The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[rsigley]

it's ok to swim in the red sea but never drink from it

[R.P.D rookie]

You went from Resident Evil Mercenaries high scores to period sex. You just can't get enough blood and gore can you?:lol:

[Zachman]

I'd rather abstain.

[ShinkuuR]

Me and some friends had discussed a similar topic this weekend, where we had to choose between period sex of buttsex. I chose period sex, because ain't no shit coming close on Mr. Frisky. He deserves better(assuming a shower is nearby)

[Spooty Whiteboy]

WTF? You guys realize it's dangerous for the woman, right? If you manage to push blood back into the cervix it can cause a bad infection.

Otherwise, it's not disgusting or anything. Just dangerous.

[Soundatron]

WTF? You guys realize it's dangerous for the woman, right? If you manage to push blood back into the cervix it can cause a bad infection.

Otherwise, it's not disgusting or anything. Just dangerous.

really? Got a link where I can read more on this?

[Lei Mana]

You went from Resident Evil Mercenaries high scores to period sex. You just can't get enough blood and gore can you?:lol:

I'm suprised you remember that about me! Wow, that really made my day. I still watch most of those Mercenaries videos. Did you see the run that Yankichi did with Wesker on the castle stage? His score was over 300,000! Shit was wild, son. If you don't have the vid then hit me up on AIM if you want it. And no, no I can't! Let's hope this chick I'm picking up tomorrow is on her rag as well. That was a joke:rofl: .

[Theycalledhim Alan]

alright bro's, something wierd happened too me. I was walking around my house, high as hell, when I heard the phone call. Not having caller ID, I just picked up thinking it was my parents or something... But I was wrong... boy was I wrong. I picked up and... and... it went something like this...

me: hello?

EVILdevilCHILD: HEY! How you been? it's me... joanne(MY EX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111!11!1!1!!!!1!!1!!)

me:(dased and confused)oh uh... hi... umm... what's up?

jo: nothing, I called you yesterday, and the day before that...

me: Really? why?

jo: no reason really, I was just at my grandmas house yesterday(wich is close too my house), and I wanted too meet up...

me: Oh... well I was out, you shoulda called sooner

jo: I tried but it was kinda uncalled for, so how you been?

me: Blah Blah Blah bullshit bullshit I GOT A JOB bullshit bullshit Blah Blah Blah

jo: Oh that's great! so what are you doing tomorrow?

me: work...

jo: oh.. till what time? I was kinda wondering if we could get together and do something? just like old times?

me: like.. when we were going out old times?

jo: yea.. but we'r not goin out

me: no shit... well I'm at work tomorrow and i get home at like 7... rain check then?

jo: sure no problem(shaky voice)...

me: is there something wrong?

jo: I broke up with my bf... things werent working out...

me: oh... well I g2g too bed, work tomorrow, i'll call you another time k?

jo: k...

me: GNITE *CLICK*


Why the fuck would she call me back right after she broke up with her bf? Is she having second thoughts about me? Is this bitch crazy? It's bad enough SHE broke up with ME cause I wasnt "opening up" to her. That's a load of bull, it's not like I'm gonna tell this bitch everything about me just 'cause we had sex, plus, I don't open up to anybody, I keep my feelings hidden at all times.

I didnt call her back... yet. I'm thinking about calling her later on in the week, yea, I still got a soft side for her...

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I gotta lotta thinkin too do... Should I even bother? I mean, she's a nice girl and all, but she hates the fact that I smoke weed. I kinda thought she broke up with me because of it. If she makes me give it up for he, she's in for a surprise...

word.

It's as simple as this: If you can get with her and have no emotional attachment whatsoever then go for it. On the other hand, if you know you'll end up involved with her again developing feelings and so on, then don't bother. Personally I can fuck someone and have it be just for sex, no attachment whatsoever, other than my cock in her cunt of course.

P.S. You know, I don't find her particularly attractive but if you're not all in love with her and shit, share some tittie pics, they look like some big ass mammaries.

[Shotokan Symphony]

fuck her asshole
it'll even out

[Silentness!]

I went to hooters with some friends instead of staying to talk to this one chick. (She approached me and started talking-> IOI right?)

I need therapy...

[TheRock-BoS]

I went to hooters with some friends instead of staying to talk to this one chick. (She approached me and started talking-> IOI right?)

I need therapy...

:confused:

You should have asked her to come to Hooters with you.

[kof4life]

She seems like the typical drama queen girl that is indecisive, and doesnt know what she wants.

Alos about that girl kof4life, you are in a bad situation becuase of your belief system.

Shes got you where she wants you if you can't fear losing her for good..
You've got to take chances...thats the whole thing we are saying.

Its like you are scared of pissing a girl off by trying to kiss her, same thing,you will never know and be playing the "shoulda, woulda, coulda" game with yourself if you dont try.

True,I'll never know until I try. And I do plan on trying,but I don't know if now is the right time,when the tension and awkwardness are still evident. I feel like I need to wait until I can see she's gotten over things a bit. She does know that the break up was entirely on her part rather than mine. I was ready,she said she wasn't. I'm just waiting for the right time,and I feel now isn't it. Appreciate the advice,DG! Any feedback from the others would be appreciated as well!

[kimjongiLL]

There's gapping, bloody hole in the left side of my jaw where an impacted tooth used to be. The anesthetic has worn off and it's one of the most uncomfortable pains I've felt in my entire life.

mltr --> mulitple long term relationship

Those are kind of tricky since I always end up having one particular favorite over the others though. Females are crafty and tricky. They know how to use their sweetness and charm to make you fall in love with them. Some are better than others at it, and you end up falling for them. It's the female version of the game.

Two of my mltrs called me today after my surgery. I told both them I can't talk because it really hurts (it really does). The way one of the girls told me that she hopes I feel better was so sweet, cute, and compassionate though, I really did feel better.

It's a good feeling. Taking in female energy and affection.

Take it in too much and it's unhealthy co-dependence. Shut it out completely and it's unhealthy isolation. Find just the right balance though, making the most of the friendship as well as the sexual relationship, is a good feeling. Calibrate it.

I don't need to work tonight. I'm going to spend the night with her. She's a sweetheart and I like that.

[terracotta]

negging 101 (http://youtube.com/watch?v=AHi7-dzCw1A)

[Silentness!]

Ah shit I haven't been to college in two weeks. (Combination of spring break and taking care of some business out of town)

After reading "The Game" and just studying my habits I think I'm ready to do some cold pickups at my college. This will be interesting... I'll give some feedback on what I did wrong and what I did well on tomorrow...

PS: more seductive jargon... I'm a make all the PUA/PUGs proud! I think...

[TheSix]

Make sure your "routines"(if you use them) don't get around the school.

Girls talk.

[Silentness!]

Make sure your "routines"(if you use them) don't get around the school.

Girls talk.

heh yeah I got a basic routine, but I suck at routines (can't remember things :rofl: )

I mainly just free wing it and look at my surroundings. Make up some bullshit right on the spot to sound completely natural.

[slowtactician86]

What SHOTOKAN symphony said!

[Dark Geese]

So Mr. Ness what did you think of the book overall? Yay or Nay??

[Silentness!]

So Mr. Ness what did you think of the book overall? Yay or Nay??

that book is friggin huge. I'm not even halfway done. I don't really like reading the hypnosis shit. (Seriously college chicks will find that shit boring/retarded) Plus the Ross Jefferies seems to cater to the advanced users. Where as someone like Juggler is straight up basic comedic material.

I'm at the part where "Style" finally gets his props after getting the digits from the 10/11 girls that wore identical outfits.
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Yeah this thread is nowhere near Woman/Girl thread related, but umm "The Game" is an actually interesting book that will help you understand woman a lot more easier than without reading it. Main thing is you gotta have some fucking confidence. If you get intimidated by a hot chick or any girl you will only screw yourself over.

[xero15]

man thats a good sign if she made way to talk to you. if she does it again make sure you go for it.

[Obot64.com]

http://www.justin.tv/ Right now justin is on a live date ! (he broad cast his life 24/7 on the site).

[Silentness!]

http://www.justin.tv/ Right now justin is on a live date ! (he broad cast his life 24/7 on the site).

she has a big nose... I'd hit it still. LOLZ

Fuck DMV story... ZZZzzzZZzz sorry man I turned it off.

[Javid]

Ok this is sort of a wierd question, but how do you guys counter a statement like this when a girl is calling you out/ is flirting with you:

"You know you love me..."
or
I say something like I had to spend so much time with you today and you drove me crazy and she goes:
"You know you'd want to spend even more time than that with me"

Now the girl has a boyfriend and is flat out teasing, what should one do?

[SkyeElemental]

I'm wondering what everyone's opinion on question:

In terms of trying to get a girlfriend/date, how much does "being yourself" actually work? Do you find that it is more necessary to conform or change yourself in some way than what most people that say 'being yourself' think?

[Lei Mana]

Ok this is sort of a wierd question, but how do you guys counter a statement like this when a girl is calling you out/ is flirting with you:

"You know you love me..."
or
I say something like I had to spend so much time with you today and you drove me crazy and she goes:
"You know you'd want to spend even more time than that with me"

Now the girl has a boyfriend and is flat out teasing, what should one do?


Sounds like she's getting big-headed. Counter with the "don't talk to that hoe anymoe" move.

[terracotta]

I'm wondering what everyone's opinion on question:

In terms of trying to get a girlfriend/date, how much does "being yourself" actually work? Do you find that it is more necessary to conform or change yourself in some way than what most people that say 'being yourself' think?

the great thing about being yourself is that if the girl is into you, you know you don't have to bend over backwards to keep her interested.

"be your best self" is a better saying to go by and something a few here advocate. i've looked at books and techniques and all, but i'm very happy (and probably very lucky) that the core underneath that is still very much "me". of course that isn't sloppy old every day me.. you have to make an effort to be attractive and interesting.

of course that means dressing nicely and combing your hair, but i'll try to focus on conversation. think of it as an ideal performance during a job interview.. you don't lie at every turn, but you're able to recall all the right experiences and right things to say on cue because you've prepared yourself mentally. you've articulated your opinions on topics that are likely to come up and can express them confidently, and express doubt/openness where you haven't.

it's all about identifying the better aspects of your personality, then refining and accentuating them into something the general population can appreciate. it's good to develop a bit of self-awareness. if you can identify the style of humor you're effective at, topics you feel you should know about but lack knowledge in, experiences you'd like to be able to talk about (at least through secondhand accounts), then you can work on those.

you also know how to listen, ask questions, etc, because you're trying to find out if it's the right job for you. or you could say that your date's in the same situation - you're interviewing her to see if she's right for the job (a big part of the dating literature is keeping them interested in the job and keeping them from believing they're qualified for it). isn't that what dates are? cross-interviews to see if two people fit each others' job descriptions?

my $0.02.

[Serpent]

Ok this is sort of a wierd question, but how do you guys counter a statement like this when a girl is calling you out/ is flirting with you:

"You know you love me..."
or
I say something like I had to spend so much time with you today and you drove me crazy and she goes:
"You know you'd want to spend even more time than that with me"

Now the girl has a boyfriend and is flat out teasing, what should one do?

Hahaha, this one is too easy. I don't like posting in this thread, but I do approve of everyone using this particular Serpent line:

"You know, I feel so comfortable around you. You're like a little sister to me."

Guaranteed to deflate their egos. You can actually see them knocked down a few pegs when you say that, I mean you physically can see it. That's how powerful that specific final line is. She will probably start chasing after you now to convince you otherwise, and even if she doesn't, you've already won.

If you feel particularly mean, you can also follow it up with this next line, but I don't think it would work for anyone aside from me:

"Of course...my little sister is much smarter, funnier and prettier than you."

You might want to leave off the prettier part, but that's up to you.

[Obot64.com]

http://www.justin.tv/ Right now justin is on a live date ! (he broad cast his life 24/7 on the site).

He got laid.

[ost3g0]

I'm wondering what everyone's opinion on question:

In terms of trying to get a girlfriend/date, how much does "being yourself" actually work? Do you find that it is more necessary to conform or change yourself in some way than what most people that say 'being yourself' think?

Honestly I feel this is the only way to go that has ZERO repercussions down the road for a REAL relationship.

If your whole intent is to just bag and gag a chick for a night or two, do whatever it takes.

But if you're looking for a good solid companion/relationship/worry free sex being your self is the only way.

Best part is, theres nothing she cant complain about. Either she'll love you for it, or wont go out on that second date.

Or she could be one of those ape-shit girls that tries to change her man to be like how she wants, AVOID AT ALL COSTS AFTER YOU GET THE SEX.

[Silentness!]

He got laid.

He showed it?

[Dark Geese]

Or she could be one of those ape-shit girls that tries to change her man to be like how she wants, AVOID AT ALL COSTS AFTER YOU GET THE SEX.

Amen..avoid these girls like smelly pussy/tuna....:annoy: :sweat:

[comoesa]

lol tap tat that man.

[Silentness!]

I sat down with this blonde haired girl that was wearing glasses. (Trust me she didn't look like a nerd :wink: )
_____

I started off with telling her how cold it was outside. Then I joked with her about my hat saying my friend said it was green when it was really black. Then I asked her what her favorite color was (too corny of a question?): She responded with "I don't have a favorite color, but I'd have to say neon green." Then she asked what my major was bla bla (computer science btw) told her it was boring (Because it is!) She laughed while asking me why I picked it. Hers was Biology so I asked her about biology and we talked about our teachers... (bla bla bla)

I did Juggler's "watch my stuff" routine as I went to go check the time. (I need to get a new watch + I forgot my cell) I said it a little too fast so she probably didn't understand me completely. Anyways I found out some basic info about her like she doesn't like golf/transferred here from a different college.
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Positives: She laughed at my jokes
She asked me some questions randomly during the silent periods.

Negatives: I didn't have enough material to use with her.
She spent more time reading than talking to me.
I didn't ask for her number because I didn't see any IOIs etc. (She didn't even ask for my name)

Conclusion: Overall I think I did decent. I was confident and talked with a firm voice, but I did speed my voice up during Juggler's "watch my stuff" stuff routine. She didn't throw any bricks at me and was really nice to me and even said good bye as she left for class.

[Javid]

Hahaha, this one is too easy. I don't like posting in this thread, but I do approve of everyone using this particular Serpent line:

"You know, I feel so comfortable around you. You're like a little sister to me."

Guaranteed to deflate their egos. You can actually see them knocked down a few pegs when you say that, I mean you physically can see it. That's how powerful that specific final line is. She will probably start chasing after you now to convince you otherwise, and even if she doesn't, you've already won.

If you feel particularly mean, you can also follow it up with this next line, but I don't think it would work for anyone aside from me:

"Of course...my little sister is much smarter, funnier and prettier than you."

You might want to leave off the prettier part, but that's up to you.

What if she thinks/knows that you like her or something? Would it still work, cause that seems like a great routine there.

[TheSix]

I sat down with this blonde haired girl that was wearing glasses. (Trust me she didn't look like a nerd :wink: )
_____

I started off with telling her how cold it was outside. Then I joked with her about my hat saying my friend said it was green when it was really black. Then I asked her what her favorite color was (too corny of a question?): She responded with "I don't have a favorite color, but I'd have to say neon green." Then she asked what my major was bla bla (computer science btw) told her it was boring (Because it is!) She laughed while asking me why I picked it. Hers was Biology so I asked her about biology and we talked about our teachers... (bla bla bla)

I did Juggler's "watch my stuff" routine as I went to go check the time. (I need to get a new watch + I forgot my cell) I said it a little too fast so she probably didn't understand me completely. Anyways I found out some basic info about her like she doesn't like golf/transferred here from a different college.
__________
Positives: She laughed at my jokes
She asked me some questions randomly during the silent periods.

Negatives: I didn't have enough material to use with her.
She spent more time reading than talking to me.
I didn't ask for her number because I didn't see any IOIs etc. (She didn't even ask for my name)

Conclusion: Overall I think I did decent. I was confident and talked with a firm voice, but I did speed my voice up during Juggler's "watch my stuff" stuff routine. She didn't throw any bricks at me and was really nice to me and even said good bye as she left for class.


Did you throw out any signals of interest?

(IE. "I like your style", "You look really great/cute/sexy in that whatever" etc)

I would try that "Watch my stuff" routine, but bitches out here would most likely be gone...along with my shit :rofl: Maybe once I get back in school(somewhere nice and stationary).

[Havoc]

If she knows you like her, and she references that, chances are she likes you at least a little. I know when I'm around girls that I'm not attracted to, I avoid talking about their interest in me at all costs.

If you have no plans on doing anything with the girl, then it doesn't really matter how you handle it. If you are interested in trying to do something, next time she makes one of those comments, challenge her on it.


Let's take this one:

"You know you'd want to spend even more time than that with me"

I'd just say "all I need is an hour or two..." Give her that look, you know.... build the sexual tension. Since she has a boyfriend, IMO, it's on her to get at me. I'll let her know that I'm open, but I'm not gonna force myself on her.

If she hangs out with you after you've made that easy, but clear sexual advance, you've got a good shot with her.

But, that's just what I'd do. You gotta do it how you see fit.

Good luck.

[Silentness!]

Did you throw out any signals of interest?

(IE. "I like your style", "You look really great/cute/sexy in that whatever" etc)

I would try that "Watch my stuff" routine, but bitches out here would most likely be gone...along with my shit :rofl: Maybe once I get back in school(somewhere nice and stationary).

"Remember that SOIs are delivered ONLY after she is demonstrating that she is interested. Or, if you were using my system, after you had forced IOIs."

^ Quoted from Juggler. I dunno I wanted to SOI, but the conversation felt awkward at times because she was so shy. I had to constantly feed her funny/interesting lines to get her motor running again.

[catchafire]

You still should have asked her for her number. Even if you knew she might not give it to you... If she says she'd rather call you instead, politely refuse her and state that if she were interested that she would give it to you...

It's in the numbers man. The more you ask, the higher your success rate. :wink:

[TheSix]

"Remember that SOIs are delivered ONLY after she is demonstrating that she is interested. Or, if you were using my system, after you had forced IOIs."

^ Quoted from Juggler. I dunno I wanted to SOI, but the conversation felt awkward at times because she was so shy. I had to constantly feed her funny/interesting lines to get her motor running again.

That conflicts with itself.

Shy girls have the be lead. The really really shy ones won't look you in the eye, won't initiate conversation and won't do much of anything until you do. Throw that SOI out there, and it should tell you where you stand.

I run into it all the time at boarders. They act like they don't care, but then I show interest and they light up/turn red/look down. They were dead focused on the book/coffe/wall/manga...up until that.

But then agian, im not the best person to listen to since I tend to go direct 98% of the time. :wonder:

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:lol: I really do get where everyone is coming from now. This thread has been hi jacked by PU lingo and "PUA's in training".

[Havoc]

"Remember that SOIs are delivered ONLY after she is demonstrating that she is interested. Or, if you were using my system, after you had forced IOIs."

I don't really know what any of that means, but I can assure you that whatever it is, it isn't steadfast. You should adjust any advice given to you on any subject to fit your situation. You have to understand it well enough to implement on your own. I wouldn't take this guy's word as the ultimate, infallible word on getting bitches.

[TheSix]

I don't really know what any of that means, but I can assure you that whatever it is, it isn't steadfast. You should adjust any advice given to you on any subject to fit your situation. You have to understand it well enough to implement on your own. I wouldn't take this guy's word as the ultimate, infallible word on getting bitches.

+1

True dat.

[Zachman]

Advice for the day: Women are very easy to manipulate.

[Dark Geese]

Well me personally I dont even at times bother with a girl if she aint giving me any feedback, my attitude is that I dont go where I aint wanted, if she aint giving me any feedback I move on to be honest...


Because no woman in my opinion is worth sweating like that...

[YTheLastMan]

Ok, I need some serious input. No bullshit 'surprise s3x' shit please.

Ok, so I work at a retail store and I work as a cashier. There's only 2 guy cashiers, everyone else is a chick. Most of them are pretty attractive.
Anyways, this girl and I had kind of been talking (short kind of exchanges, witty banter, etc) and I kind of got the feeling she was into me.

I was working today and it wasn't that busy, so she says "go do some work outside, like promotion of something. Go run around in your bathing suit."
She said this all facetiously of course. We kind of go back and forth, I refer to her as 'cute', etc.

So later, she's leaving and we're talking. I find a way to ask her about her boyfriend, she tells me she doesn't have one and that her last relationship had ended badly after 2 and a half years and just now was she getting over 'how it ended' ; I went to high school with the guy.

So, I make a comment about how often she works (she has 2 jobs) and say "you must not have much free time", she responds by telling me that she spends most of it with her friends, doing 'stupid stuff'.

I don't quite recall what I said next (I actually got somewhat nervous, which was kind of pathetic but hey...it's been a while) but I end up asking her if she wants to go out Friday night. Her response is "are you serious"?
I think she might have been kind of stunned because I joke around a lot and I guess it's possible she doesn't get asked out all that often at work.
She tells me that friday she's going to a strip club with friends (I knew about it last week, I thought it was last friday...woops :sweat: ).
Just digressing for a second here, her friends are a combination of guys and girls and it's a strip club with chicks dancing, no dudes.
I thought that was kind of weird but after some research, apparently i'm the weird one.
So I say, ok well another time when you're free then and she responds with a nice 'yeah maybe'.
She then took like 30 minutes to leave and i'm not sure if I should read into that and assume she was trying to get a moment to speak with me because I was swamped with customers so I didn't get a chance to speak to her after that.

I realize i'm a complete retard for not even asking for her number or saying 'Thursday' instead of Friday after she told me that she had plans.

She's working the next 2 days but i'm not...So I don't exactly have any other opportunities to work some magic.

I really lost my nerve while the whole thing was happening, emasculating as fuck.

So, was I misreading the signs? It's possible she's just nice and kind of flirtatious with everyone.

My confidence level before the whole thing was sky high but my pride just got bitch slapped back down to reality.

What's the play?

Should I go in and 'buy' something tomorrow and try to ask her about Thursday then? Or do I just let it go and get over the awkwardness?

Help would be appreciated SRK.


PS. Interesting post script to this whole event, when she was leaving she went over to talk to another cashier on the opposite end of the rows of cashes and after she was over there, the other cashier gave me a look/nod combination. I winked at her in response, assuming that she was praising me for asking the other girl out.

Well apparently, what she was doing was giving me a sign that the customers she was serving were 'hot guys' and they thought I was winking at them or something. :rofl: That shit was embarassing.

[Lei Mana]

She said "maybe". In other words, she said "no". Just like calling a girl "cute" is a nice way of saying she's ugly.

[Javid]

Snip


Ok hold on my friend. Before you go any further, let us explore the implications of dating a co-worker.

People, can you please explain to this young soul what the situtation will turn out like if things go bad. I've been in situtations and known friends that have had hot co-workers. Either way, I've always been told to be very cautious.

[YTheLastMan]

She said "maybe". In other words, she said "no". Just like calling a girl "cute" is a nice way of saying she's ugly.


See, when I call a girl 'cute' I mean it. Attractive girls are either 'cute' or 'hot' or whatever other adjective that comes to mind.
Different kind of looks require different words to describe them.

I'm inclined to agree with you but I got some advice from an acquaintance who said that it was possible that she might just have been kind of stunned.
I was pretty direct, normally there's all sorts of bullshit involved with dating a chick my age where I live. You gotta talk to her friends, let them gossip about you, play games, etc. It was the first time i've been that direct with a girl and I do believe it's possible she may have just been taken aback. She didn't say maybe in a kind of 'down' tone, it was more upbeat.

It is always possible that you're right and i'm clutching at straws here but hey, i'll probably find out for sure on Friday when I go get my work schedule for next week.

Bust this though, if she wasn't into me at all (with the whole maybe thing), then wouldn't she have bounced right away after the incident took place and not have hung around for an additional 20-30 minutes?

I may be reading into it too much but think about it.

Ok hold on my friend. Before you go any further, let us explore the implications of dating a co-worker.

Yeah, there's no question that I thought about that before but i'm not the type of person to have a relationship end badly and not even remain 'friends' (I don't hold a grudge. I used to though). I'm not overly concerned, i'm not an awkward person, I can laugh at myself and play off my insecurities.

If homie is right though, then there's nothing to worry about as I just got rejected. I actually don't know what that feels like (i've been dumped before , but i've never turned down for a date)...So it's going to be interesting to experience it for the first time, if he's right that is.

[Javid]

YTheLastMan where exactly do you work, cause you situation sounds a lot like mine. I'm the only guy at work and the rest are all girls and it's also retail.

[YTheLastMan]

YTheLastMan where exactly do you work, cause you situation sounds a lot like mine. I'm the only guy at work and the rest are all girls and it's also retail.

Canadian Tire, probably not the exact same thing, shit gets MAD busy.

Cashiers are normally chicks in just about every store I think. Guys usually work the floor, I used to work in the hardware section but I asked to be put at the cashes. Figured it was easy as hell, little did I know you get massive lower back pain from standing for hours on end. Fuck's sake :rofl:

[Silentness!]

See, when I call a girl 'cute' I mean it. Attractive girls are either 'cute' or 'hot' or whatever other adjective that comes to mind.
Different kind of looks require different words to describe them.

See... MOMS use cute,pretty,great.

Replace cute with sexy and see the results.
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"Maybe" is such a shitty response. I wouldn't want someone telling me maybe when I say "how about another time". It's either yes or no and it should be yes with an exact date/time frame.
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Co-worker dating: I went out with a co-worker and it just lead to trouble. Two co-workers started drama with me because there was a "love" triangle. "Love" as in I didn't like either of the girls, but hey I felt like going out.

[Javid]

Canadian Tire, probably not the exact same thing, shit gets MAD busy.

Cashiers are normally chicks in just about every store I think. Guys usually work the floor, I used to work in the hardware section but I asked to be put at the cashes. Figured it was easy as hell, little did I know you get massive lower back pain from standing for hours on end. Fuck's sake :rofl:


Haha, fuck that shit. I did my time on cash and got off as soon as possible:wgrin:
These days I'm a supervisor at night and every now and than I have to go on cash. Cash sucks!


I work at a Dollar store btw.

[YTheLastMan]

Haha, fuck that shit. I did my time on cash and got off as soon as possible:wgrin:
These days I'm a supervisor at night and every now and than I have to go on cash. Cash sucks!


I work at a Dollar store btw.


Yeah, I read a post of yours about the Dollar store deal, wasn't 100% sure though, so I didn't mention it.
Sounds like you got it made, I seriously thought it was free money working at the cash. On 'scratch and save' days, the rush of people is fucking INSANE. Canadians will do anything for a deal, it's murder.
People will fight over the stupidest shit. like a $14 razor. I'm not going to kill myself for 10-15 bucks, fuck that.

I was lifting heavy shit in the back and cleaning shelves with rags and whatnot. I don't even clean my own room man, that was definetly interesting.

The chicks at the cash have it hard FFS, they have tits and shit...I can't imagine standing on my feet for 8 hours a day with those things weighing you down. I only work part time but still, i'm pretty drained after a day's work.

Ness, yeah man, that's EXACTLY what I said! Can I just get a plain ol', black and white answer. Yes, let's do the damn thing or no, fuck off.
I'd be satisfied with either, honestly.
You're probably right about the 'sexy' stuff, it's more direct. I've never really been that kind of guy. I usually just beat around the bush until a girl asks me out or shit fizzles out. Decided to change it up today, results were not too impressive.
My schtick is to make a joke about everything, rarely be serious and just have fun with it. If I fuck up on something, i'll just make nervous chatter, mock myself and hope that girls find it cute (usually seems to be the case, they could lampoon me behind my back for all I know).

I'm no smooth operator.

Girls sure know how to fuck with a guy's head though, shit is tired.

[comoesa]

Ok, I need some serious input. No bullshit 'surprise s3x' shit please.

Ok, so I work at a retail store and I work as a cashier. There's only 2 guy cashiers, everyone else is a chick. Most of them are pretty attractive.
Anyways, this girl and I had kind of been talking (short kind of exchanges, witty banter, etc) and I kind of got the feeling she was into me.

I was working today and it wasn't that busy, so she says "go do some work outside, like promotion of something. Go run around in your bathing suit."
She said this all facetiously of course. We kind of go back and forth, I refer to her as 'cute', etc.

So later, she's leaving and we're talking. I find a way to ask her about her boyfriend, she tells me she doesn't have one and that her last relationship had ended badly after 2 and a half years and just now was she getting over 'how it ended' ; I went to high school with the guy.

So, I make a comment about how often she works (she has 2 jobs) and say "you must not have much free time", she responds by telling me that she spends most of it with her friends, doing 'stupid stuff'.

I don't quite recall what I said next (I actually got somewhat nervous, which was kind of pathetic but hey...it's been a while) but I end up asking her if she wants to go out Friday night. Her response is "are you serious"?
I think she might have been kind of stunned because I joke around a lot and I guess it's possible she doesn't get asked out all that often at work.
She tells me that friday she's going to a strip club with friends (I knew about it last week, I thought it was last friday...woops :sweat: ).
Just digressing for a second here, her friends are a combination of guys and girls and it's a strip club with chicks dancing, no dudes.
I thought that was kind of weird but after some research, apparently i'm the weird one.
So I say, ok well another time when you're free then and she responds with a nice 'yeah maybe'.
She then took like 30 minutes to leave and i'm not sure if I should read into that and assume she was trying to get a moment to speak with me because I was swamped with customers so I didn't get a chance to speak to her after that.

I realize i'm a complete retard for not even asking for her number or saying 'Thursday' instead of Friday after she told me that she had plans.

She's working the next 2 days but i'm not...So I don't exactly have any other opportunities to work some magic.

I really lost my nerve while the whole thing was happening, emasculating as fuck.

So, was I misreading the signs? It's possible she's just nice and kind of flirtatious with everyone.

My confidence level before the whole thing was sky high but my pride just got bitch slapped back down to reality.

What's the play?

Should I go in and 'buy' something tomorrow and try to ask her about Thursday then? Or do I just let it go and get over the awkwardness?

Help would be appreciated SRK.


PS. Interesting post script to this whole event, when she was leaving she went over to talk to another cashier on the opposite end of the rows of cashes and after she was over there, the other cashier gave me a look/nod combination. I winked at her in response, assuming that she was praising me for asking the other girl out.

Well apparently, what she was doing was giving me a sign that the customers she was serving were 'hot guys' and they thought I was winking at them or something. :rofl: That shit was embarassing.


lol at you this thread is always good for laughs.....


but seriosuly you should have asked to go to the srtip club with her friend sshe would still feel comfortable with her frineds and you could try get them digits woo shoving some 1's betweens some bitches tits....win.

[kimjongiLL]

Fucking worthless...

Never trust anything a woman says. Sure as hell never buy her anything as well, no matter how much you like her. Relationships don't last and I always find myself feeling bad about money I've spent afterwards.

Stuff I've lost to women and wish I had it back...

-coffee table
-expensive pen
-six bottles of beer
-time and money
-food
-my DVDs

I let a woman I like borrow the one of kind pen my mom gave to me as a present once. She just goes ahead and nonchalantly loses it with a, "Oh, I can't find it." She moved and had no furniture, so I went over to her new place to cook for her and let her use my coffee table also. What a fucking idiot I was. She kept all my stuff (including my beer without buying me some more, which is fucked up) and now we don't even talk anymore. I think if she kept my house, kids, and $6000 ring, I would probably kill her at this point.

Just recently I bought some things my girlfriend asked me to buy for her, plus a personalized present as well, since I like doing nice things for people I like. Now not only is she dating some other guy now without telling me about it (I got to find out by seeing them together myself), I call her up tonight so I can go get my DVDs back, and she's like, "I have something to do tonight. I'll call you in a couple days."

Fuck you, stupid, worthless bitch.

Women are such slaves to their hormones and emotions. On one hand, it's good for you, since depending on the state they're in at the moment, there's possibilty they'll sleep with you the first night you meet them. On the other hand, if you don't have sex with them at least once a week, their attraction mechanism gets turned off just like that, they go for some other guy though, and will do petty, revenge stuff to fuck with you though. I guess it's my fault since last time I was over her house, I didn't find her attractive anymore and just left when it was obvious she wanted to fool around. At least don't dick around and just give me my stuff back though.

That's why I would never vote for a woman president. I'm always extremely careful around a woman boss as well. You never know which one is a man hater, or one of those astronauts that wear diapers and plot murder because their emotions tell them so.

[Dark Geese]

Thats funny so we know one person aint voting for Hillary for president lol.

But he does make a point..which is why you make sure when you get her in bed unless she smels like tuna you dick her realllll good..so she won't care about others..shell keep cumming back for more..

If she smells like tuna tell her to get the soap and go shower...

[Obot64.com]

Yo Dark Geese where have you been? Pm me your #

Silent Ness and the other SRK PUA's

Check out this picture of my alter ego and Juggler.
http://www.completeurbanpickup.com/pictures/GuwataJugg.jpg


I think I might do something special for the guys here that are int rested in pua stuff... Any one interested? pm me.

[Lord Magnus]

I work at a Dollar store btw.
ARE U BROWN!!!!!:wonder:

[TheSix]

1 Approach for today:

Me - "Hey, can I get a opinion from you?"
Her -" No " (this really threw me off and scared the shit out of me...but luckily, it's happened before :wgrin: , experience ftw!)
Me - ":rofl: You're cute when you try to purposely be anti-social"
Her - (laughs) "I am not anti-social! I've just heard that line before."
Me - (dead serious look and serious as fuck direct eye contact) "Line? Im not from around here(lie), I was just going to ask you what was faster, bart or bus to get to (insert place). Are all cali women this hostile?"
Her - ".......im sorry. :sad: "

Me thinking - "GOTCHA BITCH! Can't fuck with Outworld Method!"

Real response - "I'll let you off the hook this time, but you can only make it up to me by buying me a drink....right now"

After 5 hours of laughs, stories, comfort building, hugs, couple pats on the ass, laughing at other people, and ripping on one another, fast forward to me about to drop her off:

Her- "....you can come up if you'd like. I just bought a new TV, you can check it out." (You could see her juices practically feeling her jeans at this point)
Me "No thanks"
Her - ":annoy: :annoy: :annoy: :annoy: "
Me - "Bye!" (Peels out with Danger Zone on the Chorus very loud)

:rofl: :lol: I love this "Game". That would have been my first one night stand. That was the furthest I've ever gotten off a cold pickup. But I love my girl, so it was all practice :lol:

A year ago, I would have laughed in whoever's face if they said I could do that. Bye bye years of awkward social graces.

....not really. Back to Warcraft. /Whipes nose and makes nerd like chuckling noise

[Silentness!]

1 Approach for today:

Me - "Hey, can I get a opinion from you?"
Her -" No " (this really threw me off and scared the shit out of me...but luckily, it's happened before :wgrin: , experience ftw!)
Me - ":rofl: You're cute when you try to purposely be anti-social"
Her - (laughs) "I am not anti-social! I've just heard that line before."
Me - (dead serious look and serious as fuck direct eye contact) "Line? Im not from around here(lie), I was just going to ask you what was faster, bart or bus to get to (insert place). Are all cali women this hostile?"
Her - ".......im sorry. :sad: "

Me thinking - "GOTCHA BITCH! Can't fuck with Outworld Method!"

Real response - "I'll let you off the hook this time, but you can only make it up to me by buying me a drink....right now"

After 5 hours of laughs, stories, comfort building, hugs, couple pats on the ass, laughing at other people, and ripping on one another, fast forward to me about to drop her off:

Her- "....you can come up if you'd like. I just bought a new TV, you can check it out." (You could see her juices practically feeling her jeans at this point)
Me "No thanks"
Her - ":annoy: :annoy: :annoy: :annoy: "
Me - "Bye!" (Peels out with Danger Zone on the Chorus very loud)

:rofl: :lol: I love this "Game". That would have been my first one night stand. That was the furthest I've ever gotten off a cold pickup. But I love my girl, so it was all practice :lol:

A year ago, I would have laughed in whoever's face if they said I could do that. Bye bye years of awkward social graces.

....not really. Back to Warcraft. /Whipes nose and makes nerd like chuckling noise

that whole thing is for real? Good shit man. I seriously need to think of a backup if my opener sounds too cheesy. I've been lucky enough to not have any girls call me out on my stories and shit.

[kimjongiLL]

1 Approach for today:

Me - "Hey, can I get a opinion from you?"
Her -" No " (this really threw me off and scared the shit out of me...but luckily, it's happened before :wgrin: , experience ftw!)
Me - ":rofl: You're cute when you try to purposely be anti-social"
Sweet bounce back, man! Thanks for sharing. Top tier game right there.

Post some more of your conversations. I still need to work on patting girls on the ass. It's been one of my shyness sticking points and would love to know some solid ways to set it up better.
Check out this picture of my alter ego and Juggler.
http://www.completeurbanpickup.com/pictures/GuwataJugg.jpg
:rofl:

That's great. When I first started going out, I always had to make sure my hair is perfect, my clothing is impeccable, and everything about my personal appearence is spotless.

I think when you reach a certain point, you're just like, "Yeah, whatever..." and go out wearing whatever you want though. Kind of like how when I first went clubbing, I would wear the suit jackets and striped button douchebag shirts like every other guy at the club. The last two weeks I've wore my hoodie, my T-shirt with the smoking cartoon pigeon on it, and my Mario T-shirt.

I actually haven't shaved or used hair gel for the past three days. On my date with Jenny on Tuesday (and the bounce to my place after), I wore old T-shirt, jeans, underwear with a hole in it, and dirty sneakers too.

[Javid]

ARE U BROWN!!!!!:wonder:


Persian actually, but I've been mistaken for almost everything.

[Havoc]

Tantra is the shit.

I've finally developed the ability to have multiples. Tooooooooooooooooo good. It's taken 8 years, but it's worth it. Start studying guys.

[Daddyneptune]

Damn Six good job. So icecold...

[Dark Geese]

Hey Obot64 I'm at my dads therefore I am away from home so I can't really get on AIM like I did at home.

I will be back home on Saturday though make no mistake about it.

[terracotta]

is it better to be too close or too far when your SO is PMSing?

if you're too close, at least she'll appreciate your caring in hindsight when she regains her sanity.

being "too far" just means being more distant.. naturally that's safer.

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A says (10:50 PM): ok, friend asked me to watch a movie wednesday
A says (10:50 PM): told her i was busy..
A says (10:50 PM): ever since then she won't return my calls
A says (10:50 PM): i figure it's that time of the month
A says (10:50 PM): but her brother told me last night she's been in bed all day
A says (10:50 PM): im' flattering myself if i think that has to do w me
B says (10:50 PM): lol
A says (10:50 PM): but.. what the fuck.. are girls like that?
A says (10:50 PM): is that normal?

[Obot64.com]

Dark Geese: Rodger That!

[xero15]

terracotta you gotta go visit before if does become distant. yeah maybe you are flattering yourself but at the same time do you really want to risk losing her at the same time? it wont even take too long for you to do this and she may be rewarding later.

[Shodokan123]

word of advice... never mention fighting game competitions to girls... especially when they just got done making a big deal about their dance competitions... i got shot down by this chick i really liked at my school for trying to share a passion for "competition" after barley 30 mins of conversation >_<

[Dark Geese]

You know what though..if the girl can't except my passion for fighting games I tell her to FUCK OFF..

I'm harsh like that..:badboy:

As the old school song says

"You'd better love me, or leave me alnoe."

[Reveal]

I don't think the video game deal is a ig deal.
My friend plays smash bros. competitively along with me and my bro, and he gets more pussy than anyone I know.
Hell, he even brings his girlfriend to the tournaments with us sometimes. But he's really cool about it, so really I dunno why a girl would freak if you told her you play fighting games competitively.

[Shodokan123]

I don't think the video game deal is a ig deal.
My friend plays smash bros. competitively along with me and my bro, and he gets more pussy than anyone I know.
Hell, he even brings his girlfriend to the tournaments with us sometimes. But he's really cool about it, so really I dunno why a girl would freak if you told her you play fighting games competitively.

i dunno, guess shes an uptight bitch who can't accept other people's hobbies?

[TheSix]

word of advice... never mention fighting game competitions to girls... especially when they just got done making a big deal about their dance competitions... i got shot down by this chick i really liked at my school for trying to share a passion for "competition" after barley 30 mins of conversation >_<

It depends on how you come off. I've come to learn that girls love "passion"....whatever it may be! Example:

Girl - "So what do you like to do?"
Me - "Well I pay out of my own pocket to attend some video game tournies. LOLZ LOLZ I practice online with my buddy LOLZ LOLZ LOLZ. We totally rape nubs."
Girl - ":confused: :tdown: :shake: :lame: "

The RIGHT way....

Girl - "So what do you like to do?"
Me - "I love competition. The thrill of practicing, becoming good at something, and knowing you are one of the best...if not THE best, is really addicting to me. You've heard of madden right?
Girl "Yes/no"
Me - "Well, my buddies and I get to travel around a lot to these events which have really huge ass money prizes at them. So not only do we get to brag after we kick some ass, we get paid on top of that. So I guess you could say....I love the travel, play games, and make a lot money. What do YOU like to do? And please don't say 'Myspace' :wgrin: ."
Girl - "Wow that's awesome. Where do you get to travel? I love to cook"

Me - "GOTCHA BITCH!" :rofl: :rofl:

So basically, if you lug shit around for a living, but can make it seem interesting to her without coming off as nerdy/loser'ish/pathetic it does not matter what you like to do.

[Silentness!]

I'm fucking proud of myself. Thursday/Today I've been on a roll with approaching chicks. I have so many stories/tips/techniques I can tell you guys, but it'll take me some time to condense it.

(Don't want it to sound like a livejournal, but a story that shows the DOs and DONT's of approaches)

PS: I'll give you a teaser. One of my approaches ended with the girls fighting over my attention and them both screaming "Bye Tiger" when I walked off. :lovin:

I only had one hostile approach on Friday, but then again the girls were ugly as hell (red haired with freckles and shit with a pale piggy face) and they also looked like they were in middle school. (I instantly approached them so I didn't realize their age/looks until I was already talking)
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I saw this pretty boy sitting in this lobby with girls surrounding him. (If I was a female I'd hit him<--- no homo... wait that sounded too fucking homo to try and negate. He looked like David Beckham and every woman wanted to be around him because of his looks/built body/and innate charm.

Some guys are lucky and grow up with great physical builds/looks. While other guys have to attract women the harder way through hard work. (sounds like a shitty Naruto cliche)

[Silentness!]

Warning: This post is so damn long that I didn't really proofread it cause I'm tired as hell. Just got home from a 2 day trip...

Thursday: I went in a business van to South Carolina for two days. On the bus/van I saw this one chick. At first I thought she was decent looking. Nothing to brag about, but she's not repulsive to look at. The thing that holds her back... she's so fucking nerdy. She is your typical nerd chick:

*Glasses
*Old looking clothes
*She hates cheerleaders/jocks (She told me this)
*She called herself an outcast in HS. (She's 22 btw... I was shocked when I found that out cause I'm only 19.)

Anyways I saw our conversation was dieing. I decided to say something drastic to refresh the conversation: "Do you play WoW?" :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: She said: "Yes!"

GOTCHA BITCH (Quoted from Thesix/Dave Chappelle) We talked about WoW for a long ass time on the trip to SC. First time I talked about WoW with a girl so it was cool. I found out so much info about her it was really fun. Only problem was it started getting on my fucking nerves! Eventually she started sounding like your typical otaku. She started talking about her obsession with Japanese culture, sushi, and learning Japanese. She also talked about playing Diablo I/II, Final fantasy games for hours with her boyfriend. (Boyfriend... uh oh. I should of known) She was fun though, but I didn't bother asking for her number or anything cause I could see myself tiring out from her hobbies. I liked how she constantly wanted to talk to me, show me ads in a magazine, gave me food without me even wanting anything.

^ Sorry for the long section. Cliff notes: The girl was decent looking at first, but after seeing she was the stereotypical otaku nerdy girl I lost interest in her really quickly. Sometimes the best pickup line is finding out what a girl really loves to do and then talk about it. As can be seen in the above scenario...

Another chick I saw on thursday was this black girl that also wore glasses (exception: She wasn't nerdy.) I didn't like that chick at all though. When I look at her... I think of her as a sister and nothing else (I'm bullshitting I just didn't find her attractive.) We had a blast talking about random shit though so it was cool just talking to random girls.

Cliffnotes: The girl seemed more like a sister than a possible girlfriend. Plus she looked really tomboyish. All the guys would laugh at her when she walked by because of her looks.
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Friday: I got back from my trip to SC and I immediately went to the mall to "sarge"/talk to girls. Again I don't want to sound like a livejournal, but I just want to let you guys know what I fucked up on and what I did good on. Nerdy chicks are fun to hang around with, but I like the challenge of approaching hot preppy girls/hot girls in general that are more feminine.

First approach in the mall (one chick): I was so fucking nervous that I sped through one of my routines. I looked like an idiot and sounded so fake because I was nervous/talking extremely fast. The girl was nice though and played along with my routine. (I knew deep down she knew I was scared and that I made up some bullshit just to talk to her).

2nd approach (group of 3 or 4 girls): hell of a lot better than the first approach. I decided to throw my openers in the garbage because my brain wasn't functioning straight (plus I suck at canned lines). I saw a group of girls in the American Eagle store. I saw this fireman hat or whatever the hell it was called and showed the girls the hat. "Hey sorry guys I'm a bit of a hat fanatic, do you guys think this hat looks good compared to the hat I'm wearing?" (Simple approach, subtle, and I don't look needy) The girls started helping me find a hat that looked good on me. Eventually one of the girls got confused. "Ahh I'm so confused which one is your hat" (I had two of my own hats with me and I was constantly swapping hats while showing her the hats.) I laughed at her while saying "Confusing isn't it."

Cliff notes: Group approaches I'd say are a WHOLE LOT EASIER. They're more comfortable being around you because they are in a group and feel more safe than if you were to approach them when they are solo. I used a subtle opener to get past the "Bitch Shield" (where's the trademark symbol?), had the girls laughing/interested in helping me pick a nice outfit. Then I slowly worked my way up by getting to know the girls.

Approach #3 (2 set: store workers): So I went into an obvious female shopping store. I needed a reason for being there so I used the "Momma's boy routine". THIS GIRL WAS A 10. (I rarely say this unless I really do mean it.) She had a nice rack, nice face/body. I had trouble keeping my eyes on her face because she was showing cleavage unintentionally. (why would you wear such a shirt to work... boggles my mind) "Hi what's one of the popular purses for a woman in her 40s." (My mom) She started showing me some of the purses. "Wow how many leopards did you guys have to kill to make that purse over there!?" (She giggled) She told me the price of the purse and I gave her a crazy look. "What!? You gotta help me out with that price... I'm a college student we're raised to be broke from books/classes."

Hot chick/HB10 (seductive jargon... live with it): I know all about the college ordeal.
Me: ORLY? What college you going to.
HB10: Augusta State University. I transferred here from another school. (wtf 2nd girl this week told me about transferring here. ASU is a shitty school so that boggles my mind when people transfer here)

(I'm trying not to look at her rack... damn was this chick hot. Can't believe I'm carrying a conversation with her. If it wasn't for "The Game"/this thread I wouldn't dare approach a chick like her.)

Me: Ah I see, I go to ASU as well! What's your major?
HB10: <Insert major> + she said all her classes were at the separate facility away from the actual college. (I forgot her major because I was too busy focusing on her rack)
Me: Mine is computer science! I have one class at the Christinberry Fieldhouse (the separate facility). It's Wellness.
HB10: Cool! Who's your teacher. (I hate when chicks ask for my teacher's name because I never remember...)

Eventually I got cockblocked by her coworker. "Hey <insert name> can you go into the back and count the stock/take the trash out." (I forgot the chick's name that I was talking to lol) So the coworker fucking ruined my game by telling her to do an assignment. I talked to the coworker in hopes of stalling some time for the other chick to finish her assignment. I ran the "Mamma's boy" routine on the coworker and she said "Ahhh that's cute. I like how you care so much about your mom." (Thing is I didn't give a fuck about the coworker... she was only an obstacle in my way of the HB10.)

Cliffnotes of approach 3: Again just like the 2nd approach... I didn't use any canned material. I simply looked at my surroundings and used it to my advantage. I noticed that there was a hot girl, but she had a obstacle (coworker). I got both of their opinions and eventually isolated the hot girl from the coworker. I took too long with my SOIs and thus lost the hot girl because the obstacle had more fucking power. (Basically the Coworker told the HB10: "Get your ass in the back and do some work or get fired.)

Approach #4: Too fucking easy! I was being a confident asshole because my friend wanted to watch me "sarge"/talk to chicks. So I decided to talk to the smoothie booth chicks.

I decided to use a combination of Juggler's small comical jokes/Tyler's friendliness cocky charm/the classic D'angelo handsome look/and Mystery's isolation technique.

Me: Hey you girls got any free drinks.
Girl#1: Nah we're all out of free drinks. (Smiling)
Girl#2: Hey wait a sec I remember you! You're the guy that asked us "Do these hats fit me". (This was about a month ago LOL I can't believe she remembered the exact question/pick up line I gave them).
Girl#1: OH YEAH now I remember him as well we were joking saying he looked like Tiger Woods.
(My friend was astonished at how much attention I was getting)
Me: Haha so how you ladies doing? Help me out I'm a broke college student, hook me up with a free drink. By the way... (talking to Girl #2) what school do you go to?
Girl#2: EHS.
Me: !!!! I went to Evans! I graduated in 05. Let me show you my HS ID card. What grade are you in? ( I didn't have my high school ID on me so I showed her my college ID)
Girl#2: Really you still have your EHS school ID!? I'm a junior by the way (11th grade... damn minor) My brother graduated in 02.
Me: What's his name? (She said Greg something) You plan on going to college at Augusta State?
Girl #2: Nah I plan on moving out of Augusta.
Me: What!? Why? (She told me she was ready to go out and experience life or some shit lol...)

(This is when Mystery's isolation technique came in full throttle. Girl #1 wasn't liking the cold shoulder I was giving her.)

Girl#1: I got a cut on my finger. (She sticks her finger in my face to finally get my attention away from Girl#2. Haha it was cute how she interrupted my convo with Girl #2 to get attention from me.)
Me: Ahh how did you cut yourself?
Girl1: I cut myself with the knife. (Points at knife)

(This is when I start rapidly asking questions, but they're mainly funny quick questions)

Me: Why you guys have a knife in the first place (Grinning)?
Girl1: (She shows me all their equipment) We use the knife to cut the lids off.
Me: (I started playing with all their equipment while sounding like a little kid asking a million little questions about his dad's tools.) ) What's this? What's that over there? Is this smoothie flavor any good?
Girl#1: (Smiling at me) No that one is nasty.
(My friend was amazed at how easily I came over and just went in an all out conversation with these chicks as if we knew each other for years. My friend finally gets bored and asks them a question)
Friend: So you guys are sisters? (Man my friend needs to work on a good initial opener)
Girl#1: Oh no! She's my brother's girlfriend. (RED FLAG: Girl#2 has a boyfriend... GG) (MAYBE Girl #1 is single though? Damn I should of got them digits from Girl#1)

So my friend got tired of not getting any action so he wanted to leave the two girls. So I walked off with him... as I walked off... I heard the two chicks scream "BYYYYYEEEE TIGER!" from a distance (In the most flirtatious/seductive voice ever)

Cliffnotes approach #4: I already saw the girls once about a month ago. They recognized who I was so I didn't need to build rapport. I basically smiled (which was easy when you have two cute girls that instantly remember you/everything you say) and while smiling I joked with them and got to know them casually.
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Holy shit this is long, but yeah approaching girls is a lot easier for me now. I still run into some girls that have huge bitch shields, but I'd only try to break it down if she is hot. Fuck the ugly chicks... just walk off and leave them hanging to rot.

[Reveal]

lol that's awesome. Maybe I should get back out and practice sarging and talking to chicks. I got into it for awhile but later on I was just like "Ah I don't feel like doing this right now."
Reading that is pretty motivating though.

[Silentness!]

lol that's awesome. Maybe I should get back out and practice sarging and talking to chicks. I got into it for awhile but later on I was just like "Ah I don't feel like doing this right now."
Reading that is pretty motivating though.

Yeah I admit I'm a huge scrub at it. It's like fighting games though, you can read all the strategy guides, but you won't know shit unless you actually go out and try it.

Work small and work your way up. There will be some challenges (bitch shields) and then there will be some easy feats (very friendly girls). Just go out and have fun. I use to think the same way... "I don't feel like it" "Maybe another time" (I was using those as excuses to avoid running into failures)

[debs]

ok...

-my ex from 11th grade. we talk and everything and have kept up over the years...i'm 22 now. i'll be 23 by the 26th. so its been awhile, you know?
-she broke up with her bf recently after he asked her to marry him
-we talked before on the phone about how sometimes ppl are in a relationship with somebody but they really want to be with somebody else...this convo lasted for hours and i knew what she was getting at...but i didn't want to overstep my boundaries and chance it so i didn't take the bait.
-we talked about that while the guy was in the house upstairs sleep while she was downstairs talking to me.
-she's trying to do more than talk now.
-her personality is great
-hips don't lie
-her mom is a MILF. her mom looks like she's in her late 20s/early 30s. you know what that means. either she got pregnant young (she didn't) or my ex is gonna age well like her mom (yeah).
-we have that connection that can't really be explained...not to sound mushy or whatever but its bigger than physical or mental.

bonus/tmi:
-she's a freak.
-she's bi
-she ate pussy before and would do it again
-she gets herself off and doesn't mind talking about it with me
(thats basic, but i mean when coupled with the shit above its GOLD)
-she doesn't mind being a friend with benefits
-she's ok with threesomes (not that i want one, but just the thought that she fucks with it)
-she swallows
-she likes to taste herself...

now, the thing is i know damn well she's not looking for a friend with benefits. i know she'd do it with me because we go back to the highschool days...but she's a female. she's looking for a relationship with progress...not a fling. aside from that i'm not looking for a fling either. i know damn well this girl would be wifey status because of her personality, and of course the sex, etc. i've been thinking about her since 11th grade and she's been thinking about me since then too.

now, how do i NOT fuck this up? i don't wanna go back out with her and then it not turn out right...it would change our relationship. we know everything about each other. we share everything...i mean everything. not a lot of ppl do that with each other, you know? we have a connection and all of that...its just that i don't want to ruin it by having a bad relationship.

anybody been in that situation before? what did you do? how'd it turn out? honestly i'm trying to go out long term and take it from there. i'm young but i'm only gonna get older. not trying to stay in the game forever.

dunno its not about pussy anymore. its about being happy. pussy is easy to get. happiness in a relationship is not...if it helps, i have a gf already. the relationship is ok but its not what i'm looking for...i can't put into words exactly what i'm looking for, but being happy with my ex is probably it, if that makes sense. we just started talking openly about it today so you know, over the next few months i'll see whats up with the situation. so far she's feeling that way too, so..

[TornadoFlame]

Lol, Debs you're a funny guy, cool though. The best advice coming from a guy with a woman at home and two kids, I tell you to enjoy the single life as long as you can. I'm not saying you should cut her off but all women have baggage. It may not come out at once but each year more and more will. Don't rush the relationship thing because you will have sex with her and after that feelings change. Sometimes for the better most of the time for the worst. It will be mostly worst because females are built more off of emotions as where men rationalize most of the time. The don't give a fuck bout rationalizing unless its rational about they feelings..ya feel me. Just know that you may be getting in to something you can't take back. Now excuse me while I search for this girl on CNN.

[debs]

yeah, thats why i don't want a fling. i know what happens with that...
i'm going to take it slow and see what happens. we've been talking for 6 years and i'm not trying to fuck that up in a few months lol.
i'm cool with her mom/fam (both our parents asked if we were gonna get married one day. dunno wtf that means but that caught me off guard and her too. her mom asked her this like sometime last year or so and my mom asked me that this year), she's cool with mine, we've kept up communication while we were in two different countries...actually three. germany, the u.s. and dr...so i think we can last longer. if its meant to be then its meant to be. if not then i know i have a really good friend, but honestly i don't want to be just friends, if possible.

i just really don't want to ruin it but at the same time i want to go for it. i don't mean marriage though. lol i have to clarify. i want a long term relationship...if sometime down the line marriage would be brought up then i'd think about it THEN, years from now. but i do want something long term with her. we met when we were 16. its not very often at all that a person stays in contact with their high school "sweetheart" (or tries to date them again but this time a lil more seriously) so its kinda weird.

not gonna lie, i'd beat with the force of the spartans from 300 but i want more. i dunno... if i take it too slow then it probably wouldn't work out. i mean it probably still would but i dunno. what i mean by that is that we can stop talking for a long period of time then call each other or meet up and its like yesterday without it being awkward. but i kinda already started to throw the bait out there as of today and so did she.

lol i gotta think about this one. never ran into this problem before. i'm gonna take your advice and not rush though.

[kimjongiLL]

word of advice... never mention fighting game competitions to girls... especially when they just got done making a big deal about their dance competitions... i got shot down by this chick i really liked at my school for trying to share a passion for "competition" after barley 30 mins of conversation >_<
That's totally not true.

If you deliver the right way, you can talk about WWE or Ultimate Fighting Championship and still keep her hooked and stimulated.

Don't talk about the facts. Facts are bad.

Talk about how you feel.

The emotion you feel when you're competing with your friends. Talk about it in a passionate and exciting way. Even if she doesn't feel the same excitement, you communicate you don't care what she thinks, you're not boring and approval seeking, and that's an attractive trait in any conversation. After you've shared whatever it is you shared about yourself, turn the conversation around and put the vacuum on her. Have her tell you something interesting and reveal something cool about herself and her interests (other than her own vanity).

[Dark Geese]

That's totally not true.

I

The emotion you feel when you're competing with your friends. Talk about it in a passionate and exciting way. Even if she doesn't feel the same excitement, you communicate you don't care what she thinks, you're not boring and approval seeking, and that's an attractive trait in any conversation. After you've shared whatever it is you shared about yourself, turn the conversation around and put the vacuum on her. Have her tell you something interesting and reveal something cool about herself and her interests (other than her own vanity).

The fucking truth!

[Grits'N'Gravy]

It depends on how you come off. I've come to learn that girls love "passion"....whatever it may be! Example:

Girl - "So what do you like to do?"
Me - "Well I pay out of my own pocket to attend some video game tournies. LOLZ LOLZ I practice online with my buddy LOLZ LOLZ LOLZ. We totally rape nubs."
Girl - ":confused: :tdown: :shake: :lame: "

The RIGHT way....

Girl - "So what do you like to do?"
Me - "I love competition. The thrill of practicing, becoming good at something, and knowing you are one of the best...if not THE best, is really addicting to me. You've heard of madden right?
Girl "Yes/no"
Me - "Well, my buddies and I get to travel around a lot to these events which have really huge ass money prizes at them. So not only do we get to brag after we kick some ass, we get paid on top of that. So I guess you could say....I love the travel, play games, and make a lot money. What do YOU like to do? And please don't say 'Myspace' :wgrin: ."
Girl - "Wow that's awesome. Where do you get to travel? I love to cook"

Me - "GOTCHA BITCH!" :rofl: :rofl:

So basically, if you lug shit around for a living, but can make it seem interesting to her without coming off as nerdy/loser'ish/pathetic it does not matter what you like to do.

The Six speaks truth. Also, if you come off that serious about it, your gf won't "take [sf/hobby] away" from you. I'm lucky to have a gf that has her own hobbies and doesn't need me hanging off her all the time, she lets me practice... she reads books or does some other shit. But, if you get with a girl that wouldn't normally "let" you play games... showing a big passion for it will make her realize that it's a part of you.

All men, ultimately, have hobbies that women don't like. Some dudes watch sports or fix cars and what not... if they're passionate in a philosophical way they can keep on with what they do, if not... the gf might take it away. I told my gf straight up that I love the competition and mindgames of street fighter... it's no more "nerdy" than sitting back and watching a baseball game, fixing cars or doing sports on the side.

Another thing: If you don't mention it early and in a good way, you'll have a lot of problems later when you want to go to a tourney and she wants you to do some other bullshit.

[debs]

my other ex is on the phone now...she's scared to tell me that she's pregnant (from another guy). we dated for about 2 years...we broke up because things didn't work out. she's the one that tried to trap me awhile back...

anyway, she's telling me how we should have been together and she made a huge mistake and its too late now. i liked her at one time, a whole lot...but she was a huge bitch. thats not what i'm looking for, you know? i know she's pregnant already because i saw her say its a boy on yahoo in her lil message thing. glad its not MINES.

anyway, i guess i'll post again when she tells me what happened. might have to wait til monday. she said originally that she would tell me in person but now she seems like she's going to do it over the phone.

*edit*
-she's 5 months
-it was a fling
-feels like her life is over
-doesn't want to be with the person she's having it with
-stuck between giving it up for adoption or keeping it
-the guy wants to be with her
-the guy wants the baby
-loves me

my thoughts: shit is fucked up. she's bipolar as hell and put me through a lot...i don't feel bad for her at all, to be honest. so...she's 5 months...that means while she was trying to holla at me again she was sleeping with this guy. thats why i don't feel bad. i'm about to confront her with that shit...thats fucked up.

*edit*

ok so i talked to her...told her how i felt about the situation. she was talking about how she loved me and i was her life and she's sorry that she treated me that way, etc.
i'm like yeah, thats nice. basically its whatever. she's too far along and i don't do pre made families. i'm trying to holla at my other ex, anyway.

[kaka]

After getting a girl's phone number, how long do you guys wait to call her? I wait 5 to 9 days.

youre supposed to call her right away dumbass! she'll blow u off if u wait that long:rofl:

[terracotta]

lol personally i don't mention SF anywhere until a person really knows me.. i've got a lot of good friends who don't realize i set aside a piece of my weekend just to play some good 3S comp.

i like to think it's just too personal a thing to share, and i'm not all that good anyway.

[katraqueyous]

youre supposed to call her right away dumbass! she'll blow u off if u wait that long:rofl:

I've said this before, but calling right away shows you have NO self-control or patience. Plus its extremely predictable. Only needy and clingy wusses do that shit.

If you're gonna call her right away, you might as well get on one bended knee and show her the ring.

Plus, if she DOESN'T like the fact that you do have self-control by waiting, then either she has low interest level or is hella structured. There is always more fish in the sea.:arazz:

[debs]

na, waiting a week or a week and a half shows you have no interest at all. real talk, if i gave a female my number and didn't hear from her in a week i'm moving on. there's too many other females out there for me to deal with games...you don't think a girl would feel that way about you and you not calling til the next week?

[TheSix]

SNIP SNIP SNIP!

Now that's quality. Gotta love progress.

I always have that "interuption" problem when messin' with employee's. It's frustrating when you can't close because of something out of your control(boss, other customer, etc).

I tend to just talk to them for the company. Make em feel good....maybe get 10% off next time :razz:

---------------------------

You can call whenver you want to call.

If she gave you her real number, you built enough attraction to the point where she felt comfortable enough to give you her real number in the first place. You can call the same night if you want. I actually encourage this depending on the situation. She either liked you, or she didn't.

A fun thing to do is call right after you part ways and ask "who is this?"

The whole "wait 3 days" bullshit is just that...bullshit. People watch too much TV and adopt that stupid shit into their own lives.

[Silentness!]

I really don't want to use canned material (I suck at remembering them), but I need some decent openers.

Should I use magic tricks? Maybe I should show higher value... or maybe I should just simply say... "Hi, so how's your day."

[katraqueyous]

na, waiting a week or a week and a half shows you have no interest at all. real talk, if i gave a female my number and didn't hear from her in a week i'm moving on. there's too many other females out there for me to deal with games...you don't think a girl would feel that way about you and you not calling til the next week?

That's the entire point. It's always best to have the female slightly more interested in you than you are of her. Between those waiting days, shes gonna wonder about you, thus making her interest level increase. If she didn't like you, then that wont happen.

Then when you call her up, she'll be finally glad to hear from you. If not, she didn't dig you to begin with. And if she didn't like you having self-control, then forget about her.


If she gave you her real number, you built enough attraction to the point where she felt comfortable enough to give you her real number in the first place. You can call the same night if you want. I actually encourage this depending on the situation. She either liked you, or she didn't.

Ya know, sometimes girls just giveaway their numbers to any guy that wants it. Some girls just get hassled by too many guys, and they just fling a number at them just to leave em along. Just cause you got her number doesn't immediately mean that she's interested in you.


This is good discussion guys. Let's keep it going.

[Silentness!]

Ya know, sometimes girls just giveaway their numbers to any guy that wants it. Some girls just get hassled by too many guys, and they just fling a number at them just to leave em along. Just cause you got her number doesn't immediately mean that she's interested in you.



Exactly.

Omfg I'm listening to some of Style's openers. They sound so fucking corny... hood chicks will laugh and say "Nigga you's corny!"

I really do like Juggler's work though. His techniques/openers are natural and don't sound cheesy.

[debs]

That's the entire point. It's always best to have the female slightly more interested in you than you are of her. Between those waiting days, shes gonna wonder about you, thus making her interest level increase. If she didn't like you, then that wont happen.

Then when you call her up, she'll be finally glad to hear from you. If not, she didn't dig you to begin with. And if she didn't like you having self-control, then forget about her.



thats bull. if she wasn't interested in you she wouldn't have given you the number in the first place. you can tell if a girl is interested in you or is just trying to get you to leave her alone.

dunno, i never had a problem when i called the same day. i've had more problems when i didn't call than when i did, i can tell you that. girls want to know that you're interested in them. hell, i'd want to know if a girl was interested in me. its a waste of time to play games. i want what i want when i want it. damn a waiting period. do what works for you though.

if you buy into that waiting period bs then you can't get mad when a girl has a waiting period before letting you beat or even letting you kiss and all that other nonsense.

[Silentness!]

thats bull. if she wasn't interested in you she wouldn't have given you the number in the first place. you can tell if a girl is interested in you or is just trying to get you to leave her alone.


Not exactly...

[debs]

reread what i said. if you can't figure out if a female is interested in you or not when you talk to her and get her number then you need to reevaluate your life.
how old are you? dunno, the girls i date (22-27 range) are beyond that highschool bs. they don't play games and i don't either. if a female doesn't know what she wants and is confused and all of that, then i leave her alone. i don't have time to wait. honestly its not THAT important. there's too many girls out there for me to wait on one thats gonna play lil games that involve waiting periods and what not.

[Silentness!]

reread what i said. if you can't figure out if a female is interested in you or not when you talk to her and get her number then you need to reevaluate your life.
how old are you?



http://forums.shoryuken.com/member.php?u=25279




dunno, the girls i date (22-27 range) are beyond that highschool bs. they don't play games and i don't either. if a female doesn't know what she wants and is confused and all of that, then i leave her alone. i don't have time to wait. honestly its not THAT important. there's too many girls out there for me to wait on one thats gonna play lil games that involve waiting periods and what not.

I've been through the bullshit that's why I said not really. Our conversations were great, she did kino (touching), she offered me her number without me asking and then her attraction for me died instantly. (I didn't do anything it just died)

[debs]

her attraction didn't end because you called in less than 5 days. she probably found somebody else. thats why i don't play games. there are 9849832403284390 billion females out there. if one isn't interested, so what? find somebody else.

you can't base how females are from your encounter(s) with one or two females either. every individual is different. i've had girls offer their numbers to me too but either i was turned off by the convo or they were turned off by the convo. it happens. by not calling the first day, you're not doing anything but postponing whats going to happen anyway. you're actually increasing your chances of her not being interested because thats more time for another person to express his/her (its 2007, nothing surprises me) interest in her.

[Silentness!]

her attraction didn't end because you called in less than 5 days. she probably found somebody else. thats why i don't play games. there are 9849832403284390 billion females out there. if one isn't interested, so what? find somebody else.

you can't base how females are from your encounter(s) with one or two females either. every individual is different. i've had girls offer their numbers to me too but either i was turned off by the convo or they were turned off by the convo. it happens. by not calling the first day, you're not doing anything but postponing whats going to happen anyway. you're actually increasing your chances of her not being interested because thats more time for another person to express his/her (its 2007, nothing surprises me) interest in her.

since you seem to be the only active person posting in this thread... I need some help/advice.

I see a girl that is walking in the opposite direction towards me. How could I initiate a conversation without looking like a stalker? (I have to change directions to talk to her.)

Most of my approaches are done with the person being stationary or walking in the same direction as me. Yet I have trouble doing approaches when I have to actually turn around and walk in a different direction to continue a conversation.

[Dark Geese]

I do it like this- "Hey I'm in a run I gotta go, my name is _______, whats yours? You got an email? Write down your phone number while you are at it." I get it and go forward.


Okay my blog- I had the best day in the field ever yesterday night...

I got 4 girls numbers in one location and talked to women like blondes even though I had no interest in them..I was on fire and I understand some nights will be like that...I made out with a hot Hispanic deaf girl and fingered her/gave her foreplay after talking to her for less than an hour, I got this waitress's phone number, got this PuertoRican girls phone number and got this GORGEOUS Hispanic Stripper wanting me to teach her English :looney:

For me in my POV it pays to stand out in a good way, with me being the Alpha Male there were women with men that were looking at me, but since they have men I can politely smile at them and pass them up. I practically got some pussy last night though I have been against sleeping with women the first night..when you are sooo caught up in the emotion at times before you know it you just came on her lol.

My night was beyond intense, I could sense the males disproval that their women were giving me the elevator or "Wow you're gorgeous" look..but I ran into a problem now and I need help..

Experts out there..

How do you talk to a deaf woman? How do you "get her number?" After this girl kissed me passionately I was stunned and then went on with her and I am clueless how to take things further with a deaf girl..I know to "treat the premiums like discounts and the discounts like premiums", so I go at that route with her, but how to take it further? Shes a challenge. I guess I gravitate and have a weakness moreso for hot handicapped women, they get my defense down a lot easier because they aint stuck up on themselves and have low self esteem...

The woman that almost became my wife is a hispanic paraplegic that I taught that someone could love her and that she is beautiful, and fell in love with her and her with me in the process...

Suggestions on the deaf girl? Learn sign language?

[Silentness!]

I do it like this- "Hey I'm in a run I gotta go, my name is _______, whats yours? You got an email? Write down your phone number while you are at it. I get it and go forward."



You can't be serious... get an email/phone number in a 5 second interaction?



Okay my blog- I had the best day in the field ever yesterday night...

I got 4 girls numbers in one location and talked to women like blondes even though I had no interest in them..I was on fire and I understand some nights will be like that...I made out with a hot Hispanic deaf girl and fingered her/gave her foreplay after talking to her for less than an hour, I got this waitress's phone number, got this PuertoRican girls phone number and got this GORGEOUS Hispanic Stripper wanting me to teach her English :looney:



wait so what exactly did you do? I see the story but I don't see the techniques used. I'm seriously interested in how you pulled all this off...

[JackTenrac!]

http://lifestyle.sympatico.msn.ca/How+To+Improve+Your+Social+Skills/BodyandMind/TheSoko/articles/TS+HowToImproveYourSocialSkills.htm?isfa=1

Fyi..

...that went well.

[Silentness!]

http://lifestyle.sympatico.msn.ca/How+To+Improve+Your+Social+Skills/BodyandMind/TheSoko/articles/TS+HowToImproveYourSocialSkills.htm?isfa=1

Fyi..

...that went well.

thanks for the link

[Dark Geese]

Yes I'm serious about the 5 second interaction..when a girl is on the run or you are on the run let her know that you are busy and want to get to know her better and then make the exchange..I do it all the time.

About getting the deaf girl,

I practically pulled her away from her friends at the club and we got isolated, and then we danced a little bit and I found out she was deaf so I wrote on my hands what I wanted to say, and it was every bit a challenge as I was expecting..she kept touching my body telling me how muscular I was and shit and so as I was dancing with her I teased her by smelling her hair, she liked it so I kept teasing her then pulling away..next thing I know we are in her car kissing and practically having sex while I figured out one thing-

The language of sex is the same..lol..in all languages..even sign language..but how to connect with her and get to know her better is the challenge...

[kaka]

I've said this before, but calling right away shows you have NO self-control or patience. Plus its extremely predictable. Only needy and clingy wusses do that shit.

If you're gonna call her right away, you might as well get on one bended knee and show her the ring.

Plus, if she DOESN'T like the fact that you do have self-control by waiting, then either she has low interest level or is hella structured. There is always more fish in the sea.:arazz:


Im talking about if you wait 2 or 3 days to call her back. besides some women think that not calling her back at least the same day she gave you the number shows that you timid and not really exp. enough or that u are not interested in her. Be a man and step up to the plate.

[Silentness!]

lol if she's really interested, she wont give a shit when you call her back.

"I had a blast talking with you.... so what time should I call you tomorrow?" BAM done deal...

Good shit DG. Sucks she's deaf, but I believe you can make it work.

[kaka]

there is one thing ive always wondered - is why dont attractive women have any self confidence? i know it sounds weird but its true. Maybe the stuck up ones act the way they do to cover it up?

[Dark Geese]

Yes they are self-conscious and always seeking approval so thats how you not giving her too much approval wins her over...

At the strip club I read not to touch a stripper..well I didnt touch them all night and it worked to my advantage because they were begging me to touch them..and when I did they were stroking me practically lol..

[JackTenrac!]

thanks for the link

Thank me when it has deemed helpful. Also, the writer's website. Claims he's the ultimate gent:

http://www.thesoko.com/thesoko/

...that went well.

[kaka]

btw you know the street fighter movie, with van damme in it? what is the name of that actress that played chun-li?

[Havoc]

What the fuck. We got dudes reading up on how to bag strippers? What part of the game's that?

Koop, close thread. It was entertaining while it lasted, but this shit is retarded.

[Dark Geese]

Thats the part of The Game that Mystery says "How to be with a stripper." He gives out the rules..I made sure and bookmarked it..so it is in there hahaha.

You missed it? I can even link you to the page! :rofl:

[Silentness!]

Honestly after reading "The Game" it hasn't done shit for me.

It seems like a pile of bullshit that only tricks people. Only guy I like is Juggler and that's because he basically teaches people to be natural and not use retarded openers/techniques.

I'd really wouldn't want to seduce/go out with a stripper.

@Havoc this thread may be retarded, but it is still interesting...

[Dark Geese]

See but at least you appreciate it now..I say people need to read it so it can ope their minds..

I use The Game to help me find out what works for me..It aint my Bible by all means..I use it to try new things..and find out what works for me...

Some people need their minds opened because they believe being the nice guy wins...

Nope..

[TheSix]

Ya know, sometimes girls just giveaway their numbers to any guy that wants it. Some girls just get hassled by too many guys, and they just fling a number at them just to leave em along. Just cause you got her number doesn't immediately mean that she's interested in you.


The way I close, I only get real numbers. I know when/if they are interested before the interaction is over. Whether they flake or not is something else, but I have a pretty high day2 rate.

(which I can never follow up on sadly)

since you seem to be the only active person posting in this thread... I need some help/advice.

I see a girl that is walking in the opposite direction towards me. How could I initiate a conversation without looking like a stalker?

I have never had a opinion opener, question, or anything indirect work in this situation. They either ignore me, give a quick answer while walking away, or just simply keep walking.

The only way I can get them to stop in this situation is to:

A) Go 100% direct. "I like you/you're cute/I want to fuck you" (maybe not that last one). It has to be something that will stop her in her tracks. This works best for me.

B) Play the mirror image game. You know when you are trying to get past someone, but they keep stepping to the same side as you? Get's annoying right? Do this. But make it blatantly obvious that you are doing it on purpose. When she/they look like they are about to say something, say "I know you're gonna miss me, but I can't do this all day" (be creative)

Smile. Be prepared for some "MOVES!" or "GTFO!"

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This stripper shit is kind of retarded. Why would you want to "Game" a stripper is beyond me. :confused:

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I have never read The Game outside of glances at the bookstore. Mainly because it's $30(too many greater free resources online). I was never a fan of style's methods. What's strange is I'll be in the middle of a approach in borders, and just about each time I will walk by or see The Game. Like a wierd omen.

[Silentness!]

B) Play the mirror image game. You know when you are trying to get past someone, but they keep stepping to the same side as you? Get's annoying right? Do this. But make it blatantly obvious that you are doing it on purpose. When she/they look like they are about to say something, say "I know you're gonna miss me, but I can't do this all day" (be creative)



haha that's awesome... I might get kicked in the nuts, but I might try that.

Another day of class...

*prays he doesn't run into any bitch shields*

[Silentness!]

I sat down with this blonde haired girl that was wearing glasses. (Trust me she didn't look like a nerd :wink: )
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I started off with telling her how cold it was outside. Then I joked with her about my hat saying my friend said it was green when it was really black. Then I asked her what her favorite color was (too corny of a question?): She responded with "I don't have a favorite color, but I'd have to say neon green." Then she asked what my major was bla bla (computer science btw) told her it was boring (Because it is!) She laughed while asking me why I picked it. Hers was Biology so I asked her about biology and we talked about our teachers... (bla bla bla)

I did Juggler's "watch my stuff" routine as I went to go check the time. (I need to get a new watch + I forgot my cell) I said it a little too fast so she probably didn't understand me completely. Anyways I found out some basic info about her like she doesn't like golf/transferred here from a different college.
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Positives: She laughed at my jokes
She asked me some questions randomly during the silent periods.

Negatives: I didn't have enough material to use with her.
She spent more time reading than talking to me.
I didn't ask for her number because I didn't see any IOIs etc. (She didn't even ask for my name)

Conclusion: Overall I think I did decent. I was confident and talked with a firm voice, but I did speed my voice up during Juggler's "watch my stuff" stuff routine. She didn't throw any bricks at me and was really nice to me and even said good bye as she left for class.

Surprise surprise... today I saw the same blonde chick at the same time frame as last Wednesday. (Damn she's hotter than I last saw her... she's a definite 10.) If I had a digital camera I'd be posting the pictures on SRK/wacking off to the pics every night. Too much information, but yeah...

Anyways I think I have a shot at going out with her. She was excited to see me again so I smiled at her and asked about her weekend.

Her: It was ok I didn't really do anything.
Me: What ahh come on you didn't do anything exciting?
Her: Well I babysit my cousin for 5 days out of the week. I did it last Saturday matter of fact. She's one years old. What did you do during your weekend?
Me: (grinning) I lifted weights! (She fucking negged me...)
Her: I bet that didn't go to well (laughing) <--- damn neg.
Me: pfft I'm great at lifting weights... ok you're right I'm still working on getting past the bar.
Her: WHAT? I don't believe you... I can lift the bar easily.
Me: The bar in my garage weights about 50 lbs.
Her: NUH UH. (x200 times while laughing)
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Fuck I'm fixing to be late to my next class...

(TO BE CONTINUED) part 2 coming soon...

[Zero619]

For me I doing online dating.I works.... sometimes but i would like to increase my game a bit. lol

I am horrified to try and talk to a lady that I pass on the street or met i the Subway, because it hardly works and it make the girls think that Im a stalker or rapist or something. For the guys who get girls by talk to them on the street/subway, more power to you.

[Silentness!]

For me I doing online dating.I works.... sometimes but i would like to increase my game a bit. lol

I am horrified to try and talk to a lady that I pass on the street or met i the Subway, because it hardly works and it make the girls think that Im a stalker or rapist or something. For the guys who get girls by talk to them on the street/subway, more power to you.

I use my surroundings so I don't look like a stalker.

"Damn it's windy outside and this subway is always packed! So how was your day (sincere smile)?" See it's a quick subtle opener. (If you whisper it/don't show confidence THEN you will look like a stalker)
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Part 2 of that blonde chick: I think I can ask her out...

*I sat next to her. She showed me her school assignment and told me all about it. (the first day she barely talked. I must have opened her up cause she seemed shy at first)

*She would randomly ask me questions during the silent sessions as I'm studying. She laughs at pretty much everything I say/do. I sometimes stumble on my words/talk too fast so I use a lot of body language to make up for it. (She thought it was funny when I was making a bench pressing motion.)

*She asked when my next class was. I told her that I had to go by Office Depot before class to get some computer paper.

Her: Don't buy computer paper. Just take some from the school computer labs.
Me: WTF... steal some paper!?