The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[The Epidemic]

3/10?

but i mean..i never had trust issues with my GFs..it was usually them not believing me for some reason :shrug:

[Azrael]

Its not a matter of "if" she's going to cheat on you at all. What you need to look at, is whether or not you find the relationship worth enough to the point where you will put up with long-distance for however long she is gone. As I said before, long distance is all the bad parts of a relationship without any of the good. You can't meet/date new girls without it being cheating, you still have to invest into the relationship, you get none of the physical intimacy, and the distance puts a strain on the emotional intimacy as well. It just sucks, and you have to ask yourself - is she worth it?

It sounds like, regardless of long distance, you're kind of interested in this new girl anyway. Try to imagine for a minute that your girl isn't going overseas. Do you still want to holler at the new girl? If yes, then you probably should end things with the current girl anyway.

[BrentoBox]

Ok, I get what you guys are saying, if I can just get one last input I'll be done for the night. On a scale of 1-10 how bad would it be to break up with a girl based on the ASSUMPTIONG that she MIGHT cheat on me (with silent?) AND/OR the new girl might actually be a step up in terms of looks/personality.

Thanks for the advice guys.

If she has given you no reason to mistrust her and you break up with her for fear that she will cheat on you - 1/10. If you have a real reason to beleive she will - 10/10. It all comes down to whether or not you trust her. If you don't, end it.

Breaking up with her to upgrade? That is kind of a shallow way to put it, but if you just want to find someone who you are more attracted too and who you connect with more, it is up to you to decide if you want to stay with her or not.

[OriginaL_DA]

sounds like, regardless of long distance, you're kind of interested in this new girl anyway. Try to imagine for a minute that your girl isn't going overseas. Do you still want to holler at the new girl? If yes, then you probably should end things with the current girl anyway.

^this.

if you're gonna go through with the long distance thing, you just gotta ask yourself: is the juice worth the squeeze?

judging by your posts, i say you end it now. would kinda be messed up for to leave to a new country with the breakup still fresh and on her mind. would suck for you if this new girl doesnt end up being so cool after a while tho.

[TornadoFlame]

Just go head and cheat a couple good times, but without feelings. :tup:
(Was I supposed to say that)

[onyx]

Hey I have a small question if anyone would care to contribute.

My current girlfriend of two years is moving to Korea in August to teach English for a year. We said that'd we stay together and this is actually my first girlfriend so I've never done the long distance thing before.

So I'm like cool... anyways I've recently been talking to this girl at work who is mad cool, she's got a friend's with benefits situation right now. Anyways, I think this girl is really hitting on me and we've hung out a couple times outside of work and she's hella cool, but two problems.

1. My girl who I love to death is still here until August and I think things are going to get shitty after she leaves. 2. I'm starting to like this new girl too.. probably more so knowing that my girl is leaving.

Should I try not to hang out with the new girl too much in an effort not to mess up my current relationship and avoid her in the future knowing that it will mess it up more than likely? Or do the opposite.

Any help is appreciated.

Put it on pause, make sure its not a bad pause n stay friends with her, when she comes back, rekindle if your both single and..ready to mingle. Its quiet simple, long distance DOSE NOT WORK. especaly when ur continents away.

[Luigi-Bo 87]

You're dirty TF.:rolleyes: Just finished reading what I missed, this thread moves fast as hell, and everyone posts up mininovels and shit:wasted:

[orochizoolander]

Hey I have a small question if anyone would care to contribute.

My current girlfriend of two years is moving to Korea in August to teach English for a year. We said that'd we stay together and this is actually my first girlfriend so I've never done the long distance thing before.

So I'm like cool... anyways I've recently been talking to this girl at work who is mad cool, she's got a friend's with benefits situation right now. Anyways, I think this girl is really hitting on me and we've hung out a couple times outside of work and she's hella cool, but two problems.

1. My girl who I love to death is still here until August and I think things are going to get shitty after she leaves. 2. I'm starting to like this new girl too.. probably more so knowing that my girl is leaving.

Should I try not to hang out with the new girl too much in an effort not to mess up my current relationship and avoid her in the future knowing that it will mess it up more than likely? Or do the opposite.

Any help is appreciated.

If you genuinely love her enough then stay with her, if you feel yourself this easily tempted while she's still here then think of bad it's gonna get when she's gone so make the right choice, either way there's a risk involved but that's life so goodluck:tup:


I've known my girl for 4 years, been with for almost 2, she's everything I want in a girl like serious wifey status: "cute girly girl" but still plays sports n poker wit me n my boys on the regular, knows how to cook dat soulfood and we get along perfect so everything's going great. Problem is last year she had to move to ca cuz she's dorming in her new school so we haven't seen in each in over a year but still wanted to be with each other but it has been a lot harder for me then her simply cuz i'm a natural flirt. We talk on aim/on the phone at least 2-3 times a week and we both hella honest wit each other so I told her while shes away it's not gonna be easy for me to stay away from girls so she kinda understands so trust me when I say if you wanna stay with ur girl u better make she she is fuckin worth it.

[SweetHoney]

How old is this gf of yours?

[The Epidemic]

^who are you refering to?

[P. Gorath]

if you are going to cheat on her when she is away then be a fucking man and break up with her before she leaves. Doesnt have to be drama, just say that if you are right for eachother then you will get back together when you are in the same place again but for now you are free to see other people

[Phoenix Wright]

I'm trying to get my homegirl to blow me. We've messed around before but now she's on some "I don't suck dick, that's nasty" shit. I need tips.

[The Epidemic]

^Tell her, "I do you, then you do me."
she pretty much haves to...

[Murt!]

^Tell her, "I do you, then you do me."
she pretty much haves to...

THIS

Although if you do it right you don't even have to tell her that. Also, what is her ethnicity? Because in my experience black girls aren't as willing to give head as whites and hispanics.

[Phoenix Wright]

THIS

Although if you do it right you don't even have to tell her that. Also, what is her ethnicity? Because in my experience black girls aren't as willing to give head as whites and hispanics.

Hispanic. I'm not into black chicks :).

[The Epidemic]

Son, if you cant get a spanish broad to suck you off...u need to re-e-val-u-ate your game. word is bond...im not trying to sound like a dickhead but, come on son.
How long have you been seeing her?
In any case..just eat her out..and i gurantee you will get the knowledge

[SF_PHOCUS]

Son, if you cant get a spanish broad to suck you off...u need to re-e-val-u-ate your game. word is bond...im not trying to sound like a dickhead but, come on son.
How long have you been seeing her?
In any case..just eat her out..and i gurantee you will get the knowledge

lol u dont have to eat out nothing... dam spanish girls do get it in though so i dont understand how thats a problem....:wonder:

[The Epidemic]

^well i like eatin out..its taste-e

[zakky]

Well as no one probably remembers, I posted about a girl I met at the club who wasn't returning my calls a while back. She's graduating this semester and had a lot of work, that was her story for not returning my calls, and I thought it was bullshit. Anyway she called back the other day asking me what I was doing at about 11 at night. Unfortunately I had a nasty case of cold sores (they always show up at the worst fucking time) so I didn't go out that night. Now that I'm over this I'm planning on seeing her some time this week. Now if this call was not just an out of the blue booty call and I do see her again, should I just go for the sex. I've been out with this girl three times before, but that was over a month ago. I'm not really going to be the most patient guy what with spring in the air and all, and I really just want a good lay, but if this works out then this girl is going to be my summer sex so I don't really want to fuck up. How should I approach this?

Also, inspired by a recent and popular thread here on SRK, I feel that I want to try some kinkier shit in bed. I've never had problems with pleasing women, and I've only had one session where the girl didn't come. This being said, I would like to add some variety to my resume, but I don't know how to get it started all kinky like. I'm not talking about anything too vile, but going past missionary/doggy/cowgirl and oral sex is what I'm looking for. What's the best way to go about this?

[Stanman]

Just to get a second opinion on this....

There's this Asian girl in my lab class group who I've been joking around and I guess just been talking to and enjoying my time with. She's very attractive in my book and she's my age, twenty. No pics, but will provide when I get some if needed. I finally get the balls to do something about it and start talking to her outside class and I can definitely tell she's flirting with me. Then a bomb finally hits, she has a 5 year old son. So at 15 years old, she had her first child. I remember from reading this thread that is a huge red flag and that most would recommend to GTFO immediately. To be honest, I think my immediate reaction might have reflected that, which probably didn't work out in my favor at the time. But something is still making me consider it for some reason.

20 is pretty young so it doesn't seem like it would be a usual case. But at the same time, it could be an even worse case. Besides the whole kid thing going on, I was really into everything about this chick to the point of it almost seeming too good to be true, and of course that ended up happening. I don't know, I don't think I'm really going to be marrying this chick or anything, but it definitely smells like the wiser choice would be to get out while I'm still ahead. But I keep beating myself up over it because before that one little bit I was really into this girl and I'm letting this one bit (a huge bit) change my mind completely.

Thoughts?

Sorry, this was kind of resolved, in that I was told to just casually check it out but bail on any bad signs, but I really just need a double check. In terms of developments, she gave me her cell phone number in an email because she was asking me what classes I was going to take next semester in geology class and how she wanted to schedule a similar section for the next geology course. So I sent her an email saying which section of geology I was going to take and she replied with her phone number in the email. I thought that was kind of cool because I wasn't even directly trying to get her number out of it.

The thing that I thought was kind of off was that when she called me about it she was talking about how she was going to try and move a bunch of shit around just to try and get in the same section as me. Like not taking certain courses, working less hours at a job, and having a shitty schedule. I just kept thinking to myself that's a lot of shit to consider to just try and get in the same section as me again, especially since I still don't know her that well.

Speaking of which, out of curiosity I looked up articles on the internet on what it's like dating a single mother and there is a lot about how it is definitely a huge red flag and you should get out of there. One article explained it as being like the chick from Jerry Mcguire, only it's not a fucking movie and she'll just act extra nice initially just to suck you in like a Venus fly trap. That or she would just consider you second to her child at all times and just make it a bad experience in general. I mean, it's not like I've stepped into anything serious yet, but I don't know if these signals are good or bad and whether I should stick it out or get out. To be honest, I kind of want something serious out of this, but I don't know if I'm capable of working around a kid or god forbid a father that might still be around. I keep thinking that maybe she might be a different case, but I have no idea. I'm guessing the best thing is to still stick it out and find out more, but I'd honestly feel bad for leading her on any longer. I guess shit happens though. Damn it.

Feedback, please.

[The Epidemic]

snip..


Aight..so basically you just wanna know how you can go about smashing this broad with coming on too strong right? Well since you been out with 3 times before she obviously has some kinda interest in you. The fact that she randomly called you around 11pm also shows that she might wanna do something with you. All you have to do really is play it cool really. Heres what i would do...this weeknd take her out somewhere..like a club maybe? Simply bc this is one of the easiest ways to get a broad horny. At the club you have access to alcohol/music/smoke/dance..if those things dont get her in the mood i dont know what will :shrug:

With that said..you can always ask her to chill at your crib after you take her out. If shes in your crib shes basically becomes a slave to your will. Whatever you wanna do is solely up to you in this case. All you have to do is take the lead and shes yours....
Im positive too that when you hit..its gonna be clockwork if you want it to be.
Btw..do you like this broad alot? If so, you can try and make a relationship out of it...or you can stay friends with benefits. Its really up to you son.

As for that freaky funny shit? Im not into all that kinky shit sooo..you might wanna ask AngryLiberal or someone. Thats not my area of expertise.



Feedback, please.

I mean, I was talkin to this broad who had a seed a few yrs ago. She was bad..her body didnt fall off or anything. In fact when i first met her i didnt even know she had a kid..thats how nice her body is. But anyway..seeing how ive been in this situation b4, i kinda have a solid idea on what you should do.
I think you should just go for it son. Its obvious she likes...she wants to change her schedule around for you? yea..she wants it son. I definetly say go in. Dont be turned off by the fact that she has a kid...Its not like your gonna have to be takin care of the kid. That what her baby-dad is for. Ppl always think just bc a woman/girl is single with a kid, that she is gonna be lookin for someone to take care of her seed...which is almost never the case.

I remember when i was talkin to the broad who had the seed a few yrs back...and she neeeevver once even brought up anything about her daughter. It was like she didnt have one when she was around me.
All im saying is dont get turned off by the fact she has a seed...especially if she likes you. Most likely you wont have anything to do with the kid...unless, you put yourslef out there that you wanna be. (which makes no sensse to do)
Just go for it son.

[orochizoolander]

How old is this gf of yours?

If you were referring to me then she'll be 20 on august 11th (i'l be 20 soon too.)

I cos on epidemic's advice:tup: You wanna make her feel comfortable with you so be nice and show some interest but only to reinforce your previously established connection, don't waste too much time with the smalltalk and you should be golden.

[onyx]

THIS
Because in my experience black girls aren't as willing to give head as whites and hispanics.
:wtf: I dunno, from my experiences i'd have to say orientals are less wiling, but i have'nt been with too many to even really say that. Black girls though, no problem.


Also, inspired by a recent and popular thread here on SRK, I feel that I want to try some kinkier shit in bed. I've never had problems with pleasing women, and I've only had one session where the girl didn't come. This being said, I would like to add some variety to my resume, but I don't know how to get it started all kinky like. I'm not talking about anything too vile, but going past missionary/doggy/cowgirl and oral sex is what I'm looking for. What's the best way to go about this?

This is easy, once you guys have mess'd around a couple times, a sure way to do some kinky shit is just use a blind fold and possibly tie her up. The blind fold is to take her gaurd away. If she cant see what your about to do, she cant object to any toys or what not you might pull out. There will be no "what're you doing:wtf:" It also make you a little more comfortable not have'n to make any awkward eye contact.

Tie'n her up (hands together or to a bedpost and same for feet) her experiance more pleasureable For 2 reasons. 1: Again, to restrain her from objection and to minimize squirm so your free to do as you please. And 2: fulling one of her fantasies, this is a very dominating thing to do restraining her sight and movement. Whatever you do to her after that point she'll love it. She'll be helpless to your every will and desire, n she'll be ready to bust easily after all that dominance and 4 play.

So start of with the blind fold, then next time tie her up.. After you do these once or twice, your not gonna need them anymore u should both be comfortable doing whatever you did b4.

Also,Playing some good "i wanna freak you" music always helps.

[BrentoBox]

Also, inspired by a recent and popular thread here on SRK, I feel that I want to try some kinkier shit in bed. I've never had problems with pleasing women, and I've only had one session where the girl didn't come. This being said, I would like to add some variety to my resume, but I don't know how to get it started all kinky like. I'm not talking about anything too vile, but going past missionary/doggy/cowgirl and oral sex is what I'm looking for. What's the best way to go about this?

You could go for a little hair pulling to make a bit rougher. Put your fingers on the base of her neck under her hairline and slide them up through her hair until your hand is on the back-top of her head. Then firmly grip her hair and pull up gently, or harder is she likes it.

You could do this even when not having sex and she will like it because it is basically like a head massage. Don't ever just grap the ends of her hair and pull that shit like handle bars. That is a whole different type of hair pulling.

[Koop]

here is a tip for you bedroom trick addicts... dont get kinky till u make her cum... an i mean a good cum... that orgasm that forces the "pause" before you continue........THEN u go about gettin kinky...


Koop

[BrentoBox]

I thought that was kind of cool because I wasn't even directly trying to get her number out of it.

That was no accident.

The thing that I thought was kind of off was that when she called me about it she was talking about how she was going to try and move a bunch of shit around just to try and get in the same section as me. Like not taking certain courses, working less hours at a job, and having a shitty schedule. I just kept thinking to myself that's a lot of shit to consider to just try and get in the same section as me again, especially since I still don't know her that well.

No point in feedback. Its too obvious.

Speaking of which, out of curiosity I looked up articles on the internet on what it's like dating a single mother and there is a lot about how it is definitely a huge red flag and you should get out of there. One article explained it as being like the chick from Jerry Mcguire, only it's not a fucking movie and she'll just act extra nice initially just to suck you in like a Venus fly trap. That or she would just consider you second to her child at all times and just make it a bad experience in general. I mean, it's not like I've stepped into anything serious yet, but I don't know if these signals are good or bad and whether I should stick it out or get out.

Just realize that you are getting involved with a girl who is raising a child, and don't try to convince yourself or lie to yourself about what that means. It means it will be complicated and different from a normal relationship in a lot of ways. But if she is a sweet girl, you really like her, and you think it is worth it to get to know her better, go for it. Just because it will be different and more complicated, doesn't mean it will be bad. It could be great. She is still a single girl who likes you, so thye way she sees you and feel about you isn't any different then a normal girl. (That "Venus Fly Trap" shit is bull) she just has different priorities.

She is a single mother, which means she is by no means a child (hopefully) so don't count her out and feel bad for "leading her on." Treat her like an adult and be honest with her. If you can handle the relationship, then go for it because it could be great, if you know you can't, be honest and let her know.

She had better consider you second to her child at all times. That is what being a parent is about. If I was dating a girl with a kid, and she was putting her kid second to me, I'd slap the shit out of her.

[yetighettoslang]

tell her to raise her ass in the air, then spank her. Hundred hand slap is what the ladies like if your gonna get kinky. Get a dog collar and a leash as well. make her drink milk out of a dog/cats water bowl. Yes, let her kno you CAN make her cum....then she becomes your slave. Women love for you to take control of the whole situation especially during boom boom time. Your ivysaur will evolve into penisaur, not penis sore. It takes time and balls to get eggzactly what you want out of sex

[The Epidemic]

Get a dog collar and a leash as well. make her drink milk out of a dog/cats water bowl.

:confused::wtf:

[orochizoolander]

:confused::wtf:

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

yeah make her feel like a real animal in bed (http://www.cloudchasershaconage.furtopia.org/ac0214.jpg)

[Havoc]

Yo.. this thread moves fucking quick.

I have opinions on the last few scenarios, but it's too late to matter :sad:

[JackTenrac!]

Gents, word of advice:

A passive attitude doesn't work well with anything. Fear is shit. Something I had to learn this week.

[TornadoFlame]

I'll be adding some when insight when I get off today. Very legitimate situations that are easy to take care of :tup:.

[The Epidemic]

Gents, word of advice:

A passive attitude doesn't work well with anything. Fear is shit. Something I had to learn this week.

passive as far as what exactly?
broads love that nonchalant, calm swag....

[L.one H.iryu S.aga]

passive as far as what exactly?
broads love that nonchalant, calm swag....

I'm almost positive he meant passive as in pussy not pimp. Seems like he might have overanalyzed a situation before taking action.

[TheDarkPhoenix]

Feedback, please.

*ahem* the way this works is regardless of how you take the relationship its serious. Doesnt mean you have to treat it that way, but just know she'll be looking at it from a serious point of view.


Her being Asian with a kid means that its going to be even harder for her to get a "decent" guy if she wants to keep it in the "Asian" bracket lol(correct me if im wrong). So there fore she might be clingy, which based on what you described she seems to be headed in that path.

If i was you i'd go for it, long as you realize that ) her kid is going to come 1st (like it would with any good parent) and B) If it does get serious(from your point of view), you pretty much got a kid. I know alot of people who handle the whole kid thing well. They basically just don't bother with the kid until they are sure this is a relationship thats serious. And the parent keeps the kid out of the relationship as well until that point.


On the bright side atleast the kid is like 5, thats the perfect age. You don't have to go through the baby crying and times where pretty much 100% of her time and focus are on the kids and you'll get in right before the kid get a chance to develop that "your not my real daddy" or part of the family additude.

[Stanman]

*ahem* the way this works is regardless of how you take the relationship its serious. Doesnt mean you have to treat it that way, but just know she'll be looking at it from a serious point of view.


Her being Asian with a kid means that its going to be even harder for her to get a "decent" guy if she wants to keep it in the "Asian" bracket lol(correct me if im wrong). So there fore she might be clingy, which based on what you described she seems to be headed in that path.

If i was you i'd go for it, long as you realize that ) her kid is going to come 1st (like it would with any good parent) and B) If it does get serious(from your point of view), you pretty much got a kid. I know alot of people who handle the whole kid thing well. They basically just don't bother with the kid until they are sure this is a relationship thats serious. And the parent keeps the kid out of the relationship as well until that point.


On the bright side atleast the kid is like 5, thats the perfect age. You don't have to go through the baby crying and times where pretty much 100% of her time and focus are on the kids and you'll get in right before the kid get a chance to develop that "your not my real daddy" or part of the family additude.

Yeah, I mean I can tell she is liking me from a mile away. It was just a matter of me wondering if it was too much considering what she has on the table. I don't really see it as a bad thing, but I did keep thinking to myself that she has a kid and all these other priorities, but she's trying to put me up there even when I still barely know her. So maybe she is clingy, which I guess is bad, but I have no idea to be honest.

I haven't really met her kid and she doesn't necessarily talk about him a lot or anything so I guess I'm good where I'm at. I guess I'll just try to go with it until something real arises because she really doesn't seem like she would have a kid at all except for the fact that she does. She definitely has her shit together too so I guess she isn't in a loop of bad decisions or anything. I had that lab class today and she actually even told me to call her to hang out some time. I mean, it's all too obvious. I probably could have made a move months ago. I was always just concerned about whether or not I should go for it and I guess now I'm ok.

[JackTenrac!]

I'm almost positive he meant passive as in pussy not pimp. Seems like he might have overanalyzed a situation before taking action.

Pretty much.

[BrentoBox]

passive as far as what exactly?
broads love that nonchalant, calm swag....

But even when your doing that passive swag, you are actively doing it to turn them on. :tup:

[L.one H.iryu S.aga]

Pretty much.

Ahh... I figured. Been there and done that on a few occasions though I've managed to dodge more bullets in the long run rather than miss out on genuinely decent women. What happened?

[The Epidemic]

snip.
just go for it son..whats the worst that could happen?

[Warpticon]

I can't believe I spent $91 on dinner with a girl who's not my girlfriend. :lol: It was worth it, though, even though I'm broke as hell..

[Silentness!]

I can't believe I spent $91 on dinner with a girl who's not my girlfriend. :lol: It was worth it, though, even though I'm broke as hell..

holy shit... I can't believe it either.
______________________

Women can smell pussies. They can smell your fear...

lol girls/and guys :confused: always say I'm shy. I wouldn't say I'm shy because that's highly related to lacking confidence in yourself.

I'd say I'm just a quiet guy. I like to stay mysterious and just let the girl do most of the talking. That's why my name is "silentness" :wgrin: It's always cool when the girl just yaps and yaps because it means she's actually interested in talking to you. Just don't do the same for her. Don't let her catch you in a lie... OH MY GOD getting caught in lies sucks ass.

Usually if a girl asks me a "challenge" question to see how I'd perform on her "test" I keep it funny/simple/honest/
I try not to freak out and just play it off cool and quickly turn the spotlight back on to her. God you don't want a girl you just met "interrogating" all the bad shit you've done.

Shit like:

How many girls have you been with?
How many have you SLEPT with?
What's your job? (My job title is Computer System Operations so it sounds corny as fuck)
Basically I'm a computer nerd that does a variety of computer jobs that would take forever to list.

Seriously though stay mysterious. Shut the fuck up and let her do all the talking. You want her to think damn I don't know shit about this guy, but I'd love to see him again and get to know him more. You don't want to be the guy she's bored of after 2 meets. You also don't want to be too quiet to the point where you look like you're a serial killer.

So instead of telling her your "life story" in an initial interaction make her feel like she NEEDS you. Feed her information to keep her yapping her damn mouth. Make her put that "DICK" on a pedestal. She should go home thinking about you every day not vice versa.


SILENTNESS: " THE MORE YOU KNOW" (star flies by in commercial)

[The Epidemic]

^I hate listening to woman talk...its painful. Id atleast join the conversation or steer it somewhere to my liking.

Im not quiet or talkative really...im somewhere in the middle. Just mad chill. I dont really like the idea of being mysterious...i rather put it all out there. If she fells you, she wont be bored regardless


Edit: Warp..welcome to my life :lol:
One of my girls favorite places to eat is this resturant/lounge/club/billiards called "Dolce"
it starts at 31$ not counting the 1 martini she might have and the 2 or 3 drinks i might get. Then dessert....so yea...I know how spending anywhere from 60-100 on dinner is :sad:

[Silentness!]

Yeah my bad. I believe I'm similar...

I just don't like having the conversation revolve around me majority of the time. I'd say 60% her and 40% me. Whenever she's talking I can feed into her conversation, but I want to put the spotlight on her and make her feel good, but yet I'm also trying to remain low key.

I've seen it in action many times not just by myself. I've seen this guy pull off this really hot chick just by talking about her baby cousin. He asked her how her cousin was doing and she went on and on about her cousin. Next thing you know they went out to eat for lunch.

Shit like that. I don't like laying all my shit out on the table in one sitting. Piece by piece of the puzzle. I'm more concerned on finding out what makes her happy and what is the euphoria that will get her wanting to come back to me more and more.

[BBQ]

But you don't have to tell your whole autobiography through out the dates you go. You can talk about anything else, like you would with your friends. And if the girl is bored with you by date 3, then she wasn't worth it from the start unless you are actually a boring person.

[fredelza]

hey, im here a bit earlier

so today i got called in for work (diner) and she was there also.
i said whats up to her which i don't usually do. bu i have to get in the game, she was surprised looked and walked on. i didn't talk to her the whole time at work but she was always giving glances when i looked she turned away. shit man i don't know what to do. anyway when she passed by she squished herself and got a little bit close since the hall was pretty narrow. so i said why you gotta bump into me playfully , she smiled and kept walking. he he, so yea work got in the way and she left early she said goodbye to most workers, as she was leaving i was like fuck it, i said bye in a loud voice, she smiled and said bye and left.
way better than all the other times since i never really talked to her much, not even small talk even though we've known each other a while as i mentioned before.
so where do i go from here?


mind you its hard to do anything since i have family all around, and i think my cousin is trying to get it for himself or cock block, since this dick is way full of himself, makes it even harder.

[Silentness!]

@ BBQ

lol giving an autobiography is definitely saying "I'm boring".

I understand what you're saying though about treating girls/women as one of your friends. It's just I feel that when you're trying to grab a chick's attention you gotta throw her in the psychiatrist's chair and be subtle on how you find out what turns her on and keeps her entertained. I try and make the conversation mainly about her because damn do girls love talking about themselves and shit.

I've had plenty of moments with my friends where I say stupid shit that makes them go uhhh "You're retarded". Yet they're my friends and they wont ditch me because we been through thick and thin. Some of the shit I say with my friends I'd get massacred for saying with a girl I just met. That's why I focus on what she has to say and slowly go from there.
_________

Heh this shit is hard to explain:

I feel like I need to do "match commentary" ROFL. Like me going out and showing what I do and then give details as to what I'm doing and certain "techniques + combos"

[BrentoBox]

Number One Rule rule when you are

1. Trying to get a girl
2. Have girl
3. Have a Wife
4. Have been married for forever

Be funny.

If your trying to be silent an mysterious, or overly energetic and fun, it will come off fake. Be honest and just relax. If she likes you she likes you. If you like her, even better.

Just shut your head off (For some people like me, this takes practice) and do and say whatever you feel. Don't try to force anything.

[Iwin Eazhee]

i get mad pussy...
lemme know if you busters need any advice cheeeaa

[Warpticon]

Edit: Warp..welcome to my life :lol:
One of my girls favorite places to eat is this resturant/lounge/club/billiards called "Dolce"
it starts at 31$ not counting the 1 martini she might have and the 2 or 3 drinks i might get. Then dessert....so yea...I know how spending anywhere from 60-100 on dinner is :sad:

To be fair, $20 of that was tip. I'd have been screwed if she had hit the wine list, though. :lol: I can't do that ish more than once a month with a steady.

[tech master]

get drunk before dinner lol. or bring a little flask.

[Azrael]

This is exactly why I'm avidly against dinner dates in the early stages.

[Iwin Eazhee]

you niggas got alot to learn about da game whoodies..
you young ass marks...you dont pay for dinner..fuck is wrong wit yall? you guys must be soe silver spoon house niggas.
I take my hoes to mcdonalds and i get apple pies for dem. Thats how you do it ya dig?

[GreyFoxx]

Well it seems i got a weird one so bare with my blindness too such things. I thought it would help too ask SRK on this one. I randomly got a friend request from a nice looking lady on myspace. We chat it up yet this one has some things with her. One a child np with that 2 seems to be lving with a ex and 3 is 35. Now this girl seems nice too kick it with. Yet offers a nice place, meal ticket, nice sex and yet is looking for someone too settle down with. Should i pursue or ride with this? Sorry folks im 24 and not looking too settle down anytime soon. Ohh have too add is in Berwyn, IL...why does it that i get those that seem doable too far away from me x.x

[BrentoBox]

Well it seems i got a weird one so bare with my blindness too such things. I thought it would help too ask SRK on this one. I randomly got a friend request from a nice looking lady on myspace. We chat it up yet this one has some things with her. One a child np with that 2 seems to be lving with a ex and 3 is 35. Now this girl seems nice too kick it with. Yet offers a nice place, meal ticket, nice sex and yet is looking for someone too settle down with. Should i pursue or ride with this? Sorry folks im 24 and not looking too settle down anytime soon. Ohh have too add is in Berwyn, IL...why does it that i get those that seem doable too far away from me x.x

I almost can't believe this post? Are you serious? Your 24, she's ten years older, lives with the ex, met her on the internet, and has a kid.

JUMP ON THAT SHIT FAST BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE SCOOPS HER UP!

[Warpticon]

This is exactly why I'm avidly against dinner dates in the early stages.

Trust, this was by far the exception, and not the rule. The only reason I took her there...well, the list of reasons...

-my friend Janet works there, haven't seen her in a while
-always wanted to eat there anyway, never had before last night
-I promised to take her somewhere new for her birthday and treat her
-They have fresh tiramisu

And the food was exceptional. I just spent more than I initially planned to. :lol: It would have been awesome if a game had been going on at the time, though...could have sat on the balcony and watched.

Any other time, it would have been bar food or chili's, and we would have paid our own way unless one of us was tight at that particular point in time.

I would highly recommend anybody coming to the Rock during baseball season take in a Travelers game if they're in town, and eat at Valentine's. Yes, you will pay a lot, but the atmosphere and ambiance is exceptional. You don't even have to give a shit about baseball to appreciate it.

[Iwin Eazhee]

make sure you always keep atleast a 20 in your wallet lil whoodies..trust me that shizzle

[BBQ]

snip

Nah man, of course you can't just be like you are around your boys. Still be yourself but just take in consideration that the person you are with arn't like one of the guys. Just think before you say something if you think what the next thing that comes out of your mouth is stupid.

Some easy topics are things everyone can relate, like movies, music, something interesting in the news, or maybe something you can get into based on what you found out about the girl you are talking to. But yeah, it's a lot easier to type this out then to actually bring up in real time. The dates I've been on, the first half hour can be some what akward for me but once I settle down into my comfort zone and find out some of the things she likes or what ever I can start spitting game like every one else.

A date should be fun for her and especially you. I dunno how much more I can get indepth with this, but like what some one said earlier in this topic, it's all common sense just don't try to over think things.

[GreyFoxx]

I almost can't believe this post? Are you serious? Your 24, she's ten years older, lives with the ex, met her on the internet, and has a kid.

JUMP ON THAT SHIT FAST BEFORE SOMEONE ELSE SCOOPS HER UP!

Doesnt living with a ex = NO GO? Anyway she's trying too get a place for herself. I'll see what comes of it.

[Warpticon]

Doesnt living with a ex = NO GO? Anyway she's trying too get a place for herself. I'll see what comes of it.

I think you missed the sarcasm. :lol:

[Silentness!]

I think you missed the sarcasm. :lol:

^^^^^^^^^^^^

aka don't fucking do it.
___________________________

Yeah I'm definitely over analyzing it my bad :sweat:

[J-ride]

This is exactly why I'm avidly against dinner dates in the early stages.

So true. I won't take a girl out to dinner until we are pretty much an item. It's just a waste of money.

[Ryu1999]

So I asked this girl out from work, she agreed, everything went smooth. The date was good, let her do most of the talking, etc etc. All the signs were good, and at the end of the night I sort of fumble the kiss, but she just played it off and kisses me back.

That's all fine and dandy, but when I call her later this week, she's not answering her phone. I only called twice, and left her alone since then, but my question is: how does it go from a really good date to complete cold shoulder? Yeah yeah women are crazy etc etc, but there's some kind of twisted logic in their heads, even if it doesn't make sense to the rest of the world. The only thing I can think of is that she mentioned she just broke up with some guy, and maybe she's not trying to get involved too quick?

[Koop]

\ The only thing I can think of is that she mentioned she just broke up with some guy, and maybe she's not trying to get involved too quick?


DING!!!!


its not cold shoulder... its the "I gotta think on it phase/homeboy is still callin trying to rekindle" timeline your dealing with. stop callin... continue mingling until she comes to you. when you deal with the "ive broke up with so an so" female under the 7 month time period... then you don't need to push for anything... not even a kiss... it only causes confusion n put then into "girl let me think on it" mode...

[Ryu1999]

DING!!!!


its not cold shoulder... its the "I gotta think on it phase/homeboy is still callin trying to rekindle" timeline your dealing with. stop callin... continue mingling until she comes to you. when you deal with the "ive broke up with so an so" female under the 7 month time period... then you don't need to push for anything... not even a kiss... it only causes confusion n put then into "girl let me think on it" mode...

I guess I was going with Havoc's advice earlier in the thread of "When I want a kiss on the first date, I'm going to get a kiss on the first date" lol. Besides, she kissed me back, or is she regretting that?

But yeah, I sent her a message saying I'd be MIA for a while because of exams, hopefully that lets her know she can take her time

[Warpticon]

Why seven months, specifically? :lol: the chick i'm interested is in that phase right now.

[onyx]

you niggas got alot to learn about da game whoodies..
you young ass marks...you dont pay for dinner..fuck is wrong wit yall? you guys must be soe silver spoon house niggas.
I take my hoes to mcdonalds and i get apple pies for dem. Thats how you do it ya dig?

:rofl: Daz a man with some class:tup:

[Koop]

Why seven months, specifically? :lol: the chick i'm interested is in that phase right now.

forgetting time... by that time either she has made a full decision to leave him alone an move on.... or continue playing around. remember... if they didn't break up on SERIOUSLY bad terms.... hate to put this in yall heads... but they still fuccin. if not that... they still having "negotiation" talks...

u give her that time to start fresh an regain that hunger to deal with another guy. she will be cautious... but she wont be as cold or not as easy to approach or get a read on. she will tell you her true intentions an wants an not some

"i just got outta a relationship... im really just trying to_______ (insert easy going trying to get a understanding out of men an where i need to be in life an what went wrong emotion)



now u can do that... or deal with the confused actions:confused: regret talk:confused: cold shoulder attitude:confused: comparison to ex:confused: questioning your actions:confused: an a list of others that will make u want to jago kick her into the dishwasher

after 7 months you have weight an points on your side... cause saying you need to get over him 3 months after a breakup....doesnt work... its in one ear out the other. especially if he dropped her on some lightweight shyt.... if its heavyweight dont be suprised if you say that line an she bluntly tells you hard fuccin hard it is an how much time an you can basically insert the rest.

so.... 7 months playboy...

[noober]

fuck, i just got a number last night and i get a call.

and usually im like the nicest person you can meet. and usually around girls im naturally soft a little too soft as in passive. but i figured she wasnt that type because she was like why are you being all nice then i decide to do a personality change(seriously i should be an actor.) like i wasnt being myself at all i just turned into this douche and took it too far. long story sort she told me off.

felt like my growing maturity wise just reversed its self.

now i feel like shit and wish there was some way i could let her know thats not how i really iam.

but when i look at it from a different perspective its like she put me in that mode like i couldn't tell when to stop or i dont know if shes off or has 0 humor.

being a guy and all i had too much pride to admit to my mistake.

anyways i dunno latley its been going good joking and flirting around with girls but when it gets serious it goes downhill quick.

like my social skills are falling to shit.

[Warpticon]

Koop, that didn't answer my question at all. :lol: I was asking how you came up with 7. why not 6, or 8? weird number.

[The Epidemic]

fuck, i just got a number last night and i get a call.

and usually im like the nicest person you can meet. and usually around girls im naturally soft a little too soft as in passive. but i figured she wasnt that type because she was like why are you being all nice then i decide to do a personality change(seriously i should be an actor.) like i wasnt being myself at all i just turned into this douche and took it too far. long story sort she told me off.
being a guy and all i had too much pride to admit to my mistake.


Why would you ever do that? Woman like guys who are themselves...never try to show off by being fake. Its not a good look...also when your wrong? Admit that shit. Apologize or sumthing son...most woman dont like that arrogant pride shit.

But in anycase this was just a phone conversation right? it isnt that serious imo.

As for being all shy and soft? Yea..you might wanna correct that. I mean, theres woman that find that shit cute but, all in all? They want a guy whos gonna take intiative. And never ever ever ever turn into a "douche" if anything you should of relaxed her with humor not asshole-ness (yes i know thats not a word :rolleyes:)

[Koop]

Koop, that didn't answer my question at all. :lol: I was asking how you came up with 7. why not 6, or 8? weird number.

best rationale u ask me... i give em 7 months then i can work... nothing special in the number... it more of a timeline really. better for both parties.... less than that ur battle the ex an her still stuck mind...

[TornadoFlame]

I can't stress this enough. Just be yourself, just be yourself. If a woman wanted somebody else they would have gotten somebody else. If she likes Lil Wayne, chances are you dont want her anyway.

[noober]

I can't stress this enough. Just be yourself, just be yourself. If a woman wanted somebody else they would have gotten somebody else. If she likes Lil Wayne, chances are you dont want her anyway.

lmao fuck

dude she keep talking about lil wayne

and asked me to listen to one of songs no lie.

we were both on aim i mean i coulda just looked it up.

[noober]

Why would you ever do that? Woman like guys who are themselves...never try to show off by being fake. Its not a good look...also when your wrong? Admit that shit. Apologize or sumthing son...most woman dont like that arrogant pride shit.

But in anycase this was just a phone conversation right? it isnt that serious imo.

As for being all shy and soft? Yea..you might wanna correct that. I mean, theres woman that find that shit cute but, all in all? They want a guy whos gonna take intiative. And never ever ever ever turn into a "douche" if anything you should of relaxed her with humor not asshole-ness (yes i know thats not a word :rolleyes:)

thats were i went wrong with is humor.

humor is what i do but i guess not in this case.

[The Epidemic]

^im not talkin about knock-knock jokes...
i mean sarcasm and such.
And if that failed as well..then try being a lil random.

You have to be good at reading personalities.
Like this broad likes Waynes bros humor
or this broad like frasier humor...adjust accordingly. The same fresh prince lines isnt gonna work on every broad.

[TornadoFlame]

Yo baby, Yo baby, Yo!!! :tup:

[The Epidemic]

Yo baby, Yo baby, Yo!!! :tup:

:rofl:
Baby I Know Your Feet Are Hurtin' Cuz You Been Runnin' Though My Mind All Day!

[noober]

^im not talkin about knock-knock jokes...
i mean sarcasm and such.
And if that failed as well..then try being a lil random.

You have to be good at reading personalities.
Like this broad likes Waynes bros humor
or this broad like frasier humor...adjust accordingly. The same fresh prince lines isnt gonna work on every broad.

no usually i try to tell from the get go if a girl has a good sense of humor.

and i was trying to tell what kinda of humor she had it was going good for a min but i failed hord. at the same time its like she was on this bi polar tip like i was talking to a different person i swear.

i dunno her personality from beginning kinda was a turn off it was like on and off we felt each other on alot of things but still.

i dunno im not so hung up on her, its just the way i acted.

i apologized anyway.

ps. texting on some phones is a bitch.

[TornadoFlame]

:rofl:
Baby I Know Your Feet Are Hurtin' Cuz You Been Runnin' Though My Mind All Day!

Home of da Whopper, what's ya beef?

[noober]

sigh on that depressed tip. i gotta get some things taken care of
if i have some money might spend it on some material things to make my self feel better.

[TornadoFlame]

^Negro, you too big to be depressed. This aint Green Mile :lol:. Suck that up and go get her.

[noober]

its been other things, i aint gonna let a lame BITCH bring me down

ya feel me.

[AzN_Skater]

sigh on that depressed tip. i gotta get some things taken care of
if i have some money might spend it on some material things to make my self feel better.

Buying things always makes me feel good.

[noober]

Buying things always makes me feel good.

if you got low self esteem holla!

[w1r3d]

so, any hispanics in this thread? I wanted to get your opinion on the hispanic/asian matchup. I admit I have some of that yellow fever, but really my preference in girls is either asian or hispanic (preferably puertorican - I'm from PR btw). Anyway, I have of course noticed the general preference of asian girls towards white/asian guys, and I've never seen a hispanic+asian couple personally (I've heard of them though). So, what do you guys think? Is it possible? Is it super hard or is it just that hispanics tend to keep to hispanics or whatever?

btw, it's not like I've been rejected much or whatever. I haven't been in the game long enough I guess (ended a 2.5 yr relationship a couple months ago with my 1st girlfriend). I'm currently trying to learn Vietnamese, and next semester I'll take a shot at starting to learn Japanese. My vietnamese friend told me that would help so I decided to go for it, lol.

[AzN_Skater]

if you got low self esteem holla!

Awwwww, why did you change your AV? That was a bomb ass AV.

And it's not for low self esteem! I just like having things.

[JackTenrac!]

And it's not for low self esteem! I just like having things.

Get yourself a dick, then. :rofl:

[JackTenrac!]

Yo baby, Yo baby, Yo!!! :tup:

:rofl:
Baby I Know Your Feet Are Hurtin' Cuz You Been Runnin' Though My Mind All Day!

....endowed with the power of the Chicktionary, eh?

[The Epidemic]

so, any hispanics in this thread? I wanted to get your opinion on the hispanic/asian matchup. I admit I have some of that yellow fever, but really my preference in girls is either asian or hispanic (preferably puertorican - I'm from PR btw). Anyway, I have of course noticed the general preference of asian girls towards white/asian guys, and I've never seen a hispanic+asian couple personally (I've heard of them though). So, what do you guys think? Is it possible? Is it super hard or is it just that hispanics tend to keep to hispanics or whatever?

Yo any kind of relationship is possible. Ive seen pretty much every type of mixed couple growing up in Queens. You know what you would prolly love? A spanish/asian mixed girl. They are always sexy...thats not a rare combo in Flushing either...I dunno know about dallas tho.

For the record im not Puerto Rican..but, i feel in a relationship, race shouldnt matter. In fact in most cases the only people who try to mae it not work is the parents.

But yea...One of my best friends (who is puerto rican) has a Korean gf...and they been together since senior yr in HS. which was like 5 yrs ago for us. So its definetly possible.

[TornadoFlame]

its been other things, i aint gonna let a lame BITCH bring me down

ya feel me.

This nigga went and bought a Premium Account..........:rofl: Good Shit :tup:

[BrentoBox]

fuck, i just got a number last night and i get a call.

and usually im like the nicest person you can meet. and usually around girls im naturally soft a little too soft as in passive. but i figured she wasnt that type because she was like why are you being all nice then i decide to do a personality change(seriously i should be an actor.) like i wasnt being myself at all i just turned into this douche and took it too far. long story sort she told me off.

felt like my growing maturity wise just reversed its self.

now i feel like shit and wish there was some way i could let her know thats not how i really iam.

but when i look at it from a different perspective its like she put me in that mode like i couldn't tell when to stop or i dont know if shes off or has 0 humor.

being a guy and all i had too much pride to admit to my mistake.

anyways i dunno latley its been going good joking and flirting around with girls but when it gets serious it goes downhill quick.

like my social skills are falling to shit.

Girls making guys act stupid. Chalk it up to that, and tell her honestly that you just didn't know how to act around her because you really like her, and she will probably give you another date. :tup:

[noober]

Awwwww, why did you change your AV? That was a bomb ass AV.

And it's not for low self esteem! I just like having things.

got a new one like it,text sucks thou

first one ive made.

[noober]

@The Epidemic
A spanish/asian mixed girl ive meet one rare but nice combo. shes just a trick thou.

oh thanks guys.

yeah got dat text msg.

lol i was trying to get my av to upload so i was like forget it ill get some prem.

[Reveal]

It's off topic, but Epidemic, I love your AV! :lovin:

[The Epidemic]

^^In flushing that combo is everywherrrrreee :looney:
spanish/asian that is...black/indian is strong there too

Edit: Thanks reveal:tup: Warp showed me the pic and gumz made the av

[noober]

serious, emmm tasty new york has everything.

[TornadoFlame]

@The Epidemic
A spanish/asian mixed girl ive meet one rare but nice combo. shes just a trick thou.

oh thanks guys.

yeah got dat text msg.

lol i was trying to get my av to upload so i was like forget it ill get some prem.

I like that sexy Loli in a box better :sad:

[noober]

well gotta change(sorry jay) it is very cute thou.

dog i tried to rep you but oh well.

[Iwin Eazhee]

What it look like lil whoodies?

i just got back from a 3 some with my main hoe..and her main hoe ya dig?

[CSS]

What it look like lil whoodies?

i just got back from a 3 some with my main hoe..and her main hoe ya dig?

oh fo sho.

[w1r3d]

Epidemic:

Hispanic/asian girl sounds good lol. Where is flushing, btw? New York?

I'm keeping my hopes up for a Vietnamese girl, since there's a pretty big Viet population here in Dallas. I think it's unlikely for me to end up with a Puerto Rican girl, given that there aren't very many Puerto Ricans around here (that I know of), and I don't plan to try to work any sort of long distance thing.

It does my heart good to hear your Puerto Rican friend has been going strong with a Korean girl. Makes me proud of my peoples. :tup:

[noober]

is this doode serious?

[The Epidemic]

Epidemic:

Hispanic/asian girl sounds good lol. Where is flushing, btw? New York?

I'm keeping my hopes up for a Vietnamese girl, since there's a pretty big Viet population here in Dallas. I think it's unlikely for me to end up with a Puerto Rican girl, given that there aren't very many Puerto Ricans around here (that I know of), and I don't plan to try to work any sort of long distance thing.

It does my heart good to hear your Puerto Rican friend has been going strong with a Korean girl. Makes me proud of my peoples. :tup:

yea flushing is in Queens, NY..it got a high population of asian/indians..

But yea...just go for it son :tup:

[GreyFoxx]

^^^^^^^^^^^^

aka don't fucking do it.
___________________________

Yeah I'm definitely over analyzing it my bad :sweat:

Ahh yes that small bit that i always miss...:amazed:

[orochizoolander]

For the record im not Puerto Rican..but, i feel in a relationship, race shouldnt matter. In fact in most cases the only people who try to mae it not work is the parents.

I completely agree, I treat all women the same regardless of race but it seems that alot of women care about a man's race. There have been many times I been rejected simply because I wasn't the skin color/race they preferred (usually white or hispanic women.)

[Silentness!]

fuck, i just got a number last night and i get a call.

and usually im like the nicest person you can meet. and usually around girls im naturally soft a little too soft as in passive. but i figured she wasnt that type because she was like why are you being all nice then i decide to do a personality change(seriously i should be an actor.) like i wasnt being myself at all i just turned into this douche and took it too far. long story sort she told me off.

felt like my growing maturity wise just reversed its self.

now i feel like shit and wish there was some way i could let her know thats not how i really iam.

but when i look at it from a different perspective its like she put me in that mode like i couldn't tell when to stop or i dont know if shes off or has 0 humor.

being a guy and all i had too much pride to admit to my mistake.

anyways i dunno latley its been going good joking and flirting around with girls but when it gets serious it goes downhill quick.

like my social skills are falling to shit.

Lol I mention it very often, but I'm a VERY quiet guy. (looks at SRK name)
Anyways what I'm getting at is that I'm very passive as well. I'm not the asshole douchebag type that talks a lot of shit and makes a lot of noise for attention. I'm polite and pretty much talk only when needed.

How exactly did you turn her off? Did you fake the "asshole don't give a fuck attitude". There's a point where you can be too cocky. I was eating a early breakfast with some new girl this Friday along with two other couples. She was joking around saying that she was old. (Like around 23-24) One of the guys was laughing saying that she was 24. I said without sounding like I was kissing her ass: "Oh I thought she was 16" She thought that was sweet and kissed me on the cheek.

Little shit like that adds up. You don't have to kiss the girl's ass and flatter her to death. They get that enough, but just do little things that show that you appreciate her and make her feel confident in herself.

I don't think it's all about being a "bad boy". You gotta be yourself (HOLY SHIT that's overused, but true). You can't fake the funk too long.

My style is: Humor + Humble
I seem to always hook up with the more aggressive girls due to my passiveness. *shrugs*

[Silentness!]

Heh I got another situation I wanted to ask about, but I got to work tonight.

I don't mind working tonight because I was burnt out from being at the club all Friday night / eating breakfast with some chick and two of her friends with 2 marines.

[JackTenrac!]

Ahh... I figured. Been there and done that on a few occasions though I've managed to dodge more bullets in the long run rather than miss out on genuinely decent women. What happened?

Finally met someone my friends were trying to hook me up with a few years back(this was by chance). Sadly, I had work to do the day I met her and I forgot to copy her number down from a Facebook chat we had. This is the second time I lost her number.

[Silentness!]

Got dammit I deleted my original message had to retype it.

Anyways... I went to the club this Friday night and at around 6 AM some random Korean girl kind of surprised me. She was like "Hey my friend wants to dance with you."(Cause I was black) So I was like ok and the girl dragged me outside (God I was scared that she was fixing to set me up on a "blind date" with some ugly chick)
Much to my surprise though the girl was pretty attractive. She ran and jumped into my arms and it felt totally fucking awkward. I have no fucking clue who she is :confused:

I mean how would you feel if some random ass girl just ran and jumped on you. Anyways me, two Marines (that were actually pretty cool guys), and the three Korean girls that were all HOT were dancing. The random girl I was with was grinding on me... and grinding on me... and grinding on me to the point where I was actually sick of grinding (Is that weird?) I didn't get tired of making out with her though. :lovin: Eventually we all left and went to go eat. As we chilled in the restaurant we all talked, but I tried to stay low key and blend in, but it was hard because the random girl's friends were sporadically asking me questions.

As we were all just chilling the girl I was with was fucking pinned down to me like super glue. She wouldn't get off me. She was like "I love your cologne!" She kept resting her head on my shoulder, trying to grab my hand while I was eating, resting her head on my lap. She actually gave me a boner when she started tickling me in the right spots :blush:

Anyways as we were eating this random Korean girl walked into the restaurant and she was hot as fuck. Me and the two Marines were checking her out for a split second. The girl I was with obviously noticed what I was looking at and she got MAD. WHAT THE FUCK!? We're not even in a relationship... I just met her. Eventually I told the crew that I use to live in Germany for six years. So one of the Korean girls asked me if the German girls are hot. The girl I was with said: "They're not hard are they?" (Basically I had to say no or else...)

I think it's pretty cool though that she feels threatened by other girls. It shows that she thinks I could get any other girl easily. Anyways yeah this girl was all over me as if we were a couple. She kept trying to feed me and shit.

She also gave me a lollipop as a present before I left. Anyways I got her number and she started drawing hearts and shit all over the paper; she said we could hang out again with her friends and shit. Before I left to go to the subway station she wanted a good bye kiss so I kissed her and left. She was sad that I had to leave/work Saturday night.
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OK SORRY FOR THE LONG ASS POST. Only reason I gave so many details is because I'm wondering if you guys think this girl could be legit or another one of those "one night stand" broads. We didn't have sex and shit, but then again the situation we were in wouldn't of allowed it anyways...

The real shitty part is her job. Her job moves her around six locations all over the world. She's from Italy and will be leaving Korea in May... uhh yeah May is pretty much already here. She said she'll be coming back to Korea, but I don't know when. I gotta find out when she leaves in May and when she's coming back. That sucks ass that her job is so mobile, but I'll see...

Based on what I said in this post: Do you guys think she is faking it or really into me?

[The Epidemic]

Ness....come on son.
Its so obvious shes into YOU.

-you guys danced together
-made out
-she was all over you
-feeding you
-drawing hearts (wtf)

Its clear shes into you. I dunno how you cant tell. Even if she is only looking for a one nighter..whats the problem? You said it yourself that she is attractive right? On top of that...you love asian broads..so its a win-win situation.

As for a relationship? thats solely up to you. Its clear shes into you..so you can take it wherever you want too. Im not saying you should take advantage of her by any means...but, she seems kinda clingy. As for her gettin upset at you lookin at another broad? Of course shes gonna be mad son. I would be if my girl was checkin out some dude in front of me....its just not good manners yo. Learn how to look without looking :wgrin:

EDIT: btw...was this broad drunk? Bc she was coming on to you mad strong. Its not often broads do shit like that unless they are high/drunk or whatever....
In any case. Do you see yourslef in a relationship right now? Not necessarily her but, in general? If anything friends with benefits is always good (aslong as no one gets attached...seriously. Take it from me.)

[Silentness!]

I don't know how much she had to drink before meeting me, but when I saw her she only had one drink.

She seemed pretty alert/sober though. I plan on calling her tonight (Sunday) and I don't have my hopes up because I've been screwed over so many times that I've built up an immune system to it.

[The Epidemic]

^Nah..son. You got this...from what it sounds like..id doubt you can fail. Go give her the goods

[fredelza]

whats up guys.
oh god :wgrin:
damn this is really hard game guys. anyway i did the advice again from epidemic and tornado flame. but its really hard to talk to her since there basically is no time off to get a small amount of alone time or something. any help on small talk while working? i walk in and out from the diner, she stays in front and takes phone orders.

anyway heres my day, tried to be more friendly said what up to her again. she comes with her friend so now its hard to try and do anything.as the day goes on i make small jokes when she makes mistakes on things, i think it was working for a bit. but you know whats hard is that she always plays around with her and im just not doing anything except moving away from them, is that a good thing to do? i mean they do some really stupid things. for example today, they went in the office made loud sounds as though they were fucking. i ass by with a mop to clean downstairs, and i see them in a position as one looks like she is eating her out on the floor.
i cant lie and say i didn't get a stiffas, you know?
so yea im stuck and any help again would be appreciated since the last advice was good and some of you guys know what your talking about.

[The Epidemic]

snip.

Small talk isnt too hard. Me personally? it isnt really my thing..but, im pretty good at it. Usually i make small talk with a girl by scoping her out. For example, i look at whats shes wearing, her hair, whatever she is doin ect...
It would usually go by me taking the lead of course (bc woman dont usually do that) and I would say something along the lines like, " I like your _____ today Melissa" or if shes doing something "i didnt know you were into ____ Melissa"
Just start the conversation with something that you know will go somewhere.
Bc in all honesty shes gonna be doing most of the talkin anyway.
You should be good tho..since you know this chick already..so im assuming you know whats shes into, to make small talk that much easier.

But, yea...these ladies sound like they are screaming for attention. I mean, making orgasmic sounds and doing 69 poses?:looney:
If i were you i would play it cool and not give them the attention they are craving for. Play it cool and they will come around..trust me. Im not saying you should ignore them completly..but, when she does that silly shit? Just give her that smooth nonchalant attitude...

Start making advances too..if you havent already. Did you ask her out yet? or get the digits?

[SF_PHOCUS]

serious, emmm tasty new york has everything.

everything and then some.. yo when i step off the Q train on canal I alwaysssss seee some baddddd shorties... just movinn back and forth... ive bagged so many girls just for fun goin to and from chinatown fair its crazy.. good ole NYC:lovin:

[Silentness!]

First off I need to buy an actual phone. I use Skype which is pretty retarded because people can't call me.

Anyways the girl sounded so distorted on the phone. She was rambling about how she missed me. I could barely hear her through Skype and it sounded like she said "I don't want to see you" and I was like "Why?" and I guess she really said that she DID want to see me, but she got offended when I said "why". So she was like I don't want to see you because you said why. Then I was like we can hang out on Saturday and she was like ok.

Regardless that had to be the most dumbest phone call conversation I've ever experienced.

I've become dumber, she's become dumber, my friend that happened to be in the room has become dumber, and the non living objects in my room have all become dumber from that conversation.

PS: BEST PART: She wants me to call her again later on tonight at around 8-9.
*shoots himself*
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I need to stop dealing with random dumb broads

[SF_PHOCUS]

I need to stop dealing with random dumb broads

lol wif dumb broads all you u need to do is nod lol... nod and say right... :china:

[Silentness!]

Holy shit I'm definitely buying a Korean cell phone Monday afternoon. (which is going to fuck up my sleep schedule because I have to work night shift on Monday and then I go back to day-shift)

Skype:

PROs: Can call from your computer
* Can call for free to any Skype users

CONs: I dunno if you can get a Korean number
* Skype isn't mobile (Thus you need a cell phone when on the go)
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Anyways, I called her again like she wanted me to. She actually made some sense this time, but she still doubts me. She kept saying "I miss you" and said that I don't remember her. This bitch is weird...
She wants me and my friend to come hang out with her and her friend. She also plans on giving me her (yahoo) messenger name so that we can chat more conveniently when she goes back to work in Italy.

So anyways Skype/my microphone blows because she could barely hear me, but I could hear decently.

Cliff notes: Skype isn't too reliable. No one can call you when you are on the go.
You can't call anyone when you're on the go. THUS I plan on finally buying a cellphone ASAP.

It's pretty dumb of me that I've been here since December and I don't have a cell phone. Especially seeing as how I'll be here for two years and made so many friends that I can't talk to while on the go.

[noober]

is this about the girl or SKYPE ! nigguh choose one

j/k sorry to fuck up your a post.

[Silentness!]

is this about the girl or SKYPE ! nigguh choose one

j/k sorry to fuck up your a post.

It's about women in general.

Skype sucks for it. (my mic echos and shit) I was just being a cheap nigga and tried avoid buying a cell phone. Yet it's a HUGE hassle not having one because I know many Koreans and none of them can get a hold of me because I don't have an actual phone.

[noober]

you make me wanna join the marines

[Silentness!]

you make me wanna join the marines

The two Marines I met early Saturday morning were cool as hell. I thought they were going to beat my ass when they found out I was Air Force, but it turns out they don't like Army.

Cool guys

[orochizoolander]

So I left here http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=152948 around 8 cuz I had already made plans to go clubbin with my friends last night, anyways I haven't been clubbin in a while so it was nice to get out instead of doing hw. We hit up a few local spots we haven't been to before and the last place we went to called oragin was unbelievable, there were barely any guys there just an endless sea of bitches. So I endup getting friendly with one of the cutest asian girls i've ever seen (think she said she was vietnamese) and i'm a total sucker for a girl who can play the "good girl" role but then she started talking about how she felt she was betraying her bf's trust and all that shit. At that moment I was thinking WTF? you show up at a club with your gf's and not your bf while dressed all sexy yet you have second thoughts about your bf when you finally meet a guy your into? Right after that I also thought that i'm in the exact same position as her and I kinda feel the same way with my gf sometimes. I told her I knew how she felt since I got a gf (although mine's in cali atm) n we started talking about it for a good while and the whole time I got the vibe she was definitely feeling me and I was feeling her too but we both didn't wanna do anything we would regret so she gave me her # and a little kiss on the lips before telling me she wants to hang out again sometime n see where it goes so I jokingly told her i'd try to pencil her in between my other bitches and that i'd like to see her again too.


I know the best thing (and what azrael would tell me) is to tell my girl in cali that we need a break until she comes back to ny so I can see other girls without worrying about cheating on her. The thing is outside of not being able to be physical with each other our relationship is perfect; we never fight and always get along, she's honest, a genuinely kind person but doesn't take shit from anyone, is cute as hell n has a bit of thickness in the right places, etc. I want to maintain a relationship with her but i'm a naturally flirtatious and aggressive guy when it comes to the ladies it's just a part of my personality, hell sometimes if i'm making conversation with a girl my female friends have told me I "flirt without knowing it" which to me sounds ridiculous. Anyways my girl knows this about me and she knows i'm hella honest so after talking about it she been cutting me a bit of slack recently and being hella chill with me flirting with other women, but if I meet someone I genuinely like is it ok to go on a date with that person?



I guess I have the same problem men have been having since the beginning of time: I want my cake and to eat it too lol.

[The Epidemic]

^how long is your girl gonna be out of town?

[orochizoolander]

Could be a few months maybe even a year, the point being I like her a lot but there is no way in hell I can not hook up with at least a few girls while she's away and we talked about taking a break but she doesn't want to cuz she's only into me.

[Havoc]

Sounds to me like you really have no business being in a relationship.

If you want to hook up with random girls, that's fine. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You just shouldn't be in a relationship.

If you were to just fuck random girls, while this other girl in CA thinks you're being faithful, that'd be some bullshit. It's really a bitch move. If you want to fuck with other girls, you should have the decency (if you really do give even the slightest bit of a fuck about your girl), to let your girl make a real decision, based on the real situation, about whether she wants to remain in a relationship with you, or not.

So, in my eyes, the decision comes down to you figuring out just how much you care about your girl. From the sounds of things, you should really just break it off, and let you guys' do your own thing. If shit comes back later... cool. It sounds like you're open to other options, and as long as you are open to new options, you should feel free to explore them. Just don't be a bitch about it.

[TornadoFlame]

Sounds to me like you really have no business being in a relationship.


Actually that sounds more like me :sad:

[Havoc]

You have kids. You gotta suck it up (no homo).

[TornadoFlame]

You have kids. You gotta suck it up (no homo).

I'll get over it. I'm trying to figure out why every girl I mess wit ends up bein wifey material. Why can't I just find a good whore on the side to keep me happy :lol: (dead serious though). Gonna have to cut a good one off again.........

[Havoc]

Son... I can hook you up with some WHORES.

That's one reason I don't go out much anymore. All I meet are whores, and I don't want 'em.

[The Epidemic]

^hey...thats just the way it is [/2pac]

Re: Zoo

Yea..i agree with Hav. You guys should just take a "break" when she comess back...then continue where you left off :shrug:

[TornadoFlame]

Son... I can hook you up with some WHORES.

That's one reason I don't go out much anymore. All I meet are whores, and I don't want 'em.

Now that I think about it I don't want a whore :lol: Just need a good girl that'll take care of me without being all clingy and attached :shake:. I keep finding fine ass single girls that should be married and no how to take care of a man. It's like the opposite of Good Luck Chuck. It's called Fucked Up Me :lol:

Just had to vent a little. I'm good now :tup:

[Havoc]

Sounds to me like you need an older woman.

Those are the only ones that'll take care of you, and not get attached.

[The Epidemic]

^word...

for a brief period in 07' i was talkin to this older broad. She was 32 and she used to buy me maaaaad shit. I met her at a club. She got this bangin ass Condo in Midtown too. I still have her number. She comes to the club i bartend at sometimes...we talk for a lil bit. But, i need to slow down (especially for my situation)so..im not gonna pursue her anymore.

[TornadoFlame]

Sounds to me like you need an older woman.

Those are the only ones that'll take care of you, and not get attached.

I've been talkin to this one at work and her kids are the same age as mine. She's cute but she's 36. She does want to take me out on her lunch at 5 one day. I'll go wit her one day this week and see where she wanna take this.

[orochizoolander]

Sounds to me like you really have no business being in a relationship.

If you want to hook up with random girls, that's fine. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You just shouldn't be in a relationship.

If you were to just fuck random girls, while this other girl in CA thinks you're being faithful, that'd be some bullshit. It's really a bitch move. If you want to fuck with other girls, you should have the decency (if you really do give even the slightest bit of a fuck about your girl), to let your girl make a real decision, based on the real situation, about whether she wants to remain in a relationship with you, or not.

So, in my eyes, the decision comes down to you figuring out just how much you care about your girl. From the sounds of things, you should really just break it off, and let you guys' do your own thing. If shit comes back later... cool. It sounds like you're open to other options, and as long as you are open to new options, you should feel free to explore them. Just don't be a bitch about it.

I care about her more then anyone else, we been together for a long time (by my standards), and I can see myself with her in the future getting serious but I know I can't abstain from other women while shes away for another year. I'm gonna tell her soon that I wanna hookup with other people, if she doesn't want to stay with me then that's expected obviously, I just hope I can get back with her in the future cuz if I don't i'll only have myself to blame and be hating myself for it.

It's always been easy for me to drop/ignore/dismiss bitches on the fly and keep it moving but with my current gf it's not like that but whatever we'll prolly go our separate ways, maybe stay friends and that'll be it.

Thx for the advice.



Yo TF just make sure you don't hookup with a white girl they are the ones who expect you to take care of them:rofl:...:shake:...:wink:

[TornadoFlame]

Yo TF just make sure you don't hookup with a white girl they are the ones who expect you to take care of them:rofl:...:shake:...:wink:

You know what's funny..............she is. Well at least the one from last night anyway. :lol: Just PM me haha.

[HeaT]

Sounds to me like you need an older woman.

Those are the only ones that'll take care of you, and not get attached.

older women are better at taking care of you, are better at fucking...shit if that is the case why chase the youngblood??? hahahahaha...

im outi

Roberth

[TornadoFlame]

older women are better at taking care of you, are better at fucking...shit if that is the case why chase the youngblood??? hahahahaha...

im outi

Roberth

Nobody wants to go out and kiss a woman that could possibly be your mother.........

[The Epidemic]

@Heat
simple...the youngmeat looks better 80% of the time.

Edit: what TF said too

[Shadow Ace 50]

older women are crazy to...

don't fall for the trap BRAH!!!

I mean the radius should be a four year difference top...

[orochizoolander]

Speaking of older women does anyone remember that thread rpd rookie made like 2 years ago about how he was attracted to 60+ yr olds and then all of srk came out of the woodwork to confess their love to older women like 40's+ lol.


I'm pretty sure it was rpd if not then my bad.

[TornadoFlame]

Older women are definitely mad agressive but at least they know what they want.

[Silentness!]

The days of chasing 16 year old girls are over... least for me. Some of my friends back home are still chasing teenie boppers what the fuck? :confused: That pedo shit

[The Epidemic]

^16 yr olds? :confused:

ummmm how old are your friends??

[TornadoFlame]

The days of chasing 16 year old girls are over... least for me. Some of my friends back home are still chasing teenie boppers what the fuck? :confused: That pedo shit

Yeah, I tried to convince my friends to stop playing Arcana Hearts too

[Silentness!]

^16 yr olds? :confused:

ummmm how old are your friends??

In their mid 20s... ROFL

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

man forget 16 year olds. I freaking hate girls my age. winey bitches

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

What's a polite way to tell a friend to go away so you can spit at a female one on one?

well from my experience from my buddys we sort of know when to stop. hard for me to explain but for me I just give him this look :lol:

[fredelza]

Small talk isnt too hard. Me personally? it isnt really my thing..but, im pretty good at it. Usually i make small talk with a girl by scoping her out. For example, i look at whats shes wearing, her hair, whatever she is doin ect...
It would usually go by me taking the lead of course (bc woman dont usually do that) and I would say something along the lines like, " I like your _____ today Melissa" or if shes doing something "i didnt know you were into ____ Melissa"
Just start the conversation with something that you know will go somewhere.
Bc in all honesty shes gonna be doing most of the talkin anyway.
You should be good tho..since you know this chick already..so im assuming you know whats shes into, to make small talk that much easier.

But, yea...these ladies sound like they are screaming for attention. I mean, making orgasmic sounds and doing 69 poses?:looney:
If i were you i would play it cool and not give them the attention they are craving for. Play it cool and they will come around..trust me. Im not saying you should ignore them completly..but, when she does that silly shit? Just give her that smooth nonchalant attitude...

Start making advances too..if you havent already. Did you ask her out yet? or get the digits?
i just read back on stuff, i envy you guy.

anyway, i dotn know shit about her, only talk work stuff with her. i only knows she likes to drink alot and thats her best friend i said.
SHIT ileft out what i think could be either good or i got friend zoned.
i forgot that after she had her friends legs around her waist while she pretended to eat her out. that a little bit after as i was leaving i said "whats that spot near the bottom of your waist?" she said it was a lengthy she just got. so i though it must be a star or something thats a little bit below here waist. no she was like "look" and slowly she started pulling her pants by the waist down to show me her how far her tattoo goes. let me tell you it goes pretty low she showed me the whole thing, it was just from her bottom waist to where her thighs are, but very close to her pussy.
shit that was revealing as hell. and im wondering how come i got to see it and no one else at my job besides her friend but they got a tattoo together.
so yea i might have exaggerated the importance but damn that shit got me a stiffaz.

so either im friend zoned or i have to make more moves to her? shti im stuck guy. sorry if im dumb but i need more experience:smile:

thansk for the help again guys. im getting gold her

[Luigi-Bo 87]

Yeah, I tried to convince my friends to stop playing Arcana Hearts too

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:

[pherai]

That pedo shit

Come on now man...it depends what state you're in :lovin:

[Silentness!]

Yeah, I tried to convince my friends to stop playing Arcana Hearts too

FUCK ARCANA HEARTS!
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<-------------- Guilty of playing Melty Blood + Accent Core

least I don't use pussy ass characters. You can't get any more gangsta than Eddie and Nero Chaos.

[ElderGOD]

FUCK ARCANA HEARTS!

y e s

[The Epidemic]

snip.

Well it could mean that she into you that she would show you a tat like that. Or it could mean absolutely nothing. I mean, this girl seems kinda open with her sexuality. She sounds like she would be into that kinky shit in the bed. I think you need to make more advances. Honestly....this broad sounds like the type that if you said some real slick sex innuendo to her...that she would love that shit. Dont do that tho...unless you got someting clever and maad confidence when you say it. In any case she seems kinda open so you should try a lil harder to get in with her. Its obvious she feels some kinda way with you.

You said she drinks right? Well i dont know how old your are but, ask her if she wants to go to a bar/club or suttin. Im not saying you should get her drunk but, she seems like shes kinda easy :shrug: But, Like i said it could be that shes just into YOU. So yea, see where it goes..you gotta try to be somewhat offensive. You gotta let her know your interested b4 its too late. Dont be shook of rejection either..I mean, whats the worst that could happen? She says "No"..you gotta get in thier son. (literally & physically:wgrin:)

[Luigi-Bo 87]

What is a good age cut off? I'm 20, so how low/high should I go?

[Warpticon]

Fuck age cutoffs (well, within legal boundaries).

[ElderGOD]

What is a good age cut off? I'm 20, so how low/high should I go?

It depends, when you're young, it's when girls are most annoying, so I would say try to find someone 18-20, although what I would do if I were your age is try to get some girl as close to 20 as possible. Those two extra years after school finishes and real life hits them knocks out a lot of their stupidity.


The older get, the more acceptable an age difference is. For example, if you're 28 you should aim 22-28.

[The Epidemic]

for me...the broad cant be more than 6 yrs older than me...and she has to be atleast 21.

[Luigi-Bo 87]

Tru dat, tru dat! I asked cuz like every fine ass girl at work is like 16 and shit.:wtf::shake::sad:

[The Epidemic]

where you work? mcdonalds or suttin? got some jailbait with you son

[TheSix]

What is a good age cut off? I'm 20, so how low/high should I go?

I'll go as low as 17 (I'm 20 too) if I'm REALLY feelin' her. But I prefer to date up so that is very rare.

-------------------------

So I had a small get together with an old friend of mind and I just so happened to stumble across her....porn collection.

Don't get me wrong, I love porn...but I've never met another girl who (and I quote); "loves porn" as well :confused:

There was all type of shit. DVD-Rs with BitTitsRoundAsses, Onion Booty, and a shitload of obscure Hentai shit (she's Mexican BTW....:confused:)

I really tried to find a picture appropriate to the reaction on my face. It was kind of like how Chris Tucker looked (http://youtube.com/watch?v=PDMyArnIdzY) when the thing with Kanye happened.

I just turned around and looked at her like :wonder::rofl:

"LOL I swear, I'm not a addict. I just like to see how other girls fuck. I prefer the amateur stuff." - Her

God bless freaks.

[ElderGOD]

Tru dat, tru dat! I asked cuz like every fine ass girl at work is like 16 and shit.:wtf::shake::sad:

Where I'm from the word we use to describe them is "illegal."

To Catch A Predator... fun show eh?



I really tried to find a picture appropriate to the reaction on my face. It was kind of like how Chris Tucker looked (http://youtube.com/watch?v=PDMyArnIdzY) when the thing with Kanye happened.


LOL.

Kanye and his "Bush hates black people thing." :rofl:

Chris Tucker was like WTF, priceless

[Luigi-Bo 87]

I work at a dept. store, all kinds of yung gurls. No real inbetween, either that or old ass ladies. There are like 3 old broads here that I would smash HORD given the chance!

[Naslectronical]

It depends, when you're young, it's when girls are most annoying,

I couldn't agree more.

A few years back, I used to mess with girls 18-20 all the time because they were so easy, thus I could excuse the fact that they're immature, spoiled, brainless ditzes who annoy the hell out me. But now that I'll be 25 in two months, I refuse to mess with any girl under 21.

That being said, Luigi, if you just want guaranteed sex, go with 18-20 year olds because it does help to build confidence and get more comfortable with chicks as it takes off some of the pressure, but you should eventually look to move up because girls that age are usually terrible in bed anyway. You'll find that a lot of them just lay there/couldn't give decent head if their life depended on it/both.

[Luigi-Bo 87]

I couldn't agree more.

A few years back, I used to mess with girls 18-20 all the time because they were so easy, thus I could excuse the fact that they're immature, spoiled, brainless ditzes who annoy the hell out me. But now that I'll be 25 in two months, I refuse to mess with any girl under 21.

That being said, Luigi, if you just want guaranteed sex, go with 18-20 year olds because it does help to build confidence and get more comfortable with chicks as it takes off some of the pressure, but you should eventually look to move up because girls that age are usually terrible in bed anyway. You'll find that a lot of them just lay there/couldn't give decent head if their life depended on it/both.

Thanks. Lol at the just lay there part.:rofl: I can picture a girl just chillin there wondering what she's supposed to do haha.

[ckrazy]

Age cutoff don't work for me cause everyone know that younger girls are so damn easy to get and they are clingy as hell to even if you say NO the bitch keep running back to you. I mean you don't even have to work your game you just sit there and they come to you. I have to learn to say no and pick a good one even if it mean I have to work for it :/

[ElderGOD]

Thanks. Lol at the just lay there part.:rofl: I can picture a girl just chillin there wondering what she's supposed to do haha.

No, it's more like they expect you to do everything.

[The Epidemic]

^whats wrong with that? I like takin control...

[Luigi-Bo 87]

No, it's more like they expect you to do everything.

Oh. Wait, isn't that how it always is anyway?:confused:

^whats wrong with that? I like takin control...

:bluu:

[Naslectronical]

Thanks. Lol at the just lay there part.:rofl: I can picture a girl just chillin there wondering what she's supposed to do haha.

Yeah, you won't believe how true it is either.

When I was 21, I hooked up with this 18-year-old girl. Gorgeous face, eyes like sapphires, nice Angelina Jolie lips, hair that shined like the sea, great tits, ass 110%, perfect shape.............and god was she terrible.

What should have been a most exciting night quickly turned into a rather hassling ordeal.

[Luigi-Bo 87]

Damn, spendin too much time lookin pretty and not enough time workin dat.

[ElderGOD]

They don't want to do any work, which adds to their lack of skill, they couldn't give good head if their life depended on it.