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Professor Jones
04-19-2007, 02:37 AM
From your experiences, the experience of the people around you and the stories you've heard, do you think that men are more likely to cheat on their partner or is it the other way around ?

I personally think that men are generally more likely to cheat... even if they are happy with their current relationship they will still enjoy making love to another woman, just for the sake of novelty (especially if she's hotter than their current gf).

As for women, it seems to me that most of the time when they cheat it's because something important is lacking in their current relationship... If they are fulfilled and happy with their man, I think that most of them will be faithful (provided they are psychologically healthy and not some kind of nymphomaniac).

What is your take on that subject ?

Taichi
04-19-2007, 02:42 AM
I'm a chauvanistic fuck, women is bitches, yo.

Sasmasta
04-19-2007, 02:46 AM
Another poll thread at this hour!? Madness! But I'm gonna have to go with the dudes on this one. No real evidence to support my choice, I just think emotionally attached individuals are mostly female (notice I said 'individuals' meaning that I WAS including men. Don't hate!). Plus studies say that men think about sex more than women (don't know the exact numbers but studies 'say' so I guess so). And now...we wait for other opinions...or the lock. Ut oh!

Wild Kitty
04-19-2007, 02:49 AM
You forgot to include a joke option

And if a man cheats, it's not called making love anymore. That's just pure, unadulterated top-tier level fuckage going on.

Rhio2k
04-19-2007, 02:54 AM
I don't know for sure, but all I DO know is guys get caught WAY more often. Make of that what you will.

Dios <-X->
04-19-2007, 02:57 AM
Madness!

Sparta

Sasmasta
04-19-2007, 02:58 AM
^LoL. Good one yo.

And Rhio2k makes a helluva point. Indeed.

TheSix
04-19-2007, 02:58 AM
:lol: another PUA

You use this line too?

DJTPC
04-19-2007, 02:59 AM
I'm the first 50/50 vote ?
C'mon, everybody cheats, so you suppose there's about as many women as men there goes the 50/50.

Taito
04-19-2007, 03:16 AM
I've seen the good and bad of relationships from damn near all over the free world.. and I'm convinced men and women hoe around in equal portions.. their naivete and sex drive might stunt their progress in learning the value of a sound and faithful relationship..

Women just know how to hide it better, likely because the stigma of an unfaithful woman is more negative than a guy doing the same thing. Women's natural deceptive skills, on par with a ninja master's, might skew one's perception of which sex is more unfaithful..

Dander
04-19-2007, 05:10 AM
Women, because we all know bitches be lying.

maxx
04-19-2007, 05:22 AM
women..not cuz im sexist or anything of that ridiculous sort..but because their way better at lying about it then men.

orochizoolander
04-19-2007, 05:27 AM
I don't know for sure, but all I DO know is guys get caught WAY more often. Make of that what you will.

QFT

I was gonna vote 50/50 since that's prolly the most logical answer but based on where i live i'm gonna have to go with women not just in long island but anyone who lives in ny will tell u that more often then not the hotter she is the more likely she is to cheat cuz ny (especially the city) is notorius for goldigging bitches n although that's not to say all goldiggers cheat i think it's safe to say theres some correlation.

white shadow
04-19-2007, 05:46 AM
Statistically it is around the same. I think it edges out to men by a very small margin which is irrelevant overall.

Women just are better liars.

Ei8ht
04-19-2007, 05:58 AM
I'ma hufta say women, just from personal experience, but I also know how males are too (since I am a male). I'm not a bad looking guy at all and I haven't cheated on a female since I was about 16 or 17 years old. Since i've gotten older and have began looking for the more serious relationship I have learned that the majority of the atleast decent looking (or better) combined with a decent personality (or better) females are liars, golddiggers, and/or cheating bitches (or atleast they are around here). I really think i'm gonna hufta look outside of my city in an attempt to locate these hard to find honest and faithful females. :sad:

-Cam-

Biolink
04-19-2007, 05:59 AM
There are forums dedicated to cheating spouses,and being caught.Check this story out:

Cheating bitches being caught

http://www.cheating-spouse.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=428

Zachman
04-19-2007, 06:05 AM
I believe it's equal, but I don't believe any women would want to cheat on me. There are very few men who can compete on my level.

orochizoolander
04-19-2007, 06:38 AM
There are forums dedicated to cheating spouses,and being caught.Check this story out:

Cheating bitches being caught

http://www.cheating-spouse.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=428

I read the entire page of that link n alot of mature thoughts are expressed but they all still took there cheating spouses back after they found out WTF?!?!?!?!?! I understand i'm 18 n don't know shit bout marriage n that after being married for a while especially with kids it may not be that easy to just end it n leave but IMO if i was married with kids n i found out my wife was fucking another guy i would file for divorce ASAP n get the best damn lawyer money can buy just to make sure the cheating bitch don't a dam penny from me. How the fuck can anyone continue a relationship with someone after finding out they cheated on u let alone seek some sort of counseling or help i know i'm still young n immature but in my book staying with a cheater make u the bitch end of story

EDIT: i just realized that guy srtogacihc is letting his "wife" remain friends with the guy she cheated on him with cuz "they're best friends" :rofl: he is just setting himself up again n this time if she chets again it's his own fault for being a bitch.

I believe it's equal, but I don't believe any women would want to cheat on me. There is only 1 man who can compete on my level n surpass it.

fixed :wonder:

Azrael
04-19-2007, 07:29 AM
I've seen the good and bad of relationships from damn near all over the free world.. and I'm convinced men and women hoe around in equal portions.. their naivete and sex drive might stunt their progress in learning the value of a sound and faithful relationship..

Women just know how to hide it better, likely because the stigma of an unfaithful woman is more negative than a guy doing the same thing. Women's natural deceptive skills, on par with a ninja master's, might skew one's perception of which sex is more unfaithful..
QFT. Add to that the natural dumb-ass nature of guys as well. We'll be kind of oblivious to the tell-tale signs until it smacks us right in the face.

...I speak from experience. :sad:

Septimus Prime
04-19-2007, 07:33 AM
QFT. Add to that the natural dumb-ass nature of guys as well. We'll be kind of oblivious to the tell-tale signs until it smacks us right in the face.

...I speak from experience. :sad:
By that same token, though, it's also unhealthy to be too paranoid about it, as I've ruined a few relationships myself back in the day by worrying too much. Moderation is key.

On topic, I honestly feel that women cheat slightly more, but I have my reasons for believing such, which I don't really care to explain.

angryliberal
04-19-2007, 07:44 AM
i've never been cheated on, and i've only known one cheating woman in all my years. however, just about every single guy i know has cheated at least once on someone they were in a serious relationship with. while i can't say this applies gloablly, but in my experience, men can't help but get it if they can...

randomsuper
04-19-2007, 08:02 AM
it's so hard to say no to pussy. it's like crack 2.0.

Azrael
04-19-2007, 08:13 AM
By that same token, though, it's also unhealthy to be too paranoid about it, as I've ruined a few relationships myself back in the day by worrying too much. Moderation is key.

On topic, I honestly feel that women cheat slightly more, but I have my reasons for believing such, which I don't really care to explain.
Yeah, I learned not to be paranoid about it either. Can't let one bitch ruin my life.

I do think our reasons for cheating are different. For guys...we just like sex. For guys who don't cheat, its not that they don't want to have sex with an attractive girl who gives them the opportunity, its just that they don't want to risk losing their girlfriend/wife. For the guys that do cheat, either they figure they can get away with it...or they just don't care.

I think for girls its a bit more emotional. Like, her bf isn't fulfilling her needs in some way, but rather than address those issues with her boyfriend, she goes out and gets what she wants/needs from someone else.

akumatrunigga
04-19-2007, 08:21 AM
I think it is a bit even where the fellas are slightly higher as well.

I think for girls its a bit more emotional. Like, her bf isn't fulfilling her needs in some way, but rather than address those issues with her boyfriend, she goes out and gets what she wants/needs from someone else.
"Or he aint fucking me right so i'll go to the next one." But, at the same time that what the Lifetime channel wants you to believe. It all boils down to it you cheated on your partner. I still remember on Ricky Lake this lady was talking about her husband wasnt fucking her right and even admitted cheating on him for a while. She claimed she wanted to save her marriage blah blah and get some sex doctor to help. I couldnt stop laughing when the dude was listening to the music in background and he had no clue. But what makes it funnier is that no one ratted on her when she admitted cheating :lol:

pherai
04-19-2007, 08:38 AM
This is not really an issue of opinion. They have done studies about this kind of stuff, and iirc, men cheat more.

fishjie
04-19-2007, 10:27 AM
in the studies i read, women cheat more.

Septimus Prime
04-19-2007, 10:29 AM
I think age range is a huge factor in this, actually. I hear the whole social dynamic that we know gets reversed around middle age.

EveryFlowerFlow
04-19-2007, 10:39 AM
guys

jae hoon
04-19-2007, 10:43 AM
Its about the same women just hide it better. Thats why I could probably never be married or have a kid. The fist time some female came up to me and said I am pregnant I would tell her flat out DNA Test.

Biolink
04-19-2007, 10:50 AM
It seems to me like women are more liable to cheat at a mature age and men are more liable to cheat at a young age.

Older women will probably want excitement and just to be with somebody else

Younger guys are more likely to leave a relationship if they aren't happy
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On the flip side Younger women seem to have attachments(sp?)to who they are dating.In my Saturday school program,my friend broke up with this girl about a month ago,and usually flirts with other girl's,and she will not let it go,and harrases him alot about seeing other girls(Despite the fact that they don't go together anymore)

Older Men,especially the one's who have their life together,are pretty much content.If he's working,and making good pay,and he has a nice family then I think he would be alot less likely to cheat.

Also as far as Mature women go,especially stay at home mom's,alot of them feel like they have just as heavy workloads as a working man does(Raising the children and taking care of everything in the house isn't an easy job,and typically it happens to be a woman's job moreso than a man's),and that she should be entitled to time where she doesn't have to worry about taking care of the family.I guss that could lead to a bit of resentment from her side.

Overall I would have to say it is 50/50 on the situation.

tajiri
04-19-2007, 10:53 AM
i think it really comes down to the terms of the relationship.
if it's open when it starts, no big deal, if you want to be exclusive, then good for you, but you can't change the rules in the middle of a game, you know?

Mechanica
04-19-2007, 11:46 AM
I don't know if either gender does it more (voted 50/50), but women are certainly more sneaky about it. Men tend to have absolutely no reason to cheat, but do it anyway, and women tend to have awful reasons for cheating. It's really more even than I thought, now that I think about it. My first reaction was to say guys, though.

hoax
04-19-2007, 12:23 PM
Jap girls are whores, there is no doubt there, i'll fuck the shit out of them, but i'll be damned if I trust one. Not to mention everyone I've known was into the cookie-cutter jap kink s&m rape shit.

I don't feel like hog tying titties every time I want to nut, nah mean?

December 7th. Never forget.

MrBlank
04-19-2007, 12:29 PM
Well i think girls can physically cheat more....

so i vote women

Its because they can just keep getting it from dudes at request. Guys rarely turn down Free pussay.

Even a guy has to reload his balls before he can hammer away on other chicks.

Porn Fundamentals = Girls can make 100 Guy Gangbang vids. but guys dont do that 100 girl gangbang shit... why cause their shit is broken after 10....

TTZ231
04-19-2007, 12:44 PM
Its about the same women just hide it better. Thats why I could probably never be married or have a kid. The fist time some female came up to me and said I am pregnant I would tell her flat out DNA Test.

qft:lol:

Rhythm1c
04-19-2007, 01:00 PM
Cheating isn't specific to any gender.

Hunter D
04-19-2007, 02:01 PM
Women cheat more.

ChunLi
04-19-2007, 02:23 PM
Men cheat more, but women flirt /borderline cheat wwwwwwway more than the number of men who full on cheat. Hope that makes sense.

Devil X
04-19-2007, 02:29 PM
It doesn't matter what sex, it matters about what kind of issues they're dealing with. If you have an insecure (root of jealousy) man or woman, they're much more likely to cheat on you. Depressed people are more likely to take company with whoever will show them love. Don't date head cases, it won't turn out well for you.

orochizoolander
04-19-2007, 04:36 PM
Even a guy has to reload his balls before he can hammer away on other chicks.

Porn Fundamentals = Girls can make 100 Guy Gangbang vids. but guys dont do that 100 girl gangbang shit... why cause their shit is broken after 10....


oh really? i guess not all men are as blessed as i to go for multiple rounds :cool:

tondashocka
04-19-2007, 04:52 PM
Sparta



Dios I haven't seen that AV in a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG time...GJ

pherai
04-19-2007, 06:34 PM
I think age range is a huge factor in this, actually. I hear the whole social dynamic that we know gets reversed around middle age.

Yeah that would make a lot of sense. Chicks kind of go into overdrive then