The Woman/Girl Thread: Sex, Relationships, FAQs Pt. 2

[Ducky]

First things first, they want to know if you have a girl friend. Always tell them yes, cause girls LOVE what they cant have.

If a video game nerd tells a girl they have a girlfriend, that girl will instantly know that they are lying their ass off and it's game over at that point. Either that or she will laugh her ass off and walk away when the nerd tells her about his "online girlfriend."

[Kisame]

Seriously ask alot and ask often.

Dont be shy.

Have good hygiene.

Dont limit your options to only the sexiest girls.


If you follow all those I can see with a girl at the end of the week

[*InVeRs3*]

When getting a girl remember, you dont HAVE to look good. Thats just a plus. What you need is personality, girls like guys who got game. You have to give them some attention, but not too much cause they dont like things that are too easy. In other words, be an ass hole. Its the best, most advanced way of doing things. First things first, they want to know if you have a girl friend. Always tell them yes, cause girls LOVE what they cant have. Be socioalable, but dont talk to them about stupid things like, "hows your life", "whats your favoraite movie", "blah blah". Dont be affraidn to talk about yourself either, they want to know about how great you are. BUT DONT ALWAYS TALK ABOUT YOURSELF. Associate what you do with what they do and make yourself look hummble, but at the same time great. When dancing dont be affrraid to bring her in close to you. Do a little naughty dancing and have some fun. the more you do it the easier it gets, and youi will eventually get used to it.

So why am i doing this: cause im awesome and i wont you video game people to know, its okay to not look perfect. I see many guys who look ooookay get wounderful girls. WHY? cause they got game yo.

I am totally not drunk!


copypate from dustloop

stfu

The only game you got is video games.

lolololol bad puns yay

[Sephiroth_KMFDM]

Step up your game, Girls love guys that can play as Q.

[Z!M]

the only word of advice i can say is LISTEN!! Bitches love a guy who likes to hear them talk.

[Mr. Mamation]

yoyu can tell them you play gfgaems
they wiilll thingk yout jokeing and lauph
thats good
oh shit whats goning on

[Allosaurus]

I am totally not drunk!


LIES

[Kisame]

the only word of advice i can say is LISTEN!! Bitches love a guy who likes to hear them talk.

nah thats after you have them. Listening before you get them as your woman only leads to becoming one of the girlfriends

[fishjie]

If a video game nerd tells a girl they have a girlfriend, that girl will instantly know that they are lying their ass off and it's game over at that point. Either that or she will laugh her ass off and walk away when the nerd tells her about his "online girlfriend."

WHAT?!! ONLINE GIRLFRIENDS DONT COUNT?!?!?!?111 (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?p=4142738&highlight=myspace+page#post4142738)

hilarity highlighted in red

read rest of thread for great justice

[GC!?]

video game nerds can get girlfriends, all you gotta do is TRAIN HARD PLAYING DATING SIMS :cool::cool::cool::cool:

[Mr. Bastos]

doesn't this belong in the relationships thread? or at least the drunk thread

[Mr. Mamation]

i didnt know trhere are such threadsz

[ST Vega]

Step up your game, Girls love guys that can play as Q.

Epic truth. :tup:

[TornadoFlame]

i didnt know trhere are such threadsz

See this post here, ur drunk as fuck. Ur even ignoring the spell check now. I've seen u post in correct english numerous of times. Good night, and get of dustloop too.

[Thongboy Bebop]

I once lied about how good I am at Street Fighter to get laid. I lied UP.

It's not difficult and you don't have to hide anything about yourself, just don't be an idiot about it. Guys who are into anything as much as the average SRKer is into Street Fighter have the potential to get really fucking annoying about it if they drone on and/or aren't that interesting a person to begin with. But if you're already a decent guy and don't obsess publicly, it's just another hobby without a special stigma attached to it.

In short, if you can't get laid it not Street Fighter's fault. It's your lack of aesthetic appeal.

N - That means you're ugly.

[Mr. Mamation]

See this post here, ur drunk as fuck. Ur even ignoring the spell check now. I've seen u post in correct english numerous of times. Good night, and get of dustloop too.

i cant
how do i do itr

[V4MPIRO]

Stop buying Video Games and get some nice clothes wash your mouth 3 times at day , and please take a shower.

[Irennicus]

You know how I get laid? I don't ask permission.

[Silks]

Haven't we done this before? srk.com: the place to get all your dating advice.

[SlayerofBodom]

What the fuck is the point of this thread again? An opportunity for a drunk virgin to bullshit about things he clearly doesn't understand, and likely never will?

[Mr. Mamation]

the point is
im drunk
and its good
that is all


edit: I FDO IT FOR THE LULZ
a coruption of L O L

[#7 with Heaven]

get a girl who's a video game nerd too :wink:

(hey, they exist, some of 'em are pretty cute too)

[JackTenrac!]

She said no. Probably next time.

...aww well.

[Z!M]

wouldnt know on how to get a girl anymore cause im engaged to the same woman for 4 years now. All i remember is that we would stay up till like 5 talking and messing around, but she was my friend for like 7 years so yeah i see the girl friend part.

l

[#7 with Heaven]

...that went badly ?

b00m head sho

[JackTenrac!]

One way to find out if he is drunk: Make him take the wall test.

[JackTenrac!]

Pretty much. Come to think of it: she didn't even attempt to reschedule. If she was even interested alittle, she'd attempt to do so. Another loss for bear, yet another win for research.

[Ducky]

WHAT?!! ONLINE GIRLFRIENDS DONT COUNT?!?!?!?111 (http://forums.shoryuken.com/showthread.php?p=4142738&highlight=myspace+page#post4142738)

hilarity highlighted in red

read rest of thread for great justice

Damn, having skills with girls in real life just pales in comparison to macking on underage hoes on myspace. :rofl:

[Ill E]

^ youll find another chick soon, trust me....

[ChibiT89]

Pretty much. Come to think of it: she didn't even attempt to reschedule. If she was even interested alittle, she'd attempt to do so. Another loss for bear, yet another win for research.

pho sure buddy, keep on truckin!

[ShawnLoganownzu]

What the fuck is the point of this thread again? An opportunity for a drunk virgin to bullshit about things he clearly doesn't understand, and likely never will?

What the fuck is the point of your post again? An opportunity for a dumb virgin to whine about things clearly no one cares about, and likely never will?

[Phoenix Wright]

Can someone give me examples of open ended questions? Or situations where open ended questions can be used, smart comments bla bla... I can conversate easily, i just have a hard tome figuring out what kind of questions to ask.

[blindspot]

I guess getting drunk is phase 1. The 2nd part is going out there and meeting them, not typing about it. More exposure=less pressure.
Its time for a fantastic voyage :tup::rofl:

[Shadow Ace 50]

What the fuck is the point of this thread again? An opportunity for a drunk virgin to bullshit about things he clearly doesn't understand, and likely never will?

Impressivly Accurate...:rofl::rofl: good shit

[Master Chibi]

What the fuck is the point of this thread again? An opportunity for a drunk virgin to bullshit about things he clearly doesn't understand, and likely never will?

:rofl:

Damn, why you getting mad?

[fjf314]

I would not recommend looking to your avatar for advice.

[Mr. Mamation]

What the fuck is the point of this thread again? An opportunity for a drunk virgin to bullshit about things he clearly doesn't understand, and likely never will?

YOU DONT KNOW ME
why would you give away my true secret????

<---------
hangover
very irritable

this thread was totally not supposed to be taken seriously.

[ShawnLoganownzu]

Can someone give me examples of open ended questions? Or situations where open ended questions can be used, smart comments bla bla... I can conversate easily, i just have a hard tome figuring out what kind of questions to ask.

I find it best to find a highly debatable topic that she likes(even if you dont care about it, let her rant) and make sure its other than politics... often i just take the other side of the fence to argue against them, let them win the argument.. at this point i tell them im playing the *im done talking to you because you out argued me card*.. if the girl isnt a fucktard she will start the conversation back up with her own questions, etc... and well if she is, then you gotta keep on with random shit.. it's kinda hard for me to think of questions without knowing the situation, just have a stockpile ready for the situations.

[Starhammer]

1:Crowbar.
2:Apply directly to the forehead.
3:Take home for surprise sex.
4:Discard in neighbor's yard.

-Starhammer-

[fishjie]

1:Crowbar.
2:Apply directly to the forehead.
3:Take home for surprise sex.
4:Discard in neighbor's yard.

-Starhammer-

*takes notes*

crowbar > chloroform?

[Devil X]

Girls really don't care. In fact usually they're happy that that is a hobby you have instead of something worse. Only warcraft and games of that nature seem to ruin shit. Some see it as immature but o well,I'm already immature without video games so it wasn't going to work with those broads anyway.

[Sacr3D]

I got game son. *Puts spanish fly in drink*

[MrBlank]

Hey i almost have a girlfriend - SRK Timeless Classic.

[pherai]

As lame as this thread is, I'd say there's some truth to it. Be an asshole and you'll get women. If you're too afraid to be mean to women, get money.

[Carpet Lint]

You know how I get laid? I don't ask permission.
Three words...

CHLO. RO. FORM.

That's how we do.

[Ho0v-Man]

"To barrel roll, press Z or R twice!"

[Black Chanler]

"Im am the great Leon!!!!!"

[TempestFox]

Mamation for the win.

[SlayerofBodom]

What the fuck is the point of your post again? An opportunity for a dumb virgin to whine about things clearly no one cares about, and likely never will?

Good one dipshit....you only copied the EXACT SAME FUCKING INSULT I had just made. How long did it take your functionally retarded, diseased brain to correctly use the copy and paste feature and change two words?

Do us all a favor, and shoot yourself in the face. Your contribution to this topic is stupidity, and your overall existence is worthless.

this thread was totally not supposed to be taken seriously.

I was just disappointed because I thought it would be a hilarious example of a loser nerd begging for advice about girls on SRK, or some advice related to rape and drugging.

Unfortunately, the thread didn't deliver the goods.

[Ducky]

Three words...

CHLO. RO. FORM.

That's how we do.

"Hey girl, you looking good... I have a question, does this rag smell like chloroform to you?"

[ShawnLoganownzu]

Good one dipshit....you only copied the EXACT SAME FUCKING INSULT I had just made. How long did it take your functionally retarded, diseased brain to correctly use the copy and paste feature and change two words?

Do us all a favor, and shoot yourself in the face. Your contribution to this topic is stupidity, and your overall existence is worthless.


First, i changed more than two words.. i am sorry you lack the ability to count correctly, last i checked you learn that in pre-k school but i will gladly tutor you

Second, I am glad you are so stupid to point out the obvious things, such as me copy and pasting your post... thats what we call *mocking* an individual. www.dictionary.com will define the word *mock* for you because i am sure your third grade education can not even use context clues to decipher the meaning

Third, functionally retarded does not have the meaning you were hoping to imply there. Maybe you should learn what it means. Also if my brain was diseased, i would most likely be in a hospital, not at work typing on srk

Fourth, I know more about computers than your whole family ever will, yes, even more than your molesting father.

Fifth, my contribution to this thread was pointing out the fact that no one in this thread, or in this world for that matter, cares about you and what you say. Even if i shot myself in the face, my corpse would contribute more to the world than you ever have and ever will.

[Dasiatic]

let her play with your joystick

Hot ass Bitch: "I dont know...um...I dont be doing this type of shit. besides, this is my first time and everything...."

You: "aww cmon"

Hot ass bitch: "i cant...i just cant. MY mom would be home soon. What would she say when she sees me having sex at 13?"

You: "sex? wha? aint nobody having sex round here."

Hot ass bitch: umm....but we were about to-"

You: "nah, we're not fuckin, baby. we at the arcades ." *unzips pants*
"now, beast on....beast on."


First, i changed more than two words.. i am sorry you lack the ability to count correctly, last i checked you learn that in pre-k school but i will gladly tutor you

Second, I am glad you are so stupid to point out the obvious things, such as me copy and pasting your post... thats what we call *mocking* and individual. www.dictionary.com will define the word *mock* for you because i am sure your third grade education can not even use context clues to decipher the meaning

Third, functionally retarded does not have the meaning you were hoping to imply there. Maybe you should learn what it means. Also if my brain was diseased, i would most likely be in a hospital, not at work typing on srk

Fourth, I know more about computers than your whole family ever will, yes, even more than your molesting father.

Fifth, my contribution to this thread was pointing out the fact that no one in this thread, or in this world for that matter, cares about you and what you say. Even if i shot myself in the face, my corpse would contribute more to the world than you ever have and ever will.

oooo weeeee.

[R.P.D rookie]

"Im am the great Leon!!!!!"



"Can't let you do that, StarFox!"

[KryptoniteBoots]

When getting a girl remember, you dont HAVE to look good. Thats just a plus.
No, that's ugly nigga speak.

[SRKev]

^ Absolute truth, don't think you can approach a fine ass girl looking bummy as fuck. Step your grooming up.

[Mr. Mamation]

snip

funny thing, my freinds irl asked me questions about this kind of thing. I was drunk, so i decided that everyone should know about my logic (drunkard logic :P). It was fun, and thats all that matters to me.
Now on the real side of things, i am a video game nerd but i also have a life outside that with partying and going to clubs so i do have expereince. I am not the best person to consult about this but the basic things i can say that was true in that post was that for MOST woman....
Be an ass hole
Girls love what they cant have
Looks isnt everything (luckily i dont ahve that problem)

edit: Thanks for whoever moved this, i didnt know there was a thread for it XD
my bad

[*InVeRs3*]

a guy i know went through some crazy soap opera crap a few years ago. his ex got into a car accident and all she knows is him. she called him like every 10 min, she couldn't remember she called him every 10 min though.

not related but what if your girl got into a crocodile viewing accident and a croc bit her leg, maybe even both her eyes.

well, my point is, how would you go about getting a divorce ASAP if you were in this situation?

yeah i'm a prick but at least i'm honest and i'm saying what many, many people are thinking.

[SlayerofBodom]

First, i changed more than two words.. i am sorry you lack the ability to count correctly, last i checked you learn that in pre-k school but i will gladly tutor you

Second, I am glad you are so stupid to point out the obvious things, such as me copy and pasting your post... thats what we call *mocking* an individual. www.dictionary.com will define the word *mock* for you because i am sure your third grade education can not even use context clues to decipher the meaning

Third, functionally retarded does not have the meaning you were hoping to imply there. Maybe you should learn what it means. Also if my brain was diseased, i would most likely be in a hospital, not at work typing on srk

Fourth, I know more about computers than your whole family ever will, yes, even more than your molesting father.

Fifth, my contribution to this thread was pointing out the fact that no one in this thread, or in this world for that matter, cares about you and what you say. Even if i shot myself in the face, my corpse would contribute more to the world than you ever have and ever will.

This is fucking hilarious; this nutcase comes into a random thread, types out paragraphs and paragraphs of random, non-sequitur insults about me, and then has the gall to say that he's cool and smart?

Did I fuck your mom and sister or something? Is that why you're so obsessed with me, and riding my balls?

Go back to masturbating, you useless waste of human flesh; I'm not interested in you.

Edit

Ha ha, I just noticed Shawn Logan, perpetual virgin, edited his post half an hour after originally posting it. Nice to see I have psychos locked up in their mom's basement stalking me on SRK.

[Mr. Mamation]

ah srk general discussion
wut with all the hate?

i guess you didnt reserve dat madden

[SlayerofBodom]

ah srk general discussion
wut with all the hate?

i guess you didnt reserve dat madden

It's all about NBA Live, chump.

[Black Chanler]

"Can't let you do that, StarFox!"

"Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!"

StarFox64 is full of unintentional win

[Irennicus]

LOL @ Whoever negged me for my rape comment. I know sarcasm doesn't travel well over the internet man but learn to fucking read between the lines.

[SlayerofBodom]

I have a serious question to ask for once;

my friend and I were arguing about how long one should wait before calling a girl after she gives you her number. He usually calls the very next day. I tend to wait about three or four days.

What about the rest of SRK?

[FurryCurry]

I have a serious question to ask for once;

my friend and I were arguing about how long one should wait before calling a girl after she gives you her number. He usually calls the very next day. I tend to wait about three or four days.

What about the rest of SRK?

I say a few days. The next day just seems so sudden and you don't want to make it look like you are desperate.

[JackTenrac!]

...does this mean that she doesn't want a thing to do with me?

[GreyFoxx]

Alright have something too toss here well i attended a wedding some years ago for one of my friends. During the reception i ran into one of the brides maids and did something nice cant remember yet had a slight thing for her. Name was jasmine 1 kid and such come too find out she works at my friends gas station as a cashier. She got a divorce and moved and such. My boy says i should talk too her she has a happy go lucky care free attitude with things and seems like a nice gal

Now here how it gets hairy how should i approach this situation? She works from 2-12 thurs-sun and kinda the shy type plus the place is kinda out of my way.

[BBQ]

I have a serious question to ask for once;

my friend and I were arguing about how long one should wait before calling a girl after she gives you her number. He usually calls the very next day. I tend to wait about three or four days.

What about the rest of SRK?

That's some high school bs when it comes to the "3 day rule." If you like the girl call her when you want to. My last girlfriend I called her, 2 days after because I was having a killer hang over from the night I met her and well I really didn't want to talk to any one that day.





So I got a question to all who goes to dance clubs. I think approaching women off the floor, talking to them, and then to dance with them works A LOT better then going to the dance floor and randomly pick a girl and start grinding on her when she least expects it. Last week I tried this and the entire night I was dancing with one of the hottest girls in the club. I'm just wondering if any one else does this and if they got any input on getting girls to dance with you for more then a minute with out running off with their friends.

[Taito]

^ I've seen it work both ways.. some girls like the dudes who aren't scared to get what they want, while some girls might be surprised and flattered that one guy in the club actually talked to them before jamming their crotch in her butt. I'd mix and match your approaches for maximum effect.. but in general, a well-adjusted woman with self-esteem doesn't want to meet a strange dude that only looks at them as a fuckdoll..

No matter what girl you end up with, the most important strategy to picking somebody up at a club imo is to arrive early and grab the digits before all the hardcore players conquer your territory. If you wait 2-3 hours before the club closes, all the eligible girls will be claimed up, and you'll just be left talking with the ones in a bad mood or tied down or too stuck up to talk to anybody..

EDIT: And I never did the ninja grinding thing, I always asked a girl if they wanna dance and judged her body language by the response she gives me.. if she has some actual dance moves then she might be somebody that's cool to talk to on some friendly shit.. if she just wants to back it up on me for more than one song then I know what's up from there, if she's hands-off then she's not interested.

[Javid]

^ I've seen it work both ways.. some girls like the dudes who aren't scared to get what they want, while some girls might be surprised and flattered that one guy in the club actually talked to them before jamming their crotch in her butt. I'd mix and match your approaches for maximum effect.. but in general, a well-adjusted woman with self-esteem doesn't want to meet a strange dude that only looks at them as a fuckdoll..

No matter what girl you end up with, the most important strategy to picking somebody up at a club imo is to arrive early and grab the digits before all the hardcore players conquer your territory. If you wait 2-3 hours before the club closes, all the eligible girls will be claimed up, and you'll just be left talking with the ones in a bad mood or tied down or too stuck up to talk to anybody..

While we're on the subject of this, let us not forget that your chances of finding a quality girl at the club are next to nothing:sad:

[katraqueyous]

I have a serious question to ask for once;

my friend and I were arguing about how long one should wait before calling a girl after she gives you her number. He usually calls the very next day. I tend to wait about three or four days.

What about the rest of SRK?

Try to stretch that to 5 to 9 days. Its a sure fire way to find out if she likes you or not.

[SNAAAAKE]

is it a bad idea to ask a girl to get tested ? I am really paranoid when it comes to sex. I am willing to do the same..after that we can do whatever we want.

how do you guys handle situations like this ?

[BBQ]

I dunno, if you have to ask a girl to get tested, maybe there is more to it then just being sure.
I would bring it up in a coversation. Just mention that you wouldn't mind getting tested and see what she thinks. Maybe ask a little about her past with her ex's. I don't know, I never asked a girl to get tested.....yet.

[Taito]

While we're on the subject of this, let us not forget that your chances of finding a quality girl at the club are next to nothing:sad:
I'd say that's the rule with plenty of exceptions. The coolest and most down-to-earth folks you can meet at a club are the ones working there (like the DJ, the bouncers, or 'the barrrrtendrrr'). They have higher interests than partying and whoring their life away like everyone else, yet they're usually outgoing and have the same general party interests that you should have if you're in a club in the first place.. and again, the best time to talk to them is earlier in the night or on an off-night/weekday..

And there's also the hookup benefits if you get in good with the club staff.. I think this was all discussed in another thread a month or two back..

[SNAAAAKE]

well..she is just random-ass nobody I met from myspace. there is no reason for me to accuse her of anything. but I honestly don't trust anyone. to me, ALL girls are whores until proven otherwise :confused:

If I were to actually ask her something like that..whats the best way to bring this up ??

[terracotta]

good tips on meeting girls at clubs there. i just started clubbing, so it's nice to hear some good rules of thumb.

[Omid]

Pretty much. Come to think of it: she didn't even attempt to reschedule. If she was even interested alittle, she'd attempt to do so. Another loss for bear, yet another win for research.
Sorry to hear that bro but you'll get there, you did already know from the start that she was a ''no man needed'' type but can't you two just keep friends? I mean, sure we all want a girlfriend but having a normal friend isn't all too bad; through her, you can meet one of her female friends and still get a date; good plan or a bad one?

[Javid]

I'd say that's the rule with plenty of exceptions. The coolest and most down-to-earth folks you can meet at a club are the ones working there (like the DJ, the bouncers, or 'the barrrrtendrrr'). They have higher interests than partying and whoring their life away like everyone else, yet they're usually outgoing and have the same general party interests that you should have if you're in a club in the first place.. and again, the best time to talk to them is earlier in the night or on an off-night/weekday..

And there's also the hookup benefits if you get in good with the club staff.. I think this was all discussed in another thread a month or two back..


I agree with you there. People that work their are totally different than the ones that go there for "fun". When I see some of the shit girls do at the clubs I've been to I'm like :confused: is this girl for real. Sure it's all nice to look at and all, but can you really look at this girl as anything more.

[Koop]

good tips on meeting girls at clubs there. i just started clubbing, so it's nice to hear some good rules of thumb.

I will let others answer this cause I will need to break down my theory equation of clubbin for you...

but let me say this my friend from my street fighter loving heart:

DONT EXPECT MUCH FROM THE CLUB SCENE

i say that cause i care.... enjoy it for what it is an dont take it higher.


Koop

[Ho0v-Man]

well..she is just random-ass nobody I met from myspace. there is no reason for me to accuse her of anything. but I honestly don't trust anyone. to me, ALL girls are whores until proven otherwise :confused:

If I were to actually ask her something like that..whats the best way to bring this up ??

Good thinking.:tup: I'm the same way. Just bring it up when stuff starts going in a physical direction. Just be like "Hey...I don't think we should yet. My rule of thumb is to get tested before I do this stuff--And it's not you, it's with anyone...I just wanna look out for both of us so there's no doubts, ok?"

She'll be kinda thrown for a loop, but she'll appreciate your concern in the long run. And if she doesn't and just wants to fuck b/c it's "probably fine" then get out; because she's just been proven to be a whore.

Also, do this before the clothes are lost. That way you're still capable of making decisions.:wink:

[funkymusic]

Ive never read or posted in this thread but ive always known it existed...

Well your boy Funky music is goin thru some bitch shit. Basically In the light of my new job this woman decides that its time for us to split in the middle of the month and tells me i have be out by 1st. So now i gotta get a random apt asap. Shit is bullshit and im tired of this woman ruining my life over some shit that aint got nothing to do with me. "ITS CALLED SELF ESTEEM BITCH" (In Katt Williams voice) Im not really here for advice just needed to get that off my chest and let anyone else know thats going thru some hard shit and really being tested in life. That you got a spartan on your side and we fixin to take these bitches to the cliffs.

THEY LOOK THIRSTY.

*suscribes*

[Black Chanler]

So yeah my car went to hell and the game plan is to just sell my joint now and get a new one sometime in January 08.

I'll be without a car for months, is the world of women automatically shitty when the dude doesn't have a whip?

[funkymusic]

So yeah my car went to hell and the game plan is to just sell my joint now and get a new one sometime in January 08.

I'll be without a car for months, is the world of women automatically shitty when the dude doesn't have a whip?

Plain and simple. Yea IMO

But if you got game u got game. Fuck a car.

[Ali M]

but I honestly don't trust anyone. to me, ALL girls are whores until proven otherwise


Word up son.. word.




I just found out my ex-girl got a girlfriend.. I thought it was kinda hot and made me want to get back with her more till I saw "her".. jeez :wasted:

[Taito]

Plain and simple. Yea IMO

But if you got game u got game. Fuck a car.
Seriously. NEVER underestimate the powers of game.. if you think you're shit because you don't have a ride, fine.. that doesn't mean anyone you're interested in has to think the same way about you.

[Dasiatic]

Word up son.. word.




I just found out my ex-girl got a girlfriend.. I thought it was kinda hot and made me want to get back with her more till I saw "her".. jeez :wasted:

you saw her "jeez"?
on who?

[EvilKing]

ok, sex tips.

I'm seeing a girl who's really into getting oral, and i've never really had much to practice since my ex didn't like it.

That shit might be too personal for you guys to talk about here, but where can i get some tips on the net? (I downloaded a vid that was supposed to give tips from a pr0n site and it fucking sucked :bluu:)

[Ill E]

^ there was a guide on this a couple of pages back...




I just found out my ex-girl got a girlfriend.. I thought it was kinda hot and made me want to get back with her more till I saw "her".. jeez :wasted:

lol..."My girl got a girlfriend!" (c) Dro

[AcEtUrNeDjOkEr]

^ there was a guide on this a couple of pages back...




lol..."My girl got a girlfriend!" (c) Dro

"bet you didn't know, she goes both ways.." - Devin the Dude

[Havoc]

Eating pussy is easy. FInd the clit. Play with it for a little while... move aroud.... come back to the clit.... stay there.

Speaking of oral, I just got head with a condom for the first time. It's actually not as wack as I always figured it was.

Anyone else do this? I might stck with this....

For the record, I rock Durex ultra-slims.

[SNAAAAKE]

ok, sex tips.

I'm seeing a girl who's really into getting oral, and i've never really had much to practice since my ex didn't like it.

That shit might be too personal for you guys to talk about here, but where can i get some tips on the net? (I downloaded a vid that was supposed to give tips from a pr0n site and it fucking sucked :bluu:)


stick a finger in her pie hole and move it around inside and lick da clit at the same time. thank me later :tup:

you better make sure the girl is clean though because eating dirty HOs is the easiest way to catch something(ok not the easiest but still not safe).



Speaking of oral, I just got head with a condom for the first time. It's actually not as wack as I always figured it was.



agree. nowhere near as bad as I thought it would be. I had a stripper blow me in the "private lap dance" room once. this is was in Canda btw(random I know haha)

[FallingEdge]

What I usually do is as I'm eating her out/sucking/licking the clit, I stick my finger in and attack the clit from the "inside." My tongue is applying pleasure on the outside and my finger is working the clit from the inside.

[Ill E]

"bet you didn't know, she goes both ways.." - Devin the Dude

"they be beepin me, but we dont kick it no mo'"

[Toodles]

I am the Clit fucking Commander.

Okay, when you stick your finger, do it upside down (palm facing you), and get a feel for whats in there, especially on the top. Right as you put it, right where the bone is or just after, is a little baloon like bladder. Not her peeing bladder, its her squirting bladder. Light pressure and movement there is good and helps get her warmed up. Just past that is the corduroy feeling stuff on the top. You don't really need much pressure against it, just movement. Different people call different areas 'the G spot', but that corduroy area seems to be the most common, so I'll be calling that the G sport. Now, just past the G spot, the tissue stops being corduroy and goes back to smooth. That my friends is my favorite spot and it does some magical shit. For some reason, it seems better just to the left (your left) of center, but get your finger so its pressing up against the smooth spot, immediately after the corduroy ends, so your finger is resting agaisnt the G spot, but pressing on the smooth. Unless you got some serious banana hands, your middle finger will be all the way in. Do NOT try this unless she has warmed up quite a bit; if she's multi orgasmic, she should have had at least one before you try this. You can move it around a little if you want, but all you need is a good amount of pressure up agaisnt the spot while you're working the clit with your tongue. As she gets closer to cumming, the pressure should increase to about all of the pressure you can put with just the finger. Pay attention and adjust the pressure; if she isn't well worked up, it won't work and it'll be uncomfortable. If she's close, it'll be awesome when she does cum.

Random tips:
1. Start slow, and work your way in slowly. Lightly rub over the bladder, then later put the finger in without putting pressure on any walls and move it in and out. Later, slightly increase the pressure against the G spot during the in and out. When she's ready for a big one, find the smooth spot I mentioned and slowly increase pressure; all the while working your tongue on the clit.
2. For some reason, the 1 o'clock spot on the clit seems to get the most reaction for me.
3. Have music on in the background so you can keep your rythm. Rythm is very important!
4. Synchronize your tongue and finger. Each back and forth or up and down with the tongue should match the in and out with the finger. Does not apply when using steady pressure on the smooth spot I mentioned. Just slowly increase pressure.
5. The weird bean feeling thing on the bottom of her insides is her cervix; you can lightly circle it when she's really into it, but otherwise leave it alone. Seems to be a pretty uncomfortable spot unless she's close to cumming.
6. When you can tell she's really close to cumming, your instinct may be to go faster or do it harder. DON'T! Keep the exact same rythm, pressure, and actions you were doing when you realized she was about to. You can SLIGHTLY increase speed and pressure, after about 30 seconds to a minute after you realize, but the instinct to go for broke and pound away must be avoided!

[funkymusic]

Just spell the alphabet on her clit with your tongue. Work some finger action and by the time u get to S she`ll be all yours. The only real prob ive heard from women is that men dont know what or where the clit is.

[Dasiatic]

Once bitches have experienced cunnilingus, most of them might enojoy it thoroughly,and find it great for intimacy.
before you do this shit, fellas, remember that any woman who presses reluctance to let you go down on her, however, should be handled with care.
Last thing you want her to do is to put off the idea of oral for good.

another tip for cunnilingus, is to make it gradual, like Toodles said.
It takes several stages for a women to get turned on, differenct than how a man can instantly get boners from the mere sight of a women.

fisrt rule is, to never go instantly for the pussy. never make a beeline for her vulva after only a couple of kisses and rubbing. A women likes to think that she's way more than just a vagina with personality.


you, bitch ass niggas.




I am the Clit fucking Commander.



you know this thread is'nt big enough for the two of us.
one of us has to leave, stricly for balance purposes.
too much knowledge can fuck this whole place up.

[RyuHikaru]

Just spell the alphabet on her clit with your tongue. Work some finger action and by the time u get to S she`ll be all yours. The only real prob ive heard from women is that men dont know what or where the clit is.

That tires you out a bit.:wasted:

[Ali M]

Eating pussy is easy. FInd the clit. Play with it for a little while... move aroud.... come back to the clit.... stay there.


eating pussy is like playing an instrument, you play it right and you'll get this wonderful sound...




but if you miss a note...

[funkymusic]

That tires you out a bit.:wasted:

Man up. Atleast you dont have to suck a dick. :rofl:

[Dasiatic]

Man up. Atleast you dont have to suck a dick. :rofl:

heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey.

[RyuHikaru]

Man up. Atleast you dont have to suck a dick. :rofl:

I lol'd hard, man.

I gotta clean up water on my keyboard now, thanks :tdown: :rofl:

[cocoumi]

This is the funniest thread I've ever read! lol

[AdverseSolutions]

yo so i hit up this girl i met in a bar awhile back (about a month ago). i was with my wingman and we picked up on her and her friend and got numbers. i just took a month long vacation so when i got back i was like yo let's go out and she sent me like a couple of somewhat enthusiastic mails but then every day i suggested for a date she's like im busy or i have to work. after a couple mails she said she's busy til september....think i'm getting blown off? maybe went a little too enthusiastic into the emails? sucks, she's gorgeous.

[BBQ]

It's time for a rant in here:

I've been a little stressed out lately, mainly tuition was due yesterday and long story short, I couldn't pay for it. So with the thought of possibly getting dropped from school in the back of my mind I still decided to go to the club with my friends one last time. This one guy got a ride from a friend of his which happens to be a girl. Kind of chunky but not really she had a cute face. This guy goes crazy in the club and ends up leaving her sitting at the table kind of lonely.

So I start talking to her, I have met her before kind of briefly but I finish breaking the ice and we have an alright conversation. So I end up flirting with her a little bit, and talk about things but I'm not full of energy like I always am when ever I am at the club because of the whole ordeal with school. So there are times where there's the long silence but she seems kind of interested in me. Then this one guy who her friend kind of knows talks about a drink or something and she kind of ignores him and has her eyes set on me. Ok, this girl for tonight is mine. So I buy her a shot, and earlier I brought up about if she likes to dance. She does and mentions that I sound like I can't wait to dance with her. Not really the case, but I go along anyway and say that I do.

So my friends come back from looking around and they all want to hit the dance floor. The guy that left her comes back, and before I continue, he does not want anything to do with her at the club but she notices him skipping onto the dance floor and she runs off after him. I slowly follow her and that's when I start getting confused. This guy is dancing with other girls and she is trying to dance with him. I am kind of off to the side dancing a little bit trying to get her to come dance with me. Just like the guy that asked her about the drink, she does the same shit to me and still tries to dance with the guy. I see my friends pointing to me to dance with them and I go.

Later on she shows up by herself and I think "oh she is going to want to dance with me" but yet again she ignores me and tries to dance with one of my friends who she knows he has a girl and he does not want anything to do with her either.

Basically she wants to dance with guys that don't want anything to do with her because either they don't like her or they know I was the guy giving her the damn attention that no one else was giving her. And what sealed the deal was she ended up spending the rest of the night dancing with the guy that asked her about the drink even though he was with his girlfriend the entire time.

The end of the night my friend got kicked out for trying to defend his brother from an asshole, and when I was sitting with him getting some air, the girl comes out and tries to be buddy buddy with me, she even had the nerve to ask why I was bummed out.

So SRK, I'm asking you, what the fuck happened here? It's not a big deal especially compared to the tuition issue but I'm a little heated that this happened. I played all my cards right and some how this bitch roll cancels and resets the game. What's worse is that I might have to see her on friday night at my friend's bonfire he's holding.

[Koop]

It's time for a rant in here:

I've been a little stressed out lately, mainly tuition was due yesterday and long story short, I couldn't pay for it. So with the thought of possibly getting dropped from school in the back of my mind I still decided to go to the club with my friends one last time. This one guy got a ride from a friend of his which happens to be a girl. Kind of chunky but not really she had a cute face. This guy goes crazy in the club and ends up leaving her sitting at the table kind of lonely.

So I start talking to her, I have met her before kind of briefly but I finish breaking the ice and we have an alright conversation. So I end up flirting with her a little bit, and talk about things but I'm not full of energy like I always am when ever I am at the club because of the whole ordeal with school. So there are times where there's the long silence but she seems kind of interested in me. Then this one guy who her friend kind of knows talks about a drink or something and she kind of ignores him and has her eyes set on me. Ok, this girl for tonight is mine. So I buy her a shot, and earlier I brought up about if she likes to dance. She does and mentions that I sound like I can't wait to dance with her. Not really the case, but I go along anyway and say that I do.

So my friends come back from looking around and they all want to hit the dance floor. The guy that left her comes back, and before I continue, he does not want anything to do with her at the club but she notices him skipping onto the dance floor and she runs off after him. I slowly follow her and that's when I start getting confused. This guy is dancing with other girls and she is trying to dance with him. I am kind of off to the side dancing a little bit trying to get her to come dance with me. Just like the guy that asked her about the drink, she does the same shit to me and still tries to dance with the guy. I see my friends pointing to me to dance with them and I go.

Later on she shows up by herself and I think "oh she is going to want to dance with me" but yet again she ignores me and tries to dance with one of my friends who she knows he has a girl and he does not want anything to do with her either.

Basically she wants to dance with guys that don't want anything to do with her because either they don't like her or they know I was the guy giving her the damn attention that no one else was giving her. And what sealed the deal was she ended up spending the rest of the night dancing with the guy that asked her about the drink even though he was with his girlfriend the entire time.

The end of the night my friend got kicked out for trying to defend his brother from an asshole, and when I was sitting with him getting some air, the girl comes out and tries to be buddy buddy with me, she even had the nerve to ask why I was bummed out.

So SRK, I'm asking you, what the fuck happened here? It's not a big deal especially compared to the tuition issue but I'm a little heated that this happened. I played all my cards right and some how this bitch roll cancels and resets the game. What's worse is that I might have to see her on friday night at my friend's bonfire he's holding.


Simple.

You didn't get dissed. You didnt get roll canceled. It was the mear fact she had her eyes on someone else before you entered into the picture... dont take it bad... just next time find someone else an optimize your time with that person. cause I bet she looked at you as if you were the 'pressed/solo one' instead of her...

so find someone else... dont ever focus on one cause when you do you miss out on others in that type of situation.

i do have to fault you one point for not scorpian'd that ass by askin for a dance right then an there instead of relying on her...but all in all dont trip off it cause next time spot better.. get it... an watch the reaction from your other party.


Koop

[BBQ]

^Yeah I can't blame everything on her, at the time I was not in my zone and I felt out of it. And you are right about the whole relying on her because I did let her control the situation instead of the other way around. She wasn't really worth it anyway now that I look back and I can say that when I do see her on Friday I won't have a problem being in the same area with her and I can enjoy my night.

[Silentness!]

Ever since going through AF basic training and now Tech School I don't really care about relationships.

Having a full time job is awesome, keeps me busy and not thinking about girls 24/7.

[Ill E]

What's worse is that I might have to see her on friday night at my friend's bonfire he's holding.

Roll up to the party friday night with a girl (so this chick will you see with this girl) (and don't pay this chick from the club any mind or your time when you are at the party) That's all...

[BBQ]

^Well the bonfire over all sucked. There was more guys then girls, the girl at the club brought her sister and there were 2 other girls there. All of them had a particular guy they were leg humping to. I got drunk, talked shit about them literally behind their backs(like their back was 2 ft away from me). I got blazed, talked more shit, and went home.

I'm not too bummed out though, I was disappointed on wednesday, but that's in the past. I got a few more days until I drive off to college and there's going to be potential there for sure.

[Kusanagi02]

Ever since going through AF basic training and now Tech School I don't really care about relationships.

Having a full time job is awesome, keeps me busy and not thinking about girls 24/7.

Just a heads up for when you get to your permanent duty station.
Stay away from the dorm chicks at all costs.

[BBQ]

^Aren't they called Barracks Sluts in the air force? I also heard the training schools in the air force especially has the highest amount of cases for people contracting stds. So I'm guessing if you are anywhere near a air-woman, you should dress to MOP lvl 4 and don your mask.

[Kusanagi02]

^Aren't they called Barracks Sluts in the air force? I also heard the training schools in the air force especially has the highest amount of cases for people contracting stds. So I'm guessing if you are anywhere near a air-woman, you should dress to MOP lvl 4 and don your mask.

Dorm Hoes to be exact.
yeah training schools do have the highest std cases but of course thats to be expected. i mean you're talking about females and males who haven't gotten any since BMT.
Yeah the base where i'm at there's a big guy to girl ratio so of course any decent to hot chick that arrives every guy under the sun is putting their mack down trying to get in there pants.
Its more of a hassle bein with a military chick anyways. When i first got there this one chick that had some interest in me and we hit it off pretty good. Within three months of the relationship she threw the idea of us being married and i sort of roll canceled the question a couple of times and then finally told her i wasn't ready for it. Of course she got a little pissy about it so that relationship ended.

Bottom Line: Never ever hook up with a military chick.

[BBQ]

^I know man, army women are either butch dikes, or semi good looking std carriers. When I was in the army I never was into either and I was happy to get into a relationship with a girl that wasn't in the military and was almost done with college.

[Calibur]

Im 27.

I would say I have been in the game for about 10 years now.

The way I view women has changed so much over time.

I view relationships as a game. Yup, a simple game of balance.

The objective of the game is to get as much from you can from your partner, and manipulate them along the way.

This is tricky. If you do not manipulate them well, they will leave you for something better.

If you manipulate them too much, you will naturally loose interest, because it is impossible to love something that you can control absolutely.

And that is where long term relationships/marriage comes in.

A proper marriage has a couple that can manipulate each other to the point to where the other has the upperhand from time to time. Both of them stay, not neccesarily for something as basic as love, but out of need. They have a healthy fear of what will happen to their partner should they part ways, so they stay, and their partner is good at playing their game which builds love.

On another note, I think the amount of love comes, not from what is given, but how much is kept away. Look up Stokholm Syndrome if you dont understand what I mean.

What are your thoughts. Feel free to be emo, or to go on "women suck" rants, but try to back it up with objective patterns.

Discuss.

[pherai]

Dudes want pussy and bitches want money. If you want to get laid, you don't need to improve your personality, or quit video games, just make women believe you have money.

[Infested Jester]

Unless I see marriage or at least moving in together as a possibilty, I'll always venture to greener pastures. After living with a girlfriend my way of thinking for the past few years has been:

Friends with benefits>>>>>>serious relationship.

It's like having most of the good parts of a relationship, but with none of the bad parts. Eat, rent movie, fuck, say goodbyes, email each other in a week or so to get together again. No drama, guilt, worries, etc. Probably after I'm finished with the rest of the shit I want to do, mainly traveling...got 3 or 4 more countries on my list, I'll invest more time in this. For now though, this works for me, especially making a living with an overnight job.

[ShinAkumax]

Adding this to Jester's thougts.

1. I've never meet a woman that could keep up with me.

2. My goals > women

Make no mistakes, I enjoy their company very much. But I've already had success with the women, I seek personal success now. I've come to the conclusion that western values do not agree with my personal philosophy. If I got the opportunity to be in a polyamorous relationship, I would try that.

A LOT OF SRK LACKS GAME - PLAIN AND SIMPLE

Dudes want pussy and bitches want money. If you want to get laid, you don't need to improve your personality, or quit video games, just make women believe you have money.


That's too simplistic a view. There are a lot of people in life who have a greater purpose than finding a women. Money ain't a thing.


Notes: My view in marriage and relationships is different than yours in all accounts Cali, I don't even believe in them anymore in a traditional sense. Basically monogamy is boring and unrealistic.

Merge: NOOOOOOO! I didn't want to post in this thread.

[Taichi]

Taichi's Philosophy on Relationships:

Bitch leaves with what she brought.


You bring that car?, then you ain't leavin' with that car.
You bring that house?, then you ain't leavin' with that house.
You bring them kids?, then you ain't leavin' with them kids.

that's all there is to it.

[pherai]

That's too simplistic a view. There are a lot of people in life who have a greater purpose than finding a women. Money ain't a thing.

Its hard to cover all your bases in one sentence, but I think that statement accurately generalizes people. That's why rich unattractive guys like Donald Trump get hot ass bitches, and trailer trash guys always have fat wives. Of course there are exceptions to every rule, or I wouldn't still be with my girlfriend.

[ShinAkumax]

I think if you change the word money to power, it makes it a much more interesting statement. Your girlfriend is with you because she saw something valuable to her in you. ( Unless it's an arrange marriage. ) Value, worth or untimately, power is what makes people attractive.

Ultimately, is not what attracts people to each that's important, is what they do afterwards that matter.

Money/Looks/Personality the trinity of sex as my friend once said. My friend was wrong but it works in a simple scale.

I've had women of great beauty great and power. I had no money, but I had a lot of power over them because of my intellect and charm.

The main problem defining women as simply as money hungry whores is that, there are also money hungry men. People obsess over all sorta of trivial things.

Two people that marry over money are not less or greater than a couple that marries over love.

[pherai]

Yeah, I would say its a bit of both. Either way, its not a nice guy.

[Silentness!]

My luck with women is random:

*I run into dumbasses that need to be slapped across the head a couple times
*I run into cool chicks, but forget to get their phone number *slap head*

/shrug

[ShinAkumax]

Yeah, I would say its a bit of both. Either way, its not a nice guy.

How is he not a nice guy? Sex is also power, sex for money is just an exchange of power. Their motivations contrasted with your morals is what makes it " bad ". In my books, I had friends who used people for their money. It was a fair exchange and rent was paid, they are not bad people.

It doesn't have to be this emotiona good and evil contrast. Whatever it is you have with your partner should not be compared to anyone else. Love is abstract and by definition, it can't be put in a box that says "good" love or "bad" love.

[pherai]

I wasn't making a moral judgement. I was saying that women are attracted to men with power and money, and not men who treat them respectfully and act kindly to them, contrary to what many women say they want.

[ShinAkumax]

I'm the one making assumtions.

[gemdoom]

aight people need some quick help here. normally i don't really need help with women since i have had a decent amount of gfs but this is different . in my job there's this waitress that i want to fuck so badly but she's 34 i have flirted a couple of times , grabbed her fat ass by mistake but she smiled big when it happened. i dont want a relationship i just want to fuck that polish bitch but how do i bring that about?? we both get off around the same time tomorrow. yea this one is tricky:sweat::bluu:

[Daddyneptune]

Ask her whats poppin after work. Some small talk. Can anyone else help out from here?

[SHIN-HIDOSHI]

A few years back, I befriended this girl and her child. Things were going really well until I started to notice some things that I was uncomfortable with. Stuff like her leaving her kid to go out on an almost nightly basis, not going to work, driving recklessly, ditching school, there's probably more things that she did that I don't know about cause I can't be with them 24 hours a day.

Go figure, if she could do that with her kid, what would she do if we had a kid (which was a reason that I was trying to get the hella out there then). The kid was born from an affair, when the biological father was going through the divorce, but I found out the father and his wife, later reconciled to stick around for his kids from the marriage.

The girl's family is pretty well off, a contributing factor to her reckless behavior. However, after learning about this behavior especially after finding out that she had pretty much abandoned work, and failed school. Her parents decided to cut her and her kid off (no car, tuition,rent,spending money, baby money), someone had told me that they even left her stuff on the front lawn.

Fast forward to the recent times, we've talked a few times, there's seems (I say this because who knows, it could be a front.) to have been a change in everything. You know, when you haven't seen a person in a while but see from time to time with gaps in between. I don't know how to explain it, there feels like a different vibe is being casted from here now then back then, though it seems like a nice vibe.

Like the title asks, is it a possible for a single mother to change? Or maybe this question might be better, have any of you guys ever seen such a change take place in a woman? Or hopefully a woman that has changed for the better can voice their thoughts?

Thanks.

[ShinAkumax]

Yes it is, don't go all in with your chips. See the flop and see where the hands goes. But play the cards. You have nothing to lose, and a great deal to win.

[SHIN-HIDOSHI]

Shin Akuma X: If your last reply was in response to me, THANKS a million bro. I was thinking the same thing, just because I'm a very optimistic yet, sorta realistic forgiving person, and that I wasn't too quick to make a choice on whether to pursue or not to pursue.

The first time I kinda went all in....LOL....and got too attached to the kid.

That right there, was where I got messed up....(and a good lesson was learned from it.) cause walking away from two people is hard, especially since the kid didn't do anything wrong except bring light into my life.

I mean it's not like I can tell the kid, hey.....we can still be friends go to make sand castles and have fun like a father and daughter (although she isn't my kid) but don't bring your mom along. LOL....although maybe at that point she might have left her with me anyways. LOL...

I'm a just chill, let things go the way fate makes it, thanks bro.


If she's putting on a front, time will break it.

[Infernoman]

this thread continues to post truth. I'd reap all of you who provided if I could. turning 22 in 2 days and I never been a relationship...just a year ago I honestly though that I was missing that element of love...as I look now...I know I wanted it...but ultimatly don't need it. they say let it come to you...well the girl I talk to say that...but I disagree. No way is sitting on my ass will get me anywhere as I have to make SOME atepmt...I dunno have some of you guys heard that?

[SHIN-HIDOSHI]

Infernoman: You gotta make an attempt, as long as you understand the strings that come along with it. IE, in my example, I gotta be careful, cause if I would end up hurting two people if I do shit carelessly (try to rush or force things) especially if one of them would be hurt without justification, would be hurt by association. (I'm don't want to risk that.)

This whole thing, actually got my head hurting over the weekend. LOL...cause I'm heavily debating the whole thing to see if it's worth it or not, eventually I just had to say something to someone that won't give me biased advice because they know me or her or the kid. So far, everyone's been good, thanks all.

EDIT: Forgot to wish you a happy birthday man.

[Luciano Leone]

Ay, just lookin for some input on this.

So Im currently talking to this girl who is the daughter of a crazy strict, family-adhesive and overbearing, oppressive Filipino household (for what it's worth, people tell me thats expected, but really I could give a shit if it was a black, white, or purple household). Reliable sources tell me she gets strictly grounded for taking the car to school, calling or texting outsiders to the family, and other really stupid shit. Other events have yielded mistreatment of her such as temporary disownment and lockdown and shit. Fucked up shit.

Anyhow, we went on a date (I dont know how she was allowed to) and she seems to like talking to me, saying that we should go out more often. Usually she'll be the first to initiate a long text conversation or phone call. Almost every day she'll wake me up with a call or a text and we'll chit chat from there on for pretty much the whole day. And Im way into her but the problem is, she can never hang out because of her family. I went to some of her friends for some insight, ya know to see if I wasnt gettin the run-around. She seems to like me and everything, always wants to know what Im up to, and says that "we will hang out very soon." Also, I suppose if all is right (according to a best friend of hers), she'll be moving on her own in about two weeks and have freedom to hang out with me.

So do you think I should just hold out the 2 more weeks? Or do you think Im getting fucked with?

[Legendary Gokou]

Shin-Hidoshi ; Like previously mentioned, just be really careful. She might've changed because she was taking things from granted and got it taken away. This is actually the same case of someone I know. It was helpless to try to help so her family stopped supporting her. I'm waiting to see if she too will change.

My main concern in both scenarios is if they will revert once things start going well again.


True blue ; If its just 2 weeks I don't see the harm in waiting. But if her family is as oppresive as it seems I really doubt she'll be moving.

[SHIN-HIDOSHI]

What's up Legendary Gokou!!!! I met the girl right around the XBL days,

I'm super careful nowadays, cause I got busted up two times in a row (which I think might have made me crazy LOL....), by what could've been long term relationships.

Sadly, I gotta be more careful if I decide to make a move , cause her baby will know me this time around, as she was a baby and her memory of me is pretty vague. (But I know she remembers me somewhat, cause she always blows me a kiss even though we don't see each other on a regular basis. Nothing beats those kinda kodak moments.)

I think my soul belongs somewhere else though.



TrueBlue, hang in there, keep yourself busy, take care of business, and two weeks will fly by. You don't want to do something in haste that may create some resentment between you and her from her parents, or from her because you got her in trouble.

[pherai]

SHIN-HIDOSHI: I know this isn't what you want to hear, but people rarely change their ways. If a chick likes to party at other peoples expense, chances are she's only stopped because she can't afford it on her own, and is looking for a sugar daddy to watch her kid and pay the bills. A woman with a child should be a last resort as it is, but one that is irresponsible with the child is a recipe for disaster. My advice would be to move on. Trying to make a relationship work with a chick like this isn't worth the comfort of coming back to something familiar. Do what you will, but you should at least be highly skeptical.

[SHIN-HIDOSHI]

SHIN-HIDOSHI: I know this isn't what you want to hear, but people rarely change their ways. If a chick likes to party at other peoples expense, chances are she's only stopped because she can't afford it on her own, and is looking for a sugar daddy to watch her kid and pay the bills. A woman with a child should be a last resort as it is, but one that is irresponsible with the child is a recipe for disaster. My advice would be to move on. Trying to make a relationship work with a chick like this isn't worth the comfort of coming back to something familiar. Do what you will, but you should at least be highly skeptical.

I think you're probably right, thanks for being unbiased bro.

I'm super relieved that people are thinking the same way as my original gut feeling. This is one of the advantages of the net, in face to face conversation with people I know some of them might actually be "propping" her up, in an effort to make her look like she's a totally changed person. But because I can't see for the change for myself all the time or at least enough to know for sure if it's genuine, and going about doing so would be stalking, I have to go by trust (which obviously is lower than say if another woman came along, based on personal my own experiences with this woman).

I'm a just chill, in the meantime. Be free, to check out my options....I have at least one someplace. LOL....

Thanks again

[HeaT]

I think if you change the word money to power, it makes it a much more interesting statement. Your girlfriend is with you because she saw something valuable to her in you. ( Unless it's an arrange marriage. ) Value, worth or untimately, power is what makes people attractive.


so if your girl is with you for "power" (i like this better than money), and let us say that we can apply this universally, most girls are with their men cause of power...then why are most men with their girls??? i dont know if i could say that im with a particular girl because of "power"...

im outi

Roberth

[pherai]

I think you're probably right, thanks for being unbiased bro.

Np, hope things work out!

so if your girl is with you for "power" (i like this better than money), and let us say that we can apply this universally, most girls are with their men cause of power...then why are most men with their girls??? i dont know if i could say that im with a particular girl because of "power"...

im outi

Roberth

You can't apply that universally. It's a generalization of women, not humans. Women are attracted to power/success/money much more than good looks. Men place a much higher value on looks.

[Infernoman]

Infernoman: You gotta make an attempt, as long as you understand the strings that come along with it. IE, in my example, I gotta be careful, cause if I would end up hurting two people if I do shit carelessly (try to rush or force things) especially if one of them would be hurt without justification, would be hurt by association. (I'm don't want to risk that.)

This whole thing, actually got my head hurting over the weekend. LOL...cause I'm heavily debating the whole thing to see if it's worth it or not, eventually I just had to say something to someone that won't give me biased advice because they know me or her or the kid. So far, everyone's been good, thanks all.

EDIT: Forgot to wish you a happy birthday man.

heh thanks man...I get what you're talking about. a balance needs to be struck...but sometimes it's easier said than done. some girl I think I should have slowed down for...and a few I wa going too slow apparently...but I'll keep on trying. whatever it may be, I hate to lose, but worse I hate giving up.

[gemdoom]

:bluu:

[ShinAkumax]

so if your girl is with you for "power" (i like this better than money), and let us say that we can apply this universally, most girls are with their men cause of power...then why are most men with their girls??? i dont know if i could say that im with a particular girl because of "power"...

im outi

Roberth

Power. The minute I have something you desire, is the minute I hold power over you. Is really that simple. The definition of power changes from person to person.

SHIN-HIDOSHI: I know this isn't what you want to hear, but people rarely change their ways.

Ha ha, I once ate poop when I was a baby, and for the longest time I thought all women were evil bitches, and I use to be a total asshole. People change all the time, their habits anyways. They deep deep core doesn't change often, ( but they do change sometime, I know I have. ) but to tell you the truth about 90% of the people in this world IMO don't even know themselves well enough for it to even matter.

I have a box that could hold a 50 dollar bill, should I open it.

I say, open it and open it slowly but don't get you hopes up.

You are like, naw man,there is a 90% chance there is no money in that box.


Cat already has seen her at her worst, and she has a kid. Truly if she remains as she once was, it won't take him long to figure it out. Kids also have an effect on people. If anything I would recommend is not to go back to your old dating pattern. Say you want to spend some face time alone with her, without the kids doing something healthy, like mini golf.

[ShinAkumax]

So do you think I should just hold out the 2 more weeks? Or do you think Im getting fucked with?

1. What is your race. Yes, this is actually important in this situation.

[ShinAkumax]

this thread continues to post truth. I'd reap all of you who provided if I could. turning 22 in 2 days and I never been a relationship...just a year ago I honestly though that I was missing that element of love...as I look now...I know I wanted it...but ultimatly don't need it. they say let it come to you...well the girl I talk to say that...but I disagree. No way is sitting on my ass will get me anywhere as I have to make SOME atepmt...I dunno have some of you guys heard that?

My honest, honest, honest advice is that you date someone who you don't care that much about. People fuck SOOOO much shit up at the start, specially with someone they like.

So date someone you see as your equal, whatever the definition of that maybe. Just date someone, anyone, it doesn't matter who. You need to get all that shit out of the way before you start to understand the game.


I'm once again repping www.plentyoffish.com (http://www.plentyoffish.com) for all you cats with no games. Hit them online girls up. I'm there, and I'm a great catch, but you need good bait to catch me.

You guys are more like bottom feeders, you need to evolve up the food chain or die of hunger.

Edit: Love, love? Love! MAAAAAAAAAAAN, you are way to young to worry about that. Besides, your value as man increases over time. TRUST ME! The older you get the better your choices get. It will come in time, right, so do unhappy marriages, open marriages, divorce, all sorta evil wicked shit comes with time.

It comes with time, that's hella funny, specially from a girl. Do you have ANY idea how attractive a 26 year old man is to the 25-35 of age women? The clock is ticking! LOL seriously.


Okay cat, let me break it to you. It takes two complete human beings to have a shot at the million dollar price called love. For as long as you desire it and see it as something you need to be happy, you are not complete. It's as simple as that. My friend works does obituaries for the newspaper, trust me, a lot of people die sad and lonely.

[terracotta]

it does feel like a power struggle a lot of the time.

[ShinAkumax]

That's such a personal and interesting statement. I know at the start it definetly is, all about power. I don't know exactly what it becomes eventually. It probably becomes a balancing act.

[Phoenix Wright]

Last Friday night I took these 2 women out to some random Dominican club in the bx. Before we go out I tell one of them that I can't pay for her friend, so the girl tells me that it's fine.We get to the club and dance a bit. (this is where it gets retarded) She she asks me if I wanted something to drink, I ask for a corona, she asks for some energy drink, and the other girl asks for some yellow shit (i have no idea wth that is). The bill comes (18 dollars) and I (like an idiot) pay for it. Once again I order drinks, they order something more expensive and I end up fronting the bill. At this point I'm like "fuck it" (to myself). I order a margarita and I tell them to get whatever they want cause it's on me. When the drinks get there, I call my friend up... I hang up the phone and tell them that I have to go, it's an emergency. So i left them with the bill :).

[AdverseSolutions]

Last Friday night I took these 2 women out to some random Dominican club in the bx. Before we go out I tell one of them that I can't pay for her friend, so the girl tells me that it's fine.We get to the club and dance a bit. (this is where it gets retarded) She she asks me if I wanted something to drink, I ask for a corona, she asks for some energy drink, and the other girl asks for some yellow shit (i have no idea wth that is). The bill comes (18 dollars) and I (like an idiot) pay for it. Once again I order drinks, they order something more expensive and I end up fronting the bill. At this point I'm like "fuck it" (to myself). I order a margarita and I tell them to get whatever they want cause it's on me. When the drinks get there, I call my friend up... I hang up the phone and tell them that I have to go, it's an emergency. So i left them with the bill :).

::daps this man::

[ShinAkumax]

So i left them with the bill :).


Smooth.

[Infernoman]

My honest, honest, honest advice is that you date someone who you don't care that much about. People fuck SOOOO much shit up at the start, specially with someone they like.

man you're about 1 year late on that shit :bluu:

So date someone you see as your equal, whatever the definition of that maybe. Just date someone, anyone, it doesn't matter who. You need to get all that shit out of the way before you start to understand the game.


I'm once again repping www.plentyoffish.com (http://www.plentyoffish.com) for all you cats with no games. Hit them online girls up. I'm there, and I'm a great catch, but you need good bait to catch me.

You guys are more like bottom feeders, you need to evolve up the food chain or die of hunger.

Edit: Love, love? Love! MAAAAAAAAAAAN, you are way to young to worry about that. Besides, your value as man increases over time. TRUST ME! The older you get the better your choices get. It will come in time, right, so do unhappy marriages, open marriages, divorce, all sorta evil wicked shit comes with time.

It comes with time, that's hella funny, specially from a girl. Do you have ANY idea how attractive a 26 year old man is to the 25-35 of age women? The clock is ticking! LOL seriously.


Okay cat, let me break it to you. It takes two complete human beings to have a shot at the million dollar price called love. For as long as you desire it and see it as something you need to be happy, you are not complete. It's as simple as that. My friend works does obituaries for the newspaper, trust me, a lot of people die sad and lonely.

makes sense. well I'll keep on doing my usual thing...whatever happens happens...heh funny you mention the not caring part. a girl was into going out with me (a friend of a friend) for this weekend...personally I dont think too much about her but hey it could be fun. thanks for that advice man :tup:

So i left them with the bill :).

nice man...

[Infested Jester]

So i left them with the bill :).

Good work soldier. :tup:


This kinda reminds me of some shit that happened to me last year. Long story short, it's me, this girl who I kinda knew, her friend who she wanted me to hook up with, and a friend of mine. We all decide to meet up at TGIF, we get there, order, etc. After about 10 minutes I already know I have about zero interest in this girl, so I tell my friend that after we eat to say we have to go somewhere. We all order a few drinks, I have the JD shrimp platter, my friend gets steak, they get salads. :rolleyes: The bill comes and I figured I'd be nice and take at least half of it, and my friend offerred to take the other half. My kinda-friend stops us and insists that she pay for ALL of us. I had the cash in my hand ready to put it down and she stops me. So I'm like ok, you sure?, cool, thanks. She gives me the friends number which I toss on the way out, and we leave. The next day I get an email from the girl I know saying some shit along the lines of..."Hey, I just realized I put out over $100 last night for us...including you and your friend. That was a really shitty thing to do ya know." I write back to her "Go fuck yourself drama queen." Never heard from her again. I really hate stupid shit like that, I don't even wanna know the shit storm she had planned if I had taken the bait. And people ask me why I live the way I do.

[Koop]

Last Friday night I took these 2 women out to some random Dominican club in the bx. Before we go out I tell one of them that I can't pay for her friend, so the girl tells me that it's fine.We get to the club and dance a bit. (this is where it gets retarded) She she asks me if I wanted something to drink, I ask for a corona, she asks for some energy drink, and the other girl asks for some yellow shit (i have no idea wth that is). The bill comes (18 dollars) and I (like an idiot) pay for it. Once again I order drinks, they order something more expensive and I end up fronting the bill. At this point I'm like "fuck it" (to myself). I order a margarita and I tell them to get whatever they want cause it's on me. When the drinks get there, I call my friend up... I hang up the phone and tell them that I have to go, it's an emergency. So i left them with the bill :).

So you broke even....possibly. cause you paid double an they may have paid once... maybe

good move no doubt... but you realize these are chicks... they can knock shyt off wit the bartender...

a strong move would of been lookin at the chick an sayin yall got this one.... i mean i dont know if you will run into these chicks again or whatever but it good to set the tone more than just say it...

non the less it was good you thought quick but i look at the whole thing as a no win ... cause you didnt put that damn foot down bout you being able to only front for yourself an shorty AFTER you stated this... next time set the record straight playboi before they (any chick) try to oky doke ya...

[ShinAkumax]

a strong move would of been lookin at the chick an sayin yall got this one.... i mean i dont know if you will run into these chicks again or whatever but it good to set the tone more than just say it...



I see it a full of win!

[Phoenix Wright]

So you broke even....possibly. cause you paid double an they may have paid once... maybe

good move no doubt... but you realize these are chicks... they can knock shyt off wit the bartender...

a strong move would of been lookin at the chick an sayin yall got this one.... i mean i dont know if you will run into these chicks again or whatever but it good to set the tone more than just say it...

non the less it was good you thought quick but i look at the whole thing as a no win ... cause you didnt put that damn foot down bout you being able to only front for yourself an shorty AFTER you stated this... next time set the record straight playboi before they (any chick) try to oky doke ya...

I'll take your advice... If this shit ever happens again.

[pherai]

Ha ha, I once ate poop when I was a baby, and for the longest time I thought all women were evil bitches, and I use to be a total asshole. People change all the time, their habits anyways. They deep deep core doesn't change often, ( but they do change sometime, I know I have. ) but to tell you the truth about 90% of the people in this world IMO don't even know themselves well enough for it to even matter.

I have a box that could hold a 50 dollar bill, should I open it.

I say, open it and open it slowly but don't get you hopes up.

You are like, naw man,there is a 90% chance there is no money in that box.


Cat already has seen her at her worst, and she has a kid. Truly if she remains as she once was, it won't take him long to figure it out. Kids also have an effect on people. If anything I would recommend is not to go back to your old dating pattern. Say you want to spend some face time alone with her, without the kids doing something healthy, like mini golf.

Once people are in their mid 20's their values and habits in relationships are very unlikely to change. The likelyhood of having a good relationship with this chick is much less than finding another girl who is much better. In fact, the chance of finding another girl who is prettier, nicer, and doesn't have a kid is pretty good, you just have to make the effort.

Kids do have an effect on people, but not in any way that is beneficial to someone who wants to date them. If they are a good parent (and you hope they are) then the kid will always take priority over you. It's not the same as being the father of the kid. You are just a recruit to help her out with the kid. There are so many red flags with single mothers it's ridiculous. If you can avoid it there is just no reason to go after one.

[Koop]

I'll take your advice... If this shit ever happens again.


yeah... cause dont take it wrong... but doin the lil tricks only work when the benefit is totally in your court... with the situation you had you first stated you wasnt gonna be payin for the third wheel... now when you did get there she didnt put up any loot for her drinks (-1) then the bill comes an they got you the first time

18 bucks amongst 3


third wheel an homegirl got a lil buzz an got 'comfortable' an now the next chance to order up comes along an the next bill is (typical pricing from just your words alone):

32 bucks amongst 3


now your 50+ tip shorted from the game

so lets tally

you = 50+

them combined = 0 but a buzz an they are gettin extra comfy with the 'balla' phoenix wright:smokin:



so now the final round comes an you dip... smooth but this would of worked if you kept a bar tab an asked ol girl for her license as well with a slick excuse (the bartender needs two since we are a group)... but back to point in hand... ya dipped an u didnt see the final bill...women can EASILY work that bar by sayin lame shyt or gettin another cat to front em over..

thats all playaz... work the slick shyt when it will totally fall into your side...till then you put a fuccin foot down an dont get leeched by third wheel an main girl...cause they will make excuses for each other to get what they want.. your a working man an ya dont blow ya money on extra shyt...

[gemdoom]

time to get ready for round two. koop help a niggga out.

[SuicidalGrandpa]

Ey, I've got a question. My gf needs space, so we worked that I wouldn't be callin' her or textin' her...no aim. No nothin, she's the one to contact me when she's ready...

Is this basically like a break without calling it one? I'm unsure as this is my first dating experience.

Edit: And lemme clarify, if it is indeed a break, I'm not lookin' for an excuse to go run off with some chick or sleep around. Just wanna know.

[zer0_858]

Ey, I've got a question. My gf needs space, so we worked that I wouldn't be callin' her or textin' her...no aim. No nothin, she's the one to contact me when she's ready...

Is this basically like a break without calling it one? I'm unsure as this is my first dating experience.

Edit: And lemme clarify, if it is indeed a break, I'm not lookin' for an excuse to go run off with some chick or sleep around. Just wanna know.

Honestly it sounds like one but.... different people have different definitions for things... so a break to girl#1 can mean just time away but a break to girl#2 can mean I'm going to do what ever I want..... so you might want to make it clear with her....

[pherai]

Is this basically like a break without calling it one? I'm unsure as this is my first dating experience.


It's over buddy. This is manipulation 101. She wants to be able to call on you when she feels like it but not be tied down to just one guy. She might not cheat on you per se, but she wants to be able to hang out with and enjoy the attention of other guys without having to deal with you getting upset about it. She is like 22 or younger correct? I know it sounds shitty, but move on man. I've gone through it, and from experience ending it now will save you more heartache in the end.

FYI, confronting her won't do anything. She is gonna remain vague about it.

[ShinAkumax]

Ey, I've got a question. My gf needs space, so we worked that I wouldn't be callin' her or textin' her...no aim. No nothin, she's the one to contact me when she's ready...


Take charge and break it off. See what happens.

[Toodles]

Take charge and break it off. See what happens.

How's he gonna do that if he can't call or text or IM.... :rofl:

It's over. The only play to make now is to be single, be awesome, flirt and go out with other girls as much as you can. You've done forgot her ass.

[Koop]

time to get ready for round two. koop help a niggga out.


hit me with mayne playboi...



Ey, I've got a question. My gf needs space, so we worked that I wouldn't be callin' her or textin' her...no aim. No nothin, she's the one to contact me when she's ready...

Is this basically like a break without calling it one? I'm unsure as this is my first dating experience.

Edit: And lemme clarify, if it is indeed a break, I'm not lookin' for an excuse to go run off with some chick or sleep around. Just wanna know.



how long have have you been dating first of all... then i can break it down for you cause it can be a good thing if worked right.... again if

[SHIN-HIDOSHI]

Shin Akuma X: LOL...guess what....the most fucked up thing, bro. LOL....my friend who runs a nightclub in town, (he's always inviting me to go down to chill) but he came by my shop today, and was again in his usually kinda hungover mode. And we seen the girl I've been talking about driving around with her kid. LOL.....guess what his first words were.... I didn't know she had a kid!!!! LOL....I confirmed that yeah that was (name) her daughter. He told me straight up, She comes to come club almost every single night.

Then I knew yeah, I better not. Even if the kid was so damned cute waving to me.

[ShinAkumax]

oh well, glad someone helped you out bro.

[Warpticon]

i've been talking to this chick I met on okcupid that lives about 2 hours away from me. i apparently made a good first impression, and now we talk with some regularity, even despite us both working stupid long hours. She's got a lot going for her; smart, witty, ambitious, accomplished, drummer, virgin. If she were local, I'd probably have broken my general no-dating policy ('dating" in general is pretty unfun and not terribly productive for my intentions), but since I hvae a number of friends local to her, I try to get that way with some regularity, though it's been quite a while since the last time. Anyway, to make a long story short, last night I actually asked her if she'd be down to grab some dinner if I managed to make myself local, and she said she wouldn't be opposed. Cool. Sadly, this is the best potential situation i've been in in ages.

[Infernoman]

ShinAkumax - ok I thought "what the hell" and signed up for that site you have mentioned a ton...we'll see what happens...

[SuicidalGrandpa]

how long have have you been dating first of all... then i can break it down for you cause it can be a good thing if worked right.... again if

Year and a couple months.

How's he gonna do that if he can't call or text or IM....

I guess I'd have to call her. Bleh, this fucking sucks.

[pherai]

I guess I'd have to call her. Bleh, this fucking sucks.

How you handle it isn't of high importance, but if I were you and I wouldn't even try to get in touch with her. As far as you should be concerned it's over. Seeing her will make things more difficult. If she contacts you, tell her its over. Don't waste your time trying to discuss bullshit with her. It will just weaken your resolve, which I imagine is fragile at best right now. Good luck.

[Liquid Fists]

I am in a dilemna here. Here's the situation.

On the one hand, I have an extremely cute, funny, honest, down to earth girl who really likes me, it's to the point now where I don't have to try and seduce her towards me. She WANTS me, head over heels for me. BUT, she is constantly plagued with health issues. Ulcers, headaches, nausea, etc.

I have tried to tell her that it's all in her head, and that all these health issues she has are spawning from her head, but she won't have any of it. So here's the thing, I either go out with her, make a relationship work by trying to change her thinking, and to be more positive, and to not think and worry about being sick anymore.

OR I do this.

Go for the chick whom I work with at the moment. Shes drop dead gorgeous, very funny, but at the same time, EXTREMELY annoying because of how hyper, and 'ADD' she is. I literally can't hold much of a conversation with her due to the fact that she has so much energy, and is so random at times. She has hinted at wanting me, sitting really close to me on breaks, random hugging and playful touching, late night text messages saying "whats up hunk" and so on and so forth. If I was to get into a relationship with her, it would be based on the physical side, rather than emotional, which is kind of what I want out of a relationship at this point in my life.

What should I do. I've had this conversation with my dad and he really doesn't know what to make of it at this point, so i'm kind of on my own at this time in my handling of the situation.

[Warpticon]

Help me pick a headache!

Are those really your only two choices?

[SuicidalGrandpa]

How you handle it isn't of high importance, but if I were you and I wouldn't even try to get in touch with her. As far as you should be concerned it's over. Seeing her will make things more difficult. If she contacts you, tell her its over. Don't waste your time trying to discuss bullshit with her. It will just weaken your resolve, which I imagine is fragile at best right now. Good luck.

Aight, thanks dude. And thank everyone for their suggestions. I'm takin em into account and we'll see what ends up happening :sweat:

[ProfessorS]

Okay SRK, potential new girl on the scene and I need your feedback...

So I started talking to this hot Russian girl in one of my classes. She's fully Russian but has lived in the USA most of her life so she only has a slight accent. Still hot though. We had good rapport during class and I was making her laugh a lot so I decided to make a move. She said she was tired after class, I said "I am too, some coffee sounds good." She says "Yeah, I was thinking that." I suggested we go together and she agreed.

We got our coffee(I didn't pay for her) and I showed her around since she's new to town which I figured would be a good way of displaying value or whatever. She impressed me, we had very good rapport and eye contact the whole time. When we split up I got her number. I suggested we get together and play Guitar Hero sometime(which is a very fun game and would be a good way to lead into some kino). Whoo.

My only problem with this was that I did not establish good physical chemistry(i.e. kino or whatever), but I think I got off to a good start with this girl. She's also nearly as tall as I am (5 foot 7 inches) and would tower over me if she ever wore heels. I shouldn't let that bother me of course.

I'm thinking about calling her Friday to see if she wants to hang out during the afternoon or maybe go to one of the restaurants that I showed her when I was walking around. She seems like a good girl, maybe even a little sheltered. She doesn't seem snobby/bitchy in the SLIGHTEST which is a big selling point for me. She lived at home during her four years of undergrad and she's on her own for the first time. So like I said, she SEEMS innocent, but I could be wrong. Any suggestions on how to make this escalate? Because I know if I can establish a physical relationship...I'm set.

[Havoc]

Wow... so your girlfriend says don't call, text, IM, send a telegram, e-mail, postcard, two cans and a string, smoke signals.... anything, and your reaction is to try to figure out what she means, and give her what she wants?

MAAAAAAAAN.... fuck that.

We need to man up over here. Throw her back on the Next bus. This should go without being said.

Just judging by your attitude regarding this, you're probably the type that treats a girl like she's a queen, even though she's done nothing to deserve it. You're the type of guy that gets used by girls, and then complains about how all the girls want asshole boyfriends.

It's not that they want assholes, it's that they don't want pushovers, and that's what it sounds like you are.

Before you get into your next relationship, reevaluate what you want out of a partner, and what you see yourself as. Don't let the next one assume so much control over the relationship. A relationship should be an equal partnership. Not a dictatorship with some bitch telling you to