Nerds i View is a stupid name.
You’re clearly unhappy with your current living and work situation, so it seems like a move to a bigger city, with better players, and more job opportunities would be perfect for you.
But clearly your first step is to find a new job. I suggest looking through internet websites (such as monster.com), or classified ads in the cities which you want to move to, and find a fairly stable job. Get out, go live in a new place, experience new things, it would do you a world of good.
This thread does not make any sense in the “Fighting Game Discussion” forum. Moving to at the least a regional forum - but then again this thread doesn’t really fit on SRK.
Ahhh my jimmies.