The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Naslectronical]

Yeah, theoretically you are right, but I'm offering this advice based of things that have happened to real men. In real life, they won't investigate, and the chances of getting falsely accused are going to be a lot higher if you've actually fucked a girl at work. I'm not saying this is super common, but it isn't worth the risk. You want to do it, go ahead. You may get fired, and you may not, but it does really happen, so I'd advise anyone against it.

No, in real life, human resources would investigate what happened as they would with any other matter. They don't just fire a person whenever someone claims wrongdoing, because if they did that without proof, the company would be leaving themselves open to a lawsuit for wrongful termination.

The idea that there's a higher chance of it happening if you sleep with a woman you work with is just your opinion and isn't something that you can prove. Besides, if it did happen, it would be because the woman got mad at you for some reason, and you don't have to sleep with a woman in order for that to happen. You could just say or do something to piss her off, so like I said, you may as well just avoid all risk and not even so much as speak to any women at work.

Seriously, this idea that women can just make up a claim about sexual harassment and get whomever they want fired is just as silly as saying that a minority can get whatever job they want because they could just make up a bullshit claim about discrimination if they didn't get it. Either idea is ridiculous because white men still hold all the power in the workplace, in this country at least.

[Shiro_420]

I met this girl about 3 months ago. we've been dating since than (3 months 1 week tomorrow)

We kissed no the first day, hit the bed and bounced on the 2nd week yada yada

Every thing between us had been going good.

But this is where it got really bad, you seea few weeks ago I went to her house for the weekend (as I had been doing for a while now) and I took her out to the movies, her dad watched her kid for her (8 months old now).

the movie was fine we enjoyed it on the way back I got her a coffee and my self one. we go to her place and it was fine, nothing strange happened.

Then the next day we go to the flee market get a few things. then we hit the mall and she starts bitching that I don't listen to her. Now at this point I got pissed and said Me: really? well I'll not listen to you some where else I got mad walked away form her and later on she txt's me and ask if im still mad. I replay YES. Because she had been pissing me off with always saying I don't listen.

Any how we made up and it came night time at her place and it was a sat which usually means (boogie time!)Any how. She was complaining she had a head ach. so I go and get her some Advil from the store. she takes it gets all grossed out and goes to bed. now at this point im like wtf . I get mad leave next day she ask me whats wrong the next da I tell her she think its childish LOL

then I was in her room looking for a PIC of her and come across her journal. (accident)
she catches me reading it and since then there been a few things that ruin our trust she coughed me looking threw her phone (only to get my number to call for my phone) (I don’t know it) I got mad when she was txting some dude she almost fell in love with. now I don’t know what to do to try and earn some trust. also I live with her now became my mom did some dumb shit to us and she offered me to stay in her house.

She lives how I am with her kid and all but I just dot know what to do here


here goes goes the second

well I’ve been with this girl for 4 months 2 weeks and everything goes good every once in a while things go bad really really bad

but nothing went worse than when this guy Clayton now he is a guy whom she use to be in love with well I know she still is but w/e any how we fought when they talked because ima jellus guy but it was justified then he called her a few days ago she said they were going to meet up and she needed to meet him alone with out me I said why do you think im going to fight him or something

she said no I said do you not trust me she said I don’t trust my self if I will have the same feelings for him I said would you be with him even if he had the baby she said yes shit was deep I actually cried she consulted me saying I had nothing o worry about she probably wont have feelings for him bla BLA BLA

but sure enough they met yesterday and she did have those feels in she lied to me saying she didn’t but in her journal she said different said all those feeling came flushing back into her and she wanted to be with him and that he only said that maybe someday in the future now when I read that I called this guy

I had talked to him before that and we seen eye to eye he said I go t ntoh8ngto worry about he just wants to be friends all this shit and then we had a bit of a word fight ut we cooled it off my older brother got a hold of his number threaten him he calls me saying he wants out he doesn’t want to have my brother trying to shoot him

as my brother was going to do now he said I wont txt her I wont call her I’ll just avoid her I said that not going to work because she will still have these feeling for you ., you need to say to her that you don’t want anything to do with her or this wont work he said that to her

but before he did I got a call this morning and he said I am not trying to start shit but when I was talking to her at timmys she said she didn’t have any strong feelings for you and that if in 2months she still doesn’t she is going to break up with you now I knew I was in trouble so I asked him to say what I told him to

and he said he would and would end this shit cause he has a bay on the way and a girl he loves and doesn’t need the drama so I cam in. told her weather I had to say told her to really think on the last 4 months and that I wanted her to figure her things out and tell me by tonight and that what ever happens I still wish her the best then his txt came in.

she went to the washroom and cried like crazy she came out. I asked what was wrong her Said nothing then later she went to her room I seen she was throwing out her old stuff and the journal abut their whole relationship. so I though everything was good but I get back here now and the journal isn’t in the trash and she writes and let me quote

everyone wants to be that special person to the one to make the other person think of nothing else
but them. As I sit here my mind is going in different directions

I've been hurt again very badly by the same guy, he said its to stressful with me around we have special people in our lives and that we don’t want to hurt

he says its hard with me because of old feelings

we said our goodbyes
part of me thinks its for ever

part of me thinks its only good bye for now and that one day we will find each other in the future

so I went threw my stiff to get rid of the past

as I did I was finding myself clinging to it

the past is ful of terrible memories but I’ve had many good ones to with the bad

so im getting rid of something, im getting rid of many memoirs of Clayton. I'm going to pick up the shaterd pieces of my heart and in time will mend

my focus will be devoted entirely to my daughter

rose school and dance

all I ask, is that the lord is Wirth me during this difficult time and time heals all

will I must finish what I stared take care

she was going to go out dancing tonight until this all happened, so now she is going to go to her friends house for the night and said we'd talk tomorrow. So I cant really say we talked. she did txtd me it said “Steve just give me time I want to be with u. I hurt right now. but it has to do with you and Clayton. but im figuring it out. I just need time. So I replied “I understand , you do what you have to do just make out you’re your feelings just make sure you do the right thing”

she replied "I know"

then I got a call from her asking when I was coming back and where I was, I said "why" "guess what" "what?". She says "I'll tell you later or tomorrow" "ok?" at that point I'm like FUCK, this cant be any good for me.

Then when me and jinrai are driving back here I see her her friend and her babies dad going by. I'm like oh shit. So I txt her saying oh shit is that eddy? She says "what??

So I reply "Well me and Paul drove by Timmy on the way here and I see you rose jess and some brown guy walking.

I know you seen me to. LOL I asked your dad and she said they wanted to know if he could come in here and I said nope. But im happy for you and rose

I'm happy for you two, at least now rose has her dad. She txt's me back

Ya. Actually I didn't see you. But I'll see you in a bit. Haven’t txtd her back, this was about 40 min ago.

Ok so now she came back. She said she was feeling better about things showed me PICS of her eddy (babies dad) and baby. So it was good.

I asked if she wanted this to work she has to be 100% devoted to me. She said she still has feelings for this guy. She said she has to get over him and we talked back and forth. And at one point it came down to me saying are you saying that you think we should break up? She said I think so. My whole world fell apart at this point. I turned her to me saying I don’t want this to end we can work on this ( basically I was pleading) She said she will sleep on it and tell me when she sees me. she is going to her friends house. I went to give her a kiss goodbye and got her forehead. and I said you cant even kiss me now... she rose her head and gave me a weak kiss. I think there isn't much I can do on this. its pretty much done with. what can I do now..

[Shotokan Symphony]

Bwahahahahahahaha!

[Oroman]

I'd help you but that is way too long.

[pherai]

No, in real life, human resources would investigate what happened as they would with any other matter. They don't just fire a person whenever someone claims wrongdoing, because if they did that without proof, the company would be leaving themselves open to a lawsuit for wrongful termination.

The idea that there's a higher chance of it happening if you sleep with a woman you work with is just your opinion and isn't something that you can prove.

And you can't prove it otherwise bub. I've heard the same story many times. Fuck, if you want to fuck chicks at your work place, go right ahead. I'm just going by what I've heard. Just because something doesn't seem logical to you doesn't mean it isn't in the realm of possibility.

[AzN_Skater]

Seriously, I can't read that story. Please edit your post to a readable format. Thanks!

And it's not worth it to sleep with co-workers unless it's a shitty job (like Walmart, or a restaurant, or something). Definitely not worth it in a career job.

[SRKev]

Bwahahahahahahaha!

My thoughts exactly.

Wow.

[?AC]

do girls in general prefer circumsized dicks ?

ive never ever seen a porno vid with a guy who has a uncircumsized dick

[tech master]

do girls in general prefer circumsized dicks ?

duh. its visually more appealing and accepted more as "normal." Although not necessary in modern day, its tradition. Also the molding of a circumcised penis maybe more physically stimulating in a vagina. think of a vagina with EXTRA EXTRA beef curtain. that feeling you just got, is probably what they feel for uncircumsized pen0r.

[Wolfkiller]

This new girl I'm sorta dating is mad crazy paranoid about getting preggers. She's on birth control and has NEVER had sex without a condom. I've never had much luck with condoms. So with the condom issues and worrying about failing because of it combined, I chumped out our first time. Hella embarrassing.

All I got is some generic Lifestyles rubbers you get free everywhere. Any tips on some top tier condoms out there? Something that isn't going to choke out my penis or make it feel like he's falling asleep from boredom?

[Shiro_420]

i didnt think people on here would just laugh in my face and be so crule about it. This is some of the most deepest shit to happen to me. I guess i'll just seek advice somewhere else

[S.Snk3]

i didnt think people on here would just laugh in my face and be so crule about it. This is some of the most deepest shit to happen to me. I guess i'll just seek advice somewhere else

for what i understood of that, this girl has a kid plus feelings for some other guy, i think that is not worth the trouble.

[pherai]

i didnt think people on here would just laugh in my face and be so crule about it. This is some of the most deepest shit to happen to me. I guess i'll just seek advice somewhere else

Dump her ass and don't date single mothers. Christ that shit was hard to read.

[tech master]

This new girl I'm sorta dating is mad crazy paranoid about getting preggers. She's on birth control and has NEVER had sex without a condom. I've never had much luck with condoms. So with the condom issues and worrying about failing because of it combined, I chumped out our first time. Hella embarrassing.

All I got is some generic Lifestyles rubbers you get free everywhere. Any tips on some top tier condoms out there? Something that isn't going to choke out my penis or make it feel like he's falling asleep from boredom?

me and my friends agreed that when having sex with a condom, just tap as fast as possible and get that shit over with. The decrease in pleasure allows you to tap faster. Ask her if you can skeet on her in some way that turns you on, so you have somethin to look forward to.

Also, the key is to get more creative to make up for possible loss in interest. Let her know that its not as much of a turn on using a condom. Have foreplay and make sure you both do a good job. then when you're ready, have her put the condom on with her mouth or some other sexual ass way. If you like goin down town, then have her put it on while 69'n or somethin.

You know what you like, you just gotta focus on that other shit + creativity.

[Pat the Great]

i didnt think people on here would just laugh in my face and be so crule about it. This is some of the most deepest shit to happen to me. I guess i'll just seek advice somewhere else

i bet you could get some great advice over here. (http://www.esl.net/textbooks.html) :wgrin:

[AzN_Skater]

i didnt think people on here would just laugh in my face and be so crule about it. This is some of the most deepest shit to happen to me. I guess i'll just seek advice somewhere else

I'm pretty sure it's because your grammar and spelling is so terrible. It took some kinda effort to actually read that.

However...

You need to let her figure her own shit out. If she still has feelings for this other dude, than there's no point in having a relationship because you'll never be able to fully trust her. She doesn't sound like she is ready to be in a stable relationship if the thought of her ex brings her to tears.

Remain hopeful, but you have to give her space to left her sort out her own feelings. You don't want to be caught in some relationship where there's so much emotional baggage that it affects your day to day.

Just stay on your grind.

[tech master]

i didnt think people on here would just laugh in my face and be so crule about it. This is some of the most deepest shit to happen to me. I guess i'll just seek advice somewhere else

Dood, from the story it just seems like you are the rebound guy. She still has feelings for dood, and you guys fighting just makes her 10x more upset considering she's already confused. Also, threatening is gay considering you're threatening the man your girl still loves. (who knows, he could have been hood too and you could have been put on some niggas hitlist) You can't force her to love you or play cupid trying to make shit work by making the other guy say shit. Thats just stalker shit.

Just leave her alone, wait til she seems normal about shit, then give it a try again. You already know she was probably going to dump you, she is still obsessed with dood, she has a kid from another man. It just doesnt seem right. You need to re-evaluate things. Wait for her to straightin up and while she's doing that, you can see where you want things to go after having some time away(sane time)

[Shiro_420]

Wow.. Thanks Calvin. I guess thats really the only way i can look at it. thank you

Tech

I didn't ask for the guy to be thretend. That happend behind my back and i told him i wasnt trying to beef him but i was down to fight. I dont want to fight, i just want things to be good with me and her. I didnt tell him what to say so much as say if you really want to cut things off with ehr you cant just ignor her for ever. she's going to keep coming for you until you let her know whats really going on. So he did.

But she has gone to her friends house tonight, to "think" about things. So theres really nothing i can do about it. just wait until tomorrow. I guess we'll see then. if it doesnt work out then i guess i'll be moving out. I'll talk to her ina few months to see whats going on, but if there isnt a chance then, well then i guess i really didnt stand a chance to begin with

[orochizoolander]

lots of words big sad dram filled story


Seriously GTFO for real, this bitch cheated on you and if she hasn't she will sooner or later (prolly sooner rather then later) it sounds like u went through alotta shit for her and that ur 100% devoted to her while shes not giving u an 1/8 of that in return. It's gonna really suck to forget about her and move on but trust me it's for the better u said u been with her for 3months...can u fucking imagine how bad it will get if u stay with her?

She likes someone else more then you, she has a kid from someone that isn't you, she made u feel like shit while u didn't do anything to deserve it...not that hard to figure out what ur next move should be:wink:


Wash ur hands clean of the whole mess it's not worth it and u know it but maybe ur a masochist i dunno hope i could help.

[Shiro_420]

Yeah I pretty much said, fuck it. I told her today that there isn’t anything to work out. You just want to see where things are going to go, see if you can develop feelings for me. Well I’m not going to be strung along. She said she's tired of talking and just wants to focus on her and her daughter. I said I'm ending this. Without even giving it a second thought she said ok. I felt like punching her, but that’s really beneath me. I don't really have anywhere to go but back to momma’s house (fuck) she kept saying you should just stay here until you can move into your own place.

I said to her, where am I s’pose to sleep, on the couch? Fuck that. Every time I see you I want to kiss you and hold you. But that’s not going to happen. I'm leaving, what other choices do I have. She just said, well im giving you a choice, you can stay here. I don't want to stay somewhere out of sympathy.

So I'm gone today. Fuck her. The only thing that’s hard is saying goodbye to the kid. Wish I knew this shit four months ago, I would have never been involved

[ChunLi]

I'd love to put my 2 cents in for shiro.. so for all my fellas who did read his long ass story... can ya'll give me a cliffnote version? =) hehe

[pherai]

It's one of those stories that you think can't get worse every sentence, yet it does.

It's been a week or so, but something like...


Dating a girl with a kid

Girl still has feelings for her ex

Girl cheats on him iirc


Tale as old as time :arazz:

[Javid]

Nothing but sad stories in here...seriously Shiro, listen to what these guys have to say. Do you actually think this can last in the long run?

[thurst]

@shiro:
beat her, bitches love that shit. but seriously if you want people to give good responses learn to spell and use paragraphs. but from what i read you do come as a bit of an asshole getting upset bcuz she wanted to take a nap or whatever after taking some advil.

@chunli:
he was going with this chick who had a kid and was still in love with some other guy. apparently the chick and the other guy had a fight and she got all emotional, shiro finds out and is like "wtf" and then she was like "*shrug* i think we need to break up so i can get back with that other guy that i'm in love with"...and then they did. i might've left out some details bcuz i skipped a few middle paragraphs and the journal entry he quoted.

[Warpticon]

My story isn't sad...yet. I didn't tell how I put off the cockblocking.

We went on what most people would call a date (guy + girl together for dinner and a show, on valentine's day no less, then back to her place for a while), but there's been no actual romantic tension to speak of. She's been gone the last two weekends out of town, so I haven't really gotten to see her but that one time when we watched The Constant Gardener (Derek was there, too, though he wasn't really over-the-top in his attention monopoly). But we had a 5 minute conversation last Thursday that turned into nearly an hour talking about this and that and the other.

Well, we had previously talked about her cooking indian for me, and me making smoothies for her, and both of us watching The Godfather because neither of us have seen it. She suggested inviting people over, but I'm not trying to share the attention unless I absolutely have to. So I emailed Derek and told him he would be busy on Saturday. He asked me what I was talking about, so I told him that we were doing stuff at Lauren's, but he was going to be too busy to come along. :lol: He got the picture.

I haven't liked a girl this much in a looooong time. (And it's not like I"m in love with her or anything. I just really, really enjoy her company and conversation and find her quite attractive.) Maybe that's just due to the fact that I've had maybe 3 girls in the last 10 years I could say I was seriously attracted to at all. We have a ton of things in common. And I just need to get closer to her without too many outside distractions. Good thing she's going to start teaching me piano.

[BBQ]

Yeah man, it's bad to have other people on a date. Save that shit when there is an actual relationship going, when it's just been date number 2,3, you gotta keep it 1 on 1. I remember my ex wanting to see a movie with her friends and so I told her to have fun because I have only been on 1 date with her and I have no idea what her friends are like. She then asked if I was busy and I told her I had to do things for the military which was a lie but it worked and we had a second date the next day which got me closer to doing the deed.


Tomorrow I'm going to the club again but this time I'm going to disregard the eye patch and not let it effect my confidence when approaching women even though it is a club and majority of women in the club are idiots.

[SF_PHOCUS]

lol Hmm havent been in here in a lil while.... Lol I hung up my advice jersery

[ChunLi]

snip

I don't know if you spoke of Lauren before so I'm not sure if there is a history..but SHE KNOWS you like her right? Going out with someone unless there's actual words exchanged on one feels or physical touching... isn't clear whether or not you guys are friends or more than friends. Please clarify. Thanks hun!

[JackTenrac!]

So, I finally went out with that girl I was interested in. We went to a restaurant. I gave her the v-day card I got for her(Peanuts, $7.00), and showed her my Mr. Men Mr. Noisy Shirt. I probably did alot of things wrong(like tell her that I'm paying for everything because I'm a gentleman), but was it enough to make her NOT call. We talked alot,and she said to call her Sunday. I call her Monday, and Tuesday, but she was busy both times.

A few weeks before and after the date, I couldn't get her off of my mind. Heck, I even stopped my Facebook account just to take my mind off of her(and other things). I don't know, about it, anymore. Thought I had the upper hand in all this. I have other numbers, but I want to see how far we'd go.

SRK, need some answers, please?

[ProfessorS]

SRK, I need your help again...stripper related help.

One of my sister's friends, "Abby" is a stripper. Okay, not really, she got hired at some joint in town, but was too busy with her other job and school to work there. She's pretty skinny and short, but has nice boobs for being so short and skinny. But as far as SRK preferences go, she DEFINITELY does not match them :rofl: Anyway, I want to get ahold of this, I don't know her well enough to know whether I want a relationship or if I should just tap it, so I'm going to tell you a little about what I know about her and you guys give me some advice on how to go about it.

If anything, this girl has damaged goods written all over her, she was raised by her mother(I don't know any details about her dad), and has had a series of abusive, or uncaring boyfriends. The most recent one was this fat, ugly dude, who just happened be a nice, outgoing and fun guy. He just treated her like garbage. He may or may not have cheated her and last summer was using Abby as the "other woman" in his new relationship. Abby is pretty easy to convince to do stuff, she is currently running around with a group of friends who make her party all the time and deep down, I don't think she likes it that much. One time I was talking to her about 6 months ago and she claimed she wanted a nice guy, who actually gave a shit to what happened to her during the day. Now I know there is a huge gap between what girls say they want and what they actually go after, so I took that comment with a grain of alst.

As far as I go, I can do the whole asshole thing, but once I get in a relationship, I tend to treat girlfriends pretty well. This has gotten me into trouble in the past, girls are initially intrigued by my assholeish/cocky nature and start to like me, then once we're official I turn into this "nice guy" and they lose interest.

Abby and I have talked and flirted on AIM a bit recently and we're going to hang out and cook some food sometime(No definite date set yet). My sister doesn't think I can get anywhere with Abby, but I think she's full of shit. My deal with this is, I've got "knight in shining armor" written all over me, y'know a good guy with a bright future "saving" a girl from her debaucherous lifestyle. And while that sounds nice on paper, it usually doesn't work out like that in real life.

So yeah, long story short, I'm a nice guy who is interested in a low-self esteem former stripper. Any advice or input for dealing with this?

Pics forthcoming

[AzN_Skater]

A few weeks before and after the date, I couldn't get her off of my mind. Heck, I even stopped my Facebook account just to take my mind off of her(and other things). I don't know, about it, anymore. Thought I had the upper hand in all this. I have other numbers, but I want to see how far we'd go.

I feel ya (no homo). This is a pretty awesome but equally terrible feeling all rolled up into one.

Warp: My only advice to you is don't get trapped in the dreaded FZ. From what I can tell, you guys are just chillin' like buddies. You gotta make some kinda move or the friend zone will haunt you forever.

[Seijuro-HIko]

words


Honestly with damaged goods be prepared for anything. From my personal experiences, women always say they want a nice guy but they go after the complete opposite. If it were me I'd just hit it and quit it because I know how the whole situation will turn out.

If you do decide to go the knight in shiney armor route just do one important thing. Don't get too involved with her. I know for a fact in the long run she will lose interest and go back to the assholes.

[FreddyL0c0]

the numbers game is scary. I dunno if I should pursue.

Also, I recall people talking about dating co-workers....but correct me if im wrong, but I thought that, after finishing school/university, most relationships get formed through the workplace....since not everybody will holla at a random hot chick on the streets, while work insta ice-breaks that. School too...man schooool is like a goldmine....well depends on the program one takes obviously. (elective psych/socialogy classes)

/ends random rant.

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ProfessorS, that stripper chick seems like a good friends with benefits to have...dunno if u should be catching feelings for her though

[Silentness!]

I'd help you but that is way too long.

I'll be honest, but I thought the same thing

[SF_PHOCUS]

I'll be honest, but I thought the same thing

lol its always the long post that are hard as hell to answer:sad:

[Shotokan Symphony]

So yeah, long story short, I'm a nice guy who is interested in a low-self esteem former stripper. Any advice or input for dealing with this?

Yes.

Don't.

[pherai]

most relationships get formed through the workplace

Fuck, I should hope not. You still got supermarkets, coffee shops, malls (or bars for hook ups). Just too much bad can come from it.

Regarding a stripper, I'd avoid it, as well as avoiding women who were raised by their mothers. Generally a good way to gauge how a girl will be in a relationship is how her relationship with her father is.

[Tigerboi]

So, I finally went out with that girl I was interested in. We went to a restaurant. I gave her the v-day card I got for her(Peanuts, $7.00), and showed her my Mr. Men Mr. Noisy Shirt. I probably did alot of things wrong(like tell her that I'm paying for everything because I'm a gentleman), but was it enough to make her NOT call. We talked alot,and she said to call her Sunday. I call her Monday, and Tuesday, but she was busy both times.

A few weeks before and after the date, I couldn't get her off of my mind. Heck, I even stopped my Facebook account just to take my mind off of her(and other things). I don't know, about it, anymore. Thought I had the upper hand in all this. I have other numbers, but I want to see how far we'd go.

SRK, need some answers, please?

You put her on a pedestal. Never, ever, EVER do that to a woman because you instantly DON'T have the upper-hand. It seems you had a big crush on her, that's ok, but it's generally not a good idea to let it show.

There is no certain way to act around a woman. Just act yourself. I mean, yeah, common manners apply, but yeah. The thing is, she had to impress you just as much as you had to impress her. I think you may have lost sight of that in your crush for her.

So what impresses you? if a girl impresses you simply by looking pretty, then you need to raise your standards because that means you'll settle for any psycho. A girl has to have her shit in order. she can't be a snobby bitch. she can't be a lazy-ass. she can't be shallow or piety. so yeah, if you don't already, you need to make a standard for them to live up to.


So what impresses them? well, from my experience, girls like to be put in check. Treat them casually; they're a human being just like you. She has no real mental ability that you lack. So if she's playing games you need to toss her. Don't get wrapped around her finger.

And on a small note....well, i know alot of niggas like to buy the food, but....I never have. I mean, if we're on a first date, then technically we're not together, meaning I don't have to do you any favors. You got a job, buy your own damn food.

Professor: you COULD give her a try, but don't get serious too soon and don't put up wih her playing games. Get her addicted, but don't get yourself addicted.

[Silentness!]

Ah I need to find a cool girl to hang out with.

... fuck it I'm too lazy :rofl:

But nah seriously I should work on getting some numbers and shit. Even if I have to use sign language/body language to try and get a Korean girl's number.

American chicks yeah are easy, but a girl that speaks little to none English :wasted:

[Trix]

Ah I need to find a cool girl to hang out with.

... fuck it I'm too lazy :rofl:

But nah seriously I should work on getting some numbers and shit. Even if I have to use sign language/body language to try and get a Korean girl's number.

American chicks yeah are easy, but a girl that speaks little to none English :wasted:

I think it's finally time you hit that "Learn the Korean language" book now.. :smile:

[JackTenrac!]

So what impresses them? well, from my experience, girls like to be put in check. Treat them casually; they're a human being just like you. She has no real mental ability that you lack. So if she's playing games you need to toss her. Don't get wrapped around her finger.

And on a small note....well, i know alot of niggas like to buy the food, but....I never have. I mean, if we're on a first date, then technically we're not together, meaning I don't have to do you any favors. You got a job, buy your own damn food.


It's cool. We talked about it last night. Apparently, I did fuck up. She just wants to be friends, the way we were 8 months ago. ugh.

There were other things I liked about her that wasn't just cosmetics. The way she thought. The voice she had. Crap like that. There was more.

[Warpticon]

I don't know if you spoke of Lauren before so I'm not sure if there is a history..but SHE KNOWS you like her right? Going out with someone unless there's actual words exchanged on one feels or physical touching... isn't clear whether or not you guys are friends or more than friends. Please clarify. Thanks hun!

I'm not sure if she does, and I'm not sure if I'm gong to eventually go anywhere with it anyway as I'm still feeling her out. We're friends at present. I think she has potential.

Tigerboi is on point with his advice there, particularly with the whole "she has to impress you as much as you have to impress her" business. Yeah, I know if you've been into her for a while, it's hard to not be in "capitalize, capitalize, capitalize!" mode. But overexertion is actually counterproductive. Most women love a confident man, as it exudes a degree of strength. If you're cowtowing to her in an attempt to impress her, that's not the impression you'll give her at all. In reality, nobody should be *trying* to impress the other.

Warp: My only advice to you is don't get trapped in the dreaded FZ. From what I can tell, you guys are just chillin' like buddies. You gotta make some kinda move or the friend zone will haunt you forever.

I'm not really scared of the "friend zone." Like I said, I'm still feeling her out. And if she turns out to be a good friend and practice, then so be it. I can still get a lot out of her. I am definitely attracted, but still not sure if I want her to be my girl, so making an outright advance would be sort of pointless.

[thurst]

I think it's finally time you hit that "Learn the Korean language" book now.. :smile:

word, drop some 안년하세요's and get you some cheeks son!

[SF_PHOCUS]

Ah I need to find a cool girl to hang out with.

... fuck it I'm too lazy :rofl:

But nah seriously I should work on getting some numbers and shit. Even if I have to use sign language/body language to try and get a Korean girl's number.

American chicks yeah are easy, but a girl that speaks little to none English :wasted:
lol good looks wif the person who makes the nwo AV's... Got myself a Nick Patrick lol :chat:

[tech master]

Ah I need to find a cool girl to hang out with.

... fuck it I'm too lazy :rofl:

But nah seriously I should work on getting some numbers and shit. Even if I have to use sign language/body language to try and get a Korean girl's number.

American chicks yeah are easy, but a girl that speaks little to none English :wasted:

this post hella just made me think of quagmire doin the giggity giggity dance to a korean girl that doesnt speak english... allllriighhhhhht hahaha

[SF_PHOCUS]

this post hella just made me think of quagmire doin the giggity giggity dance to a korean girl that doesnt speak english... allllriighhhhhht hahaha

lol funnyyyyyy:rofl:

[Rekka1210]

how does srk feel about dating pregnant women? i'm curious to find out since i'm going out to eat with one on saturday.

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[pherai]

how does srk feel about dating pregnant women?

This is something really preferential, but you need to think hard about it. There is nothing inherently bad about pregnant women, or single mothers, but 99% of guys are bothered by it. The thing is, 50% won't admit it, and bury those feelings because they feel bad, or like everything else about the chick so much they ignore it for now. If you feel totally confident that you won't be bothered by the father of the kid being around, or taking care of (possibly financially) another mans child, then go for it playboy.

Consider one more thing though. Women are experts in evaluating the desirability of people, both men and women. Men only know what they desire personally. What I'm getting at is, a lot of guys will take a single mother, or a stripper, or a girl with bad credit/spending habits because they are the hottest piece of ass they've ever attracted. The reason they've attracted it though is because their status as a single mother, stripper, or financial drain has made them less desirable. I'm not saying this is the case with you, but sometimes hot girls go after you because they know they can't do any better.

[Tigerboi]

It's cool. We talked about it last night. Apparently, I did fuck up. She just wants to be friends, the way we were 8 months ago. ugh.

There were other things I liked about her that wasn't just cosmetics. The way she thought. The voice she had. Crap like that. There was more.

You put her on a pedestal, tough. no matter how you look at it. That never turns out good even if you get with the girl.

[Phoenix Wright]

Post

Get rid of her. She's a whore.

[Silentness!]

how does srk feel about dating pregnant women? i'm curious to find out since i'm going out to eat with one on saturday.

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Hot :tup:

Pregnant :tdown:

I mean it's one thing to have a kid, but to be going out with someone that's PREGNANT :confused: I mean you two will be going out and people will see you and her belly and think damn he must be hitting it strong!

Don't mind me I"m just rambling :wow:

[Tigerboi]

This is something really preferential, but you need to think hard about it. There is nothing inherently bad about pregnant women, or single mothers, but 99% of guys are bothered by it. The thing is, 50% won't admit it, and bury those feelings because they feel bad, or like everything else about the chick so much they ignore it for now. If you feel totally confident that you won't be bothered by the father of the kid being around, or taking care of (possibly financially) another mans child, then go for it playboy.

Consider one more thing though. Women are experts in evaluating the desirability of people, both men and women. Men only know what they desire personally. What I'm getting at is, a lot of guys will take a single mother, or a stripper, or a girl with bad credit/spending habits because they are the hottest piece of ass they've ever attracted. The reason they've attracted it though is because their status as a single mother, stripper, or financial drain has made them less desirable. I'm not saying this is the case with you, but sometimes hot girls go after you because they know they can't do any better.


Yeah, I consider that having low standards, which alot of men have.

[SF_PHOCUS]

how does srk feel about dating pregnant women? i'm curious to find out since i'm going out to eat with one on saturday.

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Ok 1 question.... wheres the baby father???????????????????????????????????:wtf:

and I wouldnt date a girl whose preggo.... watssss the pointtttt?????? like seriously u cant really do much.... and shes prolly a slide anyway.... why are u goin on dates while ur preggo??????:confused:

[Rekka1210]

Ok 1 question.... wheres the baby father???????????????????????????????????:wtf:

and I wouldnt date a girl whose preggo.... watssss the pointtttt?????? like seriously u cant really do much.... and shes prolly a slide anyway.... why are u goin on dates while ur preggo??????:confused:

her baby daddy's in kansas, i'm in illinois.

[Warpticon]

Well, so much for that. Time to find new weekend plans.

[AzN_Skater]

Well, so much for that. Time to find new weekend plans.

What happened?

[BBQ]

I got a couple friends that are in relationships with girls that they met at the club. Ever since they started dating these club rats it has changed how they are around their friends. If we hang out they have to bring their girlfriends, and it always ends up with one of them or even both causing drama, then having my friends get sucked into it which makes them go nuts and then they all abruptly leave being pissed at the world. And it's not entirely the girls' fault either; according to one of my friends both guys are the jealouse and obsessive type and I saw that Wednesday night at the club when one of said jealouse type punched this random guy in the face beause he was talking to his girlfriend and then left with out any of us knowing tell the next day.

This has been going on for months now I guess since I have been in school in another state since August and have been home only for a month now. I'm starting to see what my friends ment ever since I left home: every one has progressed as in finding girls but at the same time has made things shitty when ever every one wants to hang out like old times. 2 of my buddies asked the guys if they could just not bring their girlfriends for just one night and both of them got all stupid and acted all childish trying to avoid not bringing their girlfriends. Oh and to top it off one of them can't stop talking about his girlfriend, like every chance he would get he will start bragging about how hot she is.

It's something out of the twilight zone for me. Before I left for school during the summer I would hang out with these guys atleast once a week and they were great to hang out. But when they got these stupid bitches they became stupid bitches too! So I dunno SRK, I'm probably going to confront them myself one of these days when their club hoes are in the bathroom and tell them "Hey, you both been acting weird ever since you got with these girls, every one says the same thing and you gotta give yourselves some fucking breathing room and not be so damn obsessive." Something along the lines of that. I dunno any one else been through the same shit before?

[catchafire]

how does srk feel about dating pregnant women? i'm curious to find out since i'm going out to eat with one on saturday.

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Honestly, i'm not on that level. There is no way, in my current state, that I would want to date a woman who is pregnant unless I got her that way. If it's a fetish of yours, then that's cool, cuz your getting yours, but for a real relationship :rolleyes: :shake: :shake: :rolleyes:

Think about it for a second. No, think about it for as long as it will take you to figure it out. Are you ready for the emotional baggage that will follow? Why? There's nothing wrong with being a support and breaking her off, but damn, does she have to be the main squeeze???

[pherai]

I'd actually like to hear more peoples thoughts of BBQ's situation cause dudes get defensive so easily when you start talking about their girl, even indirectly. I've taken the approach that you just kind of lose them for that time, but that can't always be the case. What do you guys think?

[tech master]

I got a couple friends that are in relationships with girls that they met at the club. Ever since they started dating these club rats it has changed how they are around their friends. If we hang out they have to bring their girlfriends, and it always ends up with one of them or even both causing drama, then having my friends get sucked into it which makes them go nuts and then they all abruptly leave being pissed at the world. And it's not entirely the girls' fault either; according to one of my friends both guys are the jealouse and obsessive type and I saw that Wednesday night at the club when one of said jealouse type punched this random guy in the face beause he was talking to his girlfriend and then left with out any of us knowing tell the next day.

This has been going on for months now I guess since I have been in school in another state since August and have been home only for a month now. I'm starting to see what my friends ment ever since I left home: every one has progressed as in finding girls but at the same time has made things shitty when ever every one wants to hang out like old times. 2 of my buddies asked the guys if they could just not bring their girlfriends for just one night and both of them got all stupid and acted all childish trying to avoid not bringing their girlfriends. Oh and to top it off one of them can't stop talking about his girlfriend, like every chance he would get he will start bragging about how hot she is.

It's something out of the twilight zone for me. Before I left for school during the summer I would hang out with these guys atleast once a week and they were great to hang out. But when they got these stupid bitches they became stupid bitches too! So I dunno SRK, I'm probably going to confront them myself one of these days when their club hoes are in the bathroom and tell them "Hey, you both been acting weird ever since you got with these girls, every one says the same thing and you gotta give yourselves some fucking breathing room and not be so damn obsessive." Something along the lines of that. I dunno any one else been through the same shit before?

Well if they go clubbing a lot, I could understand being very obsessive and jealous. 90% of single guys at the club came there just to hollular at the beezies. Hell, i've seen a guy take a girls hand out of a guys hand to talk to her while she was walking by. I've been in fights/witnessed a bunch of fights because of guys talkin to takin women. Even if the girl politely tells them they're taken, sometimes they're just dumb and drunk and talk shit anyway. Guys don't realize that some girls actually do go to the club JUST TO DANCE. Then again, the guy should know this too and shouldn't leave his girls side unless she has to use the ladies room.

If your friend is still extremely jealous outside of the party scene, then he has to ask himself two things. Is it because he doesn't trust the guys around or is it because he doesn't trust his girl.

I had a pretty damn sexified woman and i had some friends that were obviously flirting with her. I've caught them lookin at the booty, eyeing her, one guy was thizzin and just started hella givin her compliments and staring at her all love dazed right infront of me. Then i was talkin to another girl (practically together. she bought me clothes, gave me money, paid for hella shit, slept with me and everything) and he was texting her WHILE she was sitting next to me on the couch. Tellin her to stop cupcaking and get out the house. Telling her that they should make out and what not. I learned to just not bring her around those guys.

If its the girl he doesnt trust, then there either must be a reason for that, or he's just dumb and you need to put him on blast for it.

If he's jealous besides at clubs, then it sounds like he just has the hot girl dilemma. She's totally utterly hot and knows every guy is gonna wanna do her (who wouldnt wanna do a hot girl?). In that case he needs to just realize that it comes with the goods and he has to deal with it, otherwise he's gonna lose the hot girl and be viewed as a little bitch infront of his friends. Women aren't pets that you can just lock them up and chain to your leg.

[BBQ]

^Exactly on the last part. But I guess the girls are the same way as in they always want to be with them where ever they go. I was jokingly telling my friend who told me about this bullshit that they might as well get married and save/get some more money on their taxes.

I guess another tid bit is that the "obsessive one" becomes like this when ever he is in a relationship. And I guess from his last girlfriend that was in a whole different state that was a thousand miles away, he would basically shut his friends out and just be committed to this girl and would fly out to see her every now and then when the girl would be fucking around with other guys and he would know it.

Maybe some people just can't be helped. I dunno, when ever I hang out with friends, I leave all the bullshit at home and enjoy my time. Especially at public places like the night club, these cats bring their drama and ruin not only their night but the people around them. I hate when people do this, why even bother comming out to begin with you know.

[tech master]

Jealous and Jealous relationships never work (if it continues for a long period of time). It just shows the lack of trust they have for each other. Me and my ex were the same way, but we learned to just accept it. We would take other guys/ladies lookin at us as compliments. As long the outside persons aren't disrespectful it just makes you smile that you both have hot significant others.

As weird as it sounds, the more you care about a person then you should care a little less. Being WAY overly obsessive and over thoughtful is bound to make your mind wonder and torture yourself. It also keeps the lady thinking she has to try real hard just to make the relationship work and make it stressful.

Your friend just needs to realize he has a hot girl and be happy with that (as long she is trustworthy) and relax and enjoy it. Live a normal life. Go to the club, and if he sees a guy just talkin to her (not booty bumpin, rubbin on her or whatever) then politely go over there and just be like "hey babe, ready for another dance/drink?." Then obviously she should just smile, and say yes.

If she's hot, she's GOING to get hit on and vice versa. What makes a relationship good is being able to deal with imminent problems, like that, that are thrown in your direction. It can only make the relationship better.

Maybe as a friend you should give him that advice?

[Murt!]

I was going to Hollywood with this girl today to hang/make out. I asked her if she could get a ride, and she texted me back saying "No i cant which sucks because i really want your tongue in my mouth today.".

Needless to say, instead of making beautiful music with her I ended up playing the trombone solo.

[J-ride]

"Hey, you both been acting weird ever since you got with these girls, every one says the same thing and you gotta give yourselves some fucking breathing room and not be so damn obsessive." Something along the lines of that. I dunno any one else been through the same shit before?
I would let your friend know what they are doing wrong and why you don't want to hang out with them anymore. Honestly, I lost many of my old friends in the move from HS to College, and it's just part of life. I started to grow up and get tired of club rats and them trying to instigate fights between men for no reason. Since my old friends all love those worthless whores, I stopped hanging around them, and they are still doing the same nonsense to this day.

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

question:
I tend to get really bored when dating girls REALLY quick it's like even when I/her try something new they I get bored. is this normal? alot of women tend to get boring with me.

[BBQ]

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I hear ya, I've lost some friends after highschool when I joined the military so it's not the first time this type of situation has happened. But that was 5 years ago, these current guys are about my age, maybe a year younger, so I would think this puppy love bullshit and being pussy whipped was done a long time ago.

But these guys arn't really my friends. They are friends of a friend that we have been friends ever since the first grade. So I shouldn't really give a shit and just give my friend advice instead. If I did do something all it would do is give their girlfriends more fuel to their drama machine and things would be even more fucking lame.

So I guess it comes down to avoiding to hang out with them and then later on if one of them ask why we never call them, then one of us will have to break it to them and that will be that.

Ever since I've been back home, not only these cats, but some of my other friends have been tied down by their women. It's kinda sad that a while ago I once thought of these guys as independent and sometimes bad ass mofo's. Now some of them are fucking straight up pussies. If I ever become like that, I'll dump or divorce the bitch, buy abunch of hookers and do cocaine the entire night and then come to my senses as why I am being the dominated one.

[I$AAC]

so i had to GGPO my g/f this weekend. In the past three months his is what happened.................

* 4 weeks into the realtionship she finds out she's 8 weeks prego by ex
* has abortion but dissappears for 6 days making me worry to death
*develops drinking issues and starts taking xanax
* and FINALLY, she goes to a party and had a lil too much to drink that she hooked up with some random dude*

and all of that was while she was out of town helping her father in B-More. I tried to make things work but this girl ended up being a trainwreck. So yeah, you thhink I'd be sad. However lemme tell ya, I never felt so relieved!!

[J-ride]

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I know exactly how you feel. I might get married some day, but I will tell you one thing, I am sure as hell not going to bow down to some woman like she is my God and do whatever the hell she says. If she wants some henpecked husband she better look elsewhere because I won't stand for that. My best friend won't return my calls or speak to me because his woman has forbid him from having contact with me just because I gave him the most wild bachelor party EVER. lolz. So he spends all of his time doing exactly what she says and is working 70+ hours a week so that he can give her the house and car that she wants, and she still bitches and badmouths him all the time.. :rofl: OWNED!!!

[SF_PHOCUS]

so i had to GGPO my g/f this weekend. In the past three months his is what happened.................

* 4 weeks into the realtionship she finds out she's 8 weeks prego by ex
* has abortion but dissappears for 6 days making me worry to death
*develops drinking issues and starts taking xanax
* and FINALLY, she goes to a party and had a lil too much to drink that she hooked up with some random dude*

and all of that was while she was out of town helping her father in B-More. I tried to make things work but this girl ended up being a trainwreck. So yeah, you thhink I'd be sad. However lemme tell ya, I never felt so relieved!!

dam that story had trainfuckinwreck written all over it... good shit wif movin on

Just better hope u dont get that fairwell letter from her:china:

[I$AAC]

dam that story had trainfuckinwreck written all over it... good shit wif movin on

Just better hope u dont get that fairwell letter from her:china:

man letter or no letter i'm glad that shit is over!!

*sings "I AIN'T LOCKDOWN"*:looney::wgrin:

[I$AAC]

but real talk, dont ever get involved with anyone with a drug addiction. My ex got hooked with xanax pills and she mixed shit up. It turned her into a different person thus ruining the already shaky relationship we had. Dont try to play hero and stay away SRK!!

[Higher-Jin]

but real talk, dont ever get involved with anyone with a drug addiction. My ex got hooked with xanax pills and she mixed shit up. It turned her into a different person thus ruining the already shaky relationship we had. Dont try to play hero and stay away SRK!!

Good advice. Some people think they can get the person to quit, but the fact is you can't change people, change has to come from within. If you really can't live with them acting a certain way or doing certain things then it's better not to get involved with them. Odds are they will not change.

My psych teacher told me something once, "The best indicator of what someone will do tomorrow is what they are doing today." If you can't accept that person without having to try to force them to change then the relationship is likely doomed from the start.

[AzN_Skater]

Good advice. You can't change people, change has to come from within. Men and women often see serious flaws in one another, yet embark on long term relationships with the naive belief that they can force the person to change. Truth of the matter is, if you really can't live with a certain character flaw then it's better not to get involved. Odds are they will not change.

My psych teacher told me something once, "The best indicator of what you will do tomorrow is what you are doing today." By that same token you can tell what people will likely do tomorrow by the type of person they are today. If you can't accept that person trying to force major changes then the relationship is likely doomed from the start.

For the most part, I agree. Forcing someone to change never works because they need to want to change in the first place. However, I think a significant other acts as a catalyst for change which can't be overlooked when it comes to serious long term relationships.

[Higher-Jin]

For the most part, I agree. Forcing someone to change never works because they need to want to change in the first place. However, I think a significant other acts as a catalyst for change which can't be overlooked when it comes to serious long term relationships.

Sure some things can provoke someone to change, still those are not sure things. What I see all too often is people working under the assumption that the change WILL happen, when it's not up to them at all. It's up to the individual.

That's why I'm saying if your happiness in a relationship would be completely dependent on the other person changing, then you are better off not getting into it. (e.g. She's a stripper that steals from me, but she can change. Or he's an unemployed alcoholic that beats me, but he can change.)

[AzN_Skater]

Sure some things can provoke someone to change, still those are not sure things. What I see all too often is people working under the assumption that the change WILL happen, when it's not up to them at all. It's up to the individual.

That's why I'm saying if your happiness in a relationship would be completely dependent on the other person changing, then you are better off not getting into it. (e.g. She's a stripper that steals from me, but she can change. Or he's an unemployed alcoholic that beats me, but he can change.)

I guess it depends on how much each individual is willing to work towards a stable and healthy relationship. If either party isn't willing to put their time and effort into making it work, than there's no point in continuing.

But if each person IS willing to do what it takes, than I think change is absolutely possible.

[pherai]

Trying to make someone change is so much harder than just finding someone new that is better for you though. In virtually every circumstance, hoping for someone to change to suit you better is just wishful thinking.

[Silentness!]

so i had to GGPO my g/f this weekend. In the past three months his is what happened.................

* 4 weeks into the realtionship she finds out she's 8 weeks prego by ex
* has abortion but dissappears for 6 days making me worry to death
*develops drinking issues and starts taking xanax
* and FINALLY, she goes to a party and had a lil too much to drink that she hooked up with some random dude*

and all of that was while she was out of town helping her father in B-More. I tried to make things work but this girl ended up being a trainwreck. So yeah, you thhink I'd be sad. However lemme tell ya, I never felt so relieved!!

Man your GF was too hot. I mean every guy would be flirting with her and that makes her hard to hold onto...

[I$AAC]

Man your GF was too hot. I mean every guy would be flirting with her and that makes her hard to hold onto...


yeah she was hot, but when you add up everything looks really dont mean shit. Guys would hit her up on myspace/clubs all the time but she was always faithful till she started to relapse with drugs and shit


doesnt matter cause I'm talking to someone else thats been wanting to hook up for the longest. Pics forthcoming.

But yeah, dont take any shit from any woman NO MATTER how fine she is!!!

[AzN_Skater]

But yeah, dont take any shit from any woman NO MATTER how fine she is!!!
Ain't that the fucken truth. When you're young and inexperienced, looks used to be everything. But the more relationships you get involved in, the less it matters. I'm not saying you should date a troll, but no amount of looks can save a doorknob from being anything but.

[BBQ]

Word the fuck up when it comes to physical features. As you guys read, 2 of my friends have yet to learn about this and have problems of their own to figure out. I used to be the same way in highschool, I'd have rediculous standards on looks but that's all I would give a shit about. Now that I'm in my mid 20's I have learned that getting into a relationship it has to be more then what she has to offer on the outside. Personality majority of the time is higher on what I want in a woman then looks or anything else. But it seems like most of the time girls are straight up stupid or have qualities that make me think "hit it and quit it." Unfortunately that's been a consistant thought for a while now.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Man your GF was too hot. I mean every guy would be flirting with her and that makes her hard to hold onto...

smh lol everyone has that one hottt girlfriend thats dysfunctional as hell in some way.. *looks at my avatar lol*:shake:

[RagingVenom]

wassup srk-ers. figured i would share my dilemma and get some feedback.

so in one of my classes at the university theres this girl that i cant stop glancing at. today, i finally got the guts to introduce myself and all that. We had lil conversation here in there. Im wondering, when do I try to get da number? :wonder:

[Shotokan Symphony]

wassup srk-ers. figured i would share my dilemma and get some feedback.

so in one of my classes at the university theres this girl that i cant stop glancing at. today, i finally got the guts to introduce myself and all that. We had lil conversation here in there. Im wondering, when do I try to get da number? :wonder:

No problem with doing it ASAP, as long as you don't call her every other day. :p

[FOBio]

Any of you guys a condom expert? I got a question, but I don't think people want to read about my schlong. I'll PM my question.

[The_Gunslinger]

Let me ask you guys advice. There is a girl I fucking love with all my heart but she is living in Pittsburgh now and I am 600 miles away. Should I move my life up there to be with her?

Just want opinions please no BS

Kevin

[SRKev]

Let me ask you guys advice. There is a girl I fucking love with all my heart but she is living in Pittsburgh now and I am 600 miles away. Should I move my life up there to be with her?

Just want opinions please no BS

Kevin

Need more backstory plz.

[Silentness!]

Need more backstory plz.

Same.

I'd love to help you out Kevin (gunslinger). The guy I always end up facing in Marvel/3s tournaments :rofl:

[The_Gunslinger]

Sheesh where to start. I met a girl a while back and we started dating and fell in love. Eventually she had to move back home to PA and we continued the long distance thing. Well I was originally going to move up there and I changed my mind. I dont know why really but I didnt know if I was ready to leave my life here in anderson to move 600 miles away. Well she was going to move here and it fell through as well and we broke up. Lately we have been talking and the spark has been ignited and I think I am young so why not give it a shot, right? I move up there I have a place to stay and a decent amount of money in the bank to live until I find a job. I love this girl to death and I guess me being scared initially fucked everything up but I think I am ready to do this.

Backstory accomplished

What you fellas think?

Kevin

[Shotokan Symphony]

Have you guys actually dated in person for more than a year? If not, I'd definitely reconsider. Do you have any other reasons to move to PA? Being away from the coast would kinda suck.

[DarkNecrid]

So for all the homies out there who are down or giving up, I'ma just say that love can be summed up as a deal where you get stabbed in the heart, a certain number of times, (generally 1-10...maybe more.) but after each stab that you take, you get a chance to hit the lottery.

And it's always worth taking that chance, yo, but don't give up, you just have to man up and take the stabbings, cause in the end its worth the pain.

That's real talk.

[Silentness!]

So for all the homies out there who are down or giving up, I'ma just say that love can be summed up as a deal where you get stabbed in the heart, a certain number of times, (generally 1-10...maybe more.) but after each stab that you take, you get a chance to hit the lottery.

And it's always worth taking that chance, yo, but don't give up, you just have to man up and take the stabbings, cause in the end its worth the pain.

That's real talk.

12/21/07 NEVER FORGET!

[pherai]

What you fellas think?


Being young is reason #1 NOT to do anything crazy for love. Love is overrated, and it fades. It doesn't pay the bills. Have you gone to school? Do you know what you want to do when you grow up? One of two things can happen from this situation. The first is you guys get married, move in together and live a modest lifestyle, and you regret not ever getting the training/education you needed for a well paying job. She may leave you one day for a richer guy. The second is she leaves you before you get married because have no potential (for making lots of money) and you're stuck there, years behind everyone else. It's not worth it.

[white shadow]

Being young is reason #1 NOT to do anything crazy for love. Love is overrated, and it fades. It doesn't pay the bills. Have you gone to school? Do you know what you want to do when you grow up? One of two things can happen from this situation. The first is you guys get married, move in together and live a modest lifestyle, and you regret not ever getting the training/education you needed for a well paying job. She may leave you one day for a richer guy. The second is she leaves you before you get married because have no potential (for making lots of money) and you're stuck there, years behind everyone else. It's not worth it.

Truth.

Sadly, our society doesn't accommodate the idealistic love people are taught to believe. There are many factors constantly intervening when considering a relationship; if the lives of the people involved in the relationship aren't stable because of financial, mental, familial or educational reasons the love aspect won't linger for very long, unless both have an extreme devotion to each other- or have children.

Human beings are conditional creatures so such devotion is rare unless there is some obsessive nature of one or both parties, often misconstrued as "love."

[Silentness!]

WHAT IS LOVE baby don't hurt me... no mo

_______

[AzN_Skater]

Being young is reason #1 NOT to do anything crazy for love. Love is overrated, and it fades. It doesn't pay the bills. Have you gone to school? Do you know what you want to do when you grow up? One of two things can happen from this situation. The first is you guys get married, move in together and live a modest lifestyle, and you regret not ever getting the training/education you needed for a well paying job. She may leave you one day for a richer guy. The second is she leaves you before you get married because have no potential (for making lots of money) and you're stuck there, years behind everyone else. It's not worth it.

That's real talk. Get your own house in order before inviting someone in.

[Warpticon]

Being young is reason #1 NOT to do anything crazy for love. Love is overrated, and it fades. It doesn't pay the bills. Have you gone to school? Do you know what you want to do when you grow up? One of two things can happen from this situation. The first is you guys get married, move in together and live a modest lifestyle, and you regret not ever getting the training/education you needed for a well paying job. She may leave you one day for a richer guy. The second is she leaves you before you get married because have no potential (for making lots of money) and you're stuck there, years behind everyone else. It's not worth it.

Terrible.

[ChunLi]

Being young is reason #1 NOT to do anything crazy for love. Love is overrated, and it fades. It doesn't pay the bills. Have you gone to school? Do you know what you want to do when you grow up? One of two things can happen from this situation. The first is you guys get married, move in together and live a modest lifestyle, and you regret not ever getting the training/education you needed for a well paying job. She may leave you one day for a richer guy. The second is she leaves you before you get married because have no potential (for making lots of money) and you're stuck there, years behind everyone else. It's not worth it.


You nailed it. Unfortunately girls don't think that way. I hate how I run into girls from the past and I've asked them what's been going on with their lives. "Oh I'm married now and we live at my husband's parents house but we plan on moving out with our baby real soon!" *rolls eyes* give me a freakin' break.

That's it? Any idiot can get married, make something of yourself before you want to "make it" with someone else.

[akumatrunigga]

so i had to GGPO my g/f this weekend. In the past three months his is what happened.................

* 4 weeks into the realtionship she finds out she's 8 weeks prego by ex
* has abortion but dissappears for 6 days making me worry to death
*develops drinking issues and starts taking xanax
* and FINALLY, she goes to a party and had a lil too much to drink that she hooked up with some random dude*

and all of that was while she was out of town helping her father in B-More. I tried to make things work but this girl ended up being a trainwreck. So yeah, you thhink I'd be sad. However lemme tell ya, I never felt so relieved!!
I still remember the story you said when she was talking about how bad baltimore is and she is doing exactly the same shit she was talking about. :lol:

You nailed it. Unfortunately girls don't think that way. I hate how I run into girls from the past and I've asked them what's been going on with their lives. "Oh I'm married now and we live at my husband's parents house but we plan on moving out with our baby real soon!" *rolls eyes* give me a freakin' break.

That's it? Any idiot can get married, make something of yourself before you want to "make it" with someone else.What you stated makes me very eager to go to the high school reunion next year. I want to see what some of the "dimes" are upto. I already know that im going to be a target since I noticed that im one of the few that will be single with no kids and a solid career.

[MaxVandalism315]

ok so theres a high probability that ima finally losing my virginity tonight so i was wondering if SRK had any pro tips for a first timer. if they have been posted on this thread before let me know and ill search :)

[SRKev]

ok so theres a high probability that ima finally losing my virginity tonight so i was wondering if SRK had any pro tips for a first timer. if they have been posted on this thread before let me know and ill search :)

1) Wear a condom

2) Don't rush things

3) Throw on some slow jams

4) DO WORK

[MaxVandalism315]

is the condom necessary if the girl is on birth control? o and if i do work ill be sure to come back with a :tup: or :tdown: if failed

[SRKev]

is the condom necessary if the girl is on birth control?

If I were you...I'd definitely wear a condom.:wonder:

[Silentness!]

is the condom necessary if the girl is on birth control? o and if i do work ill be sure to come back with a :tup: or :tdown: if failed

Yeah if you don't want to risk getting AIDs/STDs

[Warpticon]

Had a somewhat heated conversation about the cockblocking. He's so frustrating sometimes.

[MaxVandalism315]

is the condom necessary if the girl is on birth control? o and if i do work ill be sure to come back with a :tup: or :tdown: if failed

:tdown:
yeah i think i might of rushed into things, me and this girl were all making out and grinding and im like fuck it so i asked her "u wanna have sex?" lol, she stayed quiet and said idk ur not even my b/f and im like so? lol so we continue to make out and i work my way down to her belly button and i tell her, " i want to kiss u down there" and she says "are u sure? im already wet?" im like wtf? are u serious" so i put my finger down there and she is soaked! i couldnt help my self but to smell it to see if its true that girls vaginas smell good but.... idk to me that smell was sort of unpleasent:confused:,idk maybe it does and i dont dig the smell or maybe this girl dont take care of herself, anyways after running my finger up and down a few times the girl gives in and says yes lets do it, but by this time my erection had gone away :sad: and i couldnt get it back up :sad: i was a little intoxicated (drank a few sparks) and plus i dont really have any feels for this girl so that might of played of factor but yeah, atleast it was a learnng experiance, i soon as i came home i went to the bathroom and washed that finger lol, i dont think ill be smelling that shit any time soon, but hey not bad for that girl not even being my girlfriend right?

[Silentness!]

hahaha that brightened my day. Rep for you sir


err wait never mind it says I can't rep you because it needs to be spread >.<

[tech master]

ahahaha, get use to the smell buddy otherwise you're just gonna be gay for not ever having an erection around vagina. next time just hurry up and hit it so you don't get turned off by the smellz. once you feel t3h goods, i dont think you'll be losing erections as easily. unless her shit just really smelled like a dead goats vagina.

[MaxVandalism315]

lol i didnt lose it cause of the smell, i lost it when she started hinting that she wanted to be in a relationship

@ silent: im always glad to put a smile on ur face :) (no homo)

[SRKev]

:tdown:
yeah i think i might of rushed into things, me and this girl were all making out and grinding and im like fuck it so i asked her "u wanna have sex?" lol, she stayed quiet and said idk ur not even my b/f and im like so? lol so we continue to make out and i work my way down to her belly button and i tell her, " i want to kiss u down there" and she says "are u sure? im already wet?" im like wtf? are u serious" so i put my finger down there and she is soaked! i couldnt help my self but to smell it to see if its true that girls vaginas smell good but.... idk to me that smell was sort of unpleasent:confused:,idk maybe it does and i dont dig the smell or maybe this girl dont take care of herself, anyways after running my finger up and down a few times the girl gives in and says yes lets do it, but by this time my erection had gone away :sad: and i couldnt get it back up :sad: i was a little intoxicated (drank a few sparks) and plus i dont really have any feels for this girl so that might of played of factor but yeah, atleast it was a learnng experiance, i soon as i came home i went to the bathroom and washed that finger lol, i dont think ill be smelling that shit any time soon, but hey not bad for that girl not even being my girlfriend right?

Damn, son. Turned off by the smell of pussy...:shake:

[AzN_Skater]

lol i didnt lose it cause of the smell, i lost it when she started hinting that she wanted to be in a relationship

@ silent: im always glad to put a smile on ur face :) (no homo)

ahahahaha sounds like a lot of backpedaling and face-saving to me. :rofl:

Just admit it, you don't like the smell of pussy. :rofl:

[pherai]

Well, you can be assured that cock doesn't smell like pussy.

[SF_PHOCUS]

:tdown:
yeah i think i might of rushed into things, me and this girl were all making out and grinding and im like fuck it so i asked her "u wanna have sex?" lol, she stayed quiet and said idk ur not even my b/f and im like so? lol so we continue to make out and i work my way down to her belly button and i tell her, " i want to kiss u down there" and she says "are u sure? im already wet?" im like wtf? are u serious" so i put my finger down there and she is soaked! i couldnt help my self but to smell it to see if its true that girls vaginas smell good but.... idk to me that smell was sort of unpleasent:confused:,idk maybe it does and i dont dig the smell or maybe this girl dont take care of herself, anyways after running my finger up and down a few times the girl gives in and says yes lets do it, but by this time my erection had gone away :sad: and i couldnt get it back up :sad: i was a little intoxicated (drank a few sparks) and plus i dont really have any feels for this girl so that might of played of factor but yeah, atleast it was a learnng experiance, i soon as i came home i went to the bathroom and washed that finger lol, i dont think ill be smelling that shit any time soon, but hey not bad for that girl not even being my girlfriend right?

Hey maybe she doesnt take care of herself down there... trust me theres girls outthere whose cooches smell like crap:shake:

you actually did a good thing.... always do a smell check... u just dont wanna dive into unchartered territory lol...

[MaxVandalism315]

heres a question for anybody that has eatten out a girl before, does taste = smell?

[The Epidemic]

^nope
the cooch can smell like cotton candy (does that have a smell?) and taste like some goya
usually i hold my breath anyway.

[J-ride]

I wanted to get the take from some of the older guys on this. Here is the problem, I broke up with a girlfriend I have had for the last year about two months ago, and my best friend's little sister wanted to go out on a date, so I've gone out with her a few times and had a really great time. I've known this girl most of my life, and I've always had feelings for her, but things just never lined up. The main problem I am having is even though she is a great woman, (traditional women FTMFW!!) I still feel somewhat conflicted because her brother knows me SOOO well, and has seen me do some pretty horrible stuff to girls. Should I talk to him first and let him know that I would never disrespect him and that I hold his sister in the highest regard? Because if I didn't see a real future with her, I wouldn't even be bother making my life this complicated. I just wanted to know what everyone else thinks of my course of action. I try and be extremely loyal and honorable to all of my friends, which is why I have had some of the same friends for over 10 years.

[AzN_Skater]

I wanted to get the take from some of the older guys on this. Here is the problem, I broke up with a girlfriend I have had for the last year about two months ago, and my best friend's little sister wanted to go out on a date, so I've gone out with her a few times and had a really great time. I've known this girl most of my life, and I've always had feelings for her, but things just never lined up. The main problem I am having is even though she is a great woman, (traditional women FTMFW!!) I still feel somewhat conflicted because her brother knows me SOOO well, and has seen me do some pretty horrible stuff to girls. Should I talk to him first and let him know that I would never disrespect him and that I hold his sister in the highest regard? Because if I didn't see a real future with her, I wouldn't even be bother making my life this complicated. I just wanted to know what everyone else thinks of my course of action. I try and be extremely loyal and honorable to all of my friends, which is why I have had some of the same friends for over 10 years.

Yikes, that's walking some pretty fine lines. You gotta ask yourself how important your friendship is because this WILL cause unreal amounts of tension between you and your boy. If it works out, great, you'll have a wicked brother-in-law. If it doesn't work out... than you can pretty much kiss your friendship goodbye.

There are always exceptions to this, but that's a real dicey situation to be in.

[Warpticon]

Yeah, the basic thing is you have to let him know that you wouldn't be messing with her if you didn't see it as serious, and then DO THAT SHIT. Telling him and not following through fucks it all up. Be good to her, and if there are ever problems, I'd suggest letting him know that there are issues but a) that you're doing your damnedest to work it out, and b) don't put him in the middle. If it wasn't for the fact that he's seen you be a dog before, it'd be a lot easier. But in any case, maybe you can flip that around and be like "dude, I think I'm FINALLY ready to get serious about a girl, and she was right under my nose this whole time!" Break it to him like that and you'll at least have the benefit of initial excitement.

[BBQ]

heres a question for anybody that has eatten out a girl before, does taste = smell?

It depends, my ex smelled like something fierce and the taste was horrible, it's one of the reasons why she's my ex.

As for my situation, I'm still wearing the eye patch and I still havn't gotten' any loven' so I either have to try harder or just give up and hope I can get more surgery done to where I don't have to wear the fucking patch.

[Rodimus]

Now like everybody Ive had my share of women problems. But today

I fumbled the rock on the goaline. I dropped the ball. big time!!!

I have been through yrs of b.s but Im good. Im laid back so nothing ever really gets to me. Until today SRK.

I work for tmobile, so every now and then some cuties come into the store. Most that are cute always want to be hooked up. Im on some f^that you're not my girl so Im sorry.

But today omg!!!

My #1 Woman of all time is Aaliyah.

Today I helped a Aaliyah Clone my friends. I had to double take when i walked out onto my sales floor. She was just standing there damn near glowing. My co-worker was busy with another customer. It looked like she was waiting for him.

So I asked her, was she waiting for my co-worker. She spoke and totally owned me. Im talking Aizen type owning. Im talking Daigo Ken sf3 owning "No, Im waiting for you to help me"


Peeps I was offically shaking. No woman ever made me shake like this. I told her to wait and i'll help her.

I text'd my co-worker you see her, He txt back son, she saw you when you came into the store and said no lie " What's his name? He works here?"

I fuckin dropped my cell phone after reading the message.


--------------------------------------------------------------------------------


Long story short, she had to leave the store to pick up her nephew. I gave her all my contact information. My card my cell number all that.

but I dropped the ball because i should have just did some spur of the moment shit like bounce to Zales with Her then to Vegas to give her my last name.

I dont know if she was really feeling me or just trying to get the hook up with the phones. but on the real i would have brought the fucking phone for her.

I dont even wanna think about it anymore.

The kicker is I have a g/f and Im in love with my g/f but i've been waiting my whole life to run into a Aaliyah clone.

Ok even more scary is this bitches name???

Trisha!!
That was Aaliyah's name in the movie Romeo must die.


What the fuck!!!!! I read this on her Drivers license and I said your name's Trisha?!
She replied yea u like my name?
Me: huh??
Her: You smile everytime you say my name.


She left, said she would call me, and said she would come back to me. that she only wants me to help her.

Like i said i Thurman Thomas'd today peeps!!! I dont deserve the HOF.

Im up at the podimum crying,


This will never happen to me again.


10minutes after she left my girl called me on some. I miss you, what do you want for dinner.

Thanks for making me feel not only like a tool, but a complete tool box!!

My co-worker tried to cheer me up on some Rodimus c'mon bro ya girl is off the hook.

Im like she's not fucking with her tho?....lol lmao!!!


Need comments peeps. Im still feeling depressed.

[SRKev]

:u:

If you want to date this girl simply because she looks like someone famous, you lost.

[thurst]

dump your girlfriend and see what's going on with this chick, posthaste.

[SRKev]

dump your girlfriend and see what's going on with this chick, posthaste.

This is some pretty bad advice right here, my dude.

There's nothing wrong with his relationship and you want him to dump her for a girl that has presented no information other than her name and her need for a cell phone. Honestly, I know some fine ass women, but just because I like the way they look doesn't mean I'm gonna drop my girl for them.

What would you say if your girl dropped you for a Brad Pitt look-alike because that's her #1 man of all-time?

Think with your brain, not with your dick.

[Rodimus]

:u:

If you want to date this girl simply because she looks like someone famous, you lost.

^^ Nah nuthing like that. she was her own person of course. Im basically saying she was/is a certified dime.

dump your girlfriend and see what's going on with this chick, posthaste.


^^ Thats what Im talkin about lol

[Biolink]

Have you guys ever had any experiences with Cougars?

I'm thinking of trying to find one.Mainly because we would both pretty much want the same thing.Sex,no strings attached.

[Pat the Great]

jesus christ that sounds painful.

sharp claws and all that hair. er, fur.

[Biolink]

Cougar=Older woman(Usually mid 30's,early 40's and even up) that only date Younger guys.Some are actually looking for serious relationship.Most only want to have fun.

[ProfessorS]

heres a question for anybody that has eatten out a girl before, does taste = smell?

Hold your nose if it bothers you...it's definitely an acquired taste.

Thing I've noticed though...the hairier a girl is down there the more likely it's got some stank on it. If it's unbearable, tell her to shave that shit, and you might find that it's now pleasantly unoffensive.

[SRKev]

So, yesterday I found out that my GF doesn't trust me at all. She apparently heard a rumor that I made out with one of my co-workers AT WORK (WTF?). When I talked to her on the phone about it, she was wondering why I was so calm. I asked her," Does that even seem reasonable to you? Where the fuck would I make out with a co-worker at a retail store?"

Nevertheless, she wouldn't tell me who it was that said that, but she apparently believes them and we're officially over. She says that she doesn't want to be involved in the drama and doesn't want to talk to me. Now, my 16-20 year-old self would be upset about losing her, but my 22 year-old self is upset that she didn't even hint at the fact that she believed me at all. Now that I know she doesn't trust me, my views of her have completely changed.

She'll come crawling back anyways...LoL.:wgrin:

[Shotokan Symphony]

Bet you she's using an excuse to cheat on you. If she won't even allow talking at all, she's already committed to ending the relationship.
Long story short, she's the same as every other dumb cunt that doesn't know a good relationship when she sees it.

[pherai]

Long story short, she's the same as every other dumb cunt that doesn't know a good relationship when she sees it.

It's so hard to meet a nice guy!!!

[Shotokan Symphony]

LOL, and now I feel like a total misogynist for saying that. It's still true, though!

[pherai]

You shouldn't. A lot of women are attracted to assholes yet complain about not being able to find a responsible/nice guy. It's unfortunate, but most of the time being a good provider, and treating a woman respectfully is not conducive to a healthy sexual relationship, and putting up that front will likely get you ignored in favor of some sleazy fuck making half as much money as you.

[J-ride]

Pheria speaks the truth. I've worked some really high paying jobs since I have been out of college, and most of my experiences have been similar to Warpticon's
things go fine for about 6-8 months then mysteriously things go to shit, and suddenly she ends up with a loser who is in either:

A. An ex convict
B. In a band

Then he fucks and chucks her and they always come crawling back, and I do NOT want them after that. HAVE A NICE LIFE GGPO!!!

P.S. Azn_skater and Warpticon, thanks for your advice, I still haven't decided what to do, but I still have a few more days until I said I was going to make a decision.

[orochizoolander]

long story

She most likely just wants a hookup, women are good at using what they got.

Everyone gets tempted it happens to almost everyone in a relationship every day but if you so willing to drop your girl for a total stranger just because she's hot then maybe you should question how much you really wanna be with your current gf.

Talk to her again and then decide what to do from there, tell us how it goes.

And most importantly DON'T FORGET PIX!

Have you guys ever had any experiences with Cougars?

I'm thinking of trying to find one.Mainly because we would both pretty much want the same thing.Sex,no strings attached.

With older women (30 and above) it's a completely different ball game, they want someone who's got their shit together and if you joke around too much you'll get rejected with the quickness since you'll remind them of their own kids. I'l b 20 on may3 so for me older is like late 20's but i've been with a few 27-38 yr olds n some wanted sex while the others wanted more so I don't think you can generalize all older women as "only looking for a young fuckbuddy".

IMO the most important thing to know bout older women is that it takes longer to get them in bed with you as opposed to a younger girl, from my experience older women want to get a good idea of what you're like before they give it up.

BTW you'd be surprised at how many married women are out there that daydream bout messing with another guy and how good they are at keeping secrets from their husbands.

[SF_PHOCUS]

It's so hard to meet a nice guy!!!

Nice guys finish last.:wasted:

[Warpticon]

Went to a party last night. My buddy Drew got owned by some redhead (he's big into readheads, and there was one there...who just decided to grab him and take him around, then try to convince me and my man Derek not to leave so he could stay. ...Drew drove us there. Okay. Also found out later that she was rubbing all over him and showed him the dildo in her purse. :lol: Tight.) Oddly enough, and completely unexpectedly, the most mild-mannered girl there ended up giving me the grind of a lifetime. Then she went looking for her boyfriend. What the fuck? :lol:

[SRKev]

Bet you she's using an excuse to cheat on you. If she won't even allow talking at all, she's already committed to ending the relationship.
Long story short, she's the same as every other dumb cunt that doesn't know a good relationship when she sees it.

Honestly, this sounds like an obvious scenario, but I highly doubt it. Either way, I'd rather not talk to someone who doesn't trust me.

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

Have you guys ever had any experiences with Cougars?

I'm thinking of trying to find one.Mainly because we would both pretty much want the same thing.Sex,no strings attached.

oh goodness :amazed:

[w1r3d]

anyone here ever got a cute waitresses number? how did you go about it? it seems like its very hard since these kind of girls have their defense up because they probably get that all the time from guys. the reason i ask is because last night i asked for a waitresses number at bone daddys, but she said she has a boyfriend (might be true, who knows). I kinda panicked at that point (had been smooth before that) and pretty much just said "that's fine. it was nice to meet you." etc.

how would peeps here go about that? also, how would you respond to that response?


also, i got a number from a girl while salsa dancing two fridays ago. I called her up on thursday and set up a starbucks date for today (sunday). she agreed and whatnot. but today she texted saying she couldn't make it. I don't think I'll call back. sigh

[#reload]

i have a question

so there's this girl who i just started working with... i'm really starting to like her... thing is...she is black... and most (if not, everyone) people in my area date within their own race, which isn't a good thing for my filipino/white ass.

anyways, how should i approach this situation. should i just ask her to hang out or should i just keep it friendly. i don't really know how to approach co-workers like this. and if rejected i don't want to make it like an awkward work environment since 3 of my 4 shifts are working with her.

[Silentness!]

anyone here ever got a cute waitresses number? how did you go about it? it seems like its very hard since these kind of girls have their defense up because they probably get that all the time from guys. the reason i ask is because last night i asked for a waitresses number at bone daddys, but she said she has a boyfriend (might be true, who knows). I kinda panicked at that point (had been smooth before that) and pretty much just said "that's fine. it was nice to meet you." etc.

how would peeps here go about that? also, how would you respond to that response?


I usually say "You can have two BFs." I'm just joking, but usually they'll laugh and things will smoothen out. It will still be awkward cause in the back of her mind she knows that you still want her.

[The Epidemic]

Nice guys finish last.:wasted:

not me :wink:

[white shadow]

anyone here ever got a cute waitresses number? how did you go about it? it seems like its very hard since these kind of girls have their defense up because they probably get that all the time from guys. the reason i ask is because last night i asked for a waitresses number at bone daddys, but she said she has a boyfriend (might be true, who knows). I kinda panicked at that point (had been smooth before that) and pretty much just said "that's fine. it was nice to meet you." etc.


Personally, the only logical route would to only act if she had initial interest, otherwise you're just fighting an uphill battle due to the defense-up tendency you noted earlier.

[SF_PHOCUS]

anyone here ever got a cute waitresses number? how did you go about it? it seems like its very hard since these kind of girls have their defense up because they probably get that all the time from guys. the reason i ask is because last night i asked for a waitresses number at bone daddys, but she said she has a boyfriend (might be true, who knows). I kinda panicked at that point (had been smooth before that) and pretty much just said "that's fine. it was nice to meet you." etc.

how would peeps here go about that? also, how would you respond to that response?


also, i got a number from a girl while salsa dancing two fridays ago. I called her up on thursday and set up a starbucks date for today (sunday). she agreed and whatnot. but today she texted saying she couldn't make it. I don't think I'll call back. sigh

its funny i used to be a waiter a few months ago... ive seen plenty of guys bag waitresses in the store... its pretty much all on ur shoulders to run game from the time she greets ur table... you know you will have started off good when u see other of her friends walkin by.. droppin shit off to the table to see wat u look like shit like that... I always keep in mind she hassss to be nice to me so i mess wif her a little... good time to bust on her... lol shit like "ewww u got mayo on ur apron?? ahhh boy this really isnt gonna work..." good time to do that is when shes takin down ur order... u have a lil time to check herout


about ur second question... personally i give girls 1 more chance after a flake... she could of missed ur date for a reason that she couldnt control... at that point u can setup a different date and tell her to *bring a doctor's note stating why she couldnt make it*(il assume u can see the humor in that statement)

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not me :wink:

then ur not really a nice guy lol:rofl:

[The Epidemic]

then ur not really a nice guy lol:rofl:

:sad::sad:

[Mixah]

so i broke up with the girl about a week and a half ago... she