Is Getting A Handjob Cheating?


#1

If you’re with someone, and some other someone wants to jerk your chicken, is that considered cheating?

I’m under the impression that cheating means insertion into someone else. But if you’re getting your boat tugged, that’s not really inserting. So I say it is not cheating.

Thoughts?


#2

If you don’t think so, then you don’t have a problem with your chick getting her clit rubbed by another dude, right?


#3

I knew some rube was gonna come in here with this nonsense.

Problem is that digits slip in and then it becomes cheating. You know no dude is gonna stay out of the pocket if hes already rubbing within the lips.


#4

Now you are moving the goalposts.
I can just as easily say

“No chick is gonna let that dick stay hard, she is gonna jump on it!”

Or she can just give him a handjob, then they both get off and you can kiss your gf later in the evening and not taste any semen on her mouth.

Shitty thread, Raz0r.


#5

I didn’t move anything.

If her clit gets rubbed it has to have a finger inserted in the outer labia or whatever the fuck it’s called.

For a dude, the dick doesn’t go inside anywhere either it just has a hand stroking it.


#6

It ain’t oral, vaginal, or anal, so I see no problem. Titjobs a different story though…


#7

That’s the same shit as peeling back foreskin.
You aren’t inserting anything, you are simply moving it aside.


#8

Is her rubbing the ole vag against another man’s dick cheating? There’s no insertion so I wouldn’t say so.


#9

thats like saying a dude giving you a handjob isn’t gay

this is worse than me tryin to smash my ex “aunt”


#10

I say yes, because if my girlfriend was like, i didnt fuck him, i just let him finger me, id still be heated. Well for something non inserted, if she was like, i didnt fuck him, i just let him suck my tits and rub my clit, and left. Yes id still be heated.

There are alot of complexities to cheating though imo. I think more and more girls are awakening to the fact that a guy fucking another girl isnt always, and usually isnt a emotional bond. When hes texting her while you take a shower, and taking kung fu classes so he can dip out and take her to the movies, then thats different.

A woman is more likely to develop an emotional connection to someone she fucks, or even just makes out with, than a guy would. Especially fucking. Fucking for a woman is partial subservience imo. The fact that women try to take the power back from that shows you how much power they are actually giving up in the process of fucking. Theyre laying down, getting naked, and letting you flip it, smack it, and rub it down to completion.


#11

Are you collecting market research for your BuzzFeed article?


#12

Is it cool if your girl gives another dude a handy?


#13

Ya I was just gonna ask…

So Raz0r, if your girl went to the club and drove two dicks like ski poles, you wouldn’t mind?


#14

A guy isn’t gay because he gave one dude a handjob. What the hell is wrong with you?


#15

No.


#16

I would mind. But there are different rules in play since I’m a dude and she isn’t.


#17

So the rules are… This is a troll thread where it’s one-sided towards dudes?
Can she get her nipples tweaked? No insertion.
Can she get her asshole licked? No insertion.
Can she get a dick rubbed on her face while she rubs herself to orgasm? No insertion.


#18

I think it’s cheating, because you’re engaging in sexual activities with another person.


#19

Man I come back from my weekend to find this shitty thread? Where’s my WTF button yo?


#20

what if he smiles while doing it?