The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[MrBlank]

So is the following what my female friend did to me (mind you she's not just someone I know, I hooked her up with her current boyfriend of 2 years).

I told her how much I liked my guy friend and she said to let it go. 10 minutes after I told her all this, she hooked up my guy friend I liked with her cousin. HER GOLD DIGGING cousin for the matter.

She's no friend right? Or is it not her problem because I didn't make the move in telling him?

Jesus....

10 fucking minutes and all of a sudden hes taken.

Chicks work fast when they find out these men are hot on the market or someshit.

honestly how the hell can anyone hook someone up that fast?

theres no fucking way it was just 10 mins. they had to have known each other prior in some sort of way. You dont just all of a sudden get introduced to a girl and suddenly shes yo girl.

I think your homegirl knew her cousin was getting at this guy already so she could have just been trying to spare your feelings by telling you to let it go.

though i dont know the context we are working with there.

[ChunLi]

That's the thing... he was totally sober.. and she was rollin' balls...maybe he was lonely and wasn't gonna turn down a fawked up chic wanting to e-cuddle. Who knows.

Her cousin got intro'd to all of us at once..even him. They didn't know each other from before.

[SF_PHOCUS]

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lol DAZ said it best... who are you????:wtf:

lololol

[MrBlank]

I mean turn 10 mins into a supposed relationship. Not the other kind of hooking up which we do on a purely casual level.

Oh...

sorry if this idea hurts but yah i think your boy just wants to hit and run. get with it lets hit and then split it. *runs*

i mean there could be more to it because its kind of suspect.

[TheSix]

Man the girl I'm talking to right now looks like a carbon copy of Camille Belle.

Now all I gotta do is set up some activity, and with this storm going on, it should be easy to set up something warm and...cuddly(niggas like to cuddle...so what?).

[Dasiatic]

Man the girl I'm talking to right now looks like a carbon copy of Camille Belle.

Now all I gotta do is set up some activity, and with this storm going on, it should be easy to set up something warm and...cuddly(niggas like to cuddle...so what?).

just invite her over to your house. or to make her more comfortable, you go to her house.

[fistoftheryustar]

cuddly(niggas like to cuddle...so what?).


No need to write that. Nowadays, I respect guys who dont give a fuck about saying the words "cuddle" "giggle" or anything typically too feminine. I think half the time most guys try to be carbon copies of porn stars, they dont realize they are only being half assed versions of those guys.
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OT: For a "screening" thing for us guys, who else hates it when an avg or a bit below average girl realizes she cant be ms. 9 or 10 so she decides to skank up her wear and outfit. In my head it just says "Does not match." Weird turn off.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Man the girl I'm talking to right now looks like a carbon copy of Camille Belle.

Now all I gotta do is set up some activity, and with this storm going on, it should be easy to set up something warm and...cuddly(niggas like to cuddle...so what?).

LOL U PUNK U!!!!






















Im just playin lol:rofl:

[Silentness!]

SRK I NEED YOUR OPINION:


Hi,

i dont think im gonna make it this weekend because im out of money and pretty tired as i have had an eye infection for a week. keep in touch though and hope you are fine.

good weekdn

Do you guys think she's telling the truth or is she trying to flake me...
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Regardless I don't give a fuck. I'm going to enjoy my Saturday by playing 3s/CvS2/Melty Blood/Guilty Gear AC in my favorite high competition arcade. I emailed her back saying that I hope she feels better and that money isn't an issue. I offered to pay for her since I'm the one asking her out on a date...

Does that make me a bitch for paying for her!? I only said I'd pay for her to see if she would actually go out with me and then to see if I actually enjoy her company... if not I'd be like let's just be friends and I'd never see her again :rofl:

[Sasmasta]

She listed 3 excuses in one sentence. Plus one of them was a medical excuse. I'm thinking...flake.

[TheSix]

You should not have emailed her. That is a definite flake.

And you definitely should not have offered to pay.

[Dasiatic]

SRK I NEED YOUR OPINION:



Do you guys think she's telling the truth or is she trying to flake me...
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Regardless I don't give a fuck. I'm going to enjoy my Saturday by playing 3s/CvS2/Melty Blood/Guilty Gear AC in my favorite high competition arcade. I emailed her back saying that I hope she feels better and that money isn't an issue. I offered to pay for her since I'm the one asking her out on a date...

Does that make me a bitch for paying for her!? I only said I'd pay for her to see if she would actually go out with me and then to see if I actually enjoy her company... if not I'd be like let's just be friends and I'd never see her again :rofl:

it doesnt matter whether or not shes flaking you. what matters is how you're handling it.

anyway, you're not coming off as a bitch by offering her the money. its alright. let her go ahead and do what she wants. the point is to not get hung up on it. you're good.
in my opinion, i dont know if its a flake really. but if you were Brad Pitt, she'd find ways to still see you.

edit: she basically said "my eye hurts, and i have no money. so sorry i cant see you tonight, maybe next time. enjoy your weekend alone"

you know what...maybe it IS a flake.

[thurst]

damn haven't checked this thread in a minute....

Lol i have a horrible memory... I just remembered my homegirl from HS is trying to have like a lil Reunion on saturday at chelsea Pier... Its gonna be great to see some old faces and shit.... Ive never been apart of a reunion of any sorts... So Im thinkin that I need to go all out... All the girls I knew in HS i get to see again... How should I play this out fellas?? chun if u can a lil help would be nice my dear!

RUSH DOWN. if anything is gonna happen between some chick from high school and you now it's gonna happen like immediately from my experiences. if you try to play that shit too slick you'll fall into the same zone you were in in high school...aka not fucking, pull all and any moves you deem necessary to get cheeks that night if that's what you want.

seduction pro tips

lol good shit.

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ok...so i'm talking to this chick and she's cool and realistically i feel i could make a move on her whenever i want and it'd work out, but she has MAD guy friends...like she's def not hooking up/fucking any of these characters, but like it's that type of thing where she's always getting calls from some niggas on some inane bullshit. i guess my question is it worth making this move on ms. popular or not?

oh and added info, she knows most of these characters bcuz she's an IT major which consists of nothing but dudes most of which are on some "going back to school to get my degree" type of shit (aka so pretty much a bunch of scheming m'fuckers) not bcuz she's like insanely hot or anything.

[Dasiatic]

damn haven't checked this thread in a minute....


for real man, i dont even remember what i helped you with. which post were you quoting me from?

[Shotokan Symphony]

On reading it, she doesn't seem flaky. But let her set up the next appointment. If someone better comes along, don't bother with Ms. Pink Eye.

[Silentness!]

On reading it, she doesn't seem flaky. But let her set up the next appointment. If someone better comes along, don't bother with Ms. Pink Eye.

Yeah well that's what I told her. When she "feels" better she can just email me back and we can go chill
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Like I said it's not the end of the world that she denied me. I'd rather her deny me then pity me and go anyways and have a shitty time. Besides if she's just flaking me whatever I got other shit I could be doing on my weekend.

She knows my email address and if her "fatigue" ever ends she can contact me and we could probably get something going.
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Just tired of running into bitches that don't know what the fuck they want in life. I either run into girls that are addicted to me. (I mean the type of girls that call my house all the fucking time. I had TWO in a row like that! The worst part was that they both were into me at the same time so eventually they found out that I was hanging out with them both.

I couldn't stand them! Whenever the phone rang I knew it was those bitches... one girl always called me at the same exact time every week. Sometimes I would have to pretend like I was asleep or gone to avoid the phone. One girl wanted me to kiss her when I was FUCKING WORKING! I mean seriously do you want me to kiss you in front of fucking customers!? "Why don't you kiss me?" "BITCH maybe cause I'm working!?" I seriously can't believe she asked me that while I was at work...

I wish I met a girl that was really hot that would be falling all over herself for me! WELCOME TO REALITY :arazz:

but if you were Brad Pitt, she'd find ways to still see you.


If I had diarrhea exploding out my ass (I've been watching too many Angry Video Game Nerd videos) and a massive headache I'd still find time to go out with Megan Fox, but not any other random bitch.

[fistoftheryustar]

Eye infection...ew!

[Silentness!]

Yeah seriously who the fuck lies about eye infections? Even if she is lieing that's a fucking disgusting medical excuse.
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I'm happy though I saw some lady in the Education/College office that was giving me education (duh) advice. I had trouble keeping eye contact because that bitch has some huge TITAYS!

[thurst]

for real man, i dont even remember what i helped you with. which post were you quoting me from?

oh you weren't helping me, i just read that post where you were detailing hook up tactics and it gave me some lols bcuz of the details and truthness.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Yeah seriously who the fuck lies about eye infections? Even if she is lieing that's a fucking disgusting medical excuse.
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I'm happy though I saw some lady in the Education/College office that was giving me education (duh) advice. I had trouble keeping eye contact because that bitch has some huge TITAYS!

if u guys ever do go out u bring up the eye infection somehow... lol seem concerned... just to see her reaction and how she answers....u could tell if she was trying to flake based on her response:sweat::sweat:


lol something kinda funny happened to me last night... so this girl i bagged at my homegirls party was talkin to me last night... my phone died so we took the convo online... so she kept askin me.. am i single... do i belong to someone.. i didnt really answer the question directly... so she asked me one more time... and i said why? are you trying to take me home to moma???and to my surprise she answered me wif not really... my mom died.... i got that feeling in my stomach like some one just gave me an elbow.... lol i almost didnt know how to respond:sweat:

[Dasiatic]

Eye infection...ew!
yech..nasty.

oh you weren't helping me, i just read that post where you were detailing hook up tactics and it gave me some lols bcuz of the details and truthness.
oh, ok.

if u guys ever do go out u bring up the eye infection somehow... lol seem concerned... just to see her reaction and how she answers....u could tell if she was trying to flake based on her response:sweat::sweat:


lol something kinda funny happened to me last night... so this girl i bagged at my homegirls party was talkin to me last night... my phone died so we took the convo online... so she kept askin me.. am i single... do i belong to someone.. i didnt really answer the question directly... so she asked me one more time... and i said why? are you trying to take me home to moma???and to my surprise she answered me wif not really... my mom died.... i got that feeling in my stomach like some one just gave me an elbow.... lol i almost didnt know how to respond:sweat:
what else can you say? there's no PUA type, slick way of saying "Sorry to hear that" is there?

[fistoftheryustar]

I really feel for guys who want to break out of the FZ. Honestly best thing you can do, is take a break from her...shes probably been done before so theres nothing you would do with her that hasnt already been claimed first...take a few MONTHS off. Come back to her when you're ready and up to speed. If you come back and the vibe is the same it wont do much. Work on other girls too (I know you hate hearing that.)

[Koop]

when u deny a chick [sexually].... it seems to make them fiend an tactically try again in a sneaky way ~ Koops observation currently going on at work

[Havoc]

Ive never found it hard to turn a friend into a fuck.

I've never really understood the whole friend zone thing..

[MrBlank]

^ i can completely confirm that if you deny them and rarely initiate the act.

they become sexual tyrannosaurus's and do shit you wouldnt expect like try to get you comfortable by making dinner.

[Dasiatic]

I really feel for guys who want to break out of the FZ. Honestly best thing you can do, is take a break from her...shes probably been done before so theres nothing you would do with her that hasnt already been claimed first...take a few MONTHS off. Come back to her when you're ready and up to speed. If you come back and the vibe is the same it wont do much. Work on other girls too (I know you hate hearing that.)
yeah, we do. but we still appreciate the contribution. atleast I do.

when u deny a chick [sexually].... it seems to make them fiend an tactically try again in a sneaky way ~ Koops observation currently going on at work

^ i can completely confirm that if you deny them and rarely initiate the act.

they become sexual tyrannosaurus's and do shit you wouldnt expect like try to get you comfortable by making dinner.

yeah, females love a challenge. its written in stone.

[ChunLi]

If I make a move (which is rare unless I'm drunk or high), and if I get turned down. I move on and hope no one remembers I made a move on him =P

But I do admit some of my girlfriends will go after a guy until he wants them .. then they'll shoot him down. Damn chics are teases. ahah

[MrBlank]

^ this doesnt have to apply to single women only.

this actually is better to initiate during regular dating / relationship stages.

[ChunLi]

^ this doesnt have to apply to single women only.

this actually is better to initiate during regular dating / relationship stages.

WTF? dating? rship? deny me booty... and u get the boot!

[onyx]

Honestly best thing you can do, is take a break from her...shes probably been done before so theres nothing you would do with her that hasnt already been claimed first...take a few MONTHS off. Come back to her when you're ready and up to speed. If you come back and the vibe is the same it wont do much. Work on other girls too (I know you hate hearing that.)

Exactly what i did to my current GF, i was deep in the FZ, then i just stoped call'n her when she started telling me about problems with other guys she see'n. Our phone conversations went from thirty to 5 minutes. Then one day we were talking and i told her about this other chick i want to bang, and how she's the only girl i would concider haveing an actuall relationship with anytime soon:rofl: Then she immediately gets mad at me like "thats not fair im right here, and your talking about some girl you havnet seen in yearS!?!?!!?" I was'nt expecting that kinda responce, but i ran with it.. N the more i denied her, the harder she tried.

[Dasiatic]

But I do admit some of my girlfriends will go after a guy until he wants them .. then they'll shoot him down. Damn chics are teases. ahah

female pride i take it. as long as they feel highly desired, they'll feel good.

[Koop]

"I have nothing to get into this weekend....its gonna be a loooooong weekend"

"imma come kick it wit you boy **flops phat ass... i mean phat ass on my desk**....so what u gettin into"

"**flips through magazine** you gonna come over n hook my surround sound for my tv when I get it"





i love u ladies... i swear... amazing.

[Darkside3024]

"I have nothing to get into this weekend....its gonna be a loooooong weekend"

"imma come kick it wit you boy **flops phat ass... i mean phat ass on my desk**....so what u gettin into"

"**flips through magazine** you gonna come over n hook my surround sound for my tv when I get it"





i love u ladies... i swear... amazing.

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

[Dasiatic]

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

hey, its my pal Darkside! whats up?

[SF_PHOCUS]

Fellaz fellaz fellaz! wats good!??!?!?

lol damm *chick aint pay her phone bill...! shit got turned off lmfao!!! i knew her havin an mda was too good to be true lmfao

*-shorty i was referring to about the mom

[Dasiatic]

Fellaz fellaz fellaz! wats good!??!?!?

lol damm *chick aint pay her phone bill...! shit got turned off lmfao!!! i knew her havin an mda was too good to be true lmfao

*-shorty i was referring to about the mom

mom? whos mom?

[ChunLi]

Alright, I know there's some of you out there.

Who's cocky (and if you don't like that word) confident and isn't afraid to tell girls they are?

I got some questions for you guys.

EDIT:

Question: Do you tell girls you talk to how much you get jocked and how people always grab you?

[Dasiatic]

Alright, I know there's some of you out there.

Who's cocky (and if you don't like that word) confident and isn't afraid to tell girls they are?

I got some questions for you guys.
shoot.

[MrBlank]

man anyone can be cocky. it really just comes down to what we are getting ourselfs into. SF players can get cocky by giving you a round after dominating someone just a round.

I be real about whatever your asking me though because i always expect the same in return.

[Adam Warlock]

^ i can completely confirm that if you deny them and rarely initiate the act.

they become sexual tyrannosaurus's and do shit you wouldnt expect like try to get you comfortable by making dinner.

No, they eventually get tired of you not making a move and they go fuck some other dude. Chicks want to feel pursued and if you aren't doing that I can guarantee the next dude who does will fuck her. believe that.


Posts like this show me that most of you people aren't qualified to give advice. Leave that shit to Koop.

[Naslectronical]

No, they eventually get tired of you not making a move and they go fuck some other dude. Chicks want to feel pursued and if you aren't doing that I can guarantee the next dude who does will fuck her. believe that.

False.

I never pursued any of the 18 chicks I've fucked in my life. I just sat/stood there going about my business and doing what I do, and even when they approached, I let them do all the work and initiate the activities.

Yes, chicks want guys to chase them, but why would you do what theywant? You should be thinking about what YOU want. If you pursue them, then you look just like any other guy who's trying to get in their pants, so there's not really any reason for her to give you the time of day over any other guy.


Posts like this show me that most of you people aren't qualified to give advice. Leave that shit to Koop.

People are giving advice based on what they've seen work, which is no different than what Koop is doing, so none of these people are any less "qualified" than he is.

[fistoftheryustar]

Ive never found it hard to turn a friend into a fuck.

I've never really understood the whole friend zone thing..

Maybe you've just never been in the "real" friend zone. Ie I have tons of friend girls I could turn into a fuck. But think about the guys that really get friend zoned in the typical sense, its not so easy for them to get out because of who they are. Thats why theres a bigger victory when a guy really gets out of the the standard sad friend zone.



Exactly what i did to my current GF, i was deep in the FZ, then i just stoped call'n her when she started telling me about problems with other guys she see'n. Our phone conversations went from thirty to 5 minutes. Then one day we were talking and i told her about this other chick i want to bang, and how she's the only girl i would concider haveing an actuall relationship with anytime soon:rofl: Then she immediately gets mad at me like "thats not fair im right here, and your talking about some girl you havnet seen in yearS!?!?!!?" I was'nt expecting that kinda responce, but i ran with it.. N the more i denied her, the harder she tried.


It makes perfect sense all the time, but its almost sick how girls' minds work. Ours is sicker, but theres so many "not fairs" thrown into the equation as a general whole. Just our DNA

[Dasiatic]

No, they eventually get tired of you not making a move and they go fuck some other dude. Chicks want to feel pursued and if you aren't doing that I can guarantee the next dude who does will fuck her. believe that.


Posts like this show me that most of you people aren't qualified to give advice. Leave that shit to Koop.

Blank is talking about not being too available or too overly enthusiastic when you first meet her. Simple human nature creates the desire to want what isn’t readily available. without this tension, there's nothing worth catching, so to speak. He's talking about not being too clingy to women so soon. thats a turn off for anybody.
Its that balance between "push and pull" is what he's describing. Its abvious that a female can only wait so long until you finally notice her. same goes for the male.
you're only cheating yourself if you have your target wait weeks before you make your next move.

lets keep the grade school shit out of this.
bad advice or good advice, its all welcomed into this thread.

[Adam Warlock]

Blank is talking about not being too available or too overly enthusiastic when you first meet her. Simple human nature creates the desire to want what isn’t readily available. without this tension, there's nothing worth catching, so to speak. He's talking about not being too clingy to women so soon. thats a turn off for anybody.
Its that balance between "push and pull" is what he's describing. Its abvious that a female can only wait so long until you finally notice her. same goes for the male.
you're only cheating yourself if you have your target wait weeks before you make your next move.

lets keep the grade school shit out of this.

First, unless you're that niggas conscience you have no idea what he's talking about. he can type for himself. He even went on to say:
^ this doesnt have to apply to single women only.

this actually is better to initiate during regular dating / relationship stages.

Dasiatic you strike me as a nigga who types just to talk so i'm not gonna get into it with you. Your shit annoys me.

EDIT: Say what the fuck you have to say and stop editing your post.

[MrBlank]

No, they eventually get tired of you not making a move and they go fuck some other dude. Chicks want to feel pursued and if you aren't doing that I can guarantee the next dude who does will fuck her. believe that.


Posts like this show me that most of you people aren't qualified to give advice. Leave that shit to Koop.

look if you mean straight up on some keep the dick locked in a box kind of shit then your taking my post too literal. This is all in a playful manner. Try holding back a lil and making her work for it. its really good shit and makes the situation fun.

From my experience this shit can be one of the most positive things you can do to keep any sort of relationship interesting and fresh. If you keep her guessing she wont "Expect" things to always go a certain way each time. Mysterious shit is mentally refreshing.

just straight up not giving out dick though is obviously going to drive her away. I will add that this isnt something you do with someone who you hardly know either because if the sexual tension is there i say take that shit right away.

i can agree chicks want to feel pursued but even taking that to the extreme will drive a chick away. some of us guys know what its like to have a Psycho bitch on the jock.

[Adam Warlock]

just straight up not giving out dick though is obviously going to drive her away. I will add that this isnt something you do with someone who you hardly know either because if the sexual tension is there i say take that shit right away.
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That's not what you mean. That's the opposite of what you mean. Dasiatic already told me!

[MrBlank]

If your talking about my dinner reference its because it really shocked the shit out of me. This girl ive been seeing hasnt made me dinner up until i started holding back on sexual activities. We used to fuck multiple times every day which wasnt bad. When i actually started to hold back and observed her actions. She would do all kinds of "Nice" things. Then next thing you know shes secretly putting her hands on me again.

I was just confirming ive also experienced what koop posted.

[Dasiatic]

look if you mean straight up on some keep the dick locked in a box kind of shit then your taking my post too literal. This is all in a playful manner. Try holding back a lil and making her work for it. its really good shit and makes the situation fun.

From my experience this shit can be one of the most positive things you can do to keep any sort of relationship interesting and fresh. If you keep her guessing she wont "Expect" things to always go a certain way each time. Mysterious shit is mentally refreshing.



lol, dude i thought you meant when you're first meeting somebody you do that shit.
Definatly. random shit sometimes kinda rekindles a waning relationship.
last thing you want to do is beome redundant right after she had worked so hard to get you.
I like planning dates to the movies on the spot when she isn't expecting it on the fly. just seeing thier expressionis enough for me.

me: yo, we're going to see I am Legend, alright?

her:":confused:........:lovin:"

if not that, then im picking her up from work to go hang somewhere before dropping her home.
Its the fact that i never planned any of this shit in the first place that gets to them, in my opinion.

I might catch a plane over to CA one day to see your dumbass and get drunk. PHOC can come too. Pheria is from CA too, right?

[MrBlank]

pherai is from so-cal im from norcal.

either way hit me up and ill show you my neck of the woods.

[Dasiatic]

i still need pics of that BJ girl.
its freezing outhere in mathatten and a nigga need to warm the fuck up.

[Koop]

chill out please... ultimately this is about the ladies (an in mizz chun li's case some random dudes)... everyone has their particular strategy just like some damn street fighter..... dont argue... state ya opinion an keep it movin....

[SF_PHOCUS]

i still need pics of that BJ girl.
its freezing outhere in mathatten and a nigga need to warm the fuck up.

yo freezin is not the worddddddd i was in soho and i had on a peacoat... i thought i was gonna die:s

Edit: hmm must of hit multiquote by mistake

[Dasiatic]

yo freezin is not the worddddddd i was in soho and i had on a peacoat... i thought i was gonna die:sad:
what are you doing out when its so cold?

[SF_PHOCUS]

what are you doing out when its so cold?

went to micheal K dad lol:chat:

[ChunLi]

OMG like 118948989142 posts gone by and no one answered my question. =( .. POOH! /delete

[SF_PHOCUS]

OMG like 118948989142 posts gone by and no one answered my question. =( .. POOH! /delete

lol whoops... wat was ur question???:lovin:

[Dasiatic]

Question: Do you tell girls you talk to how much you get jocked and how people always grab you?

I personally dont. but if hes constantly telling you shit like that, he may be trying to say something about himself that you might like. whether what he says is true or not, hes probally trying to get some positive attention.
the whole purpose of it is for him to see how you'll react if he told you that he was the shit. so its all on you, really.
will you take his word for it?
if so/if not, then how will it make you feel about him?

[ChunLi]

I had a different post.. but I deleted it. I pm'd you guys. After reading it, I felt like a scrub .. hahaha

[SF_PHOCUS]

I had a different post.. but I deleted it. I pm'd you guys. After reading it, I felt like a scrub .. hahaha

check ur mail tell me wat u think

[fistoftheryustar]

One thing I just dont get / doesnt attract me, I hope its not just me. You tell a girl all the bad things you've done with your previous gfs = the new girl gets turned on like shit. But when the girl tells you all the dirtiest things they've done (similar to the set up interview in those pornographs) = not a turn on at all.

To know a girls been sexually conquered already, hey thats her business, but is it really expected to turn us on?

[Mixah]

so i dumped her for good, and it feels good. no more pussy power controlling me... and to prove her wrong, i got laid this morning. :tup: to SRK's advice...

[fistoftheryustar]

I totally missed your situation but I read your post and damn you work fast ha nice game man. Sounds like you were better off this way.

[Mixah]

i forget what thread i actually posted up in... what happened was this...

was with girl 1
girl 1: great in bed, stupid as shit, boring as fuck, complained too much about random shit, she liked that i paid for us to go to this cafe restaurant place that was somewhat expensive.

girl 2: had a one-night fling with her on new years. felt like i liked her a lot more than my current, although, bed wasn't nearly as good.

told girl 1 i want it to be over... this is two days before i volunteered to pay her car payment for xmas ($143, which isn't a large amount.

she tells me: go fuck another girl, and then see if you still want to break up with me...

yesterday came and she gave me the bill

i put it on my bare ass, threw it back in her face and took off to a friend's house in philly, where we stayed up all night and came this morning, i got laid.

now i'm trying to set something up with girl 2.

that's the end of my story.

[fistoftheryustar]

Are you fucking one of my girls? I live in NJ but I have tons of girls in philly haha Hope it was worth it. Are you in philly?

[Mixah]

no. i live 2 hour from philly. the girl in question lives outside of philly, and she's quite possibly my best friend in the world.

EDIT:

bleh

EDIT: 2 will upload pics to photobucket

EDIT3:

here we go..

Girl #1 - obnoxious italian singer from school. great body....... (black guys love her body, and if i find one, i'll put it up)..... but as said.... OBNOXIOUS
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x40/m1x4h/n43601936_31344738_3147.jpg

Girl #2 - girl i met @ new years eve, and is really interesting, fun to be around, good kisser, and wears glasses, which im' a big sucker for...... downfall: small boobs, big forehead
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x40/m1x4h/0101081112b.jpg

Best friend from near philly
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x40/m1x4h/n43601562_31278763_8776.jpg

[Mixah]

best one i could find:
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x40/m1x4h/n43606288_31129365_6706.jpg

far left, red bandana..... halloween.

the girl in black/white with the yeung and wing has a great expression.

[Dasiatic]

hey, its another one of my good friends, Mixah. glad to see new guys come into the thread.

[Warpticon]

Alright, I know there's some of you out there.

Who's cocky (and if you don't like that word) confident and isn't afraid to tell girls they are?

I got some questions for you guys.

EDIT:

Question: Do you tell girls you talk to how much you get jocked and how people always grab you?

I'll straight up tell a girl I'm the shit--in context. I don't make a point of bringing it up. I give her a chance to figure it out on her own. And really, it's hard to say you're the shit and not come off arrogant, so if somebody says I am, or suggests I might be, I'll cop to it.

Mixah, i finally figured out what your thanks was about when I read this thread. :lol: Congrats on reestablishing the top as the dominant head.

[SirFritzalot]

Fritz is back in the house with some new shit.

I ain't been in a real relationship in a while...and I knew this chick Nyomie in my school for a while since i first started. She's probably the baddest chick in the school and for a while I thought she was way outta my league...even with my confidence. She's sexy, looks like a hoodrat kinda "with her piercings at least) but she's really pretty in the face. Easily the best dark skinned face I've seen in a while...and she's definately the most mature out of everybody in the school. Now there were 5 people that I know of that were trying to get @ her, too...but she never paid any of them mind. I never paid her any mind really, either. But that's just some background...

One day, my boy was over my house and he had her AIM and shit. He was talking to her on AIM and I told him to tell her I said hi. So he did and she went "Hi handsome". I didn't think nothing of it, though. I asked her if I could have her AIM and she gave it to me.

So the next time I hit her up on AIM, we was talking for a little while and she just comes out and tells me all the feelings she's had for me for a while. She tells me she wants to be with me, on some real shit. Now I really believe her, because of how serious she is. Alot of dudes be trying to talk to her in my school, and she doesn't even pay them any mind. She has a future and she's not one of them chicken headed girls. So me and her started talking...I basically cut off every other girl I was talking to in the school for her.

But the thing is, we're both really independent. We're both working people and we're doing good in school. We both got out of ugly relationships a few months ago, one where her man went to jail and my sister jumped my ex. So it's like we're both kinda afraid to be hopping into this kinda thing, even though we're both too proud to show that we really do care about each other.

She knows I was the playa type. But I take her very seriously. We don't go out, cause I pissed her off a couple times with the way I acted towards her. I told her I ain't wanna talk to her anymore a couple times because she was really frustrating me. I've never talked to a woman that was so independant, and the fact that we barely talked pissed me off kinda. Right now I'm on "probation" cause I ain't been acting right. But here are my main dilemnas...

1. She's a very strong woman and she's used to having control. i"m not used to not having control. Should I just let her have it, or continue to argue with her?

2. We're both very stubborn, but we seem to want each other. In a way, it kinda turns me on the fact that she doesn't need me and I know it does her, too. Considering what we talk about.

3. I'm Mr. I don't need a bitch and she's ms. I don't need a nigga...but because of that, we're not making progress as fast as we could be. Should I start pursuing her more agressively? Cause I want to make her feel like she's wanted, but I don't wanna be her bitch, either. Today, we was in first period together and she was pissed off @ me. I told her I wanted to talk to her. She told me to "Meet her 10 minutes after 2nd period"...which I thought she said 3rd and I ended up getting cussed out in front of my boys. "You don't fuckin listen" she says to me. I ain't argue back, I just stood there and listened. My boys couldn't say shit, cause they was trying to bag her, too and I got her...

4. Rumor city. I'm one of the most popular boys in the school and she's the most popular chick. Soooooo MANY FUCKING RUMORS ABOUT US. I need to deal with it.

But that's it. A fucking high school drama about me and this dope ass girl...

-Fritz:sweat:

[DeathReaper47]

Pictures are required before advice can be applied.

[TheSix]

Man waddup Fritz. Fancy seeing you here.

That situation is a bit over my head, so I'll let someone else have at it.

Just saying wassup and good luck with it.

[Warpticon]

Fritz ish

Heh, high school drama. So cute.

Seriously, y'all can either be the worst thing ever or best thing ever for each other. Because the other is so like you, you can see and understand what other people have to put up with. If you don't like it, you can see a reason to change. It really adds something to have somebody who knows where you're coming from, that you don't always have to break things down al the way for them to get. Of course, this all depends on having the right mindset. If y'all don't, you'll just butt heads and get frustrated with each other. And it has to be both of you, too, because neither of you is likely to back down.

And really, the "I don't need a bitch" attitude is good when you get down to it, because if you have that attitude, and it's established and known, then you can always turn it on her like "I don't need a girl, but I want you, because you're special." You can show her she's important and still show her that it's a privilege and not a right. A woman like her usually is not gonna be into some codependent dude that likes her becuase she's pretty and in close vicinity. Guarantee that's a big part of why she's into you in the first place.

Rumors? Fuck rumors. Who cares what some unassociated nobody thinks? I mean, just close the deal or cut her loose and they got nothing to talk about.

[fistoftheryustar]

no. i live 2 hour from philly. the girl in question lives outside of philly, and she's quite possibly my best friend in the world.

EDIT:

bleh

EDIT: 2 will upload pics to photobucket

EDIT3:

here we go..

Girl #1 - obnoxious italian singer from school. great body....... (black guys love her body, and if i find one, i'll put it up)..... but as said.... OBNOXIOUS
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x40/m1x4h/n43601936_31344738_3147.jpg

Girl #2 - girl i met @ new years eve, and is really interesting, fun to be around, good kisser, and wears glasses, which im' a big sucker for...... downfall: small boobs, big forehead
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x40/m1x4h/0101081112b.jpg

Best friend from near philly
http://i183.photobucket.com/albums/x40/m1x4h/n43601562_31278763_8776.jpg


The friend one is actually attractive, plus you guys are firends which is typically a bad thing and is a total stereotype breaker. I love being in stereotype breaking / opposite traits relationships. The 3rd one seems rare, a catch. Only thing is if things go sour...haha you know

[SF_PHOCUS]

snip.


good shit warp.. thats the way i see it too...

i honestly think u need2 stand ur ground fritz... dont compromise who you are for any chick...with that said dont spend too much time aguing wif her... a good ole mutual talk between the both of you would seriuosly serve some justice... sit her down and tell her how u feel about things.. lol i remember high school shit like that... wow 2000-2004 seems so long ago:sad:

[Silentness!]

FOLLOW UP! What do you guys think, is she being genuine?
Hi,

Dont be silly about money its no problem anyway sightseeing would be cool sometime. I am pretty busy at present also because my contract finishes next month and have lots to do before then.

will keep in touch.

I don't know man... I don't think she's flaking on me. She's getting pretty specific as to why she's been busy lately...
____

I'm kind of mad at one my coworkers/friend. He wanted me to go talk to two Korean girls at a coffee shop to see my "PUA" skills in action :rofl:

So I approach the girls and remove their bitch shield and LO & BEHOLD my friend comes and grabs the girls' phone #s. Now he's on a date with one of them this Saturday. "Nigga I'm the one that had the courage to talk to them! I should be dating those bitches."

So I spent Saturday playing against scrubs in the Korean arcade. I got my ass whipped by two people in Melty Blood and one guy in Guilty Gear. I was just raping people in CvS2/3rd strike... it's no fun playing when your opponent can't do shit to you.

[thurst]

wait...he got both of their numbers? what were you doing?

[Silentness!]

wait...he got both of their numbers? what were you doing?

I was in shock that the nigga actually took over. That's my boy... I teach my apprentices well. Bite the hand that feeds you!

[TheWanderer]

Sup guys, remember the chick i thought was gonna quit after the holidays.. The bitch is still here.. :rofl:.. TALK ABOUT AWKWARDNESS... I try to pretend to see shes not around n such.. n so far its working.. i happened to be in the office the same time as her.. she talked to the ppl in there while i talk to somebody else pretending she aint there.. then after awhile.. she noticed i was in the office too, and she looked over at me and looked at me doing the little friendly smile and looked at my name tag for my name.. i come to realize shes a fuking tease and i aint gonna put up with that shiet but let it go.. the only time i'll talk to her is when i have to.. like if we walk by each other or some shiet.. other then that.. i'll avoid her as best as i can..

my feelings for her have GONE.. i feel so relived.. now shes trying to get me to have feelings for her again... i aint gonna do dat shiet again..

this one girl whos been doing nothing but smile at me whenever we walk by each other, but i dont stare back at her.. instead.. i'll turn and look at some other girl to check her out.. then the girl that smiles at me would look at the direction im looking at and she would see the girl im staring at.. dont know whats up with her.. im afraid i'll get the same TEASING and i have a boyfriend treatment like the first girl did to me.. :looney:

[Mixah]

well as i said..... glasses do something for me. lol

and considering im' a fat asian kid, they're all attractive :) haha

[Sasmasta]

That Italian singer one reminds me of Marisa Tomei for some reason. :confused:

[SF_PHOCUS]

well as i said..... glasses do something for me. lol

and considering im' a fat asian kid, they're all attractive :) haha

:rofl:

Smh i had to join the glasses club.... i paid like 400 dollars for these bullshit d&G glasses... my thing was if im gonna get some glasses i might as well go all out.... fuckin astigmatism:sad:

[ChunLi]

^ i got super high astigamtism... almost so high if it goes up anymore.. my prescription price gets doubled..

guys with glasses are HOT... BUT the catch is.. he can't wear it 24/7 where when he takes it off.. you can tell he wears his glasses all the time(you guys know what i mean)

[SF_PHOCUS]

^ i got super high astigamtism... almost so high if it goes up anymore.. my prescription price gets doubled..

guys with glasses are HOT... BUT the catch is.. he can't wear it 24/7 where when he takes it off.. you can tell he wears his glasses all the time(you guys know what i mean)

well u should know how contacts are then smh... so seein as how i cant really use them im going to be stuck wearin the glasses nearly 24/7:sad:

[Mixah]

The glasses thing is smexy.

and sas, you're right :) haha

[Silentness!]

wait...he got both of their numbers? what were you doing?

OMG now I feel like a moron. Not only did I basically introduce my friend to the Korean chicks. He went out with the hotter one of the two this weekend and made out with her.

Motherfucker! :looney: I was secretly angry when he told me that they made out... (let me stop before I have another emo moment!)

[alchemist78]

OMG now I feel like a moron. Not only did I basically introduce my friend to the Korean chicks. He went out with the hotter one of the two this weekend and made out with her.

Motherfucker! :looney: I was secretly angry when he told me that they made out... (let me stop before I have another emo moment!)

hold ya self down first, THEN help out the team, niggas always go for the bad chick lol.

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol another neg rep?? hmm yehhhh im getting premium today.....

[marn]

Anyone get to the point in their relationship with someone where there's NOTHING to talk about anymore? :|... What do or would you do =(.

Breaking up with her is not an option b/c.. I really really like her :|.

[CB]

Anyone get to the point in their relationship with someone where there's NOTHING to talk about anymore? :|... What do or would you do =(.

Breaking up with her is not an option b/c.. I really really like her :|.

put that mouth to good use.

[marn]

put that mouth to good use.

Already did that too.

[DS]

Already did that too.

Well, keep stuffing her face with The Marn™. Eventually, she'll think of something to talk about.

For you, it's a blowjob, but for her, it's food for thought.

[AaronS]

Mmk, here is some more high school drama...

There's this girl I've known for a while, and I asked her out a while ago and she said yes. We didn't actually see each other outside of school for a while though, because she was busy with college applications and work and stuff.

We eventually went out a few times and it went really well.

Then she tells me she really likes me, but wants to be single until college.....

It's weird, because I know she's into me...

Anyone got some wisdom for me?

[Dasiatic]

Well, keep stuffing her face with The Marn™. Eventually, she'll think of something to talk about.

For you, it's a blowjob, but for her, it's food for thought.

indeed.

food for thought=brain.
does your girl has her mind right?

AaronS- well, you must've been doing something right up until now. I'd say you keep doing it until college. from there, see if she'll keep her word on it.
that is if the two of you are sure that you want to be in a relationship. then just wait.

anyone else wants to take this nigga? because i dont have much.

[S.Snk3]

Anyone get to the point in their relationship with someone where there's NOTHING to talk about anymore? :|... What do or would you do =(.

Breaking up with her is not an option b/c.. I really really like her :|.

how long have you two been together?? try to find some common ground, other than that i think is a chemistry thing. this is a tough situation, someone else help this guy.

[SF_PHOCUS]

indeed.

food for thought=brain.
does your girl has her mind right?

AaronS- well, you must've been doing something right up until now. I'd say you keep doing it until college. from there, see if she'll keep her word on it.
that is if the two of you are sure that you want to be in a relationship. then just wait.

anyone else wants to take this nigga? because i dont have much.

yehhhhh I have an idea....
























Smoke Somethin :smokin::smokin:

[CB]

yehhhhh I have an idea....
























Smoke Somethin :smokin::smokin:

marn needs pot!
seriously, watchu need son!?

[Infernoman]

I realize I still have a bad habit of coming too strong onto girls. apparently the same girl who I might have scared off...thinks I'm conceited?

[MrBlank]

HAHAHAHA JESUS!

Pyramid set of stairs = New form of Chick distruction

[ProfessorS]

I broke up with a girl for the first time tonight. Usually they just break up with me first. The warning signs were there and I probably waited too long, but I did it. I feel like celebrating.

[Shotokan Symphony]

Already did that too.

Try beating her.

[Dasiatic]

Try beating her.

sorry guys, i was just eating some doritos watching porn, and i had to laugh at this.

[SF_PHOCUS]

AWWWWWWWWW MAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!! Daz! six! somone!! lol!!

U guys remember a shorty i said i bag new years night?!?!?! well she just told me!!!!! this :

"Oh yeh did I mention I have a son?!?!"
AND SHES 19!!!!

And we are talking on AIM right now I havent answered yet :sad:

[Dasiatic]

AWWWWWWWWW MAAANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!! Daz! six! somone!! lol!!

U guys remember a shorty i said i bag new years night?!?!?! well she just told me!!!!! this :

"Oh yeh did I mention I have a son?!?!"
AND SHES 19!!!!

And we are talking on AIM right now I havent answered yet :sad:

well make up some bullshit. just talk normally. obviously, you're not gonna fuck her anymore so just keep the convo straight from now on.

oh yeah, and give me her AIM....for proof, that is.

[SF_PHOCUS]

well make up some bullshit. just talk normally. obviously, you're not gonna fuck her anymore so just keep the convo straight from now on.

oh yeah, and give me her AIM....for proof, that is.

Well Im on aim but im sending the messages to her thru her cell phone number.... not a screen name.

EDIT: this the piece of the convo
PhOc MoScHiNo [12:14 A.M.]: 37th
"tt" [12:15 A.M.]: Oh your close...by the way did I mention that I have a son
DOUBLE EDIT: My time is wrong its really supposed to be 1:14 A.M abd 1:15 A.M
TRIPLE EDIT: I have never hollered at a shorty that had a kid.... she just told me the kid is 2 and will be 3 in april.. which means she was like 17! or was about to turn 17....!

[MrBuster]

Hmmm... Abort that mission my nigga...

[Silentness!]

You gotta be shitting me...

The English chick is an English teacher. (obviously what else could you be doing in Korea besides military really)

The bad part is her contract ends next month. (I don't know when next month, but that shit doesn't sound good)

She can't leave me here by myself! noooooooooo She said she MIGHT (yeah right lol) come back to Korea for another year.

[Luciano Leone]

Tell me why the most neocon religious right zealot bitch wants to get with me. Whats the draw? Whats the catch?

Why.

'sall I wanna know.

Shes hot. Hot enough to be a swimmer and a dancer and shit. And I would have no problem dating her, but we're so different? So fuckin different. Worlds apart in our beliefs. I smoke drink and curse like a mothafucka and shes got another thing comin if she thinks Im gonna dickride her invisible man in the sky. I aint tryin to front on her shit (or anyone's), but 08s got me in a WTF like whoa.

[Koop]

Well Im on aim but im sending the messages to her thru her cell phone number.... not a screen name.

EDIT: this the piece of the convo
PhOc MoScHiNo [12:14 A.M.]: 37th
"tt" [12:15 A.M.]: Oh your close...by the way did I mention that I have a son
DOUBLE EDIT: My time is wrong its really supposed to be 1:14 A.M abd 1:15 A.M
TRIPLE EDIT: I have never hollered at a shorty that had a kid.... she just told me the kid is 2 and will be 3 in april.. which means she was like 17! or was about to turn 17....!

a bad mistake on her behalf... at least she was upfront bout it an you didnt find out later. just like a chick she gave you an option... now you either man the hell up an say what you want or you keep it truckin.... when it comes to chicks wit kids you have to set a line an standard... if you want to just mingle... you say so... you wanna tap dat... say so...

problem that lies wit the whole situation is the kid an time... i say this cause finding the time to do ANYTHING is a bitch... literally!! from free time to just kick it to free time to fuck it will be hard an if you want to you have to be willin to deal wit that shyt... everything from last minute cancellation....nothing like gettin that call after you just paid for that box of condoms an ya walkin to ya car:wasted:.... hell even random mvc2 style assist i call kiddycockblockin in the middle of the night.... to horrible ninja booty™ ( "shhhhhhh dont pump so hard his/her room next door" ) cause ya gotta be easy on the pussy....

so all in all... think on it playboi... an be straight forward...

Koop

[SF_PHOCUS]

^^ I think ima have to let her go... I wouldnt say Im scared or anything but its just that Im not trying to deal wif a 19 year old wif a kid..... Im not young anymore where u could just say oh well the kid wont be an issue cause it would be.... I could always hit it and split it... but that wont help cause ill feel super fucked up and she lives in my hood...

[Koop]

^^ I think ima have to let her go... I wouldnt say Im scared or anything but its just that Im not trying to deal wif a 19 year old wif a kid..... Im not young anymore where u could just say oh well the kid wont be an issue cause it would be.... I could always hit it and split it... but that wont help cause ill feel super fucked up and she lives in my hood...


run-away storm that shyt... keep her cool for connect wise... thats it. women wit kids seem to get ish at cheap rates.... never know what u can come out wit...

"i was down on flatbush an some nicca ran up on me sayin he got street fighter 4 an gave it to me for 15 dollars cause i had a kid... like_______(insert name) can play at that age... damn fiend...anyway i thought you may like it....."


trust an believe that mayne..

[Havoc]

So, I'm going in raw now...

No birth control either.

I'm using Azreal methods... Hopefully this goes OK. If not, half the child support's on YOU!

[Koop]

So, I'm going in raw now...

No birth control either.

I'm using Azreal methods... Hopefully this goes OK. If not, half the child support's on YOU!


now... would you like johnson & johnson baby bath gel or that dove baby gel they got out... just wanna know for that baby shower later down the road...

[TheSix]

Hav,

I got plenty of Hammy downs for ya.

[Havoc]

I saw that... :wink:

What's it like to be obsessed with a name on a forum?

Live your life, man.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Hav,

I got plenty of Hammy downs for ya.

Gimme one!:rofl:

[Havoc]

now... would you like johnson & johnson baby bath gel or that dove baby gel they got out... just wanna know for that baby shower later down the road...

Damn.... gel? That's it? What's good with a baby monitor?

Nah for real though, I just did it yesterday. My girl lives in NY, and I'm starting a new job in two weeks, and she's going to Greece for a second, so I probably won't even see her until Valentine's. By then, she should be on the pill.

I definitely did my homework beforehand. She was two days off her period, and she has 30/31-day cycles. I definitely pulled out... so she shouldn't get pregnant unless my boys (if they happened to get in) are super durable.

If she does.... oh well. I'd be able to handle it.

EDIT- Also, any seats left fo the FRXI trip? I may just wanna slide in there.

[DS]

So, I'm going in raw now...

No birth control either.

I'm using Azreal methods... Hopefully this goes OK. If not, half the child support's on YOU!

Pull-out method is pretty guaranteed if you know your body. Good luck, and good fuck.

[Dasiatic]

wow, hav is going in raw?
im sorry i missed this. well, ill go with everyone else here. be paranoid with that shit. pull out as soon as you feel anything at the slightest.
and yeah, DS is right.

[tahoo]

I tried hitting on a beautiful chick but she dumped me like a hot potato:annoy:

damn this shit is hard

Gonna get my ass to the gym and release frustration

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

yes! the snow actually melted for one day

[SF_PHOCUS]

yes! the snow actually melted for one day

ha i wish we had snow.. brooklyn feels like florida and shitt

[marn]

how long have you two been together?? try to find some common ground, other than that i think is a chemistry thing. this is a tough situation, someone else help this guy.

its been a year since new years.

[Silentness!]

Every time I hear J Holiday's "Bed" I think about when I was grinding with that Hispanic chick (no not the same bitch that FZed me or she wouldn't be grinding on me). Got damn that ass was a BEAST!(sorry no pictures inside of the fake club I was at)
_____________

Anyways these Korean women freak me out. I was asking them to sew something on my shirt for me. I had trouble understanding what they were saying, so the ladies started feeling all up on my chest and shit giving me a literal translation of where they want to sew the patch. I mean they only had to point at the spot, but she started rubbing my chest and shit WHAT THE FUCK!? :confused:

One of the ladies was looking at me in a "wrong seductive" way and she kept twirling the ring on her finger like she was fixing to flick it off. I don't know if I was sexually harassed or what.

[Biolink]

Would any of you guys date a single mom?

[Oroman]

Would any of you guys date a single mom?

Perhaps, but if one of her children starts calling me "daddy" I'm outta there.

[SeraphimHubris]

Would any of you guys date a single mom?

It's not a problem if you can get over the fact that she has pushed at least one human being out of her vagina.

[Warpticon]

I'd date a single mom, with the obvious caveat that she'd better be one fucking spectacular single mom. Of course, she needs to be fucking spectacular in the first place, so eh.

[Biolink]

It's not a problem if you can get over the fact that she has pushed at least one human being out of her vagina.

And she has let at least one other human being rummage her vagina,but eh :arazz:

[TheSix]

:rofl::rofl: @ Ness post

One minute this man reports with some shit thats like :confused::confused: Other times it's like :confused::arazz::sad::rofl:

It's a LOOOONG road I tell ya.

Would any of you guys date a single mom?

Only if she was a MILF.

LOL. Bitches son would probably be my age and see me leaving out his moms room at night. That would be so sweet.:lol:

--------------

I MAY have been wrong about this online thing. I just may have. I'll update later in the week.

[Silentness!]

:rofl::rofl: @ Ness post

One minute this man reports with some shit thats like :confused::confused: Other times it's like :confused::arazz::sad::rofl:

It's a LOOOONG road I tell ya.



Only if she was a MILF.

LOL. Bitches son would probably be my age and see me leaving out his moms room at night. That would be so sweet.:lol:

--------------

I MAY have been wrong about this online thing. I just may have. I'll update later in the week.

I'm just totally random.

[SF_PHOCUS]

I'm just totally random.

lol even that statement was random :lol:

[thurst]

Every time I hear J Holiday's "Bed" I think about when I was grinding with that Hispanic chick (no not the same bitch that FZed me or she wouldn't be grinding on me). Got damn that ass was a BEAST!(sorry no pictures inside of the fake club I was at)

there are spanish chicks in korea or is this a separate event?

[Silentness!]

there are spanish chicks in korea or is this a separate event?

Separate event. Korean girl with ass = oxymoron...

They got cute faces that's about it.

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol just finished deleting mad numbers out my phone book... looks like phocus is gonna have to buss out the ole steno pad and pen lol... time to start scoopin up some fresh meat! Ayo daz!! wats the ladies report on ur side of ny! :sweat:

[darksoul173]

Dont know if its the right place but here a little sex trick called
THE HOUDINI
Take some chick and fuck her doggy than when you're about to cum thake the dick out and spit (with your mouth that is) on her back she will think you cum on her back and she will turn to you with her face than shoot on her face

Mad laughing

[Ne0phyte]

I'm asking this for my sister.
Sister (5:57:17 PM): i might do some research
Sister (5:57:22 PM): can you ask on srk?
Sister (5:57:28 PM): make a post about how to fix e.d.
Sister (5:59:14 PM): hurry, i need answers
Sister (5:59:35 PM): HARD answers

Anyway. Her boyfriend claims that since all his ex's were on birth control or he used "coitus interruptus", he never had to use condoms and now he is insensitive to them. He gets hard initially during foreplay and such, but when condoms go on he loses it and this is distressing to the both of them. With keeping the current controls the same (condoms and no birth control), what can be done to improve the situation? Thanks d00dz.

[MrBlank]

I know this might sound wierd but when you get condom soft consistently you could try this. Tell him to apply a couple drops of lubrication inside the condom.

Now i know not everyone has access to lube at all times, so the next greatest thing is well Spitting into the condom before applying it.

It will make it feel alot better on the tip which should help him keep the blood flowing since its the most sensitive. I personally have done it with lube or spit which just makes the condom feel a bit more mobile and flowy.

[SF_PHOCUS]

I know this might sound wierd but when you get condom soft consistently you could try this. Tell him to apply a couple drops of lubrication inside the condom.

Now i know not everyone has access to lube at all times, so the next greatest thing is well Spitting into the condom before applying it.

It will make it feel alot better on the tip which should help him keep the blood flowing since its the most sensitive. I personally have done it with lube or spit which just makes the condom feel a bit more mobile and flowy.

or u could just try a more sensitive condom.... the supra trojans are supposed to be like that if im not mistaken

[Havoc]

Durex, niggas... Durex.

I don't see how people can even use Trojans...

[Ne0phyte]

Durex, niggas... Durex.

I don't see how people can even use Trojans...


For the record, they've used both Durex (latex and polyurethane) and Trojans. Still a limpdick.

[MrBlank]

^ If your going to purchase some extra thin condoms. I personally have used Kimono microthins. Jesus they feel pretty damn good. I have broken 2 before in a row but it came from her being too dry after our 3rd run (follow up with lube or saliva). If you want less risk i would recommend durex extra thins. They have won durability awards for their strength.

Also here is an experience i should probably share with those who have considered using "Climax Control" condoms. It might be the worst fucking idea i had ever tried. It sounds good at first till you use one and realize what its doing. They apply a chemical that literally numbs your entire penis. Now what sucks is once it totally makes you numb your boner will just die on its own. It made her pussy go numb too. So basically we were looking at our shit and going "WTF!?!". I had to wait like another hour before feeling came back to my shaft again.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Yehh I had a bad experience wif the climax control too... we were both num... and it was like hmmm yeh this isnt enjoyable at all.. ill tell u one thing.... u will not nut in the first 30 mins stock smh!

[thurst]

yeah the novocaine condoms are definitely not the truth, i forget what they're called i just know they're the trojans in the teal/green box.

[Lantis]

Hah...too much condom talk going on lately.... :lol:

Anyway, an update on my situation:

On Monday night, I was minding my own business on the INTRENETZ when all of a sudden, I heard a knock on the building's door. I peeked out and saw it was my "love interest". She seemed OK from afar, but once I got down and opened the door, she inmediately hugged me and said "I ran away from home", all up in a mess of tears. I think we stayed like that a good 5 minutes until I finally invited her over. Still in a heap of sadness, she told me she blew up against her mom's constant pressure to "do something with her life" (which sounds pretty weird to me, since the girl has her own greenhouse, so I guess that amounts for something?), and pretty much engaged in a RAGE EXPLOSION and threw everything she had in sight (she said broke the telephone she was speaking to her mom on, a glass, among other shit) and stormed out of her house. Of course, I told her she could stay over if she wanted to (my brother's room has been free ever since he got married). She accepted without much questioning.

A funny antic to cheer up her mood a bit was the following:

Me: "Look, if you choose to throw a fit over here, just don't touch my PS 2."
Her: "Sure, why not.... But why the PS 2?"
Me: "Don't ask.... PS 2 is SERIOUS BUSINESS!"
Her: ":rofl: OK"

So basically she stayed Monday night, ALL Tuesday, and barely left today in the morning. Needless to say, she never slept in my brother's bedroom (opted to crash on the couch). On Tuesday, we didn't even set foot outside of my apartment. No, nothing funny happened during that time (she was in a gloomy mood all the way), although I kept giving her encouraging words. For some reason, even though we did nothing but watch TV/play PS 2 all day long, I felt somewhat good. And before I knew it, I just didn't want her to leave. Of course, she had some pretty obscure ideas of her own.

Pretty much, she doesn't know if she wants to keep living in her parents' house. But instead of moving out to other place, she wants to move back to her city of origin (which is 5 hours away...not THAT long, I guess), which kinda made my blood run cold. I was pretty honest with her: I told her I wasn't very fond of the idea, but would support her regardless if she did. She said she was gonna think about it....

Come Wednesday morning, the girl's mom calls my cell phone (I have to point out here that I only met her mother once, but strangely, she remembered my name and God knows how she got my cell) and tells me she was worried about her daughter (without going off on me). I didn't reveal her that she was staying over at my place (although I guess she could assume she was there), but told her I would convince her to settle things, which I did. She left rather early, and I was left with a world of doubts.

Strangely enough, the girl calls me later today on my landline phone (which she has never done up until now, only called my cell). She sounded pretty silent, but wanted to check on me. I asked her how she felt, and she said she felt a little bit better (which I replied that was better than bad, which she laughed on). She sounded pretty tired and stuff....but she never confirmed she was leaving or so.

So far, nothing is set in stone, but I'm afraid tension might break again, and this time she MIGHT move out. I'm kinda in a state of standby, and I dunno how to react.... :looney:

[SF_PHOCUS]

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Hmm This interesting... umm, i think i would of reacted the same way... I mean no one really plans for their love interest to come knockin on their door balling in tears lol... I know this might sound bad but a lil bit of liquor goes a long way..

lol just remember that the next time she comes over...

well how do u feel about the whole thing and what would like to happen.. once u can answer that question everything else will make sense.. kinda:sweat:

[Lantis]

Hmm This interesting... umm, i think i would of reacted the same way... I mean no one really plans for their love interest to come knockin on their door balling in tears lol... I know this might sound bad but a lil bit of liquor goes a long way..

lol just remember that the next time she comes over...

well how do u feel about the whole thing and what would like to happen.. once u can answer that question everything else will make sense.. kinda:sweat:

I usually never keep alcohol in my crib. I'm not a drinker, so obviously there is no need for me to stash some booze. Only alcohol I've ever kept is whenever there were parties at my place and somebody would leave some bottles behind (and they usually don't stay around for long). :sweat:

It's kinda weird that you asked, though.... Yesterday, I asked her why would she had preferred coming to MY place instead of one of her many female friends, and she told me, "Had I stayed anywhere else, I would probably be out drunk by now". So yeah...I wouldn't dare violate that trust agreement.

Needless to say, I DO feel pretty flattered that I was the first person she had in her mind once she got out of her home. Whoa...she even texted me right now. I feel like I'm going places right now.... :wonder:

[GreyFoxx]

-condom talk- Me personally ive done raw and condoms been using trojan spermicide but might try those durex.

[Silentness!]

@Lantis: You better quit turtling and knock enough sense in her to let her know that you like her. Don't want her leaving you behind to go move
_______

Honestly I couldn't give a shit about a relationship right now. I'm only 20 years old and I got so much shit shoved down my throat right now. I'm a busy man. Education/Work/Drama coming from busy work schedule

[SF_PHOCUS]

I usually never keep alcohol in my crib. I'm not a drinker, so obviously there is no need for me to stash some booze. Only alcohol I've ever kept is whenever there were parties at my place and somebody would leave some bottles behind (and they usually don't stay around for long). :sweat:

It's kinda weird that you asked, though.... Yesterday, I asked her why would she had preferred coming to MY place instead of one of her many female friends, and she told me, "Had I stayed anywhere else, I would probably be out drunk by now". So yeah...I wouldn't dare violate that trust agreement.

Needless to say, I DO feel pretty flattered that I was the first person she had in her mind once she got out of her home. Whoa...she even texted me right now. I feel like I'm going places right now.... :wonder:

just try not to get fz'ed... it can happen very easily in a circumstance such as this...:sad:

[Lantis]

@Lantis: You better quit turtling and knock enough sense in her to let her know that you like her. Don't want her leaving you behind to go move

Yeah, I realized that once she informed me of her plans. So I started dropping the hint bombs on her. I might plan to go all out if she really does intend to go through with her plans.

[onyx]

resurrection

[the hurricane]

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so i was reading your situation and sounds to me that youre on the border of her liking you and her seeing you as a best friend who she can cry to... you should be careful. by the way, does she know that you like her? cause if not then im kinda leaning towards the best friend thing, but i might just be completely wrong, it just might be the exact opposite and she really likes you. but regardless good luck with it, hopefully it'll work out for you (and her).

[Biolink]

Are popular girls fair game after High school?

[TheSix]

They aren't "popular" once they leave school.

Shit they fair game IN high school.

Go for it.

[Biolink]

It's hard my nigga.It's hard.

These girl's walk around with a higher sense of accomplishment and only date thugs and ball players

[the hurricane]

punch of couple of dudes and learn how to play ball

[TheWanderer]

this girl who somewhat rejected me been acting WEIRD lately..

i asked her out she said she got a boyfriend so i back off...

now.. everytime i see her or she see me walk by her.. she'd hide her face or pretend looking down reading a book...

WTF is her problem.. i just wanna be friends now.. but shes avoiding like she think im mad at her.. but its the other way around.. she look like shes uncomfortable if im anywhere near her..

[exarchezekiel]

this girl who somewhat rejected me been acting WEIRD lately..

i asked her out she said she got a boyfriend so i back off...

now.. everytime i see her or she see me walk by her.. she'd hide her face or pretend looking down reading a book...

WTF is her problem.. i just wanna be friends now.. but shes avoiding like she think im mad at her.. but its the other way around.. she look like shes uncomfortable if im anywhere near her..

Dude I've been in that situation many a time and here's what I do it usually gets it back to the whole were friends thing which is what you want.

Just walk up to her and be like "Hey can I talk to you real quick?" Than tell her that you don't understand why when she got a boy that all of a sudden she's avoiding you or acting weird. But that you still wanna be friends despite the fact she's gotta boy. If she doesn't wanna talk to you or thinks your mad than something is seriously wrong. Also an update on her response would be most helpful to get a better grasp of the situation if you do get one.

[Shotokan Symphony]

this girl who somewhat rejected me been acting WEIRD lately..

i asked her out she said she got a boyfriend so i back off...

now.. everytime i see her or she see me walk by her.. she'd hide her face or pretend looking down reading a book...

WTF is her problem.. i just wanna be friends now.. but shes avoiding like she think im mad at her.. but its the other way around.. she look like shes uncomfortable if im anywhere near her..

Let her be. The harder you pursue it, the more annoyed with you she'll get. If she's a friend, she'll get back in contact with you eventually. Otherwise, she's a lost cause. She probably is awkward around you now BECAUSE you asked, and she wasn't expecting anything more than a friendship. Now that the attraction's been admitted, it's like trying to bathe in tainted water for her. She may not even want to deal with you anymore since she never saw you as a lover.

[laceysan]

this girl who somewhat rejected me been acting WEIRD lately..

i asked her out she said she got a boyfriend so i back off...

now.. everytime i see her or she see me walk by her.. she'd hide her face or pretend looking down reading a book...

WTF is her problem.. i just wanna be friends now.. but shes avoiding like she think im mad at her.. but its the other way around.. she look like shes uncomfortable if im anywhere near her..

i remember going through that in high school
man, its wierd when you get to that point especially if you were friends, like they said, if ya'll were friends she'll get over it eventually, if its not going down then its not.

it depends how strongly you feel, if you value her friendship, at least ask her if ya'll are cool, if your not caring, eventually her interest should pike

statistically if women are a lot more likely to date and marry a close friend (worked for me, but that level of patience isn't for the faint of heart :sweat:)

[pherai]

statistically if women are a lot more likely to date and marry a close friend (worked for me, but that level of patience isn't for the faint of heart :sweat:)

Is your source the Bullshit Institute for Sexual Research?

I still don't get why guys want girls as friends.

[onyx]

Can n e one see where i went wrong and how and when she lost interest?:confused:

Girl 1:

After work i stop by this sushi place to order a drink at the bar. As i walk in i see this asain chick and some guy siting next to her talking. As i sit down the guy says he'll be right back and walks of.. So i sit down, look at the drink menu and say "shit, all they serve is sake here?" She looks over and says "ya just different kinds of sake"

me: i was really looking forward to a long island iced tea but, sake it is!"
her: have you every tried warm sake?? its really good *fast forwarding the conversation*

This girls loads me up with IOI's, first when she saw that no one came to take order, she goes behind the bar and makes m a warm sake or me ( she's really kool with the owners) Then the guy friend comes back (witch at the time i assumed was her BF) so i cut off our convo..

Then she ask me where im from, i told her to guess, she says "Jamaican?" I give her an impressed look and say "ya u got it, your good at this huh?"..

then meaningless blah blah blah.. So later on she asked me what my name is, i told her and asked her for hers, she told me, then i asked the guy who was siting between us (her assumed BF) for his name, he spits it and we shake hands.. So then a minute later the guys says to me.

"she wanted me to ask you if you wanted a bite of this (some food she was eating), but i told her there's prolly some kinda man law against that"

So i bust out laughing and say "ya man, good call" And i thank her for her offer and respectfully decline.. So then i get up and shake both thier hands again reconfirm their names ( she did'nt remember mind and i didn't remember hers so i say "well i guess we're even, but i wont forget now" and then i walk off n leave because i had a train to catch...

So im terrible at reading/reacting to womens signs, no matter how obvious they might be. i knew she was interested in me but her guy friend being present just threw me off... *Damn, i always concer myself with whoever else is around-menatl note - i shouldnt give a fuck who's watching or present...* So n e ways, i left with a smile on my face anyways simply because she was about an 8 and she was pretty damn interested it seems....

So a week later im on my lunch break posted up outside listening to my i-pod and i see her walking on the other side of the street, she crosses and walks past me, gives me a look and says "hi" so i say.

"hey isnt your name Gina??"
Her: ya, how'd you know???
me: i met you the other night at the bar remember? the guy who's name you couldnt remember.
Her: ohh ya, how r u doing?? uhh alex??
me: lol nahh its Onyx dammit
Her: sorry, so do you work around here??
me: ya i do Interior design over here at this place called blahh..

So the second i say that she asked me if i have a card, i say "nahh not on me why?"

her: because i do real estate and i have clients who always want to have some kinda work done"

me: Ohh, well we dont do work in the U.S n e ways, we work mainly overseas like in china and shit, we do clubs restaurants bars hotels, no residential stuff unless its a 20 million dollar house" The second i say that shit i think to my self ( fuck why'd i just say that! )

Her: (while digg'n tougher purse for a pen) Well... i usuallly have card with me but lemme just give you my number just it case something comes up..

She gets a phone call and continues to look while she looking for a pen and paper, ends the call, writes down her full name and number and gives it to me and says "well i cya around" I tell her bye, shake her hand and she walks off..

So after work that night i go to the same bar for a quick drink b4 the train and she there. So i as i walk in she says "ONYX!!!" i smile and say
"hey you remembered this time"

So we get to chatting about what we do on our spare time, shit like where we go partying and such and something threw me off..

She got kinda sexuall with her answers to everything i asked.. First of all she explains how its hard to find a guy around here, they're either really old, really young or are in a long term relationship.. I say
"ya i was that guy until a couple of years ago"

her: see, good available men are hard to find"
me: well that depends on where your looking, i know theres lots of old people here in WPB, you should stop party'n here and go to fort lauderdale, thats where i live so i party there, up here in WPB its so boring"
her: ya i haven't really went there too much, its kinda far and i can get pretty drunk so i wouldn't want to have to drive back after that"
me: ya i hear ya.. You ever go down to Miami?? Lots of people there, lots of energy!
Her:Ya, but miami is to crazy and wild, prolly get aids down there :lol:.

So after she said that and some other sexually oriented thoughts, i get confused like... *WTF?? i haven't mentioned anything sexual, why does she keep insinuating sexual shit?? is she try'n to test me to see how i'll react??*

So i change the subject, and asked her how she knew i was Jamaican??

She began to explain her logic mentioning that Jamaicans are really polite and curtious and such, and as shes explaining another one of her guy friends walks in the bar and she turns her attention to him in excitement.. So i just finish my sake and get up to go, she turns at me and looks and i give her a nod like "c ya" She says bye. And i leave...

So.... 2 days later i call her one night like
"hey whats up? Its onyx"

her:hey you! thanks for calling what re you up to?
me:not much just home drinking a beer, figured i'd give you a call and see whats up?
her:well im on my way to a Christmas party now"
mehh, sounds like fun
her: not really, its work stuff ya know lol
me: ya i hear ya, but at least its a reason to get a little tipsy, for free at that.
She lol's and i say
"well, since you're on ur way i'll let you go"
her: ok, is this your cell number?
me: ya, im usually up at all hours of the night, so gimme a call whenever you get a chance ok? So have fun!
Her: ok thanks for calling, bye!

I say bye and hang up... 3 days later, no call from her.. So i give her a call.. No answer, i leave a message.. Blah blah blah.. give me a call when u get a chance, my number is 555-5555 bye.. No call back.. I call her again a week later.. No answer, so dont leave a message.

Obviously, i phucked up with this chick who seemed to be pretty into me, but i not sure exactly how or where.. Any advice or insight helps.. Cause this actually happend to me with another asain girl who seemed pretty into me me as well, untill after our first phone convo.. But since i already wrote this long winded book, i'll save that for another time.. Thanks in advance for insight and critiques on the subject at hand.
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[TheWanderer]

I don't wanna be her friends in a way but i still kinda. i mean who care if she rejected me, but just that she act mad weird. i just want everything between us is cool and to show her that im cool with what she did. but she on the other hand is being a lil bietch about it..

i gotta find a time where we're both not busy n sit her ass down n talk to her..

[pherai]

onyx: It's usually a bad call to be the one calling her a lot and make yourself very available. You've put the ball in her court, as have many other dudes apparently (the guy at the bar, the guy at the sushi place). Stop calling her and shes more likely to come around.

[laceysan]

Is your source the Bullshit Institute for Sexual Research?

I still don't get why guys want girls as friends.

lol at what you said ^

got that from womens studies (read: women that are no longer in high school and aren't super immature)
and its not really about wanting them as friends, but damn, having female friends opens you up to other chicks that might not even have come your way

would you rather just kick with the homies and try to holler? or open up your doors with a homegirl who you might get something lasting out of, or at the very least can introduce you to someone you might wanna get with

then again if you just want pussy, spit that game, hit it a few times and keep it movin

[onyx]

onyx: It's usually a bad call to be the one calling her a lot and make yourself very available. You've put the ball in her court, as have many other dudes apparently (the guy at the bar, the guy at the sushi place). Stop calling her and shes more likely to come around.

Word. Well she didnt have my number till the call but it seemed to me as if she lost interest after that first conversation or maybee the conversation we were haveing in the bar.. So after the to other calls i made where i got voice mail, i just deleted her number, i dont expect to here from here at all. Do you see an error in our non phone coversation that might have made her loose interest? i was thinking maybee i was boring or because i didnt retort with sexual shit when she did, she might have thought i was'nt interested.. I dunno.

[w1r3d]

i think it's like he said - you made yourself too available. it sounds like everything was fine (conversation-wise) up until that point.

i don't know what to recommend at this point, but in the future i'd refrain from leaving voice messages (to any girl) it's very anti-challenge.

typing on the psp sucks, haha

[Naslectronical]

lol at what you said ^

got that from womens studies (read: women that are no longer in high school and aren't super immature)
and its not really about wanting them as friends, but damn, having female friends opens you up to other chicks that might not even have come your way

would you rather just kick with the homies and try to holler? or open up your doors with a homegirl who you might get something lasting out of, or at the very least can introduce you to someone you might wanna get with

then again if you just want pussy, spit that game, hit it a few times and keep it movin

Well said.

This is why I think the friend zone only applies when you and/or she are only looking for sex.

In that case, you need to just get going instead of wasting time getting to know her, etc, because if you take too long, she's going to go to another guy who's willing and able.

If you want something more serious, however, it's best to go the friend route while letting her know that are indeed interested in her, because the best relationships do start as friendships, and of course it does make sense to get to know her, spend time with her, etc in that particular case.

[Phoenix Wright]

Nice little story from last night.

So I'm in my god-sons 1st birthday party last night. The amount of ass there was amazing. There's this one chick, pretty hot and she's single and has her daughter with her. So We make small talk, I play with her daughter a bit (no pedophile). We dance a little bachata (i can't dance, I told her before hand and she didnt really give a shit, she told me that i was pretty good for someone who didn't know). While we're dancing she gets really really close. When she danced with other dudes, she wouldn't grind or anything. Later on at night, She's ready to leave, I agreed to walk her to the trainstation. Right before we leave this dude tries to holla at her. He's all like "can i be her new step father" and all that shit. Then the entire room pressures her into talking to him, she takes his number down and they make small talk. When she leaves people still put pressure on her, he walks up to her and offers her a ride, she's like "no thanks." Then dude tells her "bla bla bla, I got mercedez benz bla bla bla" and she's like "ew nigga no". So we're outside and she says "damn i should contact your mom about that cake, it was slammin" (hint hint, it was her offering to exchange numbers) so im like "oh why don't you give me your # so that i can save it." she gave it, we talked some more and I took her to the trainstation. Good Shit;

Here are the lessons that I learned.

If a girl is looking at you constantly, say something... anything.

Physical Appearance isn't as important as we think it is. Of course smelling bad is always a huge no-no but as long as you present yourself decently it's all good. (I was wearing casual clothes and i was in dying need of a shapeup.

Take it easy, don't beast on the woman. Don't treat her like a queen but don't completely ignore her either. Be nice, but don't be too nice. Be funny, but don't be a fucking clown. Be strong but don't be an asshole. Elevate the conversation and touching sloowly. Don't jump and make her uncomfortable.

Don't try to impress her with your car. Having a car is cool, but shoving your cars namebrand down someones throat is a huge sign that you have no cock.

[Ninja Wallace]

Word. Well she didnt have my number till the call but it seemed to me as if she lost interest after that first conversation or maybee the conversation we were haveing in the bar.. So after the to other calls i made where i got voice mail, i just deleted her number, i dont expect to here from here at all. Do you see an error in our non phone coversation that might have made her loose interest? i was thinking maybee i was boring or because i didnt retort with sexual shit when she did, she might have thought i was'nt interested.. I dunno.

Dude, you always retort with sexual shit. No matter what. She mentions cancer and you fucking retort with sexual shit. She mentions her pet, you retort with sexual shit. Dead grandma? Sexual shit. The molecular structure of an atom? Sexual shit. Dudes? Sexual fuckin' shit.

And Phoenix, chicks with kids are a no-no.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Dude, you always retort with sexual shit. No matter what. She mentions cancer and you fucking retort with sexual shit. She mentions her pet, you retort with sexual shit. Dead grandma? Sexual shit. The molecular structure of an atom? Sexual shit. Dudes? Sexual fuckin' shit.

And Phoenix, chicks with kids are a no-no.

:Extends hand to ninja for a handshake: Yehhhhhhhh!!! lol every chance u get to make a sexual comment of any sort u have to expose it... Doin this at least lets them know ur sexually aware...

onyx from one jamaican to another! its possible u might of blew it... all the interactions u guys had and u didnt try and progress at all.... And leavin all those voicemails didnt help at all either... that makes u seem a lil like a feen... and girls arent attracted to feens..

One thing u could of done though... and this could help for later interactions...

When u first saw her wif the guy u thought was her boyfriend u should of said something like "So how long have u guys been together or how long have u guys known each other" the answer to ur real question(are u two guys together) would of came out... makes sense??

lol dam onyx Mi nuh Know How u coulda let dat likkle slim ting slide like dat star!:sad:

[Biolink]

Phoenix she has a kid.

Unless you are prepared to be 2nd to her kid,it's going to be hard to work it out

[Phoenix Wright]

Phoenix she has a kid.

Unless you are prepared to be 2nd to her kid,it's going to be hard to work it out

I'm not trying to wife her lol.

[Biolink]

If you aren't going to be in a relationship with her.

Hit it,and never look back.

I'm sure she'll be wishing she chose the other guy though :rofl:

[Koop]

I'm not trying to wife her lol.

i say.... say whats on ya mind. But bio is right on the battling the kid... regardless if u tryin to get some pussy... its a timing battle...

HAVE FUN RIGHT NOW


dont go in looking for a 'relationship'..... your dating.... feel out her time/schedule/style... an you can work it from there ... dont hit it an never look back cause you put yourself in a situation where she are a connection to you via people from that party an she wants to know bout that cake... so dont be grimy to a single mother... you do that to a random chick that can move on wit no problem... single mothers tend to ball up an get revengeful... so say whats on ya mind an have fun playboi... go easy an keep ya eyes open an READ BETWEEN THE LINES when you feel things may start getting heavy (eg... possible new step father material)

[pherai]

got that from womens studies (read: women that are no longer in high school and aren't super immature)


That already makes me skeptical. You can never trust shit like that.


and its not really about wanting them as friends, but damn, having female friends opens you up to other chicks that might not even have come your way

would you rather just kick with the homies and try to holler? or open up your door