Is it just me, or do you find uncoordinated females the biggest let down?

[Brooklyn]

is it just me or do you find uncoordinated females the biggest let down?...

I was walking to the exit of the library on campus (usf) and there was a 6/7 girl with a 7/8 booty is infront of me trying to get out. it almost looked like she wasn't accustomed to having ass the way she was walking... I thought her booty was gonna knock her over! and that really pissed me off cause I know a lot of girls who don't have 7/8 booty that really deserve a 10 aka they got the moves, and can tear it up, almost to the point where im praying for it and contemplating stepping up my commitment by taking them out to eat to get the job done 1 meal at a time. and seeing this girl who couldn't even walk right.... almost brought 1 tear to my eye for all the dudes that got fooled by it. Cuz there are tons of girls I pass up bc they don't have a future behind them, and seeing this one that was so promising.. depressed me for all of the 10 mins it took me to write this on my phone.

edit.. I was on my phone when I caught my 10 glimpse of her so no ninja pics.

[The Epidemic]

clumsy girls get no love? That shit is cute to me...

[Higher-Jin]

I thought her booty was gonna knock her over! and that really pissed me off cause I know a lot of girls who don't have 7/8 booty that really deserve a 10 aka they got the moves, and can tear it up, almost to the point where im praying for it and contemplating stepping up my commitment by taking them out to eat to get the job done 1 meal at a time.

As a rule, never buy a bitch a meal unless she's earned it. You're not a walking wallet, and if you want them to see you as anything but that then you better learn not to buy women shit. (this includes drinks, gifts, etc. until you are at LEAST in a semi-serious relationship)

As far as clumsiness goes, I'm divided on it. On the one hand it can be cute, but on the other if the girl is virtually a worthless human being then yea it's a huge turn off. Value yourself, value your time, and don't go for only looks. Guys that don't value themselves enough to expect more in their mates than a pretty face are the reason girls everywhere think it's okay not to be good at anything so long as they are cute. Yeah looks will get you to talk to a girl, but if there is no personality there then just take a pass or don't get into anything serious.

[Brooklyn]

im not trying to get with anyone right now, it's pretty much the opposite which im content with, girls doing the chasing is a great change of pace. my problem this morning was just 'seeing' a girl with an above average body which is only above average bc of her booty, that carries herself like she's been walking through a desert and just found DAT 'pool of water' mirage, just moves sloppy. but if i was drunk and at a club.. id go up to dance with her thinking 'yo im about to get werk'd!! =)' ... if I just saw her standing.. and instead of greatness, she'd prolly knock herself off balance and look retarded. u know what I mean?

im not a tool but if I know a girl that's I think is chill and fine ill take her out once no biggie, I call it investing instead of wasting, cuz I almost always get something back eventually, and usually when I least expect it.

[thurst]

maybe i just dont pay that close attention, but i've never noted a clumsy chick...however chicks that can't dance/have no rhythm is a huge turn off to me. i mean a bitch doesnt have to be janet jackson on the dance floor but awkward off beat gyrating is confusing and just makes me look bad by association.

[FurryCurry]

It's terribly unattractive to me. I want to knock them over in disgust.

[ElderGOD]

As a rule, never buy a bitch a meal unless she's earned it. You're not a walking wallet, and if you want them to see you as anything but that then you better learn not to buy women shit. (this includes drinks, gifts, etc. until you are at LEAST in a semi-serious relationship)

So much truth.

[The Epidemic]

As a rule, never buy a bitch a meal unless she's earned it. You're not a walking wallet, and if you want them to see you as anything but that then you better learn not to buy women shit. (this includes drinks, gifts, etc. until you are at LEAST in a semi-serious relationship)


damn you kinda cheap son:rofl:

a drink is what? 8-13$
and you can get a cheap cute gift..everything doesnt have to be expensive.

[ElderGOD]

damn you kinda cheap son:rofl:

a drink is what? 8-13$
and you can get a cheap cute gift..everything doesnt have to be expensive.

Nah, Jin is right man.

It's not about the money, it's about letting the girl know that you're not a walking wallet as he said.

Unless you just plan to fuck her and dump her, then that's a different story.

[The Epidemic]

Nah, Jin is right man.

It's not about the money, it's about letting the girl know that you're not a walking wallet as he said.

Unless you just plan to fuck her and dump her, then that's a different story.

if someone cant spare a couple of dollars then, they prolly shouldnt have a gf..end of story. A drink and cheap gifts just to show you care isnt a big deal.

[Monte]

I feel the same way about hobos. Some hobos just like take a nap by a hat and expect money. If you want some money you better be playing a guitar or dancing or something.

[HeaT]

Nah, Jin is right man.

It's not about the money, it's about letting the girl know that you're not a walking wallet as he said.

Unless you just plan to fuck her and dump her, then that's a different story.

a 13$ gift shows her you are a walking wallet??? da fuck??? lets be realistic here...

srk be tripping on some really good hard shit sometimes...

im outi

Roberth

[Higher-Jin]

It's not about the 13 dollars. It's about not looking like you have so little to offer that you have to buy her approval. (just like the hundreds of other guys before you that tried the same shit) You should be good enough in conversation and what you bring to the table in personality that buying drinks aren't necessary. If you don't have any kind of personality then no amount of drinks will get that girl to sleep with you anyways. (unless one of those drinks has a mickey)

[thurst]

if someone cant spare a couple of dollars then, they prolly shouldnt have a gf..end of story. A drink and cheap gifts just to show you care isnt a big deal.

lol i'd go a step further and say that you're probably not getting much pussy either, not bcuz buying chicks drinks is really that important but if you're seriously giving that much thought to a $5 you're probably overthinking the whole process in general.

[DeathScythe]

clumsy girls get no love? That shit is cute to me...

It's only cute if they trip and fall on your dick.

[ElderGOD]

It's only cute if they trip and fall on your dick.

As was the case with Bill Clinton.

[Taskmaster]

clumsy girls get no love? That shit is cute to me...

Listen to this man.

[The Epidemic]

It's not about the 13 dollars. It's about not looking like you have so little to offer that you have to buy her approval. (just like the hundreds of other guys before you that tried the same shit) You should be good enough in conversation and what you bring to the table in personality that buying drinks aren't necessary. If you don't have any kind of personality then no amount of drinks will get that girl to sleep with you anyways. (unless one of those drinks has a mickey)

Its not about buying her approval. Obviously if your interested in the broad and you like her..i dont see how spending a couple of dollars is gonna make her think shes being bought out. Being good enough in conversation and all that other shit your sayin is common knowledge. Your advice is only good if the said broad is some random chick you dont know. If your dating a girl..b4 you have relationship status and you cant spend a few dollars..then like i said you shouldnt be in a relationship.
lol i'd go a step further and say that you're probably not getting much pussy either, not bcuz buying chicks drinks is really that important but if you're seriously giving that much thought to a $5 you're probably overthinking the whole process in general.
Are you talkin about me? you kinda lost me...

Anyway buying shit in general isnt that important. But it is a good look. I think its called being a gentleman. You guys sit up here and complain about a couple of dollars? imagine how much your gonna be spending when the relationship actually starts. Your gonna be wishing it was only 8-13$
It's only cute if they trip and fall on your dick.

fair enough.

[Higher-Jin]

you have relationship status and you cant spend a few dollars..then like i said you shouldnt be in a relationship.


Who you think should or shouldn't deserve to be in a relationship doesn't mean dick. A girl is not going to go by your standards when choosing a mate, she's going to go by how she feels and who she is attracted to. In that case buying her a drink and lavishing gifts on her when you just met her will only hurt you, because it only says bad things about you.

It says you are easily impressed by beauty, it says you are low status male because you already willing to commit resources to someone who's name you don't even know, and most importantly it says that you are shallow. Why shallow? Because you don't even know the girl and yet you're buying her shit, which means you are going 100% on looks. Girls notice all this shit. They notice your shoes, the clothes you're wearing, and just about a million other things that most men would never notice or care about.

Again I said you shouldn't buy shit unless you are at least in a semi-serious relationship. (check my post again if you didn't see it the first time) If you're already in a relationship then yeah by all means cover her bill sometimes, just like you would for any other friend. Still if you're looking for a partner then there should be equity. That is to say sometimes she pays for you too.

[Dhalsimowns]

Last girl I dated had NO rythm whatsoever. It pissed me off cause at a club she wanted to dance, and told me I needed to bust a move. Problem is she just kept eratically spasming randomly and couldnt groove so to speak.

Beat is one thing, but if you don't have rythm it all goes to shit. Bitches should naturally be rythmic is all Iam saying, wtf.

[The Epidemic]

Its not about buying her approval. Obviously if your interested in the broad and you like her..i dont see how spending a couple of dollars is gonna make her think shes being bought out. Being good enough in conversation and all that other shit your sayin is common knowledge. Your advice is only good if the said broad is some random chick you dont know. If your dating a girl..b4 you have relationship status and you cant spend a few dollars..then like i said you shouldnt be in a relationship.

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@Higher-Jin
i dunno what you got out of what i wrote but, you should read it again.
Im not saying to buy mad shit for a broad you dont know..But if your are altleast "dating" or in a relationship i dunno see what the problem is if you wanna buy her a drink or two...hell or even a cheap gift.

[Chachi]

Buying a girl (someone you know) a drink is one thing, dropping $100 or more to keep her around is another. If she nags you about buying her a drink, cut her off and move on (unless you know she's DTF).

I've had a couple situations where random girls would try hitting me up for drinks, even though they were there with their man. Had to turn that shit down with the quickness, nothing good would have come out of that....

[Higher-Jin]

@Higher-Jin
i dunno what you got out of what i wrote but, you should read it again.
Im not saying to buy mad shit for a broad you dont know..But if your are altleast "dating" or in a relationship i dunno see what the problem is if you wanna buy her a drink or two...hell or even a cheap gift.


then you shouldn't have called me out on my first post, since i clearly said "UNLESS you are in a semi serious relationship"

[The Epidemic]

then you shouldn't have called me out on my first post, since i clear said "UNLESS you are in a semi serious relationship"

I know what you said...and i stand by my intial point of you being cheap.
Getting a random girl a drink can lead to whereever you choose to lead it.
Assuming you have the talent to do so...

but i guess everyone has different standards.

[Higher-Jin]

I know what you said...and i stand by my intial point of you being cheap.
Getting a random girl a drink can lead to whereever you choose to lead it.
Assuming you have the talent to do so...

but i guess everyone has different standards.

:rofl: ok dude, suit yourself.

[MAGUS1234]

I really don;t give a fuck, like at all. I will plug her regardless.

[white shadow]

Come to think of it, have you ever heard of a case where a girl with DDs drowning in a pool?

[Demon Dash]

When ever the words "weight displacement" or "counter balance" come into play, you know you're in trouble...

[CoosCoos]

damn you kinda cheap son:rofl:

a drink is what? 8-13$
and you can get a cheap cute gift..everything doesnt have to be expensive.

SOUTHERN HOSPITALITY:rofl::rofl:

[thurst]

Are you talkin about me? you kinda lost me...

nah man, i was agreeing with you that guys that are seriously sweating drink costs shouldn't have a girl, and taking it a step further with saying that the act of thinking about it that much makes me think that they're probably not getting any at all.

i wonder if some of the anti-"buy a drink" crowd go around slamming doors in chicks' face as well. "fuck holding doors open! i let a bitch know we're equal in this relationship from the jump, ya heard!"

[Pinion]

is it just me or do you find uncoordinated females the biggest let down?...


To me, as of late, females in general are nothing but a big let down. No homo.

[Monte]

http://youtube.com/watch?v=5xi4O1yi6b0

is that cute?!

[The Epidemic]

nah man, i was agreeing with you that guys that are seriously sweating drink costs shouldn't have a girl, and taking it a step further with saying that the act of thinking about it that much makes me think that they're probably not getting any at all.

i wonder if some of the anti-"buy a drink" crowd go around slamming doors in chicks' face as well. "fuck holding doors open! i let a bitch know we're equal in this relationship from the jump, ya heard!"

oh ok i got you.:china:

Edit: Monte that dance is not cute. In fact its sexy as hell...