The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Silentness!]

I remember two Final Rounds ago some girl asked for my name. I told her and ran because her boyfriend looked like he was going to shank me.

@White Shadow: Maybe she just wanted to see if you would give her money...

I KID I KID!

[The Epidemic]

Has anything like this happened to you guys?:bluu:

i'm a, i'm a, i'm a, i'm a flirt
Soon as i see her walk up in the club (i'm a flirt)
Winkin eyes at me, when i roll up on them dubs (i'm a flirt)
Sometimes when i'm with my chick on the loooow (i'm a flirt)
And when she's wit her man lookin at me, damn riiiiight (i'm a flirt)
So homie don't bring your girl to meet me cuz (i'm a flirt)
And baby don't bring your girlfriend to eat cuz (i'm a flirt)
Please believe it, unless your game is tight and u trust heeeeerrrrr
Then don't bring her around me cuz (i'm a flirt)

take R. Kelly's advice...nigga knows his shit

[BBQ]

Has anything like this happened to you guys?:bluu:

I think she just wanted a dollar. A month ago these 2 girls came up to my buddy and I asking for a cigarette, it was kinda wierd because they kept on staring at us for like 5 minutes before comming up to us.

[Dwin]

I hate when this happens...

Earlier today I was entering the college cafeteria and I notice this girl with who was clearly with her boyfriend (he was holding her hand and stroking her hair) was staring at me in my periphery. I thought this was really odd since the guy was being affectionate to her yet I could feel her eyes follow me- so I ignored it.

Later on she walks down my way staring at me all the way down the aisle, apparently to go the snack machine... then 30 seconds later walks back and taps my shoulder to ask if I had a crisp bill for the machine. (Obviously more than a mere "coincidence") I notice the guy was eyeballing me in a menacing way while I was conversing with her so I just gave her the dollar and she thanked me. When she returned to the table, she started talking to the guy and I heard the dude saying something like, "I had a dollar..." Confused by the whole ordeal I just dipped soon after.

Has anything like this happened to you guys?:bluu:

Don't be grimy and get with another man's girl, ignore the slut.

[white shadow]

Don't be grimy and get with another man's girl, ignore the slut.

Hooking up with her wasn't even an option for me. I don't deal with girls like her to begin with. I was just wondering if anybody has had something similar.

[No defence]

bait or in most cases u look like someone. if you bout your game you would ask for theirs an work it from that point on....shouldnt let opportunities pass u by youngin..

I hate that I'm sooooo slow.......:amazed:

I'll be ready next time....:sweat:

It's just Random why ask for my name?

Maybe I should come up with a cool Nick name or something?

[The Epidemic]

^no you shouldnt....be yourself...its simple. She asked for you name bc she has some kinda interest in you.

[Silentness!]

Girl: What's your name
Me: (chill voice) Matt (real name)
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It's simple as that

[No defence]

Girl: what's your name
Me: (chill voice) Aaron (real name)

Girl: Eric?
Me: Aaron!

Girl: Allen?!
Me: (voice gets louder) Aaron!

Girl: oh ok Daren?
ME: Yeah My name is Daren (Not my Name)

Annoying like shit..... Cant hear shit on the dance flo. My name has 2( Three) many Vowel's:lame:

[The Epidemic]

^thats why your supposed to damn near kissing her ear when you tell her (if your somewhere with blastn music)

Dont be shy to get to close to her...

[Silentness!]

^thats why your supposed to damn near kissing her ear when you tell her (if your somewhere with blastn music)

Dont be shy to get to close to her...

AHH HELL YEAH. That's what I'm talking about...

I love when music is blasting because you can easily do kino (touching) without her even noticing.

Example: WITH FRESH BREATH NIGGA (chew some gum or something) and hovering over her neck talk directly in her ear softly. Not only are you communicating, but it shows attraction

[No defence]

^thats why your supposed to damn near kissing her ear when you tell her (if your somewhere with blastn music)

Dont be shy to get to close to her...


That never even crossed my mind?:sad: I usually get close but not Kissing close.....

Thats some good counsel sir.:amazed:

Next time I will just whip out my cell phone and tell the chick to press her #:wonder:

[catchafire]

I posted this video in the videos thread, but thought that such a classic would be missed by the majority of the SRK populace. The second most appropriate place to post it is here. It's called, she has a boyfriend. (http://www.break.com/index/she-has-a-boyfriend.html)

It's from the BBC series called Snuff Box. I will be picking it up.

[Infernoman]

I posted this video in the videos thread, but thought that such a classic would be missed by the majority of the SRK populace. The second most appropriate place to post it is here. It's called, she has a boyfriend. (http://www.break.com/index/she-has-a-boyfriend.html)

It's from the BBC series called Snuff Box. I will be picking it up.

I lol'd SO HARD at that vid...shit like that has happend to me where even a few close friends jus tHAD to bring up their BF... :mad:

[Silentness!]

Omg noooooooooooeeeeeeeeeeeees now I remember what I hated about relationships.

I don't like calling girls/talking to them on messenger :sad:
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I'm so fucked up. If I had the chance I'd ditch this current girl for her friend. Her friend is looking to get hooked up and I'd gladly take the offer, but that'd be some cheesy shady shit on my part.

[Silentness!]

Yeah so uhhh she sent me a picture of us at the club. I'm embarrassed to show the pic, but whatever. I know the SRK concept: USELESS WITHOUT PICS

I look stupid as fuck. (I was also tired and ready to go to sleep) Do you guys think she's fat? She's definitely not skinny, but I don't think she's obese.
______________________

She said her friend is single and looking for a guy. FUCK I definitely like her friend more, but there's no way in hell I could just leave one girl and go on to her friend smoothly. If she sees this message on SRK I'm dead.

[marn]

She wants dick.

[Silentness!]

ahhahaha I'm talking to both girls now. I'm such a fucking flirt... I soooooooooo want to get with her friend
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Christ now I realize how good the single life is. I just started hanging out with this girl and now I already feel like I'm married... FUCK
I should of realized this the last time I had a steady GF.

I CAN'T EVEN PLAY FUCKING WoW. I remember my last GF would always call me when I'm in the middle of playing WoW. Got dammit what the hell was I thinking.

[amuse]

ness is a 1/4 virgin now. he only got to put it in for a few seconds.

[Koop]

ahhahaha I'm talking to both girls now. I'm such a fucking flirt... I soooooooooo want to get with her friend



careful.... for the world is a small one... getting caught up over a simple mistake will have you posting tears ~ wise yoda koop

[amuse]

not quite 6 collars popped cool, matt we need you to up your style.

[Silentness!]

careful.... for the world is a small one... getting caught up over a simple mistake will have you posting tears ~ wise yoda koop

Nah I wouldn't do anything grimy like that.

[Pat the Great]

I CAN'T EVEN PLAY FUCKING WoW. I remember my last GF would always call me when I'm in the middle of playing WoW. Got dammit what the hell was I thinking.

you're a total noob if you can't at least play WoW with the lady on the phone.

i used to play CS back in the day with the girl on the phone. WITH THE VOLUME OFF (the computer, not the phone).

make that shit happen. it's WoW for god's sake.

[thurst]

Yeah so uhhh she sent me a picture of us at the club. I'm embarrassed to show the pic, but whatever. I know the SRK concept: USELESS WITHOUT PICS

I look stupid as fuck. (I was also tired and ready to go to sleep) Do you guys think she's fat? She's definitely not skinny, but I don't think she's obese.
______________________

She said her friend is single and looking for a guy. FUCK I definitely like her friend more, but there's no way in hell I could just leave one girl and go on to her friend smoothly. If she sees this message on SRK I'm dead.

i can't tell whether she has the "asian glow" going on or if that's just make up either way though she looks aight but her body is kinda twisted so it's kinda hard to tell, this is the crazy one though right? if so, that sucks.

[The Epidemic]

I look stupid as fuck. (I was also tired and ready to go to sleep) Do you guys think she's fat? She's definitely not skinny, but I don't think she's obese.
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She said her friend is single and looking for a guy. FUCK I definitely like her friend more, but there's no way in hell I could just leave one girl and go on to her friend smoothly. If she sees this message on SRK I'm dead.

well she is a lil chunky..but shes still cute. Id hit.

Ness = [/ST Sagat] Tyyyygeeeeeer!

yo look just like Tiger Woods son

Anyway there is a way you can transfer into her friend smoothly while still messing with this girl. You just gotta be maaad slick. Ill explain in detail later.

[HeaT]

Yeah so uhhh she sent me a picture of us at the club. I'm embarrassed to show the pic, but whatever. I know the SRK concept: USELESS WITHOUT PICS

I look stupid as fuck. (I was also tired and ready to go to sleep) Do you guys think she's fat? She's definitely not skinny, but I don't think she's obese.
______________________

She said her friend is single and looking for a guy. FUCK I definitely like her friend more, but there's no way in hell I could just leave one girl and go on to her friend smoothly. If she sees this message on SRK I'm dead.

shes "thick" BAHAHAHAHA...whatever that means...

im outi

Roberth

[amuse]

matt can't multitask, plus his laptop is a pos and it can barely handle windows, let alone WoW.


just be a total asshole to her matt if you really don't want her to get with you, you letting it happen means you want some of that ass, so just hit it and quit it, feel no remorse, you will thank me later.

[TornadoFlame]

shes "thick" BAHAHAHAHA...whatever that means...

im outi

Roberth

Think I just found yet ANOTHER white guy on SRK..........Good Shit.

[Ryu1999]

Think I just found yet ANOTHER white guy on SRK..........Good Shit.

Cause white dudes don't have any girls problems as bitches falling all over them :wgrin:

[Silentness!]

Lol I told you guys she's not slim. :shake:

[The Epidemic]

^shes not fat either tho...so it shouldnt be a problem son. :shrug:
plus she looks cute from the pic soooo...in short, do what you gotta do.

[TornadoFlame]

A pimp told me if I love her I should let her go.

[Koop]

A pimp told me if I love her I should let her go.


:rofl::rofl: what pimp told u that...

[The Epidemic]

^Talib Kweli

i dont know who told talib that tho :rofl:

[TornadoFlame]

:rofl:

I'm serious though. I'm gonna eventually have to let her go, maybe next month tho.

[orochizoolander]

A pimp told me if I love her I should let her go.

I'm in love with a stripper
she poppin, she rollin, she rollin
she climbin that pole and
i'm in love with a stripper
she trippin, she playin, she playin
i'm not going nowhere girl i'm stayin

[ProfessorS]

I'm in love with a stripper
she poppin, she rollin, she rollin
she climbin that pole and
i'm in love with a stripper
she trippin, she playin, she playin
i'm not going nowhere girl i'm stayin

Dude I fucked a stripper once, it was sweet, she was wild.

[TornadoFlame]

Dude I fucked a stripper once, it was sweet, she was wild.
I fucked a stripper once, shit was wack.

[orochizoolander]

My first gf became a stripper 3 or 4 years after we broke up so technically I fucked a stripper.

[The Epidemic]

fuckin a stripper? i couldnt do it personally...but, one of my boys is notorious for doing that shit.

[ChunLi]

TRUE or FALSE: Guys don't like to get complimented on the first date.

[TornadoFlame]

TRUE or FALSE: Guys don't like to get complimented on the first date.

I like to be complimented 24 hours of the day.

[The Epidemic]

TRUE or FALSE: Guys don't like to get complimented on the first date.

I cant speak for every guy but, who doesnt like compliments??? male or female?

so im gonna say False.

[ChunLi]

Well this is what the guy told me when we were discussing bad dates in regards to compliments.....

"my worst date was with this one girl who kept telling me how much she liked me and what she thought of me. I was like, "ok, enough already. My ego's been fed enough!" There was no challenge. This was all on the first date and first time we talked on the phone. I don't take compliments very well, so when she said stuff like, "you look like a linebacker" all I could think of was. "God, you're stupid!" Mean, I know, but I didn't like that she put herself out there so early after meeting me"

So..... do you agree with him?

[Silentness!]

Well this is what the guy told me when we were discussing bad dates in regards to compliments.....

"my worst date was with this one girl who kept telling me how much she liked me and what she thought of me. I was like, "ok, enough already. My ego's been fed enough!" There was no challenge. This was all on the first date and first time we talked on the phone. I don't take compliments very well, so when she said stuff like, "you look like a linebacker" all I could think of was. "God, you're stupid!" Mean, I know, but I didn't like that she put herself out there so early after meeting me"

So..... do you agree with him?

I think you can take it too far.

Example: smothering the guy
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I'm sure no guy or woman would want to be constantly complemented every 30 seconds.

[The Epidemic]

Well this is what the guy told me when we were discussing bad dates in regards to compliments.....

"my worst date was with this one girl who kept telling me how much she liked me and what she thought of me. I was like, "ok, enough already. My ego's been fed enough!" There was no challenge. This was all on the first date and first time we talked on the phone. I don't take compliments very well, so when she said stuff like, "you look like a linebacker" all I could think of was. "God, you're stupid!" Mean, I know, but I didn't like that she put herself out there so early after meeting me"

So..... do you agree with him?

i dont agree with him...he sounds dumb. Would he prefer if she clowned him instead?

If you really are tired of getting compliments re-direct the compliments to the person giving them. That way it will draw some attention off of you towards her.

[fredelza]

off to a different tangent from the usual. in a school setting ( college) how do i start talking to a chick who i see alot but only for five minutes. i think its weird that i see someone alot without talking and just bring shit up. i dont know its hard to explain, plus with my no game shit i assume i just say hey whats up? not sure though since if i do then where do i go

[AzN_Skater]

off to a different tangent from the usual. in a school setting ( college) how do i start talking to a chick who i see alot but only for five minutes. i think its weird that i see someone alot without talking and just bring shit up. i dont know its hard to explain, plus with my no game shit i assume i just say hey whats up? not sure though since if i do then where do i go

lol you just gotta learn how to approach. Seeing the same broad over and over and over again should give you an automatic foot in the door, so to speak.

[BrentoBox]

fuckin a stripper? i couldnt do it personally...but, one of my boys is notorious for doing that shit.

I wouldn't even want to try to fuck a stripper. How the fuck would you know if they like you? They get paid to act like they want to fuck you.

She'd genuinly want to fuck me, and I'd be like "I ain't falling for that one, STRIPPER!"

[Silentness!]

lol you just gotta learn how to approach. Seeing the same broad over and over and over again should give you an automatic foot in the door, so to speak.

"Damn you keep running into me! What class you headed to anyways?"

meh I just randomly pulled that off the top of my head.

I use to be in college for 2 years. GOOD TIMES... the place is flooded with chicks.

[fredelza]

thanks guys, i meant like the only time i would see her is if shes always sitting at the same spot waiting for something, basically only time i see her.


lol im stealing that guy thanks.

[The Epidemic]

off to a different tangent from the usual. in a school setting ( college) how do i start talking to a chick who i see alot but only for five minutes. i think its weird that i see someone alot without talking and just bring shit up. i dont know its hard to explain, plus with my no game shit i assume i just say hey whats up? not sure though since if i do then where do i go

Well..honestly it makes it a tad bit awkward when you see a broad all the time and dont say anything. Then one day you decide to talk to her...shes gonna feel kinda weird and prolly ask, "how come you didnt say anything to me before?"

But, in any case this is still easy. All you have to do is say, 'Excuse me...im sorry i couldnt help it...I just had to say something to you beautiful. So how you doin?" She will prolly laugh and say, "umm hi?...im good. How come you never said anything to me before?" thats when you tell her "yea..ive been meaning to its just i was kinda shy."
then your in there....dont say exactly what i said either...its just an example. But, i hope you get the idea.

[Warpticon]

TRUE or FALSE: Guys don't like to get complimented on the first date.

Absolutely false. Now, most dudes don't want some lame broad that just gushes with compliments to the point of reverence. But who doesn't like a compliment?

EDIT: for the dude in your example, it wasn't compliments that was the problem. It's that the girl was absolutely gushing over dude. Wouldn't you find it annoying/a turnoff if some dude was constantly like "I like you. I like you. I like you." By that method of storytelling, she sounds really shallow.

[BrentoBox]

lol you just gotta learn how to approach. Seeing the same broad over and over and over again should give you an automatic foot in the door, so to speak.

Exactly. Laugh a little next time you see her and tell her how funny it is that you see each other all the time and you were wondering what her name is.

[fredelza]

thanks guys especially epidemic your cool guy i hope you go to evolution.

i get the idea thats basically what i meant, yea lol i don't know her name so its weird.

this gives me more practice for work now.

[The Epidemic]

^yea im goin to evo... i wouldnt miss vegas son :rock:

[Infernoman]

Well this is what the guy told me when we were discussing bad dates in regards to compliments.....

"my worst date was with this one girl who kept telling me how much she liked me and what she thought of me. I was like, "ok, enough already. My ego's been fed enough!" There was no challenge. This was all on the first date and first time we talked on the phone. I don't take compliments very well, so when she said stuff like, "you look like a linebacker" all I could think of was. "God, you're stupid!" Mean, I know, but I didn't like that she put herself out there so early after meeting me"

So..... do you agree with him?

it's all about moderation...don't flood me with love...but...It wouldn't hurt to say something nice once in a while.

[white shadow]

i dont agree with him...he sounds dumb. Would he prefer if she clowned him instead?

If you really are tired of getting compliments re-direct the compliments to the person giving them. That way it will draw some attention off of you towards her.

Yeah people don't seem to know what the hell they want, they just create idealized scenarios of how they want someone to act instead of appreciating what's before them. 20 years from now he'll be praying to get any genuine compliments at all.

[Silentness!]

^yea im goin to evo... i wouldnt miss vegas son :rock:

fuck you guys! I don't turn 21 until like a week after Evo. (August 17th)

[HeaT]

Well this is what the guy told me when we were discussing bad dates in regards to compliments.....

"my worst date was with this one girl who kept telling me how much she liked me and what she thought of me. I was like, "ok, enough already. My ego's been fed enough!" There was no challenge. This was all on the first date and first time we talked on the phone. I don't take compliments very well, so when she said stuff like, "you look like a linebacker" all I could think of was. "God, you're stupid!" Mean, I know, but I didn't like that she put herself out there so early after meeting me"

So..... do you agree with him?

ya FALSE, a compliment is always nice...

im outi

Roberth

[marn]

Ok, so I like this girl from Texas right.. And well, she maybe likes me, I don't even know. But there's this thing, I'm going to North Carolina in 2 weeks.. And there's a chance I might see my ex.. Which will break me down into an emotional mess.. What should I do?? :( Should I ignore my ex and keep going on with my life.. Or should I try to patch things up cause I'm still in love with her :(. The problem is, we're going to her uncle's place.. and me/my cousin/his dad are goin to be staying at the place.. And she lives like a block away. And goes over there often. But I need to go to support my cousin in his surgery =(.. What's there to do.. It's the same one that keeps saying I'm the only one that understands her... Fucks with my head.. Still likes me.. etc... :|..

HELP!

[lovepig78]

Ok, so I like this girl from Texas right.. And well, she maybe likes me, I don't even know. But there's this thing, I'm going to North Carolina in 2 weeks.. And there's a chance I might see my ex.. Which will break me down into an emotional mess.. What should I do?? :( Should I ignore my ex and keep going on with my life.. Or should I try to patch things up cause I'm still in love with her :(. The problem is, we're going to her uncle's place.. and me/my cousin/his dad are goin to be staying at the place.. And she lives like a block away. And goes over there often. But I need to go to support my cousin in his surgery =(.. What's there to do.. It's the same one that keeps saying I'm the only one that understands her... Fucks with my head.. Still likes me.. etc... :|..

HELP!

it really does depends for how long you were with the girls. what you guys have been threw. why the split. and how long have you guys been seperated for. i know that mite be TMI to hand over, but all i can say is dont avaoid her. but dont try to patch things up once you see her. talk to her casually. with no means of trying to get back together. just casual talk and see were things go from there...


if you guyses past was way rough, like rough break up blah blah blah etc. i wouldnt go for it, cuz females have an act from bringin that shit up...always, so id say move on with your life

but be a better person and dont try to ignore her. be her friend, since you still care about her a friendship cant hurt rite.

[Luigi-Bo 87]

it really does depends for how long you were with the girls. what you guys have been threw. why the split. and how long have you guys been seperated for. i know that mite be TMI to hand over, but all i can say is dont avaoid her. but dont try to patch things up once you see her. talk to her casually. with no means of trying to get back together. just casual talk and see were things go from there...


if you guyses past was way rough, like rough break up blah blah blah etc. i wouldnt go for it, cuz females have an act from bringin that shit up...always, so id say move on with your life

but be a better person and dont try to ignore her. be her friend, since you still care about her a friendship cant hurt rite.

Yeah, I SO needed to read this. But in my case, she acts mad funny at times and I get frustrated.

[lovepig78]

Yeah, I SO needed to read this. But in my case, she acts mad funny at times and I get frustrated.

im glad i could help out ^.^
no one was there wen i needed help lol
so i can just give out personal experiences
but i think i know what you mean bro.
its like she seems interested throws out signals, but ur not sure how to read them.
so them you get all confused and shit and dont know what to do.

am i rite?

well best thing to do is confront the lady, and see whats really up
and work from there

[Luigi-Bo 87]

Naw, like one time I'll talk:confused:

I dunno.:bluu: to her and she'll be all cool and shit. Then the next time I see her, she blows me off HORD AS FUCK. So I'm all like WTF

[lovepig78]

that shit happened to my homie and his ex-girl
they did that for about a year before he finally said fuck it.

the problem with them was that the female didnt know what she wanted. she was stuck between
"the confort of what she had him him(homie) and wanting to move on with her life and grow-up"-female friend

hopefully your not in that predicament, cuz its really rough on the emotions. expecting a friendly hello and getting completly brushed off sux

[Luigi-Bo 87]

sux hord

[Koop]

sux hord


yeah well im waitin for that post about...


"man... so im over my ex's crib right...."



just waitin patiently. Sometimes I wish I was a fly on the wall.




@chun li: hey miss lady, answered your question ma'am.

[The Epidemic]

fuck you guys! I don't turn 21 until like a week after Evo. (August 17th)

so you can still come...you just cant go anywhere thats 21+

theres lounges y'know son. (usually dont card IDs)

Im sure theres 18+ clubs too...you wont catch me at one tho :lol:

21+ all day dun :rock:

[RockBogart]

So I got a friend who is scared of white chicks, what advice would you give him. And yes, he is black. Since he post on here quite often, I was asked to keep his name out of it. He apparently thinks he would be crucified for thinking this way.

[TornadoFlame]

So I got a friend who is scared of white chicks, what advice would you give him. And yes, he is black. Since he post on here quite often, I was asked to keep his name out of it. He apparently thinks he would be crucified for thinking this way.

You damn right I would. Check this out though. We're going to Have A Nice Day tonight. You should come on thru with us and if he lives nearby bring him too. My snowbunny got alot friends there and I'll be going up there with snowbunnies from work too. I'll DEFINITELY hook him up.

No advice until you lemme know if he can make it. AND YES, THERE WILL BE PICS.

[RockBogart]

You damn right I would. Check this out though. We're going to Have A Nice Day tonight. You should come on thru with us and if he lives nearby bring him too. My snowbunny got alot friends there and I'll be going up there with snowbunnies from work too. I'll DEFINITELY hook him up.

No advice until you lemme know if he can make it. AND YES, THERE WILL BE PICS.

Yeah, apparently his last 2 or 3 girl friends were bitches and now he cant stand them. But from what he has told me, he just seems like a target for racism. I told him he just sucks at picking women.

Ive been working at Fridays for the past 2 weeks. I'm about to quit that shit though. I need to find a way to finance an evo trip. If y'all wanna do something Thursday night, I am probably gonna be free since I'm staying out to watch Iron Man.

[TornadoFlame]

^NO you have to come tonight. It's Snowbunny night!!!

[BEWD]

^That makes my stomach churn. >_>

[Darklightjg1]

Well this is what the guy told me when we were discussing bad dates in regards to compliments.....

"my worst date was with this one girl who kept telling me how much she liked me and what she thought of me. I was like, "ok, enough already. My ego's been fed enough!" There was no challenge. This was all on the first date and first time we talked on the phone. I don't take compliments very well, so when she said stuff like, "you look like a linebacker" all I could think of was. "God, you're stupid!" Mean, I know, but I didn't like that she put herself out there so early after meeting me"

So..... do you agree with him?

A compliment is nice, but my ego is not that big either... overfeed it and it will just start to sound like it's forced/bullshit/kiss-assery. That's annoying.

Compliments on the first date are FINE. You two like each other, so it's good that you will want to make each other feel good about yourselves.
Just don't go out of your way to convince someone that he's Superman with all these super powers when he CLEARLY picked you up in the Bat-mobile. That's what I think he was getting at.

All in all, in any given situation... not just first dates, it should be pretty easy to tell whether the flattery is paying off or if you should just back off a little.

-Marn, when you get here, we're gonna get you drunk as FUCK and then drop you off 5 feet from your ex's front door. We'll leave the rest up to you as we have the camcorder ready.:lol:

[The Epidemic]

So I got a friend who is scared of white chicks, what advice would you give him. And yes, he is black. Since he post on here quite often, I was asked to keep his name out of it. He apparently thinks he would be crucified for thinking this way.

thats like one of the dumbest things ive ever heard...
scared?? wtf? Why is he scared? Was he raped/abused by an white woman in his youth? I understand how some ppl can be shy but scared? wow...

In anycase if you can talk to a blk/latina/asian/indian broad why cant you talk to a white broad??

Dont fear the vanilla son

[RockBogart]

In anycase if you can talk to a blk/latina/asian/indian broad why cant you talk to a white broad??

Dont fear the vanilla son

Thats what Ive been telling him for the past 2 weeks. He has apparently had a few isolated incidents when dealing with them. I told him your more likely to get fucked up dating a Latina than a white chick.

[BEWD]

thats like one of the dumbest things ive ever heard...

Dont fear the vanilla son

Not everyone's experiences are the same as yours. Also not his fault that the "Vanilla" is almost always laced with bullshit.

But this is SRK, so Yellow Fever/Snowbunnies are the order of the day pretty much.

[The Epidemic]

^what does that have to do with anything?
Obviously his experiences arent the same as mine...but, the idea of being "scared" of white woman is beyond stupid.

As i said..being shy is one thing..thats can be understandable. However, if you have no problem talkin to any other female..why be scared to talk to white woman? Its all the same..whether shes white, blk, mixed, asian or spanish..its all the same. A woman is a woman regardless of race...

[BEWD]

^It's beyond stupid thinking everything's all the same with a woman. There's more than one type of woman, just like there's more than one type of bullshit that comes with it.

EDIT: For instance with me personally, it's hard for me to deal with black chicks unless they aren't on all that ghetto superstar bullshit. Reason being, to them, I talk "White" or some stupid shit, so there's a disconnect right there.

On the other hand with white women not all the times it's the woman herself but her surroundings, be it their family that are just itching for their gun or something, or their moronic friends. One thing though, with white women I've been around it's usually them talking shit about your back to their friends or whatever, none of the ones I've dealt with have had the spine to say something to me directly. Not so with other chicks.

[The Epidemic]

^I know theres more than one type of woman. MY point (which you seem to be missing) is that you should treat a white woman just like you would treat any other woman. Its beyond stupid to disagree with that statement too. Thats all there is to it. Being scared of white woman or any kinda of woman is stupid...
Stop trying to sympathsize with the dude..and call it what it really is...which is stupid.

[The Epidemic]

EDIT: For instance with me personally, it's hard for me to deal with black chicks unless they aren't on all that ghetto superstar bullshit. Reason being, to them, I talk "White" or some stupid shit, so there's a disconnect right there.

On the other hand with white women not all the times it's the woman herself but her surroundings, be it their family that are just itching for their gun or something, or their moronic friends. One thing though, with white women I've been around it's usually them talking shit about your back to their friends or whatever, none of the ones I've dealt with have had the spine to say something to me directly. Not so with other chicks.

1.) stop talkin to teenagers...I dont know any blk woman who are on the "thug superstar" shit.

2.) You cant judge a whole race of woman just bc YOU had bad experiences...thats mad stupid. Lets say this this dude was with a white broad a while back...and her racist family caused them to break-up...would you stop dating and be scared of all white woman just bc of the one incident?
I know i wouldnt....

Different races might have slightly different mind sets when your trying to get at them..but, theres universal things that any type of woman would want to hear. Soooo..one again if you have no problem talkin to any other broad...and yet your scared to make advances to a white girl...i have no words for such sillyness.

[HeaT]

but be a better person and dont try to ignore her. be her friend, since you still care about her a friendship cant hurt rite.

it can if you still have feelings and are hoping that something might happen...

im outi

Roberth

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

, to them, I talk "White" or some stupid shit, so there's a disconnect right there..

same for me. Just because I speak properly makes me uncool? :wasted:

[thurst]

white women aren't anything special, like there's not even any special strats needed for bagging them. to fear them is to fear the default.

[SweetHoney]

I know exactly how you feel. I might get married some day, but I will tell you one thing, I am sure as hell not going to bow down to some woman like she is my God and do whatever the hell she says. If she wants some henpecked husband she better look elsewhere because I won't stand for that. My best friend won't return my calls or speak to me because his woman has forbid him from having contact with me just because I gave him the most wild bachelor party EVER. lolz. So he spends all of his time doing exactly what she says and is working 70+ hours a week so that he can give her the house and car that she wants, and she still bitches and badmouths him all the time.. :rofl: OWNED!!!


screw the mansion and the benz..I'd be pissed as hell if my man worked 70 hours a week!

[TornadoFlame]

1.) stop talkin to teenagers...I dont know any blk woman who are on the "thug superstar" shit.

2.) You cant judge a whole race of woman just bc YOU had bad experiences...thats mad stupid. Lets say this this dude was with a white broad a while back...and her racist family caused them to break-up...would you stop dating and be scared of all white woman just bc of the one incident?
I know i wouldnt....

Different races might have slightly different mind sets when your trying to get at them..but, theres universal things that any type of woman would want to hear. Soooo..one again if you have no problem talkin to any other broad...and yet your scared to make advances to a white girl...i have no words for such sillyness.

Looks like someone hit a nerve :rofl:.

It's all about preference and the woman I prefer the most is the one that's a woman :tup:.

[BrentoBox]

white women aren't anything special, like there's not even any special strats needed for bagging them. to fear them is to fear the default.

White woman are pretty diverse though. There are so many types.

If your just talking about the bleached blonde type, then yeah, they are all pretty much the same. But when you really look there is a lot of variety.

Some of that variety you don't wanna touch though.

[Silentness!]

There is a variety to anything.

[catchafire]

White woman are pretty diverse though. There are so many types.

If your just talking about the bleached blonde type, then yeah, they are all pretty much the same. But when you really look there is a lot of variety.

Some of that variety you don't wanna touch though.

This is true. Comparing African American women, you don't have much diversity. You basically have hood rat chick and everything else... :annoy:

[Silentness!]

fuck... I kind of miss getting text messages :sweat:

*sends one*
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I'm sick as fuck though... this weekend is going to blow if I'm coughing and wheezing everywhere

[The Epidemic]

^i need to get that free textin shit next month.

Im over my texts by 657...phone bill was dumb high. :mad:


Anyway...i got something im gonna post in a lil while. About a conversation/argument i had with someone

[lovepig78]

bitches love textin

lol

gotta love the boondocks

[Luigi-Bo 87]

So my friend (a girl duh) rolled up on me at school today. (not the same chick from b4) I been wanting to smash for the longest, but I think shit would be wierd afterward cuz we're close friends and shit. But we flirt a lot though. Anyway, I'm chillin with my mans mindin' my business, and outta nowhere here she comes and sits that ass RIGHT in my lap. I was too proud of myself for not getting hard, she is fine IMO. Anyways, any of u chumps been in this pickle before?

[AzN_Skater]

So my friend (a girl duh) rolled up on me at school today. (not the same chick from b4) I been wanting to smash for the longest, but I think shit would be wierd afterward cuz we're close friends and shit. But we flirt a lot though. Anyway, I'm chillin with my mans mindin' my business, and outta nowhere here she comes and sits that ass RIGHT in my lap. I was too proud of myself for not getting hard, she is fine IMO. Anyways, any of u chumps been in this pickle before?

Yah, this chick did it to me in highschool, no big deal. She's basically telling you she wants you and you should get a move on. Now get off the internet and get dat.

[ProfessorS]

Hey SRK, I've learned something.

It's not a good idea to tell your feelings to girls.

Case in point, met a cute ass girl a few weeks ago from a friend. We hit it off. A couple days later we hung out, made out, messed around, spent the night etc. This went on for like 2 weeks. She told me on multiple occasions that she liked me, which sucked because she's gonna be two hours away from me the entire summer. Still, I figured if we established a relationship, we could visit each other and it wouldn't be a big deal. I won't lie, I was starting to fall for her too.

So about a week ago, I'm hanging out with her and I tell her that I like her and I want to keep seeing her over the summer. Bear in mind, ALL of her actions and words at this point had indicated she wanted to be in a relationship with me.

BOOM. She says she's going to be busy over the summer and that we "should just be friends over the summer." I was like :confused: After this point, things were awkward as hell. Later I drop her off, no kiss.

Realizing I messed up because I put her on a pedestal, I ask her to hang out again a few days later. She agrees, we go bowling, but I feel like I'm starting all over again. We have fun, but I'm not able to work up to anything substantial.

So I call her today about hanging out tomorrow. It's a good conversation with a good vibe, but when I suggest we hang out she pulls out the excuses "200 pages to read, paper to write, test Friday" etc etc. Ugh, I'm done with this.

Anyway, I feel if I hadn't put things on the table like I had, she'd be over right now wanting to lick my balls. But instead, I was a wuss and told her how I felt before she was ready.

[Silentness!]

You sure you're not being needy?

lol I'm not trying to sound like an ass, but she offered to go bowling. She might legitimately be busy man.

I always hook up with chicks in Seoul and it's 2 hours away. No big deal for me going 2 hours out there *shrug* I only hang out on the weekends anyways. Work during the week

[AzN_Skater]

@ProfessorS: She might actually be busy? If she's still in school, that's totally legit. Besides, it's the end of the semester for a lot of colleges, maybe she has a shitload to do and study. Don't stress it, keep doing what you are doing, seems to be working anyways.

[ProfessorS]

You sure you're not being needy?

lol I'm not trying to sound like an ass, but she offered to go bowling. She might legitimately be busy man.

I always hook up with chicks in Seoul and it's 2 hours away. No big deal for me going 2 hours out there *shrug* I only hang out on the weekends anyways. Work during the week

I didn't think I was being too needy, she did pick up every time I would call, always respond to texts and never refused an offer to hang out. We only hung out 2-3 times a week, and sometimes only for an hour or so.

I think the fact I just laid everything out on the table like that brought a new gravity to the situation. I can buy that she's busy, but the way her affection and attraction for me just seemed to die instantly confused the hell out of me.

[The Epidemic]

snip..

It sounds more like that you were being kinda clingy son. I mean..you only known her for a few weeks right? Never show your hand that early son. She most likey got turned off by the fact that your catchin feelins so early. Maybe she didnt even want a relationship. Maybe she just wanted to be friends with benfits?
Its good to take intiative and tell woman how you feel but, you cant rush things. Yo gotta strike when the moments right. Now since you did not do this..she put you in the friend zone and your gettin hit with mad excuses whenver you wanna chill with her.

On the other hand..she can actually be busy..you never know so dont trip.

But, just in case she isnt dont giveup..you still can come back from this.
theres two ways you can fix this.

A.) Give her the smooth cold shoulder. Stay in contact with her but, keep a nice cool, level swag to make it seem like your not missing her and whatever..to show that you can move on any bag other broads.(btw this waaay is mad risky. but it can work)

B.) Next time you talk to her..tell her how...you usually dont get atteached to girls so quickly. (y'know..im not gonna wrtie a dialouge but, basically soup her up..while humbling yourslef at the same time)

[Silentness!]

play some got damn WoW. That will get your mind off women.

Sheeeet :rofl:

[Luigi-Bo 87]

Almost forgot, there's a cute ass girl in my math class who I saw at a job I just got hired at today. I'm soooo using work as a place to holla.:tup:

[ProfessorS]

Yeah Epi, I think you got the right idea with choice A. We were hanging out a lot so I probably came off as clingy, but that was because I wanted to establish something before summer. I liked the girl a lot...I fall too damn fast. I'm the only dude on the planet that can get a girl into bed on the first date and get a "just friends" speech a week later.

We're both gonna be busy this summer, I'll just chill on it til the fall, hell I might meet something better in the meantime. I'll still talk to her on occasion.

I've got no problem starting from scratch again, I've gotten her naked once...I can do it again.

[CoolWater]

Yeah Epi, I think you got the right idea with choice A. We were hanging out a lot so I probably came off as clingy, but that was because I wanted to establish something before summer. I liked the girl a lot...I fall too damn fast. I'm the only dude on the planet that can get a girl into bed on the first date and get a "just friends" speech a week later.

We're both gonna be busy this summer, I'll just chill on it til the fall, hell I might meet something better in the meantime. I'll still talk to her on occasion.

I've got no problem starting from scratch again, I've gotten her naked once...I can do it again.

I feel your pain too bro. I let a girl i fell for way too fast get away cause I let her know how I felt about her WAAAY too soon. The reason was, however, because I felt i might have been getting a bit "sloppy" and was letting human emotion seep in, thinking too much and what not. See, its THINKING that kills it. Just do what my friends brother in law does (who has, as of the last 5 years, impregnated 12 different wom...err....bitches), just think with ur dick.

If you let your brain do the thinking, you are wrought with fear, self doubt, and caring, and you don't want that getting in the way of your primal instinct cause they will win. I offer as reference that primal instint is what GETS the girl cause GETTING the girl is the ultimate goal necessary for the reproductive act in nature. It is NOT in our animal nature to want to keep the girl, however, so once you have her (and as i have little statistical precedent for that I cant help you there) keeping her requires a bit more subtlety.

But on a more serious note, emotions are strange things. Even if you bury them, they have a tendency to reemerge. The same is true for women as well. If she really had feelings for you to begin with, they are still there. In time, they may reemerge. Time is the ultimate equalizer..and death too, but thats not really useful. The most important thing to remember is if you really care about her you won't forget about her no matter how hard you try, but getting with someone else might let you bury those emotions ina very deep place.

[SweetHoney]

Advise please....I sometimes find myself in the same situation...only Im "too nice" or whatever... this last time I thought I had it under control. So whats the deal? Do I REALLY have to be a complete b!tch to a man to keep his interest?

[The Epidemic]

Advise please....I sometimes find myself in the same situation...only Im "too nice" or whatever... this last time I thought I had it under control. So whats the deal? Do I REALLY have to be a complete b!tch to a man to keep his interest?

I mean...every guy is different. As for me? I dont see how you being "too nice" is a problem. I love girls that are mad affectionate..i dunno know why someone would complain about that. Also you shouldnt have to change who you are for someone...if your a nice person...thats just who you are. Dont turn into a "bitch" just to get a rise out him.

[ProfessorS]

All this talk reminded me of something a girl I dated for 3 years told me once when I asked her what drew her to me.

She told me that she liked me a lot after our first date but what really got her hooked on me was the fact I didn't talk to her for a whole week after the date.

In other words, making yourself scarce can be a good thing, especially at the beginning of a relationship. It establishes that you have a life outside of the girl, and it gives her a chance to miss you. I should start listening to my own advice, lol.

[Silentness!]

All this talk reminded me of something a girl I dated for 3 years told me once when I asked her what drew her to me.

She told me that she liked me a lot after our first date but what really got her hooked on me was the fact I didn't talk to her for a whole week after the date.

In other words, making yourself scarce can be a good thing, especially at the beginning of a relationship. It establishes that you have a life outside of the girl, and it gives her a chance to miss you. I should start listening to my own advice, lol.

yeah. Try to balance yourself so that you don't NEED her to be content.
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Like for instance me: I play dat WoW, workout, sleep, play fighting games, and surf SRK to get my mind off women.
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PS: Omg noooo she called me out of the blue :wasted: Said she was going to call back later on after work, fuck no I want to sleep! I got like one hour of sleep today.

[SweetHoney]

I mean...every guy is different. As for me? I dont see how you being "too nice" is a problem. I love girls that are mad affectionate..i dunno know why someone would complain about that. Also you shouldnt have to change who you are for someone...if your a nice person...thats just who you are. Dont turn into a "bitch" just to get a rise out him.

Getting a rise out of a man is never a problem...its keeping him around is what I have a hard time with. lol

[Silentness!]

Getting a rise out of a man is never a problem...its keeping him around is what I have a hard time with. lol

What are the signals he gives before he "disappears"
________________

Man this girl is making me mad. I hate being interrogated

"Are you playboy?"

I'm fixing to tell her to go fuck herself and move on if she keeps up this shit act.

[SweetHoney]

What are the signals he gives before he "disappears"

blowing up over stupid shit...thats something they ALL seem to like to do that before simulating a break up.

[The Epidemic]

Getting a rise out of a man is never a problem...its keeping him around is what I have a hard time with. lol

Thats not exactly what i meant when i said "rise" but anyway...
how long have you been in this relationship? There could be many reasons why the guy doesnt stick around. Him saying you are just "too nice" sounds like a safe and convenient excuse. How does he usually treat you when you guys are together?...maybe he just isnt right for you :shrug:

Edit: Some guys are too dumb to realize they have something good right in front of them...but, maybe he doesnt wanna settle.

Also remember this quote

"Here's all you have to know about men and women: women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid." - George Carlin

[Silentness!]

The guy could be stupid, but if honeydavis is going through a streak of guys... it might be something on her end that might need some mending.

Just a thought :looney:

__________

No relationship is crystal clear though. There are times where you want to rip each other's head off.

[TornadoFlame]

Just let my Snowbunny go and that shit hurt me to my heart. I know I shouldn't have caught feelings but she's too good of a girl. Definitely knew how to take care of a man in every way. Well she'll be someone else's now, and I can now focus on being a one woman man. :sad: Anyone else have a perfect girl they had to let go and it just "HURT"?

[AzN_Skater]

Just let my Snowbunny go and that shit hurt me to my heart. I know I shouldn't have caught feelings but she's too good of a girl. Definitely knew how to take care of a man in every way. Well she'll be someone else's now, and I can now focus on being a one woman man. :sad: Anyone else have a perfect girl they had to let go and it just "HURT"?

Damn, what happened?

[TornadoFlame]

I've been in a relationship for 7 years and I have 2 daughters and I love my family. She loved me but I'm not leaving my girl I'm with.

[AzN_Skater]

I've been in a relationship for 7 years and I have 2 daughters and I love my family. She loved me but I'm not leaving my girl I'm with.

Ahhh, good shit, one woman man and all that. Maybe if it were another time and another place, but not to be. Kudos to you.

[TornadoFlame]

Ahhh, good shit, one woman man and all that. Maybe if it were another time and another place, but not to be. Kudos to you.

Sad part is, I work with her.

[HeaT]

Think I just found yet ANOTHER white guy on SRK..........Good Shit.

BAHAHAH ya im white, but i just said "thick" whatever that means cause everyone be having definitions and people be telling me it is not fat but...most of the time thick to me is fat...

im outi

Roberth

[AzN_Skater]

BAHAHAH ya im white, but i just said "thick" whatever that means cause everyone be having definitions and people be telling me it is not fat but...most of the time thick to me is fat...

im outi

Roberth

Thick is definitely not fat. Thick girls have a certain cuteness to them. Fat girls do not.

[CoolWater]

Getting a rise out of a man is never a problem...its keeping him around is what I have a hard time with. lol

Statistically men will more often complain about not being able to get the girl, and women will complain about not being able to keep the guy. So what you are going through is a part of the natural process and is less a fault of your own than a fault of the social construct.

Love is not rational, so trying to create a rational explanation to fit your problem would only create more problems. If you really want to find love dont' shut out a good thing because you are scared of what will happen. Do what is COUNTERINTUITIVE to your nature because love transcends nature. If a guy tells you how he feels about you early on ask why, dont just push him away because you are uncertain or pull him in too fast because he's "the one". Tread surely but lightly, like walking on a log bridge over a bottomless ravine. The future is uncertain.

[fredelza]

how do you get rid of annoying ass guys trying to pursue the same girl? so this guy who i think dated the same girl before and is annoying supreme hood guy, anyway she wore a short skirt today with boots so it looked good as heck. i was thinking of what to say to her after class since i always got eyes and tried to flirt with her. so called"homo moments " as someone mentioned a few pages back. so i said fuck it if i am going to get more in the game i was thinking of going to try and get something going. so the class ends i was thinking of being dumb and going, : damn girl you ain't cold in here haha: something to that affect. so in comes this guy who says " damn you got some sexy ass legs" and other stuff with hat. so as he says that i am right behind them looking dumb as though i was about to say something. i was thinking of joining in but that would make me look like a clown and pervert.

this one is hard since they dated before and he knows her more than i do, but i know she had a liking to me earlier before, i almost had a make out moment when she hit me very hard over a remark which i apologized for after class she then rubbed my hand, i rubbed it back then i didnt know what to do, lol

thoughts? hope i aint sounding desperate or pathetic to you guys

[HeaT]

Getting a rise out of a man is never a problem...its keeping him around is what I have a hard time with. lol

well sometimes it really just doesnt workout for whatever reason...and sometimes the dude is just dumb, the human brain is hard to understand...and sometimes people cannot explain their own reasonings

and sometimes (imo 80%) its about sex, not getting enough, getting boring, it being bad, etc...

maybe you just havent found a good one???

im outi

Roberth

[CoolWater]

how do you get rid of annoying ass guys trying to pursue the same girl? so this guy who i think dated the same girl before and is annoying supreme hood guy, anyway she wore a short skirt today with boots so it looked good as heck. i was thinking of what to say to her after class since i always got eyes and tried to flirt with her. so called"homo moments " as someone mentioned a few pages back. so i said fuck it if i am going to get more in the game i was thinking of going to try and get something going. so the class ends i was thinking of being dumb and going, : damn girl you ain't cold in here haha: something to that affect. so in comes this guy who says " damn you got some sexy ass legs" and other stuff with hat. so as he says that i am right behind them looking dumb as though i was about to say something. i was thinking of joining in but that would make me look like a clown and pervert.

this one is hard since they dated before and he knows her more than i do, but i know she had a liking to me earlier before, i almost had a make out moment when she hit me very hard over a remark which i apologized for after class she then rubbed my hand, i rubbed it back then i didnt know what to do, lol

thoughts? hope i aint sounding desperate or pathetic to you guys

Either that or she has REAAAALY low self esteem. I would really not do what those other guys are doing cause they are doomed to fail, since you said ONE of those guys once went out with her and they broke up, its unlikely that he has become any MORE childish, and the only reason she will go back is low self esteem.

The fact that she made physical contat with you is a good sign in general, and since you share a class with her you should ask her questions about things NOT concerning her physical appearance, like how she felt during a last test you took. It shows you noticed her enough to talk to her, but care enough about here feelings not to just act like an idiot. If she is focusing on getting attention about her appearance, take your focus away from that. Go outside of the box she makes for herself and you will give her the idea that you have soemthing to offer.

[The Epidemic]

how do you get rid of annoying ass guys trying to pursue the same girl?

Getting rid of the competition can be difficult sometimes. However imo you have an even better chance with getn with her bc your competition is her EX. Now everygirl is different but, for the most part shes gonna want someone that isnt like her ex-bf. You said that her ex is some thug-life type dude right? (i cant believe dudes still think that style is cool..) Im assuming your style isnt exactly "hood" right? So thats another thing goin for you. Plus you said you guys almost had a make-out session so that means your definetly in there. The key to eliminating the competition is to isolate her from them. In your case her ex. Its a way of making you guys look like a couple even if thats not even the case yet. If you get her one on one and conversate with her (while walkin close to her and what not) most dudes will take that as a sign as your her BF so they wont approach her. (Unless they got mad nerve)

For instance, whenever my sister wants me to go to Lenox (mall in atl) with her (bc she gets hit on aloooot:rolleyes:)...I play the role of number one cockblocker. Now the dudes at the mall dont know shes just my sis and it isnt a relationship...but, by me holdin her bags, conversating/joking, and walkin relatively close (not intimately close :looney:) It makes it look like shes taken y'know? So 90% percent of the dudes that would be all over her...dont bc they think im her bf...you feel me?
Basically use a similar approach like this with the girl your trying to get at.

You have to act quick tho...but, dont rush or force anything..let it play out smooth. Her EX is obviously trying waaaay too hard..atleast thats what i get out of what you wrote. Just dont let her think you've lost interest

[Silentness!]

^ LOL ^

Sounds like me hanging around my mom. My mom gets hit on a lot so my dad sometimes makes me go with her. (mainly dark at night for protection)

[SweetHoney]

how do you get rid of annoying ass guys trying to pursue the same girl? so this guy who i think dated the same girl before and is annoying supreme hood guy, anyway she wore a short skirt today with boots so it looked good as heck. i was thinking of what to say to her after class since i always got eyes and tried to flirt with her. so called"homo moments " as someone mentioned a few pages back. so i said fuck it if i am going to get more in the game i was thinking of going to try and get something going. so the class ends i was thinking of being dumb and going, : damn girl you ain't cold in here haha: something to that affect. so in comes this guy who says " damn you got some sexy ass legs" and other stuff with hat. so as he says that i am right behind them looking dumb as though i was about to say something. i was thinking of joining in but that would make me look like a clown and pervert.

this one is hard since they dated before and he knows her more than i do, but i know she had a liking to me earlier before, i almost had a make out moment when she hit me very hard over a remark which i apologized for after class she then rubbed my hand, i rubbed it back then i didnt know what to do, lol

thoughts? hope i aint sounding desperate or pathetic to you guys

Dont do it! If you do then shes going to think you're only wanting in her panties. If you go after it when shes all dressed up not only will she be expecting to get hit on but she'll be ready to ninja block anything that comes her way.
so if you cant resist when shes dressing sexy, compliment her hair or her eyes, or something completely nonsexual or not apart of her new getup. But really if shes dressing up, shes asking for attention... My suggestion would be to compliment her when shes not evening trying. Go up to her maybe when shes having a nice make up day and wearing casual clothes and tell her something nice about how she looks. Trust me it will catch her conpletely off guard and win you major brownie points. show her youre paying attention when shes not trying and like the way she looks everyday no matter what. After that you should definitely show up on her radar.

[Etcetera]

^ LOL ^

Sounds like me hanging around my mom. My mom gets hit on a lot so my dad sometimes makes me go with her. (mainly dark at night for protection)
Somethings wrong, I can't find the links to pics of your mom.

[Silentness!]

Somethings wrong, I can't find the links to pics of your mom.

EWWWW!
__________________

I fucking H-A-T-E Text messages...

I just got done making one and then I accidentally cancel it. FUCK :annoy:

[GreyFoxx]

Well i got a slight problem so bare with me. One of my ex-coworkers have just left her BF because of some BS. granted i never tried anything due too the fact she was loyally blind too him. Yet she is a nice small cute white chick with a nice rack. Yet here is the kicker she got no place too crash since she left her BF. She's been sleeping at her co-workers houses and stuff just today i heard she had too buy new bra's and panties. So how should i approach this situation for a possible move on or bang?

[ckrazy]

Well i got a slight problem so bare with me. One of my ex-coworkers have just left her BF because of some BS. granted i never tried anything due too the fact she was loyally blind too him. Yet she is a nice small cute white chick with a nice rack. Yet here is the kicker she got no place too crash since she left her BF. She's been sleeping at her co-workers houses and stuff just today i heard she had too buy new bra's and panties. So how should i approach this situation for a possible move on or bang?

Depend on what kind of chick she is I've have seen this situation all the time it depend on the chick. For example you know those kind of girl who always fight with her boy friend, break up and make up the following week. Basically if she one of those don't waste your time unless you want to just hit and quit it then go ahead go have some fun. If she actually leaving him for good then why the fuck not. I will assume she probably be moody as hell so go cheer her up and work it from there, but that pretty common advice but hey it usually work out.

[The Epidemic]

snip..

i mean, how long have they been apart?

i wouldnt mess with it personally...but, thats all on you dun.

[fredelza]

good stuff.

luckily he wasnt here today so i went in. i complimented other features like her hair and matching skills. showed no reaction

later as class was ending i was complaining that i shaved rough and that one side was more thicker. i turn around there she was giving me a dumb look like wow. i didnt know what to do, so i was talking to her like what her problem was she said nothing, i ended asking her if she was playing she was like yea.

then hallway got crowded, talk about bad timing.

[SweetHoney]

good stuff.

luckily he wasnt here today so i went in. i complimented other features like her hair and matching skills. showed no reaction

later as class was ending i was complaining that i shaved rough and that one side was more thicker. i turn around there she was giving me a dumb look like wow. i didnt know what to do, so i was talking to her like what her problem was she said nothing, i ended asking her if she was playing she was like yea.

then hallway got crowded, talk about bad timing.

matching skills? dude! ...you are so nerdy its adorable. Heres what you do. one day as you're sitting in class just kinda glance over and check her out everyone in a while...kinda be subtle about it, but not too under radar cause you do want her to notice...at some point pause what you're doing and focus in on her really hard. say "hey?" to get her attention but wait until she responds before going on, that way you know she is listening and you have her interest. When she answers you go on and say, "you have no idea how beautiful you are." That should get things going. Then if shes receptive ask her what shes doing that weekend. If she wants to do something with you she'll show some interest in what you are doing as well. Girls can be really subtle...sometimes to a fault. Hit us back with what she says to you. Try to remember exactly what she says because sometimes we can be cryptic as well.

btw running your game plan by us (or you are welcome to pm me) BEFORE you say something to her is probably a good idea. matchings skills....lmao jk...you are seriously too cute on that one.

[The Epidemic]

@Fred

yea...i prolly wouldnt compliment her so much anymore at this point. I mean, you gave her compliments b4 right? Dont give too much...It'll make it look like your tryin too hard. And then she will take advantage. (not in a good way) Just use a more natural approach. That shaving opener was kinda random :lol: its all good. Most of the time random shit works...

Question when you asked her what her problem" was you didnt say it like that i hope right? A more subtle approach what have been "sooo whats wrong?"

Another question. When you asked her if she was playing you did you mean joking? bc playing where im from means something else :sweat:

Also, remember not to fear the crowd..embrace it...itll make it look like you guys are makin moves and your comp wont interfere.

[HeaT]

have you ever seen a chick that was so fucking rediculous that you just wanted to walk up to her and tell her that shes rediculous...

there are some chicks at the gym where im like...DA FUCK is going on right now...confusion sets in when their hotness is immaculate...

but i never do have the courage to be like i just want to tell you, you legs are fucking amazing hahaha...

im outi

Roberth

[BBQ]

^ I did last winter at a bar. I was leaving and noticed this supreme hotty that just walked right passed me, I turned around noticed she had her boyfriend/husband and still told her "I just noticed you and I have to say that you are probably the hottest woman in this bar" She blushed and thanked me as I left out the door.

[HeaT]

naw man like once in a while ill see a woman that just fucking floors me...like i would be disturbed for days at the fucking rediculous hotness...

im outi

Roberth

ps...speaking of hot women...this is some hard body shit...http://i.cnn.net/si/pr/subs/swimsuit/images/05_mmiller_01.jpg

[fredelza]

playing as in joking or not so serious.

yea it was hard to embrace the crowd when i think i sounded the way thought it was. ie kinda aggressive not playfully since she seemed angry, don't know if thats her technique or what. thanks you two.





anyway tomorrow is work day game plan, try and make jokes like last time, be nonchalant with her friend when they do stuff, focus on her for a while?* is this what you mean honey davis? try and get more jokes in, clear cockblockers/ family

compliment her matching skills. sound good?

[SweetHoney]

playing as in joking or not so serious.

yea it was hard to embrace the crowd when i think i sounded the way thought it was. ie kinda aggressive not playfully since she seemed angry, don't know if thats her technique or what. thanks you two.





anyway tomorrow is work day game plan, try and make jokes like last time, be nonchalant with her friend when they do stuff, focus on her for a while?* is this what you mean honey davis? try and get more jokes in, clear cockblockers/ family

compliment her matching skills. sound good?

No. I meant stare at her beauty in amazement...lol

[GreyFoxx]

i mean, how long have they been apart?

i wouldnt mess with it personally...but, thats all on you dun.

So far i hear about a week heard the guy was a controlling bas so she up and left his but. She tried calling me for something yet the number i call is dead so i might pass on thru her job when i have a chance and look her up.

[tanabe]

so like... i think one of my managers likes me but i dont know how to approach it

story goes like this:

i work a lot and usually i'm by myself except for when a manager comes in to check on me (i work at abercrombie). Lately this one manager comes in and checks on me more often than she does with the other workers and we started bonding off of that.

whenever i take breaks in the back, she'd come over and talk to me about some deep and personal shit she's been dealing with. as time went on, we got closer and closer. she starts saying shit like "you're such an interesting person, there's so much i dont know about you." and we talk about places that would be cool to hang out at. she'd even be like "yeah, you should take me there some time."

i finally had the guts to ask her to hang out and she says "i cant hang out with you because i'm a manager." she leaves and says that shit got akward between us.

she hides out in the back and tries to avoid me. i eventually get her to talk to me, i tell her that i'm sorry and didnt mean for shit to awkward between us that "i think you're such a cool person and i wanted to know you as a friend outside of work" and she responds by saying that she has a tendency to overreact and it's not just my fault; she gives me her number.

she goes on vacation for a week and during that week i text her twice. both times she does not respond so i assume that she didnt know it was me. i see her at work today and try to be chill about shit and i finally bring it up:

me: did you get my text?
her: yeah. i didnt respond because shit is still awkward between us
me: how? you dont need to be
her: because it's the way i feel.

so before i can put in my 2cents on the whole issue she gets called away by the other workers. she spent the entire day ignoring me even though it was all work related shit. and every time i did get near her, she'd start talking to one of the other workers or walk away.

so yeah... right now i'm just letting shit unfold on its own. i dont know if i should be doing anything else though. any advice?

[SRKev]

Don't waste your time.

1) It's bad to date co-workers

2) She's playing games with her whole,"You're a cool person, but we can't hang out" bullshit.

Let that shit go and if she actually likes you, she'll come to you. That's when you tell her that you can't see her outside of work, because things are "awkward*".

:encore::encore::encore:

* You must use finger quotes during this section.

[Seijuro-HIko]

words


Honestly, she sounds like a mental case waiting to happen. Don't try to push the situation any further than it is if you really want to be with this girl. If she's really digging you then eventually she'll come. Personally I wouldn't try to pursue anything with her. From my past experiences, work related relationships always turn out for the worse.

If she's playing hard to get and is still ignoring you then she's childish and has some growing up to do. Just move on to another woman.

[tanabe]

If she's playing hard to get and is still ignoring you then she's childish and has some growing up to do. Just move on to another woman.

i dont get how someone much older than me (4years older, i'm 19 she's 23) and with much more experience (2 prior engagements, and a live-in gf) could still be as immature as this.

my intentions from the beginning of all of this was to be friends with her outside of work since we got along so well. she's making shit awkward and isnt explaining to me (probably feels she doesnt have to) why she's blowing this shit out of proportion.

good advice, thanks :tup:

[coco_j]

Fuck I am shit with women. God damn. God bless all you who got the balls.

[No defence]

yo I met a crazy ass chick last night.

I know she's a freak.

First time I met her with in 5 min she was openly talking about letting guy's cum in her mouth, and how she likes to skull fuck. Anatomy is her favorite subject in college.:wow: She know like every part of the Human Body IN and out.:amazed:

It shocked the hell out of me....... I swear she is going to drop out of college to become a porn star.... She is mad cute too.....

I like a girls with a wild side...... but she kind of scare me. Never thought I would meet a girl like this EVER>>>> I am going to have to talk to this chick.:hitit: I need to man the fuck up.:annoy:

Anybody here ever met a girl like this before? It's seem like you could say anything to her and she not be offended! She just dont give a fuck. I guess If want to talk to her I should not care either.:wonder:

[loruba24]

yo I met a crazy ass chick last night.

I know she's a freak.

First time I met her with in 5 min she was openly talking about letting guy's cum in her mouth, and how she likes to skull fuck. Anatomy is her favorite subject in college.:wow: She know like every part of the Human Body IN and out.:amazed:

It shocked the hell out of me....... I swear she is going to drop out of college to become a porn star.... She is mad cute too.....

I like a girls with a wild side...... but she kind of scare me. Never thought I would meet a girl like this EVER>>>> I am going to have to talk to this chick.:hitit: I need to man the fuck up.:annoy:

Anybody here ever met a girl like this before? It's seem like you could say anything to her and she not be offended! She just dont give a fuck. I guess If want to talk to her I should not care either.:wonder:

sounds like the chick is an escalator, if you hit that and remain cool with her it will probably put you in the big leagues fast.

[Beatrice]

Okay, my last b/f was a pussy!

Why I felt in love with him he had a extremly cute face and I felt for his All stars.

Why I broke up...

I found out on myspace that he was a well known singer and I was 10 years ago fan of him WTF (when he did pop like the backstreet boys) #$%*&

He can roll himself with a samurai sword -_- (I hate those ninja wannabees).

I really hate Bon Jovi music, he was also a ***...

I was an stupid ass too -_-;

When do I meet a cool guy? Sniff...

[The Epidemic]

^when you move to a location that isnt called hell? :lol:

[HeaT]

Okay, my last b/f was a pussy!

Why I felt in love with him he had a extremly cute face and I felt for his All stars.

Why I broke up...

I found out on myspace that he was a well known singer and I was 10 years ago fan of him WTF (when he did pop like the backstreet boys) #$%*&

He can roll himself with a samurai sword -_- (I hate those ninja wannabees).

I really hate Bon Jovi music, he was also a ***...

I was an stupid ass too -_-;

When do I meet a cool guy? Sniff...

when you start making sense...

im otui

Roberth

[SweetHoney]

Okay, my last b/f was a pussy!

Why I felt in love with him he had a extremly cute face and I felt for his All stars.

Why I broke up...

I found out on myspace that he was a well known singer and I was 10 years ago fan of him WTF (when he did pop like the backstreet boys) #$%*&

He can roll himself with a samurai sword -_- (I hate those ninja wannabees).

I really hate Bon Jovi music, he was also a ***...

I was an stupid ass too -_-;

When do I meet a cool guy? Sniff...



It seems you already have and you passed on him. So can you pass me his number?

[Koop]

yo I met a crazy ass chick last night.

I know she's a freak.

First time I met her with in 5 min she was openly talking about letting guy's cum in her mouth, and how she likes to skull fuck. Anatomy is her favorite subject in college.:wow: She know like every part of the Human Body IN and out.:amazed:

It shocked the hell out of me....... I swear she is going to drop out of college to become a porn star.... She is mad cute too.....

I like a girls with a wild side...... but she kind of scare me. Never thought I would meet a girl like this EVER>>>> I am going to have to talk to this chick.:hitit: I need to man the fuck up.:annoy:

Anybody here ever met a girl like this before? It's seem like you could say anything to her and she not be offended! She just dont give a fuck. I guess If want to talk to her I should not care either.:wonder:

be careful. every guy think they strike gold when they get a chick that is "openly freaky" they can either go ahead an have a ball... u should feel the way you are cause thats your common sense kicking in... not your dick for once. if you feel stuck or kinda nervous... GOOD. bait all the info that you can outta that chick

ALSO

on a personal note... a chick that ADMITS to swallowing n shyt I don't know playboi. ... thats something you find out AFTER she does the act. She straight up sayin it is either her 'other side' speaking or she is baitin ya azz to see how quick you try to aim for that "sensation". ive dealt with chicks that openly admitted to bangin other chicks... doin it certain ways... but never on that head followed by swallowing tip... nah... thats bit much to be placed in the head man cause if she spittin (no pun intended) that slick shyt to you..... imagine the others...specially if you say she a q-t... play it safe an go for more info before you try to ram ya dick into that mouth cause ya wont be doin that first anyway... $20 says u will be tongue kissin that chick before anything... so think on that playa


allergies whoopin my ass koop

[CoolWater]

As a man, should I take advice about getting the girl from a girl? I like to know things, and I assume that girls know more about what it takes to get the girl than most guys. But in retrospect, how many "girls" does a girl ever have to "get" in the first place? I would think a player would be most experienced in that department, and a woman in a succesful relationship would be the LEAST knowledgeable.

I've questioned 10 of my female friends/ acquaintances and asked them a single question "what 5things are you looking for in a relationship" The most common answers:

Someone good looking (9)
someone whos kind/ caring blah blah blah (8)
someone whos romantic/ charming (7 out of 10)
Someone who makes me laugh. (7 again)
Self Confidence (4)

Is there a book out there that I'm not reading that tells women to answer this question incorrectly? Did i miss something? Personally, I have never met a relationship that was particularly good looking.

And not only did nearly all of them say good looking, which I suppose is fair cause none are blind, but they also tried to justify what they meant after saying it, like "Well, I mean they don't have to look like blah blah blah, but you know, decent" Apparently, not only do I NOT get it, but they think I would be offended by that (I know Im ugly, but Im not stupid too) AAAAAND that was the first answer that nearly all of them gave according to my notes.:tup:

These are facts. So I suppose all my female friends are superficial thus, ascerting WHY they are friends :rock:

[Koop]

As a man, should I take advice about getting the girl from a girl?

yes...half of my game came from chicks. you dont take EVERYTHING... but you take pointers an mold it to your liking. remember most women give you insight mostly from THEIR liking an wants... but you take "overall" advice (when the same thing is mentioned from numerous women) an work with it... advice is just that... take it an mold it to what you feel workable/likable, especially the bedroom tatics

[The Epidemic]

As a man, should I take advice about getting the girl from a girl?

Ummm honestly? I dont like takin advice on how to get broads from woman.
I have my reasons...but, in anycase i wouldnt "rule out" the advice completely either. Its kinda hard to explain. Most of my "game" came from observing my older brother...and watchin my older sisters too actually. I learned what to do and not do just from watching guys who try to get at my older sisters fail. I would take mental notes like, ok..never say "lets connect like four"...cause if you do..you get slapped and doorslammed. The main reason i wouldnt ask advice from a female is bc they will tell you how to approach another woman by thier standards...instead of universally.

Edit: I feel what Koop is saying too..its just...i couldnt do it personally

[Silentness!]

Advice from a female friend: Don't smother her 24/7 :rofl:

She said a guy calls her at breakfast lunch dinner and midnight everyday. Her text inbox is like flooded.
_____

Then again that's common sense and we mentioned that earlier in this thread about neediness and giving some personal space to breathe on your own.

[HeaT]

how do you guys start small talk with a radom chick, for instance in a bookstore, or where ever...

im outi

Roberth

[The Epidemic]

thats easy...its all about using the enviroment...atleast thats what works best for me.

For example:
(bookstore)

Me: hmm..excuse me. But, is that the boo--oh nvm. i thought you were reading something else. Im tryin to find this book called "____" you heard of it?

or

Me: Excuse me? what are you reading (if shes not reading then i would say what you got there?)

[fredelza]

guys, i hope not but i think i have been friend zoned.

ok so you guys know the deal, work girl and stuff.
so today i started really late because i was stumped and when she is in front of the phone and i am in front of her where the tables are at, we both just stare at different things and as usually i don't know what do in that part.

so i tried to do jokes or playing around again which is what works best i guess, so its at the end of the day im about to leave i think FUCK it and try and do something. i ask for my tip pay and notice she got a bit chibbaz/chicos/ baby fat( i like that shit personally, weird i know) so i ask her is she had a small beer belly ( remember i said she lieks to drink) she said" really yea does it stick out? she pulls her shirt up exposiong her stomach with her piercing , she looked mad good. she was telling me that she was going to go to a birthday party and was gonna wear a tight dress. i joked and she said im a dick( she laughed a bit loud and did those things where they hit you when you say that) so i said you should be good, she rubbed her belly, i rubbed it a bit made a joke that she should vomit it out, she did the same thing again. i said i have to leave she said " ok see you around".

honestly by the way she was talking to me i think i a have been friend zoned.
help?

[The Epidemic]

^awwww man son..why you say you had to leave? Im tellin you fred you are in there.
:rofl: at the fact that you said she has a small beer belly...that was a dangerous move dun.
What you shoulda done is ask if you could go to the party...even if she said its private that still woulda opened up more doors.
I dont think you have been friend zoned....yet. But, it will happen if you dont be alil more aggresive imo..and even if it does..its not like its unescapable..its like a raging demon :lol: if you accept it..then its painful..but if you jump over it your good :wgrin:

[SweetHoney]

Thanks guys for all the responses. Sorry this response is a bit delayed but Ive been busy. But seriously I appreciate all the insight.


Thats not exactly what i meant when i said "rise" but anyway...
how long have you been in this relationship? There could be many reasons why the guy doesnt stick around. Him saying you are just "too nice" sounds like a safe and convenient excuse. How does he usually treat you when you guys are together?...maybe he just isnt right for you :shrug:

Edit: Some guys are too dumb to realize they have something good right in front of them...but, maybe he doesnt wanna settle.

Telling a guy Im really into him too early could be my problem...probably the reason I scared off one of the last ones.



From what I've seen of my girlfriends I realize now that bringing a guy home on the first date indicates to men that youre ready for the bedroom, even if you seriously thought a dvd was on the itinerary. I have to learn to bitch it up some. Im too nice to just say "thanks for buying dinner, you can go away now" I like the idea of hanging out after, it just doesnt seem to ever be what I intended...

FYI: Just know that just because you get a girl alone on the first date doesnt mean she intends to sleep with you.

I've learned a lot from my girlfriend's ex's...It boils down to the crude but true saying, "no one wants a hoe for a housewife" or is it "you cant turn a hoe into a housewife" either way its true. Once guys get what they want they have a tendency to disappear. And the hard thing about this is that girls have the belief that sleeping together indicates that relationship exists .



The guy could be stupid, but if honeydavis is going through a streak of guys... it might be something on her end that might need some mending.

Im thinking its something Im doing. Im seriously too sweet and I guess that could be my problem. I also have a thing where I will date whatever comes my way. If a guy shows me attention I cant help but fall for it. Its not that I dont have standards, they just go out the window when someone I think is interesting starts in on me. Maybe Im just tired of being lonely.

Do what is COUNTERINTUITIVE to your nature because love transcends nature. If a guy tells you how he feels about you early on ask why, dont just push him away because you are uncertain or pull him in too fast because he's "the one". Tread surely but lightly, like walking on a log bridge over a bottomless ravine. The future is uncertain.



Thats good advice...only its going to be hard to do exactly the opposite of what I want to do. Its just not a thought process that you can pick up over night.


and sometimes (imo 80%) its about sex, not getting enough, getting boring, it being bad, etc...

Okay then why would a guy get rid of a girl that um...well lets just say "isnt typical" as far as wanting sex?

[fredelza]

^awwww man son..why you say you had to leave? Im tellin you fred you are in there.
:rofl: at the fact that you said she has a small beer belly...that was a dangerous move dun.
What you shoulda done is ask if you could go to the party...even if she said its private that still woulda opened up more doors.
I dont think you have been friend zoned....yet. But, it will happen if you dont be alil more aggresive imo..and even if it does..its not like its unescapable..its like a raging demon :lol: if you accept it..then its painful..but if you jump over it your good :wgrin:

aww really guy? i mea you guys said to make jokes beer belly thing came up first what else can i do for jokes then? hell i didnt think of playing around and asking her to go..... i would have thought that would have been bad. seriously i got hyper again i just need help in being aggressive, like just ask her or something?


damn man this is harder than i thought.:sweat:

[HeaT]

Okay then why would a guy get rid of a girl that um...well lets just say "isnt typical" as far as wanting sex?

it isnt about that you want it a lot, i was with a girl that wanted it a lot but she just really bad at it, that shit didnt fly with me naw mean??? like you quoted, "getting boring, being bad"...gotta take that into consideration...

im outi

Roberth

[XTG]

i just realized im on SRK for longer than i anticipated being on right after having sex with my girlfriend. And i hear her calling me back to bed (im at her place)

[Silentness!]

So yeah my girl and her friend came to visit me. We had a great time and shit... I had hookah (http://youtube.com/watch?v=Qu_gCm4Aemk) for the first time ROFL. I gotta do that shit again... too fun. The first time I did it I huffed in way TOO much. Fun blowing that shit out of my nose.

Anyways the more I hang around her... the more I realize that we have a strong connection. The two flaws I see in her though is that I dread when she drinks because I think she does some stupid things at times... then again it can happen to anyone, but still it's like she drinks because she lacks confidence which brings me to flaw #2

She doesn't believe in her self. One time I told her that she was sexy and she was like "No I'm not... I'm ugly" She finally told me that she is 26. (gasp I don't turn 21 until August)

Regardless though I think were going to run into some rough times. Her job if I already told you guys is as a fashion stylist for international magazines and she helps maintaining club parties and shit in Italy, US, and Korea. She got a kick ass job and meets celebrities. She showed me some pictures of her work. The only problem is that her job makes her move to different countries. She said she will be back in Korea after a month of being in Italy. A month isn't long to me and I will wait for her. She told me her friend will kill me if I cheat on her :rofl:

Overall it just sucks that she is leaving couple weeks from now. Long distance relationships sucks ass. Yet I like this girl way too much to try and see some other random broad so I'm just going to stick it out and wait for her. Practice up some fighting games and maybe chill at a club or two with my friends, but no hollering at girls.

PS: I can't believe she actually came out of Seoul to visit me on a Sunday afternoon even though I have to work Monday. (They have a Korean holiday on the 11th)

She gave me blue balls for a 2nd time in a row!!! Agggh I don't know what the fuck she does, but she always stimulates me to the point where I'm in pain.

[SweetHoney]

you know I've never asked a guy this, but I guess this is the perfect place. How long would you consider to be a good amount of time to wait before having sex with a new gf (or bf in my case)

I know you're going to want to say something like "immediately after introducing ourselves" ....but seriously. How long does a girl have to make you wait to not be put into slut tier ? How long do you consider to be a respectable amount of time?

[Silentness!]

you know I've never asked a guy this, but I guess this is the perfect place. How long would you consider to be a good amount of time to wait before having sex with a new gf (or bf in my case)

I know you're going to want to say something like "immediately after introducing ourselves" ....but seriously. How long does a girl have to make you wait to not be put into slut tier ? How long do you consider to be a respectable amount of time?

I think you can have sex the first night or the 100th night. It doesn't matter as long as you both really care for each other and don't see it as just some night fling and the game is over.
__________

I make out with the girl I'm with all the time, but we have never done any type of sexual acts (oral/intercourse). You'll know when the time is right. It should be natural and not forced. If it happens on the first night oh well that doesn't mean your a slut.

I do admit that I think it's kind of cool that we haven't had sex. When it's actually someone you care about you want it to be good/memorable. (OMG I SOUND LIKE A FUCKING WOMAN) :wasted: *shoots himself*

[SweetHoney]

I think you can have sex the first night or the 100th night. It doesn't matter as long as you both really care for each other and don't see it as just some night fling and the game is over.
__________

I make out with the girl I'm with all the time, but we have never done any type of sexual acts (oral/intercourse). You'll know when the time is right. It should be natural and not forced. If it happens on the first night oh well that doesn't mean your a slut.

I do admit that I think it's kind of cool that we haven't had sex. When it's actually someone you care about you want it to be good/memorable. (OMG I SOUND LIKE A FUCKING WOMAN) :wasted: *shoots himself*