The Relationship/Dating Thread: We will argue over your issue like we're your parents...even yell.

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:smokin:THE RELATIONSHIP/DATING THREAD RULES AN GUIDELINES:smokin:
New Thread for a New Year
1) This thread if for opinions and knowledge of women/men in general. Relationships, dating, situations, issues, sex..etc. I ask that everyone keep it REAL and not DUMB.:cool:


2) Don't knock anyones opinion nor take it for full regard unless the majority agrees. Otherwise take it an mold it to your liking.:chat:


3) Make sure to look through the thread for situations that may be similar to yours. If you can't a member shall just point out a post that has the answer you are looking for.:wow:


4) We have lady members, so respect their opinions and views please.:tup:


5) IF you feel uncomfortable expressing it within here, I am willing to answer it through PM.:shy:


6) Ignorant answers will be deleted as well as disses toward those that may have not walked your path.:nunchuck:
7) Concerned about your health....please resort to www.WebMD.com for further help rather than srk.:wtf:

8) Please no "Post a Pic" reply. It will be deleted. ALONG WITH THAT--> sending pics of someone without their knowledge can lead to a ban... so think before doing so.:annoy:


9) If you want one member to answer your question, please state his or her name in the beginning. (ie hey ______insert trustworthy member...):pray:


10) Relationship questions should be given enough detail for those willing to help to understand (your age, length of time together, and issues at hand aka your an her fault) :sweat:

11) This is NOT a journal. Any day to day posting will be deleted and you will be warned.:zzz:

12) Trolling will get you an infraction and possible ban. So watch yourself.

13) THOSE THAT ARE DATING/IN A RELATIONSHIP with some that post on this site... please keep any "at home issues" off the site. I NOR any mod can help you other than infract/ban the both of you.

14) Remember we have a younger generation on this site now and folk viewing from all over. SEXUAL topics/issues please try to keep serious.


Good luck. I will try to answer as many as I can and hope srk's finest will help also.:tup:




Thanks!!
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  • FaceMeAndBeBrokenFaceMeAndBeBroken FUCK JAPANESE STICKS Joined: Posts: 3,518
    Hopefully I can post relationship issues this year rather than "broad I'm messing with " issues
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  • LunaidLunaid Joined: Posts: 642
    Happy new years everybody.

    Continuing the trend in 2011 of me being an idiot...I'm convinced the cute girl who works at the gas station wants me. She turned on the air compressor for me after it ate my quarters.

    Should I just...put it in?
  • OsgXOsgX Joined: Posts: 1,900
    Damn near 11 cups of punch (made with everclear and only god knows what else) on top of some 100 proof vodka, and whatever else, and I'm still faded as I type this out.

    I weigh about a buck 29, so it feels gdlk when I out-drink Mike Haggar looking ass dudes.
  • orochizoolanderorochizoolander 2LANDER! Joined: Posts: 15,625
    Happy new years everyone, and remember although it's great you don't need a bf/gf at your side during the holidays to have a good time as long as you're happy with yourself and/or in good company:party:

    Had an amazing albeit weird, unexpected night and to top it off the woman I posted about finally got a new phone and called me at midnight and feels exactly the same way about me as I do about her. We've only talked for 2 of the 4 months we've known each other so I'm still talking to others but I seriously think we have a great future together or at least I can marry her and take half her shit and be set for life. =P
    P. gorath said: seriously though, it really crystalized how much better mvc3 is than that game. "Oh look, commando vs. 3 characters...this will be excitin--zzzzzzzzzzzzzZZzzzz"
  • KoopKoop SRK - D.M.V. OG™ (⌐■_■) Joined: Posts: 5,487 mod
    Glad everyone had a great new year... time for a new year... new things
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  • KzohKzoh Ladies Love Cool Kev Joined: Posts: 6,338
    Happy New year, I pray to succeed in college when I reenter the latter part of this year and on the ACT when I take it some point soon. I also pray to finally meet a nice girl before this year ends, I feel like I deserve someone honest and genuine as I am that way for the most part.
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  • NeesaNeesa Well, shit. Joined: Posts: 7,076
    I'm excited for this year! Let's do it bigger and better than 2011... Cause that shit sucked donkey dick for me.
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  • akumatruniggaakumatrunigga Joined: Posts: 3,312
    May need to start posting in here again. But the negro is just in chill mode and stacking bread now but doesn't hurt to check out opinions
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  • HotobuHotobu Simpsonized Joined: Posts: 3,573 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    Ok I'll start it off. So I've been knowing this female for about a year. Met her in school, asked her out, she had a boyfriend, I backed off, they broke up, she looked me up. We've since gone on a couple of dates and everything's gone really well. I'll be leaving town soon and the last time we were out (a couple of days ago) I mentioned that I ski. She said maybe we should try to go skiing before I leave. I said well I'm not sure of any places near, the best thing I can think of would be to do it as a weekend getaway type thing, and she seemed fine with that.

    To get right to the point. While I wouldn't mind a ski weekend, I'm really not interested unless there's fucking involved. I'm trying to think of the best way to find out if she's DTF before I start making reservations.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    A weekend away is relationship level shit...dont do it.

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    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    Hopefully I can post relationship issues this year rather than "broad I'm messing with " issues
    If you keep messing around the way you do you wont find a quality woman..

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  • Shadow Ace 50Shadow Ace 50 Chaos Control A hoe Joined: Posts: 2,377
    I know I rarely post here but here's to 2012 and the "adventures" that await me

    *cheers*
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  • FaceMeAndBeBrokenFaceMeAndBeBroken FUCK JAPANESE STICKS Joined: Posts: 3,518
    A weekend away is relationship level shit...dont do it.

    Sent using my Evo..not the 3D ish..eff 3D!

    100% infact, I'd say you need to have been dating for a WHILE to even think about that kind of shit.
    If you keep messing around the way you do you wont find a quality woman..

    Sent using my Evo..not the 3D ish..eff 3D!

    Well, back to something I said in....2009; at 30, which happens at the end of 2012, its done. Thats when I give it up, grab myself a 'wife' from PI, call it a day. Whats funny about it, is there are gonna be a few girls that will be WTF, to which I'll answer, 'you dont need to worry about me....you have kids to worry about! Toodles!"

    Thats, of course, if I havent messed up my "anti-girls with kids" snobbery by having this kid due in March be mine. All these years without having one though hopefully that 'luck' still shines through.
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  • LogiaLogia Flare Drive Joined: Posts: 334
    I'm excited for this year! Let's do it bigger and better than 2011... Cause that shit sucked donkey dick for me.

    You got that right. I've always been one to take a passive approach to relationships but good things aren't just gonna fall into my lap. I've never had a girlfriend but the fact that I never really put any effort into it is what really sucks. I'm gonna try and live this year by Just Do It. Seems Nike had it right from Day 1.
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  • RodimusRodimus Im just 1 of the 5! Joined: Posts: 3,329 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    Ok I'll start it off. So I've been knowing this female for about a year. Met her in school, asked her out, she had a boyfriend, I backed off, they broke up, she looked me up. We've since gone on a couple of dates and everything's gone really well. I'll be leaving town soon and the last time we were out (a couple of days ago) I mentioned that I ski. She said maybe we should try to go skiing before I leave. I said well I'm not sure of any places near, the best thing I can think of would be to do it as a weekend getaway type thing, and she seemed fine with that.

    To get right to the point. While I wouldn't mind a ski weekend, I'm really not interested unless there's fucking involved. I'm trying to think of the best way to find out if she's DTF before I start making reservations.

    You need to smash before the ski trip, then if ski trip happens in the future you already know what you getting into. Sound like she might be setting you up for a free vacay trip on yo dollar with the no lovin assist.

    If she is DTF this should happen b4 the trip.
  • gunnersgunners Joined: Posts: 1,731
    Ok I'll start it off. So I've been knowing this female for about a year. Met her in school, asked her out, she had a boyfriend, I backed off, they broke up, she looked me up. We've since gone on a couple of dates and everything's gone really well. I'll be leaving town soon and the last time we were out (a couple of days ago) I mentioned that I ski. She said maybe we should try to go skiing before I leave. I said well I'm not sure of any places near, the best thing I can think of would be to do it as a weekend getaway type thing, and she seemed fine with that.

    To get right to the point. While I wouldn't mind a ski weekend, I'm really not interested unless there's fucking involved. I'm trying to think of the best way to find out if she's DTF before I start making reservations.
    ''I'm cool with the ski trip but truthfully don't you think we're moving a bit too fast, I mean we haven't even fucked yet''.

    Unless going away for the weekend is nothing for you, at this stage in the 'relationship' you would be setting the bar too high. At minimum you need to let her now what things ( eg. sex) are beneath weekend trips away with one another.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124

    Thats, of course, if I havent messed up my "anti-girls with kids" snobbery by having this kid due in March be mine. All these years without having one though hopefully that 'luck' still shines through.
    Did you do what I pmed you to do? You will have a better picture if that circumstances you are in if you do.

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  • FaceMeAndBeBrokenFaceMeAndBeBroken FUCK JAPANESE STICKS Joined: Posts: 3,518
    I did, but no results because my calls/texts didn't go back far enough. I also dont get a bill with detailed call info since I use CrooKed.

    It's still going to be a huge mystery until then.
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  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    Just realized you only have 2 months to wait.
    I guess march is going to be an interesting month.

    RE: Phone you should try this out instead http://www.virginmobileusa.com/cell-phone-plans/paylo-plans.jsp

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  • thurstthurst What's my age again? Joined: Posts: 11,461 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    i don't really see a problem with a nice weekend trip, but you should def try to confirm that you're fucking...a good way to do that would be to make it clear that you're only getting a room with one bed.
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  • KoopKoop SRK - D.M.V. OG™ (⌐■_■) Joined: Posts: 5,487 mod
    i don't really see a problem with a nice weekend trip, but you should def try to confirm that you're fucking...a good way to do that would be to make it clear that you're only getting a room with one bed.


    No true way to confirm even if you get a room with one bed. What happens if "time of the month" shows up? What happens if her mind changes cause she feels thats all he wants. What happens if you throw out a lil dough and suddenly you "learn" awkward shyt about her??

    A nice weekend trip is once you established something with said chick... definitely a "i already tapped that ass i just wanna do it elsewhere" situation... a weekend away with unfamiliar territory can have horrible outcomes... horrible.

    if ya tryin to tap handle that shyt on ya own time where all you have to do if shyt isn't goin ya way is just leave. no packing.. no room wasted... no awkward moment on teh drive back.
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  • fishjiefishjie no Joined: Posts: 4,780 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    why cant you just get a room with one bed and let her know. if she still goes, get her drunk, and then make a move (just don't make it an EMBLEM LORD move). if she doesnt sex you, you'll probably at least get to 2nd or 3rd base.
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  • SpycarnegySpycarnegy Joined: Posts: 1,309
    New thread, new sub, let the bullshit continue!
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  • EndaeiasEndaeias √evil⋇∞ Joined: Posts: 305
    Not to beat the dead horse to a bloody pulp, I would definitely suggest turning down the ski trip. If the only requirement (er, interest) in going is to put it in, you'll likely wind up disappointed. There are a slew of variables that makes the outcome unpredictable. A weekend trip to is reserved for a more committed relationship that's been managed long enough that there aren't any doubts about what is going to happen.
  • KrassHoleKrassHole Ex_Matt Joined: Posts: 3,470
    why cant you just get a room with one bed and let her know. if she still goes, get her drunk, and then make a move (just don't make it an EMBLEM LORD move). if she doesnt sex you, you'll probably at least get to 2nd or 3rd base.

    Thats an idea, but if your only goal is to get pussy and you dont care about any other aspects of the relationship and your only way of getting laid is to get the girl piss drunk, then why do you need a ski trip + this specific girl to make that happen?


    ps whats an emblem lord move??
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  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    Lord...poor EM

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  • po pimpuspo pimpus Let's Hit the Climax! Joined: Posts: 23,956
    I lurk heavily, but I do remember the Emblemlord saga... That poem and the subsequent clowning from peeps like SRKev is legendary status. Looks like he was turning things around though, right?

    Question for the ladies and my more 'well-traveled' bros... Is it just in woman's nature to attempt to manipulate and deceive in order to get what they want? After my last relationship, I guess my eyes have been opened to the bs most females seem to revel in... It's almost like Chris Rock says(paraphrasing), "Everything about a woman is a lie-- That's not your face(makeup) You're not that tall(heels). Your chest ain't that big(pushup bra)." lol

    I used to be one of those 'sucka for love ass niggas' and now that I realize where I was fucking up, I just want to go buck wild and smash every broad I see. Sorry for ranting, guess I'm just venting due to a lack of worthwhile ventures or something...
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  • Zoidberg747Zoidberg747 Joined: Posts: 59
    You got that right. I've always been one to take a passive approach to relationships but good things aren't just gonna fall into my lap. I've never had a girlfriend but the fact that I never really put any effort into it is what really sucks. I'm gonna try and live this year by Just Do It. Seems Nike had it right from Day 1.
    I am in your situation as well. The girl I was finally going to ask out ends up having a boyfriend. And she sits right by me in my hardest class. Its going to be a looonnnnggg year-_-
  • orochizoolanderorochizoolander 2LANDER! Joined: Posts: 15,625
    There's 2 women in my life who I've known since September let's call them A and B. I talk to A several times a week, we get along great, she's everything any ,am could possibly want, and she would do anything for me. I've had no contact with B from November till new years eve except for 3 Facebook messages she sent me throughout December. B then called me at new years day 12:30AM saying how much she misses me, hasn't even thought of any other guy, and all that other stuff.

    For the record in the 2 month period she didn't call she disconnected her phone, moved out twice, and was busy running her businesses so it's not like she was leading me on or that I'm some passing fling to her.

    A has been so good to me and I like her a lot she's a rare catch for anyone but I like B more and am pretty sure there's a future there so unfortunately I'm going to have to drop A sometime soon once B and I have "the talk".

    Life finds a way to keep things interesting.
    P. gorath said: seriously though, it really crystalized how much better mvc3 is than that game. "Oh look, commando vs. 3 characters...this will be excitin--zzzzzzzzzzzzzZZzzzz"
  • gunnersgunners Joined: Posts: 1,731
    There's 2 women in my life who I've known since September let's call them A and B. I talk to A several times a week, we get along great, she's everything any ,am could possibly want, and she would do anything for me. I've had no contact with B from November till new years eve except for 3 Facebook messages she sent me throughout December. B then called me at new years day 12:30AM saying how much she misses me, hasn't even thought of any other guy, and all that other stuff.
    I'm starting to think I am too cynical but the stuff underlined seem like lies told to satisfy your ego. Unless you questioned her I don't really see why she would mention not thinking about other guys unless she was getting slammed by other guys and thought that it was something you would get offended by. If you were the only guy she thought about for 4 months she would have contacted more throughout November/December.
    A has been so good to me and I like her a lot she's a rare catch for anyone but I like B more and am pretty sure there's a future there so unfortunately I'm going to have to drop A sometime soon once B and I have "the talk".
    Women are capable of running game just as much as Men, you could end up with nothing or something worse. I suppose I'm the type of person who always orders the same steak at a restaurant so I cannot really comprehend dropping something you know and like for something you like but don't know.
  • orochizoolanderorochizoolander 2LANDER! Joined: Posts: 15,625
    Yeah you do sound like you're being too cynical lol I really don't think she would lie to me, but you could be right I guess. She said she hasn't talked to any other guy after I told her I've been talking to other women.

    Could she be playing me? Sure just like how Koop could be the real life Patrick Bateman but either scenario is extremely unlikely IMO.
    P. gorath said: seriously though, it really crystalized how much better mvc3 is than that game. "Oh look, commando vs. 3 characters...this will be excitin--zzzzzzzzzzzzzZZzzzz"
  • thurstthurst What's my age again? Joined: Posts: 11,461 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    gunners might be onto something, but i don't think it really matters. so what if she's fucking other guys since you're not together? that said, the smart move is to keep rocking with the shorty that's already holding you down rather try and hope for the best with this broad that clearly has a lot of shit going that's (evidently) more important than you. bush in hand is worth 2 birds....that's how that saying goes, right?
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  • RodimusRodimus Im just 1 of the 5! Joined: Posts: 3,329 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    Question for the ladies and my more 'well-traveled' bros... Is it just in woman's nature to attempt to manipulate and deceive in order to get what they want? After my last relationship, I guess my eyes have been opened to the bs most females seem to revel in... It's almost like Chris Rock says(paraphrasing), "Everything about a woman is a lie-- That's not your face(makeup) You're not that tall(heels). Your chest ain't that big(pushup bra)." lol

    I used to be one of those 'sucka for love ass niggas' and now that I realize where I was fucking up, I just want to go buck wild and smash every broad I see. Sorry for ranting, guess I'm just venting due to a lack of worthwhile ventures or something...


    Nah fam thats not all women, you just spartan up and if you believe a chick is playing you out then you can be the fuck out. Yes pople will test the limits but only if you let them. If you dont tell a person whoa this area over here is out of bounds they gonna keep on doing it. No need to take it out on every new chick because of only a few chicks you had a bad experience with.

    step yo numbers up, you will find a better match if you increase your character select screen. MVC2 is Better than MVC3 because you have more players to choose from.
  • fishjiefishjie no Joined: Posts: 4,780 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    Thats an idea, but if your only goal is to get pussy and you dont care about any other aspects of the relationship and your only way of getting laid is to get the girl piss drunk, then why do you need a ski trip + this specific girl to make that happen?


    ps whats an emblem lord move??

    it sounds like he enjoys skiing and wants to go on a trip, so if he can get some happy fun time with a girl too why not?

    an emblem lord move is to be in bed with a girl, and have her expose herself to you, and then promptly completely ignore her and NOT fuck the shit out of her because you are a gentleman who opens doors for women.
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  • CuzCuz Joined: Posts: 544
    Am I the only one who thinks if she's ok with boarding together for a weekend she's ok with playing doctor?
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    Am I the only one who thinks if she's ok with boarding together for a weekend she's ok with playing doctor?
    Yes...you are also a dude though

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  • gunnersgunners Joined: Posts: 1,731
    Yeah you do sound like you're being too cynical lol I really don't think she would lie to me, but you could be right I guess. She said she hasn't talked to any other guy after I told her I've been talking to other women.

    Could she be playing me? Sure just like how Koop could be the real life Patrick Bateman but either scenario is extremely unlikely IMO.
    Why you believe she is telling the truth is the reason lies break trust. Look at things this way, if you were trying to get in someone's good books would you say ''Yeah I've just been doing my own thing, had a few flings, got on with my work and all that'' or would try and make out as though you were busy but had the person on your mind all the time.
    gunners might be onto something, but i don't think it really matters. so what if she's fucking other guys since you're not together? that said, the smart move is to keep rocking with the shorty that's already holding you down rather try and hope for the best with this broad that clearly has a lot of shit going that's (evidently) more important than you. bush in hand is worth 2 birds....that's how that saying goes, right?
    I think it does matter, her fucking other guys is irrelevant but the affect her words have on his perception of how she feels about him is very relevant.

    Her words give the impression that she has deep feelings for him, would be committed to him and what not but as you highlighted 'she has a lot of shit going that's evidently more important that him'.
  • TheWandererTheWanderer Joined: Posts: 544
    Long story short....

    Girl at work has a boyfriend of 5 yrs. I have caught her checking me out everytime we work nearby. We have made small talks and she laughed like a little kid at everything I said. Finally, I tell her to meet me at so and so place after work, she agreed. It's 12 midnight, thats when we get out of work. She met me at so and so and I told her to come into my car, I wanna drive her around. She got in and I started driving to random places while getting to know her and make her laugh.

    I told her my hands are cold, I grabbed her hand and held on to it. She said WHAT ARE YOU DOING, while smiling. I said my hands are cold, so i'm borrowing hers. She played along. Next, I started touching her thigh, neck, hair, and tickled her. She didn't push me away. Asked her for her number, she gave it to me.

    A week later, I told her to meet at so and so place again, and same old routine. She got in my car and I drove her around. This time, I got even more agressive, I tried to go in for the kiss on the cheek. She dodged it everytime. It was getting late, so I found a dark place to park my car, cuz i got tired of driving around. We sat there in my car while she showed me her family pictures. I used that as an excuse to put my face close to hers, her bikini pics happen to pop up, so I grabbed it and zoomed them in. She tried to grab the phone from me but I made it so she had to lean toward me if she wanted to get the phone, which she did. I managed to land a kiss on here. She wasn't mad at all, but seem to enjoying it. As I dropped her off to her car, I asked her when she's free next week, she said she has school Mond-Fri. She asked me why, and I said I wanna take her to this place she'll love, but it opens at 10-12. I told her to skip one day and come with me. She said ok.

    Sorry for the long post. What do you guys think? Is she interested or just teasing? Because during all those interactions and flirting, she said she still loves her boyfriend and not looking. I tried to play the "make the boyfriend looks like ass", but I think I didn't have any experience in that field, yet. She said if her boyfriend finds out about this, he'll get mad. I said, he won't. This is between us, no one is around... She only sees him just on sundays....
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  • gunnersgunners Joined: Posts: 1,731
    She works with you.
    She is still seeing her boyfriend.
    She still loves her boyfriend.
    You're going to secluded places with her straight after work.
    Her boyfriend ( Rightfully) would be mad if he found out.

    Worst case scenario, you sleep with her and she accuses you of rape. Though if worst cases scenarios aren't your thing, getting your ass whipped by an angry boyfriend and fired for sexual harassment if you remain persistent are strong possibilities.
  • TheWandererTheWanderer Joined: Posts: 544
    She works with you.
    She is still seeing her boyfriend.
    She still loves her boyfriend.
    You're going to secluded places with her straight after work.
    Her boyfriend ( Rightfully) would be mad if he found out.

    Worst case scenario, you sleep with her and she accuses you of rape. Though if worst cases scenarios aren't your thing, getting your ass whipped by an angry boyfriend and fired for sexual harassment if you remain persistent are strong possibilities.
    All I ask is if she's interest or not... Don't give me a list of worst scenarios man. Haha.

    She's not the type that would snitch. I just know. So don't ask how. Haha. The boyfriend only visits on Sundays, so no big deal.

    So, is she interested or not? If interested, what can I do to laid her?Lets be real, if she cheats, it's not my fault. It's the boyfriend's fault for not doing his job as her man, not mine. So don't be putting your nuts on my face like it's my fault. Haha.
  • gunnersgunners Joined: Posts: 1,731
    All I ask is if she's interest or not... Don't give me a list of worst scenarios man. Haha.

    She's not the type that would snitch. I just know. So don't ask how. Haha. The boyfriend only visits on Sundays, so no big deal.

    So, is she interested or not? If interested, what can I do to laid her?Lets be real, if she cheats, it's not my fault. It's the boyfriend's fault for not doing his job as her man, not mine. So don't be putting your nuts on my face like it's my fault. Haha.
    Sorry for the long post. What do you guys think? Is she interested or just teasing?
    You asked 2 questions. The answer to the first question should make the answer to the second question irrelevant.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    Honestly in my eyes she already cheated.
    In my eyes you also sound kinda desperate to keep going after her. You work together and knows she has a bf..this will not end well.

    Sent using my Evo..not the 3D ish..eff 3D!

    qrazyinfo Tell your baby father im coming over Q.

    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • CuzCuz Joined: Posts: 544
    Yes...you are also a dude though

    Sent using my Evo..not the 3D ish..eff 3D!

    I am certainly a dude, but I'm a far cry from the raw raw must get laid testosterone crowd. Honestly if I'm booking the getaway and I ask if we should get one room or two, and she says one – I would see that as being rather telling. If sex didn't happen I wouldn't be angry or disappointed, just genuinely surprised. Then again I think I’m a tad older than most here, so it might skew things.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    ^ she could not want you spending extra money, she could also assume you could just snuggle since you two never did the deed prior, her limit could even be heavy petting.
    I say this time and time again...women and men communicate in different ways...this is one example to add to my point.

    qrazyinfo Tell your baby father im coming over Q.

    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • TheWandererTheWanderer Joined: Posts: 544
    Honestly in my eyes she already cheated.
    In my eyes you also sound kinda desperate to keep going after her. You work together and knows she has a bf..this will not end well.

    Sent using my Evo..not the 3D ish..eff 3D!
    She apparently doesn't think so, haha. I already got a girl, but I want to see how far I can get with her because a lot of guys are after her at work but she doesn't give them the time of day. I don't mind a little challenge. The semester is starting soon, once it starts, I'll probably stop going after her and go after girls on campus instead.

    The irony is... I think a lot of guys know she snuck into my car after work, now they give me this weird ass look like "u're a dick for going after her", when they had their chance but got rejected. So, now I'm up to game. Haha. It's all fun and games for me. Once she shows any signs of hesistation, then I will back off, otherwise it's on like donkey kong. My goal is atleasy 2nd or 3rd base, for now atleast.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    She already showed signs of hesitation when she dodged your kisses earlier.
    But, you have your mind set in what you want to do...shrug

    qrazyinfo Tell your baby father im coming over Q.

    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • starkilledstarkilled Black and white (I'm really black) Joined: Posts: 1,702

    So, is she interested or not? If interested, what can I do to laid her?Lets be real, if she cheats, it's not my fault. It's the boyfriend's fault for not doing his job as her man, not mine. So don't be putting your nuts on my face like it's my fault. Haha.

    If I were you, I'd back up so fast. Not only are you treading in territory you have no idea about, you are going to fuck up your work environment, possibly end up getting fired, and you're probably going to catch a mean ass whooping, Rodney King sized ass whooping from the boyfriend. It seems like all you care about is getting laid anyway, that's easy, go find a single woman to do that with. Don't be the one to fuck up someone else relationship
    fuck a relationship. god told that stupid bitch eve not to eat the fuckin mango or whatever, the bitch did, and fucked everyone. fuck women! shout out to snakes! -jimmy1200
  • RodimusRodimus Im just 1 of the 5! Joined: Posts: 3,329 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    Long story short....

    Its on you you know right from wrong, if you believe in karma then you know how this could come back. You down the road wifey a chick next thing you know ur chick is doing this with another dude. Would you feel like damn i should have stepped my game up or would you just be on some i slacked off dude got me?

    Its pretty much your move if she just throwing out oh i got a bf but still flirting heavy with you then its on you to make a move or go after whatever you trying to do with this chick.
  • RodimusRodimus Im just 1 of the 5! Joined: Posts: 3,329 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    If I were you, I'd back up so fast. Not only are you treading in territory you have no idea about, you are going to fuck up your work environment, possibly end up getting fired, and you're probably going to catch a mean ass whooping, Rodney King sized ass whooping from the boyfriend. It seems like all you care about is getting laid anyway, that's easy, go find a single woman to do that with. Don't be the one to fuck up someone else relationship

    I agree with you but we cant put it all on Wander she get some blame too if she didnt put her foot down. chances are she has cheated in the past before Wander's situation w/her.
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