The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Stuckey]

stuckface: Yeah I do have my own place, but I'm a little tentative to bring her over. I feel it's too soon? My preference would be one more date, one ROMANTIC date somewhere. Our two dates have always involved food so I want to do something else like... well shit there is a fair coming up.

Just make sure you have the chance to say what you need to say like Kanye accepting grammys. The fair would actually be a good idea. But yo, it's NEVER too soon for a cheap date at the crib. A lot of the time, that's where I close the deal like Mark Cuban scouting players. You know, when it comes to the "I don't wanna be JUST friends" thing.

[Hoonyo]

Well scratch that fair idea cuz it aint happenin' for 11 more days. That'll be a 5th of 6th date thing. If I can get something going on the 3rd date, I'm def taking her to my apartment on the 4th one. Play some Boggle then sex or something haha.

[Stuckey]

You've been on 2 dates and plan for up to 4 more in 11 days? I don't know about that mayn. Spread them out some. Believe it or not, the easiest way to get friend-zoned is to be up under her all the time. Not that i'm trying to tell you what to do or anything, but you don't wanna be as accessible as her girlfriends. Not until you're an item anyway. Absense makes the heart grow fonder like DMX going home to his family after being locked up for the umpteenth time :lol: Make her wonder what in sam hill you're doing sometime. You might be able to get her to pursue this thing as much as you are.

Definitely have her over though. And i'll tell you something I've done a few times...

Even though I can cook halfway decent stuff, I act like I don't know how around a chick. When I invite her over, I make sure she can see the cookbook and I make sure she sees me studying the page like Superhead studies penises. She'll think it very sweet of you to try so hard to put something halfway edible in her stomach. Works for me anyway...WITH CLASSY WOMEN ONLY. Hoodroaches can't comprehend romance like Sarah Palin can't comprehend the Bush Doctrine.

[narc]

For the most part it's a game. Don't forget that.

[Stuckey]

For the most part it's a game. Don't forget that.

Yep. So play for keeps like Will Ferrell as Ricky Bobby.

[Hoonyo]

You've been on 2 dates and plan for up to 4 more in 11 days? I don't know about that mayn. Spread them out some. Believe it or not, the easiest way to get friend-zoned is to be up under her all the time. Not that i'm trying to tell you what to do or anything, but you don't wanna be as accessible as her girlfriends. Not until you're an item anyway. Absense makes the heart grow fonder like DMX going home to his family after being locked up for the umpteenth time :lol: Make her wonder what in sam hill you're doing sometime. You might be able to get her to pursue this thing as much as you are.

Definitely have her over though. And i'll tell you something I've done a few times...

Even though I can cook halfway decent stuff, I act like I don't know how around a chick. When I invite her over, I make sure she can see the cookbook and I make sure she sees me studying the page like Superhead studies penises. She'll think it very sweet of you to try so hard to put something halfway edible in her stomach. Works for me anyway...WITH CLASSY WOMEN ONLY. Hoodroaches can't comprehend romance like Sarah Palin can't comprehend the Bush Doctrine.Out of sight, out of mind like Osama Bin Laden hiding out in a cave until that nigga makes another video ... fuck I suck at these similes.

My bad I didn't mean to imply that I'll be taking her on so many dates in such a short time span. I know what you mean about spreading out the dates. The fair itself lasts like two weeks so between our first date and the end of the fair is about a month. Five dates in a month doesn't seem that bad considering two of them were within 2 days of each other.

That shit with the cooking ... good lord that is brilliant.

[Stuckey]

Yeah. And I mention it all the time. Especially if she cooks herself.

"I'd probably set my kitchen ablaze like fire marshall bill if I tried cooking that. "

"if it wasn't for foreman grills, I'd never eat like nicole richie"

You wouldn't believe how impressed they are when I say "I wanna TRY to cook for you" and serve them something that's actually good. Make sure it's chilly in your place too. Most girls aren't bold enough to go fuckin with your thermostat. When she says "it's kinda cold in here"...that means cuddling on the couch.

Cuddling on the couch = Girlfriend. For "realz"

[orochizoolander]

Good looks on the scrub cook act and thermostat strat and reading your posts from the last page I'm impressed:tup:

Damn fig deleted his post would be cool to see what the hype was about...love this thread lol. Doing the long distance thing sucks especially since she busy with 2 jobs n school but it's worth it even though I know what srk's (especially AZ's) stance on the long distance tip is:rofl:

[Havoc]

Good looks on the scrub cook act and thermostat strat and reading your posts from the last page I'm impressed:tup:


idk... All that sounds like some Boy Meets World shit to me.

It all *could* work, but it could all backfire, and leave you looking pretty silly.

[Stuckey]

I don't speculate, chief. Anything I post in here has worked for me already. Plus I stated earlier it'll only work on someone who can appreciate it. I like to think I'm credible in this department. A few folks on here can vouch for me.

[kazamamaster]

Cooking for a woman never gets old, is almost NEVER cheesy, and always works. Make you sure when you do cook something that it's not something that is almost too easy to make. Sometimes, smarter women will take a crack at you if you say 'try' to cook. Sometimes they might be thinking you're only capable of doing microwave dinners and the like, so the degree of difficulty you pick on the dish you make, if it comes out better, the more brownie points you'll get. Trust me on that one.

Also, if she can't cook to save yourself the embarassment, try making the dish at home for yourself first.

You can set the tone for a romantic date at your place. It might not have to be a candlelit dinner, but dim the lights a tad if you can. Get some of that soft music. If she's anything intelligent, sometimes chicks dig smooth jazz....

Ask if she likes to dance. Most chicks do. If you have the room in your place, you might be able to slow dance with her. Seems corny, but I can't tell you how much it works if she digs you and is looking for an opportunity to be close with you.

If you have time later, you can pop in a movie and chill with her on your couch. That'll give you the opportunity to cuddle her up, as well as chat from time to time without being overly annoying during the movie.

Good luck playa!

[Stuckey]

Pretty much. Any man that wants to avoid the friend zone should have their own place. It's too intimate a place to fail. Play your cards right and you're in there like a bicycle with no seat.

[orochizoolander]

Still live with my mom (n will until I can pay off student loans+get a good paying job) so I haven't had too many opportunities to do the cooking for a woman thing but every time I did it's some type of italian food not too easy or hard:tup:

[Phoenix Wright]

yoyoyo SRK help me step up my game. i'm not a player so there's really no way for me to be rico suave, but i need some ideas/tips for a romantic date. i've been on two dates with a girl and come away with only hugs and not kisses. i really wanna let girl know i want to be a couple instead of friends. we get along GREAT, but it's almost too friendly. if i have another date like the one i just got back from, i know it's gonna put me in the friend zone for sure.

so next date has got to count. i'm thinking maybe a movie? i can get really close to her the entire time. yeah it's corny and typical, but that's all i can think of at the moment.

Be confident in yourself, If that doesn't work. Have some alcohol, it helps your confidence. Don't be a drunk douche.

[Phoenix Wright]

So i dont hesitate and i get in the bed, from then on she just lays there and doesnt do anything.. So i figure, ok, i guess its up to me to finish whats started. So, a little 4play, she moans my name a few times yada yada yada.. 10 minutes later she's like OMG WHAT WERE YOU DOING TO ME R U TRY"N TO RAPE ME!?!?!!


What, the, hell?

[berserkotaku45]

so guys, i just started dating this chick, its been like a week and honestly i don;t know why i agreed to be with her. Other than physical attraction i'm not interested in her at all. I could totally understand doing this if she was like super fucking hot but shes just a lil bit better than avg with big fucking tits. I am keeping ym options open though with other chicks but i was wondering if i should just go with the flow and stay with her until i find something better( i am getting laid so yeah) or should i just call the whole thing off and have to jerk it for a while

[locoghoul]

tittyfuck her till you find something better and please provide pics

[berserkotaku45]

^ i will soon

[forgenjuro]

Be confident in yourself, If that doesn't work. Have some alcohol, it helps your confidence. Don't be a drunk douche.

where is that AV from? just the thought of that is hilarious:rofl:

[Canto]

@ Stuckey

Man, your advice is like Stuckey making another "like" catch-phrase, funny and amazing at the same time :lovin:.

I'm gonna keep all that stuff you're talking about in mind. Living alone right now so I got a chance to do some of that stuff hehe, just gotta get a girl to do it with.

[Figcoinc]

Well I had an impromtu coffee date with the girl I met online. Everything was cool, and she asked me to call her up anytime to hang out. Well I played it cool, and thought Id give her a call little bit before 5 today. She didn't pick up so I left a message.

Bascially saying the basics. Had a nice time, like to see you again soon, give me a call back, and asked her out to dinner. I put it on the answering machine because I didn't want to blow up her phone trying to get her. She hasn't called back yet. Been about an hour and a half. I hope she calls back.

So think it was to soon to call her? I hate waiting. Now I have to wait to see if she will call back.

Again, I hate waiting on stuff like this. :rofl:

[Higher-Jin]

Well I had an impromtu coffee date with the girl I met online. Everything was cool, and she asked me to call her up anytime to hang out. Well I played it cool, and thought Id give her a call little bit before 5 today. She didn't pick up so I left a message.

Bascially saying the basics. Had a nice time, like to see you again soon, give me a call back, and asked her out to dinner. I put it on the answering machine because I didn't want to blow up her phone trying to get her. She hasn't called back yet. Been about an hour and a half. I hope she calls back.

So think it was to soon to call her? I hate waiting. Now I have to wait to see if she will call back.

Again, I hate waiting on stuff like this. :rofl:

Play a game, watch a movie, molest yourself, or really anything that will get your mind off it. A watched phone never rings.

[BEWD]

^win

[Ryusuke]

Are you sure you dont emotional over this kind of thing? Because I would have moved on to the next girl by now......

[Figcoinc]

Play a game, watch a movie, molest yourself, or really anything that will get your mind off it. A watched phone never rings.

Exactly! Went out for a sandwich. Now going to play a game or something.

I hate waiting, and if I phone watch I will go fucking crazy. She usually contacts me late night though. Sometimes after 9. So you never know? Either way going to shoot some fuckers in COD4 in the mean time. :woot:

[Reveal]

Yeah I hate the phone game.
To me, phone game is more of an obstacle rather than a tool as far as getting women. I hate the phone stage because I'm to the point now where I EXPECT the girl not to call or not pick up the phone when I call her. I really don't bother with women that much simply because of the phone. I hate it.

[Figcoinc]

Well she just texted me. She is doing something with her sister. Which I know is true because she was talking about that in our coffee meet. Sent her back a "hope to see you soon" type text with some sweet stuff added. Nothing overboard. Just enough to hopefully get a smile.

Ok....back to killing fuckers by the ferris wheel in COD4. I fucking HATE this level!

[Stuckey]

@ Stuckey

Man, your advice is like Stuckey making another "like" catch-phrase, funny and amazing at the same time :lovin:.

I'm gonna keep all that stuff you're talking about in mind. Living alone right now so I got a chance to do some of that stuff hehe, just gotta get a girl to do it with.

:lol: Cool. Good luck, chief.

[BBQ]

You've been on 2 dates and plan for up to 4 more in 11 days? I don't know about that mayn. Spread them out some. Believe it or not, the easiest way to get friend-zoned is to be up under her all the time. Not that i'm trying to tell you what to do or anything, but you don't wanna be as accessible as her girlfriends. Not until you're an item anyway. Absense makes the heart grow fonder like DMX going home to his family after being locked up for the umpteenth time :lol: Make her wonder what in sam hill you're doing sometime. You might be able to get her to pursue this thing as much as you are.

Definitely have her over though. And i'll tell you something I've done a few times...

Even though I can cook halfway decent stuff, I act like I don't know how around a chick. When I invite her over, I make sure she can see the cookbook and I make sure she sees me studying the page like Superhead studies penises. She'll think it very sweet of you to try so hard to put something halfway edible in her stomach. Works for me anyway...WITH CLASSY WOMEN ONLY. Hoodroaches can't comprehend romance like Sarah Palin can't comprehend the Bush Doctrine.


That was a good read, I'd rep you if I could

[Silentness!]

mm I think I might be taking my current relationship to a more serious level. Don't know exactly yet...

[ST Vega]

Well I had an impromtu coffee date with the girl I met online. Everything was cool, and she asked me to call her up anytime to hang out. Well I played it cool, and thought Id give her a call little bit before 5 today. She didn't pick up so I left a message.

Bascially saying the basics. Had a nice time, like to see you again soon, give me a call back, and asked her out to dinner. I put it on the answering machine because I didn't want to blow up her phone trying to get her. She hasn't called back yet. Been about an hour and a half. I hope she calls back.

So think it was to soon to call her? I hate waiting. Now I have to wait to see if she will call back.

Again, I hate waiting on stuff like this. :rofl:

Yeah, I basically had the same thing happen to me a couple of months ago. I added a girl from myspace from the high school my ex went to cause she looked familiar, then we ended up going out for random coffee. We've pretty much seen each other almost every day since.

mm I think I might be taking my current relationship to a more serious level. Don't know exactly yet...

I get the feeling that's where things are going for me.

[Figcoinc]

This is going to be a hard day. A girl I dated on and off for 6 years wants to talk. I know what she wants to say. That we should get back together. I have to tell her no this time. :sad:

She is a sweet girl. I mean ultra sweet. She has been with me through so much. I love her a lot. Though there is a lot of reasons I have to say no.

She is to sheltered. She is 27 years old and does not know how to drive yet. Her mom pretty much keeps her on lock down. It is almost like she is 14 in certain aspects. She doesn't go out, doesn't drink (which isn't that big a deal, but I can't take her anywhere there is drinks because she will get bored), and there is no intimacy. I mean none. She wants to wait till marriage which I respect, but she is actually afraid of the shit you do when you fool around. Sometimes I stopped because I felt like I was raping her. That is a horrid feeling.

She is still so important to me. Doing this may end us forever. I just don't want to be like a father anymore to her. She needs to grow up, and become an independent woman. She is incredibly smart, sweet, and caring. She is everything any man would want with a wife. She is just so behind on so many things a 27 year old should not be.

This is going to be a hard day. I know she is going to cry uncontrollably. I hate to see her cry, but I think for the betterment of her and I this is for the best. If this doesn't get her motivated to grow up a little then nothing will.

If she does I will put a ring on her finger no questions asked. Damn, I hope she understands......

[ST Vega]

Have you explained to her that you want to feel like her man, rather than like her father?

[locoghoul]

This is going to be a hard day. A girl I dated on and off for 6 years wants to talk. I know what she wants to say. That we should get back together. I have to tell her no this time. :sad:

She is a sweet girl. I mean ultra sweet. She has been with me through so much. I love her a lot. Though there is a lot of reasons I have to say no.

She is to sheltered. She is 27 years old and does not know how to drive yet. Her mom pretty much keeps her on lock down. It is almost like she is 14 in certain aspects. She doesn't go out, doesn't drink (which isn't that big a deal, but I can't take her anywhere there is drinks because she will get bored), and there is no intimacy. I mean none. She wants to wait till marriage which I respect, but she is actually afraid of the shit you do when you fool around. Sometimes I stopped because I felt like I was raping her. That is a horrid feeling.

She is still so important to me. Doing this may end us forever. I just don't want to be like a father anymore to her. She needs to grow up, and become an independent woman. She is incredibly smart, sweet, and caring. She is everything any man would want with a wife. She is just so behind on so many things a 27 year old should not be.

This is going to be a hard day. I know she is going to cry uncontrollably. I hate to see her cry, but I think for the betterment of her and I this is for the best. If this doesn't get her motivated to grow up a little then nothing will.

If she does I will put a ring on her finger no questions asked. Damn, I hope she understands......


just be honest with her and tell her what you wrote here, i mean the shelter thing.

[berserkotaku45]

^my ex g/f of 4 years was pretty sheltered, but she did move down to pittsburgh when i wasa there, mainly for school but we did live together and she was still pretty sheltered. we broke up and after her mopping around 4 2 months she started to open up a lot which is something i wish she would have done while we were dating. sometimes something big has to happen to make someone see that they need to change. hopefully you being honest with her will make her see that

[Reveal]

just be honest with her and tell her what you wrote here, i mean the shelter thing.

Yeah man, don't throw it away just yet, maybe you can get her to understand what you're looking for exactly.

[Phoenix Wright]

About the Av; I found it in a random site.

UPDATE on the Snow-Bunny with the latina booty:

A few weeks ago I Jago-Kicked this ho because I felt that she wasn't interested. I wasn't sure if she was interested, or that she was just friendly. So fast forward to last night. It's my cousins birthday celebratin so I was invited to a restaurant. I brung my good friend, who's a hot ass dominican chick who friendzoned me. The Snowbunny was at the dinner too. I spend the entire night talking to my homegirl, joking with her and all of that. My homegirl rested her head on my shoulders a few times n I put my arms around her...

At the end of the night, come to find out. My boy tells me that he caught the Snowbunny staring at me a'lot during the night. I caught her a few times but I thought nothing of it.

Of course, my homegirl tells me that she's ugly... lol.

COol Night.

[kazamamaster]

This is going to be a hard day. A girl I dated on and off for 6 years wants to talk. I know what she wants to say. That we should get back together. I have to tell her no this time. :sad:

She is a sweet girl. I mean ultra sweet. She has been with me through so much. I love her a lot. Though there is a lot of reasons I have to say no.

She is to sheltered. She is 27 years old and does not know how to drive yet. Her mom pretty much keeps her on lock down. It is almost like she is 14 in certain aspects. She doesn't go out, doesn't drink (which isn't that big a deal, but I can't take her anywhere there is drinks because she will get bored), and there is no intimacy. I mean none. She wants to wait till marriage which I respect, but she is actually afraid of the shit you do when you fool around. Sometimes I stopped because I felt like I was raping her. That is a horrid feeling.

She is still so important to me. Doing this may end us forever. I just don't want to be like a father anymore to her. She needs to grow up, and become an independent woman. She is incredibly smart, sweet, and caring. She is everything any man would want with a wife. She is just so behind on so many things a 27 year old should not be.

This is going to be a hard day. I know she is going to cry uncontrollably. I hate to see her cry, but I think for the betterment of her and I this is for the best. If this doesn't get her motivated to grow up a little then nothing will.

If she does I will put a ring on her finger no questions asked. Damn, I hope she understands......

My wife was sheltered. I decided to stick in there though. At the time my wife and I were dating, and man oh man was it hard lol.

Both her parents were overly protective and had no problem telling me they were overprotective. I can't tell you how many times they'd catch a fit over hearing their daughter tell me she loved me, pet names, hugging/kissing or any type of display of affection. They'd lecture her and us if I was there, but I put up with it. Truth be told, I was close to calling off our relationship when her parents got to the point when they disapproved of our relationship to the point where they made my wife (gf at the time) choose between moving out or staying at home and ending our relationship.


They didn't end up chilling with the overprotectiveness until we got engaged. What made them get over it? My wife had to pack her stuff and move out (for a night) before her dad actually had it smack him upside the head that she was serious about gaining her independance as a grown woman. When he saw that, they backed off.

You might want to talk to your girl and let her know she needs to act like a grown woman if she wants to be more with you.


About the Av; I found it in a random site.

UPDATE on the Snow-Bunny with the latina booty:

A few weeks ago I Jago-Kicked this ho because I felt that she wasn't interested. I wasn't sure if she was interested, or that she was just friendly. So fast forward to last night. It's my cousins birthday celebratin so I was invited to a restaurant. I brung my good friend, who's a hot ass dominican chick who friendzoned me. The Snowbunny was at the dinner too. I spend the entire night talking to my homegirl, joking with her and all of that. My homegirl rested her head on my shoulders a few times n I put my arms around her...

At the end of the night, come to find out. My boy tells me that he caught the Snowbunny staring at me a'lot during the night. I caught her a few times but I thought nothing of it.

Of course, my homegirl tells me that she's ugly... lol.

COol Night.

Now go back to the snow bunny and ask her what's up now. I bet if you tell her she acted like she wasn't interested, she'll be all over you. Women can't stand competition from another woman and will do almost anything to have your attention back.

[Shotokan Symphony]

This is going to be a hard day. A girl I dated on and off for 6 years wants to talk. I know what she wants to say. That we should get back together. I have to tell her no this time. :sad:

She is a sweet girl. I mean ultra sweet. She has been with me through so much. I love her a lot. Though there is a lot of reasons I have to say no.

She is to sheltered. She is 27 years old and does not know how to drive yet. Her mom pretty much keeps her on lock down. It is almost like she is 14 in certain aspects. She doesn't go out, doesn't drink (which isn't that big a deal, but I can't take her anywhere there is drinks because she will get bored), and there is no intimacy. I mean none. She wants to wait till marriage which I respect, but she is actually afraid of the shit you do when you fool around. Sometimes I stopped because I felt like I was raping her. That is a horrid feeling.

She is still so important to me. Doing this may end us forever. I just don't want to be like a father anymore to her. She needs to grow up, and become an independent woman. She is incredibly smart, sweet, and caring. She is everything any man would want with a wife. She is just so behind on so many things a 27 year old should not be.

This is going to be a hard day. I know she is going to cry uncontrollably. I hate to see her cry, but I think for the betterment of her and I this is for the best. If this doesn't get her motivated to grow up a little then nothing will.

If she does I will put a ring on her finger no questions asked. Damn, I hope she understands......

This is a different girl, right? You gotta do what's best for you, honestly.

[orochizoolander]

LOL kudos to whoever put the link of that dr. dick vid in my comment box:rofl::tup:

OBJECTION! phoenx wright the evidence clearly contradicts your testimony! pics of snowbunny w/ latina booty assist!

Yo figcoinc hope things go well with the coffee date woman.

[Mixah]

That would have been me.

[Ryusuke]

LOL kudos to whoever put the link of that dr. dick vid in my comment box:rofl::tup:

OBJECTION! phoenx wright the evidence clearly contradicts your testimony! pics of snowbunny w/ latina booty assist!

Yo figcoinc hope things go well with the coffee date woman.


Ditto!

[white shadow]

Just saw a gorgeous dark toned *black* girl today, beautiful skin. Why dark chocolate girls don't get the same mainstream appreciation as the tan "Beyonce" variety is beyond me.

[blackstar14]

personal taste. As a nigga I don't personally feel dark chicks, but thats just how I roll. I can make exceptions in extreme situations, but typically I stick to my mulatto diet. My Bio teacher is from Africia and I would do some seriously hatful things to her body ( and face), but she also has a fashion sense and intelligence to go along with her looks which help out quite abit.

Also one chick I know at school is from Ethiopia, which threw me off cause she looks sooo fine. But she looks more like a Beyonce bronze than anything.

Gaby Union is forever on my top dark black shorty list. Unless Sanaa Lathan is also in that category.

[Shotokan Symphony]

Just saw a gorgeous dark toned *black* girl today, beautiful skin. Why dark chocolate girls don't get the same mainstream appreciation as the tan "Beyonce" variety is beyond me.

This. Once dated a girl like this, and I kinda regret not pursuing her further. :[

[Figcoinc]

Well I talked to he ultra sweet girl yesterday. It was a pretty hard talk. I took your guys suggestion, and threw it totally out there. I told her what I wanted out of her, how she can grow up, and if she really did love me that she would try her best to change those things. I mentioned a couple things about me as well that I was changing as an example. Also, to not put it all on her. We talked for about 7 hours.

The end result she did save me from totally cutting off ties. We decided we have a current open relationship until we decide things have changed. Almost like a reboot. Treating each other as we did when we first dated. It was her suggestion which surprised me.

So now I am still free to meet up with coffee date girl if anything comes of it. Then see my long time girl once in a while to see where the relationship is headed. I told her bluntly that if things do not change while we are doing this it is truly over. Do not think this means we are all better, and you can just do whatever BS you were doing before. I think she understood.

So now just waiting on coffee date girl to e-mail or call. Which I know won't be in a couple days because she is a resident doctor. So she is getting her time eating up by 30 hour shifts, and other crazy shit new doctors go through. I am not stressing it though. Only the first callback/text got me all anxious. Now the ball is her fucking court. I am chillin right now. :rofl:

Oh on a random note: After this I went out drinking with my friends. We ended up at this random chicks house. I noticed she had a copy of Final Fantasy 7 non greatest hits just laying there. I had a kind of cracked case, but otherwise the disc/manual are in great condition. I mentioned how I loved this game to the chick because I thought it was hers. Nope it was her ex-husbands. She was like, "Take that shit. Just sits around the house anyhow.". Good shit.

[white shadow]

Gaby Union is forever on my top dark black shorty list. Unless Sanaa Lathan is also in that category.
Sanaa is not really dark- heck, Gabrielle isn't really "black" in the realistic connotation either. But yeah, I feel you on the "African" girls thing, some of them are stunning. They seem to have that certain *glow.* Can't really explain it properly.

Shoto: What happened?

[Shotokan Symphony]

Shoto: What happened?

I just got the impression she was interested in someone else. I was balless, and figured a fat white guy couldn't maintain her interest long. She was heavy into the goth-industrial scene, so I felt I couldn't compete with some of the guys of that caliber. She was a bit taller than me, too.

Damn, I need to lose more weight.

[thurst]

ok i guess i'll stop trolling this thread and make a serious post...

i've been messing with this chick from work more or less all summer. when we first went out she was talking to this other kid, so she felt bad about us hooking up and was trying not to mess around with me...fast forward about a month, they broke up and we started hooking up.

so we've been hooking up for like a month now and everything is cool except she won't let me get in that vajayjay, she gives pretty good head but i'd much rather be fucking. i asked her and she's not a virgin, but she only has sex in a "loving relationship"...now i do actually like her and i'm considering making it official with her and what not, but i don't want to seem like i'm only doing it so i can fuck her...but at the same time, i don't want to be in a situation where i have a girlfriend and am still not getting that pussy.

what should i do?!

sidenote: this chick is mad nerdy, like our first "date" we went to the break (her choice, not mine) bcuz she was trying to get me to play in the groove (obviously didn't happen).

[Shotokan Symphony]

Take your time. You're better off not fucking her if she ends up being weirder than she already is, so weather the storm for a bit.

[kazamamaster]

ok i guess i'll stop trolling this thread and make a serious post...

i've been messing with this chick from work more or less all summer. when we first went out she was talking to this other kid, so she felt bad about us hooking up and was trying not to mess around with me...fast forward about a month, they broke up and we started hooking up.

so we've been hooking up for like a month now and everything is cool except she won't let me get in that vajayjay, she gives pretty good head but i'd much rather be fucking. i asked her and she's not a virgin, but she only has sex in a "loving relationship"...now i do actually like her and i'm considering making it official with her and what not, but i don't want to seem like i'm only doing it so i can fuck her...but at the same time, i don't want to be in a situation where i have a girlfriend and am still not getting that pussy.

what should i do?!

sidenote: this chick is mad nerdy, like our first "date" we went to the break (her choice, not mine) bcuz she was trying to get me to play in the groove (obviously didn't happen).

Take your time dude....


Find out if you two stand on the same ground as far as sex goes. If you like her but not enough to stay happy in a committed relationship outside of sex, ditch her now.......Not worth the drama of being committed to have sex if that's all you want. I don't even want to think about the drama of what would happen if the sex wasn't that great..

[Figcoinc]

So with this coffee date girl. What do you think I should do guys?

I last heard from her Sat. via text. I was thinking of e-mailing her. One of those, "Hey what's up?" type things. I didn't talk to her today, and not planning on contacting her today unless she hits me up.

Think I should send a text or e-mail? Should I just sit on my ass till she hits me up? Think tomorrow is long enough? A two day gap.

[Canto]

snip).

Not even joking, I was in the same situation as you were a couple months ago. Also my girl was nerdy and she wanted a loving relationship before sex but she did do stuff before with another guy.
What I did was I chose to go with her flow and not go for sex or anything and just do the kissing/make out thing. She broke up with me after a month cause she was looking for something else, and to be honest I never felt anything when we kissed. I wasn't into her and she wasnt into me.

So my advice coming from the same situation as you are in right now, is to wait some more and find out if youre really into her, if youre not then then you go for that beautiful womanly area that every man loves as quick as possible. If you are into her then just let it ride and take it slow cause when you do get it, its going to be epic. :lovin:

@ Figcoinc

I've been reading your posts a lot, my advice is to wait for at least half a week to a week before you contact coffee girl, like someone said.. absence makes the heart.. yadada dada. With the other girl that you used to be with for a long time, you should just be friends with her and nothing more.

[orochizoolander]

So my ex has been blowing up my cell n aim since yesterday saying she missed me and she thought we had so much potential but ruined it and I said yup lol. It felt good to just brush her off n I do still kinda like her (obviously didn't tell her that) but hey she dumped me it's her loss.

[Ryusuke]

Sanaa is not really dark- heck, Gabrielle isn't really "black" in the realistic connotation either. But yeah, I feel you on the "African" girls thing, some of them are stunning. They seem to have that certain *glow.* Can't really explain it properly.

Tweet and Gaby Union are the only two dark skinned girls I like so far. Yes, dark skin girls possess that exotic, jungle aura but the problem is that 7 times out of 10 they have the face of a baboon.


P.S. Good job, Orochi!:woot:

[Canto]

I like all skin colors.. from the darkest dark to the palest white, theyre all beautiful. My fave has got to be that milky brown though. Tanned white girl but not overly tanned.. yknow like a lot of mexian girls.

[Phoenix Wright]

LOL kudos to whoever put the link of that dr. dick vid in my comment box:rofl::tup:

OBJECTION! phoenx wright the evidence clearly contradicts your testimony! pics of snowbunny w/ latina booty assist!

Yo figcoinc hope things go well with the coffee date woman.

She closed her facebook, pics are no longer available.. epic loss.

I might see her again at work tommorow. She's a work-study and I'm a "casual" employee so our hours conflict. I'm gonna talk to her to see if she's "weird".

[°Hojo°]

Well I talked to he ultra sweet girl yesterday. It was a pretty hard talk. I took your guys suggestion, and threw it totally out there. I told her what I wanted out of her, how she can grow up, and if she really did love me that she would try her best to change those things. I mentioned a couple things about me as well that I was changing as an example. Also, to not put it all on her. We talked for about 7 hours.

The end result she did save me from totally cutting off ties. We decided we have a current open relationship until we decide things have changed. Almost like a reboot. Treating each other as we did when we first dated. It was her suggestion which surprised me.

So now I am still free to meet up with coffee date girl if anything comes of it. Then see my long time girl once in a while to see where the relationship is headed. I told her bluntly that if things do not change while we are doing this it is truly over. Do not think this means we are all better, and you can just do whatever BS you were doing before. I think she understood.

I read your other post. At first I thought you were being a really swell guy about the situation, but now, I'm not so sure.
I think it's really good that you talked with her and told her all the things you had been wanting to say, however, the open relationship thing is a very bad idea imo, at least with this particular girl. It's obvious this girl loves you. And, I don't know how your conversation went, but going by what you've said, and coming from a female perspective, I think it's very possible she suggested the open relationship because she is afraid to lose you and thinks that agreeing to that is the only way to keep you. Because you know just as well as she does, you weren't just going to up and start dating her in any way again without some things changing.

The reason why this is a very bad situation to be in with this girl is that while she is there trying to have this "open" relationship with you, trying her hardest to change the things you dislike about her, because after all, you did say "if she really did love me that she would try her best to change those things" which is an unfair request in itself, but, anyhow...while this is happening, you're getting closer to "coffee date" girl. So tell me. What happens when the super-sweet girl becomes what you want her to be but by that time you've developed serious feelings for the "coffee date" girl?

In my opinion, you need to either be with the super-sweet girl or end it completely, because I can only see this ending in heartbreak for her.

[JustB]

*TRUTH*

Going to have to +1 on this. My opinion may not matter much, but telling someone they gotta change and dragging them along is some lame shit.

You're basically saying she's not good enough for you, but you're going to keep her in your pocket as the "backup." If it was me, I would've dumped you on the spot and moved on.

[Silentness!]

lol man... I say to myself I'm independent I don't need anybody... but deep down inside I always end up missing the girl I see.

I have fun doing stuff on my own and with friends, but eventually all I can think about is spending time with my GF.
___________


There's a Idiom/proverb for what I'm feeling: "Absence makes the heart grow fonder"

[orochizoolander]

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You're forgetting the fact she agreed to an open relationship, in that situation you don't exactly have all the right in the world to complain if the person leaves you for someone else. No one is putting a gun to her head forcing her to be with him and at 27 years old you should know what an open relationship entails not to mention she's the one who suggested it in the first place. It's just like a married spouse who's significant other cheated on him/her if said the spouse decides to stay he/she has only him/herself to blame if the other cheats again.

Going to have to +1 on this. My opinion may not matter much, but telling someone they gotta change and dragging them along is some lame shit.

You're basically saying she's not good enough for you, but you're going to keep her in your pocket as the "backup." If it was me, I would've dumped you on the spot and moved on.


It doesn't matter if his terms or fair or not because the bottom line is that she agreed to them so she has no right to complain that it's unfair to her or whatever.

[JustB]

You're forgetting the fact she agreed to an open relationship, in that situation you don't exactly have all the right in the world to complain if the person leaves you for someone else. No one is putting a gun to her head forcing her to be with him and at 27 years old you should know what an open relationship entails not to mention she's the one who suggested it in the first place. It's just like a married spouse who's significant other cheated on him/her if said the spouse decides to stay he/she has only him/herself to blame if the other cheats again.

It doesn't matter if his terms or fair or not because the bottom line is that she agreed to them so she has no right to complain that it's unfair to her or whatever.

Spoken like a true manly man.

I'll put it this way. Let's say you're in love with someone. Like, you'd give up everything for this person, but you can feel the relationship slipping away. Then you're SO approaches you and basically gives you a list of everything that's wrong with you. Imagine this person you loved came up to you and said something like this: "Hey, I love you and all, but you need to lose some weight, stop doing that annoying thing you do that you don't know is a problem until I just now brought it up and probably don't have much control over, get more intelligent in this aspect of life, and if you ever lose your hair, I'm leaving. Oh and I'm not going to help you do any of these things, I'm going to go try to have a relationship with this other person while you try to figure all this out on your own"

Looking at Figcoinc's previous posts, he didn't "lay it all out." He left a door open to someone he, himself, says is too sheltered and wants to wait till marriage. She's not going to be able to handle what an "open" relationship means. He shouldn't have left any room for hope on her end if he does not want to be with her (which it sounds like he doesn't). So what he did was lame. She shouldn't complain, she should tell him to go screw himself and she should live her life without him.

[orochizoolander]

In response to your post I can just quote myself:rofl:

There's a huge difference between wanting someone to change who they are just to be with you and suggesting things they can improve on. My gf stopped hitting the gym since she picked up a second job so I told her I want her to continue to workout and because we don't get to talk that often she says sorry a lot for being too busy to talk to me between 2 jobs n school so I told her to stop apologizing all the time I understand she has other priorities. I don't think anything is wrong with that because she agrees with me on what she needs to change about herself. Both of us haven't been in a long distance relationship before but it's been harder for me then her so at one point I asked if I could see other girls for a bit n of course she was pissed but we reached a compromise eventually. She was okay with it cuz she trusts me and I admit it was unfair but that's why I asked not imposed it on her to make sure she was cool with it.

[Havoc]

There's nothing wrong with telling somebody about their qualities that bother you. Jeez. Nowadays, little league games don't keep score, some schools don't grade, and now, we can't tell our girlfriend that she acts like she's fourteen.

Yet another affect of the Trophy-For-Everyone Syndrome.

Listen. In the real world, people are going to get hurt. There isn't a way to get around every single situation in life without somebody being hurt. This situation is a perfect example. If he breaks up with this girl... she's hurt. If he lays out his issues with the relationship... she's probably hurt.

What's the difference?

Oh yeah... the difference is, the way he laid it out, the end result may just be that they live happily ever after at some point.

Yeah, she would have to change... but she needs to change anyway. She'd probably be a much happier person in general, if she started to live her life. He's an asshole for suggesting this?

As for the open relationship, well... I wouldn't do it. I don't think it's the smartest thing ever, but... it was her idea. Regardless, there's no reason he should be trapped into a relationship with somebody he doesn't want to be with at the time. Who benefits from being in an awkward, unfulfilling relationship? I don't think he should back himself into a corner, and cut off his other options on the faith that this girl is magically going to become everything he wants.

Now, me, I wouldn't do the open relationship thing. I would just break up with her. But I definitely would let her know about herself. It's for her own good, and it would, hopefully, help her in future relationships.

But... everyone's a pussy these days, so you can't tell people about themselves. It's mean. That's one reason why everyone's so fucked up these days. Every thinks they're perfect, because it's too mean to call anybody out...

[orochizoolander]

No bitch ass ness (http://i145.photobucket.com/albums/r208/BlazeszLaytsz/bitchassness.jpg)

Yup.

[onyx]

What, the, hell?
Ur guess is as good as mine dude..



UPDATE on the Snow-Bunny with the latina booty:



At the end of the night, come to find out. My boy tells me that he caught the Snowbunny staring at me a'lot during the night. I caught her a few times but I thought nothing of it.

Of course, my homegirl tells me that she's ugly... lol.

COol Night.

Its all urs now.. Thats how me and my current GF got together.. I was friend zoned early on, but i was cool with it because i was seeing other girls. Got to know her better and lost actually lost any romantic interest i had. Shed make plans with me and then not show, so i just stoped calling her. I brought this other chick i was talking with to the restaurant where she worked, and i can see her eyeball'n us the whole time. That night she text me says "we should hang out sometime, i haven't seen u in a while" The rest is history... Its like, u gotta show ur worth another womans time for girls to want ur time, wtf.

I think it's very possible she suggested the open relationship because she is afraid to lose you and thinks that agreeing to that is the only way to keep you.


Damn ur the second female thats said that.. A few months ago my girl just randomly told me i could have sex with other girls because she knows she cant satisfy me as much as i want.. Cought me way off guard, so i asked why, n she said because i don't want you to suffer because of me, so you can get what you need elsewhere as long as you dont fall in love with them.:looney: I agreed.. Then asked one of my females friends why a woman would say something like that, n she said exactly what you said... After my friend and i had a long conversation about it, i decided not to take my GF up on her offer, since then ive been satisfied :lovin:

[Figcoinc]

The difference between us is that I didn't suggest the open relationship, she actually did which floored me. We talked for a while and I asked her why she suggested that. She understands what it means, but thinks it may be better to have personal time. Also, I am not one to go out on a ton of dates. The coffee date girl was the first in a very long time. I did all that nonsense when I was younger. I explained to her what an "open relationship" means. Though, to even say we are in a open relationship is kind of a misnomer. We decided to separate for a bit, and start over. In other words we are not really going to talk and meet up every once in a while. In all regards she is not my girlfriend. We are just going to take our time to get to that point again. Very similar when we first started dating. It took us almost 2 months of that before we became exclusive. She is actually very intellectually honest girl when it comes to stuff like that. Which is one of the first things I wanted to see.

Also, to the point that I listed everything all at once. That is not true. These were things I mentioned over the years of our relationship. She also recommended things for me too. For me it seemed as if I changed a lot about me for her, but almost nothing for me. I used to have a huge temper, curse a lot, always walking around with a chimp on my shoulder, and discouraged easily. These are things she told me, and I changed a lot because of her. In those years I told her all the things I wished as well. I supported her throughout like she did for me. The difference is it seemed that she never took advantage of my help. Almost taking advantage of me because I always stuck by her. So, this was me in a way throwing the gauntlet down. I changed my life for the positive with her help, but she basically figured I would be around regardless of what she did. Which was true. I dated her off/on for 6 years. Never cheated on her when we were together. I drove her everywhere, and even put up with some of the other things. Why? I wanted her to grow like I did for her.

So we are going to restart the relationship. No more picking her up every second. Calling her everyday, and things like that. She understands I am going to go out not necessarily on dates. Just to go out because for years since I was a worker/student I never did. I have not went out, I mean really out with people in years. She understand what I want from her, and I am serious about it. I asked her what else she wanted from me. I am doing those things as well.

She told me today that she picked up a drivers ed book from the DMV. She wants to take the test. I am very proud of her, but I do not think she would have done it without this happening. I honestly do not want to lose her. Though I can not be there to hold her hand any longer. Also I may be moving out of the area. So this seperation thing is good. We talked about that too. Long distance relationships are hard as it is. So better for us to seperate so if I do move in the next month (when I find a new job) it will be eaiser on us. Then if things work out she will follow me to where ever I ended up.

We talked about a lot of things that would make this make more sense, but it is way more personal than what I wish to post on SRK. Just wanted to give the generals.

[Koop]

Also, to the point that I listed everything all at once. That is not true. These were things I mentioned over the years of our relationship. She also recommended things for me too. For me it seemed as if I changed a lot about me for her, but almost nothing for me. I used to have a huge temper, curse a lot, always walking around with a chimp on my shoulder, and discouraged easily. These are things she told me, and I changed a lot because of her. In those years I told her all the things I wished as well. I supported her throughout like she did for me. The difference is it seemed that she never took advantage of my help. Almost taking advantage of me because I always stuck by her. So, this was me in a way throwing the gauntlet down. I changed my life for the positive with her help, but she basically figured I would be around regardless of what she did. Which was true. I dated her off/on for 6 years. Never cheated on her when we were together. I drove her everywhere, and even put up with some of the other things. Why? I wanted her to grow like I did for her.




I have something to say about this portion of your story and it relates to others cause I understand this fully. never fuccin change you. literally. cause women will never change for you. regardless of how much you ask. if you guys EVER notice a woman can give suggestion to mold/change/adjust you in ANY way shape form or fashion... i mean they come up with every thing in the book from the way you speak to your ability to handle argument........an they keep suggesting an eventually men keep changing and adjusting.


NOW

think on when (for those who have) you have suggestion or asked for changes from them.... they never.... her let me repeat. NEVER change for you. Sure they will temporarily change to put a smile on your face followed by some serious pussy... then its right back to whatever the fuck. so anyone in that mold or have gotten a speech on "how you should...." need to immediately rebuttal that with a question of why are you even with me... what made you get with me????? cause typically... that change for the better speech comes about 8-12 months into the relationship...an especially after the official year. so guys... dont... cause they wont and most likely try to show how YOU have to change in order for the change you want from them to take effect:rofl: :looney: :rofl: :looney: :rofl: :looney: think on that shyt while your playin street fighter


Koop

[Etcetera]

...
For me it seemed as if I changed a lot about me for her, but almost nothing for me. I used to have a huge temper, curse a lot, always walking around with a chimp on my shoulder, and discouraged easily. ...
You use to have a pet monkey chilling on your shoulder and then had to get rid of it because of her?! That bitch got to go.

[Figcoinc]

You use to have a pet monkey chilling on your shoulder and then had to get rid of it because of her?! That bitch got to go.

:rofl: Wow that was corny.

[Warpticon]

You use to have a pet monkey chilling on your shoulder and then had to get rid of it because of her?! That bitch got to go.

:rofl: :rofl: You know?

[blackstar14]

I lol'd in class because of that

[HeaT]

so i got a question...

do you yall make bf/gf shit official or is it just known between both parties???

my last relationship it was just known, didnt need to be discussed...

im outi

Roberth

[Figcoinc]

so i got a question...

do you yall make bf/gf shit official or is it just known between both parties???

my last relationship it was just known, didnt need to be discussed...

im outi

Roberth

I always go by the rule if I feel we are more than just casually dating then I simply talk to them. Discuss on what we are to each other. When I am dating some girl casually and I meet a friend I introduce her by her name. If she is my girlfriend I usually put a title of girlfriend before her name. I talk to them to see how they feel about that prior. It doesn't have to be a serious talk. Just one of those pillow talk type shit.

What I realized young was woman usually are appreciative of you asking because she may not want, or may want something. She just was trying to figure out what you meant to her. Sometimes it is a natural progression, but honestly I like to just put it out there. You may find something out that you need to know before taking it a bit more serious.

[Havoc]

so i got a question...

do you yall make bf/gf shit official or is it just known between both parties???

my last relationship it was just known, didnt need to be discussed...

im outi

Roberth

Completely unrelated, but I was listening to Regardless today, and the line is "I kept my cool; son was behind the clouds"

Which is a much doper line.

[HeaT]

Completely unrelated, but I was listening to Regardless today, and the line is "I kept my cool; son was behind the clouds"

Which is a much doper line.

actually, im pretty sure it is how i have it in my sig...actually nevermind i just listened to it again it was sun was behind the clouds...

im outi

Roberth

[Oni_Ryu]

Have a bit of work related issue right now.

A couple of monthes ago, I got involved with a girl who works at the same place as me (We work at the same Best Buy, but different departments, she's a Geek Squad agent, I work in Cellular phones.) A couple of monthes ago, she started hitting on me out of nowhere, I pursued her and we started dating.

About a month later we broke up. It was a combination of things. The biggest factor was that she realized she couldn't be in a relationship, she didn't have the time and was going to study in Japan in about a year. Needless to say, I was kind of pissed off because she pursued me, now she wants to break up over something she should have realized monthes before hand. Regardless, I took it as a blessing because she has WAY too much emotional baggage. Our second date was on St. Patrick's day, she's Irish and she got totally wasted, ended up telling me her deepest, darkest secrets (she had an abortion, her dad used to sexually assault her when she was little. She actually said it was ok for me to hit her, just don't choke her :confused:) This is all stuff i've kept to myself, only reason i'm comfortable telling it here is because its an online forum.

So anyways. I have a "No friends" policy when it comes to relationships, its easier for me if I just not talk to someone i've been with anymore. For the most part, I walk into work and pretend she doesn't exist. I might say hi and talk to her every now and again, but only under rare circumstances.

Unfortunately, our store is like a giant High School. Rumors and gossip start forming, she calls me up to see how i'm doing. She then goes into how one of our other co workers started hitting on her, how she ran into her ex boyfriend and bitched him out for leaving her, etc... I told her it was cool if she wants to chat, but I don't want to hear stuff like that, we got into a bit of an arguement and I hung up on her.

I come into work a few days later, one of my closest friends comes up to me and tells me that she had talked to my ex and my ex bitched about me, saying she broke up with me because I was possessive and had anger issues. I was pretty upset over hearing something like that, went out and got some fresh air and got over it. I texted her and told her that she needs to keep things professional and knock off the high school bullshit, I didn't want to talk to her anymore. She texted me back telling her to stop contacting her, blah blah...

So cut to a few monthes later. Things are pretty much back to normal (so I thought...) I pretty much walk into work pretending like non of that ever happened, like she doesn't exist. I can kind of see it coming off as assholish since any kind of communication from her gets the cold shoulder, silent treatment response. The way I see it, any kind of communication with her could be used to fuel the fire so to speak, i'd rather not let that happen.

Last weekend, a good friend of mine from work (who also happens to be a good friend of my ex, who also works for Geek Squad) and I decide to hang out. The last time I hung out with him was monthes ago and one of the first things he told me before I got to his house was that he needed to talk to me about something very important.

It turns out my ex has been complaining way too much about me to her fellow GS agents (usually whenever she has to talk to me because she has a customer to hand off or something.) The thing about it is, non of her complaints hold any weight anymore because:

1. She bitched about me so often that her co workers now simply roll her eyes whenever she goes off about me again.

2. When they talk to me, I don't make any mention of her whatsoever.

It also turns out she's trying to manipulate people into hating me. My friend said that if she found out he was hanging out me, she would blow a gasket. Thank god nobody has let her control them like that (I hope.)

I'm also not keen on the fact she tried to talk a manager into firing me. Thank god there is nothing they could do because i've been the bigger person, but it still makes me look very bad in my boss' eyes. Being someone who wants to move up in the company, this doesn't help me.

Granted, I admit to being a bit of an asshole. I told her she needed to take an entire PC/Monitor/Printer package from her dept (the back of the store) to my dept (the front of the store) because I needed to ring it up (which is true, I sold them an internet card with the PC package, my dept tracks my productivity, so all sales that involve me have to be rung up by me or it looks like I did nothing.) When I told her she needed to bring all her stuff up to my dept, I walked away offering her no help in carrying anything. I can see why she would complain about me then, but the bitch deserved it.

So, heres where I stand. I've been ignoring this long enough, thought everything was fine but it seems like things aren't quite.

I'm sure many of you have had experiences dating co workers, any input would be awesome. Heres how I see my options.

1. Continue to ignore everything. This seems to be my default option and i'm leaning on just pretending like nothing happened. At the same time, the dark side in me wants nothing more than to show her a flight of stairs.

2. Confront her alone. Probably the worst option IMO. Who knows what could happen, she could flip out and make a huge situation. At the same time, it might be the quickest method to end this. Just go up to her and tell her to knock this stupid shit off.

3. Confront her with a group of coworkers. Sounds like the best option to me, I know several guys who have told me they're sick of hearing her bitch about me. Confronting her as a group gives me more leverage and I have witnesses.

4. Talk to a Manager. I really don't want to have to use this option. I'd hate to waste a Manager's time on something stupid like this. Not only that but it makes me look less professional. At the same time, I just found out she tried to talk a manager into firing me. They said they couldn't do anything because I didn't do anything.

5. Fight back. Another option I don't really want to consider. I have enough dirt on this girl to bury her. Secrets that not even her best friend knows about, if I were to leak that out to the store, she would most likely quit. At the same time, this sinks me down to her level and makes me look like a bad guy.

So there you have it gentlemen. Sorry for the whole wall of text. I know alot of this sounds like high school he said/she said bullshit. And I completely agree, because it is. But its getting harder to ignore with employees coming up to me telling me that she's bitching about me. I really don't want to just take this shit laying down and I feel its only going to get worse now that I know about it.

Once again, sorry about the huge surge of text guys. I just hit the preview button and saw how big this thing is. Major thank yous to anybody who reads through all of it to help.

[orochizoolander]

If a girl's mad at you for whatever reason just tell her: you're so sexy perfect for me. =P


Real answer: Just ignore it because it sounds like she's going to get herself fired soon actually I'm very surprised she hasn't been fired already. The more she talks the better you look as long as you don't stoop to her level.

[Hoonyo]

If you're going to do anything, do it outside of work. You want to maintain your professionalism, amirite? Continue to ignore it at work, but do something when you know you're going to quit/get fired.

[Shotokan Symphony]

You done fucked up, Oni. Being cold to a basket case is the worst choice you made, ESPECIALLY a coworker. But at this point, she'll trip on her own tail. She's moving to Japan anyway, isn't she? Deal with it till then. If your coworkers keep telling you about it, tell them it's not your problem any more and that you severed your ties.

[Silentness!]

omg I feel like a crack addict...

I haven't talked to my GF all day and I feel like I haven't seen her in ages.

I sent her a message and she sent me one back, but we haven't actually talked on phone/messenger.

Only get to see her on the weekends because she lives 2 hours away lol. I think that's good anyways because I'm busy on weekdays and we'd probably get bored of each other if we saw often.

[hyper kid]

well you know what they say, "don't dip the pen in the company ink", so keep ignoring her, and please refraim from dating co workers, because your buisness is no longer your buisness.

[JackTenrac!]

I haven't talked to my GF all day and I feel like I haven't seen her in ages.


This, here, is the very shit I despise with every essence of my dust-ridden being. What is the deal with this? I had a few days, where I haven't seen my mom, and I didn't miss her.

[Silentness!]

This, here, is the very shit I despise with every essence of my dust-ridden being. What is the deal with this? I had a few days, where I haven't seen my mom, and I didn't miss her.

I dunno I think I have love sickness if that is even real.
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@Mom

Dude lol... I haven't seen my parents since like last November. That was only for a week of vacation. Even then I spent a good chunk of that week hanging out with my friends in the states and chilling at their houses.

I miss my parents, but they are not on my mind constantly like this girl I'm seeing. Call me crazy, I love my parents 100%, but I don't need to see them unless they are dieing to see me. I call them every now and then, but I am doing fine by myself. This woman I'm seeing though is different. I can't get her off my mind sometimes...

[thurst]

is it possible for you to get close to your managers? if so, try to build and solidify your relationships with them so that if they are slightly buying all the bullshit about they can see that you're a decent guy that just happened to hook up with a nutcase.

[thurst]

most people spend almost 20 uinterrupted years with their parents, it's not surprising that you don't miss them. in the same way that people that have been married like 20-30 years are sick on some puppy love shit when they can't see their significant other for a few months.

[Silentness!]

I actually haven't seen my dad several times while growing up. He is retired Army so he went to the field a lot, and was deployed several times. I remember I missed him a lot for like a week when he went to Korea by himself and then I was fine.

I stayed with my parents till 19 and then left the house to be on my own. I'm STILL not really on my own... now I'm the government's bitch in the Air Force. :rofl: I went from being controlled by my parents to being controlled by big brother (Government)
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I might go back soon to visit for a month. Don't know exactly yet...

[JackTenrac!]

most people spend almost 20 uinterrupted years with their parents, it's not surprising that you don't miss them. in the same way that people that have been married like 20-30 years are sick on some puppy love shit when they can't see their significant other for a few months.

I understand the feeling at a dozen days. Or even two dozen. But please: read his sentence carefully. 1 day. ONE DAY. I heard this, from my friend, once. I wanted to knee his face so bad because of how ridiculous it has sounded. TONY JAA STYLE. How the hell could you even say that? 24 hours. That shit sounds like a bond, created by shotgun-whipping blackmail, more times than a real relationship. Missing someone, that you haven't heard or seen, for like a day, is seriously stupid.

Koop: explain this shit to me please.

[thurst]

lol you do have a point, i think we should give ness the benefit of the doubt and assume he's overstating his true feelings and really just wants to get in dat k-womb (UGH!).

[The Epidemic]

I cant front...i be missing my girl when she goes outta state for business or to visit her parents. My situation might be different from some of you guys tho since we live together. So when shes gone...even for a couple days i feel it.

[JackTenrac!]

I cant front...i be missing my girl when she goes outta state for business or to visit her parents. My situation might be different from some of you guys tho since we live together. So when shes gone...even for a couple days i feel it.

Well, that's cool. That's fine BECAUSE YOU LIVE TOGETHER. But...

You're missing her
+ it's been only 24 hours
+ YOU DON'T EVEN LIVE WITH THE BITCH?!
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Begging for attention.

- so yeah: I'll stick to 20 and over.

[The Epidemic]

^the brother is sprung. Believe it or not it happens to a lot of cats :/
I doubt anyone in this thread will admit they were sprung over a broad b4 tho...

[onyx]

This, here, is the very shit I despise with every essence of my dust-ridden being. What is the deal with this? I had a few days, where I haven't seen my mom, and I didn't miss her.
Well, ur mom doesn't suck ur d!ck does she:rolleyes::rofl:

^the brother is sprung. Believe it or not it happens to a lot of cats :/
I doubt anyone in this thread will admit they were sprung over a broad b4 tho...
Word, shit happens.

[Silentness!]

I was overreacting lolz... I admit

[Stuckey]

Nothin wrong with missing your piece man. I been there like Kindergarten. Long as you aren't getting all sick and can't function and all that jazz, you're supposed to miss her.

[orochizoolander]

^the brother is sprung. Believe it or not it happens to a lot of cats :/
I doubt anyone in this thread will admit they were sprung over a broad b4 tho...

I was more then once even. Took me a while to realize I should only devote as much attention to a girl as she does to me.

[Stuckey]

Yeah, i've been sprung before. I think it should happen to every guy and have some sort of negative results at least once. Puts things into proper prospective like an 8 megapixel camera.

[orochizoolander]

:rofl: That's your best simile thus far:tup:

Most guys get hung up over a girl who has little or no interest in them at least once, I guess it's human nature to want what you can't have but I'm just glad I grew out of it early on.

[Silentness!]

"What color panties do you like?" "I got something for you when I see you..."
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I will never understand women...

[Stuckey]

yeah. She has the same shit for you that she's been having. Just in different wrapping paper. Whoopdee doo...

[berserkotaku45]

what are some of the best ways to find out of a girl is single without putting yourself out there too much

[Silentness!]

yeah. She has the same shit for you that she's been having. Just in different wrapping paper. Whoopdee doo...

lol yes I am honestly not too excited. I don't understand women...

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Lol where is your SIMILE!

[Warpticon]

lol yes I am honestly not too excited. I don't understand women...

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Lol where is your SIMILE!

How is your girl trying to turn you on (whether it actually does or not) an "I don't understand women" situation?

[Stuckey]

Lol where is your SIMILE!

I don't know man. I'm being lazy today like President Bush.

[Silentness!]

How is your girl trying to turn you on (whether it actually does or not) an "I don't understand women" situation?

Cause this is the same chick that says she doesn't want sex sometimes...

Sometimes she craves it and sometimes she says to promise her to not have sex for a while so that we can appreciate each other more.

That's why I said I don't understand women.

[ST Vega]

Cause this is the same chick that says she doesn't want sex sometimes...

Sometimes she craves it and sometimes she says to promise her to not have sex for a while so that we can appreciate each other more.

That's why I said I don't understand women.

Girls like that are more prone to act on impulse and then regret it later.

[Silentness!]

Girls like that are more prone to act on impulse and then regret it later.

Yeah she told me that before... that she does a lot of stuff on impulse. :looney:

[thurst]

that shit sounds wacker than weeds.

(does that work?)

[JackTenrac!]

My bad. Yeah, that sounds like it. I've been there before, too. Guess I can now laugh at people being "sprung". Jokingly. Not insultingly.

[Ryusuke]

what are some of the best ways to find out of a girl is single without putting yourself out there too much

Try asking a simple innocent question about her bf?

[DJ Ether]

what are some of the best ways to find out of a girl is single without putting yourself out there too much

In all honesty, what does it matter? When I was single I didn't care if they bitch had a man or not. If the bitch wants to fuck you, she already decided the moment she saw you. Man or no man. If the girl is dirty and would fuck you knowing she got a man, then thats on her. Any girl just like a guy, that is good and faithful would never cheat. Thats real talk.

[berserkotaku45]

In all honesty, what does it matter? When I was single I didn't care if they bitch had a man or not. If the bitch wants to fuck you, she already decided the moment she saw you. Man or no man. If the girl is dirty and would fuck you knowing she got a man, then thats on her. Any girl just like a guy, that is good and faithful would never cheat. Thats real talk.

when i was in pittsburgh i was fucking a chick who had a live in b/f, i felt bad at first but after a while i didn't give a shit. she was a freak to, best sex i ever had

[HeaT]

i dont know when you are in love you could totally miss a chick after a day...shits happened to me so, i dont see why it couldnt for someone else madly in love...

im outi

Roberth

[Futch]

Word, shit happens.

Happening to me right now. She's 4 years older than me so I don't wanna sound like a total wuss. Truth is I am being wussy.

Dammit, the posts discussing this topic helped me. Thanks.

It's a fucking day, 24 hours.

[TheWanderer]

my ex and i just talked and i asked her out. she said yeah. she said shes gonna let me know what time so i can meet up with her...

now.. i think she might not go cuz she does the cancel at the later minute kinda thing alot, and my cell broke long time ago, i forgot to tell her. i ask for her number again cuz i dont remember, but she went to bed. ima wait for to see if i get that number tomorrow. if i do, then it's on...

my question is.. i told her we'll go meet up and get some grub then i'll take her to a couple more places... i was thinking dinner, and then movie and a walk somewhere..

any other suggestions fellas?:wonder:

[Havoc]

Don't do it?

Exes are never good news. Move on.

[TheWanderer]

man.. you crazy? thats like passing up a free lunch and lollipop..

[narc]

Except they're both on you, and not actually free.

Ask what time she is going to bed, then make the date 10 minutes before that, fuck treating her to Disneyland.

[TheWanderer]

Except they're both on you, and not actually free.

Ask what time she is going to bed, then make the date 10 minutes before that, fuck treating her to Disneyland.

lol... we'll see.. oh yea, the lollipop part sounded kinda homo.. LMAO.. :(

good idea, haha. i'm thinking of ice skating or something but i don't think i would enjoy falling on my ass neither does she.. LMAO..

i guess dinner, movie and then a walk will do.. since we been away for a couple years now..so that should be good enough.

[The Epidemic]

man.. you crazy? thats like passing up a free lunch and lollipop..

:confused:
i love how this guy always asks for advice...then NEVER takes it.

Be hardheaded...learn a lesson - DMX

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Onyx: why u didnt accept my invite on 3s ggpo??

[SF_PHOCUS]

:confused:
i love how this guy always asks for advice...then NEVER takes it.

Be hardheaded...learn a lesson - DMX

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Onyx: why u didnt accept my invite on 3s ggpo??

Lmfao u know something i was thinking that right as i was readin his post before urs!


So i started on my lil kill bill type list....
I compiled a lil list of girls i want to smash by the end of 08... the list consists of a few girls that i wanted to smash for a long time but didnt get a chance to for watever reason.. i think this is a fun personal challenge to see if i can really get thru this list...:wgrin:

[BBQ]

lol... we'll see.. oh yea, the lollipop part sounded kinda homo.. LMAO.. :(

good idea, haha. i'm thinking of ice skating or something but i don't think i would enjoy falling on my ass neither does she.. LMAO..

i guess dinner, movie and then a walk will do.. since we been away for a couple years now..so that should be good enough.

Wait, are you the guy that was obsessed with the dental front desk lady?

[kazamamaster]

Wait, are you the guy that was obsessed with the dental front desk lady?

:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl: YUP

[onyx]

what are some of the best ways to find out of a girl is single without putting yourself out there too much
Easy just grab her ass.. Then if she threatens to get her BF to beat you into the ground, you'll know she's not single:wgrin:.. Seriously though, sometimes being direct is the only way, f the bs. JUst ask her if shes got a bf, just be prepared with a reply if she says ya, no or why?

Onyx: why u didnt accept my invite on 3s ggpo??

Ahh i was prolly away from the comp. I'm prolly gonna be on 2night when i get home from work, whats ur ggpo tag?

[TheWanderer]

:confused:
i love how this guy always asks for advice...then NEVER takes it.

Be hardheaded...learn a lesson - DMX
i just wanted to hear more tips man. i got what the other dude was saying..

Wait, are you the guy that was obsessed with the dental front desk lady?

i wasn't obsess.. just that i ask for tips on here before i even had the chance to ask her out..

[Koop]

Don't do it?

Exes are never good news. Move on.


I am Koop... and I approve this post:tup:

[w1r3d]

So pretty much every day at work I go out for lunch (I'm working on cutting back atm), and I usually end up at one of two Vietnamese restaurants. The first one because I like the people that work there (older ppl, but they're really nice to me), and the second one because the food is awesome, and some cute girls work there.

Anyway, recently I've been getting one of the waitresses (she's not really a waitress, I can tell she's either the owner or related to the owner somehow) to laugh a lot, and she's been really nice to me lately as well. Adding to that, her younger sister (which is also super cute) has been laughing at my jokes recently too, but before she wouldn't laugh at all (the older sister would at least smile or w/e, try to be nice). I don't want to bore you with a couple stories or whatever, but two of my coworkers keep telling me I should get her number.

My thing is that I'm worried that I might somehow mess it up, and I'll be stuck with it since I like to go to that place for lunch a lot. Should I risk it? I'm thinking it'd be weird if she said either answer. I think if I didn't go so much I wouldn't sweat it at all (I've asked for numbers at other random restaurants).


My current plan (if I end up doing it) is to go there this Sunday after church (when I'm still in church clothes), and IF I notice the vibe is good (she's laughing and whatnot), then I'll ask for the number. I might say something like "hey Brooke, you seem like an interesting person. I'd like to take you out for a cup of coffee sometime. What's your phone number?". What do you guys think?

ps. I've used that line before and it's worked, but I'm open for suggestions.

pps. The reason I mentioned her sister is because it's one of our theories that she is only being nice to me because her older sister has maybe mentioned me in their conversations or something. I could be wrong, but it'd be awesome if it was true, lol.

ppps. I'm Puerto Rican, and she's Vietnamese. I know SRK likes to know race in every situation. =)

pppps. Another reason I'm sweating it is because Asian girls are like kryptonite to me. It's kinda sad, but I think I'd have no problems if she was Hispanic, for example. :\

[ST Vega]

I kind of had that going on awhile back with the girl that worked at the chinese place next to where I used to work. I'd go over there all the time, even if only for a soda. I never asked for a number or anything cause I was in a relationship at the time, even though I was wanting out.

But, instead of asking for her number right off the bat, why not just ask her to go out for said cup of coffee? Or invite her to sit with you while you have lunch. I dunno, I guess I'm not too much help with that situation.

[The Epidemic]

Ahh i was prolly away from the comp. I'm prolly gonna be on 2night when i get home from work, whats ur ggpo tag?
La Epidemic

snip...
Go for it....you gotta take risks in life. If i were you i would change my approach a lil bit tho. Since your Puerto Rican im assuming you can speak spanish right? (cause i do know some who cant lol) I would say something sweet (and slightly corny) to her in spanish. Naturally, shes gonna ask what it means then you tell her. I guarentee you it will break her guard, then thats when you ask for her number. Thats how i would do it anyway.

Edit: My pockets got milked today at the mall :shake: fuck you nine west and sunglass hut

[berserkotaku45]

I'm supposed to be hanging with a girl that i've been wanting to spend some time with since i saw her at work(no longer work there), but its gonna be pretty late, what are some good places to take her, and if it goes back to her apartment what moves should i make

[SNAAAAKE]

anybody have any tips on how to talk to girls at the gym. this girl works(probably doesnt anymore) there is almost always eyeing me but I am not entirely sure if she is checking me out or something. I mean she doesnt really have a reason to. she knows/talks to ALL these cock diesel muscle douchebags there and I dont see why she would want me over them. I dunno where I am going with this...:confused:

[berserkotaku45]

anybody have any tips on how to talk to girls at the gym. this girl works(probably doesnt anymore) there is almost always eyeing me but I am not entirely sure if she is checking me out or something. I mean she doesnt really have a reason to. she knows/talks to ALL these cock diesel muscle douchebags there and I dont see why she would want me over them. I dunno where I am going with this...:confused:

i'd like to know the same thing. i just joined the gym and there are some hotties there

[tech master]

anybody have any tips on how to talk to girls at the gym. this girl works(probably doesnt anymore) there is almost always eyeing me but I am not entirely sure if she is checking me out or something. I mean she doesnt really have a reason to. she knows/talks to ALL these cock diesel muscle douchebags there and I dont see why she would want me over them. I dunno where I am going with this...:confused:

does she actually work out there also? or just work there?

[PanderanGambler]

anybody have any tips on how to talk to girls at the gym. this girl works(probably doesnt anymore) there is almost always eyeing me but I am not entirely sure if she is checking me out or something. I mean she doesnt really have a reason to. she knows/talks to ALL these cock diesel muscle douchebags there and I dont see why she would want me over them. I dunno where I am going with this...:confused:



Shes not checking you out, just making sure you're not checking her out.

[TheWanderer]

so the my date was supposed to be today and i was going to call the girl to cancel it to either tomorrow or next sunday. well, before i could message her, she messaged me and said she got shits to do with her mom, and that she wanna change schedule to next sat.

i was going to call her and cancel it cuz i got shits to do, which i do. i said to her not next saturday, but how about Sund?

she hasnt got my message yet, but from what you guys see..is she playing me or what? haha

[orochizoolander]

Everyone would benefit if you GTFO of this thread.

[TheWanderer]

Everyone would benefit if you GTFO of this thread.

man why you hating... :arazz:..

tip or no tip. dont gotta bash.. lmao

[Koop]

man why you hating... :arazz:..

tip or no tip. dont gotta bash.. lmao

No one is hating. You don't listen, you question someone perspective and/or opinion and you've yet to try something YOURSELF and learn an outcome. Go figure it out and if it works, congrats. If not come an let us know and someone can help


SRK WILL NOT HOLD YOUR HAND IN DEALING WITH WOMEN


So go learn yourself and how you can handle a situation.



Thanks
Koop

[The Epidemic]

Re: Gym

In most cases women dont wanna be bothered while they are working out. I wouldnt go trying to kick game. Unless you KNOW shes been giving you looks, you shouldnt waste your time.

Trust me on this...ive been going to gyms for many years now...and i used to be the same way. I used to go there looking for fine broads with that volleyball body. I got play sometimes but, usually it just comes off kinda douchey, plus most of the broads have headphones on anyway sooo...yea.

[w1r3d]

Go for it....you gotta take risks in life. If i were you i would change my approach a lil bit tho. Since your Puerto Rican im assuming you can speak spanish right? (cause i do know some who cant lol) I would say something sweet (and slightly corny) to her in spanish. Naturally, shes gonna ask what it means then you tell her. I guarentee you it will break her guard, then thats when you ask for her number. Thats how i would do it anyway.

Cool. That's a pretty good idea. I'll think up of something to say tomorrow. =)

[thurst]

Re: Gym

In most cases women dont wanna be bothered while they are working out. I wouldnt go trying to kick game. Unless you KNOW shes been giving you looks, you shouldnt waste your time.

Trust me on this...ive been going to gyms for many years now...and i used to be the same way. I used to go there looking for fine broads with that volleyball body. I got play sometimes but, usually it just comes off kinda douchey, plus most of the broads have headphones on anyway sooo...yea.

i thought snake was referring to the chick that worked at the gym, from my experiences they're never really doing anything so it seems conceivable that you could spit some game at them.

[Ryusuke]

man why you hating... :arazz:..

tip or no tip. dont gotta bash.. lmao

You're a fucking idiot. You come on here asking for help, then question every step like we dont know what we're talking about. So then you ignore us until next time.
Everyone here that posts advice does it because they've been there. Done that. No one held their hand while they were doing it. They alone figured out their own ways to get into a girl's panties. Experience=confidence=GAME Now gtfo!:mad:

anybody have any tips on how to talk to girls at the gym. this girl works(probably doesnt anymore) there is almost always eyeing me but I am not entirely sure if she is checking me out or something. I mean she doesnt really have a reason to. she knows/talks to ALL these cock diesel muscle douchebags there and I dont see why she would want me over them. I dunno where I am going with this...:confused:

I agree with everyone else. Make sure she still works there and that she's checking you out. Here's a question for you: Have you ever thought that she might not be into the cock diesel type of guy? Some girls I've ran into hate the really built muscular type. Just relax and pursue the lead, chief.:wonder:

[berserkotaku45]

I'm supposed to be hanging with a girl that i've been wanting to spend some time with since i saw her at work(no longer work there), but its gonna be pretty late, what are some good places to take her, and if it goes back to her apartment what moves should i make


yeah i got blown off yesterday, shes still hung up on her ex and the only thing he wants from her is that warm hole between her legs, but ohwell. I don't want to deal with that shit anyways

[G1itch]

If you're dating a girl, just dating now... not your girlfriend. But you guys have slept together and like each other and that stuff. Should you be mad if you found out she was (I don't know which it is, I just found a picture of her kissing some guy at a club) either dating someone else while dating you or hooking up with someone else while dating you?

[Adam Warlock]

If you're dating a girl, just dating now... not your girlfriend. But you guys have slept together and like each other and that stuff. Should you be mad if you found out she was (I don't know which it is, I just found a picture of her kissing some guy at a club) either dating someone else while dating you or hooking up with someone else while dating you?

In my opinion, no. Unless you've made it clear or she's given you some indication that the two of you are exclusive, you shouldn't be mad. That's that shit females do. If you have feelings like that you need to make them clear and get them out in the open.

[G1itch]

In my opinion, no. Unless you've made it clear or she's given you some indication that the two of you are exclusive, you shouldn't be mad. That's that shit females do. If you have feelings like that you need to make them clear and get them out in the open.

Well, then that sucks. I guess i already knew that answer.

So how are you suppose to trust this person if she talks about being "exclusive" later on?

[SRKev]

Well, then that sucks. I guess i already knew that answer.

So how are you suppose to trust this person if she talks about being "exclusive" later on?

In relationships, nothing is to be assumed.

Everything is to be discussed.

[Amordien]

In relationships, nothing is to be assumed.

Everything is to be discussed.

Quoted for emphasis. I have a few friends right now who are heartbroken over prospective women, angry over "assumptions" or "what they thought would happen".

If you feel a certain way, that shit needs to be laid out on the table and spoken on. So much drama can be avoided that way.

[G1itch]

In relationships, nothing is to be assumed.

Everything is to be discussed.

In my opinion, no. Unless you've made it clear or she's given you some indication that the two of you are exclusive, you shouldn't be mad. That's that shit females do. If you have feelings like that you need to make them clear and get them out in the open.


I guess I just let things affect me more than they should.

Both of you, thanks.

[kazamamaster]

If you're dating a girl, just dating now... not your girlfriend. But you guys have slept together and like each other and that stuff. Should you be mad if you found out she was (I don't know which it is, I just found a picture of her kissing some guy at a club) either dating someone else while dating you or hooking up with someone else while dating you?


I was going to echo what few others had said, but in a situation like this it pays to know if this girl was definitely doing something behind your back. Even still, sounds like to me you guys are in a gray area. You're just dating, but you get the physical benefits. If she's doing the same with another dude, chances are she might want to try and keep it that way, or she's confused and doesn't really know what she wants, or figures the two of you aren't exclusive, so she can do as she pleases.

Some men do the same thing while dating, so some females also do it back. You just need to find out what type of chick she is, and where her head is at. If you never clearly know a chick isn't messing around with someone else while messing with you, you need to be careful. Also, I'm sure you know if she's sleeping with more than one person, she could be putting you at risk of something serious like a disease if something happens.


Talk to her. If she gets a little hostile about the situation or acts as if she's not ready to be exclusive, that's not the type of chick you should be trusting.

[TheWanderer]

there's this chick who i met a couple days ago.. and no, not my ex. we canceled the date and will meet up next week. well theres this chick and we exchanged numbers and she wanted me to call her. so i did. we talked for a couple days now. everytime i tell her im hanging up, she said no don't go in them girly voice..once i was at the grocery buying shit and told her to wait for 5 or 6 minutes on the phone and she did... haha.

what i notice is she use the girly voice a lot and said she'd buy me anything i want....:confused:

i'm thinking of getting xbox360 or desktop... how do i keep this chick interested?:wink:

[Koop]

there's this chick who i met a couple days ago.. and no, not my ex. we canceled the date and will meet up next week. well theres this chick and we exchanged numbers and she wanted me to call her. so i did. we talked for a couple days now. everytime i tell her im hanging up, she said no don't go in them girly voice..once i was at the grocery buying shit and told her to wait for 5 or 6 minutes on the phone and she did... haha.

what i notice is she use the girly voice a lot and said she'd buy me anything i want....:confused:

i'm thinking of getting xbox360 or desktop... how do i keep this chick interested?:wink:


I want you to figure out something an report back to us. I will not repeat that srk will not hold your hand.


Thanks

Koop

[The Epidemic]

"yo you cant have BOTH son" - Big Brother

.................


Im kinda in a weird spot right now. I mean, some of you guys might know my situation. A few months ago I decided to break things off with one of the flyest girls(call her GF-1) I have ever known, to go back to my ex-gf (who is fine too call her GF-2) for obvious reasons. Everything has been going fine up until a few weeks ago. Now i still keep in contact with GF-1 cause were still friends but, last week i kinda fucked up...lets just say things one thing led to another.(alcohol isnt a excuse but, fuck i dunno) Now after everything was...finished, She says she still wants to be with me and she doesnt mind about whats going on with me and GF-2 right now.

Now when she said that i was like, "wooord!??" I kinda knew thats how she felt but, its better hearing her say it. Now with alllllll that said, i still want to be with GF-2 tho...its just that I want BOTH. Like i seriously think i will be able to handle both but something like that just isnt realistic. I dunno...its just made annoying doing all this thinking and shit. Its kinda funny bc this type of behavior is outta character for me but, GF-1 was tooo good and special.

Im not the type to sweat a chick or dwell in the past but...shit, I gotta hurry up and figure something out.

[forgenjuro]

If you have Magnus like juggling powers why not?

but most fools only got game like SF1.

Best you call out the residential SRK "Step yo game up" assist.


i keep imagining you doing chappelle's "wooord?" face when she told you that:rofl:

EDIT: i wouldnt put it past GF-1 to try to fuck up the thing you have with GF-2. so watch yo back!

[Figcoinc]

Ah well looks like my coffee date date was a dud. I e-mailed her a couple days ago nothing, and even sent her a IM when she was online. Sucks, but back to the drawing board. Time to erase her ass off my contacts and see if I can get some other shit going.

[G1itch]

I was going to echo what few others had said, but in a situation like this it pays to know if this girl was definitely doing something behind your back. Even still, sounds like to me you guys are in a gray area. You're just dating, but you get the physical benefits. If she's doing the same with another dude, chances are she might want to try and keep it that way, or she's confused and doesn't really know what she wants, or figures the two of you aren't exclusive, so she can do as she pleases.

Some men do the same thing while dating, so so