The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[HeaT]

we know WHY girls like badboys and say they want a gentleman...but still it feels like WHY do u act that way? God made our turn ons weird.

we do??? and why is that???

im outi

Roberth

[HeaT]

No, really...guys love bitches. And if I havent at least met a nice guy by now, Im thinking they no longer exist

da fuck??? i dont love me no bitch thats wack, and i also dont know of anyone who does...

im outi

Roberth

[CoolWater]

Hows a "list" not shallow? Shallow...means to judge(usually on apperance) without givin the chance to show ones personality right? Ok, so since some women like having these silly "lists" they eliminate good potential guys just bc he doesnt have ____ or ____. Which is shallow to me.

Its ok to have certain standards...and in all honesty i can feel where most woman are coming from when they want a guy with a his own place/car/job but, it gets to the point where it becomes judging...which is shallow.

I tried hookin one of my close frineds with one of my female friends...and she wont date him just bc he doesnt have his own place and is a lil chubby? Thats the type of shit that pisses me off. Its Shallow.

Having expectations doesnt make you shallow, it makes you a pragmatist. THAT girl, however, is shallow. The list IS creating a false sense of security.

I know this one girl that a while back gave me ALL the signs that she was interrested and she said, and I quote "i don't date friends". Apparently people you have a close raport and trusting relationship with are NOT boyfriend material. Apparently, being friends was a no-no on her list of dateable traits. THIS girl, is shallow.

The list tends to change the idea of "what do you want in a relationship" to "what are you looking for in a man". Now, apparently, I've become her gay best friend whom she feels needs to hear about her failed relationships with personal trainers and latin dance instructors (true story). Generally I would just hang up on shit like that, but she represents the single best in field information on how fucked up women are in the head. The guy is a TOTAL ASS from what I hear and she blames HERSELF every time he fucks her in the head. Classic...FUCKING CLASSIC!

[pherai]

Having expectations doesnt make you shallow, it makes you a pragmatist. THAT girl, however, is shallow. The list IS creating a false sense of security.

I know this one girl that a while back gave me ALL the signs that she was interrested and she said, and I quote "i don't date friends". Apparently people you have a close raport and trusting relationship with are NOT boyfriend material. Apparently, being friends was a no-no on her list of dateable traits. THIS girl, is shallow.


Give me a break dude. Girls aren't attracted to friends. That's how it is. People decide who they like based in initial attraction, and most girls aren't attracted to male friends. Thats why the "Friend Zone" is such a cliche, cause its true! Just cause you can't understand why a girl isn't attracted to her male friends doesn't make her shallow. Just means you don't understand women.

As far as lists go, a hot chick can afford to have a list. You're not her one and only chance, and she isn't yours. It may seem silly, but she can afford to have standards like that. If it's such a problem to you that one chick won't give you the time of day cause you don't meet some arbitrary criteria, that's your problem you're so hung up on one chick.

[fredelza]

i need jokes. i tried to hit on chicks at a friends party. i was failing horribly i think i got overconfident since i made progress from here. so yea jokes would help help?

[The Epidemic]

As far as lists go, a hot chick can afford to have a list.

Most def..if shes atleast a 8.5/10 then she can have a list. If shes plays me? then so be it...its all good bc i know shes fly. However, some of these broads be 7/10 or whatever talkin bout they need someone who can do ___ or get ___ word is bond they need to gtfo with that shit.

I really hate it when these below average or decent broads be feeling too good about themselves...y'know the type that needs to get knocked down a few pegs.

Theres this broad i know whos trying to break into modeling..and yea shes cute but, she isnt so fine that she can be so damn shallow imo. She hangs out with my girl a lot and she likes to be a annoying 3 wheel so, sometimes i try getn one of my boys to come along and she is soooo damn picky its infuriating. For the record, im a picky-ass dude too, but she is on another level. She didnt wanna go out with one of my boys cause he had cornrolls and like R. Kelly!? Seriously...i wont get into the discussion of how R. Kelly came up but, I just hate it when broads try to find a reason not to like/date a guy.

[Iwin Eazhee]

yo lil whoodies....theres no such thing as a shallow hoe ya dig? It hust means yo ass is uguly. Ive never been rejected..cause they know ima a ridah.

[Shadow Ace 50]

yo lil whoodies....theres no such thing as a shallow hoe ya dig? It hust means yo ass is uguly. Ive never been rejected..cause they know ima a ridah.

fallback nigga..

[The Epidemic]

i need jokes. i tried to hit on chicks at a friends party. i was failing horribly i think i got overconfident since i made progress from here. so yea jokes would help help?

jokes? I dont know any really...maybe someone else on her could help you with that. Friendly sarcasm works better tho...just for future reference. When you go out of your way to make a broad laugh..it comes off corny and it makes it look like your trying too hard. Not a good look dun.

[fistoftheryustar]

What do you mean jokes?

The other day hottest girl in class was laughing all giggly and touching me. It was just spitting like talking and I wasnt "trying" to throw jokes out. What do you mean by jokes? The girl was laughing at different terms I used. I guess different terms show either a) social experience b) social intelligence or c) humor . Not sure

I tend to use these words in the conversation and they help me:


- man-candy (when talking about other guys or guys she always goes for)
- man-sex ^ synonym, i think al roker said the line, but he uses it all creepy
- talk about your ass
- "im so using you for my grades" we had some convo about how she was going to pay one of the dorky guys in class to do her report. i think i said something like "i was gunna do the same to you" in a joking tone. you can do that whenever she mentions using other guys (money, buying drinks, im sure theres others)
- in the conversation i dont know what terminology i used, but its something like if a girl has money then i'll hit on her
- i ask if they are rich (not an opening line) somewhere in the middle of the conversation if they mention something they are wearing to show off to you (no matter what they say just say "you so are, look at that bag its huge, you have like gold bricks in there...cmon man give me one.. i can get you weed and cocaine) ... never smoked or did coke in my life though, its just a joke
- after telling a story: "man (yes call her man or even dude, it messes with them) i feel like a man-slut now"
- whenever she says something about what she does that would show non-neediness if a guy did it (for example we were talking about money and she said she never pays and makes the guy do that) i lay the grounds straight in a non confrontational way: "no way you're like the female version of me"
- "i cant even talk to you now" can be added to that or any time you dont want to show neediness yet dont want to walk away completely
- any type of cool lingo shes prolly not used to, idk y that works but they laugh as if you said a joke

- if you're feeling ball-less / swagless that day: mess with other girls close by and use the same things, so that maybe the other girl will hear it and she' starts the hit on you'. sounds pretty pussy but 8 out of 10 times it works for sparking that interest




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Also my sister read a book about either Japan or the Phillipines and it said something about japanese women not wanting japanese business men so they "hire" / import filipino men to marry. Fuckin "filipino mail-order grooms."

[alchemist78]

Call me petty, but I really wanna make an ex of mine jealous, I've been away at school and I haven't seen her in ages and I'm back in town now for summer break, we were together for two years about, how should I go about it when we eventually encounter each other?

[GreyFoxx]

Them some strong ass words there Koop.

[Luigi-Bo 87]

yo lil whoodies....theres no such thing as a shallow hoe ya dig? It hust means yo ass is uguly. Ive never been rejected..cause they know ima a ridah.

If u don't get yo Juvenile soundin ass outta here with that bullshit!:rofl:

[The Epidemic]

^:rofl:

[fistoftheryustar]

Im watching a show on vh1 called "women finding women: a bicurious journey." These couples, of which the woman is bi, goes to some island get away to explore their "curious" side.


On the 2nd night is the "gettin to know you stage" so the guys and their wives enter a room with cheese platters and a (not-so-)random bed in the middle.


They begin to mingle and all the girls are on the bed, feelin each other out and petting (not showtime petting, just light kissing and what not.) Things start to escalate. Seeing this as a cue all the guys leave, giving the girls their privacy...except for one.


The one guy and his wife made an agreement that he would be with her during yjr trip since she was nervous about the whole trip. Not sure if that meant even during a girls only pet parade. The em effer capitalizes on the moment and says "Um, I think she wanted me to stay with her so I'll stay."


So all the guys leave and this guy is standing in the corner watching, staring at his wife doing bi things with the other guys' naked wives, making it pretty awkward for the girls. I dunno if that's just wrongfully unfair or if he's just a go-getter who should get props.

[RockBogart]

the only corruption I see is that guy in your AV not sharing DAT CHICKEN!


I know him personally, and he never shares chicken:rofl:

[SF_PHOCUS]

Give me a break dude. Girls aren't attracted to friends. That's how it is. People decide who they like based in initial attraction, and most girls aren't attracted to male friends. Thats why the "Friend Zone" is such a cliche, cause its true! Just cause you can't understand why a girl isn't attracted to her male friends doesn't make her shallow. Just means you don't understand women.

As far as lists go, a hot chick can afford to have a list. You're not her one and only chance, and she isn't yours. It may seem silly, but she can afford to have standards like that. If it's such a problem to you that one chick won't give you the time of day cause you don't meet some arbitrary criteria, that's your problem you're so hung up on one chick.

I agree wif most of what you said... But i wouldnt really say girls aren't attracted to friends.. I cant tell you the amount of times i thought me and a girl were friends and we ended up hooking up... even my ex we were friends before we got together.. But it def is hard to get out of the friend zone once your in because 9/10 the reason ur in the friend zone is cause u fucked up somewhere trying to bag.... i tell you what though.. workin on your "bagging mechanics" wif ur homegirls will help out alot...:tup:

[fistoftheryustar]

^ I think he meant 9 times out of 10 like you said. He was speaking in generalities. If you tell a guy who is usually friended that 9 times out of 10 she doesnt get with a friend, he might be the type to think "so you're saying...i have a chance!"

It all depends on what you mean by friend too and the type of girl. But I will agree that for the consensus it def is, defaulty, harder to start at friends. Someone I know likes to purposely throw himself into the friend zone just because it adds more challenge. crazy m' f'er

[Naslectronical]

Give me a break dude. Girls aren't attracted to friends. That's how it is. People decide who they like based in initial attraction, and most girls aren't attracted to male friends. Thats why the "Friend Zone" is such a cliche, cause its true! Just cause you can't understand why a girl isn't attracted to her male friends doesn't make her shallow. Just means you don't understand women.

As far as lists go, a hot chick can afford to have a list. You're not her one and only chance, and she isn't yours. It may seem silly, but she can afford to have standards like that. If it's such a problem to you that one chick won't give you the time of day cause you don't meet some arbitrary criteria, that's your problem you're so hung up on one chick.

Their really is not such thing as the "friend zone." Saying that a guy is in the friend zone is just another way of saying that the woman simply isn't attracted to him. That being said, the only reason a man is ever there is because he chooses to be there wasting his time instead of moving on to find a woman who is indeed attracted to him.

If the attraction is there, then a man and woman can indeed be friends and have it develop into something more serious. Even though I don't do serious relationships, I think that the best ones actually start off as friendships.

[fistoftheryustar]

I never agreed with the new age thinking that there is no friend zone. Maybe it's because there were so many ppl saying that like an anti-fad it didnt pull well with me.


Their really is not such thing as the "friend zone." Saying that a guy is in the friend zone is just another way of saying that the woman simply isn't attracted to him.

When guys use the term friend zone, they are just implying that a woman simply isn't attracted to him yet, just like you implied.

For those that believe there is no spoon, is it because you think most guys refer to the friend zone as a situation where there is no hope? Whats your personal definition of the supposed "friend zone" that doesnt exist to you?

I think whether or not the friend zone exists is determined on how the individual defines the term.

For example some ppl think FZ = you'll never be able to lay her ever, some think FZ = its possible to lay her but youre still her friend

[Ryu1999]

In summary, being friends with a girl is not necessarily the same as being in the friend zone.

I know its cliched, but a girl knows if she's attracted to someone within the first 5 minutes of talking to him, that x-factor/chemistry/whatever. Whether that turns into something depends on if the guy provides something beyond that.

Friend zone means there was no spark to begin with so you're dead in the water.



I never agreed with the new age thinking that there is no friend zone. Maybe it's because there were so many ppl saying that like an anti-fad it didnt pull well with me.




When guys use the term friend zone, they are just implying that a woman simply isn't attracted to him yet, just like you implied.

For those that believe there is no spoon, is it because you think most guys refer to the friend zone as a situation where there is no hope? Whats your personal definition of the supposed "friend zone" that doesnt exist to you?

I think whether or not the friend zone exists is determined on how the individual defines the term.

For example some ppl think FZ = you'll never be able to lay her ever, some think FZ = its possible to lay her but youre still her friend

[Silentness!]

Yeah I agree more over... the initial attraction determines whether or not she's interested.

However you can play your cards right and charm a girl that wasn't interested from the start.

[SweetHoney]

I never agreed with the new age thinking that there is no friend zone. Maybe it's because there were so many ppl saying that like an anti-fad it didnt pull well with me.




When guys use the term friend zone, they are just implying that a woman simply isn't attracted to him yet, just like you implied.

For those that believe there is no spoon, is it because you think most guys refer to the friend zone as a situation where there is no hope? Whats your personal definition of the supposed "friend zone" that doesnt exist to you?

I think whether or not the friend zone exists is determined on how the individual defines the term.

For example some ppl think FZ = you'll never be able to lay her ever, some think FZ = its possible to lay her but youre still her friend

Friend zone exists and it usually means a girl isnt attracted to you physically or personality...

[Naslectronical]

I never agreed with the new age thinking that there is no friend zone. Maybe it's because there were so many ppl saying that like an anti-fad it didnt pull well with me.




When guys use the term friend zone, they are just implying that a woman simply isn't attracted to him yet, just like you implied.

For those that believe there is no spoon, is it because you think most guys refer to the friend zone as a situation where there is no hope? Whats your personal definition of the supposed "friend zone" that doesnt exist to you?

I think whether or not the friend zone exists is determined on how the individual defines the term.

For example some ppl think FZ = you'll never be able to lay her ever, some think FZ = its possible to lay her but youre still her friend

It's really hard to word it without sounding like I'm contradicting myself, but here it goes........

Others are using it to describe a situation where the woman isn't attracted to the man.....

....but I use it to describe when the above also includes the man continuing to involve himself because he thinks that continued involvement will reverse his fortunes and eventually girl over, so I guess I'd have to modify what I said before and say that it only exists when the guy chooses to do this. So that being said, if the guy moves on, then it doesn't exist.

[SF_PHOCUS]

^ I think he meant 9 times out of 10 like you said. He was speaking in generalities. If you tell a guy who is usually friended that 9 times out of 10 she doesnt get with a friend, he might be the type to think "so you're saying...i have a chance!"

It all depends on what you mean by friend too and the type of girl. But I will agree that for the consensus it def is, defaulty, harder to start at friends. Someone I know likes to purposely throw himself into the friend zone just because it adds more challenge. crazy m' f'er

its the way he made it sound... he made it sound as if a girl isnt gonna be wif a guy just because they are friends which is not true.. like if i knew a girl for about 3 years then the 4th year i try and bag and get her... if i follow what pherai said then this wont happen... No offense pherai lol:sweat:

[The Epidemic]

The whole friend zone thing imo is when:

A.) You try to get at a broad you're attracted to and fail...yet you remain friends.


-You can be friends with a female and not be considered "friend zoned." I have a lot of female friends who are pretty good lookin but, i dont consider myself "friend zoned" bc i never tryed to get at them like that.

-I disagree about the intial reaction bit. Sometimes it takes a lil longer to get a broad to open up. The only way it can possibly be a intial reaction is if the broad is that damn shallow or you have so little to offer (personality/physically). Word is bond every girl i met in college that didnt like me for whatever reason changed their opinion when they got to me. I still dont consider myself friend zone bc i never tryed to get at them...not to sound like a douche but, basically if i was single i definetly could get with one of my female friends. Which brings me back to my intial point how you can only be friend zoned if you fail with a female your trying to get with....and even then, its not impossible to break out of that "zone"

[SweetHoney]

Usually you cant break the friend zone boundaries...you just cant. You cant suddenly create chemistry where there isnt any.


Though there is this guy I met forever ago...and since he got my number off messenger, he has texted me a hello/how are you/have a great weekend EVERY friday for months now. That is soo freakin adorable. Its awesome to know someone thinks about you enough to remember to do that on a constant basis.. He was kinda friend zoned...but its stuff like that can take you out of the zone.

[The Epidemic]

Usually you cant break the friend zone boundaries...you just cant. You cant suddenly create chemistry where there isnt any.

Chemistry? please...it all boils down to money, power, respect. [/lil' kim]

On the real tho...i never been "friend zoned" heres why. Most woman i talk to i dont know..meaning if i get denied, ill never see her again so its all good. To add to what Nasl was saying...if i happen to know her a lil bit, whether it be class/work/ whatever and i get denied. I still wont be friend zoned bc ill just lose interest.

I think there was only one situation where i was crazy over a girl and she eventually came around after she denied me. Even tho i liked her.i didnt sweat her...she eventually got to know me on another lv and next thing you know we are dating. So it isnt impossible....i dont see how chemistry can exist if you barely know the person who is trying to get at you. Which is why after she denied me...then she got to know me...she was suddenly into me.

[ckrazy]

Chemistry? please...it all boils down to money, power, respect. [/lil' kim]

On the real tho...i never been "friend zoned" heres why. Most woman i talk to i dont know..meaning if i get denied, ill never see her again so its all good. To add to what Nasl was saying...if i happen to know her a lil bit, whether it be class/work/ whatever and i get denied. I still wont be friend zoned bc ill just lose interest.

I think there was only one situation where i was crazy over a girl and she eventually came around after she denied me. Even tho i liked her.i didnt sweat her...she eventually got to know me on another lv and next thing you know we are dating. So it isnt impossible....i dont see how chemistry can exist if you barely know the person who is trying to get at you. Which is why after she denied me...then she got to know me...she was suddenly into me.

Damn I thought I was a G since I only been friend zoned during my young days but never? Now that amazing.

[The Epidemic]

^well its not like ive never been denied/played b4...but, its just the "friend zone" tag has never really been placed onto me bc the broads i got at when i was single were random broads i didnt know from clubs/malls/downtown. y'know what i mean?

Bc ive been denied enough times..dont get the wrong idea :sweat:

[ckrazy]

Yea I understood you the first time everyone get denied especially if it just some random chick you trying to bag for the night, but I use to always fuck up with the one that I thought was a "keeper" and end up in the friend zone. Thankfully that shit doesn't happen anymore but damn I would love to have a time machine and try again with those that "friend zoned" me. :lol:

[thurst]

idk the only "true" friendzone i believe is inescapable is when a chick has that guy friend that's always going out with her and her girls, and is supposed to be bodyguarding them against other guys, and they're always trying to hook him up with "nice girls" and hate on every chick he ever talks to...if you ever find yourself in that position you need to kill yourself or get as far as fuck from those girls as possible bcuz you're NEVER gonna fuck any of them and girls very rarely present their male friends with non-rebound female friends of theirs from my experience.

if you get turned down by some chick and you're still normal friends, then hope isn't necessarily lost. some sort of event can easily happen that makes her come around or you just grow on her. you probably shouldn't be holding your breath on that shit to happen, but it's a possibility.

[torn]

I only got turned down by a close friend because long distance relationships are teh suck. All the girls I dated I was friends with first...

[pherai]

Their really is not such thing as the "friend zone." Saying that a guy is in the friend zone is just another way of saying that the woman simply isn't attracted to him. That being said, the only reason a man is ever there is because he chooses to be there wasting his time instead of moving on to find a woman who is indeed attracted to him.

That's what I was getting at.

It's just a quick term to describe a situation we've all been in. 99% of men who have female friends want to hook up with their female friends, and many don't realize they are going about things the wrong way, and have already failed. Women like male attention, and you being their friend is giving them what they want for free, so there is no motivation for them to pay for it (hook up).

[Naslectronical]

A.) You try to get at a broad you're attracted to and fail...yet you remain friends.




That isn't the "friend zone."

What you said applies perfectly to my most recent failure.....lol. I started talking to this girl, hanging out with her, etc. (I didn't really start talking to her because I was attracted to her, but the more I got to know her, the more she tickled my fancy). Anyway, turns out that she isn't into me like that(as is the case when I'm attracted to a woman for more than just sex). We've actually come to be very good friends, I still hang out with her even though she has a boyfriend now, she even stays over at my place sometimes. Would I still bang her brains out if I had the opportunity? Hell yeah. The thing is, I don't have this idea that talking to her/hanging out with her/etc is going to win her over, nor am I trying in any other way to do so. I've accepted that nothing sexual or romantic is going to happen between us, so I'm now going about my usual business with other girls as if nothing happened. As a matter of fact, I hooked up with another girl a few days after she rejected me.

So you see, we're friends. I'm not in any "friend zone" just because I was attracted to her and didn't sever all ties because she didn't feel the same way.

[Phoenix Wright]

I asked this woman to go out with me tonight. Problem is that I have NO IDEA where to go. Tips? She's 26, I'm 22. I'm just trying to hit.

[The Epidemic]

@Nasl

which is the exact reason why i would never try to get at one of my female friends. It will only make things mad awkward. Even if it was successful id still feel a lil awkward. Id stick with random broads ftw...but anyway, with that said i dont get how your female friend can reject and it not be considered "friend zone" I mean, basically what shes saying by rejecting you is, "lets just stay friends" Hence, "Friend Zone"...so i dunno about that one.

Edit: Phoenix, take her somewhere fun. Y'know music/drinks ect....its that simple.
Id personally do a lounge...always good for first fates...has a lil bit of everthing

[fredelza]

bad day.
no progress so its back to next week for me.

BUT (and i mean an annoying but) i was getting into her making jokes about milkshakes not melting( it was an order and was a joke obviously) her friend comes out of no where and is like" yes it does and who are you calling dummy?"
fuck man this bitch ruined it. so instead of joking i get her agreeing with her friend now/ and is like "yea don't fuck her her,, shell tear you a new asshole" darn man it sucks i was so stuck that i couldn't play it off.

[Dwin]

Here's some food for thought guys: How 'bout we all just be ourselves and if girls don't like us, screw 'em. Figuratively of course. IMO that's the reason a lot of relationships fail we're to busy trying to impress each other. I don't see the point in 'spitting game'. Unless that's your regular self, you shouldn't have to this. We all need to just be honest with ourselves and I'd think our relatioship would be musch more meaningful.

This is all just coming from a sixteen year-old, lamer,semi-intellectual who's never had a girlfriend because he's passive and shy. I'd like to hear your take on my post, so please respond.

[The Epidemic]

bad day.
no progress so its back to next week for me.

BUT (and i mean an annoying but) i was getting into her making jokes about milkshakes not melting( it was an order and was a joke obviously) her friend comes out of no where and is like" yes it does and who are you calling dummy?"
fuck man this bitch ruined it. so instead of joking i get her agreeing with her friend now/ and is like "yea don't fuck her her,, shell tear you a new asshole" darn man it sucks i was so stuck that i couldn't play it off.
Im sorry but if that girl couldnt tell you werent being serious shes not too sharp yo:lol:
Granted, what you said was kinda wtf-ish..but yea, her friend just sounds like a cockblock imo.

Here's some food for thought guys: How 'bout we all just be ourselves and if girls don't like us, screw 'em. Figuratively of course

Not to take away from your post but.....everyone who posts in this thread knows this already.

[Silentness!]

Women are fucking crazy...

when I am sleep she is awake. When I am awake she is asleep. :confused:

Her: "WHY YOU SLEEP?" (3 AM) (5:30 AM)
Her: "I'M SLEEPY" (ALL DAY) what the fuck...

[BBQ]

^Didn't she move to Europe or something?

So last night I was at my friend's apartment and his girlfriend's friend was there also. She was probably an 8 or a 9 but man was she stupid. I was so turned off by her stupidity that I pretty much ignored her even though she kept on wanting to talk to me. I was actually happy when her ex-boyfriend showed up and gave her the attention that she wanted. I have yet to meet a hot bitch that isn't stupid.

[fistoftheryustar]

Im liking your guys thoughts on the friend zone, it makes it apparent there is a "friend zone" mentally, but just because you are a friend doesnt mean you're in the friend zone. If you tried for it and she rejected you and wants to keep you as a friend to me that equals friend zone...not to say you cant escape it. If youre friends with a hot girl, dont pull a move or even reject her as more than that you're not in the friend zone.

Bewd, man I gotta say I like smart girls...just for rarity purposes, good to see some more high standards on here

[Warpticon]

Just keep in mind that hot chicks are a great way to meet more hot chicks, so the friend zone isn't as bad as it's made out to be.

[Silentness!]

^Didn't she move to Europe or something?


me? She works in Italy/Korea/US

She will be going there (Italy) sometime in the next two weeks for a month. Ugh we barely spend any time together as it is. It sucks that both our jobs move us around a lot.


So last night I was at my friend's apartment and his girlfriend's friend was there also. She was probably an 8 or a 9 but man was she stupid. I was so turned off by her stupidity that I pretty much ignored her even though she kept on wanting to talk to me. I was actually happy when her ex-boyfriend showed up and gave her the attention that she wanted. I have yet to meet a hot bitch that isn't stupid.

You should of boned her and then forget about her.

[fistoftheryustar]

Just keep in mind that hot chicks are a great way to meet more hot chicks, so the friend zone isn't as bad as it's made out to be.

So so true. This fact catches up to you and falls into your lap when you least expect it. Too bad, most guys who are THAT into the FZ tend to get tunnel vision.

[The Epidemic]

^Didn't she move to Europe or something?

So last night I was at my friend's apartment and his girlfriend's friend was there also. She was probably an 8 or a 9 but man was she stupid. I was so turned off by her stupidity that I pretty much ignored her even though she kept on wanting to talk to me. I was actually happy when her ex-boyfriend showed up and gave her the attention that she wanted. I have yet to meet a hot bitch that isn't stupid.

really? its usually the hot ones that are smart where im from/at...

Smart broads who know they are smart and have to show you their intellect all the time is annoying tho. Id rather deal with a ditsy/stupid broad than a broad who think she knows everything.

[fistoftheryustar]

Similarly Im a fan of naturally badass chicks, not the ones who TRY to be badass and put on an act. Strangely there is a difference and as a kid I would have never thought so.


Its only made worse when the girl is avg looking, knows shell never be as pretty as some girls, yet tries to act like a badass bc they believe it will somehow make them more seductive because acting that way is supposed to add personality.

There will always be guys who prey on the avg chicks, even the ones like this, that flatter her ego and what she's doing...only to validate her process. The more she does it.

[Dwin]

What are badass chicks? Ans who says average chicks can't be badass.

[Shotokan Symphony]

What are badass chicks?

A myth.

[Dwin]

A myth about what? Forgive my ignorance.

[alchemist78]

got lost in the shuffle so I'mma repost

Call me petty, but I really wanna make an ex of mine jealous, I've been away at school and I haven't seen her in ages and I'm back in town now for summer break, we were together for two years about, how should I go about it when we eventually encounter each other?

[Dwin]

.......That is some petty shit. Do you wanna get back with her? This will help me answer your question.

[Silentness!]

got lost in the shuffle so I'mma repost

Call me petty, but I really wanna make an ex of mine jealous, I've been away at school and I haven't seen her in ages and I'm back in town now for summer break, we were together for two years about, how should I go about it when we eventually encounter each other?

I kind of ignored it the first time, because it seems pointless. Is it really that important to make your ex jealous? The best way to make her jealous is to just get over her in the first place lolz...

[alchemist78]

It's a situation where I do wanna get back, but I know it can't work due to external reasons lol. and yes I already realize the pettiness of it all, but im willin to overcome it haha.

EDIT:

Basically she was my first love n all that, and since her I've just been one and done'ing chicks cuz I havent really found someone comparable to her. I guess to see her jealous would on some wierd level make me feel good, knowing that she still cares a lil lol. and I really dont wanna just say, "I've been knockin down random chicks left n right" to make her jealous.

[thurst]

me? She works in Italy/Korea/US

She will be going there (Italy) sometime in the next two weeks for a month. Ugh we barely spend any time together as it is. It sucks that both our jobs move us around a lot.

didn't you just meet this chick like 2 weeks ago or something? if so, do you really wanna be making commitments to her? like why can't you just hook up when she's in korea and then both of you do your own thing when she's not until you know each other enough to actually get serious.

[Naslectronical]

@Nasl

which is the exact reason why i would never try to get at one of my female friends. It will only make things mad awkward. Even if it was successful id still feel a lil awkward. Id stick with random broads ftw...but anyway, with that said i dont get how your female friend can reject and it not be considered "friend zone" I mean, basically what shes saying by rejecting you is, "lets just stay friends" Hence, "Friend Zone"...so i dunno about that one.



I'm not in the friend zone because I am no longer pursuing her. I've moved on. So you see, we're friends. There's a difference.

Now, if I were still pursuing her and she kept on giving me the "let's just be friends" treatment, then yeah, I'd be in the friend zone, but that's not the case.

TBH, I'm fine just being friends with her because with the benefit of hindsight, I don't think we'd have made a good couple anyway. We're just not each others' type. The fact that we're friends is, in fact, mutual. I could burn bridges with her, but there's no point in doing that because we do get along very well. There's nothing wrong with having a female as a friend. It's not as if she's impeding my activities with other women.

Besides, why wouldn't you try to get at a female friend? What do you have to lose? If it doesn't work out, then you can just resume your normal activities as if nothing happened.

[fistoftheryustar]

What are badass chicks? Ans who says average chicks can't be badass.

Try to figure that one out.

I said I didnt like it when avg chicks "fake" being badass. A girl can be badass and crazy and have avg looks.

[Silentness!]

didn't you just meet this chick like 2 weeks ago or something? if so, do you really wanna be making commitments to her? like why can't you just hook up when she's in korea and then both of you do your own thing when she's not until you know each other enough to actually get serious.

lmao... you are right it's only been two weeks :wasted:

Anyways I'll just have to see what happens before she leaves. A month of separation though would determine if this was just some random hookup or not. I'd be surprised if I talk to her when she makes her return back to Korea.

About doing my own thing... I'm fine with what I have currently. I don't want to go around talking to random broads at the moment, but hey if she meets another guy that's cool. I'll just move on and start all over again from square 1.

[P. Gorath]

i got hoes in different area codes


aywy fuck bitches they aint shit you put them up but i sa ont put the pussy on the pedastioool. biitches will rob you bklind and all I got to say is my heart bleeds the darkest blood so fuck them cunts i mbringing it back uck you and you and you your cool peace im out

[Silentness!]

It's been 2 weeks... but it feels like months lmao. We talk with each other like as if we been seeing each other for a long ass time.

[SF_PHOCUS]

I asked this woman to go out with me tonight. Problem is that I have NO IDEA where to go. Tips? She's 26, I'm 22. I'm just trying to hit.

Haha never ask a girl out wif out a plan mannnnnnnn! its kinda late but for the future take her somewhere where u dont need to spend money... or if u do need to spend money its not directly sending it on her... for example what i would do wif a girl i just met is...." so what u doin this friday? Ohh Im gonna be studying... "ok what about saturday"? umm nothing actually im gonna be free... "ok cool meet me at the port authority.. we are goin to six flags... the ticket is 53 bucks for the bus round trip and park..." ill be there at about 9:30".. Ok cool sounds good...

Of course u never say hey lets go to six flags on saturday.. cause now she can easily say Im busy even though shes not.... thats why i always ask what they are doin first then say what i wanna do.... I learned this while i was doin this business internship... they didnt give me the same example of course but i was able to apply it to this...:tup:

[Silentness!]

didn't you just meet this chick like 2 weeks ago or something? if so, do you really wanna be making commitments to her? like why can't you just hook up when she's in korea and then both of you do your own thing when she's not until you know each other enough to actually get serious.

Uhh is it kind of scary that she said she will try and make it for my 21st birthday (August 17th)

like 3 months in advance... :confused:

I snagged this picture off her myspace. ahahha she's going to kill me

[The Epidemic]

I'm not in the friend zone because I am no longer pursuing her. I've moved on. So you see, we're friends. There's a difference.

Now, if I were still pursuing her and she kept on giving me the "let's just be friends" treatment, then yeah, I'd be in the friend zone, but that's not the case.

TBH, I'm fine just being friends with her because with the benefit of hindsight, I don't think we'd have made a good couple anyway. We're just not each others' type. The fact that we're friends is, in fact, mutual. I could burn bridges with her, but there's no point in doing that because we do get along very well. There's nothing wrong with having a female as a friend. It's not as if she's impeding my activities with other women.

Besides, why wouldn't you try to get at a female friend? What do you have to lose? If it doesn't work out, then you can just resume your normal activities as if nothing happened.

We are just gonna have to agree to disagree...in my book you got "friend zoned" She basically said, "lets stay friends" by rejecting...i dont see how you didnt get friend zoned. whether you pursue her or not is irrelevant. The fact that she wasnt havin it..places you in the categorie imo.

Oh and i know theres nothing wrong with havin a female as a friend, I have many...obviously you missed the post when i said that, "I have a lot of female friends who are good lookin" I also explained my views on the whole being friends with females without being "friend zone" labeled...but, i guess you didnt read that post either.

As for trying to get at a female friend? I wouldnt do it....it would just make things awkward at some point...especially if she denies you. Its just not how i do things...i prefer meeting someone brand new than dating a friend. Also the whole "friend with benefits" thing can create a lot of unnecessary drama down the line too...its not worth it if you plan on being in a relationship down the line with someone else.

[TornadoFlame]

There is really no such thing as friends with benefits. Friends cannot just have sex with each other and not catch feelings. One of the parties involved will more than likely catch feelings and the relationship will never be the same. I'm not trying to say that sex is overrated because it is definitely NOT, but the idea of someone having sex with a close friend and not thinking about their future with each other is almost nonexistent. If you value a relationship with a close friend, I would definitely suggest that you NOT have sex with them.

[ckrazy]

There is really no such thing as friends with benefits. Friends cannot just have sex with each other and not catch feelings. One of the parties involved will more than likely catch feelings and the relationship will never be the same. I'm not trying to say that sex is overrated because it is definitely NOT, but the idea of someone having sex with a close friend and not thinking about their future with each other is almost nonexistent. If you value a relationship with a close friend, I would definitely suggest that you NOT have sex with them.

I had one of those and yea let just say it didn't work out. When I had feelings for her she had none for me, as time went on she had feeling for me but by then I had no desire to be with her what so ever. Eventually we ended up not talking for like a year but were still friends now just not anything more.

[aiy1tm]

I had one of those and yea let just say it didn't work out. When I had feelings for her she had none for me, as time went on she had feeling for me but by then I had no desire to be with her what so ever. Eventually we ended up not talking for like a year but were still friends now just not anything more.

I too have had a similar experience. People catch feels at different times, and then those times don't match up. Then, it leads to destruction of what could have been a good friendship or a good relationship.

[Naslectronical]

We are just gonna have to agree to disagree...in my book you got "friend zoned" She basically said, "lets stay friends" by rejecting...i dont see how you didnt get friend zoned. whether you pursue her or not is irrelevant. The fact that she wasnt havin it..places you in the categorie imo.

She didn't "place" me in anything. I chose to remain friends with her as I chose to become her friend in the first place. Like I said, I could have cut ties, but I chose not to do that. It takes the willingness of two people to be friends just as much as it takes the willingness of two people to be in a relationship.

You even said it yourself with the part I bolded.


Oh and i know theres nothing wrong with havin a female as a friend, I have many...obviously you missed the post when i said that, "I have a lot of female friends who are good lookin" I also explained my views on the whole being friends with females without being "friend zone" labeled...but, i guess you didnt read that post either.

I read it, it's just that you're determined to put some kind of negative spin on remaining friends with a girl when she doesn't have the same feelings for you.

By your logic, any guy who has even the slightest attraction to a girl and is friends with her is in the friend zone, and that's ridiculous. Just because a guy was once attracted to a girl and she didn't feel the same way and they've remained friends does not mean that she's condemned him to some "friend zone." You're trying to make it out as though the woman has all the power to determine what happens when in fact the decision to be friends is mutual. After all, some kind of friendship must have existed before the guy came forward with how he felt(the part you quoted...."let's stay friends"....even proves this), and after he found out that she didn't share the feelings, he could have chosen to have nothing else to do with her, but he didn't, so they're friends.


As for trying to get at a female friend? I wouldnt do it....it would just make things awkward at some point...especially if she denies you. Its just not how i do things...i prefer meeting someone brand new than dating a friend. Also the whole "friend with benefits" thing can create a lot of unnecessary drama down the line too...its not worth it if you plan on being in a relationship down the line with someone else.

If she doesn't feel the same way, then just consider the matter closed and move on.

Most of the negative ideas you have about this whole matter are just in your head.

[Naslectronical]

There is really no such thing as friends with benefits. Friends cannot just have sex with each other and not catch feelings. One of the parties involved will more than likely catch feelings and the relationship will never be the same. I'm not trying to say that sex is overrated because it is definitely NOT, but the idea of someone having sex with a close friend and not thinking about their future with each other is almost nonexistent. If you value a relationship with a close friend, I would definitely suggest that you NOT have sex with them.

Plenty of people do exactly what you're talking about and never have any of these feelings.

[Mixah]

what's up with me liking this nerdy chick with pimples? i don't get it.... i never like nerdy chicks with pimples... nerdy without pimples is fine... but this one has some PIMPLES.... but i like her........ fucking women.

[The Epidemic]

The whole friend zone thing imo is when:

A.) You try to get at a broad you're attracted to and fail...yet you remain friends.

-You can be friends with a female and not be considered "friend zoned." I have a lot of female friends who are pretty good lookin but, i dont consider myself "friend zoned" bc i never tryed to get at them like that.

I quoted myself bc your makin shit up....
She didn't "place" me in anything. I chose to remain friends with her as I chose to become her friend in the first place. Like I said, I could have cut ties, but I chose not to do that. It takes the willingness of two people to be friends just as much as it takes the willingness of two people to be in a relationship.
:rofl: im not even gonna comment on this.

I read it, it's just that you're determined to put some kind of negative spin on remaining friends with a girl when she doesn't have the same feelings for you.
By your logic, any guy who has even the slightest attraction to a girl and is friends with her is in the friend zone, and that's ridiculous.
Most of the negative ideas you have about this whole matter are just in your head.

Now where did i say if your attracted to a female friend that puts you in the friend zone??? I said if you try to get at her...as in advance/make moves and fail..then your friend zones bc she doesnt want a relationship like that.

Oh and for the record...most friend with benefit relations dont work out...someone usually does in fact, catch feelings. Stop basing everything off your experiences.

[Warpticon]

Semanticons! Merge to form Nitpicron!

[Naslectronical]

I quoted myself bc your makin shit up....

:rofl: im not even gonna comment on this.

Because you really don't have anything at all to say. You're just trying to take your negative view of the situation and apply it to everyone else.


Now where did i say if your attracted to a female friend that puts you in the friend zone??? I said if you try to get at her...as in advance/make moves and fail..then your friend zones bc she doesnt want a relationship like that.

I said that by your logic, that's what you're saying. Because if at any point you were attracted to her and she didn't feel the same way, then according to what you've been saying, then you're in the friend zone. You should be more aware of the slippery slope you're headed down when you make these kinds of generalizations.

If you accept that she isn't interested and decide to remain friends with her and move on to other girls, then you're just that. Friends. I don't know why you have this idea that you can't have a normal, functional friendship with a girl just because you were once attracted to her and she didn't feel the same way and that you're in some dreaded "friend zone" instead. This whole damn idea of the "friend zone" is just some negative spin that you're trying to put on the situation. It only exists because you've chosen to look at it as some unspeakable horror.



Oh and for the record...most friend with benefit relations dont work out...someone usually does in fact, catch feelings.

How do you know this? Do you have a documented account of every time friends with benefits has happened?

Stop basing everything off your experiences.

That's basically what you've been doing this entire time, so perhaps you should take your own advice. Perhaps you should also stop making broad, sweeping generalizations and speculations like above.

[pherai]

By your logic, any guy who has even the slightest attraction to a girl and is friends with her is in the friend zone, and that's ridiculous.

Dude, you're debating over semantics. It's just a term to define a common situation. Is it really that important for you to convince everyone else you're not FZ'd? There is no universal definition. Someone says you're in it, someone else says you're not, and that's just how it is. People call different things the FZ. When it's in the dictionary we can debate its meaning.

[Naslectronical]

Dude, you're debating over semantics. It's just a term to define a common situation. Is it really that important for you to convince everyone else you're not FZ'd? There is no universal definition. Someone says you're in it, someone else says you're not, and that's just how it is. People call different things the FZ. When it's in the dictionary we can debate its meaning.

It's a discussion on a message board. If can post his views on something, then I can post mine. If you don't like, then ignore it. Don't just quote one sentence of what I've said and go off into some tangent about semantics.

[The Epidemic]

Because you really don't have anything at all to say. You're just trying to take your negative view of the situation and apply it to everyone else.
I said that by your logic, that's what you're saying. Because if at any point you were attracted to her and she didn't feel the same way, then according to what you've been saying, then you're in the friend zone. You should be more aware of the slippery slope you're headed down when you make these kinds of generalizations.

If you accept that she isn't interested and decide to remain friends with her and move on to other girls, then you're just that. Friends. I don't know why you have this idea that you can't have a normal, functional friendship with a girl just because you were once attracted to her and she didn't feel the same way and that you're in some dreaded "friend zone" instead. This whole damn idea of the "friend zone" is just some negative spin that you're trying to put on the situation. It only exists because you've chosen to look at it as some unspeakable horror.

How do you know this? Do you have a documented account of every time friends with benefits has happened?

That's basically what you've been doing this entire time, so perhaps you should take your own advice. Perhaps you should also stop making broad, sweeping generalizations and speculations like above.

No i had something to say..but i was being nice. Lets recap.
You try to get girl who is your friend.
She says no.
You are friend zoned..that simple.
You didnt choose anything...it was her choice...if it wasnt, you would be bangin the broad right now...but your not....bc your in the Friend Zone, get over it. She put that label on you..you didnt have a choice in the matter.

Oh and being attracted to a female friend doesnt mean anything. I can tell one of my female friends they are hot, and bangin all day..im just stating the obvious. Thats not getn at her. By getn at her i mean you are makin strong, clear advances that you want something more. Telling a broad shes hot isnt doing this imo. Hell, thats how i say, "Hi"...like, "yo Lauren you look good, huge/kiss its nothing...thats not getn at her. Do you understand what im say im saying?

Oh an stop speaking like im the one who got friend zoned..that was you remember? Ive said countless times that being in the friend zone isnt that bad..or unescapable.

As for the friends with benefits bit. So your telling me when you smash one of your female friends..neither you nor her have any feelings? None at all? I have a hard time believing that...unless the girl is so much of a free spirit with her sexuality that she doesnt give a flying fuck. Its obvious you wouldnt...didnt you say you never been in a serious relationship before? And i think im beggining to see why everytime you post.

[Ryu1999]

As for the friends with benefits bit. So your telling me when you smash one of your female friends..neither you nor her have any feelings? None at all? I have a hard time believing that...unless the girl is so much of a free spirit with her sexuality that she doesnt give a flying fuck. Its obvious you wouldnt...didnt you say you never been in a serious relationship before? And i think im beggining to see why everytime you post.

GOTDAMN :wow:

I think we all need to calm down

[TornadoFlame]

Plenty of people do exactly what you're talking about and never have any of these feelings.

Yeah. Maybe one half of the relationship.

But also, when you say plenty of people. I can ALMOST guarantee that the majority of the people in these relationships do catch feelings. It's just natural.

[TornadoFlame]

what's up with me liking this nerdy chick with pimples? i don't get it.... i never like nerdy chicks with pimples... nerdy without pimples is fine... but this one has some PIMPLES.... but i like her........ fucking women.

I love nerdy chicks with glasses that looks like Janey Briggs (http://www.hotflick.net/flicks/2001_Not_Another_Teen_Movie/Thumb/2001_Not_Another_Teen_379.jpg), from Not Another Teen Movie.

[Shadow Ace 50]

nerdy women are freaky......that is all..

[ckrazy]

nerdy women are freaky......that is all..

All women are freaky some of them just don't show it but behind close doors they are usually 10x more freaky then the girls who "acts" freaky. (note this is only from my experience but i find it very convincing)

[pherai]

It's a discussion on a message board. If can post his views on something, then I can post mine. If you don't like, then ignore it. Don't just quote one sentence of what I've said and go off into some tangent about semantics.

Calm down man, no need to catch feelings :rofl: Just trying to say its silly you're getting all worked up over whether someone thinks you're FZ'd. Ignore it if you don't like it!

[TornadoFlame]

Calm down man, no need to catch feelings :rofl: Just trying to say its silly you're getting all worked up over whether someone thinks you're FZ'd. Ignore it if you don't like it!

Niggas be gettin mad when they get Friend Zoned. First step is denial...........

[FallingEdge]

Niggas be gettin mad when they get Friend Zoned. First step is denial...........

:rofl::rofl:

You know what sucks? "Waiting" to call/text a girl. Would rather get back to her right way, but it just don't work that way.

Boo-urns.

[shatterstar]

FriendZ-Owned.

[GreyFoxx]

Well talked it up with my ex-coworker that works at Bennigans...she'll call me back. So far so good seemed all super happy too see me holding my arm and hugging me all tight.

[SF_PHOCUS]

wow its getting heated in here for real meh! lol

[VRViperII]

Background Information:
- I went on a 7 day Caribbean cruise May 3 to May 10
- the cruise ship, called Carnival Triumph, had a club in it
- the club was open from 11:00pm to 3:30am
- I went on the cruise with two friends, neither of them were into clubbing
- the itinerary was Miami, Florida to Cozumel, Mexico to Grand Cayman, Cayman Islands to Ocho Rios, Jamaica, and back to Miami, Florida

On the plane from Toronto to Miami, I made a pact to myself.

“I will go clubbing everyday. I will go out and dance. I will approach the ladies. Rejection will not only be feared, but it will also be expected.”

May 3:

Way too tired to go clubbing. I only had an hour of sleep on the day before, since the plane departed at 6:30 a.m.

Pact officially amended at 9:00pm. “I will go clubbing everyday” is now changed to “I will go clubbing when I feel like it.”

May 4:

Before watching the late night show, I take a walk inside the club to check out the dress code. None are in effect. I guess anything from shorts to sleeveless shirts are good game. This is a cruise though. I wonder if I should dress to impress tomorrow.

I’m not going clubbing again, since I want to watch one of Carnival Triumph’s “Las Vegas Style Shows”.

...

I regret.

The show sucks.

May 5:

I watch a comedy show at midnight instead of clubbing. It is decent. I check tomorrow’s ship schedule and nothing interesting will be showing at night. Looks like tomorrow will be the first shot.

May 6:

Upper Equip – WEST White T-Shirt
Lower Equip – Brandless Black Sports Pants

I take a deep breath and flash my ID to the bouncer. Heh, I’ve never used my passport to get into a club before. Oh well, whatever works. He lets me through and I take a seat on a stool near the bar and the dance floor.

I survey the scene and realize that I’m the only Asian in here. Hm…70% white, 25% brown, 4% black. This will be interesting. New Pact is added.

“I will prove that the Yellow Fever works for both genders.”

It seems that my lack of recent clubbing experience has made me forget how hard it is to go on the dance floor, especially this one. This dance floor is a circle placed in the center of the club. At any given time, there are easily at least 20 people sitting on the stools and watching the dance floor, eyeing anyone who dares to enter it.

Also, I haven’t even heard of most of these songs before. How am I supposed to “move to the beat” when I don’t even know the song?

To top it off, I am going clubbing solo. I wish there is somebody here I could take to the dance floor so I don’t look like a loner. Everyone here seems to be with his or her significant other, so approaching is going to be a lot harder than I expected.

I do not like this. Nothing is in my favor.

The dance floor is currently deserted. To be honest, I could always do some breaking, but I don’t want to dance for the sake of showing off. I really have no idea on how to dance in a club. Pop n lock is probably more suitable here, but it really isn’t my forte. What if I look like a fool? The last thing that I want is people telling me that I can’t dance, when I have been bboy’ing for a year already. Wouldn’t that mean I haven’t been improving at all?

I feel sick with anxiety. Maybe…maybe it’s just tonight. Yea, tonight’s a bad day. I’ll try again tomorrow.

…

NO.

Enough excuses. I slam my fist down on the bar table, scaring the ****** beside me. I’ve made enough excuses already. I will not be seeing anyone in this club after the cruise. If I get intimidated here, I’ll never survive in the actual clubbing scene.

Suddenly, the DJ cuts the song into Usher’s “Yeah”.

Every “yea!” that burst out of the club speakers gave me more courage to step up my game.

*Deep Breath*

Let’s go.

I walk on to the dance floor. The moment I step into the circle, I could feel the watchers’ eyes staring at me. Their combined glares pierced through my confidence, and it felt harder and harder to breath.

I can’t turn back now… I’ve already been spotted. Man, I’m sweating already and I haven’t even started dancing yet.

I take a corner of the dance floor. I start with shuffling my feet to the beat. I just realized that I haven’t danced much to any music besides breakbeats. At least I’ll learn to flow with the beat better after this.

Nobody’s booing me off stage, so I guess I’m doing fine. I can feel my confidence regaining. I just need to dance the same way I do during sessions and it should be fine.

I proceed to add some waving into my moves. Usher’s song ends, but I don’t feel like I’ve danced enough yet. Besides, more people are on the dance floor now.

30 minutes into my dancing, I notice a black girl wearing glasses checking me out. She slowly moves into my dance floor corner. We make eye contact and exchange smiles.

Great, what should I do now… put my hand on her waist? She isn’t exactly coming any closer anymore. Is that because she’s not entirely comfortable dancing with me? Or is she waiting for me to move in closer to her? I’ll just keep doing what I’m doing now and see what happens.

I dance for another 10 minutes or so and she’s still there. I’m not getting any more positive vibes from her. Whatever. The longer I stay on this dance floor, the more comfortable I am getting.

I dance for another 20 minutes and decide to head back to my cabin. What a tiring night…

May 7:

Upper Equip – Black/White/Grey Military T-shirt
Bottom Equip – Brandless Black Sports Pants

I take a shot of apple juice before I head to the bouncer. I flash my passport and head in.

It is a 50’s and 60’s disco night until 12:30am. The dance floor has a few people on it already, but all of them are over 30. I spend this time to recoup on yesterday’s events. New pact added:

“I will not spend more than 10 minutes sitting on a stool before going out on the dance floor.”

12:30 hits and the music switches to modern hip hop music. The beats are bizarre so I found it hard to even mentally picture how to dance to it. Sigh, more excuses. I promise I will dance when the DJ plays a song that I’ve at least heard of.

After a few songs passed, “The Way I Are” is played. I guess I sort of know this one.

I head to the dance floor and take the same corner. Once again I feel the eyes directing their attention to me. The second time seems to hurt less.

The song finishes and I am already quite comfortable in my dancing zone. I pop a bit more and “Jump Around” plays next. I get a quick flashback on some of the stupid things one of my friends and I did when we sessioned during this song. We made fools of ourselves and had fun doing so. We got laughed at but it was fun.

Before I could decide on how to make a fool of myself, the dance floor is suddenly filled with people literally jumping around. Hah, what an easy song to “dance” to. Since my dance corner is near the back, the people jumping in front of me are blocking my view. I decide to do some top rock because it’s still my favorite form of dancing. Plus nobody outside the dance floor could see me anyways, so I can’t be showing off.

“Jump Around” finishes playing, and most of the jumpers leave the dancer floor, leaving a couple of people and I here. I’m still pretty pumped up from that song though, so I try out some new moves. I almost trip on myself a few times and I just laugh it off. I must look really really stupid now, haha.

I scan around and see two blonde girls dancing together. One is very cute. The other is cute. I stop my top rock and go back to popping since it matches the song better.

10 minutes into dancing, the very cute blonde walks up to me and says something to me with a bright smile. I can’t hear what she is saying since I’m really close to the 3 feet tall subwoofers. I motion her to come closer and she yells into my ear “I LIKE YOUR BREAK DANCING!”

Hahahaha!!!

I laugh because it all came to me then, like a scantron full of answers falling from the ceiling during a final exam.

I’ve been thinking way too much. Somewhere along the line, I forgot the sole reason that I started learning dancing in the first place: to have fun. It doesn’t matter if I dance good or not. What matters is that I have fun while dancing.

I thank her for the compliment and continue on my popping. She whispers something else into my ear but I couldn’t hear. I told her to speak up, but I still couldn’t hear. On the third time I gave up and just kept nodding and smiling. She then starts dancing with her friend nearby and I continue dancing solo.

I am ridden of the fear of other people’s judgments. Fuck them (some literally).

I start doing some tutting, mixing it up with some popping, doing some waving as fillers and spicing things up with top rock. But most importantly, I am having fun dancing.

After some time, a white French-looking girl walks onto the dance floor with 3 of her friends. She catches me checking her out. Damn. She smiles and starts to dance in front of me. We’re a couple inches apart.

Damn it, what’s the proper clubbing etiquette now? Maybe I should try putting my hand on her shoulder… Nah, I’ll just see how it goes.

We dance for about 5 minutes and she turns around, and sort of dances with her back facing me.

Great, now what do I do? Is that disinterest? Isn’t it rude to turn your back on someone? Or does she want me to hold her from behind? Man, I so want to grab her butt right now… is she tempting me like this on purpose?

We’re still a couple of inches apart. We dance for about 5 more minutes then she just walks off back to her group of friends.

Real smooth, man… real fucking smooth…

I exit the club and head to the washroom to wash my face. I stare at myself in the mirror and it suddenly felt like a MV. So many things went through my mind but it all came down to one word: honesty.

I wash my face again and head back in the club. I go back to my dance floor corner and try to resume dancing. But the adrenaline had already withered.

I dance for a bit and head back to my cabin to sleep.

Honesty, eh? I forgot all about its importance.

May 8:

Upper Equip – Black/Green/Yellow Jamaican T-Shirt
Bottom Equip – BUM Grey Sports Pants

I decide to try something different before going in. I took a shot of fruit punch and a shot of lemonade before going in.

I fumble around for my passport to show the bouncer but he let me in before I even showed my ID. I never knew how nice it was to be a club regular and be recognized. It gives me a sense of authority. I haven’t even danced yet and I feel great already. It must be my Jamaican T-Shirt. Ya, mon.

It’s amazing how much I’ve grown in the past two days. I can go on the dance floor now whenever I feel like it. All it takes is a song that I like.

I start dancing in my corner again. I notice the two blonde girls from yesterday giving me eye contact. We smile and talk about our cruising experience for a couple of minutes. All of a sudden, the very cute one gives her camera to her friend and takes a picture with me. At times like these, I wish I had my camera with me. After the picture, the three of us dance in my corner. Haha, I can’t help but wonder what other people are thinking of us right now.

We dance for a bit and I realize the lack of approaching I’ve done so far. These two blondes will be my first approaches. My heart is pumping hard, as if it’s doing popping by itself to the music.

I extend my hand to the very cute blonde during a Latin song.

She takes it! WOOHOO!

We manage to dance for a bit. I can’t initiate grinding though. I guess I still have to work on my guts. The other cute blonde is looking at us pretty lonely, so I dance with her after. No grinding again. Boo…

The blondes leave the dance floor after the song switches back to hip hop. It was fun while it lasted, plus it was a great ego boost.

The DJ seems to be playing more or less the same songs every night, so it’s getting easier to feel the music. I add some of my crappy locking into my moves for fun.

I dance solo again in my corner for another 20 minutes, and this hot hot hot brunette steps on to the dance floor with her not-as-hot-but-still-pretty friend. She’s slightly taller than me with her heels on.

She catches me checking her out. She winks and smiles at me when our eyes meet. We start dancing towards each other, slowly easing ourselves closer and closer. Our bodies are only a couple of inches apart now. I reach out my right handand wrap it around her waist, as confidently as I can fake it. I caress her lower back for a few minutes and wrap my other hand around her waist and smile at her.

She smiles back and puts her right hand on my left shoulder. I move my left hand onto her right shoulder also. She suddenly squeezes my left shoulder and I wince in pain.

Her face is priceless, haha.

“What’s the matter?” She asks in such a seductive voice.

I wonder if all brunettes are like this.

I tell her about the sunburn I just got in Jamaica today on my left shoulder and she laughs and apologizes.

I take her hand off my left shoulder. I grab her other hand and lay it on my right shoulder. I smile and tell her “This is much better”. She laughs again, and I slip both of my hands around her lower back, as smooth as I can pretend to be. We move and swing to the beat for a few songs. The guy behind her keeps giving me props.

After a while, she gently pushes me back, holds my hand and says “Nice meeting you”.

She leaves.

WHAT THE @#$%? I think I just got teased. On second thought, I should’ve actually danced with her instead of just holding her like that. I guess my Jamaican T-Shirt can only bring me so much luck.

Back to the corner I go! I start dancing without holding anything back this time. I am constantly smiling while dancing now. Sure, I’d love it if I could dance with more girls tonight, but right now, I’m just having fun dancing solo.

I dance for a bit more and a white dude approaches me. He’s slightly taller than me, and definitely more well-built and stronger than me. Oh crap…don’t tell me…

Before I can say hi, he drops onto one of his knees right in front of me.

WHAT THE @#$%?

He reaches behind his back and gets out two glow sticks. He swings them around a bit and hands them to me.

I look at him confused.

For the next 20 seconds, he keeps pointing at me, making two thumbs up signs and pointing back to the glow sticks.

Glow sticking… I guess I should have paid attention when my friend was learning it.

I swing around the sticks like an idiot and the white dude starts laughing. A couple of his friends come and starts to laugh too. I finish with the only glow stick move that I know (figure 8) and hand back the sticks to the white dude. He takes it, gives me some props and dances in another corner with his friends.

I dance alone in the corner again for another 10 minutes or so. Suddenly, everyone leaves the dance floor except for this short black girl and I. We look at each other, surprised at what just happened. I extend my hand to her for a dance, and she takes it.

We close in and start dancing.

“I’m going to try grinding this girl even if I risk getting slapped across the face!” I thought.

It’s pretty funny though. A few days ago, I wasn’t man enough to even dance alone. Right now, I’m trying to grind a random girl who I met a minute ago, in front of everyone when we’re the only ones on the dance floor.

We move to the beat and I can feel I’m getting closer and closer to my goal. I turn her around so that her back is facing me.

Private jet is ready to launch.

Right when my chest touches her back, a loud “YOUUUUUUU” thunders throughout the club.

Oh great… fuck you soulja boy. I hate you so much, that I’m not even capitalizing your name.

Every night when this song is played, three dudes come to the dance floor, and do the soulja boy routine that they worked so hard on. The problem is, when they do the jumping part, they like jumping across the whole dance floor, pile driving whatever’s in their way.

No grinding for me again.

The song finally ends, and the girl and I get back together. A Latin song is on the playlist and we proceed to dance.

The rest is history.

May 9:

Upper Equip – Red/Grey Sleeveless with White Coat for assist
Bottom Equip – Brandless Black Sports Pants

I don’t even have to talk to the bouncer anymore. My “ID Card” is a simple nod of approval.

I head inside the club and take a seat on a stool facing the dance floor. The two blonde girls are already on the dance floor. They spot me and we wave at each other. I probably should go down and dance with them, but my energy is really low today. Even though the past clubbing days have been really fun, I’ve been sleeping at 4:00am every night. I remain seated.

Tonight is 80’s and 90’s night. The DJ’s music isn’t that appealing to me.

Another Latin song plays in the club. A brown couple takes on the dance floor and starts doings some nice salsa. After a few minutes, a white girl goes up to the couple. They talk a bit and the brown man starts teaching the white girl how to salsa, while the brown girl is watching and dancing by herself. I really should ask the brown girl to teach me salsa also, but I’m too tired right now.

(Actually, I chickened out. Thinking back, I was stupid to not ask for a dance right there. “Tired” was just a lame excuse to hide my insecurity.)

Plus I tried learning salsa before. It’s really not my type of dance since I can’t find my hip muscles.

“Ayo Technology” plays next, and I take the cue.

By today, I’ve heard all the songs at least 3 times already, which makes dancing according to the beat easier.

Half way through the song, the short black girl from yesterday walks up to me again. We dance throughout the song and start talking.

Me: “So who did you come cruising with?”
Her: “My soon to be ex-boyfriend.”
Me: “…what?”
Her: “My boyfriend. He’s sleeping with another girl in our cabin now. I’m dumping him after this cruise.”

At this moment, I wish this girl’s face turns into a mirror so I can see my reaction. Before I could think of other things to say, she delivers the final blow:

“I’m actually a mother of a one year old baby.”

Now I feel like grabbing her shoulders, shaking her furiously and yelling “TOO MUCH INFORMATION!!!” in her face. I try my best to suppress these feelings.

I reach out my hand and pat her on the head.

Me: “Aww it’s alright. Sorry to hear that about your boyfriend.”
Her: “Aww thanks. I gotta go now. Have a safe trip back home!”

She hugs me tightly, kisses me on my neck and leaves the dance floor.

Thank god for jaw bones, or else my chin would’ve fallen on the floor.

I exit the dance floor and take a quick break on one of the stools. The bald black dude sitting beside me compliments me on my dancing. I thank him, more so for reminding me what I came here for rather than recognizing my dancing ability. I exit the club to grab a drink and wash my face.

I come back inside the club and Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” is playing. Finally a good pick from the 80s and 90s! It’s currently 2:00am now, which means that the next hour and a half will be the last time I see anyone in this club.

Let’s go crazy.

From here on, I dance like nobody’s watching.

(Thinking back, I wish someone video taped me. I created a lot of new moves and I really felt like I was dancing in the spot lights.)

More and more people on the dance floor are giving me props for my moves. I’m feeling so good right now, that I start pointing at random people at the bar with my locking moves. From the corner of my eyes, I can see that the black women near my dance corner are captured, staring at my movements.

I can feel everyone looking at me again, but the difference is how I interpret their judgments this time. I can feel how much they’re admiring my moves.

If they think I’m showing off purposely, then their jealously is simply an indicator of their insecurity. A man must be confident enough to admit that there will be people better than him at certain things. To respect others and welcome their display of talent is a true indicator of emotional stability and confidence.

Besides, who enjoys watching couples grinding on the dance floor for hours anyways? Honestly, I prefer more people actually dancing in this club.

This was my final day of clubbing, since we need to disembark the ship tomorrow at 8:00am. It was definitely a fun learning experience.

Final Verdict: I got the moves, but I don’t have the game yet.
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Anyways, I'd appreciate it if people offered me advice on the clubbing scene, both in general or my story in particular.

[Reveal]

Awesome and hilarious post!
Man, I feel you on that club stuff with the grinding on girls.
I used to be so afraid of trying to dance with a girl, and I would make it a goal to dance with at least one girl whenever I went out. I'm a bboy myself so I'm pretty comfortable on the dance floor when I dance solo, but when I'm dancing with girls and with the rap music playing as opposed to the stuff I like, it's a different world.
But good story, keep working on that club game!

[fistoftheryustar]

Man, I feel you on that club stuff with the grinding on girls.
I used to be so afraid of trying to dance with a girl, and I would make it a goal to dance with at least one girl whenever I went out. I'm a bboy myself so I'm pretty comfortable on the dance floor when I dance solo, but when I'm dancing with girls and with the rap music playing as opposed to the stuff I like, it's a different world.
But good story, keep working on that club game!

Same here man, straight down to the bboy thing and the rap music not being my favorite to dance to. Im also the "indirect" type that uses words to get the girls picking up on me (usually us guys who do have game, yet, dont favor club grindin are the indirect type.) So when it comes to actually being the one who chases its a different ball game.

I also think after lots of experience and fun club game is over-rated in some circles. It has a great purpose though. On some of those sites speak as if clubs = everything.

[BBQ]

VRViperII, you gotta do more then just dance. Yeah it's a very good thing to do when you are at a night club but that's all you really are going to get at best is some one to dance/grind with. I read some of your post and it seems like you didn't even bother to go up to the girls and talk to them. Next time you are at the club, you should initiate some conversation besides dancing the entire time. Also some girls like to dance and that's it, you have to get that mindset that some of these girls are here for fun and nothing more.

oh and I forgot the mention, don't bboy at a club unless the club is hosting a battle, you might have skills but save that shit for when it matters, when you are at a club you gotta go with the environment or else you will look like a clown.

[TheSix]

Nice read VR.

[The Epidemic]

Final Verdict: I got the moves, but I don’t have the game yet.
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Anyways, I'd appreciate it if people offered me advice on the clubbing scene, both in general or my story in particular.

Ok im not gonna lie...i didnt read all that son.:sweat:
I read about 30% of it tho...its 1:17am and i gotta get up dumb early for work tomorrow so im kinda lazy.

But anyway....as for the club scene? You said you do a lil bit of breakin right? well that shit is a broad magnet. I do it too...i dont only break tho..i do alot of different shit i can swing, salsa, mj..i just love dancing in general but yea...In clubs you dont usually have much room to be doing anything too crazy unless ppl give you space to do so. I feel you on the music thing..to a certain extent..i really hate those silly atl dance songs...they are soooo corny. You have no idea. You dont need to know the song to dance to it tho...once you catch the beat everything should fall into place.

Some advice..when a broad approaches you to dance..dont be shy. Get in their..pull her closer to you and just vibe. They want you to smother them...whenever i go out clubn (which is like every weeknd:looney:) and im not with my girl, i dance with any girl i think is nice..and i dont ask permission either...i just jump in their lol. The only time i would ask a broad if she wants to dance is if shes not on the dance floor. Remember, there aint nuthin wrong wit a lil bump n' grind :wink:

Ill finish readin your post when im at work tho..i need to get some sleep

[w1r3d]

*awesome post*

I don't go clubbing or anything (I'm the salsa/latin music/ballroom kinda guy) so I don't really have any advice to give, but I just wanted to say that I enjoyed your post very much. Good stuff man. It takes a lot of courage to go dancing solo. Just the thought of going by myself to a club is scary enough! Good job man, props! :tup:

[fistoftheryustar]

Strangely I do better at the clubs building from solo. I think when your boys have this reputation of you, you feel like you cant let them see you weak. You're more apprehensive i guess the word is.

My one boy just didnt get social customs at all. No lying he'd have 3 ft x 3 ft space in a crowded club and he'd try to break. He had a weird alienlooking toprock and bc it was so crowded he'd just do that top rock for 10 mins without going down. It was hard to watch. When I told him what was up I just kinna played it like it was the space restriction and thats why ppl werent vibing him.

I think bboying if u do it right, makes it really easy it get with girls (I always felt when I did it in the past it was similar to some guys flexing their money.) But as for challenge, I think the normal kind of dancing in the club taken to the max is alright. Guess we all have our code

[BBQ]

^Did you ever watch "The Hook up artist" and when that one dude tried to impress the girls by bboying he only made himself look like a dork? When you are at the club you should be dancing with girls and not doing 1990s you feel me?

[The Epidemic]

^It depends on what type of clubs you go to...
i can guarentee you that you will get mad play if you can break at a hip-hop club.

If i go to a bikers metal type club and try to break of course im gonna get clowned

Edit: I usually go to mixed hip-hop/spanish/reggae/trance type clubs..got the best music for dancing and you wont get clowned for breakin

[Reveal]

I used to be pretty self conscious about dancing in front of people. I'd think things like "What if they think I'm trying to show off?" or "What if I look dumb?" But now I just do it whenever and however I feel like it. If I'm at a club and I feel like bboying, I toprock to push the crowd back and give me some room. If I feel like being a goof ball and doing the Jon Travolta or Napoleon Dynamite dance, then that's what I do. Sometimes people will get the reference and get a good laugh out of it.
When it comes to dancing with women though, it's different. It's a lot easier now, but it can still be confusing. A girl will dance around me and get closer and closer. I'll be thinking "That's my queue! Time to dance with this girl." I make my move and she runs away. Like all she wants to do is tease me. Now when they do that, I just ignore them. Even if I want to dance with them, I pretty much expect them to pull that move where they get close and then run away.

[fistoftheryustar]

^Did you ever watch "The Hook up artist" and when that one dude tried to impress the girls by bboying he only made himself look like a dork? When you are at the club you should be dancing with girls and not doing 1990s you feel me?

^Did you read what I said? I mentioned that you shouldnt always be trying to break in those clubs, but when you CAN then its too easy.

Also, I think the show was called the pick up artist. whya calling it the hook up artist? just wondering. if it was an inside joke from earlier in the thread, i missed it.


^It depends on what type of clubs you go to...
i can guarentee you that you will get mad play if you can break at a hip-hop club.

If i go to a bikers metal type club and try to break of course im gonna get clowned



true man. id often go to clubs in philly. philly is chock full of bboys. club shampoo over there certain nights has an entire floor just for breakin. its crazy it looks like some lounge area yet people ppl are just talkin and breakin. because of the club environment, the bboys talk to each other more there than at actual bboy events. anyway, it all depends on the place and the vibe.

in high school dances, you dont do the worm during the slow-dance songs. similar to clubs, you break when its appropriate

[The Epidemic]

^Ryu i didnt know you were a bboy too :cool:
srk needs to start a crew :lol:
but i need to get ome sleep ill post more on VR's post later

[BBQ]

I ment the "Pick Up Artist" hahahaha. Anyway, I still don't think bboying at a club that isn't having an event that includes bboying to be appropriate even if the music is hiphop. All you are doing is taking up space(especially if it's ladies night). I remember I went to this club on wednesdays nights for dollar drinks and these guys would always break. Shit was wack beause the music wern't break beats, and I even heard people talking shit on them even though a couple of them were kind of decent.
I like bboying and like to watch it but if I want to see it, I'll go to a comp. That's my $.02

[Edi. E]

Strangely I do better at the clubs building from solo. I think when your boys have this reputation of you, you feel like you cant let them see you weak. You're more apprehensive i guess the word is.

My one boy just didnt get social customs at all. No lying he'd have 3 ft x 3 ft space in a crowded club and he'd try to break. He had a weird alienlooking toprock and bc it was so crowded he'd just do that top rock for 10 mins without going down. It was hard to watch. When I told him what was up I just kinna played it like it was the space restriction and thats why ppl werent vibing him.

I think bboying if u do it right, makes it really easy it get with girls (I always felt when I did it in the past it was similar to some guys flexing their money.) But as for challenge, I think the normal kind of dancing in the club taken to the max is alright. Guess we all have our code

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[VRViperII]

Thanks for the comments everyone.

My main goal on the cruise was to up my approaching game. It's true that I didn't ask enough women who weren't on the dance floor to dance. Actually, I only asked one girl who was just standing near the side of the dance floor, but she politely refused. But that wasn't the main reason why I didn't approach more.

The club was pretty small, but the music was insanely loud. I would've approached more if I could make myself heard without screaming my lungs out. It could be my insincerity talking again, but I doubt it was possible to ask a girl to meet me outside the club and game her then, especially when most of the people there were couples.

When you guys say that you bboy in the club, do you mean the whole deal? Footwork, power moves, and all that, or just top rocking? On my last day, I was pretty much alone on the dance floor so I had plenty of room to do some footwork, but I thought that would be taking it way too far.

The other thing is, dancing with a girl is very different than bboy'ing because one is with a partner and the other is done solo at a club. Are there any foundational moves in club dancing? :rofl:

It's also hard to tell how far a girl will go with you. Outside the club scene, I wouldn't dream of any attractive women making the first aggressive move on me often. But is it a different story inside a club?

[Silentness!]

SNIP

haha awesome story man. You remind me of myself like a year ago...

I use to be scared of randomly going up behind a girl and grinding on her or EVEN grinding period. The first time I grinded was with this really hot white chick. It was fucking horrible her ass kept swinging into thin air because I didn't want to rub my dick on her ass (cause I thought it was impolite :rofl: )

Now I'm a grinding freak. It's like I'm having sex on the dance floor. I don't think it's dirty. It's actually a fun dance with a woman. It depends on the girl though. Some girls made my dick bored... and then there are some girls that are fucking PROs at grinding. I mean holy shit one girl had her ass smashed against my dick like as if I was in heaven.

Anyways I'm rambling about grinding escapades. You will get the hang of grinding it is easy. Just move with the music/girl. Don't feel embarrassed by it... it's not meant to be serious. I think you kind of fucked up though when you thought the girl was being "Rude" when she showed her back to you. That should of been your motivation to "GET ON THAT SHIT".
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Good shit though... as long as you had fun that's all that matters.

[Koop]

wow... u people are still on the "friend zone" ish... jeez... its so simple that the term shouldn't even exist

also... i saw a post about bangin a friend an not takin it elsewhere... it can happen... oh trust an believe it can happen... in fact it happens when you NEVER expect it to

clubbin an mackin are the worst... cant stand it cause its bait n pray city...

[rsigley]

i never been to a club before but i was thinking about going

is it rude if i bring my own cardboard for break dancing or do they supply you with the cardboard at the club?

thank you and godspeed

oh and i found this is a good time for random hookups at college if you live near one

the past 3 years i have found a lot of success trolling for girls who just finished finals or are really stressed out over them

just hang around the library and pretend to be in the same class, different section (if its high level, you took it last semester) as the girl if you understand the material

i usually look for chicks with math or stats books since i got a phd in stats and masters in math and just be like, oh yea i took that last semester , the final was kind of rough

usually they'll ask for help and most of the time it leads elsewhere because they're all mindfucked from studying so much. i mean sometimes its a waste, like i spent 4 hours helping this girl with stats quality control and never heard from her again, but you can usually tell where its going after 30 minutes or so based on their body language

if you can tell its going nowhere just be like i have to go to a study group or something and bail to another library

[fistoftheryustar]

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^ fail

I ment the "Pick Up Artist" hahahaha. Anyway, I still don't think bboying at a club that isn't having an event that includes bboying to be appropriate even if the music is hiphop. All you are doing is taking up space(especially if it's ladies night). I remember I went to this club on wednesdays nights for dollar drinks and these guys would always break. Shit was wack beause the music wern't break beats, and I even heard people talking shit on them even though a couple of them were kind of decent.
I like bboying and like to watch it but if I want to see it, I'll go to a comp. That's my $.02

ha ha wtf? i dont know anyone many ppl that would try to bboy under those conditions. "This is ladies night Ow!" and then start doing ur hardest work haa. Also at shampoo it isnt odd for there to be breaking just because even one night out of the week there is a "breaking" night in the same club. go figure

[Havoc]

Don't fucking break at the club.

Ladies are dancing to Usher, and you're spinning on your head?

Nah son.

[Silentness!]

G-unit "All we do is the same old one-two step"

[rsigley]

Don't fucking break at the club.

Ladies are dancing to Usher, and you're spinning on your head?

Nah son.

that sucks

break dancing is making a comeback and i want everyone to know that i was good at it before it got popular again, know what i mean

another club question - do dance battles break out randomly throughout the night? the kind where everyone forms a circle around the people and they dance in the center, kind of like in movies?

i always wanted to be a part of one of those, but i don't think i have prepared enough and don't want to embarrass myself during it. so if it does happen a lot i might wait to hit the club up because i don't want to be thrown into a situation i'm not ready for

thanks for all your help

[fistoftheryustar]

You can break at a club when its appropriate son. But in most places there's not gunna be the chance that's it's appropriate.

I'd rather not bboy most times anyway cuz it feels like showing off. It's like she's gettin to sample the best of you when you're not even gettin the best of her. Imagine you get with an avg girl and you bboy'd that night, she can tell all her gfs "he bboyed for me AND let me fuck him!" haa

After you got served, EVERYbody wants to be a bboy now anyway.


i never been to a club before but i was thinking about going

is it rude if i bring my own cardboard for break dancing or do they supply you with the cardboard at the club?

1. they might not let you bring the cardboard in

2. thats kinna weird man, its not like in the music videos. but whos knows maybe where ur from its like that? are u from the US?

3. kinna looks try-hard. if you want to be safe dont be the first to do it. wait til there is maybe 1-3 sets by other guys who are really breakin. if the crowd is cool with them doin it, then go for it.

[rsigley]

2. thats kinna weird man, its not like in the music videos. but whos knows maybe where ur from its like that? are u from the US?




i live in allagash, maine right now which has a population of only 287 people and 2.1 people per square mile. i'm not sure of the club scene here

but i also have a place to live in NJ so i can always hit the clubs up in newark, jersey city, elizabeth - those might be bigger

i'm white though so i'm not sure how well received i would be

i definately have to earn their respect through dancing, otherwise they won't be able to see through my skin color

[Silentness!]

I can never tell if rsigley is being serious or not.

[Havoc]

He never is.

[Pat the Great]

I can never tell if rsigley is being serious or not.

protip: when he's telling you he's like the Eminem of breakdancing in a town with >300 people, odds are he's probably not so serious.

that, or i'm gonna hit his ass up for a film script option.

[fistoftheryustar]

I can never tell if rsigley is being serious or not.

ha ha i think i just been had. i have an oddball friend from europe who believes everyone is out to get him when he bboys. he seriously feels like people won't "see through his skin color". so maybe rsigley is just one of those ppl or one of those tricky sasha baren cohen-esque bastards.

[Warpticon]

He never is.

Unless it's a sports thread.

[Silentness!]

LOL I fucked up big time...

I showed the girl I've been talking to pictures of Amerie and Crystal Kay.

She's going apeshit in jealousy now. This aint good... I'm a dumbass.


http://desertheart.files.wordpress.com/2007/12/shiningcdcover.jpg
http://keepinitright.com/amerie.jpg

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Fuck man some women are fucking emo as hell. They will tell you how sexy one rapper/actor is but as soon as I post a picture of got damn Amerie it's on like fucking DONKEY KONG!

[Warpticon]

LOL I fucked up big time...

I showed the girl I've been talking to pictures of Amerie and Crystal Kay.

She's going apeshit in jealousy now. This aint good... I'm a dumbass.


http://desertheart.files.wordpress.com/2007/12/shiningcdcover.jpg
http://keepinitright.com/amerie.jpg

:rofl: How retarded do you have to be to show a chick pictures of a hotter chick with no reason?

[Pat the Great]

ha ha i think i just been had. i have an oddball friend from europe who believes everyone is out to get him when he bboys. he seriously feels like people won't "see through his skin color". so maybe rsigley is just one of those ppl or one of those tricky sasha baren cohen-esque bastards.

you've been here for almost two years and never read an rsigley post, huh.

[Koop]

:rofl: How retarded do you have to be to show a chick pictures of a hotter chick with no reason?


apparently his handicap was flarin up again... jeez u never show another chick another chick REGARDLESS of how the fleazy looks...

[Yansoma]

Just got out of a 5 year relationship last week. I always figured I was going love to have this much free time again, but I'm just ridiculously bored most of the day now.

[Silentness!]

Ahh man I fucked up good...

This will definitely be a rocky week for me. I'm going to get like 4 hours of sleep because of our heated conversation
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The pictures were definitely the catalyst for the ass whipping I'm taking right now. She says it's not the pictures, b