The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[TheSix]

You must realize what "I have a boyfriend" means.

A) It's a test/Defense/Lie

B) She really does have a boyfriend, but is not opposed to "hooking up" or "upgrading". I know plenty of girls who do not like their boyfriends.

C) She is serious about her relationship. End of story.

It is up to you to learn how to differentiate the 3 apart.

[Silentness!]

Well like I said in a couple pages ago I approached some chick in her mid 20s and she told me she has a BF. (Same guy for 2 years now supposedly)

I joked around and said she "She could have two" (boyfriends of course) while grinning at her. She found that funny, but I'm not going to hit on her if she claims to have a BF, but I still hang out with her and shit.

[Javid]

You must realize what "I have a boyfriend" means.

A) It's a test/Defense/Lie


B) She really does have a boyfriend, but is not opposed to "hooking up" or "upgrading". I know plenty of girls who do not like their boyfriends.


C) She is serious about her relationship. End of story.

It is up to you to learn how to differentiate the 3 apart.

At what age do you think this mentally goes away? Suppose it's the girl's first "real" boyfriend, and she's unhappy.

I'd say that's all BS. How can you be with someone and not be happy. If that's the case than break up already. Than again, it happens a lot more than people think.

[Ali M]

I'm a flirt even if they have boyfriends... But of course I wont go too far with it... Just gotta lay the seed, so when they break-up the first thing they come to is me.. :bgrin:


Anybody deal with girls with broken english?? I have this fine brazilian girl who is in my summer class.. She made alot of eye contact with me during class today, I didn't really care at first cuz I was sleepin half the time. But after class my eye were wide open once I saw that ass. :wow:

She eventfully said "hello" to me and started talkin bout the course... problem is i couldn't understand the sh!t she was sayin, I just kept on nodding my head and smiling while she was talking.. Her english was beyond broken..


Anybody dated girls who speak very little english? how the relationship?? Is it really that big of a deal??

[Silentness!]

I'm a flirt even if they have boyfriends... But of course I wont go too far with it... Just gotta lay the seed, so when they break-up the first thing they come to is me.. :bgrin:


Anybody deal with girls with broken english?? I have this fine brazilian girl who is in my summer class.. She made alot of eye contact with me during class, I didn't really care at first cuz I was sleepin half the time. But after class my eye were wide open once I saw that ass. :wow:

She eventfully said "hello" to me and started talkin bout the course... problem is i couldn't understand the sh!t she was sayin, I just kept on nodding my head and smiling while she was talking.. Her english was beyond broken..


Anybody dated girls who speak very little english? how the relationship?? Is it really that big of a deal??

Teach her some English.

AY PAPI! :rofl:

[kimjongiLL]

So umm I tried to call her and the answer machine picked up...

GG? (This is similar to that blonde chick... she answered the phone once and then would never pick up after the initial call)

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Fuck it I erased her number... I hate it when answer machines answer.
Did you read my epiphany post?

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=3875477&postcount=901

You're giving up prematurely. I can get a date and a seduction chance at the tan skinned girl if I want to now (I'm just not physically attracted to her anymore).

People are LEGITIMATELY busy.

Also, people don't always check their voicemail (especially me). It's a pain in the ass because I need to call and I can't always call. A text message on the other hand, I check this instantly.

I'd give you more advice on how to create funny and compelling text messages to make it so the girl will hit you back, but it doesn't seem as if you're in a good mood at the moment to take in any more material. Hit me back when you chill out.
I can only ask chicks out at work. I'm too intimidated by young girls:sad:

I just don't want to have any problems...I wouldn't want some chick to yell at me "what yo think I'm some sort of slut"? type of thing
Your inner game dialog seriously, seriously has a major, explosive diarrhea sized hole in it. You are going to stay a LONELY VIRGIN for the rest of your life unless you do something about it.

It's going to take a while to get over this (since nobody is there to coach you in person, and you were socially conditioned like this your whole life). The first online step you can take right now if you so wish is to prove yourself as a man to me and all your other peers here though.

Take a picture of yourself with strong eye contact, looking DIRECTLY into the camera, and post it in this thread. Bonus points if you smile... it doesn't matter if you're ugly or not, because Chamillionare is the ugliest looking motherfucker on the planet but he's a ruthless PUA that's laid triple digit numbers of girls by now.

Something like this (http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d162/kcxj2/Cregg/Photo61551-Full.jpg), so I, and most importantly, YOU know you have self confidence.

Not letting other males like me, Koop, TheSix, Havoc, or anybody else on here intimidate you in the slightest is the first step before you get over your young hottie intimidation. Even if we make fun of you or say something rude, learn to embrace the criticism, don't take it personally, and keep ploughing ahead.

[TheSix]

Well like I said in a couple pages ago I approached some chick in her mid 20s and she told me she has a BF. (Same guy for 2 years now supposedly)

I joked around and said she "She could have two" (boyfriends of course) while grinning at her. She found that funny, but I'm not going to hit on her if she claims to have a BF, but I still hang out with her and shit.


I agree. I see no reason to go after girls in relationships. There are enough single women out there. It still never hurts to still get the number.
Of course, this only applies to us guys who don't believe in casual sex and one night stands. If you're looking to bag it, then it's a different story.


I'd say that's all BS. How can you be with someone and not be happy. If that's the case than break up already. Than again, it happens a lot more than people think.

I have asked this question to multiple girls who tell me this. Most common answers:

A) "All my friends have boyfriends"

B) "I don't like to be alone"

C) "He buys me stuff"

There does not have to be any attraction whatsoever to call someone a "boyfriend" in this day and age.

Again, most of this stuff applies to younger girls in general. I AM only 19 ya know.



Anybody deal with girls with broken english??

First off, I love Brazilian girls :lovin:

My first girlfriend was from Puerto Rico. Complete spanglish. Because of this, it was a more physical relationship than anything. Simply enjoyed each others company even if we couldn't talk about "how awesome the PS2 DVD player is"(at the time). It was also through her that I became fluent in Spanish.

I really don't know what to suggest. As many asian girls that I talk to, I'd think I'd run in to this problem more often. Sounds like she is in to you though, I'd keep smiling and listening and try as best to take it from there.

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The interracial Jive - by Outworld

In my many conversations with my girlfriend, guy friends, and girljustfriends, it seems that a lot of them have a problem accepting anything other than what they want to think.

Some times you get women that only sleep with a certain type(color) of guy. Well, they feel that they've had their fair share of what is "normal" and want to try something different. Try something different and it seems better.

A lot of black guys I know have seemingly stronger inner game than that of the conventional white guys I meet. Not that thats necessarily true. But its more of a demographic where we're reared to meet that stereotypical image of the rapper/r&b guy, or "the player," or "atheletic." Honestly, the odd form of social brainwashing that affects a majority of urban black guys pressures us to work outrageously hard at meeting those stereotypes. And it starts at such an early age and is continuously re-enforced as we get older.

"You aint a player if you arent messing around with at least a couple of girls." - My stereotypical cousin

And whats really odd is that this is the type of stuff that motivates black guys to experiment sexually with girls at a young age. Combine that with the BET video ho mentality that we get exposed to and feel we have to relate to, you get guys that experiment with women early, and are in a state that is actually conducive to being a lot better with women than the regular noob.

You end up having alot of black guys that are at least superficially dominant. The natural.

I have experience dating Inidan, white, asian, and mixed races. I don't run my game differently for different races but I do try to find the right girl.

The main thing too look for is if a girl seems to have friends outside her race. It doesn't even matter her race, but if she has friends outside her race then she is most likly open to dating outside her race.

Same thing going for making guy friends. There are a particular subset of white girls who really like to date black guys, but in my experience that is rare. If you notice a girl is from a black neighborhood you can bet your life that she probably only dates black guys.

All in all I think the most important thing is to just assume she is attracted to you. I mean I don't give a fuck if a girl is in the kkk, I would probably believe that she is attracted to me.

If you just get in there and talk to her for a while she will forget whatever race you are and just see you. As corny as that sounds--its true.

Another thing that would help is how do you present your self, are you thuged out? Are you "preppy"? Are you just a regular joe? Or maybe you are like me; the "white black guy" :confused: I'm still trying to figure out what that means. Is it because I like to wear a belt to keep my pants up? My bad. I'm getting off track. For all races, dressing like you have money will help you tremendously. Unless you are a rapper don't wear any of that baggy shit.

[kimjongiLL]

Ask them out asap IMO and if they give you teh "I have a boyfriend line" cut off all contact.

I've noticed in your posts that you never ask these chicks out
NO!!!

That's wrong, wrong, wrong, so fucking wrong...

Unless they physically walk away, call you a stalker/creep, or tell you to "fuck off", it's always on.

Girl are constantly looking to upgrade their men. Unless you put yourself on the marketplace, regardless whether they have a man or not, they never have a chance and you're missing out.
I joked around and said she "She could have two" (boyfriends of course) while grinning at her. She found that funny, but I'm not going to hit on her if she claims to have a BF, but I still hang out with her and shit.
No, don't use that line.

You sound like a fucking sleezeball and you must of got rejected so hard, no wonder you're feeling shitty.

It's OK though, because you actually had the balls to use it (I would rep right now if I could, but all I can give is :tup:), and most importantly, you're learning calibration.

[xero15]

shit girl told me that earlier today at work. i said she should bring him in sometime ill take care of them she flaked instantly.

anyways havoc that shits wrong lol but the way they handle it sucks and actually boils down to the managers. the corporate rule is to have the server pay out of their check but if they refuse they get an instant write up two violations youre fired. thats corporate rule. its suppose to be enforced but it then comes down to how "nice" your managers are. some shit like that almost happened to me today and my manager told the guest i was gonna pay and i told him off in front of the guest and he just voided it instead.:rofl:

[kimjongiLL]

Sorry, but you've obviously never been a spoken word/open mic club at all. Seriously. They are completely different an will pull your card if you come with any LAME lines or approach that is a tell tell sign of 'sex off top'. Those chicks know the game are not their for the easy dick. You literally have to put in work to get those panties. Trust me. Approaching them you have to have your A+ game on my friend. Trying to compare it to a 'anime' convention is a smack in the face. HARD SMACK in the face. Majority of the women in there have their head on thier shoulders an are about SERIOUS-NESS. Don't come with that street fighter logic cause your ass will get parried, uppercuted, canceled special, level 2 into level1 super, standing fierce with cable an outta no where jago kick assist....

Go test that water an watch how you feel when you're done.
Bro...

BET IT.

True, I never stepped foot in one of those places before, and I was generalizing because I was pissed that guy was talking uneducated shit about me, but as long it's an Asian chick that speaks English, she's instantly mine the moment we make eye contact.

[spit]

I was at Applebees with a friend last night. We ordered upwards of $80 worth of food and drinks, and got pretty fucked up...

Our waitress sucked so we left without paying (had our waitress not really sucked, that wouldn't have even been possible). So I'm just wondering how Applebee's handles that. Did she have to eat that bill?

I do wanna know about Applebees though. :lol:

Did you eat the food?


Man, it's a lot lame shit in here..... I'm mean you guys are using lines?! WTF?! (spit)

IT SIMPLE: Have some strength about yourself! Be confident and roll with the punches! (spit)

@koop were you at FRX?!

[capcomANDsnk]

Remember:
we all at diff. places in this game. so chill w/ dem strong words. it may be simple for you now given your experiences but others haven't had that yet. where you at is where you should be. i repeat: where you at is where you should be. it's a process. we all got wisdom to share, yes even mr. i wanna fuck my cousin. everything that happens to you is AFGO (Another Fuckin Growth Opportunity)!

i'm spending mo time w/ this lady, white, petite, real cute. sucks that we only got a month left of school. but it's aiight. i'm not looking for a wifey atm. she told me,
"i have soo much to do, but i would like to hang out." now THAT is how a female show she's interested in you. She's busy but she'll make time for YOU. i just hope i don't fuck it up.

[Koop]

@koop were you at FRX?!


yeah I was a staff member... on day 1 i was explainin signups outside the door with roninchoas.... if i was playin i was on Alpha 3 or Super Turbo

[VRViperII]

I think group dating for first dates is top tier, that way you don't have any pressure on yourself, and you can just show her how you treat your friends and she can get a good idea of what you are really like. When I went out casually with my now girlfriend for the first time, all my friends (a close group of guys and gals) and just let her know about what a lucky woman she is and how I was pretty much the greatest man on earth. Then she just kept laughing because the stories were getting more and more ridiculous, and she kept looking at me and smiling. But it might not be as good if you have some friends who are total haters. I'd just see what you can do about getting this girl to hang out with you, but honestly if a girl really likes you she will make time for you. Don't get discouraged though, I spent the first 2 years of college failing miserably trying to learn how this whole system works. The main thing is to just be confident, and fun to hang out with, that way she will want to spend time with you.

Alright thanks, I'll try to get her out with some friends of mines.

Background info: When I first asked her out online (she wouldn't give me her number, saying that she doesn't have a cell), she refused because I was still a stranger to her. I visited her a few more times at her work place and she gave me her cell number and said she's had this cell for half a year. I'm guessing she forgot that she once refused me her number and thus exposed her lie, haha. But whatever, I was happy to have got it. It felt like I overcame her slut defence, which is definitely a + for a woman imo.

So if comfort level was a problem before, should I ask her to feel free to bring along some of her friends when she meets up with me?

[xero15]

koop you still owe me some games in alpha :lol:

[Hoonyo]

When meeting girls off MySpace and such, how quickly are you supposed to move? When do you ask for her number? When do you meet? What do you do when you meet? ect

[Wild Kitty]

When meeting girls off MySpace and such, how quickly are you supposed to move? When do you ask for her number? When do you meet? What do you do when you meet? ect

want us to fuck them for ya too?

[Hoonyo]

want us to fuck them for ya too?if it's possible then of course i do =]

[c0rderr0y]

I'm thinking about going and bringing another girl to the graduation.

This would be very inconsiderate to her feelings.... I say dress your best and act your best and she'll see what she missed out on.

When meeting girls off MySpace and such, how quickly are you supposed to move? When do you ask for her number? When do you meet? What do you do when you meet? ect

Every girl I met on line was either:

A) Was WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY Better looking in the picture (damn angles)

B) Was better looking THAN the picture and thought I was better looking in the picture (than in person)

C) Was some crazy psycho

I suggest to meeting women through friends, parties, events. Plus its easier to get deceived online than in person.

Alright thanks, I'll try to get her out with some friends of mines.

Background info: When I first asked her out online (she wouldn't give me her number, saying that she doesn't have a cell), she refused because I was still a stranger to her. I visited her a few more times at her work place and she gave me her cell number and said she's had this cell for half a year. I'm guessing she forgot that she once refused me her number and thus exposed her lie, haha. But whatever, I was happy to have got it. It felt like I overcame her slut defence, which is definitely a + for a woman imo.

So if comfort level was a problem before, should I ask her to feel free to bring along some of her friends when she meets up with me?

I say try to go out with her and HER friends because if she feels awkward now imagine how she will feel with a few more people involved that she does not know or might not get along with. You need to try to make it as most comfortable as possible for HER not you.....

[Koop]

koop you still owe me some games in alpha :lol:


my bad playboi... ill make it up to ya mayne... get ready for my chun or angry xken...

When meeting girls off MySpace and such, how quickly are you supposed to move? When do you ask for her number? When do you meet? What do you do when you meet? ect


know what... thats one area i have NEVER touched... literally. i dont know how i feel sayin to my boys or anyone... yeah we met off myspace/dating/chat..etc..... hell i wouldnt even know how to react if they wanted to meet me:

oh yeah ma... when i clicked on sexx-e-goddess6969 i knew you be on point...

i mean... i dont know:rofl::rofl::rofl:... hell sorry just tip my hat to yall an my lil cousin that do that ish... i have a myspace page with people that I KNOW (past n present)... i mean i can pick up the phone an say wuz up to them or go see them...

[Warpticon]

Meeting girls online isn't bad at all if you know anything at all about quality control and don't have crazy expectations. All the girls i've met from online have been pretty dope in person as well.

[c0rderr0y]

Meeting girls online isn't bad at all if you know anything at all about quality control and don't have crazy expectations. All the girls i've met from online have been pretty dope in person as well.

I guess its just the luck of the draw.... :sweat:

[kimjongiLL]

Big secret.

Promise not to spread it around.

Girls WANT to feel sexy. They want to be the envy of all other girls. They want a man that makes them feel like a soft, feminine, attractive woman. Girls ENJOY sex more than men do.

(Think about it... how many times does the girl come whenever you're intimate with her? Five? Ten? How many times does the guy bust before he needs to recover? Once.)

One of my older female friends (29) has two kids, but she's hot and I thought she was 22 and single when I first met her. I had a discussion with her once about how no matter how bitchy a woman is, her looks are what's most important to her, and every woman, no matter how young or old or married or single, desires to be an object of desire.

Guys...

Don't be shy about complimenting a woman to let her know how hot you think she is and how much you want to bang her. As long as you do it in a unique, intelligent, and genuine fashion, you can get away with saying anything. Fuck what Mystery said. Negs and all that disqualification aren't necessary (unless you're dealing with a married girl, an "I have bf"girl, or an extremely high status chick that's constantly being hit on).

[c0rderr0y]

Big secret.

Don't be shy about complimenting a woman to let her know how hot you think she is and how much you want to bang her. As long as you do it in a unique, intelligent, and genuine fashion, you can get away with saying anything. Fuck what Mystery said. Negs and all that disqualification aren't necessary (unless you're dealing with a married girl, an "I have bf"girl, or an extremely high status chick that's constantly being hit on).

Thats the truth...

[Havoc]

"Negging", as you kids call it, is just reverse psychology though. There is definitely a place for it.

Like we all know, girls want to feel wanted. If you make it seem like you don't want a girl 100% (you don't want to go too crazy with it), she'll often try to do things to get your full approval.

Simple psyche, really. If you have the slightest interpersonal skills, you can figure out how to use both.

[Daddyneptune]

Now I don't know if this was discussed but what about the gamekillers A.K.A the cock blocker? Manly if one is in your group? Sometimes they come up when you least expect them and its over.

[Havoc]

A cockblocker in your own team?

Confront that fool.

I have no respect for niggas like that. You gotta be a good wingman. I'm far more proud of my wingman skills than my own dealings. That shit is nothing.

[Daddyneptune]

Hahah Me and some of my other dudes have but he keeps doing it. He has earned the status "UGK ( ultimate game killer) A.K.A SCB (Super cock blocker)"

That also why I would never be his wingman. This fool actually got mad at me for not being his wingman. I remember all that BS!!! Those girls me and my dude could have gotten at.


Has anyone else gone through this nonsense?

[Warpticon]

I guess its just the luck of the draw.... :sweat:

...that's pretty much the exact opposite of what I said.

[kimjongiLL]

"Negging", as you kids call it, is just reverse psychology though. There is definitely a place for it.

Like we all know, girls want to feel wanted. If you make it seem like you don't want a girl 100% (you don't want to go too crazy with it), she'll often try to do things to get your full approval.

Simple psyche, really. If you have the slightest interpersonal skills, you can figure out how to use both.
That's good shit.

I do neg a lot now that I think about it (and I'm older than you and hardly a kid, so chill with that). Whenever I'm using humor, I'm at the point where I don't realize that I'm actually busting on them a lot.

(I like to tease girls about being "weird" and having "bad taste", but always keeping in mind of how pretty, nerdy, and/or self conscious the person is, so I don't overcalibrate.)

Another influence and verbal manipulation tactic I use is to ask for something outrageous, like "let's take our clothes off, get on the stage, and start making out like a couple of high schoolers", but then when the girl rejects it (obviously), I ask for something more reasonable and tame (but equally as fun), like "let's just share a kiss right here then".

[c0rderr0y]

...that's pretty much the exact opposite of what I said.

I also use "quality control" but still get the random girls that are wack. Its just too easy to act like someone else when online and there is no way to tell if a girl is acting or legitimately being herself.

[maxx]

wow...i mean wow. for the first time i'm being guilted for being skinny. I'm dating this girl and she's a bit thick but ya know she still looks sexy and beautiful. But she clearly has some serious weight issues mentally wise. Cause she keeps constantly telling me i should get fatter cause I'd be cuter that way. I laugh it off..but she constantly says it maybe cause she feels she'd be more comfortable dating a fat kid than a skinny kid. Though i tell her how pretty i think she is and she should stay the same. She also talks about how she wants to lose weight and told her i can help her if she wants. I'm liking this girl alot, but ever since she saw that i used to be a fatkid..she stole my freshman high school id..i keep it as a constant reminder of wut i used to be. she has wanted me chubbier or bigger.

lol she's starting to make me think 145 is too skinny. man she's gonna give me a complex.

[akumachan]

wow...i mean wow. for the first time i'm being guilted for being skinny. I'm dating this girl and she's a bit thick but ya know she still looks sexy and beautiful. But she clearly has some serious weight issues mentally wise. Cause she keeps constantly telling me i should get fatter cause I'd be cuter that way. I laugh it off..but she constantly says it maybe cause she feels she'd be more comfortable dating a fat kid than a skinny kid. Though i tell her how pretty i think she is and she should stay the same. She also talks about how she wants to lose weight and told her i can help her if she wants. I'm liking this girl alot, but ever since she saw that i used to be a fatkid..she stole my freshman high school id..i keep it as a constant reminder of wut i used to be. she has wanted me chubbier or bigger.

lol she's starting to make me think 145 is too skinny. man she's gonna give me a complex.


145 IS skinny :) (for a guy)


but ALL girls have mental issues about their weight.

How can they not? Pop culture makes damn sure that girls have to be paranoid about all of their physical attributes.

[c0rderr0y]

145 IS skinny :) (for a guy)



No depends on your height, I am 5 foot six and 155 is over weight and 145 is ideal for that height according to BMI.

[kimjongiLL]

Just suck it up and hit the gym. You'll look sexier and it's good for you.

Too many men belittle their own attractiveness or get upset when their ego gets damaged or manhood called into question.

It's the reason quality, sexy, mature men are in such a shortage. The girls want to get laid, or have an honestly chill and stable guy friend, but the guys are all too worried about what other guys think, and it makes them unattractive, depressed, or creepy psychos.

Don't change for anyone (although in the gym and physical health instance, this is an exception).

If the girl is giving you shit because you like to wear your anthropomorphic potato t-shirt that says a bad word on it in public or because you like to play CvS2 on Thrusdays, then forget her, she's not your 100% girl, you're not her 100% boy, and go find a new girl. That's the whole point of being a social and seductive person, so you can be like the Beyonce song and find another her in a minute. Matter fact, she'll be here in a minute.

[Silentness!]

145 IS skinny :) (for a guy)


but ALL girls have mental issues about their weight.

How can they not? Pop culture makes damn sure that girls have to be paranoid about all of their physical attributes.

145 pounds is definitely skinny.
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Man people keep saying I look like Tiger Woods (men/women). I wasn't even wearing a NIKE hat (I wear one as I "sarge" *wink*)

It's kind of frustrating (because it's like I'm posing as a celebrity), but it's a good "peacocking" move to grab girl's interest in me immediately. Usually when I see the person a 2nd/multiple time I wear a different hat because I want them to see me as ME and not Tiger fucking Woods.

[Red-Impact]

145 pounds is definitely skinny.
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Man people keep saying I look like Tiger Woods (men/women). I wasn't even wearing a NIKE hat (I wear one as I "sarge" *wink*)

It's kind of frustrating (because it's like I'm posing as a celebrity), but it's a good "peacocking" move to grab girl's interest in me immediately. Usually when I see the person a 2nd/multiple time I wear a different hat because I want them to see me as ME and not Tiger fucking Woods.

Maybe you just dress like Tiger Woods?

Meh if I were told I look like a respectable celeberty I wouldn't be complaining

[Hoonyo]

lol she's starting to make me think 145 is too skinny. man she's gonna give me a complex.

how tall are you? if you're over 6 feet tall then yeah you're skinny.

[Dark Geese]

Ill be back in here guys when things slow down I promise..EVO East is keeping me busy right now...

:sweat:

[Silentness!]

No serious approaches lately... (Haven't had the time/proper locations)
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Every Friday night I'd spend a hour talking to this one girl at the smoothie joint. We're strictly friends and nothing else and I'm cool with that because I think of her as my little sister LOLz (yet some odd reason I still think she's hot, but I won't tell her that because she has a BF )

We have so much in common. She's always excited to see me and we hang out once a week. She did some subtle kino on me... (grabbed my hand and guided it) and she kept fixing the lid of my drink without even asking :wonder: It's crazy how we connect with each other, but yet there's no relationship between us because:

1) She has a BF...
2) She's a fucking junior (11th grade) in High school. hahahaha :confused:
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I met a new chick at the same smoothie joint. Since I already know most of the girls that work there, it was easy to approach the new chick. She already saw me talk with the other girls so she knew I wasn't a complete stranger. I asked what college she went to, and we continued talking from there...

I got intimidated midway though because the other girl (the mid 20s chick/manager) saw me talking with the new chick. I don't want the mid 20s chick telling the new chick that I asked for her number lolz. SHE'LL RUIN MY GAME... so I backed off from the new chick and continued talking with my favorite female friend.
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I need to focus on my job and keeping my life straight instead of hunting women down. Women are everywhere and I don't have to always go to certain places just to meet them. I can see them anywhere...

[Waggs313]

Guys, I need help with my relationship. MY girl and I are taking a break. Its killing me because weve been going out for about a year and a half and I absolutly love her. We got into an arguement however, and were on a stupid break. No in the hall at school she'll barely talk to me. She wont hang out with me more than like one day a week...we would usually hang out EVERYDAY. No matter what. And now shes like talking to all these other guys and shit. Im think like are we on a break or are you like fucking me over? Im like really frustrated and I dont know what to do. When I call her shes always like ok ill talk to you later and hangs up. Im like wtf.

[YTheLastMan]

Ok, need quick advice.

I'm going to a concert on Sunday, had a girl lined up but she's got to eat dinner with family for Mother's Day dinner and shit, so i'm shit out of luck.

I might be able to go with a guy friend of mine but obviously chick would be preferable.

I think it might be too forward to approach a girl, get the number and ask her to go to a concert TOMORROW. Shit seems like it would backfire BIG time.

So I need advice..I need to pull a Houdini, fucking Flutie hail Mary. Hook it up yo.

PS. Concert = Arcade Fire. I've been waititng for this shit for way too long. I always leave things to last the minute.

[Silentness!]

You said it yourself... Mother's Day. Good luck man!

Most chicks will be spending time with their family/mother; I know I will be! Don't take offense to the girl not going to the concert with you, due to it's Mother's Day.
___________

However, you may run into some chicks that don't live with their mom or far away. You could look for those kind of women to go the concert with ya.

[maxx]

how tall are you? if you're over 6 feet tall then yeah you're skinny.

i'm 5'8..maybe 5'9..i'm the right weight...also i do martial arts constantly so its gonna generally keep my weight down unless i'm seriously focusing on gaining weight.

kimjongiLL: My skinnyness isnt weakness...i'm strong but skinny...i know i got strength cuz i do mma with some of the guys at the gym and their much bigger height and strength wise and i can roll with them. And this other guy at my school we rolled and i made him tap. though mma is more technique than strength.lol...girls still find me hot. hell this girl keeps telling me I'm cute..constantly..so i know my skinniness is not taking away from it..its merely her way to make her feel better. Because she has obvious weight issues..physical and mental and the fact she knows i used to be like her bothers her very much.

c0rderr0y: i can't be messing with my weight too much cause i do martial arts and compete and i like being in the light weight/super lightweight range. I can flucuate between 135-155. Dont ask me why just certain weeks i've managed to drop 135 or i go up to 155. Right now its competion season so i've stayed in the 145 range.

[kimjongiLL]

i'm 5'8..maybe 5'9..i'm the right weight...also i do martial arts constantly so its gonna generally keep my weight down unless i'm seriously focusing on gaining weight.

kimjongiLL: My skinnyness isnt weakness...i'm strong but skinny...i know i got strength cuz i do mma with some of the guys at the gym and their much bigger height and strength wise and i can roll with them. And this other guy at my school we rolled and i made him tap. though mma is more technique than strength.lol...girls still find me hot. hell this girl keeps telling me I'm cute..constantly..so i know my skinniness is not taking away from it..its merely her way to make her feel better. Because she has obvious weight issues..physical and mental and the fact she knows i used to be like her bothers her very much.

c0rderr0y: i can't be messing with my weight too much cause i do martial arts and compete and i like being in the light weight/super lightweight range. I can flucuate between 135-155. Dont ask me why just certain weeks i've managed to drop 135 or i go up to 155. Right now its competion season so i've stayed in the 145 range.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cOZrWywKBkQ

[maxx]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cOZrWywKBkQ

that was the hottest hip escape ever lol.

[Etcetera]

Guys, I need help with my relationship. MY girl and I are taking a break. Its killing me because weve been going out for about a year and a half and I absolutly love her. We got into an arguement however, and were on a stupid break. No in the hall at school she'll barely talk to me. She wont hang out with me more than like one day a week...we would usually hang out EVERYDAY. No matter what. And now shes like talking to all these other guys and shit. Im think like are we on a break or are you like fucking me over? Im like really frustrated and I dont know what to do. When I call her shes always like ok ill talk to you later and hangs up. Im like wtf.
What the hell!?
A break, what does that even mean. That sounds like a bullshit cop out and she just doesn't want to commit to an actual break-up. So basically, from what I understand, she convinced you to 'go on a break' so she can try and get an upgrade... but just in case that fails, she has a back up plan (i.e. you).
Fuck her, this girl is trash. You can be doing better things with your time and with better people. Your best course of action would be to break it off now letting her know that you aren't waiting for her, but I think it may be too late for saving this, even though I don't see why you would want a stick with a girl like this.

[Waggs313]

What the hell!?
A break, what does that even mean. That sounds like a bullshit cop out and she just doesn't want to commit to an actual break-up. So basically, from what I understand, she convinced you to 'go on a break' so she can try and get an upgrade... but just in case that fails, she has a back up plan (i.e. you).
Fuck her, this girl is trash. You can be doing better things with your time and with better people. Your best course of action would be to break it off now letting her know that you aren't waiting for her, but I think it may be too late for saving this, even though I don't see why you would want a stick with a girl like this.

Thanks for the thought. I mean, its weird cuz shes taking advantage of how much a I like her. Thats my problem, I LOVE THIS GIRL. Im not bragging when I say this, in my school, it is known that I can get any girl I want. Im a varsity soccer player...since freshman year, were state champs. Im in all honor classes, and im considered very goodlooking to many girls. BUT, I cant have the one girl I want. Its fucked up. Its hard to break it off cuz im not only attatched to her, but to her family. Her mom treats me like the son shes never had. I even babysit her little cousins reguraly, I work for her uncle in the summer. Its hard, you know? I just dont know what to do.

[Chupacabra]

Thanks for the thought. I mean, its weird cuz shes taking advantage of how much a I like her. Thats my problem, I LOVE THIS GIRL. Im not bragging when I say this, in my school, it is known that I can get any girl I want. Im a varsity soccer player...since freshman year, were state champs. Im in all honor classes, and im considered very goodlooking to many girls. BUT, I cant have the one girl I want. Its fucked up. Its hard to break it off cuz im not only attatched to her, but to her family. Her mom treats me like the son shes never had. I even babysit her little cousins reguraly, I work for her uncle in the summer. Its hard, you know? I just dont know what to do.

If you love her, then really love her. And you know what? That might mean that she won't be with you or be your friend. But if you mean what you say, then be a compassionate person, want her to be happy, love her.

Yes, it might be a bit hard from time to time dealing with jealousy and all that but ultimately you'll find that she'll respect you more (even if she doesn't want to date you), you'll feel better about everything and yourself, and you will be more happy.

[Waggs313]

Wow. Thanks. That means a lot. A lot. Someone rep him.

[kimjongiLL]

I find myself changing the stories I tell and the seduction tactics I use according to the girls' nationality. As a result, one of the first questions I always ask is, "What nationality are you?"

Tools I use to seduce K-chicks:

(I recycle and reuse these over and over again, but my targets never know that.)

-ahnyung haseyo --> "hello" in Korean
-talk about my "tae kwon do instructor"
-"Seo" is a very common Korean last name, right behind "Kim". I ask the girl her last name when I #close then tell a story about that, and ask how to pronounce it correctly.
-I don't flat out lie, but since Koreans in general are racist to other Asians who aren't Korean, I imply that I'm part Korean whenever I talk about myself (which is a lie because I'm actually not).
-Talk about how tall she is, since K-chicks are tall compared to other Asians in general, and tell her it's sexy... since height is the number one thing K-chicks are insecure about.

Massive comfort through commonality, assumed rapport, and even though I'm a dirty ABC Chinaman, giggity, giggity, schwing! :bgrin:

sex + girls wanting sex + masculinity --> transcends racism

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I went out tonight. Not much of a field report, but more of a brief summary. I learned some new skills as always.

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=3908310&postcount=1794

[Reveal]

So I have a question, and I hope you guys can answer it:
When you get into a relationship, how can you guarantee that YOU get more sex?
How can you have the girl wantign sex from you as opposed to it being the other way around?
We've only done it once, and honestly, I wasn't satisfied with my performance. I suck with bras, it was my first time 'going down' on a girl, etc. I want to redeem myself! But it's hard to see each other through the week, cause I get out of work at 1:00 AM in the morning. Sometimes I'll suggest that she coems over or I come voer and she always gives me the "it's too late!" reply. I want to fix that; how can I have her inviting ME over, despite the fact that it's 1:00? How can I make her want more?

[#7 with Heaven]

damn Kim spittin out the knowledge as always....

[capcomANDsnk]

If you love her, then really love her. And you know what? That might mean that she won't be with you or be your friend. But if you mean what you say, then be a compassionate person, want her to be happy, love her.

Yes, it might be a bit hard from time to time dealing with jealousy and all that but ultimately you'll find that she'll respect you more (even if she doesn't want to date you), you'll feel better about everything and yourself, and you will be more happy.

for reals, solid advice. but it's not applicable in this case. it's HS. she calls for a break, doesn't talk to him, talks to other guys, doesn't spend time w/ him, etc. that's BS.

Waggs313,
it's time to move on. it's not worth it. unless you're okay w/ a one-sided "love" which to me ain't really love at all. it takes two. you can love her all you want but if she ain't on the same page or something similar, it doesn't do you any good to hold onto your feelings. gotta stop clinging and let go. easier said then done i know given the history and attachments you got w/ this chick.

[kimjongiLL]

I picked up a Japanese girl.

http://forums.shoryuken.com/showpost.php?p=3910161&postcount=1855

No helpful info. Just bragging to satisfy my own ego. It's hard to not gloat when you're happy like me. :bgrin:

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Nationality specific tools + DHVs used:

-"Konbanwa" means "good evening" in Japanese.
-Kazuo Umezu and Junji Ito are famous horror manga writers.
-My favorite singer is the one that grew up in the US, was the world Tetris champion, went to school at Columbia, but dropped out to marry a 30 year old. *J-chick recognized it's "Utada Hikaru*, I say her nickname is "Hikki"*
-Compare cell phones, to make extremely subtle neg and disqualification since my phone is $500 Japanese phone (status symbol), while she's on the pink Razor.

[HoneyBBQGrundle]

http://www.destinajapan.us/index.html

[Silentness!]

Christ, I remember when I used to be obsessed with Asian chicks.

Now I don't give a shit what their nationality is. I love all races equally! (Long as they look good of course)

[kimjongiLL]

Christ, I remember when I used to be obsessed with Asian chicks.

Now I don't give a shit what their nationality is. I love all races equally! (Long as they look good of course)
This (http://i35.photobucket.com/albums/d162/kcxj2/AG.jpg) is an 18 year old Asian girl's titty, along with some lips and a smile from her girlfriend*. I like those. They're soft when you poke them, plus their owners smell good too. The more of those I have in my life, the more... yeaaaahhh! :bgrin:

*They're my little brother's friends, so I don't have permission to post the full pics.

[kimjongiLL]

(some guy made a thread on SRK talking about whether he should answer a sketchy looking Craigslist ad)
No.

Nothing is for free. Don't do it.

If you want to get laid, just legitimately pay for it at full price instead. $20-$50 for a BJ, depending on how young and attractive the girl is. $90-$160 at the most for a fuck. You'll actually end up saving money and energy that way instead of answering the sketchy ad that you know 1000 other horny, lonely guys who are also cheapasses and easy marks will reply to.

Who knows how they'll get screwed over (not in the good way).

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If girls are really horny and want to hookup (and trust me, there are PLENTY), they use either myspace, match.com, or adultfriendfinder instead.

Craigslist is only for for buying sex or to get conned. Either love it, just admit you're horny (it's ok), but use it prudently (not like this jackass excuse of finding out what a "crazy girl" is like), or avoid it altogether.

[akumachan]

So I have a question, and I hope you guys can answer it:
When you get into a relationship, how can you guarantee that YOU get more sex?
How can you have the girl wantign sex from you as opposed to it being the other way around?
We've only done it once, and honestly, I wasn't satisfied with my performance. I suck with bras, it was my first time 'going down' on a girl, etc. I want to redeem myself! But it's hard to see each other through the week, cause I get out of work at 1:00 AM in the morning. Sometimes I'll suggest that she coems over or I come voer and she always gives me the "it's too late!" reply. I want to fix that; how can I have her inviting ME over, despite the fact that it's 1:00? How can I make her want more?

1. date a virgin
2. be realllllly good at sex


-AC
it's true
:)

[c0rderr0y]

So I have a question, and I hope you guys can answer it:
When you get into a relationship, how can you guarantee that YOU get more sex?
How can you have the girl wantign sex from you as opposed to it being the other way around?
We've only done it once, and honestly, I wasn't satisfied with my performance. I suck with bras, it was my first time 'going down' on a girl, etc. I want to redeem myself! But it's hard to see each other through the week, cause I get out of work at 1:00 AM in the morning. Sometimes I'll suggest that she coems over or I come voer and she always gives me the "it's too late!" reply. I want to fix that; how can I have her inviting ME over, despite the fact that it's 1:00? How can I make her want more?

Date a nympho
Make her cum more than once

[Havoc]

Yeah, really. You just have to be a good fuck.

It's not that hard. I knew how to eat a pussy when I was 13. I guarantee if you go to Barnes and Noble, you can learn in 20 minutes flat. You can learn everything else you need to know in similarly short fashion. No lie, the first time I fucked, I made the girl cum 3 times. Now, that's not standard, since so many girls' heads are too fucked up to cum at all, but if you know what you're doing, you'll be able to do enough to get the girls coming back.

Again, like Hov said "Mami keep coming back cause mami came vicious"

In other news, I got hit on by a guy yesterday :sad: :mad: :shake:

It's happened before, but it was by flaming guys (which I can deal with). This was a regular nigga. I'm not feeling this at all.

Like my man Mike used to say "Why'm so good-looking?!?"

[xero15]

nigga thats gay lol anyways why aint this thread stickied anymore its hard for me to find the shit now. but i just had a friend hit me up saying she wants me to fuck with her when i come back in town to visit. now me im all down for it and i known she been wantin to do it for a while but i was wonderin what all the sudden interest was about, like i cared, but she wants me to do it and tape it so she can give it to her boyfriend/ ex boyfriend i dunno. since supposedly she had been gettin bad sex from him lately :rofl: personally i just dont give a fuck ill break her in proper but anyone else found themselves in this type situation?:confused:

[Javid]

nigga thats gay lol anyways why aint this thread stickied anymore its hard for me to find the shit now. but i just had a friend hit me up saying she wants me to fuck with her when i come back in town to visit. now me im all down for it and i known she been wantin to do it for a while but i was wonderin what all the sudden interest was about, like i cared, but she wants me to do it and tape it so she can give it to her boyfriend/ ex boyfriend i dunno. since supposedly she had been gettin bad sex from him lately :rofl: personally i just dont give a fuck ill break her in proper but anyone else found themselves in this type situation?:confused:

See that's all cool and everything, but I have this piece of advice to give to you:

The Internet can either make or break you...You take it from there.

[kimjongiLL]

nigga thats gay lol anyways why aint this thread stickied anymore its hard for me to find the shit now. but i just had a friend hit me up saying she wants me to fuck with her when i come back in town to visit. now me im all down for it and i known she been wantin to do it for a while but i was wonderin what all the sudden interest was about, like i cared, but she wants me to do it and tape it so she can give it to her boyfriend/ ex boyfriend i dunno. since supposedly she had been gettin bad sex from him lately :rofl: personally i just dont give a fuck ill break her in proper but anyone else found themselves in this type situation?:confused:
That's immature of her. Don't do it.

You get plenty of ass already, and if you do this, you're compromising your integrity, reputation, and it's going to hurt you more than it temporarily feels good.

... do share the video with your SRK brothers if you go against my word and do it anyway though. Giggity.

[Silentness!]

See that's all cool and everything, but I have this piece of advice to give to you:

The Internet can either make or break you...You take it from there.

holy shit he's got a point. Don't let her record that shit...

Don't let her pull a RAY J on ya lolz

[SmoothCat]

Man my boy ex keeps trying to chill with me all the time. She was with this nigga for like 2 years and he said he's done with her and he don't give a fuck and all that. But I no for sure he still likes this chick

The proplem is I use to flirt with her when they was going out but it was just friendly now she taking it a little to far. The dudes my best friend and this chicks a dime I aint trying be with her but if she chills with me and I'm feeling nice ill act up . So what would u guys do? Tell your boy or just tell this chick not to come around anymore?

[Shotokan Symphony]

If you're still close with your friend, I'd say stay away. She sounds like tainted meat: you try to get rid of that shit but it comes back for revenge in your colon.

[caliagent#3]

Man my boy ex keeps trying to chill with me all the time. She was with this nigga for like 2 years and he said he's done with her and he don't give a fuck and all that. But I no for sure he still likes this chick

The proplem is I use to flirt with her when they was going out but it was just friendly now she taking it a little to far. The dudes my best friend and this chicks a dime I aint trying be with her but if she chills with me and I'm feeling nice ill act up . So what would u guys do? Tell your boy or just tell this chick not to come around anymore?

I had this happen to me, but in the reverse situation and was fucking pissed. All i gotta say is, if you end up hitting it or going out with her, expect to see your friends wrath in full force. Bro's before ho's. Females are always gonna be there, i say skip over her and find someone else.

[Grits'N'Gravy]

1. date a virgin
2. be realllllly good at sex


-AC
it's true
:)

Also, you can get a really permissive girlfriend. I don't get to do all kinds of crazy shit, but I do get some 3-4 times a week. 1x a week at least.

[SmoothCat]

I had this happen to me, but in the reverse situation and was fucking pissed. All i gotta say is, if you end up hitting it or going out with her, expect to see your friends wrath in full force. Bro's before ho's. Females are always gonna be there, i say skip over her and find someone else.

Ya I feel u, he's my ace so I'm trying to not fuck with her. Ill never go out with her I'm just scared ill do something stupid if I'm fucked up around her, and she always around. But I think I'm just gonna stay away from her or treat her like shit till she leave me alone

[Dark Geese]

If you are a good fuck yeah the girl will want sex everyday..serious...and yes that is hella fun..

Only times it dont happen is when you both are realllllyyyyyyyy tired..then you laugh about it afterwards like "We didnt have sex this ONCE hahah!"

Yes guys Im still here just getting ready for EVO East as the Head SNK guy.

Also I repped Chupacabra for you Waggs.

[xero15]

See that's all cool and everything, but I have this piece of advice to give to you:

The Internet can either make or break you...You take it from there.

shit you say that like im suppose to be scared :lol: sex is a like a second hobby to me after street fighter i study the shit and practice what i learn :tup: damn straight so if i do put it on the internet ill make sure i edit it to look like a combo video for yall :rofl::lovin::wgrin:

That's immature of her. Don't do it.

You get plenty of ass already, and if you do this, you're compromising your integrity, reputation, and it's going to hurt you more than it temporarily feels good.

... do share the video with your SRK brothers if you go against my word and do it anyway though. Giggity.

ummm how does this hurt me in any way? there are friends out there who sleep with friends no strings or emotions (of that kind anyways) attached and still act the same as they do after sex. ive done it a few times myself and im still close with all of them.

[debs]

the downside to having sex everyday with a girl is that you might get tired of that girl and want something new...
she might start to get clingy and then everything that comes out of her mouth starts to be really boring to you...to the point where you don't want to be around her, but you still want some pussy every now and then, but only when YOU want it. i'm going through that now...and here she calls.

[kimjongiLL]

(Sorry for the community lingo. Read Juggler if anybody doesn't know what I'm talking about.)

I had a phone/text conversation.

Wow, IOI's galore. First I get a text, but before I get to reply, I'm texted again to correct a picayune mistake she made in the first text. On the phone, I barely get 3 minutes of talking into a 15 conversation. Whenever I stay silent for a moment, she picks up instantly.

Anyway, whenever you get that sort of nervous energy coming from your conversation partner, it means she's really into you. I kind of like it actually. Just sit back, chill, and let the other person work to attract you.

Possible wierd or self-conscious girl (or just talks a lot), but I realize that I do the same thing whenever I follow the 90-10 rule for initial conversations when I like someone. I'm definately going to tone it and just put the vacuum on people more often after today's new phone experience though.

I can tell she's trying hard to work the ftm attraction, when it would be nicer if she just chilled and realize I'm attracted to her already. Only step left now is the logistics.

[SirFritzalot]

Question. If you only talk to a girl like 3 times a week, how many times is too many to call that person during that 3 day period?

Cause I figured that since we only talk a few days in the week, we'd at least try to talk as much as possible during that time, but I don't wanna be blowing up her phone for 3 days if it's gonna make it seem like I'm sweating her and being all clingy and shit.

-Fritz

[c0rderr0y]

Question. If you only talk to a girl like 3 times a week, how many times is too many to call that person during that 3 day period?

Cause I figured that since we only talk a few days in the week, we'd at least try to talk as much as possible during that time, but I don't wanna be blowing up her phone for 3 days if it's gonna make it seem like I'm sweating her and being all clingy and shit.

-Fritz

I say call when you have something interesting/fun to talk about or when you want to invite her to go do something and only call once in a while when you just call to say whats "hello" That way you always have her attention when on the phone and it keeps her interested.

[kimjongiLL]

Mystery was on Conan O'brien.

http://www.venusianarts.com/pt/blog/default.aspx?id=10&t=Mystery-Appears-on-The-Conan-OBrien-Sho

He's blowing up the spot. Start dumping his material and coming up with your own. No more "Nice nails, are they real?", "If I weren't gay, you'd so be my type.", and no more best friends test. Don't peacock with some crazy attention grabbing crap now either. Focus more on being a well dressed guy first.

If anybody catches you going word for word and trying to substitute his personality for your own, in my opinion, I think that communicates low status and poor self esteem. People will see right through you, creep/instant eww mechanisms will be activated, and you're out.

Dump it.

Stick with the stuff that you can't be traced for using. Art of Seduction, Gunwitch, Juggler, those gay guy fashion and lifestyle magazines (not so much Maxim or Stuff, since they put a lot of AFC distractions like bikini girls you have no chance of ever meeting in your life or mediocre video games).

edit: Wow, Tina Fey (who's super hot) does have some curiously interested body language in Mystery's direction towards the end though...

[c0rderr0y]

*ALERT* *ALERT* *ALERT*

Mystery was on Conan O'brien.

http://www.venusianarts.com/pt/blog/default.aspx?id=10&t=Mystery-Appears-on-The-Conan-OBrien-Sho

He's blowing up the spot. Start dumping his material and coming up with your own. No more "Nice nails, are they real?", "If I weren't gay, you'd so be my type.", and no more best friends test. Don't peacock with some crazy attention grabbing crap now either. Focus more on being a well dressed guy first.

If anybody catches you going word for word and trying to substitute his personality for your own, in my opinion, I think that communicates low status and poor self esteem.

Dump it.

Stick with the stuff that you can't be traced for using. Art of Seduction, Gunwitch, Juggler, those gay guy fashion and lifestyle magazines (not so much Maxim or Stuff, since they put a lot of AFC distractions like bikini girls you have no chance of ever meeting in your life or mediocre video games).

good advice I'd like to add a personal experience of mine. A group of friends my girlfriend and I were at a bar. Our waitress looked like Lindsay Lohan (from the hot days) so I figured she probably hears that a lot so I put a twist on it..... I said "You look like Hillary Duff" and she started busting up laughing thinking I was going to say the latter.... just some food for thought.

[kimjongiLL]

I used a new opening approach to get a cutie's phone number today.

*she's sitting at table by herself fiddling with cell phone*

Me: (wow, she's cute...) *3 second rule*

I sit down diagonally across from her.

Me: "Hi"
Her: (no eye contact)
Me: "How are you?"
Her: "good..."
Me: "Hey... sorry to interrupt you like this but....."

"... there's something really important that I need to tell you."

(Pause. I lean in, then look around as if to make sure nobody is eavesdropping.)

"You're the most beautiful girl I've seen all day, and I'd feel bad if I didn't come talk to you."

*fake drama and big heartbreaking motions like I'm acting in a 1920's silent film*

*She laughs*

I'm in! :bgrin:

It's a wrap. She's Chinese and her name is Mei Mei. :lovin:

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My voice tone. The fact that I approached in the first place. My natural conversation skills for building rapport after an opener. Me not being the slightest bit shy to SOI, use the word "sexy", and any other way to let a person know how attracted I am to them.

It doesn't matter what you say (just like how my wing and I used "Do you like anal?" as our club opener a couple weeks ago), as long as you say it the right way.

Take that Style and Mystery.

[JubeiNinja69]

^^i'm gonna try that. my college has so many azn girls.

[kimjongiLL]

^^i'm gonna try that. my college has so many azn girls.
Be careful though. What I just gave you is actually a pickup line (albeit a less commonly heard one).

If I was like David D or something and charging you money for everything I say, then I would be fine with that. But I'm not. I'm posting on a free internet board.

The line isn't going to work unless your inner game in congruent with your outer appearence.

Going up and stuttering out that line in a soft, quiet voice tone while you avoid eye contact and fiddle around with your hands in your pocket will not work. Not following the 3 second rule and standing there stalking for 20 minutes first will not work. If your breath smells bad or anything else hygiene related, you won't even get within 5 feet.

Confident, dominant, and masculine approach WILL work though. Even if the girl is taken, unless she's having a PMS day, she'll be happy and flattered to meet such a cool, sexy guy. Doesn't hurt to be a good actor too. :bgrin:

[LODOWNMUTHAFUC]

LODOWNMUTHAFUC = Kool nigga... Very handsome... Muscular, 6'1 210 Welds a big one...


Ay gurl...... (looks her up and down)
Gurl- Hi... (she says quickly... cuz she likes me)
Lodown- wuz good...(knod my head in a up motion when sayin that)
Gurl - nothin you (Lickin her lips)
Lodown - lets go..( later Fucks in the back seat of my car or follows her to her crib to get some dome.)


Its That eazy bein me.

Peace

[Taito]

Buying a girl a birthday gift.. suggestions? Nothing too extravagant.. it's just a present, not a proposal.

[Olan]

jewelry and flowers.

[Cowboyday]

Buying a girl a birthday gift.. suggestions? Nothing too extravagant.. it's just a present, not a proposal.

One thing I'd refrain from is getting her a gift of her "thing" or her hobby or whatever. Like we all have this one grandmother or aunt who collects giraffes or something. So of course no one knows what to get her, and everyonel gets her giraffe knicknacks etc.

This girl's birthday that I know is coming up, I'm going to get her some stupid sentimental gifts with our inside jokes and stuff like that, a "real" gift with some monetary value (no idea what the hell it would be yet, i got two weeks), and best of all:

A giant photo/poster of me.
http://homokaasu.org/rasterbator/
This website has this cool thing that breaks a picture into individual pieces of paper and prints them, it's pretty dope.

Examples:
http://homokaasu.org/rasterbator/gallery/i/7115.jpg
http://homokaasu.org/rasterbator/gallery/i/4619.jpg

So a giant cheesy picture of me to seal the deal. :tup:

[Silentness!]

I've been telling you to dump style's/mystery's shit a long time ago. Shit is too weird...

[debs]

so my gf hasn't had her period in a lil bit...

but she took a pregnancy test and it came out negative. she just graduated from grad school and had to do a practicum...and she's been juggling her job and family life.

but i am a lil..."intrigued." this thing needs to come NOW. we don't really talk about it, and i don't ask her questions or anything so that i don't stress her out even more. i know in the back of her mind she's wondering whats up and i KNOW i'm wondering whats up. she brought it up earlier this week, i think or late last week.

...i need stories of this happening to other ppl and their girls ended up getting their periods, it was just stress. i need to be reassured. help?

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

so my gf hasn't had her period in a lil bit...

but she took a pregnancy test and it came out negative. she just graduated from grad school and had to do a practicum...and she's been juggling her job and family life.

but i am a lil..."intrigued." this thing needs to come NOW. we don't really talk about it, and i don't ask her questions or anything so that i don't stress her out even more. i know in the back of her mind she's wondering whats up and i KNOW i'm wondering whats up. she brought it up earlier this week, i think or late last week.

...i need stories of this happening to other ppl and their girls ended up getting their periods, it was just stress. i need to be reassured. help?


its just stress, calm her down *along with yourself* and you should be good. Maybe take a weekend out of state or something.

[Silentness!]

I was laughing with this other girl. She called the other girl a whore because she hugs every single guy she knows all the time. I found it funny when she said the other girl was pregnant until she fell down the escalator drunk and killed the baby.

I need to find fun girls like the ones I mentioned above... THAT ARE SINGLE! It's so hard to find an attractive/lively/comical girl that is single. I always have my fingers crossed, but I think I'm SOL.

[SirFritzalot]

Bah, this relationship thing is very confusing...OK here's a few of my dilemnas

Surprisingly, I'm still with the same chick...this is like the 2nd longest relationship I've ever tried. But the thing about me is that I'm still stuck in this mentality about never trust a girl. Especially since my girl seems to get so much attention.

The thing about me is that I know how alot of girls are: it's still really hard for me to believe that a girl that good looking would want to stay with one person. It's not that I don't believe that I'm no good for her or anything, it's just that I've been in this one-night stand mode for so long and it's just taking me so long to adjust to trying to trust her. Sure, she told me that she loved me, but at the same time, she's so secretive with alot of shit. I'm not sure if it's because she's hiding something, or if it's because that's how she is.

Also, I wanna know your opinions on how to deal with arguments. I remember like a week ago, we were arguing about something and she hung up the phone on me. I didn't call her the next day and I had called her the day after that. She was pissed because I didn't call her the next day. Now she seems to have the impression that she can hang up on me whenever she pleases. I HATE getting hung up on, and I especially hate when I try to call her back to cuss her out for hanging up on me and she doesn't pick up. Really hate that.

One other problem is these little punishments she be having for me. I think I made a huge mistake after I fucked her for the first time and I let her know how good it was. I've been with a good amount of girls and she's topped just about all of them. She's a pro in every sense of the word. But now she's trying to hold out on me and she be like "I don't want to see you" cause she knows everytime I see her I wanna fuck. I need a way to counter that...

But other than that, I think I'm learning how to do the relationship thing little by little. I hate the fact that I feel like I'm being whipped and I really hate the fact that I can only have one (smart) opinion on this whole thing, but I guess it's ok if I turn to SRK for help, right?

-Fritz:looney:

[kimjongiLL]

I was laughing with this other girl. She called the other girl a whore because she hugs every single guy she knows all the time. I found it funny when she said the other girl was pregnant until she fell down the escalator drunk and killed the baby.

I need to find fun girls like the ones I mentioned above... THAT ARE SINGLE! It's so hard to find an attractive/lively/comical girl that is single. I always have my fingers crossed, but I think I'm SOL.
Dude, cut it out.

If you play the victim (like a couple other forums members in the TOL thread for example do), you only feel good temporarily. But then you soon realize that you did nothing to help yourself. I and nobody else here wants to hear about how you're shit of luck or emo or suck with women or whatever.

Go up to the next 25 young, sexy girls in revealing clothing that YOU PERSONALLY find attractive, and do the sincere opener on them.

"Hi, you're super cute, so this is little embarassing, but I really wanted to come meet you. My name is Ness. What's yours?"

Talk for five minutes. Then SOI by saying, "Hey, you're really fun to talk with. I get a cool, sexy vibe from your personality."

NUMBER CLOSE. Hand her your phone.

"Here, put in your number."

It doesn't matter if they're single or not. I and everybody else here wrote a million times already that women are constantly looking to "upgrade" or for some normal guy friends that aren't going to confess their love (because they're lonely and horny) in the first week.

Get off SRK. Go get laid.

*I'm seriously not talking to you anymore until you come back with at least a date report (dinner and a movie where you pay if you have to).*

You have 6 weeks. Summer is starting soon. Go. Right now. Don't even wait for me to finish putting the period at the end of this sentence. Peace out. Godspeed. :china:

[Silentness!]

Go up to the next 25 young, sexy girls in revealing clothing that YOU PERSONALLY find attractive, and do the sincere opener on them.

"Hi, you're super cute, so this is little embarassing, but I really wanted to come meet you. My name is Ness. What's yours?"



:sweat: Yeah that opener is pretty direct... I dunno I can try it.

[Against Me!]

:sweat: Yeah that opener is pretty direct... I dunno I can try it.

i think it may depend on where you live and what kind of girls you chase after, but around here you would be figured as a flaming homosexual if you told a girl she's 'super cute'

[Silentness!]

i think it may depend on where you live and what kind of girls you chase after, but around here you would be figured as a flaming homosexual if you told a girl she's 'super cute'

haha I'd never say super cute or even cute. Cute sounds like something my mom would say or something you'd say to a little girl.
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Would this be too aggressive as an opener?

"You are looking sexy in that shirt! So how are you doing today?"

It let's them know immediately that you are interested in them so you can cut the bullshit.

[Soundatron]

My apologies for what may sound like a stupid question

Is sex (with a condom) possible in a pool? Assuming nothing falls or leaks out if ya know what I mean.

That's like my g/f's biggest sexual fantasy right now lol

[aiy1tm]

Sex in a pool is difficult. You'd think the watery environment would help lubricate things, but it is quite the opposite effect .. it washes away all lubrication.

I've never successfully pulled it off. I guess you could, but it won't be pleasant.

[kimjongiLL]

haha I'd never say super cute or even cute. Cute sounds like something my mom would say or something you'd say to a little girl.
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Would this be too aggressive as an opener?

"You are looking sexy in that shirt! So how are you doing today?"

It let's them know immediately that you are interested in them so you can cut the bullshit.
No, that's not a good opener.

You sound like a scumbag that's only interested in sex and not her. (ie. even if she likes you ---> instant blowout)

Don't SOI until she gives you some IOI's first. In layman's terms, don't even think about using the word "sexy" until she's smiled at you, she's physically touched you, she's laughed at one of your jokes in a warm friendly manner, or she's started asking you the buying questions (Where are you from? What's your major?)

My little brother laughed at me and called me a homo last time when he saw me wearing my bright red, tight jeans. I went out to the party anyway like that and got laid that very night though (including the girl complimenting me on my jeans).

Don't even listen to other guys whenever they accuse you of being gay or something else stupid. They're either jealous or socially uncalibrated themselves. Just like real men wear pink (like I do occasionally), "cute" is an awesome word that sets the frame right away that you think the girl is cute... like you would think a kitten or a little sister is cute. You automatically have higher status as soon as you go in.

Oh, and Ness, why are you still here? Today is Saturday. A beautiful fucking day. You should be at the park or mall. The more you read here, the more you get into your own head, and the more you'll be unable to do something as simple as telling a girl to put in her phone number.

If not, then yeah, have fun jerking off by yourself again tonight. I have a Bangbros pass if you want to use it.

[marn]

If not, then yeah, have fun jerking off by yourself again tonight. I have a Bangbros pass if you want to use it.

PM plz. Thanks.

[Phoenix Wright]

(Thread Hijack)

Being in the friend zone rules. You have a hot friend, and she introduces you to her other hot friends. Also while in the friend zone, you can be used to "fuck" her enemies and make them look bad. At times, being in the friend zone rocks. That is all.

[kimjongiLL]

anti-hijack:

Friend zone sucks. The whole point of calling it friend zone is because you wanted to hit it in the first place but failed because you were too shy to give off and escalate your sexual vibe.

It's anything but rocking. It sucks, and if the girls are using you to fuck over other friends, you're nothing but a tool and the girls are the immature type you shouldn't be spending time with anyway (unless you're a kid yourself).

[Phoenix Wright]

oh and friend zone sucks btw. The whole point of calling it friend zone is because you wanted to hit it in the first place but failed because you were too shy to give off and escalate your sexual vibe.

It's anything but rocking. It sucks, and if the girls are using you to fuck over other friends, you're nothing but a tool and the girls are the immature type you shouldn't be spending time with anyway (unless you're a kid yourself).


Na, I volunteer to do shit like that. She tells me that she doesnt like a girl, one day we hang out and whatever happens happens.She's been a good friend of mine since high school and believe me, i could care less if i havent hit it. Banging her friends w/ no drama/ jealousy > only banging her.

[Soundatron]

Sex in a pool is difficult. You'd think the watery environment would help lubricate things, but it is quite the opposite effect .. it washes away all lubrication.

I've never successfully pulled it off. I guess you could, but it won't be pleasant.

you say it is difficult, ok that's fine. But it IS possible?

[Taito]

Buying a girl a birthday gift.. suggestions? Nothing too extravagant.. it's just a present, not a proposal.
Any other suggestions? Birthday's next month.

[DongHwan]

Any other suggestions? Birthday's next month.

Do a little research as in: go ask her friends.

alot of times girls like a certain thing, for the girl i was with at the time it was candles. Big scented candles. She was into reading and writing so books worked as well.

So i guess its up to you to recall what her interests are in and try to buy something along those lines, if you do it just right you may hear from her friends that she thinks you'r considerate.

And if shes the sentimental type, make the card yourself ( i know it sounds corny, but it goes a long way). I made a macaroni card with a little joke inside with pictures of bears and when she read it, she took me to her room and raped me.

[aiy1tm]

you say it is difficult, ok that's fine. But it IS possible?

Yea, possible (but almost anything is "possible".. depends on what you consider worth the effort).

If you have a well lubricated female friend. And you work carefully.

A non-water based lubricant might assist underwater... though I'm not sure you're supposed to use that stuff with regular condoms. Look into that, perhaps? If it is a fantasy of hers I'm sure she wouldn't mind you bringing the necessary equipment to the game.

[Dark Geese]

God do I got a lot of catching up to do on this thread..I'll catch up after EVO East.

[Silentness!]

Oh, and Ness, why are you still here? Today is Saturday. A beautiful fucking day. You should be at the park or mall. The more you read here, the more you get into your own head, and the more you'll be unable to do something as simple as telling a girl to put in her phone number.

If not, then yeah, have fun jerking off by yourself again tonight. I have a Bangbros pass if you want to use it.

I had to work from 4 PM to 2 AM.... and I gotta go back to work at 11 AM today.
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I met some cool black guys that were going to a club. I can tell that these guys were confident and charismatic around women just by the tone of their voice and their movements. They kind of opened my eyes to some things I think...
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@ Kim... bangbro pass plz for the love of God!

[Taito]

..
I honestly appreciate the reply but I'm not trying to do anything complicated like that. And she along with all her friends are like a 1000 miles away. Shit I'll just buy her a bracelet or something.

[EvilKing]

how would you guys go about approaching a girl at her job? specifically, she works at a coffee shop and i see her once a week. i try to talk to her and semi flirt w/ her, but don't want to seem rude/weird/desperate and just ask her for her number.

I'm also having a hard time reading her, since she might just be nice since it's her job.

What are some good questions to test the water? should i be direct and just ask her for her digits?Ok, so I never saw this girl again after posting this until tonight!

She remembered me, waved, and smiled. (she works at a coffee shop btw).

She said she no longer works sundays anymore, and tonight was an exception, so i said "So when am I supposed to come get my coffee now?" She smiled and proceeded to give mer her usual schedule and said this week was different because she had to get her prom and birthday off.
I asked her how old she was and she said 17!
I'm 22, so i basically backed off and but what i want to know is this:

Had she been older, would that have been the correct approach followed by a visit on one of those days she was working in a week or two?

[coco_j]

Alright all you pimps, need some advice here. Moved into a house with my mate 2 year ago, where there were two very hot young girls living with there parents next door. Anyways, I was involved with another woman for a while, and always thought this girl was too hot for me anyways. So we rarely spoke. Got on with her parents though.
Anyway, not sure if this is important to the story but one time I was going for a trip back home. Checked the mailbox, ( it makes a loud noise, so when we check our mail they can hear us, and vice versa ) anyway, she comes out in her little bra n panties to check her mail. I check that shit out real good, and she goes back inside.

Annnnyway... on the weekend we started moving out into a new house. She found out we were moving off my house mate. As I was putting the last things into my car, she parked behind me, and left her car on. Noticed she was watchin me, so when I finished up I asked her if she was after my park. She said no, got out, started chatting. Asks for my number. Give it to her, whatever.
She called 3 times and msg'd me that night. Missed her calls though. Next night she wants to come around and check out the house. Thought ok, then she cancels. Said her uncle got her drunk or something, but she ends up ringing me that night and we chat again.
Last night, she calls me and says shes at the shopping center looking for a lunch box, and can't find one, then says shes going to the next shopping centre which is past my house. So I tell her to swing by. She picks me up, when we get in the shop she's racing round the joint. I had to either walk really fast, or walk behind her. So I thought fuck this, so I went off and walked around myself. Met back up with her at the checkout.
Get back to the front of my place, and I'm bout to say goodnight but she switches off the car and gets out. Show her round the place, but skipped le bedroom... was gonna save that for later. Two housemates were home and I didn't want any shit off them so I didn't wanna do anything too obvious in case they made smartass comments. So I'm chillin on the couch, sitting back, and she sits right on the edge of the couch, lookin sorta uncomfortable.
After chattin a bit she says shes gotta go. Walks out to her car without stopping or anything.

The whole night I didn't get any signals off her, so I didn't make any moves...

What ya'll think I should do?

[Silentness!]

Ok, so I never saw this girl again after posting this until tonight!

She remembered me, waved, and smiled. (she works at a coffee shop btw).

She said she no longer works sundays anymore, and tonight was an exception, so i said "So when am I supposed to come get my coffee now?" She smiled and proceeded to give mer her usual schedule and said this week was different because she had to get her prom and birthday off.
I asked her how old she was and she said 17!
I'm 22, so i basically backed off and but what i want to know is this:

Had she been older, would that have been the correct approach followed by a visit on one of those days she was working in a week or two?

Man you are taking way too long to ask for her number! (For all I know she probably already has a boyfriend and doesn't know you have feelings for her)
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Take it from me: Same situation except I'm 19 and the manager at this smoothie joint is uhh in her mid 20s. I built some basic rapport with her and INSTANTLY asked for her number in a smooth way. She found it amusing, but told me she had a boyfriend.

^ Basically I got all the info I wanted to know from her in one interaction. Don't take weeks after weeks to SOI a girl. (Showing a statement of interest towards her) She'll either friend zone your ass because you become too friendly around her or she'll lose interest in you because of your turtling.
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Fuck maybe I need to take time out of my schedule... and show some of you guys how it's done. :rofl: I haven't been practicing PUA skills/techniques at all lately so I need to get back into the swing of it.

[MOD]

Ok, so I never saw this girl again after posting this until tonight!

She remembered me, waved, and smiled. (she works at a coffee shop btw).

She said she no longer works sundays anymore, and tonight was an exception, so i said "So when am I supposed to come get my coffee now?" She smiled and proceeded to give mer her usual schedule and said this week was different because she had to get her prom and birthday off.
I asked her how old she was and she said 17!
I'm 22, so i basically backed off and but what i want to know is this:

Had she been older, would that have been the correct approach followed by a visit on one of those days she was working in a week or two?

nothin wrong with 17, i mean besides legalities but who gives a shit.

Clubbin in Japan!

[kimjongiLL]

Hello. This (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhCxq7qdVT0) is the hottest girl I've seen in my entire life. The waitress in the green bikini top at 00:20. She must be 23 years old at the most.

I'm not going to the club I normally go to on Saturdays anymore. After this weekend, I realized there were ZERO approachable sets at the ENTIRE venue. All were ghetto attitude short girls, old, fatties, or I know them already and they hate me. Fuck that ghetto ass, trailer trash place.

Taiwan (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gKyp32PT808) --> :lovin:

I miss Shanghai (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a15aHhcFiq4) actually. Awesome fucking clubs there as well where you don't even need to speak Chinese (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BhS71D0enoE), since being fluent in English is actually a DHV.

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Oh, Jeri Lee (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZOqEnFWBSog) is fly as hell also. She's the Asian honey wearing the "Barely Legal" t-shirt in the above video, and the club is the one she promotes called "Glam" in NYC.

I wasn't able to get her number when she came to Boston (best I can do was a meet and greet, smile, and picture), but I'm close, real life friends with the other promoters that did, so it feels good to be in the network.

[$hAoLIn]

Good thread, good shit.

So, a fine female friend of mine who I've kept in touch with on and off for about 3+ years hits me up on AIM tonight as I'm afk saying,

Her: "I'm single, hahaha. Just wanted to let it out and tell you. (: We can kick it together".

I've heard that she was attracted to me before, but I never tried to get at it because relatoinships and shit weren't my focus at the time. Now, my scope is on another chick who I'm advancing on, but this one entered the picture and now I'm not sure who to cock the shot toward. The one I'm getting at now is sending mixed signals and I'm gradually getting closer to. I know that the one that messaged me is down as fuck and it seems that she might flow with me. The thing is I can see myself flowing with both though.

Hmm, feels like an RTSD situation with the one that just messaged me, but at the same time a, "turtle half a round and observe", type of thing.

[kimjongiLL]

So, a fine female friend of mine who I've kept in touch with on and off for about 3+ years hits me up on AIM tonight as I'm afk saying,

Her: "I'm single, hahaha. Just wanted to let it out and tell you. (: We can kick it together".

I've heard that she was attracted to me before, but I never tried to get at it because relatoinships and shit weren't my focus at the time. Now, my scope is on another chick who I'm advancing on, but this one entered the picture and now I'm not sure who to cock the shot toward. The one I'm getting at now is sending mixed signals and I'm gradually getting closer to. I know that the one that messaged me is down as fuck and it seems that she might flow with me. The thing is I can see myself flowing with both though.

Hmm, feels like an RTSD situation with the one that just messaged me, but at the same time a, "turtle half a round and observe", type of thing.
You can do what I do whenever this happens to me if you'd like...

I say that "I'm busy" (even when I'm not), but I'll try to "fit you into my schedule". Say you're busy so and so day, but then suggest either a Monday, Tuesday, or Wednesday (weekend is too much pressure).

Once you're with her and the vibe is warm, tell her you find her extremely attractive, and it obvious she has more going for her than just her looks (only say it if it's true), but you're not looking for a serious relationship at the moment. (Extremely important that you don't show any signs of neediness or fear of loss at the moment.) Keep talking to her and letting her know what your requirements are until you've talked yourself a new buddy with benefits.

You're free to seduce the other girl you've had your eye on while you keep a little something, something on the side. :lovin:

[terracotta]

i hate to say it.. but i'm a little tired of girls for the moment. the only reason i check this thread now is to see the pics of hotties Kim posts up.

[EvilKing]

nothin wrong with 17, i mean besides legalities but who gives a shit.

Clubbin in Japan!
LOL
You and Ness aren't the only ones trying to temp me into trying to hook up w/ her regardless of her age. If she didn't feel offended by my face when she told me her age, I just might.

On another note, I've been reading 'the game' and like a lot of you said, i'm not really feeling it too much. The way they talk about sarging sounds pretty unnatural and weird. My weakest point right now is openings, and this book isn't helping me much at all in that regard. Knowing i have no gripe in reading this type of material and extracting useful info, what other book(s) should i look for?

[Silentness!]

LOL
You and Ness aren't the only ones trying to temp me into trying to hook up w/ her regardless of her age. If she didn't feel offended by my face when she told me her age, I just might.

On another note, I've been reading 'the game' and like a lot of you said, i'm not really feeling it too much. The way they talk about sarging sounds pretty unnatural and weird. My weakest point right now is openings, and this book isn't helping me much at all in that regard. Knowing i have no gripe in reading this type of material and extracting useful info, what other book(s) should i look for?

"The Game" is weird. Shit is not normal... I'd say Juggler is like the only naturalistic sounding guy in that book. The weirdest being Ross with his psycho techniques!
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[terracotta]

i liked some of the psycho techniques actually.. part of it, in principle, makes sense. i started taking a girl out to jazz venues and got her a Miles Davis album, and now i'm confident she'll think of me when she hears a saxophone or a trumpet or a conversation on Miles Davis.

[kimjongiLL]

On another note, I've been reading 'the game' and like a lot of you said, i'm not really feeling it too much. The way they talk about sarging sounds pretty unnatural and weird. My weakest point right now is openings, and this book isn't helping me much at all in that regard. Knowing i have no gripe in reading this type of material and extracting useful info, what other book(s) should i look for?
I don't really want to post this because it's a marketing gimmick, but the author of "The Game" is currently involved with this...

http://www.stylelife.com/personal-analysis.php

I did the test and it says my mating success for my age is 33%. That makes sense since a lot of guys start getting laid in their teenage years, but it took me until I was 24 to start getting it on the regular.

Says my attraction expert level is 51%, and that makes sense too, because as good as I sound here on SRK, I'm extremely aware of my own limitations and am constantly working on my sticking points. The inner game learning helped the most. It's also good to hear that I'm not at my full potential yet (because I would be pissed if I was... I haven't been with a Asian 9 or 10 like those cuties from the videos I posted yet).

The next page after that is the best though. Quoted from Neil...

The Game has changed, and it's my fault.

My book was far more successful than I ever thought it would be. It helped change guys' lives, but then something strange happened: girls started reading it.

Right now, I'm sitting with the most amazing girl I've been dating, and since we've met, she's heard one of my openers at least once a week coming from a different guy. I tell her to be nice to the guys, but she usually just laughs them out of the bar. All of her girlfriends and their girlfriends have also heard the same lines.

In the meantime , I see my top apprentices walking away with a girl or a group of girls for a night of fun -- without having to say the same old lines every time.
... and then he continues to try to sell you to his program David D persuasion and marketing style. It's $88 bucks a month, plus $50 for materials fee.

Quite frankly, he's charging way too much (that Law of Power where you "ask for the moon, and you'll be surprised how often you get it), I don't need anything he has to teach me at this point (since I'm constantly improving on my own every week), and no way I'm buying into some other guy's frame either.

But yeah, you're right though. Even the author says what he wrote in "The Game" is outdated and wierd now. Including Mystery being on Conan O'Brien, ditch all the outer game lines and routines they teach. Just keep the inner game, body language, don't be lazy, networking, and eat right/live healthy stuff.

In my honest 100% opinion (although there's no guarantee I won't change my mind in a few months) the absolute most useful learning materials if you decide to spend money on anything are Gunwitch and Juggler's e-books.

My personal experience (might be different for you):
-Zero lays from DYD, but a lot of "fuck off asshole" and "I think you're ugly" from pretty girls.
-One lay, but she was ugly and older than me, using MM/Style.
-A lot more than one (and currently counting), plus a ton of new female friends, wingmen, and people laughing and having a good time around me with Juggler.
-Hopefully a full close on a 9 or 10 soon using Gunwitch (only two kisses so far), since his insight has helped me literally destroy every single last bit of approach anxiety, fear of rejection, or anything else mental that was holding me back. I also learned to be unapologetically sexual from him (ie. don't be shy to literally tell a girl, "I want to bang you", as your SOI). Step it up to the next level.

[Havoc]

I just took that survey shit. 98 and 95%.

Those questions were dumb.

[Warpticon]

I just took that survey shit. 98 and 95%.

Those questions were dumb.

Totally. I mean, I got this for a summary:


You may be known as the daredevil of your group. You sometimes have the guts to talk to any woman and take any risk. At times you are willing to drive fast, drink a lot, and push yourself to the limits. Your brazen nature may even entice a few women into your bed, but you frequently don't connect with them after the lust and alcohol wear off.
You are sometimes seen as a charismatic and social person who will try hard to do or say anything. Your interactions may be characterized by a competitive insecurity and may even be perceived as eager and creepy. Oftentimes, you are not well socially calibrated to a wide variety of settings. Your occasional knack to appear tacky limits your flexibility and diversity in interacting with a wide range of people.
You are often motivated by a desire for attention and your behaviors may reflect this need more than a genuine interest in other people would. Your overconfidence will often enable you to make bold comments to people that may turn heads, but you know that it will not get you real interest and therefore it is often used as a pretense behind which you can hide your true nature. Occasionally, you are too obvious. Your fearlessness isn't yielding very much in the way of results. You're coming on too strong.
Your hormonal nature suggests your appetite is never satisfied and you don't have time to stop and just have a friendly chat, sometimes yearning for more. Well, that's great, but this is not a race. Life is a journey my friend, and it is time to relax and absorb some of these wonderful experiences. You may feel a hidden need to get to know some of the people in your hit-and-miss dating life, but you don't really know how.


This is pretty close to the exact opposite. Hit-and-miss dating life? Daredevil? Do or say anything? I mean, wow.

[Silentness!]

My mating success said 0%. hahaha whatever I'm only 19 anyways and I got a career to focus on

[debs]

thx, ace. last time i talked to my gf (sat) she was cramping. she told me that she had been having symptoms of her getting her period all month...

*keep in mind the stress that she had to go through in the last month...the practicum, family life, work, etc.*

tmi but we fked on saturday and there was some blood...i won't go into detail, but there was a lil bit.

on the way home, she said that she felt cramps.

i'unno. i read on this other site that women can have "spots" and thats a sign of pregnancy, but she took the test last week or so and it came out negative, which is GREAT. so i dunno whether the blood was spotting or just her starting her period or getting ready to or whatever. anyway, its been a few days over a month since her last period.

[Reveal]

So I'm wondering what to do when your girl either intentionally or intentionally tries to make you jealous. For instance, my girl right now, she'll tell me stories sometiems (or was it just one time) when she was working and some hot guy(s) came in. Or like yesterday, I introduced her to my roomate, who did nothing but shake her hand and said howdy, and after he walked away, she nodded her head with a smile on her face. I know jealousy is not an attractive trait, so what can I do to sort of counter situations like that? Do I do the same back to her? Ignore it? What do I do?

[Havoc]

If she does it in your face, most likely, she wouldn't really care if you did it back, so if your goal is to get her to stop, that won't work.

Just talk to her. She'll either stop, or she won't.

[c0rderr0y]

So I'm wondering what to do when your girl either intentionally or intentionally tries to make you jealous. For instance, my girl right now, she'll tell me stories sometiems (or was it just one time) when she was working and some hot guy(s) came in. Or like yesterday, I introduced her to my roomate, who did nothing but shake her hand and said howdy, and after he walked away, she nodded her head with a smile on her face. I know jealousy is not an attractive trait, so what can I do to sort of counter situations like that? Do I do the same back to her? Ignore it? What do I do?

Jealousy is a dangerous thing..... I am currently fighting the urges to do something back.... I believe doing something back to get even just shows how immature you are, just try to be the better person.

[G1itch]

I was wondering if anyone has any experience with this...

Long story short

I met a chick: pretty, intelligent, funny, etc. Overall great. at a club. We started dating. first date went great. We start talking everyday. We go into conversation about everything. Even conversations, such as sex, that I would believe people who are attracted to one another would talk about. While we date she goes into how her ex this and that. Pretty much saying how she didn't want a relationship. I understood and didn't try anything. She even cries about it two nights before she kisses me.

Needless to say after she kissed me I thought her mind was changed. This past Friday we go to the movies. She was completely different. Holding her hand was a mission. We ended up not talking at all Saturday. Sunday night she calls and tells me that she only wants to be friends, nothing else.

Now I like her. I'll admit, I caught some feelings for her even though it's only been 2 weeks. Nothing serious. But I can't see myself being her friend rather I can't see myself going out and hanging out with a girl and