The Relationship/Dating Thread: We will argue over your issue like we're your parents...even yell.

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  • TheWandererTheWanderer Joined: Posts: 544
    She works with you.
    She is still seeing her boyfriend.
    She still loves her boyfriend.
    You're going to secluded places with her straight after work.
    Her boyfriend ( Rightfully) would be mad if he found out.

    Worst case scenario, you sleep with her and she accuses you of rape. Though if worst cases scenarios aren't your thing, getting your ass whipped by an angry boyfriend and fired for sexual harassment if you remain persistent are strong possibilities.
    All I ask is if she's interest or not... Don't give me a list of worst scenarios man. Haha.

    She's not the type that would snitch. I just know. So don't ask how. Haha. The boyfriend only visits on Sundays, so no big deal.

    So, is she interested or not? If interested, what can I do to laid her?Lets be real, if she cheats, it's not my fault. It's the boyfriend's fault for not doing his job as her man, not mine. So don't be putting your nuts on my face like it's my fault. Haha.
  • gunnersgunners Joined: Posts: 1,731
    All I ask is if she's interest or not... Don't give me a list of worst scenarios man. Haha.

    She's not the type that would snitch. I just know. So don't ask how. Haha. The boyfriend only visits on Sundays, so no big deal.

    So, is she interested or not? If interested, what can I do to laid her?Lets be real, if she cheats, it's not my fault. It's the boyfriend's fault for not doing his job as her man, not mine. So don't be putting your nuts on my face like it's my fault. Haha.
    Sorry for the long post. What do you guys think? Is she interested or just teasing?
    You asked 2 questions. The answer to the first question should make the answer to the second question irrelevant.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    Honestly in my eyes she already cheated.
    In my eyes you also sound kinda desperate to keep going after her. You work together and knows she has a bf..this will not end well.

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    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • CuzCuz Joined: Posts: 544
    Yes...you are also a dude though

    Sent using my Evo..not the 3D ish..eff 3D!

    I am certainly a dude, but I'm a far cry from the raw raw must get laid testosterone crowd. Honestly if I'm booking the getaway and I ask if we should get one room or two, and she says one – I would see that as being rather telling. If sex didn't happen I wouldn't be angry or disappointed, just genuinely surprised. Then again I think I’m a tad older than most here, so it might skew things.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    ^ she could not want you spending extra money, she could also assume you could just snuggle since you two never did the deed prior, her limit could even be heavy petting.
    I say this time and time again...women and men communicate in different ways...this is one example to add to my point.

    qrazyinfo Tell your baby father im coming over Q.

    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • TheWandererTheWanderer Joined: Posts: 544
    Honestly in my eyes she already cheated.
    In my eyes you also sound kinda desperate to keep going after her. You work together and knows she has a bf..this will not end well.

    Sent using my Evo..not the 3D ish..eff 3D!
    She apparently doesn't think so, haha. I already got a girl, but I want to see how far I can get with her because a lot of guys are after her at work but she doesn't give them the time of day. I don't mind a little challenge. The semester is starting soon, once it starts, I'll probably stop going after her and go after girls on campus instead.

    The irony is... I think a lot of guys know she snuck into my car after work, now they give me this weird ass look like "u're a dick for going after her", when they had their chance but got rejected. So, now I'm up to game. Haha. It's all fun and games for me. Once she shows any signs of hesistation, then I will back off, otherwise it's on like donkey kong. My goal is atleasy 2nd or 3rd base, for now atleast.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    She already showed signs of hesitation when she dodged your kisses earlier.
    But, you have your mind set in what you want to do...shrug

    qrazyinfo Tell your baby father im coming over Q.

    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • starkilledstarkilled Black and white (I'm really black) Joined: Posts: 1,702

    So, is she interested or not? If interested, what can I do to laid her?Lets be real, if she cheats, it's not my fault. It's the boyfriend's fault for not doing his job as her man, not mine. So don't be putting your nuts on my face like it's my fault. Haha.

    If I were you, I'd back up so fast. Not only are you treading in territory you have no idea about, you are going to fuck up your work environment, possibly end up getting fired, and you're probably going to catch a mean ass whooping, Rodney King sized ass whooping from the boyfriend. It seems like all you care about is getting laid anyway, that's easy, go find a single woman to do that with. Don't be the one to fuck up someone else relationship
    fuck a relationship. god told that stupid bitch eve not to eat the fuckin mango or whatever, the bitch did, and fucked everyone. fuck women! shout out to snakes! -jimmy1200
  • RodimusRodimus Are you feeling me yo!? Joined: Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    Long story short....

    Its on you you know right from wrong, if you believe in karma then you know how this could come back. You down the road wifey a chick next thing you know ur chick is doing this with another dude. Would you feel like damn i should have stepped my game up or would you just be on some i slacked off dude got me?

    Its pretty much your move if she just throwing out oh i got a bf but still flirting heavy with you then its on you to make a move or go after whatever you trying to do with this chick.
  • RodimusRodimus Are you feeling me yo!? Joined: Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    If I were you, I'd back up so fast. Not only are you treading in territory you have no idea about, you are going to fuck up your work environment, possibly end up getting fired, and you're probably going to catch a mean ass whooping, Rodney King sized ass whooping from the boyfriend. It seems like all you care about is getting laid anyway, that's easy, go find a single woman to do that with. Don't be the one to fuck up someone else relationship

    I agree with you but we cant put it all on Wander she get some blame too if she didnt put her foot down. chances are she has cheated in the past before Wander's situation w/her.
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    Don't forget this part:
    She apparently doesn't think so, haha. I already got a girl, but I want to see how far I can get with her because a lot of guys are after her at work but she doesn't give them the time of day. I don't mind a little challenge. The semester is starting soon, once it starts, I'll probably stop going after her and go after girls on campus instead.
    .
    What if your "girl" did to you what this coworker is doing to her dude?
    As a matter of fact, why do YOU even have a gf?

    qrazyinfo Tell your baby father im coming over Q.

    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • starkilledstarkilled Black and white (I'm really black) Joined: Posts: 1,702
    I agree with you but we cant put it all on Wander she get some blame too if she didnt put her foot down. chances are she has cheated in the past before Wander's situation w/her.

    Oh she takes a good portion of blame as well, but I'm just saying, don't be THAT guy. Let it be someone else, don't air yourself out like that. I'm sure she has cheated in the past if she's acting like that, and that's a scary thing, you don't know who's she's been with or what she could have or do to you.(STD, claim sexual harassment, lie to the boyfriend and provoke an ass whoopin 10x worse)
    fuck a relationship. god told that stupid bitch eve not to eat the fuckin mango or whatever, the bitch did, and fucked everyone. fuck women! shout out to snakes! -jimmy1200
  • DramatixDramatix Could be better. Joined: Posts: 4,520
    Soon or later, shit is just going to hit the fan. Two people dating in the workplace, cheating on their girlfriend/boyfriend. Someone's either going to lose their job or some teeth.
    "Everyone in here has had someone who tried to convince them that they were sexually harassed, and you did not believe them because they were not cute."
  • starkilledstarkilled Black and white (I'm really black) Joined: Posts: 1,702
    Soon or later, shit is just going to hit the fan. Two people dating in the workplace, cheating on their girlfriend/boyfriend. Someone's either going to lose their job or some teeth.
    probably both.
    fuck a relationship. god told that stupid bitch eve not to eat the fuckin mango or whatever, the bitch did, and fucked everyone. fuck women! shout out to snakes! -jimmy1200
  • RodimusRodimus Are you feeling me yo!? Joined: Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    ?uestion cause I have a situation going on too.

    One of my best female friends is about to become homeless. Her living situation is super fucked up. I have extra space and she asked me would i think about helping her out for a month or more with a place to stay.

    My problem is she has a bf, out of respect I told her to talk over her situation with him. They been together for yrs I dont know him so i dont know his character but she love him. So Im like cant you and him move in together?

    She told me he isnt ready, that he wants them to get married first and all that. I was like ok that dont sound like BS to you? ya'll can just go b4 a judge then do a traditonal style wedding later right? She tells me thats what she suggested to him but he didnt want to do that.

    I told her you told him that you are about to be homeless right? She was like yea but his parents would have a problem with me moving in with him. I was like he make decent money tho right? She tells me yea..

    So i told her you need to make a move with your bf.

    Ive known her for like 12yrs i would think since she been with that dude for 4 or 5yrs it would be no question that he'd make it happen.

    I think he B.S'n her but thats not my lane to cause reasonable doubt in her relationship. I told her if you told your bf that you was staying with another dude wouldn't he flip out? I know i would. I remember back maybe 2 or 3yrs agoi met her for drinks and he was blowing up her phone like why you out drinking with some other dude.

    I dont even see her like that, but i dont want to see her homeless.
  • LunaidLunaid Joined: Posts: 642
    Lets be real, if she cheats, it's not my fault. It's the boyfriend's fault for not doing his job as her man, not mine. So don't be putting your nuts on my face like it's my fault. Haha.

    Some of the dumbest shit I've ever seen put into words. If she cheats it's her fault for being a piece of fucking garbage. Sure it's situational, maybe her boyfriend isn't doing things right, but even then she's 100% at fault.

    Are you to blame even a little bit if she does cheat? No. Do I think you're kind of a scumbag after reading all of this? Maybe. Put half this effort into a chick without a boyfriend.
  • DramatixDramatix Could be better. Joined: Posts: 4,520
    ?uestion cause I have a situation going on too.

    One of my best female friends is about to become homeless. Her living situation is super fucked up. I have extra space and she asked me would i think about helping her out for a month or more with a place to stay.

    My problem is she has a bf, out of respect I told her to talk over her situation with him. They been together for yrs I dont know him so i dont know his character but she love him. So Im like cant you and him move in together?

    She told me he isnt ready, that he wants them to get married first and all that. I was like ok that dont sound like BS to you? ya'll can just go b4 a judge then do a traditonal style wedding later right? She tells me thats what she suggested to him but he didnt want to do that.

    I told her you told him that you are about to be homeless right? She was like yea but his parents would have a problem with me moving in with him. I was like he make decent money tho right? She tells me yea..

    So i told her you need to make a move with your bf.

    Ive known her for like 12yrs i would think since she been with that dude for 4 or 5yrs it would be no question that he'd make it happen.

    I think he B.S'n her but thats not my lane to cause reasonable doubt in her relationship. I told her if you told your bf that you was staying with another dude wouldn't he flip out? I know i would. I remember back maybe 2 or 3yrs agoi met her for drinks and he was blowing up her phone like why you out drinking with some other dude.

    I dont even see her like that, but i dont want to see her homeless.

    He seems to be a crappy boyfriend if he isn't willing to help his soon-to-be homeless girlfriend, let alone be pissed over her having a close friend helping her out and offering to put a roof over her head. Personally, I don't think you even have to disclose that to him, seeing he isn't doing anything about it other than wanting to do everything traditionally. Why would she want to marry a guy like that? If he lives on his own, why does what his parents think matter? Her boyfriend needs to realize that you're just helping out a friend, and nothing more.
    "Everyone in here has had someone who tried to convince them that they were sexually harassed, and you did not believe them because they were not cute."
  • QrazyQrazy Joined: Posts: 2,124
    @rodimus you made the right decision telling her to talk it over with your bf...especially after that stunt with the phone calls. Marriage is not that cut and dry...there could be other reasons why he cannot marry her...but barring any extenuating circumstances he does need to shit or get off the pot. That is for HER to figure out though.
    You cannot have her move in with a controlling boyfriend in tow...if you have known her 12 years and she has dated him for 5, there is a reason why you do not know him and I am sure it is him. Sounds like a controlling prick who will probably start drama in your house. I do not know how close you are to her...but if her situation could make your peaceful domain no longer peaceful...then you have to put you first.

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    — myworld mycurls tish (@Tish_myworld) October 30, 2012
  • starkilledstarkilled Black and white (I'm really black) Joined: Posts: 1,702
    snippity.

    Maybe you can take some time to help her situation by looking for other ways to help her . She doesn't have any girl friends or brothers/sisters willing to help? I don't think you should move her in, it looks like her dude is just looking for a reason to start some shit.
    fuck a relationship. god told that stupid bitch eve not to eat the fuckin mango or whatever, the bitch did, and fucked everyone. fuck women! shout out to snakes! -jimmy1200
  • RodimusRodimus Are you feeling me yo!? Joined: Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    @rodimus you made the right decision telling her to talk it over with your bf...especially after that stunt with the phone calls. Marriage is not that cut and dry...there could be other reasons why he cannot marry her...but barring any extenuating circumstances he does need to shit or get off the pot. That is for HER to figure out though.
    You cannot have her move in with a controlling boyfriend in tow...if you have known her 12 years and she has dated him for 5, there is a reason why you do not know him and I am sure it is him. Sounds like a controlling prick who will probably start drama in your house. I do not know how close you are to her...but if her situation could make your peaceful domain no longer peaceful...then you have to put you first.

    Yea she know me I worked too hard for my peace and Im not about to have any drama. He still lives with his parents but from what i was told he makes enough to support them. I was also trying to figure out why hasnt he moved out already but idk know and Im not about to ask. So Im just like ok if you plan on marrying this dude down the line why not just pool ya'll money together now since you gonna be homeless.

    I have only met a few of my female friends bf's so with her her last bf we was cool but this dude idk about him so Im not gonna throw him under the bus just yet.

    We share a mutal friend who has space also I asked her and she was like they aren't as cool as they use to be but she would think about it. Mind you that mutal friend has only known her for like 4yrs i think.
  • RodimusRodimus Are you feeling me yo!? Joined: Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    Maybe you can take some time to help her situation by looking for other ways to help her . She doesn't have any girl friends or brothers/sisters willing to help? I don't think you should move her in, it looks like her dude is just looking for a reason to start some shit.

    Oh trust fam I have, we share a mutal friend so Im trying to see if that girl will put her up for a lil bit. Her fam is all west coast and her fam here dont have the space because they all married kids etc.
  • OsgXOsgX Joined: Posts: 1,900
    Rodimus, it sounds like you're doing all you can man. I don't understand why her man won't step up to the plate, but that's between him and her. Smh. Sucks to see friends in situations like that.
  • KoopKoop SRK - D.M.V. OG™ (⌐■_■) Joined: Posts: 5,487 mod
    ?uestion cause I have a situation going on too.

    One of my best female friends is about to become homeless. Her living situation is super fucked up. I have extra space and she asked me would i think about helping her out for a month or more with a place to stay.

    My problem is she has a bf, out of respect I told her to talk over her situation with him. They been together for yrs I dont know him so i dont know his character but she love him. So Im like cant you and him move in together?

    She told me he isnt ready, that he wants them to get married first and all that. I was like ok that dont sound like BS to you? ya'll can just go b4 a judge then do a traditonal style wedding later right? She tells me thats what she suggested to him but he didnt want to do that.

    I told her you told him that you are about to be homeless right? She was like yea but his parents would have a problem with me moving in with him. I was like he make decent money tho right? She tells me yea..

    So i told her you need to make a move with your bf.

    Ive known her for like 12yrs i would think since she been with that dude for 4 or 5yrs it would be no question that he'd make it happen.

    I think he B.S'n her but thats not my lane to cause reasonable doubt in her relationship. I told her if you told your bf that you was staying with another dude wouldn't he flip out? I know i would. I remember back maybe 2 or 3yrs agoi met her for drinks and he was blowing up her phone like why you out drinking with some other dude.

    I dont even see her like that, but i dont want to see her homeless.


    First up... if thats ya friend. You give it to her like a friend. If you value that friendship then it simply comes out to this........an this is YOU simply being a man:

    " you door is open... but he can't come"

    Simple as that. You don't know him like you stated. Its no drama cause its your spot and if he does catch a issue then it falls on her. She also need to be reminded to tap her REAL last resort HER PARENTS. If she hasnt done so she needs too..... an she clearly doesnt trust ol' boy and I PUT MONEY ON IT she will drop his ass cause she is at a point where life hits you hard and you REALIZE who is there an who isnt. That will click into her head unless he does have some control over her be it sex or false promises (especially if she is making excuses for him)... Till then you can extend your hand but you make sure you lay down ground rules. Either she will do what she needs to do to re-up in life or she can be stuck like hell. An don't be afraid to ask question more than what your doing.... if your going to open your home up you need to know how she lives... what she does... is she working to get back on her feet...etc. etc (trust me if she is serious those questions shouldnt be a problem).
    Respected... simple as that.
  • RodimusRodimus Are you feeling me yo!? Joined: Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    First up... if thats ya friend. You give it to her like a friend. If you value that friendship then is simply comes out to this........an this is YOU simply being a man:

    " you door is open... but he can't come"

    Simple as that. You don't know him like you stated. Its no drama cause its your spot and if he does catch a issue then it falls on her. She also need to be reminded to tap her REAL last resort HER PARENTS. If she hasnt done so she needs too..... an she clearly doesnt trust ol' boy and I PUT MONEY ON IT she will drop his ass cause she is at a point where life hits you hard and you REALIZE who is there an who isnt. That will click into her head unless he does have some control over her be it sex or false promises (especially if she is making excuses for him)... Till then you can extend your hand but you make sure you lay down ground rules. Either she will do what she needs to do to re-up in life or she can be stuck like hell. An don't be afraid to ask question more than what your doing.... if your going to open your home up you need to know how she lives... what she does... is she working to get back on her feet...etc. etc (trust me if she is serious those questions shouldnt be a problem).

    On no doubt fam you know I already asked all those questions, she moved back in with her mom about 2yrs ago to help out cause her mother fell sick. So at the same time her aunt moved in also cause she was going thru a divorce. The aunts got the place sorta unsafe because of the husband etc. I dont know all those details.

    So the aunt ended up moving her kids in and one of my friends nieces i guess is like 14 or 15 and just had a child. The father is some 16 or 17 yr old and his fam is causing problems what have you.

    My friend cant take it helping her mom and having to i guess deal with the aunts non sense too, some type of fight happend and now her Mom sorta filled on her cause of her sis the aunt.

    The rest of her fam is on the west coast so cause of her work and stuff she cant just up and leave. I told her Im not dealing with her bf but if you really serious about him then you gotta get it thru his head that you have no options really.

    So idk what she gonna do I wanted some peeps views on should i fall back if she dont get that her bf aint really trying to help her living situation.

    I told her that my door is open and she offered to help with my rent but we friends I already discussed with her if she did move in with me what things i would need her to pay.
  • RodimusRodimus Are you feeling me yo!? Joined: Posts: 3,368 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    I just hate to see my friends stuck especially if they are hard working you know. Its one thing if i can clearly see that they aint doing shit but thats not the case with her. I think in 2months she'd have her own place like she use to.
  • KoopKoop SRK - D.M.V. OG™ (⌐■_■) Joined: Posts: 5,487 mod
    I just hate to see my friends stuck especially if they are hard working you know. Its one thing if i can clearly see that they aint doing shit but thats not the case with her. I think in 2months she'd have her own place like she use to.


    Understood. You can open your door you just make sure you state the main thing about the boyfriend your unknown with. If she feels your being on some 'parental guidance' type shyt you make sure you slap the shyt out of her with the point he is not making a single effort to SUPPORT her as a man should and as a woman expects...

    I don't want to see my people out either... but if they cant recognize when they need to 'restart' and 'ride that shyt out' I can't help them. If they choose a 'lover' that isnt the main person trying to assist them in some type of way (being grown for one) over someone that is helping and simply asking to keep STRANGERS out of your home... then so be. Life will show them how such a mistake it is and YOU cant lose any sleep or feelings over it. I learned at age 15 "you cant worry about a friend that cant recognize help"
    Respected... simple as that.
  • thurstthurst What's my age again? Joined: Posts: 11,604 ✭✭✭✭✭ OG
    ^ she could not want you spending extra money, she could also assume you could just snuggle since you two never did the deed prior, her limit could even be heavy petting.
    I say this time and time again...women and men communicate in different ways...this is one example to add to my point.

    granted you're a girl...but NIGGA PLEASE!

    lol petting, haven't heard that since middle school health class. snuggling is a post-coitus activity, if you ain't getting the buns then your ass shouldn't be snuggling a cot-damn thing.
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  • KoopKoop SRK - D.M.V. OG™ (⌐■_■) Joined: Posts: 5,487 mod
    Simple an plain im not goin on no ski trip- weekend away with hopes that im tappin something.... sorry. If i havent gotten the tail prior to a weekend away then its not goin down... dont care if i do love to ski/snowboard...
    Respected... simple as that.
  • CuzCuz Joined: Posts: 544
    granted you're a girl...but NIGGA PLEASE!

    lol petting, haven't heard that since middle school health class. snuggling is a post-coitus activity, if you ain't getting the buns then your ass shouldn't be snuggling a cot-damn thing.


    Like I said I wouldn't be offended, just incredibly puzzled. If she said we're not having sex because she's an undercover agent investigating reports that the owners of the mountain are smuggling diamonds using the snow and she needed a cover, I'd be like "woa..." but it would make more sense.
  • KoopKoop SRK - D.M.V. OG™ (⌐■_■) Joined: Posts: 5,487 mod
    Like I said I wouldn't be offended, just incredibly puzzled. If she said we're not having sex because she's an undercover agent investigating reports that the owners of the mountain are smuggling diamonds using the snow and she needed a cover, I'd be like "woa..." but it would make more sense.


    i just busted out laughing at work...
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  • NeesaNeesa Everyone faces darkness on their own. As I have done, so will you. Joined: Posts: 7,121
    @TheWanderer: Are you cool with some dude doing the same shit to your girl? If so, then, why are you in a relationship?

    I understand that, sometimes in long relationship, things can get stale and boring. So, looking for the next best thing seems fun and exciting. But, obviously her boyfriend and her are doing something right if they lasted for 5 years... But, put it this way, would you like to know that you possibly helped destroy a relationship because of some pussy? Possibly getting your ass kicked by said girl's enraged boyfriend?

    If you answered yes to to any of those questions, then proceed to enter a possible situation that could be avoided if you stopped thinking with the head in your pants. /dumbass
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    granted you're a girl...but NIGGA PLEASE!

    lol petting, haven't heard that since middle school health class. snuggling is a post-coitus activity, if you ain't getting the buns then your ass shouldn't be snuggling a cot-damn thing.
    See...men and women...different beings.

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  • orochizoolanderorochizoolander 2LANDER! Joined: Posts: 15,631
    Why you believe she is telling the truth is the reason lies break trust. Look at things this way, if you were trying to get in someone's good books would you say ''Yeah I've just been doing my own thing, had a few flings, got on with my work and all that'' or would try and make out as though you were busy but had the person on your mind all the time.


    I think it does matter, her fucking other guys is irrelevant but the affect her words have on his perception of how she feels about him is very relevant.

    Her words give the impression that she has deep feelings for him, would be committed to him and what not but as you highlighted 'she has a lot of shit going that's evidently more important that him'.

    It sounds like you're overly cynical. Although I think that mentality is partially to blame for how fucked up people can be I also understand why anyone would be that way but that's definitely not me. To answer your question I'd say whatever the truth is even if it lessens my chances with a woman because I don't think there's ever a good reason to lie and I'm pretty sure she would agree.

    Most of the time you have no way of definitively finding out if a person is lying or not you just look at the situation and either believe them or not. I choose to give her the benefit of the doubt in this case.

    She texted me on new years day and called me tonight apologizing again for not talking to me more because she moved again, we had a good talk though I had to cut it real short to see The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo which was incredible:love:

    Also Thurst is right even if she's fucking other people it's not my business since she's not my gf, although lying about said fucking would be obvious grounds for kicking her to the curb.
    P. gorath said: seriously though, it really crystalized how much better mvc3 is than that game. "Oh look, commando vs. 3 characters...this will be excitin--zzzzzzzzzzzzzZZzzzz"
  • LunaidLunaid Joined: Posts: 642
    It's sad. No matter how cracked out and nasty an old ass hooker is she'll still get picked up by SOMEBODY.

    I was driving around downtown here heading to the exes(this was when we were dating don't send me to my room Qrazy) and it gets real busy down there when there's a hockey game going on. So I took one of the nasty side streets where the broke hookers walk.

    I pulled up to a four way stop next to one of the nastiest looking ladies I've ever seen. So naturally I locked my fucking doors. I'm waiting for these two girls to my right to go, cause they stopped first, and they pull out to turn down the street I'm on. All of the sudden they STOP, in the middle of the intersection. Like I was gonna pull out into them or something! So I'm still full stopped, I've got these dumb broads with their headlights in my eyes and this nasty hooker walking close to my passenger door and looking in my car and shit. So now these girls are looking at me all fucking weird and I'm waving them on frantically getting ready to floor it out of there.

    Women drivers made me look like I was picking up some gross old lady...

    I forgot to quote his post but this was directed at GeneralDs post. Just realizing this looks real off topic just by itself like this...
  • weightedcompanioncubeweightedcompanioncube Joined: Posts: 133
    This is pre-relationship ish, though, it seems like this would be the best place to post this. I have absolutely nothing against children. I absolutely love them, but every single woman that seems attracted to me has anywhere from one kid to a handful of them. I have not yet met a woman in the last year and a half who did not already have a child. I am a no drama, no games type of dude, I'm pretty much straight forward with all my problems, don't really get lost in my feelings either. The women I am meeting really are more mature than the girls my age, since they all seem to be more worried about what kind of fun they are gonna have next. The real problem that I feel like I'm running into is that alot of these chicks will try to take advantage of my good nature
  • TheWandererTheWanderer Joined: Posts: 544
    Asked her to meet me in my car again, she said she can't cuz her cousin is riding with her to work. I said drop her cousin off and come meet me. After work, she quickly rushed her cousin home and thirty minutes later, she texted me asking if I'm waiting for her, while I was getting gas and about to head home. I thought she was going to drop her cuz off and go home to change then meet me, not drop her cuz off and then come meet me.

    I picked her up and held her hand as usual, this time she didn't push me away, but held it out when I went to reach for it. We went bowling, I put my arms around while we walk inside the place, she smiled and tried to shook me off. We started bowling and I tried to kiss her on the cheek. She liked it. Her hand got tired, so we went back to the place we meet at. Before I got there, I took her somewhere dark and just turn my car off. We sat there and talked about random stuff and sex.

    While we were talking, I would lean in, about 6-7 inches away from her face, while looking down her shirt and lips. She just laughed and we continued talking. During the conversation, I put my hand on her thigh and fixed her shirt. I fixed her hair while kissing her on the cheek. I told her we should play a game, she said ok.
    I said if I guess right, what color her bra is, then I get a kiss. At first, she said no no no. I keep convincing her, so she finally say yes. I guessed right and she wouldn't do it. She said she owed me one.

    We kept talking while I keep trying to kiss her. Forehead, ear, neck, hair, while my hand on her thigh. It was getting too late, and I have to get up early to drive to NY so I had to let her go.

    P.S I feel like I have won the competition at work. Too bad none of the guys at work know. Haha. I think if I stick around any longer, she'll fall for me. Because during our conversation I asked her if she got feelings for me, she said she's not telling with a big ass smile....For some reason, as I was driving home, I thought about my girl and what will happen if I keep this up. I think I will back off for a while now and not mack on her no more. It was fun while it lasted. :)
  • weightedcompanioncubeweightedcompanioncube Joined: Posts: 133
    huh
    Inb4 cousin is somehow related/friends to wander's girlfriend and some giant shitstorm brews where he loses his job, girlfriend, gets sued to hell and back for the sexual harassment charges, and a possible hospital bill from the angry boyfriend

    I see someone noticing something "off" at work, like you shoving this chick into your black van with no windows. From what you've posted, it sounds like this chick is a little uncomfortable but doesn't want to hurt your feelings but is genuinely interested in being your friend for some unknown reason. Tread lightly, because this could get real hairy for you very quickly.