The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Team Cable]

Find a real cougar man, this one is wasting your time. Plus she let it be known that she don't date younger guys such as yourself.

3 kids ummmm? any idea how old they are?

Unbelievably one of her kids just had her quincienera (when Mexican girls turn 15). Yet she's only four years older than me. Yeah, she gets crazy.

As for your earlier post about my other situation, yeah it would be cool to hook up with her, but if she goes back to that other nigga, what can you do, huh?

I realize these are tough situations that's why I turn to the fountain of knowledge that's here.

BTW I don't want to find a real cougar.

[SiD]

Unbelievably one of her kids just had her quincienera (when Mexican girls turn 15). Yet she's only four years older than me. Yeah, she gets crazy.

As for your earlier post about my other situation, yeah it would be cool to hook up with her, but if she goes back to that other nigga, what can you do, huh?

I realize these are tough situations that's why I turn to the fountain of knowledge that's here.

BTW I don't want to find a real cougar.

Nothing you can really do man which sux.. like I said. it ain't fair to you.

As for this lady with the kids, how long you been talkin to her for?? Does she know you are broke?

[thurst]

@Team Cable:
how old is she exactly? and what prompted her to come out with that not wanting to be a cougar shit? i feel like most of the time chicks say shit like that they just want you to step your game up. unles your radar is all kinds of fucked, if you feel you have a chance to hit then you probably do, just stick with it.

[Team Cable]

Thanks guys for all your feedback. I knew of this girl before, but tonight was the first time I actually sat down and talked with her.

No, she doesn't know I'm broke, but honestly, it probably isn't a problem since she can take care off herself.

And through talking with her she said some 24 year old handsome nigga at work was trying to holler at her and she wasn't having it. She said she would feel like a cougar (she's only 31). That motherfucker is only three years younger than me.

Fuck.

[SiD]

Thanks guys for all your feedback. I knew of this girl before, but tonight was the first time I actually sat down and talked with her.

No, she doesn't know I'm broke, but honestly, it probably isn't a problem since she can take care off herself.

And through talking with her she said some 24 year old handsome nigga at work was trying to holler at her and she wasn't having it. She said she would feel like a cougar (she's only 31). That motherfucker is only three years younger than me.

Fuck.

Man i think that bitch got some strong morals.. and honestly she's wasting your time. You want a chick that don't make stupid excuses and who's down for anything, and you can go with the flow from there!

P.S. Don't tell her you're broke. it's none of her business

[Ryusuke]

Thanks guys for all your feedback. I knew of this girl before, but tonight was the first time I actually sat down and talked with her.

No, she doesn't know I'm broke, but honestly, it probably isn't a problem since she can take care off herself.

And through talking with her she said some 24 year old handsome nigga at work was trying to holler at her and she wasn't having it. She said she would feel like a cougar (she's only 31). That motherfucker is only three years younger than me.

Fuck.

I actually applaud her decision not to date the dude. You should never date co workers. I concur with everything else tho. Same shit happened to me. Met a chick at work that was 34 (I was 24), we became fuck buddies. Shit was good til her ex(who also worked with us) wanted to change and work things out. So yeah, forget that shit...:arazz:

[Azrael]

That was the whole point of the conversation...

Girls have a sense of entitlement, and they need to be reminded that we, as their men, have options, whether they want to acknowledge it or not. They need to know that we need to be given sufficient reason to stay with them. They can't just get complacent, and think they don't have to do anything to keep us happy.

I tell my girl that shit all the time. I love her, but she needs to know that she has to actually DO things to keep me happy. If she doesn't want to, what's the point in being in a relationship with her?
Exactly.

I feel like sex is something women have an unfair and unreasonable monopoly over men on. If she's not in the mood, its not going to happen. If we try to complain, then she gets angry and hits us with the "is that all we are/is sex really that important to you?" Most men will shrink away here because they don't want to look like hormonally-controlled horn dogs. We ARE, but we don't want to appear that way.

So if our partner isn't satisfying our sexual needs, and we're not allowed to get it elsewhere...what can we do? Men usually just get screwed here. Not literally, and that's the problem.

Oh, and part 2 of the convo I guess.

Her: Do you really need to have that much sex?
Me: Well, at least a few times a week would be fine. We can skip your period week too.
Her: But I'm not always in the mood.
Me: Yeah, I know. But if we go by only when you are in the mood...well...that's not enough for me.
Her: Why don't you just masturbate then?
Me: Masturbation has not, nor will it ever be, an acceptable substitute for sex.
Her: Why not?
Me: ...Let me put it this way. When a man has sex with a woman, he's got to do most of the work. If he cares about his partner, he's got to make sure she gets hers too. Sex is messy, so you've got to clean up afterwards. And we have to put these foul-smelling pieces of latex on our dicks to make sure that she doesn't get knocked up, because if she does, that's a substantial part of our lives and bank accounts that's going to be soul-sucked out for the next 18 years. Oh yeah, and there's also the possibility of STD's, which can make our junk itchy, smelly, both, or better yet, you contract the AIDS and die. If I wanted to jack off, I could take my PSP into the bathroom now and be done in 5 minutes. Clean up is easy, my bank account stays stable, my life continues to remain free, and I stay in good health. ...Given this, if masturbation was an acceptable substitute for sex...why would men ever actually choose to have sex with a woman?
Her: .................. (she needed a minute or two to think of a response)
Her: Well, with the person you love, its a sign of affection.
Me: Sure. And as your husband, I'm saying I want more. You would certainly complain if I didn't take you out on enough dates, hold you hand, give you enough kisses, or say "I love you" enough. Am I not allowed to complain about our sex life?
Her: Well, no... Are you really that unhappy?
Me: No, not yet. But, I could use a little more, and I felt it would be good to tell you now before things tapered off even more.
Her: And if I'm not in the mood?
Me: Realize that this is something you have to do for me, and bear with it.
Her: And that's not unfair?
Me: I never ever want to go shopping, but its something you make me do occasionally as a relationship duty. This is yours. Besides, with shopping, even if I don't go with you, you can go by yourself or with other friends. With sex...I don't exactly have those options, do I?
Her: By yourself?
Me: Just explained why that doesn't work. And with friends...
Her: Absolutely not.
Me: So, there you go.
Her: .......Understood.
Me: All I ask.

Feels like I won. We'll see in the future if I actually did or not.

[maxx]

i tell girls im a nympho ahead of time...i warn them. they think its cute. i basically tell them i'm looking for a girl who's a nympho as well and a not so crazy bitch.(a certain level of crazy comes with the territory..but i attract crazy bitches like i'm cupid.)

9/14-bi polar

3-raped

1-pregtrap

1-married...currently still trying to get the dick from me. i keep telling her no shes married...she seems to forget that shit.

i got more crazy bitch stats but forgetting them at the moment.

[Ryusuke]

Why do everybody try to associate bi polarism with insanity? All Bi Polarism is that you have an chemical imbalance in your body and cant control your emotions like everyone else. You're either happy or sad some days and you dont know why.

[kimterran]

snip

wow.:amazed: you handled that smoothly. props to you man! and thanks for the advice, guess i'll give it a shot. whenever i watch porn movies i don't really finish them. i close it if i'm done lol. now i'll try watching the whole movie to try to get my stamina back on track. :rofl:

i tell girls im a nympho ahead of time...i warn them. they think its cute. i basically tell them i'm looking for a girl who's a nympho as well and a not so crazy bitch.(a certain level of crazy comes with the territory..but i attract crazy bitches like i'm cupid.)

9/14-bi polar

3-raped

1-pregtrap

1-married...currently still trying to get the dick from me. i keep telling her no shes married...she seems to forget that shit.

i got more crazy bitch stats but forgetting them at the moment.

i think the word nympho cannot be applied to guys, because it is normal for men to be craving for sex.

i seem to have my fair share of crazy women too. the last one i fucked was my literature teacher in college. she would get angry for no reason at all. i got the feeling she wanted to preg trap me cause she's in her 30's and still single, but i couldn't resist the feeling of fucking my own teacher so i hit it the day before my flight to LA so she can't follow me anymore. :rofl:

[rcaido]

Az how many times in a week do you guys have sex? It seems like you kinda regretting marrying your asian wife or you want people to agree with you so can cheat on her.

[DJ Ether]

Why do everybody try to associate bi polarism with insanity? All Bi Polarism is that you have an chemical imbalance in your body and cant control your emotions like everyone else. You're either happy or sad some days and you dont know why.

Why are you so eager to defend the crazies? Is it because you are one of those BiPolar insanes we all hear about. Yeah you dont fool me. Look at yourself, coloring your text a royalblue that makes it difficult to see in a blue background like SRKs. You make me SICK!

[Ryusuke]

Why are you so eager to defend the crazies? Is it because you are one of those BiPolar insanes we all hear about. Yeah you dont fool me. Look at yourself, coloring your text a royalblue that makes it difficult to see in a blue background like SRKs. You make me SICK!

To be honest, I have bipolar II. Im not insane or crazy. Everybody knows bitches are crazy. All of them are. Not because they have bipolar, but because they're bitches. And Im sorry, my background is black instead of blue. Try red or default.

[orochizoolander]

Both those bitches would get dropped.

Sugar daddy bitch is an auto-drop.

The other bitch gets dropped because she's stupid. If she blames you for her cheating, and "ruining her life", she needs to shut the fuck up.

CLUE LISTEN TO THIS GUY.

It's really sad that someone you don't know on a fighting game site has to spell it out for you let alone have someone else you don't know quote it for emphasis. Your common sense should tell you to kick these 2 bitches out of your life ASAP and get to work on finding someone new to make you forget any lingering thoughts you might have about them.

Exactly.I feel like sex is something women have an unfair and unreasonable monopoly over men on. If she's not in the mood, its not going to happen. If we try to complain, then she gets angry and hits us with the "is that all we are/is sex really that important to you?" Most men will shrink away here because they don't want to look like hormonally-controlled horn dogs. We ARE, but we don't want to appear that way.

So if our partner isn't satisfying our sexual needs, and we're not allowed to get it elsewhere...what can we do? Men usually just get screwed here. Not literally, and that's the problem.

Which is exactly why I tell women I don't roll like that. I would much rather be single then be with someone who wants the sex and/or relationship on her terms fortunately I'm with someone who understands all this.

That being said I blame men for making women think they're entitled to more then us n that they should be treated special. Women expect men to make the first move, the last, and everything in between because they know they have more self control when it comes to sex and use that against us. I understand it's only natural for the man to make the first move and be horny 24/7 but with so many men so willing to bend over backwards just to get dat pussy is basically handing out free power to them. Why bother playing her game when you can be making her work for your cock? It's easier said then done today though because men have bred an entire generation of women who know there are wayyy more men who are willing to put in all the work then there are men who want an equal balance. For example I like most people here enjoy being the aggressive one and on several occasions have had a female make the first move on me BUT why is that it's soooooooo much more common for the man to put in more time+effort into a relationship then the other way around?

This post wasn't directed to you AZ just you saying how "women have a monopoly" got me started on a rant lol and goodlooks on part2 if I were in your situation the conversation would have gone a lot like that and I respect a man who can be assertive without being overly aggressive/hostile to a female.




i tell girls im a nympho ahead of time...i warn them. they think its cute. i basically tell them i'm looking for a girl who's a nympho as well and a not so crazy bitch.(a certain level of crazy comes with the territory..but i attract crazy bitches like i'm cupid.)

9/14-bi polar

3-raped

1-pregtrap

1-married...currently still trying to get the dick from me. i keep telling her no shes married...she seems to forget that shit.

i got more crazy bitch stats but forgetting them at the moment.


That sounds exactly like my stats except 1 or 2 less bi polar girls but I can totally relate to the not wanting to deal with crazy bitches n there baggage thing.

[Azrael]

whenever i watch porn movies i don't really finish them. i close it if i'm done lol. now i'll try watching the whole movie to try to get my stamina back on track. :rofl:
When we jack off, we usually just do it with a purpose in mind and don't bother trying to stretch it out. Its actually convenient to get it out of the way quickly so you can do other things. But that trains your body to be fast even during the real thing. The basic idea is to just prolong the time spent during masturbation. I say use a movie as a guide because it helps keep you on track.

Az how many times in a week do you guys have sex? It seems like you kinda regretting marrying your asian wife or you want people to agree with you so can cheat on her.
3-4 times a week. It used to be 7-9 times a week. I understand that some dropoff is natural, and I'm getting older myself and I don't think I could keep up with 7-9 times a week for a prolonged period of time. I just wouldn't want things to drop off any further, so I felt it was important to establish this now before things got any worse.

It wasn't even supposed to be a big conversation, we were just talking about the subject in general and I wanted to be playful and bat her around a little bit with logic. Like most women, she hates losing/being wrong, so she kept trying to push her points but I kept coming back strong.

I'm not looking for an excuse to cheat, I don't even want to (dealing with one woman is more than enough, but TWO? No thank you). I just wanted to make the point to her that, if we men are expected to remain monogamous in relationships, women should acknowledge that we do have fairly strong and frequent sex drives, and make a better effort to satisfy our needs.

That being said I blame men for making women think they're entitled to more then us n that they should be treated special...
Agreed. Relationships should be all about equality and balance, but more often than not its the women calling all the shots.

Like, the whole women not making moves thing. If we guys as a whole just said "no, fuck this bullshit, we're not gonna make any moves anymore so you women can either do something or stay single", maybe we could force women to be more proactive. But the sad truth is that for every guy who refuses to do everything, there are at least 5 guys who will do everything in the slim chance he could get some pussy. And women know this too.

[Koop]

snip... good points


now let that been a sista.... really. all hell would of broke loose.

[Silentness!]

now let that been a sista.... really. all hell would of broke loose.

I can't even say shit like that to my Korean girlfriend.

She'd probably try and break my neck.

[rcaido]

3-4 times a week. It used to be 7-9 times a week. I understand that some dropoff is natural, and I'm getting older myself and I don't think I could keep up with 7-9 times a week for a prolonged period of time. I just wouldn't want things to drop off any further, so I felt it was important to establish this now before things got any worse.

It wasn't even supposed to be a big conversation, we were just talking about the subject in general and I wanted to be playful and bat her around a little bit with logic. Like most women, she hates losing/being wrong, so she kept trying to push her points but I kept coming back strong.

I'm not looking for an excuse to cheat, I don't even want to (dealing with one woman is more than enough, but TWO? No thank you). I just wanted to make the point to her that, if we men are expected to remain monogamous in relationships, women should acknowledge that we do have fairly strong and frequent sex drives, and make a better effort to satisfy our needs.


:rofl::rofl::rofl: I remember that one pic where you look like a rapist, damn now i really think you're a rapist. Having sex 3-4 times a week is pretty damn good...That's like the magic number IMO, not too much & not to little...Im guessing your asian wife is in her mid twenties correct? I believe women sexual peak is about 30+ she should be more willing in a few years!

[Naslectronical]

Like, the whole women not making moves thing. If we guys as a whole just said "no, fuck this bullshit, we're not gonna make any moves anymore so you women can either do something or stay single", maybe we could force women to be more proactive. But the sad truth is that for every guy who refuses to do everything, there are at least 5 guys who will do everything in the slim chance he could get some pussy. And women know this too.

You just have to stick with it.

I never make the first move on a woman no matter how attractive she thinks she is or is perceived to be. She could have guys falling all over her, and I still won't budge until she either comes to me or gives me some kind of legitimate sign that she's interested. This has worked for me for years.

You just have to stop thinking about societal norms and what everyone else is doing and just focus on what you want and what works for you. I say that if other guys want to walk through fire and crawl on the ground over broken glass and rusty nails just to get to her, then let them. Doesn't mean I have to.

[Silentness!]

When I first met my GF she said she liked me so much because I looked innocent and shy. I wasn't horny and trying to touch all over her body and stuff. She was shocked... my innocence turned her on. She was use to guys hitting on her all the time and trying to hook up with her. If I would of been really aggressive with her she would of thought I was just like any other guy, but I didn't act like that. I showed her that I can contain myself and she saw that and realized I'm not a sex demon.

[rcaido]

When I first met my GF she said she liked me so much because I looked innocent and shy. I wasn't horny and trying to touch all over her body and stuff. She was shocked... my innocence turned her on. She was use to guys hitting on her all the time and trying to hook up with her. If I would of been really aggressive with her she would of thought I was just like any other guy, but I didn't act like that. I showed her that I can contain myself and she saw that and realized I'm not a sex demon.

If only she knew that every man is a sex demon...Go ahead & play the im different card!

My asian wife was the same way to me...She fell in love with my kindness & innocent...Now she's like you weren't like this before you sex maniac!:lovin:

[DJ Ether]

Bitches want to be treated like sluts. Even the most timid girl you ever met wants to get porked all stupid. Truth.

[Silentness!]

Bitches want to be treated like sluts. Even the most timid girl you ever met wants to get pork all stupid. Truth.

So that's why she wanted me to pull her hair during sex and use force. :rofl:

I agree with what you are saying.

Women want the cock there's no denying that. They just don't want to admit it because they don't want to sound like a slut or a freak.

[onyx]

And through talking with her she said some 24 year old handsome nigga at work was trying to holler at her and she wasn't having it. She said she would feel like a cougar (she's only 31). That motherfucker is only three years younger than me.


So she had her first kid when she was 16? damn.. Anyways, she's only 4 years your senior, thats nothing. I think that cougar line was either bullshit or just applied to that guy. U can get at that.

You just have to stick with it.

I never make the first move on a woman no matter how attractive she thinks she is or is perceived to be. She could have guys falling all over her, and I still won't budge until she either comes to me or gives me some kind of legitimate sign that she's interested. This has worked for me for years.


Im the same way, its better this way i think.. How often do they work for some guys attention/ affection?? More than likely its rare. Then after the 1sttime u get it, u can take control from there. Aside from that, its ego building to have some chick throw herself at you in some way shape or form.

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On the topic of the power between men and women when it comes to sex. I disagree that its other men that are give'n women big heads, sure they reinforce the whole idea but they are not the cause of it. One reason is society for the most part is just structured that way, its the idea that men should be gentlemen and women should be ladies. Secondly, parents pretty much dig it into females brains that they're the shit n if any 1 wants the pu$$y they better work for it.. This is obvious coming from the mothers, but even fathers do this.. Treat their little girl like a princess and shes gonna grow up thing she is,a nd expect any man after that to do the same in some aspects..

Im not a father yet, but i know for damn sure that im gonna raise my son to be a pimp and get all the girls he can, bring em back to the house and fuck em.. I'll even supply the condoms:rofl: But if i have a daughter shiiit, its a completely different story, she better die a virgin.

The MAIN cause of this whole mentality is just instinct.. At least 90% of the animal kingdom works the same way, where males have to prove them selves to females in order to procreate. Werther, ur the head of the pack, or have the best looking feathers. Fact is women carry the burden of procreation carry'n the baby, lay'n the eggs,whatever.. So they aren't as willing to give it up, ya they wanna fuck just like you do, but they just need to pic n choose the best candidate. A powerful candidate..

The only animals that come to mind that dont follow this method/ logic when mating is the prey'n mantis, because after sex the women eats the male to give her energy to have kids and shit. So the males choose the mates, not the females. Same with this one species of a fish. When the two mate, the women lays her eggs on the males back and swims off to fuck some1 else, while the male is stuck swimming around with heavy ass eggs on his back for months until they hatch. Those females just throw the pu$$y around to any1 who wants it, the males choose who's worth the burden.

Sorry for the slight digression, but its relative.. To much discovery channel.:xeye:

[Azrael]

now let that been a sista.... really. all hell would of broke loose.
True that. I probably wouldn't be sitting here posting right now.

:rofl::rofl::rofl: I remember that one pic where you look like a rapist, damn now i really think you're a rapist. Having sex 3-4 times a week is pretty damn good...That's like the magic number IMO, not too much & not to little...Im guessing your asian wife is in her mid twenties correct? I believe women sexual peak is about 30+ she should be more willing in a few years!
A few years ago, 7-9 times a week was ideal for me. I used to seriously wonder if I had sex addiction, or if my sex drive wasn't way more gonzo than the average male. I asked some women from my past about our sexual relationships and they all seemed to agree that they couldn't keep up with me.

As I said, I'm getting older, so now 3-4 is actually OK. ...Well 5 would be best.

Yeah, she's 26 right now. I am personally hoping that when she hits 30, her sex drive goes into hyperdrive. I'm looking forward to that shit. :rofl:

You just have to stop thinking about societal norms and what everyone else is doing and just focus on what you want and what works for you. I say that if other guys want to walk through fire and crawl on the ground over broken glass and rusty nails just to get to her, then let them. Doesn't mean I have to.
I think a lot depends on the girl. Also age probably plays a factor, I think older women are more prone to actually show signs of interest, or actually make a move, than younger women are.

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

Hey SRK remember how grossed I am about eating a chick out? well today I was somehow discussing that with these two chicks. Well I finally admitted I would do it considering If I was in the mood. boy those chicks literally dropped their jaws in happiness.

[Naslectronical]

I think a lot depends on the girl. Also age probably plays a factor, I think older women are more prone to actually show signs of interest, or actually make a move, than younger women are.

*Shrug*

Most of them are younger women. I can sit at the very end of the bar just drinking and at least a few of them will come over to me.

[oohappytofuoo]

Hey SRK remember how grossed I am about eating a chick out? well today I was somehow discussing that with these two chicks. Well I finally admitted I would do it considering If I was in the mood. boy those chicks literally dropped their jaws in happiness.

I don't see how it is any different then a girl giving a dude head. Most girls who don't want it are just embarrassed that you're directly looking onto their privates(oh my)

[AzN_Skater]

Well fuck me, I think I have a crush on a good friend's ex girlfriend. Oops.

[DJ Ether]

Hey SRK remember how grossed I am about eating a chick out? well today I was somehow discussing that with these two chicks. Well I finally admitted I would do it considering If I was in the mood. boy those chicks literally dropped their jaws in happiness.

Meh. I don't carpet munch. That pussy was made for one thing and one thing only. To ravage forcefully and violently my captains will. But hey, if you want herpes around your mouth, your good to go. :rofl:

[kingfismit]

does having a steady relationship with a bi chick exist? or will it just end badly?

[Naslectronical]

does having a steady relationship with a bi chick exist? or will it just end badly?

Just like any other relationship, it depends on the person.

You'll just have to find out for yourself.

[soup or man]

does having a steady relationship with a bi chick exist? or will it just end badly?

To generalize: it will end badly.

bisexual females are usually pretty chaotic. A steady relationship is poison to chaos.

[Shotokan Symphony]

While I'm painting with a large brush here, most bi girls tend to be very polyamorous. Attempt at your own risk.
But hey, since you hate using condoms, you're gonna do whatever you want anyway.

[Azrael]

Meh. I don't carpet munch. That pussy was made for one thing and one thing only. To ravage forcefully and violently my captains will. But hey, if you want herpes around your mouth, your good to go. :rofl:
See, I don't understand this line of thinking. And apparently, there are enough guys who don't do it, so that we members of the Carpet Munching Club get extra props.

does having a steady relationship with a bi chick exist? or will it just end badly?
If you are after a monogamous relationship with her...why should it matter that she's bi? Her only partner should be you from now on.

If you don't care, at least get a threesome out of it.

[Shadow Ace 50]

does having a steady relationship with a bi chick exist? or will it just end badly?

Just like any other relationship, it depends on the person.

You'll just have to find out for yourself.



no....:tdown:

[kingfismit]

If you are after a monogamous relationship with her...why should it matter that she's bi? Her only partner should be you from now on.

I don't know, I know sooner or later she's going to want to fool around with a girl. She has me emotionally/sexually but that's not going to kill the urge for her wanting a girl sexually...I'm just not sure how to go about this.

[Ryusuke]

does having a steady relationship with a bi chick exist? or will it just end badly?

No no HELL NOOOOOOO!!!!

It dont exist because the bitch wont stay steady. And it will end badly because she's too spotaneous.

Here's a story. I was at this club called Masquerade for their weekly 80's/booty music/drink special night. There I was break dancing with one group of friends when shorty and her friend pull up. I forgot her name, shit let's call her Laina (she's just as slutty, stuck) Laina was a 5'3 snowbunny with double D titties/ass combo. Her friend was just the same, but armed with C cups and cuter face.
Anyway, it wasnt long before my trouser beagle caught whiff her ass jiggling exploits. I stroll over to try and get a piece and found out I was welcome since yesterday. Both Laina and her friend grind the fuck out of me all night. My b-boy posse rooted me on. We walk out of the club and exchange numbers and shit, then head home.
A couple of weeks pass doing the same shit at the same place, on the same night. This night was like all the other cept on the way home, Laina and her friend pull up next to me. Laina tells me she wants to date me. Cool!:woot: We were both busy working so it was pretty much play by ear.
Monday night comes around. I was down in McDonough chillin with a couple of my homeboys when guess who calls. She's at home in Conyers chillin and wants me to come over.(You already know what this means.) I ran out of that house and sped down the freeway before my friend had a chance to ask who was I talking to on the phone. Finally I get there.
Laina steps out in tank top and booty shorts. two gummi bear tats were riding on her chest. One on each titty. She hops in the car and says hey. Then suffocates me with her pierced tongue. I attack back with my hands squeezing her titties like a destructive 5 year old plays with play-doh. "MMmmmmmm" she says. "I would look to bring you in, but my friends are starting to be retarded and I have to kick them out." :amazed: "Awwwww, come on!" I retort. "I'm sorry, but next time..."she coos while rubbing her clit with my hand,"I'll be sure to make it up to you..."
Our tongues play one more money match before Im heading back home. Its now Thursday. My dick and I have been counting the days as if Christmas was coming. I was all prepped like Batman. My condoms were ready. I had enough gas to take her home. Everything was perfect.
The club was kinda empty, but I didnt give a shit. The DJ sucked, and the new bartender was a bitch. So what? Then she steps in with her friends along with one extra chick. The chick had big titdittties, but that face could make Clint Eastwood cry....

Laina: "Hey, what's up?"
Me:"Nothing much, just chillin" (I pull in for a hug, when...)
Laina: "Did you get the message I sent on MySpace"
Me:"Huh, no":confused:
Laina:"Im seeing somebody. There's my girlfriend, BP"(She points to big titty butch face. And yes Im using names from the crazy story thread. I apologize for not asking for permission. But I swear these chicks were in the same class of Bitch. Please dont sue me.)
Me:Oh, hi...:amazed::shake::sad:
Laina: "We started dating on Tues. Im kinda of taking a break from men. Relax, it was nothing you did. I just felt a change was in order, that all.:angel: Are we still friends?"
Me:"Yeah, sure" (With a smile that would remind you of spinning hubcaps)


A little while after that, she moved away and we lost touch.

Moral of the story: Do not consider bi-sexual women as potential mates. That's a PWN no man deserves. Not even Son Them All.:shake:

[kempobot]

From my experience, the majority of the women who classify themselves as 'bi' usually tend to be just full of themselves... unless she just broke up from her girlfriend and wants to hook up with you. *shrugs*

[pherai]

I think being bi for a girl 85-90% of the time is just a tool to attract men. Most aren't really bi

[CAIMERMAN]

Hey everyone. Since I was here last time, I went through a series of changes and I can honestly say I'm doing one thing: Everything. I've been training my mind and body for sometime now and I'm getting the swagger (confidence) to get out there and get some.
The nice guy thing that used to be me is now merely a weapon in getting some. I learned from guys like Shoryuken Symphony and others that it's all about ms. right now, either a girlfriend or a piece of 'tang, it doesn't matter to me anymore. All of it is pleasurable.

I went into the dating scene with too much care in my heart and I learned that I have to numb myself to everything at certain moments.

Believe it or not, I'm doing most of my crying now about the past to get it out of my system.

[Naslectronical]

no....:tdown:

No what?

[Taito]

zzzzz

[orochizoolander]

snip

It's the other way around society contributes to women controlling men but ultimately it's male nature that makes us do what we do to get that pussy. I don't want to repeat my post on the topic so just to touch on the animal kingdom reference those examples don't work because humans unlike other animals are far more complicated and society conflicting with human nature complicates it further.

So what if males in other animals choose the mates? That male instinct to be the aggressor shouldn't discourage women from having the same attitude. The only thing that bothered me about your post is when you said "Those females just throw the pu$$y around to any1 who wants it, the males choose who's worth the burden." FUCK THAT it's just as much "her burden" like I said I expect 100% equality when getting involved with a woman in any way I have to much self respect to deal with less then that.


About the dating bi chicks well.. if you want an open relationship you hit the jackpot if you want to keep it exclusive you have twice as much competition.

[Silentness!]

So I had period sex for the first time...

it was actually a decent experience. :amazed:

I felt bad for the sheets and towel...

[Phoenix Wright]

Anyone care to give a crash course on what a dude needs to know about getting married, and married life in general.

Don't do it.

[kazamamaster]

Anyone care to give a crash course on what a dude needs to know about getting married, and married life in general.

Being a married dude, I can comment on this....


Well, for one, be sure you want to do it. Two, when you marry your wife, you marry her family as well. Be sure to clean up any disagreements/problems etc before you tie the knot. Whenever her family has a problem, more often than not, it could include you. Three, Don't get married until you're 100% sure you can compromise and make sure you have a listening ear. If you're one to argue, depending on the girl you marry your marriage can be bliss in the spite of problems, or hell. Never talk negatively about her family. Whatever you did to keep her happy while dating, don't stop doing the same after you're married.

One BIG RULE that a lot of couples make a mistake at IMO--There's no such thing as your money is your money and her money is her money. It has the potential to grow into HUGE problems when something arises that is important financially in your marriage.

I know it seems like a lot, but when you tie the knot, there's a lot more good that outweighs what might seem negative looking in. Good luck sir!:tup:

[catchafire]

So I had period sex for the first time...

it was actually a decent experience. :amazed:

I felt bad for the sheets and towel...

Hope you were wearing a 'hoodie.' It's a normal thing (sex on period)...

[majeh]

So I had period sex for the first time...

it was actually a decent experience. :amazed:

I felt bad for the sheets and towel...

i just did that today except it wasnt the first time. me and my gf have sex rain or shine if we both wanna do it or whether one of us wants to do it. she bled on my white carpet a little but it was on the surface so it came out... gotta be careful with that though haha.

[pherai]

Anyone care to give a crash course on what a dude needs to know about getting married, and married life in general.

Get a prenup and research what other people have put in their prenups. It's not just about money. Make sure you have a lawyer for you and her present when you sign it. Don't get married if she isn't down for a prenup.

[BaSiK_TeKniK]

I think being bi for a girl 85-90% of the time is just a tool to attract men. Most aren't really bi

I really hate that shit. As a teenager. this is like a trend amongst women like seriously. I guess claiming that your bi is cool. :bluu:

[narc]

So I had period sex for the first time...

it was actually a decent experience. :amazed:

I felt bad for the sheets and towel...

Just earned your

http://tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:mRbpm8lxMguK9M:http://rockcats.com.ismmedia.com/ISM3/std-content/repos/Top/redwings.gif

[Azrael]

Anyone care to give a crash course on what a dude needs to know about getting married, and married life in general.
Are you getting married in Japan?

[Taito]

lllll

[Ultimate_Braver]

Can someone tell me whats good eye contact.
Is that like staring at someone's eyes without looking away for long periods or what?

[pherai]

Can someone tell me whats good eye contact.
Is that like staring at someone's eyes without looking away for long periods or what?

There is no definitive answer. Different people are comfortable with different things.

[MissClarity]

It depends on the context. If you are talking to a girl, and you want her to know you are listening, look her in the face. Dont STARE at her, like you arent paying any attention. Staring denotes a focus on something other than the words. Looking her in the face, or specifically in the eyes, says you are on the level, and that you care what she is saying. Like I said though, it depends on the context.

Can someone tell me whats good eye contact.
Is that like staring at someone's eyes without looking away for long periods or what?

[rcaido]

Anyone care to give a crash course on what a dude needs to know about getting married, and married life in general.

kazamamaster had a lot of great advice...I'ld like to add never leave the house or go to sleep angry...Dont go thinking your marriage will fail or have those prenup stuff...If you feel you need a prenup then that girl isn't for you...

So I had period sex for the first time...

it was actually a decent experience. :amazed:

I felt bad for the sheets and towel...

That's so weird, my asian wife is bleeding right now too...We were pretty heated & about to today but decided not to cuz of the mess...I'll just wait till Thursday...

[orochizoolander]

If you feel you need a prenup then that girl isn't for you...

Get ready to explode!

[Azrael]

Anyone care to give a crash course on what a dude needs to know about getting married, and married life in general.
Do you guys live together? I think living together is a good preview of what married life would be like. There are a lot of things about a person you just can't understand unless you share the same space with them.

Anyway, I guess I'll get to the bad stuff first...

The biggest thing is that you lose your freedoms. You can't just go wherever you want, whenever you want. And you can't stay out late or all night without paying for it when you do come home.

You can't switch on a game system and spend hours trying to beat that last level or monster or whatever.

You can't just up and buy that expensive stereo/TV/whatever you've had your eye on, even if you've saved up for it.

You can't just take out the garbage/do the laundry/dishes/clean up when you feel like it...you will probably have a deadline in which to do these things, which will be much sooner than you'd like it to be.

...And so on.

So why bother? Well, hopefully the good stuff outweighs all that. Like knowing that no matter what, she's got your back. If you come home from a shitty day at work she'll be there to cook your favorite dinner or give you a back massage or whatever it is that'll make you forget all about it. If you get injured or sick, she'll tend to you without hesistation or complaint.

That you enjoy her company and doing things together with her.

That she will motivate you to do better in life, and for the times you get off track or discouraged, she will be there to gently (or harshly!) get you back on your feet.

You're tired of dealing with other girls who are flaky/untrustworthy/flat-out dumb, and just want to settle down.

If you want kids, that you are sure that she will be the kind of mother to your kids that you want.

So yeah, just a general idea. Life does change, and the big thing is losing all the freedoms you've enjoyed up until now, but hopefully what you get in return far outweighs that.

[Silentness!]

prenup is actually a smart move.

Shit happens... love can change.
___________________________________________


Lol speaking of pre-nup. FUCK YOU NICK CANNON!

He's having Mariah's baby

[Stuckey]

I can't answer shit about getting married, but believe it or not that's something I've wanted to do for a LONG ass time. I was talking about a wife and shit when I was 5 years old. Az is right about losing certain freedoms you had, but personally I can't think of anything that would make me feel better about myself than getting married and having some crumbsnatchers. I think it's the fact that you can see enough of yourself in that person and vice versa, that you see yourself with that person FOREVER (although it doesn't always work the way you expect like dusty nintendo cartridges). And that's real deal love shit. Not the contrived way you love your uncle even though he owes you 40 dollars and farts like hell at the table on thanksgiving. You don't even have to like each other, but y'all are ready to make that type of commitment. Sheeeeit...if you ask me, that's when you really start living.

It's a shame I can go round up pussy like Larry Flynt, but can't find a keeper. The one I thought I'd marry is ready to settle down with me, but can't settle on a career choice and is all around indecisive about pretty much everything but the fact that she loves me. I don't think that's enough like trying to buy a pack of altoids with a quarter.

If I can get the fuck out of Macon, I could find a keeper. I'm 26 for fuck's sake.

[Taito]

kkkkk

[Stuckey]

Relatives outside of parents aren't too big of an issue in my experience (not being married obviously, but engaged). You should definitely meet them, and she meet yours, but it shouldn't keep y'all from doing what you wanna do. As long as you're good with the parents, the other shit doesn't matter much.

[DJ Ether]

See, I don't understand this line of thinking. And apparently, there are enough guys who don't do it, so that we members of the Carpet Munching Club get extra props.

Oh I give props. Whatever way you get your kicks is alright with me. I dont get the urge to go down on her and my girl has never asked me to do it. I also dont fuck my girl in the ass. My girls pussy is already nice and tight since she was a virgin when I got her. I dont feel like I gotta defile her asshole or munch her. If she asked I would do it, because she has done everything I wanted. When we first started she didnt want to deep throat, but she knew I wanted to so she agreed.

What it comes down to is that both parties must be able to compromise to make a strong relationship. Especially in the bedroom since its such an important part. As a man who is getting married by the end of the year, I feel that I found my other half. I love her more with each passing day, and my girl shows me love as well. I always try to go out of my way to show her how much I care. She does the same like wake me up with a BJ. Thats good stuff. I call her out of the blue, wherever she may be, and tell her how much I love her. Its the little things that make strong relationships. I'm sure im not the only one that feels this way.

[Shotokan Symphony]

If you ever get married without a pre-nup, you're setting yourself up for a HUGE FUCKING FALL.

[Silentness!]

GF is 26 too. We're both still maturing

:rofl: I'm only 21...

[orochizoolander]

snip

Hell no, I'm not losing my freedoms or any of that shit if I want to play video games for hours at a time or go out n come home late at night my future wife will have to be peachy keen with that. About the whole money thing I think we can just combine our incomes and then consult each other on when we take money from that combined value and make a compromise. If I want something nice like a new 7.1 sound system or whatever then I'll just tell her gears of war10 is coming out I need it this!

I understand compromise is the core of keeping a good relationship with a wife but even when I'm married I'm going to do whatever the fuck I feel like and she's welcome to do the same if it suits her. We talked about this and we're most likely going to get married (in 5-10 years) I'm glad she doesn't want to change me just like how I don't want to change her.

I hope that if n when we move in together that it won't be like on tv or in the movies where she'll have a million annoying habits I never noticed before that will drive me crazy and end the relationship:rofl:

[AzN_Skater]

^ lol do you honestly believe that you will be able to do those things after marriage? Sounds like you got a lot to learn, son.

lol.

I've seen people like you break. You think it's going to be your way of the highway, but it's NOT going to turn out like that.

[orochizoolander]

My gf n I have talked about it a few times and she understands what I want out of a serious relationship if she had a problem with that we would have broken up a longass time ago.

And you don't know me let alone well enough to categorize me.

[pherai]

I'm curious why any of you guys are interested in tying the knot. When people list benefits like "she'll always have your back/be there for you", how does being married ensure you those things over just being in a monogamous relationship? You give up almost all your leverage in a relationship when you get married (in the states at least, can't speak for Japan), which is why people say you can't get away with the same shit anymore.

[Shotokan Symphony]

My gf n I have talked about it a few times and she understands what I want out of a serious relationship if she had a problem with that we would have broken up a longass time ago.

And you don't know me let alone well enough to categorize me.
Famous last words. :[

[AzN_Skater]

My gf n I have talked about it a few times and she understands what I want out of a serious relationship if she had a problem with that we would have broken up a longass time ago.

And you don't know me let alone well enough to categorize me.

Your text is black on SRK black lol hard to read.

Sorry, but you are right, I don't know you, but I've seen almost that exact rant before from people I know only to see them a couple years later completely changed. So my frame of reference is accurate from what I HAVE seen and read.

People change and circumstances change, don't be so certain you'll be this adamant in a few years. No hate, just sayin'.

:rofl:

[kazamamaster]

^ lol do you honestly believe that you will be able to do those things after marriage? Sounds like you got a lot to learn, son.

lol.

I've seen people like you break. You think it's going to be your way of the highway, but it's NOT going to turn out like that.

+1.

I love to see some of you dudes on here claiming how it's gonna be when you get married. Some of you have no clue whatsoever. :rolleyes:

[Silentness!]

I'm not even married and sometimes I feel like I'm fucking whipped.

Least she's honest. She tries to show me her 100% all the time. Good or bad she doesn't try to hide who she is.

[pherai]

Being married and whipped aren't the same thing, although its often the case that married men are whipped. But come on, what women is going to admit she's hiding things from you?

[Silentness!]

Being married and whipped aren't the same thing, although its often the case that married men are whipped. But come on, what women is going to admit she's hiding things from you?

Right nobody is perfectly honest, I know that. I'm not truly naive. :wink:

Just it's good to find out most of the negative qualities a chick has before you even come up with the slightest thought of marriage. It shouldn't be a shock when you hitch quick and find out that you fucked up and married someone that does a complete 180 with their personality and mood swings as time progresses.

[Darklightjg1]

For those of you thinking about marriage... be prepared. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5stghLY2bME)

[BEWD]

My gf n I have talked about it a few times and she understands what I want out of a serious relationship if she had a problem with that we would have broken up a longass time ago.

And you don't know me let alone well enough to categorize me.

WTF! Type in a font that doesn't make my goddamn eyes bulge to read it.:mad:

[Kourin-chan]

For those of you thinking about marriage... be prepared. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5stghLY2bME)

LMAO:rofl::rofl:

God, that takes me back to "You So Crazy", when Martin talked about women not taking a shit when their men are around...

[BBQ]

Has any one watched "American Pimp"? I did the other night after a fat bowl with a good friend of mine and I have come to a conclusion that these guys are on a whole different level. Is it true that every girl thought once in her life about being a bitch? If so I think I might have found my true calling.

[orochizoolander]

Has any one watched "American Pimp"? I did the other night after a fat bowl with a good friend of mine and I have come to a conclusion that these guys are on a whole different level. Is it true that every girl thought once in her life about being a bitch? If so I think I might have found my true calling.

LOL yeah I saw it a few years back soo much truth in that it's entertaining as hell to see the view points if different pimps as well:rofl:

[CAIMERMAN]

I know I've been throwing fits up here like a madman, but I think I know my problem: Me.

Apparently, my once supportive grandparents, particularly my grandmother who is a straight shooter and nurturer from the soul, is extremely protective of me. I'm 22 years old, and a lot of signs last week have been hitting me harder than ever. I want to have more trust from my grandparents, but because of the way my mother turned out (stoner), they are (specifically my grandmother) is afraid I'll either end up like her or killed in D.C. because of the crime and drug scene here. I study all the time, with no real social life other than anime cons and one or two wrestling shows. When I talked about driving, that was another tale filled with uncertainty. I just don't understand. I've never given them a moment's trouble; never used drugs or drank; never had one night stands, or any of that stuff. They trust me enough to train me in handling important matters like my grandfather's health when he was ill, but not enough to let me go to an exotic dance club just once out of curiosity. And my friends aren't help either because they think I'm so geeky and out of the loop it's become a constant game to them. I just get so sick of living like a prisoner in my own house.

I just sometimes feel like I'm not even in control of my own life. Just because I do the right thing by people shouldn't make me a target for anyone or a potential deviant. This whole thing has rattled me to the point I wanted an escort just to avoid the headache. However, since then, I met this one girl who is pretty alright online and just even working things out there is being met with some difficulty from my side. Now I don't know what to do. I've always been honest with my grandmother, but now it seems like that honesty has become the burden of my existence.

But when I look back at all of the support I received on this forum, I realize I'm not alone. For those here and my pride, I'll keep fighting the good fight in the name of love.

[DietSoap]

So, my sex drive is completely gone... This isn't really new or anything, just the first time I've finally decided to take the time to write about it (which I've thought about doing so many times). I really haven't wanted to have sex or do anything sexual in over 6 - 8 months. It's so weird, cuz just a year ago and before (especially before) I was always just horny as fuck, really looking forward to beatin off/making out/having sex all the time. Just felt like a normal man/boy.

Even with my ex, I never really wanted to fuck or do anything past 4-5 months in our relationship. I just did it be nice, cuz it seemed like what I should be doing, or just so I could have a funny sex story to tell friends. It was no longer a craving, and it no longer felt satisfying. I just saw her a 4 days ago, after months of not seeing her... And nothing. And she looked the best she ever has. Tried makin out, gettin her clothes off, everything... Even fucked around on a public park bench hoping the whole "doin it in public" angle would get to me... And still no.

I can easily acknowledge when a chick is hot, attractive whatever, infact observing what people of whatever type of lineage/background/gender find attractive physically, verbally, gesturely, colors etc just everything is a constant daily obsession that I'm always thinking about. I just never feel it anymore.

I guess it's not so bad, it's better than being ultra horny in a dry spell certainly... It's just still so weird to me... I should be horny as fuck, wanting a good plunge etc, but I just don't. Honestly the only reason I ever think about getting a girl is to show off and to feed my ego.

I mean I can still get a boner, but only by my own doings, it never happens againt my will anymore... Like if a hot bitch grabs my junk... Nothing. I mean a hug with a hot bitch use to be sure fire. :rofl:

I'm like 100% that it's psychological, but I don't know how to reverse it. Anyone been through this?

[kazamamaster]

So, my sex drive is completely gone... This isn't really new or anything, just the first time I've finally decided to take the time to write about it (which I've thought about doing so many times). I really haven't wanted to have sex or do anything sexual in over 6 - 8 months. It's so weird, cuz just a year ago and before (especially before) I was always just horny as fuck, really looking forward to beatin off/making out/having sex all the time. Just felt like a normal man/boy.

Even with my ex, I never really wanted to fuck or do anything past 4-5 months in our relationship. I just did it be nice, cuz it seemed like what I should be doing, or just so I could have a funny sex story to tell friends. It was no longer a craving, and it no longer felt satisfying. I just saw her a 4 days ago, after months of not seeing her... And nothing. And she looked the best she ever has. Tried makin out, gettin her clothes off, everything... Even fucked around on a public park bench hoping the whole "doin it in public" angle would get to me... And still no.

I can easily acknowledge when a chick is hot, attractive whatever, infact observing what people of whatever type of lineage/background/gender find attractive physically, verbally, gesturely, colors etc just everything is a constant daily obsession that I'm always thinking about. I just never feel it anymore.

I guess it's not so bad, it's better than being ultra horny in a dry spell certainly... It's just still so weird to me... I should be horny as fuck, wanting a good plunge etc, but I just don't. Honestly the only reason I ever think about getting a girl is to show off and to feed my ego.

I mean I can still get a boner, but only by my own doings, it never happens againt my will anymore... Like if a hot bitch grabs my junk... Nothing. I mean a hug with a hot bitch use to be sure fire. :rofl:

I'm like 100% that it's psychological, but I don't know how to reverse it. Anyone been through this?

How old are you dude? I know I'm to the point where a hug and a few other things don't do much for me, but to not feel horny? To not want to do anything sexual in a relationship for 4-5 months? Only thing that could stop me with a chick for that long is if we're on bad terms. I'm married and can't go 4-5 days without sex. That's too long lol.

But still, I'd say that what you're experiencing isn't normal, expecially if you're not 30 years old.

[Azrael]

I'm curious why any of you guys are interested in tying the knot. When people list benefits like "she'll always have your back/be there for you", how does being married ensure you those things over just being in a monogamous relationship? You give up almost all your leverage in a relationship when you get married (in the states at least, can't speak for Japan), which is why people say you can't get away with the same shit anymore.
Good luck finding a woman willing to date you indefinitely without the possibility of getting married.

I guess one aspect is just to prove your committment...not just to her, but to yourself as well. If you are just dating, and say you have a big fight, it'd be easier to think about breaking up. All you have to do is say "We're done." and that's it. But if you're married - not that simple. So its a reminder to yourself that you choose this person for the long haul, and rather than walk away when troubles arise you'd much rather work it out.

For us Japan peeps, being married gives us better position, socially. I was finally able to get credit in Japan - something I could never do when I was single. Plus, you get the spouse visa which means you don't even have to work (which is the position I'm in now...not by choice) and can stay in the country.

So, my sex drive is completely gone...
Are you on any kind of meds at all? Many meds have the side-effect of killing sex drive.

If not...are you sure you want it back? I've often thought about how grand life would be if I could just kill my sex drive and not care about it.

[pherai]

Good luck finding a woman willing to date you indefinitely without the possibility of getting married.

Oh I know 99% of chicks will want to get married. Whatever. Different strokes for different folks. That's something I won't compromise on.


For us Japan peeps, being married gives us better position, socially. I was finally able to get credit in Japan - something I could never do when I was single. Plus, you get the spouse visa which means you don't even have to work (which is the position I'm in now...not by choice) and can stay in the country.

That's one of the few cases I'd consider it. Although working in Japan sounds like a bitch. 70 hour work week? Fuck outta here.

[Taito]

My motivations are just achieving permanent party status in each of our home countries while we figure out what to do and where to live. Even if I had money to make frequent trips from US to Japan, customs will start to raise eyebrows at regular visits, especially post-9/11. It's a long story but the only problem with me and her is lack of stability, and I guess getting hitched will put an end to the bullshit that we've dealt with for almost 5 years now.

..God, if there's another answer to my problems I'm all ears. We don't really want to get married right now, but we're willing to do it if there isn't a better alternative.

[Reno]

I got my 6 month anniversary coming up next month. Any present ideas? I got a few in mind but I'd like to hear a few suggestions too!

[Havoc]

I got my 6 month anniversary coming up next month. Any present ideas? I got a few in mind but I'd like to hear a few suggestions too!

Nothing. You don't wanna start celebrating dumb shit like that.

[thurst]

word on that shit. my female friends are trying to convince me that i need to do something for me and my girl's "one month anniversary", i'm like why do i need to be making up excuses to spend money a month into the relationship?

[Reno]

Nothing. You don't wanna start celebrating dumb shit like that.

We already started. :p So, present ideas! :P

[Warpticon]

it's also worth noting that an anniversary shares a root with annual Anniversaries are yearly by definition. No such thing as a 6 month anniversary.

[Reno]

For me, my longest relationship was 5 years, so a 1, 3 and 6 month anniversary thing doesn't carry the same weight as a first year anniversary, but she took the initiative to buy me TWO presents for our first month together, so I didn't mind doing something for the 3rd month, and doing something for the 6 month. Believe me, I'm not about to go and buy a $300 necklace or anything like that, but something like a fancier than usual dinner isn't out of the question for me.

[thurst]

@Warp:
you know hoes don't pay no attention to what words actually mean.

that said, for this one month celebration i think i'mma see what all the fuss is about with eating the box, i hurt my girl's back the other night (literally) so it's kinda like a "my bad" present lol

[Azrael]

I got my 6 month anniversary coming up next month. Any present ideas? I got a few in mind but I'd like to hear a few suggestions too!
Can't go wrong with a nice necklace. The Loft has nice jewelry at a very reasonable price.

[ADVIII]

This is a awesome thread.anyway. I have a question and i'm not trying to be racist or anything. I've been raised in augusta,ga for my entire life.Am at a point to where I can't find a decent girl to talk to not even as friends. I used to work at the Tilt arcade in the augusta mall. One of the girls that i met in the arcade wanted me to date her friend. Now I admit she was very hot:hitit:. When I first spoke to the girl we just talked about how we were going to meet up. So we met up at the augusta tech college at nigh after class, and we started talking you now like what we like to do in our daily lives. After our meet up we decided to go to a movie. can't remember what was the first movie we saw.I think it was open season.After we watched the movie it had only got to the point to where i couldn't even take her home:confused:. So then we got out again and got even closer.she came to my birthday and talked to my parents (everything was good). Then we went out to the arcade and as usual became more close and close.So we decided to take it seriously:lovin:.The last thing I remember was i brought her final fantasy advent children and I spend time with her and her mom and it all turned out very good.Then we went out to just to spend time together for the whole entire day.After that last day she didn't call very much. I belive its been about two months since she called me from the last day. So I called her to find out what's going on.She told me her cellphone broke and she had to use her mom's.then she tells me that her mom was so depressed that it was affecting her, and how she misses her brother.So she tells me she needs to take a break:wtf:. (in order words she wanted to break up)She told me that she didn't have any time.She couldn't even spare one hour or one day a week.Something didn't seem right.I knew that was going to happen.From then on out i decided to stop searching because i got to the point to where there's nobody to take to in my home area.I don't know about you guys but that just me.



I seemed to get closer talking to girls from out-of-town or out-of-state then my home area. I also been in a situration where my co-worker wanted me to date her daughter.I wasn't for it. During Christmas week I brought her mother home and that's how I met her daughter.Then one day randomly her daughter texted me.I know she got my number from her mother. Then she starts texting me like how are you doing and you want to met up thing.The first two months went well.Then all of a sudden things got worse.I got my phone bill one day.It was a little bit over $700.00 dollars. I was pissed off:mad:. It was from texting my girlfriend. I told her before I don't have unlimited texting, but she refused to listen.She said that she will pay for it.(she doesn't even make enough money)so I said ok.All of a sudden she had a strict curfew:annoy:.This girl is 20 years old and she had to be home by 10:00pm. 11:00pm on the weekends. Before then this girl just quit her job at FoodLion because she wasn't getting enough hours.Basically this girl was stuck in the house all of her life doesn't do anything.I think its :lame:She just spends time with her family. Now during the last two months shes been telling me that her mom and her mom's boyfriend(not married yet)don't want her to talk to me. I felt that she wasn't giving me all the details so I told we're done.I gave her the reason why. I told her that when she told me about her parents not wanting to talk to me and the whole curfew thing (I was like screw this:mad:).The last thing was her mom text me was do not call her again. Her daughter keeps calling me and she wouldn't stop.I gave her a month she still wouldn't stop.So I decided to change my phone number. The then like a month later her i ran into her mom at work told me that i need to talk to her.( In my mind I was like ok lady what is wrong you? you just told me not to talk to your daughter!:wtf:)


I've learned that forced relationships does not work:tdown:. Right now I'm just taking it one day at a time

[Azrael]

My motivations are just achieving permanent party status in each of our home countries while we figure out what to do and where to live. Even if I had money to make frequent trips from US to Japan, customs will start to raise eyebrows at regular visits, especially post-9/11. It's a long story but the only problem with me and her is lack of stability, and I guess getting hitched will put an end to the bullshit that we've dealt with for almost 5 years now.

..God, if there's another answer to my problems I'm all ears. We don't really want to get married right now, but we're willing to do it if there isn't a better alternative.
I dunno if you should get married just because it would make things more convenient though.

How often do you go back? I usually go about once a year and I've never gotten anything out of the ordinary. Once I went twice in the span of 3 months, and that was also fine.

[monbaby]

I have a question:...

When a girl says she raped a guy...

What does that mean?...

[Koop]

I have a question:...

When a girl says she raped a guy...

What does that mean?...


well... broke him off proper to the point he couldnt handle it.... now i dont know what the new yougins use the term for.

[Seany_Boy]

So I'm playing the field right now, and my game is getting tighter. My success rate of getting phone numbers after meeting a girl is high. My problem is after I get the number and I move on to phone game. Any tips for making a day 2 happen or making a stronger connection through phone game?

[thurst]

This is a awesome thread.anyway. I have a question and i'm not trying to be racist or anything. I've been raised in augusta,ga for my entire life.Am at a point to where I can't find a decent girl to talk to not even as friends.

granted i'm notorious for not reading what people quote in full, but what about anything you posted has to do with race? it just sounds like you're having bad luck with chicks being flaky, try talking to girls that are more driven/organized. as far as the cell thing goes, just drop the extra $5-10 and get unliimited texts/data plan.

[Reveal]

So I'm playing the field right now, and my game is getting tighter. My success rate of getting phone numbers after meeting a girl is high. My problem is after I get the number and I move on to phone game. Any tips for making a day 2 happen or making a stronger connection through phone game?
I'd like some help on this too.
The phone is usually where I lose the customer :arazz:

[sanford kelly]

I have a question:...

When a girl says she raped a guy...

What does that mean?...


She fucked the shit out of him lol Women make me smile in life almost as much money does.
Pussy is the sweetest thing next to getting Money

[Koop]

She fucked the shit out of him lol Women make me smile in life almost as much money does.
Pussy is the sweetest thing next to getting Money


an it can cause a lot of problems like money can if u dont focus right...

[DietSoap]

I have a question:...

When a girl says she raped a guy...

What does that mean?... It's a trap.

[onyx]

It's the other way around society contributes to women controlling men but ultimately it's male nature that makes us do what we do to get that pussy. I don't want to repeat my post on the topic so just to touch on the animal kingdom reference those examples don't work because humans unlike other animals are far more complicated and society conflicting with human nature complicates it further.

So what if males in other animals choose the mates? That male instinct to be the aggressor shouldn't discourage women from having the same attitude. The only thing that bothered me about your post is when you said "Those females just throw the pu$$y around to any1 who wants it, the males choose who's worth the burden." FUCK THAT it's just as much "her burden" like I said I expect 100% equality when getting involved with a woman in any way I have to much self respect to deal with less then that.


Just to be clear, i was'nt talking about being in a relationship with a female, my topic was, what men do to get pu$$y and why.

"It's the other way around society contributes to women controlling men but ultimately it's male nature that makes us do what we do to get that pussy."
As i said in my post,instinct...:rolleyes:

So quickly back to the animal kingdom. Ur right, humans are more complicated animals but as far as basic instinct goes, we aren't so different. .. Eat-fuck-sleep..

Sure our mating rituals are far more complicated, even so to the fact that we are the only known animals on this planet that have sex for fun, aside from that fact, the main goal is one in the same, to fuck and create offspring. We just have many more factors involved when going about this.

You have guys that bend over backwards for a chick to get the ass. The girl thinks " He's not like the other guys im used to that treat me like shit. Im interested, ill give him some pussy and see how this turns out"

Then you have the guys that dont give a fuck and wont go out of thier way to impress a chick. The girl thinks "wow, hes not like the other pussy's im used to that treat me like a queen. Im interested, i'll give him so pussy and see how it turns out"

Dont matter who you are and what you do, some1 is gonna find you attractive for being you, for not being like the others, or even for being what she values in the opposite sex, qualifying you for access to pussy. So either way, ur still playing the attraction game witch leads to the reason behind attraction.. Pussy.

Its funny that the only part of my post that bothered you were facts.. Im just telling you how it is man, i know you have your own methods and views, and thats cool, ur just be'n human.. complicated.:tup: I'm just say'n thats why the way things are how they are.

I know I've been throwing fits up here like a madman, but I think I know my problem: Me. *snip*


Sometimes, you gotta do you man..

I have a question:...

When a girl says she raped a guy...

What does that mean?...
It means you've found yourself a keeper:tup:

[ADVIII]

granted i'm notorious for not reading what people quote in full, but what about anything you posted has to do with race? it just sounds like you're having bad luck with chicks being flaky, try talking to girls that are more driven/organized. as far as the cell thing goes, just drop the extra $5-10 and get unliimited texts/data plan.

I already got the unlimited txt plan.thanx for your input:tup:. The girl I was talking to was hispanic(the one that texted me to death:annoy:), and the other was a black girl(the who said she needed a break:wtf:). I have a question for you? based on where I'm from i found white girls easier to talk to then black girls. Most of them in this area just want a man to give them money, and not a relationship.All other types of girls are willng to listen and care about you. this is just based on my experience.Not all black girls are like that,but most of them that I talked to in this area are gold diggers. I just want your guys opinoins

[monbaby]

an it can cause a lot of problems like money can if u dont focus right...

hmm...

yeah i was talkin to this one chick and she was tellin me how she has 3 boyfriends...

One of them who she rapes on a consistent basis and he buys her gucci and prada bags and shit...

She says he likes it...

Anyway i think she foolin herself... I came away with the notion that he has a bitch at home and she is just his mistress...

[thurst]

I already got the unlimited txt plan.thanx for your input:tup:. The girl I was talking to was hispanic(the one that texted me to death:annoy:), and the other was a black girl(the who said she needed a break:wtf:). I have a question for you? based on where I'm from i found white girls easier to talk to then black girls. Most of them in this area just want a man to give them money, and not a relationship.All other types of girls are willng to listen and care about you. this is just based on my experience.Not all black girls are like that,but most of them that I talked to in this area are gold diggers. I just want your guys opinoins

i've always felt white (and asian) girls were more open to being randomly approached than black chicks who need to hear a specific type of game to be receptive, but i know plenty of my friends that think differently so it's most likely just a personal thing. as far as the golddigger thing goes i think it goes back to age again, some young broad that ain't about nothing wants some baller whereas a chick that has some kind of focus doesn't need that, it's just sad that so many chicks don't get that focus until they're in a position where there back is against the wall in that regard (read: have kids).

[ADVIII]

i've always felt white (and asian) girls were more open to being randomly approached than black chicks who need to hear a specific type of game to be receptive, but i know plenty of my friends that think differently so it's most likely just a personal thing. as far as the golddigger thing goes i think it goes back to age again, some young broad that ain't about nothing wants some baller whereas a chick that has some kind of focus doesn't need that, it's just sad that so many chicks don't get that focus until they're in a position where there back is against the wall in that regard (read: have kids).

I have friend that thinks differently as well.He told me he'll fuck a white girl but will not marry them,but then he doesn't talk the black girls for a very long time either.He was basically raised in the projects or because he was mainly around alot of black people.But i agree with you on the part when you said until they have kids all of sudden they start being nice. I know one girl from is like 28years old and she has 3 different kids from 3 differents daddys.Know she has to spend most of her life taking care of them kids

[thurst]

yeah a lot of my female cousins are like that. they were fucking around all throughout hs and their college years (granted they didn't go to college), and now they're like 26-27 trying to get their life together but they have like 2-3 kids weighing them down.

[Silentness!]

So yeah... I think me and my 2nd Korean GF are done. She's breaking up with me. Always they break up with me... actually the first one wanted to get back with me (probably out of jealousy?)

I seriously think I'm done with serious relationships. Maybe one SUPERIOR woman will come out of nowhere and be the one for me, but so far I put my hope into failure.
________________-

We almost made the 3 month mark :rofl: . I am definitely sad... I can't lie, but I am strong. I will move on because I'm a man and I will keep my pride.

^^^^ I sound like a lame anime.

[Koop]

hmm...

yeah i was talkin to this one chick and she was tellin me how she has 3 boyfriends...

One of them who she rapes on a consistent basis and he buys her gucci and prada bags and shit...

She says he likes it...

Anyway i think she foolin herself... I came away with the notion that he has a bitch at home and she is just his mistress...


nope... she pimpin the game. bet it. she slangin pussy an get over like a fat rat. most guys (especially my brothas) get pussy glaucoma™ an cant look at the full picture of shyt.

[thurst]

lol ness, you trippin. you like just turned 21 right? don't let those k-broads get you down man.

[Koop]

So yeah... I think me and my 2nd Korean GF are done. She's breaking up with me. Always they break up with me... actually the first one wanted to get back with me (probably out of jealousy?)

I seriously think I'm done with serious relationships. Maybe one SUPERIOR woman will come out of nowhere and be the one for me, but so far I put my hope into failure.
________________-

We almost made the 3 month mark :rofl: . I am definitely sad... I can't lie, but I am strong. I will move on because I'm a man and I will keep my pride.

^^^^ I sound like a lame anime.


u dont know what a serious relationship is yet. your still dating. an if thurst is right....you got a LOOOOOONG ways to go.

[kazamamaster]

So yeah... I think me and my 2nd Korean GF are done. She's breaking up with me. Always they break up with me... actually the first one wanted to get back with me (probably out of jealousy?)

I seriously think I'm done with serious relationships. Maybe one SUPERIOR woman will come out of nowhere and be the one for me, but so far I put my hope into failure.
________________-

We almost made the 3 month mark :rofl: . I am definitely sad... I can't lie, but I am strong. I will move on because I'm a man and I will keep my pride.

^^^^ I sound like a lame anime.

What happened? Too much sex? Or too little sex? :rofl:

[Silentness!]

What happened? Too much sex? Or too little sex? :rofl:
Nah she loved the sex. Probably why the relationship lasted so long before she broke up with me.

She said we don't match personality wise though. lol...

Anyways I put too much effort into her. Something I never want to do again. I made the mistake twice... 3rd time I really don't want to happen again.

I think I'm just going to play the field a bit because I keep fucking up by putting too much trust into one broad.

[kazamamaster]

Nah she loved the sex. Probably why the relationship lasted so long before she broke up with me.

She said we don't match personality wise though. lol...

Anyways I put too much effort into her. Something I never want to do again. I made the mistake twice... 3rd time I really don't want to happen again.

I think I'm just going to play the field a bit because I keep fucking up by putting too much trust into one broad.

She said y'all don't match personality wise? She was just in it for the sex lol. Didn't you say before you were having sex all weekend and she didn't wanna leave the place? Do the math sir.......

[Shadow Ace 50]

Quote:
Originally Posted by Koop

this is referred as "The L"..the l is when you get caught up in the game and either get a chic pregant by "accident" or letting a chic run game on your life
"oh she got dat nigga in the l" people say dont put the pussy on the pedestal but damn..


Quote:
Originally Posted by Silentness!


your still learning, just like me we are the same age so we have a long ways to go to get a handle on things..don't go into a sprial or some shit ness...stand strong

on a related note has anybody experience some crazy broads recently?..like at work im chillin in the break room when this insane woman comes in and snaps on me for no reason....so after arguing I cut her off...

[monbaby]

nope... she pimpin the game. bet it. she slangin pussy an get over like a fat rat. most guys (especially my brothas) get pussy glaucoma™ an cant look at the full picture of shyt.

what is pussy gglaucoma?...

[Ryusuke]

Meaning they only focus on the pussy and stop thinking.....

[monbaby]

I'm sorry she AIN'T pimpin the game...

Koop imagine you and your ole lady got married had a kid...

You see this bad YOUNG BITCH who you was fuckin with when she was still in high school...

In fact you 7 years older than this girl...

You a made man you make money she don't even have a job...

You toss her some shoes and clothes and she suk your dick fuck you or whatever...

eventually this girl is gonna think you gonna leave your grown ass mature WIFE for a Spoiled snot nosed brat MISTRESS...

That shit ain't gonna happen...

The girl think she pimpin the game when in reality she pimpin herself...

Not to mention she got tats and shit of this nigga all over her...

[Koop]

I'm sorry she AIN'T pimpin the game...

Koop imagine you and your ole lady got married had a kid...

You see this bad YOUNG BITCH who you was fuckin with when she was still in high school...

In fact you 7 years older than this girl...

You a made man you make money she don't even have a job...

You toss her some shoes and clothes and she suk your dick fuck you or whatever...

eventually this girl is gonna think you gonna leave your grown ass mature WIFE for a Spoiled snot nosed brat MISTRESS...

That shit ain't gonna happen...

The girl think she pimpin the game when in reality she pimpin herself...

Not to mention she got tats and shit of this nigga all over her...


no...she trickin whomever regardless... first off whomever is frontin for a younger chick droppin off loot/items for young pussy....yeah she pimpin her pussy an gettin shyt out of it while ol boy whomever he is ...is comin outta pocket. regardless of the outcome ultimately all shorty is givin up is a lil twat an head but gainin shyt she WANTS to show down the line an when it hits her good....oh when it hits her good... oh she will pimp that pussy perfectly an trick dat nicca deeply if need be cause again... glaucoma from pussy..

sure ol boy aint gonna leave mature chick but ol boy gettin tricked by twat an possibly puttin himself into a fucced up situation cause those immature chicks are just that....immature... thus they LIKE to cause drama cause they get teary eyed an revengeful an in some cases ol boy has exposed himself to her via pillow talk™ an she will use that shyt to get her way REGARDLESS if he doesnt get with her......soooooooo whomever he is need to wake up an place some boundaries up now.

[Ryusuke]

Please dont tell me that be you. Anyway it was great today on the bus. Me and all the dudes sitting in the back of the bus were having a discussion about females/game. While being surrounded by females. Loud enough to be heard. All the females were looking at us like WTF????! One lady, I swear, had a guilty look. As if she was thinkin, "Oh shit, they're on to me!" LOL

[nicaboy]

ha ha what ya'll boys know about that wet wet :rofl:

[Ryusuke]

When it comes to that pussy, probably more than you. LOL

[nicaboy]

lol but really this is an intresting thread
i wonder who started that convo on the bus ryusuke im pretty sure females in atl dont put up with that kinda talk you already know we got ghettos girls round here and i love it

[Ryusuke]

The other guy did. He and I both were waiting for the bus when a chain gang passed us. While they were passing us, one of the dudes asked if we had some weed. We both were like WTF?! So after we got onto the bus, he starts talking about the dude. From there, it went from about that dude, to how to tell what a guy did to be put in jail by looking at their face, to fake ass ganstas, to pussy. And fuck them bitches, they sat right there and didnt say shit.

[monbaby]

no...she trickin whomever regardless... first off whomever is frontin for a younger chick droppin off loot/items for young pussy....yeah she pimpin her pussy an gettin shyt out of it while ol boy whomever he is ...is comin outta pocket. regardless of the outcome ultimately all shorty is givin up is a lil twat an head but gainin shyt she WANTS to show down the line an when it hits her good....oh when it hits her good... oh she will pimp that pussy perfectly an trick dat nicca deeply if need be cause again... glaucoma from pussy..

sure ol boy aint gonna leave mature chick but ol boy gettin tricked by twat an possibly puttin himself into a fucced up situation cause those immature chicks are just that....immature... thus they LIKE to cause drama cause they get teary eyed an revengeful an in some cases ol boy has exposed himself to her via pillow talk™ an she will use that shyt to get her way REGARDLESS if he doesnt get with her......soooooooo whomever he is need to wake up an place some boundaries up now.

Even if what you say is true...

Where does the moral responsibility fall on the girl?...

If she that smart or that devious enough to get this nigga to act like that then she just as much fault as he is...

Kinda like any drug dealer or what not...

You know the cosequences, so why do it?...

For some money, shoes?...

And the thing is people know better too...

I never seen one thing positive come from any of that underhanded shit...

And if she do actually manage to get old... Her pussy gon be so dried and fucked up and loose that she just gon be a lonely ass materialistic hag...

i've seen old women like this, it's really pathetic...

You better off being a good bitch, finding a good husband cuz if he love you you gonna get all that shit anyway... Plus you'll have character, and all that shit...

[Shotokan Symphony]

monbaby:
Moral implications don't apply when someone isn't concerned about them. She'll keep doing it, and it's pointless to worry about it.

[Stuckey]

I got a serious concern, fellas. There's this chick i've known for a few years. I'm concerned she might be mixed up with a crazy ass nigga. The dude seems a little off, and she's got mixed up with a crazy ass dude before that I had to step in and take care of. I couldn't find out much under the conditions of which I met him because it just wouldn't have been right. I say that because I met him at a funeral for this girl's dad. It really wasn't the time to be getting into any shit so I kept my mouth shut, paid my respects, comforted my friend, and got out of the way when it was time to. The cause for my concerns:

1) When I get to her house and we're waiting for the limousines to come, she gets in her mom's van with the dude and they drive off somewhere. Dude was behind the wheel. Knowing that the funeral was starting at 3, why would he take her off somewhere and BARELY make it back so this girl could get in the limo and make it to her father's funeral? I didn't bother asking where they went because like I said, it wasn't a time for that. But they pulled back up when the limo's were literally about to turn out of the apartment complex with everybody else loaded up in cars behind them to go to the church.

2) He parks my friend's mom's van and hops in the car with her brother in law and they ride to the funeral together. Apparently, the dude either doesn't have a car or has a suspended license because he rode around with brother in law all day. I think they're even friends. Which REALLY concerns me because...

3) It's no secret that the brother in law is no good. He beats his wife (my friend's sister of course), doesn't work and mooches off his wife who works for Geico, and the kicker...before this man passed away, he put brother in law in charge of his business. Dude ran an auto repair shop for 16 years. Gave it to him when he got too sick to work, and it immediately tanked. Like I said before, he doesn't work. Any friend of his i'm lookin at as shady.

4) They turned off while we were all going to the church and showed up at the funeral when it was half over...DRUNK.

5) When we get to the interment, this dude is talking to a police officer the whole time they're about to put my friend's dad in the ground.

6) Dude has a huge ugly tattoo on his neck and dressed REALLY fucked up to this funeral. His tie was little as hell, his dress shirt was wrinkled and too small, his khaki's were tight as hell like he was due for a pussycat dolls audition, AND he wore fake black Air Jordans IVs as if they were passable as dress shoes. He also kept his bluetooth on his ear in church.

7) I think he's been lingering around their house since Saturday when the funeral took place because brother in law is still over there and my friend acts like she can't talk on the phone when i'm just calling to see if she and her family are holding up ok. She'll immediately say "i'll call you back" then never does. Plus she sounds really nervous on the phone.

Now for one, I helped pay to bury her father because the insurance company wanted nothing to do with it. I did this because I feel like I have a sort of obligation to this girl to make sure she's ok. It's kinda hard to explain, but I feel like I owe her that shit. Through spending time with her, it's weird but, I feel like she taught me a lot about myself. I couldn't see myself in a relationship with her, but I can't deny i've been a better person since i've known her and I feel like I gotta look out for her because she's still a bit on the young side (20).

What's a concerned homey do about this shit? I just wanna make sure she's ok.

[kimterran]

Nah she loved the sex. Probably why the relationship lasted so long before she broke up with me.

She said we don't match personality wise though. lol...

Anyways I put too much effort into her. Something I never want to do again. I made the mistake twice... 3rd time I really don't want to happen again.

I think I'm just going to play the field a bit because I keep fucking up by putting too much trust into one broad.

its alright man. they're right, you still have a long way to go. i thought you had it made for having too much sex. just don't get too attached to relationships and watch out for traps along the way. you'll be fine.

[axeman61]

@ Stuckey
The dude isn't good, "crazy" or not. If she's okay now, she won't be later.
What are you asking? You seem to know he's trash. Will what you did to scare away the last crazy dude not work with this one for some reason?

[Silentness!]

its alright man. they're right, you still have a long way to go. i thought you had it made for having too much sex. just don't get too attached to relationships and watch out for traps along the way. you'll be fine.

You know what the lamest part is... she compared me to Chris Brown rofl...

she told me that I look like Chris Brown. (the downgraded version ROFL)

She was obsessed with Chris Brown when he was like 16.

[Stuckey]

What we did with the last dude to get rid of him was a restraining order. But she came to me and confided in me that this dude was doing crazy shit to her. She came to me for help on that one. I think if something is up this time, she can't say because he's still hanging around her place. I don't wanna put her in harm's way by making this dude overly jealous of me or something. And if there's an off chance she still just likes this guy, even though he seems worthless, I'm not really in a position to tell her who to date because i'm not trying to date her myself.

But man, i've NEVER felt this way before. I can't clear my head of the shit for even a second. And my stomach hurts like hell. I think it's anxiety or some shit. That last dude raped her in her own apartment. I'd lose it on a nigga like John Lee Malvoy if that were to happen again.

[FaceMeAndBeBroken]

^ Stuckey.

This is just my personal opinion.

You shouldnt do shit for that chick. What are you actually getting out of it? The feeling that you did something good? Chicks do it to themselves, then expect to be bailed out. Infact, thats EXCATLY whats happening now, she has a male friend that could bail her out of this shit, and shes counting on it.

I'd say its not worth putting yourself in harms way... forget her. Its just IMO, that when you are anything less than HAPPILY married, that a female isnt worth any trouble whatsoever, even something small and insignificant.

[Silentness!]

don't laugh... but I think we might get back together... AGAIN

For the 3rd time.

TNT knows DRAMA!

[onyx]

I got a serious concern, fellas. .

Damn....Dude is fucked up.. Seems to me like ur find just likes bad men 4 some reason, im sure he didn't just force his way into her life she allowed it, and if she doesn't want him then SHE should be the one to end it... I think u should just forget it and hope thinks turn out good for her.. IF she doesn't call u back.. dont call her, and if she calls you when she needs some help or something, then u know where her mind is at..

Ness.. how the hell do you do this make up break up thing sooo many times??? ultimately its just gonna end anyway, so if she was the one to end it in the first place, then u should be the one to say "nahh u had ur chance" when she starts say'n she misses u and shit. Dont give her all that control man, or else, who knows how many more times this will happen. Just tell her we should keep things physical since" we don't have match'n personalities"

[Stuckey]

^ Stuckey.

This is just my personal opinion.

You shouldnt do shit for that chick. What are you actually getting out of it?

I look at it the same way I would if it were a guy friend that was attracted to someone that was no good for him. Being his friend, i'd say something. Just like I hope someone would tell me I was mixed up with someone that wasn't trying to do right by me. This is just because I care about her as a friend. I mean, she would like nothing more than to be in a relationship with me, but I just think we make better friends than being a couple. Since I can't be her man, I don't want her to settle for some BS though. I'd feel partially responsible for it, and like I said before, I feel like I gotta do what I can to keep her out of harm's way like I would for any other friend. I mean, it's kinda hard to explain, but this chick really changed my life man. I won't get into all that, but I know I owe some of the goodness in my life to our friendship.

I don't think she'd ever just quit talking to me. More than likely when she can get away from that nigga she will (probably from her job or something). And I guess i'll just mention it to her.

[Rodimus]

I look at it the same way I would if it were a guy friend that was attracted to someone that was no good for him. Being his friend, i'd say something. Just like I hope someone would tell me I was mixed up with someone that wasn't trying to do right by me. This is just because I care about her as a friend. I mean, she would like nothing more than to be in a relationship with me, but I just think we make better friends than being a couple. Since I can't be her man, I don't want her to settle for some BS though. I'd feel partially responsible for it, and like I said before, I feel like I gotta do what I can to keep her out of harm's way like I would for any other friend. I mean, it's kinda hard to explain, but this chick really changed my life man. I won't get into all that, but I know I owe some of the goodness in my life to our friendship.

I don't think she'd ever just quit talking to me. More than likely when she can get away from that nigga she will (probably from her job or something). And I guess i'll just mention it to her.

I mean in that type of situation you can only do so much man. Sometimes friends and lovers gotta learn the hard way. Or more so gain their own experience from a situation. I understand you jusy wanna look out for her like she may have looked out for you in the past.

[thurst]

yo stuck, is this the bi-polar shorty from the crazy story thread?

to the point, i think y