Anybody know what this means?

[Kix]

My friend's dad is like really strict. Our mothers (my friend and I) both are like best friends but this guy has some really stupid rules but he's respectable I guess.

He works a lot and is very helpful to people but he complains about a bunch of stupid stuff even though he hates complainers and would yell at me or his sons. When we see each other he will not look at me even if he acknowledges me and refuses to look at me in the eyes but deep down under he always has something to complain about and doesn't like me. He isn't used to people talking back to him and I do, but I try to remain respectful.

He's thought I've been a bad influence in the past for pretty silly reasons as far as I know but he like wants to yell at me but he just ignores me or something. Is it because he dislikes me so much, because he is furious, or does he feel like I am a threat to him if he challenges me? Does he just want to avoid conflict? Isn't it his problem though if he just can't handle looking at me?

Anybody have any really awkward relations like this?

[Luciano Leone]

What did you do to piss him off?

[BananaWeed]

He wants your tight butt hole.

[GeoG2]

Tell your friend to tell his mom to put out more often... cause he sounds like he'll go Chuck Norris on you soon if vagina doesn't interfere with his rage meter.

[Kix]

What did you do to piss him off?
Exist? Not being able to participate in sports? Having problems with physical labor?

Being happy yet critical? Having a loud voice? I have no clue what his problem is.

He wants your tight butt hole.
If he does he is sure mad about it. If you saw this guy you would want to commit suicide after saying that.

Actually that would be funny if that's his problem. He does overwork himself but he is a good person. I think it's funny how everyone needs sex not to be pissed off?

[RoninChaos]

How old are you and your friend?

[Kix]

How old are you and your friend?

I am 19(in two weeks), and they are 18 and 20(21?).

[Rooks4]

My dad was like that when I was a little bit younger than that.. He was really hateful to everyone I brought around - so omy friends would never come over. Eventually he blew up because I was always 'going out' somewhere else and complained why nobody would ever come to our house.

I finally had enough and ripped his shit up - told him all my friends thought he was an asshole and that's why nobody wanted to come over, because when anyone did he'd just be a prick and be rude to my friends.

Sometime after that he started getting councelling and started taking pills for stress and some other things, which eventually mellowed him out. While I was in College and shortly after he got really depressed because he reealized how he was to me and my friends back then, and (or says my mom) would cry at night thinking that I hated him. We are cool now, but eventuallly the way he treated my freinds and I caught up to him.

I'd guess that your friends dad probably has a similar disorder, and eventually should seek some professional assistance. I wouldn't take it personally - the talking back is probablyl a GOOD thing as the guy is used to being completely assholeish. Just because you are greater in age doesn't mean you have a right to be disrespectful. I wouldn't "push his buttons" but i'd also stand up for myself - time will hopefully do the rest.

[Kix]

He might, but he isn't totally hateful. I think he just needs to relax more I don't know if he needs counseling or anything I think he could handle it. Maybe he just needs to have more fun with his relaxation, he never allows himself to do anything and he is human.

My other friend's dad is more like what you mentioned as far as reaction but he's not an asshole to his friends. He's really nice to me but then again I'm good at acting interested in things I don't really care about but love is self sacrificing I guess! I think he feels like he doesn't spend time with him or whatever. This friend like hangs out with a bunch of shitty people and goes to clubs every night while still in his parents' house against their wishes and I can see it makes him worse but his dad seems to be more mental. He cries and stuff but he doesn't really take charge. His wife is like the head of the family and she's retarded.

It's an opposite extreme in ways.

[kyored]

Does your friend's dad happen to look like this.....

[Kix]

Does your friend's dad happen to look like this.....

No, his missing hair is more defined because he has darker hair and he is lanky and has a mustache and looks like he should have been named "Dweedley".

[tsukihimeblood]

that sounds like my gf's dad. except with less verbal threats.

[The Green Trench Coat]

Is it because he dislikes me so much, because he is furious, or does he feel like I am a threat to him if he challenges me? Does he just want to avoid conflict? Isn't it his problem though if he just can't handle looking at me?

Anybody have any really awkward relations like this?



but it could be a couple of things
some grown up don't accept that a child is worth arguing with. sort of like you are in no position to sway my opinion and you are just a child. Being the smarty pants that i was growing up I ran into that alot I'd try to chime in on grown folks conversations and i'd get the cold shoulder.

either that or he physically doesn't like you maybe you have a physicality that he doesn't like and doesn't want his kids to adopt from you.

or..


and i'm just putting it out there.
maybe he really likes you..



"how u doin??"

[Satomiblood]

but it could be a couple of things
some grown up don't accept that a child is worth arguing with. sort of like you are in no position to sway my opinion and you are just a child. Being the smarty pants that i was growing up I ran into that alot I'd try to chime in on grown folks conversations and i'd get the cold shoulder.

either that or he physically doesn't like you maybe you have a physicality that he doesn't like and doesn't want his kids to adopt from you.

or..


and i'm just putting it out there.
maybe he really likes you..



"how u doin??"

When are you going to bear hug my schlong?

[The Green Trench Coat]

When are you going to bear hug my schlong?

grrr.. any time
*bearhugs*

[fistoftheryustar]

My friend's dad is like really strict. Our mothers (my friend and I) both are like best friends but this guy has some really stupid rules but he's respectable I guess.

He works a lot and is very helpful to people but he complains about a bunch of stupid stuff even though he hates complainers and would yell at me or his sons. When we see each other he will not look at me even if he acknowledges me and refuses to look at me in the eyes but deep down under he always has something to complain about and doesn't like me. He isn't used to people talking back to him and I do, but I try to remain respectful.

He's thought I've been a bad influence in the past for pretty silly reasons as far as I know but he like wants to yell at me but he just ignores me or something. Is it because he dislikes me so much, because he is furious, or does he feel like I am a threat to him if he challenges me? Does he just want to avoid conflict? Isn't it his problem though if he just can't handle looking at me?

Anybody have any really awkward relations like this?

Is your dad filipino? This sounds strangely like my situation. My dad is a real man, does his job and responsibilities, but when you don't live up to the same EXACT amount of work and pull your end, he goes haywire. They tend not to be extremely unsocial ppl and remind me of the gorillas in the jungle that if challenged just slightly will jump at you. I told my mom if my dad talked to people the way he did on the street he'd probably be killed.

[Satomiblood]

Is your dad filipino? This sounds strangely like my situation. My dad is a real man, does his job and responsibilities, but when you don't live up to the same EXACT amount of work and pull your end, he goes haywire. They tend not to be extremely social ppl and remind me of the gorillas in the jungle that if challenged just slightly will jump at you. I told my mom if my dad talked to people the way he did on the street he'd probably be killed.

I'm sorry, but I had to laugh at this.

[fistoftheryustar]

I'm sorry, but I had to laugh at this.

ha ha! i meant "un"social

[Chachi]

Sounds like 75% of the dudes in my area. If they see you do something else besides eat, sleep, work or vote republican they flip the fuck out.