The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[kev_the_bev]

my ex-girl expects too much from me.

we haven't been together since like september. we've stayed good friends since then, but she still expects way too much from me. she expects me to pick her up from work still...stupid routine crap like that. how can i tell her that i don't really want to do this stuff all the time anymore..without hurting her feelings too much, cause yo, she's a great friend. but i want her to be just that, a friend. what should i do?

[pherai]

stop worrying about her feelings or she'll control you.

[AzN_Skater]

stop worrying about her feelings or she'll control you.

Yah werd. There's a reason you guys aren't together anymore. If you want her to be a friend, treat her like one. Don't do that "kind of a bf" shit. It'll kill you both on the inside.

Next time she asks you to do some mundane/routine shit, just tell her you got shit to do.

[Stanman]

Alright, I think it's time for me to ask SRK a question I'm too much of an idiot to figure out myself.

Ok, starting off, I'm a film arts major. I want to be a director so I felt I needed to learn about every facet of filmmaking including acting. So last year I took two of the acting classes that were available. One thing I immediately noticed was that there are a lot of hot chicks in acting class. Another thing I noticed is that one of more attractive girls in the class was actually attracted to me. This I thought was cool, but I wasn't going to act on it for a few reasons.

Even though it isn't really the same, I definitely have heard about the don't date with people you work with rule. She is one of the better actresses in school and I had chosen her to be in one of my movies before and she did really well. I ended up winning a best film, best acting, and best directing award in a local film festival for it. I plan on casting her in a role for my advanced media senior project film just because it would probably make my movie better. I don't want to really mess with that work relationship. That and I consider myself somewhat of an idealist, so I have abstained from many things that may get in the way of pursuing my dreams. That and she's also really flirty and it always turned me off how freely she talks to other guys.

Anyways, I instead end up playing dumb and ignore her very obvious advances. She had even admitted to me that she was frustrated that I didn't recognize them. I instead just develop a friendship and I guess I didn't want to mess with that either. But, like another thing I read on here, pretending like there's no attraction is driving me fucking crazy. During the summer she started going out with another actor guy and I just kind of stopped hanging out with her because I wasn't in acting classes anymore (I kind of sucked at it anyways).

Now she is single again and that fact alone has been kind of making me go crazy again. She has suddenly started asking to hang out again and I see her more often now. I don't want to mess with my movie. It is the reason why I'm in school in the first place. I don't know if I can just sit around though. It's all a big strange. I don't want to put my ideals aside, but this chick is actually really fucking cool... But even the filmmaking books say you shouldn't sleep with cast or crew and from the many cases that I have heard of from the time I have been in school, these situations have always ended badly.

Anyways, I'll provide pics because I know they'll help.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewAlbums&friendID=36029201

[pherai]

Don't risk anything that may compromise your dreams, no matter how hot. You'll regret it.

[Ill E]

I could use some advice, SRK. Recently, a friend of mine i've known for a while and have been close to, admitted that they liked me. We'll call her, Girl A.

Girl A has a best friend (we'll call her, Girl B.) I've known Girl B for a while now (actually, longer than Girl A...) and have had a bit of a crush on her for a few years now. Just recently, we've gotten to know each other pretty well and we've been flirting back and forth. her.

'"Now she's mad at me, cause Your Majesty
just happened to be a pimp - what a tragedy
She wanted us to end, 'cause I fucked her friend
She gave me one more chance and I fucked her again
I seen her tears as she busted in, I said, "Shit..
there's a draft, shut the door, bitch and come on in!"- Jay-Z


LOl at how all these recent chicks u messed with/Plan to mess with all work at your Job.

just do your thing with Girl B...dont't worry too much about Girl A is gonna take it, its not like she's your BFF or something

I used to be more 'considerate' with everybody, but I realized that the more you try to be 'considerate' of people, they more often they don't be 'considerate' of you...so, it's best to be more inconsiderate, until you have a reason to act otherwise...

Stanman: You shoulda smashed before, (before u started this plan for your new film). Who cares if she talks to other guys freely? It's not like u planned on wifing her, because obviously like u said, u can't date her if she works with u. Just have your fun with her and peace out.... (well this advice would of applied a few months ago before this play).

Anyways, more importantly , congrats on winning those awards for your film... success is more important at the end of the day...

Biolink: lol at you using the term 'satellite' about the douchebag. (reminds me of that scene in Harold N Kumar 2 where they pull in their car to the house of the asshole husband of the chick Kumar likes, and right when they pull up , Kumar says "...It smells like douche" :lol:)
Good luck, just be yourself and be direct with her, make sure u get to her before the douche! let us know how it goes

[Stuckey]

whoa wtf is going on. Havoc is on dat orange text and similes.

And Stuckey is not. I'm confused.

Just to clear something up. I meant "break the ice" by text message. Meaning send "we need to talk" or "if you're not busy, could you meet me 'here'", something to help dude get over his nerves. There's nothing wrong with that like Half Life 2 on an expensive PC.

And I use dark orange, dammit. :rofl:

[Koop]

Koop's tip of the week:


If your lady friend (whatever her label is) is talkin out of her side of her neck (meaning just talking dumb or reckless) here is a tip...

when she goes for that pause (which takes a second in the midst of a female rant) immediately blurt out:


"... are u on your fuccin period."


as u know your boy i will break this down like street fighter to give you more insight on what i mean

by executing the verbal response in the midst of her chain footsies of rants an problems you will not only execute a lv 1 focus (see SF 4) but you can now perform an ultra.... watch an learn


Her: :mad:blah blah blah blah blah blah blah:lk:... your fuccin up:lk:...:mad:blah blah blah blah blah me me me me me me me :lk:me:mad:... chemistry:looney:... life... kids:amazed:...not all about sex... me me me me:mad::mad:.......:mk:


you: ... are you on your fuccin period!?:mk::mp:

Her: bla-- wha..... am i on my period:confused::amazed:

you: (:qcf::qcf::3p:) yeah cause you really lost the fucc outta me an i honestly dont feel like gettin into all that...

Her: ....:confused: :mad: wha- what the fucc my period got to do wit this??

you: giving you ample opportunity for an excuse cause if your not u got the wrong one to be gettin all ampd up one... this is a conversation u need to be calm to talk to me bout iiiiiight.... iiight



execution an timin is the key. sure the opposite party will be a lil peeved but all in all you can now turtle in the corner for the rest of the match n not have to deal wit bullshyt for the rest of the evening or telephone conversation wasting those daytime minutes. now majority of the time it is cause of her bloody bitch that she transforms into once a month (yes i will say bitch in this instance) that causes that infamous she has a problem wit u an everything you do chain rant... eliminate that shyt easily. execution at first is hard an learning to turtle afterwards an build more meter will take time but you will get use to it...


Tested an verified 11-19-2008 with shorty # 1

[Stuckey]

Her: ....:confused: :mad: wha- what the fucc my period got to do wit this??

you: giving you ample opportunity for an excuse cause if your not u got the wrong one to be gettin all ampd up one... this is a conversation u need to be calm to talk to me bout iiiiiight.... iiight


:rofl: Good shit, homey.

[DJ Ether]

my ex-girl expects too much from me.

we haven't been together since like september. we've stayed good friends since then, but she still expects way too much from me. she expects me to pick her up from work still...stupid routine crap like that. how can i tell her that i don't really want to do this stuff all the time anymore..without hurting her feelings too much, cause yo, she's a great friend. but i want her to be just that, a friend. what should i do?

Damn son, you are being played for a sucka. That "good friends" crap is just pleaseantries man, you're not supposed to act on it. Tell her straight out that all that routine shit is out the window. You are not together anymore. Wasting valuable time that can be used for finding another pig to pork. Be prepared for a heated argument and be prepared to walk away and possible ignore her. Dont get hung up on this friendship BS that girls love to stick you at after relationships. You are a man son, act like one.

[Koop]

Damn son, you are being played for a sucka. That "good friends" crap is just pleaseantries man, you're not supposed to act on it. Tell her straight out that all that routine shit is out the window. You are not together anymore. Wasting valuable time that can be used for finding another pig to pork. Be prepared for a heated argument and be prepared to walk away and possible ignore her. Dont get hung up on this friendship BS that girls love to stick you at after relationships. You are a man son, act like one.


Im Koop... an i approve this message.

[FaceMeAndBeBroken]

So, I'm looking at some Maury DNA tests on TV. Haha, gets gets me hype that this kid isnt mine. Bitches come up with all kinds of shit, and seem to have NO problem letting a dude take care of their bastard ass kid.

Then Divorce Court comes on right after, LOL.

[Ill E]

^
Lmao...the funniest is when the dude does a celebratory dance when Maury announces the kid isnt his...dude get into choreographed dance routines that they have been planning for weeks and shit...:lol:

Wasting valuable time that can be used for finding another pig to pork.

EXACTLY! She needs to ask her man for shit like that...not trying to use other dudes...

Yo, I am new with this new version of SRK. do any of y'all know How do u respond to those little messages (not the same as a PM) ? Like, a little message someone can send and u can respond in a box..but not the same as PM I got one today as soon as i logged in to SRK and went to go look at threads and now i don't know where to search for it in the User CP so i can respond.....thanks

[onyx]

Just a word of advice. Don't text. It doesn't come across well like Frogger on a busy street
:rofl:

my ex-girl expects too much from me.

we haven't been together since like september. we've stayed good friends since then, but she still expects way too much from me. she expects me to pick her up from work still...stupid routine crap like that. how can i tell her that i don't really want to do this stuff all the time anymore..without hurting her feelings too much, cause yo, she's a great friend. but i want her to be just that, a friend. what should i do?

:wtf: easy, just be a dick and tell her to find another driver, ur not with her anymore so there no obligation. If she still doesn't get it as says "but i need" whatever ask her" so what r you gonna do for me" Seriously, theres nothing wrong with just say'n no.. It'll prolly turn her on.

[Stanman]

Don't risk anything that may compromise your dreams, no matter how hot. You'll regret it.

Shit. That's what I needed to hear, but I don't want to hear it.

I was thinking about just not casting her in my movie. Which would be bad, but could fix one problem. If I just ignore it then I can imagine it just being frustrating.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Shit. That's what I needed to hear, but I don't want to hear it.

I was thinking about just not casting her in my movie. Which would be bad, but could fix one problem. If I just ignore it then I can imagine it just being frustrating.

Just go out wif her and see how that goes... If u end up havin sex then good... but you should be able to establish ground rules with her before u even try and get sexual.. so it doesnt interfere wif ur movie... a lot of the times when situations like this go bad its because theres no type of planning involved:china:

[Hazank0]

How do you guys usually approach women at work? aka the sexy hostess or waitress?

This hostess was being extra nice to me when i got locked out my car, she was making physical contact and being very conversational. I wanted to make the move but I wasn't sure how/when to do it.

[Ryusuke]

How do you guys usually approach women at work? aka the sexy hostess or waitress?

This hostess was being extra nice to me when i got locked out my car, she was making physical contact and being very conversational. I wanted to make the move but I wasn't sure how/when to do it.

Tell her you dont date coworkers. But you're willing to take your friendship to a whole new level. If this doesnt work, then leave her alone.

[JackTenrac!]

I realized that inorder to get back in the game, I have to get out more. I gotta get out more, but my friends say I live too far and I don't drive. What do I do?

[Stuckey]

I realized that inorder to get back in the game, I have to get out more. I gotta get out more, but my friends say I live too far and I don't drive. What do I do?

Make some new friends, champ. Be a scenester for a while until you're famous for no reason like Tila Tequila. Then maybe you can introduce them to the friends you already got and you'll always have someplace to go. Pick a place you like and go there often (I for one have never seen anything wrong with going out alone). Or is there nothing nearby that doesn't require a vehicle like nursing home residents?

[FaceMeAndBeBroken]

How do you guys usually approach women at work? aka the sexy hostess or waitress?

This hostess was being extra nice to me when i got locked out my car, she was making physical contact and being very conversational. I wanted to make the move but I wasn't sure how/when to do it.

Tell her you dont date coworkers. But you're willing to take your friendship to a whole new level. If this doesnt work, then leave her alone.

I think he means when they are at their job...I think?

I wouldnt waste my time on a chick at her job. In this case, even if you are co-workers, she's in an evironment that sees her probably getting hit on more than she'd like. And also, alot of those "great attitudes" that they seem to exibit, are more for keeping their job. Females can fake concern, and have meaningless flirts much better than men. But in the end, in a situation like this you're "just another one of those damn guys"

[OneInchPunch]

Hey Koop. You mind clearing up some space in your PM box? I got a question for you.

[Koop]

Should be clear now man, my bad.

[TheWanderer]

-is body language important if you wanna know if a gal is feeling you? some ppl say that dont matter until you talk to her..

-this one girl who start conversation with me but she wont stare at me in the eye... i look at her and see her either looking down or something in the room or look at my shirt but not at me.. WTF..

[orochizoolander]

-is body language important if you wanna know if a gal is feeling you? some ppl say that dont matter until you talk to her..

-this one girl who start conversation with me but she wont stare at me in the eye... i look at her and see her either looking down or something in the room or look at my shirt but not at me.. WTF..

GTFO bitch you used up your last lifeline 3 strikes ago.





Anyways my girl and I had a lil argument cuz she's been blowing me off (not in the good way lol) since any time she's not at school or work she's taking care of her dad who see said will be dead in 2 weeks. Anyways I like a woman who gives me space but I basically I said her dying dad is no excuse to ignore me for and have so little contact with me for as long as she has (of course I didn't word it that harshly lol) and I'm glad she admitted to not being a good gf and should pay more attention to me:tup:...still though sucks her old man won't be around long enough for me to meet him. =/

[Shadow Ace 50]

-is body language important if you wanna know if a gal is feeling you? some ppl say that dont matter until you talk to her..

-this one girl who start conversation with me but she wont stare at me in the eye... i look at her and see her either looking down or something in the room or look at my shirt but not at me.. WTF..

body language is important..your suppose to look someone in the eyes or face when talking to them..its out of respect..and im pretty sure a female wouldnt be down if your just looking lost

and also...

bitch is retarded..

[Havoc]

That's kind've a dick move.

[Koop]

GTFO bitch you used up your last lifeline 3 strikes ago.





Anyways my girl and I had a lil argument cuz she's been blowing me off (not in the good way lol) since any time she's not at school or work she's taking care of her dad who see said will be dead in 2 weeks. Anyways I like a woman who gives me space but I basically I said her dying dad is no excuse to ignore me for and have so little contact with me for as long as she has (of course I didn't word it that harshly lol) and I'm glad she admitted to not being a good gf and should pay more attention to me:tup:...still though sucks her old man won't be around long enough for me to meet him. =/


i have to say no on this... if anything you should of been there for her. her dad is dying... her mind will not be able to focus any thought on you. i wouldnt do that to my shorty...i would be there for her in that time. in fact when it comes to family i put them above me an understand.......especially in a case like that. how much are you working to console her cause if you think youve been blown off now... wait till it actually kicks in he is gone. step ya game up playboy.

[Mrs.ButtonSmash]

Anyways my girl and I had a lil argument cuz she's been blowing me off (not in the good way lol) since any time she's not at school or work she's taking care of her dad who see said will be dead in 2 weeks. Anyways I like a woman who gives me space but I basically I said her dying dad is no excuse to ignore me for and have so little contact with me for as long as she has (of course I didn't word it that harshly lol) and I'm glad she admitted to not being a good gf and should pay more attention to me:tup:...still though sucks her old man won't be around long enough for me to meet him. =/

Seriously.
You're kidding, right?
You didn't really do & say that, did you?

[Stuckey]

Orochi, that's fucked up cat. You should apologize Kobe style for that one. And soon. This is one of those instances where you back off and let her and her family have their space.

[pherai]

Listen, I'm all for keepin a short leash on your women, but you should NEVER come between a girl and her parents. That shit is cold hearted to the highest degree.

[jabhadouken]

-is body language important if you wanna know if a gal is feeling you? some ppl say that dont matter until you talk to her..

-this one girl who start conversation with me but she wont stare at me in the eye... i look at her and see her either looking down or something in the room or look at my shirt but not at me.. WTF..

Is she looking at your wang?

I've found that some Asian chicks do that if their trying to drop you the hint they're interested in being approached.

From the eyes, then to the wang, then back - talk that up, son.

It's pretty well a given opening (pun intended).

I was a complete and utter dick to her. =/

Yeah, what everyone else has said thus far.

[orochizoolander]

body language is important..your suppose to look someone in the eyes or face when talking to them..its out of respect..and im pretty sure a female wouldnt be down if your just looking lost

and also...

bitch is retarded..

Don't give him any headsup he'll just ignore you and tell you how wrong you are for trying to give him advice:rofl:

i have to say no on this... if anything you should of been there for her. her dad is dying... her mind will not be able to focus any thought on you. i wouldnt do that to my shorty...i would be there for her in that time. in fact when it comes to family i put them above me an understand.......especially in a case like that. how much are you working to console her cause if you think youve been blown off now... wait till it actually kicks in he is gone. step ya game up playboy.

I know all yall got to go on is by what I post so I can't fault you for not getting all the facts that's on me I know so with that said I've been as understanding and as patient as a man can possibly be please believe. One of my closest friends dad had cancer for a few years and she went through it at a much younger age for a lot longer then my gf did and as unfortunate as both situations are I have the benefit of consulting her on how to approach my girl and be sensitive while trying to get my point across.

My gf told me I can't relate to her situation and she's right I can't so I've given her all the alone time in the world she even took her anger out on me and I let it all slide given what she's going through. In the 2+ years we've been together several times we've gone over a month of not having any contact with each other which like I said I understood considering she has school, 2 jobs, and her dad to think about before me but not 100/% of her time is devoted to all that. If she has time to go out with her friends and have a social life then she should be able to give me a call at least once a week or so.


I just posted as an update to the fight we had last month and because I felt it was appropriate given the thread title not to defend myself because I know as a fact I handled the situation correctly but just to stop the hate I'll say this much;


My best friend who's dad had cancer for years before passing away when she was 10 even said my gf was a bitch to ignore me completely for several months and that there's only so long you can go with 0 communication. Like I said before if she has time to go out with her friends and do the social thing then she has time for a 1 second phone call at least once a week and to shut me out completely for as long as she has when I tried my damnedest to console her was a big mistake on her part.


I'm glad we had the argument that we did last night and that she admitted she hasn't been the best gf but it's been really hard for me to "be there for her" or console her because she doesn't want me to be a shoulder to cry on. Since it didn't happen to me I have no business in trying to console her or at least that's what she said so I'm okay with that.


EDIT: Given the situation I would love to see how long yall would put up with having a gf that doesn't want to have any contact with you at all and considering SRK usual stance of "leave her you'll find someone else better" I'd put money that maybe only 1 or 2 of you would stick around and deal with it for as long as I have.

[VikingLongwood]

I just had a bitch play mind games on my friend and me. She acted like she wanted me, loved me, etc. But it was all a game.

See, she dated him before, and they were pretty good together. Some shit went down and they broke up. She then played her game on me. I talked to her all the time during their relationship, and I really liked her. Sure shit went down between them, but I figured I'd take my shot. She led me on from that point, and I was a fool, believing it all the way.

She would be all nice about him to me, talking about how great he is, praising him, then talk down to him to his face. She said some really awful shit about his past that he doesn't like to talk about. She also told him lies about me, said I talked shit about him behind his back. She was trying to ruin our friendship. He hid that from me, because he knew I was happy with her. He was bothered by it enough that I noticed, and I made him tell me. I couldn't believe what he had told me. I then confronted her about it and she didn't want to talk about it. She then dumped me the next day, and told me I should've picked her over him. Yeah right, give up my best friend for a manipulative bitch? Pussy isn't worth that much.

I got caught up in her little game. She wanted revenge on him for breaking it off, so she felt like taking away his best friend. She probably would've dumped me down the road, leaving me without a best friend or girl friend. It didn't work.

Beware of crazy bitches and their schemes.

[Stuckey]

If she has time to go out with her friends and have a social life then she should be able to give me a call at least once a week or so.


Oh yeah, well that makes it different. If she's going out and stuff with other people during this time and doesn't even CALL you, then yeah that's a whole other game like bulletball.

I will say this though, you never know what you'll do in that type of situation where you're losing someone close to you until you experience it. Your friend that went through it in the past really shouldn't be calling your girl out of her name and shit because something like that effects people differently. But yeah, I definitely understand where you're coming from now. I honestly don't know what to tell you about that one like Sarah Palin being asked about foreign affairs.

[orochizoolander]

Like I said the whole "my dad is dying leave me alone thing" is something I know nothing about so I like any decent human being respected her and left her alone and was okay with limited communication for the past 2 years or so. But when it gets to the point of me not knowing if she's even going to call this month or not then I have to step in and say I'm not dealing with it anymore so I'm glad she recognized she's been unfair to me and is willing to change that before thing's got out of hand like the adams family.

You're right my friend doesn't know my gf and everyone reacts different, my gf said that her natural reaction was to "shut me out" but what my friend does know is that I have been as patient and understanding as any man could possibly be and I don't deserve a gf who doesn't appreciate that let alone ignores me for several months. This is the first (and hopefully only) long distance relationship I've been in and everything everyone says is true but I'm just happy to know she acknowledged she didn't give me the attention she should have. Like I said it's pretty serious so not only am I upset my girl is feeling shitty and there is literally nothing I can do to alleviate that but also I'll never be able to meet the father of the woman I may potentially spend the rest of my life with. =/

[g3nshir0_]

Guys, what should I do if the girl I love is with a guy?

I last saw her in...september at a show, and she was sending me mixed signals. She gave me a kiss on the cheek and hugged me, and she made a very questionable remark to me("I feel like kissing") and I've just been so caught up on all of it that I'm not sure what to think. We weren't ever an item, but we occasionally went out together and did sexual things, and given the nature of our last encounter I'm just thinking that there may be a chance.

I don't even care about her boyfriend as I've never met him, I just want to know if you guys think it is feasible I can worm my way in and get what I want?

[shortpitched713]

She gave me a kiss on the cheek and hugged me,

Only one relevant question. Does she have meat breath?

[Silentness!]

So my GF came from Seoul (2 hours away) to bring me soup and shit she made and bought from the store. She escorted me home after my oral surgery.

I'm impressed...

[kazamamaster]

So my GF came from Seoul (2 hours away) to bring me soup and shit she made and bought from the store. She escorted me home after my oral surgery.

I'm impressed...

Another gf already?

[Silentness!]

Another gf already?

lol nope the same one...

we got back together.......................................... ................................... again :rofl: :looney::looney: :looney::looney::looney:

[kazamamaster]

lol nope the same one...

we got back together.......................................... ................................... again :rofl: :looney::looney: :looney::looney::looney:

Same one who said she was addicted to your dick and didn't want to leave the room for having sex all weekend? :rofl: Good luck dude lol.

[Warpticon]

:lol: :lol:

You'll learn one day.

[Ill E]

orochi:

Hate to beat a dead horse, but that was messed up how u guilt tripped her...Family comes first.

however, If she is doing some fraudulent stuff like going out with friends and not even contacting you....lol I think it's time for you to find a 2nd string (and a 3rd and 4th string) :lol:

How did you end up in a long distance relationship? How long has it gone on? Did y'all live in the same town at first, then one of y'all moved away?

[orochizoolander]

orochi:

Hate to beat a dead horse, but that was messed up how u guilt tripped her...Family comes first.

LOL @ me guilt tripping her. There is a fine line between giving someone private space and them completely ignoring you for months. I'd put money that I've been more patient then most of you here would've been like I said if someone in the family is gravely ill I'm more then willing to leave her alone and let her deal with it like she requested. However, that is no excuse to flat out ignore me for as long as she has because you can only maintain a relationship so long with 0 communication and in the span of months if you chill with friends at least once in a while you should have at least 1 second to spare for your bf. This is my last post on the matter but if the situation was like how yall misinterpreted it to be then yeah that would be a dick move on my part so good thing that's not the case and especially more so since she admitted to "not being a good gf".



*SRKneedsafacepalmsmileyforsilentness*

[FaceMeAndBeBroken]

I just had a bitch play mind games on my friend and me. She acted like she wanted me, loved me, etc. But it was all a game.

See, she dated him before, and they were pretty good together. Some shit went down and they broke up. She then played her game on me. I talked to her all the time during their relationship, and I really liked her. Sure shit went down between them, but I figured I'd take my shot. She led me on from that point, and I was a fool, believing it all the way.

She would be all nice about him to me, talking about how great he is, praising him, then talk down to him to his face. She said some really awful shit about his past that he doesn't like to talk about. She also told him lies about me, said I talked shit about him behind his back. She was trying to ruin our friendship. He hid that from me, because he knew I was happy with her. He was bothered by it enough that I noticed, and I made him tell me. I couldn't believe what he had told me. I then confronted her about it and she didn't want to talk about it. She then dumped me the next day, and told me I should've picked her over him. Yeah right, give up my best friend for a manipulative bitch? Pussy isn't worth that much.

I got caught up in her little game. She wanted revenge on him for breaking it off, so she felt like taking away his best friend. She probably would've dumped me down the road, leaving me without a best friend or girl friend. It didn't work.

Beware of crazy bitches and their schemes.


I dont know why people go after their buddies ex's so damn much. Fuck that shit, if someone I knew did that shit, they are dropped. Not because of the girl or any feeling towards her, but basically because he was a buzzard, just waiting for my shit to crumble. And usually people that do that, usually do say and do the kinds of things you were accused of. Someone that shady, you dont wanna fuck with.

[onyx]

Guys, what should I do if the girl I love is with a guy?

I last saw her in...september at a show, and she was sending me mixed signals. She gave me a kiss on the cheek and hugged me, and she made a very questionable remark to me("I feel like kissing") and I've just been so caught up on all of it that I'm not sure what to think. We weren't ever an item, but we occasionally went out together and did sexual things, and given the nature of our last encounter I'm just thinking that there may be a chance.

I don't even care about her boyfriend as I've never met him, I just want to know if you guys think it is feasible I can worm my way in and get what I want?

Well hey, if wanna get serious with a girl who's actively cheating on her BF then thats ur business.. Just don't be shocked when she cheats on you. I'd say, just keep it on fuck budy level, apparently, thats what she wants.

So my GF came from Seoul (2 hours away) to bring me soup and shit she made and bought from the store. She escorted me home after my oral surgery.

I'm impressed...

lol nope the same one...

we got back together.......................................... ................................... again :rofl: :looney::looney: :looney::looney::looney:

New rule ness. You cannot say that you've "broken up with my girlfriend" unless its been a good month since you've seen her... Seriously

[AzN_Skater]

lol Ness... I can't get enough of your shenanigans.

[jabhadouken]

Like I said before if she has time to go out with her friends and do the social thing then she has time for a 1 second phone call at least once a week and to shut me out completely for as long as she has when I tried my damnedest to console her was a big mistake on her part.
^^^
Given this, she's acting pretty messed up towards you.

I can definitely see why you're pissed, especially since you've tried to console her, only to be brushed off.

It ain't you who is the problem, that's for sure.

[Warpticon]

New rule ness. You cannot say that you've "broken up with my girlfriend" unless its been a good month since you've seen her... Seriously

As I look into my crystal ball, I can see his next post.


Man, I just broke up with my girl...ahhhh....I was just sick of all the drama. Heed my warning and never date a gir--oh yeah, right there, ex-baby--a girl with a kid or any of that shit!!!! Not worth the trooooo-o-o-ouble. I just want to date a little bit and nnnnnngh. What was I talking about?

[VikingLongwood]

I dont know why people go after their buddies ex's so damn much. Fuck that shit, if someone I knew did that shit, they are dropped. Not because of the girl or any feeling towards her, but basically because he was a buzzard, just waiting for my shit to crumble. And usually people that do that, usually do say and do the kinds of things you were accused of. Someone that shady, you dont wanna fuck with.

I've learned my lesson, believe me. I'm not doing this shit again.

They were apart for a few months before this happened, and she told him we we're going to be together, just to get him jealous. His reply? "Best guy anyone could have." He knew I would never hurt her and always be there for her. He was happy for her. I did talk to him about it too, and he said to go for it. He knew I cared for her. If he was upset with it, I wouldn't have done it. I value his friendship too much.

[SF_PHOCUS]

I dont know why people go after their buddies ex's so damn much. Fuck that shit, if someone I knew did that shit, they are dropped. Not because of the girl or any feeling towards her, but basically because he was a buzzard, just waiting for my shit to crumble. And usually people that do that, usually do say and do the kinds of things you were accused of. Someone that shady, you dont wanna fuck with.

What about if you and the girl were talkin and you dropped the ball...?:confused:

[kazamamaster]

What about if you and the girl were talkin and you dropped the ball...?:confused:

Depends on the feelings involved. I knew someone who didn't necessarily drop the ball, but was talking to a chick and then she stopped liking him. He still had feelings for her. Another one of my boys started talking to this chick after said dude asked him politely not to talk to her because he had feelings for her. The dude kept right on talking to this chick. End result? Fight. A big one. Police had to get involved and everything. Not a good idea IMO.

[ApolloNoUta]

-is body language important if you wanna know if a gal is feeling you? some ppl say that dont matter until you talk to her..

-this one girl who start conversation with me but she wont stare at me in the eye... i look at her and see her either looking down or something in the room or look at my shirt but not at me.. WTF..

It can vary. As far as during conversation, with me, what happened recently was, I could look him in the eyes for a tiny bit, but then my eyes would start darting in different directions and I fidgeted a lot when I wasn't sure what to talk about, in fear that I might not get other chances to talk to him if I didn't think up something fast. This was the first time I met him. [I am now dating the guy I was talking to, but out of respect for his privacy, I won't reveal his name unless he wants me to, because he goes on here]. Eye contact can be really hard when you're timid. I know personally, that it's pretty hard to maintain eye contact sometimes when you're feeling shy around someone.


Then again, I'm a bit of an oddball, so I don't know if I can account much for other girls. But yeah, if they smile a lot when they are talking to you, that's a pretty good sign. Especially the fingertips-over-mouth thing. I'm not kidding, really. I realized I was subconsciously doing it, mostly when I was trying to think of what to say to "him".

Hope that helps. :B

[Ryusuke]

It can vary. As far as during conversation, with me, what happened recently was, I could look him in the eyes for a tiny bit, but then my eyes would start darting in different directions and I fidgeted a lot when I wasn't sure what to talk about, in fear that I might not get other chances to talk to him if I didn't think up something fast. This was the first time I met him. [I am now dating the guy I was talking to, but out of respect for his privacy, I won't reveal his name unless he wants me to, because he goes on here]. Eye contact can be really hard when you're timid. I know personally, that it's pretty hard to maintain eye contact sometimes when you're feeling shy around someone.


Then again, I'm a bit of an oddball, so I don't know if I can account much for other girls. But yeah, if they smile a lot when they are talking to you, that's a pretty good sign. Especially the fingertips-over-mouth thing. I'm not kidding, really. I realized I was subconsciously doing it, mostly when I was trying to think of what to say to "him".

Hope that helps. :B

Your first post here and you go and help the loser...... Not cool:shake:

[FaceMeAndBeBroken]

What about if you and the girl were talkin and you dropped the ball...?:confused:

If the girl and I leave company on mutual terms and the dude isnt immediately on my dick asking about it, then its whatever. But if the two already called themselves liking each other, and I got my boy asking like the same day, then I assume some shady shit happened. And unfortunately, I've heard enough shit about guy getting feelings for someone's girl, to not assume he was on shady shit.

Me personally, I only do fuck-buddies. I've only ever told someone, "just dont fuck her while I am, when I say I'm done then its whatever," Also, I wouldnt make someone a fuck-buddy if someone that I personally know fucked her already, even if once, and it meant nothing. I wouldnt be able to get that image out of my head.

2 situations that I have, which kinda show my general thoughts on stuff with chicks that you messed with already.

- Like my brother, recenlty telling me about this chick he fucked. I just KNEW by the description she was a fuck buddy I had last year. Then he said her name. But, I told her I had no family, and he didnt know I fucked her, so its whatever. Its not like he knew, and was all on my shit about it. So, its whatever, and I will never fuck that chick again, plain and simple.

- Another thing is as I stated pages ago, I might have a kid with another one from last year. She was a fuck-buddy, but only because of this kid, I would definitely not want anyone I personally know well to fuck her. Not because of her, I dont care about her, but I do not want a kid with someone my friend has a kid with, and I dont understand how someone else wouldnt mind. Before I knew anything was up with her having a kid, my brother wanted to hit the chick, and I told him "after I was done." But now, if this girl's kid ends up being mine, then he cannot fuck her. I dont want a friend with the same baby's mother as I, and sure as fuck dont want a brother with the same mom. Lastly, if a chick knowingly does that(friend or family), then she can have fun raising the kid alone, and then fuck the guy. That shit is borderline taboo.

[thurst]

so does this mean that your dumb ass is gonna get a paternity test?

[FaceMeAndBeBroken]

so does this mean that your dumb ass is gonna get a paternity test?

Why I gotta be all that?

Of course I will, ass. Just still an issue of catching up to her. Weathers cold, and she walks, and I work at night, sleep days. Doubt that'll be catching up with her anytime soon. Short of talking to her mom, and dropping the ball there, I dont foresee a soon end to this. Her mom, I would expect, would get her immediately, and bring her here.

But this one time that I was SIMPLY talking to her, at her relative's house, her mom ended up being there...and she would not stop scrutinizing me. I was trying to solve the shit then, but man, her mom just made it too uncomfortable, so I just talked about inconsequental stuff. I totally turned into a bitch. And she probably thought that I just was a guy trying to get with her daughter...imagine me having to say "Yeah....that kid your daughter had....well, yeah" I obviously cant just say "I need to talk to your daughter" or I wont get anywhere without explanation.

DO NOT WANT. Just gotta wait on chance.

[Havoc]

Pussy.

Keep making excuses.

[orochizoolander]

LOL @ yall replying to faceme.

[Havoc]

Meh. If he gets off on creating fake stories, and laughing behind a computer monitor, then he's a loser anyway.

Either way, he sucks at life.

[SF_PHOCUS]

Meh. If he gets off on creating fake stories, and laughing behind a computer monitor, then he's a loser anyway.

Either way, he sucks at life.

Im pretty sure hes not the only one:rofl:

[orochizoolander]

*coughthewandererisabitchasstrollendcough*

[FaceMeAndBeBroken]

Yeah, I'm lying, because I have nothing better to do.

I feel like I'm at gamefaqs, where according to people, you cant possibly own all 3 current consoles. LOL.

[pherai]

Can someone ban this dude? I don't mind trolling, just not in this thread where the point is giving/getting advice.

[Warpticon]

Yeah, I'm lying, because I have nothing better to do.

I feel like I'm at gamefaqs, where according to people, you cant possibly own all 3 current consoles. LOL.

You should be flattered that people don't want to think you're as much of a fucking imbecile as you actually are.

[kazamamaster]

Yeah, I'm lying, because I have nothing better to do.

I feel like I'm at gamefaqs, where according to people, you cant possibly own all 3 current consoles. LOL.

Dude, we offered you sound advice pages ago. Get a paternity test. Why even keep running around acting like you don't know it's bothering you? Why keep asking about certain situations trying to dance around the issue when you know you need to handle your biz?

[onyx]

Dude, we offered you sound advice pages ago. Get a paternity test. Why even keep running around acting like you don't know it's bothering you? Why keep asking about certain situations trying to dance around the issue when you know you need to handle your biz?

..well, he actually was just responding to a general question PH focus asked, and used his current situation as one of his examples for HIS answer, then he got attacked :xeye: So ya he has'nt asked for advice on this topic since his last bashing :rofl:

[kazamamaster]

..well, he actually was just responding to a general question PH focus asked, and used his current situation as one of his examples for HIS answer, then he got attacked :xeye: So ya he has'nt asked for advice on this topic since his last bashing :rofl:

But why keep bringing up situations that involve this one chick and then atferwards say, "well, this kid might be mine, but...." Why keep saying that when you could be done with the situation? Have people not gotten upset over TheWanderer coming in here asking random questions that involve him approaching some chick? He asks the same question over and over, just posed a different way. What have we told him? Go talk to some chicks and handle your biz. It's the same situation.

[onyx]

But why keep bringing up situations that involve this one chick and then atferwards say, "well, this kid might be mine, but...." Why keep saying that when you could be done with the situation? Have people not gotten upset over TheWanderer coming in here asking random questions that involve him approaching some chick? He asks the same question over and over, just posed a different way. What have we told him? Go talk to some chicks and handle your biz. It's the same situation.

I guess..

[ApolloNoUta]

Your first post here and you go and help the loser...... Not cool:shake:

And how am I supposed to know every single person on the board and what they are like when I just joined? :sad: Seriously, what the heck?

[Ryusuke]

And how am I supposed to know every single person on the board and what they are like when I just joined? :sad: Seriously, what the heck?

Well, there's reading before you post. That works wonders. And you could be warned by somebody who knows...... That happens often.:wgrin:

[Ill E]

But why keep bringing up situations that involve this one chick and then atferwards say, "well, this kid might be mine, but...." Why keep saying that when you could be done with the situation? Have people not gotten upset over TheWanderer coming in here asking random questions that involve him approaching some chick? He asks the same question over and over, just posed a different way. What have we told him? Go talk to some chicks and handle your biz. It's the same situation.


:lol:

This thread (or was it the original Woman Thread ? :lol:) has always had someone like 'The Wanderer' a while back, there's always been people coming in here cuz of not having the courage to muster up a few simple words to a chick they like...But whatever.

Biolink: How did things go with that chick in your class that u were planning to get at? Did things progress with her, or did the douchebag 'satellite' get in the way? :rofl:

[The Epidemic]

Some You guys need to stop over-thinking this shit so much. I mean be a lil spontaneous...its really not hard.

[Stuckey]

Some You guys need to stop over-thinking this shit so much. I mean be a lil spontaneous...its really not hard.

That's my take on it. I have next to no questions for this thread because i've usually acted on whatever the issue is before I get to sit in front of a computer and ask :lol:

It ain't easy for everybody like Ikaruga on Gamecube I guess.

[thurst]

chuuch. i think the (obvious) problem is that a lot of peeps are afraid of rejection so instead of going out there and trying to pull some off the cuff shit they'd rather just not do anything.

i'm pretty sure most of us did that at one point...like crying during the lion king. [/stuc] lol

[Ill E]

^
"i'm pretty sure most of us did that at one point...like crying during the lion king."..... :rofl: :lol: Lmao!

[ezekial45]

So whats the difference between being called handsome or being called cute? For a guy.

[Stuckey]

So whats the difference between being called handsome or being called cute? For a guy.

They carry the same meaning like confederate flags and nooses, but being handsome is the more masculine term. It's used more frequently by (sometimes older) women that have a good bit of sense, in my experience.

[Koop]

It's used more frequently by (sometimes older) women that have a good bit of sense, in my experience.


I am Koop an I agree with this...

[The Epidemic]

lol its just a compliment.

But to answer your question...cute doesnt necessarily mean you're attractive to the broad. Cute can be used to describe your personality, style or physical appearance. Its how she says it to determine anything. I mean, she prolly thinks her lil brother is cute too...

Handsome obviously describes your physical apperance...but, i NEVER heard a broad say i was handsome..it sounds mad mom-ish imo.

[Stuckey]

Handsome obviously describes your physical apperance...but, i NEVER heard a broad say i was handsome..it sounds mad mom-ish imo.

I hear it quite a bit. You gotta hang out in one of them nightspots where the milf's go and soak that shit up like terry cloth. :lol:

[thurst]

depending on the girl and situation cute means diff things, it's either "awww you're cute" or "mmm you're cute". one means you're cute like a puppy and the other is she wants to sexually molest you.

some girls use the word so much that it's hard to tell, but if they're referring to you then you should be able to figure it out depending on what you're doing. "handsome" is a lot more straightforward but also more of an objective compliment imo which is why most young people don't throw it around as much in conversation.

[OsgX]

lol its just a compliment.

But to answer your question...cute doesnt necessarily mean you're attractive to the broad. Cute can be used to describe your personality, style or physical appearance. Its how she says it to determine anything. I mean, she prolly thinks her lil brother is cute too...

Handsome obviously describes your physical apperance...but, i NEVER heard a broad say i was handsome..it sounds mad mom-ish imo.


This is the truth really. Cute can describe anything. I usually get it in terms of describing my physical presence, but I've gotten it for shit like something I have said or done.

Older women use handsome a lot more than I've heard younger chicks.

[ezekial45]

Btw, there isn't any situation going with me regarding the two words. I was just wondering.

[zerojay]

So whats the difference between being called handsome or being called cute? For a guy.

Handsome = Good looking, not attracted to him
Cute = Could be anything, really.

"Cute" is one of those words that's just weak. What I mean by that is that there's no real strong meaning behind it. It's like calling someone "nice".

[Krimzon]

i need some thoughts

i was walking with this girl to class and one of her friends bumps into her and says HI! She says hi and we keep walking. Later, we're walking again with no convo. She breaks out with a, "you remember my friend i said hi to? She says that you're cute." I counter with a "what did you say?" She turns all red, looks away and does the smiling "wtf do i say" face and says "iunno =)" Is she good to go you think?

the fact that she makes it sound like her friend is interested makes herself seem like a lost cause but maybe not. I've only known this person only for 2 months, but i don't want to jeapordize any friendship if i got the wrong idea.

[BBQ]

Go out with her friend.

[Shadow Ace 50]

i need some thoughts

i was walking with this girl to class and one of her friends bumps into her and says HI! She says hi and we keep walking. Later, we're walking again with no convo. She breaks out with a, "you remember my friend i said hi to? She says that you're cute." I counter with a "what did you say?" She turns all red, looks away and does the smiling "wtf do i say" face and says "iunno =)" Is she good to go you think?

the fact that she makes it sound like her friend is interested makes herself seem like a lost cause but maybe not. I've only known this person only for 2 months, but i don't want to jeapordize any friendship if i got the wrong idea.

are you still in high school or some shit? no offense...

[Krimzon]

are you still in high school or some shit? no offense...

none taken bc im pretty sure she hasn't been in a relationship bc she has the mannerisms of a giddy high school girl

[Shadow Ace 50]

exactly...you just answered your own question

[berserkotaku45]

so the bank i've been going to every friday for the last 3 months has a really cute girl that works there and today i caught her looking at me, so i was wondering what would be the best way to approach her. she is working behind the counter so i just can't walk up to her and ask her for her number so what i was thinking is next time i go and she is depositing my check i slip her a note that says something like " i think you're really cute and i'd like to get to know you better so do you think i could have your phone number"

what do you guys think?

[Havoc]

No note. That is a waste of paper and ink.

Just chat her up. Bank tellers are easy targets, IMO.

[SF_PHOCUS]

No note. That is a waste of paper and ink.

Just chat her up. Bank tellers are easy targets, IMO.

lmao yeh she will prolly pass you back the paper...

chatting her up is ur best bet... Ive never personally attempted to holla at a bank teller but from wat i can see it would be the same as hollering at a waitress or cashier at a supermarket... use the fact that she has to be nice to you (to some lvl) to ur advantageee:woot:

[The Epidemic]

Yep gotta agree with Hav and Phocus. Plus leaving a note is maaaaad corny. plz dont do it to yourself.

Just dont come on to strong and youll do fine.

[Ryusuke]

No offense, but leaving a note for a bank teller is a really stupid idea. She or someone could get the wrong idea and push the alarm.

[FistsofFury]

I got a lost love that I feel like is lost forever. Lost contact with her about 3 years ago. I've tried googling her name but nothing. She didn't use computers much so no facebook. All I have is a name and her hometown! And the fact that she went to the same university I went to.

Any tips on how I can locate her? Places to search. How much do Private Investigators charge to just find out if the person is alive/address?


I still need help with this!

[The Epidemic]

^lol let her go son...i mean, you really trying to hire PI's over her?? Its not a good look.

[xxSupreme]

Ok, so i was originally reluctant to post my "situation" on here but im out of options, aka SRK i need your help.So the at the arcade i go to there's this really hot girl who i see there sometimes. She plays DDR, i play street fighter n stuff. First time i saw her i just commented to my friend on her looks and kept it movin, not knowing i would eventually see her again. Today im standing in front of the arcade waiting for it to open and guesses who i see waiting also, the DDR chick. Now me being shy i didn't say anything because well i didn't know what to say. To make a long story short i was in that place for 5 hours and i didnt say a god damn word, well because i didnt know what to say to be honest. Any suggestions ?
P.S idk how old she is. Im 16 and shes probably 15 - 16 i hope. If shes 14 or lower i DO NOT WANT!!

[rcaido]

I would like to thank Mike Miller for early Christmas Gift...Thank you

*edit*

meant to post this in the nba thread

[The Epidemic]

Ok, so i was originally reluctant to post my "situation" on here but im out of options, aka SRK i need your help.So the at the arcade i go to there's this really hot girl who i see there sometimes. She plays DDR, i play street fighter n stuff. First time i saw her i just commented to my friend on her looks and kept it movin, not knowing i would eventually see her again. Today im standing in front of the arcade waiting for it to open and guesses who i see waiting also, the DDR chick. Now me being shy i didn't say anything because well i didn't know what to say. To make a long story short i was in that place for 5 hours and i didnt say a god damn word, well because i didnt know what to say to be honest. Any suggestions ?
P.S idk how old she is. Im 16 and shes probably 15 - 16 i hope. If shes 14 or lower i DO NOT WANT!!

Just talk to her....THATS IT.
You guys are in an arcade so you have some what of a common ground. You could just ask her some random stupid question about a game (knowing you dont care) just to start a convo. The longer u wait the more awkard it will become...bc im sure she noticed you sweatin her by now...

[thurst]

idk i think he should continue to stand by in angst like a kid with no rhythm trying to hop in some doubledutch


but seriously, just say wsup or something you don't have to make some grand gesture just a simple "how are you doing?" or whatever it is you normally say.

[Stuckey]

^ What they said. That's pretty much the only answer there is for this sort of thing if you haven't tried her yet. As far as your approach, chicks are people too. They put their pants on one leg at a time just like us. Their turds are just as disgusting if not more so :lol:. Just say something to them, man. "Hello", "How's it goin?" any of that same stuff you say to dudes.

It's VERY easy. You just gotta have the nerve to try.

[Warpticon]

Classic case of thinking way too fucking much. "Hey, I saw this girl who looks good. And then I saw her again in the same place. Should I hopen my mouth and say something or just stand there and dig in my nose?" I don't understand how this is difficult at all. You could just walk over and ask her to show you how to play or something. Geez.

[Weeks]

naw man what he needs is a really complicated, convoluted scheme involving wacky hijinks to win her heart and attention

that, or he needs to completely and thoroughly plan out his approach, what he'll say, how he'll say it. he needs to get a script, memorize his lines, all that jazz

[thurst]

hmm wacky hijinks? that sounds good. it'd be even better if he presented us with what he was gonna do, complete with flowcharts and possibly some ven diagrams so we could give input.

...yes that'd be excellent, indeed.

[Silentness!]

so the bank i've been going to every friday for the last 3 months has a really cute girl that works there and today i caught her looking at me, so i was wondering what would be the best way to approach her. she is working behind the counter so i just can't walk up to her and ask her for her number so what i was thinking is next time i go and she is depositing my check i slip her a note that says something like " i think you're really cute and i'd like to get to know you better so do you think i could have your phone number"

what do you guys think?

FAIL! Shows that you have no confidence if you can't even directly tell her that.

[The Epidemic]

damn u guys are kinda harsh. Hes only 16. We all had to start somewhere....atleast hes not 26 askin something like this lol.

[g3nshir0_]

Alright, honest question here:

On thanksgiving night I was hanging with a few friends and we were all drinking. There was a girl who I had never met, but by the end of the night I had seen her breasts. How in the world should I construe this...? Was she just comfortable, or could that have possibly served as a sort of hint? Given the context of the situation(my friend egged her on to see them after she started complaining about them being saggy) it seems like the latter, but I'm not sure because later that night she would play with my hair and she touched my chest which wa sprobably an accident but worth considering.

After the failure to get back with my ex I must pursue new avenues...

[Shadow Ace 50]

fucking lies....I can sense it..

[Black Chanler]

Alright, honest question here:

On thanksgiving night I was hanging with a few friends and we were all drinking. There was a girl who I had never met, but by the end of the night I had seen her breasts. How in the world should I construe this...? Was she just comfortable, or could that have possibly served as a sort of hint? Given the context of the situation(my friend egged her on to see them after she started complaining about them being saggy) it seems like the latter, but I'm not sure because later that night she would play with my hair and she touched my chest which wa sprobably an accident but worth considering.

After the failure to get back with my ex I must pursue new avenues...

They haven't banned you yet :rofl:

[xxSupreme]

damn u guys are kinda harsh. Hes only 16. We all had to start somewhere....atleast hes not 26 askin something like this lol.

Yea thanks man, i think ima take u guy's advice about the asking her how to play thing. Although that wacky hijinks thing does sound tempting. Anyways i will be sure to keep u guys posted as to what will transpire.

[deadfrog]

Alright, honest question here:

On thanksgiving night I was hanging with a few friends and we were all drinking. There was a girl who I had never met, but by the end of the night I had seen her breasts. How in the world should I construe this...? Was she just comfortable, or could that have possibly served as a sort of hint? Given the context of the situation(my friend egged her on to see them after she started complaining about them being saggy) it seems like the latter, but I'm not sure because later that night she would play with my hair and she touched my chest which wa sprobably an accident but worth considering.

After the failure to get back with my ex I must pursue new avenues...Maybe she flirts with everyone she meets equally.

[BEWD]

naw man what he needs is a really complicated, convoluted scheme involving wacky hijinks to win her heart and attention

that, or he needs to completely and thoroughly plan out his approach, what he'll say, how he'll say it. he needs to get a script, memorize his lines, all that jazz

You wouldn't be talking about the super duper, ultra secret Mystery Method would you?

[Onslaught2000]

Alright, so I just started working at a call center. About a week onto the floor I end up sitting next to this chick and what-not. I find some stuff about her and what-not and we end up talking.

However, I'm trying to find out how much this girl likes me. We've already went to dinner last Saturday and I had asked her to see if she would like to watch a movie over at my place (smaller town and by the time we leave work, the theater is closed) and she said yes. Although she ended up having to cancel cause her brother came over early for thanksgiving, we had rescheduled for this Tuesday. She has also dropped a few hints (like saying she has a thing for nerds and rockers, and has also asked if I liked to hike). Although I do get a bit doubtful as well cause at work, we hardly talk (although the office is a *HUGE* workspace so it's no biggie really) but I usually have to go to her to give her a hello for the day. Although she has given me a lot of hints and we talk, does it sound like she is still interested?

[Stuckey]

Alright, so I just started working at a call center. About a week onto the floor I end up sitting next to this chick and what-not. I find some stuff about her and what-not and we end up talking.

However, I'm trying to find out how much this girl likes me. We've already went to dinner last Saturday and I had asked her to see if she would like to watch a movie over at my place (smaller town and by the time we leave work, the theater is closed) and she said yes. Although she ended up having to cancel cause her brother came over early for thanksgiving, we had rescheduled for this Tuesday. She has also dropped a few hints (like saying she has a thing for nerds and rockers, and has also asked if I liked to hike). Although I do get a bit doubtful as well cause at work, we hardly talk (although the office is a *HUGE* workspace so it's no biggie really) but I usually have to go to her to give her a hello for the day. Although she has given me a lot of hints and we talk, does it sound like she is still interested?

Sounds good to me. Just stick with it a while longer. And don't go over to say hello to her every day.

[Oni_Ryu]

Oni n bio let us know hot it goes and provide teh pics.

Hey guys, thought i'd give you an update on the situation. I'm not really in need of advice, but I found this to be an interesting story of what happened. Comments/suggestions/advice is still welcome.

So, like I mentioned before. I've been flirting with this girl at work. She also happens to be best friends with another girl who has a crush on me (which I unfortunately had to friend zone.) We pretty much agreed to keep all the flirting a secret. Unfortunately a few nights ago, that appeared to change.

Its about 8pm, working in my department with two female co workers of mine (its worth noting that both of them are really good friends outside of work, and have eyes/ears for gossip.)

Out of fuckin' nowhere, one of the girls walks up to me and says "OH MY GOD, DO YOU LIKE SOMEONE IN THE STORE!!??" Completely blindsided by the question, I told I didn't want to talk about it and made an excuse to leave the dept. By then it was already too late, she said my face gave it away and started giggling. She ran over to our other co worker and told her. They both continued to barrage me with questions and I continually made up random shit to do so I could leave the department.

I couldn't stay out of the deparment forever though, my coworker calls me back to the deparment asking for help. I knew it was BS because we were slow, but i'm the department lead and I have to go, for all I know she may have really needed my help.

On my way back to the department, I pass by the girl i've been flirting with. She's an Administration Senior so at around this time, she's going around the store collecting money from all the cash registers. She makes a crack at me about how i'm not doing any work, like usual. Normally, I would smile and say something similar back to her. Instead, I just looked at her, smiled and said "You're gonna fuckin' kill me."

She stops and screams back why and what happened. I just ignored her and walked back to my department. Turns out I was right, neither of my coworkers needed help and just continued to pester me on wether or not I liked this girl. Awkwardly enough, the girl I like comes into our department to collect our cash drawers and to talk to me.

At this point, both of my co workers already know who it is i'm crushing on. Knowing that the cats out of the bag, I figure I might as well just have some fun with this and avoid an awkward moment. I leave the department once again, leaving the 3 girls there. My two co workers look at the girl i've been flirting with and go "Awwwwww...."

At this point, I know i'm gonna have to answer for letting the secret out. I know once we close down, i'm gonna have to talk to her about this.

A couple minutes later, I get a page on my walkie talkie. Its the girl and she says she needs me in the Administration office, one of my cash registers is short. :confused:

At this point i'm like "Fuck, I know this is a trap, but I have to go." This girl is fucking clever. The administration office is a very small room containing the store's safe among other important things, locked from the outside, only three people are allowed in and you have to knock to enter. No escape for me.

I go to the Admin, knock on the door and she lets me in. She tells me to sit down. While I knew this was a trap, I was still somewhat concerned that our cash register was short (I did have a new girl ringing sales through after all.)

Trying to act oblivious to the situation I ask her how much we were short on the register. Of course, she springs the trap on me that the register isn't short, she asks me what did I tell my two coworkers. Trying to get out of it, I tell her its not professional to talk about this kind of stuff at work, we can talk after work. I get up out of the chair and proceed to the door. She puts her hand on the door, smirks and asks me again what happened.

I break down and tell her what happened, satisfied with my answers, she moves away from the door, I tell her we can talk about it after work and I leave the room.

So now here we are. I've talked to her about what we should do, but she keeps telling me that we can talk about it later and that i'm over analyzing things.

I've pretty much planned my next move out. I just found this to be an amusing story and wanted to update you guys on whats happening. Any comments would be cool. :rofl:

[pherai]

That was much more frustrating to read than amusing. I can't understand why people would risk their jobs over acting all grade school over a crush.

[Onslaught2000]

Sounds good to me. Just stick with it a while longer. And don't go over to say hello to her every day.

Yeah, was thinking of laying low until then. We recently had a shift change so we no longer have the same days off but I suppose I'll text her on Tuesday to see what is up and see if she is still down. Again, I'm sure it's all good but am thinking a bit much into it.....heh

But good stuff, thanks!

[Oni_Ryu]

I can't understand why people would risk their jobs over acting all grade school over a crush.

Because work is dull and they have nothing better to do. :wgrin:

[Team Cable]

So I think I'm a bad friend, SRK. What do you guys think of this situation:

I met this girl a few months ago through a friend of mine. She is my friend's girlfriend's friend. Another one of my friends is there and no surprise, we both like her. However, I try to play it cool and not let anyone know I'm into her.

My rival friend (well rival in this case) acts really gay whenever he's around her and his behavior is just lame. He's not himself. He tries too hard. I'm myself and of course, make the girl laugh. So last night we're at this kickback and we're making crank calls. Finally I ask my friend's girlfriend for her buddy's number for crank call purposes right there.

Her buddy gets the call and of course gets a huge kick out of it. Anyway, I have a ton of new phone numbers in my cell phone and hers is one.

Today I get a text message from my rival friend and he wants to know if I still have her number. I don't respond. Naturally, I'm going to hold back. For some strange reason he thinks he's entitled to make the first move. I love this guy to death, we've been tight-ass niggas since we were five years old. But he falls in love quite easily and his trying-to-hard methods usually fall flat.

So SRK am I a bad friend for holding out? And how can a soon-to-be dispute like this be resolved? I don't want to hold back, but at the same time I feel I might hurt my boy.

What's a nigga to do?

[DietSoap]

There was a girl who I had never met, but by the end of the night I had seen her breasts. How in the world should I construe this...? Genshiro (http://cookingforbrevitt.typepad.com/photos/uncategorized/2007/04/12/mustache_champion_2.jpg)

snip If he introduced you to the chick (as in, he's the reason you know this chick), then yeah, I think you should respect your friend and give him first dibs.

That said, this is the reason I don't take girls around my friends (or atleast ones I'm not done with).

[Ill E]

I had asked her to see if she would like to watch a movie over at my place and she said yes


You're in there dude.




That said, this is the reason I don't take girls around my friends (or at least ones I'm not done with).


:rofl: Exactly...

Quote of the day:

"If they grin, you're in"

[Havoc]

snip

OK... so if you've got the ball on a fast break, and you're about to throw it down, are you supposed to pass it back so your man can try the 3? And you know his percentage is low?

I don't think so.

I know the whole "bros over hos" shit... but I think niggas don't always look at that right.

If it's really "bros over hos", then your man shouldn't get upset if you get the girl, and he doesn't. He should be happy for you. I know standard rules say that you should just go for another girl, but if you pass on every girl that another nigga likes... well, you're just left with wack bitches.

I've been in situations where I've gotten girls that I know my friends were into. Those guys had no shot to begin with. It never caused a problem, either. They just have to accept it, and if they can't.... well, they're lames.

[pherai]

It doesn't sound like your friend is doing anything super shady, and while he may be asserting his right to go after her first a little hard, I don't think hes doing anything so wrong that you should make you start getting competitive. In a situation like this, I'd let it pass. Another girl will come, and most of them you'll meet outside the company of your friends, but you can't build up a friendship from 5 years old ever again. Maybe not this time, but help your boy out next time so he's got a chick and won't feel the need to hit up your prospects.

[thurst]

i'd let him know that i have the number and plan on making use of it for myself. havoc's bball analogy is on point, bcuz if you give dude the number and he fucks it up then he pretty much fucked it for you as well.

[Warpticon]

I think everything that needs to be said is evident in the fact that he's asking you for her phone number, and not her.

[Las Vegas Pimp]

Whatever the case is, don't let her or your friend choose who she wants to be with. You dictate that.

[zerojay]

Guys, do not EVER attempt to date someone you work with. It will always end in tears either for you, her, both or the entire workplace. And when things go wrong (and they will), you're going to have to deal with it. And you're never going to get away from her (and you will want to, regardless of what you think now).

Save yourself the hassle and don't fuck everything up for everyone else too.

[hyper kid]

yo guys quick question. my girl has got me some things for christmas and i am at a loss on what to get her. on black friday i went with my sister to the mall to BCBG Max Azria (very expensive high fashion store) and got her a couple of "thinking of you gifts" (don't worry, they were having a sale and i only spent 15 bucks). but i know she wants those ugg boots, and they are mad expensive, so i figured that i would get her some ugg slippers, since that won't really be breaking my wallet. but i don't have much time to get this gift, so please guys help me out, or give me some ideas on what to do. Also she is awesome to me (she takes me to the arcade, always is willing to pay, and is been there by my side since the beginning, i am currently training her in Marvel and Tekken), she is more than deserving of a very nice gift. so guys please drop so ideas for me because i am really wanting to go for broke.

[kazamamaster]

yo guys quick question. my girl has got me some things for christmas and i am at a loss on what to get her. on black friday i went with my sister to the mall to BCBG Max Azria (very expensive high fashion store) and got her a couple of "thinking of you gifts" (don't worry, they were having a sale and i only spent 15 bucks).


(Snipped to show contradictory statements)

so guys please drop so ideas for me because i am really wanting to go for broke.

Ummm........You said don't worry I only spent 15 bucks, yet say I want to go for broke? Make your mind up lol.

On a serious note, you might have missed some of the sales at jewelry stores. From what I was sent in the mail, Kay Jeweler's had some nice sales on women's necklaces (some were less than 100 a pop). Mind you they weren't otherwise small diamond size/chain quality. Depends on what the chick is worth to you, honestly I've never considered buying jewelry for any chick other than my wife.

There's a book I think every man in here should consider getting for his girl if she's real touchy feely. I picked it up in Spencer's Gift's a while back for my wife. It's called, "Couples, A Book About Us". It's a scrapmaking book where you put together pictures of the two of you and it lets you write in common interests, things you do together etc etc and all that mushy stuff. Girls did that type of thing. I spent less than 10 dollars on it, and my wife loves it.

[The Epidemic]

^^
how bout u get her what she wants??:confused:
Shes does shit for you so whats the problem?

[GETBUZZIN]

[QUOTE=kazamamaster;5800500]Ummm........You said don't worry I only spent 15 bucks, yet say I want to go for broke? Make your mind up lol.

honestly I've never considered buying jewelry for any chick other than my wife.

oh really? not even for the pic of the girl in your av with the nice tits and ass?

[kazamamaster]

^^
how bout u get her what she wants??:confused:
Shes does shit for you so whats the problem?


I couldn't agree with you more lol.

[QUOTE=kazamamaster;5800500]Ummm........You said don't worry I only spent 15 bucks, yet say I want to go for broke? Make your mind up lol.

honestly I've never considered buying jewelry for any chick other than my wife.

oh really? not even for the pic of the girl in your av with the nice tits and ass?


Not even for that chick :rofl:

[Satomiblood]

Sup dawgs!

What be where it at?

So I got this problem...

My girl won't let me fuck her in the mouth.

Tips & Tricks?

[rcaido]

So my asian wife has been going sex drive crazy this week...We had sexual intercourse 10 times in 4 days...These weren't quickies either, about 20-60 minutes per session...All i want to do is play ST remix but she would freak out like Chong Li in Bloodsport & threaten to break my joystick/PS3..."You break my record, i break you, like i break your friend" Instead "i'll break your joystick, then break your PS3, like i broke you yesterday...

Holy shit do i feel broken & sore...So guys have you ever refused sex? What are the consequences?

[kazamamaster]

So my asian wife has been going sex drive crazy this week...We had sexual intercourse 10 times in 4 days...These weren't quickies either, about 20-60 minutes per session...All i want to do is play ST remix but she would freak out like Chong Li in Bloodsport & threaten to break my joystick/PS3..."You break my record, i break you, like i break your friend" Instead "i'll break your joystick, then break your PS3, like i broke you yesterday...

Holy shit do i feel broken & sore...So guys have you ever refused sex? What are the consequences?

Your girl doesn't tell you you're hurting her after a while? As much as my wife says she won't refuse me sex, I swear sometimes she tells me I'm hurting her cervix and she's sore. If your girl doesn't get sore, man, I'm shocked. I don't know too many chicks who don't get sore after having that much sex....

Refusing sex? Dude, tell her your dick hurts. Show her some attention in another way than play SSFHDR though lol :rofl: My wife is normally cool with me being honest and telling her I'm oversexed..

[zerojay]

My girl won't let me fuck her in the mouth.

Tips & Tricks?

Wash your cock.

[ADVIII]

Ok I just apologized to the lady that I asked to have sex with! I told her that I don't believe in the friendship(being friends). I told her that I didn't know how work schedule and don't know when the best time to call her.After that whole disscussion.she told me after work that she will call me.I don't believe it so I'm not expecting anything

[rcaido]

Your girl doesn't tell you you're hurting her after a while? As much as my wife says she won't refuse me sex, I swear sometimes she tells me I'm hurting her cervix and she's sore. If your girl doesn't get sore, man, I'm shocked. I don't know too many chicks who don't get sore after having that much sex....

Refusing sex? Dude, tell her your dick hurts. Show her some attention in another way than play SSFHDR though lol :rofl: My wife is normally cool with me being honest and telling her I'm oversexed..

This isn't the norm, i dont even remember having sex 2 times in one day, let alone 3...I kinda like this though despite being sore...I dont want to refuse her she might get offended & take it out on my PS3...

Wash your cock.

If that dont work, just dip it into one of those chocolate fondue fountains...Bring strawberry's whip cream!

[Warpticon]

cervix

Showoff. :rofl: :lol:

[Shadow Ace 50]

Your girl doesn't tell you you're hurting her after a while? As much as my wife says she won't refuse me sex, I swear sometimes she tells me I'm hurting her cervix and she's sore. If your girl doesn't get sore, man, I'm shocked. I don't know too many chicks who don't get sore after having that much sex....

Refusing sex? Dude, tell her your dick hurts. Show her some attention in another way than play SSFHDR though lol :rofl: My wife is normally cool with me being honest and telling her I'm oversexed..

ive been fighting a losing battle with a couple of co-workers..both of my brains cant decide who should get their pelvis shattered first... but if I do its ggpo for my job..last cat who smashed a chic at the job got peaced out due to gossip..and he was just as careful as I am.

I go home with this daily...:sad::sad:

[Ill E]

^
pics.....

(:lol:)
choose the one that is hotter i guess...but u are right in restraining.. u gotta keep that money coming in playa...

[DJ Ether]

Sup dawgs!

What be where it at?

So I got this problem...

My girl won't let me fuck her in the mouth.

Tips & Tricks?

You came to the right place. I even got a easy step-by-step guide to making that dive.

Step 1: The easiest way to go about this is to wait till she is asleep. Fuck her like you do normally, after the two minutes of sex are done pretend to fall asleep.

Step 2: Poke her periodically to make sure she is sound asleep. Get a upper and lower teeth mouthguard.

Step 3: You dont want your dick to get eaten. If she is on her back move her to the side so it is easier for the captain to plunder.

Step 4: Sure you could lightly go in and out of her mouth, but that is a fucking bore. So place your hands behind her head and thrust into her mouth as savagely as possible for maximum pleasure.

Step 5: She will probably wake up so hold her tight and ignore the sobbing. She will also thrash wildly but dont let up until you bust. Since this is a great and new sensation going down her food hole you will bust soon. Dont do it. Pull out and squirt her eyes.

Step 6: Blinded by the juice she will scream out and that is when you knock her out with a well placed backhand.

Step 7: Put her back on her side of the bed and cover her. Dont forget the kiss on the forehead. Go to sleep. She will wake up in the morning wondering if it was a dream or not. Obivoulsy call her crazy to think that it was all real and that crust over her eyes is just bad eye mustard.

Step 8: Go about your day with a smile. :bgrin:

[Team Cable]

So my boy hit me up for that girl's number again. Damn, what's a nigga to do?

Do I lie? I hate conflict.

How else do I tell my best buddy to fuck off, "I want dibs on that chick" without saying fuck off?

[The Epidemic]

^dont give your boy her number. I mean, he cant ask for himself?? If shes not feeling him, oh well. Next.

[DietSoap]

So my boy hit me up for that girl's number again. Damn, what's a nigga to do?

Do I lie? I hate conflict.

How else do I tell my best buddy to fuck off, "I want dibs on that chick" without saying fuck off? You already made your mind up here... So just be straightforward and respectful to him about it. There's gonna be conflict either way... Btw, how old are you (not trying to be condescending at all, just curious)?

If you wanna lie, you're gonna have to stay sharp and plan ahead constantly with no forseeable end in sight. You can do it, absolutely, but I would just tell him.

[fistoftheryustar]

Damn today in school I saw a woman who looked like a younger version of morgan fairchild.


#1 its rare to have attractive older women in college

#2 its rare that she'd be that hot. 8.5-9 (and i dont call any girl a 10.)


i was wondering what do you say to opportunities like that? we crossed paths a few times and she def noticed me and stood there tilting her head like she wanted me to say something.

usually i mention even semi related (i.e. waiting outside a class, "what class you waiting for?) but she was just standing there with her neck reaching out my way as if she wanted me to say something.


what do you guys do in those situations where its one of the hottest girls you've seen in a while, jjust standing there, yet, there is nothing in common to even start the convo naturally?


(other than the "ur hawt" or "lets fuck")

[SF_PHOCUS]

Damn today in school I saw a woman who looked like a younger version of morgan fairchild.


#1 its rare to have attractive older women in college

#2 its rare that she'd be that hot. 8.5-9 (and i dont call any girl a 10.)


i was wondering what do you say to opportunities like that? we crossed paths a few times and she def noticed me and stood there tilting her head like she wanted me to say something.

usually i mention even semi related (i.e. waiting outside a class, "what class you waiting for?) but she was just standing there with her neck reaching out my way as if she wanted me to say something.


what do you guys do in those situations where its one of the hottest girls you've seen in a while, jjust standing there, yet, there is nothing in common to even start the convo naturally?


(other than the "ur hawt" or "lets fuck")

I would of hit her with a compliment :woot:

[DeathReaper47]

Damn today in school I saw a woman who looked like a younger version of morgan fairchild.


#1 its rare to have attractive older women in college

#2 its rare that she'd be that hot. 8.5-9 (and i dont call any girl a 10.)


i was wondering what do you say to opportunities like that? we crossed paths a few times and she def noticed me and stood there tilting her head like she wanted me to say something.

usually i mention even semi related (i.e. waiting outside a class, "what class you waiting for?) but she was just standing there with her neck reaching out my way as if she wanted me to say something.


what do you guys do in those situations where its one of the hottest girls you've seen in a while, jjust standing there, yet, there is nothing in common to even start the convo naturally?


(other than the "ur hawt" or "lets fuck")

^This x a 1000. That shit is really awkward.

[Warpticon]

So my boy hit me up for that girl's number again. Damn, what's a nigga to do?

Do I lie? I hate conflict.

How else do I tell my best buddy to fuck off, "I want dibs on that chick" without saying fuck off?

Tell him "if you want it, ask her for it." Point blank. It's none of his business, and it's lame as hell to get girl's numbers from some other dude. I'm sure she would not appreciate it besides.

[Angrynord]

It's lame as hell to get a number from anyone but the person who it belongs to. I always tell people that I don't give out other people's phone numbers unless I KNOW that they had it in the past(lost the number, new phone, etc.) and it's ok for them to have it. I don't know about the rest of you, but I get rather annoyed when someone gives my number out. I have a tendency to hang up on the person who calls if they didn't get my number from me. I don't know about how women or other people feel about it, but I know that shit pisses me off, so I pay the same respect to others.

Man, in your situation I would tell the other dude to ask for it himself. If you're ok with lying(I'm not, but maybe you are), tell him that it has cycled out of your phone. Hell, I think you should ask for it yourself as well. Asking for a phone number these days is like a formal declaration of intent...and just calling up without that is kind of going Pearl Harbor on her ass.

[Ill E]

Asking for a phone number these days is like a formal declaration of intent...

Yessirr, good point...but really its been like that longer than just recent times

[The Epidemic]

I would of hit her with a compliment :woot:

word. thats all it takes...

[Stuckey]

Damn today in school I saw a woman who looked like a younger version of morgan fairchild.


#1 its rare to have attractive older women in college

#2 its rare that she'd be that hot. 8.5-9 (and i dont call any girl a 10.)


i was wondering what do you say to opportunities like that? we crossed paths a few times and she def noticed me and stood there tilting her head like she wanted me to say something.

usually i mention even semi related (i.e. waiting outside a class, "what class you waiting for?) but she was just standing there with her neck reaching out my way as if she wanted me to say something.


what do you guys do in those situations where its one of the hottest girls you've seen in a while, jjust standing there, yet, there is nothing in common to even start the convo naturally?


(other than the "ur hawt" or "lets fuck")

In your case, I would've either gave her a compliment as previously mentioned, or done something to make her crack a smile. You say her neck was reaching out your way or she was tilting her head or something.

"You should see a chiropractor about that. Something wrong with your neck?" and just make a joke out of it based on her reaction. She was doing something odd and once you notice it, it kinda gives you an edge if you point it out. If she's an 8 or 9/10 or whatever, it's always good to act like you're not THAT impressed. Because everybody else that spits at her probably does.

[fistoftheryustar]

^ yeah thats the whole thing with compliments, 9s get em all the time. compliments to me seem like another way of saying "im into you." thats why when a fat chick says you're hot its oookk, but when a hot a chick calls you hot it feels like shes really into you.


so if i was a good looking guy, which i really am starting to wonder about now, saying im into you might work. but it seems either way, its gunna take more balls to approach her with no excuse (excuse line: what test you gunna take, waiting out here line, non-ballsy situational stuff etc.)

[Stuckey]

Yeah. Sometimes you just gotta jump out there and act on it like Chris Gardner in Pursuit of Happyness. Humor is the way I generally go about it.

[The Epidemic]

^ yeah thats the whole thing with compliments, 9s get em all the time. compliments to me seem like another way of saying "im into you." thats why when a fat chick says you're hot its oookk, but when a hot a chick calls you hot it feels like shes really into you.


so if i was a good looking guy, which i really am starting to wonder about now, saying im into you might work. but it seems either way, its gunna take more balls to approach her with no excuse (excuse line: what test you gunna take, waiting out here line, non-ballsy situational stuff etc.)

i mean...they might hear it all the time but so what. That doesnt have anything to do with you. Lets be real for a second. Broads are not dumb, they KNOW when guys are trying to make moves. Regardless if your approach is humor, compliment, a question, etc...they KNOW already. Whether you can hold their attention is all based on you (not you Fist, in general)

One thing I normally do in a situation like this is just read their body language...lol hell, sometimes their face will tell me if i should waste my time or not. With that said, the majority of fine women WANT to be swept off their feet. If you approach..and fail? 7/10 times that just means she wasnt interested in you from the get-go. Even if what you say is full-proof, flawless etc and they shut you down...That just means you probably wouldnt get that even if you pulled up in a lambo :lol: so i dont sweat circumstances like that.

Now if you are able to engage her in alil conversation and fail? 10/10 that is YOUR fault. Meaning you probably said the wrong thing, didnt follow through etc. Because if a broad isnt interested...she WONT talk to you (unless shes very nice lol) she will just shut you down and turn her head or some shit. So if you are able to make even a lil conversation with some random fine broad? You atleast have the chance to make a play. But its all on YOU then.

Look at like a sales job. ALWAYS CLOSE! If your given the oppurtunity? Close her out.

[Ill E]

^

gotta love the Sales analogy!

Stuckey: your "like a" similes are hilarious :lol:

Cosign what y'all said about not asking all impressed by dimes..dudes like that around em all the time... u gotta stand out...

thats why when a fat chick says you're hot its oookk, but when a hot a chick calls you hot it feels like shes really into you.

Exactly. For me, its not what compliment you receive, it's WHO you receive it from....and in the case of chicks, compliments from chicks that *I* was into (and not just vice versa) has always been more important than just some random chick's compliment...

[fistoftheryustar]

i see your point epidemic. its all true.

i think though with complimenting and not complimenting, shes going to think youre into her, same way you're gunna wanna think a hot girl was into you if she stopped to talk to you. unless youre very good at hiding it, but then youd get no where and itd be a business conversation.

i gotta say that "How" you come across can help you out. there are times you are in the running off the bat, and if you come in too strong or too weak...your points drop. over all being more flirty in your mannerisms is the way to go, yet there is more than one way to skin a cat.

im not particularly looking for a fall back line to work over that same model milf, thats if the cards are lucky enough that we cross again. but an overall, fall back line that has been tried a few times would be nice for any other girls... so i dont lose any future opportunities.