The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Koop]

"nicca edit" made me lol...

im going on 8 months now haha, damn i might have to do something about this soon, cause it is starting to bother me...

also the 10 day period thing, thats interesting...i had some friends who just fucked through the period...my ex would get all horny during her period, so id just finger her and get some head...plus 10 days is kinda long...prolly like 7 days during my time but i would still get some during it...

im outi

Roberth

playa... i do the 10 day... no sex... gettin some head is obvious an i really dont count that.... i dont do it cause:

prior to the period... the moody ness plus cramps is like the cr FP of non booty for you... so tryin is off the books

during the period... she may be horny... but ive had some horror stories an fucked up cotton towels:crybaby::crybaby::crybaby:.....

afterward (a couple of days)... everything is sensitive an 'recovering' an i remember my horny azz leavin my shorty pissed cause when she wanted the slow/easy mode.... i was on my porno mode... not a good mood after i was finished... felt like i raped my woman:rofl:

so im my own way... i just chill... take my head an thats it. i make up for the 'lost' time soon as the grace period is finished... trust an believe it playboy. see im mellow now... durin my jack rabbit fuccin days... i wouldnt have to worry bout the 10 grace period cause i side pussy for a box of popeye all over town... so no problem... now the baton is in yall hands so yall should be in the boat i WAS in... cause im chillin an gettin some head while watchin family guy is 100% great...

[BBQ]

I just want to post this for you guys:

I have a friend that has a history of addiction of different drugs. Went to rehab twice, and recently have been clean for the most part. 7 or so months ago he starts dating this girl that is a cousin or sister of this other girl that a few of my friends know and others that hung out with her and her friends. Anyway, Ashley, the girl that is dating my friend is 18 and most of the time is fucking crazy. She talks behind people's backs, flirts with her boyfriend's friends, thinks she's the hottest peice of ass out there, sheltered, and the worst attribute of them all, she completely dominates her boyfriend. Oh and she also went to rehab for doing a shitton of extacy. She pretty much hates me and the last few times I saw her, she insulted me many times, lots of subtle insults that I wasn't really aware because I was high as fuck but have remembered or one of my buddies told me.

This bitch is so good at taking advantage of my friend that she has him by the balls. I guess his brother, who is also a friend of mine, told me that he becomes very submissive when it comes to relationships. So it only takes a girl that is controlling to completely brain wash the poor guy. Last year this dude was super cool to hang out with, always had some bud, and was down to earth. Now he reminds me of a zombie, seems like he's lost touch with reality and a few days ago when he was at his brother's apartment for his brother's girlfriend's birthday, he was almost anti social and was outside of the group of people that were there. It's not even like him to be like this at all. Anyway, so this bitch dominates his soul, and yesturday I was talking to his brother and he tells me that his brother is making plans on getting married in a few months and that, Ashley, the stupid bitch, is 1 month pregnant.
Blood in Blood out is the conclusion I've made for this guy, he's fucked.


I guess I wanted to share this with you guys is to point out that there can be some crazy bitches that will devour your soul. Though I can't blame her as my friend should of let her go the first sign that she is a control freak. But since he allows this shit to happen, there is no point on helping him at all besides maybe helping him with a noose

[Silentness!]

what is the longest you gone without sex (not counting all the years before your first time)...

im outi

Roberth

lol... I almost had period sex last weekend :wasted: I seriously need to chill on sex or I'm going to kill myself. :smokin:

[ninja_velmor]

^ 4-5 months for me. it was when i moved from buffalo to AZ for school, and my g/f wasnt with me yet

[Shotokan Symphony]

I just want to post this for you guys:

I have a friend that has a history of addiction of different drugs. Went to rehab twice, and recently have been clean for the most part. 7 or so months ago he starts dating this girl that is a cousin or sister of this other girl that a few of my friends know and others that hung out with her and her friends. Anyway, Ashley, the girl that is dating my friend is 18 and most of the time is fucking crazy. She talks behind people's backs, flirts with her boyfriend's friends, thinks she's the hottest peice of ass out there, sheltered, and the worst attribute of them all, she completely dominates her boyfriend. Oh and she also went to rehab for doing a shitton of extacy. She pretty much hates me and the last few times I saw her, she insulted me many times, lots of subtle insults that I wasn't really aware because I was high as fuck but have remembered or one of my buddies told me.

This bitch is so good at taking advantage of my friend that she has him by the balls. I guess his brother, who is also a friend of mine, told me that he becomes very submissive when it comes to relationships. So it only takes a girl that is controlling to completely brain wash the poor guy. Last year this dude was super cool to hang out with, always had some bud, and was down to earth. Now he reminds me of a zombie, seems like he's lost touch with reality and a few days ago when he was at his brother's apartment for his brother's girlfriend's birthday, he was almost anti social and was outside of the group of people that were there. It's not even like him to be like this at all. Anyway, so this bitch dominates his soul, and yesturday I was talking to his brother and he tells me that his brother is making plans on getting married in a few months and that, Ashley, the stupid bitch, is 1 month pregnant.
Blood in Blood out is the conclusion I've made for this guy, he's fucked.


I guess I wanted to share this with you guys is to point out that there can be some crazy bitches that will devour your soul. Though I can't blame her as my friend should of let her go the first sign that she is a control freak. But since he allows this shit to happen, there is no point on helping him at all besides maybe helping him with a noose

Let him know that NOW is the time to walk out, and that, given the situation, he HAS to. Does he have a job that can support the kid, nevermind the cow that'll spawn it?

He has to face squarely with the fact that a) he just got out of rehab and is still recovering, and b) he's involved with someone who doesn't have his best interests at heart. Get your circle of buddies and confront him NOW before he becomes another statistic.

[Havoc]

Umm.. the bitch is already pregnant. Dude can't just leave now. The time to leave was a month and a half ago. Walking out on your kid because you're not ready to handle it is never the right move.

[Mr. Mamation]

lol... I almost had period sex last weekend :wasted: I seriously need to chill on sex or I'm going to kill myself. :smokin:
How do you almost have period sex? Or do you mean you almost had sex with a vergin?

[Silentness!]

How do you almost have period sex?

Foreplay gone too far

[RockBogart]

No advice about the loss of swagger?

[TornadoFlame]

No advice about the loss of swagger?

Go to Have A Nice Day on Wednesday. You'll get it back, I promise. :tup:

[thurst]

pffft, let me end up gettig some bitch pregnant and i'll be leaving on a jet plane, and she won't know when i'll be back again!

[Mr. Mamation]

pffft, let me end up gettig some bitch pregnant and i'll be leaving on a jet plane, and she won't know when i'll be back again!
I hope your not rawdoggin

[Stuckey]

No advice about the loss of swagger?

What do you mean by loss of "swagger" exactly? What's the problem? I'm confused like Young Buck crying on the phone to 50 Cent.

[cain[e]]

Foreplay gone too far

Nothing wrong with it if your shit's wrapped up. A little blood never bothered me.

[Warpticon]

pffft, let me end up gettig some bitch pregnant and i'll be leaving on a jet plane, and she won't know when i'll be back again!

Better keep your dick sealed in package, then.

[RockBogart]

Go to Have A Nice Day on Wednesday. You'll get it back, I promise. :tup:


Cant, go this Wednesday to due to work. But Tiki Bob's should be popping tonight.


Anyways I don't know if its necessarily loss of swagger but I just seem less motivated to play "the game" day and day out. I have never held a normal, steady relationship with any woman. But I would never take any of the bitches I have ever met to meet my parents.

[fistoftheryustar]

^ Im definitely "not in my prime" either. Im still young so it shouldnt be that way. But I remember I used to just walk up to girls and talk to them and flirt, without thinking. Now before going up to them theres alot of what ifs, just like a normal dude. Nothing to be proud of.

[Koop]

Cant, go this Wednesday to due to work. But Tiki Bob's should be popping tonight.


Anyways I don't know if its necessarily loss of swagger but I just seem less motivated to play "the game" day and day out. I have never held a normal, steady relationship with any woman. But I would never take any of the bitches I have ever met to meet my parents.

first... stop saying swagger. i hate the fuccin word these kids in this new generation want to say cause a lot of it is 'acting to play the part'

you ultimately u have no interest to in settling down nor getting into the mold of strong building relationship

you want to dip an play an enjoy yourself. understood. everyone goes thru that.... also having a broad meet the parents is something SPECIAL an it should be a woman that you trust, care for, an will respect not only your but your family!!!

HAVE FUN AND DONT TRIP OFF IT!!!! its just a phase. u don't need to inform mom an dad... but you need to inform the 'homies' an fam that is close (cousins..etc.) cause you ALWAYS should have someone that knows of the broads your messing with...ALWAYS. shyt happens an if something happens to you an no one knows the broad u messin wit... trouble abound playboi!!!

[cain[e]]

I fucking hate when I am with a girl and someone from my family knows/finds out. Then I have the whole fucking family (immediate and extended) asking when they are gunna meet the damn girl. Fuck that shit. Annoys the fucking hell out of me (/rant)

[Biolink]

;5481306']I fucking hate when I am with a girl and someone from my family knows/finds out. Then I have the whole fucking family (immediate and extended) asking when they are gunna meet the damn girl. Fuck that shit. Annoys the fucking hell out of me (/rant)

For real man.

Bad enough that a lot of the Women in my family are the jealous type that will talk shit behind your Girl's back for no reason at all. I'll let you meet her at my own pace, but until then chill out.

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

yeah my sis does that. shes on that jealous shit.

[Shotokan Symphony]

Umm.. the bitch is already pregnant. Dude can't just leave now. The time to leave was a month and a half ago. Walking out on your kid because you're not ready to handle it is never the right move.

Bullshit. They can still abort, because neither of them are fucking ready for raising a kid. Fuck manning up if it will result in repressing anger. That has led to bad shit in the news. If they end up becoming better people in the process of raising a kid, they are literally one in a fucking million, and I'm willing to bet he'll lose if he plays those odds while under some malignant bitch's control.

[Biolink]

There's this hot Latino chica in my class.

Only problem is, she's talking to this Latino guy. Dude isn't special looks wise, he's pretty fat, but he dresses pretty clean.

Don't know if they are friends just because they are Spanish or what, but I can see where it is going. Dude must be thinking the same thing as me. Anyway I can cockblock this guy? I haven;'t even said something to the girl yet btw.

[Havoc]

You're not cock blocking by stepping in.

You're just getting yours. As long as you don't mention him, and throw salt on his shit, how is it a cock block? You don't even know dude like that.

[Biolink]

Haha.

Should have said how can I one up this nigga then?

I feel slightly out of my Element. In Chicago with all of my friends around this was a lot easier.

[DuckHole]

Hmm maybe start with hi my name is ...

[MOD]

I've got some kind of dilemma

My girl and I have been goin out for some months now. And I really like this chick, which is kind of different for me. Usually I don't feel the need to hang out with them.

But recently shes been busy as fuck. I mean seriously fucking busy. Given she is japanese and works from like 8 to 9 almost everyday. but in the last 6 weeks I've seen her 2 times. and before that was like 1 time a week, 2 times at most. And tonight she said she went to have dinner with her friend(girl) in yokohama. I mean basically i've had enough of this shit. But every time i talk to her i feel all the reasons i like her, and when we do spend time its good.

So my question is to people who know better than me, should my bullshit-o-meter be goin off right now. Should i think this chick is player. She actually has alot of reasons to be busy as shit though, and i can understand where shes comming from.

And before anyone comes up with the "did you try talking to her about it" deal, i did. But it seems like everytime i try to tell her that i want to spend more time with her, she agrees, but then never follows through.

Maybe im just crazy as shit. So is it ultimatum time, or wait and see some more?

[Shotokan Symphony]

If there are reasons that she's busy, she's got a good alibi. It's a tough call, honestly. Can you see her at work during her break?

[Biolink]

I think the BS meter should be alerted, but you shouldn't do anything drastic.

More than likely she really is just busy, but if you honestly feel the need, you shouldn't let your guard down.

Could be one of those Japanese cultural thing's where they have increased her work load, since if you work in the Japanese work force it's pretty much expected that you put extra work in.

[Havoc]

Just as a note: It's never ultimatum time, IMO. Nothing good ever comes from that.

[Shotokan Symphony]

Just as a note: It's never ultimatum time, IMO. Nothing good ever comes from that.

Agreed. Delivering an ultimatum will only make already tense feelings worse. Try seeing her at work during her break. Chances are that you'll be able to tell right away if she's pulling something or not. If she sees you bringing her lunch on her break, she'll greatly appreciate it, and make the most out of your break. Keep an eye on Japanese holidays, and see if you can persuade her to have some time off.
If she isn't receptive to any of this, just tell her it's not working out, and move on. Sucks, but you have to pay attention to your own needs.

[fistoftheryustar]

ultimatuums are often brought up by ppl feeling like their losing power.or a desperation. definitely doesnt give you an aloof, not caring look. like ur wayy too into the outcome

[Havoc]

Yeah, a straight break-up is way better than an ultimatum.

It delivers the exact same point. And you don't come off like a bitch, or even that much of a jack-ass.

If the other person cares enough, they'll change... if not, they won't, and it's over with.

[locoghoul]

There's this hot Latino chica in my class.

Only problem is, she's talking to this Latino guy. Dude isn't special looks wise, he's pretty fat, but he dresses pretty clean.

Don't know if they are friends just because they are Spanish or what, but I can see where it is going. Dude must be thinking the same thing as me. Anyway I can cockblock this guy? I haven;'t even said something to the girl yet btw.

First of all, pics. Seriously.

Second, as a latino myself i'd say that yeah she is talking to him mainly because he is also latin. If you haven't said anything to her go and see what happens. Just show yourself friendly. Most latins won't socialize with americans because they feel they can't trust them. You could start being friends (a good friend) and you'll see what happens next.

[MOD]

Good advice people

We'll see where it goes then.

Not exactly ultimatum straight up per say but pointing toward the direction of, if we don't spend time with each other more, I'm not in this type of deal. because thats pretty much how i feel, but to me thats sounds ultimatumish. So i dont say that.

Japanese or not, there are other chicks out here in Tokyo with plenty of fucking time that can be made, I know because i've got friends with girlfriends here. It might sound selfish on my part to expect more, but seriously, 1 time out of 2 weeks? I've had Japanese girlfriends before and even that is extreme. Its like i live 3 states away from her or something, except i don't.

Ninja Edit: straight break up is good, but devastating to them. Not sure what to say there. Not really wanting to break up with her though. not yet anyways.

[DuckHole]

Wow latinas and latinos don't trust the white man? What are they afraid of?

[thurst]

Most latins won't socialize with americans because they feel they can't trust them. You could start being friends (a good friend) and you'll see what happens next.

i don't find that true at all, unless you're referring to latinos from a specific country or something.

[The Epidemic]

^and even then, it aint true lol...
its all about attraction..nothing else.

[blackstar14]

Haha.

Should have said how can I one up this nigga then?

I feel slightly out of my Element. In Chicago with all of my friends around this was a lot easier.

I think were both freshman in college now aren't we? Yea, just from being around the friends I had in my hometown, I've learned just go for it. Just a friendly whats up can lead to a conversation if she's interested. And even if not, just keep pressing it. UMBC is like an exotic toystore btw. I'm loving it so far

[locoghoul]

Wow latinas and latinos don't trust the white man? What are they afraid of?

lol, it's a cultural thing. It's kinda like when black ppl get pulled over on the highway for no reason (just because they are black).

Latin ppl are usually very open and tend to bond really fast. Like if two latins just met they would probably give handshakes, kisses or hugs afterwards even if the other person was a total stranger 5 mins ago. White ppl is "colder" than latins so most latins think its kinda weird to trust someone if they aren't that open. That's also the reason why most latin would look for other latins, because they know that they can already start sharing stuff right away.

[berserkotaku45]

i was wondering if i could get some advice on this situtation i'm in. basically heres the deal.

I've been friends with this girl for about 5 years and we've always been really close. We think the same, talk the same, into the same shit etc. There was always an attraction there, between me and her but, i was seeing someone and she was seeing someone( who also became my friend).

well about a month ago, after coming home from pittsburgh (single) me, her, her b/f and her roommate all went out to eat. we got back to her place at like 12, her b/f was sick and went to sleep so did her roommate so me and her just stayed up and talked until like 6 in the morning. Than she layed her head on my shoulder and we just sat there for a min like that. Than she said i think you should go, so i did and since then its just been really weird.

I can honestly say that i love this girl, but i don't know what to do. i don't know if i should just hang back and hope she comes around and maybe we can atleast still be friends or should i try to win her over.

[Shotokan Symphony]

I can honestly say that i love this girl, but i don't know what to do. i don't know if i should just hang back and hope she comes around and maybe we can atleast still be friends or should i try to win her over.

run away. FAR away. if the girl is telling you to leave, it means she's loyal to her man, and stopped herself before she took it further. Best to cut your losses. And while you're not the only one who does this, PLEASE stop throwing the word "love" so easily.

[pherai]

Yeah man, you missed your chance long ago. Cut and run buddy.

[AzN_Skater]

i was wondering if i could get some advice on this situtation i'm in. basically heres the deal.

I've been friends with this girl for about 5 years and we've always been really close. We think the same, talk the same, into the same shit etc. There was always an attraction there, between me and her but, i was seeing someone and she was seeing someone( who also became my friend).

well about a month ago, after coming home from pittsburgh (single) me, her, her b/f and her roommate all went out to eat. we got back to her place at like 12, her b/f was sick and went to sleep so did her roommate so me and her just stayed up and talked until like 6 in the morning. Than she layed her head on my shoulder and we just sat there for a min like that. Than she said i think you should go, so i did and since then its just been really weird.

I can honestly say that i love this girl, but i don't know what to do. i don't know if i should just hang back and hope she comes around and maybe we can atleast still be friends or should i try to win her over.

Yah, I agree, get out of there. She is clearly torn but is still on the loyal side to her current BF. Don't put too much stock in what happened because, really, nothing happened. If you really want, hang around, but I wouldn't put too much faith in her "coming around" and wanting to date you. There's got to be a reason she isn't already dating you and you don't want to put your love life on hold because of some delusional false hope.

Trust me, I know what you are talking about because I've been there, done that. Don't make the same mistake I did.

[berserkotaku45]

thanks guys, i think you're right

[Romfinite]

Women are like rubiks cubes, you figure out one part of the puzzle but you still have the rest to figure out

[DuckHole]

Hmm why would you guys stop talking after something like that? Its not like you banged her infront of her sleeping boyfriend. Are you not telling us everything. What did you talk about?

[DarkNecrid]

Don't throw away a 5 year friendship because things got weird, but make sure to keep your intentions as just friends.

Don't try to break them up or any other dumb shit, but just make sure you remain friends. The tough part is making sure she knows you're there for her, but not just because you "love" her, and if she does something like that again, you have to play your cards carefully (because if you back away she might think you hate her or something, just play it depending how she acts, and don't ever let it go to something else).

It's tough but it's not something worth losing a 5 year friendship over. Relationships (dating or not...) take work from both sides, and I'd say a 5 year friendship is worth working for, and she probably thinks the same but isn't sure how to approach it. Don't be very strong or excessively forward if you do have to talk about it, just be calm, make sure to never make it about how much you "love her", and if she says it was weird or something akin to that, make absolutely sure you say sorry and you should have backed away etc, and that you want to be there for her (but make sure to say this in a way that doesn't imply you mean it romantically). If you do say this kind of stuff tho, you have to be sure you do back away if she does it again (to prove you keep to your word.).

I could probably go on for a page now, but it's really all just about making sure she knows you are there for her as a friend first, and that your friendship is worth keeping above all else and you can talk about it straight up. If the boyfriend thing doesn't pan out, then you can make your move, but until then keep your hormones in check brah and play it cool.

[Biolink]

First of all, pics. Seriously.

Second, as a latino myself i'd say that yeah she is talking to him mainly because he is also latin. If you haven't said anything to her go and see what happens. Just show yourself friendly. Most latins won't socialize with americans because they feel they can't trust them. You could start being friends (a good friend) and you'll see what happens next.

Lol. You trying to get me arrested?

Her names Sylvia Vargas(Not 100% sure on the last name).

Shit man. If I could turn off the shutter noise on my phone I'd take a pic.

But that's pretty weird though. Shit they American's as well.

I'm Black btw. Light skinned black guy though. Probably no difference to them, but bleh.

[Biolink]

I think were both freshman in college now aren't we? Yea, just from being around the friends I had in my hometown, I've learned just go for it. Just a friendly whats up can lead to a conversation if she's interested. And even if not, just keep pressing it. UMBC is like an exotic toystore btw. I'm loving it so far

Yeah man same here. You can find everybody out here

It'd suck to get turned away though :crybaby:

[CoolWater]

I have a dilema.

It's been three months now since I talked to this chick I really clicked with at the gym,b ut who blew me off for some ol bullshit that I still, to this day, don't understand:
SHOULD I:
1: Just say "fuck it" and not give a camn cause I'm not responsible for her insecurities or....
2: Should I apologize in a way whemre theres hope for forgiveness (i.e. bitch out)...
3: Should I apologize to her, with only the intention of clearing my soul of the burden of guilt?

Im going for 3 because, although I still like her, she used me because she couldnt resolve her own insecurities, she is a human being and deserves at least to hear a sincere apology. More so, I honestly don't know how it happened, but she was really hurt and it opened old wounds. Why the hell is it that when I actually show genuine concern for a woman, I end up feeling like a used wad of toilet paper?

[Warpticon]

I have a dilema.

It's been three months now since I talked to this chick I really clicked with at the gym,b ut who blew me off for some ol bullshit that I still, to this day, don't understand:
SHOULD I:
1: Just say "fuck it" and not give a camn cause I'm not responsible for her insecurities or....
2: Should I apologize in a way whemre theres hope for forgiveness (i.e. bitch out)...
3: Should I apologize to her, with only the intention of clearing my soul of the burden of guilt?

Im going for 3 because, although I still like her, she used me because she couldnt resolve her own insecurities, she is a human being and deserves at least to hear a sincere apology. More so, I honestly don't know how it happened, but she was really hurt and it opened old wounds. Why the hell is it that when I actually show genuine concern for a woman, I end up feeling like a used wad of toilet paper?

Uh, apologize for WHAT?

[Shotokan Symphony]

I have a dilema.

It's been three months now since I talked to this chick I really clicked with at the gym,b ut who blew me off for some ol bullshit that I still, to this day, don't understand:
SHOULD I:
1: Just say "fuck it" and not give a camn cause I'm not responsible for her insecurities or....
2: Should I apologize in a way whemre theres hope for forgiveness (i.e. bitch out)...
3: Should I apologize to her, with only the intention of clearing my soul of the burden of guilt?

Im going for 3 because, although I still like her, she used me because she couldnt resolve her own insecurities, she is a human being and deserves at least to hear a sincere apology. More so, I honestly don't know how it happened, but she was really hurt and it opened old wounds. Why the hell is it that when I actually show genuine concern for a woman, I end up feeling like a used wad of toilet paper?

The fuck is wrong with you?

[AzN_Skater]

I have a dilema.

It's been three months now since I talked to this chick I really clicked with at the gym,b ut who blew me off for some ol bullshit that I still, to this day, don't understand:
SHOULD I:
1: Just say "fuck it" and not give a camn cause I'm not responsible for her insecurities or....
2: Should I apologize in a way whemre theres hope for forgiveness (i.e. bitch out)...
3: Should I apologize to her, with only the intention of clearing my soul of the burden of guilt?

Im going for 3 because, although I still like her, she used me because she couldnt resolve her own insecurities, she is a human being and deserves at least to hear a sincere apology. More so, I honestly don't know how it happened, but she was really hurt and it opened old wounds. Why the hell is it that when I actually show genuine concern for a woman, I end up feeling like a used wad of toilet paper?

Uhhhh what? How is any of it your fault? :looney:

[pherai]

I have a dilema.

It's been three months now since I talked to this chick I really clicked with at the gym,b ut who blew me off for some ol bullshit that I still, to this day, don't understand:
SHOULD I:
1: Just say "fuck it" and not give a camn cause I'm not responsible for her insecurities or....
2: Should I apologize in a way whemre theres hope for forgiveness (i.e. bitch out)...
3: Should I apologize to her, with only the intention of clearing my soul of the burden of guilt?

Im going for 3 because, although I still like her, she used me because she couldnt resolve her own insecurities, she is a human being and deserves at least to hear a sincere apology. More so, I honestly don't know how it happened, but she was really hurt and it opened old wounds. Why the hell is it that when I actually show genuine concern for a woman, I end up feeling like a used wad of toilet paper?

I too want to quote this whole thing and say "What the fuck??"

[Warpticon]

Four replies, and all of us are dead confused. :lol:

[tech master]

dear srk. in 1st grade, when the gushers fruit snack had first come out, the girl who had the cubby next to me flirted with me and so i gave her my gushers. after i gave her the gushers, she no longer talked to me.

what should i do?

1. should i buy myself a bunch of gushers to feel better about the incident.
2. call the girl and offer her some more gushers with hope of getting her attention
3. make it rain gushers in her house, but not expect no pussy cuz im just gush-ballin like dat.

[Warpticon]

3. make it rain gushers in her house, but not expect no pussy cuz im just gush-ballin like dat.

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: My roommates just asked me what was wrong since I was laughing so hard at that. gush-ballin!

[pherai]

:rofl::rofl:

Please make it rain gushers in my house. Fuck, gush-ballin :rofl:

[tech master]

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: My roommates just asked me what was wrong since I was laughing so hard at that. gush-ballin!

:lovin:

:rofl::rofl:

Please make it rain gushers in my house. Fuck, gush-ballin :rofl:

silly boy, you have to flirt with me first!:hitit:

[berserkotaku45]

Don't throw away a 5 year friendship because things got weird, but make sure to keep your intentions as just friends.

Don't try to break them up or any other dumb shit, but just make sure you remain friends. The tough part is making sure she knows you're there for her, but not just because you "love" her, and if she does something like that again, you have to play your cards carefully (because if you back away she might think you hate her or something, just play it depending how she acts, and don't ever let it go to something else).

It's tough but it's not something worth losing a 5 year friendship over. Relationships (dating or not...) take work from both sides, and I'd say a 5 year friendship is worth working for, and she probably thinks the same but isn't sure how to approach it. Don't be very strong or excessively forward if you do have to talk about it, just be calm, make sure to never make it about how much you "love her", and if she says it was weird or something akin to that, make absolutely sure you say sorry and you should have backed away etc, and that you want to be there for her (but make sure to say this in a way that doesn't imply you mean it romantically). If you do say this kind of stuff tho, you have to be sure you do back away if she does it again (to prove you keep to your word.).

I could probably go on for a page now, but it's really all just about making sure she knows you are there for her as a friend first, and that your friendship is worth keeping above all else and you can talk about it straight up. If the boyfriend thing doesn't pan out, then you can make your move, but until then keep your hormones in check brah and play it cool.

Thats the best advice that anyone has given me on this. I think i'll just tell her that i know what happened was weird but i don;t want to throw a five year friendship away for basically nothing.

[AzN_Skater]

Thats the best advice that anyone has given me on this. I think i'll just tell her that i know what happened was weird but i don;t want to throw a five year friendship away for basically nothing.

Check your pm.

[w1r3d]

you don't want to put your love life on hold because of some delusional false hope.

this.

[Zatalcon]

you guys ever had that regret feeling for some girl you used to be very close with but you never took the chance to actually venture further with her, and at the present day when you haven't heard nor saw from her for a time you had a relationship with the wrong girl you wonder and ask yourself why the fuck didn't i go for it? It kinda fucks me up right now. I remember being close friends with one of the hottest girls in my school, we used to chill and call each other allot but i lost interest in her because of the fact that tons of guys where trying to approach her. I then went for a different girl, who we all know what happened. Now i look back and ask myself, what the fuck was wrong with me.

shit.. sometimes a man's ego can fuck shit up eh.

[Darklightjg1]

Women are like rubiks cubes, you figure out one part of the puzzle but you still have the rest to figure out

You can actually solve a rubik's cube though.

The women I run into are more like rubiks' cubes with the colors on it constantly changing.

[pherai]

Thats the best advice that anyone has given me on this. I think i'll just tell her that i know what happened was weird but i don;t want to throw a five year friendship away for basically nothing.

Just make sure the idea of not throwing away a friendship isn't you really just clinging to the hope that you'll get her.

[Silentness!]

;5481306']I fucking hate when I am with a girl and someone from my family knows/finds out. Then I have the whole fucking family (immediate and extended) asking when they are gunna meet the damn girl. Fuck that shit. Annoys the fucking hell out of me (/rant)

My EX wanted me to talk to her mom once on the phone... she doesn't speak a lick of English. So it was interesting results to say the least...

[AzN_Skater]

Just make sure the idea of not throwing away a friendship isn't you really just clinging to the hope that you'll get her.

This. That false hope shit manifests itself all sorts of ways and your mind will find anyway it can to rationalize it.

[VashKing]

Just wondering- is the first thread archived somewhere, or is it gone forever?

agreed,the longest thread with actual conversations....lol

[DarkNecrid]

Thats the best advice that anyone has given me on this. I think i'll just tell her that i know what happened was weird but i don;t want to throw a five year friendship away for basically nothing.

IDK what the guy PM'd you, and I hope you haven't made a move yet, but:

-Don't say to her that you "know it was weird." in fact, don't bring up the word weird at all. Don't even bring it up unless if she does first. If you say that you know it was weird, she'll think she weirded you out or creeped you out and feel hella guilty and terrible and that is bad.

-Don't even bring up the throw away friendship either. She'll think you think that she was going to end the friendship = bad.

Just say something along the lines of (if you have to say anything, you really shouldn't have to say anything first...) "I'm glad that we're such good friends" somewhere in normal conversation where it won't stand out of place. It makes your intentions clear (friendship and you're happy to have that with her above all else), while not locking you into it should her relationship turn out wrong.

If she makes a move on it, you'll have to react to it from there. The key to that is making it not seem like she is harmed you in any way with what she did, while not making it seem like you enjoyed it either. You have to basically say it was no big deal, whatever, and that you are happy to have her as a friend, and move on away from that (change the subject soon after, smoothly.).

If she doesn't say anything but the situation still seems weird after say, a couple days or a week, then be a little more direct, ask her what is up, and sit down and talk it out straight up. (Make sure to never make it seem like you blame her or anything and again make it more of a "blowing it off, no big deal, look I am glad to have you as a friend you are a really great friend..." type of deal.

The key is making sure you can keep things going without escalating it towards a "it was possibly freaky" or "i love you" type of deal. Both of those can very easily make her run away pretty quickly, even if she wants to keep the friendship going. It's really hard to put this into the words, but basically play it chill and be open and go along with her. If she confronts you, then react to that. If she doesn't confront you and things are normal, do nothing. If she doesn't confront you, but things are shakey, be a little bit more forward, open, and understanding and try to talk it out with her. If you do try to talk it out with her, make sure to not do it in a public place. Just ask her if you and her could talk privately in her house or whatever. In this kind of situation it's pretty bad for you to make the first move because you have no idea what she is thinking and you have a bigger chance of screwing stuff up than just letting her react. Make sure to give her about 3-4 days if she doesn't react though, she might need to gather her thoughts and just think on it.

Again, make sure to make it not seem like you're just hanging around "waiting" for her and her bf to break up. Make sure to still do lots of FRIEND STUFF. If you go to the movies or dinner, you better be making sure it is AS A FRIEND and don't do anything vaguely romantic. Don't be clingy!

[w1r3d]

My EX wanted me to talk to her mom once on the phone... she doesn't speak a lick of English. So it was interesting results to say the least...

hahaha! do tell

[forgenjuro]

I have a dilema.

It's been three months now since I talked to this chick I really clicked with at the gym,b ut who blew me off for some ol bullshit that I still, to this day, don't understand:
SHOULD I:
1: Just say "fuck it" and not give a camn cause I'm not responsible for her insecurities or....
2: Should I apologize in a way whemre theres hope for forgiveness (i.e. bitch out)...
3: Should I apologize to her, with only the intention of clearing my soul of the burden of guilt?

Im going for 3 because, although I still like her, she used me because she couldnt resolve her own insecurities, she is a human being and deserves at least to hear a sincere apology. More so, I honestly don't know how it happened, but she was really hurt and it opened old wounds. Why the hell is it that when I actually show genuine concern for a woman, I end up feeling like a used wad of toilet paper?

sooo what happened to this guy?

hope he didnt kill himself over a few WTF comments on here.


maybe he couldnt take it and already went with 2 or 3 and he got shatted on again.

[Silentness!]

hahaha! do tell

I accidentally used informal Korean with her mom and it didn't turn out pretty. ROFL

Her mom was nice about it and she corrected me. I told her she was pretty and stuff in Korean. haha flirting with her mom. Not a single word of English was used the whole conversation

Her mom had a soothing voice like my own mom.

[Koop]

so i went in victoria secret to be nice an buy my lady a bra... my woman has boobs so i gotta find that right size or get cussed out. so im in the store doin my thing an this shorty rolls up an ask me if everything is ok... i said yeah but im looking for nice bra (an panties of course).... so she proceeds to TRY (please note) to guess my ladies size. now im amused at the fact ol girl is actually grabbing her breast... sadly those high b cups are no where near my womans C/D (she sits right on that fine line) so i put her down gently when i answered nah but those are nice... we share a giggle an shyt... so your wondering koop where the fuck are you goin wit this... well here for all my niccaz (yes you asians an white boyz are included when i say niccaz) whom have ladies in which you fall under the Girlfriend/Wife Tax clause™


so shorty starts point out all the bras an explaining how they pamper an comfort the boobies or allow them to present high boost or low boost ( the terminology of titty talk was amazing) or gel to massage the boobs thru the day an other shyt... so she leaves a brotha to be to make a decision..... now ive NEVER shopped for my lady outside the 5 for 25 pantie drawer (yall know what im talkin bout) an the perfumes an colognes....

do you muthafuccaz know when i opened the drawer to pull her size out the tags are on bras wit the price..... HOLY FUCCIN MOLY!!!! when in the fuck did bras cause 50-80 damn dollars an even higher??????????!!!!!!!?????!?!??!?!??!!!!!!

W....T.....F.... fuc dat shyt. love some titties but not that much. hot... damn.

as a fair warning to all my brothaz out there... keep ya asses in the FRONT of the store! do not wander back there. no fuccin wonder i rarely saw guys back there... the lights are dimmed for a reason n no wonder that girl had no problem grabbin her titties or her co workers titties... thats gotta be part commission for doin that shyt included in the price!! so fellas....5/25 panties... perfume... or gift card...THATS IT!!! no more dammit... save ya loot


an thats my vickky horror story for you all.... thank u

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

so i went in victoria secret to be nice an buy my lady a bra... my woman has boobs so i gotta find that right size or get cussed out. so im in the store doin my thing an this shorty rolls up an ask me if everything is ok... i said yeah but im looking for nice bra (an panties of course).... so she proceeds to TRY (please note) to guess my ladies size. now im amused at the fact ol girl is actually grabbing her breast... sadly those high b cups are no where near my womans C/D (she sits right on that fine line) so i put her down gently when i answered nah but those are nice... we share a giggle an shyt... so your wondering koop where the fuck are you goin wit this... well here for all my niccaz (yes you asians an white boyz are included when i say niccaz) whom have ladies in which you fall under the Girlfriend/Wife Tax clause™


so shorty starts point out all the bras an explaining how they pamper an comfort the boobies or allow them to present high boost or low boost ( the terminology of titty talk was amazing) or gel to massage the boobs thru the day an other shyt... so she leaves a brotha to be to make a decision..... now ive NEVER shopped for my lady outside the 5 for 25 pantie drawer (yall know what im talkin bout) an the perfumes an colognes....

do you muthafuccaz know when i opened the drawer to pull her size out the tags are on bras wit the price..... HOLY FUCCIN MOLY!!!! when in the fuck did bras cause 50-80 damn dollars an even higher??????????!!!!!!!?????!?!??!?!??!!!!!!

W....T.....F.... fuc dat shyt. love some titties but not that much. hot... damn.

as a fair warning to all my brothaz out there... keep ya asses in the FRONT of the store! do not wander back there. no fuccin wonder i rarely saw guys back there... the lights are dimmed for a reason n no wonder that girl had no problem grabbin her titties or her co workers titties... thats gotta be part commission for doin that shyt included in the price!! so fellas....5/25 panties... perfume... or gift card...THATS IT!!! no more dammit... save ya loot


an thats my vickky horror story for you all.... thank u


LOL, yup, we had the convo about how much I spent in the helzberg store....you dont even want to know the VS bill....I should own stock in that bitch

General rule I use when hitting up VS is their website. The prices (and options) are better than any store. :cool:

[w1r3d]

I accidentally used informal Korean with her mom and it didn't turn out pretty. ROFL

Her mom was nice about it and she corrected me. I told her she was pretty and stuff in Korean. haha flirting with her mom. Not a single word of English was used the whole conversation

Her mom had a soothing voice like my own mom.

Hehe, that's a pretty cool story actually. I mean, at least she was nice. =)


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What do you guys do when you ask for a number and the girl asks your number right back? I went to a salsa club last Friday and I guess got pretty "friendly" with one of the waitresses. She seemed interested, giving me buying signals (touching, etc) and laughing at my corny jokes (I know. Looking back, she was probably just doing her job). At one point she gave me a bottle of water (it's all I drink at salsa clubs) and told me it was on her. Well anyway, before I left I decided I had nothing to lose so I went up to her to ask for her number. Just so you have better details, I told her I appreciated the water, and that I'd like to get a cup of coffee with her sometime. As I was saying this, she asked me for my number. I motioned for her to write down her number, so she went to get a piece of paper. I told her to write the number, but she insisted on me writing mine. At this point my interest level had gone down to 5% (I knew I was dead in the water) so I didn't care. I gave her my number and got out of there asap. Sure enough, she hasn't called.


So my question is this: how could I have handled it when she asked for MY number? The author I like to read of says that I should've just smiled, said "it was nice meeting you", and walked away, but I'm not sure about it (or I may not be as tough as I think I am). I am well aware that a girl that is interested WILL give you her number and will "help" you approach her pretty much, so I know at that point I had little to no chance with her. What have you guys done in situations like this?

[Koop]

Hehe, that's a pretty cool story actually. I mean, at least she was nice. =)


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What do you guys do when you ask for a number and the girl asks your number right back? I went to a salsa club last Friday and I guess got pretty "friendly" with one of the waitresses. She seemed interested, giving me buying signals (touching, etc) and laughing at my corny jokes (I know. Looking back, she was probably just doing her job). At one point she gave me a bottle of water (it's all I drink at salsa clubs) and told me it was on her. Well anyway, before I left I decided I had nothing to lose so I went up to her to ask for her number. Just so you have better details, I told her I appreciated the water, and that I'd like to get a cup of coffee with her sometime. As I was saying this, she asked me for my number. I motioned for her to write down her number, so she went to get a piece of paper. I told her to write the number, but she insisted on me writing mine. At this point my interest level had gone down to 5% (I knew I was dead in the water) so I didn't care. I gave her my number and got out of there asap. Sure enough, she hasn't called.


So my question is this: how could I have handled it when she asked for MY number? The author I like to read of says that I should've just smiled, said "it was nice meeting you", and walked away, but I'm not sure about it (or I may not be as tough as I think I am). I am well aware that a girl that is interested WILL give you her number and will "help" you approach her pretty much, so I know at that point I had little to no chance with her. What have you guys done in situations like this?


dont rely on her callin... nor do you trip on you not getting her number. me personally i rather feel the interest than me chasin the cat via a telephone line or text message. sorry. ive chased cause i approached kicked a lil game an offered to give my number. now if she is interest then she will call... if not... oh the fuck well an keep it trucking.

i hate when guys just suddenly rely on that "one" to call an do this that an the other. keep on moving while your waiting... your not exclusive nor obligated to be mingling with her. so you continue doing your thing an if she comes around... ok then, if not... oh well.

if its been a week... forget it. seriously. if she calls cool an the ball is in your court on hookin up... whatever. but till then you keep doing what you do and get your mind off "if you did this right or wrong"... for the fact she accepted your number is cool enough an if she doesnt want to call.... again oh well.... now continue on an have fun out there... dont stop and contemplate on OMG SHE DIDNT CALL... DID I APPROACH RIGHT... DID I SMILE RIGHT...ETC. nah... keep on mingling man.

[BBQ]

W1r3d, you did what any other guy would of done, maybe there was something you could of done better or maybe you did your best and she was just not interested. I think it's just better that way anyway, it gives the girl the option of calling you instead of the other way around and what's worse then not receiving a call from her is dialing a number that doesn't work(has happened to me a couple times). So I would just let it go and not worry.

[The Epidemic]

snip.

I pretty much never give my number to broads. I have to get theirs instead. I have to be in control, that way i can call them on my terms. Plus i dont pick up calls i dont know the number too...so yea.

This is what i wouldve done. When she asked for your number i wouldve said some slick line in a playful way to get what i want. (in this case her number) I think you gave up too fast and you shoulda humored her more so you could end up getting you way.

[dreamvision602]

*snip*

an thats my vickky horror story for you all.... thank u

just wait till she sees that coach purse at dillards that every girl is sporting.

my quick coach purse story...

a fast catch up...7 year relationship. 1 year marriage. every valentines day...dinner, flowers, candy, a movie (sometimes theater, sometimes dvd). well this past valentines day i thought...im gonna go over the top and get her a $300 purse. so i know she is always looking at them online so i got her laptop one night after she fell asleep. i go to the history to look at which one she was looking at the most. i write down a few names of these purses. yea...i couldnt believe they have actual names. i go to dillards on valentines day and they have 2 out of the 3 that i wrote down. one they only had in black and brown. pretty much the color i see every woman have. so i go for this beige/pinkish one. ends up costing me around 375 bucks after tax. fucking ouch...lol. so after im thinking sweet...im gonna make her real happy. not thinking of any benefit i would get out of it at all besides the smile on her face. well i go and meet up with her and she sees i have this brown bag. (which did u know that coach makes bags for thier bags?!?) well she has gets this huuuuge smile. exactly what i had hoped for. she opens it and is going crazy cause its a actual genuine coach. hugs...kisses. well we are leaving home and she is talking about how she was looking at that one online and that it was real pretty and telling me all this history on coach. im just nodding my head and pretty much going in one ear and out the other but im just happy that i did something that made her this happy.........then it happens. "i wonder if they have the pink one of this purse?" im like...excuse me. that purse was 350 dollars...dont start getting this coach purse obsesion...well that wasnt it at all. "thats not what im saying...im thinking if they have the pink one, or maybe the blue one, i can exchange this one for that." WHAT??? ok...i understand, me as a man went in to make a womans decision on something i shouldnt have meddled with in the first place but do you really want to exchange the gift that i put some good effort and ALOT of money into. needless to say...im on my way back to dillards. 50 more f'ing dollars later, she has a pink, slightly bigger, slightly different (and when i say slightly, us men couldnt tell the difference from the first one) coach purse. 400 dollars on a purse and she couldnt appreciate the gift enough to maybe wait till the next day to go on her own to exchange it and i wouldnt have freakin noticed.

anyways...that was way to long so i appologize for that. but just had to throw that out there. beware of the coach purses!!!

[cain[e]]

So I'm in a bit of a moral dilemma.

I am currently in a relationship of about a month and a half with someone I have known for a about 6 years. The second half of that friendship (3 years for the mathematically impaired) I was going out with another girl (some of you may have seen me post pics of her int he post pics of your gf thread in IMM). I grew to love her, but eventually things turned sour (bitch cheated on me) and I broke up with her. She said it was a learning experience for her and now she knows how much she really loves/needs me w/e some bullshit like that, and regrets not showing it more to me before. She claims I never gave her space when she asked and had to do something drastic to get the amount of space she needed etc. etc.

Well now like 6 months after this whole ordeal I start to go out with the friend of 6 years (not without much protest from the ex) and for the first month I couldn't be happier. Now I'm seriously beginning to miss my ex (who is in china for the Olympics and then japan to meet her new roommate for college before she comes to the states) who claims that she still loves me and is willing to wait for me as long as there is a small amount of hope. The only problem is that she is potentially either moving out of the state, or moving to china...things aren't looking good.

My guilt here is two-fold. I really like this girl that I have known for 6 years, we're very close and have very complimentary interests/sexuality, yet I am constantly having dreams of dumping her and getting back together with my ex. If it was only dreams I wouldn't feel so bad, but lately I have been depressed and unable to express my positive feelings for this girl. I really don't feel like this is fair...


Should I continue to stay with her and wait till these guilty feelings blow over? or should I come out with the truth to her and hope for the best?

[AzN_Skater]

;5488389']So I'm in a bit of a moral dilemma.

I am currently in a relationship of about a month and a half with someone I have known for a about 6 years. The second half of that friendship (3 years for the mathematically impaired) I was going out with another girl (some of you may have seen me post pics of her int he post pics of your gf thread in IMM). I grew to love her, but eventually things turned sour (bitch cheated on me) and I broke up with her. She said it was a learning experience for her and now she knows how much she really loves/needs me w/e some bullshit like that, and regrets not showing it more to me before. She claims I never gave her space when she asked and had to do something drastic to get the amount of space she needed etc. etc.

Well now like 6 months after this whole ordeal I start to go out with the friend of 6 years (not without much protest from the ex) and for the first month I couldn't be happier. Now I'm seriously beginning to miss my ex (who is in china for the Olympics and then japan to meet her new roommate for college before she comes to the states) who claims that she still loves me and is willing to wait for me as long as there is a small amount of hope. The only problem is that she is potentially either moving out of the state, or moving to china...things aren't looking good.

My guilt here is two-fold. I really like this girl that I have known for 6 years, we're very close and have very complimentary interests/sexuality, yet I am constantly having dreams of dumping her and getting back together with my ex. If it was only dreams I wouldn't feel so bad, but lately I have been depressed and unable to express my positive feelings for this girl. I really don't feel like this is fair...


Should I continue to stay with her and wait till these guilty feelings blow over? or should I come out with the truth to her and hope for the best?

Oh jeez...

Sounds like you rushed into something that you should not have.

The 'fairest' thing for you to do is to break up with this girl, get your head on straight, figure out what the fuck you want, and then go from there. Or... stay with this girl, hope things blow over, and if they don't, break up with her. Then get your head straightened out and go from there.

So either way, you gotta figure it out for yourself.

[cain[e]]

I figured as much, but the problem is that I did wait, I figured otu what I wanted (not to be with said ex) but then all the sudden 6 months later I'm going fucking nuts again. X_x

[Havoc]

Shit... I wish my girl was still on Coach. I'm getting her a bag this year for her birthday. Shit's gonna run me a G easy.

[dreamvision602]

Shit... I wish my girl was still on Coach. I'm getting her a bag this year for her birthday. Shit's gonna run me a G easy.

holy crap...there are more expensive purses that exsist...lol. i hope she doesnt get those ideas in her head. :P

[Koop]

;5488389']So I'm in a bit of a moral dilemma.

I am currently in a relationship of about a month and a half with someone I have known for a about 6 years. The second half of that friendship (3 years for the mathematically impaired) I was going out with another girl (some of you may have seen me post pics of her int he post pics of your gf thread in IMM). I grew to love her, but eventually things turned sour (bitch cheated on me) and I broke up with her. She said it was a learning experience for her and now she knows how much she really loves/needs me w/e some bullshit like that, and regrets not showing it more to me before. She claims I never gave her space when she asked and had to do something drastic to get the amount of space she needed etc. etc.

Well now like 6 months after this whole ordeal I start to go out with the friend of 6 years (not without much protest from the ex) and for the first month I couldn't be happier. Now I'm seriously beginning to miss my ex (who is in china for the Olympics and then japan to meet her new roommate for college before she comes to the states) who claims that she still loves me and is willing to wait for me as long as there is a small amount of hope. The only problem is that she is potentially either moving out of the state, or moving to china...things aren't looking good.

My guilt here is two-fold. I really like this girl that I have known for 6 years, we're very close and have very complimentary interests/sexuality, yet I am constantly having dreams of dumping her and getting back together with my ex. If it was only dreams I wouldn't feel so bad, but lately I have been depressed and unable to express my positive feelings for this girl. I really don't feel like this is fair...


Should I continue to stay with her and wait till these guilty feelings blow over? or should I come out with the truth to her and hope for the best?

1) Why did yall break up?



There isnt guilt. Its just simple memories of what you guys had. Its going to be with you for a moment UNTIL the new one removes those memories by creating new ones for you.... most likely your going to deal with those dreams and hopes for the next 3 months homie. even longer if you allow communication to be there.... u really have to ask yourself what did you guys break up for an IF YOU DO... will it be worth while or will the thing that broke you guys up cause problems again thus having drama all over again and now youve missed out on a oppertunity (new chick) cause you let her go trying to comfort/cater your heart an emotional bond that was built wit ex.

you two broke up for a reason and failed to realize what was what until one of you 'moved on' in a sense. i dont know the gap space of time from breakup to new chick but if it was close timing... problems can occur cause nothing but that rekindled 'beginners' emotion reoccurs. what is that... well remember when yall first started dealing with each other. all that good luvin... talks ...outings... events... emotions...etc. yeah... all that comes back an it leaves you sayin damn an then you start the comparison scale with new girl... cant do that guy.

SIT AND THINK. we [srk] cant help you on this one cause we dont know either chick like you do nor understand what youve been through with either one.... you have to ask yourself

1) am i better off with new girl MINUS PUSSY....does she cater to my needs... does she look out for me... can we argue an be ok after that arguement.

2) is ex really meaning what she is sayin or has she failed to move on? can i trust her judgement or will things such as the reasonings we broke up rehash and make me regret.

3) can i continue to allow this third party to be involved in what i have now?


remember in every relationship they're are three... an within that two must control/eliminate/or use the third to continue on or else it can destroy something potentially good..... this is deep an you really have to focus man .

[Koop]

Shit... I wish my girl was still on Coach. I'm getting her a bag this year for her birthday. Shit's gonna run me a G easy.



I dont fuc wit purses... sorry. no chick has EVER received a purse from koop. they are trippin off them prices for something she will only use two to maybe 3 times [depending on outfit an occassion] an will be nice addition to her others in that mid shelf area with other purses an tote bags...


nah... not koop.

[Warpticon]

There isnt guilt. Its just simple memories of what you guys had. Its going to be with you for a moment UNTIL the new one removes those memories by creating new ones for you

Very accurately and eloquently put. It's interesting how few of these questions about girls are actually about the girls at all, and are more abut figuring your damn self out.

And seriously, if a broad is going to want something with that little function and roughly 10-50 times the cost of an equivalently functional item, she can damn sure buy it herself. I don't expect a chick to buy me a HRAP2 or a Triton or a Fortress Maximus, either.

[dreamvision602]

I dont fuc wit purses... sorry. no chick has EVER received a purse from koop. they are trippin off them prices for something she will only use two to maybe 3 times [depending on outfit an occassion] an will be nice addition to her others in that mid shelf area with other purses an tote bags...


nah... not koop.

if only i kept it strong like you...lol. i think i just started a new found obsesion. time to get a second job to fund it :crybaby:

[cain[e]]

snip.

Well the thing is I understand the whole memories thing, but there is guilt. I dunno. this shit has just been making me mad depressed lately, I just hope shit doesn't get mad fucked up when school starts again because all 3 of us go to the same university. Still considering breaking up with my current girl till I get myself straightened up though. It's mad messed up when you're sleeping in the same bed as someone and dreaming about dropping them for someone else =\

[Havoc]

My girl already bought herself a Louis bag a couple months ago. She uses it all the time, so if I buy her a bag, it'll get used...

And I do expect my girl to buy me ridiculously overpriced shit too. :tup:

But yeah... this is gonna be my "shut the fuck up" purchase. She really won't be able to say shit to me about any damn thing for the next year or two after this one. I could fuck her sister, pull the purse card, and it'd be all good.

[Koop]

if only i kept it strong like you...lol. i think i just started a new found obsesion. time to get a second job to fund it :crybaby:


nah bump that man. i read ya story above an you need to just toss a few bucks in a gift card or something else... funniest thing i learned that lesson from my MOM


yeah


I remember my mom stating she wanted a Coach Bag..... thats my moms an dammit i was going to get my mommy a Coach Bag cause dammit.... thats moms yo. i took my ass to macys like pffft no problem. when i walked in there an took a look at the price :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow:

WTF... aw hell... i chumped it out an got it. an know what... my own moms was like ... damn you good cause i did not expect you to do that... DONT do it again <-----thats from MOMS. i understand why cause you get nothing else.. just the bag... not the wallet... not the tote piece. nope just that purse an dammit that summabitch is sittin right in her closet to this day. let alone i watched the women i deal wit sport the lamest lo key purses an only sport the 'classy' ones on occasion...

[AzN_Skater]

;5488460']Well the thing is I understand the whole memories thing, but there is guilt. I dunno. this shit has just been making me mad depressed lately, I just hope shit doesn't get mad fucked up when school starts again because all 3 of us go to the same university. Still considering breaking up with my current girl till I get myself straightened up though. It's mad messed up when you're sleeping in the same bed as someone and dreaming about dropping them for someone else =\

Things will be awkward if you guys are in the same place together, there's no avoiding it.

But I know exactly how you are feeling. I had this sudden bout of depression about 6 months after my ex and I broke up (we broke up in November and I got all fucked up in May). That shit happens, you just gotta power through and slay your own demons.

[w1r3d]

I appreciate the replies guys. Thanks. :china:

I pretty much never give my number to broads. I have to get theirs instead. I have to be in control, that way i can call them on my terms. Plus i dont pick up calls i dont know the number too...so yea.

This is what i wouldve done. When she asked for your number i wouldve said some slick line in a playful way to get what i want. (in this case her number) I think you gave up too fast and you shoulda humored her more so you could end up getting you way.

I agree with you on this, especially underlined part. I tried doing the playful thing but it didn't work, so I decided to get it over with and leave the place. What would you have said in that case though (to get out of there without giving the number)?

I'm not sweating it at all, I guess I just want to learn for next time.

[The Epidemic]

Shit... I wish my girl was still on Coach. I'm getting her a bag this year for her birthday. Shit's gonna run me a G easy.

lol...your girl too huh?
My girl is currently on a chanel fix. Im gonna get her that chanel shearling fur joint. That shit is 700+

[Luigi-Bo 87]

lol...your girl too huh?
My girl is currently on a chanel fix. Im gonna get her that chanel shearling fur joint. That shit is 700+

:rofl: I wish I would spend that much. :rofl:

[AzN_Skater]

:rofl: I wish I would spend that much. :rofl:

No, you don't. :crybaby:

[Koop]

lol...your girl too huh?
My girl is currently on a chanel fix. Im gonna get her that chanel shearling fur joint. That shit is 700+

i dont know bout yall... but when it comes to purchasing anything on a high dollar amount...ill stand there contemplating then i swear the Street Fighter II continuation music with the countdown plays in my head

[dreamvision602]

nah bump that man. i read ya story above an you need to just toss a few bucks in a gift card or something else... funniest thing i learned that lesson from my MOM


yeah


I remember my mom stating she wanted a Coach Bag..... thats my moms an dammit i was going to get my mommy a Coach Bag cause dammit.... thats moms yo. i took my ass to macys like pffft no problem. when i walked in there an took a look at the price :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow: :wow:

WTF... aw hell... i chumped it out an got it. an know what... my own moms was like ... damn you good cause i did not expect you to do that... DONT do it again <-----thats from MOMS. i understand why cause you get nothing else.. just the bag... not the wallet... not the tote piece. nope just that purse an dammit that summabitch is sittin right in her closet to this day. let alone i watched the women i deal wit sport the lamest lo key purses an only sport the 'classy' ones on occasion...

lol...yea. well the woman got a ralph lauren bag from her mom last month...i see her one day transfering all her unnessarry shit from her coach to that little ralph lauren bag and im like...that shit better be back in your coach bag by the end of the day...lol. granted i was joking with her but it was enough to make her feel bad enough to put it all bag and continue to use her coach. btw...she shops at victoria secret for her bras too and everytime she goes i tell her to make sure and swing by fredricks for something nice to wear for me. at least have something to show me for that money spent

[Mixah]

i wish i had that much.

[RockBogart]

Well if yall really want some Coach stuff, the outlet is only an 45 min ride from my place. If you really want some arrangements made, hit me up.

[Adam Warlock]

Lol. Outlets aren't really cheaper. The only thing that really applies to is the Diamond District.

[The Epidemic]

i dont know bout yall... but when it comes to purchasing anything on a high dollar amount...ill stand there contemplating then i swear the Street Fighter II continuation music with the countdown plays in my head

:rofl::rofl::rofl:

well my rule has always been.."as long as i dont go over a G'"

And yea..outlets really arent better. You can go to bloomingdales and see the same prices

[dreamvision602]

i dont know bout yall... but when it comes to purchasing anything on a high dollar amount...ill stand there contemplating then i swear the Street Fighter II continuation music with the countdown plays in my head

lately what i been doing is buttering that shit up to the point where im gonna get a high dollar amount purchase made for me. then realize...its coming from my acount...lol. damn technicallities

[Mixah]

outlet's used to be cheaper...

my last g/f was really low maintenance... never spent more than $40 and she was perfectly happy.

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

I've stopped buying high dollar stuff for the moment, good thing L isn't high maintenance at all. If she wants it, she will get it. Though I just spend a nice chunk on a ESQ Swizz watch for her b-day

[Adam Warlock]

Yeah. more than a hundred or two on some chick that isn't wife is bananas to me.

[L.one H.iryu S.aga]

i dont know bout yall... but when it comes to purchasing anything on a high dollar amount...ill stand there contemplating then i swear the Street Fighter II continuation music with the countdown plays in my head

I swear this made my fucking day. :rofl:

[Mixah]

Yeah. more than a hundred or two on some chick that isn't wife is bananas to me.

truth

and :rofl: @ koop

[Warpticon]

Haha, that SF2 continuation music/countdown quote is hilarious. :lol:

[dreamvision602]

Yeah. more than a hundred or two on some chick that isn't wife is bananas to me.

totally understandable from just a girl. hell...even a good friend. but she for my wife, she does deserve it. she does alot for me and puts up with alot for me, and cooks everyday for me. im sorry...but to me...she deserved it. but...why she have to do me like she did...lol.

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

Yea, honestly you wife will not have a price limit (within reason). I've told my wife I will never buy her a car or some crazy shit like that; but a nice necklace, flowers or something out the ordinary every now and then will only help.

[dreamvision602]

Yea, honestly you wife will not have a price limit (within reason). I've told my wife I will never buy her a car or some crazy shit like that; but a nice necklace, flowers or something out the ordinary every now and then will only help.

the way around buying a car for her is just to tell her its for her and then slowly take it over. shady but i bought my wife MY dream car for mothers day :P she now has a jeep that she went to finance without me...lol.

[Adam Warlock]

And a negro that she drives around without you!

[CoolWater]

The fuck is wrong with you?

Holy shit you guys are right. I'm sprung over pussy???!??!?!? OH HELL NAH!!!!!! FUCK A HO!!!

[fistoftheryustar]

does anyone else go balls out on complimenting avg girls simply bc you dont give a shit about if they reject you or not. but then with hot girls you play it more safe.

it would make better logic to most guys if avg girls reject you then that means a hot girl obviously will. experience tends to show avg girls and hot girls just have different tastes.

why do some guys get more attn from hot girls but when it comes to avg - ugly chicks the attraction isnt the same?

[pherai]

Who cares if only hot girls are attracted to you?

[fistoftheryustar]

doesnt hurt to get free food at the diner from the averages :smokin:

[SF_PHOCUS]

Shit... I wish my girl was still on Coach. I'm getting her a bag this year for her birthday. Shit's gonna run me a G easy.

Marc has some nice bags for under a G... :china:

http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=9921&page=1&Size=NOSELECTION&PageID=9921*1*24*-1*-1

http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=10886&PageID=10886*1*24*-1*-1&kw=See%20by%20Chloe&loc=leftnav

And theres a sale goin on Now till the 1th of sept:china:

[RockBogart]

does anyone else go balls out on complimenting avg girls simply bc you dont give a shit about if they reject you or not. but then with hot girls you play it more safe.

it would make better logic to most guys if avg girls reject you then that means a hot girl obviously will. experience tends to show avg girls and hot girls just have different tastes.

why do some guys get more attn from hot girls but when it comes to avg - ugly chicks the attraction isnt the same?


Its all in how you say it. You can practically get away with saying anything as long as they think you mean it and you say it with a smile.

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

the way around buying a car for her is just to tell her its for her and then slowly take it over. shady but i bought my wife MY dream car for mothers day :P she now has a jeep that she went to finance without me...lol.

there is no getting around it, it ain't getting bought. LOL

Right now I am trying to talk her out of me getting a 4 door; right now my only choices are the Acura TL-S or the Cadillac CTS-V

[RockBogart]

My beef with the TL is that the rear headrest are placed badly. Why are the TL and CTS-V your only choices? With that type of money you can get a Benz or BMW

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

My beef with the TL is that the rear headrest are placed badly. Why are the TL and CTS-V your only choices? With that type of money you can get a Benz or BMW

Want a 6 speed manual; i've also heard the TL doesn't have a 60/40 split, which I would need. The 4 door is for the anticipation of kids down the line..:sad:

[RockBogart]

Want a 6 speed manual; i've also heard the TL doesn't have a 60/40 split, which I would need. The 4 door is for the anticipation of kids down the line..:sad:


Just get a 3 series and be done with it. Better quality than the Acura and Caddy. And probably a better payment.

[Warpticon]

I would kill for 35 bucks to live on right now.

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

Just get a 3 series and be done with it. Better quality than the Acura and Caddy. And probably a better payment.

hmm...didn't know the 3 series had a stick. Its not that pussy no clutch paddle shifting shit is it? (if you couldn't tell, I hate those..LOL)

[The Epidemic]

Marc has some nice bags for under a G... :china:

http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=9921&page=1&Size=NOSELECTION&PageID=9921*1*24*-1*-1

http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/index.ognc?CategoryID=10886&PageID=10886*1*24*-1*-1&kw=See%20by%20Chloe&loc=leftnav

And theres a sale goin on Now till the 1th of sept:china:

that one that is only 150$ with the lil girl on it is kinda hot. I think my girl will like that actually. Its kinda like her style. PLUS its only 150$
http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=125147&CategoryID=9921&PageID=9921*1*24*-1*-1*5
definetly cute...

Edit: Chanel is having a sell btw...for you guys lookin for b-day presents.

[The Epidemic]

LOL funny short story.

Yesterday i was on the train...and there was this nice filipino broad (bangin body/cute face). I noticed when she got on the train and saw me she was locked on to me the whole time. She didnt know i knew she was staring at me tho bc i had my shades on. So i decided to have a lil fun. I gave her the patented akuma over-the-shoulder look (to make eye contact) and she turns her head dumb quick and starts blushing.

Now by coincedence we were both getting off at Lenox and I and decided to introduce myself but, she beat me to it. So we started talkin (the usually stuff) and then outta nowhere her boyfriend comes lol (i guess he was picking her up from that point). Some boney asian dude...and hers eyes get mad big and she then says, "im sorry...i just--" then she ran off to him and they started the usual xoxo stuff and walked off lol.

[AzN_Skater]

LOL funny short story.

Yesterday i was on the train...and there was this nice filipino broad (bangin body/cute face). I noticed when she got on the train and saw me she was locked on to me the whole time. She didnt know i knew she was staring at me tho bc i had my shades on. So i decided to have a lil fun. I gave her the patented akuma over-the-shoulder look (to make eye contact) and she turns her head dumb quick and starts blushing.

Now by coincedence we were both getting off at Lenox and I and decided to introduce myself but, she beat me to it. So we started talkin (the usually stuff) and then outta nowhere her boyfriend comes lol (i guess he was picking her up from that point). Some boney asian dude...and hers eyes get mad big and she then says, "im sorry...i just--" then she ran off to him and they started the usual xoxo stuff and walked off lol.

lol.

Them girls be playin'. Just picturing the whole situation in my mind is lol.

[Seijuro-HIko]

^^^You could of smashed her guts on the train man. Oh well, better luck next time right?

[cain[e]]

That reminds me of a story once. I'm hanging out with my friend one night, and the whole night he's complaining "I can't hangout with you or my friend ryan anymore, girls always ignore me and come up to you guys...*blah blah blah emo shit*." Later that night we get on the train and there is this cute as fuck, punked out korean chick. He's like drooling over her the whole time, and I'm just like w/e it's all good. low and behold as we get off the train the chick comes up too me and say's "see you later cute boy ^_^." Needless to say after we got off the train I almost got knocked the fuck out by my friend, and seeing as I had a gf at the time I could not pursue that ass. c'est la vie

[dreamvision602]

Want a 6 speed manual; i've also heard the TL doesn't have a 60/40 split, which I would need. The 4 door is for the anticipation of kids down the line..:sad:

you could afford to get those type of cars but she has a price limit? just seems alittle wierd to me.

[The Epidemic]

lol.

Them girls be playin'. Just picturing the whole situation in my mind is lol.

yea i was :lol: after the fact...like wow.

^^^You could of smashed her guts on the train man. Oh well, better luck next time right?
lol...nah i cant cheat on my girl. If i was single tho...i dunno. Her bf woulda been mad at me.

[Shotokan Symphony]

I seriously, seriously think I'm going to club a woman over the head and drag her home with me, and engage in hours of sexual venting.

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

you could afford to get those type of cars but she has a price limit? just seems alittle wierd to me.

Cause she also could afford those cars as well; also I said my wife doesn't have a price limit within reason, car for a gift is not within reason

[dreamvision602]

u did say within reason.my bad. those are nice cars tho. im a 4 door fan so there are alot of cars i would pick. but both i think are good choices. maybe an is 4 door? those are real nice. or audi...they have lots of 6speeds to choose from.

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

u did say within reason.my bad. those are nice cars tho. im a 4 door fan so there are alot of cars i would pick. but both i think are good choices. maybe an is 4 door? those are real nice. or audi...they have lots of 6speeds to choose from.

No problem, yea, looked at Audi, but heard many horror stories from owners *repairs cause a shitload*; but really looking at the 3 series now. Built one for under 40. Just hate that BMW, everything you add on is like a G!:mad:

[dreamvision602]

No problem, yea, looked at Audi, but heard many horror stories from owners *repairs cause a shitload*; but really looking at the 3 series now. Built one for under 40. Just hate that BMW, everything you add on is like a G!:mad:

i drive a VW and i can account for how expensive they are. the work you can find people to do it cheap. they really arent that hard to work on but...the parts...freakin a. i bought a breather tube which is like a 4-5in rubber tube...160 bucks.bmw same way...just buy new and warranty will cover it :P

back on subject tho...i was telling my wife about how i bought her the car for mothers day and it ended up being mine. now apparently i owe her a gift to make up...i had to open my big mouth. :sad:

[fistoftheryustar]

Its all in how you say it. You can practically get away with saying anything as long as they think you mean it and you say it with a smile.

i was talking initial attraction before you even try to flirt or say anything. its prolly bc hot girl already did jocks and man candy boys, so they go for the different strangely attractive guy...but avg girls never got their man candy bang so thats what theyre impressed by.


^^^You could of smashed her guts on the train man. Oh well, better luck next time right?

ha ha speaking of that. there was one hot black chick on the train i randomly decided to talk to. we somehow got into the topic of sex and she grabbed my hand and put it up her shirt and all around her tit.


it was broad daylight and the white ppl behind were so disturbed. im sure if she ws sitting in the window seat and saw / noticed all the ppl behind her i wouldnt have been so lucky. she also kept hinting how shes never had sex on a train before and if we did it, it would have to be in the area between the two train compartments. freak!

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

back on subject tho...i was telling my wife about how i bought her the car for mothers day and it ended up being mine. now apparently i owe her a gift to make up...i had to open my big mouth. :sad:

Victoriasecrets.com

You don't buy for her, you buy for YOU! :woot:

[dreamvision602]

im a fredricks of hollywood fan. cheaper and sluttier looking :P

[pherai]

fredricks >> victorias secret

[dreamvision602]

fredricks >> victorias secret

amen brutha!!!

[SF_PHOCUS]

LOL funny short story.

Yesterday i was on the train...and there was this nice filipino broad (bangin body/cute face). I noticed when she got on the train and saw me she was locked on to me the whole time. She didnt know i knew she was staring at me tho bc i had my shades on. So i decided to have a lil fun. I gave her the patented akuma over-the-shoulder look (to make eye contact) and she turns her head dumb quick and starts blushing.

Now by coincedence we were both getting off at Lenox and I and decided to introduce myself but, she beat me to it. So we started talkin (the usually stuff) and then outta nowhere her boyfriend comes lol (i guess he was picking her up from that point). Some boney asian dude...and hers eyes get mad big and she then says, "im sorry...i just--" then she ran off to him and they started the usual xoxo stuff and walked off lol.


ughhhh..... Bagg Fail?? Not tryin to play u tryna make light of the situation lol

Yo how u gettin to sb3??? I need a ride over there:shake:

[The Epidemic]

ughhhh..... Bagg Fail?? Not tryin to play u tryna make light of the situation lol

Yo how u gettin to sb3??? I need a ride over there:shake:

lol..nah i didnt fail. I was just being nice....oh and faithful.

But yo..you know im not in NY right now right? Im in atl son. Im gonna fly up to sb3. last minute flights ftw.

[SF_PHOCUS]

ole faithful... never fails lol

[Havoc]

$20 says Epidemic doesn't show in Ohio.

[The Epidemic]

$20 says Epidemic doesn't show in Ohio.

damn have some faith in ya boy son :lol:
Ill take that bet tho. :wgrin:

[Havoc]

No deal.

If I win, you won't be there to give me my money.

[SF_PHOCUS]

No deal.

If I win, you won't be there to give me my money.

Either you Lose orrrr you Lose lol :chat:

[Silentness!]

So yeah... after a month of seeing this girl she told me one of those "Dark Secrets"

She was previously married to a Korean guy. (Divorces are taken pretty seriously in Korea) So she thought I would leave her if I heard about her divorce. She also told me that is why she has a hard time trusting guys and getting into a serious relationship. She has a hard time believing that I care about her. It's like an on and off going process. Anyways she's sick right now and I think it is because of me...

Now I feel a bit depressed. I am tired of going to bed at like 8 PM at night on the weekend because I feel the same depression. I don't feel like having fun when I am having relationship problems. I just feel like sleeping my emo woes away.

[SF_PHOCUS]

So yeah... after a month of seeing this girl she told me one of those "Dark Secrets"

She was previously married to a Korean guy. (Divorces are taken pretty seriously in Korea) So she thought I would leave her if I heard about her divorce. She also told me that is why she has a hard time trusting guys and getting into a serious relationship. She has a hard time believing that I care about her. It's like an on and off going process. Anyways she's sick right now and I think it is because of me...

Now I feel a bit depressed. I am tired of going to bed at like 8 PM at night on the weekend because I feel the same depression. I don't feel like having fun when I am having relationship problems. I just feel like sleeping my emo woes away.

smh ness snap out of it meh! messin around wif a girl that has some sort of prior relationship woes is never a good thing.... i think they call it baggage...:wonder:

[Silentness!]

Yeah but the thing is... she didn't tell me how serious her baggage was until she had serious emotions for me. She is scared of being hurt again.

When we first met she didn't take me seriously. However as time progresses she expects more and more out of me.

[Havoc]

Ness, you take way too much shit from these broads.

What she did to you was completely unfair. To lock you in, and then drop tons of baggage on you is some bullshit. It is a completely selfish move, that only takes her own feelings and interests into account, just like the no-sex rule.

This girl is very selfish when it comes to the relationship. Sure, she's trying to protect herself and be cautious due to previous experiences, but it's completely unfair to do that to another person. It's up to her to deal with her own baggage on her own, and if she can't, she shouldn't be in a relationship. Subjecting another person to your own insecurities and baggage that you've developed is entirely unfair to the new person.

What have you done to deserve this bullshit treatment?

So some other dude was an asshole....who cares? You need to refuse to stay... paying for his mistakes (Usher®).

Also, why are you letting this girl affect your demeanor?

She's going through bullshit, so she puts you through bullshit, and you're all depressed? That's not how a relationship is supposed to work. Two people are supposed to lift each other up. If one person is just a drag... what's the point?

[Silentness!]

OH MY GOD.... the new chick is also a BABY MOMMA.

She didn't even slowly tell me... she straight up told me she has a son.

Got dammit! I'm dealing with another MOM! I should of known... her pussy is loose as shit. JUST LIKE MY EX

__________________
@Havoc: Actually the no sex rule was broken Friday night. I made her cum twice that night...

I agree 100% with your post Havoc. Honestly my feelings for her have dropped dramatically when I found out she had a kid. I know I'm not dealing with the kid, but that shit never leaves my mind that a chick had a prior husband and she has a little munchkin running around that is being taken care of.

It was the same thing with my EX. When she eventually told me that she has an 8 year old kid my mood changed almost instantly. I mean just tell me this shit up front. I am not going to be shallow and brush off a baby momma, but I don't want them fucking with my emotions and telling me that they are single with no ex husband/kiddies.

The part that really makes me mad is I told her how I know several people that are single parents. She was like "Really? Isn't that bad though to be single parent" Yet she is a single parent even if she doesn't have custody of the kid.

[Ryu1999]

Ness, you take way too much shit from these broads.

What she did to you was completely unfair. To lock you in, and then drop tons of baggage on you is some bullshit. It is a completely selfish move, that only takes her own feelings and interests into account, just like the no-sex rule.

This girl is very selfish when it comes to the relationship. Sure, she's trying to protect herself and be cautious due to previous experiences, but it's completely unfair to do that to another person. It's up to her to deal with her own baggage on her own, and if she can't, she shouldn't be in a relationship. Subjecting another person to your own insecurities and baggage that you've developed is entirely unfair to the new person.

What have you done to deserve this bullshit treatment?

So some other dude was an asshole....who cares? You need to refuse to stay... paying for his mistakes (Usher®).

Also, why are you letting this girl affect your demeanor?

She's going through bullshit, so she puts you through bullshit, and you're all depressed? That's not how a relationship is supposed to work. Two people are supposed to lift each other up. If one person is just a drag... what's the point?

I think the lesson I most took from this thread is that Ness loves drama like TNT, and as great as this advice was, its going to be ignored. Either that or he has worse luck than I do :lol:

[ninja_velmor]

OH MY GOD.... the new chick is also a BABY MOMMA.

She didn't even slowly tell me... she straight up told me she has a son.

Got dammit! I'm dealing with another MOM! I should of known... her pussy is loose as shit. JUST LIKE MY EX

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@Havoc: Actually the no sex rule was broken Friday night. I made her cum twice that night...

you neeed to get the fuck otta there!! how do you not tell someone this from the get go???

[Striderhyru05]

What is everyones stance on women with children? Is one kid fine, or one too many?

[Shotokan Symphony]

Why would you want a woman with a kid unless:
A) You knew she wasn't going to ask you to baby sit, or
B) You like babysitting?

[Striderhyru05]

Why would you want a woman with a kid unless:
A) You knew she wasn't going to ask you to baby sit, or
B) You like babysitting?

What about if you met one on a night out? I certainly wouldn't choose a woman with kids.

[Warpticon]

bullshit

Hold the fuck up. She has a kid, and she let you hit raw when she just met you? Has the bitch not learned anything? Seriously, get the fuck out.

[Havoc]

One kid, that isn't mine, is one kid too many.

[SF_PHOCUS]

I always ask about kids early.. just so theres no surprises later on..

And lol at "What have you done to deserve this bullshit treatment?"

[The Epidemic]

lol..ness you need to step your scan game up. Almost every broad you post about has problems/baggage.

Or is that you love the drama?

[Darklightjg1]

I like kids so either the woman, the child(ren), or (maybe... if he's a crazy one) the woman's ex would have to deliberately do something really fucked up to make me not like them.
Someone else's children are not my responsibility unless I willingly choose to take care of them.

[Shotokan Symphony]

What about if you met one on a night out? I certainly wouldn't choose a woman with kids.

Why would you ask again, unless you want to take it further with her? You've already tapped it once, and knowing the score, why would you tap again?

[Biolink]

What is everyones stance on women with children? Is one kid fine, or one too many?

One too many for me.

Baby daddy drama(Dude will always be in the picture unless he's dead basically). She could always accept the loser back into her life for "the good of her kid"(One of my friends was crush when this happened), taking care of another man's seed is a no go p