?

this one is another different girl..

she's been doing nothing but smiling at me whenever she sees me.. i'd smile back but friendly.. but her.. she does the whole showing teeth kinda smile while looking at me.. other guys hit on her and shit too, so i don't know how i should try and win her.. :(

today.. as she's talking to a group of ppl.. she noticed i was far away.. she looked at me while i'm far away walking toward her but not to her.. i mean pass her. as i got closer to her.. she turned the other way and pretended to talk to other ppl..?

but whenever i see her.. she'd bigass teeth smile.. i never see her never smile at me. i'm afraid she might be teasing me.. so i would feel like a lil bitch once she rejected me if i ask her out. HOW SHOULD I WORK WITH THIS ONE SF_phocus..?

Approach. Do that and see wat happens. If it keeps happening like that then fuck it. Approach them and see whats good:wgrin:

[akumatrunigga]

and so you guys know just what i'm dealing with..here's the pics of my g/f

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena1.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena2.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena3.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena4.jpg

the only thing ill tell you is that you better hope that i dont see her in baltimore. cuz i live in the city. :lol: im messin. hope things turn out well for you.

[pherai]

pherai- yeah I knew it was the friend zone. Just curious as to wether or not theres a way out of the damned zone.

Problem is theres no one in my school really interests me. Oh and I don't mind the harsh answers you guys are speaking the truth I didn't post in here to hear stuff that I wanna hear I came here advice as the name of the thread lol.

Good man. I only talk down on the youth because at 15 I was stupid about women. Some things people just have to learn for themselves, and relationships with women tend to be one of those things. If exarchezekiel takes this advice and runs with it, he'll be better off than I was at his age, but generally speaking, a 15 year old will do what they think is best. Here's to hoping you break the mold.

And getting out of the FZ is one of these feats better left untried. Too much work, and in the end, a gamble.

[exarchezekiel]

Good man. I only talk down on the youth because at 15 I was stupid about women. Some things people just have to learn for themselves, and relationships with women tend to be one of those things. If exarchezekiel takes this advice and runs with it, he'll be better off than I was at his age, but generally speaking, a 15 year old will do what they think is best. Here's to hoping you break the mold.

And getting out of the FZ is one of these feats better left untried. Too much work, and in the end, a gamble.


Lol it's all good. But yeah I'll take your advice thanks appreciate it.

[hold dat]

and so you guys know just what i'm dealing with..here's the pics of my g/f

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena1.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena2.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena3.jpg

http://i3.photobucket.com/albums/y73/TheOnlyOne1980/selena4.jpg

jesus...good luck man. She's a very attractive lady

but think it through fully first, 2 months is still the "all's good" phase of a relationship. i'd make sure that her ex is TOTALLY out tof the picture also. the less possible drama the better

you deserve this...

http://img180.imagevenue.com/loc489/th_69556_pimpposterri3_122_489lo.jpg (http://img180.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=69556_pimpposterri3_122_489lo.jpg)

that girl is fiiiinnnnnneeee

[TheWanderer]

Approach. Do that and see wat happens. If it keeps happening like that then fuck it. Approach them and see whats good:wgrin:

what do you mean if it keeps happening like that then fuk it..? you mean if they keep starring at me and smiling i should forget it then..? should they be approaching me or what..?

mang i dont know what to say n shiet.. especially when at work. i'll fuk up for sure LMAO!!

but for each of the story.. which girl seem to like me..? and how should i get their numbers.. in a week or 2.., basically as soon as possible but a week or 2 seem fast enough?

[kane_warhead]

Look who's in my avatar. damn. Finals killed my chance with her.

[Warpticon]

Wow, a nail salon? :lol: No way. For one thing, I don't want to pay for the outside shot at it, and for another thing, I play guitar. getting my nails did would almost certainly be a net detriment. Thanks for trying, though.

[SF_PHOCUS]

what do you mean if it keeps happening like that then fuk it..? you mean if they keep starring at me and smiling i should forget it then..? should they be approaching me or what..?

mang i dont know what to say n shiet.. especially when at work. i'll fuk up for sure LMAO!!

but for each of the story.. which girl seem to like me..? and how should i get their numbers.. in a week or 2.., basically as soon as possible but a week or 2 seem fast enough?

When i said fuck it i meant why the hell not... ill rephrase... just approach... they keep staring at you so why the hell not.. what do you have to loose??? makes sense now? Fuck up??? how will u know if u dont try.. listen next time it happens... approach... if it goes good or bad its experience... use that to see wat u did wrong and correct it... thats the problem wif alot of guys... afraid of trying... u wont know how good or bad u are at it unless u try!!!:wgrin:

[TheWanderer]

should i get her to come to me by doing some gayass noise.. or should i get up and go after her and talk to her..?

i feel comfortable getting her to come to me when she look at me though.. maybe i'll do that.. instead getting up n chase after her.

what should i talk to her about to know if she like me or what..?

[SF_PHOCUS]

should i get her to come to me by doing some gayass noise.. or should i get up and go after her and talk to her..?

i feel comfortable getting her to come to me when she look at me though.. maybe i'll do that.. instead getting up n chase after her.

what should i talk to her about to know if she like me or what..?

well, once u know she looks at you signal for her to come to you... when and if she does come to you theres plenty of things you can do... you can go the PUA route and throw a "i need a females perspective on something" question.... you can take the direct approach and say something like "your a cutie, i noticed you from across the......(insert watever here) and i just had to talk to you... Whats your name... personally id go with this one.... cuts straight to the point cause u dont have time for non sense..:sweat:

[TheWanderer]

ohhh fuk dat. i aint rdy to be that pimpy.. maybe i should ask her for her name n just talk about work n such for a week or so, then ask her for her number?

what do you think about girl number 3..? she'll be quitting her job in a couple weeks and i want to get her phone number to keep in touch but we never talk before so i dunno..

i wanna ask girl 3 out since she seem to be really interested in me or like me..? or am i wrong..?

[SF_PHOCUS]

ohhh fuk dat. i aint rdy to be that pimpy.. maybe i should ask her for her name n just talk about work n such for a week or so, then ask her for her number?

what do you think about girl number 3..? she'll be quitting her job in a couple weeks and i want to get her phone number to keep in touch but we never talk before so i dunno..

i wanna ask girl 3 out since she seem to be really interested in me or like me..? or am i wrong..?

no ur not wrong... try and see wat happens.... even if it doesnt go well like said u can chalk it up and use it as experience... u feel me?:wgrin:

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol so i was snoopin around on my ex's myspace page.... she got a new bf or watever.... but the thing that had me scratchin my chin was where the hell do i know this person from.... so im like wait i think this bitch was playin me... and broke up wif me to start a relationship wif this next nigga... so i say to myself iight ima check her page back to like april when we started dating.... long behold who you think i saw postin on her page.... her now boyfriend... so now i wanna start some shit on her page... to get her fuckin upset... any thoughts?

[Silentness!]

Ahh man... this girl that I've been real cool with is now single AGAIN. She was going with this guy and she broke up with him, they eventually got back together. This time the guy asked her to marry him! She said yes and they became engaged... and then he broke up with her.

It's funny as hell... I knew the relationship/"marriage" wasn't going to last. She's only like 19
Anyways I'm rambling:

I always thought of her as my sister, but every time I'm around her now I feel like I got chemistry. I think I'm friend zoned, but I don't want to ruin the relationship by making any stupid moves. She's really awesome, she looks preppy and a lot of guys hit on her, but she's actually down to earth. Matter of fact I have her MARVEL sweater in my room. (She left it when she came over)

Just a random tidbit

[DarkNecrid]

Ahh man... this girl that I've been real cool with is now single AGAIN. She was going with this guy and she broke up with him, they eventually got back together. This time the guy asked her to marry him! She said yes and they became engaged... and then he broke up with her.

It's funny as hell... I knew the relationship/"marriage" wasn't going to last. She's only like 19
Anyways I'm rambling:

I always thought of her as my sister, but every time I'm around her now I feel like I got chemistry. I think I'm friend zoned, but I don't want to ruin the relationship by making any stupid moves. She's really awesome, she looks preppy and a lot of guys hit on her, but she's actually down to earth. Matter of fact I have her MARVEL sweater in my room. (She left it when she came over)

Just a random tidbit

take it slow, dont directly ask her out, and don't act too strong. You have her marvel sweater, thats your opening. Ask her if she wants to hang out for a bit, eat some food etc. Prepare her some food before hand, and give her her marvel sweater as she goes and after that ask her if she would like to go out to dinner sometime. Make sure to ask her in a strong tone, but not so strong as to completely insinuate you want her SO BAD, because it sounds like she gets enough of that already.

The main thing is to be firm and strong, but don't be completely direct and overpower her. Overpowering her can lead you to possibly hurting what you already got, which ain't good! But if you play it nice and cool and be friendly but show interest, she'll say sorry, and play it cool as well. Plus she'll have her marvel sweater back, so I'm sure she'll be happy either way.

just imho, from experience...

[Silentness!]

Never mind I think I was drunk when I posted this :wasted:
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I'm definitely stuck in the friend zone, but don't feel the need to break it. I got other things to worry about and agonize over

Anyways I know better than to post about a girl without pics. She'll fucking kill me if she hears me say this, but she's not really hot. Average at best... That's just it though. I'm a T&A fan and stuff, but shit some girls I go crazy over because of their personality. This girl is fucking awesome, we know each other so well and it's starting to bug me because I'm starting to realize I want to spend more and more time with her because those personality traits have got me hypnotized by her.

This is her while enraged (which is easy to do just by saying stupid shit to her) http://img138.imageshack.us/img138/9536/korea008xn1.jpg

Us hanging out in Seoul/Coex Mall. Heh lovely smile
http://img140.imageshack.us/img140/844/korea043fp4.jpg

http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/8754/korea050vg3.jpg

Her with several of my co-workers (She hangs out with them too so that's one of the reasons why I believe I'm FZed because I'm stuck in the category of guy friends :wasted: )

http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/8126/korea055hf2.jpg
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GOT DAMMIT she left her Marvel sweater in my room AGAIN... she just came by not too long ago to pick it up!


It's MAHHHVEL BABY! That'll teach her for leaving her Marvel sweater in my room... TWO TIMES in one day.

Damn her sweater smells good, I feel like I'm having a million moment. Ahh SHIT I can't take it off... got damn zipper


FUCK West coast hahahah... fake West coast sign. She's from *throws up* SoCali...

[MrBlank]

i just barely learned about this SRK buddy list thing. i dont know what it does but i added folks in here.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Never mind I think I was drunk when I posted this :wasted:
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I'm definitely stuck in the friend zone, but don't feel the need to break it. I got other things to worry about and agonize over

Anyways I know better than to post about a girl without pics. She'll fucking kill me if she hears me say this, but she's not really hot. Average at best... That's just it though. I'm a T&A fan and stuff, but shit some girls I go crazy over because of their personality. This girl is fucking awesome, we know each other so well and it's starting to bug me because I'm starting to realize I want to spend more and more time with her because those personality traits have got me hypnotized by her.

This is her while enraged (which is easy to do just by saying stupid shit to her) http://img138.imageshack.us/img138/9536/korea008xn1.jpg

Us hanging out in Seoul/Coex Mall. Heh lovely smile
http://img140.imageshack.us/img140/844/korea043fp4.jpg

http://img222.imageshack.us/img222/8754/korea050vg3.jpg

Her with several of my co-workers (She hangs out with them too so that's one of the reasons why I believe I'm FZed because I'm stuck in the category of guy friends :wasted: )

http://img233.imageshack.us/img233/8126/korea055hf2.jpg
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GOT DAMMIT she left her Marvel sweater in my room AGAIN... she just came by not too long ago to pick it up!


It's MAHHHVEL BABY! That'll teach her for leaving her Marvel sweater in my room... TWO TIMES in one day.

Damn her sweater smells good, I feel like I'm having a million moment. Ahh SHIT I can't take it off... got damn zipper


FUCK West coast hahahah... fake West coast sign. She's from *throws up* SoCali...


LOL AHHH one of the niggas in the last pic looks like justin timberlake.... hmm the girl in ur pics is ok i guess.... from her face pics it looks like she has a lil weight on her.... im not into big girls so u get an ehhhh from me... she looks cute though:lol:

[Dj-DarK]

Ness: Use her to get to her female friends. USE HER. If you're in the friend zone you ain't got shit to lose.

Getting introduced to chicks is like a million time easier than having to fucking run game.

[Silentness!]

LOL AHHH one of the niggas in the last pic looks like justin timberlake.... hmm the girl in ur pics is ok i guess.... from her face pics it looks like she has a lil weight on her.... im not into big girls so u get an ehhhh from me... she looks cute though:lol:

haha. This all goes back to me saying average at best :rofl:
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The funniest part is after going to sleep, I don't really like her more than a friend now. It's just a quick phase...

I need to stay away from her and get my mind straight.

Ness: Use her to get to her female friends. USE HER. If you're in the friend zone you ain't got shit to lose.

Getting introduced to chicks is like a million time easier than having to fucking run game.

Like I stated earlier I think was delusional when I posted about her earlier. I'm not trying to break a FZ and I'm actually glad that she thinks of me as just a friend. That'd be a got damn mistake if we hooked up, PHOCUS is right she's chunky. Anyways I can't use her to get female friends because she doesn't have ANY... she only has guy friends. (You know how that works :wasted: )
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I'm actually glad that I'm single because I'm free of drama and a leash. I can do whatever the hell I want... like go to Seoul and play some 3s/CvS2/GGX2 AC

DEUCES!

[hold dat]

The friend zone has it's advantages..i tried to get with these girls and got stuck in the friend zone:

http://img202.imagevenue.com/loc81/th_63943_syreeta_122_81lo.jpg (http://img202.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=63943_syreeta_122_81lo.jpg)

but meeting them led me to these girls:

http://img41.imagevenue.com/loc674/th_64092_l_6586a4da03eff31b4418d4dea4d2b140_122_67 4lo.jpg (http://img41.imagevenue.com/img.php?image=64092_l_6586a4da03eff31b4418d4dea4d2 b140_122_674lo.jpg)


so the benefits are there sometimes. having a girl go to bat for you with her female friends is invaluable to the pimp game. and i've been friends with those girls going on 10 years so i luckily always get the stamp of approval. its good to have 1 or 2 female friends in the pocket

[SF_PHOCUS]

which dickhead neg repped me... be a man and say why pussy

[MrBuster]

^^^

Buy premium... Then you can find out who, then bash their head in lol.

[Silentness!]

which dickhead neg repped me... be a man and say why pussy

I got your back. I put you from knowledgeable to really nice.

Translation: I gave you positive rep

[Mixah]

might've been me. if it was, my apologies.

[Rex0r]

I have a friend who send mixed signals, but can tell im attracted and she has mentioned it before. I feel alot of sexual tension(were usualy just layin together blowin bud) but cant figure a first move, should i just go for the kiss(then to oral for me(gotta eat it then beat it)?

I just dont want to lose her as a friend.....what do you guys think?


Second question, should a tell a woman that im gonna cum twice before sex? I usualy do(gotta make up for average stature) or just suprise em with a splash. I rarely use condoms but when i do its realy ackward to change in the middle.

[SF_PHOCUS]

might've been me. if it was, my apologies.

Its alright. no worries :lol:

EDIT: good looks blank and ness!! :wgrin:

Ok rex... if this is somethin u really wanna do try this...

Next time yall chillin do something to get u to touch her.. like a massage.... thats perfect... be as sexual as possible... just to get her comfortable... once shes comfortable u can try and go for the move... while ur massaging her u could give her a lil peck on the neck just to see how she responds.... if its a positive response dont do it again right away.... but at least you found ur answer(shes feelin it) then from there its all on you lol hope this helps...

About ur second question no u shouldnt... just handle ur business before and dont mention it... lmfao at average stature... wats supposed to be average stature???

[hold dat]

Damn they got the good advice in Flatbush :wgrin:

[SF_PHOCUS]

Damn they got the good advice in Flatbush :wgrin:

lol cause thats all we do on this side my nigga! get money, get fresh, get laid, and play marvel!!!!! :clap: :encore:

[TheWanderer]

what's the best place to ask a girl out that you have only talk to for a week...?

and what's the best way to ask her out..?

like.. Me:hey wassup..? Her:hey..

how should it go..?

also.. if a girl likes you.. when you ask her to go out.. she'll mostly say yes right..? or in general when a girl likes you and you ask her to do something.. she'll say yes or she won't say no to you right?